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storms swept across the east coast of the US four days ago, causing

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some rivers to burst their banks. Here in the UK, the government it

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has indicated controversial plans to shake up the banking system

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could be delayed until after the election. The reforms are meant to

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protect taxpayers from the effects of any future financial crisis. --

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the government has indicated. Now it is time for HARDtalk. Should the

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law ever give one human being at the right to kill another? That is

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the question at the heart of this special edition of HARDtalk, which

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comes from the home of Tony and Jane Nicklinson. Tony is completely

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paralysed - he wants to die. Jane wants to help him. Currently,

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British law stands in their wake. If Tony were to be killed, would it

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be murder or mercy? -- stance in Tony and Jane Nicklinson were

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married 25 years ago. Six years ago of their world was changed forever.

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-- six years ago when their world. Tony suffered a massive stroke at

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the age of 52. He survived, just, but was completely paralysed. The

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only movement he can control is in his eyes and his blinking but his

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brain and ability to think are unimpaired. Tony communicates using

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his eyes and blinks to pick out letters on a board. It is low and,

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for him, deeply frustrating. Having lived like this for six years, he

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has had enough. He wants to die. As he cannot kill himself, he wants

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someone else to end his life for him. Right now, that would be

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called murder. Tony and Jane would British law changed to give him the

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right to die. Using a specially adapted computer, Tony explains to

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me his motivation. Tony Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I want to ask

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you the most basic question of all. Why do you want to die? At the

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moment I want to die because I can see the future being made worse for

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me than it is now. I feel the next 20 years also with trepidation. --

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I fear of. I think this is as good as it gets and it is downhill from

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here. What I know is that not having a plan causes me anguish

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than people who oppose me do not understand. I am fed like a baby

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with baby food, cannot do anything for myself and everything is a

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matter of routine. I live like this for the rest of my life so is it

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any wonder I am not enthusiastic about living? You want somebody

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else to be given the legal right to kill you. Would that not create an

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extraordinarily dangerous precedent, particularly for the most

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vulnerable disabled people? course it is dangerous if it is not

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done with care but I do not subscribe to the idea that just

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because it is difficult we should not do it. There is plenty of

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examples around the world where it has been done successfully and we

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can look to them for guidance. I have devised a scheme that shows

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promise so that if I go, anybody can. I ate do not say it is easy,

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just possible. -- I do not say. Do you really believe that the non-

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disabled, who can legally commit suicide... This is Tony before his

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stroke - an active sportsman, a bit of an adventurer and proud father

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of two daughters. Now Jane and a team of helpers have to do

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everything for him. 24 hours a day, seven days a week. He is not

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terminally ill but despite the love in this time he is terminally fed

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up with his life. That is something that Jane Nicklinson has to live

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with. Jane Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I just heard Tony

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expressed to me his despair, his sense of hopelessness. How hard is

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it for you to deal with your own husband saying that sort of thing?

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It is very hard. It is not unexpected. From the day he was

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taken ill, we knew what the prognosis was and the day would

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come but this is what he would want. That is the kind of person he is.

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You sort of get used to it in a way. We have been thinking about Tony's

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death for the last six years. It does not make it easier but you get

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used to it. Has his despair deepened over time? In the very

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early days, I do not think he was aware of the prognosis. It was one

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of the first things he said to me when he started using his

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communication board. I do not think it has been worse. It was bad from

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the word go. Tony says he wishes he had not been saved by the doctors

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those six years ago when he had that terrible stroke. Do you say

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the same thing? Do you wish the doctors had not saved him? Yes and

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no. At the time when it happened, my daughters were with me and we

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all said we do not want to live like this. It is a terrible thing

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to say but, yes. If we have a good day, maybe not but if it is what he

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wants it is what I want. We have little sense of how you and Tony

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Live your daily lives. -- a little. What are the biggest frustrations

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for Tony in his daily life? His biggest frustration is not being

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able to to communicate. He always said if he could speak it would not

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be so difficult. It is just everything is total frustration for

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him. For him and also for you. need different way for me. For him

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it is day-to-day life, getting up, eating. For me it is frustrating

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because seen him like this, what life has become for us... For what

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I am getting out... We will get to the legal issues in a minute. --

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what I am getting at. It is strange to talk about Tony when he is right

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here with us. Tony clearly believes his life has been ruined. The

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question for you is whether you believe your life has been ruined

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too? I suppose so, yes. I cannot say no because it has. We had so

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many dreams of the things we were going to do. Yeah. (CRIES). He is

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gets more and more difficult. Therefore, it would be better for

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you if Tony were to die, to use that right to die. I do not want

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him to die. There is no way that I want him to die. I see what his

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life is. Maybe I do want him to die, not at the moment but the time will

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come when he has had enough of life. OK, if it is what he wants then

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that is fine. Let's talk about the legal issues. Right now, of course,

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given his disabilities, Tony does not have the option of taking his

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own life. He cannot do that. If someone was to help him, that would

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be murder. Is it your and Tony's wish to fundamentally change the

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law? If Fife help Tony to die I would be charged with murder.

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would be no different if I killed someone in cold blood. We want the

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law changing. So-called mercy killings should be treated

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differently. A change in the law on murder - that is what we are after.

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That is a really profound change, isn't it? You are saying the law

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would in some way have to create an avenue for somebody to be allowed

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to take another person's life. Given our tradition of war, our

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notions about the sanctity of life, it would be extraordinarily

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difficult and a radical thing to do. How do you think it would be done?

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I am not sure where we are going for now. It is in the pipeline and

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we are discussing it with our solicitors. They feel we do have a

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case. Why should Tony be denied the right to take his own life? It is

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what he wants and what he is asking for. There should be some system in

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place. We are not saying it should be legalised Point Blank, going out

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and kill someone and say, they told me they wanted to die. There would

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have to be a procedure in place. note UN Tony have talked about this

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in detail. You would have to. -- you and Tony. Would you be the one

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to end his life? I think so, yes. I want to be the one to do it. He

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does not want me to. He wants to make it legal for other people to

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do what so I do not have to. He wants me to give him a sedative and

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then someone else come in and give him the euthanasia so I would not

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have to do it and he would not have to see me. You would have to have a

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doctor's agreement to be involved. Doctors have made it plain time and

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time again they will not countenance being involved in the

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explicit taking of life in this way. It would not necessarily have to be

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a doctor. I could do it. I think I could. I have been asked this so

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many times. I think I could do it. I am sure there are doctors out

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there that would come forward. argument against it is that it

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opens up an extraordinarily dangerous precedent, that if it

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becomes, in certain situations, legal to kill the disabled, the

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most vulnerable in our society, that very soon summed vulnerable

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people may feel that almost they are obliged to take the option of

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choosing death. Not if there was some sort of scheme in place. It

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would obviously have to be very carefully thought out. There would

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have to be a process you would have to go through to be able to do it.

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Tony has devised a scheme of his own. Whether it is that was

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something similar, it would have to be carefully thought. If there can

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be a way for it to be done, why can anyone else take their life but

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Tony cannot? He knows what he wants to do but he physically cannot do

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it. You say he knows what he wants to do. Another argument from those

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in the religious community and others is that minds can be changed.

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Tony could change his mind. Have you discounted that? You could say

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that about straightforward suicide. Suicide is legal for able-bodied

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people. Their minds could be changed if things were different.

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Why is ordinary suicide legal? in relatives of suicide victims

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would say, if only I had that opportunity to talk them out of it,

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to make the case that it was the wrong option to take. If only, I

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might have saved them. Because Tony cannot do it for himself, society,

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starting with you, has that option to try and persuade him. He has

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been like this for six years and he has not changed his mind yet. Who

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knows, in the future? That is life, isn't it? I know Tony, for example,

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using his computer, is writing his memoirs. You have described how he

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is enjoying that process of remembering his past life, writing

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about it, some of the adventures you two had together. That suggests

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to me that there is still a way to get some enjoyment out of life and

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that seems important. It is not enough, though, is it? It is not

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enough for him. He wants to say something. Can I do it? Yes, of

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course. What a... -- what...if...I...feel...

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Is...not...the...same. As...ordinary? The reason why Tony

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wants to commit suicide cannot be solved. This is as good as life is

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ever going to be for him. argument made by those who oppose

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the kind of legal changes you want to see is that palliative care can

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make your life better. There are ways in which care can improve the

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quality of your life. Is it too late for that now? There is nothing

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really. Everyone is different. We all have different expectations

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from life. If you knew Tony before, he is an ex-rugby player, life of

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the party, adventurer, we travelled around the world, he was good at

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his job. All the things he loved about life he cannot do. I just

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wonder how far you are prepared to go, the two of you, when it comes

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to see him through this wish to die. After we see through the court case,

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the only option Tony has is to starve himself. He could go to

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You are referring to the fact it is legal to assist suicide in

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Switzerland. Could Dignitas create a system and where it could be an

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assisted suicide? I have been in touch with them at what they said

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they could set up a system and he could operate it with a switch.

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question is, if that is a possibility, of course it would

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take money, if that is a possibility, why spend so much time

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and effort going through the British courts. Everything I have

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seen in the court papers, from traditional verdicts in the past,

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to the words of judges, it suggests it is highly unlikely they will

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modify the law on murder. Tony does not see why he should go to switch

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alone to die. He wants to die at home with his family around him,

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not in some strange country. -- go to Switzerland. The journey itself

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would be incredibly traumatic for him. Why should he have to? I ask

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you some very sensitive questions about your feelings about Tory's

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death and whether, to be brutal about it, if Tony's end would be a

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release for you. That raises the issue of vested interests from

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those around somebody who is suffering, as Tony is. Can you see

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the danger is there, but it might come to a point where, if the laws

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you wanted a past, family members, others with an interest, they could

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be persuading vulnerable people to end their lives? I am sure that

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happens with ordinary suicide cases. Ordinary suicide is not legal. I am

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sure people are coerced into committing suicide. It could happen.

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What safeguards could you imagine to prevent it? If you allow people

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-- the systems must be added to do enough. I think it Tony has come up

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with the idea that the judge would have to be involved at every stage

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of the process and there would be months and months of a cooling-off

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period between an initial decision to allow the death and the actual

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implementation of that decision. Do you really believe that would be

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enough? I think so, yes. We all know what the pitfalls are and

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hopefully this system would be able to prevent those. Tony's life is

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hell, basically. He is being forced to live it. It is like a form of

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torture, you could say. There has to be a way that something could be

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sorted out. Each case has to be taken on its on merit. There are

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indications that the British public has a great deal of sympathy with

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many of the arguments you are making and, in the past, when there

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have been deaths which have been associated with this idea of mercy

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killing, jurors have tended to show sympathy for those behind those

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killings in their verdicts. Does that make you consider the

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possibility of ignoring the law, and SES taking the law into your

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own hands, and relying on the sympathy of a jury? -- in essence.

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That is a big risk to date. As much as I love him, I am not sure if I

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am prepared to spend time in prison. -- big risk to take. He would not

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let me do it. It would have to be legal. I have got my children to

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think about. No, I could not do that. Have you talked about it?

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has always made it very clear from the word go that they do is no way

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he did let me do it because he would not want to risk it. I admire

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people that can do it. I know there have been some quite high profile

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cases recently. It takes a lot of guts to be able to do something

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like that. I personally could not. I wonder how some people would

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respond to this. You on a full-time carer, it dominates your life, you

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talk about your daughters, they want to see their father but what

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do they say to you? They are 100 % behind everything that we're doing.

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When we have talked about just doing it and breaking the law, they

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were horrified to think that I would even think about doing it. It

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is hard for them. It is very hard for them. They fully understand

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what their dad was like. They know what he was like before he was

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taken ill. He was a total embarrassment! But, they are

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totally behind us. You have the look of for wife who has lived the

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life with someone, loved someone, been with them for your adult life,

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in the course of this interview, I get a strong sense of a bond

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between you and Tony. Yet, all four conversations on about how to end

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his life. -- All of our conversation is about. For you, you

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are in an impossible position. could be totally selfish and want

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him to carry on living but that would be selfish. I have got to do

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what he wants to do. I support him and I have to. If I did not support

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him when he needed me to support him, just the practicalities of

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that, I do support him and this is very hard but you're constantly

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talking about how your husband is going to die. We have been living

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with it for six years. It does become easier. The final thought,

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you are living in a very personal way with this but you're also

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dealing with the system, whether it is the legal system, politicians,

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the health service, doctors, it is this, frankly, the moment, nobody

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wants to offer you a fortune really want. -- doctors, people concerned

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with ethics. Nobody wants to offer you what you want. Everything that

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has happened with the legal case up until now has not been unexpected.

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It is what we have been expecting all the time. It is what happens

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from now do it is important. We knew that this would probably be

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the outcome. They don't feel that we have a case. We knew that was

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going to happen. It is the interesting but that comes from the

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one. What that will be, I do not know yet. You have got the strength

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to carry on with his caring. Yes, definitely. I think he quite enjoys

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it in a way, don't you? Jane Nicklinson and Tony, as well, thank

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you both for being on HARDtalk. As August turns into September,

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there are no significant changes in the weather. We will have to wait

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until Friday for those. For some others, the return of some sunshine.

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If you are underneath blue-sky, it will feel warmer than it has done

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recently. Here is a look at things for early risers. The most of the

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sunshine will be across southern England and into Wales. As we run

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along southern England this morning, don't necessarily expect clear blue

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skies. There could be a few early showers and some cloud. Most places

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will stay dry. A bit of mist and fog in some places. For north-west

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England, it is looking rather cloudy for breakfast time. A lot of

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cloud in Northern Ireland. Every now and again, a burst of sunshine

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will fight its way through. 12 degrees in Belfast at this stage.

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Despite some cloud in Scotland, much of the country stays dry. Some

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breaks in the cloud in the east of the country. Some very light

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breezes in the east of England. That is early on, for the rest of

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the day, the best of the sunshine still in southern England and Wales.

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Still cloudy skies but, for some, the sun will break through.

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Temperatures in the low 20s in the south. A freshening breeze and the

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far north-west should mean some outbreaks of rain for the Western

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Isles. For the US Open, a dry end to the week after the drama of

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Hurricane Irene to begin the week. We have got our own changes in the

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weather going into Friday with high pressure moving away and a frontal

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system coming in from the Atlantic. The fund will Beacon moving south

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on Friday. -- the front will weaken. Another system will come in and

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replace it. Cloud in patchy rain in Northern England and North Wales.

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More persistent rain in Northern Ireland and Scotland later in the

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day. It will be even warmer inEngland than it was today. For a

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