0:00:02 > 0:00:08This programme contains some strong language
0:00:08 > 0:00:10Six young people gathered their mates
0:00:10 > 0:00:13and headed to the ski and party capitals of Europe
0:00:13 > 0:00:18to join the action on the slopes and off it.
0:00:18 > 0:00:20CHEERING
0:00:20 > 0:00:21SHE SINGS LOUDLY
0:00:24 > 0:00:26Where's the girls? Get the girls.
0:00:26 > 0:00:30But on these trips there were a few uninvited guests.
0:00:30 > 0:00:31SHE GASPS
0:00:31 > 0:00:33Hope he's got his helmet on.
0:00:33 > 0:00:37Their parents, who were secretly watching everything.
0:00:40 > 0:00:42- No. - Half a bottle.
0:00:42 > 0:00:45Unbeknown to these ski bunnies,
0:00:45 > 0:00:47Mum and Dad saw every snog,
0:00:47 > 0:00:49every stack...
0:00:51 > 0:00:52..and every shot.
0:00:52 > 0:00:55I hope that has not been the tale of previous holidays.
0:00:57 > 0:00:58Now the holiday is over.
0:01:00 > 0:01:01We're reuniting our young skiers...
0:01:01 > 0:01:03How are you?
0:01:03 > 0:01:04..and their snooping parents...
0:01:04 > 0:01:07- I'm not angry. - I'm disappointed.
0:01:07 > 0:01:11..to see how the experience has changed their relationships.
0:01:11 > 0:01:12This is hard.
0:01:12 > 0:01:15Maybe now it's time to spend some more time with the boy.
0:01:15 > 0:01:18Mum is now a friend of mine on Facebook.
0:01:18 > 0:01:19And for the first time ever,
0:01:19 > 0:01:24we turn the tables and let the kids spy on Mum and Dad.
0:01:24 > 0:01:26Oh, my God, that's three.
0:01:29 > 0:01:31Oh, he's a quick mover, isn't he?
0:01:44 > 0:01:47Tonight, we'll be looking back at a season of hard skiing.
0:01:48 > 0:01:50And even harder partying.
0:01:51 > 0:01:54Our six ski wannabes and their mates descended upon
0:01:54 > 0:01:57the Alpine resorts of Val d'Isere and Tignes.
0:01:58 > 0:02:01Now back home in England we gave them the chance to see
0:02:01 > 0:02:06their parents' Alpine activities before they were broadcast.
0:02:06 > 0:02:08They may be Oliver's.
0:02:08 > 0:02:09I wouldn't want to pick them up.
0:02:09 > 0:02:11And that's mine!
0:02:11 > 0:02:14And it's the kids' chance to discuss what they've
0:02:14 > 0:02:16seen for the first time.
0:02:16 > 0:02:17You was doing shots.
0:02:20 > 0:02:23Val d'Isere is the winter hotspot for serious young skiers.
0:02:25 > 0:02:27And serious young ravers.
0:02:36 > 0:02:40Known for its wild nightlife and apres ski, alcohol and skiing
0:02:40 > 0:02:45go hand-in-hand as ski resort workers know only too well.
0:02:45 > 0:02:46The finest thing I've
0:02:46 > 0:02:50seen this season is a girl shout across the road, drunk as hell,
0:02:50 > 0:02:53"I shags you, I buys you chips, what more do you want?"
0:02:53 > 0:02:56A lot of people tend to get drunk and then
0:02:56 > 0:02:57flash the flesh, definitely.
0:02:57 > 0:02:58They probably regret it
0:02:58 > 0:03:02when they have a frostbitten willy in the morning.
0:03:02 > 0:03:05And about half past eight on a February morning
0:03:05 > 0:03:09there's a guy sat on the main lift queues completely naked...
0:03:09 > 0:03:13frying himself an egg for his breakfast..
0:03:13 > 0:03:16I shat myself having a piss once.
0:03:16 > 0:03:18That was about three weeks ago.
0:03:19 > 0:03:21There are a few people who play drinking games,
0:03:21 > 0:03:25but mainly the game is drinking and that's it.
0:03:25 > 0:03:27And coming into those games were
0:03:27 > 0:03:30a hedonistic gang of Newcastle students.
0:03:33 > 0:03:36And the resort was about to meet its match.
0:03:37 > 0:03:40THEY SING INDISTINCTLY
0:03:40 > 0:03:44The friends are all part of uni snow sports societies
0:03:44 > 0:03:46and have regular raucous ski holidays.
0:03:48 > 0:03:50I don't really know what happened.
0:03:52 > 0:03:54This isn't good.
0:03:54 > 0:03:59As a group we generally like to take our clothes off in clubs,
0:03:59 > 0:04:02um, like to drinks lots.
0:04:02 > 0:04:04This trip, though, would be different,
0:04:04 > 0:04:07as two of their mums were secretly spying.
0:04:08 > 0:04:10If only they knew.
0:04:10 > 0:04:1321-year-old Jake is the group's ringleader.
0:04:13 > 0:04:16When I'm out, my friends would probably describe me
0:04:16 > 0:04:17as an instigator.
0:04:17 > 0:04:20I'm the person that tries to make sure everyone else is having fun.
0:04:20 > 0:04:24His nurse mum Libby frets about his uni lifestyle.
0:04:24 > 0:04:28Jake, don't be drinking to excess so that you're puking and stuff
0:04:28 > 0:04:29cos that's quite gross.
0:04:29 > 0:04:32- All right, I'll speak to you later. - Bye.- Bye.
0:04:32 > 0:04:34Hope he still loves me afterwards.
0:04:37 > 0:04:40Muscle-bound Ollie was raised by doting single mum, Fiona,
0:04:40 > 0:04:44who has no idea what he gets up to now he's left home.
0:04:45 > 0:04:50The reason he doesn't like me to see anything on his Facebook
0:04:50 > 0:04:53is because I think an awful lot of it is to do with drinking.
0:04:54 > 0:04:55- Bye, Mum.- See you.
0:04:59 > 0:05:03Ollie, Jake and their gang bought the party to the Alps.
0:05:03 > 0:05:06We've already spent more money on booze than food,
0:05:06 > 0:05:08but that was always going to happen, wasn't it?
0:05:09 > 0:05:12And the boys' mums weren't far behind.
0:05:14 > 0:05:16Hi, I'm Fiona, nice to meet you.
0:05:16 > 0:05:19- Hi, I'm Libby. - Hello, Libby, I'm Margaret.- Hi.
0:05:22 > 0:05:26Before their behaviour was broadcast to the nation
0:05:26 > 0:05:27the roles were reversed,
0:05:27 > 0:05:30as Jake and Ollie get to spy on their families'
0:05:30 > 0:05:31reactions to their trip.
0:05:31 > 0:05:33Oh, I hope I haven't been too much of a dick.
0:05:35 > 0:05:37For the snooping parents
0:05:37 > 0:05:41the group's first night made memorable viewing.
0:05:41 > 0:05:44- I- am Spartacus. - No,- I- am Spartacus.
0:05:44 > 0:05:45- No,- I- am Spartacus.
0:05:45 > 0:05:47Come on, girl, oh!
0:05:47 > 0:05:50Put me down.
0:05:50 > 0:05:52CHEERING
0:05:52 > 0:05:53Mate, there's pasta everywhere!
0:06:04 > 0:06:08It seems to be all about, you know, drinking as much as you can
0:06:08 > 0:06:09and as fast as you can.
0:06:09 > 0:06:11To get as wasted as you can.
0:06:11 > 0:06:12To get as wasted as you can.
0:06:15 > 0:06:16Oh, no, I don't like that.
0:06:19 > 0:06:21There was no sick in it, there was no mayonnaise.
0:06:21 > 0:06:25I hate mayonnaise, no ketchup. Like, it was just like...
0:06:25 > 0:06:26nice alcohol.
0:06:26 > 0:06:29- There was a hell of a lot of alcohol in that bowl, wasn't there?- Hm.
0:06:29 > 0:06:33I'm sure she drinks cocktails. Sorry, I'm getting angry.
0:06:34 > 0:06:35CHEERING
0:06:42 > 0:06:43Look at her face.
0:06:44 > 0:06:47He doesn't look well, Jake.
0:06:47 > 0:06:50I'm going to have bloods done on him when he gets back.
0:06:51 > 0:06:53She's such a nurse.
0:06:53 > 0:06:54You're going to have what?
0:06:54 > 0:06:56Have his bloods taken.
0:06:56 > 0:06:58To see what he's doing to his body.
0:07:00 > 0:07:04"I'm going to have his bloods taken." Has she?
0:07:04 > 0:07:06No. She suggested it.
0:07:06 > 0:07:09She does worry being a nurse and seeing people come in
0:07:09 > 0:07:10like they do, like drink too much.
0:07:10 > 0:07:12Yeah, she seemed genuinely quite concerned,
0:07:12 > 0:07:14so maybe it's something we should think about.
0:07:14 > 0:07:16Not until the next holiday.
0:07:16 > 0:07:18Yes, after the next holiday.
0:07:19 > 0:07:22Drinking and skiing is a dangerous mix.
0:07:22 > 0:07:26And Brits abroad are well known for their antics under the influence.
0:07:26 > 0:07:28WHOOPING AND CHEERING
0:07:30 > 0:07:35This Scottish guy, after clubbing, he went,
0:07:35 > 0:07:39he just climb on a lift pylon
0:07:39 > 0:07:40and he jump on a chair
0:07:40 > 0:07:42and sleep there, and we have to ask
0:07:42 > 0:07:44for the Fire Brigade to take him down.
0:07:46 > 0:07:51I think 90% of the Brits that I meet are crazy.
0:07:51 > 0:07:55We know them to be heavy drinkers.
0:07:55 > 0:07:58Alcohol makes nice people into pillocks, really.
0:07:58 > 0:08:00I actually hate Brits abroad.
0:08:00 > 0:08:01Er, I've lived here for ten years
0:08:01 > 0:08:06and I can't stand a lot of people who come out here.
0:08:06 > 0:08:09Absolutely, the Brits drink a lot more than any other nationality.
0:08:09 > 0:08:11We're proud of it, aren't we?
0:08:11 > 0:08:15By the time you're having a pint of vodka in the morning,
0:08:15 > 0:08:16it's not easy to manage.
0:08:16 > 0:08:19Cheers!
0:08:24 > 0:08:25And party-mad students
0:08:25 > 0:08:28Jake and Ollie lived up to the Brits' reputation of skiing...
0:08:28 > 0:08:30MAN: Yeeesssss!
0:08:32 > 0:08:34..and drinking,
0:08:34 > 0:08:37as Ollie celebrated his 21st birthday on the slopes.
0:08:37 > 0:08:40MUSIC POUNDS
0:08:41 > 0:08:43Yes! Champagne.
0:08:45 > 0:08:46Oh, my glory.
0:08:50 > 0:08:53No wonder they like going there.
0:08:53 > 0:08:55Aren't they jealous they're not there!
0:08:55 > 0:08:59I am having the best, best time of my life ever.
0:08:59 > 0:09:03Mum Fiona and gran Margaret got to see more of Ollie
0:09:03 > 0:09:05and his friends than they might have expected.
0:09:06 > 0:09:07Oh, he's not?
0:09:07 > 0:09:09He will, I bet he does.
0:09:09 > 0:09:12ALL EXCLAIM AND LAUGH
0:09:15 > 0:09:18What's she doing?
0:09:21 > 0:09:25# There were six naked people on the bus, on the bus
0:09:25 > 0:09:28# There were six naked people on the bus, on the bus
0:09:28 > 0:09:32# There were six naked people six naked people
0:09:32 > 0:09:35# Six naked people on the bus. #
0:09:37 > 0:09:39Fuck me!
0:09:45 > 0:09:47He went one, two and then walked
0:09:47 > 0:09:50and then the boot went.
0:09:50 > 0:09:54The hotelier wasn't very happy.
0:09:54 > 0:09:59I wouldn't expect Oliver to go round trashing other people's properties.
0:09:59 > 0:10:00That's not the way I've brought him up.
0:10:00 > 0:10:03And the group's drunken behaviour also proved
0:10:03 > 0:10:07a real shock for Jake's nurse mum Libby.
0:10:07 > 0:10:10I don't think anyone really understands the medical implications
0:10:10 > 0:10:16to the amount of drinking that everybody is doing, and the effects.
0:10:16 > 0:10:20But I would like Jacob to take on board
0:10:20 > 0:10:24a little bit more seriously where it can end up.
0:10:26 > 0:10:27MUSIC POUNDS
0:10:36 > 0:10:39I don't think I was naive before coming out,
0:10:39 > 0:10:43but on reflection I think I probably have been quite naive.
0:10:43 > 0:10:46I think she's feeling sometimes that she hasn't brought...
0:10:46 > 0:10:47Jake up properly.
0:10:48 > 0:10:49Yeah.
0:10:49 > 0:10:51Aw!
0:10:51 > 0:10:52Why hasn't she?
0:10:52 > 0:10:55Hearing Mum say that she doesn't think she's brought me up properly
0:10:55 > 0:10:57is quite upsetting cos...
0:10:57 > 0:10:58She was nearly...she had tears.
0:10:58 > 0:11:01I know, there's nothing more Mum could have done. She's been...
0:11:01 > 0:11:03- There's been so much she's done. - Yeah.
0:11:03 > 0:11:06She's done no wrong by me at all.
0:11:06 > 0:11:09So it's upsetting that she thinks she has done.
0:11:09 > 0:11:12I wouldn't change my mum for the world or anything that she's done.
0:11:12 > 0:11:15I wouldn't change any of it.
0:11:15 > 0:11:17I'm glad I've seen how much he drinks
0:11:17 > 0:11:21because now it is, it's something we can talk about together.
0:11:21 > 0:11:26Rather than me being a nag, I can be more realistic about it.
0:11:26 > 0:11:31But Jake's capacity for booze wasn't the only thing his mum
0:11:31 > 0:11:32learned about him on the trip.
0:11:32 > 0:11:35- Yeah.- I think there is potential for me saying
0:11:35 > 0:11:38- I've tried uni, I've enjoyed it, I've made my mark.- Yeah.
0:11:38 > 0:11:43I would now like to go and get a job without a degree...
0:11:43 > 0:11:45Oh, that's such a relief to hear.
0:11:45 > 0:11:51..if I was being paid, and apologise to my dad and my mum and my...
0:11:51 > 0:11:53He doesn't need to apologise to me.
0:11:53 > 0:11:55It was quite emotional for me to hear him say that
0:11:55 > 0:11:58because that was just totally not expected.
0:11:58 > 0:11:59I was hammered at the time.
0:12:00 > 0:12:03- So you're not upset or...? - No.- No.
0:12:03 > 0:12:08Not at all. As long as he's not lounging around cos I wouldn't...
0:12:08 > 0:12:10I wouldn't put up with that.
0:12:10 > 0:12:13And he has been put under pressure, not by me, to get a degree.
0:12:13 > 0:12:15I don't have a definite plan about uni.
0:12:15 > 0:12:19And when she was saying she thinks I'm being put under pressure to do the course, I haven't.
0:12:19 > 0:12:20My parents would be happy whatever I do.
0:12:20 > 0:12:23- Hm.- So that's not true. So I need to tell her that.
0:12:23 > 0:12:26I think the future for Jake is, he needs to take things slowly,
0:12:26 > 0:12:28he needs to take opportunities as they come.
0:12:28 > 0:12:32There are things he needs to work at and little plans he has to make,
0:12:32 > 0:12:35because opportunities aren't going to come knocking on your door.
0:12:35 > 0:12:40My plan at the moment is to have a plan, so I've got, like, four
0:12:40 > 0:12:43weeks to sort of make a decision on if I'm going to stay on at uni next
0:12:43 > 0:12:48year, er, and if I'm not staying on then to find something else to do.
0:12:48 > 0:12:50So cold. So cold.
0:12:53 > 0:12:57Snooping on their sons' ski trip brought these students' mums
0:12:57 > 0:12:59plenty of surprises.
0:12:59 > 0:13:00It's me next.
0:13:03 > 0:13:07It's dead exciting. I'm like... pooing my pants.
0:13:07 > 0:13:08LAUGHTER
0:13:09 > 0:13:13I have to admit it was brilliant.
0:13:13 > 0:13:15It was naughty.
0:13:15 > 0:13:17And sometimes it's nice to be naughty.
0:13:19 > 0:13:20If only they knew.
0:13:20 > 0:13:25But one particular spy mission will live long in all their memories.
0:13:25 > 0:13:26Let's go, quick.
0:13:26 > 0:13:29I'm not looking forward to this, I'm not looking forward to this.
0:13:29 > 0:13:31Nothing could have prepared Libby
0:13:31 > 0:13:34and Fiona for what they found in Jake and Ollie's chalets.
0:13:34 > 0:13:36Oh, God.
0:13:38 > 0:13:42Oh, are they Oliver's? I think they may be Oliver's.
0:13:42 > 0:13:44I wouldn't want to pick them up.
0:13:44 > 0:13:46Put them back where you found them.
0:13:47 > 0:13:49Oh, for God's sake, it's dire, isn't it?
0:13:49 > 0:13:52It's not dire, there's two plates on the table.
0:13:52 > 0:13:54Are they using the dishwasher?
0:13:54 > 0:13:56No.
0:13:56 > 0:13:57No.
0:13:57 > 0:14:00Yeah, but they're like 80, I don't want to live like that.
0:14:00 > 0:14:03THEY GASP
0:14:03 > 0:14:07She definitely thinks they're for something...
0:14:07 > 0:14:09There's some bondage going on in here.
0:14:09 > 0:14:11Oh, it stinks, doesn't it?
0:14:11 > 0:14:13Oh, what's that? It looks like a Durex.
0:14:13 > 0:14:14Oh, Fiona.
0:14:17 > 0:14:19TLC Lube.
0:14:19 > 0:14:21That's naughty.
0:14:21 > 0:14:22That is naughty.
0:14:22 > 0:14:26I went in his wallet and found a packet of lube.
0:14:26 > 0:14:29Um, which...
0:14:31 > 0:14:33Oh, dear.
0:14:33 > 0:14:34That is not on.
0:14:34 > 0:14:36Oh, God, I'll tell you what, he's well set up, isn't he?
0:14:36 > 0:14:38Yeah, well, that is not on.
0:14:38 > 0:14:41No, it's bad, think about it,
0:14:41 > 0:14:43she's found my boxers and she's picked them up.
0:14:43 > 0:14:47- Katherine's handcuffs, Katherine's moustache. - Oh, I forgot about that.
0:14:47 > 0:14:51What, the handcuffs? They do not go well together, do they?
0:14:51 > 0:14:53I think the lube story will definitely be something
0:14:53 > 0:14:56that'll get brought up at my wedding in the future, something
0:14:56 > 0:15:00I'm going to have to tell the kids and my granny will tell my kids,
0:15:00 > 0:15:04and I don't think it'll be... I don't think it'll get off lightly.
0:15:04 > 0:15:07- I think he was slightly embarrassed, Oliver.- I think he was.- Hm.
0:15:07 > 0:15:08- Ever so slightly.- Yeah.
0:15:08 > 0:15:14I'm more disappointed that she did that, rather than angry, I guess.
0:15:14 > 0:15:17- I'm not angry. - I'm disappointed.
0:15:17 > 0:15:21This wasn't the only awkward moment for Ollie's mum and gran.
0:15:21 > 0:15:23Oh, he's nibbling her ear and her neck.
0:15:23 > 0:15:25They also caught him
0:15:25 > 0:15:28getting intimate with fellow student Katherine.
0:15:29 > 0:15:31Oh, no, that's creepy.
0:15:32 > 0:15:36- Oh he's looking at her very adoringly, isn't he?- He is.
0:15:36 > 0:15:38The me and Katherine thing.
0:15:38 > 0:15:41I don't know if there's anything going to happen between him
0:15:41 > 0:15:44and Katherine, you know. I mean I know they had a bit of a...
0:15:44 > 0:15:48a kiss in the nightclub there.
0:15:50 > 0:15:52That's typical Oliver. He doesn't want to get involved.
0:15:52 > 0:15:54He likes the girls.
0:15:54 > 0:15:58- Yeah.- But he's not, beyond that I'm not sure.
0:16:01 > 0:16:02What is so funny?
0:16:04 > 0:16:06Your gran, spot on.
0:16:06 > 0:16:08Katherine's a really nice girl,
0:16:08 > 0:16:10got to know her quite well on the holiday.
0:16:10 > 0:16:14Me and her got quite close and that's quite nice.
0:16:14 > 0:16:18Katherine was gorgeous and I wouldn't blame Oliver for...
0:16:18 > 0:16:20how shall I put it?
0:16:20 > 0:16:22The relationship's blossoming.
0:16:25 > 0:16:29With their alpine adventures over, there was one big surprise
0:16:29 > 0:16:31waiting at the end of Jake and Ollie's holiday...
0:16:31 > 0:16:32There we go, it's...
0:16:34 > 0:16:36OLIVER!
0:16:36 > 0:16:38I've been watching you all week.
0:16:38 > 0:16:42..as the snooping relatives revealed themselves.
0:16:42 > 0:16:45Now everybody has watched what everybody's done...
0:16:45 > 0:16:47TLC Lube.
0:16:47 > 0:16:49Hiya.
0:16:49 > 0:16:52..they're being reunited for the first time to be honest
0:16:52 > 0:16:54about what they've seen.
0:16:54 > 0:16:58I kind of feel like you've been partying for quite a few years now.
0:16:58 > 0:17:00No, it's not a constant thing. It's just
0:17:00 > 0:17:02on select holidays.
0:17:02 > 0:17:04Yeah. You know, you're 22 this year.
0:17:04 > 0:17:07Jake has got to know what is
0:17:07 > 0:17:11and what isn't acceptable or appropriate.
0:17:11 > 0:17:17So I've stopped being a bit of a nag and getting on at him.
0:17:17 > 0:17:20What I'm going to try and do more of is be a support.
0:17:20 > 0:17:23I think there is potential for me saying,
0:17:23 > 0:17:26- I've tried uni, I've enjoyed it, I've made my mark.- Yeah.
0:17:26 > 0:17:28I would now like to go and get a job.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30You said you thought I was under pressure to stay at uni.
0:17:30 > 0:17:33Which I'm not. No-one's put me under pressure
0:17:33 > 0:17:35to get a degree or anything.
0:17:35 > 0:17:38You said you didn't want me or your dad to be pissed off with you.
0:17:38 > 0:17:40Not at wasting time, not doing the degree,
0:17:40 > 0:17:42like pissed off at the fact that
0:17:42 > 0:17:45I didn't want you thinking I was just there for...for the heck of it.
0:17:45 > 0:17:48- Mm-hm.- I went there with the right intentions.
0:17:48 > 0:17:52If you, you know, don't decide to go back next year or you can't
0:17:52 > 0:17:55go back cos you've not passed your year,
0:17:55 > 0:17:58what you need to be doing is, you do still need a goal
0:17:58 > 0:18:04because you can quite easily just sort of end up not doing anything.
0:18:04 > 0:18:06I know whatever I choose to do
0:18:06 > 0:18:09you're going to be supporting me whatever I choose.
0:18:09 > 0:18:11And I love you.
0:18:11 > 0:18:13I love you too.
0:18:13 > 0:18:16Student Ollie likes to keep his family in the dark
0:18:16 > 0:18:19about his uni lifestyle.
0:18:19 > 0:18:23Now his mum and gran have seen his boozy escapades for themselves.
0:18:23 > 0:18:25Have you got over your holiday?
0:18:25 > 0:18:28Um, yeah, have you got over what you saw?
0:18:28 > 0:18:30Well, now, there's a question.
0:18:33 > 0:18:38We were genuinely concerned about the amount that...
0:18:38 > 0:18:42The amount of alcohol, not you drinking, the amount that you drink.
0:18:45 > 0:18:47What was in the bowl that you were drinking?
0:18:47 > 0:18:49It just had a bit of vodka, a bit of rum, a bit of beer,
0:18:49 > 0:18:52wine with some other spirit.
0:18:52 > 0:18:54But you need to try it cos it was really nice.
0:18:54 > 0:18:57Had you ever really stopped to think about how much you were drinking
0:18:57 > 0:19:01or were you just doing it because it's what everybody does and...?
0:19:01 > 0:19:04Yeah, I mean I have stopped and thought about how much we drink,
0:19:04 > 0:19:08but it is, it is the norm for people at uni.
0:19:08 > 0:19:12My mum was most angry about how we drink. I've explained to her
0:19:12 > 0:19:15that I'm going to sort of review that and kind of cut down on
0:19:15 > 0:19:18how much I drink and she's really happy with my decision for that.
0:19:18 > 0:19:20So that's really good.
0:19:20 > 0:19:25I've thought about things a lot since we came back off this holiday.
0:19:25 > 0:19:29And I think if anything, it's perhaps made our relationship
0:19:29 > 0:19:34even better because you can be more open with me, you know. I mean
0:19:34 > 0:19:38for example, you know you have me as your friend on Facebook now.
0:19:38 > 0:19:42Since coming back from the holiday,
0:19:42 > 0:19:46I think Oliver and I's relationship has been better.
0:19:46 > 0:19:50I think that Oliver feels he can confide in me a lot more.
0:19:50 > 0:19:53Mum is now a friend of mine on Facebook.
0:19:53 > 0:19:58She's thrilled with this and I just don't understand why it means so much to her.
0:19:58 > 0:20:00If I see something on Facebook I feel now that I can
0:20:00 > 0:20:03chat to you about it, and it gives us something else to talk about.
0:20:03 > 0:20:05She doesn't know that I've actually changed
0:20:05 > 0:20:07some of the settings on my privacy,
0:20:07 > 0:20:10so that she can't see certain pictures
0:20:10 > 0:20:13that get put up by certain friends.
0:20:13 > 0:20:15And she can't see certain statuses, so that's all right.
0:20:18 > 0:20:20Val d'Isere was also the destination of choice
0:20:20 > 0:20:23for confident South Londoner, Chase...
0:20:24 > 0:20:27..who'd never set foot on the slopes before.
0:20:29 > 0:20:31I reckon I'll be good - why not?
0:20:31 > 0:20:33I play literally football, rugby, basketball -
0:20:33 > 0:20:36skiing, it's just a different sport.
0:20:36 > 0:20:37One of four siblings,
0:20:37 > 0:20:39the budding model was full of confidence,
0:20:39 > 0:20:41but he did have one concern.
0:20:43 > 0:20:45I am a risk taker, but when it comes to injuring my face,
0:20:45 > 0:20:47I'm not taking that risk.
0:20:47 > 0:20:50When you're good-looking, you don't want to injure your face.
0:20:52 > 0:20:54Basically, I got a couple of nicknames in Croydon.
0:20:54 > 0:20:57Either Yummy Yummy Chocolate Man or Fresh Prince Of Croydon.
0:20:57 > 0:21:01The Fresh Prince Of Croydon thought he was headed for freedom
0:21:01 > 0:21:03on his first ever lads' holiday.
0:21:07 > 0:21:11But his strict single mum, Sharon, had just one thing on her mind.
0:21:12 > 0:21:14What about your condoms?
0:21:14 > 0:21:17Er, I...I'm...I'm a Catholic. Sex after marriage innit?
0:21:17 > 0:21:20I do not have a clue about Chase's sex life.
0:21:20 > 0:21:22So far, so good - I'm not a grandma yet.
0:21:22 > 0:21:24All right, Mum, see you, I'm off now.
0:21:24 > 0:21:28See you, Chase. See you on the slopes, bye.
0:21:33 > 0:21:35Also heading for the slopes with his mates
0:21:35 > 0:21:39was skiing first-timer, 20-year-old metrosexual Ben.
0:21:39 > 0:21:43I'd say looks are important to me. I like to look after myself.
0:21:43 > 0:21:47Hurry up, Ben, I need a shit, you've been in there ages.
0:21:47 > 0:21:49I won't be long, I'm getting ready, I'm doing my hair.
0:21:50 > 0:21:55The PA lives at home with dad James and his partner Kelly, in Dover.
0:21:55 > 0:21:57But his head is in the stars.
0:21:57 > 0:21:59I think I'm a bit obsessed with celebrities.
0:21:59 > 0:22:02I don't know why, I just love their whole lifestyle.
0:22:02 > 0:22:05I think about them - they just all seem so perfect.
0:22:05 > 0:22:07Joey Essex is a personal favourite.
0:22:08 > 0:22:11Unlike most young lads headed to the Alps,
0:22:11 > 0:22:14Ben has no intention of hitting the ale.
0:22:14 > 0:22:16I think one of the reasons why I don't drink
0:22:16 > 0:22:17is because I want to look my best.
0:22:17 > 0:22:19I was overweight when I was younger.
0:22:19 > 0:22:22I didn't think that people had a good opinion, being overweight
0:22:22 > 0:22:25and just not being, er...very sociable and stuff.
0:22:25 > 0:22:28And dad James wanted to check his teetotal son
0:22:28 > 0:22:30is living life to the full.
0:22:30 > 0:22:33He should have fun while he's young. He should have a drink,
0:22:33 > 0:22:34have a laugh with his mates.
0:22:34 > 0:22:36Just have a good time.
0:22:36 > 0:22:37Bye.
0:22:37 > 0:22:38Enjoy yourself, have fun.
0:22:39 > 0:22:43See you sooner than you think and we'll be watching every move.
0:22:44 > 0:22:46The boys and their mates touch down in the Alps.
0:22:46 > 0:22:50Yes! Nice sun. It ain't like England.
0:22:50 > 0:22:52We're here then, boys -
0:22:52 > 0:22:54the sun's shining, time to have some fun.
0:22:54 > 0:22:57Unaware that Chase's mum Sharon, her friend Marie...
0:22:57 > 0:22:58I'm Chase's mum.
0:22:58 > 0:23:01..Ben's dad James and his partner Kelly
0:23:01 > 0:23:02were following behind.
0:23:02 > 0:23:03Hello.
0:23:06 > 0:23:09Cocksure Chase couldn't wait to hit the slopes hard.
0:23:09 > 0:23:13But being a novice skier, he didn't leave the Alps unscathed.
0:23:13 > 0:23:16The first day of skiing, like, literally saw the slope
0:23:16 > 0:23:20and I was just like..."This is easy, like, it looks so flat."
0:23:23 > 0:23:25THEY GROAN
0:23:26 > 0:23:29Now back at home, it's Chase and Ben's turn
0:23:29 > 0:23:31to spy on their parents spying on them.
0:23:31 > 0:23:32Look at the skis.
0:23:32 > 0:23:34- He doesn't know what he's doing - No.
0:23:34 > 0:23:36See? He doesn't...he hasn't got a clue.
0:23:36 > 0:23:41I ripped my bloody trousers. Look - it's a massive gash, man.
0:23:45 > 0:23:49- Chase, Chase, Chase, Chase. - Oh, oh, oh.- Oh!
0:23:49 > 0:23:50THEY LAUGH
0:23:50 > 0:23:52How did I do that?
0:23:52 > 0:23:54Despite being an accident-prone beginner...
0:23:54 > 0:23:55THEY GASP
0:23:55 > 0:23:58..Chase didn't bother with a helmet.
0:23:58 > 0:24:00No, I'm not happy with this now, with no hat.
0:24:00 > 0:24:03I reckon Chase will..."Well, I don't want no-one
0:24:03 > 0:24:04"to see me as a beginner."
0:24:04 > 0:24:06And that's why he never wore the helmet.
0:24:06 > 0:24:08Didn't want to ruin my hair, really.
0:24:08 > 0:24:10Like, I'd had a nice fade from the barber,
0:24:10 > 0:24:13so I didn't really want to disappoint the fade.
0:24:13 > 0:24:17Inevitably, Chase's gung-ho spirits came back to haunt him.
0:24:17 > 0:24:19Today, I've ruined my neck,
0:24:19 > 0:24:21like, I can't even move it all the way round...oh!
0:24:21 > 0:24:23Yeah, I can't even move it all the way round,
0:24:23 > 0:24:27and it's made me think, like, never, never, ever give it chat
0:24:27 > 0:24:28unless you can do it.
0:24:28 > 0:24:30He realised he's a know-it-all
0:24:30 > 0:24:33and he's gotta...you know, it's time to tone it down from that,
0:24:33 > 0:24:34cos you don't know everything.
0:24:34 > 0:24:37That's something I've always said - I don't know everything.
0:24:37 > 0:24:40So has Chase learnt his lesson?
0:24:40 > 0:24:42I know for a fact I probably will be cocky next time,
0:24:42 > 0:24:44because I've had the experience.
0:24:44 > 0:24:47I just need to learn how to stop, cos I cannot stop.
0:24:54 > 0:24:57Metrosexual Ben was also a first-time skier.
0:24:57 > 0:24:58Oh, he's got no hat.
0:24:58 > 0:25:00He's got a woolly hat. He can't even stand up.
0:25:00 > 0:25:03THEY LAUGH
0:25:04 > 0:25:06Oh, God...
0:25:06 > 0:25:07ON VIDEO: I can't get up...!
0:25:07 > 0:25:10Ben wasn't concerned about safety equipment either.
0:25:11 > 0:25:15Erm, Dad said to me, before I went, he wanted me to wear a helmet,
0:25:15 > 0:25:18because obviously, heads are important.
0:25:18 > 0:25:20I don't know about this helmet malarkey,
0:25:20 > 0:25:23I spent an hour getting ready, doing my hair,
0:25:23 > 0:25:27and now I've put a hat on, like...total waste of time.
0:25:27 > 0:25:28At least he's sensible.
0:25:28 > 0:25:31- Are you two getting helmets?- No. - You're not?- No.
0:25:31 > 0:25:33- Well, neither am I, then. - Yeah, you are.- No, I'm not.
0:25:33 > 0:25:38- You are.- That's coming off. That's coming off.
0:25:38 > 0:25:39Oh, no!
0:25:39 > 0:25:42Injury prone first-timers like Ben and Chase
0:25:42 > 0:25:44are everywhere on the slopes.
0:25:44 > 0:25:47And the resort workers can spot them a mile off.
0:25:47 > 0:25:50I think you can tell a first-time skier or snowboarder
0:25:50 > 0:25:52generally by their clothes.
0:25:52 > 0:25:55You know, with beginners, there's no idea about the mountains.
0:25:55 > 0:25:58The most common injury that I've seen in the season
0:25:58 > 0:26:02have been knee injuries, and that's, uh...both from skiing
0:26:02 > 0:26:04and from drunk people falling in the streets.
0:26:04 > 0:26:08Eight broken ribs. Er, detached lung.
0:26:08 > 0:26:10Someone had a fractured penis once.
0:26:10 > 0:26:16Twisted and torn ligaments, broken ankles, broken legs.
0:26:16 > 0:26:19The worst injury I've ever seen is probably my mate Frenchie,
0:26:19 > 0:26:21who smashed his head on a rock doing some silly jump,
0:26:21 > 0:26:24and they, when they were in hospital, they had to peel his face
0:26:24 > 0:26:27off to get to the back of his er, to get to his bones behind his skin.
0:26:27 > 0:26:29People have some pretty bad sunburn.
0:26:29 > 0:26:32I've got a little bit of bad sunburn on my head.
0:26:32 > 0:26:35It gets pretty bad. Use sunscreen.
0:26:35 > 0:26:37Ben's vanity meant he shunned the helmet,
0:26:37 > 0:26:40but having spent a week with his mates up the mountains,
0:26:40 > 0:26:44he's realised there's more to life than maintaining your image.
0:26:44 > 0:26:46Worst sunburn ever.
0:26:46 > 0:26:49I look like a cherry tomato.
0:26:49 > 0:26:51I'm just going to...
0:26:51 > 0:26:54- All you need is a green wig and you'll be a fucking Oompa Loompa. - I know.
0:26:54 > 0:26:57'Getting the sunburn, although it was bad for your skin'
0:26:57 > 0:26:58and stuff like that,
0:26:58 > 0:27:01it probably learnt me a lesson like, because I knew that I couldn't do
0:27:01 > 0:27:04anything to improve that situation other than take medication.
0:27:04 > 0:27:07Erm, I didn't bother with my hair cos I knew it weren't going to
0:27:07 > 0:27:09make me look any better when I had a sunburnt face.
0:27:09 > 0:27:13I think Ben's changed since the holiday, he's not so worried
0:27:13 > 0:27:15about his looks now as what he was before he went on holiday.
0:27:15 > 0:27:19I mean he used to spend ages and ages in front of the mirror,
0:27:19 > 0:27:22- but just on his hair, didn't he? - Just, just literally on his hair.
0:27:22 > 0:27:24Now, when I'm at home, like if I'm only popping to the shop
0:27:24 > 0:27:27or anything, I won't worry about doing my hair.
0:27:27 > 0:27:29Like before, I'd make sure I was properly ready before I even
0:27:29 > 0:27:30went out in my car.
0:27:30 > 0:27:33- I think he's definitely opened his eyes up and...- Yeah.
0:27:33 > 0:27:37- ..and changed the way, the way he feels, isn't it?- Yep.
0:27:37 > 0:27:39Ben might have let go of his vanity,
0:27:39 > 0:27:42but he was determined to make this holiday one he'd never forget.
0:27:44 > 0:27:48One of Dad's last words to me was that, er, I wasn't to get a tattoo.
0:27:48 > 0:27:51Erm, he said that he'd kick me out of the house.
0:27:51 > 0:27:52Erm, I hope that he's joking.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54Yeah, no tattoos, that's...
0:27:54 > 0:27:58Yeah, but I don't think there's any fear of that out here so that's good.
0:27:58 > 0:27:59I'm not going to cry.
0:27:59 > 0:28:02No. Tattoo shop.
0:28:03 > 0:28:06Did you get a tattoo?
0:28:06 > 0:28:07I made up the words.
0:28:07 > 0:28:11I want to get that tattooed on my wrist now. OK.
0:28:11 > 0:28:13On his wrist. What a dick.
0:28:13 > 0:28:14Welt.
0:28:14 > 0:28:17- I wished he'd looked it up first. - Yeah.
0:28:17 > 0:28:18What does that mean?
0:28:18 > 0:28:21It means, amazing, good.
0:28:21 > 0:28:22I made it up,
0:28:22 > 0:28:26but it does actually have a meaning which I found out once we got home.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28I'm not going...
0:28:28 > 0:28:32In Scottish, it means penis, erm, and also it's some kind of skin
0:28:32 > 0:28:34disease as well, so which is a bit, er...
0:28:34 > 0:28:38So, yeah, I just creased up when I found out.
0:28:38 > 0:28:40It can be the bottom of a shoe.
0:28:41 > 0:28:45Or it's like some massive lump that you can get on your skin
0:28:45 > 0:28:47that you can never get rid of.
0:28:47 > 0:28:50Well, Welt's my own word, or what I thought was my own word.
0:28:50 > 0:28:54It means, like, amazing, good, or, like, anything positive.
0:28:54 > 0:28:56- Welt?- Welt.- Welt.
0:28:56 > 0:28:59- It's welt.- It's welt. What...?! - This whole thing's welt.
0:28:59 > 0:29:02A T-shirt could be welt or food could be welt.
0:29:02 > 0:29:06Or just everything could be welt, so I'm hoping that all my friends
0:29:06 > 0:29:08have started using it and I'll keep using it.
0:29:08 > 0:29:11And to have it on his wrist as well where he's going to be,
0:29:11 > 0:29:15everyone at work can see it, and, yeah, really disappointed in that.
0:29:15 > 0:29:18- Now you are a man.- It looks really good. I really like it.
0:29:18 > 0:29:20I feel like a man, I didn't cry.
0:29:20 > 0:29:25His disapproving dad might never consider Ben's body art to be welt
0:29:25 > 0:29:29but since they've got home, he's come to terms with the tat.
0:29:29 > 0:29:31He's a growing lad, nearly a man, erm,
0:29:31 > 0:29:34and made his own decision and he's the one that's gotta stick by it.
0:29:34 > 0:29:38Welt's not caught on yet, but I'm hoping it will.
0:29:38 > 0:29:42The apres ski nightlife is high on the agenda for any young skier.
0:29:42 > 0:29:46But it was one thing Chase's mum, Sharon, wasn't looking forward to.
0:29:46 > 0:29:50I wouldn't like to see Chase paralytic drunk.
0:29:51 > 0:29:53No.
0:29:54 > 0:29:56He's really not going to down the whole bottle?
0:29:56 > 0:29:58Huh!
0:29:58 > 0:30:00- No.- No.- No.
0:30:00 > 0:30:02Half a bottle.
0:30:05 > 0:30:08On his first night, Chase also hit the spirits.
0:30:08 > 0:30:10Oh, my goodness.
0:30:12 > 0:30:14He was putting it down my throat yeah, er, er, and there was
0:30:14 > 0:30:17- a bit more. I was like ergh. - HE FEIGNS CHOKING
0:30:17 > 0:30:19No.
0:30:19 > 0:30:20No way.
0:30:23 > 0:30:25Oh, mate, I gagged in the morning after that, man.
0:30:25 > 0:30:29Next, Chase hit on the girls using that old chestnut -
0:30:29 > 0:30:31pretending to be famous.
0:30:31 > 0:30:34Rizzle Kicks, nice to meet you.
0:30:36 > 0:30:38Rizzle Kicks, quality.
0:30:38 > 0:30:40Yeah, hi, I want to hug Rizzle.
0:30:41 > 0:30:44Basically, like, I always get called Rizzle Kicks wherever I go,
0:30:44 > 0:30:46like if I'm in Croydon, "Rizzle Kicks, Rizzle Kicks."
0:30:46 > 0:30:48I'm like, "Yeah, mate, have a look."
0:30:48 > 0:30:50Claiming to be a chart-topping rapper,
0:30:50 > 0:30:53did it just get Chase attention and free drinks?
0:30:53 > 0:30:56When they told me to perform on stage cos I said
0:30:56 > 0:31:00I was Rizzle Kicks like, I was just like, "No!"
0:31:00 > 0:31:03# Listen, I'm not an MP3... #
0:31:03 > 0:31:07THEY LAUGH
0:31:07 > 0:31:10And I just started saying these dead bars like,
0:31:10 > 0:31:12some things that didn't even rhyme,
0:31:12 > 0:31:13I think I just made up my own language.
0:31:13 > 0:31:15# He's got a... #
0:31:15 > 0:31:17INCOHERENT
0:31:17 > 0:31:20Reno, Reno, Reno, Reno...
0:31:20 > 0:31:23Sadly, the fake famous rapper soon fell victim to
0:31:23 > 0:31:25the rock'n'roll lifestyle.
0:31:25 > 0:31:28- Walk in. - No, we can't, it's closed.
0:31:29 > 0:31:33Oh, no way.
0:31:33 > 0:31:37Back home, sober and upright, Chase has no regrets.
0:31:37 > 0:31:39..these two beautiful people...
0:31:39 > 0:31:41It was my first night, I went out, drank, drank...
0:31:41 > 0:31:43- Yeah, and drank more. - And drank more.
0:31:44 > 0:31:47But the boys weren't the only ones enjoying the apres ski
0:31:47 > 0:31:49in the resorts.
0:31:52 > 0:31:55Is that four? My mum don't drink.
0:31:55 > 0:31:57- Cheers.- Ready to down, who's going to down this?
0:31:57 > 0:31:58All in one, ready?
0:32:01 > 0:32:02Another one?
0:32:02 > 0:32:04Oh, my God!
0:32:04 > 0:32:07And my mum's having a go at ME about drinking!
0:32:07 > 0:32:09They've drunk more drunk... drinks than me!
0:32:12 > 0:32:13- Oh, my God.- That's three.
0:32:13 > 0:32:15# Get down on it... #
0:32:19 > 0:32:21Was that fun?
0:32:21 > 0:32:25THEY GIGGLE HYSTERICALLY
0:32:25 > 0:32:29And it seems that a cocktail of high altitude and shots
0:32:29 > 0:32:31were a little too much for Sharon and Marie.
0:32:40 > 0:32:41Oh, my days.
0:32:45 > 0:32:48I've never seen her cracking, cracking up like that.
0:32:48 > 0:32:50I had so much fun.
0:32:51 > 0:32:53SHE LAUGHS
0:32:54 > 0:32:58Oh, my gosh, I'm cringing. My mum don't drink, innit?
0:33:00 > 0:33:02- Oh, my God.- Oh, my God.
0:33:02 > 0:33:04I feel like a hypocrite, I feel like a hypocrite.
0:33:04 > 0:33:06Yes.
0:33:06 > 0:33:08Meanwhile, body-conscious Ben
0:33:08 > 0:33:13didn't share the parents', Chase's or his mates' interest in booze.
0:33:13 > 0:33:16- I've had two drinks, a Diet Coke and a water.- Oh!
0:33:16 > 0:33:19I'm pretty sure they're drinking, so that's the main thing.
0:33:19 > 0:33:21I don't know, I am a bit jealous of the fun they're having
0:33:21 > 0:33:24getting a drink straight down and drinking competitions,
0:33:24 > 0:33:27- seeing who can beat each other.- Well, it's good he hasn't had a drink,
0:33:27 > 0:33:29but I think he would relax if he had a drink
0:33:29 > 0:33:31and mixed in with the lads a bit better.
0:33:31 > 0:33:34- Did you not drink the whole of the holiday, then?- I had one beer
0:33:34 > 0:33:36and one glass of champagne.
0:33:36 > 0:33:41But I hadn't drunk for 125 days or something before.
0:33:41 > 0:33:44- Phew!- I've done some stupid things when I've been drinking.
0:33:44 > 0:33:46- Oh!- And like, the lads' holidays were just crazy.
0:33:48 > 0:33:49SHE GASPS
0:33:49 > 0:33:53When you see him sitting back when the others are up enjoying themselves...
0:33:53 > 0:33:56You'd like to see him up there with them, with the rest of them.
0:33:56 > 0:33:57I wasn't bored on the holiday,
0:33:57 > 0:34:00but when it gets to three or four in the morning,
0:34:00 > 0:34:02then I certainly struggled.
0:34:05 > 0:34:06Single and sober,
0:34:06 > 0:34:10Ben also ignored his mates' demands that he go on the pull.
0:34:17 > 0:34:20That girl tried to chat to Ben and he told her to fuck...
0:34:20 > 0:34:22- What one?- This one right here.
0:34:22 > 0:34:23Fuck off!
0:34:23 > 0:34:25LAUGHTER
0:34:25 > 0:34:28He needs to man up a bit, talk to some girls.
0:34:28 > 0:34:32If you ain't drinking, you're not going to enjoy as much.
0:34:32 > 0:34:35Before the trip, Ben and single dad James
0:34:35 > 0:34:38didn't have a classic father/son relationship.
0:34:38 > 0:34:40At home we have no ground rules at all, erm,
0:34:40 > 0:34:43basically he can come and go as he pleases and drink if he wants.
0:34:43 > 0:34:48Spying on Ben opened up James's eyes to problems he'd missed.
0:34:48 > 0:34:51I've never had the confidence to go and speak to new people.
0:34:51 > 0:34:54Erm, probably with the whole confidence thing of being overweight,
0:34:54 > 0:34:57erm, not really enjoying myself as a teenager,
0:34:57 > 0:35:00so it's difficult but hopefully now I'm coming to a point where
0:35:00 > 0:35:02I can try and get over that.
0:35:02 > 0:35:05What about your dad? And do your family know?
0:35:05 > 0:35:06Erm...
0:35:09 > 0:35:11This is hard.
0:35:11 > 0:35:13Do you mind if I...
0:35:22 > 0:35:26Me and dad wasn't that close at all, like, we had a relationship
0:35:26 > 0:35:29but it was more like friends rather than father and son.
0:35:29 > 0:35:31It's heartbreaking to hear Ben sit and talk,
0:35:31 > 0:35:34obviously it's something we don't do at home.
0:35:34 > 0:35:36There's several things he said this week which makes me feel
0:35:36 > 0:35:38as if I've failed in certain ways,
0:35:38 > 0:35:40- even though other people think I haven't.- No.
0:35:40 > 0:35:42Oh, that's made me feel really bad
0:35:42 > 0:35:45to like, to hear dad say that he thinks he's let me down.
0:35:45 > 0:35:48Like, definitely hasn't let me down,
0:35:48 > 0:35:51just, I don't think I could have talked to him anyway at some points.
0:35:51 > 0:35:53Like, you need that time on your own.
0:35:53 > 0:35:55That was hard, seeing that.
0:35:55 > 0:35:59Since returning, both Ben and James have been taking positive steps
0:35:59 > 0:36:01to improve their communication.
0:36:01 > 0:36:04I think we've learnt that we need to talk more,
0:36:04 > 0:36:06and we need to try and find something to do,
0:36:06 > 0:36:09whether it's, I don't know, fishing or...
0:36:09 > 0:36:11We have talked about a couple of things we want to do.
0:36:11 > 0:36:14Since I've got back, I feel a lot more confident in myself.
0:36:14 > 0:36:16Me and dad get on more, do more together,
0:36:16 > 0:36:18like, we've done nothing before.
0:36:18 > 0:36:20So that's, like, the one positive thing.
0:36:20 > 0:36:22But my sunburn looked well bad.
0:36:22 > 0:36:24You was crisping up.
0:36:25 > 0:36:28Whilst Chase was busy on the slopes,
0:36:28 > 0:36:32he had some uninvited invaders in his holiday palace.
0:36:32 > 0:36:35I'm not impressed with it. Look at that, skid mark on the toilet.
0:36:36 > 0:36:39- Oh, dirty!- That was Andy and Adrian, one of them.
0:36:39 > 0:36:41Oh, we've got chocolate croissant.
0:36:44 > 0:36:46- Cheers, Chase.- What? That's mine!
0:36:46 > 0:36:48Why she eating my food, man?
0:36:48 > 0:36:50Mate, my mum robbed the food
0:36:50 > 0:36:53and then Adrian was all like, "Chase, I know it was you!
0:36:53 > 0:36:56"You're so greedy in the group. Like, I know you'll eat anything,
0:36:56 > 0:36:58"you're a pig, you eat nasty, I know you ate it."
0:36:58 > 0:37:02I was like, "Adrian, man, I'm not going to rob your croissants, man."
0:37:02 > 0:37:04Do you want to be a fam, or you want to...
0:37:04 > 0:37:06Why is my mum saying "fam"?
0:37:07 > 0:37:09This one here?
0:37:09 > 0:37:12- Do you want the bottle, famo? - Give me the bottle.
0:37:17 > 0:37:19It's freezing!
0:37:19 > 0:37:21I don't know why my mum says "fam" and "famo", like.
0:37:21 > 0:37:23I tell her, like, don't say that.
0:37:23 > 0:37:24Cos it's the Croydon thing,
0:37:24 > 0:37:26isn't it? She's trying to talk like a rude boy.
0:37:26 > 0:37:29Still gutted about that croissant, though, man.
0:37:29 > 0:37:31She owes me two euros.
0:37:31 > 0:37:34And the embarrassment didn't end there for 20-year-old Chase,
0:37:34 > 0:37:37as his mum caught him in a compromising position
0:37:37 > 0:37:40- on a night-time spying mission. - There he is!
0:37:40 > 0:37:42We're in the kitchen.
0:37:42 > 0:37:44Mama's in the kitchen!
0:37:44 > 0:37:45Cringing.
0:37:53 > 0:37:55He's a quick mover, isn't he?
0:38:05 > 0:38:09He has to lie. Know what I mean? Why doesn't he say his age?
0:38:10 > 0:38:13That was an invite for Chase, wasn't it?
0:38:13 > 0:38:15- That was quick. He didn't have to do anything.- That was fast work.
0:38:15 > 0:38:19- Was that the Rizzle Kicks line that got you that?- No, not even that.
0:38:19 > 0:38:21She just like, she liked what she saw!
0:38:21 > 0:38:23No, but that was all right.
0:38:23 > 0:38:27She was a nice girl, though. Well, lady.
0:38:27 > 0:38:28Old enough lady!
0:38:28 > 0:38:31After a week spying in the snow,
0:38:31 > 0:38:34it was time for Ben and Chase's parents to come clean.
0:38:34 > 0:38:36Don't have all of them...
0:38:36 > 0:38:37Oh, my gosh!
0:38:37 > 0:38:38Oh, God!
0:38:40 > 0:38:42And now it's the kids' chance
0:38:42 > 0:38:45to confront the adults about what they've seen for the first time.
0:38:45 > 0:38:48So, you was doing shots.
0:38:49 > 0:38:50You was doing shots.
0:38:50 > 0:38:54Like you said, "I feel like a hypocrite now."
0:38:54 > 0:38:56I just wanted to see what it was like,
0:38:56 > 0:38:59cos all you lot were doing it. I thought, "Let's go for it."
0:38:59 > 0:39:00I'm not really a drinker.
0:39:00 > 0:39:02That's what I said. That's apple juice, isn't it?
0:39:05 > 0:39:07Before I watched it, I was like, "Oh, my gosh."
0:39:07 > 0:39:09- I didn't embarrass you? - No, you didn't embarrass me at all.
0:39:09 > 0:39:12I was a bit worried there, but I thought, "Well, I didn't..."
0:39:12 > 0:39:14I don't act bad when I'm out anyway.
0:39:14 > 0:39:16Do you want a beer, fam?
0:39:16 > 0:39:18Or you want a JB?
0:39:18 > 0:39:20No, I'll have a vodka.
0:39:20 > 0:39:22Yeah, man!
0:39:22 > 0:39:24Why did you say "famo" and "fam"?
0:39:24 > 0:39:28- Where did you get this from? - You!- Like, I think you're going...
0:39:28 > 0:39:31- No.- You've been going on my Facebook looking at, like, 2009, innit?- No.
0:39:31 > 0:39:34"Famo, oh! Fam!"
0:39:34 > 0:39:37"Vodka, yeah!" I was just like...
0:39:37 > 0:39:39What the hell, man? I know we're from Croydon,
0:39:39 > 0:39:41but we ain't that ghetto, man!
0:39:41 > 0:39:43We can talk for life.
0:39:43 > 0:39:47I was proud how you represented yourself and your family
0:39:47 > 0:39:50and your beliefs and where you come from, so...
0:39:50 > 0:39:51It's not like I got a tattoo.
0:39:53 > 0:39:56'I think Chase has learnt from this experience to listen'
0:39:56 > 0:39:59and we'll talk. And I'll listen to him
0:39:59 > 0:40:02cos I don't have to talk to the back of his head no more.
0:40:02 > 0:40:0520-year-old Ben struggled with his confidence as a teenager,
0:40:05 > 0:40:08and revealed on the trip he didn't feel that he could confide
0:40:08 > 0:40:10in his dad, James.
0:40:10 > 0:40:14- Oh! That was weird.- What's that? - Walking out the back.
0:40:14 > 0:40:15Was it good?
0:40:15 > 0:40:18Yeah, but it's so weird that you were, like, right there
0:40:18 > 0:40:19and I didn't even know.
0:40:19 > 0:40:22I've never had the confidence to go and speak to new people.
0:40:22 > 0:40:24Erm, probably with the whole confidence thing of being overweight,
0:40:24 > 0:40:27erm, not really enjoying myself as a teenager.
0:40:30 > 0:40:32I've never seen Dad get upset before really.
0:40:32 > 0:40:35Erm, he's always been a strong character
0:40:35 > 0:40:36and strong throughout our lives.
0:40:36 > 0:40:39There's several things he said this week which makes me
0:40:39 > 0:40:41feel as if I've failed in certain ways.
0:40:41 > 0:40:43Watching some of it was difficult, like, at one point you said
0:40:43 > 0:40:46that you thought you'd, like, failed us and stuff.
0:40:46 > 0:40:48Well, I don't think... You definitely haven't.
0:40:48 > 0:40:50But it was just hard at that time
0:40:50 > 0:40:53when you was obviously working a lot and I was at school
0:40:53 > 0:40:55and we didn't have a lot of time to spend together.
0:40:55 > 0:40:57It was difficult for me, as well, cos, obviously,
0:40:57 > 0:40:59- cos we hadn't spoke like that at home.- Yeah.
0:40:59 > 0:41:03- And then to see it on camera. - Hmm.- And it's hard to deal with cos you think...- Yeah.
0:41:03 > 0:41:05- ..you're doing everything for the best.- Hmm.
0:41:05 > 0:41:09- And you don't realise that, you know, somewhere along the line, there's issues that...- Yeah.
0:41:09 > 0:41:10..that we didn't know about.
0:41:10 > 0:41:14It gives you the chance to open up, cos obviously I wouldn't come down and speak to you like that.
0:41:14 > 0:41:17- No.- So I knew it was kind of an opportunity to,
0:41:17 > 0:41:19to tell you kind of how I felt and how I have felt.
0:41:19 > 0:41:22- Which is good cos now...- Yeah. - ..we've learnt from it...- Yeah.
0:41:22 > 0:41:25- ..and we can move forward and do things different.- Exactly.
0:41:25 > 0:41:28I think what I've learnt is work's not everything.
0:41:28 > 0:41:31Maybe now it's time to spend some more time
0:41:31 > 0:41:35with the boys before they're too old and left home and, erm,
0:41:35 > 0:41:39and really just to sit and talk and...
0:41:39 > 0:41:41- Quality time.- A bit of quality time with them, yeah.
0:41:41 > 0:41:44Now I know that if I need to speak to him, he's going to be there.
0:41:44 > 0:41:46- I'm really proud of you, Ben. - No...
0:41:46 > 0:41:49You're growing into a decent young lad, really.
0:41:51 > 0:41:55Tignes, another favourite destination for Brits on the piste.
0:41:59 > 0:42:01And headed there was 20-year-old fashion student
0:42:01 > 0:42:03and rugby player, Daryl.
0:42:03 > 0:42:07When we go out, we have our phrase - "Go hard or go home."
0:42:07 > 0:42:10And basically it's just drink till you drop.
0:42:11 > 0:42:16While Daryl larges it in Manchester with her uni mates...
0:42:16 > 0:42:17How's that slutty?
0:42:17 > 0:42:20Where's the...where's the bottom half of it?
0:42:20 > 0:42:23..back home, parents, Derek and Jackie,
0:42:23 > 0:42:25are left in the dark about her lifestyle.
0:42:25 > 0:42:27She doesn't tell us anything.
0:42:27 > 0:42:30I was going to say, no. I don't even know if she's got a boyfriend.
0:42:30 > 0:42:33- I don't think she has.- No.- She wouldn't talk to me about it anyway.
0:42:33 > 0:42:35- We ain't got a bloody clue. - Clue.
0:42:35 > 0:42:37So it was time to get clued up.
0:42:37 > 0:42:41As unbeknown to Daryl and team-mates, Robyn and Rosa...
0:42:41 > 0:42:43- Skiing! - Skiing!
0:42:43 > 0:42:47..Derek and Jackie will be joining the rugby girls on tour.
0:42:47 > 0:42:49- Breakfast and a pint.- Yeah.
0:42:49 > 0:42:51- There better be a Wetherspoon's at Manchester airport.- Yeah.
0:42:51 > 0:42:56- Mum?- Yeah? - I need help with my folding.
0:42:56 > 0:42:58When are you going to learn to pack on your own?
0:42:58 > 0:43:04Also headed to Tignes with his mates was 19-year-old club promoter, Max.
0:43:04 > 0:43:10I generally drink wine, champagne and vodka. My spirit's vodka.
0:43:10 > 0:43:15So, I suppose I do have more luxurious taste. Definitely.
0:43:15 > 0:43:19But away from the nightlife, in Hemel Hempstead with his mum and sister,
0:43:19 > 0:43:21Max enjoys his home comforts.
0:43:22 > 0:43:27If Max could have somebody dress him, he would have me dress him.
0:43:27 > 0:43:31Because that boy will do as little as possible.
0:43:31 > 0:43:34The part-time ski instructor and mates, Matt and Josh,
0:43:34 > 0:43:36are no strangers to the slopes.
0:43:36 > 0:43:39But domestic life comes a little less naturally.
0:43:40 > 0:43:42You've just scrunched all your pants up.
0:43:42 > 0:43:45She's more of a servant than a slave, my mum.
0:43:46 > 0:43:48I did try.
0:43:48 > 0:43:50You did try. You're very trying, actually, love.
0:43:50 > 0:43:52- Bye, Mum.- Bye.
0:43:52 > 0:43:55Mum, Suzanne, was desperate to see how her boy
0:43:55 > 0:43:57really copes when she's not around.
0:43:58 > 0:44:01Right then, that's the boy.
0:44:01 > 0:44:02Better go and get my skis on.
0:44:04 > 0:44:06The two gangs landed in the Alps
0:44:06 > 0:44:09and headed straight for their party resort.
0:44:09 > 0:44:13Francais, we're here! Wa-hey!
0:44:13 > 0:44:17But there were four uninvited guests following behind them.
0:44:17 > 0:44:20- Hello.- Hello there. How we going? - I'm Suzanne.- Nice to meet you.
0:44:20 > 0:44:24Daryl's parents, Max's mum, and her friend, Hilary.
0:44:26 > 0:44:29Their mission - to spy on their kids' ski trips.
0:44:29 > 0:44:31- Hello, you all right?- How are you? - I'm good, thanks.
0:44:31 > 0:44:32Now, back on home soil,
0:44:32 > 0:44:36Daryl and Max have an assignment of their own -
0:44:36 > 0:44:39discovering exactly what their parents saw.
0:44:39 > 0:44:42- You ready?- Scared.
0:44:42 > 0:44:45- Is there anything you'd be cross with?- Yes, one thing.
0:44:45 > 0:44:47If she got pregnant, that would really freak me.
0:44:47 > 0:44:49Oh, my God.
0:44:49 > 0:44:52So what happens if she brings a boy back, will that shock you?
0:44:52 > 0:44:53If she did, I'd bloody kill her.
0:44:53 > 0:44:56THEY LAUGH
0:44:57 > 0:45:01From the moment she arrived, Daryl made an impact.
0:45:02 > 0:45:04THEY LAUGH
0:45:04 > 0:45:09- Oh!- Jesus Christ. That's before she's had a drink.
0:45:09 > 0:45:11Bar's open!
0:45:11 > 0:45:14And like all good rugby players, the girls started downing booze
0:45:14 > 0:45:16as soon as they arrived in their chalet.
0:45:16 > 0:45:17Oh, here she goes.
0:45:18 > 0:45:22Basically, the idea is to get drunk as quickly as possible,
0:45:22 > 0:45:24as cheap as possible.
0:45:24 > 0:45:25Let's drink together, go.
0:45:25 > 0:45:27"Let's drink together," look!
0:45:27 > 0:45:29- How does that work? - That doesn't work.
0:45:31 > 0:45:32Jesus Christ.
0:45:32 > 0:45:34I don't think they understand it fully, like,
0:45:34 > 0:45:39cos they're obviously not involved and like they're old and frail now.
0:45:40 > 0:45:43The fashion design student's first night
0:45:43 > 0:45:45was a real eye opener for her parents.
0:45:45 > 0:45:47Oh, no!
0:45:48 > 0:45:51There we are, she's met up with somebody already.
0:45:52 > 0:45:54Oh!
0:45:54 > 0:45:57You said to us, "Oh, you know, she won't be interested in boys."
0:45:57 > 0:45:59All right, OK, let me, let me rephr...
0:45:59 > 0:46:00Let me put a bigger pic...
0:46:00 > 0:46:03She weren't necking the geezer or anything like that.
0:46:03 > 0:46:05We all did pull when we was out there.
0:46:05 > 0:46:07The one thing my dad said he didn't want me to do was get pregnant
0:46:07 > 0:46:09which I succeeded in - I didn't do it.
0:46:11 > 0:46:13Daryl's dad was right to be worried,
0:46:13 > 0:46:17as all that mountain air can prove to be somewhat of an aphrodisiac.
0:46:17 > 0:46:21The most number of people I've shagged in the ski season could be,
0:46:21 > 0:46:24but not if my mum's watching, could be 23.
0:46:24 > 0:46:27100% of the people that come to Val d'Isere...
0:46:27 > 0:46:29Definitely have a shag.
0:46:29 > 0:46:32I think people come out here to try and pull ski instructors.
0:46:33 > 0:46:36- That's the big one.- Yeah. If you pull a ski instructor...- You're gold.
0:46:36 > 0:46:38..you've won.
0:46:38 > 0:46:41What's the difference between God and a ski instructor?
0:46:41 > 0:46:44- God doesn't think he's a ski instructor?- That's correct.
0:46:44 > 0:46:47It's pretty easy to get laid out here, everyone's always up for it.
0:46:47 > 0:46:51About 97% of people get laid on the season.
0:46:51 > 0:46:55- Er, the other 3% are... - Pussies.
0:46:55 > 0:46:56I would say losers.
0:46:57 > 0:47:02The weirdest thing we find in the apartments was, erm,
0:47:02 > 0:47:06actually a sex toy in one of the bedside tables.
0:47:06 > 0:47:09But a really big, big sex toy.
0:47:10 > 0:47:13I believe there's a challenge actually up the road where
0:47:13 > 0:47:15the idea is to pull a girl and
0:47:15 > 0:47:17to have sex with her in the chairlift before you get to the top.
0:47:19 > 0:47:22When I first came out here, I certainly didn't expect to find love,
0:47:22 > 0:47:25but, erm, here we are, a year and a half later,
0:47:25 > 0:47:30and, erm, still as smitten as we were when we first came out here.
0:47:30 > 0:47:32What the fuck?! It's tiny.
0:47:32 > 0:47:36On their first night, Max and his mates were supping something
0:47:36 > 0:47:38a lot less lethal than the girls' choice of poison.
0:47:40 > 0:47:43The biscuit doesn't even fit in the cup.
0:47:43 > 0:47:45THEY LAUGH
0:47:45 > 0:47:49Max had no idea Mum was watching as he demonstrated
0:47:49 > 0:47:51his lack of domestic skills.
0:47:51 > 0:47:52Does anyone know what this is?
0:47:52 > 0:47:54Oh, that is so typical.
0:47:54 > 0:47:55Cheers, Mum.
0:47:55 > 0:47:58I'd never walk up to someone and be like, "Yes, I'm a mummy's boy,"
0:47:58 > 0:48:00but I probably am.
0:48:00 > 0:48:03You put the pillow...
0:48:03 > 0:48:05- Oh, is that like a...? - Hang on a minute.
0:48:05 > 0:48:07No, it's like a bag.
0:48:07 > 0:48:08Typical boy.
0:48:08 > 0:48:12Last time I made my own bed like this? Never.
0:48:12 > 0:48:13He's so useless.
0:48:13 > 0:48:15This is a foreign bed.
0:48:15 > 0:48:18And I've never...never learnt how to make a foreign bed.
0:48:18 > 0:48:20You get... It's complex. I won't go into it.
0:48:20 > 0:48:24We had a sheet and then a qui... Oh, it was just so confusing.
0:48:24 > 0:48:26It's nothing that I'm used to at home.
0:48:26 > 0:48:29- You're used to just getting into bed and getting out of bed.- Yeah!
0:48:33 > 0:48:36To check out Max's domestic skills for herself...
0:48:36 > 0:48:37Oh, my God. It stinks.
0:48:39 > 0:48:43..Suzanne and her friend Hilary snuck into the chalet
0:48:43 > 0:48:44when the boys were out.
0:48:44 > 0:48:46At least it's nice and tidy.
0:48:46 > 0:48:49- Look at the state of it.- I know.
0:48:49 > 0:48:51Ew.
0:48:51 > 0:48:55I think the room was in a pretty untidy state.
0:48:55 > 0:48:57The bin was overflowing with everything.
0:48:57 > 0:49:01You know I said Max's job is to do the bins on a Thursday night.
0:49:01 > 0:49:04It's not Thursday yet, is it? No, so he hasn't done that.
0:49:04 > 0:49:06Max doesn't know how to wash up.
0:49:06 > 0:49:09You don't know how to make a bed and you don't know how to wash up?
0:49:09 > 0:49:12I think most children and probably quite, like, a lot of boys,
0:49:12 > 0:49:16if somebody else, you know, will do it for them, they will let them.
0:49:16 > 0:49:19If push came to shove, I could take care of myself
0:49:19 > 0:49:20if my mum wasn't around.
0:49:20 > 0:49:23But I suppose I still just cling on a little bit
0:49:23 > 0:49:25and I like to have stuff done for me.
0:49:27 > 0:49:30It wasn't just mess that Max's mum witnessed on the trip.
0:49:32 > 0:49:35Oh, look they're spraying all the champagne - look.
0:49:38 > 0:49:40Eavesdropping on her son
0:49:40 > 0:49:44and his mates showed Suzanne a side of him she wouldn't see at home.
0:49:44 > 0:49:47- I'm either up there or I'm at the bottom.- Yeah.
0:49:47 > 0:49:48It's going to be either or for me.
0:49:48 > 0:49:52- One year, I might earn £4 million. The next year, a grand.- Yeah.
0:49:52 > 0:49:56Do you know what I mean? I'd love to go into corporate hospitality
0:49:56 > 0:49:58and organise events for companies where
0:49:58 > 0:50:01they come to you with a budget and you organise the whole thing.
0:50:01 > 0:50:02Cos I know I'm good at that.
0:50:02 > 0:50:05- I'm good at socialising, I'm good at organising.- Yeah.
0:50:05 > 0:50:07I'd love to do that. But can I ask you a question?
0:50:07 > 0:50:10- Yeah.- Out of all our mates that we've got, who would you say
0:50:10 > 0:50:12is the most likely to succeed?
0:50:12 > 0:50:14I wouldn't put you at the top of anyone else. No, no way.
0:50:14 > 0:50:17- You don't think? - Not at all. Not a single chance, no.
0:50:17 > 0:50:20I know everyone thinks they've got a spark and they're going to do it.
0:50:20 > 0:50:23But I really do think, from what I've been through
0:50:23 > 0:50:25and from what I understand about life, that I've got this
0:50:25 > 0:50:28spark inside of me that's going to carry me the rest of the way.
0:50:30 > 0:50:3319-year-old Max lost his dad three years ago,
0:50:33 > 0:50:37leaving mum Suzanne to raise him and his sister alone.
0:50:37 > 0:50:41The main thought that pops into my head all the time is probably
0:50:41 > 0:50:45what I'm going to do with my future and how life's going to pan out.
0:50:45 > 0:50:46Cos I've had to grow up quick,
0:50:46 > 0:50:49I mean, obviously my dad died three years ago and it just made me
0:50:49 > 0:50:54think, like, you don't live for ever and you do only have one life.
0:50:54 > 0:50:59It makes me really proud to think that he, you know, has come
0:50:59 > 0:51:03through that. It's probably made him a stronger person.
0:51:03 > 0:51:07It's probably made him certainly want to strive,
0:51:07 > 0:51:09you know, for things in his life.
0:51:09 > 0:51:11I do care about my future and I want to be somewhere.
0:51:11 > 0:51:13I want to be someone.
0:51:14 > 0:51:17Oh! Now you really want to hug him.
0:51:17 > 0:51:19I know. I really want to see him now.
0:51:19 > 0:51:22I just want to feel his big bear hug around me
0:51:22 > 0:51:25because, you know, I've missed that.
0:51:27 > 0:51:28Sorry.
0:51:28 > 0:51:30- Oh!- Oh!
0:51:30 > 0:51:33My mum didn't tell me she cried on telly.
0:51:37 > 0:51:41And it doesn't matter how old your children get,
0:51:41 > 0:51:42they're always your babies.
0:51:42 > 0:51:46Ah! That gave me goose bumps.
0:51:47 > 0:51:49It's so easy for people
0:51:49 > 0:51:51who have been through what I have been through to go off the rails.
0:51:51 > 0:51:54But my mum has been there, like, through the lows
0:51:54 > 0:51:57and through the highs as well, so it's down to her, like,
0:51:57 > 0:52:00the person I've turned out to be now.
0:52:00 > 0:52:02I've realised that not many people are close
0:52:02 > 0:52:04to their mum as I am to mine.
0:52:04 > 0:52:07I think, probably, you know, what's happening to him, you know,
0:52:07 > 0:52:11losing his dad, there is a special bond with us
0:52:11 > 0:52:14and he doesn't want that to go away.
0:52:14 > 0:52:15He doesn't want to lose that.
0:52:17 > 0:52:19- Zig-a-zig, ah.- Zi...
0:52:19 > 0:52:23Student Daryl and her rugby mates donned their best fancy dress
0:52:23 > 0:52:24for another night on the town...
0:52:24 > 0:52:29We do what we want, what we really, really want.
0:52:29 > 0:52:30..giving Daryl's dad Derek
0:52:30 > 0:52:34the perfect opportunity to gate-crash her holiday.
0:52:34 > 0:52:38Ooh! Get off.
0:52:38 > 0:52:39Oh, no.
0:52:39 > 0:52:40HE CHUCKLES
0:52:42 > 0:52:44Spice girls! Spice up your life!
0:52:44 > 0:52:45I am an independent girl.
0:52:47 > 0:52:50- Oh, you bastard!- Robyn, stop thinking with your fanny.
0:52:50 > 0:52:55Daryl's love of dressing up seemed to be a family trait.
0:52:55 > 0:52:56Here we go.
0:53:00 > 0:53:04Do you know what? There's a snowman over there. Look at this.
0:53:04 > 0:53:07Look at this. Look at this, man.
0:53:07 > 0:53:08So you had no idea?
0:53:08 > 0:53:10I had no idea.
0:53:10 > 0:53:12With your little furry face.
0:53:12 > 0:53:15- Oh!- That's funny, that.
0:53:15 > 0:53:16They were talking to me
0:53:16 > 0:53:18and I'm thinking, "Oh, I can't not say nothing,"
0:53:18 > 0:53:20so I, I was just sort of, like...
0:53:20 > 0:53:23HE GRUNTS ..grunting through the thing, like.
0:53:26 > 0:53:28I thought, "OK, I've been here long enough.
0:53:28 > 0:53:32"I better just side exit, stage left."
0:53:32 > 0:53:35So... Well, actually it was stage right cos I went right.
0:53:36 > 0:53:38Daryl was totally oblivious
0:53:38 > 0:53:41to the true identity of the furry interloper.
0:53:43 > 0:53:46She's didn't have a clue.
0:53:46 > 0:53:48Look. I'm shaking.
0:53:48 > 0:53:51This was his prime opportunity to shine and to embarrass me.
0:53:51 > 0:53:54- And to get one over on me.- I don't think that that's embarrassing.
0:53:54 > 0:53:56I think it's funny. It's not my dad, it's your dad.
0:53:56 > 0:53:58- Exactly.- So I just think it's funny.
0:53:58 > 0:54:00- If it was somebody else's dad I'd find it funny as well.- Yeah.
0:54:00 > 0:54:02It was just an absolute buzz, man.
0:54:02 > 0:54:03Nipples.
0:54:03 > 0:54:06But little did Daryl or Max know that their parents were there
0:54:06 > 0:54:09watching, all along.
0:54:09 > 0:54:11So what was it you wanted, boys?
0:54:11 > 0:54:12SHE LAUGHS
0:54:12 > 0:54:13All right?
0:54:13 > 0:54:14THEY LAUGH
0:54:16 > 0:54:18Now that everyone knows what everyone's seen,
0:54:18 > 0:54:21honesty is the best policy.
0:54:22 > 0:54:27On his trip, Max's messy chalet did not impress mum, Suzanne.
0:54:27 > 0:54:31- Oh, my God. It stinks. - I told you it would.
0:54:31 > 0:54:32- Ew.- Ew.
0:54:32 > 0:54:35I know you don't really do much around the house, but...
0:54:35 > 0:54:38- It's not like I don't do anything, though.- No, I know, but...
0:54:38 > 0:54:41As soon as you stick a iron in my hand or, like, a Hoover
0:54:41 > 0:54:43it's like there's nothing I'd rather...
0:54:43 > 0:54:47I'd rather sit in a room in silence and just look at a clock.
0:54:47 > 0:54:50He is quite the man in our house
0:54:50 > 0:54:54and he's had to assume that role from quite a young age.
0:54:54 > 0:54:56I should have, like, modern values.
0:54:56 > 0:55:00But I've got, like, the traditional. Like man mows grass, man cooks meat.
0:55:00 > 0:55:02He plays up to it, saying he's a mummy's boy.
0:55:02 > 0:55:04He's not really, deep down.
0:55:04 > 0:55:08When push comes to shove, he is, you know, a real alpha male.
0:55:08 > 0:55:09I've realised, probably,
0:55:09 > 0:55:12that I don't maybe do enough around the house.
0:55:12 > 0:55:15I should probably put some elbow grease in.
0:55:15 > 0:55:18I'm really proud at what you've achieved in life
0:55:18 > 0:55:21and how you've coped with things in life.
0:55:21 > 0:55:25And I do think you're going to be happy and successful
0:55:25 > 0:55:28because you do deserve it. I think you really deserve it.
0:55:28 > 0:55:32- Thanks, Mum. - And you do make me proud.
0:55:32 > 0:55:35- Glad to hear it.- Especially if you look after me in my old age.
0:55:35 > 0:55:37- Yeah, I will.- Will you? Promise? - Yeah.
0:55:40 > 0:55:43Rugby girl Daryl's parents got a rare glimpse into her life
0:55:43 > 0:55:45now she's left home
0:55:45 > 0:55:46and were left impressed...
0:55:48 > 0:55:52I've learnt that you are OK to look after yourself.
0:55:52 > 0:55:55I should hope so. I've been at uni two years.
0:55:55 > 0:55:58..even if the feeling wasn't mutual.
0:55:58 > 0:56:00What about...? HE HUMS TUNE
0:56:00 > 0:56:02- The Honey Monster?- Yes.
0:56:02 > 0:56:04Furry face.
0:56:04 > 0:56:06I love that!
0:56:06 > 0:56:09- I think that's just the top of the whole thing.- Is it?
0:56:09 > 0:56:11- Yeah.- I was really buzzing, man. I loved that.
0:56:11 > 0:56:12As long as you don't turn up
0:56:12 > 0:56:15at my wedding day as the Honey Monster, it'll be cool.
0:56:15 > 0:56:20The Daryl we saw out there was the Daryl we knew.
0:56:20 > 0:56:24It's the way she's been since she was five or six years old.
0:56:27 > 0:56:29Without the drinking, obviously!
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