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To his army colleagues, my father was a remarkable man. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:17 | |
A soldier for many years, he was a man of discipline, | 0:00:17 | 0:00:21 | |
organisation and charisma - | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
regimental sergeant major, no less. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:27 | |
But when his military service ended, | 0:00:27 | 0:00:29 | |
I knew a different side of him. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
My mother, brother and I had to live with an unpredictable and | 0:00:32 | 0:00:36 | |
frustrated man, unable at times to control his emotions or his fists. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:42 | |
I was seven years old when I first saw him hit my mother | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
and it happened frequently throughout my childhood. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:48 | |
I never understood why he was so volatile at home, | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
while in his military career he had been a superstar. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:56 | |
But it was only two years ago I discovered that my father had | 0:00:56 | 0:01:00 | |
suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder, | 0:01:00 | 0:01:04 | |
a debilitating psychological condition | 0:01:04 | 0:01:07 | |
that affects ex-servicemen, | 0:01:07 | 0:01:09 | |
often when they've left the battlefield | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
and returned to civilian life. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
It's difficult for me to imagine | 0:01:15 | 0:01:17 | |
what he must have been going through. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:19 | |
But I now know how important it is to get | 0:01:19 | 0:01:23 | |
help for the thousands of ex-servicemen who suffer | 0:01:23 | 0:01:26 | |
from this condition | 0:01:26 | 0:01:28 | |
and the loved ones and families who suffer too. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:31 | |
James Saunders was deployed to the first Gulf War in 1991, | 0:01:31 | 0:01:36 | |
at the age of 20. | 0:01:36 | 0:01:38 | |
While in the field, he was caught in a friendly fire situation | 0:01:38 | 0:01:42 | |
that almost cost him his life. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:46 | |
You're just stood there, seeing your friends on fire, | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
jumping out of wagons and things like that. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:50 | |
You just have to go in and pick up guys and rescue them | 0:01:50 | 0:01:53 | |
and get the hell out of there. | 0:01:53 | 0:01:55 | |
You are constantly on alert - anything could happen at any moment. | 0:01:55 | 0:01:58 | |
After the war, James returned to Britain, | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
where he found out he was due to be a father. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
But things began to unravel | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
when he suffered a devastating personal tragedy. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:11 | |
My relationship deteriorated with my partner at the time and... | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
Unfortunately, she lost the baby at birth | 0:02:14 | 0:02:18 | |
and that was my trigger. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:19 | |
Struggling to cope, James's mind kept returning to the battlefield. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:25 | |
'I was having flashbacks to the friendly fire situation. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
'I was seeing the burning oil rigs. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:30 | |
'I didn't comprehend why those things were coming back to haunt me. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:34 | |
'Ended up using alcohol and drugs to cope | 0:02:34 | 0:02:37 | |
'and I left the army in October '93. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:40 | |
'I'd lost everything by that time.' | 0:02:40 | 0:02:43 | |
James's situation got worse and worse. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
'I was behaving violently, verbally and physically. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
'I couldn't stop this behaviour, I couldn't control it.' | 0:02:50 | 0:02:53 | |
It came to a head and I got into serious trouble with the police. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:57 | |
In order for James to deal with these problems, he needed | 0:02:57 | 0:03:00 | |
help to tackle the psychological injuries sustained in service. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:05 | |
Post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD, can destroy lives. | 0:03:05 | 0:03:10 | |
It's incredibly common. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
One-in-five veterans will develop PTSD or related psychological trauma | 0:03:12 | 0:03:18 | |
when they return from active service. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
With your help, we can tackle this problem. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:25 | |
That's why I'm appealing to you | 0:03:25 | 0:03:27 | |
on behalf of Combat Stress, | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
the leading charity for war veterans suffering from PTSD | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
and other mental health conditions. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
The pressures of combat can affect soldiers wherever they're deployed. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:42 | |
Gary Driscoll undertook five tours of Northern Ireland, | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
much of it spent on the notoriously dangerous Belfast streets. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:50 | |
Within them five tours, | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
I think there's been about six guys | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
I've known that have died. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
You just literally had to get on with it. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:00 | |
So you kind of put it to the back of your head. | 0:04:00 | 0:04:02 | |
But the stress of what he'd experienced began to | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
take its toll on Gary and his wife. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
Anxiety was setting in, where we'd go to a restaurant | 0:04:09 | 0:04:12 | |
and I would insist, I would always make sure I had my back to the wall. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:16 | |
'I was getting to drink too much. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:18 | |
'After a while, the anger started to show. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:21 | |
'She would then get quite scared, and then, | 0:04:21 | 0:04:23 | |
'"Who is this guy? He's a different person." | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
'I was thrown out for about a couple of months. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
'That was, I think, the turning point.' | 0:04:29 | 0:04:32 | |
It needs to be remembered that servicemen and women have often | 0:04:32 | 0:04:36 | |
had to endure month after month | 0:04:36 | 0:04:39 | |
of extreme, high-stress situations. | 0:04:39 | 0:04:42 | |
It's hard for the brain to cope | 0:04:42 | 0:04:45 | |
and, years later, former soldiers can still be struggling to process | 0:04:45 | 0:04:50 | |
those awful experiences. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:51 | |
To make things even tougher to deal with for men like my father, | 0:04:51 | 0:04:56 | |
any hint of mental instability | 0:04:56 | 0:04:59 | |
can be an embarrassment - | 0:04:59 | 0:05:02 | |
something to be ashamed of. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:04 | |
At Combat Stress, therapists work hard to tackle this perception. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:10 | |
Their three residential centres | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
provide a place where veterans are able to open up | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
about their experiences. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
We have our residential treatment centres, | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
which bring people in and offer treatment programmes for things | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
like post-traumatic stress disorder, | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
anxiety, depression. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:27 | |
Rebuilding their lives and | 0:05:27 | 0:05:28 | |
their confidence is the key. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:30 | |
Cin-cin! | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
Combat Stress offer something totally unique - | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
a safe, welcoming environment | 0:05:35 | 0:05:38 | |
where veterans can be with other veterans, | 0:05:38 | 0:05:40 | |
men and women who are going through | 0:05:40 | 0:05:42 | |
the same thing as themselves. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
I rolled up, very sceptical, | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
and sort of within hours, I felt at home. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
James attended a Combat Stress treatment centre | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
regularly for six years, | 0:05:54 | 0:05:56 | |
where occupational therapy proved | 0:05:56 | 0:05:58 | |
to be a major tool in his recovery. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:01 | |
It gives an opportunity for veterans | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
to express what they're feeling | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
and channel these anxieties, | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
whether it is through painting, modelling, drawing. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
'For me, it was photography. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:15 | |
'I just found a passion, | 0:06:15 | 0:06:16 | |
which I hadn't had for a very long time. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:18 | |
James has now set up his own photography business | 0:06:18 | 0:06:21 | |
and moved in with his girlfriend. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:25 | |
Combat Stress has provided support, | 0:06:25 | 0:06:28 | |
provided care at every turn. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:30 | |
They've provided something to | 0:06:30 | 0:06:31 | |
allow me to take those steps on my own. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:34 | |
I wouldn't have been able to turn my life around | 0:06:34 | 0:06:37 | |
if it hadn't have been for them. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
Following three years of treatment for PTSD, | 0:06:39 | 0:06:42 | |
Gary was able to put the constant strain | 0:06:42 | 0:06:45 | |
of his army experiences behind him. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:47 | |
Combat Stress teaches you to think about how to | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
turn that switch off. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:53 | |
And since then I drink moderately. | 0:06:53 | 0:06:54 | |
I don't have to get drunk when I drink. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:56 | |
We have a great time, | 0:06:56 | 0:06:57 | |
my marriage is absolutely brilliant. | 0:06:57 | 0:06:59 | |
Life's really good. | 0:06:59 | 0:07:01 | |
I wish that I had been able to tell my father about Combat Stress. | 0:07:02 | 0:07:07 | |
So far, this charity has helped to give over 100,000 | 0:07:07 | 0:07:11 | |
ex-servicemen and women the tools to deal with their | 0:07:11 | 0:07:16 | |
mental health conditions and move on with their lives. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:20 | |
But now there is more need for Combat Stress than ever before. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
Thousands of our returning veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan | 0:07:24 | 0:07:29 | |
will develop psychological problems at some point in their lives. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
Combat Stress must be able to offer them the same level of help, | 0:07:35 | 0:07:40 | |
guidance and support that they have always offered. | 0:07:40 | 0:07:44 | |
With your help, they can. | 0:07:44 | 0:07:46 | |
To donate, please go to the website... | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
If you haven't got internet access, please call... | 0:07:53 | 0:07:57 | |
And if you can't get through the first time, please keep trying. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:04 | |
You can also donate £10 by texting... | 0:08:04 | 0:08:07 | |
Texts cost £10, plus your standard network message charge | 0:08:10 | 0:08:15 | |
and the whole £10 goes to Combat Stress. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:19 | |
Full terms and conditions can be found at | 0:08:19 | 0:08:21 | |
bbc.co.uk/lifeline. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:26 | |
Telephone calls are free from most landlines. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
Some networks and mobile operators will charge for these calls. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:33 | |
Or if you'd like to post a donation, | 0:08:33 | 0:08:35 | |
please make your cheque payable to Combat Stress | 0:08:35 | 0:08:39 | |
and send it to Freepost, BBC Lifeline Appeal, | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
writing Combat Stress on the back of the envelope. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:46 | |
And if you want the charity to claim Gift Aid on your donation, | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
please include an e-mail or postal address, | 0:08:49 | 0:08:52 | |
so that they can send you a Gift Aid form. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:56 | |
And thank you. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:57 |