Alice and Eleni

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0:00:02 > 0:00:04First, this car is in neutral. It's secured. And my eyes and ears?

0:00:04 > 0:00:07Are they in the middle of the head restraint?

0:00:07 > 0:00:09They are now, yes.

0:00:11 > 0:00:12Every year in Britain,

0:00:12 > 0:00:16over a million and a half young people learn to drive.

0:00:16 > 0:00:20You don't have to get on the bus or a train.

0:00:20 > 0:00:22Around 50,000 of them have a disability.

0:00:22 > 0:00:25Go to the toilet. Go to the toilet.

0:00:25 > 0:00:26They would think, "Honestly,

0:00:26 > 0:00:29"what's he doing slowing down when he doesn't need to?"

0:00:29 > 0:00:32But this isn't stopping them.

0:00:32 > 0:00:34There'll be people out there who go like,

0:00:34 > 0:00:36"Oh, you can't do this because you're autistic."

0:00:36 > 0:00:39If they don't like it, they should stay off the road, then.

0:00:39 > 0:00:43But it does make things a little more challenging.

0:00:43 > 0:00:46Now would be a good time to twitch.

0:00:46 > 0:00:49'Potentially, if I twitch, I could kill someone.'

0:00:50 > 0:00:52I feel like I want to stop now.

0:00:52 > 0:00:54- You want to stop?- Yeah.

0:00:54 > 0:00:55HORN BLARES

0:00:55 > 0:00:58Passing their test will change their lives.

0:00:58 > 0:01:01I can drive to the music concert

0:01:01 > 0:01:03and I can see Boy George and...

0:01:03 > 0:01:04Dale Winton.

0:01:04 > 0:01:08Visit every single Scottish wind turbine.

0:01:09 > 0:01:11From first lessons...

0:01:11 > 0:01:12Whee!

0:01:12 > 0:01:13CAR HORN BLASTS

0:01:13 > 0:01:14Did he just beep at me?

0:01:14 > 0:01:16Stop!

0:01:16 > 0:01:17Oh, my God!

0:01:17 > 0:01:19- Oh, my God!- Sorry.

0:01:19 > 0:01:21That was very efficient.

0:01:21 > 0:01:23..to the day they take their test...

0:01:23 > 0:01:25You have got your driving licence with you, haven't you?

0:01:25 > 0:01:28- I haven't.- No! No!

0:01:28 > 0:01:30No! No!

0:01:30 > 0:01:33..the road to success is no easy ride.

0:01:33 > 0:01:35I just need to pass.

0:01:35 > 0:01:37I hate walking.

0:01:39 > 0:01:41BRAKES SCREECH

0:01:44 > 0:01:46Do you have sugar in your tea now, Alice?

0:01:46 > 0:01:48Yeah, three, please.

0:01:48 > 0:01:52- Three?!- Yeah.- You don't need three.

0:01:52 > 0:01:5520-year-old Alice lives at home with her mum,

0:01:55 > 0:01:57and has just started learning to drive.

0:01:58 > 0:02:01How long have you been driving, Alice?

0:02:01 > 0:02:03I think about three, four weeks now.

0:02:04 > 0:02:07- Are you going to come and have some tea?- Yeah.

0:02:07 > 0:02:11I thought that with her nerves and with her autism and Tourette's,

0:02:11 > 0:02:14I didn't think she'd be able to do it.

0:02:14 > 0:02:20I thought she would have a massive meltdown, but she hasn't.

0:02:20 > 0:02:21She's really impressed me.

0:02:21 > 0:02:25This is her. One pound four.

0:02:25 > 0:02:28Alice was born 13 weeks prematurely

0:02:28 > 0:02:32and her mum was told her new baby probably wouldn't live.

0:02:32 > 0:02:34This machine is actually breathing for her.

0:02:34 > 0:02:36I look like a little baby alien.

0:02:38 > 0:02:41Your head would fit in my hand, that's how tiny you was.

0:02:41 > 0:02:43Your head would fit in there.

0:02:43 > 0:02:45And look at you now, learning to drive.

0:02:45 > 0:02:48At the moment, I'm biking everywhere and walking

0:02:48 > 0:02:50and when it's wet weather, like it was yesterday,

0:02:50 > 0:02:53it really frustrates me cos I always look at these cars going past

0:02:53 > 0:02:56and go, "Oh, I wish I really had one at the moment."

0:02:58 > 0:03:02Today, Alice is taking her fourth driving lesson

0:03:02 > 0:03:04with instructor Graham.

0:03:04 > 0:03:07Off the brake, a little gas.

0:03:07 > 0:03:08Oh, God!

0:03:08 > 0:03:10- Just relax. - What have I done?- Just relax.

0:03:10 > 0:03:12Pull that down and then let go.

0:03:12 > 0:03:13Clutch up slowly.

0:03:13 > 0:03:16Alice wants to drive to be more independent,

0:03:16 > 0:03:20but her mum has another reason. She's seriously ill.

0:03:20 > 0:03:24When the doctor first said to me about what I'd got wrong,

0:03:24 > 0:03:28the myelofibrosis, and explained to me what it was,

0:03:28 > 0:03:30the first thing I said to him was,

0:03:30 > 0:03:33"But I've got to live for my daughter."

0:03:34 > 0:03:37And it was the first thing that comes to my mind.

0:03:37 > 0:03:39This is part of the plan, isn't it?

0:03:39 > 0:03:43To get Alice to drive and become independent.

0:03:43 > 0:03:45That is what my whole aim is, yeah.

0:03:47 > 0:03:52If the worst happens, then she can cope and manage without me.

0:03:54 > 0:03:56For Alice to pass her test and gain independence,

0:03:56 > 0:03:59she has to stop being overcautious.

0:03:59 > 0:04:01She hasn't driven over 30 yet

0:04:01 > 0:04:05and Graham wants to teach her to increase her speed.

0:04:05 > 0:04:09A little bit more gas because we're in that 40 zone we want to be.

0:04:09 > 0:04:11I feel like I want to stop now.

0:04:11 > 0:04:13- You want to stop?- Yeah.

0:04:13 > 0:04:15Do you feel uncomfortable?

0:04:15 > 0:04:17- Mm-hm.- Yeah?

0:04:17 > 0:04:19I think it's because I know I've got to go a bit faster.

0:04:21 > 0:04:22You can do it.

0:04:23 > 0:04:25We can do it together, can't we?

0:04:25 > 0:04:26Mm-hm.

0:04:26 > 0:04:30Then we're going to go gear number four, which is straight back.

0:04:32 > 0:04:34I don't feel good.

0:04:34 > 0:04:37You can beat that record from last lesson.

0:04:37 > 0:04:40- No, I really don't feel good. - Are you all right?

0:04:40 > 0:04:42Talk to me, sweetheart.

0:04:42 > 0:04:43I don't feel good.

0:04:43 > 0:04:47You've beaten your record, you've got up to 45,

0:04:47 > 0:04:51so you've done that without thinking about it, so you CAN do it.

0:04:51 > 0:04:54I think it's because I need someone to talk to, sort of relax me,

0:04:54 > 0:04:56- rather than sitting completely silent.- Yeah.

0:04:59 > 0:05:01Coming in to the left.

0:05:01 > 0:05:04Straightening up onto the...

0:05:04 > 0:05:06Clutch down.

0:05:06 > 0:05:07Yes.

0:05:07 > 0:05:09- That was kind of fun.- Engine off.

0:05:12 > 0:05:13Wow! Well done.

0:05:15 > 0:05:17You should be proud of that.

0:05:22 > 0:05:24KNOCK AT DOOR

0:05:24 > 0:05:26That could be Tracey.

0:05:26 > 0:05:2730-year-old Eleni...

0:05:29 > 0:05:30Hello, Tracey, are you all right?

0:05:30 > 0:05:33..has been learning to drive on and off for five years.

0:05:35 > 0:05:38Her instructor, Tracey, has arrived to take her for a lesson...

0:05:39 > 0:05:43..but before she can get in a car, she has to deal with her nerves.

0:05:43 > 0:05:45What is it you're taking?

0:05:45 > 0:05:49It's an anxiety tablet prescribed by my GP.

0:05:49 > 0:05:54Eleni was told she had a condition when she was 22.

0:05:54 > 0:05:58Asperger's syndrome is a communication difficulty on the autistic spectrum.

0:05:58 > 0:06:00That's why my brain is on the go 24/7,

0:06:00 > 0:06:02like a set of bongo drums, if I'm honest with you.

0:06:02 > 0:06:07Going 80mph as though I was doing 200mph down the M1.

0:06:07 > 0:06:10She can get very anxious when things start happening around her.

0:06:10 > 0:06:13She sometimes thinks of hazards that are not hazards,

0:06:13 > 0:06:15so she tends to get a little bit anxious when she sees

0:06:15 > 0:06:18lots of things and her mind is all over the place.

0:06:23 > 0:06:26Tracey has been teaching Eleni for the last year

0:06:26 > 0:06:30and wants to find a way to control her anxiety.

0:06:30 > 0:06:31Shut the world out.

0:06:32 > 0:06:34Eleni's driving time.

0:06:34 > 0:06:36OK? So we might need to do some deep breathing

0:06:36 > 0:06:39- as you're driving down the road. - Yes.- You and me the same.

0:06:42 > 0:06:45In through the nose, out through the mouth. OK?

0:06:48 > 0:06:51It doesn't take long for Eleni's nerves to get the better of her.

0:06:57 > 0:06:59- Are you OK?- I'll live!

0:06:59 > 0:07:00BOTH LAUGH

0:07:00 > 0:07:04- Just a couple of deep breaths. - To say the least, yes.- Deep breaths.

0:07:04 > 0:07:06Sometimes I get very anxious and stressed out

0:07:06 > 0:07:09when people aren't getting out of your way

0:07:09 > 0:07:12because when you're loaded with pedestrians on the road,

0:07:12 > 0:07:14the one thing you can't do is rush on the road

0:07:14 > 0:07:16unless you want a collision,

0:07:16 > 0:07:18in which case, thank you, but no thank you, not today.

0:07:18 > 0:07:22When Eleni gets anxious, she forgets to breathe.

0:07:24 > 0:07:25Are you OK?

0:07:25 > 0:07:28- Yes.- Yeah? Are you still doing that breathing?

0:07:28 > 0:07:30I heard you holding your breath for a second, there.

0:07:30 > 0:07:32I thought you were going to go purple on me.

0:07:34 > 0:07:35OK?

0:07:35 > 0:07:37My chest starts to hurt to begin with.

0:07:37 > 0:07:41I'm a fraction shaky in my fingertips and my arms,

0:07:41 > 0:07:43but sometimes the roads are very unpredictable.

0:07:43 > 0:07:46You never know who's going to be on them,

0:07:46 > 0:07:49what the person or the dog, in some cases, is going to be doing.

0:07:49 > 0:07:51You've got vans and cars and fire engines

0:07:51 > 0:07:53in places you don't want them to be.

0:07:53 > 0:07:55Let it roll forwards a little bit.

0:07:55 > 0:07:57Gently bring it to the stop.

0:07:57 > 0:08:01Keep your feet still, handbrake, so bottom to top.

0:08:02 > 0:08:04Switch off.

0:08:04 > 0:08:06And breathe. Well done.

0:08:06 > 0:08:08- OK, how was that, then?- All right.

0:08:08 > 0:08:11I'll take another pill before I go to bed tonight, but anyway...

0:08:16 > 0:08:18You want your pan?

0:08:18 > 0:08:22Alice's mum wants to teach her daughter life skills

0:08:22 > 0:08:26in case her illness gets worse and Alice has to support herself.

0:08:26 > 0:08:27Have you washed your hands?

0:08:29 > 0:08:31MUM LAUGHS

0:08:32 > 0:08:35- INTERVIEWER:- What's it like living with your mum?

0:08:35 > 0:08:38Um...stressful at times.

0:08:38 > 0:08:40Fun, but stressful

0:08:40 > 0:08:41because we argue a lot.

0:08:42 > 0:08:45- Are you going to have a go at doing an omelette?- Yes.

0:08:45 > 0:08:47OK. You want to tip that in there.

0:08:49 > 0:08:51TIMER BLEEPS

0:08:52 > 0:08:55That's going to be disgusting.

0:08:55 > 0:08:57Why is it going to be disgusting?

0:08:57 > 0:09:00Like a pancake, you've got to do it quick. Don't tinker with it.

0:09:00 > 0:09:03No... Alice, Alice!

0:09:03 > 0:09:05You're going to burn yourself like that.

0:09:05 > 0:09:07You're going to burn yourself like that.

0:09:07 > 0:09:10There's no point getting stressed, is there, doing it?

0:09:10 > 0:09:14- Stupid!- Well, you know, there's no point getting stressed.

0:09:14 > 0:09:16- Alice.- No.

0:09:18 > 0:09:20I'll give her a few minutes, she'll calm down.

0:09:20 > 0:09:22Do you stress your mum out?

0:09:22 > 0:09:24Yeah, a lot.

0:09:25 > 0:09:26Why?

0:09:27 > 0:09:28Um...

0:09:28 > 0:09:32I think a lot of people with special needs are a lot to handle,

0:09:32 > 0:09:33more than a mainstream person.

0:09:37 > 0:09:40Come on, you can do lots of things, Alice.

0:09:41 > 0:09:43I know you can do lots of things.

0:09:47 > 0:09:50Today, they have got... Let's take a look at the date, shall we?

0:09:52 > 0:09:54They've got master data manager.

0:09:55 > 0:09:58OK, IT application management officer...

0:09:59 > 0:10:03Eleni is searching for vacancies online.

0:10:03 > 0:10:06She's been trying to get a job in IT for the last seven years

0:10:06 > 0:10:08but has found it tough going.

0:10:08 > 0:10:10So you're looking for a job?

0:10:10 > 0:10:13Yes, I'm looking to build a career in IT support.

0:10:14 > 0:10:18And I will not stop until somebody gives me a yes.

0:10:18 > 0:10:20How many job applications have you done?

0:10:20 > 0:10:22Would you like a list?

0:10:22 > 0:10:24SHE LAUGHS

0:10:25 > 0:10:29No, well, I would say a few thousand, to say the least,

0:10:29 > 0:10:31- to be honest with you. - A few thousand?

0:10:31 > 0:10:34Yes, well, I do say a few thousand is a rough estimate.

0:10:34 > 0:10:38I've actually lost count. I've had so many interviews.

0:10:38 > 0:10:41It's not just in England. I went all the way round Eastern Europe,

0:10:41 > 0:10:44so we're talking Macedonia, Romania, Czechoslovakia,

0:10:44 > 0:10:48Belarus, Russia, Romania, Ukraine...

0:10:49 > 0:10:50..Kosovo.

0:10:50 > 0:10:53Anywhere around the world that you can think of, basically,

0:10:53 > 0:10:55until somebody gave me a yes.

0:10:55 > 0:10:57Sadly, that didn't happen either.

0:10:58 > 0:11:02Eleni's learning to drive to improve her chances of employment.

0:11:02 > 0:11:06If and when I pass my test and I'm successful,

0:11:06 > 0:11:08I will be getting a job.

0:11:08 > 0:11:10- Do you think it will help? - It will help tremendously, Guy,

0:11:10 > 0:11:13yes, it will, because many employers these days, if one doesn't have

0:11:13 > 0:11:16a driving licence, one loses out on the opportunity anyway.

0:11:16 > 0:11:17Come on, then, Alice.

0:11:19 > 0:11:21- Let's go for a drive. - Have a good drive, Alice.

0:11:21 > 0:11:23- Bye, Mum.- Be careful.

0:11:28 > 0:11:31Alice is comfortable driving over 30 now

0:11:31 > 0:11:35but her next challenge is keeping her concentration when she drives.

0:11:35 > 0:11:40When we get to the end of this road, we're going to go right, please.

0:11:42 > 0:11:44Nice houses. Got to keep my eyes on the road.

0:11:44 > 0:11:47So, you're looking at houses -

0:11:47 > 0:11:50that put your position of your car just slightly wrong,

0:11:50 > 0:11:54so you've got to keep focused on the road and your driving.

0:11:54 > 0:11:57Then we're going to take the next road...

0:11:57 > 0:12:00Alice's plan is to leave home and get her own flat.

0:12:00 > 0:12:04She's started to look at potential properties...during her lessons.

0:12:04 > 0:12:06Oh, God, hit the kerb.

0:12:06 > 0:12:08Weren't looking then, sorry.

0:12:10 > 0:12:13- Pull up on the left after this road for me, Alice, please.- All right.

0:12:13 > 0:12:15A little way just past it.

0:12:15 > 0:12:17Right, when we came out of that junction,

0:12:17 > 0:12:19you just said you weren't looking.

0:12:19 > 0:12:21What distracted you?

0:12:22 > 0:12:26The houses, the flats, I don't know. They distracted me.

0:12:26 > 0:12:28But you are driving a car,

0:12:28 > 0:12:30so where should your attention be?

0:12:30 > 0:12:33Where the road is. Could have knocked someone off the pavement.

0:12:33 > 0:12:34Yes, you're quite right.

0:12:34 > 0:12:37So I need you to learn from that,

0:12:37 > 0:12:39that when you're coming out of a road,

0:12:39 > 0:12:42you've got to be totally focused on your positioning

0:12:42 > 0:12:47and not let your eyes wander at houses and other things. Yeah?

0:12:47 > 0:12:48- Mm-hm.- OK, good girl.

0:12:51 > 0:12:53Eleni's in a catch-22.

0:12:53 > 0:12:55She needs to drive to get a job,

0:12:55 > 0:12:58but without a job, she's struggling to afford her lessons.

0:12:59 > 0:13:02So, how do you pay for your driving lessons?

0:13:02 > 0:13:04Job-seeker's.

0:13:05 > 0:13:07- Yes.- Job-seeker's?

0:13:07 > 0:13:11- How much is that? - £144 every two weeks.

0:13:12 > 0:13:16At £30 a lesson, she needs to get a job, and fast.

0:13:16 > 0:13:20When I get into full-time permanent employment with an actual company,

0:13:20 > 0:13:22then I can take more driving lessons.

0:13:24 > 0:13:29Today, Eleni's got an interview with an IT recruitment firm.

0:13:30 > 0:13:33Take a good look at that. See if you've got anything to offer me

0:13:33 > 0:13:36on a contractor basis. Anything above three months or three months,

0:13:36 > 0:13:37I'd be happy to take it on.

0:13:37 > 0:13:40Sure, OK. Do you...? I think you mentioned when you came in,

0:13:40 > 0:13:41but do you drive? Do you have a car?

0:13:41 > 0:13:43I'm learning to drive as we speak.

0:13:43 > 0:13:46So driving is one of those things where it can be really,

0:13:46 > 0:13:48really important. If you're looking for roles like this,

0:13:48 > 0:13:50it gives you a lot more opportunity.

0:13:50 > 0:13:52- Flexibility and broadness. - Absolutely.

0:13:52 > 0:13:54- Thank you very much and have a good afternoon.- You too.

0:13:54 > 0:13:56- I'm out of here. Thank you. - No worries.

0:13:56 > 0:13:59He was very pleasant. I'd say the gentleman was very helpful, I have to say.

0:13:59 > 0:14:01Do you think he can get you a job?

0:14:01 > 0:14:03Yes, and of course, as soon as I have a job,

0:14:03 > 0:14:05the sooner I can gain some more driving lessons

0:14:05 > 0:14:07and then buy myself a car as soon as possible,

0:14:07 > 0:14:09if it means getting myself into employment,

0:14:09 > 0:14:12and I can broaden my horizons and go anywhere I please to work

0:14:12 > 0:14:14rather than having to rely on public transport forevermore.

0:14:16 > 0:14:19Eleni does find some money for another lesson...

0:14:20 > 0:14:24..but the bad weather is making her extra anxious.

0:14:27 > 0:14:29I don't think I like driving in the rain.

0:14:29 > 0:14:32- What bit don't you like?- All this.

0:14:32 > 0:14:35- All of it?- It's horrible. - It's just chaotic today, isn't it?

0:14:35 > 0:14:37There's usually more cars on the road, as well,

0:14:37 > 0:14:39because people don't want to walk anywhere.

0:14:39 > 0:14:40SHE SIGHS

0:14:40 > 0:14:43What we can do here is, because we're coming to a 60 zone,

0:14:43 > 0:14:45we can do what's called a blocked gear change,

0:14:45 > 0:14:46so you can go from gear two

0:14:46 > 0:14:48straight up to gear five because of the hill.

0:14:48 > 0:14:51- So, clutch down...- OK. - ..into gear five.

0:14:51 > 0:14:53- So neutral...- Yeah.- Over to you.

0:14:53 > 0:14:56- Yeah.- Over to you. Over...

0:14:56 > 0:14:58Over to you. Don't panic.

0:14:58 > 0:15:00Tracey's strategy to calm Eleni down

0:15:00 > 0:15:03is to get her to concentrate on her breathing.

0:15:03 > 0:15:06- Oh, my God!- How does that feel? - Like a roller-coaster.

0:15:06 > 0:15:08You're going about 50 there, so how is it feeling?

0:15:08 > 0:15:10Do that breathing. Now back onto your gas.

0:15:10 > 0:15:13That's it, well done. Anything you don't like the feel of,

0:15:13 > 0:15:14just do your breathing for me.

0:15:16 > 0:15:18That's it, go on.

0:15:18 > 0:15:20- BOTH LAUGH - Stop it.

0:15:22 > 0:15:24Right, shall we focus again?

0:15:26 > 0:15:28Oh, dear. You do make me laugh.

0:15:28 > 0:15:30Somebody has to.

0:15:32 > 0:15:35Alice and Eleni are both desperate to take their driving test

0:15:35 > 0:15:37but there's a problem.

0:15:37 > 0:15:39You've got an hour, OK?

0:15:39 > 0:15:42Neither of them have passed their theory test yet.

0:15:43 > 0:15:48Eleni has already failed four tests and this is Alice's first attempt.

0:15:49 > 0:15:5243 out of 50 you need to get and you got 39,

0:15:52 > 0:15:54so you're four questions away from passing.

0:15:54 > 0:15:57It was literally 39 out of 43.

0:15:57 > 0:15:59I was so close.

0:15:59 > 0:16:01On Alice's third attempt...

0:16:01 > 0:16:02- Did you pass?- No!

0:16:02 > 0:16:06- What have you got?- I've got to get two more on my bloomin' video.

0:16:07 > 0:16:09But I did pass on my questions.

0:16:09 > 0:16:12She hasn't passed the hazard perception this time.

0:16:12 > 0:16:14Oh, Alice.

0:16:14 > 0:16:16And things don't go much better for Eleni.

0:16:16 > 0:16:17One point off a pass.

0:16:17 > 0:16:19Much better, but, you know...

0:16:20 > 0:16:23..I'll have to do it again. I'm not giving up. Why should I give up?

0:16:23 > 0:16:25I enjoy what I do too much to give up.

0:16:25 > 0:16:28One point. Me and one point. Come on, I can do it.

0:16:28 > 0:16:31So, it'll be seventh time lucky?

0:16:31 > 0:16:33Yes.

0:16:33 > 0:16:35Read the answer to see what it says.

0:16:35 > 0:16:36I'm reading it.

0:16:36 > 0:16:39But when you click the thing and it comes up correct,

0:16:39 > 0:16:43it gives you a bit of information telling you about the sign.

0:16:43 > 0:16:45Alice has failed her test three times

0:16:45 > 0:16:47and is giving up hope of ever passing.

0:16:47 > 0:16:4938.

0:16:49 > 0:16:51Oh, no.

0:16:51 > 0:16:55- She needs 43, is it? - 43 is the pass. 43 and above.

0:16:55 > 0:16:59- Hey, Alice, remember... - I don't care about it.- No.

0:16:59 > 0:17:02- You passed a mainstream course.- And?

0:17:02 > 0:17:05- You passed it.- And? - So you can pass driving.

0:17:05 > 0:17:08- And?- And you can pass driving.

0:17:08 > 0:17:09Yeah, and?

0:17:10 > 0:17:12I don't care.

0:17:12 > 0:17:14- Yes, you do care.- I don't care.

0:17:17 > 0:17:19Some people who haven't got problems, Alice,

0:17:19 > 0:17:22take far many more times than you've taken.

0:17:23 > 0:17:24Doesn't mean you can't do it

0:17:24 > 0:17:26just because you've failed on a few questions,

0:17:26 > 0:17:28it doesn't mean you can't do it.

0:17:28 > 0:17:31You've just got to work at it again and do it again.

0:17:34 > 0:17:36How many do you need this time?

0:17:37 > 0:17:39Two.

0:17:39 > 0:17:40She only needs two more.

0:17:45 > 0:17:47CAR STALLS

0:17:47 > 0:17:50Even though Alice hasn't passed her theory yet,

0:17:50 > 0:17:52Graham wants to see how her driving's progressing

0:17:52 > 0:17:54and gives her a mock test.

0:17:54 > 0:17:56- (What have I done?) - Knock it down again.

0:17:56 > 0:17:57That's it.

0:18:02 > 0:18:04- Sorry.- It's OK.

0:18:05 > 0:18:07Oh, my God!

0:18:07 > 0:18:09A pedestrian's walked into the road.

0:18:09 > 0:18:10(Stupid...)

0:18:11 > 0:18:13Gear.

0:18:16 > 0:18:18SHE EXHALES

0:18:19 > 0:18:20Well done.

0:18:22 > 0:18:23Don't want to kill her!

0:18:25 > 0:18:26Scared me.

0:18:31 > 0:18:32Oh!

0:18:32 > 0:18:34Sorry.

0:18:34 > 0:18:37Pull up on the left, outside home.

0:18:41 > 0:18:43Did she pass?

0:18:43 > 0:18:45Unfortunately, not today.

0:18:45 > 0:18:48However, she's done some really, really good stuff.

0:18:48 > 0:18:52Something that wasn't planned was an emergency stop

0:18:52 > 0:18:55- for a pedestrian running out in front of you.- Mm-hm.

0:18:55 > 0:18:58It frightened you, didn't it? But if you can pass that theory test

0:18:58 > 0:19:01and we can get a test slot before the end of this year,

0:19:01 > 0:19:03I really think you can do it.

0:19:07 > 0:19:09Alice and her stepdad arrive

0:19:09 > 0:19:13for Alice's fifth attempt at her theory test.

0:19:13 > 0:19:17We are a little bit early, but, you know, it's OK.

0:19:17 > 0:19:19Eleni goes in for her seventh go

0:19:19 > 0:19:22and her mum's come along to give her support.

0:19:22 > 0:19:25Most people just come because they want to drive a car.

0:19:25 > 0:19:27For Eleni, it means so much more.

0:19:27 > 0:19:32It's for her own self-esteem and her own self-confidence, I think,

0:19:32 > 0:19:33that she needs to do this.

0:19:34 > 0:19:37- I passed!- Wa-hey! Let's have a look, let's have a look!

0:19:39 > 0:19:4148 out of 50. Oh, well done, babe!

0:19:42 > 0:19:45Bless you. You've tried so hard, haven't you?

0:19:49 > 0:19:52Hey? You tried so hard and it paid off.

0:19:52 > 0:19:54Look, you've got me crying now. Stop it.

0:19:54 > 0:19:55Four years of hell.

0:19:55 > 0:19:57Great, first the car, then the job.

0:19:57 > 0:19:59I'm on the go.

0:19:59 > 0:20:00Oh, a smile.

0:20:01 > 0:20:04Big, beaming smile. So?

0:20:04 > 0:20:07- I passed.- Well done!

0:20:07 > 0:20:08Am I allowed to give you a cuddle?

0:20:08 > 0:20:10Well done!

0:20:10 > 0:20:12- I've texted Mum.- You did it!

0:20:12 > 0:20:16That's brilliant. Great. Now we can move on now.

0:20:19 > 0:20:20You did it!

0:20:20 > 0:20:24I told you you could do it if you put some effort in.

0:20:26 > 0:20:27Come here.

0:20:28 > 0:20:30You did it, you did it!

0:20:33 > 0:20:35Over the next few weeks,

0:20:35 > 0:20:39Alice and Eleni work hard to become better drivers.

0:20:39 > 0:20:40Oh, shit.

0:20:40 > 0:20:43Where do you think it would help you if you were looking?

0:20:44 > 0:20:45- That way.- Yeah.

0:20:48 > 0:20:49And stop.

0:20:49 > 0:20:51- TYRES SCREECH - Ooh.

0:20:51 > 0:20:52That was very efficient.

0:20:53 > 0:20:56Graham decides to set a test for Alice

0:20:56 > 0:20:59to see if she can stop being distracted by houses.

0:20:59 > 0:21:01This is where you're hoping to be living, is it?

0:21:01 > 0:21:03- Down here somewhere?- On the right.

0:21:03 > 0:21:05We're just going to keep going past.

0:21:05 > 0:21:08- We're not actually going to go in, but this is the area, yeah?- Mm-hm.

0:21:10 > 0:21:13Good, well done. Concentrated on the driving, which is good.

0:21:14 > 0:21:16Left at the end, please.

0:21:16 > 0:21:18- TRACEY:- Take a nice deep breath in through the nose.

0:21:18 > 0:21:20BOTH INHALE

0:21:20 > 0:21:24Tracey increases Eleni's breathing exercises to help with her anxiety.

0:21:27 > 0:21:30- That feels relaxing. - Just do a few more.

0:21:31 > 0:21:34Mm. OK, let's drive.

0:21:37 > 0:21:39You're doing really well.

0:21:39 > 0:21:42- You know what? You're focusing so much, I'm not hearing... - TRACEY INHALES DEEPLY

0:21:42 > 0:21:44Yeah? Cos you're doing really well.

0:21:44 > 0:21:46You're focusing on what your car is doing.

0:21:52 > 0:21:57After a year of lessons, it's the day of Alice's driving test.

0:22:04 > 0:22:06Whee!

0:22:06 > 0:22:09And at the roundabout we're going left, please.

0:22:09 > 0:22:10So left at the roundabout.

0:22:10 > 0:22:12- That way?- Yeah.

0:22:17 > 0:22:19No, I really don't feel good.

0:22:19 > 0:22:20Are you all right?

0:22:20 > 0:22:22- Talk to me, sweetheart. - I don't feel good.

0:22:22 > 0:22:27Over the last year, Alice has overcome her fear of going over 30...

0:22:27 > 0:22:31You've beaten your record, you've got up to 45.

0:22:31 > 0:22:32..learned not to be distracted...

0:22:32 > 0:22:34We're just going to keep going past.

0:22:35 > 0:22:39Good, well done. Concentrated on the driving, which is good.

0:22:39 > 0:22:41..and mastered her manoeuvres.

0:22:41 > 0:22:42Take your time. Don't rush.

0:22:42 > 0:22:44Remember, lots of looking around.

0:22:50 > 0:22:51Oh...

0:22:52 > 0:22:53Well done.

0:22:55 > 0:22:58Has Alice done enough to pass her driving test?

0:23:01 > 0:23:03- INTERVIEWER:- Well?- I failed.

0:23:03 > 0:23:05- You failed?- Yeah, failed.

0:23:05 > 0:23:09It was one junction, one poor decision on the day...

0:23:10 > 0:23:12..and that's all that caused her to fail.

0:23:12 > 0:23:14- So you're going to book it again? - Yeah.

0:23:16 > 0:23:20Eleni would love to take her driving test too,

0:23:20 > 0:23:23but her lessons have come to a stop because she's run out of money.

0:23:23 > 0:23:25INTERCOM BUZZES

0:23:25 > 0:23:27- Are you Shona?- Yes.- Hello, Shona.

0:23:27 > 0:23:30- Nice to meet you. - Do you want to come on through?- Yes.

0:23:30 > 0:23:33Today, she's got an interview with an energy company.

0:23:33 > 0:23:36She needs the job to start driving again.

0:23:36 > 0:23:38Tell me a bit about yourself.

0:23:38 > 0:23:40What do you do in your spare time, for instance?

0:23:40 > 0:23:41I enjoy keeping fit predominantly.

0:23:41 > 0:23:45- OK.- I enjoy swimming above anything else because it relieves stress,

0:23:45 > 0:23:47as many of you might have discovered.

0:23:47 > 0:23:49The more you lap, the less stressed you get.

0:23:49 > 0:23:53- Yes.- In the swimming pool. - It can get quite loud and busy,

0:23:53 > 0:23:54so do you think you'd be able to...?

0:23:54 > 0:23:56With all of that going on in the background,

0:23:56 > 0:23:58that you're able to concentrate?

0:23:58 > 0:24:01I'd have to be able to concentrate, to be honest with you.

0:24:01 > 0:24:04Because if I'm dealing with information, I have to be...

0:24:04 > 0:24:06Because I'm partially deaf in my left ear, you see...

0:24:06 > 0:24:09This ear is fine, but if people are blah-blah-blah,

0:24:09 > 0:24:12you know, all around me, it would be difficult for me to concentrate,

0:24:12 > 0:24:14- if I'm being honest.- Thank you.

0:24:15 > 0:24:18- Thank you very much.- Thank you. - Thank you very much.

0:24:18 > 0:24:20Right. I will walk out with you.

0:24:20 > 0:24:21OK.

0:24:23 > 0:24:27Eleni has spent the last seven years struggling to find a full-time job.

0:24:27 > 0:24:29She was ever such a happy kid, you know.

0:24:29 > 0:24:32Really was, really happy, cheerful.

0:24:32 > 0:24:33Yeah, look.

0:24:33 > 0:24:36That's when she was with her sister.

0:24:36 > 0:24:40Eleni's mum knows how hard it's been for her daughter to find work.

0:24:40 > 0:24:48I just wish and hope that eventually somebody will realise her potential

0:24:48 > 0:24:51and actually give her a job, I really do.

0:24:51 > 0:24:53- Yes.- Has it been tough for her?

0:24:53 > 0:24:54It's been horrendous.

0:24:54 > 0:24:56I've had hell, let alone tough.

0:24:56 > 0:24:58Hell. Get your words right.

0:24:58 > 0:25:02I'm so proud of her because she has never given in.

0:25:02 > 0:25:03You've tried so hard, haven't you?

0:25:03 > 0:25:05- Yes.- Really, really hard.

0:25:05 > 0:25:09And I refuse to stop because I have a human right.

0:25:09 > 0:25:13- And... Yeah, you do. You do have a human right to go and work.- Yes.

0:25:18 > 0:25:24A few weeks after failing her first driving test, Alice has another go.

0:25:26 > 0:25:28Well, this is it, Alice.

0:25:28 > 0:25:30Yeah, shoot me.

0:25:30 > 0:25:32OK. We will get out.

0:25:32 > 0:25:34Remember the keys.

0:25:34 > 0:25:37You have got your driving licence with you, haven't you?

0:25:38 > 0:25:40- Don't tell me you haven't, Alice. - Uh-uh.

0:25:40 > 0:25:42- I haven't.- No!

0:25:42 > 0:25:44- That's the one I forgot.- No!

0:25:44 > 0:25:47- You keep it in here. - No, that's my bus pass.

0:25:47 > 0:25:49Oh, Alice!

0:25:49 > 0:25:53No, no, no, no!

0:25:53 > 0:25:54My fault.

0:25:54 > 0:25:58My fault. I should have asked you.

0:25:58 > 0:26:00You keep it in there.

0:26:00 > 0:26:03I totally forgot. It's in my mum's house.

0:26:03 > 0:26:05HE SIGHS

0:26:09 > 0:26:11Eleni didn't get the job with the energy company,

0:26:11 > 0:26:14but she's had some unexpected news.

0:26:14 > 0:26:18Out of the blue, she's had a phone call from an IT company in Greece

0:26:18 > 0:26:20offering her a job.

0:26:20 > 0:26:22This is just me finishing my packing now.

0:26:22 > 0:26:25- So you're going to go and live in Greece?- Yes, I am.

0:26:25 > 0:26:27What's that going to be like?

0:26:27 > 0:26:29I'll find out when I get there.

0:26:29 > 0:26:32It'll be a nice and different experience of me gaining

0:26:32 > 0:26:35some world experience of what it's like to stand on your own two feet

0:26:35 > 0:26:38and become more independent, but in a foreign country.

0:26:38 > 0:26:39And I can't wait.

0:26:39 > 0:26:42Take the risk while it's there or regret it for the rest of your life.

0:26:42 > 0:26:44So, are you going to give up on your driving?

0:26:44 > 0:26:46No, I'm not going to give up on my driving at all,

0:26:46 > 0:26:49to be honest with you, no. I'll never do that.

0:26:49 > 0:26:53And there are possibilities of physically passing my test

0:26:53 > 0:26:56in Greece in the future if I can do that.

0:26:56 > 0:26:59I hope this is not too heavy. Have you got everything in there?

0:27:00 > 0:27:04It'll be at the airport, that's when it'll actually hit me

0:27:04 > 0:27:06that she's not going to be at home.

0:27:12 > 0:27:13HE CHUCKLES

0:27:15 > 0:27:18I just want you to be happy.

0:27:18 > 0:27:20You'll be fine, you'll be fine.

0:27:20 > 0:27:23- I'm always fine, me.- Yeah. - Always was, always will be.

0:27:23 > 0:27:24You will. You'll be fine.

0:27:26 > 0:27:28- Come on, then.- See you soon, Dad.

0:27:28 > 0:27:30- Take care.- See you soon.

0:27:30 > 0:27:31OK, take care. Look after yourself.

0:27:31 > 0:27:33- Be strong. OK?- Yeah.

0:27:51 > 0:27:53Just remember, go slow.

0:27:53 > 0:27:55You got everything? Have you got your licence?

0:27:55 > 0:27:57- Yes!- Right.

0:27:57 > 0:27:58Bye, Mum.

0:27:58 > 0:28:00- See you later.- Bye.- Bye.

0:28:00 > 0:28:02- Good luck!- Thank you.

0:28:05 > 0:28:09It's Alice's third attempt at her driving test.

0:28:13 > 0:28:16- Well, Alice. This is it.- Mm-hm.

0:28:16 > 0:28:17I wish you good luck.

0:28:17 > 0:28:21- Thank you. - Take your time, drive smoothly

0:28:21 > 0:28:23and you will do it.

0:28:23 > 0:28:25OK, engine off.

0:28:30 > 0:28:32Alice begins her test.

0:28:46 > 0:28:49With the test over, Alice returns home.

0:28:56 > 0:28:58Wonder what she's going to say...

0:29:04 > 0:29:05Mum, bad news.

0:29:06 > 0:29:08I passed!

0:29:08 > 0:29:10SHE SQUEALS WITH DELIGHT

0:29:10 > 0:29:12I'm so proud of you!

0:29:12 > 0:29:15Oh, Alice, I'm so proud of you!

0:29:15 > 0:29:17Oh, God! I'm so...

0:29:18 > 0:29:21- You've shown everyone that you can do it.- Mm-hm.

0:29:21 > 0:29:24It doesn't matter what problems you've got, you can do anything,

0:29:24 > 0:29:26- can't you?- Mm-hm.

0:29:26 > 0:29:28Oh, you must be so happy.

0:29:28 > 0:29:30- He's going to start crying now. - I am.

0:29:30 > 0:29:32LAUGHTER

0:29:32 > 0:29:33- It's wonderful.- Yeah.

0:29:33 > 0:29:35This is what I do the job for.

0:29:37 > 0:29:39I like to give back...

0:29:40 > 0:29:42..and...

0:29:42 > 0:29:44she's done it.

0:29:44 > 0:29:47INTERVIEWER: How does it make you feel to pass?

0:29:47 > 0:29:51Like I'm a normal person and now I've got my independence

0:29:51 > 0:29:53and I'm not feeling different now.

0:29:53 > 0:29:55Now I can drive everywhere now.

0:29:55 > 0:29:57Now, I can get my car.

0:29:57 > 0:29:59CORK POPS