Episode 2

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0:00:02 > 0:00:03"Have more tea, Vicar." Yeah, go on, then.

0:00:03 > 0:00:06Vicars. Pillars of the community.

0:00:06 > 0:00:07We high enough yet?

0:00:07 > 0:00:11As English as tea and cake, and cricket on the village green.

0:00:11 > 0:00:14- Nice to see you, to see you... - ALL:- Nice!

0:00:14 > 0:00:16But times are changing...

0:00:16 > 0:00:19Would you like to pray now? Would you find that helpful?

0:00:19 > 0:00:20No...

0:00:20 > 0:00:24Congregations are ageing, and faith is fading.

0:00:24 > 0:00:26People in this country do not go to church.

0:00:26 > 0:00:30So today's vicars are working hard to stay relevant.

0:00:30 > 0:00:32The safeguards that are in place

0:00:32 > 0:00:35are not catching people who are in desperate need!

0:00:35 > 0:00:38In this series, vicars from Hereford,

0:00:38 > 0:00:41the Church of England's most rural diocese,

0:00:41 > 0:00:43let us into their life and work.

0:00:43 > 0:00:46Any time, any place, anywhere.

0:00:48 > 0:00:50Swapping a briefcase for a dog collar...

0:00:50 > 0:00:54- I'm terrified.- ..and battling to keep the show on the road.

0:00:54 > 0:00:57We need more people.

0:00:57 > 0:00:59It's all part of...A Vicar's Life.

0:01:08 > 0:01:10Ripon College Cuddesdon, near Oxford,

0:01:10 > 0:01:14is one of the country's most famous theological institutions.

0:01:16 > 0:01:20It's where Matthew Cashmore has lived and studied for the past three

0:01:20 > 0:01:23years, preparing himself for ministry.

0:01:23 > 0:01:25See you later.

0:01:25 > 0:01:30Today, he leaves college and is about to put theory into practice.

0:01:32 > 0:01:34It's a really bittersweet day.

0:01:34 > 0:01:37It's sad, because I'm leaving a lot of friends behind.

0:01:37 > 0:01:39But I can't wait to kind of be

0:01:39 > 0:01:41three years down the line and look back and go, "OK,

0:01:41 > 0:01:43"that's what God wanted me to do."

0:01:48 > 0:01:52Donning a cassock will be a radical change.

0:01:52 > 0:01:54As director of a large book seller,

0:01:54 > 0:01:57Matthew had all the trappings of the boardroom.

0:01:57 > 0:02:00My life before was five-bed detached house

0:02:00 > 0:02:04in a lovely village in Oxfordshire with a beautiful car.

0:02:04 > 0:02:06I miss the car so much.

0:02:06 > 0:02:09I had a gorgeous car!

0:02:09 > 0:02:12It's the only thing I regret leaving behind!

0:02:15 > 0:02:19Matthew is joining the diocese of Hereford as a curate, or assistant.

0:02:21 > 0:02:24No-one goes into the church for the money.

0:02:24 > 0:02:27But with the job comes a family home for son Edmund

0:02:27 > 0:02:29and wife Catherine.

0:02:31 > 0:02:34Matthew and I have always grasped life,

0:02:34 > 0:02:36in all its glory, with two hands.

0:02:36 > 0:02:39So it's nothing new, really, for us.

0:02:39 > 0:02:44It's just a very different path than the one we were on together before.

0:02:44 > 0:02:47Yeah, a vicar's wife.

0:02:47 > 0:02:49Never thought I'd be one of those.

0:02:49 > 0:02:50Yeah, it's a big change.

0:02:50 > 0:02:53Got to think very carefully about money now

0:02:53 > 0:02:56in a way that I haven't had to do for years.

0:02:56 > 0:02:57That's no bad thing.

0:03:01 > 0:03:03Cut down your valance to the correct length

0:03:03 > 0:03:07and cut down with a hacksaw.

0:03:07 > 0:03:08I have no idea how this works.

0:03:10 > 0:03:11Catherine!

0:03:13 > 0:03:14Help!

0:03:16 > 0:03:19Matthew's curacy is a four-year apprenticeship,

0:03:19 > 0:03:24and the first step on the ladder is to be ordained a deacon.

0:03:24 > 0:03:26The ceremony is in less than two weeks.

0:03:28 > 0:03:32I've moved my entire family halfway across the country.

0:03:32 > 0:03:33Yep, look at the other side for me.

0:03:33 > 0:03:37My wife's giving up an amazing job in London to follow me.

0:03:37 > 0:03:39I have no idea what's next.

0:03:39 > 0:03:41And that's...that's terrifying.

0:03:42 > 0:03:45There we are! Get in!

0:03:51 > 0:03:54It's a tough time to be ordained in the Church of England.

0:03:56 > 0:03:59Average Sunday attendances are in decline,

0:03:59 > 0:04:02down 15% over the past decade.

0:04:03 > 0:04:05Hard-pressed country vicars

0:04:05 > 0:04:08are having to take on more and more churches.

0:04:10 > 0:04:11Near the Welsh border,

0:04:11 > 0:04:13Reverend Nicholas Lowton looks after six!

0:04:15 > 0:04:18Have you had a lovely, lovely, lovely, lovely, lovely, lovely,

0:04:18 > 0:04:20- lovely time?- Yeah! We've had lots and lots and lots of people.

0:04:20 > 0:04:22You are so good.

0:04:22 > 0:04:24It's fete season.

0:04:24 > 0:04:29Today, a fundraiser for improvements to Saint Margaret's Church.

0:04:29 > 0:04:32- How much is that?- It's five quid, but it lasts a year.

0:04:32 > 0:04:34- A year?- Yeah. - Not in my kitchen, it won't.

0:04:35 > 0:04:37A sale where anything goes.

0:04:38 > 0:04:40THEY SING

0:04:40 > 0:04:45Hereford has more churches per head than any other diocese.

0:04:45 > 0:04:48To survive, they need to become multifunctional spaces.

0:04:50 > 0:04:56What we're wanting to do in here is to have a small kitchen and a loo.

0:04:57 > 0:05:01Because, obviously... I mean, for occasions like this.

0:05:01 > 0:05:05Whereas a few years back, they might have said, "Is there a loo?",

0:05:05 > 0:05:07they now say, "Where's the loo?"

0:05:11 > 0:05:14People's views have changed.

0:05:14 > 0:05:16I don't believe all of this.

0:05:16 > 0:05:19It's not the fact that cakes are for sale by the altar that shocks,

0:05:19 > 0:05:20but the quantity.

0:05:20 > 0:05:21Brilliant!

0:05:22 > 0:05:26If all these churches are going to have a really good future,

0:05:26 > 0:05:27they need to look at

0:05:27 > 0:05:29how they're going to have to develop for the future.

0:05:32 > 0:05:37To plan for survival, Nicholas has organised a meeting of parishioners

0:05:37 > 0:05:40at the local hub of Peterchurch.

0:05:43 > 0:05:49Right, so to the mission action plan and what it's based upon.

0:05:50 > 0:05:51The overwhelming majority of people

0:05:51 > 0:05:54in this country and in this benefice do not go to church.

0:05:56 > 0:06:02If we're going to continue to operate in exactly the same way...

0:06:03 > 0:06:07..and expect a different outcome,

0:06:07 > 0:06:09we are deluded.

0:06:11 > 0:06:16We're going to be asking everybody to look at their churches and ask,

0:06:16 > 0:06:20"What can we do with this church?"

0:06:21 > 0:06:26We don't want to be the generation which finally put God's church...

0:06:27 > 0:06:28..to bed.

0:06:40 > 0:06:44In the north of the diocese, another fete is in full swing.

0:06:46 > 0:06:49Oh, look at that, John! You're very competitive, aren't you?

0:06:49 > 0:06:51We are!

0:06:51 > 0:06:54Another mountain of home-made cake is on sale. This time,

0:06:54 > 0:06:56in aid of Easthope Church.

0:06:57 > 0:07:00It's just one of 14 churches looked after

0:07:00 > 0:07:03by the Reverend Matthew Stafford.

0:07:03 > 0:07:06This is a man who got a U at A-level RE, and look at me now.

0:07:06 > 0:07:08There you go, then.

0:07:08 > 0:07:12Matthew's also affected by diminishing congregations.

0:07:12 > 0:07:15But his strategy is to bring church to the people,

0:07:15 > 0:07:18rather than bring people to the church.

0:07:19 > 0:07:23I'm like the Tia Maria advert of the 1970s.

0:07:23 > 0:07:27Any time, any place, anywhere.

0:07:27 > 0:07:28THEY LAUGH

0:07:28 > 0:07:32- Look at that colour! - That's lovely, that is.

0:07:32 > 0:07:33Thank you.

0:07:34 > 0:07:38A lot of the rural churches are on the brink,

0:07:38 > 0:07:40and that would be a fair assessment.

0:07:40 > 0:07:42The church is about people, not buildings.

0:07:42 > 0:07:47It might mean that we have to go about our church and our mission

0:07:47 > 0:07:48in a different kind of way.

0:07:48 > 0:07:51"Have more tea, Vicar." Yeah, go on, then.

0:07:51 > 0:07:53- Do you want sugar in it? - No, it's sweet enough.

0:07:55 > 0:07:56You need to be at events like these

0:07:56 > 0:07:59because this is where the mission happens,

0:07:59 > 0:08:01through those pastoral encounters.

0:08:03 > 0:08:06Matthew's role in the community means he's there

0:08:06 > 0:08:07at the end of people's lives.

0:08:07 > 0:08:0950 years of funerals,

0:08:09 > 0:08:12- I've never met anybody as good. - Oh, well, thank you.

0:08:12 > 0:08:14So that's a credit to you, you know.

0:08:14 > 0:08:16Bless you. I don't take myself too seriously,

0:08:16 > 0:08:18but I do take what I do seriously.

0:08:18 > 0:08:21And that the end of the day, I wanted to do right by everybody.

0:08:21 > 0:08:22Well, I can see that.

0:08:23 > 0:08:28I am a priest that covers 14 churches across a huge patch.

0:08:28 > 0:08:31But what you're trying to do is ensure that they can actually

0:08:31 > 0:08:35call and make contact and, even if I can't help them,

0:08:35 > 0:08:37you can point them in the right direction.

0:08:37 > 0:08:41Can we firstly thank Hayden for his outstanding hospitality

0:08:41 > 0:08:43this afternoon?

0:08:43 > 0:08:44APPLAUSE

0:08:44 > 0:08:48And it's my delight now to draw the raffle!

0:08:48 > 0:08:50On the pink!

0:08:50 > 0:08:55Anything between 391 and 395!

0:09:00 > 0:09:02In West Hereford, Ruth Hulse

0:09:02 > 0:09:05has just made the leap from curor to vicar.

0:09:07 > 0:09:10Her promotion means she now needs an assistant.

0:09:11 > 0:09:13So Clark put his on, and Clark had...

0:09:13 > 0:09:17And stepping into her shoes is new curate Matthew Cashmore.

0:09:20 > 0:09:23I can learn from you because you bring something new in,

0:09:23 > 0:09:25and you are completely up-to-date with...

0:09:25 > 0:09:28I can fix your printer. I can sort your Twitter account out.

0:09:28 > 0:09:30I can mend your computer.

0:09:32 > 0:09:34Are you telling everyone that I'm not technically sound?

0:09:34 > 0:09:36Yeah, that's exactly what I'm telling people!

0:09:40 > 0:09:42Ruth and husband John

0:09:42 > 0:09:46have invited Matthew and family to the vicarage for a barbecue.

0:09:46 > 0:09:48Ruth, for you and me, I've got gin, obviously.

0:09:48 > 0:09:52- Obviously!- Hi! - What about Catherine? Hello.

0:09:53 > 0:09:57The relationship between all of them is really, really key

0:09:57 > 0:09:59in helping them to be the best ministry team they can be

0:09:59 > 0:10:01in the area, really.

0:10:02 > 0:10:05With their clergy wives and husbands, you know.

0:10:05 > 0:10:06It's important that we can get together

0:10:06 > 0:10:08cos they might just clear off.

0:10:15 > 0:10:16I've had a bit too much beer.

0:10:19 > 0:10:22It's a chance for Matthew to talk through one of his biggest worries.

0:10:24 > 0:10:29That fear of not being able to be the person that God has called you

0:10:29 > 0:10:32to be in this parish, in this community, is...

0:10:32 > 0:10:36That can be... I can completely see how people become paralysed by that.

0:10:36 > 0:10:39I mean, I've only been ordained four years and I'm still...

0:10:39 > 0:10:41Some days, I'm still working it out

0:10:41 > 0:10:43and trying to hold on to that calling,

0:10:43 > 0:10:48that original calling, when God said, "I want you to be ordained."

0:10:48 > 0:10:50And still, that fills me with...

0:10:50 > 0:10:52- SHE GASPS - Wow!

0:10:56 > 0:10:57Near the Welsh border...

0:10:59 > 0:11:02..Nicholas is putting his action plan into action.

0:11:04 > 0:11:09St Mary's at Craswall sits on a hill in a scattered community

0:11:09 > 0:11:12of just 150 people.

0:11:12 > 0:11:15But the Black Mountains are a big draw for visitors,

0:11:15 > 0:11:17and Nicholas wants to capitalise on that.

0:11:19 > 0:11:22He's found inspiration at his local pub.

0:11:27 > 0:11:29Traditionally speaking,

0:11:29 > 0:11:33pubs and churches geographically are often very close to each other.

0:11:33 > 0:11:37Which is understandable, because in different ways,

0:11:37 > 0:11:39they're both the hearts of a community.

0:11:41 > 0:11:45Without enough regulars to support it, the Bridge Inn was dying.

0:11:45 > 0:11:47- Good morning!- Hi, Nicholas!

0:11:47 > 0:11:49- How are you?- I'm very well indeed.

0:11:49 > 0:11:51But when landlord Glyn took over,

0:11:51 > 0:11:55he turned the pub into a destination for visitors from across the world.

0:11:56 > 0:11:59It now has a thriving bed and breakfast, and a campsite.

0:12:01 > 0:12:03Through the weekends, it's always busy,

0:12:03 > 0:12:07people trying to get away to the countryside and relax.

0:12:07 > 0:12:10And the biggest draw of all, the yurts.

0:12:10 > 0:12:14They tap into the growing market for glamping.

0:12:14 > 0:12:15- Come in.- Thank you.

0:12:18 > 0:12:19Well, this is lovely!

0:12:19 > 0:12:22I'm not surprised you get hundreds of people coming to stay here.

0:12:22 > 0:12:25You've got people coming, repeat visits?

0:12:25 > 0:12:26We do, yeah. Believe it or not,

0:12:26 > 0:12:28we've had people from the States, Canada,

0:12:28 > 0:12:30- New Zealand, Australia.- Really? - Honestly, yeah!

0:12:30 > 0:12:34- Come here specially, just to come here?- Just to see us.

0:12:34 > 0:12:36That is brilliant.

0:12:40 > 0:12:45Inspired by the pub, Nicholas has a plan for St Mary's.

0:12:45 > 0:12:47- You get a lot of people here... - Yeah.

0:12:47 > 0:12:51Instead of glamping, he and churchwarden Ken

0:12:51 > 0:12:53want to offer champing,

0:12:53 > 0:12:55or camping at church.

0:12:57 > 0:12:59It's unbelievably peaceful and quiet.

0:12:59 > 0:13:01It's perfect. It's absolutely perfect.

0:13:01 > 0:13:03Yeah. It's only really, you know,

0:13:03 > 0:13:07when you sit down and have a period of time here that you start to

0:13:07 > 0:13:11appreciate the difference between what this is and what most people's

0:13:11 > 0:13:13lives are like, which are very busy and frenetic.

0:13:15 > 0:13:19Craswall has a regular congregation of around 20.

0:13:19 > 0:13:25It's now one of over 900 churches on Historic England's at-risk register

0:13:25 > 0:13:28and needs hundreds of thousands of pounds' worth of repairs.

0:13:29 > 0:13:33Income from champing could lift the church out of trouble.

0:13:33 > 0:13:34And beyond.

0:13:35 > 0:13:38Everything really points towards...

0:13:39 > 0:13:45..a really positive future for this church, serving an infinitely wider

0:13:45 > 0:13:49community than simply that of its village or even of this benefice.

0:13:55 > 0:13:58HE WHISTLES: When The Chariot Comes

0:13:59 > 0:14:02With the ordination on his mind,

0:14:02 > 0:14:05trainee Matthew is heading back to home soil.

0:14:07 > 0:14:09We are just crossing the border. There's the sign.

0:14:09 > 0:14:11"Welcome to Wales."

0:14:11 > 0:14:15We're in Wales. As you can see, everything has instantly changed!

0:14:18 > 0:14:22Moving to Herefordshire has brought Matthew closer to where he grew up

0:14:22 > 0:14:23in the Welsh valleys.

0:14:25 > 0:14:27He's here to visit his dad, Michael,

0:14:27 > 0:14:31who was shocked by his son's decision to be ordained.

0:14:31 > 0:14:35- Cheers.- Nice to see you again. Shall we sit down?

0:14:37 > 0:14:39Why don't you believe in God?

0:14:39 > 0:14:41Oh, you're getting personal!

0:14:41 > 0:14:44Because I don't believe there is a God.

0:14:44 > 0:14:48Because there's so many other gods in the world

0:14:48 > 0:14:51and so many other religions and what have you,

0:14:51 > 0:14:55and more so that are causing wars at the moment,

0:14:55 > 0:14:58and at the end of the day, it's not because of that,

0:14:58 > 0:15:02it's just that I don't believe there's a big man up the stairs.

0:15:02 > 0:15:07You don't have to believe in a god to be a good person,

0:15:07 > 0:15:12a good, charitable person, and to love people. You know?

0:15:13 > 0:15:16So, what do you think about me becoming a vicar, then?

0:15:17 > 0:15:22Well, like I said, no matter what you do, I will always support you.

0:15:22 > 0:15:25You know, as long as you don't try to push it down my neck.

0:15:26 > 0:15:29- You...- I can push beer down your neck, but not God!

0:15:29 > 0:15:32But if you try to push God down my neck,

0:15:32 > 0:15:33the more I will go against it.

0:15:34 > 0:15:36Anyway, nice pint of beer.

0:15:36 > 0:15:38It's a lovely pint of beer!

0:15:40 > 0:15:43Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you.

0:15:43 > 0:15:46Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,

0:15:46 > 0:15:47Jesus.

0:15:49 > 0:15:53With his ordination looming, Matthew is on a four-day retreat.

0:15:55 > 0:15:57Holy Mary, Mother of God,

0:15:57 > 0:15:59pray for us sinners now, in the hour of our death.

0:15:59 > 0:16:03It's his last chance to contemplate what will be the biggest life change

0:16:03 > 0:16:05he's ever made.

0:16:06 > 0:16:10I think I've got every emotion that it's possible to have.

0:16:10 > 0:16:13I've run out of adjectives to describe how I'm feeling!

0:16:16 > 0:16:17I just had a moment where I thought,

0:16:17 > 0:16:19"I can't quite believe that I'm in

0:16:19 > 0:16:21"this room and this is happening now."

0:16:21 > 0:16:23Blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

0:16:23 > 0:16:26I'm frustrated about the fact that I seem to have left everything behind

0:16:26 > 0:16:28me that I was any good at.

0:16:28 > 0:16:31All of that equates to diddly squat.

0:16:31 > 0:16:33..on Earth as it is in Heaven...

0:16:33 > 0:16:37There's a huge chunk of me that just wants to get into it now.

0:16:37 > 0:16:39And I pray that the Church is open

0:16:39 > 0:16:44to someone who wants to push and wants to help change.

0:16:54 > 0:16:58Near the Black Mountains, churchwarden Ken...

0:16:59 > 0:17:04..and his friend Peter are dusting off the Boy Scout manual for a very

0:17:04 > 0:17:05different kind of retreat.

0:17:06 > 0:17:08A trial night of champing.

0:17:10 > 0:17:13We've got 13 people coming here to camp.

0:17:13 > 0:17:16It's all part of trying to broaden the use of the church,

0:17:16 > 0:17:19which I think is vital for its long-term survival.

0:17:24 > 0:17:27Wow! Look, isn't it gorgeous?!

0:17:27 > 0:17:29Ken's been spreading the word,

0:17:29 > 0:17:31and plenty of people are willing to give it a go.

0:17:31 > 0:17:33- Great!- Oh, my goodness!

0:17:34 > 0:17:36It's the most fantastic place,

0:17:36 > 0:17:38and it's not as cold as I imagined it might be.

0:17:39 > 0:17:41Trish has volunteered to be head chef.

0:17:42 > 0:17:45How many champers does it take to light a fire?

0:17:47 > 0:17:49I'm making some old cider

0:17:49 > 0:17:51to warm us up.

0:17:51 > 0:17:54I've got loads and loads of bread rolls, does anybody want some?

0:17:55 > 0:17:57Nicholas is late to the party.

0:17:58 > 0:17:59Oh, hello!

0:18:01 > 0:18:03Where's my drink?!

0:18:03 > 0:18:05How lovely to see you.

0:18:05 > 0:18:07- Good evening, Nicholas.- I know you.

0:18:07 > 0:18:08THEY LAUGH

0:18:08 > 0:18:10Lovely to see you.

0:18:10 > 0:18:12When do you start singing Kumbaya?

0:18:12 > 0:18:15- Never, don't worry. - Just so I'm warned!- Don't worry.

0:18:15 > 0:18:17As soon as we've had a bit more cider!

0:18:17 > 0:18:20You are lovely beyond imagination. Thank you very much indeed.

0:18:21 > 0:18:24Peter, is this the sort of thing that you'd pay for,

0:18:24 > 0:18:26to come and stay here overnight?

0:18:26 > 0:18:28- The answer to that question... - No, of course, yes.- You would?

0:18:28 > 0:18:31Yes, vast sums!

0:18:31 > 0:18:33THEY LAUGH

0:18:33 > 0:18:37Well, I find it amazing, actually, round here that the number of units

0:18:37 > 0:18:41for accommodation that have gone up in the last 15 years,

0:18:41 > 0:18:43and they all seem to be full.

0:18:43 > 0:18:48Right, well, you're about to indulge in your Bacchanalian extravaganza.

0:18:48 > 0:18:51- I shall leave you.- Time you should leave, then, I think, Nicholas,

0:18:51 > 0:18:53- so that we can get on with it. - Lovely to see you all.

0:18:53 > 0:18:56Enjoy. See you tomorrow. Bye-bye.

0:19:00 > 0:19:03I thought it was brilliant. I'm amazed the number of people here,

0:19:03 > 0:19:05and they're going to have a really good evening.

0:19:05 > 0:19:07I shall be interested to see what state they're in

0:19:07 > 0:19:11by the time we have a service here at 9.30 in the morning!

0:19:11 > 0:19:14# So on that bog there was a tree

0:19:14 > 0:19:16# A rare tree and a rattlin' tree

0:19:16 > 0:19:19# A tree in the bog And the bog down in the valley-o

0:19:19 > 0:19:21# Rare bog a rattlin' bog

0:19:21 > 0:19:23# A bog down in the valley-o

0:19:23 > 0:19:25# Rare bog a rattlin' bog

0:19:25 > 0:19:27# A bog down in the valley-o

0:19:27 > 0:19:30# On that twig there was a leaf... #

0:19:37 > 0:19:40The church has many ways of opening its doors to new members.

0:19:41 > 0:19:44But none more meaningful than a baptism.

0:19:46 > 0:19:48Why am I trying to put a coat hanger on me head?

0:19:48 > 0:19:50In Much Wenlock,

0:19:50 > 0:19:54Matthew Stafford is about to welcome new life and a congregation

0:19:54 > 0:19:55of mainly non-churchgoers.

0:19:58 > 0:20:02I always try to do, on a baptism service, or any service,

0:20:02 > 0:20:04whether it be a baptism, a wedding or a funeral,

0:20:04 > 0:20:08is to make sure you give people the most positive experience

0:20:08 > 0:20:10of being here, putting them at ease,

0:20:10 > 0:20:13in the hope that they might just come back.

0:20:16 > 0:20:20Today, Matthew gets two for the price of one.

0:20:20 > 0:20:22Twins Ollie and Charlie.

0:20:22 > 0:20:24Are you going to have a cuddle with Nanny Cass?

0:20:24 > 0:20:27Parents Dan and his partner Shawn

0:20:27 > 0:20:31met at school and have been together for four years.

0:20:31 > 0:20:32You all right?

0:20:32 > 0:20:35What's not to like about him?

0:20:35 > 0:20:38He was actually in the Navy until about two years ago,

0:20:38 > 0:20:40and I think that sort of made a man out of him.

0:20:43 > 0:20:46It also made Dan reassess his views on the church.

0:20:46 > 0:20:49As you get to teenager age, you're not sure what you believe.

0:20:49 > 0:20:51And then, when I joined the Navy, straightaway,

0:20:51 > 0:20:53it's something that you need.

0:20:53 > 0:20:55I suppose I'm back into it a little bit now.

0:20:55 > 0:20:56Maybe I drop in and drop out a little bit,

0:20:56 > 0:20:58but it is important that they're christened.

0:21:03 > 0:21:07- Nice to see you, to see you... - ALL:- Nice.

0:21:09 > 0:21:13One of the biggest crimes of the Church is that we made God boring.

0:21:14 > 0:21:18I always try to sort of have a laugh and a joke with people.

0:21:18 > 0:21:24You're trying to lift people's spirits, appropriately,

0:21:24 > 0:21:27in every situation you find yourself in.

0:21:29 > 0:21:32Charlie Kenneth Daniel,

0:21:32 > 0:21:35I baptise you in the name of the Father,

0:21:35 > 0:21:38and of the Son,

0:21:38 > 0:21:39and of the Holy Spirit.

0:21:39 > 0:21:41Amen.

0:21:41 > 0:21:45Didn't you do well for me? Yes, you did!

0:21:45 > 0:21:49So, Lord Jesus, open Charlie's ears to Your voice,

0:21:49 > 0:21:53and his mouth to Your praise both now and always. Amen.

0:21:53 > 0:21:57I think it's about giving them something to believe in,

0:21:57 > 0:22:01some sort of path to follow if ever they feel that

0:22:01 > 0:22:03they're sort of lost.

0:22:03 > 0:22:05I think that's always good.

0:22:09 > 0:22:13Dan and Shawn are turning to the church to get married next year.

0:22:14 > 0:22:16It's not the way the church of old would have it...

0:22:17 > 0:22:20..but these changing times call for an open mind.

0:22:22 > 0:22:24In the big scheme of things, does it really matter?

0:22:24 > 0:22:26Because what they're trying to do is ensure that

0:22:26 > 0:22:32actually that they are bringing some security and permanency

0:22:32 > 0:22:34to their family situation,

0:22:34 > 0:22:38and I think that's something to be celebrated and nurtured.

0:22:47 > 0:22:51At Saint Mary's in Craswall, it's the morning after the night before.

0:22:53 > 0:22:57Head chef Trish has already got breakfast on the go.

0:22:57 > 0:23:01We're going to have Canadian pancakes with maple syrup and bacon,

0:23:01 > 0:23:03and eggs for those who are keen.

0:23:04 > 0:23:08I was snug as a bug, lovely rugs, and it was fine.

0:23:09 > 0:23:12Not everyone slept so well.

0:23:12 > 0:23:14Good morning.

0:23:14 > 0:23:16HE LAUGHS

0:23:16 > 0:23:19OK, OK, I got cold.

0:23:19 > 0:23:22It's quite a mess, really, the floor.

0:23:22 > 0:23:25God might be forgiving,

0:23:25 > 0:23:28but the vicar won't be if the church isn't ready in time

0:23:28 > 0:23:29for All Saints' Day.

0:23:30 > 0:23:3220 minutes. We'll do it.

0:23:38 > 0:23:42With seven minutes to go, Nicholas arrives.

0:23:43 > 0:23:46They've been very clean and tidy, which is good news.

0:23:46 > 0:23:49We like people to be clean and tidy.

0:23:49 > 0:23:50Morning.

0:23:50 > 0:23:54And the pews are filling up with both regulars and champers.

0:23:56 > 0:23:57Morning, campers.

0:23:57 > 0:23:58LAUGHTER

0:23:58 > 0:24:00Heidi hi.

0:24:00 > 0:24:01How lovely to see you all.

0:24:01 > 0:24:03For those of you are completely unaware,

0:24:03 > 0:24:05because the place looks totally immaculate,

0:24:05 > 0:24:08there were loads and loads and loads of people sleeping here last night.

0:24:10 > 0:24:12Rather than simply during my sermon,

0:24:12 > 0:24:14which is the normal state of affairs.

0:24:14 > 0:24:16And it's wonderful to see you survived the experience.

0:24:18 > 0:24:23I will give nobody any prizes for guessing what the first hymn is.

0:24:24 > 0:24:29It's number 134. Do you all have things to bang?

0:24:30 > 0:24:31Yes.

0:24:31 > 0:24:34- Are you going to make a loud noise? - Yes.

0:24:34 > 0:24:35Let's find out.

0:24:36 > 0:24:38And yes...

0:24:38 > 0:24:41# For all the Saints

0:24:41 > 0:24:45# Who from their neighbours rest... #

0:24:48 > 0:24:51One thing we're really lucky with here

0:24:51 > 0:24:55is that the people are genuinely

0:24:55 > 0:25:00excited about the changes which will transform Craswall Church from

0:25:00 > 0:25:04simply a church used twice a month for worship

0:25:04 > 0:25:08into a place which is going to be living and lively,

0:25:08 > 0:25:11which is what all our churches ideally should be.

0:25:11 > 0:25:14In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

0:25:14 > 0:25:16Amen.

0:25:22 > 0:25:25Churches packed to the rafters might be a rare occurrence...

0:25:27 > 0:25:29..but in Hereford Cathedral, it's a full house.

0:25:31 > 0:25:34Matthew Cashmore is about to be ordained as a deacon

0:25:34 > 0:25:37by the Bishop of Hereford.

0:25:37 > 0:25:39I look a bit like Mr Bean. What's going on there?

0:25:39 > 0:25:42THEY LAUGH

0:25:42 > 0:25:46Despite decreasing congregations, in 2016,

0:25:46 > 0:25:51nearly 500 new clergy were ordained in England.

0:25:51 > 0:25:53Around half of those were women.

0:25:54 > 0:25:57I do remember how I was feeling, actually.

0:25:57 > 0:25:59Very, very nervous,

0:25:59 > 0:26:01but really excited.

0:26:01 > 0:26:04You know, before you get married, and you weren't nervous,

0:26:04 > 0:26:05and then all of a sudden you're nervous,

0:26:05 > 0:26:09- but it's nervous excitement. It's good.- Good. It's good excitement.

0:26:09 > 0:26:11- Everything fits.- Yes.

0:26:11 > 0:26:13Isn't it nice today?

0:26:16 > 0:26:19ORGAN PLAYS CHOIR SINGS

0:26:19 > 0:26:22Matthew's ordination oath will change him forever

0:26:22 > 0:26:26from a layperson to a member of the clergy.

0:26:30 > 0:26:35Deacons are called to work with their fellow members

0:26:35 > 0:26:38in searching out the poor and weak,

0:26:38 > 0:26:42reaching into the forgotten corners of the world,

0:26:42 > 0:26:45that the love of God may be made visible.

0:26:50 > 0:26:52Matthew Cashmore.

0:26:55 > 0:26:57Send down the Holy Spirit...

0:26:59 > 0:27:01..on your servant Matthew...

0:27:02 > 0:27:04..for the office and work of a deacon.

0:27:06 > 0:27:08It's a covenant. It's a commitment,

0:27:08 > 0:27:13it's a relationship between you and God,

0:27:13 > 0:27:20and God claims you, and you completely and utterly...

0:27:22 > 0:27:23..are His.

0:27:28 > 0:27:30It's utterly and completely...

0:27:32 > 0:27:33..overwhelming.

0:27:33 > 0:27:36- ALL:- We welcome you as fellow servants in the Gospel.

0:27:36 > 0:27:40May Christ dwell in your hearts through faith...

0:27:42 > 0:27:44After three years of study,

0:27:44 > 0:27:48Matthew the business executive has been left behind.

0:27:48 > 0:27:51From now on, it's Father Matthew.

0:27:53 > 0:27:58The moment Bishop Richard laid his hands on my head, it kind of...

0:27:59 > 0:28:05..everything changed. I'm excited and happy and joyous and...

0:28:06 > 0:28:09..probably going to crash very quickly after this.

0:28:11 > 0:28:13Give a big hug! I love you.

0:28:17 > 0:28:21Next time, Nicholas helps a struggling farmer and his wife.

0:28:21 > 0:28:23- Where are you going to move to? - Don't know.

0:28:23 > 0:28:27Newly ordained father Matthew takes on his first challenge.

0:28:27 > 0:28:29Come to church tomorrow. I'm preaching.

0:28:29 > 0:28:33And the Bishop gets closer to God than he'd like.

0:28:33 > 0:28:35When I first told him about the cherry picker,

0:28:35 > 0:28:36I don't think he believed me.