0:00:02 > 0:00:05When you're young, everything's an adventure.
0:00:07 > 0:00:11We're growing, bursting with ideas.
0:00:11 > 0:00:14And facing fresh challenges every single day.
0:00:14 > 0:00:18Stand back and make sure you're wearing your goggles!
0:00:18 > 0:00:21I'm from one of six groups of children, all over the country,
0:00:21 > 0:00:23who are filming their lives.
0:00:26 > 0:00:27Oliver, are you all right?
0:00:29 > 0:00:32From high-rise tower blocks...
0:00:32 > 0:00:33Hi. Bye.
0:00:33 > 0:00:35My room is so big.
0:00:35 > 0:00:37..to our remotest islands.
0:00:37 > 0:00:39I love Mull!
0:00:40 > 0:00:42Stop it! Stop it!
0:00:43 > 0:00:44We were only kissing.
0:00:44 > 0:00:47I know, but stop it.
0:00:47 > 0:00:52For six months, we've had cameras in our homes, clubs,
0:00:52 > 0:00:53we've even filmed ourselves.
0:00:56 > 0:00:58To share moments of love...
0:00:58 > 0:01:00- Are you all right, darling? - ..loss...
0:01:02 > 0:01:04- ..and drama...- I told you, I'm not saying a word.
0:01:06 > 0:01:07Through our own eyes.
0:01:09 > 0:01:11Giving us a big voice...
0:01:11 > 0:01:13Wow!
0:01:13 > 0:01:16Let me count! Let me count this!
0:01:16 > 0:01:19To tell you what we really think of the world.
0:01:19 > 0:01:23Wow, my mum's a tooth fairy - that's shocking.
0:01:23 > 0:01:25- This week...- Oi, you!
0:01:25 > 0:01:28..we're going to look at what we love and hate.
0:01:28 > 0:01:31That's my super-super-annoying sister,
0:01:31 > 0:01:33so I may as well smack her on the bottom.
0:01:33 > 0:01:35Friendships are challenged.
0:01:35 > 0:01:39- Please?- No.- Please?- No. - Please?- No.- Please?!- No!
0:01:39 > 0:01:41A family is reunited.
0:01:41 > 0:01:47Hi, Dad. Part of you is, like, burnt, and when you see him again,
0:01:47 > 0:01:49it's like it's healed you.
0:01:50 > 0:01:52And wedding bells are ringing.
0:01:52 > 0:01:54CHEERING
0:02:00 > 0:02:02Love is...
0:02:07 > 0:02:12It's hard to explain cos, like, you don't really get it often.
0:02:12 > 0:02:16It's when you have a very strong connection to something,
0:02:16 > 0:02:22I think you just, you like it, but a little more than like, just like.
0:02:22 > 0:02:24I love my pony.
0:02:24 > 0:02:25I love my teddies.
0:02:25 > 0:02:27I love my bed.
0:02:27 > 0:02:31I think love is air and it's all around us, even like this air
0:02:31 > 0:02:32could be love.
0:02:32 > 0:02:36Then there's the other type of love that everyone should know.
0:02:36 > 0:02:39But then, that is... I don't have that at the moment.
0:02:46 > 0:02:49What I love - love - is...
0:02:50 > 0:02:52..ladybirds.
0:02:52 > 0:02:54This is my ladybird drawer.
0:02:54 > 0:02:56I have all my toys.
0:02:56 > 0:02:58Let's go and have a look.
0:02:58 > 0:03:01I like looking for ladybirds...
0:03:01 > 0:03:05and I know that ladybirds won't be on a tree
0:03:05 > 0:03:07because that's not their habitat.
0:03:07 > 0:03:10It's only woodlice that'd be on a tree
0:03:10 > 0:03:12and some other bugs, but not ladybirds.
0:03:14 > 0:03:19Seven-year-old Abigail lives in Gloucester with her mum and dad.
0:03:19 > 0:03:21She's always making us laugh.
0:03:21 > 0:03:23She's always bright and cheery.
0:03:23 > 0:03:25Is that a snail?
0:03:25 > 0:03:28She's the life and soul of the family.
0:03:28 > 0:03:31You might see a ladybird,
0:03:31 > 0:03:33or these flowers.
0:03:35 > 0:03:38After nine years together, her parents have now decided
0:03:38 > 0:03:40to get married.
0:03:40 > 0:03:45There's going to be a church, my mum's going to be brought
0:03:45 > 0:03:48walking down the aisle, and...
0:03:49 > 0:03:51..I'm going to be bridesmaid.
0:03:53 > 0:03:55It's probably going to be fun
0:03:55 > 0:03:57for my mum and dad.
0:03:57 > 0:03:59Is it going to be fun for you?
0:03:59 > 0:04:01I'm not quite sure because I'm not quite there.
0:04:03 > 0:04:05With the wedding set for two months' time,
0:04:05 > 0:04:09will Abigail warm to the idea of her parents tying the knot?
0:04:11 > 0:04:14For now, her focus is on the Kaleidoscope drama club,
0:04:14 > 0:04:16where she goes once a week.
0:04:16 > 0:04:18Come on then. Are you getting out?
0:04:18 > 0:04:21Or are you going to stay in here all night?
0:04:28 > 0:04:31This is the weather report.
0:04:31 > 0:04:33It looks like it's going to be snowing...
0:04:33 > 0:04:35dogs.
0:04:35 > 0:04:36LAUGHTER
0:04:38 > 0:04:43Today, they're broadcasting a love commercial to a special someone
0:04:43 > 0:04:44in their life.
0:04:47 > 0:04:49Hello, everybody.
0:04:49 > 0:04:52And today I'll be talking about one person from the Kaleidoscope
0:04:52 > 0:04:54drama group, aka, Bella.
0:04:54 > 0:04:57She is very kind and funny.
0:04:57 > 0:05:02But do remember never to take her beanie - she will go crazy.
0:05:04 > 0:05:05Everyone loves her!
0:05:08 > 0:05:10Saying they love their friends is one thing,
0:05:10 > 0:05:14but are the children willing to sacrifice their own happiness
0:05:14 > 0:05:15to prove it?
0:05:15 > 0:05:17- Mine.- No, no, no.
0:05:19 > 0:05:20No. No.
0:05:20 > 0:05:22Each parent has divulged the food
0:05:22 > 0:05:25their child hates more than anything else.
0:05:25 > 0:05:28- I hate bacon!- I hate fish!
0:05:29 > 0:05:32So would they be prepared to eat it just once
0:05:32 > 0:05:35if it means a friend gets their favourite treat?
0:05:37 > 0:05:41Right, let me have Henry and your partner.
0:05:44 > 0:05:48Who has to eat their "hate food" is down to chance.
0:05:48 > 0:05:50- Is that...?- What have you got?
0:05:50 > 0:05:51I got hate.
0:05:55 > 0:05:57So, are you...
0:05:58 > 0:06:01..prepared to eat your hate food
0:06:01 > 0:06:04in order for Nathan to get the love food?
0:06:04 > 0:06:07Gosh, I hate mushrooms so much.
0:06:07 > 0:06:11Oh, they just don't feel nice.
0:06:11 > 0:06:14They don't feel nice.
0:06:14 > 0:06:15Come on.
0:06:15 > 0:06:18ALL: Henry! Henry! Henry! Henry!
0:06:25 > 0:06:26I'm shaking.
0:06:26 > 0:06:29I'm so scared.
0:06:29 > 0:06:31You'll cover your fear, Henry.
0:06:31 > 0:06:34Three, two...
0:06:34 > 0:06:35APPLAUSE
0:06:35 > 0:06:37Yes!
0:06:38 > 0:06:41Wait a minute, he's got to swallow it.
0:06:44 > 0:06:45Yes!
0:06:47 > 0:06:48And a strawberry lace for me.
0:06:52 > 0:06:57If a friend does something really nice for you, and they don't
0:06:57 > 0:07:01really want to, you feel very happy inside.
0:07:02 > 0:07:04APPLAUSE
0:07:07 > 0:07:11And you're like, "Thank you, thank you," and really emotional.
0:07:12 > 0:07:16Right. Abigail and Ian.
0:07:18 > 0:07:22- I'll open it. - Just choose one, please.
0:07:28 > 0:07:30- Yes!- Love.
0:07:30 > 0:07:32Ian, what's your hate food?
0:07:32 > 0:07:35Mushrooms.
0:07:35 > 0:07:36Please, please?!
0:07:36 > 0:07:39Guess what, Ian? It will make you big and strong.
0:07:39 > 0:07:40- No.- It will make you big and strong.
0:07:40 > 0:07:42- No.- It will make you big and strong!
0:07:42 > 0:07:44No.
0:07:44 > 0:07:46- WHISPERS:- I'm not eating mushrooms.
0:07:47 > 0:07:49Please?!
0:07:50 > 0:07:54- No!- Stop attacking him! - No, no, no, no.
0:07:54 > 0:07:57- No mushrooms.- Yes, yes, yes!
0:07:59 > 0:08:02- Do it for me!- No.- Do it for me!
0:08:02 > 0:08:04Henry did it for him.
0:08:04 > 0:08:06No.
0:08:06 > 0:08:07I'm not eating mushrooms.
0:08:12 > 0:08:14When friends let me down,
0:08:14 > 0:08:17it makes me feel sad...
0:08:18 > 0:08:22..because your friends...your friends aren't supposed
0:08:22 > 0:08:24to make you feel sad.
0:08:24 > 0:08:27They're supposed to make you feel happy.
0:08:28 > 0:08:31Oh, no.
0:08:31 > 0:08:33Abigail's upset and that's really hard, isn't it,
0:08:33 > 0:08:35when we don't get what we love?
0:08:36 > 0:08:38Ian, go and comfort Abigail.
0:08:40 > 0:08:42I'm sorry.
0:08:48 > 0:08:52Sometimes your brain says, "Just run away," and then they'll
0:08:52 > 0:08:55come after you and try and make you happy again.
0:08:57 > 0:09:01I thought you didn't... You were going to just eat it,
0:09:01 > 0:09:06- but you weren't. - I hate mushrooms though.
0:09:06 > 0:09:09What about if the mushrooms were made out of chocolate?
0:09:10 > 0:09:13The chocolate was the shape of a mushroom?
0:09:13 > 0:09:16If it was the shape of a mushroom, I'd eat it.
0:09:16 > 0:09:19But if it was made out of mushrooms, I still wouldn't eat it.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21What about if the mushrooms were hiding?
0:09:21 > 0:09:23Like, pretend I was a mushroom
0:09:23 > 0:09:25and I was in this cake.
0:09:25 > 0:09:28Would you see me, if I was right at the bottom of the cake?
0:09:28 > 0:09:32No, but... Still, I don't like cake.
0:09:32 > 0:09:34You don't like cake?!
0:09:34 > 0:09:35I like chocolate cake, but...
0:09:35 > 0:09:39What about if it was a chocolate cake, but a mushroom just inside?
0:09:39 > 0:09:41I'd eat it until I taste something lumpy.
0:09:41 > 0:09:43SHE LAUGHS
0:09:45 > 0:09:46Come back here.
0:09:55 > 0:09:58In inner-city Bradford, a group of nine, ten and 11-year-olds
0:09:58 > 0:10:01attending Bowling Park Primary School
0:10:01 > 0:10:05choose to give up their lunchtimes for a debating club.
0:10:05 > 0:10:10Love is stronger than hate.
0:10:10 > 0:10:12I open the floor for discussion.
0:10:12 > 0:10:18Love is stronger than hate because, if you were to love someone,
0:10:18 > 0:10:21like so strong, you would do anything,
0:10:21 > 0:10:24you would fight hate for the love of your life.
0:10:24 > 0:10:29Sometimes, you need hate
0:10:29 > 0:10:35because the people in the army need hate to kill the people
0:10:35 > 0:10:39who are doing the wrong things.
0:10:39 > 0:10:41So sometimes hate is important?
0:10:46 > 0:10:49Stand back and make sure you're wearing your goggles.
0:10:51 > 0:10:55Ten-year-old Daniel dreams of growing up to be a scientist.
0:10:55 > 0:10:58Right. 15ml of malt vinegar.
0:10:59 > 0:11:01Right.
0:11:01 > 0:11:03Bicarbonate of soda.
0:11:06 > 0:11:08It's going to erupt.
0:11:08 > 0:11:09Oh!
0:11:11 > 0:11:12That is a lot of lava.
0:11:18 > 0:11:21I can actually remember before I was born,
0:11:21 > 0:11:26and that was when I was in my mum's stomach at the time,
0:11:26 > 0:11:30and my mum was obviously in hospital,
0:11:30 > 0:11:34and the only thing I remember was that moment blacking outside,
0:11:34 > 0:11:36being taken out of her stomach.
0:11:36 > 0:11:39It were actually quite interesting
0:11:39 > 0:11:43how I can remember something that was so long ago,
0:11:43 > 0:11:47more than ten years ago,
0:11:47 > 0:11:51yet I can't remember something that happened, like, yesterday.
0:11:51 > 0:11:53I can make this person disappear.
0:11:54 > 0:11:56It's a time machine.
0:11:56 > 0:11:59Daniel lives with his mum and younger brother Mark.
0:12:02 > 0:12:03He's a lovely little boy.
0:12:03 > 0:12:06He's such a thoughtful, sweet person.
0:12:06 > 0:12:10It's like, he'll do little things like, if I'm having a bad day,
0:12:10 > 0:12:12he leaves me little notes
0:12:12 > 0:12:15that say, "You're beautiful, Mummy," and stuff.
0:12:15 > 0:12:16It's like, oh, bless you.
0:12:19 > 0:12:25My mum and dad split up when my brother Mark was born.
0:12:25 > 0:12:31So a few months after he was born, my dad moved out.
0:12:31 > 0:12:34He made it to be a corporal in the army
0:12:34 > 0:12:38and he had a mission to go somewhere,
0:12:38 > 0:12:43so he stopped living with us and then went to live with the army.
0:12:49 > 0:12:53Daniel's debating class have all brought in objects they love,
0:12:53 > 0:12:56which have special meaning in their lives.
0:12:56 > 0:13:01Would anybody like to share, would anybody like to go first?
0:13:01 > 0:13:05My object is this medal...
0:13:05 > 0:13:10and it means something to me because my dad's in the army,
0:13:10 > 0:13:15and they gave medals of bravery...
0:13:15 > 0:13:19cos on this medal, at the top, it says "Afghanistan".
0:13:19 > 0:13:20They awarded the...
0:13:21 > 0:13:30..the adults medals and then they awarded the children medals as well,
0:13:30 > 0:13:34and it was a really key moment in my life.
0:13:34 > 0:13:36Did you have to be brave as well?
0:13:36 > 0:13:38Well, yeah,
0:13:38 > 0:13:44in the time my dad took to come home, six months,
0:13:44 > 0:13:47so I had to be brave about that.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50How did you feel when you were, like, not with your dad?
0:13:52 > 0:13:54I felt really sad
0:13:54 > 0:14:01because, with him being in a long-distance place,
0:14:01 > 0:14:04I just wanted to be with him again.
0:14:05 > 0:14:07I only see my dad, like...
0:14:08 > 0:14:13..every three to six months...
0:14:13 > 0:14:16but it's his work.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19He wouldn't quit his job because he gets quite a lot of money from it.
0:14:19 > 0:14:20Patrick.
0:14:25 > 0:14:27This is my object
0:14:27 > 0:14:29and I brought it because...
0:14:29 > 0:14:34cos my dad gave it to me when I was five years old,
0:14:34 > 0:14:36and he said it's for luck.
0:14:39 > 0:14:44This is my favourite memory of who I am because at first,
0:14:44 > 0:14:47when I started class, I thought learning was just a word,
0:14:47 > 0:14:48nothing more, nothing less,
0:14:48 > 0:14:52but when I got this award it showed me what learning meant.
0:14:52 > 0:14:53When did you get this award?
0:14:53 > 0:14:55I got this in year two, so...
0:14:55 > 0:14:57When you were brand-new to English, to school?
0:14:57 > 0:14:59Yes, after I was brand-new.
0:14:59 > 0:15:03It reminds me from where I started, and what I thought about learning,
0:15:03 > 0:15:06and it shows me who I've become.
0:15:06 > 0:15:09Yeah, cos you've come such a long way, Balint, haven't you?
0:15:09 > 0:15:11You've made so much progress.
0:15:18 > 0:15:21Nine-year-old Balint moved from Hungary to the UK
0:15:21 > 0:15:25when his mum and dad broke up five years ago.
0:15:25 > 0:15:26When I first moved here,
0:15:26 > 0:15:28I was really scared
0:15:28 > 0:15:29because it was a new language,
0:15:29 > 0:15:31I didn't know anything about it.
0:15:33 > 0:15:37The time, the place, the people...
0:15:37 > 0:15:40even the drinks and food is different.
0:15:41 > 0:15:43I'm very proud to be Hungarian.
0:15:43 > 0:15:46I'm happy, I'm proud I made it all the way here.
0:15:49 > 0:15:52What do those keys represent over here?
0:15:52 > 0:15:57It kind of reminds me of it being the key thing in my life.
0:15:57 > 0:16:01Oh, like a key thing, like, that's locked inside you, your dad...
0:16:01 > 0:16:04Memories of your dad are locked inside you.
0:16:04 > 0:16:06- Yeah.- How long did he come back for?
0:16:06 > 0:16:08Er...
0:16:08 > 0:16:12He only came back for about four weeks.
0:16:12 > 0:16:13And then he left again?
0:16:13 > 0:16:15- Yeah.- That's depressing.
0:16:15 > 0:16:17- I don't see him much. - That is very sad.
0:16:17 > 0:16:23- I don't see him much. - I see mine two weeks every year.
0:16:23 > 0:16:25BOTH: Whoa!
0:16:25 > 0:16:28That's even less than I see my dad.
0:16:28 > 0:16:30So he lives in Hungary?
0:16:30 > 0:16:34Yeah, he lives in Hungary cos my mum and dad, they broke up.
0:16:34 > 0:16:39To be honest, that was the worst thing that ever happened in my life.
0:16:39 > 0:16:43- I've learned something though. - What?- No matter what,
0:16:43 > 0:16:45dads will always be there for you...
0:16:45 > 0:16:47- Yeah.- ..even...
0:16:47 > 0:16:50- That is true.- ..even when they're not there, because...
0:16:52 > 0:16:55It's not when they need to be there, it's when they're in your heart.
0:16:55 > 0:16:58- Yeah.- Even if they die,
0:16:58 > 0:17:01they'll still be there for you.
0:17:01 > 0:17:04In your heart, you'll always have the memory.
0:17:04 > 0:17:05Dads will always be there.
0:17:13 > 0:17:17In Gloucester, Abigail's parents' wedding is just a few weeks away.
0:17:19 > 0:17:21- Right.- What?
0:17:22 > 0:17:26- It's quite a long way.- Her mum is taking her to the dress fitting.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30I spy with my little eye something beginning with B.
0:17:30 > 0:17:32Something beginning with B?
0:17:32 > 0:17:35- Yeah.- I'm rubbish at this game.
0:17:35 > 0:17:38- Just try.- But despite being included in the wedding plans,
0:17:38 > 0:17:41Abigail still isn't feeling the love.
0:17:43 > 0:17:46So what do you think's going to happen on Mummy and Daddy's wedding?
0:17:48 > 0:17:50I don't know.
0:17:50 > 0:17:53- Any ideas at all?- No.
0:17:57 > 0:17:59Abby, that's really not helpful.
0:18:10 > 0:18:12OK, you can look now.
0:18:15 > 0:18:18Doesn't Mummy look like a princess?
0:18:19 > 0:18:23- A white one.- Yeah.
0:18:23 > 0:18:24That was the plan -
0:18:24 > 0:18:28- to make her look like a princess, like you.- Pretty?
0:18:28 > 0:18:30- Is it my go?- Yeah.
0:18:31 > 0:18:34You're supposed to say, "Mummy, you look amazing."
0:18:34 > 0:18:36Mummy, you look amazing.
0:18:46 > 0:18:48And how have you been feeling?
0:18:48 > 0:18:50Sad.
0:18:52 > 0:18:57Because, like, my mum and dad take more attention about the wedding,
0:18:57 > 0:18:59not about me.
0:18:59 > 0:19:05So stuff that I might need, they're not spending on me.
0:19:05 > 0:19:08They're just spending on the wedding.
0:19:19 > 0:19:22She is at that age, it doesn't affect her.
0:19:22 > 0:19:24The importance doesn't really register.
0:19:25 > 0:19:29Quite a big thing for us, but, for her, it's just like...
0:19:29 > 0:19:30Yeah.
0:19:31 > 0:19:35We've tried to involve her with getting the favour bags ready,
0:19:35 > 0:19:37so she feels part of it.
0:19:37 > 0:19:40She's certainly not been excluded.
0:19:40 > 0:19:44- No.- We've tried to involve her in things that she would be able to do,
0:19:44 > 0:19:48and do well and feel proud of being part of, so...
0:19:50 > 0:19:52- Just want her to be natural, I suppose.- Yeah.
0:19:52 > 0:19:55There's a main bit in the church, which I'm interested in.
0:19:55 > 0:19:58If Abby decides she's going to sing and dance on the sidelines,
0:19:58 > 0:20:01I'll just let her go.
0:20:01 > 0:20:04I hope she doesn't, of course, but there you are.
0:20:04 > 0:20:06- Abby will be Abby.- Yeah.
0:20:18 > 0:20:20Use your legs. Use your legs, Edmund.
0:20:20 > 0:20:22In the Newbury countryside,
0:20:22 > 0:20:25a children's pony practise is in full flow.
0:20:27 > 0:20:29Sit up! Sit up! Sit up! Sit up!
0:20:29 > 0:20:33Julia, you're not doing this terribly well, are you?
0:20:33 > 0:20:34You didn't go in and out.
0:20:34 > 0:20:37Established in 1933,
0:20:37 > 0:20:41the Old Berkshire Hunt Pony Club meet regularly throughout the year
0:20:41 > 0:20:43to work on their riding skills.
0:20:44 > 0:20:46Each child owns their own horse
0:20:46 > 0:20:49and nurturing a close bond with their animal
0:20:49 > 0:20:51is paramount for the kids.
0:20:51 > 0:20:52Oliver, you all right?
0:20:54 > 0:20:55Good boy, Stan.
0:20:55 > 0:20:57Stan, stop it!
0:20:57 > 0:21:01Eight-year-old Edmund has recently got back in the saddle
0:21:01 > 0:21:02after breaking his arm.
0:21:02 > 0:21:05- HE GASPS NERVOUSLY - Come on, Edmund.
0:21:08 > 0:21:10Keep going. Slow.
0:21:11 > 0:21:13- Oh!- Oh, Edmund!
0:21:15 > 0:21:21If somebody offered me a million pounds for my pony, I would say no
0:21:21 > 0:21:25cos my pony cost more than a million pounds.
0:21:25 > 0:21:27One million, 500.
0:21:31 > 0:21:34In a break from riding, Edmund's pony club have brought in the things
0:21:34 > 0:21:38they love to hate to show their friends.
0:21:38 > 0:21:41A cockerel is quite mean.
0:21:41 > 0:21:46It goes cock-a-doodle-do, like, at the top of its voice.
0:21:46 > 0:21:48LAUGHTER
0:21:48 > 0:21:51But just how universal are children's dislikes?
0:21:51 > 0:21:55OK, who thinks the cockerel should go into the bin?
0:21:55 > 0:21:56- Me!- Me!
0:21:56 > 0:22:00To find out, each one has to convince their clubmates
0:22:00 > 0:22:03to forever banish their choice into a bin of hate.
0:22:04 > 0:22:06That particular cockerel?
0:22:06 > 0:22:08Put it in the bin.
0:22:08 > 0:22:10Goodbye, bird.
0:22:12 > 0:22:16But some pet hates are a bit more controversial than a noisy bird.
0:22:16 > 0:22:20- Who put that picture on the table?- Me!
0:22:20 > 0:22:23- It's not meant to be the puppy. - This is my little sister
0:22:23 > 0:22:25and she's always annoying.
0:22:26 > 0:22:27She's super-annoying.
0:22:30 > 0:22:35Hi, I'm Edmund, and that's my super-super-annoying sister.
0:22:35 > 0:22:37And she's currently being a pain,
0:22:37 > 0:22:39so I may as well smack her on the bottom.
0:22:39 > 0:22:41Oi!
0:22:41 > 0:22:43I'm going to get you on the lips.
0:22:43 > 0:22:49Edmund's five-year-old sister Lorna might not be his ideal companion,
0:22:49 > 0:22:53but, like many brothers and sisters, they spend most days together.
0:22:53 > 0:22:56She even tries to help him out at the stables.
0:22:56 > 0:22:58You're not going to scoop...
0:22:58 > 0:23:01No, not the scoops!
0:23:01 > 0:23:03No, you're not going to scoop Stan.
0:23:03 > 0:23:06You see other children playing nicely and my two very,
0:23:06 > 0:23:07very rarely play nicely.
0:23:07 > 0:23:09Why are you doing the lion there?
0:23:09 > 0:23:11Because this is our spot.
0:23:11 > 0:23:12Can I fix something?
0:23:12 > 0:23:15My little sister's literally just ruined the board.
0:23:15 > 0:23:17There is a lot of sibling rivalry,
0:23:17 > 0:23:19but, yeah, I think that's normal.
0:23:20 > 0:23:23My little sister is always trying to get me into trouble.
0:23:23 > 0:23:26He never says please for things back.
0:23:26 > 0:23:28Excuse me, I do. What...?
0:23:28 > 0:23:30Excuse me, I do.
0:23:30 > 0:23:33I want to say something really important about Lorna.
0:23:33 > 0:23:35Really important.
0:23:35 > 0:23:38She screams like 80% of the time.
0:23:40 > 0:23:41Do you hate your little sister?
0:23:41 > 0:23:45Yes. If I go downstairs and she's following me, I say,
0:23:45 > 0:23:46"Stop following me."
0:23:46 > 0:23:49And she keeps on following me. I say it again and she still keeps on following me.
0:23:49 > 0:23:52I say it again and she keeps on following me.
0:23:52 > 0:23:55If you throw your little sister in the bin,
0:23:55 > 0:23:58you're going to miss having someone to play with.
0:23:58 > 0:23:59I never play with her.
0:23:59 > 0:24:01When you get home, she's going to be gone.
0:24:01 > 0:24:05Does anybody else think it's a good idea to put their own sibling
0:24:05 > 0:24:06in the bin?
0:24:06 > 0:24:08ALL: Yeah.
0:24:08 > 0:24:13As much as you hate your siblings, they still keep you company.
0:24:13 > 0:24:15And it is, kind of, they keep you doing stuff when you're
0:24:15 > 0:24:17fighting with them.
0:24:17 > 0:24:19It keeps you busy!
0:24:20 > 0:24:23She's stopping me from being busy.
0:24:23 > 0:24:26- How?- If I try and do something, she just annoys me.
0:24:26 > 0:24:28If someone just out of the blue said, "Oh, do you
0:24:28 > 0:24:30"like your brother?" I'd say, "No, he's really annoying."
0:24:30 > 0:24:33Really, if I think like, hard enough, family-wise,
0:24:33 > 0:24:35I do actually love him.
0:24:35 > 0:24:37That sounds really weird.
0:24:38 > 0:24:42You may feel like you hate her, but, really, you actually still love her,
0:24:42 > 0:24:44but you don't know.
0:24:44 > 0:24:47And although you think you hate her, you don't.
0:24:47 > 0:24:50Sometimes I like her.
0:24:50 > 0:24:52Sometimes.
0:24:52 > 0:24:58But most of the time, she's really annoying and tells lies, and says,
0:24:58 > 0:25:02"Oh, that hurts," and my dad believes it
0:25:02 > 0:25:04and it's really just fake crying.
0:25:04 > 0:25:07Edmund, if you put her in the bin, you won't be able to get her out,
0:25:07 > 0:25:09because what if you like her in the future,
0:25:09 > 0:25:11but then she's in the bin now?
0:25:11 > 0:25:13Let's have a vote.
0:25:13 > 0:25:16I'll lose. No, I'll lose.
0:25:16 > 0:25:18- Edmund, listen.- You know it.
0:25:18 > 0:25:22Vote now if you'd like to keep Edmund's little sister...
0:25:22 > 0:25:23out of the bin.
0:25:26 > 0:25:28- Edmund.- She's been saved.
0:25:28 > 0:25:30Your little sister's been saved.
0:25:38 > 0:25:40Edmund's having a quiet moment.
0:25:40 > 0:25:41He can have a quiet moment.
0:25:47 > 0:25:49- Edmund, come on.- I don't want to.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51Yes, you do. Come on.
0:25:51 > 0:25:54What did we say about the beginning, on the first day?
0:25:54 > 0:25:56Sportsmanship, isn't it?
0:26:00 > 0:26:07Whenever I say the word hate, I always wish I had never said it.
0:26:07 > 0:26:10Hate's a very strong word, my dad teaches me,
0:26:10 > 0:26:15and you never actually hate something cos that's really strong.
0:26:15 > 0:26:21You really don't like it, so I don't really have anyone I hate.
0:26:21 > 0:26:23You have to have a reason to hate people
0:26:23 > 0:26:26that is, like, seriously bad.
0:26:26 > 0:26:30Like, in like the Anglo-Saxon times, they, like...
0:26:30 > 0:26:34People would have, like... I think it was blood fumes or something,
0:26:34 > 0:26:38where someone would kill someone in another person's family,
0:26:38 > 0:26:40and then they would kill someone else.
0:26:40 > 0:26:44And that was until... Where guilt came in, and it was like...
0:26:45 > 0:26:51If that happened, you would kind of have the right to not like someone,
0:26:51 > 0:26:53but hate is a very, very strong word.
0:26:58 > 0:27:00Do you think I look like my dad,
0:27:00 > 0:27:02like, when I was just born?
0:27:02 > 0:27:05Yes. The same as your dad, look.
0:27:06 > 0:27:09- Yeah.- The eyebrows, the eyes.
0:27:09 > 0:27:12In Bradford, Daniel's visiting his gran.
0:27:12 > 0:27:16He's excited about his dad returning home from four months away in Kenya
0:27:16 > 0:27:19in just two weeks' time.
0:27:19 > 0:27:21- There, he looks like you.- Yeah.
0:27:23 > 0:27:24- Doesn't he?- Yeah.
0:27:25 > 0:27:27Even when he's in Kenya,
0:27:27 > 0:27:31you can tell that I'll look exactly like him when I'm older.
0:27:31 > 0:27:35Yeah. Look how thick his hair, like yours.
0:27:35 > 0:27:36He's got an Afro!
0:27:38 > 0:27:41And he's got ginger hair!
0:27:41 > 0:27:43Do you think you'll get some treats when he comes home?
0:27:43 > 0:27:45He always treats us, so...
0:27:46 > 0:27:48- He does, doesn't he?- Yeah.
0:27:49 > 0:27:52Cos he loves us so much.
0:27:52 > 0:27:53Of course he does.
0:27:54 > 0:27:56He'll be home in two weeks.
0:27:56 > 0:27:58Yeah.
0:28:02 > 0:28:03Hi, Dad.
0:28:05 > 0:28:07What have you been doing today?
0:28:08 > 0:28:13I've just been working. I'm looking forward to coming back.
0:28:13 > 0:28:15So am I.
0:28:15 > 0:28:16I mean, to see you.
0:28:17 > 0:28:22Could you maybe teach me how to ride a bike when you get back?
0:28:22 > 0:28:25Cos my mum hasn't taught me yet.
0:28:26 > 0:28:30I'll teach you when I get back.
0:28:30 > 0:28:32When I get the hang of it,
0:28:32 > 0:28:35I'll be able to ride my bike around the garden
0:28:35 > 0:28:38and try my skills and stuff.
0:28:40 > 0:28:45I nearly cried at that message you sent me last night.
0:28:45 > 0:28:47But it's true.
0:28:47 > 0:28:49What?
0:28:49 > 0:28:51It's true.
0:28:53 > 0:28:56Right, my tablet's on 4%,
0:28:56 > 0:28:59so I'm going to have to go.
0:29:00 > 0:29:02- OK, darling.- Bye.
0:29:03 > 0:29:05I'll speak to you tomorrow.
0:29:05 > 0:29:07I'll speak to you tomorrow as well.
0:29:07 > 0:29:08Bye.
0:29:11 > 0:29:14I speak to him every day because...
0:29:14 > 0:29:16it just...
0:29:16 > 0:29:19It's just I love him so much
0:29:19 > 0:29:22and I want to hear from him every single day.
0:29:24 > 0:29:30It feels really painful and it feels like something's burnt.
0:29:30 > 0:29:35Part of you is, like, burnt. And when you see him again,
0:29:35 > 0:29:36it's like it's healed you.
0:29:42 > 0:29:45What's in your heart, Abigail?
0:29:46 > 0:29:49It's probably ladybirds...
0:29:51 > 0:29:53..and sketching.
0:29:53 > 0:29:56I've got lots and lots of friends, like, partying in there.
0:29:56 > 0:30:01And, I mean, I've got some soft spots for people.
0:30:02 > 0:30:04I have my family...
0:30:04 > 0:30:07and...
0:30:07 > 0:30:10..and meerkats and some of my teddy bears.
0:30:11 > 0:30:13Actually, all my teddy bears.
0:30:13 > 0:30:15I don't want to upset one of them.
0:30:25 > 0:30:27I'm Nathan and this is where I live.
0:30:30 > 0:30:32That's my house.
0:30:32 > 0:30:36Ten-year-old drama fanatic Nathan lives with his mum,
0:30:36 > 0:30:37dad, and older sister.
0:30:37 > 0:30:40This is my nan, she passed away,
0:30:40 > 0:30:44but it's brilliant to have photos of her around the house,
0:30:44 > 0:30:48just to remind us of her. My favourite thing is singing.
0:30:48 > 0:30:51# Oo-ooo, oh-oh... #
0:30:51 > 0:30:54I do sing quite a lot, and it really
0:30:54 > 0:30:57warms me up, and it really makes me feel happy.
0:31:00 > 0:31:03# ALL: Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one.
0:31:04 > 0:31:08# Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one... #
0:31:08 > 0:31:10# My name is Louis.
0:31:10 > 0:31:13# ALL: Your name is Louis.
0:31:13 > 0:31:14# My name is Joe.
0:31:14 > 0:31:16# ALL: Your name is Joe.
0:31:16 > 0:31:18# My name is Cian.
0:31:18 > 0:31:21# ALL: Your name is Cian.
0:31:21 > 0:31:25# ALL: Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one.
0:31:25 > 0:31:29# Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one. #
0:31:29 > 0:31:31Good. Oh, that's got me focused, actually.
0:31:31 > 0:31:33After a mid-morning song,
0:31:33 > 0:31:37Nathan's drama class are considering what's more important -
0:31:37 > 0:31:40splashing out on themselves or helping those in need.
0:31:41 > 0:31:47If you had £10 to spend, what would you choose and why?
0:31:47 > 0:31:49Make-up, what have we got? What else have we got here?
0:31:49 > 0:31:51Refugee support.
0:31:51 > 0:31:54The children may come up with very different ideas,
0:31:54 > 0:31:57but the challenge is whether they can work together
0:31:57 > 0:31:59towards a common goal.
0:31:59 > 0:32:03Well, we have some £10s.
0:32:03 > 0:32:05Real £10s. What we're going to say is...
0:32:07 > 0:32:09..you, each group,
0:32:09 > 0:32:14is going to be able to give £10 to whatever you think you want
0:32:14 > 0:32:17to give the £10 to, but...
0:32:17 > 0:32:22only if everybody in your group agrees.
0:32:23 > 0:32:27The friends will have to challenge each other's feelings about issues
0:32:27 > 0:32:28close to their hearts.
0:32:28 > 0:32:31They have ten minutes to make their decision.
0:32:32 > 0:32:33What about refugees?
0:32:33 > 0:32:38Refugees are people from places like Syria who have no homes
0:32:38 > 0:32:41and are trying to get over here.
0:32:41 > 0:32:42They are the same as homeless.
0:32:42 > 0:32:45- Yeah, but...- That's really hard.
0:32:45 > 0:32:47I chose care for the elderly
0:32:47 > 0:32:50because, even though my grandad's gone,
0:32:50 > 0:32:53we should still want to care for the elderly cos they can, like,
0:32:53 > 0:32:54die really easily.
0:32:54 > 0:32:59If you just cared for them even harder, they can really do it.
0:32:59 > 0:33:03I think we should do the Save The Meerkats cos I love meerkats,
0:33:03 > 0:33:07and if we could just save them they would be protected in the desert
0:33:07 > 0:33:09- from snakes.- Cancer research.
0:33:09 > 0:33:11I think that's a really good idea.
0:33:11 > 0:33:16- I agree.- I'm almost crying cos my nan died of cancer,
0:33:16 > 0:33:19and this is actually going to happen, so I really want to do it.
0:33:19 > 0:33:22My step-grandma died of cancer as well.
0:33:22 > 0:33:24Well, Save The Meerkats,
0:33:24 > 0:33:27the meerkats will stop the snakes from getting into the deserts
0:33:27 > 0:33:31cos meerkats actually kill snakes.
0:33:31 > 0:33:36My favourite animal, since I got this teddy, I mean this meerkat,
0:33:36 > 0:33:37I've just loved meerkats.
0:33:39 > 0:33:41Meerkats, meerkats, meerkats rule!
0:33:43 > 0:33:46Basically, he's saying he's more worried about animals
0:33:46 > 0:33:48than his family members. That's what he's saying.
0:33:48 > 0:33:50I love meerkats.
0:33:50 > 0:33:55My nan was kind, caring,
0:33:55 > 0:34:01she would do stuff that not many other people would do for us.
0:34:01 > 0:34:04She was one of the best people I knew.
0:34:05 > 0:34:07Cancer is more bad.
0:34:07 > 0:34:10And I loved my nan so much -
0:34:10 > 0:34:13this is why I want to do cancer research.
0:34:13 > 0:34:15You could die because of cancer.
0:34:15 > 0:34:16I think cancer.
0:34:16 > 0:34:19But I just love meerkats!
0:34:19 > 0:34:21I loved my nan before she...
0:34:23 > 0:34:24- Died?- Yeah.
0:34:26 > 0:34:28When my nan died...
0:34:28 > 0:34:33it wasn't surprising. I knew what she was going through.
0:34:33 > 0:34:40But then someone close to you, like, going, it's quite upsetting.
0:34:42 > 0:34:44OK.
0:34:44 > 0:34:50You have got 30 seconds to come to your decision, your final decision,
0:34:50 > 0:34:53or you will lose your money.
0:34:53 > 0:34:54- Go.- I reckon refugees.
0:34:54 > 0:34:56I think refugees.
0:34:56 > 0:34:58Are you OK with refugees?
0:34:58 > 0:35:01- OK. Got ours.- We've got ours.
0:35:02 > 0:35:05Five, four, three...
0:35:05 > 0:35:08- Louis, please.- I'm not doing cancer.
0:35:08 > 0:35:11- ..two, one.- No.
0:35:12 > 0:35:19If you have made a decision, hold up your board.
0:35:19 > 0:35:21Stand up, spokesperson, please.
0:35:23 > 0:35:25We've chosen refugee support
0:35:25 > 0:35:27because quite a lot of people are dying
0:35:27 > 0:35:29trying to get to this country...
0:35:30 > 0:35:32..so we want to help them.
0:35:32 > 0:35:35Fantastic. Do all your group agree?
0:35:35 > 0:35:38- Yes.- Hold on to your £10 note.
0:35:39 > 0:35:42Right. So let's hear Nathan.
0:35:42 > 0:35:46Nathan, stand up for me. Be the spokesperson for your group.
0:35:46 > 0:35:49I was hoping for cancer research
0:35:49 > 0:35:54because more and more people die of cancer every day,
0:35:54 > 0:35:58but then more and more people survive every day as well.
0:35:58 > 0:36:03Erm, and my nan also died of cancer, so...
0:36:05 > 0:36:08So it obviously does mean an awful lot to you.
0:36:12 > 0:36:15Perhaps somebody in your group can comfort you, Nathan.
0:36:15 > 0:36:16Why are you upset?
0:36:21 > 0:36:23- Just thinking of my nan. - You're thinking about her.
0:36:23 > 0:36:26Come and sit down on your rug. Good boy, it's OK.
0:36:26 > 0:36:29Listen, it's really hard and you've done a hard thing.
0:36:29 > 0:36:30I'm really...
0:36:30 > 0:36:33It's really good that it means so much to you, Nathan.
0:36:33 > 0:36:35All right? It's good to have a heart for things
0:36:35 > 0:36:38and it's good to fight for things, so well done
0:36:38 > 0:36:40and thank you for sharing that.
0:36:40 > 0:36:42So, Louis, stand-up.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47And what were you wanting to support?
0:36:47 > 0:36:49Save The Meerkats.
0:36:49 > 0:36:51Right. Talk about that a little bit.
0:36:54 > 0:36:57I love meerkats and I just...
0:36:58 > 0:37:02They kind of, like, fight for the desert because of snakes and stuff,
0:37:02 > 0:37:05cos they can kill snakes quite easily.
0:37:05 > 0:37:07But they have to be in a huddle -
0:37:07 > 0:37:11that's what you call a large pack of meerkats.
0:37:11 > 0:37:15Lots of meerkats do get injured though by fighting the snakes,
0:37:15 > 0:37:19and I think if we had Save The Meerkats then we could...
0:37:21 > 0:37:26..save more of the meerkats and the deserts could be protected more.
0:37:26 > 0:37:28OK, thank you, Louis.
0:37:28 > 0:37:30Why couldn't you guys decide?
0:37:30 > 0:37:33You had this money, why couldn't you decide?
0:37:33 > 0:37:34What was hard?
0:37:34 > 0:37:36Everybody loved animals...
0:37:37 > 0:37:39..but they all love family members as well.
0:37:42 > 0:37:44- Ian.- We've changed our mind.
0:37:44 > 0:37:47We've decided to give it to the cancer charity.
0:37:48 > 0:37:50Wow.
0:37:50 > 0:37:53- Why is that?- Cos of Nathan.
0:37:53 > 0:37:55Yeah, seeing how upset he is.
0:37:56 > 0:37:58Wow.
0:37:59 > 0:38:03What in particular? Just because you saw how much it meant to him?
0:38:05 > 0:38:06Wonderful.
0:38:07 > 0:38:09I just want to say thank you.
0:38:12 > 0:38:13Wonderful.
0:38:13 > 0:38:16Henry, do you want to go over and sit with Nathan, actually,
0:38:16 > 0:38:18because you two are good buddies, aren't you,
0:38:18 > 0:38:19and support him a little bit?
0:38:27 > 0:38:30Friendship, to me, it's one of the best things in the world
0:38:30 > 0:38:34cos it really warms my heart.
0:38:34 > 0:38:38I felt really happy when they changed their minds.
0:38:38 > 0:38:42You need at least one friend in life
0:38:42 > 0:38:46cos, if you don't have any friends in life, you...
0:38:46 > 0:38:50You just won't have anyone to help you get through it.
0:38:50 > 0:38:52It just feels like...
0:38:53 > 0:38:55..you're really safe because...
0:38:56 > 0:38:59..I know that my best friends are going to be with me forever.
0:39:07 > 0:39:09Everyone's up early in Abigail's house,
0:39:09 > 0:39:12as her parents' big day has arrived.
0:39:14 > 0:39:19Until now, the wedding hasn't quite captured Abigail's imagination.
0:39:21 > 0:39:22How are you feeling?
0:39:22 > 0:39:24Excited.
0:39:24 > 0:39:25I'm a bit nervous.
0:39:25 > 0:39:29- About what? - About our special day today.
0:39:31 > 0:39:33How are you feeling?
0:39:33 > 0:39:36- Fine.- Yeah?
0:39:36 > 0:39:39- Yeah.- Looking forward to putting on your pretty dress?
0:39:41 > 0:39:43Um, yes.
0:39:57 > 0:39:59What do you think of Mum, Abigail?
0:40:02 > 0:40:04You need to get into your dress now, please.
0:40:04 > 0:40:06Thank you.
0:40:09 > 0:40:12As Mummy and Daddy are going through
0:40:12 > 0:40:16a myriad of emotions, she also is.
0:40:18 > 0:40:20Can I be in the middle?
0:40:20 > 0:40:22No, Abby's going to go on the end.
0:40:22 > 0:40:24I'm the VIP today.
0:40:26 > 0:40:29Mummy, look, there's the fluffy dice.
0:40:31 > 0:40:33Here we go!
0:40:36 > 0:40:40Her emotional situation has been sidelined a little bit
0:40:40 > 0:40:44because the focus is on me this morning and not her.
0:40:45 > 0:40:47You know I love you.
0:40:55 > 0:40:57- Ready?- Yeah.
0:41:05 > 0:41:09With the ceremony underway, and her parents side-by-side,
0:41:09 > 0:41:12Abigail is starting to see what the big day means.
0:41:13 > 0:41:20Love looks like when you're, like, happy for each other,
0:41:20 > 0:41:24so when you're, like, happy...
0:41:25 > 0:41:29..and then you cheer people on, it's a bit like love.
0:41:29 > 0:41:32Will you take Jane here present for your lawful wife?
0:41:32 > 0:41:34I will.
0:41:34 > 0:41:36To have and to hold from this day forward.
0:41:36 > 0:41:38To have and to hold from this day forward.
0:41:38 > 0:41:41- Till death do us part. - Till death do us part.
0:41:41 > 0:41:43Congratulations.
0:41:58 > 0:42:00Three, two, one.
0:42:02 > 0:42:06When you love someone, you feel really happy
0:42:06 > 0:42:09cos you're near them, so you feel really happy.
0:42:16 > 0:42:18I don't want to get married.
0:42:18 > 0:42:22I hate the bit at the end, when you have to kiss.
0:42:22 > 0:42:23Yuck!
0:42:23 > 0:42:25Wedding day?
0:42:25 > 0:42:28I don't even think I'll have an engagement,
0:42:28 > 0:42:31not when I have a girlfriend, I wouldn't know.
0:42:31 > 0:42:34I know that I'm going to look really pretty.
0:42:34 > 0:42:38I'm definitely going to have long hair when I'm older.
0:42:38 > 0:42:40Long hair, like my mum.
0:42:48 > 0:42:52So where would you go, the future or the past?
0:42:52 > 0:42:55I want to go to the future, so I'll find out when I'm dying and how,
0:42:55 > 0:42:56and if I live a healthy life or not.
0:42:56 > 0:43:02Yeah, but also, you'll know how you die and that's, like, really sad.
0:43:02 > 0:43:06In Bradford, Balint is spending the day with his best friend Patrick.
0:43:06 > 0:43:10They have been inseparable since Balint showed Patrick around
0:43:10 > 0:43:11when he first joined the school.
0:43:11 > 0:43:15I want to see what the future's like and that's it.
0:43:15 > 0:43:16Try 65.
0:43:17 > 0:43:21I met Balint three years ago
0:43:21 > 0:43:24and I was kind of shy to speak,
0:43:24 > 0:43:27but now I'm...
0:43:27 > 0:43:29I'm just happy.
0:43:34 > 0:43:38Ever since we first, like, met,
0:43:38 > 0:43:41it's like I knew I was going to be friends with him.
0:43:41 > 0:43:44I can't believe you're actually running!
0:43:44 > 0:43:46I was born in Slovakia
0:43:46 > 0:43:49and I came to Bradford for school.
0:43:50 > 0:43:54My mum tries to push me to be really good at school,
0:43:54 > 0:43:58and then go to uni and get a real good job.
0:43:58 > 0:44:00So what do you want to do in the future?
0:44:00 > 0:44:04The future? Well, to be honest, I don't know what I want to do
0:44:04 > 0:44:06because it's like you're still too young to decide
0:44:06 > 0:44:08at the age of nine or ten.
0:44:08 > 0:44:10Don't you think?
0:44:10 > 0:44:12Well, you could be, like, a footballer
0:44:12 > 0:44:15because you're really good at it.
0:44:15 > 0:44:17- Me?- Yeah. You are.
0:44:17 > 0:44:19You would make a good one as well, wouldn't you?
0:44:19 > 0:44:21No, probably not.
0:44:24 > 0:44:27I think you don't need a royal family
0:44:27 > 0:44:29because you've already got the Prime Minister,
0:44:29 > 0:44:31and I think the Prime Minister does enough.
0:44:31 > 0:44:37The Royal family bring us a bit of happiness and excitement.
0:44:37 > 0:44:39Right, you've worked super hard so far today.
0:44:39 > 0:44:41After exercising their brains,
0:44:41 > 0:44:45Balint and his friends now have a more emotive decision to make.
0:44:45 > 0:44:48We're going to have a break in a second.
0:44:48 > 0:44:49OK?
0:44:49 > 0:44:51And we're going to have a snack.
0:44:51 > 0:44:53Yes!
0:44:53 > 0:44:56Each child must decide whether to keep everything equal
0:44:56 > 0:45:00amongst their friends, or to give some kid special treatment.
0:45:00 > 0:45:05I have six beautiful cupcakes,
0:45:05 > 0:45:08which is something I know you all love.
0:45:08 > 0:45:11I also have 12 apples.
0:45:11 > 0:45:13Why can't there be 12 cupcakes?
0:45:13 > 0:45:16If you decide to go for six cupcakes,
0:45:16 > 0:45:19that means six children will have to go without anything.
0:45:21 > 0:45:23Or you could go for the apples
0:45:23 > 0:45:26and all of you could have an apple.
0:45:26 > 0:45:29This is completely your decision.
0:45:30 > 0:45:33I just love the taste of cupcakes,
0:45:33 > 0:45:34they're just delicious.
0:45:34 > 0:45:38Come on, let's just go for cupcakes.
0:45:38 > 0:45:42I think she should get an apple, so everybody gets a snack.
0:45:42 > 0:45:45Yeah. I think you should get a cupcake
0:45:45 > 0:45:46because it's got more energy in it.
0:45:46 > 0:45:48McKenzie, what do you think?
0:45:48 > 0:45:52I don't have anything to say, I just want a cupcake.
0:45:52 > 0:45:53You just want a cupcake.
0:45:53 > 0:45:56You don't mind. You just want a cupcake.
0:45:56 > 0:45:57Brilliant.
0:45:57 > 0:45:59If we choose the apple, will we get the cupcakes later?
0:45:59 > 0:46:03No. If you choose the apples, you do not get the cupcakes.
0:46:03 > 0:46:07Hands up, then, for cupcakes.
0:46:09 > 0:46:11So, one, two, three for cupcakes.
0:46:11 > 0:46:14Hands up for apples.
0:46:14 > 0:46:15Nine for apples,
0:46:15 > 0:46:17three for cupcakes.
0:46:17 > 0:46:18Apples it is.
0:46:18 > 0:46:19Yay!
0:46:19 > 0:46:21Go up and get yourself an apple.
0:46:21 > 0:46:22Seriously, that's...
0:46:24 > 0:46:27And if you don't want an apple, you don't have to get one.
0:46:27 > 0:46:28What was that for?
0:46:28 > 0:46:30Apples are rubbish.
0:46:30 > 0:46:34If this was my snack time at home, I wouldn't dare eat it.
0:46:37 > 0:46:39Then why did you choose it?
0:46:39 > 0:46:41Because.
0:46:43 > 0:46:46I think we should have chose cupcakes
0:46:46 > 0:46:48because they looked so nice.
0:46:48 > 0:46:51Oh, my God!
0:46:51 > 0:46:55What about if you were one of the six who didn't get a cupcake?
0:46:55 > 0:46:58Just tell me that. Tell me, honestly.
0:46:58 > 0:46:59I'd be all right.
0:47:01 > 0:47:03Miss, Balint's upset.
0:47:06 > 0:47:09He said he hated me because I chose for an apple,
0:47:09 > 0:47:12and then he just started to cry.
0:47:14 > 0:47:16I'm just mad.
0:47:16 > 0:47:18- You're just mad?- Mm-hm.
0:47:18 > 0:47:21Come on, sweetheart, you don't need to get upset about this.
0:47:23 > 0:47:24I'm going to leave you to talk to him.
0:47:24 > 0:47:27Can you see if you can make him feel a little bit happy?
0:47:27 > 0:47:30Because he's a little bit sad. Come on then, sweetheart.
0:47:30 > 0:47:31Why are you crying?
0:47:33 > 0:47:35Is it because of the decision?
0:47:35 > 0:47:37Is it?
0:47:37 > 0:47:39I told you, I'm not saying a word.
0:47:45 > 0:47:49It feels heartbreaking when a friend lets you down because, like,
0:47:49 > 0:47:51friends are there to back you up
0:47:51 > 0:47:55and they are there to support you if you're alone.
0:47:55 > 0:47:59And knowing that the best friend you've ever had
0:47:59 > 0:48:02didn't support you is just something that
0:48:02 > 0:48:06I would probably regret for my whole life.
0:48:07 > 0:48:10You can sit here all day, you're not getting a word out of me.
0:48:10 > 0:48:16I wanted to vote for apple because then we could all share it,
0:48:16 > 0:48:18and then we could all have it.
0:48:18 > 0:48:21Everyone, even you.
0:48:21 > 0:48:23Including you, Balint.
0:48:26 > 0:48:29Falling out with friends feels upsetting,
0:48:29 > 0:48:31but when I fall out with Balint,
0:48:31 > 0:48:38it's just, like, we have like another chance to be friends again.
0:48:39 > 0:48:41- See the girls, yeah.- Yeah?
0:48:41 > 0:48:44It's like Martina, yeah, she wears two earrings.
0:48:44 > 0:48:48And girls wear two earrings, yeah? Yeah, and McKenzie too wore, like,
0:48:48 > 0:48:50these two diamonds.
0:48:53 > 0:48:56He made a moustache.
0:49:01 > 0:49:03Yeah, I forgive him.
0:49:03 > 0:49:05He's made it up to me.
0:49:05 > 0:49:09And now, to be honest, we've just been best friends since.
0:49:19 > 0:49:23My biggest rock and it's really heavy.
0:49:24 > 0:49:27It's pulling me down.
0:49:27 > 0:49:29Eight-year-old Edmund is at home playing
0:49:29 > 0:49:32with one of the loves of his life,
0:49:32 > 0:49:33his rock collection.
0:49:33 > 0:49:37Some of the rocks are just really smooth and really detailed,
0:49:37 > 0:49:39they're just really interesting.
0:49:39 > 0:49:41Stop, do not judge.
0:49:41 > 0:49:44If you judge, I will destroy you.
0:49:44 > 0:49:46There we go. I've got a knot.
0:49:48 > 0:49:50Right.
0:49:50 > 0:49:52I think this might work.
0:49:54 > 0:49:56Oh!
0:49:58 > 0:50:00Bad rock! Bad!
0:50:00 > 0:50:02Ow!
0:50:02 > 0:50:04Ow! Ow!
0:50:06 > 0:50:09His sister Lorna is working on a big gesture
0:50:09 > 0:50:11to win over her older brother.
0:50:11 > 0:50:15I'm drawing a picture for Edmund.
0:50:17 > 0:50:19He's sometimes nice.
0:50:19 > 0:50:23Once, he let me play with his marble one...
0:50:23 > 0:50:26and we played nicely together.
0:50:30 > 0:50:32To Edmund, kiss, kiss, kiss.
0:50:32 > 0:50:36I love you a lot.
0:50:37 > 0:50:40Will we be friends?
0:50:48 > 0:50:51It's a picture for you.
0:50:53 > 0:50:55Edmund, it says,
0:50:55 > 0:50:59"To Edmund, I love you lots."
0:51:03 > 0:51:05Give me back my picture.
0:51:05 > 0:51:08Give me back my picture!
0:51:08 > 0:51:12I bet a cow could draw better than that.
0:51:16 > 0:51:19I've got a half of our dad, which Lorna doesn't have.
0:51:19 > 0:51:21Lorna's got the other half.
0:51:21 > 0:51:25I've got a half of Mummy and Lorna's got the other half of Mummy.
0:51:27 > 0:51:30So that makes us the complete opposite.
0:51:32 > 0:51:34Edmund, give me it back, please!
0:51:34 > 0:51:36Edmund, sit back.
0:51:36 > 0:51:38Watch!
0:51:40 > 0:51:43With sibling rivalry a daily grind,
0:51:43 > 0:51:45Edmund's Mum often plays peacekeeper.
0:51:45 > 0:51:48Edmund, Edmund, listen to Mummy.
0:51:48 > 0:51:49Edmund, listen to Mummy.
0:51:49 > 0:51:52Do you think it's because you've got a sister, not a brother,
0:51:52 > 0:51:54- that you fight so much?- That's one of the reasons, I think.
0:51:54 > 0:51:58When I was little, Edmund, I've got three sisters and two brothers,
0:51:58 > 0:52:02and we used to fight all the time.
0:52:02 > 0:52:03And it's just one of those things.
0:52:03 > 0:52:05We used to fight over ponies,
0:52:05 > 0:52:08we used to fight over whose turn it was to muck out.
0:52:08 > 0:52:10But I don't...
0:52:10 > 0:52:12I like having a sister now.
0:52:17 > 0:52:20Actually, when I'm an adult, you'll probably come to my birthday party,
0:52:20 > 0:52:22- won't you?- Yeah, I will.
0:52:24 > 0:52:27Lorna's my sister, so I...
0:52:30 > 0:52:34..love her, but not... There's two different kinds of love, really.
0:52:34 > 0:52:36There's love like you love, love.
0:52:36 > 0:52:39And there's also love, like, even though you hate her,
0:52:39 > 0:52:40you still care about her.
0:52:44 > 0:52:48Edmund, when's the next time you could do something together with me?
0:52:50 > 0:52:51In 90 years.
0:53:04 > 0:53:08It's going to be quite hard for me to put it up someplace high.
0:53:08 > 0:53:10I'll do the bottom two.
0:53:10 > 0:53:13In Bradford, the big day has arrived for Daniel.
0:53:16 > 0:53:18I nearly cried last night.
0:53:18 > 0:53:19Why?
0:53:19 > 0:53:21Because my dad's coming home,
0:53:21 > 0:53:24so we need to keep an eye out.
0:53:24 > 0:53:28You can be sat in that chair and, like, stare out as well, like...
0:53:30 > 0:53:33And then, if you see his car, you can easily tell me.
0:53:36 > 0:53:39My dad's coming home.
0:53:39 > 0:53:43He should be, like, on the motorway right now.
0:53:44 > 0:53:46Close to Bradford.
0:53:46 > 0:53:49I'm feeling really, really happy and excited...
0:53:49 > 0:53:52that I get to see my dad again.
0:53:52 > 0:53:56I couldn't go to sleep because of it.
0:53:56 > 0:53:59It's quite a bubbly moment for me.
0:54:33 > 0:54:35- Oh, you all right, darling?- Yeah.
0:54:37 > 0:54:40- How are you doing? - I missed you so much.
0:54:40 > 0:54:41I missed you, too.
0:54:50 > 0:54:52Who won the war?
0:54:52 > 0:54:54Who won the war? We're not finished yet.
0:54:56 > 0:54:58I get to see my dad again.
0:54:58 > 0:55:02It's the best moment I've had in my life.
0:55:11 > 0:55:12Right.
0:55:12 > 0:55:16OK, we're going to start when we get down to this flat bit.
0:55:16 > 0:55:18Yeah, because if I start riding,
0:55:18 > 0:55:21I could fly down and hit a tree or summat.
0:55:22 > 0:55:25Put your right foot over, put it on the pedal.
0:55:27 > 0:55:30Yeah. And if you lean forward onto the handlebars.
0:55:30 > 0:55:34And then, when you're ready to go, push down with your right foot,
0:55:34 > 0:55:37- and pick your left foot up and put it on the pedal.- OK.- OK? Off you go.
0:55:37 > 0:55:41It's either going to end in happiness and stuff today,
0:55:41 > 0:55:43or in terror.
0:55:43 > 0:55:44Whoa!
0:55:44 > 0:55:46- That's OK. - I'm trying to balance myself.
0:55:46 > 0:55:49That's all right. We can try it again. Look where you're going.
0:55:49 > 0:55:51- Oops!- Oops!
0:55:51 > 0:55:53Oh!
0:55:55 > 0:55:58I don't know why I keep tilting.
0:55:58 > 0:55:59Let's go.
0:55:59 > 0:56:00Whoa!!
0:56:02 > 0:56:04It's kind of tricky.
0:56:04 > 0:56:06Kind of tricky. What's the trickiest part?
0:56:06 > 0:56:10Doing the balancing.
0:56:10 > 0:56:12But I'm really enjoying this.
0:56:12 > 0:56:15- It's just a little time to spend with you.- I know.
0:56:15 > 0:56:19We're going to spend a lot more time together now.
0:56:19 > 0:56:20Yeah.
0:56:25 > 0:56:28Love just really makes you happy.
0:56:28 > 0:56:30And, also, when other people are happy,
0:56:30 > 0:56:33it just puts a smile on your face.
0:56:33 > 0:56:37And if other people are laughing,
0:56:37 > 0:56:40you're laughing for some weird reason and you're just, like,
0:56:40 > 0:56:43"I don't know why I'm even laughing!"
0:56:43 > 0:56:45That's it. That was all you.
0:56:45 > 0:56:48If I could see love,
0:56:48 > 0:56:53it would be a massive, soft, cushiony thing.
0:56:53 > 0:56:57That you could just lie on, and you could stay there for ever.
0:56:57 > 0:57:02If you love somebody, you really, really care for them.
0:57:02 > 0:57:06And you could, like, never really do anything bad to them
0:57:06 > 0:57:09and you wouldn't ever really let them down, basically.
0:57:09 > 0:57:14Love is something that we should all care about.
0:57:14 > 0:57:18And if nobody cares about love in the world,
0:57:18 > 0:57:22then this world would be a totally different place.
0:57:22 > 0:57:23That's it, just keep the balance.
0:57:23 > 0:57:26That's you.
0:57:26 > 0:57:28That's you. Look, no hands!
0:57:31 > 0:57:34There's no evil love, but there's hate.
0:57:34 > 0:57:38That's what the evil love is, so they're opposites.
0:57:38 > 0:57:40- I'm actually doing it!- You are.
0:57:40 > 0:57:45Hate makes people fight and everything,
0:57:45 > 0:57:48but we need the world of love around us
0:57:48 > 0:57:51because it leaves us with happiness and joy.
0:57:53 > 0:57:55Are you all right?
0:57:55 > 0:57:57- Yeah.- That was wicked.
0:57:57 > 0:58:01- Yes.- I actually did that for about a minute there.
0:58:01 > 0:58:02- Are we all done?- Yeah.
0:58:02 > 0:58:05Cool. We can go and get some ice cream.
0:58:05 > 0:58:07Yeah!
0:58:07 > 0:58:11Next time, how kids see fear and danger.
0:58:11 > 0:58:13We're all going to die!
0:58:13 > 0:58:14There's growing pains...
0:58:14 > 0:58:17There's, like, 11 and 12-year-old kids, who...
0:58:17 > 0:58:18They scare me quite a lot.
0:58:18 > 0:58:21..a push for independence...
0:58:21 > 0:58:24The most important thing about getting older is to try new things.
0:58:24 > 0:58:27..and facing their fears of failure.
0:58:27 > 0:58:29I'm doing this so I won't fail.