0:00:04 > 0:00:12This programme contains some strong language and some scenes which some viewers may find upsetting
0:01:48 > 0:01:50Isn't he pretty?
0:01:52 > 0:01:54WOLF HOWLS
0:01:56 > 0:01:59HE HOWLS
0:02:08 > 0:02:11Can you speak English?
0:02:11 > 0:02:13Yes!
0:02:13 > 0:02:15Oh!
0:02:15 > 0:02:18- What day is it? - Yes, I like to move it, move it!
0:02:18 > 0:02:22All right! This is best day of my life!
0:02:23 > 0:02:25No, I am asking...
0:02:25 > 0:02:27- Oh, what day?- Yeah.
0:02:27 > 0:02:30Uh, it's, uh...
0:02:30 > 0:02:31Wait a minute!
0:02:35 > 0:02:37A stupid question, "What day is it?"
0:02:38 > 0:02:41- Oh, sorry.- OK.
0:02:42 > 0:02:44It's 24th July.
0:02:46 > 0:02:48And what a day it is!
0:02:50 > 0:02:52It's the best day ever!
0:02:57 > 0:03:01You might be wondering why I'm up at this ungodly hour.
0:03:01 > 0:03:06Like others, I believe that the time between 3am and 4am
0:03:06 > 0:03:08is one where the veil
0:03:08 > 0:03:12between this world and the next is the thinnest.
0:03:12 > 0:03:15Often, during this time of the day,
0:03:15 > 0:03:20I hear the sound of my name uttered by an unseen presence.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56Good morning!
0:04:36 > 0:04:38Whoa!
0:04:44 > 0:04:47And here we go into the garage.
0:04:47 > 0:04:48That's right.
0:04:48 > 0:04:50We're going to ride the elevator.
0:04:51 > 0:04:54All right. Let's ride it.
0:04:55 > 0:04:56Here it is.
0:05:00 > 0:05:01That's right.
0:05:01 > 0:05:05This is the elevator at the Market Parking Garage in Roanoke, Virginia.
0:05:05 > 0:05:09This elevator is famous, right here. Here we go.
0:05:36 > 0:05:38Here we are at six, which is burned out.
0:05:40 > 0:05:42Just your basic Dover elevator.
0:05:42 > 0:05:44For all of those of you at Dover Elevators,
0:05:44 > 0:05:45a good brand of elevator.
0:05:45 > 0:05:47Now we're going back down to one.
0:05:47 > 0:05:50All right. Now it's time to go off to work.
0:05:53 > 0:05:55Wasn't that fun?!
0:06:27 > 0:06:29You know how much strength it takes to rebel?
0:06:31 > 0:06:32Ha.
0:06:32 > 0:06:36So, this is a night in the life of S Gray, man.
0:06:36 > 0:06:39You know what I'm saying? Sleeping on the couch.
0:06:41 > 0:06:44You know... Grinding my ass off every day.
0:06:45 > 0:06:49Shorties not enjoying their mother.
0:06:49 > 0:06:52Man not enjoying his wife or his woman, his lady.
0:06:55 > 0:06:56Just bullshit, man.
0:06:57 > 0:06:59Alpha male
0:06:59 > 0:07:05trapped in and locked in through religion and politics.
0:07:06 > 0:07:11Soon enough, man, my plans will all...
0:07:11 > 0:07:13come into perfection.
0:07:13 > 0:07:15WIND HOWLS
0:07:24 > 0:07:26BIRDSONG
0:07:45 > 0:07:47BIRDSONG
0:07:54 > 0:07:57HE SNORES
0:08:14 > 0:08:16ALARM CLOCK RINGS
0:08:19 > 0:08:21ALARM CLOCK BUZZES
0:08:21 > 0:08:24COCKEREL CROWS
0:08:24 > 0:08:26ALARM CLOCK BUZZES
0:08:26 > 0:08:29CAR HORN BEEPS
0:08:47 > 0:08:48I love you.
0:08:48 > 0:08:50I love you too.
0:09:43 > 0:09:45Hm?
0:12:17 > 0:12:20HE COUGHS AND SPLUTTERS
0:12:23 > 0:12:28Today we're going to videotape Sasha doing his first ever shave.
0:12:28 > 0:12:31- Oh, boy.- Sasha's how old now?
0:12:31 > 0:12:33Er...
0:12:33 > 0:12:36- 15.- Oh, good.
0:12:36 > 0:12:39The first thing Sasha's going to do is get the water hot
0:12:39 > 0:12:43for the hot cloth that you're going to put on your face.
0:12:44 > 0:12:45Yes.
0:12:45 > 0:12:50So that it'll warm up your face and moisturise your skin.
0:12:50 > 0:12:52Does he have, like, a nice, warm face now?
0:12:52 > 0:12:56- It's always been hot.- All right. Yes. Whatever you say there, dude.
0:12:58 > 0:13:03We should probably do a close-up of those whiskers.
0:13:03 > 0:13:04They're really long now.
0:13:05 > 0:13:07HE LAUGHS
0:13:07 > 0:13:08Thank you.
0:13:10 > 0:13:15You need to, like, really lather it up.
0:13:15 > 0:13:18- OK.- I don't think you need to put it up your nose.- Yeah.
0:13:19 > 0:13:24Five-blade razor, which we got as a sample. Schwing! Is it time?
0:13:24 > 0:13:26Go ahead.
0:13:32 > 0:13:35OK, you're shaving for me. This is embarrassing.
0:13:39 > 0:13:41I'm bleeding!
0:13:41 > 0:13:45Yes. Don't worry. You will survive it.
0:13:45 > 0:13:46Wow.
0:13:46 > 0:13:49- Don't worry. It will be all right. - Oh, wow.
0:13:52 > 0:13:54This is torture.
0:13:56 > 0:13:57Ow!
0:13:57 > 0:14:00- Does it hurt?- Yes. - It'll sting for a little while.
0:14:00 > 0:14:03All right, just dry yourself off. Let's take a look at the nice...
0:14:03 > 0:14:07nice clean shave. Good job, buddy.
0:14:07 > 0:14:11- This is not clean.- Here's what we do. Don't get me... Face the camera.
0:14:11 > 0:14:13We put a little piece on there.
0:14:13 > 0:14:16See? And it sticks to the bloody part.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19And voila, he's done.
0:14:20 > 0:14:23Hey, wait. High five, buddy. You survived it.
0:16:17 > 0:16:19We're documenting everything.
0:16:19 > 0:16:20- Waah!- Shh!
0:16:20 > 0:16:24Dah dah dah dah nah nah nah nah! Nah nah nah nah nah nah nah nah!
0:16:24 > 0:16:26Bobby, let Mommy sleep.
0:16:26 > 0:16:29BOBBY LAUGHS
0:16:29 > 0:16:30Are you feeling OK?
0:16:30 > 0:16:33Yeah, I'm just really tired, you know.
0:16:33 > 0:16:37You feel weird? OK, this is how you'll be weirder. Whoa, tch!
0:16:37 > 0:16:39OK, let's let Mommy sleep.
0:16:39 > 0:16:42OK, Mom. Dah dah dah dah dah dah dah dah!
0:16:42 > 0:16:44Bobby, get down.
0:16:44 > 0:16:47- We're going to let Mommy sleep. - Son of a cuss!
0:16:47 > 0:16:50Thank you. Thank you.
0:16:50 > 0:16:53Um, I do have a question, though.
0:16:53 > 0:16:56My biggest worry is, you know, of course, my bandages and stuff.
0:16:56 > 0:17:00I know I can take a shower, but I haven't.
0:17:00 > 0:17:03But I thought maybe I could try to take a shower before you got here.
0:17:03 > 0:17:06Is that OK if I just go ahead and do that?
0:17:06 > 0:17:07Oh, good. OK.
0:17:07 > 0:17:09Mom, can I come down?
0:17:09 > 0:17:12Bobby, can we have a talk, though, please? Please.
0:17:12 > 0:17:15I just need to have a talk, OK?
0:17:15 > 0:17:20Grandma is telling me, all the grandmas, all the friends are saying
0:17:20 > 0:17:21what a great boy you are.
0:17:21 > 0:17:24And of course I know that.
0:17:24 > 0:17:27And I know it's hard. I've never been in a hospital.
0:17:27 > 0:17:29I've never been like this before.
0:17:29 > 0:17:31I just need us all to help each other, OK?
0:17:31 > 0:17:34I know that sometimes when we ask you to do something to help,
0:17:34 > 0:17:38sometimes it's cos you don't want to go upstairs cos you're scared,
0:17:38 > 0:17:41- and that's fine, I understand that. - Dad's fault.
0:17:41 > 0:17:44If it's because you're scared to go upstairs by yourself
0:17:44 > 0:17:46or downstairs by yourself, just tell me that.
0:17:46 > 0:17:48I will. Sometimes...
0:17:48 > 0:17:49HE WAILS
0:17:49 > 0:17:51And stop videotaping!
0:17:51 > 0:17:52Bobby.
0:17:52 > 0:17:54I was going to give you the camera too.
0:17:54 > 0:17:58We're going to do a project, a family project, OK?
0:17:58 > 0:17:59Can we all agree to do the project?
0:17:59 > 0:18:02- If not, then we can't do it. - Do you want a camera?
0:18:02 > 0:18:05- What?- Do you want a camera to videotape me?
0:18:05 > 0:18:08- Mm-hmm. - It's going to be a family project.
0:18:08 > 0:18:10I need to have a happy boy today, OK?
0:18:10 > 0:18:12You have to be happy if you have the video camera.
0:18:12 > 0:18:15- Why? - Because it's a happy film.
0:18:17 > 0:18:19- All right? - And it has a happy ending.
0:19:52 > 0:19:54OK, we're coming in.
0:19:54 > 0:19:57First of all, and I'm sure he hears me by now,
0:19:57 > 0:19:59let me explain something to you.
0:19:59 > 0:20:02Everyone, can you hear me loud and clear?
0:20:02 > 0:20:05My son was supposed to be cleaning his room yesterday.
0:20:05 > 0:20:09Come on, boy!
0:20:09 > 0:20:12- Woman!- Woman.
0:20:12 > 0:20:16Oh, this is going to be a long day, as most are.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19HE GROANS
0:20:19 > 0:20:22He's always a bundle of joy when he wakes up.
0:20:22 > 0:20:25Come on, get in the shower, get the day going.
0:20:25 > 0:20:27We got things to do, places to go.
0:20:27 > 0:20:28Yeah.
0:20:28 > 0:20:30People to see, futures to make.
0:20:55 > 0:20:58I had a major heart operation.
0:20:59 > 0:21:04I'm very thankful to the beautiful staff.
0:21:04 > 0:21:08No job is too big or too small.
0:21:08 > 0:21:12And even down to, a few minutes ago, just wiping my bum,
0:21:12 > 0:21:15because I had my first poop...
0:21:15 > 0:21:18HE LAUGHS
0:21:20 > 0:21:22..in about a week or so.
0:21:22 > 0:21:25So, one of them came to the rescue and said,
0:21:25 > 0:21:27"Listen, would you like me to trim that up for you, sir?"
0:21:27 > 0:21:31So I said, "Yes."
0:21:31 > 0:21:35And a very, very, very, um...
0:21:35 > 0:21:38courageous young lady in my case, I think,
0:21:38 > 0:21:40did the job.
0:21:40 > 0:21:43And just all in a day's work.
0:21:46 > 0:21:50I'm very, very grateful for these people
0:21:50 > 0:21:52that have treated me like...
0:22:03 > 0:22:06Just treated me so well.
0:22:09 > 0:22:12In a short...short while...
0:22:16 > 0:22:19..I-II will be on the road to recovery,
0:22:19 > 0:22:24and I'll be out there again doing crazy things
0:22:24 > 0:22:26and enjoying life.
0:22:26 > 0:22:28Just move forward for me.
0:22:30 > 0:22:32HUBBUB
0:22:56 > 0:22:58HEARTBEAT THUMPS
0:23:03 > 0:23:04I'm Amanda.
0:23:04 > 0:23:08What makes me joyful this Saturday is this.
0:23:08 > 0:23:11And a little terrified and really excited.
0:23:59 > 0:24:02CLATTERING
0:24:02 > 0:24:04PANICKED HUBBUB
0:25:10 > 0:25:14# I wanna drink from the clearest water
0:25:14 > 0:25:17# I wanna eat the things I ought to
0:25:17 > 0:25:21# I'm just one, I know
0:25:21 > 0:25:25# But I feel strong, you know
0:25:25 > 0:25:29# I wanna reach the greatest mountain
0:25:29 > 0:25:33# Climb, if I want Without all the shouting
0:25:33 > 0:25:37# I'm just one, I know
0:25:37 > 0:25:40# But I feel strong, you know
0:25:40 > 0:25:44# And clouds really should be white at least
0:25:44 > 0:25:48# And oceans should meet us at the beach
0:25:48 > 0:25:52# And I don't want to overreach
0:25:52 > 0:25:54# When I know what's in store
0:25:54 > 0:25:57# Raw love
0:25:57 > 0:26:00# Life, a day at a time, my love
0:26:00 > 0:26:05# Life, a day at a time Called love
0:26:19 > 0:26:23# I wanna drink from the clearest water
0:26:23 > 0:26:26# I wanna eat the things I ought to
0:26:26 > 0:26:30# I'm just one, I know
0:26:30 > 0:26:34# But I feel strong, you know
0:26:34 > 0:26:38# I wanna reach the greatest mountain
0:26:38 > 0:26:42# Climb, if I want Without all the shouting
0:26:42 > 0:26:45# I'm just one, I know
0:26:45 > 0:26:49# But I feel strong, you know
0:26:49 > 0:26:53# And clouds really should be white at least
0:26:53 > 0:26:57# And oceans should meet us at the beach
0:26:57 > 0:27:00# And I don't want to overreach
0:27:00 > 0:27:05# When I know what's in store Raw love. #
0:27:27 > 0:27:30Good morning, everyone.
0:27:30 > 0:27:34Bonjour. Buenos dias.
0:27:34 > 0:27:38Namaste. Salaam alaikum.
0:29:38 > 0:29:40Travel toothbrush and toothpaste.
0:29:40 > 0:29:43Essential if you're spending a night with the goats.
0:30:00 > 0:30:0350 pesos. Sweet.
0:30:03 > 0:30:07A 500 rupee note. 2BA596135.
0:30:07 > 0:30:09I still remember the number.
0:30:10 > 0:30:13First is a Canadian flag,
0:30:13 > 0:30:18because some of my ancestors were from Nova Scotia, Canada.
0:30:19 > 0:30:21Next is a German flag,
0:30:21 > 0:30:24because some of my ancestors were from Germany.
0:30:24 > 0:30:27Some of my ancestors lived in Wisconsin.
0:30:27 > 0:30:30Some of my ancestors were from Poland.
0:30:30 > 0:30:34Altai man that came in a chocolate egg.
0:30:34 > 0:30:36An electric die.
0:30:36 > 0:30:39It's an anti-evil eye protector.
0:30:39 > 0:30:42Metal saw. Metal eagle.
0:30:42 > 0:30:44Metal wheels.
0:30:44 > 0:30:47Anybody want some granite?
0:30:47 > 0:30:50My name is Randy Raisides,
0:30:50 > 0:30:53and this is Kenneth V Fletcher's house.
0:30:53 > 0:30:55Giant I-beam.
0:30:55 > 0:30:57Basket with grapes.
0:30:57 > 0:30:59Pipe bender.
0:30:59 > 0:31:01Billion boxes.
0:31:01 > 0:31:03(He's kind of a hoarder.)
0:31:04 > 0:31:09I moved here four years ago, a terrible drug addict.
0:31:09 > 0:31:13And in four years, Ken has done two things.
0:31:13 > 0:31:18He has sobered me up, and he has lost everything.
0:31:18 > 0:31:19- Good morning.- Good morning.
0:31:19 > 0:31:21Kenneth V Fletcher.
0:31:33 > 0:31:36Tomorrow, Ken leaves for the Canary Islands,
0:31:36 > 0:31:40where he has gotten a job as a massage therapist.
0:31:40 > 0:31:42And I go back to Nebraska,
0:31:42 > 0:31:45where I'm going to be living with my folks.
0:31:47 > 0:31:49He's one of those guys that has a billion ideas
0:31:49 > 0:31:52and never completes any of them.
0:31:52 > 0:31:54Ken wanted a piano as a kid.
0:31:54 > 0:31:56Ken couldn't get a piano as a kid.
0:31:56 > 0:32:00So, three years ago, we looked on craigslist all summer
0:32:00 > 0:32:05and went over to the Twin Cities and got pianos!
0:32:05 > 0:32:07KEN PLAYS PIANO
0:32:14 > 0:32:17The man's a genius. He just never quite had the time.
0:32:17 > 0:32:19It looks like the auctioneer's here.
0:32:24 > 0:32:25CRASH!
0:32:25 > 0:32:28What's in my pocket?
0:32:28 > 0:32:31Well, it's a...it's a key.
0:32:31 > 0:32:36And it's got a really neat little logo there.
0:32:36 > 0:32:38ENGINE REVS
0:32:38 > 0:32:42This is a Lamborghini.
0:32:44 > 0:32:46And this is my life in a day.
0:32:47 > 0:32:50Here's my wallet from Marc Jacobs.
0:32:50 > 0:32:55There's a Marc Jacobs key chain that I love.
0:32:55 > 0:32:56Mirror.
0:32:58 > 0:33:00My iPod, which is my soul.
0:33:00 > 0:33:04Rosary. Very good way of spending your time profitably
0:33:04 > 0:33:06in the eternal dimension.
0:33:06 > 0:33:08Telephone headset.
0:33:08 > 0:33:11Extremely good way of wasting your time
0:33:11 > 0:33:13in the earthly dimension.
0:34:41 > 0:34:44What do you have in your pockets?
0:34:44 > 0:34:46It's my knife.
0:34:46 > 0:34:48OK, you can go ahead and judge me all you want,
0:34:48 > 0:34:50but there are some crazy people in the world.
0:34:51 > 0:34:57My Ruger P94 .40-calibre handgun.
0:34:57 > 0:35:01I take this with me wherever I go.
0:37:04 > 0:37:08THEY TALK IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE
0:37:23 > 0:37:26THEY TALK IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE
0:39:16 > 0:39:19BELLS JANGLE
0:39:40 > 0:39:44RHYTHMIC THUMPING
0:39:44 > 0:39:49THEY SING IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE
0:40:12 > 0:40:14SINGING CONTINUES
0:41:19 > 0:41:21This is balut.
0:41:23 > 0:41:25Only in the Philippines.
0:41:26 > 0:41:28You see that?
0:41:28 > 0:41:29- Eugh.- Oh, gross, huh?
0:41:29 > 0:41:33Look, let's put some salt right there.
0:41:33 > 0:41:37That's salt. And then watch this.
0:41:39 > 0:41:42THEY SING IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE
0:42:18 > 0:42:21SINGING CONTINUES
0:43:30 > 0:43:34Today is Saturday, the 24th of July.
0:43:34 > 0:43:39For the last three years, I've been away from home to do my degree.
0:43:39 > 0:43:41And as soon as that finished,
0:43:41 > 0:43:46I ended up getting a job at a very demanding company.
0:43:46 > 0:43:50So, I don't really get to see my old man that much.
0:43:50 > 0:43:54But whenever I do see him, we always go to the same place
0:43:54 > 0:43:57and do the same thing and have a catch-up.
0:43:58 > 0:44:01- I just phoned you. - Yeah, I just got it, actually.
0:44:01 > 0:44:05- I was about to phone you back. - How you doing? All right? - Yeah, not bad.- Mouthful?
0:44:05 > 0:44:09- I'll have a mouthful. - You sorted the tyre out?- Um...
0:44:09 > 0:44:12- That tyre's fucked.- Haven't had time.- That tyre's fucked.
0:44:12 > 0:44:14You get done for that. Seen it? It's got a rip in it.
0:44:14 > 0:44:16Your car's a right mess.
0:44:16 > 0:44:18- Is there a rip?- Yeah.
0:44:18 > 0:44:23Why don't you film down there, Jack? Let's see if we see a cup. Come on, that's it. Jesus.
0:44:23 > 0:44:26You're not a student now, you know. You're a working man.
0:44:26 > 0:44:28- There's no excuse. - JACK CHUCKLES
0:44:36 > 0:44:40Small beefburgers, believe it or not. Imagine what the large ones are like, or medium.
0:44:40 > 0:44:44Ridiculous, isn't it? Unbelievable. Anyway, here you go, Jack.
0:44:44 > 0:44:46This way. I'm going to sit in the car.
0:44:53 > 0:44:55SEAGULLS CRY
0:45:11 > 0:45:15- What you got?- This.- Oh.
0:45:15 > 0:45:18- Is this a photograph of you at uni? - Yeah.- Fantastic.
0:45:21 > 0:45:24That's fantastic. I'm going to get a lovely frame on that,
0:45:24 > 0:45:26cos Nina's got a frame like that.
0:45:26 > 0:45:29Hey, that's really cool, Jack. Thank you.
0:45:30 > 0:45:33You should be very proud of yourself, Jack,
0:45:33 > 0:45:36considering you almost got chucked out of school.
0:45:36 > 0:45:39You was lucky there, weren't you?
0:45:39 > 0:45:42Yeah, you've matured, actually, in the last year or so,
0:45:42 > 0:45:44quite good, into a real proper lad.
0:45:44 > 0:45:46A real gentleman and a nice boy.
0:45:46 > 0:45:48ENGINE STARTS
0:45:53 > 0:45:54Thanks for that, Jack.
0:47:12 > 0:47:15I love being me. I love life.
0:47:15 > 0:47:17It's all such fun.
0:47:24 > 0:47:26Grass, dirt...
0:47:28 > 0:47:29Dirty river smell.
0:47:29 > 0:47:32Mmm, the smell of a campfire that gets stuck in your hair.
0:47:32 > 0:47:35Coated chicken baked in the oven with seasonings.
0:47:35 > 0:47:37What do I love the most?
0:47:37 > 0:47:39CAT PURRS
0:47:41 > 0:47:42Well...
0:47:44 > 0:47:46..you're looking at her.
0:47:46 > 0:47:47PURRING CONTINUES
0:47:47 > 0:47:49HE SNIFFS
0:47:49 > 0:47:52I really love my family,
0:47:52 > 0:47:53my brothers and sisters.
0:48:05 > 0:48:07What do you love the most?
0:48:07 > 0:48:10Women. So much.
0:48:15 > 0:48:16I love you, Uliya.
0:48:18 > 0:48:20You are my only love.
0:48:20 > 0:48:22You are my first love.
0:48:22 > 0:48:25For me, love is all about you.
0:48:32 > 0:48:34I love my wife. I love my son.
0:48:34 > 0:48:37I love my land. I love my animals -
0:48:37 > 0:48:41my dogs, my ferret, my chickens, my horses in the background.
0:48:41 > 0:48:43I love my life.
0:48:43 > 0:48:45But what do I love the most?
0:48:45 > 0:48:47I love my Lord, my heavenly Father,
0:48:47 > 0:48:51my Creator, from whom all blessings flow.
0:48:51 > 0:48:54I love doing about 150 miles an hour
0:48:54 > 0:48:57down a motorway in a good car.
0:48:57 > 0:48:58I love football.
0:48:58 > 0:49:02I think football is the only sport that brings people together.
0:49:21 > 0:49:23What do you love?
0:49:23 > 0:49:24Women.
0:49:24 > 0:49:26- What do you love?- Freedom.
0:49:26 > 0:49:29- What do you love?- Power!
0:49:31 > 0:49:34I love the word "mamihlapinatapai".
0:49:34 > 0:49:37It's from the Yaghan language,
0:49:37 > 0:49:39which is now a dead language.
0:49:39 > 0:49:43But it was spoken in Tierra del Fuego,
0:49:43 > 0:49:47the very southernmost point of South America.
0:49:47 > 0:49:49I've never heard the word said properly,
0:49:49 > 0:49:52so I could be pronouncing it wrong.
0:49:52 > 0:49:54But the meaning is quite beautiful.
0:49:54 > 0:49:58It means...that moment or feeling
0:49:58 > 0:50:00when two people both want to initiate something,
0:50:00 > 0:50:03but neither wants to be the one to start it.
0:50:03 > 0:50:08It can be perhaps two tribal leaders both wanting to make peace,
0:50:08 > 0:50:11but neither wanting to be the one to begin it.
0:50:11 > 0:50:14Or it could be two people at a party wanting to approach each other
0:50:14 > 0:50:17and neither quite brave enough to make the first move.
0:50:17 > 0:50:19BIRDS CALL
0:50:19 > 0:50:22Can hear the kookaburras now.
0:50:49 > 0:50:51PHONE RINGS
0:50:51 > 0:50:55Currently, I'm calling my mom to ask her what I should say to Emily today.
0:50:58 > 0:51:00- 'Hello?' - Do you have a second to talk to me?
0:51:00 > 0:51:01'Sure.'
0:51:01 > 0:51:03Tonight I am hanging out with Emily.
0:51:03 > 0:51:07But I was planning on telling her exactly how I feel about her, and...
0:51:07 > 0:51:11And then I don't know. So I was calling my mother to see what should I say to this woman?
0:51:11 > 0:51:14SHE LAUGHS
0:51:14 > 0:51:16'OK.
0:51:28 > 0:51:33'I don't know, I guess just concentrate on the fact that, you know,
0:51:33 > 0:51:37'you have very, very high feelings of esteem for her,
0:51:37 > 0:51:40'and she's somebody that you've always admired.'
0:51:40 > 0:51:42Esteem? Is that the word I should use? Esteem?
0:51:42 > 0:51:45- You think she'll like that? - 'Yeah. Whatever.'
0:51:45 > 0:51:48- I just don't know if that's... - 'You hold her in very high regard.'
0:51:48 > 0:51:51- OK. I don't...- 'She's a special person in your life.'
0:51:51 > 0:51:53OK. I'll try all that.
0:51:53 > 0:51:58'And that, you know, you think that there's...
0:51:58 > 0:52:02'You would like to find out if there's a possibility of being with her.
0:52:02 > 0:52:05Hey. I am on the train now.
0:52:05 > 0:52:08This is my friend Emily.
0:52:23 > 0:52:27Uh, hello, Life In A Day. I'm still with Emily, and we're still hanging out in Chicago.
0:52:27 > 0:52:30Um...this is...
0:52:30 > 0:52:33We just came out of this place, which was cool.
0:52:33 > 0:52:37But...uh...I'm going to leave this thing on in case anything gets climactic.
0:52:41 > 0:52:42Theresa, look at me.
0:52:46 > 0:52:47Oh, my God.
0:52:52 > 0:52:54SHE SCREAMS
0:52:59 > 0:53:01Well, so here's the deal.
0:53:01 > 0:53:07I asked her if she wanted to go on a romantic date with me sometime,
0:53:07 > 0:53:10and she says, "No." Just no.
0:53:10 > 0:53:14That's really all she said. Just no. She didn't want any of that.
0:53:14 > 0:53:17Ever, possibly. Never, ever. And so...uh...
0:53:17 > 0:53:21Well, actually, I said, "What about the possibility of a possibility?"
0:53:21 > 0:53:24And she said no to that. No possibility. None.
0:53:35 > 0:53:40OK, let me say that it is meant for women to kneel down.
0:53:40 > 0:53:44For example, a woman is supposed to kneel down for a man.
0:53:44 > 0:53:45Mmm-hmm.
0:53:45 > 0:53:48- Do you want to show us how you do it?- Yes.
0:53:48 > 0:53:52So you greet Moses, like, traditionally?
0:53:53 > 0:53:55THEY SPEAK IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE
0:54:00 > 0:54:03Wow. Wow.
0:54:03 > 0:54:05Moses, how do you feel about it?
0:54:05 > 0:54:08She comes, and she kneels down every day?
0:54:08 > 0:54:12Yes, because I'm a man.
0:54:12 > 0:54:13She has to respect.
0:54:13 > 0:54:16It's the culture.
0:54:21 > 0:54:24MUSIC PLAYS
0:54:55 > 0:54:57CHEERING
0:55:01 > 0:55:04MUSIC PLAYS
0:55:19 > 0:55:25# White wedding day... #
0:55:25 > 0:55:28HE CONTINUES TO SING
0:55:43 > 0:55:46Hi, Grandma. It's David. How are you?
0:55:48 > 0:55:51I'm good. I'm still... Yeah, I'm in New York.
0:55:51 > 0:55:55Yeah, it's been really hot here, but I'm having fun.
0:55:55 > 0:55:59Uh...anyway, I wanted to call you because...
0:56:00 > 0:56:04You know my friend Nick that you've met a lot?
0:56:04 > 0:56:08Yeah. Yeah, I know. He's a very nice boy.
0:56:08 > 0:56:10Um...
0:56:10 > 0:56:13Well, I wanted to tell you that he's...um...
0:56:13 > 0:56:16not just my friend. He's my boyfriend.
0:56:16 > 0:56:22Um.... And it's something that I've wanted to tell you for a while,
0:56:22 > 0:56:26but I wasn't really sure how you would react,
0:56:26 > 0:56:30so I was a little nervous to tell you. Um...
0:56:32 > 0:56:34I love you too. Yeah.
0:56:35 > 0:56:41I love you too. And I'm hoping that maybe you can love Nick too,
0:56:41 > 0:56:44because he's really important to me.
0:56:44 > 0:56:47So, I'm hoping he can be really important to you too.
0:56:51 > 0:56:55Yeah. Well, that... that means a lot to me.
0:56:55 > 0:56:58Yeah. Thank you.
0:57:01 > 0:57:03Yeah, I love you too.
0:57:05 > 0:57:07I do. Yeah.
0:57:07 > 0:57:08Yeah, my parents know. Yes.
0:57:12 > 0:57:16Well, Grandma, they call it being gay now. You don't have to say "homosexual".
0:57:16 > 0:57:19It's not... Yeah.
0:57:19 > 0:57:22Yes, it's not a disease. Thank you.
0:57:26 > 0:57:29Here, throw some cheese to those ducks. Get closer to them.
0:57:29 > 0:57:32- I'm taking a video, Sarah. - They might bite me.
0:57:32 > 0:57:34No, they won't bite. Ducks don't bite.
0:57:34 > 0:57:36Come on. I'm making a video.
0:57:36 > 0:57:38Walk on out into them. It'll be a good video.
0:57:38 > 0:57:42- Would you like me to take both of you? A picture of you?- Oh.- Thank you.
0:57:42 > 0:57:46- What do you want me to do? - Just...just...
0:57:48 > 0:57:52'Marriage truth number one. Love is a battlefield.'
0:57:52 > 0:57:54LAUGHTER
0:57:54 > 0:57:58Listen, you two are going to fight like hooded roosters.
0:57:58 > 0:58:01Let's just get it out there. It's science.
0:58:01 > 0:58:06You know, place any two animals in a contained area together,
0:58:06 > 0:58:08you know, there will be awesome tenderness,
0:58:08 > 0:58:11- but also there will be blood. - LAUGHTER
0:58:13 > 0:58:16That is my pocket Walt Whitman.
0:58:16 > 0:58:19He was surely one of the greatest poets that ever lived,
0:58:19 > 0:58:22and if my babies can read Walt Whitman day and night
0:58:22 > 0:58:25and learn from him, I'll be very happy.
0:58:25 > 0:58:27After all, babies, he did say,
0:58:27 > 0:58:29"I am August.
0:58:31 > 0:58:35"I do not trouble my soul to vindicate itself."
0:58:36 > 0:58:41- No, he didn't say "soul". He said, "I do not trouble..." - Please, that's enough, Tristram,
0:58:41 > 0:58:44you'll use up all the memory. This is self-indulgent. Please stop.
0:58:44 > 0:58:47- "I do not..."- They need winding. Please stop, Tristram.
0:58:47 > 0:58:51- "I do not trouble my spirit..." - Stop being so selfish and putting yourself first.
0:58:51 > 0:58:54Please, I've been looking after them all day. Just stop it.
0:58:54 > 0:58:57"I do not trouble my soul...my spirit
0:58:57 > 0:59:01- "to vindicate itself or be understood."- OK, fine.
0:59:03 > 0:59:06Ann and John are today renewing their vows
0:59:06 > 0:59:09in the light of their 50 years experience of marriage.
0:59:09 > 0:59:12Rather unusually, each of this special couple
0:59:12 > 0:59:15has agreed to write the vows of the other.
0:59:15 > 0:59:17That is, Ann has written John's vows,
0:59:17 > 0:59:19and John has written Ann's.
0:59:42 > 0:59:46John, it is necessary to address one or two shortcomings in...uh...
0:59:46 > 0:59:49- the physical side of marriage. - LAUGHTER
0:59:49 > 0:59:54Surely no-one would argue that there are certain physical demands a wife can request of a husband,
0:59:54 > 0:59:58and Ann asks you that you address these issues right now.
0:59:58 > 1:00:01LAUGHTER
1:00:01 > 1:00:03Do you agree to wash the windows inside and out?
1:00:03 > 1:00:05LAUGHTER
1:00:24 > 1:00:27Ann, John asks if you will agree to let him do that thing
1:00:27 > 1:00:30you once told him you would let him do on his 40th birthday,
1:00:30 > 1:00:33but still not have yet done.
1:00:33 > 1:00:36LAUGHTER
1:00:41 > 1:00:44So, Ann, in anticipation of your previous answer,
1:00:44 > 1:00:48John says, "I suppose an occasional blow job is..."
1:00:48 > 1:00:51LAUGHTER
1:01:05 > 1:01:08Finally, in spite of men obviously being from Mars
1:01:08 > 1:01:10and women from Venus,
1:01:10 > 1:01:13do you both promise to love and treasure each other
1:01:13 > 1:01:16and enjoy your lovely family life together here at Appletree Cottage
1:01:16 > 1:01:19for as long as you both shall live?
1:01:19 > 1:01:20BOTH: We do.
1:01:20 > 1:01:23APPLAUSE
1:02:19 > 1:02:20MICROWAVE BEEPS
1:05:37 > 1:05:40Woo!
1:07:01 > 1:07:04Do the jerk. Please, do the jerk.
1:07:06 > 1:07:10I'm going to get the commander to do the jerk.
1:07:10 > 1:07:13- Aah!- Why you always got to stick your tongue out?
1:07:13 > 1:07:15Punch Eason in the face right now.
1:07:15 > 1:07:17Oh, my God!
1:07:17 > 1:07:19That's the Rebel Alliance.
1:07:19 > 1:07:21And there's the Empire.
1:07:24 > 1:07:26Hi. This is my room.
1:07:28 > 1:07:30And this is our garden.
1:07:32 > 1:07:35So, my name is Masood.
1:07:35 > 1:07:40I live in Afghanistan, Kabul, and I'm a news photographer.
1:07:40 > 1:07:43Here is my house. And here's my father, drinking tea.
1:07:44 > 1:07:47My mother is praying.
1:07:47 > 1:07:49My brother again is just, again,
1:07:49 > 1:07:53staring in the refrigerator, as always.
1:08:12 > 1:08:15Right now, I'm in my car,
1:08:15 > 1:08:18going to Kabul's old city, to take some pictures.
1:08:18 > 1:08:21Sometimes, I like to just walk around there
1:08:21 > 1:08:23looking for a good shot.
1:08:23 > 1:08:25These are like my two babies.
1:08:25 > 1:08:28I carry them everywhere.
1:08:36 > 1:08:38Here I am by myself,
1:08:38 > 1:08:43because my husband is a half a world away,
1:08:43 > 1:08:46going to work, fighting for us.
1:08:46 > 1:08:48What shirt should I wear?
1:08:48 > 1:08:51Which one do you think will Phil like better?
1:08:51 > 1:08:53Hmm? Which one do you think?
1:08:53 > 1:08:55That one?
1:08:55 > 1:08:56Is that one the best?
1:08:58 > 1:09:01Here is the market in the old city.
1:09:01 > 1:09:04Most foreigners think that it is dangerous
1:09:04 > 1:09:06to walk around the streets of Kabul,
1:09:06 > 1:09:10but as you can see, there is no danger, for us, anyway.
1:09:14 > 1:09:16# Waiting game
1:09:18 > 1:09:19# Waiting game. #
1:09:37 > 1:09:42So, this is a street that's normally selling birds like this.
1:09:42 > 1:09:46They call them lovebirds because they are always kissing each other.
1:09:46 > 1:09:49Oh.
1:09:49 > 1:09:52Where are you?
1:09:52 > 1:09:55- Ooh.- Hi, Sharon.
1:09:57 > 1:09:59- Hi!- Hi.
1:09:59 > 1:10:01How's it goin'?
1:10:03 > 1:10:05Do you see me?
1:10:08 > 1:10:11Yes. Of course. It's our date night! SHE LAUGHS
1:10:20 > 1:10:23Afghanistan comes, the name of my country
1:10:23 > 1:10:27comes with the conflict, war, suicide attack,
1:10:27 > 1:10:29and all the negative points that we, I mean, hear
1:10:29 > 1:10:31and listen in the news.
1:10:31 > 1:10:34But there is another side of Afghanistan
1:10:34 > 1:10:38that you don't normally see.
1:10:38 > 1:10:42These girls make me feel optimistic about the future of my country.
1:10:44 > 1:10:47I love you.
1:10:47 > 1:10:50I love you too. Stay safe.
1:10:50 > 1:10:52I will, honey. You too, OK?
1:10:52 > 1:10:54OK.
1:10:55 > 1:10:57- Bye.- Bye.
1:11:05 > 1:11:07SHE SOBS
1:12:44 > 1:12:46'Dad, do you see my war?'
1:12:46 > 1:12:48Oh, and the red is bad,
1:12:48 > 1:12:51the white is good, of the helmets.
1:12:53 > 1:12:56HE MIMICS SOUND OF WARFARE
1:12:56 > 1:12:58Oh!
1:13:13 > 1:13:15- That's not so bad.- No?
1:13:15 > 1:13:18Is there something that's bleeding under my arm?
1:13:18 > 1:13:22- Let's see if we can just get this. - Ew!- Oh, oh, oh! Oh, what is it?
1:13:22 > 1:13:26What is it? Did that come out of your hair?
1:13:26 > 1:13:30- No, it was on my bag. It's a ladybug.- Oh.
1:13:36 > 1:13:41Any kind of monster or ghosts or...a witch.
1:13:44 > 1:13:45What do zombies do?
1:13:45 > 1:13:47OK. You do a great zombie.
1:14:02 > 1:14:03I have a fear of dogs.
1:14:06 > 1:14:08- Wasps.- Spiders.
1:14:08 > 1:14:12I fear...robbers...
1:14:12 > 1:14:14rapers...
1:14:14 > 1:14:16I fear growing up.
1:14:16 > 1:14:19I'm afraid of losing this place.
1:14:37 > 1:14:42I afraid of homosexuality. Homosexuality is like...
1:14:42 > 1:14:46is like disease, and I'm afraid of disease.
1:14:46 > 1:14:48I stay in my room, and all I can think about
1:14:48 > 1:14:51is whether in a couple of years someone else is going to live here,
1:14:51 > 1:14:55someone who is not Israeli. Maybe... Maybe someone Palestinian.
1:14:55 > 1:14:59I guess politics scares me more than anything.
1:14:59 > 1:15:02I wonder if we're going to get in another war.
1:15:23 > 1:15:26One of the things I fear more than anything right now
1:15:26 > 1:15:29is that my hair's starting to fall out.
1:15:29 > 1:15:31This is me.
1:15:31 > 1:15:34This is what I'm afraid of.
1:15:34 > 1:15:37That my husband will leave me for another wife
1:15:37 > 1:15:40because of a lack of you know what.
1:15:44 > 1:15:48I fear...loneliness.
1:15:49 > 1:15:50'Not waking up one morning,'
1:15:50 > 1:15:54and nobody finding you for a week. That'd be interesting.
1:15:57 > 1:15:59That's why I find it very hard
1:15:59 > 1:16:04to really, really connect with someone.
1:16:04 > 1:16:07Because, what do you do when they're gone?
1:16:17 > 1:16:20And that's what I'm afraid of,
1:16:20 > 1:16:22being in this grave.
1:16:22 > 1:16:25Life is so freakin' short, you know?
1:16:28 > 1:16:29Dying, I guess.
1:17:18 > 1:17:21CROWD: Three...two...one!
1:17:21 > 1:17:22CHEERING
1:17:34 > 1:17:37Welcome to The Love Parade!
1:19:21 > 1:19:22Many of the hundreds of thousands of revellers
1:19:22 > 1:19:26were unaware of the tragedy unfolding at the tunnel entrance.
1:19:46 > 1:19:50MUSIC: "Penny At A Time" by Matthew Herbert
1:20:13 > 1:20:16# I want to drink from the greatest water
1:20:16 > 1:20:20# I want to have all the things I ought to
1:20:20 > 1:20:24# I just want I know
1:20:24 > 1:20:28# That I feel strong, you know
1:20:28 > 1:20:32# I want to reach the golden fountain
1:20:32 > 1:20:36# Beat everyone without all the doubting
1:20:36 > 1:20:39# I just want I know
1:20:39 > 1:20:43# That I feel strong, you know
1:20:43 > 1:20:47# And clouds really should be white at least
1:20:47 > 1:20:51# And oceans should be there at the beach
1:20:51 > 1:20:55# And who needs books when we've got speech?
1:20:55 > 1:20:59# Cos who knows what's in store for raw love?
1:20:59 > 1:21:07# Life, a penny at a time Oh, love, life, a penny at a time
1:21:07 > 1:21:10# Love, life, a penny at a time
1:21:10 > 1:21:13# Oh, love. #
1:22:40 > 1:22:43Who do you love?
1:22:43 > 1:22:45My silly boys, the Bobby-ells.
1:22:49 > 1:22:51OK. What do you fear?
1:22:54 > 1:22:56Well, I guess...
1:22:56 > 1:22:59I'm fearless now.
1:22:59 > 1:23:04I guess my fear was that you'd get cancer, and you did.
1:23:04 > 1:23:08That you'd get it again, I mean. And you did. But it's over with.
1:23:08 > 1:23:11So, I'm fearless.
1:26:03 > 1:26:05July 24th, 2010.
1:26:08 > 1:26:10It's nearly midnight now,
1:26:10 > 1:26:12and I'm running out of time to make this.
1:26:12 > 1:26:16I worked all day long, on a Saturday, yeah, I know.
1:26:18 > 1:26:20The sad part is...
1:26:20 > 1:26:24I spent all day long hoping for something amazing to happen,
1:26:24 > 1:26:29something great, something to appreciate this day
1:26:29 > 1:26:33and to be a part of it and to...
1:26:33 > 1:26:37show the world that there's something great
1:26:37 > 1:26:40that can happen every day of your life, in everyone's life.
1:26:40 > 1:26:43But the truth is, it doesn't always happen.
1:26:43 > 1:26:44And for me, today...
1:26:47 > 1:26:50..all day long, nothing really happened.
1:26:54 > 1:26:57I want people to know that I'm here.
1:26:57 > 1:27:00I don't want to cease to exist.
1:27:09 > 1:27:13I'm not going to sit here and tell you that I'm this great person, because...
1:27:13 > 1:27:18I don't think I am...at all.
1:27:18 > 1:27:22I think I'm a normal girl... normal life.
1:27:24 > 1:27:30Not interesting enough... to know anything about.
1:27:32 > 1:27:33But I want to be.
1:27:37 > 1:27:39And today...
1:27:42 > 1:27:45..even though...
1:27:45 > 1:27:50SHE SIGHS ..even though nothing great really happened,
1:27:50 > 1:27:53tonight I feel as if something great happened.
1:28:03 > 1:28:06MUSIC: "A Day At A Time" by Matthew Herbert feat Baaba Maal
1:28:06 > 1:28:10# I want to drink from the clearest water
1:28:10 > 1:28:14# I want to eat the things I know to
1:28:14 > 1:28:22# I just want I know That I feel strong, you know
1:28:22 > 1:28:26# I want to reach the greatest mountain
1:28:26 > 1:28:29# Climb, if I want Without all the shouting
1:28:29 > 1:28:37# I just want I know That I feel strong, you know... #
1:28:37 > 1:28:40BAABA MAAL SINGS IN PULAAR
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