China's Love Hunters

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:00:00. > :00:18.their grasp. New Zealand beat them 20`18. I'll be back at ten. Now on

:00:19. > :00:21.BBC News, it's time for Our World. China, the middle kingdom. It's both

:00:22. > :00:24.the Asian superpower and the world's biggest economy. But this country is

:00:25. > :00:38.running low on a vital commodity. Women. Too many men here. Too few

:00:39. > :00:56.girls. Decades of sex selective abortions have led to a dramatic

:00:57. > :01:00.gender imbalance. If they can tell it is not a boy early enough, they

:01:01. > :01:03.will abort the foetus. And by the end of the the decade, China will

:01:04. > :01:06.have 24 million more males than females. This is a country where it

:01:07. > :01:09.is increasingly unlikely that millions of of bachelors will ever

:01:10. > :01:20.get married. The richest men are hiring professionals to hunt girls

:01:21. > :01:24.down. But how does the average Chinese man go about finding the

:01:25. > :01:25.right one? There is every chance she never even existed in the first

:01:26. > :02:02.place. Love is all around for this couple.

:02:03. > :02:06.And this one. And this one. It might look a bit like the nuptial conveyor

:02:07. > :02:16.belt, but for many young Chinese, a wedding like this is an unattainable

:02:17. > :02:31.dream. Blue Melody Manor Park is a little corner of the South of France

:02:32. > :02:34.in the suburbs of Beijing. After this ceremony, the bride will change

:02:35. > :02:37.out of the white wedding dress into a traditional Chinese one for the

:02:38. > :02:39.banquet. Increasingly, brides and their families expect nothing less

:02:40. > :02:42.than an expensive spectacle like this. China's economic rise has

:02:43. > :02:49.lifted millions out of poverty, but the the boom has also put marriage

:02:50. > :03:03.beyond some men's reach. In the old days, everybody expected to get

:03:04. > :03:06.hitched. China, where, in the interests of the economy, weddings

:03:07. > :03:10.take place en masse. The brides wear inexpensive gowns of a simple

:03:11. > :03:21.material. And later, in the early days of the People's Republic,

:03:22. > :03:33.weddings were also modest. As were the groom's presents. Brides require

:03:34. > :03:37.the three rounds, a watch, a sewing machine and a bicycle. Then it was a

:03:38. > :03:49.fridge, TV and and a washing machine. Now, a car, salary and real

:03:50. > :03:51.estate. What about love? Not a priority if you listen to the

:03:52. > :03:54.marriage expert at the state`sponsored China Women's

:03:55. > :04:00.Federation. And parents certainly do get involved. Pairing people off was

:04:01. > :04:12.once the work of traditional matchmakers, but now mums and dads

:04:13. > :04:15.are playing Cupid. This might look like a protest by families of young

:04:16. > :04:18.people disappeared in a political crackdown, but the problem here

:04:19. > :04:26.isn't that the children are missing. It is that they are still around.

:04:27. > :04:29.Every weekend, parks like this one fill with anxious parents hawking

:04:30. > :04:32.their children's nuptial CVs. Many look embarrassed and some are here

:04:33. > :04:41.without their children's knowledge. But not this lady. Why do you think

:04:42. > :04:54.your son is having trouble finding a wife? On top of that, they come from

:04:55. > :04:57.distant provinces and have no official right to live in the

:04:58. > :05:01.capital. This woman's son, a young engineer, is willing to talk. Why do

:05:02. > :05:03.you think it is difficult to find a woman to marry? You are good`looking

:05:04. > :05:28.and and have a good job. But no place to live is just one of

:05:29. > :05:36.many problems for would`be grooms. Another is quite simply a critical

:05:37. > :05:38.shortage of women. Author and journalist Mara Hvistendahl has been

:05:39. > :05:46.tracking this demographic time bomb for several years. Today we are

:05:47. > :05:49.looking at tens of millions of surplus men, men who do not have a

:05:50. > :05:55.female counterpart in the population. Sex selection is a

:05:56. > :05:58.problem that has been going on for decades, so at this point, many

:05:59. > :06:03.areas of China have been touched by it. In the late '70s, the Chinese

:06:04. > :06:28.government introduced the so`called one child policy, designed to curb

:06:29. > :06:32.population growth. But it backfired. If a family really want to have a

:06:33. > :06:35.boy, then they start to select. We call it prenatal sex selection. They

:06:36. > :06:40.try to get pregnant with a boy, make sure the newborn is a boy. If it's

:06:41. > :06:43.not a boy? If they can tell it's not a boy and it's early enough, they

:06:44. > :06:46.will abort the foetus. This is a very general practice. In Chinese

:06:47. > :06:51.culture, male children have always been more prized. In extreme cases,

:06:52. > :07:02.especially in the villages, female infanticide was also practised. Some

:07:03. > :07:16.people say by the end of this decade there will be 24 million. Up to 30

:07:17. > :07:19.million. What is clear is that there will be a serious problem with a lot

:07:20. > :07:22.of leftover men. Nowhere more so than in the countryside. This is a

:07:23. > :07:28.village near the border with Vietnam. It is a world away from

:07:29. > :07:36.China's crowded megacities. Most Chinese men face a double burden

:07:37. > :07:39.when they want to get married. The rising financial problems and the

:07:40. > :07:44.shortage of women. But they have it easy compared to farmers in the

:07:45. > :07:55.poorest part of the country. In this village, there are 60 bachelors.

:07:56. > :08:09.Some have given up all hope of getting married. These men are both

:08:10. > :08:12.unmarried. Across China, there are more and more villages like theirs.

:08:13. > :08:15.They They call these men bare branches, because because they can't

:08:16. > :08:23.continue the family tree. Today they are picking dragon fruit. Here, on

:08:24. > :08:25.top of poverty, and the nationwide problem of gender imbalance, men are

:08:26. > :08:27.confronted with a regional problem. Mass migration.

:08:28. > :08:41.problem of gender imbalance, men are confronted with

:08:42. > :08:48.Marriage is traditionally the symbol of maturity in China. Unmarried men

:08:49. > :08:51.are treated like boys who have yet to come of age, no matter how old

:08:52. > :09:17.they actually are. The pressure on his friend and

:09:18. > :09:26.fellow bachelor is even more intense. His family spent years of

:09:27. > :09:30.their hard earned savings on this huge new house in the modern part of

:09:31. > :09:33.the the village for him to move into with his wife. There is not much

:09:34. > :09:39.left over for furniture, but that hardly matters, because there is no

:09:40. > :10:27.wife and no children. This is a family home with no family.

:10:28. > :10:59.How badly would you like to have children? Is that important for you?

:11:00. > :11:21.He's going home to help with the harvest. But usually, these lads

:11:22. > :11:24.help construct in big skyscrapers in the cities.

:11:25. > :11:27.help construct in big skyscrapers It's hard, sweaty and dangerous on

:11:28. > :11:31.Chinese building sites and they are hardly likely to catch the eye of a

:11:32. > :11:43.girl and they are working 20 storeys in the air.

:11:44. > :11:48.In the past decade, 300 million people have poured into the cities

:11:49. > :11:57.to look for work. And for love. But that can prove elusive. How do you

:11:58. > :12:12.find yourself a soul mate in a city the size of this one? This is your

:12:13. > :12:27.headquarters? Yes. Gong Haiyan was a student from a remote village. She

:12:28. > :12:34.moved to Shangha and got into a university. But she had no love

:12:35. > :12:43.life. She joined a dating site. When she got replies, she asked for money

:12:44. > :12:48.back. `` got no replies. Her website is called Beautiful Destiny. It's

:12:49. > :12:53.proved a hit. She is now known as China's top matchmaker. These

:12:54. > :12:56.numbers keep increasing. Her site has almost 100 million users, and

:12:57. > :13:03.she is now personally worth $45 million. And she found herself a

:13:04. > :13:14.husband too, although she made him take an IQ test before their first

:13:15. > :13:17.date. Here are the three most important things we need to know

:13:18. > :13:24.about about you, height, education and salary. How tall are you? About

:13:25. > :13:27.170, I think. Matchmaking in China has an illustrious 2000`year`old

:13:28. > :13:35.history, and in the old days, it might be limited to a handful of

:13:36. > :13:46.families. Now that the old networks are breaking down, how on earth you

:13:47. > :13:50.even begin the search? One of the employees here is helping me upload

:13:51. > :13:53.my my profile. What does this box do? Self`description. I should say

:13:54. > :13:57.that I'm adventurous and get bored quite easily. I need a man who is

:13:58. > :14:12.organised. I quite like the idea of a romantic man, too. Next up,

:14:13. > :14:15.describing the shape of your face. There are options. Round,

:14:16. > :14:26.rectangular, long, or sunflower seed. Like a sunflower seed? Yes. Or

:14:27. > :14:31.egg`shaped. Egg`shaped. Triangle. Triangle`shaped? What do you think I

:14:32. > :14:35.am? Egg`shaped. Egg`shaped. OK, let's go with that. Sadly, the

:14:36. > :14:36.prospects for ladies like me with egg`shaped faces were not quite what

:14:37. > :14:55.I had hoped for. Time to go offline. This speed`dating event is in an

:14:56. > :15:04.industrial city in the Pearl River Delta, the workshop of the world,

:15:05. > :15:06.where money reigns supreme. A mass`produced mercantile approach

:15:07. > :15:15.seems to have infected the mating game, too.

:15:16. > :15:20.These are the rules. If the girl accepts the red rose, the man is

:15:21. > :15:31.allowed to sit down and talk to her. The first thing people do when they

:15:32. > :15:35.come to this match`making event is post their profile on the wall. You

:15:36. > :15:37.can see their candidate number, their age, their height, which is

:15:38. > :15:46.absolutely crucial in China, and their education. This guy has been

:15:47. > :15:50.to a university. He's a CEO. This man next to him is a high school

:15:51. > :15:54.leaver. They also have room for a personal statement. This guy, an

:15:55. > :16:01.engineer, says, "I want to hold your hand". This guy says, "I want to

:16:02. > :16:04.find the right umbrella. If I cannot find it, I'd rather stay in the rain

:16:05. > :16:06.forever". Unfortunately, in China these days, quite a few men may stay

:16:07. > :16:22.damp for some time to come. This man is a case in point. It's

:16:23. > :17:12.the third time he has been to this event.

:17:13. > :17:17.The women are not easily pleased and even this investment banker from

:17:18. > :17:29.Taiwan says he is finding it tough going. I find too many men here. Too

:17:30. > :17:36.many men? Too few girls. I have seen some very beautiful girls. That is

:17:37. > :17:41.probably your view, not mine. Are you quite fussy? I'm not fussy.

:17:42. > :17:45.Trust me, my last girlfriend was a dog. Oh, dear. And we were getting

:17:46. > :18:00.on so well. But it is all a bit humiliating and

:18:01. > :18:05.time`consuming. That is why China's wealthiest bachelors contract out

:18:06. > :18:19.the search for a spouse. They employ a love hunter. THEME FROM JAWS

:18:20. > :18:25.PLAYS. We are going shopping but not for clothes. For girls. Such is the

:18:26. > :18:32.working day for the employees of Shanghai's Diamond Bachelors Agency.

:18:33. > :18:38.Show me the sort of girl you're looking for. Maybe that yellow one

:18:39. > :19:00.is OK. That girl in the little shorts?

:19:01. > :19:08.If Peng Tai finds his richest clients a Miss Right, he could earn

:19:09. > :19:20.tens of thousands of dollars. But as his boss explains these billionaires

:19:21. > :19:21.are picky. One sent love hunters to nine separate cities to trawl

:19:22. > :19:40.through 10,000 girls. Let's say the love hunters have

:19:41. > :19:46.found a billionaire a promising candidate. She might look the part

:19:47. > :19:53.but can she really cut it as a member of China's new moneyed elite?

:19:54. > :19:58.How does Miss Good Enough become Mrs Right? One solution is to study

:19:59. > :20:04.here, the Happy College of the Good Wife.

:20:05. > :20:08.Today, these aspiring trophy wives are role`playing. How to spread your

:20:09. > :20:38.love diplomatically between your baby and your husband.

:20:39. > :20:44.Love hunters, speed`daters, good wives colleges. It might seem a bit

:20:45. > :20:51.wacky but this is no laughing matter. China is moving forwards at

:20:52. > :20:53.an astonishing rate but no amount of material development can compensate

:20:54. > :21:02.for the shortage of young women in this country.

:21:03. > :21:45.It's already causing trouble and there will be more to come.

:21:46. > :21:53.These days, it's really hard to find a girl in China. So that causes more

:21:54. > :22:02.social problems because with a lot of bachelors... A lot of single

:22:03. > :22:07.men... There are social problems like rape or sexual harassment

:22:08. > :22:11.everywhere. Really? And you think that's because of the number of men

:22:12. > :22:23.compared to women? I think so. I think so. The shortage is leading

:22:24. > :22:25.some to take desperate measures. I heard that some men in bachelor

:22:26. > :22:28.villagers went to other provinces or even to Vietnam to find a wife. Have

:22:29. > :22:57.you thought about that? Why not? And there are more problems around

:22:58. > :23:03.the corner. In China, state and private pensions are nonexistent for

:23:04. > :23:05.most people. Instead, children are expected to look after their parents

:23:06. > :23:19.when they get old. But who will care for China's tens

:23:20. > :23:26.of millions of leftover men in their dotage?

:23:27. > :23:30.There's discussions and there's research but, actually, I think that

:23:31. > :23:41.this is something we have never encountered before. We do not know

:23:42. > :23:44.what will happen. When they get old, I think that the society, the

:23:45. > :23:48.community, needs to think about how to take care of them because they

:23:49. > :23:54.don't have family to take care of them, they do not have children. Of

:23:55. > :24:12.course, for the moneyed classes, this is less of an issue.

:24:13. > :24:17.Back on the streets of Shanghai, love hunter Peng Tai is closing in

:24:18. > :24:31.for the kill. THEME FROM JAWS PLAYS.

:24:32. > :24:36.In a penthouse somewhere above the city, a millionaire or billionaire

:24:37. > :24:52.will get the chance to peruse the fruits of Peng's labours.

:24:53. > :25:02.At one extreme of this divided and increasingly unequal society, men

:25:03. > :25:04.can pick and choose their mates. At the other end, back in the bachelor

:25:05. > :25:14.villages, there is no choice at all. Modern China is a ruthlessly

:25:15. > :25:24.competitive place and many men are alone. But some are more alone than

:25:25. > :25:27.others. If marriage is a building block of social stability, will the

:25:28. > :25:34.shortage of brides undermine this country's future?