Episode 2

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0:00:03 > 0:00:05The Lakelands of Fermanagh,

0:00:05 > 0:00:07for centuries, a place of spiritual retreat.

0:00:07 > 0:00:13For seven days, the stunning island of Lusty Beg has become home

0:00:13 > 0:00:16to three courageous families from Northern Ireland

0:00:16 > 0:00:19as they attempt to change their diet and lifestyles

0:00:19 > 0:00:23in a bid to lose weight and live healthier lives.

0:00:24 > 0:00:27This week here at Lusty Beg for the three families

0:00:27 > 0:00:30is about us tackling the issue of their weight problems

0:00:30 > 0:00:31from every angle.

0:00:31 > 0:00:35For Isobel, Nick and daughter Rachael,

0:00:35 > 0:00:38Ryan, Ellie, Mum Cara and stepdad Johnny,

0:00:38 > 0:00:42and for mother and daughter Rosie and Ellen,

0:00:42 > 0:00:45it's a week about learning how to say "no".

0:00:46 > 0:00:51When someone says "no" to me, I can be very resentful about that.

0:00:51 > 0:00:54It's a week of commitment...

0:00:54 > 0:00:55Kick it!

0:00:55 > 0:00:57..of trust,

0:00:57 > 0:01:00and, most importantly, of facing the truth.

0:01:00 > 0:01:02Why are you not taking your gym kit with you?

0:01:02 > 0:01:05Why are you not going to the gym before work?

0:01:05 > 0:01:08Why not after work? And you always have an excuse.

0:01:09 > 0:01:11Touche.

0:01:12 > 0:01:14It's not about blame.

0:01:14 > 0:01:16It's a journey of self-discovery.

0:01:17 > 0:01:20With the support of a team of experts,

0:01:20 > 0:01:23these families have a unique chance, not only to transform

0:01:23 > 0:01:25their hearts, minds and bodies,

0:01:25 > 0:01:27but to redefine their future.

0:01:33 > 0:01:35COCKEREL CROWS

0:01:37 > 0:01:41As the island wakes up and the morning gets under way,

0:01:41 > 0:01:46Amanda Hamilton, one of the world's leading nutritionists

0:01:46 > 0:01:49and team leader for the week,

0:01:49 > 0:01:54gathers the families together on their first full day of the retreat.

0:01:54 > 0:01:55Good morning, everyone.

0:01:55 > 0:01:59I know it's nice and early, 7.20am.

0:01:59 > 0:02:04She's keen to begin the first lesson of good nutrition - breakfast.

0:02:04 > 0:02:08What do you normally eat in the mornings for breakfast?

0:02:08 > 0:02:11Weekend, sometimes. Monday to Friday, never.

0:02:11 > 0:02:15Yeah, you were both skipping meals a lot.

0:02:15 > 0:02:17This is the first time we've tackled the obesity problem

0:02:17 > 0:02:19within the family framework.

0:02:19 > 0:02:23Do we all understand the best thing to do in the morning is eat?

0:02:23 > 0:02:27We know from obesity trends and studying childhood obesity

0:02:27 > 0:02:31that what your parents do, what size your parents are

0:02:31 > 0:02:34and what their habits are,

0:02:34 > 0:02:38really predicts the life outcome of that child, which is terrifying.

0:02:40 > 0:02:42The other thing about breakfast

0:02:42 > 0:02:46is it's a great time to get some of the fruit

0:02:46 > 0:02:48that a lot of you are lacking in the rest of the day.

0:02:48 > 0:02:52So one of the ideas I thought might work for you all as families,

0:02:52 > 0:02:56and I do this at home with my kids, not every morning but some mornings,

0:02:56 > 0:02:57is to make smoothies.

0:02:57 > 0:02:58LAUGHTER

0:02:58 > 0:03:01So let's get the kids up.

0:03:03 > 0:03:05Ryan and Ellie, you're here.

0:03:05 > 0:03:09My philosophy around food and eating is that it has to be real.

0:03:09 > 0:03:13Not just the food itself, which should be real and unprocessed,

0:03:13 > 0:03:15but real in terms of it being realistic

0:03:15 > 0:03:20within the framework of busy family lives, juggling childcare, schools...

0:03:24 > 0:03:26'Saying that, when somebody says to me,

0:03:26 > 0:03:29'"I've got no time," I don't believe them.'

0:03:29 > 0:03:34Add a bit of orange juice. This can be any kind of juice you want.

0:03:34 > 0:03:38It takes a five-minute conversation with your partner or with your child.

0:03:38 > 0:03:41"What are we going to eat this week?"

0:03:41 > 0:03:45Just a tiny bit of pre-planning can change the course of that week.

0:03:45 > 0:03:47We'll give it a wee try.

0:03:47 > 0:03:52It's more a mindset change I think than being a genuine lack of time.

0:03:52 > 0:03:53It's really nice, actually.

0:03:53 > 0:03:56Could you make one for your mum, give her a try?

0:03:56 > 0:03:59These fruit and yogurt smoothies may be a hit with the kids,

0:03:59 > 0:04:01but some parents need convincing.

0:04:01 > 0:04:03That's not going to be possible Monday to Friday

0:04:03 > 0:04:06because it's a nightmare... You know yourself -

0:04:06 > 0:04:08getting them up, get to school, bag...

0:04:08 > 0:04:11It's just a fighting war in the mornings...

0:04:11 > 0:04:15See, I don't believe that, I don't get that. Because it is possible.

0:04:15 > 0:04:19I mean, what's not possible is that we all walk up Mount Everest today,

0:04:19 > 0:04:23or to solve world peace or to clear the debt.

0:04:23 > 0:04:26But what is possible is that you get up five minutes earlier,

0:04:26 > 0:04:29that's well within the realms of possibility.

0:04:32 > 0:04:35Stern words from Amanda.

0:04:35 > 0:04:37And no excuses here either,

0:04:37 > 0:04:40as everyone is expected to join the aqua aerobics class

0:04:40 > 0:04:42run by fitness expert, John Coulter.

0:04:46 > 0:04:51Collectively, the five adults alone have around 30 stone to lose,

0:04:51 > 0:04:54and what better way to start shifting the pounds

0:04:54 > 0:04:58than 40 minutes of playtime in the pool?

0:04:58 > 0:05:01And by exercising regularly, they'll not only burn calories,

0:05:01 > 0:05:03they'll significantly reduce the risk

0:05:03 > 0:05:07of the killers - coronary heart disease, diabetes and stroke.

0:05:09 > 0:05:12Love it. Just bring it straight forward.

0:05:13 > 0:05:16While John puts the group through their paces,

0:05:16 > 0:05:21Amanda makes a surprise delivery of breakfast ingredients

0:05:21 > 0:05:23to the families' lodges.

0:05:23 > 0:05:27Porridge for four, some home-made bread,

0:05:27 > 0:05:31a bit of honey and an egg each.

0:05:34 > 0:05:36Three, two, one...

0:05:36 > 0:05:40thank you very much. Good work this morning, well done.

0:05:40 > 0:05:46Just want you to take it out. Start to cool down now. Fantastic work.

0:05:49 > 0:05:51Here on the island, the families will be encouraged

0:05:51 > 0:05:54to take responsibility for their own nutrition.

0:05:54 > 0:05:57Not all their meals will be handed to them on a plate.

0:05:57 > 0:06:01But how will they get on with their new, all-natural breakfast menu?

0:06:01 > 0:06:02I do like porridge, actually.

0:06:02 > 0:06:06Yeah, I really do, although I prefer it with lots of sugar

0:06:06 > 0:06:08and a bit of cream on top of it.

0:06:08 > 0:06:11But yeah, it's grand, very glad to get it this morning.

0:06:16 > 0:06:20Oh, yes, Rachael has gone to collect her mother's watch,

0:06:20 > 0:06:21which she left at the swimming pool

0:06:21 > 0:06:25and I'm left to look after the eggs.

0:06:25 > 0:06:29We didn't go for the porridge because we thought timescale, we'd leave it.

0:06:29 > 0:06:32Again I suppose that's one thing - we should have time.

0:06:32 > 0:06:35That's what Amanda said, make the time.

0:06:36 > 0:06:40I used to eat it but I wouldn't have eaten it now in a year or so.

0:06:40 > 0:06:44And I definitely wouldn't have eaten it without milk.

0:06:44 > 0:06:47We had to make it with water... it's a good change.

0:06:47 > 0:06:52I feel fuller even for it. In the morning time you'd eat cereal and you wouldn't feel as full.

0:06:54 > 0:06:57Although nutrition is important, the backbone of the week

0:06:57 > 0:07:01will consist of psychotherapy to explore what's going on underneath the surface

0:07:01 > 0:07:05and potentially uncover the underlying causes of the group's overeating.

0:07:05 > 0:07:11The children have a morning therapy session with Dr Rachel Andrew.

0:07:11 > 0:07:13Hello and welcome to our first group session.

0:07:13 > 0:07:18My name's Rachel, I'm one of the psychologists and I specialise

0:07:18 > 0:07:21in working with children and young people and families as well.

0:07:23 > 0:07:25'I think the therapy sessions can give people'

0:07:25 > 0:07:30and families the opportunity to just think about the way in which

0:07:30 > 0:07:34they eat or the lifestyle they're choosing to have.

0:07:34 > 0:07:37Because we're meeting in a group, I thought the first thing

0:07:37 > 0:07:40we should do is think about some group rules

0:07:40 > 0:07:44and how this is going to work really so everybody can feel that they

0:07:44 > 0:07:50can talk about things in an open way and maybe not feel too worried.

0:07:50 > 0:07:55Does anybody have any rules that they would like to say?

0:07:55 > 0:07:57Don't pressurise anybody to say it.

0:07:57 > 0:08:01Say there's a question, like something personal you don't want to say.

0:08:01 > 0:08:04Once the ground rules have been drawn up, the children can be

0:08:04 > 0:08:10more comfortable taking part, knowing that there are clear boundaries in place.

0:08:13 > 0:08:15I asked you to bring some photographs with you

0:08:15 > 0:08:20and one of those photographs was a photograph which had really good memories

0:08:20 > 0:08:22and was you looking really good.

0:08:22 > 0:08:24And the other photograph was one that

0:08:24 > 0:08:27when you look at it, you don't really like it.

0:08:27 > 0:08:30So if we start with the good ones...

0:08:31 > 0:08:36Rachael, you look really excited about the idea of sharing your picture...

0:08:36 > 0:08:39Would you like to tell me a bit about yours?

0:08:39 > 0:08:42I was going to my uncle Andrew's wedding.

0:08:42 > 0:08:45I really liked it cos I wasn't so..

0:08:45 > 0:08:51I kept on eating fruit and I kept on drinking water a lot

0:08:51 > 0:08:53but now everything has changed.

0:08:53 > 0:08:59I keep on eating bad things and not drinking enough water.

0:08:59 > 0:09:01- Right.- I say so.

0:09:03 > 0:09:10But at that time you remember yourself eating quite healthily and drinking lots of water.

0:09:10 > 0:09:14I love that picture. Look at that dress!

0:09:14 > 0:09:17Can we have a look at the other pictures that you've brought

0:09:17 > 0:09:21which maybe you don't feel that confident about?

0:09:21 > 0:09:25This was this year in France.

0:09:25 > 0:09:29Um... I didn't realise... When I looked at it, I didn't realise

0:09:29 > 0:09:31until I looked at this photo

0:09:31 > 0:09:35and it looked completely different to what I look today.

0:09:35 > 0:09:36Right.

0:09:40 > 0:09:43It proves that I haven't been eating healthy enough.

0:09:43 > 0:09:46What do you think, Rachael,

0:09:46 > 0:09:50when you look at this picture of you then in the red dress?

0:09:51 > 0:09:56Disappointed.

0:09:58 > 0:10:03When I was younger, I would eat nearly everything. I would eat vegetables.

0:10:05 > 0:10:09But now I've got really, really picky so I only eat meat and fish.

0:10:12 > 0:10:17Do you have an idea about what's brought about that change?

0:10:17 > 0:10:19Mainly because my dad...

0:10:19 > 0:10:23My dad used to come home earlier so he was able to make dinner for us.

0:10:25 > 0:10:30But now he comes home really late and my mum comes home really late now.

0:10:30 > 0:10:35So we would usually just get a take-out or... and bring it back.

0:10:35 > 0:10:43Um... Now and then I feel like I have to stop but then when someone says "That'll be the last time,"

0:10:43 > 0:10:47- I go "OK" but it keeps on happening.- Ah, OK.

0:10:48 > 0:10:52- So I have no idea of how to stop it any more.- No.

0:11:00 > 0:11:04It's been a tough experience for ten-year-old Rachael.

0:11:04 > 0:11:07Her revelations can be aired in a family session later

0:11:07 > 0:11:12but for the moment, her parents Isobel and Nick are about to join

0:11:12 > 0:11:16Dr Raman Kapur for the first of their daily group therapy sessions.

0:11:16 > 0:11:21None of the adults knows quite what to expect,

0:11:21 > 0:11:23and Raman offers no guidance.

0:11:25 > 0:11:27Hello, hello.

0:11:27 > 0:11:31His approach is very different to Rachel's.

0:11:31 > 0:11:35Raman leaves a silence and waits for it to be filled.

0:11:44 > 0:11:48'I'm a clinical psychologist who's specialised in psychotherapy'

0:11:48 > 0:11:50and the main style of work

0:11:50 > 0:11:53is to focus on how the patient relates to himself and to others.

0:11:53 > 0:11:58So what I'm trying to do in the work is see how the patient relates to me.

0:11:58 > 0:12:00And that's why I keep quiet and keep still.

0:12:03 > 0:12:07My problem with food really comes from knowing what I like to eat

0:12:07 > 0:12:11and knowing what I should be eating, and they're poles apart.

0:12:11 > 0:12:14It's when you go to a restaurant and see the menu,

0:12:14 > 0:12:17and the fish with the steamed vegetables is there,

0:12:17 > 0:12:20and you know what's what you should be eating,

0:12:20 > 0:12:22but the steak and the sauteed spuds is there as well.

0:12:22 > 0:12:24And that's what I like to eat.

0:12:24 > 0:12:27So I'll eat that rather than go for the fish and the veg.

0:12:28 > 0:12:30When I'm eating it, it's lovely,

0:12:30 > 0:12:35and when I'm finished, I'm going "Shouldn't gave eaten that. Should have had the fish and the veg."

0:12:35 > 0:12:38- So something turns the healthy option down.- Yeah.

0:12:38 > 0:12:42- Something in your mind turns the healthy option down.- Absolutely.

0:12:42 > 0:12:47You think very short term. When you're there in the moment

0:12:47 > 0:12:49you don't think "I'm going to gain weight"

0:12:49 > 0:12:52or "This is so bad for me" or "This could give me a heart attack."

0:12:52 > 0:12:56just think of there and now. Getting from A to B, preparing the meal.

0:12:56 > 0:13:01Getting the tea, it's like a rat race - you're always chasing yourself.

0:13:01 > 0:13:06You don't think long term like you should. You think very short term.

0:13:06 > 0:13:08- Immediate gratification.- Yes.

0:13:10 > 0:13:14And then you've got all this instant gratification society

0:13:14 > 0:13:18which then obviously permeates into your family life.

0:13:18 > 0:13:21Then saying no feels a really huge task.

0:13:21 > 0:13:24No to yourself and no to others.

0:13:24 > 0:13:28You've got to give up instant gratification,

0:13:28 > 0:13:31you've got to give up postponing the day you're going to start something,

0:13:31 > 0:13:36you've got to give up that instant pleasure, that quick fix.

0:13:36 > 0:13:39So it's a lot to take on, I think.

0:13:43 > 0:13:45During this 50-minute session

0:13:45 > 0:13:48the group can talk about whatever comes into their heads,

0:13:48 > 0:13:52not necessarily just about their relationship with food.

0:13:52 > 0:13:56Isobel is worried how Nick may be feeling towards her.

0:13:56 > 0:14:01I suppose Nick in the past... Well, actually, no - recently,

0:14:01 > 0:14:03you've been really resentful of me cos

0:14:03 > 0:14:07I would have been resentful of Nick when Rachael was a tiny baby.

0:14:07 > 0:14:12Whenever he said he was going to the gym, I thought, you know, "No, why? Come home,

0:14:12 > 0:14:16"you've to help me with the children, you've to do this, you've to do that."

0:14:16 > 0:14:20So I've probably made him feel resentful

0:14:20 > 0:14:23because I haven't allowed him to go to that gym on his way home.

0:14:23 > 0:14:26Just before you said that I was about to say,

0:14:26 > 0:14:29it's got to the stage now where I'm coming home from work

0:14:29 > 0:14:34I know I should be going to the gym but for the sake of harmonious living, I don't.

0:14:34 > 0:14:36I just come home.

0:14:36 > 0:14:40- But that's not... That's a total lie. - Excuse me, what have you just said?

0:14:40 > 0:14:44In the past whenever Rachael was younger.

0:14:44 > 0:14:47What have I kept saying to you? "Why are you not taking your gym kit?

0:14:47 > 0:14:49"Why are you not going to the gym before you go to work?

0:14:49 > 0:14:53"Why are you not going to the gym after work?" And always have an excuse.

0:14:53 > 0:14:56Touche.

0:15:01 > 0:15:03Despite the little exchange,

0:15:03 > 0:15:06the group has survived the first session with Raman.

0:15:11 > 0:15:15After a short cooling off period Nick is big enough

0:15:15 > 0:15:18to put his telling off behind him.

0:15:18 > 0:15:21Sharing such personal information seems to have begun

0:15:21 > 0:15:23a healthy bonding process between the adults

0:15:23 > 0:15:26although they are a bit bemused by Raman himself.

0:15:26 > 0:15:29See when we all get to know each other we'll be fighting.

0:15:29 > 0:15:31You two feel free to fight too.

0:15:31 > 0:15:34Well, you were sort of starting it off for us, you know.

0:15:34 > 0:15:37'I don't know what to make of him.'

0:15:37 > 0:15:39I'll tell you in another couple of sessions.

0:15:39 > 0:15:42'But he didn't give me the magic answer that I was looking for.'

0:15:42 > 0:15:44See, we got ourselves lost.

0:15:44 > 0:15:47So, there's nothing to tell at the minute,

0:15:47 > 0:15:50it's just a matter of waiting to see what he uncovers.

0:15:50 > 0:15:54If he does do that, I'm not sure what he actually does.

0:15:58 > 0:16:02In complete contrast to the intensity of the therapy sessions

0:16:02 > 0:16:04everyone is outside having a bit of fun.

0:16:04 > 0:16:09All the families feel they need to spend more time together

0:16:09 > 0:16:12and this week, away from their usual busy routines

0:16:12 > 0:16:17they'll be able to enjoy each other's company without feeling guilty.

0:16:18 > 0:16:22We all took part in the ice-breaker sessions this afternoon

0:16:22 > 0:16:25to get to know each other a bit better.

0:16:25 > 0:16:28There were certain specific activities as well,

0:16:28 > 0:16:30set up to achieve certain things within the group,

0:16:30 > 0:16:34one of those was the trust activity.

0:16:34 > 0:16:36- We need one volunteer.- Me.

0:16:36 > 0:16:39Me, OK.

0:16:39 > 0:16:44Trust is a huge issue and I think will come up time and time again this week.

0:16:44 > 0:16:47Hands over your shoulders.

0:16:47 > 0:16:50What we're going to do is myself and Mark will pass Ryan

0:16:50 > 0:16:52backwards and forwards between us....

0:16:52 > 0:16:56'I think the children need to know they can trust each other

0:16:56 > 0:16:58'within our group sessions.

0:16:58 > 0:17:03'And as family units, as well, that's a really important aspect.

0:17:03 > 0:17:06You do this with your eyes closed.

0:17:06 > 0:17:11It's important that when you finish, the person with the eyes closed, you tell them you've finished.

0:17:11 > 0:17:14- Don't just suddenly walk away. - LAUGHTER

0:17:14 > 0:17:18I think it's really good for families to reflect on

0:17:18 > 0:17:20how much they trust each other.

0:17:20 > 0:17:22And if they can begin to build up the trust

0:17:22 > 0:17:26they have in each other as well I think they're much more likely

0:17:26 > 0:17:29as families to be able to sustain any changes

0:17:29 > 0:17:32that we see during this week.

0:17:32 > 0:17:33Keep your back nice and straight.

0:17:33 > 0:17:36- It's a very slippy coat, isn't it, Mark?- Mmm.

0:17:36 > 0:17:40Keep everything straight. Don't bend your knees.

0:17:40 > 0:17:42Oh, no!

0:17:42 > 0:17:44Open your eyes.

0:17:44 > 0:17:47You're finished. Well done.

0:17:49 > 0:17:54It's not all fun and games, there's more serious work to be done.

0:17:54 > 0:17:58It's down to the individual now to examine their own thoughts and feelings.

0:17:58 > 0:18:01Rosie is the first to head for a one-on-one session with Raman,

0:18:01 > 0:18:07a chance to look deep inside herself for possible emotional triggers for her overeating.

0:18:11 > 0:18:13Do I blame myself for being this weight? Yes.

0:18:13 > 0:18:15Yes, I do.

0:18:16 > 0:18:19I work very long hours.

0:18:19 > 0:18:23My day is 9.30 to maybe 8.30 and when I come home in the evening

0:18:23 > 0:18:27cooking is not always what I want to do, to be perfectly honest.

0:18:27 > 0:18:31Because I live a very busy life I can't afford to be tired,

0:18:31 > 0:18:36I can't afford to be sore in the evening when I come home after a day's work.

0:18:36 > 0:18:38I don't want to be like that any more.

0:18:46 > 0:18:49The balance between family life and working is not good.

0:18:49 > 0:18:53It's not a healthy balance and I can see that very clearly.

0:18:53 > 0:19:00And yet there's this feeling that if I step out of my working life to

0:19:00 > 0:19:06give more time to myself, that I feel guilty about that.

0:19:06 > 0:19:09I feel that's being very selfish.

0:19:09 > 0:19:13That's the voice that probably knocks you down.

0:19:13 > 0:19:16- The, "Are you really worth it?" voice.- Exactly.

0:19:16 > 0:19:18That's what's it come down to at the end of the day.

0:19:18 > 0:19:23Thinking about the voice in your head that says, "You're not worth it,"

0:19:23 > 0:19:28I wonder, has there always been a kind of tentative you

0:19:28 > 0:19:31that has been reluctant to push yourself forward

0:19:31 > 0:19:35and be part of good things and be part of worthwhile things.

0:19:35 > 0:19:38Inside no, outside yes.

0:19:38 > 0:19:44I can put a mask on

0:19:44 > 0:19:49and most people, unless you know me very well, would never see

0:19:49 > 0:19:52the person inside who has no confidence in herself.

0:19:52 > 0:19:59- It's almost as if there's two faces.- Two yous.- Two mes.

0:19:59 > 0:20:01There's two mes, yeah.

0:20:01 > 0:20:06- I would like the two of them to meet in some way if it were possible. - Yeah.

0:20:06 > 0:20:11I realise they're both me and both part of me

0:20:11 > 0:20:15but they don't really communicate together very well.

0:20:17 > 0:20:21Rosie has revealed what many people feel -

0:20:21 > 0:20:24that they have both a public and a private self.

0:20:24 > 0:20:27And she raises another common concern -

0:20:27 > 0:20:31a parent's natural protectiveness regarding their children's future.

0:20:33 > 0:20:35Rosie has three older sons,

0:20:35 > 0:20:39but 14-year-old Ellen is her only daughter.

0:20:39 > 0:20:45I would hate my daughter to grow up hearing that same voice in her head.

0:20:45 > 0:20:51I want her to grow up to be a bright and vital and confident woman.

0:20:51 > 0:20:57You want her to have a, "You're worth it" voice,

0:20:57 > 0:21:00- rather than, "You're not worth it". - Absolutely.

0:21:00 > 0:21:03Cos that's a voice you have lived with as long as you can remember.

0:21:03 > 0:21:05And I do not want her to have that.

0:21:21 > 0:21:25Something that comes to mind just right now is that...

0:21:28 > 0:21:36..if I was able to really make these life changes that would last,

0:21:36 > 0:21:41then I would be going a long way

0:21:41 > 0:21:44to leaving a wonderful legacy for Ellen.

0:21:47 > 0:21:51And that actually feels very good. That feels very positive

0:21:51 > 0:21:53when I think about that just now.

0:21:55 > 0:21:59It's been an enlightening and inspiring session for Rosie

0:21:59 > 0:22:06and while she and Ellen spend some quiet time together, reflecting on the day's events

0:22:06 > 0:22:10Amanda has summoned Nick, Isobel and Rachael

0:22:10 > 0:22:14to the kitchen for the first family cooking experience of the week.

0:22:16 > 0:22:21You three have been selected for Thinner Dinner duty tonight.

0:22:21 > 0:22:24Remember what this means? It means you're cooking for everyone.

0:22:24 > 0:22:27How would you normally have fish and chips?

0:22:27 > 0:22:29From the chip shop.

0:22:29 > 0:22:32- From the chippy?- Yes. - What you're going to be cooking,

0:22:32 > 0:22:36we'll give you the ingredients to cook a healthy version of fish and chips.

0:22:36 > 0:22:38All right?

0:22:38 > 0:22:40So what we've got is white fish,

0:22:40 > 0:22:43this is a nice sustainable white fish called hake.

0:22:43 > 0:22:47What I recommend you do is pan fry it on either side,

0:22:47 > 0:22:50and then bake it in the oven. You can use a little bit of butter

0:22:50 > 0:22:53- in the frying pan so it's not... - Woohoo!

0:22:53 > 0:22:56Woohoo! You'll get a bit of flavour there, but just a moderate amount.

0:22:56 > 0:23:00Chips. Do you know what these potatoes are?

0:23:00 > 0:23:02What kind of potatoes these are?

0:23:02 > 0:23:07- That's a sweet potato and that's just a potato.- Excellent. Just a potato, very good.

0:23:07 > 0:23:10- Do you like potato wedges?- Oh, yes.

0:23:10 > 0:23:13OK, so you're going to be making healthier potato wedges,

0:23:13 > 0:23:17because, as I said, it's not about doing weird and wonderful things,

0:23:17 > 0:23:21we're going to have things that especially the children are familiar with.

0:23:21 > 0:23:27Isobel's first up under the watchful gaze of head chef Sue and Amanda.

0:23:27 > 0:23:31She makes quick work of chopping the potatoes into chunky wedges.

0:23:31 > 0:23:35Drizzled in sunflower oil and smothered in tasty fresh herbs,

0:23:35 > 0:23:38they're going into the oven for about an hour.

0:23:38 > 0:23:43Good. Right, Nick, why don't you sort the fish out?

0:23:43 > 0:23:49The filleted hake is the perfect choice for today's low-fat twist on fish and chips.

0:23:49 > 0:23:53Flash frying in a hot pan seals in the natural juices

0:23:53 > 0:23:57and will stop too much oil from being absorbed.

0:23:57 > 0:24:01Seasoned with sea salt, pepper and a squeeze of fresh

0:24:01 > 0:24:07lemon and lime juice, the fish will only need another ten minutes in the oven to be ready to serve.

0:24:07 > 0:24:11Meanwhile Rachael is busy finishing off her fresh

0:24:11 > 0:24:14berry and yoghurt with filo pastry desserts.

0:24:14 > 0:24:16She's getting to grips with runny honey,

0:24:16 > 0:24:19a healthy substitute for sugar.

0:24:22 > 0:24:25Cooking meals like this isn't difficult,

0:24:25 > 0:24:29but it is easy to be confused about what's healthy and what's not.

0:24:29 > 0:24:33Amanda visited Nick and Isobel at home before they came to the island

0:24:33 > 0:24:36to make a first-hand nutritional assessment.

0:24:36 > 0:24:38Limited spaced in the kitchen.

0:24:38 > 0:24:39Can I just nosey around?

0:24:39 > 0:24:41Right, you... Oh...

0:24:41 > 0:24:43First thing is sweeties.

0:24:43 > 0:24:46I've just been introduced to them! They're lovely!

0:24:46 > 0:24:50- Is this just the kids, or is this you as well?- That was me.

0:24:50 > 0:24:53Right, OK, an adult eating kiddies' sweeties.

0:24:53 > 0:24:59- And... Excuse me for rummaging. - No worries.

0:24:59 > 0:25:01I want you to tell me,

0:25:01 > 0:25:04what colour is that food?

0:25:04 > 0:25:06White.

0:25:06 > 0:25:09Yeah. I'd call it beige.

0:25:09 > 0:25:12If a lot of food in your diet is beige,

0:25:12 > 0:25:16it means it's not particularly nutritious.

0:25:16 > 0:25:20It means quite a lot of sugar, in one way or another, going into your body.

0:25:20 > 0:25:24And that high-sugar diet causes the weight gain around the middle.

0:25:24 > 0:25:30So we've got to find healthy alternatives for this sort of stuff.

0:25:30 > 0:25:32Let's see what's in the fridge.

0:25:32 > 0:25:35Um, lots and lots of yogurt.

0:25:35 > 0:25:40I want you to, without going too much into...

0:25:40 > 0:25:43try and read that label for me.

0:25:43 > 0:25:47Tell me everything that's in that yogurt.

0:25:47 > 0:25:54Sugar...maize starch, gelatine, stabilisers, lots of stuff...

0:25:54 > 0:25:59If you can't pronounce what it says on the label...it's kind of a sign.

0:26:02 > 0:26:06On the island, it's all systems go in the kitchen.

0:26:06 > 0:26:09The food's cooked, the plates are warm and it's time to serve up.

0:26:11 > 0:26:13Right on cue, the others start to arrive.

0:26:13 > 0:26:16After a long, hard day,

0:26:16 > 0:26:19they're hungry and ready for some hearty food.

0:26:46 > 0:26:47Enjoy your dinner.

0:26:47 > 0:26:51And this young lady's going to serve pudding cos she made it.

0:26:54 > 0:26:58Despite the lack of batter and deep frying, the meal is going down well.

0:26:58 > 0:27:02Broccoli on the side adds an extra boost of vitamins and minerals.

0:27:02 > 0:27:06With about half the calories and a fraction of the fat of a takeaway,

0:27:06 > 0:27:10it's a great recipe for the families to try when they get home.

0:27:10 > 0:27:13There are no complaints from around the table,

0:27:13 > 0:27:16not even from the fussiest of eaters.

0:27:16 > 0:27:18Did you enjoy it?

0:27:18 > 0:27:21Healthwise, what are you going to give it?

0:27:21 > 0:27:24- I'd have to give it ten.- Yeah.

0:27:24 > 0:27:28INAUDIBLE

0:27:30 > 0:27:34- And presentation?- I'd go ten.

0:27:34 > 0:27:36- And taste?- I'd go ten.

0:27:36 > 0:27:40INAUDIBLE

0:27:40 > 0:27:42LAUGHTER

0:27:44 > 0:27:48Brilliant. Literally, it's a complete ten out of ten all round.

0:27:48 > 0:27:50Well done.

0:27:52 > 0:27:55It's a positive end to the first full day on the island

0:27:55 > 0:27:58and the group have already made huge progress

0:27:58 > 0:28:02towards their goals of weight loss and a healthier lifestyle.

0:28:03 > 0:28:04Next time...

0:28:04 > 0:28:07People think that fat people are lazy people.

0:28:07 > 0:28:10People get the impression that you're fat

0:28:10 > 0:28:12because you go home and you never do anything.

0:28:12 > 0:28:15On Friday, I want you to run a mile with me.

0:28:15 > 0:28:19OK. Put a bar of chocolate in his back pocket!

0:28:19 > 0:28:21If I have to do that -

0:28:21 > 0:28:24put a bar of chocolate in my back pocket - I will!

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