0:00:02 > 0:00:04It's universally acknowledged that every girl likes dressing up,
0:00:04 > 0:00:07some fairy wings here, a sequin there and pink everywhere.
0:00:07 > 0:00:10But what happens when the dressing up doesn't stop?
0:00:10 > 0:00:11And the person doing it...
0:00:11 > 0:00:13is your mum?
0:00:15 > 0:00:17That is more than enough cleavage.
0:00:17 > 0:00:18Oh, my God!
0:00:20 > 0:00:23I've got a big wardrobe of lingerie.
0:00:23 > 0:00:26Here at Hotter Than My Daughter, we help mums and daughters
0:00:26 > 0:00:29who've lost their way in their style and their relationship.
0:00:29 > 0:00:32- We'll meet mums that won't grow up...- Ha, ha, ha!
0:00:32 > 0:00:34..And the girls who are old before their time...
0:00:34 > 0:00:36What granny did you nick it off?
0:00:36 > 0:00:37Give it back to her.
0:00:37 > 0:00:40..Before asking a public jury how they need to change.
0:00:40 > 0:00:45She's dressed like a stripper, or should I say an old stripper?
0:00:45 > 0:00:47Then deliver the mother of all makeovers.
0:00:50 > 0:00:52Welcome to Hotter Than My Daughter.
0:01:03 > 0:01:07When did it all get so confusing? There used to be the odd glam mum
0:01:07 > 0:01:11but they were the exception, not the rule, but now it's all changed.
0:01:11 > 0:01:13Welcome to the 21st century and heaven forbid
0:01:13 > 0:01:16your boobs and forehead move an inch after your 30th birthday
0:01:16 > 0:01:17And that's tough,
0:01:17 > 0:01:21especially when your daughter sees you as the competition.
0:01:21 > 0:01:22Coming up...
0:01:22 > 0:01:24We meet the dirty dancing mum
0:01:24 > 0:01:28who's finally found her mojo in middle age.
0:01:28 > 0:01:30Would you like your mum dancing like that?
0:01:30 > 0:01:34While her dowdy daughter hides away in ginormous joggers.
0:01:34 > 0:01:36I love these.
0:01:36 > 0:01:40You actually wear those. They look like granddad's.
0:01:40 > 0:01:43But first up are Lucy and Sherelle from what Nottingham,
0:01:43 > 0:01:45who are at war over their wardrobe.
0:01:47 > 0:01:51I'm a young mum, I've still got it, I think.
0:01:51 > 0:01:55I could still go out and pull them young lads, I've no doubt.
0:01:55 > 0:01:57It's quite upsetting, really,
0:01:57 > 0:02:01to know that my mum gets all the guys that I get as well.
0:02:01 > 0:02:04The girls live together in Nottingham.
0:02:04 > 0:02:07Mum Lucy was 22 when she had daughter Sherelle ,
0:02:07 > 0:02:09followed by brother Antonio.
0:02:09 > 0:02:11She split up with their dad 15 years ago,
0:02:11 > 0:02:14when the kids were four and three.
0:02:14 > 0:02:17People are shocked when I tell them the age of my children.
0:02:17 > 0:02:20They then can't believe how old I am.
0:02:21 > 0:02:25Lucy's had boyfriends since but has never settled down,
0:02:25 > 0:02:27choosing to concentrate instead on her career in promotions,
0:02:27 > 0:02:29where self-image is everything.
0:02:29 > 0:02:33We're doing a holiday survey, where are you travelling to today?
0:02:33 > 0:02:37Now 42, Lucy believes that to stay on top and be noticed,
0:02:37 > 0:02:40she needs all her assets on show.
0:02:40 > 0:02:43That is more than enough cleavage. That, however, is not.
0:02:43 > 0:02:46I just wish she'd dress down a bit
0:02:46 > 0:02:49where I don't have to see all of her...bumps.
0:02:49 > 0:02:52Your boobs are basically out.
0:02:52 > 0:02:55They're not, because if they were out, they'd be like that out.
0:02:55 > 0:02:57Don't do that again.
0:02:59 > 0:03:03Having brought up two kids alone, Lucy's fiercely independent.
0:03:03 > 0:03:07My icons have been women that have made an impact on society,
0:03:07 > 0:03:11very strong, career-minded. Someone like Madonna.
0:03:11 > 0:03:12And to keep ahead at work,
0:03:12 > 0:03:16she's gone to extremes to hold on to her youthful looks.
0:03:16 > 0:03:21I've had Botox, I've had my breasts done, I've had chemical face peels,
0:03:21 > 0:03:24I've had my hair chemically straightened,
0:03:24 > 0:03:27I've had my teeth bleached several times.
0:03:27 > 0:03:30But while Lucy is happy to have D-cups runneth over,
0:03:30 > 0:03:34she hates it when her daughter shows off her chassis.
0:03:35 > 0:03:38Sherelle's dress sense is too revealing.
0:03:38 > 0:03:40That is so short!
0:03:40 > 0:03:44Her bum's hanging out here. It leaves nothing to the imagination.
0:03:44 > 0:03:45Even the dog's in shock!
0:03:45 > 0:03:49This is just a pair of big knickers.
0:03:51 > 0:03:54Before she hit her teens, Sherelle was a bit of a shy tomboy.
0:03:54 > 0:03:58Now 19, she's inherited her mum's love of the limelight.
0:03:58 > 0:04:01My mum does get called a MILF quite a lot.
0:04:01 > 0:04:03These days, unemployed Sherelle
0:04:03 > 0:04:06feels her mum competes with her for attention.
0:04:06 > 0:04:10Mum's like 40-odd years old, it's not the nicest of things to hear,
0:04:10 > 0:04:14especially from a 20-year-old guy.
0:04:14 > 0:04:16Which could be why she doesn't apply herself
0:04:16 > 0:04:19to fulfilling her own ambitions to become a glamour model.
0:04:19 > 0:04:23She lives like a diva, basically. She's a young diva.
0:04:23 > 0:04:25All she ever does is sleep.
0:04:25 > 0:04:26I'm tired.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28I think she's got a disease.
0:04:28 > 0:04:31I tend to get out, do my thing every day and when I come back,
0:04:31 > 0:04:33Sherelle's still in bed, on Facebook.
0:04:33 > 0:04:38Lucy wants Sherelle to up her game to succeed in the modelling world.
0:04:38 > 0:04:41The work ethic, her partying,
0:04:41 > 0:04:44are things that we clash about, continually.
0:04:44 > 0:04:47But Sherelle wants Lucy to stop competing with her
0:04:47 > 0:04:50and get a life of her own.
0:04:50 > 0:04:52I don't think that makes me look too young.
0:04:52 > 0:04:54Yeah, but it's the same as mine!
0:04:54 > 0:04:56- Meaning? - Meaning that you shouldn't wear it.
0:04:56 > 0:04:59I don't think my mum's hotter than me.
0:04:59 > 0:05:01If you've got a great pair of knockers,
0:05:01 > 0:05:03you might as well flaunt them off a bit.
0:05:03 > 0:05:07If that wasn't there, you probably would be able to see your nipple.
0:05:07 > 0:05:11I personally feel that I am hotter than my daughter.
0:05:16 > 0:05:20To find out what's going on beyond Lucy and Sherelle's wardrobe war,
0:05:20 > 0:05:22I went round there to unpick the layers
0:05:22 > 0:05:24of this mother and daughter relationship.
0:05:27 > 0:05:31- You two definitely aren't the shy type.- Definitely not!
0:05:31 > 0:05:33Lucy, what do you think of Sherelle's outfit?
0:05:33 > 0:05:36It's like wearing underwear going out.
0:05:36 > 0:05:42- OK. What about Mum's outfit? - It's just a bit youthful for her age.
0:05:42 > 0:05:44Thank you.
0:05:44 > 0:05:46Very important question, who is hotter?
0:05:46 > 0:05:48- Me.- Me!- No.- No.
0:05:48 > 0:05:50- Definitely me!- Definitely not you!
0:05:52 > 0:05:56A lot of my male friends come up to me and say that my mum's a MILF.
0:05:56 > 0:06:00I've had some of Sherelle's friends contact me on Facebook,
0:06:00 > 0:06:01some of the younger guys.
0:06:01 > 0:06:06- What?!- They've said, "Your mum's hot", which is quite complimentary.
0:06:06 > 0:06:11I've had my ex-boyfriend saying that she's very attractive
0:06:11 > 0:06:17and I can't really say the rest on TV, cos it's quite rude!
0:06:17 > 0:06:20I would like to think that they think I'm quite a young mum.
0:06:20 > 0:06:22A yummy mummy.
0:06:22 > 0:06:24A yummy mummy. Yeah.
0:06:24 > 0:06:26We've had guys interested in both of us.
0:06:26 > 0:06:29They've asked my mum out on dates and they've asked me out on dates.
0:06:29 > 0:06:31And I think she kind of likes that.
0:06:31 > 0:06:34I want my own crowd and I don't want her following it.
0:06:34 > 0:06:38I just want her to have her group and stay well over there.
0:06:38 > 0:06:39Oh, my goodness.
0:06:39 > 0:06:43The apple certainly doesn't fall far from the tree here, does it?
0:06:43 > 0:06:46These two are a right handful. But let's see what a jury makes of them.
0:06:50 > 0:06:53This jury is made up of staff from a local boutique,
0:06:53 > 0:06:55who make it their business to know about style.
0:06:55 > 0:06:57They tell it like it is
0:06:57 > 0:07:01and Lucy and Sherelle are about to hear a few home truths.
0:07:03 > 0:07:05Ladies, give us a twirl.
0:07:07 > 0:07:10First impressions, please.
0:07:10 > 0:07:12Would you go out like this or is this just for the bedroom?
0:07:12 > 0:07:14I'd probably go out like this.
0:07:14 > 0:07:18I think she looks a little bit like a hooker.
0:07:18 > 0:07:20She's just going to attract the wrong kind of attention.
0:07:20 > 0:07:23If one of my friends came out dressed like that,
0:07:23 > 0:07:26I'd tell her to go home and get changed and put some clothes on.
0:07:26 > 0:07:29That is my argument continually with my daughter.
0:07:29 > 0:07:32Sherelle, how do you feel about those comments?
0:07:32 > 0:07:35I think that I am sending out the wrong message.
0:07:35 > 0:07:38So it's different other people saying it rather than your mum?
0:07:38 > 0:07:42- Yes, definitely. - Any more comments on Mum Lucy?
0:07:42 > 0:07:45I think what she needs to do is change her hairstyle. It's too long.
0:07:45 > 0:07:49It drains the face down. I think she needs to put some layers in it,
0:07:49 > 0:07:50funk it up to look more stylish.
0:07:50 > 0:07:53I really don't know what you're thinking with that outfit.
0:07:53 > 0:07:55It was probably nice in 1988.
0:07:55 > 0:07:58I haven't seen anyone wear a dress like that for quite a while.
0:07:58 > 0:08:03To be fair, I'm not really a massive fashion person.
0:08:03 > 0:08:07I don't keep up with trends because I'm so busy with my career,
0:08:07 > 0:08:10but I do feel I could do with an overhaul, definitely.
0:08:10 > 0:08:11Jury, thank you very much.
0:08:11 > 0:08:16Blimey, they don't hold back in Nottingham. It was a blushing!
0:08:18 > 0:08:22Hypocritical or not, Lucy does worry that Sherelle shows too much skin.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25To make her point, Mum's got a little surprise
0:08:25 > 0:08:27for her devil-may-care daughter.
0:08:27 > 0:08:29Lucy, do you want to come in?
0:08:29 > 0:08:33Oh, my God!
0:08:33 > 0:08:36Woo hoo!
0:08:36 > 0:08:38Basically, this is just to show you
0:08:38 > 0:08:43how I feel when you go out wearing something like this.
0:08:43 > 0:08:44Do you know what I mean?
0:08:44 > 0:08:47You look an absolute mess.
0:08:47 > 0:08:50The shoe's on the other foot.
0:08:50 > 0:08:51Or the hot pants are on the other bum.
0:08:55 > 0:08:57It seems to me that in a job where looks are everything,
0:08:57 > 0:09:00Lucy's desperate to hold on to her youth. But in the process,
0:09:00 > 0:09:03she's become more of a mate than a mother to Sherelle.
0:09:03 > 0:09:06As you know, Sherelle completely looks up to you.
0:09:06 > 0:09:09She thinks you're a very successful woman, very strong,
0:09:09 > 0:09:11and you've been a brilliant mother.
0:09:11 > 0:09:13Do you think maybe she's in your shadow?
0:09:13 > 0:09:14Yes, definitely.
0:09:14 > 0:09:17Maybe I overshadow her a little bit because,
0:09:17 > 0:09:19for me, as a mum, I'm so career-minded,
0:09:19 > 0:09:23I want her to be more career-minded and to push herself to her limit.
0:09:23 > 0:09:27So maybe her clothes situation is something to do with that.
0:09:27 > 0:09:31- I agree with that.- So if we take you both to Hotness Heaven
0:09:31 > 0:09:33and we give you both makeovers,
0:09:33 > 0:09:36they're going to make her, I think, a bit more confident.
0:09:36 > 0:09:40At the same time, we're going to give you a sexy, gorgeous style
0:09:40 > 0:09:44but toning you down a bit so she can maybe blossom.
0:09:44 > 0:09:46- Yeah, definitely. - Have we got a deal?
0:09:46 > 0:09:49Yeah, we've got a deal.
0:09:49 > 0:09:53Brilliant. These two delicious dames are willing to give change a go,
0:09:53 > 0:09:55all in the name of...modesty?
0:09:55 > 0:09:59Our team have definitely got their work cut out for them.
0:10:00 > 0:10:02Before they knew what had hit them,
0:10:02 > 0:10:05we whisked mother and daughter to pampering paradise,
0:10:05 > 0:10:07where some of the top stylists in Britain
0:10:07 > 0:10:10were gagging to get their mitts on Lucy and Sherelle.
0:10:12 > 0:10:16- And they're here with me now. Welcome to Hotness Heaven.- Hello!
0:10:16 > 0:10:18- Hi!- How are you feeling?- Excited.
0:10:18 > 0:10:22- Nervous?- A little bit.- Yeah.
0:10:22 > 0:10:24Any major fall-outs since I last saw you?
0:10:24 > 0:10:26Same old, same old, basically.
0:10:26 > 0:10:28All right then, let's get cracking.
0:10:29 > 0:10:32From here on in, Lucy and Sherelle are kept apart.
0:10:32 > 0:10:36They won't see each other's new look until they hit the catwalk
0:10:36 > 0:10:38for the big reveal.
0:10:38 > 0:10:42- Are you going to meet her in the middle?- Yes.
0:10:42 > 0:10:45- She covers up the top half, you cover up the bottom half.- Yeah!
0:10:45 > 0:10:47- Deal done?- Deal done.- Good.
0:10:48 > 0:10:51So you're going to stick with the boobage.
0:10:51 > 0:10:53Yeah, that's not going to change.
0:10:53 > 0:10:54She's a tough nut to crack.
0:10:57 > 0:11:00I believe you've got a young lady called Sherelle in there.
0:11:00 > 0:11:01I certainly do.
0:11:01 > 0:11:04Have you managed to prise her out of that top she calls her dress?
0:11:04 > 0:11:07Aha! Put it on there. Victory.
0:11:12 > 0:11:16And now for the best part of the day - it's time to see who's hotter.
0:11:16 > 0:11:19First up, it's daughter Sherelle.
0:11:19 > 0:11:21For Sherelle, the issue was the booty.
0:11:21 > 0:11:26As lovely as it is, mum Lucy was sick of the sight of it.
0:11:26 > 0:11:29Now, Sherelle is sophisticated and sexy.
0:11:29 > 0:11:32Gone are the hair extensions, gone are her lower portions.
0:11:32 > 0:11:36She's gone from trashy teen to beauty queen
0:11:36 > 0:11:39but when she sees it, will Sherelle like it?
0:11:45 > 0:11:49Oh, my God!
0:11:49 > 0:11:51My hair's huge!
0:11:54 > 0:11:56- Sherelle.- Hi!- Hello.
0:11:56 > 0:12:00When the mirror turned round and you saw yourself, what did you think?
0:12:00 > 0:12:04I think I look amazing. My hair looks SO different.
0:12:04 > 0:12:06I'd never choose this, but it looks really nice.
0:12:06 > 0:12:11- It does. In those hot pants, you looked kind of like a kid.- Yeah.
0:12:11 > 0:12:16But you look sexy and, if I was a guy and saw you in a club,
0:12:16 > 0:12:17I'd be very happy.
0:12:17 > 0:12:21What about the length of the dress? It's a bit longer than normal.
0:12:21 > 0:12:24It's something that I'd probably never go for
0:12:24 > 0:12:26but I do really like the length of it.
0:12:26 > 0:12:29- So hot pants in the bin?- Yes.
0:12:31 > 0:12:33Now it's Mum's turn.
0:12:33 > 0:12:37Extrovert Lucy loved nothing more than showing off her body
0:12:37 > 0:12:39in tight, revealing outfits.
0:12:39 > 0:12:41Now she's glamorous but tasteful with it.
0:12:41 > 0:12:44Her fabulous figure is there for all to see
0:12:44 > 0:12:46but isn't in your face, if you know what I mean.
0:12:46 > 0:12:49And our stylists have taken years off her.
0:12:49 > 0:12:53But will Lucy miss her cleavage when she confronts the new her?
0:13:01 > 0:13:05Oh my God! Gosh, I look completely different!
0:13:05 > 0:13:07I love it, I love my hair.
0:13:07 > 0:13:09- It's just lovely.- Lucy?
0:13:09 > 0:13:12- What do you think?- I love it. - You do?- Yeah.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15And what about the dress? We've covered you up a bit.
0:13:15 > 0:13:17I love it. Very glam.
0:13:17 > 0:13:20Isn't it odd that you were wearing a lot younger dresses than this
0:13:20 > 0:13:22but now, to me, you look younger.
0:13:22 > 0:13:25I think it's the whole package, really, isn't it?
0:13:25 > 0:13:28We have covered up the breasticles, are you all right with that?
0:13:28 > 0:13:30Yes, because they're still accentuated.
0:13:30 > 0:13:35- Will you throw away that Mandarin dress and booby tops?- Oh, yeah.
0:13:35 > 0:13:36Phew!
0:13:38 > 0:13:41Lucy and Sherelle have now seen themselves,
0:13:41 > 0:13:43but have no idea about each other.
0:13:44 > 0:13:47For the first time since they arrived,
0:13:47 > 0:13:49they're about to see how they now look.
0:13:49 > 0:13:51Sherelle's brother Antonio
0:13:51 > 0:13:56and friends Oliver and Dominique are here for the unveiling.
0:13:56 > 0:13:57And here come the girls.
0:14:10 > 0:14:11Oh, my God!
0:14:13 > 0:14:14Oh, my God!
0:14:14 > 0:14:16Your hair looks amazing.
0:14:16 > 0:14:18You look gorgeous.
0:14:18 > 0:14:20So do you. And these are away!
0:14:20 > 0:14:24- Oh, my God!- You look lovely!
0:14:24 > 0:14:27- So do you. I missed you today.- Aww!
0:14:28 > 0:14:31Don't touch my hair.
0:14:31 > 0:14:34- Hey, Antonio! What do you think? - They look really good.
0:14:34 > 0:14:36Yeah? Better before or better after?
0:14:36 > 0:14:38After. I mean,
0:14:38 > 0:14:42They looked like hot messes before but now they look really good.
0:14:42 > 0:14:44Not as good as me but really good.
0:14:48 > 0:14:50As we've found out on Hotter,
0:14:50 > 0:14:53mums and daughters are never shy of an opinion or two
0:14:53 > 0:14:55and this bunch certainly didn't hold back.
0:14:57 > 0:15:02I think it's basically one rule, it's a short or low but not both.
0:15:04 > 0:15:06I think there should definitely be
0:15:06 > 0:15:08an unwritten age limit on short skirts.
0:15:09 > 0:15:13I think there should be maybe a weight limit.
0:15:15 > 0:15:19- If you are 50 or 60...- Careful!
0:15:19 > 0:15:24I say between 16 to 25, after that you shouldn't wear short skirts.
0:15:25 > 0:15:27I just think when you're younger,
0:15:27 > 0:15:29they look fabulous, when you're older...
0:15:30 > 0:15:32Not covered up, but just a bit.
0:15:32 > 0:15:34I don't think you need to be orange
0:15:34 > 0:15:36and have boobs out here to look glamorous.
0:15:36 > 0:15:38Oh, I do.
0:15:38 > 0:15:42Mum and daughter relationships can be complex at the best of times,
0:15:42 > 0:15:45but when you truly believe your mum is more attractive than you
0:15:45 > 0:15:46they can be a nightmare.
0:15:48 > 0:15:52Most of my friends, their mums are not like my mum at all.
0:15:55 > 0:15:57I used to look to a male for approval all the time.
0:15:57 > 0:16:01I don't want to do that anymore. If you don't like me as I am, get lost!
0:16:01 > 0:16:03Derbyshire's Donna Corkwell had two children
0:16:03 > 0:16:06with the husband she divorced some 15 years ago.
0:16:06 > 0:16:10Daughter Tanya was six and brother Josh was four.
0:16:10 > 0:16:14Determined to move on with her life, she set about making it on her own.
0:16:14 > 0:16:17I went back to school when the kids were little
0:16:17 > 0:16:19and started a curtain workroom up.
0:16:19 > 0:16:23Donna's built a successful interior design business from scratch.
0:16:23 > 0:16:26It has given her the good things in life, and at 43,
0:16:26 > 0:16:30and newly single, she is enjoying her womanly wiles to the max.
0:16:30 > 0:16:33I've just come out of a ten-year relationship.
0:16:33 > 0:16:36It's nice to not have to think about a guy all the time.
0:16:36 > 0:16:39My clothes have changed, I've changed, my hair has changed.
0:16:39 > 0:16:40You want to be noticed more.
0:16:42 > 0:16:44That's a catsuit that I really like.
0:16:44 > 0:16:47And it shows all the breast area.
0:16:47 > 0:16:50Some of her clothes are a bit over-the-top.
0:16:50 > 0:16:52It's just very tight.
0:16:52 > 0:16:55I think she needs to just calm down a little bit, maybe.
0:16:55 > 0:16:59But that's not Donna's style. She loves to make a noise.
0:16:59 > 0:17:03All her friends go, "Oh, your mum's gorgeous, your mum's this."
0:17:03 > 0:17:06I always pull, Tanya doesn't pull. And I always pull her friends.
0:17:06 > 0:17:12We went out for my birthday and a few lads were trying it on with her.
0:17:12 > 0:17:14I was like, "Will you please get lost, she's my mum!"
0:17:14 > 0:17:16And they were like, "Yeah, but she's so hot!"
0:17:16 > 0:17:18She doesn't really like it much,
0:17:18 > 0:17:21but I say, "Shut up, I'm enjoying it! It's fun!"
0:17:21 > 0:17:24My mum does not know when to stop. She loves attention.
0:17:25 > 0:17:27She loves it.
0:17:27 > 0:17:30Though Donna appears to have finally found personal happiness,
0:17:30 > 0:17:33she is frustrated that 20-year-old Tanya,
0:17:33 > 0:17:38who works in an old people's home, refuses to make the best of herself.
0:17:38 > 0:17:40She's always been the same.
0:17:40 > 0:17:42Even as a little girl, she was happiest in her scruffs.
0:17:43 > 0:17:46I proper love these.
0:17:46 > 0:17:48You actually wear those, you really wear them.
0:17:48 > 0:17:51They're like grandad's or something.
0:17:51 > 0:17:56I hate the way Tanya dresses. The jogging bottoms, the slouchy tops.
0:17:56 > 0:17:58Hoodie, hoodie, hoodie.
0:18:00 > 0:18:01All hoodies.
0:18:01 > 0:18:06My mum would describe my style as chav.
0:18:06 > 0:18:10And that is exactly what she would say - I'm a chav.
0:18:10 > 0:18:11We'll go shopping together,
0:18:11 > 0:18:14and I'm dressed up with high heels - clip-clop-clip-clop -
0:18:14 > 0:18:17she says, "People are looking at you, Mum. They all fancy you, Mum."
0:18:17 > 0:18:20I say, "I know, but they should fancy you."
0:18:20 > 0:18:23"Dress better, don't wear those grey jogging bottoms!"
0:18:24 > 0:18:27The issue here goes beyond the wardrobe.
0:18:27 > 0:18:29Would you like your mum dancing like that?
0:18:29 > 0:18:34And mum Donna is at a loss to know how she can change Tanya's mindset.
0:18:34 > 0:18:38I think she actually likes me being a yummy mummy.
0:18:38 > 0:18:41But, on the other side, I think she feels very intimidated.
0:18:41 > 0:18:43That's the bit I don't want her to be.
0:18:43 > 0:18:44- Have you ever wore that?- No.
0:18:44 > 0:18:45Why do you not wear it?
0:18:45 > 0:18:48Cos I haven't got a good enough body to wear that.
0:18:48 > 0:18:52- Why not?- Cos I haven't. I'm not tiny like you.
0:18:52 > 0:18:56I do like to be girlie, but I've not got much confidence for it.
0:18:56 > 0:18:59So when you wear a big hoodie and a pair of slouch jeans
0:18:59 > 0:19:02and a pair of trainers, it's comfy, you're covered up
0:19:02 > 0:19:04and you don't get no looks or anything.
0:19:04 > 0:19:05I want to walk into a room
0:19:05 > 0:19:08where people look at her now, where SHE's the star.
0:19:08 > 0:19:11But it's getting her there because she's just not confident.
0:19:11 > 0:19:13She is a gorgeous, gorgeous girl.
0:19:16 > 0:19:19Divorced mum Donna is busy enjoying a new lease of life in her 40s,
0:19:19 > 0:19:23while daughter Tanya is desperate to come out from under her shadow.
0:19:23 > 0:19:27I've come to the outskirts of Chesterfield to find out more.
0:19:29 > 0:19:33- Hello, are you all right? - Thank you very much.
0:19:33 > 0:19:36Tanya, are you not a fan of the way your mum dresses?
0:19:36 > 0:19:39Sometimes it's a bit over-the-top.
0:19:39 > 0:19:43But I'm proud of my mum cos... She's hot, isn't she?
0:19:43 > 0:19:44Since I've been single,
0:19:44 > 0:19:46I've been trying to be a bit more sexy as well.
0:19:46 > 0:19:48I think Tanya doesn't really like that.
0:19:48 > 0:19:50Who is hotter, mum or daughter?
0:19:50 > 0:19:55- My mum.- Me, for now. Cos Tanya should be the hotter one.
0:19:55 > 0:19:58Her 21st birthday is coming up and I want her to be the star.
0:19:58 > 0:20:02I want to dress down for that and I want her to walk into the room
0:20:02 > 0:20:04and everyone to go, "Wow!" That's what I want.
0:20:04 > 0:20:06This is the show for that!
0:20:08 > 0:20:10Do you think that you being glam makes her
0:20:10 > 0:20:13- not even try to compete with you? - I think some of it is,
0:20:13 > 0:20:15but I think we could both go out glamorous.
0:20:15 > 0:20:17She should feel what I feel all the time.
0:20:17 > 0:20:19It's good to feel like that, being a woman.
0:20:19 > 0:20:21When you're out with your friends
0:20:21 > 0:20:23and your mum's there, what do they say?
0:20:23 > 0:20:27"I wish my mum was like your mum." And I say, "No, you don't."
0:20:27 > 0:20:29- They call her a MILF.- Do they?
0:20:30 > 0:20:32She loves the way I look.
0:20:32 > 0:20:35She likes all that, she wants to be there but she just goes,
0:20:35 > 0:20:37"I'm fat, I'm this and that."
0:20:37 > 0:20:40I've always been uncomfortable about my weight and stuff.
0:20:40 > 0:20:43Which bit about you don't you like?
0:20:43 > 0:20:45- From the waist down. - From the waist down.
0:20:45 > 0:20:50Yeah, I really don't like it. I think that's why I like to cover up more.
0:20:50 > 0:20:51- She doesn't feel confident.- Really?
0:20:51 > 0:20:54Yeah, it's a shame, cos she's gorgeous.
0:20:54 > 0:20:56Do you think you overshadow her a bit?
0:20:56 > 0:20:57I just want her to be more feminine.
0:20:57 > 0:20:59Maybe it's me, maybe I push too much, I don't know.
0:20:59 > 0:21:03If you're pushed, sometimes you go the opposite way, don't you?
0:21:03 > 0:21:05Do you feel a lot of pressure from your mum sometimes?
0:21:05 > 0:21:09- She says she does try to talk to you.- Yeah, she gets on my nerves.
0:21:09 > 0:21:12- Why, what does she say? - She is always push, push, push.
0:21:12 > 0:21:15- So I go the opposite way.- Have you said to her, back off a bit?
0:21:15 > 0:21:17- She'd never back off.- Really?
0:21:17 > 0:21:20- Is that just her personality?- Yeah.
0:21:20 > 0:21:21Well, we've got a right pair here,
0:21:21 > 0:21:23but which of them is getting it wrong?
0:21:23 > 0:21:27Is it both of them? Let's see what the jury make of it.
0:21:29 > 0:21:32The jury is made up of local professionals
0:21:32 > 0:21:33who work in the beauty business.
0:21:33 > 0:21:36They're not afraid to speak their minds and tell Donna and Tanya
0:21:36 > 0:21:39exactly what they think of their look.
0:21:39 > 0:21:41Wow!
0:21:41 > 0:21:42So, first reactions?
0:21:42 > 0:21:45Mum, you obviously groom yourself really well and look after yourself.
0:21:45 > 0:21:48I don't think she needs to have that much flesh on show.
0:21:48 > 0:21:52It's not mutton dressed as lamb, she just needs to tone it down a little.
0:21:52 > 0:21:55- Right, OK.- Ladies, the general consensus is -
0:21:55 > 0:21:57if your mum dressed like that would you be happy or not?
0:21:57 > 0:22:00No.
0:22:00 > 0:22:04I take it on board but I actually like my style, I like the way I am.
0:22:04 > 0:22:05Anything else?
0:22:05 > 0:22:07Tanya, I think you are really pretty
0:22:07 > 0:22:09and have a lot of potential so why not use it?
0:22:09 > 0:22:12She's obviously a natural dark colour,
0:22:12 > 0:22:14looking at her eyebrows and her eyes.
0:22:14 > 0:22:16I think go for a bit more of a natural blonde.
0:22:16 > 0:22:18I think Tanya is a really pretty girl
0:22:18 > 0:22:21and she's covering a really nice figure.
0:22:21 > 0:22:22And Tanya's gone instantly red,
0:22:22 > 0:22:25which means that she doesn't like to feel like that.
0:22:25 > 0:22:27Whereas mum's very confident with the look of it.
0:22:27 > 0:22:28You've been very quiet.
0:22:28 > 0:22:31What do you think about what the ladies are saying?
0:22:31 > 0:22:32Do you hate it or...?
0:22:32 > 0:22:34I don't hate it, it's just weird.
0:22:34 > 0:22:37Is everyone wrong and you're right?
0:22:38 > 0:22:41It's all right. Jury, thank you very much.
0:22:44 > 0:22:45I've spoken to your mum
0:22:45 > 0:22:48and she's agreed she's going to tone it down a bit for you
0:22:48 > 0:22:51so we can do our job and make you look stunning.
0:22:51 > 0:22:53I hope so. That would be nice.
0:22:54 > 0:22:58Mum Donna lives a lavish life, but the icing on the cake
0:22:58 > 0:23:01would be to see single daughter Tanya blossom.
0:23:03 > 0:23:07Welcome to hotness heaven, ladies. Are you nervous?
0:23:07 > 0:23:09- Yeah.- Donna, you're looking as hot as ever.
0:23:09 > 0:23:11Are you really prepared for us to get working on you?
0:23:11 > 0:23:14I'm more excited about Tanya's makeover.
0:23:14 > 0:23:16- Are you excited, Tanya?- Yeah!
0:23:16 > 0:23:19I can't wait for this one - let's get to work!
0:23:22 > 0:23:26Donna, why do you think Tanya is so sensitive about her image?
0:23:26 > 0:23:28I think it's a bit of peer pressure from me.
0:23:28 > 0:23:32- I want to be able to walk behind her and go, "That's my girl!"- Oh!
0:23:32 > 0:23:35She walks behind me and goes, "That's my mum."
0:23:35 > 0:23:38I don't want that any more. I'm too old for that, it's her time.
0:23:46 > 0:23:50Now it's time to see the girls' brand new looks. First up, Donna.
0:23:52 > 0:23:54Donna loves to dazzle
0:23:54 > 0:23:57but was blinding the world with her bare-it-all approach to beauty.
0:23:58 > 0:24:01Now, with softer hair and make-up and a little more modesty,
0:24:01 > 0:24:04she not only looks more beautiful, she looks more modern.
0:24:04 > 0:24:08But when she sees herself, what will Donna think?
0:24:14 > 0:24:16Oh, my God!
0:24:18 > 0:24:21Hello, Donna.
0:24:21 > 0:24:23What are you thinking?
0:24:23 > 0:24:25- Where's my Oscar?- Really?
0:24:25 > 0:24:27What do you think Tanya's friends would make of you now?
0:24:27 > 0:24:30Probably movie-star, not MILF.
0:24:30 > 0:24:33They're still a little bit of booby, but not loads of booby.
0:24:33 > 0:24:37- It's quite glamorous, isn't it? - Yes, very glamorous.
0:24:37 > 0:24:40- What about the hair? - I love it. It's much better.
0:24:40 > 0:24:43The only thing that's missing is the Oscar. Give me an Oscar!
0:24:43 > 0:24:46Oh, will you drop the blooming Oscar?!
0:24:48 > 0:24:50And now it's Tanya's turn.
0:24:51 > 0:24:57Tanya was a tomboy and hid her curvy body in comfort clothing.
0:24:57 > 0:24:59Now she looks like a movie star.
0:24:59 > 0:25:03Her hair has gone from bomb site blonde to bombshell babe.
0:25:03 > 0:25:06And the figure she feared to flaunt is there for all to see.
0:25:06 > 0:25:08She's hour glass perfect.
0:25:08 > 0:25:11But how will Trackies Tanya react?
0:25:18 > 0:25:22Oh, my God! What have they done to me?
0:25:22 > 0:25:24Bloody hell!
0:25:26 > 0:25:30What do you think?
0:25:30 > 0:25:33- I'm a bit speechless.- Really?
0:25:33 > 0:25:36The first time in years.
0:25:36 > 0:25:38- Can I show you something?- Yeah.
0:25:41 > 0:25:44- A bit of a difference.- A little bit.
0:25:44 > 0:25:47You've done a miracle, haven't you? I'm beautiful.
0:25:47 > 0:25:49You're totally right, you are.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51There's no miracles here.
0:25:51 > 0:25:54So, your mum said it, your friends have said it,
0:25:54 > 0:25:55the jury said it, the stylist said it.
0:25:55 > 0:25:57You are beautiful. Now do you believe it?
0:25:57 > 0:25:59- Yes, I do.- Tell me what you are then.
0:25:59 > 0:26:02- I'm hotter than my mum.- Yes!
0:26:05 > 0:26:10Before we got to work on Donna and Tanya, this was their image.
0:26:10 > 0:26:12They've now seen their new look for themselves
0:26:12 > 0:26:14but still haven't seen each other.
0:26:14 > 0:26:17Now, that's about to change.
0:26:17 > 0:26:21It's the big moment. It's time to see who's hotter.
0:26:42 > 0:26:45- Don't cry.- You're beautiful. - Don't cry.
0:26:45 > 0:26:48Look at you, my baby's a woman.
0:26:48 > 0:26:50God, doesn't she look gorgeous?
0:26:50 > 0:26:54- God, you're beautiful. - I'm crying as well!
0:26:54 > 0:26:58Oh, my God, you both look absolutely stunning.
0:26:58 > 0:27:01What did you think of your mum's reaction?
0:27:01 > 0:27:03She scared the hell out of me.
0:27:03 > 0:27:05What do you think of the way your mum looks?
0:27:05 > 0:27:08It's very elegant, which is what she wanted. So I'm happy.
0:27:08 > 0:27:12But I don't think she'd have her hair curled like that.
0:27:12 > 0:27:14But I do like it on her.
0:27:14 > 0:27:16How are you feeling, Tanya?
0:27:16 > 0:27:19- Weird.- A bit shaky?- Yeah.
0:27:19 > 0:27:22- So you said that your baby looks like a woman.- Definitely.
0:27:22 > 0:27:25She's gorgeous, absolutely stunning.
0:27:29 > 0:27:32That was Hotter Than My Daughter.
0:27:32 > 0:27:35Lucy and Sherelle have started afresh in Nottingham,
0:27:35 > 0:27:38agreeing to compromise with their clothes and each other.
0:27:40 > 0:27:42And Donna and daughter returned to Derbyshire
0:27:42 > 0:27:47with mum's pride through the roof and Tanya's confidence sky high.
0:27:49 > 0:27:51I love it when a plan comes together.
0:27:51 > 0:27:53I guess we won't be needing this any more.
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