0:00:02 > 0:00:03- Harry, are you ready?- Yes.
0:00:03 > 0:00:06- Cos it might be an idea to get started.- Yes.
0:00:06 > 0:00:09- Like today, if possible.- Yes.
0:00:09 > 0:00:12- And can you bring that popcorn I got for us to share, please?- Right.
0:00:14 > 0:00:16- Harry, is everything OK?- Yes
0:00:17 > 0:00:20- Well, should I just start the blog myself?- Yes.
0:00:21 > 0:00:24Right. OK, welcome to the Dumping Ground.
0:00:28 > 0:00:31'It's not as bad as it sounds.
0:00:31 > 0:00:33'If you're watching this, you're one of us now.
0:00:35 > 0:00:38'Relax. You're going to love it here.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40'You'll meet some amazing new friends.
0:00:42 > 0:00:43'Get to try exciting new food.
0:00:45 > 0:00:48'We promise it's an experience you'll never forget.'
0:00:48 > 0:00:49Brilliant.
0:00:51 > 0:00:55'But remember, this is a place where random chaos can strike at any time.
0:00:58 > 0:01:01'So you have to be prepared...
0:01:02 > 0:01:04'..for pretty much anything.'
0:01:07 > 0:01:10And that's why we've made this video blog.
0:01:10 > 0:01:13We've...or should I say I, have been through all this
0:01:13 > 0:01:14so that you don't have to.
0:01:17 > 0:01:20This time on The Dumping Ground Survival Files, Coming Clean.
0:01:20 > 0:01:23Taking the rap for bad stuff you've done can be tough.
0:01:23 > 0:01:25And being honest with yourself can be even harder.
0:01:25 > 0:01:27But we're here to help.
0:01:31 > 0:01:32We've all been there.
0:01:32 > 0:01:33You've done something bad
0:01:33 > 0:01:36and know you should just own up and face the music.
0:01:36 > 0:01:39But sometimes it's easier said than done.
0:01:39 > 0:01:42- Oh, it's nice of you to show up. - Sorry. Felt a bit sick.
0:01:42 > 0:01:43No popcorn for you, then.
0:01:45 > 0:01:47- Harry, where's the popcorn?- Popcorn?
0:01:47 > 0:01:49- You've eaten it, all haven't you? - No.
0:01:49 > 0:01:50Go on, then, where is it?
0:01:50 > 0:01:53Giant hungry mice..? SHE SIGHS
0:01:53 > 0:01:54Why does that not surprise me?
0:01:54 > 0:01:57Basically, there's two types of people in life.
0:01:57 > 0:01:59Those who own up when they've done something wrong,
0:01:59 > 0:02:01and those who don't. Or, in other words,
0:02:01 > 0:02:03girls and boys.
0:02:03 > 0:02:05That's not true. Hiccup!
0:02:05 > 0:02:08Admit it, then. Say, "I ate all the popcorn."
0:02:08 > 0:02:10- Hiccup!- Why does it not surprise me?
0:02:13 > 0:02:15Popcorn Boy's the tip of the iceberg.
0:02:15 > 0:02:18# Maybe it's time for me to come clean... #
0:02:18 > 0:02:20Let's look at the evidence.
0:02:20 > 0:02:21Here's a perfect example.
0:02:21 > 0:02:24Plenty to say for himself, but never the word "sorry."
0:02:39 > 0:02:40Hey, Bailey.
0:02:40 > 0:02:42Remember the mess you made with the washing machine that time?
0:02:42 > 0:02:44You must be thinking of someone else.
0:02:44 > 0:02:47- Me and the washing machine are sweet.- Really?
0:02:47 > 0:02:48That's not the way I remember it.
0:03:01 > 0:03:02HE GROANS
0:03:02 > 0:03:05So, it wasn't you who spilt powder all over the laundry floor
0:03:05 > 0:03:07and topped that up with millions of bubbles?
0:03:07 > 0:03:10- Ah, you can't prove nothing. - I don't need to prove anything.
0:03:10 > 0:03:12The guilt was written all over your back.
0:03:12 > 0:03:14You do know your name's falling off?
0:03:15 > 0:03:17It's not about my back, it's about my feet.
0:03:17 > 0:03:19I bet he didn't know how to use the washing machine.
0:03:19 > 0:03:21- He had the water too hot. - THEY LAUGH
0:03:21 > 0:03:23That's just Bailey. Not all boys are like him.
0:03:23 > 0:03:24Er, not true.
0:03:24 > 0:03:26You don't need to leave the washing machine
0:03:26 > 0:03:28to find our next example.
0:03:34 > 0:03:35Too late.
0:03:35 > 0:03:38- It's not a full load. - Well, I'm not having your...
0:03:39 > 0:03:42- I'm not having those in with mine. - Gah!
0:03:42 > 0:03:44I said no!
0:03:46 > 0:03:48You going to take them out, then?
0:03:48 > 0:03:51Didn't think so. No more than a 30, or else.
0:03:51 > 0:03:54Well, if you're that fussed about it, why don't you do it yourself?
0:03:54 > 0:03:55Oh, get over yourself, Rick.
0:04:02 > 0:04:05- She is beyond annoying. - What's the problem?
0:04:05 > 0:04:09- She wants me to do her washing for her.- Oh, that is out of order.
0:04:09 > 0:04:10I know!
0:04:12 > 0:04:15I think you'll find, though, that the person who was most
0:04:15 > 0:04:18"out of order" that day has a name that rhymes with plank.
0:04:21 > 0:04:23- BEEPING - Is there something wrong with your ears?
0:04:23 > 0:04:24Work fine, they heard you come in.
0:04:24 > 0:04:28- So why have you not got up and got the washing?- Because it's ages away.
0:04:28 > 0:04:30You're sat there colouring, are you five?
0:04:30 > 0:04:31- One, it's not because...- Oh, shut up.
0:04:31 > 0:04:34And two, we're in the middle of an intense championship...
0:04:42 > 0:04:44RICK, get in here!
0:04:45 > 0:04:47Look at my dress.
0:04:47 > 0:04:48HE SNIGGERS
0:04:52 > 0:04:55All my stuff's ruined, too.
0:04:55 > 0:04:57Anyway, why are you complaining, girls wear pink.
0:04:57 > 0:04:59- Look what he's done. - Oh!- Useless.
0:04:59 > 0:05:02Frank, what were you thinking of, that time with the football shirt?
0:05:02 > 0:05:04It was a mistake.
0:05:06 > 0:05:09One Man U shirt in the wash and, before you knew it, it was war!
0:05:09 > 0:05:12Boys vs girls, and we had to win it!
0:05:12 > 0:05:15- You can't even put a wash on. - Maybe I shouldn't have to.
0:05:15 > 0:05:16What?
0:05:16 > 0:05:19You know, some things boys do, some things girls do.
0:05:19 > 0:05:22- It's just the way it is.- Like what? - I don't know, cooking and stuff?
0:05:22 > 0:05:23MAY-LI: Er, what about Jamie Oliver?
0:05:23 > 0:05:26RICK: Exactly, if a bloke puts his mind to something he's better at it.
0:05:27 > 0:05:29Can't believe you just said that.
0:05:29 > 0:05:32All right, let me prove it. Name a challenge? Me against Faith.
0:05:33 > 0:05:37MAY-LI: Er, well, I've never seen either of you bake a cake.
0:05:37 > 0:05:38So, how about that?
0:05:39 > 0:05:40RICK: Er...
0:05:41 > 0:05:43All right. You want me to bake a cake?
0:05:43 > 0:05:45MAY-LI: Yeah, a bake off, tomorrow.
0:05:45 > 0:05:47Yeah, and the loser has to wear that pink dress.
0:05:47 > 0:05:49Yep.
0:05:49 > 0:05:50Be honest. You were never going to win.
0:05:50 > 0:05:52You and Rick baking a cake?!
0:05:52 > 0:05:53That's sexist.
0:05:53 > 0:05:55Me and Rick took to it like a duck to water.
0:05:55 > 0:05:58# If I knew you were comin' I'd have baked a cake... #
0:05:58 > 0:05:59One, two, three.
0:06:00 > 0:06:02- Whoa, turn it off! - THE GIRLS LAUGH
0:06:02 > 0:06:05# If I knew you were comin' I'd have baked a cake... #
0:06:05 > 0:06:08And, let's face it, it's not like the opposition were up to much.
0:06:08 > 0:06:11- What's that supposed to be? - A window?
0:06:12 > 0:06:14Really?
0:06:14 > 0:06:15You know what...
0:06:18 > 0:06:21TYLER: Anyway, while this boys vs girls battle
0:06:21 > 0:06:22was starting to get messy...
0:06:23 > 0:06:27..the washing machine menace behind it all was about to be uncovered.
0:06:27 > 0:06:31- Frank, why is your shirt pink? - No, it's not...
0:06:31 > 0:06:35- Did you put that in Rick's wash?- No. - I'm not stupid, Frank.
0:06:37 > 0:06:42- Look, Rick didn't know. - MAY-LI: So, it was your fault?
0:06:43 > 0:06:44Sorry.
0:06:47 > 0:06:51Now, for any boys watching, in case you didn't know, "sorry" is a word
0:06:51 > 0:06:54you use when you want to show you've done something you wish you hadn't.
0:06:54 > 0:06:57Well, at least you were big enough to say sorry, Frank.
0:06:57 > 0:07:00Yeah. Even though it was a mistake.
0:07:01 > 0:07:02You're right.
0:07:02 > 0:07:06I guess loads of people have made the mistake of supporting Man U.
0:07:06 > 0:07:08Oi! Out of order.
0:07:09 > 0:07:13- Right. I think Frank should decide. - No, but he'll be on their side!
0:07:13 > 0:07:16Yeah, but he's go to make up for the pink washing.
0:07:16 > 0:07:19- RICK: You what?- Yep. It was him that put the football shirt in the wash.
0:07:20 > 0:07:22FRANK: Sorry, mate.
0:07:22 > 0:07:26'Wow. Two "sorries" in one day. Amazing.'
0:07:26 > 0:07:27So, the winner is...
0:07:30 > 0:07:32- ..Faith! BOTH:- Yes!
0:07:32 > 0:07:33CHEERING
0:07:36 > 0:07:38Still, at least Frank got his punishment...
0:07:38 > 0:07:42- They're coming, they're coming! - MAY-LI: Ooh, Harry, you ready?
0:07:42 > 0:07:45..along with the masterchefs of the Dumping Ground.
0:07:45 > 0:07:46LAUGHTER
0:07:46 > 0:07:47JODY WOLF-WHISLES
0:07:50 > 0:07:52- Kind of suits you.- Don't push it.
0:07:52 > 0:07:53You guys ready for your close-up?
0:07:53 > 0:07:54Of course.
0:07:57 > 0:07:58LAUGHTER
0:08:03 > 0:08:05So, Harry. What do these two examples tell us?
0:08:06 > 0:08:09You're right. I'm straight off to May-Li now.
0:08:09 > 0:08:10What for?
0:08:10 > 0:08:12To get my name taken off the clothes washing rota
0:08:12 > 0:08:15- before I wreck everyone's stuff. - No, that's not what I meant.
0:08:15 > 0:08:17Harry? Harry!
0:08:20 > 0:08:24# Some point we all have to... #
0:08:24 > 0:08:26OK. Maybe now would be good to talk about one time
0:08:26 > 0:08:29when I really should have owned up about something much quicker.
0:08:29 > 0:08:32It was when Jody had gone off to live with her family.
0:08:32 > 0:08:34# ..come clean. #
0:08:34 > 0:08:37And then, suddenly, she turned up back at the Dumping Ground,
0:08:37 > 0:08:38bringing presents...
0:08:38 > 0:08:41- This is for you, Harry. - Where'd you get that lot?
0:08:41 > 0:08:44My brother says, "Ask no questions, and I'll tell no lies."
0:08:44 > 0:08:46ELEKTRA: So, basically, they're nicked.
0:08:46 > 0:08:48I don't know - but I wouldn't tell Mike and Gina.
0:08:48 > 0:08:52I think this is for sporty people. FAITH: Thanks, Jo.
0:08:52 > 0:08:55I've got a camera. Some MP4s. ELEKTRA: Yes!
0:08:55 > 0:08:57TYLER: Are you sure about this, Jody? JODY: Yeah.
0:08:57 > 0:08:59- Did Kingsley get all this? - Yeah.
0:08:59 > 0:09:02- And he knows about it? - Er...
0:09:02 > 0:09:05- I got this one for you. - Are you serious?!
0:09:05 > 0:09:06- Yeah.- Why?
0:09:06 > 0:09:08I thought you'd forgotten about me.
0:09:08 > 0:09:11- I thought everybody had. - Don't be a div.
0:09:11 > 0:09:13JOHNNY: Do you want this?
0:09:13 > 0:09:15- Not if it's stolen, I don't. - JOHNNY: Well, we don't know that.
0:09:15 > 0:09:19But then, Jody's brother from hell, Kingsley, turned up.
0:09:19 > 0:09:22- Got everything you came with? - Best check, hey.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25You know what you're like. Picking up other people's stuff.
0:09:25 > 0:09:29And all the presents turned out just to be borrows.
0:09:29 > 0:09:31- I've got to go home.- What? - Kingsley's here.
0:09:31 > 0:09:34He knows about the presents, I didn't think he'd realise.
0:09:34 > 0:09:36In that case, we need to box everything back up
0:09:36 > 0:09:38- like new and...- What?!
0:09:38 > 0:09:40You can't just give back presents, even if they are nicked.
0:09:40 > 0:09:41Elektra, just do it!
0:09:44 > 0:09:46- I feel sick.- Jody?
0:09:50 > 0:09:53And that was when I did something a tiny bit stupid.
0:09:58 > 0:10:02- I'm packed.- Come on, then, Monkey.
0:10:04 > 0:10:07I knew keeping the tablet was wrong,
0:10:07 > 0:10:09but once you've done something like that, how do you undo it?
0:10:11 > 0:10:13Jody, I'm so sorry about what happened
0:10:13 > 0:10:14with the tablet and Kingsley.
0:10:14 > 0:10:16I still can't believe I did that.
0:10:16 > 0:10:18Yeah.
0:10:21 > 0:10:25- He probably found her phone. - Or dropped it down the toilet.
0:10:25 > 0:10:28- It's easily done.- Yeah, but what if something's happened?
0:10:28 > 0:10:31Like, something bad.
0:10:31 > 0:10:33Cos of her nicking Kingsley's gear?
0:10:33 > 0:10:35FAITH: We gave it all back though, didn't we?
0:10:35 > 0:10:38ELEKTRA: He can still sell it though. It's not like we broke anything.
0:10:38 > 0:10:40Unless... It didn't all go back.
0:10:40 > 0:10:42I mean, something could have gone missing.
0:10:42 > 0:10:44Missing?
0:10:44 > 0:10:46OK, I took the tablet, I'm sorry.
0:10:46 > 0:10:49I know I should have done it earlier, but I did own up.
0:10:49 > 0:10:52Yeah, I know. But it was me who brought all that dodgy stuff
0:10:52 > 0:10:54to the Dumping Ground.
0:10:54 > 0:10:55So, it wasn't completely your fault.
0:10:56 > 0:10:59Although it was mostly your fault.
0:10:59 > 0:11:01We'd all heard from Jody about Kingsley's temper.
0:11:01 > 0:11:03She ended up in real danger, all because of me.
0:11:03 > 0:11:06Although we did manage to get her out, thank goodness.
0:11:06 > 0:11:09The police are round there now. You were right.
0:11:09 > 0:11:11KNOCKING Tee?
0:11:12 > 0:11:13Jody, I'm so sorry.
0:11:13 > 0:11:15- It's OK.- No, it's not.
0:11:15 > 0:11:17- This was all my fault. - No, it isn't.
0:11:17 > 0:11:20I shouldn't have taken Kingsley's stuff in the first place.
0:11:20 > 0:11:22Look, if I'd known he was going to lock you out...
0:11:22 > 0:11:24Carmen and Tyler wouldn't have rescued me.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27That's why I'm not angry. I'm glad you did what you did.
0:11:27 > 0:11:29- Really?- Yeah.
0:11:29 > 0:11:31It's because of you that I'm home.
0:11:37 > 0:11:41Funny really. How something good could came from such a bad situation.
0:11:41 > 0:11:44I suppose so. I still have nightmares about it.
0:11:44 > 0:11:46- Well, you won't be doing it again then, will you?- No way.
0:11:46 > 0:11:49Jody, there's no need to remind Harry about this, is there?
0:11:49 > 0:11:52Too right! Girls got to stick together.
0:11:54 > 0:11:56Did you get off the washing rota, then?
0:11:56 > 0:11:58May-Li said she would put pegs on my ears
0:11:58 > 0:11:59and hang me up with the washing.
0:11:59 > 0:12:01So, I'm taking that as a "No."
0:12:01 > 0:12:04Anyway, you're just in time for another story,
0:12:04 > 0:12:06about a boy who finds it completely impossible
0:12:06 > 0:12:08to come clean about anything.
0:12:08 > 0:12:09# When will you admit it
0:12:09 > 0:12:12# When will you admit you're doing me wrong... #
0:12:12 > 0:12:14In fact, of all the boys
0:12:14 > 0:12:15who live in their own private universe,
0:12:15 > 0:12:18and never admit they've done wrong, however much damage they cause...
0:12:18 > 0:12:21# When will you admit you're doing bad things to me... #
0:12:21 > 0:12:23..this one is the worst.
0:12:24 > 0:12:26Messing up the washing was one thing.
0:12:26 > 0:12:28But that was just the tip of the iceberg.
0:12:28 > 0:12:29Stop it!
0:12:29 > 0:12:31What are you doing?!
0:12:31 > 0:12:32Calm down!
0:12:32 > 0:12:34- Oi!- Bailey, stop!
0:12:35 > 0:12:36SCREAMING
0:12:36 > 0:12:38- ALL:- Bailey! - Why are you doing this?!
0:12:39 > 0:12:41Not the TV!
0:12:41 > 0:12:42NO!
0:12:42 > 0:12:44Bailey...
0:12:44 > 0:12:46- Calm down!- What are you doing?
0:12:54 > 0:12:56Bailey? Bailey, wait!
0:12:56 > 0:12:57And then things got really bad.
0:13:03 > 0:13:06HARRY: But Bailey didn't mean for Faith to get hurt.
0:13:06 > 0:13:09He might not have caused it, but he was really out of order.
0:13:10 > 0:13:15- Look, he's wrecked the TV. - Ah, where is he?- I dunno.
0:13:15 > 0:13:16BAILEY: Faith's been hurt.
0:13:16 > 0:13:19Meanwhile, guess who was apologising?
0:13:19 > 0:13:23- I'm so sorry. - Faith! Faith, what happened?
0:13:24 > 0:13:28It's not his fault, I was trying to catch up with Bailey.
0:13:28 > 0:13:30Tell May-Li that I've gone to the hospital with Faith.
0:13:30 > 0:13:32- You can drop me off at the grounds...- No, get out.
0:13:32 > 0:13:34While as for Bailey...
0:13:34 > 0:13:35No, you don't.
0:13:35 > 0:13:37There's Faith in hospital
0:13:37 > 0:13:39and all he cares about is this stupid football match.
0:13:39 > 0:13:41It's pretty upsetting, actually.
0:13:41 > 0:13:44Yeah. Missing the final. Gutting.
0:13:44 > 0:13:45Harry?!
0:13:45 > 0:13:48He did visit Faith in hospital, though.
0:13:48 > 0:13:51He gave her the letter about getting into the athletics squad.
0:13:51 > 0:13:53Yeah, you're right. It was a nice thing to do.
0:13:54 > 0:13:55Way too late though.
0:13:56 > 0:13:59So what have we learnt so far about coming clean to
0:13:59 > 0:14:01upload into the Dumping Ground Survival Files?
0:14:03 > 0:14:04If something has gone wrong,
0:14:04 > 0:14:07it's best to tell rather than keep it to yourself.
0:14:07 > 0:14:10Well, that's very easily said but harder to put into practice.
0:14:10 > 0:14:12Don't you agree?
0:14:14 > 0:14:17Look. Holding your hand up and saying you did something wrong
0:14:17 > 0:14:19can be so difficult sometimes.
0:14:19 > 0:14:22- I know that from hard-earned experience.- Hang on.
0:14:22 > 0:14:25I thought you said it was only boys who had trouble owning up to stuff.
0:14:26 > 0:14:29But, trust me, ignoring a problem you've caused or a mistake
0:14:29 > 0:14:31you've made just makes things worse.
0:14:38 > 0:14:42OK, Tee. If it's only boys that won't ever come clean about stuff,
0:14:42 > 0:14:44- how do you explain this? - Explain what?
0:14:46 > 0:14:49That time with Carmen and the football and Johnny's window.
0:14:51 > 0:14:54No-one's going to want to talk about that, are they?
0:14:54 > 0:14:56You just don't want a girl to be shown up.
0:14:56 > 0:14:58It wasn't good for anyone. So let's just skip that, yeah?
0:14:58 > 0:15:00No, it's a good example.
0:15:00 > 0:15:04- You're not going to get anyone to talk about it.- I like a challenge.
0:15:07 > 0:15:10It's true. Bailey might have done loads of pretty bad
0:15:10 > 0:15:13stuff in the past, but this time, he was completely innocent.
0:15:25 > 0:15:28Not that Johnny though so, mind.
0:15:28 > 0:15:30- Whoa, whoa, steady.- I'm going to kill him.- What's happened?
0:15:30 > 0:15:34- It was him. Smashed my window. - I didn't. Have you seen my ball?
0:15:34 > 0:15:36- Can you believe him.- It was the garden, and now it's gone.
0:15:36 > 0:15:38- Have you confiscated it? - No, I haven't.
0:15:38 > 0:15:40You know exactly where your ball is.
0:15:40 > 0:15:42Now my room's covered in glass, thanks to you.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44- I haven't done anything. - I saw you! Saw me what?
0:15:44 > 0:15:46- Kick the ball right at my window. - I didn't.- You calling me a liar?
0:15:46 > 0:15:50- That's enough. - Yeah, you are.- I said enough.
0:15:50 > 0:15:51Easy, easy.
0:15:51 > 0:15:54Johnny? I'm doing one of those new kid blog things.
0:15:54 > 0:15:56All right. How can I help?
0:15:56 > 0:15:59Well, I'm doing it about owning up about stuff.
0:15:59 > 0:16:02Just exactly how does that involve me?
0:16:02 > 0:16:05Well, you know. That time with the broken window.
0:16:05 > 0:16:08No. don't want to go over all that again.
0:16:08 > 0:16:10Why not? It was your window got broken.
0:16:10 > 0:16:12You didn't do anything wrong.
0:16:12 > 0:16:14No. Not happening.
0:16:14 > 0:16:17- Bailey, can I ask you a question? - Do I have any choice?
0:16:17 > 0:16:19It's about that time with the broken window.
0:16:19 > 0:16:20I don't want to talk about it.
0:16:20 > 0:16:23I've got to get something on it. It's for the blog.
0:16:23 > 0:16:27- Yeah. Ask Johnny. - I did. He wouldn't talk about it.
0:16:27 > 0:16:29- Why doesn't that surprise me? - So, will you talk about it?
0:16:29 > 0:16:32Ask Carmen. She should have a lot to say about it.
0:16:32 > 0:16:34Most of it's the word, "Sorry."
0:16:34 > 0:16:37- Carmen.- Mmmm?
0:16:37 > 0:16:39You know that time with Johnny's broken window?
0:16:39 > 0:16:41You are joking me, aren't you?
0:16:44 > 0:16:45So how did you get on?
0:16:45 > 0:16:47Get on?
0:16:47 > 0:16:49You know. With Carmen and Bailey and Johnny?
0:16:49 > 0:16:52Oh, yeah, great. Loads of good stuff.
0:16:52 > 0:16:54Yeah? OK. Well, I tell you what. I'll take a look at the camera.
0:16:54 > 0:16:57All that good stuff they told you, you type up on the computer
0:16:57 > 0:17:01- what happened with the window that time.- OK. Yeah, great idea.
0:17:02 > 0:17:06Having the police knocking at the door, it was like having Liam back.
0:17:07 > 0:17:09We're looking for a Bailey Walton?
0:17:09 > 0:17:12- Or Tracy! - Can we deal with this internally?
0:17:12 > 0:17:16We're not saying you're guilty of anything, it's procedure
0:17:16 > 0:17:18- and we have to follow it. - Did you do this?
0:17:18 > 0:17:20You need to be interviewed under caution.
0:17:20 > 0:17:23- He thinks he can do whatever he wants.- I never smashed the window.
0:17:23 > 0:17:25Then there's nothing for you to worry about,
0:17:25 > 0:17:28but you need to tell us that in the interview.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30Yeah, but they can't make him go, can they?
0:17:30 > 0:17:32We have to let the police officers do their job.
0:17:32 > 0:17:36None of us had a clue that all along Carmen was hiding something.
0:17:37 > 0:17:39Bailey Walton,
0:17:39 > 0:17:42I am arresting you on suspicion of causing criminal damage.
0:17:42 > 0:17:46And it gets worse, because not only was Carmen keeping it quiet,
0:17:46 > 0:17:51but she was being blackmailed by Floss who is... another girl!
0:17:51 > 0:17:54- Floss, if you don't get out... - You smashed the window. I saw you.
0:17:54 > 0:17:58I won't say anything if you give me the silver dog.
0:18:03 > 0:18:05Have it. Now get out.
0:18:11 > 0:18:14So there you have it. A girl lying.
0:18:14 > 0:18:16That doesn't count. Carmen fessed up.
0:18:16 > 0:18:18Yeah, eventually.
0:18:18 > 0:18:22Mike, take me to the police station. I smashed the window.
0:18:22 > 0:18:25- Wait, slow-down.- And she still came clean and owned up.
0:18:25 > 0:18:28- Unlike, for instance, you, Harry. - What do you mean?
0:18:28 > 0:18:30About all the good stuff you filmed earlier with Johnny
0:18:30 > 0:18:32and the rest.
0:18:32 > 0:18:34Oh. You've not wiped it, have you?
0:18:34 > 0:18:37You're not fooling no-one. Not even yourself.
0:18:37 > 0:18:39Not that Mr Good Stuff would be
0:18:39 > 0:18:41the first to kid himself about something.
0:18:41 > 0:18:43Coming clean doesn't always mean telling someone else.
0:18:46 > 0:18:49Sometimes, admitting to yourself something's wrong or that you
0:18:49 > 0:18:51need help is the hardest thing of all.
0:18:51 > 0:18:53And it's not just boys who do that.
0:18:54 > 0:18:56Oh, no!
0:18:56 > 0:18:57Mike, are you all right?
0:18:57 > 0:19:00I'm fine. Why do you ask?
0:19:00 > 0:19:03Take Mike. You'd expect him to be setting a good example.
0:19:03 > 0:19:05- It just you seem a bit...- Ah!
0:19:05 > 0:19:07Yeah, right!
0:19:07 > 0:19:11- What's wrong with you? What's wrong with your stomach?- Nothing.
0:19:11 > 0:19:14- Why are you shrieking?- I'm not shrieking. It was a manly groan.
0:19:14 > 0:19:18- You need to see the doctor. I don't - need- to see the doctor. Mike!
0:19:18 > 0:19:19- I'm fine.- Oh!
0:19:20 > 0:19:23It's like he was just sticking his head in the sand
0:19:23 > 0:19:26and hoping whatever was wrong would just go away.
0:19:26 > 0:19:28But ignoring the problem is never the answer.
0:19:28 > 0:19:32Whatever it is, you can tell us.
0:19:32 > 0:19:35All right. I didn't want you guys... Ah!
0:19:37 > 0:19:41- Hi, Tee. How's the blog going? - Good, thanks.
0:19:41 > 0:19:45I'm onto people who won't admit to themselves that there's a problem.
0:19:45 > 0:19:47Well, there's plenty of examples of that around here.
0:19:47 > 0:19:49Too right.
0:19:50 > 0:19:53Why are you pointing that thing at me? Huh?
0:19:53 > 0:19:57- You, doctors, now.- Why does everyone keep going on about doctors?
0:19:57 > 0:19:58Mike, look.
0:19:58 > 0:20:02Last time I checked, this was a care home, not a medical school.
0:20:02 > 0:20:04I was only trying to protect Gina and you lot.
0:20:04 > 0:20:07- I didn't want you to worry. - That is such a lie!
0:20:07 > 0:20:10You ignored the problem because you didn't want to face up to it.
0:20:10 > 0:20:11No, I didn't.
0:20:15 > 0:20:17No, I did not.
0:20:17 > 0:20:20Mike. Mike!
0:20:20 > 0:20:23Yes, I did. Didn't I?
0:20:23 > 0:20:27- Did I ever tell you about my Uncle Declan?- I don't think so.
0:20:27 > 0:20:31Declan, my cousin Brian, my grandfather and his brother...
0:20:33 > 0:20:38- they all died of the same thing.- And this thing, has it been diagnosed?
0:20:41 > 0:20:42Well, not by a doctor, no.
0:20:42 > 0:20:47- Right, tomorrow, you go straight to the hospital.- I don't need a doctor.
0:20:47 > 0:20:50No arguments. You're being ridiculous, man.
0:20:50 > 0:20:53See, I didn't want to waste the time of a busy doctor when I was
0:20:53 > 0:20:57pretty sure I knew what it was and if it was what I thought it was...
0:20:57 > 0:20:58Mike!
0:20:59 > 0:21:03OK, look. I was an idiot, right.
0:21:03 > 0:21:07If you ever have any worries about your health, then you should
0:21:07 > 0:21:09tell somebody about it and not keep it to yourself.
0:21:09 > 0:21:13Because only a complete numpty would do that.
0:21:13 > 0:21:15Because only a complete numpty would do that.
0:21:19 > 0:21:24- What did the doctors say?- It turns out I've got a kidney stone.
0:21:24 > 0:21:26- What's a kidney stone? - Is it serious?
0:21:28 > 0:21:32No. But it's very painful.
0:21:32 > 0:21:34- Thank goodness for that.- Hey!
0:21:34 > 0:21:38- So, you're going to be OK, yeah? - I'm going to be just fine.
0:21:41 > 0:21:46- Oh, be careful, careful, it hurts. - Leave off him.
0:21:46 > 0:21:49Honestly, he's worse than the kids.
0:21:49 > 0:21:51But sometimes it can be more complicated than that.
0:21:51 > 0:21:54Mike knew that he wasn't well because he was in pain,
0:21:54 > 0:21:56but sometimes it's harder to tell.
0:21:58 > 0:22:00Like with Tyler's Mum.
0:22:01 > 0:22:04She suffers from a kind of depression which means some
0:22:04 > 0:22:07days she's on a real high, but others she finds it hard to cope.
0:22:08 > 0:22:11When she came to visit Tyler, it was a really big deal.
0:22:11 > 0:22:14He needed her to be well as that was the only way
0:22:14 > 0:22:16he could go back to live with her.
0:22:16 > 0:22:19It seemed to start OK, although Johnny was his usual
0:22:19 > 0:22:20tactful self.
0:22:22 > 0:22:23Look at Tyler.
0:22:23 > 0:22:26You'd never think she was not right upstairs
0:22:26 > 0:22:28or been in a special hospital.
0:22:29 > 0:22:32I'd waited so long for Mum to come for me.
0:22:32 > 0:22:34I'd even had dreams about how it'd go.
0:22:34 > 0:22:36Although none of them
0:22:36 > 0:22:39had the whole visit turning into some giant rounders game.
0:22:39 > 0:22:42- Who think Tyler's mum should come every week?- Yeah.
0:22:42 > 0:22:45- Yeah, definitely.- Leave her alone.- You what?
0:22:45 > 0:22:48Just cos your mum doesn't give a stuff about you,
0:22:48 > 0:22:52- doesn't mean you can steal mine. - Tyler?- We're going.
0:22:52 > 0:22:54But we were going to play another game.
0:22:54 > 0:22:57But she's my mum and this is our day.
0:22:57 > 0:22:59- Nice meeting you all.- And you.
0:23:02 > 0:23:06But things soon picked up. And seeing Mum happy was just amazing.
0:23:06 > 0:23:09It was like she'd got all her troubles sorted out.
0:23:09 > 0:23:14- Precious cargo coming through. - Go faster.- I've got a stitch.
0:23:14 > 0:23:16I'll take over then.
0:23:18 > 0:23:21- How about an ice cream?- I'll be sick.
0:23:21 > 0:23:24Come on, my treat, whatever you want.
0:23:24 > 0:23:27All right. I'll get an ice lolly.
0:23:31 > 0:23:38- There you go.- Two extra large peanut sundaes, please.- OK.
0:23:46 > 0:23:48That's £3, please.
0:23:50 > 0:23:52Thank you.
0:23:54 > 0:23:56Oi!
0:23:59 > 0:24:05- Come on.- Where are we going? - Just run.- What have you done?
0:24:07 > 0:24:11- Oi, come back here.- Mum?
0:24:11 > 0:24:13That wasn't in the dream either.
0:24:13 > 0:24:15And this was turning into a nightmare.
0:24:15 > 0:24:17How about I pay now?
0:24:18 > 0:24:21I've got some money in here somewhere.
0:24:26 > 0:24:28Could you help me?
0:24:28 > 0:24:31And it wasn't just to the police that Mum had some serious
0:24:31 > 0:24:32explaining to do.
0:24:32 > 0:24:35I definitely had some money when I left the house.
0:24:35 > 0:24:36I couldn't believe it.
0:24:36 > 0:24:39She hadn't been taking the pills that helped her with her depression.
0:24:39 > 0:24:42What's this? Why aren't you taking the pills?
0:24:42 > 0:24:45It's not like it was before, I swear to you.
0:24:45 > 0:24:48I just didn't get why she'd stop taking the pills.
0:24:48 > 0:24:50And she wouldn't listen to what I was saying.
0:24:50 > 0:24:54Maybe she was thinking that if she pretended everything was OK,
0:24:54 > 0:24:57- then it would be.- Yeah, but life's not like that, is it?
0:24:57 > 0:24:59- The pills were holding me back. - They were making you better.
0:24:59 > 0:25:03- So, today was a little bit of a hiccup.- You don't get it, do you?
0:25:03 > 0:25:05Mike and May-Li are not going to let you see me now
0:25:05 > 0:25:09- because you think you know better than the doctors.- Please.
0:25:09 > 0:25:11- Just stay away from me.- Tyler.
0:25:11 > 0:25:14- You were quite hard on your mum. - Yeah, I suppose.
0:25:14 > 0:25:17But she hadn't been telling me the truth, had she?
0:25:17 > 0:25:19That's why I lost it.
0:25:19 > 0:25:22She lied to me, Rick. She promised she was taking the pills.
0:25:22 > 0:25:23She must have had her reasons.
0:25:23 > 0:25:25She comes out with big promises about how we we're
0:25:25 > 0:25:27going to live together and then goes and does this.
0:25:27 > 0:25:29It wasn't just that she was lying to me.
0:25:29 > 0:25:31She was lying to herself.
0:25:31 > 0:25:32What did you do?
0:25:32 > 0:25:34Well, I had someone to talk to, who had
0:25:34 > 0:25:38- plenty of experience of adults lying to him.- Rick?
0:25:38 > 0:25:40Yeah. He has his uses.
0:25:40 > 0:25:43- She can't help being sick.- Yeah, but she knew how important today was.
0:25:43 > 0:25:48And she messed up, we all do it. Yeah? You more than most.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51So it was good to talk.
0:25:51 > 0:25:54Rick helped me come clean to Mum about something that had been
0:25:54 > 0:25:55worrying me.
0:25:55 > 0:26:00- It's my fault you're ill, isn't it? - What makes you say that?
0:26:00 > 0:26:04Because it's in my records. You were ill just have to you had me.
0:26:06 > 0:26:10I have bipolar disorder, Tyler.
0:26:10 > 0:26:13It's a chemical imbalance which I could have had all my life
0:26:13 > 0:26:15but there's no way of knowing for sure.
0:26:17 > 0:26:20But let me tell you one thing I do know, shall I?
0:26:20 > 0:26:23You are and always will be the best thing that ever happened to me,
0:26:23 > 0:26:25is that understood?
0:26:30 > 0:26:33So there you go. It's best to be honest, to others.
0:26:33 > 0:26:36- and to yourself. - Which is what I always say.
0:26:36 > 0:26:38Except when it comes to popcorn.
0:26:42 > 0:26:44So what have we learnt about coming clean to
0:26:44 > 0:26:47upload into the Dumping Ground Survival Files?
0:26:49 > 0:26:52Well, some people find it harder than others to own up to stuff.
0:26:52 > 0:26:54- Meaning boys.- No, not just boys.
0:26:54 > 0:26:57Yeah. You're right. Some men too.
0:26:57 > 0:27:00I'll ignore that.
0:27:00 > 0:27:01It happens to us all sometimes.
0:27:01 > 0:27:05You know the right thing to do is to admit you've done something wrong,
0:27:05 > 0:27:07but that's easier said than done.
0:27:07 > 0:27:09And sometimes it's not even about admitting
0:27:09 > 0:27:11something is wrong to others.
0:27:11 > 0:27:14Yes, Mike can tell you all about falling into the trap
0:27:14 > 0:27:16of kidding yourself that everything is OK.
0:27:16 > 0:27:19When you know deep down it isn't.
0:27:20 > 0:27:22Believe me, though. However hard it may be owning up,
0:27:22 > 0:27:25you always feel better once you've done it.
0:27:27 > 0:27:30That's the lowdown on coming clean safely
0:27:30 > 0:27:32uploaded into the Survival Files.
0:27:33 > 0:27:36Good luck if you need to put any of this into practice.
0:27:38 > 0:27:41- And, remember.- We've been through all this...- So you don't have to.