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storms swept across the east coast of the US four days ago, causing | :00:07. | :00:13. | |
some rivers to burst their banks. Here in the UK, the government it | :00:13. | :00:16. | |
has indicated controversial plans to shake up the banking system | :00:16. | :00:22. | |
could be delayed until after the election. The reforms are meant to | :00:22. | :00:28. | |
protect taxpayers from the effects of any future financial crisis. -- | :00:28. | :00:37. | |
the government has indicated. Now it is time for HARDtalk. Should the | :00:37. | :00:43. | |
law ever give one human being at the right to kill another? That is | :00:43. | :00:47. | |
the question at the heart of this special edition of HARDtalk, which | :00:47. | :00:55. | |
comes from the home of Tony and Jane Nicklinson. Tony is completely | :00:55. | :01:00. | |
paralysed - he wants to die. Jane wants to help him. Currently, | :01:00. | :01:05. | |
British law stands in their wake. If Tony were to be killed, would it | :01:05. | :01:15. | |
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be murder or mercy? -- stance in Tony and Jane Nicklinson were | :01:29. | :01:37. | |
married 25 years ago. Six years ago of their world was changed forever. | :01:37. | :01:41. | |
-- six years ago when their world. Tony suffered a massive stroke at | :01:41. | :01:48. | |
the age of 52. He survived, just, but was completely paralysed. The | :01:48. | :01:52. | |
only movement he can control is in his eyes and his blinking but his | :01:52. | :01:59. | |
brain and ability to think are unimpaired. Tony communicates using | :02:00. | :02:04. | |
his eyes and blinks to pick out letters on a board. It is low and, | :02:04. | :02:11. | |
for him, deeply frustrating. Having lived like this for six years, he | :02:11. | :02:16. | |
has had enough. He wants to die. As he cannot kill himself, he wants | :02:16. | :02:21. | |
someone else to end his life for him. Right now, that would be | :02:21. | :02:25. | |
called murder. Tony and Jane would British law changed to give him the | :02:25. | :02:31. | |
right to die. Using a specially adapted computer, Tony explains to | :02:31. | :02:39. | |
me his motivation. Tony Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I want to ask | :02:39. | :02:46. | |
you the most basic question of all. Why do you want to die? At the | :02:46. | :02:49. | |
moment I want to die because I can see the future being made worse for | :02:49. | :02:59. | |
me than it is now. I feel the next 20 years also with trepidation. -- | :02:59. | :03:07. | |
I fear of. I think this is as good as it gets and it is downhill from | :03:07. | :03:17. | |
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here. What I know is that not having a plan causes me anguish | :03:20. | :03:25. | |
than people who oppose me do not understand. I am fed like a baby | :03:25. | :03:29. | |
with baby food, cannot do anything for myself and everything is a | :03:30. | :03:36. | |
matter of routine. I live like this for the rest of my life so is it | :03:36. | :03:39. | |
any wonder I am not enthusiastic about living? You want somebody | :03:39. | :03:49. | |
else to be given the legal right to kill you. Would that not create an | :03:49. | :03:52. | |
extraordinarily dangerous precedent, particularly for the most | :03:52. | :03:56. | |
vulnerable disabled people? course it is dangerous if it is not | :03:56. | :04:00. | |
done with care but I do not subscribe to the idea that just | :04:00. | :04:03. | |
because it is difficult we should not do it. There is plenty of | :04:03. | :04:07. | |
examples around the world where it has been done successfully and we | :04:07. | :04:12. | |
can look to them for guidance. I have devised a scheme that shows | :04:12. | :04:19. | |
promise so that if I go, anybody can. I ate do not say it is easy, | :04:19. | :04:27. | |
just possible. -- I do not say. Do you really believe that the non- | :04:27. | :04:37. | |
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disabled, who can legally commit suicide... This is Tony before his | :04:40. | :04:44. | |
stroke - an active sportsman, a bit of an adventurer and proud father | :04:44. | :04:48. | |
of two daughters. Now Jane and a team of helpers have to do | :04:48. | :04:53. | |
everything for him. 24 hours a day, seven days a week. He is not | :04:54. | :04:58. | |
terminally ill but despite the love in this time he is terminally fed | :04:58. | :05:03. | |
up with his life. That is something that Jane Nicklinson has to live | :05:03. | :05:12. | |
with. Jane Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I just heard Tony | :05:12. | :05:19. | |
expressed to me his despair, his sense of hopelessness. How hard is | :05:19. | :05:26. | |
it for you to deal with your own husband saying that sort of thing? | :05:26. | :05:33. | |
It is very hard. It is not unexpected. From the day he was | :05:33. | :05:40. | |
taken ill, we knew what the prognosis was and the day would | :05:40. | :05:44. | |
come but this is what he would want. That is the kind of person he is. | :05:44. | :05:50. | |
You sort of get used to it in a way. We have been thinking about Tony's | :05:50. | :05:54. | |
death for the last six years. It does not make it easier but you get | :05:54. | :06:03. | |
used to it. Has his despair deepened over time? In the very | :06:03. | :06:09. | |
early days, I do not think he was aware of the prognosis. It was one | :06:09. | :06:12. | |
of the first things he said to me when he started using his | :06:12. | :06:18. | |
communication board. I do not think it has been worse. It was bad from | :06:18. | :06:23. | |
the word go. Tony says he wishes he had not been saved by the doctors | :06:23. | :06:27. | |
those six years ago when he had that terrible stroke. Do you say | :06:27. | :06:35. | |
the same thing? Do you wish the doctors had not saved him? Yes and | :06:35. | :06:41. | |
no. At the time when it happened, my daughters were with me and we | :06:41. | :06:47. | |
all said we do not want to live like this. It is a terrible thing | :06:47. | :06:55. | |
to say but, yes. If we have a good day, maybe not but if it is what he | :06:55. | :07:01. | |
wants it is what I want. We have little sense of how you and Tony | :07:01. | :07:07. | |
Live your daily lives. -- a little. What are the biggest frustrations | :07:07. | :07:13. | |
for Tony in his daily life? His biggest frustration is not being | :07:13. | :07:20. | |
able to to communicate. He always said if he could speak it would not | :07:20. | :07:30. | |
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be so difficult. It is just everything is total frustration for | :07:32. | :07:37. | |
him. For him and also for you. need different way for me. For him | :07:37. | :07:45. | |
it is day-to-day life, getting up, eating. For me it is frustrating | :07:45. | :07:50. | |
because seen him like this, what life has become for us... For what | :07:50. | :07:57. | |
I am getting out... We will get to the legal issues in a minute. -- | :07:57. | :08:01. | |
what I am getting at. It is strange to talk about Tony when he is right | :08:01. | :08:06. | |
here with us. Tony clearly believes his life has been ruined. The | :08:06. | :08:11. | |
question for you is whether you believe your life has been ruined | :08:11. | :08:19. | |
too? I suppose so, yes. I cannot say no because it has. We had so | :08:19. | :08:25. | |
many dreams of the things we were going to do. Yeah. (CRIES). He is | :08:25. | :08:31. | |
gets more and more difficult. Therefore, it would be better for | :08:31. | :08:41. | |
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you if Tony were to die, to use that right to die. I do not want | :08:42. | :08:51. | |
him to die. There is no way that I want him to die. I see what his | :08:51. | :08:56. | |
life is. Maybe I do want him to die, not at the moment but the time will | :08:56. | :09:02. | |
come when he has had enough of life. OK, if it is what he wants then | :09:02. | :09:11. | |
that is fine. Let's talk about the legal issues. Right now, of course, | :09:11. | :09:16. | |
given his disabilities, Tony does not have the option of taking his | :09:16. | :09:22. | |
own life. He cannot do that. If someone was to help him, that would | :09:22. | :09:27. | |
be murder. Is it your and Tony's wish to fundamentally change the | :09:27. | :09:32. | |
law? If Fife help Tony to die I would be charged with murder. | :09:32. | :09:36. | |
would be no different if I killed someone in cold blood. We want the | :09:36. | :09:41. | |
law changing. So-called mercy killings should be treated | :09:41. | :09:46. | |
differently. A change in the law on murder - that is what we are after. | :09:46. | :09:51. | |
That is a really profound change, isn't it? You are saying the law | :09:51. | :09:55. | |
would in some way have to create an avenue for somebody to be allowed | :09:55. | :10:03. | |
to take another person's life. Given our tradition of war, our | :10:03. | :10:07. | |
notions about the sanctity of life, it would be extraordinarily | :10:07. | :10:12. | |
difficult and a radical thing to do. How do you think it would be done? | :10:12. | :10:17. | |
I am not sure where we are going for now. It is in the pipeline and | :10:17. | :10:21. | |
we are discussing it with our solicitors. They feel we do have a | :10:21. | :10:26. | |
case. Why should Tony be denied the right to take his own life? It is | :10:26. | :10:31. | |
what he wants and what he is asking for. There should be some system in | :10:31. | :10:36. | |
place. We are not saying it should be legalised Point Blank, going out | :10:36. | :10:40. | |
and kill someone and say, they told me they wanted to die. There would | :10:40. | :10:48. | |
have to be a procedure in place. note UN Tony have talked about this | :10:48. | :10:54. | |
in detail. You would have to. -- you and Tony. Would you be the one | :10:54. | :10:59. | |
to end his life? I think so, yes. I want to be the one to do it. He | :10:59. | :11:05. | |
does not want me to. He wants to make it legal for other people to | :11:05. | :11:12. | |
do what so I do not have to. He wants me to give him a sedative and | :11:12. | :11:18. | |
then someone else come in and give him the euthanasia so I would not | :11:18. | :11:25. | |
have to do it and he would not have to see me. You would have to have a | :11:25. | :11:31. | |
doctor's agreement to be involved. Doctors have made it plain time and | :11:31. | :11:37. | |
time again they will not countenance being involved in the | :11:37. | :11:43. | |
explicit taking of life in this way. It would not necessarily have to be | :11:43. | :11:48. | |
a doctor. I could do it. I think I could. I have been asked this so | :11:48. | :11:55. | |
many times. I think I could do it. I am sure there are doctors out | :11:55. | :12:01. | |
there that would come forward. argument against it is that it | :12:01. | :12:05. | |
opens up an extraordinarily dangerous precedent, that if it | :12:05. | :12:10. | |
becomes, in certain situations, legal to kill the disabled, the | :12:10. | :12:16. | |
most vulnerable in our society, that very soon summed vulnerable | :12:16. | :12:20. | |
people may feel that almost they are obliged to take the option of | :12:20. | :12:27. | |
choosing death. Not if there was some sort of scheme in place. It | :12:27. | :12:31. | |
would obviously have to be very carefully thought out. There would | :12:31. | :12:36. | |
have to be a process you would have to go through to be able to do it. | :12:36. | :12:39. | |
Tony has devised a scheme of his own. Whether it is that was | :12:39. | :12:47. | |
something similar, it would have to be carefully thought. If there can | :12:47. | :12:52. | |
be a way for it to be done, why can anyone else take their life but | :12:52. | :12:57. | |
Tony cannot? He knows what he wants to do but he physically cannot do | :12:57. | :13:02. | |
it. You say he knows what he wants to do. Another argument from those | :13:02. | :13:11. | |
in the religious community and others is that minds can be changed. | :13:11. | :13:15. | |
Tony could change his mind. Have you discounted that? You could say | :13:15. | :13:20. | |
that about straightforward suicide. Suicide is legal for able-bodied | :13:20. | :13:25. | |
people. Their minds could be changed if things were different. | :13:25. | :13:29. | |
Why is ordinary suicide legal? in relatives of suicide victims | :13:29. | :13:33. | |
would say, if only I had that opportunity to talk them out of it, | :13:33. | :13:39. | |
to make the case that it was the wrong option to take. If only, I | :13:39. | :13:45. | |
might have saved them. Because Tony cannot do it for himself, society, | :13:45. | :13:49. | |
starting with you, has that option to try and persuade him. He has | :13:49. | :13:53. | |
been like this for six years and he has not changed his mind yet. Who | :13:53. | :14:01. | |
knows, in the future? That is life, isn't it? I know Tony, for example, | :14:01. | :14:06. | |
using his computer, is writing his memoirs. You have described how he | :14:06. | :14:10. | |
is enjoying that process of remembering his past life, writing | :14:10. | :14:15. | |
about it, some of the adventures you two had together. That suggests | :14:15. | :14:20. | |
to me that there is still a way to get some enjoyment out of life and | :14:20. | :14:26. | |
that seems important. It is not enough, though, is it? It is not | :14:26. | :14:33. | |
enough for him. He wants to say something. Can I do it? Yes, of | :14:33. | :14:43. | |
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course. What a... -- what...if...I...feel... | :15:04. | :15:14. | |
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Is...not...the...same. As...ordinary? The reason why Tony | :15:27. | :15:35. | |
wants to commit suicide cannot be solved. This is as good as life is | :15:35. | :15:39. | |
ever going to be for him. argument made by those who oppose | :15:39. | :15:42. | |
the kind of legal changes you want to see is that palliative care can | :15:42. | :15:50. | |
make your life better. There are ways in which care can improve the | :15:50. | :15:59. | |
quality of your life. Is it too late for that now? There is nothing | :15:59. | :16:03. | |
really. Everyone is different. We all have different expectations | :16:03. | :16:13. | |
from life. If you knew Tony before, he is an ex-rugby player, life of | :16:13. | :16:17. | |
the party, adventurer, we travelled around the world, he was good at | :16:17. | :16:23. | |
his job. All the things he loved about life he cannot do. I just | :16:23. | :16:30. | |
wonder how far you are prepared to go, the two of you, when it comes | :16:30. | :16:40. | |
to see him through this wish to die. After we see through the court case, | :16:40. | :16:44. | |
the only option Tony has is to starve himself. He could go to | :16:44. | :16:54. | |
You are referring to the fact it is legal to assist suicide in | :16:54. | :17:04. | |
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Switzerland. Could Dignitas create a system and where it could be an | :17:04. | :17:08. | |
assisted suicide? I have been in touch with them at what they said | :17:08. | :17:15. | |
they could set up a system and he could operate it with a switch. | :17:15. | :17:18. | |
question is, if that is a possibility, of course it would | :17:18. | :17:23. | |
take money, if that is a possibility, why spend so much time | :17:23. | :17:27. | |
and effort going through the British courts. Everything I have | :17:27. | :17:32. | |
seen in the court papers, from traditional verdicts in the past, | :17:32. | :17:37. | |
to the words of judges, it suggests it is highly unlikely they will | :17:37. | :17:43. | |
modify the law on murder. Tony does not see why he should go to switch | :17:43. | :17:47. | |
alone to die. He wants to die at home with his family around him, | :17:47. | :17:52. | |
not in some strange country. -- go to Switzerland. The journey itself | :17:52. | :17:58. | |
would be incredibly traumatic for him. Why should he have to? I ask | :17:58. | :18:03. | |
you some very sensitive questions about your feelings about Tory's | :18:03. | :18:11. | |
death and whether, to be brutal about it, if Tony's end would be a | :18:11. | :18:17. | |
release for you. That raises the issue of vested interests from | :18:17. | :18:22. | |
those around somebody who is suffering, as Tony is. Can you see | :18:22. | :18:28. | |
the danger is there, but it might come to a point where, if the laws | :18:28. | :18:33. | |
you wanted a past, family members, others with an interest, they could | :18:33. | :18:40. | |
be persuading vulnerable people to end their lives? I am sure that | :18:40. | :18:45. | |
happens with ordinary suicide cases. Ordinary suicide is not legal. I am | :18:45. | :18:50. | |
sure people are coerced into committing suicide. It could happen. | :18:50. | :18:56. | |
What safeguards could you imagine to prevent it? If you allow people | :18:56. | :19:04. | |
-- the systems must be added to do enough. I think it Tony has come up | :19:04. | :19:08. | |
with the idea that the judge would have to be involved at every stage | :19:08. | :19:11. | |
of the process and there would be months and months of a cooling-off | :19:12. | :19:16. | |
period between an initial decision to allow the death and the actual | :19:16. | :19:21. | |
implementation of that decision. Do you really believe that would be | :19:21. | :19:27. | |
enough? I think so, yes. We all know what the pitfalls are and | :19:27. | :19:34. | |
hopefully this system would be able to prevent those. Tony's life is | :19:34. | :19:41. | |
hell, basically. He is being forced to live it. It is like a form of | :19:41. | :19:46. | |
torture, you could say. There has to be a way that something could be | :19:46. | :19:51. | |
sorted out. Each case has to be taken on its on merit. There are | :19:51. | :19:58. | |
indications that the British public has a great deal of sympathy with | :19:58. | :20:02. | |
many of the arguments you are making and, in the past, when there | :20:02. | :20:09. | |
have been deaths which have been associated with this idea of mercy | :20:09. | :20:15. | |
killing, jurors have tended to show sympathy for those behind those | :20:15. | :20:19. | |
killings in their verdicts. Does that make you consider the | :20:19. | :20:27. | |
possibility of ignoring the law, and SES taking the law into your | :20:27. | :20:33. | |
own hands, and relying on the sympathy of a jury? -- in essence. | :20:33. | :20:39. | |
That is a big risk to date. As much as I love him, I am not sure if I | :20:39. | :20:45. | |
am prepared to spend time in prison. -- big risk to take. He would not | :20:45. | :20:50. | |
let me do it. It would have to be legal. I have got my children to | :20:50. | :20:58. | |
think about. No, I could not do that. Have you talked about it? | :20:58. | :21:03. | |
has always made it very clear from the word go that they do is no way | :21:03. | :21:07. | |
he did let me do it because he would not want to risk it. I admire | :21:07. | :21:12. | |
people that can do it. I know there have been some quite high profile | :21:12. | :21:16. | |
cases recently. It takes a lot of guts to be able to do something | :21:16. | :21:26. | |
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like that. I personally could not. I wonder how some people would | :21:32. | :21:39. | |
respond to this. You on a full-time carer, it dominates your life, you | :21:39. | :21:48. | |
talk about your daughters, they want to see their father but what | :21:48. | :21:53. | |
do they say to you? They are 100 % behind everything that we're doing. | :21:53. | :21:58. | |
When we have talked about just doing it and breaking the law, they | :21:58. | :22:02. | |
were horrified to think that I would even think about doing it. It | :22:02. | :22:08. | |
is hard for them. It is very hard for them. They fully understand | :22:08. | :22:13. | |
what their dad was like. They know what he was like before he was | :22:13. | :22:18. | |
taken ill. He was a total embarrassment! But, they are | :22:18. | :22:26. | |
totally behind us. You have the look of for wife who has lived the | :22:26. | :22:31. | |
life with someone, loved someone, been with them for your adult life, | :22:31. | :22:35. | |
in the course of this interview, I get a strong sense of a bond | :22:35. | :22:44. | |
between you and Tony. Yet, all four conversations on about how to end | :22:44. | :22:52. | |
his life. -- All of our conversation is about. For you, you | :22:52. | :22:58. | |
are in an impossible position. could be totally selfish and want | :22:58. | :23:03. | |
him to carry on living but that would be selfish. I have got to do | :23:03. | :23:11. | |
what he wants to do. I support him and I have to. If I did not support | :23:11. | :23:15. | |
him when he needed me to support him, just the practicalities of | :23:15. | :23:22. | |
that, I do support him and this is very hard but you're constantly | :23:22. | :23:26. | |
talking about how your husband is going to die. We have been living | :23:26. | :23:32. | |
with it for six years. It does become easier. The final thought, | :23:32. | :23:38. | |
you are living in a very personal way with this but you're also | :23:38. | :23:43. | |
dealing with the system, whether it is the legal system, politicians, | :23:43. | :23:49. | |
the health service, doctors, it is this, frankly, the moment, nobody | :23:49. | :23:55. | |
wants to offer you a fortune really want. -- doctors, people concerned | :23:55. | :24:02. | |
with ethics. Nobody wants to offer you what you want. Everything that | :24:02. | :24:06. | |
has happened with the legal case up until now has not been unexpected. | :24:06. | :24:11. | |
It is what we have been expecting all the time. It is what happens | :24:11. | :24:16. | |
from now do it is important. We knew that this would probably be | :24:16. | :24:22. | |
the outcome. They don't feel that we have a case. We knew that was | :24:22. | :24:26. | |
going to happen. It is the interesting but that comes from the | :24:26. | :24:31. | |
one. What that will be, I do not know yet. You have got the strength | :24:31. | :24:38. | |
to carry on with his caring. Yes, definitely. I think he quite enjoys | :24:38. | :24:44. | |
it in a way, don't you? Jane Nicklinson and Tony, as well, thank | :24:44. | :24:54. | |
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you both for being on HARDtalk. As August turns into September, | :25:10. | :25:14. | |
there are no significant changes in the weather. We will have to wait | :25:14. | :25:21. | |
until Friday for those. For some others, the return of some sunshine. | :25:21. | :25:25. | |
If you are underneath blue-sky, it will feel warmer than it has done | :25:25. | :25:35. | |
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recently. Here is a look at things for early risers. The most of the | :25:36. | :25:39. | |
sunshine will be across southern England and into Wales. As we run | :25:39. | :25:42. | |
along southern England this morning, don't necessarily expect clear blue | :25:42. | :25:46. | |
skies. There could be a few early showers and some cloud. Most places | :25:46. | :25:50. | |
will stay dry. A bit of mist and fog in some places. For north-west | :25:50. | :25:53. | |
England, it is looking rather cloudy for breakfast time. A lot of | :25:53. | :25:56. | |
cloud in Northern Ireland. Every now and again, a burst of sunshine | :25:56. | :26:00. | |
will fight its way through. 12 degrees in Belfast at this stage. | :26:00. | :26:07. | |
Despite some cloud in Scotland, much of the country stays dry. Some | :26:07. | :26:10. | |
breaks in the cloud in the east of the country. Some very light | :26:10. | :26:16. | |
breezes in the east of England. That is early on, for the rest of | :26:16. | :26:20. | |
the day, the best of the sunshine still in southern England and Wales. | :26:20. | :26:23. | |
Still cloudy skies but, for some, the sun will break through. | :26:23. | :26:30. | |
Temperatures in the low 20s in the south. A freshening breeze and the | :26:30. | :26:33. | |
far north-west should mean some outbreaks of rain for the Western | :26:33. | :26:43. | |
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Isles. For the US Open, a dry end to the week after the drama of | :26:45. | :26:55. | |
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Hurricane Irene to begin the week. We have got our own changes in the | :26:57. | :27:00. | |
weather going into Friday with high pressure moving away and a frontal | :27:00. | :27:10. | |
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system coming in from the Atlantic. The fund will Beacon moving south | :27:11. | :27:17. | |
on Friday. -- the front will weaken. Another system will come in and | :27:17. | :27:21. | |
replace it. Cloud in patchy rain in Northern England and North Wales. | :27:21. | :27:24. | |
More persistent rain in Northern Ireland and Scotland later in the | :27:24. | :27:30. | |
day. It will be even warmer inEngland than it was today. For a | :27:30. | :27:34. |