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Now on BBC News, it's time for These are tough times to be young.

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Record unemployment in many countries, frustration is building

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and they are spilling onto the streets. If you are young and

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vulnerable, you can often fall through the cracks and descending

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to a spiral of suffering and exploitation. My guests today is

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British psychotherapist Camila Batmanghelidjh. She said up the

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Kids Company in 1996. A network of dropping centres in London where

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thousands of deprived and needy young people receive love, care and

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shoulder. She says she has some of Camilla Welcome to Hard -- Camila

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Batmanghelidjh, Welcome to Hard Talk. Do you think governments who

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have the right approach when it comes to young people? 99.9 % of

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young people internationally are law-abiding and contribute

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enormously to society. But there is about 1% to experience difficulties.

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Some of them because their environments are challenging, for

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example street children who do not have any carers exhibit criminal

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the habeas as a means of survival. Others have got some significant

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psychological difficulties. What governments have tended to do his

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deal with the difficulties of children who exhibit

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vulnerabilities in pretty much the same way, which is to use a method

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of punishment and reward. You punish bad behaviour, reward good

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behaviour and, in that way, it is thought to keep the children within

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a law-abiding framework. However, you need an additional model, which

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is to consider that there are some children who cannot actually manage

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their own behaviour because they have had injuries to their

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development. Basically what you are saying is that governments

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everywhere are criminalising the problem and looking at it that way.

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But is that the case, if you look at the UK, which is where you

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operator centres, you look at Iain Duncan Smith who says our

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Government believes that investing in support to stabilise and

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vulnerable families is the best starting point for tackling

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disadvantage and poverty, which can give rise to some of the problems

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you have to will the bout. They are not actually blaming, are they?

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There is a discrepancy between government rhetoric and actual

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delivery. The bottom line is still too many children... And Britain

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docks up more children than any European country and 85% of them

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reoffending two years. If you look at all the Criminal Justice

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programmes around the world involving children, there is an 80%

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reoffending rate. We are operating a model currently across the world

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of dealing with vulnerable children, which is not very efficient, except

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the Scandinavians. Scandinavians perceived children who exhibit

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extreme and dangerous behaviours as having mental health difficulties,

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and I believe that is correct. they have a more sympathetic

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approach, which is basically the kind of line that you adopt. But is

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that child-centred approach enough? Than to have to look at the problem

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families, as that is where the problem originates, and tried to

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help them at that level and not isolate the trialled? I agree.

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do need to deal with problem families. -- isolate the child.

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if you have limited resources, it is imperative you reach the

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children above all else. When you look at problem families, parents

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unable to care for their children, and you look at their history is,

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what you find is that they are predominantly adults who have been

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experiencing childhood maltreatment. They have been abused and neglected

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as children. You do not get a parent being randomly incapable of

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bonding all attaching to their child and taking care of their

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child. Parental instinct is so powerful and primitive, that if it

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goes wrong, they must be good reasons why it has gone wrong. I

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would argue that the damage begins invariably in childhood. So child

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would mental-health and well being is the primary driver that

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governments should organise themselves around. -- childhood.

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so when I asked you about the approach governments have, they are

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really buying what you have said. If you look at the latest

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initiatives this government has introduced, the troubled families

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initiative, whereby David Cameron says he wants to help 120,000 of

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the most troubled families by 2015, he has also rolled out a trial for

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better parenting, whereby parents of children from the age of the

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zero -5 can have support to try to improve their parenting skills, he

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would approve of that? The current government in Britain has made

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enormous progress. -- you would approve. In changing the way it

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begins to think about a troubled families. But the difficulty is

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that the rhetoric is beautiful but the resources are not really there.

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I will explain why. In Britain, there is a structure which demands

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that if a child is having difficulties, you refer them to

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social services, mental health, housing. The difficulty in Britain

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is that those primary agencies are at breaking point. They don't have

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the money or the resources to deal with the scale of referrals.

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the Government says the cost of these families... There is a cost

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of about �9 billion and most of that money is not providing lasting

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results. They say they will give about �0.5 billion, about 700,000 -

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- $700 million, over three years. That is real money. I think that is

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excellent, that they are doing that, but I believe that actually what we

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need is a radical approach, which is to convene an independent

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inquiry and look at the life chances of vulnerable children in

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this country and laid down a 15- year vision. What is happening is

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the imminent one political party has some initiatives, and they are

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out of power, most of the initiatives drop again. They are

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not sustained. These initiatives will only be successful if they are

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sustained. What my dream is, to see them all come together and signed

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up to a 15 or 20-year vision up strengthening the childcare system

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in Britain. You have been working with the most needy and vulnerable

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children over 20 years. Either the 1996 he set up the Kids Company.

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Your four dropping centres in London, you also have a social

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network available in around 40 schools, whereby children can have

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access to therapy if they want it. Give us an idea of the kind of

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young people you have been dealing with. You have about 17,000 at the

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moment? We deal with 17,000 vulnerable children and they very

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invulnerability. The ones who come to our street level centres, 84% of

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them arrived homeless. 87% have multiple traumas. I am talking

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about children who have been multiplies sexually abused, they

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have been deprived of food. -- will deplete sexually abused. They have

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been harmed by carers and complete strangers, like drug dealers who

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come into their homes. So when the children arrive, they are

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incredibly disturbed but they also tend to not have the basic

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necessities, like underwear, toothbrush, somewhere to sleep.

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Right now, as I speak to you, we have a waiting list for 500 beds

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because children are sleeping on the floor. People would find that

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difficult in one of the richest countries in the world. But the

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truth is, in Britain, there are some large numbers of children who

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are below the radar, surviving on the streets, who are very

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vulnerable because Dundee was at getting hold of them and running

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them as couriers. -- because drug dealers are getting cold. And there

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are a significant numbers of girls being sexually abused in street

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gangs. These children are what I call lone children. They may have a

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parent they are living with but the parent has difficulties of their

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own. They may be an addict, alcoholic, they may have

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significant and on contained mental health difficulties. A very toxic

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combination. And the child is being themselves up. What is the average

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age? Usually about the 10 or 11- year-old arrives. And then we go

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back to the house when they trust us and we find toddlers, very small

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children, sometimes in these houses. An additional problem in Britain is

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the problem of non-status individuals. These are individuals

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who may have come from other countries, they don't have any

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legal papers and Britain has made a rule of not supporting these people.

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Children seeking asylum, which is not just from the UK but everywhere.

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They may be all over the world. talk about those children who are

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below the radar. Frankly, you do not know if there are children out

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there who are even kilojoule raider, do you? That is very true. -- even

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though your reader. That is why I feel so passionately about this

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issue. Children inside social services and child mental-health

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officers, and are known about, are only a fraction of those in need.

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For every single one of those children, there are hundreds of

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others that nobody has actually paid attention to. The

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internationally recognised figure for a child could maltreatment in

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Britain is about 1.5 million children. That is a lot. What do

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you think can be done to try to get... Make sure these children are

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protected from difficult circumstances at home? Is there a

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method? We know many children fall through the cracks and are abused

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at home. What is interesting is at the Kids Company, 97% of the

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children itself referred. That means the children hear about us on

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the streets and make their way to ask. What we found is that children

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who are being maltreated often know each other. So, for example, one

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child of a drug addict will probably know another 30 children,

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because their parents used together. What I would like to see his street

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level centres open seven days a week from 9am until 10pm, where the

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children in that neighbourhood know that if they ever hit crisis, they

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can make their way to their centres. But you have come up with this idea

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of roving bands. Explain that to us, whereby you tried to detect if

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children are being abused in any way by dropping in unannounced. --

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roving vehicles. What I wanted was children who are recognised as

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living in households where the parents are harming them,

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especially under-fives, children who end up on what we call the

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child protection register in Britain, I would like the

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possibility for social workers to have a key to that household and to

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be able to let themselves in at any point to check on that child's

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well-being. I understand... This is a privacy problem. It brings up the

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surveillance tight society. understand that if one were to do

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that, you would compromise somebody's privacy. -- type.

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for me, it is a choice between that and the safety of a toddler. A

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toddler who is being harmed in a household warrants protection and

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is a greater priority than a parent who seeks to have personal privacy.

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I think if you are abusing your child, you forgo your right to

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privacy in the service of your child being made safer. But it

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brings the back to that point of the child-centred approach. Nobody

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would argue what you just said, I suppose, but you accept that

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wherever possible, it is best to keep the children with their

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families? Wherever possible it is. Children are profoundly loyal and,

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even if the parent is harming them, forgiving towards the parent. The

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ideal growth environment is an appropriate home a cup -- home

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environment. But at the same time, society has to be truthful and

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admit that there are certain households with children are at

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risk and we have got to be robust in protecting those children.

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do now actually have some of money from the Government, don't you, to

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run your centres? How do we know that you are doing the right

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Our government funding is only 20% of that total income. We got it

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from central government because the local authorities did not recognise

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ask for help directly. You have a fairly stringent evaluation process.

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Central government comes and evaluate us. We have passed out

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clinical and financial or debts with high assurance and no

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recommendation for improvement. We also have independent researchers

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constantly with us measuring efficiency of our expenditure, but

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also our clinical model. Had you demonstrate your results? Of the

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17,000 students, you can say that these numbers are doing this and

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sell one. You have been on the record saying it is not easy. You

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were quoted as saying that the focus of measurement is potentially

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useful for organisations that can be measured, but destructive for

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complex organisations. I use a complex organisation? We have

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children at both ends of the spectrum. We have children and

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young people who have gone on to university. At up to 120 children,

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100 went to university. -- out of 220. They are succeeding and

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progressing in ways that are visible, we can produce evidence.

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The difficulty arises when you have a child who is profoundly

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traumatised. You have to measure where that they are having less

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nightmares at night. Or are they are waiting be bad less. But their

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muscular structure is less rigid with terror and they are allowing

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you to sit next to eat them. That is progress. To governments, and to

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external agencies, that does not look like Lammas progress.

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Nevertheless, you have to be able to stabilise a child

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psychologically firmer they can go one to attain education. There is

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scrutiny for that? Yes, berries. Neuroscience, the ability to look

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into the brain, has advanced so much that we are at the cusp of

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something very exciting. We are getting measures of the level of

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stress at a brain level in children. Newport 16 electrodes on their

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heads, it is not going into a scanning machine, and you get a

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real picture of the functioning of their brains. There is definitely a

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measurement for the future. tuck about sexual exploitation of

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young girls. In the UK, we have a very public case of a young white

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British girl being sexually exploited in the north of England

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by a man who gave them food and cigarettes and alcohol for sexual

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favours. Had you deal with this particular aspect of abuse of

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children? I think that sexual exploitation of children is one of

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the biggest risks internationally because of the internet. Now, you

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have a number of factors playing into it. Adults can access children

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through the internet. Children are accessing very perverse and

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inappropriate sexual lies to sadistic material that is

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interfering with their normal development and the ring them

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towards per first -- perverse functioning. Jordan Armour

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vulnerable to sexual exploitation. -- children are more vulnerable.

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What was interesting in Rochdale and Oxford is that predominately

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the goals that were sexually abuse were in the care of local Bootes --

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the girls. We have a care structure that is not protecting the children

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that we deemed too vulnerable. -- the local authorities. It is not

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just in the UK, but the Leader the world. In this particular case in

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the UK, people are tired about a racial and ethnic dynamic. The man,

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the abusers, were a return Arabic men. You come from a different

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background, your mother was Iranian Muslim and due came here at what he

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is of age. We do you stand on that? I do not believe that religion in

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its purest sense or ethnicity leads to the sexual abuse of others. He

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of the human beings want to behave in a perverse way, they can use a

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number of theoretical frameworks like religion, ethnicity, gender

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and abuse those to justify their inappropriate behaviours. We have

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to be very careful not to generalise. That we must accept is

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that there was an abuse of a framework of the reef. By example,

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Muslim religion, too justified behaviour that the Muslim religion

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itself would find unacceptable. Absolutely. We attract about

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charred abuse, looking at the frustration that has spilled onto

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the streets. They could youth unemployment. The EU average is

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22.5 bus stop 16.5 % in the US. It is a bad time to be a young person.

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That is no excuse for the riots that we saw in the UK last year.

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People turning to crime, is it? There is absolutely no excuse for

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turning to crime. If you look to the riots in the summer and the

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statistics that emerged out of that, 66% of the young people who were

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involved in the riots had special educational needs. 32% where Sir

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Paul that they have to access school meals. -- where surplus off.

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If you look at the exclusion, a large amount of those young people

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had been permanently excluded from high school. That time concluded is

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that whichever way you look at it, the drivers of extreme unrest in

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Britain are likely to be individuals with exceptional

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vulnerabilities. When you have something like Sean Bailey, a

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community worker, this says that we have not heard our children a

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Mollie wrong culture. We need to talk about responsibility. You are

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not saying that because you have no money that you should turn to crime

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and rioting. There are plenty of people who are lower abiding.

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learned abiding. I completely agree. You must ask yourself where the

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children pick up the notion of entitlement and grabbing psychology.

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You are talking about a nation whose prime minister Margaret

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Thatcher stood up and said there is no such thing as a community or

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society and get on your bikes and go and find work. The point I'm

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making is that if you see children who are behaving anti- socially,

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please look at the adults around them, because I promise you, the

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framework and the example emanates from the adult world. A final

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question. Do you think that regardless of where a young person

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comes from, if they are young and valuable and have problems, is

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there a universal approach OP one- size-fits-all solution?

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universal approach is interesting. The latest brain research is

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showing that the ability to be laughed and at the receiving end of

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lava is the number one positive ingredients in stabilising brain

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functioning and keeping a child's at a process to a level. We are now

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finding that the attachment at Chard has to his maternal care

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determines that child's ability to keep their behaviour prose so sure.

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Paternal love develops in the fund part of the brain. The area used to

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control impulses and movement. there a solution of one size fits

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all? Yes. Create opportunities or of giving children and young people

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a sense of belonging and detachment and their chair it. If young people

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