0:00:02 > 0:00:05When you're young, everything is an adventure.
0:00:07 > 0:00:10We're growing, bursting with ideas.
0:00:10 > 0:00:14And facing fresh challenges every single day.
0:00:14 > 0:00:18Stand back and make sure you're wearing your goggles.
0:00:18 > 0:00:21I'm from one of six groups of children all over the country
0:00:21 > 0:00:23who are filming their lives.
0:00:26 > 0:00:27Oliver, are you all right?
0:00:29 > 0:00:31From high-rise tower blocks...
0:00:31 > 0:00:34Hi, bye! My room is so big!
0:00:34 > 0:00:36..to our remotest islands.
0:00:36 > 0:00:40SHOUTING
0:00:40 > 0:00:42"Stop it! Stop it!"
0:00:42 > 0:00:44"We were only kissing."
0:00:44 > 0:00:47"I know, but stop it!"
0:00:47 > 0:00:51For six months, we've had cameras in our homes, clubs -
0:00:51 > 0:00:54we've even film ourselves.
0:00:54 > 0:00:55Wow!
0:00:56 > 0:00:58To share moments of love...
0:00:58 > 0:00:59Are you all right, darling?
0:00:59 > 0:01:01..loss...
0:01:01 > 0:01:02and drama.
0:01:02 > 0:01:05I told you I'm not saying a word.
0:01:06 > 0:01:08Through our own eyes.
0:01:09 > 0:01:11Giving us a big voice...
0:01:11 > 0:01:13ALL: Ooh!
0:01:13 > 0:01:15Let me count! Let me count this!
0:01:15 > 0:01:19..to tell you what we really think of the world.
0:01:19 > 0:01:22Wow, my mum's the tooth fairy. That's shocking.
0:01:22 > 0:01:24This week...
0:01:24 > 0:01:26Yeah, but you still can't cheat in a test.
0:01:26 > 0:01:28..how we see right from wrong.
0:01:28 > 0:01:30I vote for silence.
0:01:30 > 0:01:33- Silence. - There's temptation in our path...
0:01:33 > 0:01:36I'm still thinking I want to puke!
0:01:38 > 0:01:40..questions of retaliation...
0:01:40 > 0:01:44But I just can't help myself from fighting.
0:01:44 > 0:01:45I want to pop their heads.
0:01:45 > 0:01:47..and pressure from our peers.
0:01:47 > 0:01:51We're dividing the money, OK? We're dividing the money.
0:01:51 > 0:01:56- Walk away.- Yes, let's take the money! This is our chance!
0:01:56 > 0:01:58It's going to be good!
0:02:08 > 0:02:11Kids do like being naughty. I'm one of them.
0:02:11 > 0:02:16I have been a little naughty, I'm going to be honest.
0:02:16 > 0:02:19Yeah, I think it's a bit fun to be naughty sometimes
0:02:19 > 0:02:21because...you can't be always good.
0:02:21 > 0:02:27Breaking the rules... Cos they put all, like...
0:02:27 > 0:02:30the fun rules behind bars.
0:02:30 > 0:02:32Imagine if there were no rules
0:02:32 > 0:02:36and you could just break a building without permission
0:02:36 > 0:02:38or jump out of a window.
0:02:48 > 0:02:50Located in the heart of Hackney...
0:02:50 > 0:02:52Bye.
0:02:52 > 0:02:55..is a youth centre providing local children with the space
0:02:55 > 0:02:58where they can channel their energy through sport -
0:02:58 > 0:03:01the Pedro Boxing Club...
0:03:01 > 0:03:03Go! One, two, three.
0:03:03 > 0:03:05..run by retired boxer
0:03:05 > 0:03:08and former British Super Middleweight Champion James Cook.
0:03:08 > 0:03:12You've got to be quicker than that, man. Six. Four.
0:03:12 > 0:03:15James and his team of coaches
0:03:15 > 0:03:19look to teach inner-city kids more than just how to punch.
0:03:19 > 0:03:21Hey, you going to knock me out?
0:03:21 > 0:03:23HE LAUGHS
0:03:24 > 0:03:27Boxing teaches you how to be humble,
0:03:27 > 0:03:32how to not fight outside and how to stay away from trouble.
0:03:32 > 0:03:34If you can go to Pedro and box,
0:03:34 > 0:03:39then you'll feel much more, like, calmer and better and happier.
0:03:39 > 0:03:43You get to hang around with different people and they have
0:03:43 > 0:03:46different pers... I don't know how to say that word.
0:03:48 > 0:03:50Pers... Persec...
0:03:50 > 0:03:53Something like that. "Persectives."
0:03:55 > 0:03:58Have a sit-down, have a sit-down.
0:03:58 > 0:04:02It's the start of the summer term, and at the club
0:04:02 > 0:04:05the young boxers are talking about discipline and respect...
0:04:05 > 0:04:09Some of these on the list are quite hard punishments.
0:04:09 > 0:04:12And some of these are quite easy punishments.
0:04:12 > 0:04:16..and what happens when they misbehave outside the club.
0:04:17 > 0:04:20Whenever I'm really, really naughty,
0:04:20 > 0:04:23my dad gives me a warning saying,
0:04:23 > 0:04:27"I've got a pocket full of smacks."
0:04:27 > 0:04:32And then, when I keep on doing it, he slaps me on the butt.
0:04:32 > 0:04:34LAUGHTER
0:04:34 > 0:04:37So which is the easiest punishment?
0:04:37 > 0:04:39- Apologies.- Apology?
0:04:39 > 0:04:43Yeah, some people just say sorry and don't mean it.
0:04:43 > 0:04:45I hate apologising.
0:04:45 > 0:04:47When my mum sent me to my room,
0:04:47 > 0:04:50I don't think she remembered that I have a TV and my tablet.
0:04:50 > 0:04:54And when she comes in the room, yeah...like I'm sleeping.
0:04:54 > 0:04:57And I've got to keep switching my TV on and off, on and off.
0:04:57 > 0:05:02Someone who's never too far from mischief is ten-year-old Ma-Leiha.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04I'm sometimes a good girl.
0:05:04 > 0:05:07But I'm sometimes a bad girl.
0:05:10 > 0:05:12Hi, bye! My room is so big!
0:05:12 > 0:05:14That's me when I was a baby.
0:05:14 > 0:05:16Living with her mum and little brother...
0:05:16 > 0:05:18Mackay?
0:05:18 > 0:05:21- Oh! - SHE LAUGHS
0:05:21 > 0:05:23..she's always up to something.
0:05:23 > 0:05:26SHE SPEAKS RAPIDLY
0:05:26 > 0:05:27That's my new word.
0:05:27 > 0:05:32When I'm having fun, I can be naughty sometimes.
0:05:32 > 0:05:34- Hi, Mum.- No, don't!
0:05:34 > 0:05:37But I don't mean to be naughty. Like, I'm only ten.
0:05:37 > 0:05:39And I just want to have fun.
0:05:39 > 0:05:42You have to help me look for my hamster. Come on.
0:05:42 > 0:05:46Her latest misdemeanour is losing her pet hamster.
0:05:46 > 0:05:48No, it's not on that side.
0:05:48 > 0:05:51(Keep it low, OK?)
0:05:53 > 0:05:57And she's roped in little brother Mackay to keep it secret from Mum.
0:05:57 > 0:06:02Not behind here. If I don't find the hamster,
0:06:02 > 0:06:08I'll get in deep, deep, deep, deep, dee-dee-d-d-deep trouble.
0:06:08 > 0:06:10This is my third hamster.
0:06:10 > 0:06:13I've had two before that died.
0:06:13 > 0:06:16When it died, it just looked freaky.
0:06:16 > 0:06:19Like, his teeth were just out, like this.
0:06:21 > 0:06:23And his arms were like this.
0:06:24 > 0:06:27And it was actually, like, freaky.
0:06:29 > 0:06:32Oh, it's definitely not in here.
0:06:32 > 0:06:36Ma-Leiha is at an age where she's kind of like pushing to see
0:06:36 > 0:06:40how far I can push my mum. How far...
0:06:40 > 0:06:42"Let me see how far I can go."
0:06:42 > 0:06:44Giving up now.
0:06:48 > 0:06:52- Ma-Leiha.- Yes, Mum?- I'm very angry that you've lost your hamster.
0:06:52 > 0:06:55- I'm sorry, Mum.- You have to take responsibility for the hamster.
0:06:55 > 0:06:59You have to love it, you have to cherish it, you have to nurture it,
0:06:59 > 0:07:00you have to look after it.
0:07:00 > 0:07:03Imagine if I didn't care for you and I treated you horribly?
0:07:03 > 0:07:05That wouldn't be nice, would it?
0:07:05 > 0:07:09So that's why I'm saying this is why you need to love it, care for it,
0:07:09 > 0:07:11look after it. OK?
0:07:11 > 0:07:16Gone in my ears. They're probably going to say it went in your ear
0:07:16 > 0:07:19and it came out the other ear. They're going to end up saying that,
0:07:19 > 0:07:23but it's gone in my ear and they're blocked anyways.
0:07:23 > 0:07:26SHE SIGHS
0:07:28 > 0:07:30It's not just at home that Ma-Leiha's behaviour
0:07:30 > 0:07:32is being called into question.
0:07:32 > 0:07:35At school she was recently in trouble
0:07:35 > 0:07:37for having a fight with some boys.
0:07:37 > 0:07:39Bye, Mum.
0:07:41 > 0:07:43Boom, boom, boom!
0:07:45 > 0:07:49Ma-Leiha is very mature for a ten-year-old.
0:07:49 > 0:07:51Eugh! What is that?
0:07:51 > 0:07:55She likes to play football. She's very sporty. She likes basketball,
0:07:55 > 0:07:56so she tends to play with the boys.
0:07:56 > 0:08:00There's not many girls that play with the boys,
0:08:00 > 0:08:03so I think sometimes they feel a bit...
0:08:03 > 0:08:06like she's a target.
0:08:06 > 0:08:08The boys will pick on her.
0:08:08 > 0:08:11They will, like, sometimes kick her,
0:08:11 > 0:08:15so then she will just automatically react and then lash out on them,
0:08:15 > 0:08:18but then doesn't think about the consequences.
0:08:23 > 0:08:26At Pedro's, Ma-Leiha and her friends are sharing
0:08:26 > 0:08:29some of their most irresponsible moments.
0:08:29 > 0:08:32- Oh, no.- The judge.
0:08:32 > 0:08:33Be seated.
0:08:33 > 0:08:37Stand by the judge.
0:08:37 > 0:08:39The group will be acting as a jury,
0:08:39 > 0:08:43deciding which punishment best fits their crime.
0:08:43 > 0:08:47One night, me and my sister, we were bored, very, very bored,
0:08:47 > 0:08:49and ripped the wallpaper down.
0:08:49 > 0:08:53Oh, my God. That is bad! That is bad!
0:08:53 > 0:08:55He should get banned with no dinner, apologise.
0:08:55 > 0:08:58- He should get everything. - No pocket money.
0:08:58 > 0:09:01He has to pay for his own wallpaper.
0:09:01 > 0:09:05- He should apologise.- Who thinks apologising's a good punishment?
0:09:05 > 0:09:07OK. Judge?
0:09:07 > 0:09:11Because you pulled the wallpaper off in your room,
0:09:11 > 0:09:13you'll have to apologise.
0:09:13 > 0:09:17- Ha-ha-ha! You stand accused. - Me?- Up you get.
0:09:17 > 0:09:20What punishment will the group dish out
0:09:20 > 0:09:23for one of Ma-Leiha's cheeky pranks?
0:09:23 > 0:09:27Tell us the story, the whole story, nothing but the story.
0:09:27 > 0:09:31Once, when I was at my nan's house,
0:09:31 > 0:09:34my auntie and my uncle were getting on my nerves.
0:09:34 > 0:09:37So I went into my uncle's room, then I hid in his wardrobe.
0:09:37 > 0:09:40I was on my tablet for, like, an hour.
0:09:40 > 0:09:43I kind of fell asleep in the wardrobe.
0:09:43 > 0:09:45Then they started to call my name, looking for me,
0:09:45 > 0:09:47but they couldn't find me.
0:09:47 > 0:09:50Then they went outside and they locked the door and they were trying
0:09:50 > 0:09:53to look for me outside and they shouted my name.
0:09:53 > 0:09:55And then after,
0:09:55 > 0:09:59they came back inside and then my nan was phoning the police.
0:09:59 > 0:10:02Then after, Nanny said, "Look in the wardrobe."
0:10:02 > 0:10:05My auntie found me and then that's when we came out.
0:10:05 > 0:10:08- And then...- You were punished.
0:10:08 > 0:10:10Ma-Leiha hid in the cupboard.
0:10:10 > 0:10:12They called the police.
0:10:12 > 0:10:14That's...not...
0:10:14 > 0:10:15That's way too far.
0:10:15 > 0:10:19You shouldn't hide in people's wardrobe.
0:10:19 > 0:10:21Even though sometimes I do it myself,
0:10:21 > 0:10:24you still shouldn't.
0:10:24 > 0:10:27When someone's calling your name, you should just come out.
0:10:27 > 0:10:29It could be really serious
0:10:29 > 0:10:34because you know the police don't like making false alarms.
0:10:34 > 0:10:38Your parents might be really worried and serious about it.
0:10:38 > 0:10:41They might be sad, really sad.
0:10:41 > 0:10:43You don't play with that.
0:10:43 > 0:10:46How do you think Ma-Leiha should be punished?
0:10:46 > 0:10:49You should be grounded because that's not the right thing to do.
0:10:49 > 0:10:52Is it going to be grounded? Two of you have said grounded.
0:10:52 > 0:10:54Grounded, grounded, grounded.
0:10:54 > 0:10:58For hiding in the wardrobe and getting the police involved,
0:10:58 > 0:11:00you should be grounded for a week.
0:11:00 > 0:11:02Oh, come on, mate.
0:11:02 > 0:11:04What was the wrong punishment?
0:11:04 > 0:11:07My nan kissed her teeth and she said don't talk to her.
0:11:07 > 0:11:10She was ignored. For how long?
0:11:10 > 0:11:12She wasn't talking to me for about five days.
0:11:12 > 0:11:15My nan and my mum were quite cross with me.
0:11:15 > 0:11:18Well, my mum wasn't really, really cross.
0:11:18 > 0:11:21She was cross, but then again she thought that it was kind of funny.
0:11:21 > 0:11:24But my nan didn't find it funny.
0:11:24 > 0:11:26Did you try apologising to your nan?
0:11:26 > 0:11:29I did try, but she was just ignoring me.
0:11:29 > 0:11:31I shouldn't have done it.
0:11:31 > 0:11:34Then again, I really thought it was funny.
0:11:37 > 0:11:41The naughtiest thing I've ever done
0:11:41 > 0:11:44was tell a lie.
0:11:45 > 0:11:47I've shouted at my teacher.
0:11:47 > 0:11:49I pinched two kids.
0:11:49 > 0:11:54I don't know how to say this, but, like, sometimes it's good to be bad.
0:11:54 > 0:11:55I don't know why.
0:11:55 > 0:11:59Go from then, "Run the race, start today." Here we go.
0:11:59 > 0:12:02UPBEAT PIANO PLAYS
0:12:06 > 0:12:08Two, three, and...
0:12:08 > 0:12:11# When I started down the street last Sunday... #
0:12:11 > 0:12:13In the heart of Merseyside
0:12:13 > 0:12:16the Liverpool Cathedral Children's Choir
0:12:16 > 0:12:19are having their weekly rehearsal.
0:12:19 > 0:12:22# And the voice said Neighbour there's a million reasons
0:12:22 > 0:12:26# Why you should be glad in all four seasons... #
0:12:26 > 0:12:27When you do the right thing,
0:12:27 > 0:12:30it's like you're floating up on a giant cloud.
0:12:30 > 0:12:35But when you're doing the wrong thing and you're going down,
0:12:35 > 0:12:39you're going to get stuck in everything icky and things.
0:12:39 > 0:12:44But you want to get out of them and try and get up there and get better.
0:12:44 > 0:12:45Well done, guys.
0:12:45 > 0:12:49Really good. If you put your music back in the piles, guys,
0:12:49 > 0:12:51so it's ready for this afternoon, please.
0:12:51 > 0:12:54Have any of yous ever broken a rule and, like,
0:12:54 > 0:12:55you've got into trouble for it?
0:12:55 > 0:13:00I have. My mum's got this thing that she calls her secret stash cupboard,
0:13:00 > 0:13:03which has, like, got all chocolate bars and crisps.
0:13:03 > 0:13:04My mum's got the same.
0:13:04 > 0:13:07And I just love going in there and eating some of the stuff.
0:13:07 > 0:13:10Yeah. My mum's got the same, but she...
0:13:10 > 0:13:13But sometimes I don't even get caught.
0:13:13 > 0:13:18Because it's on a high shelf, I have to jump up and open it and eat.
0:13:18 > 0:13:21Why do parents have to do that?
0:13:21 > 0:13:23I need to break the rule because I need chocolate.
0:13:23 > 0:13:27Yeah, I feel the same. You get tempted so much.
0:13:31 > 0:13:33She may be one of the youngest in the choir,
0:13:33 > 0:13:38but at home, eight-year-old Holly is big sister to little brother Oliver.
0:13:38 > 0:13:41Oliver is four years old.
0:13:41 > 0:13:45Nearly a big boy five, and he likes to play with me out here.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50But she doesn't always set the best example.
0:13:50 > 0:13:53Sometimes I go downstairs and steal the sweets.
0:13:54 > 0:13:58Now for Operation Jammy Dodger.
0:14:02 > 0:14:05Once my dad caught me and I wasn't allowed sweets for a week.
0:14:05 > 0:14:09- MAN:- Why do you think we have rules?
0:14:09 > 0:14:11No idea.
0:14:11 > 0:14:13I go to bed late.
0:14:13 > 0:14:18When my mum and dad are asleep, I watch TV most of the time.
0:14:21 > 0:14:26When I break a rule, I feel excited, nervous...
0:14:26 > 0:14:29mischievous.
0:14:29 > 0:14:32So, what do you think about your behaviour?
0:14:32 > 0:14:33Terrible.
0:14:33 > 0:14:37As well as being a member of the choir, Holly enjoys a much more
0:14:37 > 0:14:40physical training, which helps build discipline.
0:14:40 > 0:14:42Well, Holly started martial arts at quite a young age.
0:14:42 > 0:14:47It was at a time when she was a very young child and quite immature.
0:14:47 > 0:14:50Like any other kid.
0:14:50 > 0:14:55Sometimes she'll break a rule but, you know, she chats a lot
0:14:55 > 0:14:58and that's probably the thing that gets her in the most trouble.
0:14:58 > 0:14:59Ai!
0:14:59 > 0:15:01Of course I'm cheeky.
0:15:01 > 0:15:03I steal cookies...
0:15:08 > 0:15:13Today, Holly's understanding of right and wrong is being tested.
0:15:13 > 0:15:17I want you to imagine that we are sitting in a waiting room
0:15:17 > 0:15:21about to do a really, really important test.
0:15:21 > 0:15:23If you pass this test,
0:15:23 > 0:15:27you will get the chance to go to the school of your dreams.
0:15:27 > 0:15:31And as you sit in the waiting room you feel more and more nervous
0:15:31 > 0:15:33and your hands are getting really sweaty.
0:15:33 > 0:15:36And as you're sitting there with your best friend,
0:15:36 > 0:15:40she points something out in the room that you might not have noticed.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44The answer sheet has been left on the desk by the teacher.
0:15:46 > 0:15:49And as you stare and stare at this answer sheet,
0:15:49 > 0:15:52your best friend suddenly whispers something to you.
0:15:52 > 0:15:55She whispers, "I've looked at the answers."
0:15:57 > 0:15:59You've got three choices.
0:16:00 > 0:16:02You can either...
0:16:05 > 0:16:06..peek at the answer sheet yourself.
0:16:08 > 0:16:10Or you can tell the teacher.
0:16:13 > 0:16:15Or...
0:16:16 > 0:16:18..you can stay silent....
0:16:20 > 0:16:23..don't look and stay out of it.
0:16:23 > 0:16:24They're your three choices.
0:16:26 > 0:16:31I think you should keep silent because they're your best friend.
0:16:31 > 0:16:33- And...- Yes, but it doesn't matter.
0:16:33 > 0:16:37But, you see, you don't want them to stop being your friend,
0:16:37 > 0:16:40so basically I think we should keep silent.
0:16:40 > 0:16:42What are we going for?
0:16:42 > 0:16:45If you study that hard and then your best mate just cheated...
0:16:45 > 0:16:48Like, I think she didn't deserve to get in.
0:16:48 > 0:16:52In tests, you're not supposed to cheat.
0:16:52 > 0:16:54And she cheated.
0:16:54 > 0:16:59- Yeah, but it was...- Yeah, but you still can't cheat in a test.
0:17:00 > 0:17:02What's your dream job?
0:17:02 > 0:17:05- Doctor. Vet.- Yeah, but what if someone comes up to you...
0:17:05 > 0:17:07I could be working with you.
0:17:07 > 0:17:10- Really?- I want to be a vet.
0:17:10 > 0:17:12What happens if you look in the envelope?
0:17:12 > 0:17:15What if we get full marks and we get our dream...
0:17:15 > 0:17:17and we get our dream job?
0:17:17 > 0:17:20Your parents will be proud, you got your dream job.
0:17:20 > 0:17:24- OK. So, hands up for silence? - Hands up for silence.
0:17:24 > 0:17:28Hands up for tell the teacher. Hands up for looking at the test.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30Oh, my God. She's cheating.
0:17:30 > 0:17:34- Yeah, I say that, because...- It's better to be honestly and not get
0:17:34 > 0:17:37- into school, than dishonestly not. - What if you do get your dream job?
0:17:37 > 0:17:42- Silence or look at the test. I vote for silence.- Silence.- Silence?
0:17:42 > 0:17:45- Silence.- Silence.
0:17:45 > 0:17:49It is crunch time, it's decision time.
0:17:49 > 0:17:52You can stay out of it. You can peek at the answers yourself
0:17:52 > 0:17:53or you can tell the teacher.
0:17:53 > 0:17:58Anyone who would like to stay out of it, put their hand up.
0:18:00 > 0:18:04Can the people who would stay out of it, can you walk towards this side
0:18:04 > 0:18:06and then go out of the door, please?
0:18:10 > 0:18:15The people who would have a look at the test paper, have a little peek
0:18:15 > 0:18:17inside the envelope...?
0:18:20 > 0:18:24No-one. And can the people who would tell the teacher
0:18:24 > 0:18:27go and tell Stephen what happened?
0:18:31 > 0:18:32Hello, guys.
0:18:32 > 0:18:38- Do you know my best friend? - Yeah.- She looked at the answers.
0:18:38 > 0:18:41Thank you very much for telling me.
0:18:41 > 0:18:45I noticed somebody standing doing this.
0:18:45 > 0:18:47And danced around on the carpet.
0:18:47 > 0:18:53Which one do you think is the right choice?
0:18:54 > 0:18:58Stay silent. But I'm still thinking I want to peek.
0:19:01 > 0:19:06Well, being successful and going up the ladder is very important
0:19:06 > 0:19:09because then you might achieve what your dream is.
0:19:09 > 0:19:12Everybody else has made their decision.
0:19:12 > 0:19:14They've all chosen what they want to do.
0:19:14 > 0:19:18And now you're the only person left who needs to make a decision.
0:19:18 > 0:19:21Confusion feels like...
0:19:21 > 0:19:25one side of you wants to go one side
0:19:25 > 0:19:27and the other wants to go that side.
0:19:27 > 0:19:33It's like you're being pulled to each side and you can't break free.
0:19:35 > 0:19:40Well, the things that are staying in my head, is peek and stay silent.
0:19:40 > 0:19:44But the main thing is peek, that's booming in my head.
0:19:44 > 0:19:45Is it?
0:19:47 > 0:19:50Peek or stay silent.
0:19:50 > 0:19:51It's really hard.
0:19:56 > 0:19:59I'm thinking I'm going to peek because I don't want my head
0:19:59 > 0:20:01- to keep doing this all day.- OK.
0:20:01 > 0:20:05- Are you going to peek?- What if someone catches me and things?
0:20:08 > 0:20:11Feel like I want to do it so bad.
0:20:13 > 0:20:17I'm going to leave and your job is to make your decision.
0:20:17 > 0:20:20- OK?- OK.- OK, good luck. - Thank you.
0:20:41 > 0:20:43I don't want to do that.
0:20:48 > 0:20:51Do I want to do that or do I want to do that?
0:20:54 > 0:20:57Oh, my gosh.
0:21:03 > 0:21:05I'm not, I'm not.
0:21:08 > 0:21:10SHE EXHALES
0:21:12 > 0:21:15Once I'm past here, I'm finished.
0:21:15 > 0:21:18I've done my decision.
0:21:36 > 0:21:38Oh, this is so annoying!
0:21:46 > 0:21:49This one is a big fat no.
0:21:54 > 0:21:58I didn't look at the paper because I didn't want to cheat.
0:21:58 > 0:22:00I didn't want to be caught.
0:22:00 > 0:22:04Plus, I don't really like cheating at all.
0:22:10 > 0:22:13Sometimes I think cheating...
0:22:13 > 0:22:17can really get you nowhere because sometimes people do find out.
0:22:17 > 0:22:20But if they don't find out, I think it's really funny.
0:22:20 > 0:22:22Sometimes I...
0:22:22 > 0:22:25Sometimes, like, you won't see me doing it,
0:22:25 > 0:22:29but sometimes I break the rules. Like, not often.
0:22:29 > 0:22:31In my school you can get warnings
0:22:31 > 0:22:36and go on amber or red and I don't want that to happen to me.
0:22:42 > 0:22:44Hi.
0:22:44 > 0:22:47I'm just going to put that on the floor.
0:22:47 > 0:22:49This is my little hamster.
0:22:49 > 0:22:53In East London, ten-year-old Ma-Leiha has had some good news
0:22:53 > 0:22:55and some bad.
0:22:55 > 0:22:58Yes, I'm very pleased that I found you.
0:22:58 > 0:23:01Was you even scared or was you on an adventure?
0:23:03 > 0:23:06Her hamster may be safe, but at school she's in trouble.
0:23:08 > 0:23:10Her fighting with boys has escalated.
0:23:12 > 0:23:14Sometimes I just hate boys.
0:23:16 > 0:23:18Cos they're hitting me for no reason.
0:23:18 > 0:23:21Because nobody said that you can hit me.
0:23:24 > 0:23:27For you, what do you think is right?
0:23:27 > 0:23:30Fighting is wrong, I know that it's wrong.
0:23:30 > 0:23:33But I just can't help myself from fighting.
0:23:35 > 0:23:39Like, when someone hits me or pushes me, they deserve what they get back
0:23:39 > 0:23:41for pushing me for no reason.
0:23:41 > 0:23:45But then again, when I do stuff to them, I know that it's wrong.
0:23:45 > 0:23:46OK.
0:23:46 > 0:23:50Ah, sometimes I just can't even...
0:23:50 > 0:23:51I want to pop their heads.
0:23:51 > 0:23:54So what do they do to you,
0:23:54 > 0:23:59why you get so...angry?
0:23:59 > 0:24:02Because they're really annoying.
0:24:02 > 0:24:04But you can just prevent things from happening,
0:24:04 > 0:24:06if you kind of, like, just walk away.
0:24:07 > 0:24:09Cos when you fight them,
0:24:09 > 0:24:13you're hurting them and then you'll get in trouble. Like, every fight
0:24:13 > 0:24:17that you've had, you've picked practically, like...
0:24:17 > 0:24:19No, not all of them.
0:24:19 > 0:24:21- ..hurt them.- One more to them.
0:24:21 > 0:24:24Yeah, well, OK, most of them. They want your attention.
0:24:24 > 0:24:27- But why?- Maybe they might fancy you.
0:24:31 > 0:24:35"Do you want to play with me today?"
0:24:35 > 0:24:39It's not good. Like, it's not fun or good to be in the wrong.
0:24:39 > 0:24:43It's better to be in the right.
0:24:43 > 0:24:46It is hard
0:24:46 > 0:24:51to do the right thing and it's easy to do the wrong thing.
0:24:51 > 0:24:56If you've been doing the wrong thing, normally it hurts your belly.
0:24:56 > 0:25:00So just do the right thing and it will get you somewhere in life.
0:25:10 > 0:25:13You're meant to put all the filling at the bottom.
0:25:13 > 0:25:15Crack!
0:25:15 > 0:25:18- HE BURPS - Pardon me.
0:25:18 > 0:25:21Eight-year-old Edmund lives in the Newbury countryside.
0:25:23 > 0:25:24- Where's the...?- The whizzy thing?
0:25:24 > 0:25:26It was right...
0:25:26 > 0:25:29- Oh, you star, thank you.- But couldn't you see it was right there?
0:25:29 > 0:25:30So...
0:25:30 > 0:25:35An enthusiastic cook, Edmund loves to take charge in the kitchen.
0:25:37 > 0:25:42I like cooking. I don't know why the reason is, but I just like it.
0:25:42 > 0:25:45But he's quite particular about how things should be done.
0:25:45 > 0:25:48I told you to cut the chicken.
0:25:49 > 0:25:50Sorry.
0:25:50 > 0:25:53He needs to do things his own way and will not follow recipes
0:25:53 > 0:25:55which is very, very, very unlike me.
0:25:55 > 0:25:59He doesn't want to be skipping around and playing football
0:25:59 > 0:26:03in the playground. He wants to be talking about science and...
0:26:03 > 0:26:05yeah, things like that.
0:26:05 > 0:26:09Well, there's one thing which I know not many people have that I have.
0:26:09 > 0:26:11I'm hyperflexive.
0:26:11 > 0:26:15Straight, not straight. Straight, not straight.
0:26:15 > 0:26:16It's not just that one.
0:26:16 > 0:26:18Also, I can almost lick my elbow.
0:26:20 > 0:26:22See if I can do it.
0:26:25 > 0:26:27So close.
0:26:27 > 0:26:28I got right here.
0:26:30 > 0:26:34That's good. Now, I want you to track to your left.
0:26:34 > 0:26:37During the summer, Edmund attends the Old Berkshire Hunt Pony Club.
0:26:37 > 0:26:39Now, keep together.
0:26:39 > 0:26:43Established in 1933, its members are riding fanatics
0:26:43 > 0:26:46who can easily spend four sessions a week in the saddle.
0:26:46 > 0:26:48Watch the people behind you.
0:26:48 > 0:26:51But as one of the youngest in the club,
0:26:51 > 0:26:54Edmund's still getting to grips with his riding.
0:26:54 > 0:26:58- I can't get my pony to move anyway! - Well, kick him.- I can't.
0:27:02 > 0:27:04You're tickling him, Edmund.
0:27:04 > 0:27:06I'm not...
0:27:08 > 0:27:10Edmund is the youngest.
0:27:10 > 0:27:13When you are younger,
0:27:13 > 0:27:17you tend to think that everything is,
0:27:17 > 0:27:20like, all right if it goes your way.
0:27:22 > 0:27:26- Who is going first? - Edmund.
0:27:32 > 0:27:33Lollipops!
0:27:33 > 0:27:36Today, the group will have to put aside age differences
0:27:36 > 0:27:38and try to work as a team.
0:27:38 > 0:27:40I will have a lollipop!
0:27:40 > 0:27:42We've got a couple of treats here for you.
0:27:42 > 0:27:45- Lollipops.- Yes, some lollipops.
0:27:45 > 0:27:49And then we've got a really great snack here of carrots.
0:27:49 > 0:27:52Which will be great, really good for you.
0:27:52 > 0:27:55- Ah, they're just carrots.- Yeah, no, we don't want the vegetables.
0:27:55 > 0:27:58Don't want the carrots.
0:27:58 > 0:28:02The deal is, that you all have to agree
0:28:02 > 0:28:06as to whether six of you have lollipops
0:28:06 > 0:28:10and the other six will go without...
0:28:10 > 0:28:13anything. Or you all have a carrot each.
0:28:13 > 0:28:16Please can I have a lollipop?
0:28:17 > 0:28:22Lollipop, lollipop, lollipop, lollipop, lollipop.
0:28:23 > 0:28:26The junior riders must come to a unanimous verdict
0:28:26 > 0:28:31on what they believe is the right thing to do to keep everyone happy.
0:28:31 > 0:28:34- I hate carrots.- Did you just say that you hated carrots?
0:28:34 > 0:28:38- I hate carrots without butter. - They won't be cooked, these carrots.
0:28:38 > 0:28:40- They will be raw. - Have you had a raw carrot?
0:28:40 > 0:28:44I think we should all have a carrot each because they're good for you.
0:28:44 > 0:28:47I would have the carrots.
0:28:47 > 0:28:49Yes! You're with me!
0:28:49 > 0:28:53I've never had a lollipop like that.
0:28:53 > 0:28:56And now's my chance to have one.
0:28:56 > 0:29:00Maybe the other six that don't get one, they haven't had one like you,
0:29:00 > 0:29:02and that wouldn't be fair on them, would it?
0:29:02 > 0:29:05- I hate carrots. - I don't like carrots.
0:29:05 > 0:29:08They taste like salt.
0:29:08 > 0:29:13- You've never tried one. - Excuse me, I have, Mister.
0:29:13 > 0:29:16LAUGHTER
0:29:16 > 0:29:19Can you just remember, everyone else is like you
0:29:19 > 0:29:22and we aren't really making as much fuss.
0:29:22 > 0:29:25And we just want to have a fair amount for everyone.
0:29:25 > 0:29:29They're not ours. Are they?
0:29:31 > 0:29:33Stop trying to be funny!
0:29:33 > 0:29:36It's not our fault you don't like carrots, is it?
0:29:36 > 0:29:40But it's your fault you're not letting other people have anything.
0:29:40 > 0:29:44When I can, I am going to donate most of my sweets to charity.
0:29:44 > 0:29:47- LAUGHTER - Yes, I am!
0:29:47 > 0:29:49It's true!
0:29:49 > 0:29:52Seriously, I don't care!
0:29:52 > 0:29:56I really don't care about your stupid junk food.
0:29:56 > 0:29:59It's true, I am! Stop making fun of it.
0:29:59 > 0:30:01Stop.
0:30:01 > 0:30:05I would like you now to vote
0:30:05 > 0:30:10if you think that six of you
0:30:10 > 0:30:13should be allowed to have
0:30:13 > 0:30:16one lollipop each.
0:30:22 > 0:30:25Who thinks we should leave the lollipops alone
0:30:25 > 0:30:27and everyone has a carrot each?
0:30:29 > 0:30:31I'd much rather be sick!
0:30:33 > 0:30:36You will be sick if you eat too much lollipops!
0:30:38 > 0:30:40Edmund.
0:30:40 > 0:30:43Are you OK? Come here, mate.
0:30:43 > 0:30:47- Edmund, are you OK? - They made fun of me.
0:30:47 > 0:30:51They laughed when I said that... when I said that, that...
0:30:51 > 0:30:55- that I was going to donate... - Yes, it was a lovely loving thought.
0:30:55 > 0:30:57But it is true.
0:30:57 > 0:31:00When I'm the youngest it feels real...
0:31:00 > 0:31:02Well, it's really annoying.
0:31:02 > 0:31:07Older ones have the right or do bully little children.
0:31:07 > 0:31:11They don't bully anybody like them.
0:31:11 > 0:31:14I think possibly cos you're a bit older you sort of hurt his feelings
0:31:14 > 0:31:17- when you laughed at him. - We were laughing with you, Edmund.
0:31:17 > 0:31:21People don't like being sad. It's better to be happy.
0:31:22 > 0:31:26- Do I have to have a carrot? - You have to!
0:31:26 > 0:31:28No!
0:31:28 > 0:31:31So, Edmund...
0:31:31 > 0:31:34I present you with your carrot.
0:31:34 > 0:31:35Do enjoy.
0:31:40 > 0:31:43I'm strong-minded person, I can make my own mind up,
0:31:43 > 0:31:46so I don't need any help.
0:31:46 > 0:31:49Have you seen her face?
0:31:49 > 0:31:54I have to stand up for myself in school a lot.
0:31:54 > 0:31:58Standing up for yourself means a lot because you can get bullied.
0:31:58 > 0:31:59You get picked on.
0:31:59 > 0:32:03I started crying two days ago - do you know why?
0:32:03 > 0:32:06This guy was so rude to me in class.
0:32:06 > 0:32:08He called me a terrorist.
0:32:08 > 0:32:13When somebody's being rude to you, you just stand up and tell them,
0:32:13 > 0:32:16"You can't do this because it's unacceptable."
0:32:16 > 0:32:18And if they continue, tell the teacher.
0:32:24 > 0:32:28Pedro's boxing club prides itself on teaching its young members manners.
0:32:28 > 0:32:31- And I was right... - HE BURPS
0:32:31 > 0:32:35Some, some, some people have...
0:32:35 > 0:32:37Stop burping!
0:32:38 > 0:32:40What's wrong with you?
0:32:40 > 0:32:43Ten-year-old Abdou and nine-year-old Keon are best mates
0:32:43 > 0:32:46whose friendship extends beyond the gym.
0:32:46 > 0:32:48Bud me, bud me.
0:32:48 > 0:32:50You got me again!
0:32:50 > 0:32:52I'm going to get you next time!
0:32:52 > 0:32:55Don't have fights, it's better than burgers.
0:32:59 > 0:33:03- We're going to sit down over there and eat.- Yeah.
0:33:05 > 0:33:08I usually put so much salt
0:33:08 > 0:33:10and it tastes very nice.
0:33:10 > 0:33:14I like burgers because it tastes nice.
0:33:14 > 0:33:16It's like the love of taste.
0:33:16 > 0:33:19The love of taste, that makes no sense!
0:33:19 > 0:33:22It tastes like love, literally.
0:33:22 > 0:33:24Originally from Senegal,
0:33:24 > 0:33:27Abdou moved to the UK four years ago
0:33:27 > 0:33:29and has quickly embraced British culture.
0:33:29 > 0:33:30Fresh bananas!
0:33:30 > 0:33:34We're going to go to the market and we'll make you a nice food, OK?
0:33:34 > 0:33:36- Can I have chips? - Huh?- Can I have chips?
0:33:36 > 0:33:38No chips tonight, no.
0:33:38 > 0:33:41I buy sea bass. We eat rice tonight.
0:33:41 > 0:33:42Not chips, hey?
0:33:42 > 0:33:44Oh. Lovely man.
0:33:44 > 0:33:49Abdou's dad is determined his son doesn't forget their African roots,
0:33:49 > 0:33:53and encourages him to make positive choices growing up.
0:33:53 > 0:33:57My dad's kind and he works very hard.
0:33:58 > 0:34:04He wants me to do well, to do good at school and...
0:34:04 > 0:34:06to get a good job.
0:34:06 > 0:34:11In Africa, in Senegal, we cook the fish like the way I am cooking now.
0:34:11 > 0:34:15- OK.- You be a very good boy. Oh, nice!
0:34:15 > 0:34:18- Good.- I feel like an adult now,
0:34:18 > 0:34:21cos I don't feel like a kid,
0:34:21 > 0:34:26cos I'm cutting and I'm a big man now.
0:34:26 > 0:34:29He teaches me lots of stuff - when he was young,
0:34:29 > 0:34:33what happened when, like, a long time ago.
0:34:35 > 0:34:37You are a good boy, yes!
0:34:38 > 0:34:44When I leave Africa, go to Belgium, Switzerland, everywhere in Europe,
0:34:44 > 0:34:48I see in England my family can have a better future.
0:34:50 > 0:34:53I want to be writing stories,
0:34:53 > 0:34:59like writing news reports and all of that, cos, like, I like writing.
0:35:00 > 0:35:03I'd like to change things in the world because, like,
0:35:03 > 0:35:06people are needing help,
0:35:06 > 0:35:09people are getting killed.
0:35:09 > 0:35:13Lots of suffer happen around the world and it's not supposed to be.
0:35:13 > 0:35:16Yeah, you need lots of stuff to change.
0:35:25 > 0:35:26Abdou and his boxing buddies
0:35:26 > 0:35:29have been presented with a mysterious suitcase.
0:35:30 > 0:35:35When we were out walking before, we came across this
0:35:35 > 0:35:39lying in the street.
0:35:39 > 0:35:41Picked it up,
0:35:41 > 0:35:43and brought it back here.
0:35:44 > 0:35:48Abdou, would you like to look in there?
0:35:48 > 0:35:50Yes.
0:35:50 > 0:35:53Be brave, be brave.
0:35:53 > 0:35:54What's in there?
0:35:54 > 0:35:57Someone's going to spring out.
0:35:57 > 0:35:59- Well done, well done, Abdou. - OK, OK, OK.
0:35:59 > 0:36:01- Cash.- ALL: Whoa!
0:36:01 > 0:36:03Stay back, stay back!
0:36:03 > 0:36:06- Cash.- Oh, my days!
0:36:06 > 0:36:08Cash.
0:36:08 > 0:36:11Somebody's missing a million pounds in there.
0:36:11 > 0:36:14I'm not joking, a million pounds.
0:36:14 > 0:36:17So you're going to tell us which route you think we should take
0:36:17 > 0:36:20and why you think it's the right thing to do.
0:36:20 > 0:36:22The group have four options -
0:36:22 > 0:36:26walking away, calling the police,
0:36:26 > 0:36:27donating to charity
0:36:27 > 0:36:29or keeping the money.
0:36:29 > 0:36:33SHOUTING AND LAUGHING
0:36:33 > 0:36:36What decision will the group make?
0:36:36 > 0:36:39You should walk away or give it to charity.
0:36:39 > 0:36:42- Two of them. - Say that you were broke, yeah,
0:36:42 > 0:36:46and then you didn't have money, you will need food.
0:36:46 > 0:36:49You will need gas. You will need to pay your bills.
0:36:49 > 0:36:53It's finders keepers, losers weepers.
0:36:53 > 0:36:55Every time we do something
0:36:55 > 0:37:00there's consequences and if we touch the money, you will put...
0:37:00 > 0:37:05The police will start questioning you, but if you just leave it,
0:37:05 > 0:37:07nothing will happen to you.
0:37:08 > 0:37:12I find it difficult making my own mind up
0:37:12 > 0:37:16because is this, this way, something bad?
0:37:16 > 0:37:18Or is that that way
0:37:18 > 0:37:21and is that way something good?
0:37:21 > 0:37:23Or is it switched?
0:37:28 > 0:37:30Jumi lives around the corner from Pedro's
0:37:30 > 0:37:32and is the baby of his family.
0:37:36 > 0:37:38Rock, rock!
0:37:38 > 0:37:40There's my mum.
0:37:40 > 0:37:43- Say hello.- Hello! - Sorry, she's eating.
0:37:43 > 0:37:46Thank you very much. There is my brother.
0:37:46 > 0:37:49My sister. And here we have Raff.
0:37:49 > 0:37:51HE LAUGHS
0:37:51 > 0:37:53Get out of my face!
0:37:54 > 0:37:58Yeah. So, that's my whole family.
0:38:00 > 0:38:04Make sure you have your toe pointing up and your heel facing down.
0:38:04 > 0:38:09Older brother Raff is a key part in Jumi's life and aims to keep him
0:38:09 > 0:38:10on the straight and narrow.
0:38:10 > 0:38:13Good, well done, good boy.
0:38:13 > 0:38:15I feel like Raff was like my parent
0:38:15 > 0:38:18because he does help me with a lot of stuff.
0:38:18 > 0:38:24Raff gives me confidence and tells me, focus.
0:38:24 > 0:38:28I mean, I am a bit of a father figure for Jumi.
0:38:28 > 0:38:31He is a really good kid, you know, a big heart and everything.
0:38:32 > 0:38:36I just get worried now and again how he gets influenced
0:38:36 > 0:38:38by his friends and peer pressure and whatnot,
0:38:38 > 0:38:41and he feels like he has to be the funny man
0:38:41 > 0:38:42or he has to act a certain way.
0:38:42 > 0:38:46So I'm just trying to make sure I guide him down the right path
0:38:46 > 0:38:48and make sure that he understands he can be his own person
0:38:48 > 0:38:50and make his own decisions.
0:38:55 > 0:38:58But will his older brother's concerns over peer pressure
0:38:58 > 0:39:00affect Jumi's decision-making?
0:39:00 > 0:39:03We all want to donate it to charity.
0:39:03 > 0:39:06OK. We're dividing the money, OK?
0:39:06 > 0:39:08We're dividing the money.
0:39:08 > 0:39:09Walk away.
0:39:09 > 0:39:11Donate to charity.
0:39:11 > 0:39:15- Yeah.- That's sad, that's just sad.
0:39:15 > 0:39:18Call the police, actually, call the police and then divide the money.
0:39:18 > 0:39:21No, divide the money, divide the money.
0:39:23 > 0:39:25- What's wrong?- Nothing.
0:39:25 > 0:39:29What's wrong? I know something's wrong. I do!
0:39:31 > 0:39:35I'm stuck, because both of them are great choices
0:39:35 > 0:39:37But I do not know what to do.
0:39:37 > 0:39:39Dividing the money.
0:39:39 > 0:39:43You get a quarter, you get a quarter and I get...
0:39:43 > 0:39:47Divide the money by yourself, because I like money.
0:39:47 > 0:39:51- OK.- We're not dividing it. - Yes, we are.
0:39:51 > 0:39:54People think, "Yes, let's take the money, this is our chance,
0:39:54 > 0:39:56"it's going to be good!"
0:39:56 > 0:39:59Only I want to divide the money and no-one else wants...
0:39:59 > 0:40:03- I do!- Everyone else wants to give to charity.- I do.
0:40:03 > 0:40:05Oh, wow.
0:40:05 > 0:40:10They're like, "Jumi, take this." I'm like, "OK... Am I allowed?"
0:40:10 > 0:40:13And then, "Jumi, come on, come on, walk away!"
0:40:13 > 0:40:16I'm like... "Don't know."
0:40:16 > 0:40:17Who wants to call the police?
0:40:19 > 0:40:21Who wants to donate to charity?
0:40:21 > 0:40:23Who wants to walk away?
0:40:23 > 0:40:24Yes!
0:40:25 > 0:40:29Who wants to divide the money by ourselves?
0:40:31 > 0:40:33Just say we want the money.
0:40:33 > 0:40:36I will slap the head of yours.
0:40:37 > 0:40:41OK. You've got to make a decision as a whole group.
0:40:41 > 0:40:43Just have a vote now.
0:40:43 > 0:40:45The first option is we tell the police.
0:40:45 > 0:40:47Hands up if you want to tell the police.
0:40:47 > 0:40:49ALL: Boo!
0:40:49 > 0:40:51The second option is...
0:40:51 > 0:40:54we give all the money to charity.
0:40:54 > 0:40:55ALL: Boo!
0:40:55 > 0:40:57The third option is...
0:40:58 > 0:41:02..we can divide this money up amongst ourselves.
0:41:03 > 0:41:07Hands up if you think we should divide the money amongst ourselves!
0:41:07 > 0:41:11- CHEERING - Hold on!
0:41:11 > 0:41:12Abdou, what do you want to do?
0:41:12 > 0:41:15- Walk away.- Stand up.
0:41:15 > 0:41:18Can we wave goodbye to them?
0:41:18 > 0:41:21- Bye!- Yay, bye-bye, have a nice day.
0:41:21 > 0:41:24I walked away because I didn't want to get involved in nothing.
0:41:24 > 0:41:28No jail, just happily live my life properly.
0:41:28 > 0:41:30- Hi, guys.- Hi!
0:41:31 > 0:41:33You chose to leave.
0:41:33 > 0:41:35We chose to leave
0:41:35 > 0:41:37because we didn't want to get involved with nothing.
0:41:37 > 0:41:41And when we walk away, it's better. We can just live our lives.
0:41:41 > 0:41:45Absolutely. But don't be looking behind your back thinking about
0:41:45 > 0:41:47what you've done. Well done. Well done, you three.
0:41:47 > 0:41:49I don't know what to give you now.
0:41:49 > 0:41:52You can get a Pepsi from me, you get an apple.
0:41:52 > 0:41:54Archie will get a pear.
0:41:54 > 0:41:56KIDS LAUGH
0:41:56 > 0:41:59You should be thinking about you,
0:41:59 > 0:42:02not the other person, so it's just you,
0:42:02 > 0:42:05so you pick what you want, not the other person.
0:42:05 > 0:42:08The other person can be a bad person.
0:42:08 > 0:42:12Yeah. So you think before you do stuff.
0:42:12 > 0:42:14Here you go.
0:42:14 > 0:42:16OK, let me count all my money, let me count all my money,
0:42:16 > 0:42:19- let me count all my money.- 10,000.
0:42:19 > 0:42:21- Yes, 10,000! 10,000. - I've got 7,000.
0:42:21 > 0:42:24- GLOVES SLAP - Whoa!
0:42:24 > 0:42:26Right. Stay where you are.
0:42:26 > 0:42:30One of our rules in the gym - if you find something,
0:42:30 > 0:42:33anything that doesn't belong to you, you return it.
0:42:33 > 0:42:36When we come through this door, OK,
0:42:36 > 0:42:41we are taught certain rules, respect. We said to you,
0:42:41 > 0:42:44boxing is about discipline, respect, manners, attitude.
0:42:44 > 0:42:47You are what you do. Remember, you are what you do,
0:42:47 > 0:42:50going to follow you for the rest of your life.
0:42:50 > 0:42:53This didn't show nothing about what we're trying to teach you.
0:42:53 > 0:42:57To me, you guys did not make the right choice.
0:42:58 > 0:43:00In the real world,
0:43:00 > 0:43:03are you guys going to make the choice you make right now?
0:43:03 > 0:43:08Will you be happy with yourself, the choice you just made?
0:43:08 > 0:43:11Jumi, why did you make this choice?
0:43:11 > 0:43:14We made this choice because we think that...
0:43:15 > 0:43:19Well, them two think that it's OK to take money.
0:43:21 > 0:43:24You went along with that. So does that mean if someone suggests
0:43:24 > 0:43:26something bad to you, you will follow the lead?
0:43:26 > 0:43:29- No.- Yes, but you did.
0:43:29 > 0:43:32Once you make a choice, that's it.
0:43:35 > 0:43:37It's about your choices.
0:43:37 > 0:43:40Everybody has to make a mistake.
0:43:40 > 0:43:42It's not possible for one person
0:43:42 > 0:43:46in the whole entire universe,
0:43:46 > 0:43:48even the planets,
0:43:48 > 0:43:50it's not possible to make a mistake.
0:43:50 > 0:43:54That's if you're really clever, clever, clever, clever.
0:43:54 > 0:43:56It's like infinity clever.
0:43:56 > 0:43:59Oh, my days. I just stole money.
0:43:59 > 0:44:02I just stole money.
0:44:02 > 0:44:04I just stole money.
0:44:05 > 0:44:08I just stole money.
0:44:08 > 0:44:11Even Einstein made a mistake.
0:44:12 > 0:44:17He's only smart in, like, subjects,
0:44:17 > 0:44:20but he don't know if he's smart in his behaviour.
0:44:21 > 0:44:26- You've lost trust.- You've lost trust. We are afraid of you.
0:44:26 > 0:44:28I'm worried for my things.
0:44:29 > 0:44:32I think the best thing for all of you to stand up...
0:44:34 > 0:44:3520 press-ups.
0:44:35 > 0:44:38- Oh, no!- One, two.
0:44:38 > 0:44:41If your knee touches, you start again. Three.
0:44:44 > 0:44:50I took money which was bad and committed a crime.
0:44:50 > 0:44:52Which is another bad thing.
0:45:03 > 0:45:07- Ready to go. Mum, I'm going! - Bye.
0:45:07 > 0:45:11Jumi's older brother Raff, a semi-professional footballer,
0:45:11 > 0:45:14is keen for Jumi to start thinking for himself
0:45:14 > 0:45:16and stop giving in to peer pressure.
0:45:16 > 0:45:20I have learned the hard way, and I'm trying to make sure
0:45:20 > 0:45:24that my brother does not go through the same mistakes.
0:45:25 > 0:45:29I never had a father figure growing up.
0:45:29 > 0:45:32He doesn't understand how much I can help him, or make sure he doesn't
0:45:32 > 0:45:35make those same mistakes, doesn't get influenced by friends,
0:45:35 > 0:45:38and he has his own personality, his own identity.
0:45:38 > 0:45:41Do you feel like your friends influence you?
0:45:41 > 0:45:44- Some of them.- That's the problem right there.- Yeah.
0:45:44 > 0:45:46It can be a domino effect.
0:45:46 > 0:45:49Let me tell you a bit about
0:45:49 > 0:45:52how I grew up around here, around the square.
0:45:52 > 0:45:56Maybe just a bit over your age,
0:45:56 > 0:45:59I got involved with all the gangs and whatnot.
0:45:59 > 0:46:04It affected my school life and it affected my career and football.
0:46:04 > 0:46:08- It affected a lot of things, to be honest.- What used to happen?
0:46:08 > 0:46:10I used to get into altercations
0:46:10 > 0:46:13or fights with other gang members and whatnot.
0:46:13 > 0:46:15And it would only be you?
0:46:15 > 0:46:18No, if I was with my friends, or if I'm going to school,
0:46:18 > 0:46:22but there was one moment where I could have been,
0:46:22 > 0:46:26yeah, maybe in jail. You know, my friends at the time,
0:46:26 > 0:46:29who I thought were my friends were doing things that were wrong,
0:46:29 > 0:46:32but in that moment I said to myself, "I'm not going to follow them,"
0:46:32 > 0:46:34and I actually went home that day.
0:46:36 > 0:46:39And then they got in trouble
0:46:39 > 0:46:42and most of them are in jail.
0:46:44 > 0:46:46You know. And just think about making sure
0:46:46 > 0:46:49you do what's right in school and not get yourself
0:46:49 > 0:46:51involved with people that are going to get in trouble.
0:46:54 > 0:46:56I would listen to an older child
0:46:56 > 0:47:00because usually younger children say more silly stuff
0:47:00 > 0:47:03and I don't really like silly stuff.
0:47:03 > 0:47:06Just cos you're older, it doesn't mean you, like,
0:47:06 > 0:47:09it doesn't mean you can boss around other people.
0:47:09 > 0:47:11You're older, wow, you're old.
0:47:11 > 0:47:14If you're small, it doesn't mean you have to listen to them.
0:47:14 > 0:47:17I quite like being bossy because it's just like,
0:47:17 > 0:47:19"No, you shouldn't do that!
0:47:19 > 0:47:23"This is my game so I can tell you how to play it!"
0:47:38 > 0:47:42Eight-year-old chorister Holly is as dedicated to martial arts
0:47:42 > 0:47:44as she is to her singing,
0:47:44 > 0:47:49going twice a week to practise the Korean discipline Kuk Sool Won.
0:47:49 > 0:47:53Dul, set, net, daseot.
0:47:53 > 0:47:56In martial arts, we do a lot of kicking and punching
0:47:56 > 0:47:58and I really like it because
0:47:58 > 0:48:01when you start off with a kick, you just do...
0:48:01 > 0:48:05Most people just lift their leg a couple of inches.
0:48:05 > 0:48:07Then you go centimetres, then you go metres,
0:48:07 > 0:48:10so metres high over your head,
0:48:10 > 0:48:11so you're getting better.
0:48:13 > 0:48:16- ALL:- Yes to practise every day.
0:48:16 > 0:48:20No to drugs and cigarettes.
0:48:20 > 0:48:21The speech that we say
0:48:21 > 0:48:24is all the things that we should and we shouldn't do
0:48:24 > 0:48:27like yes to helping, no to bullying.
0:48:28 > 0:48:30Aah!
0:48:30 > 0:48:33For the last few weeks, Holly's been putting in extra training.
0:48:33 > 0:48:38She's preparing for a test to try and achieve her fifth grade.
0:48:38 > 0:48:40It's going to be awesome with the brown belt
0:48:40 > 0:48:43and the red belt gone and a new brown, shiny belt.
0:48:43 > 0:48:44And a jammy doughnut.
0:48:44 > 0:48:46And a jammy doughnut!
0:48:46 > 0:48:49- If I do get it.- If you pass.
0:48:49 > 0:48:51- ALL:- Kuk Sool!
0:48:56 > 0:48:59When I have a big challenge coming up, I feel...
0:48:59 > 0:49:01I feel scared, I feel nervous.
0:49:02 > 0:49:06OK. So we'll stand this way. We're going to go through Ki Bohn Soo.
0:49:06 > 0:49:09Practice is important when you're trying to achieve something.
0:49:09 > 0:49:11Ready, position.
0:49:11 > 0:49:13Number one, full takedown, begin.
0:49:17 > 0:49:23I feel a little bit nervous, but I feel a teensy, teensy bit excited,
0:49:23 > 0:49:25like as small as an atom.
0:49:26 > 0:49:28Hana.
0:49:28 > 0:49:30Dul.
0:49:30 > 0:49:31Outside kick.
0:49:34 > 0:49:35Daseot.
0:49:47 > 0:49:50Holly passed. Brown belt.
0:49:57 > 0:49:59When I achieved that belt, I felt really great.
0:50:01 > 0:50:06Every time you do work, it pays off in a bam like that.
0:50:06 > 0:50:08Can we give Holly a big clap, please?
0:50:14 > 0:50:17You came in this class as a red belt and now you can go out
0:50:17 > 0:50:19with a shiny, new brown belt.
0:50:19 > 0:50:21We have to get a photograph.
0:50:21 > 0:50:25- And a jammy doughnut. - And you can have your jam doughnut!
0:50:25 > 0:50:26Well done!
0:50:26 > 0:50:29When you want a new belt and you don't get it,
0:50:29 > 0:50:30doesn't really matter.
0:50:30 > 0:50:34All you have to do is carry on, do it again, and again,
0:50:34 > 0:50:35and again if you have to.
0:50:35 > 0:50:38Do it 8,000 times if you have to.
0:50:38 > 0:50:42Do it... Do it a quazillion times if you have to.
0:50:45 > 0:50:46One.
0:50:47 > 0:50:49Two.
0:50:50 > 0:50:53Three. Four.
0:50:53 > 0:50:57At Pedro's boxing club, the children are reaching the end of term
0:50:57 > 0:50:59and the summer holidays are fast approaching.
0:51:00 > 0:51:03I'm really excited cos it's the holidays now.
0:51:03 > 0:51:06Spend time with my family and my friends,
0:51:06 > 0:51:07train even harder.
0:51:11 > 0:51:15Next year is going to look quite different for ten-year-old Malaya.
0:51:15 > 0:51:18Her fighting in school was getting worse,
0:51:18 > 0:51:21so the family has taken a radical decision.
0:51:24 > 0:51:26I had to, like, change school
0:51:26 > 0:51:29because at my old school I've been getting into trouble.
0:51:31 > 0:51:34I know that two wrongs do not make a right.
0:51:35 > 0:51:37I regret being bad.
0:51:38 > 0:51:42I know that I can change and I won't do the...
0:51:42 > 0:51:47have the same actions I done when I was in my old school.
0:51:57 > 0:51:59The fighting was getting out of hand,
0:51:59 > 0:52:03so we came up with a solution that we would just move schools.
0:52:03 > 0:52:06Just a fresh start, new beginning...
0:52:07 > 0:52:11..and hopefully there'd be no more fighting at her new school.
0:52:16 > 0:52:19So, Lay, how do you feel about starting your new school?
0:52:20 > 0:52:21You seem, like, upset.
0:52:23 > 0:52:28I'm upset cos I actually think that I can actually change,
0:52:28 > 0:52:30that if I went back to my old school...
0:52:32 > 0:52:34..I would be different.
0:52:35 > 0:52:39But now I don't think I can go back there.
0:52:39 > 0:52:43This is, like, your second chance to prove, not to anybody else,
0:52:43 > 0:52:46not just anybody else, but to yourself as well that you can do it.
0:52:49 > 0:52:51Cos not a lot of people have second chances.
0:52:52 > 0:52:56Just be that calm child that you used to be.
0:52:56 > 0:52:59- Mm-hm.- Yeah.
0:52:59 > 0:53:02I like that one better. I like the calm.
0:53:04 > 0:53:06I am going to change my ways.
0:53:09 > 0:53:14- You're going to change?- By not getting into fights, how I was.
0:53:18 > 0:53:19- Score!- No goal!
0:53:19 > 0:53:21That's my goal.
0:53:22 > 0:53:24'I think that the new school that I'll go to now
0:53:24 > 0:53:26'is a fresh beginning for me.'
0:53:26 > 0:53:31In my old school, I was having a hard time but in my new school,
0:53:31 > 0:53:32the children are different there.
0:53:34 > 0:53:37All the boys are not annoying me any more.
0:53:38 > 0:53:39Try and get the ball off me. Are you ready? Go.
0:53:39 > 0:53:42After all the upheaval, Malaya's determined
0:53:42 > 0:53:46little brother Mackai doesn't make the same mistakes she has.
0:53:46 > 0:53:49'I want my brother to follow me by doing the good thing
0:53:49 > 0:53:54'and I don't want him to do the bad thing like what I was doing.'
0:53:54 > 0:53:56OK, let's talk.
0:53:56 > 0:53:59So do you like school or not?
0:53:59 > 0:54:00Do YOU like school or not?
0:54:00 > 0:54:03I like school.
0:54:03 > 0:54:04I don't know why!
0:54:05 > 0:54:09Remember in my other old school, I used to get into a lot of fights.
0:54:09 > 0:54:12But now, do I get into...?
0:54:12 > 0:54:14But now, do I get into lots of fights?
0:54:14 > 0:54:16No.
0:54:16 > 0:54:18See, it's a change.
0:54:18 > 0:54:25Sometimes you have to take responsibility of your own actions
0:54:25 > 0:54:30because when you're older and you keep on fighting and being rude,
0:54:30 > 0:54:34you can go to prison when you're older.
0:54:34 > 0:54:40Or when you're taller like a giant, you go to giant prison.
0:54:40 > 0:54:41Giant prison!
0:54:41 > 0:54:43I think that I will be...
0:54:43 > 0:54:47Yeah, I think I'll be happy, how I am right now.
0:54:47 > 0:54:49Do you love me, Kai?
0:54:49 > 0:54:52- Yeah.- Do you love me lots and lots and lots?
0:54:52 > 0:54:55Your life is always your responsibility.
0:54:56 > 0:54:57Hey, hey.
0:54:59 > 0:55:02'I'm learning who I actually can be.'
0:55:03 > 0:55:09I think that it takes time, like, time to know who you want to be,
0:55:09 > 0:55:10or what you want to be like.
0:55:13 > 0:55:15I like being happy.
0:55:15 > 0:55:17I like being...
0:55:20 > 0:55:22..I'll say...
0:55:22 > 0:55:23yellow.
0:55:29 > 0:55:31Yes!
0:55:31 > 0:55:33Yes! Yes!
0:55:33 > 0:55:38Finally! Finally! Finally!
0:55:38 > 0:55:39- So, Jumi...- Yes?
0:55:39 > 0:55:41What's in your hand? Why are you so happy, young man?
0:55:41 > 0:55:44I got a golden achiever.
0:55:44 > 0:55:45Year five.
0:55:45 > 0:55:49And it just says, "For being resilient,
0:55:49 > 0:55:54"having a positive attitude towards his learning,"
0:55:54 > 0:56:01well, my learning, basically, "and focusing on the task at hand."
0:56:01 > 0:56:03It's really good and I'm really proud.
0:56:03 > 0:56:06I'm going to go and show Raff my golden achiever.
0:56:06 > 0:56:09He's going to be so happy.
0:56:09 > 0:56:11He's going to be, like, "Well done, well done!"
0:56:11 > 0:56:13I'm going to be like, "Yes!"
0:56:15 > 0:56:16Yes!
0:56:18 > 0:56:19Raff.
0:56:21 > 0:56:22I got a golden achiever today.
0:56:22 > 0:56:24- Is it?- Yeah.- Yes!
0:56:26 > 0:56:27Well done.
0:56:27 > 0:56:28So it looks like you HAVE been
0:56:28 > 0:56:30listening to what I've been
0:56:30 > 0:56:31- saying, then, haven't you?- Yeah.
0:56:31 > 0:56:33How many people got it?
0:56:33 > 0:56:36From my class, two people, cos a maximum of two people can get it.
0:56:36 > 0:56:39So what does that mean? Do I owe you something, then?
0:56:39 > 0:56:42- Yes.- What do I owe you?- Ice cream.
0:56:42 > 0:56:43Or anything.
0:56:45 > 0:56:46Ow!
0:56:46 > 0:56:51'I'm feeling it starting to, like, understand what he means by'
0:56:51 > 0:56:53focus on your own mind and focus on the right thing,
0:56:53 > 0:56:56not the wrong thing,
0:56:56 > 0:57:01and always be good and try your best.
0:57:02 > 0:57:05I'm really proud of you that you're actually starting to listen now,
0:57:05 > 0:57:07so keep it up, yeah?
0:57:07 > 0:57:09Yeah.
0:57:09 > 0:57:14'The happiness just boiled inside of me and it felt really fun.'
0:57:14 > 0:57:19I'm never dropping down. I'm going up, up, up the whole way.
0:57:19 > 0:57:20Rock and roll.
0:57:26 > 0:57:28I'm not listening to other people.
0:57:28 > 0:57:31I'm my own self now. I'm my own boy.
0:57:31 > 0:57:33Get me, I'm an OG.
0:57:33 > 0:57:36That's why I got this golden achiever and I love it.
0:57:42 > 0:57:44Next time...
0:57:44 > 0:57:47I think heaven is made out of clouds.
0:57:47 > 0:57:48..how kids see belief...
0:57:48 > 0:57:51What are the toilets made out of?
0:57:52 > 0:57:55..faith is needed before a big challenge...
0:57:57 > 0:58:00..and some of life's mysteries are revealed.
0:58:00 > 0:58:02- It's its heart?- We got the heart.