Amy and Naomi

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0:00:03 > 0:00:05When I found out I was pregnant, I was 15.

0:00:05 > 0:00:08Me and Petrit's been on and off for two years.

0:00:08 > 0:00:10'They'll never be good for each other.'

0:00:10 > 0:00:13It's such a volatile relationship they've got.

0:00:13 > 0:00:15It's not fair on Jacob.

0:00:15 > 0:00:16What do you mean, it's over?

0:00:16 > 0:00:19What, so you're just going to leave me?

0:00:19 > 0:00:21Huh?

0:00:21 > 0:00:23I think I deserve a lot better than him.

0:00:23 > 0:00:25He's just a pathetic low life.

0:00:43 > 0:00:4716-year-old Amy lives in Plymouth with her mum and son Jacob,

0:00:47 > 0:00:50who's 11 months old.

0:00:50 > 0:00:53'I was using contraception now and then.'

0:00:53 > 0:00:56But the times that I didn't,

0:00:56 > 0:00:58I did take a morning after pill.

0:00:58 > 0:01:01But there was this one time that I didn't

0:01:01 > 0:01:03and that's obviously when I got caught.

0:01:03 > 0:01:07Mum Andrea made Amy take a pregnancy test.

0:01:07 > 0:01:10As soon as I found out what the results were,

0:01:10 > 0:01:13I smacked her over her head

0:01:13 > 0:01:16and obviously called her every name under the sun.

0:01:16 > 0:01:18So I wasn't very happy.

0:01:18 > 0:01:22Amy's ex-boyfriend, Petrit, was 17

0:01:22 > 0:01:25and didn't cope well with becoming a dad.

0:01:25 > 0:01:28I just didn't know what to do with myself, to be honest.

0:01:28 > 0:01:31Didn't know where to go, what to do, who to speak to.

0:01:31 > 0:01:34I just felt like running away.

0:01:34 > 0:01:36I was in shock and I just told Amy

0:01:36 > 0:01:38I didn't know what to do. I wasn't ready for a kid.

0:01:38 > 0:01:43I thought he would stay with me, all the way through.

0:01:43 > 0:01:47But...he sort of done a runner on me.

0:01:47 > 0:01:51They're no longer a couple, but Petrit and Amy

0:01:51 > 0:01:53are trying to stay friends for Jacob's sake.

0:01:53 > 0:01:56My biggest fear for Amy and Petrit is them getting back together.

0:01:58 > 0:02:01She just does not get no help from him.

0:02:01 > 0:02:04He's just a waste of space, he really is.

0:02:04 > 0:02:08Petrit's Albanian Muslim family

0:02:08 > 0:02:10are also against the teens having contact.

0:02:10 > 0:02:11My dad and my mum,

0:02:11 > 0:02:15they would have preferred me marrying a Muslim girl.

0:02:15 > 0:02:19They want me to be in the same culture as my brothers and my dad.

0:02:19 > 0:02:22I don't know Muslim rules.

0:02:22 > 0:02:24I always went with the English rules, to be honest.

0:02:24 > 0:02:27You stay in England, you've got England's rules.

0:02:27 > 0:02:30That's it. My dad didn't like it. I told him straight.

0:02:30 > 0:02:33It's all hard now

0:02:33 > 0:02:36because his family don't like me,

0:02:36 > 0:02:39my family don't like him.

0:02:39 > 0:02:42But Petrit is still determined to win Amy back.

0:02:42 > 0:02:44'I'm going to prove her wrong,

0:02:44 > 0:02:47'that I will be there for her and the same for Jacob.'

0:02:47 > 0:02:51She don't know how bad that I want her back.

0:02:52 > 0:02:56Right, your mum is stopping us two from going out with each other.

0:02:56 > 0:02:59- You said to your mum this morning... - But it's not just my mum.

0:02:59 > 0:03:02It's everybody.

0:03:02 > 0:03:04I just want to be there for Jacob.

0:03:04 > 0:03:06There's no point seeing each other

0:03:06 > 0:03:08if we're not going to get back with each other.

0:03:08 > 0:03:11But how are we going to get back together, yeah?

0:03:11 > 0:03:13The way your family is with me?

0:03:13 > 0:03:15Does it matter? Look at your family with me.

0:03:15 > 0:03:19Why can't you just be with me and no-one's got to know about it?

0:03:19 > 0:03:22Yeah, but it's not you that gets called names, Petrit. It's me.

0:03:22 > 0:03:25Every time I'm with you, I get called a name by my family.

0:03:25 > 0:03:28Is that a mug?

0:03:28 > 0:03:30I want to know, please, before it gets too late.

0:03:30 > 0:03:32Too late for what?

0:03:32 > 0:03:35- For me and you. - What, for you to move on?

0:03:35 > 0:03:38I don't want to move on, don't you understand? I love you.

0:03:38 > 0:03:41But if I get back with you, I'll find you in bed with another girl.

0:03:41 > 0:03:43That ain't going to happen.

0:03:43 > 0:03:45What would you rather do?

0:03:45 > 0:03:49Rush into it, then start arguing again, like we always used to do?

0:03:49 > 0:03:52That's not good for Jacob.

0:04:01 > 0:04:04In Derbyshire, 16-year-old Naomi

0:04:04 > 0:04:08lives alone with her four-month-old baby, Leo.

0:04:10 > 0:04:14I wouldn't change Leo for the world, but I wish I'd waited a bit longer.

0:04:15 > 0:04:18I didn't feel ready to be a mum at 15.

0:04:18 > 0:04:20It was kind of a shock to know

0:04:20 > 0:04:23that I was going to be a mum in secondary school,

0:04:23 > 0:04:25while doing my exams.

0:04:25 > 0:04:29She had just broken up with her long-term boyfriend.

0:04:29 > 0:04:31A week after we'd split up, I told him that I was pregnant.

0:04:31 > 0:04:35But that night I got pregnant, we didn't use anything.

0:04:35 > 0:04:38It was New Year's Eve and we was really, really drunk.

0:04:38 > 0:04:41So it didn't really cross our minds.

0:04:43 > 0:04:46Naomi's mum Claire is also a single parent.

0:04:46 > 0:04:49To Bob, 14,

0:04:49 > 0:04:52Jensen, 11, Emma, nine,

0:04:52 > 0:04:56Jessica, three, and baby Ellie, who's six months old.

0:04:57 > 0:05:00I just started crying,

0:05:00 > 0:05:04because I thought, "She's going to go through what I went through."

0:05:04 > 0:05:06I wanted her to have her youth, go out.

0:05:06 > 0:05:08You know, friends, have a life sort of thing.

0:05:08 > 0:05:11I were just totally shocked.

0:05:11 > 0:05:14Mum Claire was pregnant with her sixth child

0:05:14 > 0:05:16at the same time as Naomi.

0:05:16 > 0:05:19Well, I found out about two weeks before Naomi.

0:05:19 > 0:05:22We was basically the talk of the town,

0:05:22 > 0:05:25which was quite embarrassing

0:05:25 > 0:05:28when you're walking down the town together with two bumps.

0:05:28 > 0:05:32Sharing the same experience has brought Naomi

0:05:32 > 0:05:34and her mum closer together.

0:05:34 > 0:05:38Yeah, I was 14 when I lost my virginity.

0:05:38 > 0:05:39How old was you, Mum?

0:05:39 > 0:05:42I was virtually 16, two month off.

0:05:42 > 0:05:44Yeah, still underage.

0:05:44 > 0:05:48Only by two month. I weren't two years out.

0:05:48 > 0:05:50All right, chill out!

0:05:50 > 0:05:53- I was in a relationship and I loved him at the time.- You still do.

0:05:53 > 0:05:55How many people have you slept with?

0:05:55 > 0:05:58- Five.- Five?!

0:05:58 > 0:06:00(Slag.)

0:06:00 > 0:06:02Get lost!

0:06:02 > 0:06:05Is that every one of our dads?

0:06:05 > 0:06:08Excuse me, I've only got three dads!

0:06:08 > 0:06:09Only!

0:06:09 > 0:06:13I wouldn't like to have loads of children, like my mum.

0:06:13 > 0:06:17I do see how my mum sometimes struggles with all her kids

0:06:17 > 0:06:21and being on her own doing it,

0:06:21 > 0:06:25so it makes me think I don't want to be in that position.

0:06:27 > 0:06:31When Leo was a few months old, Naomi moved into her own place.

0:06:31 > 0:06:33Despite being only 16,

0:06:33 > 0:06:37she has clear ideas on how to run her home.

0:06:38 > 0:06:41At my mum's house, nothing was ever in its place.

0:06:41 > 0:06:43It was just, like, wherever people just left it

0:06:43 > 0:06:45and it irritated me.

0:06:45 > 0:06:47So I've always said, when I get my own house,

0:06:47 > 0:06:50nothing's going to be like that.

0:06:50 > 0:06:53So this is basically what I do every day for ages.

0:06:53 > 0:06:56Just clean.

0:06:56 > 0:07:01I don't know where she's got the tidiness from and the organisation,

0:07:01 > 0:07:04because none of us in our house are like that.

0:07:04 > 0:07:06It's just Naomi.

0:07:06 > 0:07:10Naomi's so house-proud, she struggles to cope with visitors.

0:07:10 > 0:07:13Especially her family.

0:07:13 > 0:07:15I'm not used to having them round here,

0:07:15 > 0:07:18cos I never really invite them up.

0:07:18 > 0:07:20They make too much mess!

0:07:20 > 0:07:23Look what your children have done to my floor!

0:07:23 > 0:07:25Yuck!

0:07:25 > 0:07:28Not only is Naomi on top of keeping her house clean,

0:07:28 > 0:07:30she's cooking for eight.

0:07:30 > 0:07:32Yeah, it's hot.

0:07:32 > 0:07:34- Ten out of ten!- Thank you.

0:07:34 > 0:07:38Why is there mashed potato all over my sofa arm

0:07:38 > 0:07:41- and sweetcorn in my rug? - It wasn't me.

0:07:41 > 0:07:45It's all over your arm as well, so it is you.

0:07:45 > 0:07:48Yeah, I think I am OCD. Do you agree with me?

0:07:48 > 0:07:51It's got to be perfect.

0:08:00 > 0:08:04In Plymouth, Amy's mum has banned Petrit from the house.

0:08:04 > 0:08:05I can't see Amy and Jacob.

0:08:05 > 0:08:08Every time I do see them, I have to stay outside

0:08:08 > 0:08:10on the doorstep

0:08:10 > 0:08:12and speak to them and hold Jacob for five, ten minutes

0:08:12 > 0:08:14and that's it.

0:08:16 > 0:08:20But Petrit is not giving up on getting Amy back.

0:08:22 > 0:08:24I just want you to give me that last chance.

0:08:24 > 0:08:27- Do you?- Yes.- Really? - Really badly.

0:08:27 > 0:08:29- How much?- So much!

0:08:29 > 0:08:32- Please?- Right, so if I said to you

0:08:32 > 0:08:35- we'll get back together.- Right.

0:08:35 > 0:08:38And then I'll give you, like, a week and a half.

0:08:38 > 0:08:41- A week and a half for what? - You can prove yourself to me.

0:08:41 > 0:08:43- Turn up on time, don't let me down. - Right.

0:08:43 > 0:08:46Don't cheat on me again. Just don't mess me about.

0:08:46 > 0:08:49I'll prove you wrong and all your family wrong.

0:08:49 > 0:08:52- You've said that so many times. - Yes, I know I have!

0:08:52 > 0:08:54but I actually will do it.

0:08:54 > 0:08:55I've changed.

0:08:58 > 0:09:01Don't tell anybody, Petrit.

0:09:01 > 0:09:03Bye.

0:09:05 > 0:09:06- I love you.- I love you, too.

0:09:06 > 0:09:10Yeah, I'm just chuffed to bits now I'm back with her.

0:09:10 > 0:09:14That's it. I hopes I just stick to it.

0:09:14 > 0:09:18If my mum found out I'm seeing Petrit again,

0:09:18 > 0:09:20I think hell would break loose.

0:09:21 > 0:09:24We'll see how far it goes, eh?

0:09:24 > 0:09:25Fingers crossed.

0:09:36 > 0:09:40The relationship is back on and Amy wants to live with Jacob

0:09:40 > 0:09:42and Petrit as a proper family unit.

0:09:45 > 0:09:50I want my own place because I'm fed up of Mum nagging.

0:09:50 > 0:09:53Yeah, but you give her reasons to nag.

0:09:53 > 0:09:55Yeah, but I want to be able to, like,

0:09:55 > 0:09:58do my own thing and I want Petrit to be able to come in.

0:09:58 > 0:10:01Amy's 18-year-old sister Tia

0:10:01 > 0:10:05is also a teen mum and rents her own flat nearby.

0:10:05 > 0:10:07I don't honestly think you'd cope

0:10:07 > 0:10:11- all, like, living alone. - I do think I'll cope.

0:10:11 > 0:10:13I think it'll be fun.

0:10:13 > 0:10:15But it's not fun.

0:10:17 > 0:10:18I hate it.

0:10:18 > 0:10:21I thought I'd cope and I've felt more homesick

0:10:21 > 0:10:25the longer I've lived away from my mum and everybody.

0:10:25 > 0:10:27I could quite easily come back home.

0:10:27 > 0:10:30I don't think you're moving out for the right reasons.

0:10:30 > 0:10:33You think people are nagging at you? Not good enough.

0:10:34 > 0:10:36Yeah, but I would rather move out

0:10:36 > 0:10:39that sat on the doorstep all the time with Petrit or go out.

0:10:39 > 0:10:41It's not fair, T.

0:10:41 > 0:10:43He only bothers when he can be bothered to.

0:10:43 > 0:10:45I'm trying to explain how we struggle with money

0:10:45 > 0:10:46and you've got to budget,

0:10:46 > 0:10:50and she's speaking to me as if it's easy.

0:10:50 > 0:10:52'I don't think she's ready to move out yet.'

0:10:52 > 0:10:56She can't even look after herself here, financially.

0:10:56 > 0:11:00You know? Some weeks, she doesn't even have money for milk for Jacob.

0:11:00 > 0:11:02Sometimes I go to bed and cry on the phone

0:11:02 > 0:11:05to Mum, because I want to come home.

0:11:05 > 0:11:07Honest to god.

0:11:07 > 0:11:08SHE SOBS

0:11:08 > 0:11:12You're just doing it so you can get away from everybody

0:11:12 > 0:11:16and everything, just so that you can do what you want to do.

0:11:16 > 0:11:19You're not thinking of the financial side. I had nothing.

0:11:21 > 0:11:22I got a bit upset.

0:11:22 > 0:11:25She doesn't understand how hard it is at a young age.

0:11:25 > 0:11:28I think she'll struggle, because she relies on everybody.

0:11:28 > 0:11:33If I was an older mum, they wouldn't stick their nose in as much.

0:11:34 > 0:11:37I feel as though they'd just leave us to what we're doing.

0:11:46 > 0:11:50In Derbyshire, 16-year-old Naomi does have her own house

0:11:50 > 0:11:52and is struggling to make ends meet.

0:11:52 > 0:11:57Yeah, after bills and paying my food shopping off

0:11:57 > 0:11:59and nappies and stuff for Leo,

0:11:59 > 0:12:03it does work out I have about £10 to £15 left,

0:12:03 > 0:12:04for that week.

0:12:05 > 0:12:08It's all new to me, doing this. I think I've done

0:12:08 > 0:12:11quite well so far, though. I've not missed any payments on my bills.

0:12:11 > 0:12:15This chart is, like...

0:12:15 > 0:12:18when I pay my bills. When I've paid them, I colour it off.

0:12:18 > 0:12:21Which I need to do now, actually.

0:12:21 > 0:12:23It's just my way of being organised.

0:12:27 > 0:12:31Living off benefits makes me feel, like, cheeky.

0:12:31 > 0:12:35I'm not really doing anything apart from looking after Leo,

0:12:35 > 0:12:37and I'm just getting money for doing it.

0:12:37 > 0:12:39I do feel cheeky, doing that,

0:12:39 > 0:12:43but it's the only way I can support Leo at the minute.

0:12:43 > 0:12:46Naomi may be taking a grown-up approach to her finances,

0:12:46 > 0:12:50but mum Claire is concerned that she's taking life too seriously.

0:12:50 > 0:12:53You're young. You want to go out there and have a laugh.

0:12:53 > 0:12:56You don't want to grow up too much.

0:12:56 > 0:13:00You want to live that young life.

0:13:00 > 0:13:02Go out with your mates and be silly.

0:13:02 > 0:13:06'I wish she'd go out at least twice a week with her friends,'

0:13:06 > 0:13:09but she doesn't like doing it. She's very clingy with him.

0:13:09 > 0:13:14When I do go out with my friends, it's like there's something missing.

0:13:14 > 0:13:16Sometimes, I just don't want to go out.

0:13:16 > 0:13:19I know, but you'll get over that eventually.

0:13:19 > 0:13:21Yeah, I know, but half the time,

0:13:21 > 0:13:24they're talking about college and school.

0:13:24 > 0:13:26It's like I've not been doing anything

0:13:26 > 0:13:28apart from looking after Leo.

0:13:28 > 0:13:30If I really, really wanted to go out, though,

0:13:30 > 0:13:34I would, but it's just sometimes I don't want to. I can't be bothered.

0:13:34 > 0:13:36But you'll feel better for it, getting out.

0:13:42 > 0:13:44Naomi's conversation with her mum

0:13:44 > 0:13:48has made her think about her life before Leo.

0:13:48 > 0:13:52At school, I was basically just a typical teenager.

0:13:52 > 0:13:55Doing what they want, when they want, going out to parties.

0:13:55 > 0:13:59It changed quite a lot when I had Leo.

0:13:59 > 0:14:01I do miss being a teenager.

0:14:01 > 0:14:05I didn't have to care about anything then, but now I do.

0:14:05 > 0:14:08It's a big shock, not seeing them every day

0:14:08 > 0:14:12and going out with them every weekend.

0:14:12 > 0:14:15I do get lonely sometimes, being in the house on my own

0:14:15 > 0:14:18with just Leo, because he doesn't speak.

0:14:18 > 0:14:20It's difficult as well,

0:14:20 > 0:14:22not being able to enjoy your teenage years.

0:14:24 > 0:14:28But it's my mistake, a good mistake.

0:14:30 > 0:14:32I'm happy.

0:14:32 > 0:14:34GENTLE SNORING

0:14:36 > 0:14:41But it's not only her friends that Naomi would like to see more of.

0:14:41 > 0:14:43I'm texting Leo's dad.

0:14:45 > 0:14:46Asking him when he's next here.

0:14:48 > 0:14:50I'm just saying...

0:14:50 > 0:14:55"When are you next coming down? Leo wants to see you."

0:14:56 > 0:14:58Leo's dad visits him once a week.

0:14:58 > 0:15:01But for Naomi, that's not enough.

0:15:03 > 0:15:06It makes me feel like I'm on my own with everything.

0:15:06 > 0:15:09I do hate the fact that he can go out when he wants,

0:15:09 > 0:15:11he can do what he wants.

0:15:11 > 0:15:15He can have time off from Leo. I can't do that.

0:15:15 > 0:15:18It should be both of our responsibilities,

0:15:18 > 0:15:22but he just sees it as mine.

0:15:22 > 0:15:25She's got to understand he works and he's going to be tired.

0:15:25 > 0:15:27I think Naomi doesn't understand that yet.

0:15:27 > 0:15:30She's never been to work full-time.

0:15:30 > 0:15:34I think there's quite a bit of bitterness there at the moment,

0:15:34 > 0:15:37because I think Naomi still loves him to bits

0:15:37 > 0:15:39and hopes they'll get back together.

0:15:39 > 0:15:42But of course, she's only 16. They think differently.

0:15:42 > 0:15:46You know, first love and she thinks it's going to last.

0:15:46 > 0:15:49Get your leggies dry.

0:15:54 > 0:15:58In Plymouth, Amy thinks her relationship with Petrit

0:15:58 > 0:16:00is still a secret.

0:16:00 > 0:16:03I've seen the two of them together,

0:16:03 > 0:16:07kissing and stuff. Yeah, they are back together.

0:16:08 > 0:16:12Obviously, no-one's happy, but it's their life.

0:16:13 > 0:16:16But trust is still an issue.

0:16:18 > 0:16:20- You believe that?! - Well, you probably (BLEEP) did.

0:16:20 > 0:16:24- Amy, that's it. It's over. - What do you mean it's over?

0:16:24 > 0:16:29- I'm not handling it. You'd rather believe some- BLEEP,- right?

0:16:29 > 0:16:32- Rather than believe your own - BLEEP- boyfriend.

0:16:32 > 0:16:36- That's what I mean. You always believe them!- Just wait a minute.

0:16:36 > 0:16:38What, so you're just going to leave me?

0:16:38 > 0:16:40Huh?

0:16:43 > 0:16:46They'll never be good for each other.

0:16:46 > 0:16:49You know, it's such a volatile relationship they've got.

0:16:49 > 0:16:51It's not fair on Jacob.

0:16:51 > 0:16:54If they were honest with each other, they shouldn't be together.

0:17:01 > 0:17:04But they may not be together much longer.

0:17:04 > 0:17:07Petrit is awaiting trial in court

0:17:07 > 0:17:10and if found guilty, could be sent to prison.

0:17:10 > 0:17:15Petrit's been in trouble in the past.

0:17:15 > 0:17:18He has got a court case and there is a chance

0:17:18 > 0:17:22that he's going to get sent to prison.

0:17:22 > 0:17:24You know I can get sent down for this?

0:17:24 > 0:17:27- Yeah?- Just letting you know. - You'll be all right.

0:17:27 > 0:17:30If I get two years,

0:17:30 > 0:17:33I do half of that on good behaviour. I get 12 months and that's a year.

0:17:33 > 0:17:36That's not seeing Jacob for a year, or you.

0:17:36 > 0:17:38- How do you feel about that?- Bad.

0:17:38 > 0:17:41I just don't want to go down, Amy.

0:17:41 > 0:17:42I really don't.

0:17:42 > 0:17:45That's the worst thing that could happen, man.

0:17:45 > 0:17:48- I'd wait for you.- Would you?

0:17:52 > 0:17:53That's sweet.

0:17:57 > 0:18:00Just don't pick up the soap.

0:18:13 > 0:18:16It's Jacob's first birthday and Petrit

0:18:16 > 0:18:18is allowed in the house for the day.

0:18:21 > 0:18:24There's no sign of him yet.

0:18:24 > 0:18:27We've got a bet on, whether or not he turns up.

0:18:27 > 0:18:30If Petrit don't turn up, then I know he ain't bothered about his son.

0:18:30 > 0:18:34You know, because he's got nothing else to do today, so...

0:18:39 > 0:18:43Petrit is over an hour late.

0:18:56 > 0:18:59# Happy birthday to you

0:19:00 > 0:19:05# Happy birthday dear Jacob

0:19:05 > 0:19:08# Happy birthday to you. #

0:19:08 > 0:19:11Yeah!

0:19:11 > 0:19:13CLAPPING AND CHEERING

0:19:16 > 0:19:20The party is over and Petrit never turned up.

0:19:20 > 0:19:23I've never felt this angry before in my life with him.

0:19:23 > 0:19:24No more chances any more.

0:19:24 > 0:19:27Now I just know that he don't care about him.

0:19:27 > 0:19:30I was planning to find somewhere else to live

0:19:30 > 0:19:32and everything else, and it's just...

0:19:32 > 0:19:35Everything I do for him, he just throws it back in my face.

0:19:35 > 0:19:36I just can't do it any more.

0:19:36 > 0:19:40I'm going to wait until I move out

0:19:40 > 0:19:42Sort myself out first.

0:19:52 > 0:19:56In Derbyshire, Leo is now six months old

0:19:56 > 0:19:58and there have been changes for Naomi.

0:19:59 > 0:20:04I feel like I'm being myself again.

0:20:04 > 0:20:07Like losing weight and dying my hair a different colour.

0:20:07 > 0:20:09Just acting my age, really.

0:20:09 > 0:20:13And she's no longer a single mum.

0:20:13 > 0:20:16Me and Leo's dad have got back together

0:20:16 > 0:20:18and we're trying to make it work,

0:20:18 > 0:20:21so we can be a proper family.

0:20:21 > 0:20:25'It's going well so far. We've not had any arguments yet.'

0:20:25 > 0:20:27Mardy! Mardy!

0:20:27 > 0:20:29Who's that?

0:20:35 > 0:20:40Naomi talks to her mum about her relationship with Leo's dad.

0:20:40 > 0:20:43- You've just got to stop being bossy. - I don't want to be a single mum.

0:20:43 > 0:20:46No, I don't want you to be a single mum neither.

0:20:46 > 0:20:49- So I am going to actually try. - I know it's hard.

0:20:49 > 0:20:53- Think of Leo and you.- We're doing all right at the minute, though.

0:20:53 > 0:20:55We've not had any fall-outs yet.

0:20:55 > 0:20:57I think that's why we're getting on at the minute.

0:20:57 > 0:21:00We're not seeing each other all the time, like we used to.

0:21:00 > 0:21:03Never know. Five years time, you could get married.

0:21:03 > 0:21:06When I was little, my mum and dad were together, like, on and off.

0:21:06 > 0:21:11I just want Leo to have us both in his life, all the time.

0:21:11 > 0:21:13If it doesn't work with me and Leo's dad,

0:21:13 > 0:21:16then at least when Leo's older, I can say we tried.

0:21:16 > 0:21:19Naomi's love life may be working out,

0:21:19 > 0:21:21but mum Claire is still concerned

0:21:21 > 0:21:24that she's missing out on teenage fun.

0:21:24 > 0:21:26I'm babysitting for you.

0:21:26 > 0:21:28You're going out.

0:21:28 > 0:21:30I'm kidnapping your son for a couple of hours.

0:21:30 > 0:21:32- I'll sleep.- No, you can't sleep.

0:21:32 > 0:21:34You have to go out with your mates.

0:21:34 > 0:21:36- I feel bad leaving him. - You're all right.

0:21:36 > 0:21:39We're here to help. You'll end up Billy No-mates,

0:21:39 > 0:21:40the way you're going.

0:21:40 > 0:21:44- I don't think he'll sleep until about seven-ish.- Sound.

0:21:44 > 0:21:46But if he does, just stick him in his pushchair.

0:21:46 > 0:21:50- See you later, Mum.- See you later, duck. Have a good time.

0:21:50 > 0:21:52- Yeah.- Don't do anything I wouldn't do.

0:21:52 > 0:21:56- Like what?- Pig out too much.

0:21:56 > 0:21:58Get pregnant?

0:22:06 > 0:22:08Mum Claire's finally persuaded Naomi

0:22:08 > 0:22:11to go out with her old school friends,

0:22:11 > 0:22:14Hayley, Keeley and Cassie.

0:22:16 > 0:22:17I find it easy talking to you lot.

0:22:17 > 0:22:20You've got a baby on the way, you've got a baby...

0:22:20 > 0:22:22You ARE a baby.

0:22:22 > 0:22:23LAUGHTER

0:22:23 > 0:22:26It's been nice just to get away from him for a while.

0:22:26 > 0:22:29And be a teenager again.

0:22:29 > 0:22:32Do you ever find yourself getting really upset when he's not around?

0:22:32 > 0:22:35I have done before, yeah. But that's why I...

0:22:35 > 0:22:38Now you can just let your hair down and be your age...

0:22:38 > 0:22:39For a few hours.

0:22:39 > 0:22:41For a few hours. It's really good.

0:22:41 > 0:22:44Since you've had a baby, you've been really busy.

0:22:44 > 0:22:48It's nice you can just be a normal teenager

0:22:48 > 0:22:52- and hang out with your mates. - Oh, thanks.

0:22:52 > 0:22:53I've really enjoyed it.

0:22:53 > 0:22:56My mum was right, making me come out.

0:22:56 > 0:22:59Hopefully I'll keep coming out more often.

0:22:59 > 0:23:04- See you later.- Come on, it's going to go without you!- Bye!

0:23:07 > 0:23:08Bye!

0:23:14 > 0:23:16I'm glad you had a good time.

0:23:16 > 0:23:17Thanks for watching him.

0:23:17 > 0:23:22- See you later, Mum. - See you, darling.- Thank you.

0:23:26 > 0:23:30It's not easy, having a baby at a young age.

0:23:30 > 0:23:33But I'm trying my best and I'm going to try

0:23:33 > 0:23:35and give him a good future.

0:23:35 > 0:23:38Hopefully myself a good future, too.

0:23:38 > 0:23:40I start college in a few months.

0:23:40 > 0:23:43Hopefully, like, in the future,

0:23:43 > 0:23:47when Leo's a bit older, hopefully, I'll have a job

0:23:47 > 0:23:52and we can get our own house together and be a proper family.

0:23:52 > 0:23:55Hopefully, it'll work out.

0:24:00 > 0:24:03It's been four weeks since Jacob's party

0:24:03 > 0:24:07and Amy's relationship is back on.

0:24:07 > 0:24:09But Petrit is in prison.

0:24:09 > 0:24:11After breaching his bail conditions,

0:24:11 > 0:24:15he must await his trial in custody.

0:24:15 > 0:24:18And there could be another problem.

0:24:18 > 0:24:20I've been really worried,

0:24:20 > 0:24:23because I haven't had a proper period in two months.

0:24:23 > 0:24:26But I will admit that...

0:24:27 > 0:24:32..me and Petrit have slept together a lot, without using anything.

0:24:32 > 0:24:35If I was pregnant, I'd poo myself.

0:24:35 > 0:24:38Because my mum would...

0:24:39 > 0:24:42..not want me here.

0:24:43 > 0:24:47Amy is breaking the news to her mum and sister Tia.

0:24:47 > 0:24:49Are you an idiot?

0:24:51 > 0:24:55You are so stupid, Amy!

0:24:55 > 0:24:57I'm going to go and get a test.

0:24:57 > 0:25:00Mistakes happen, right?

0:25:00 > 0:25:01MUM SNORTS

0:25:01 > 0:25:04- It's a mistake?!- Well, not really.

0:25:04 > 0:25:06I wouldn't mind having another baby.

0:25:06 > 0:25:09You don't even know how to spell some words.

0:25:09 > 0:25:10You need to go back to school.

0:25:10 > 0:25:15'I think if Amy did have another baby, it would be a disaster.'

0:25:15 > 0:25:20I don't know whether it's just like a toy to her.

0:25:20 > 0:25:24You know, the fun of having a baby. I really don't understand her.

0:25:25 > 0:25:28Amy is taking a pregnancy test.

0:25:32 > 0:25:36I wouldn't say I'm trying.

0:25:36 > 0:25:38It's like, if I fall pregnant, I fall pregnant.

0:25:38 > 0:25:41If I don't, I don't. It don't bother me any way.

0:25:41 > 0:25:43If Amy's pregnant, I'll kill her.

0:25:43 > 0:25:46- Have you done it? - Yeah, I just put it on the ledge.

0:25:46 > 0:25:49You wanting another baby to keep hold of Petrit?

0:25:49 > 0:25:51No.

0:25:51 > 0:25:54I'll kill Amy if she is.

0:25:54 > 0:25:56I swear to God.

0:25:57 > 0:26:00- Negative. - Are you happy?

0:26:01 > 0:26:04- Not really.- Yeah, right(!)

0:26:04 > 0:26:08I think Amy just hasn't got her head screwed on.

0:26:08 > 0:26:10She'd never, ever cope with two babies.

0:26:12 > 0:26:13Never.

0:26:20 > 0:26:23Right, I have a letter off Petrit.

0:26:24 > 0:26:27Oh! It's good because he said baby girl.

0:26:27 > 0:26:29GIGGLING

0:26:29 > 0:26:33"To my baby girl. Hope you're OK, honey. How's JJ?

0:26:33 > 0:26:37"I'm OK, I guess. I just don't know what to say.

0:26:37 > 0:26:40"I'm so lost in here and want you to be with you, babe.

0:26:40 > 0:26:43"Can you marry me?" With a smiley face.

0:26:43 > 0:26:45"You and me and JJ. I want you for life, babe."

0:26:45 > 0:26:48And then loads of kisses.

0:26:48 > 0:26:52Oh, I'm going to cry!

0:26:52 > 0:26:55But if found guilty, Petrit could be

0:26:55 > 0:26:58in prison for up to two years.

0:26:58 > 0:27:01If Petrit does get sent down

0:27:01 > 0:27:03to prison properly,

0:27:03 > 0:27:05I would still stay with him.

0:27:05 > 0:27:08I'll wait till he gets out, even if it's two years.

0:27:08 > 0:27:12It would have a huge impact on their relationship,

0:27:12 > 0:27:14because...

0:27:14 > 0:27:19Amy's not one for waiting around.

0:27:19 > 0:27:20She gets very bored.

0:27:20 > 0:27:24To be honest, I really do not give a poo anymore...

0:27:27 > 0:27:29..what his family says or what my family says.

0:27:29 > 0:27:32I've just had enough of it, I'll do what I want.

0:27:32 > 0:27:36You know, I want to get married to him, have more kids with him.

0:27:36 > 0:27:38I want him to stay with me till I die.

0:27:45 > 0:27:49Next time, we meet 16-year-old Toni from Farnborough.

0:27:49 > 0:27:52Sometimes I feel like I've stolen her from the hospital.

0:27:52 > 0:27:55- I feel dead!- Stop burning the candle at both ends

0:27:55 > 0:27:58and start becoming a mother and staying in.

0:27:58 > 0:28:00I'm a teenager, Mum. What do you expect?

0:28:00 > 0:28:02And Bobbi from Newcastle.

0:28:02 > 0:28:04I'm really scared.

0:28:04 > 0:28:07Mam, I can't do it!

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