0:00:36 > 0:00:39# Leave us here where no-one minds us
0:00:39 > 0:00:43# Instruments and strung to silence
0:00:43 > 0:00:45# Never knew they'd be playing us this way... #
0:00:46 > 0:00:48Mum?
0:00:49 > 0:00:53Come on, get in.
0:00:58 > 0:01:00SHE GROANS
0:01:00 > 0:01:05Your leg! Oh, oh, I must have grazed it.
0:01:09 > 0:01:13# ..Like fallen apples They will lose their sweetness
0:01:13 > 0:01:17# And bruise
0:01:17 > 0:01:20# And then decay... #
0:01:22 > 0:01:27Jill? Jill, have you finished?
0:01:27 > 0:01:29Are you coming down?
0:01:32 > 0:01:35There's not a decent-looking fella in here.
0:01:35 > 0:01:37It is good that you are using your time wisely.
0:01:37 > 0:01:38Well, there's not much else to do.
0:01:50 > 0:01:54What are you smiling about? Well, there was ONE cute one.
0:01:54 > 0:01:57You are not making any sense.
0:01:57 > 0:01:59Someone who was here a couple of days ago.
0:01:59 > 0:02:02Was he a young man?
0:02:02 > 0:02:03A young, HOT man!
0:02:03 > 0:02:06And what was his name?
0:02:06 > 0:02:10Jack. He's got very long eyelashes and he'd come to see his mum.
0:02:12 > 0:02:13Was he a nice young man?
0:02:13 > 0:02:15He was gorgeous.
0:02:15 > 0:02:16He might come again.
0:02:22 > 0:02:26SHE COUGHS
0:02:36 > 0:02:37SHE GROANS
0:02:46 > 0:02:49Here you are, Mum. Careful, it's hot.
0:02:49 > 0:02:54Thank you, darling. Are you going out? I'm going to work.
0:02:54 > 0:02:56You're going now? I did tell you.
0:02:59 > 0:03:01How did you do this, Mum?
0:03:01 > 0:03:04Oh, I must have caught it on the gate this morning.
0:03:04 > 0:03:07Why are you going to the restaurant this early?
0:03:07 > 0:03:10To keep an eye on Raj with this afternoon's lunch.
0:03:10 > 0:03:13I can't afford for this to go wrong, we've got 40 booked.
0:03:13 > 0:03:17I'm sure he'll manage. He keeps messing up. He doesn't listen
0:03:17 > 0:03:21and then tries to blame things on me. You work too hard, Jill.
0:03:21 > 0:03:25If this corporate do's a success, there could be more.
0:03:25 > 0:03:28I'll be back as soon as I can to take you to the doctor's.
0:03:28 > 0:03:34Have you seen my keys? I don't know, dear, maybe they're under here.
0:03:34 > 0:03:36Mum, I can manage.
0:03:36 > 0:03:38Oh, Mum!
0:03:38 > 0:03:42Oh! I'm so sorry, dear. Mum, leave it, please!
0:03:42 > 0:03:44It's OK, just leave it!
0:03:46 > 0:03:49Will your jacket be all right, dear?
0:03:49 > 0:03:53No! Just don't touch anything. I'll clean it up.
0:03:59 > 0:04:03I've got a cold. I feel terrible.
0:04:03 > 0:04:05Yeah, me too.
0:04:05 > 0:04:08Really? You must have given it to me.
0:04:08 > 0:04:12I heard you coughing yesterday - this is from you.
0:04:12 > 0:04:15Well, it looks like neither of us will be able to go to work.
0:04:15 > 0:04:18I need a hot-water bottle, I'm aching.
0:04:18 > 0:04:20I need a Lemsip.
0:04:21 > 0:04:24One of us is going to have to go and put the kettle on.
0:04:24 > 0:04:26Mm.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28Suppose so.
0:04:31 > 0:04:34Oi! In a minute.
0:04:36 > 0:04:38Mum! All right!
0:04:41 > 0:04:44I'm off now, Mum. Mum, what are you doing?
0:04:44 > 0:04:47Mum, what on Earth...?
0:04:47 > 0:04:50Oh, I'm sorry, dear. I was looking in there for your keys.
0:04:50 > 0:04:54I've got them! Come on, are you all right? Yes, I think so.
0:04:54 > 0:04:57Honestly, Mum, you must try not to do too much. Please.
0:04:57 > 0:05:00Here's your magazine.
0:05:00 > 0:05:04That cupboard could do with a tidy.
0:05:04 > 0:05:06Will you be long?
0:05:06 > 0:05:08Not long.
0:05:08 > 0:05:12Will you be driving? You'll be too tired.
0:05:12 > 0:05:13I'm fine.
0:05:13 > 0:05:15Did you have any breakfast?
0:05:15 > 0:05:19Mum, I've got to get to work, I'll get back as soon as I can!
0:05:19 > 0:05:20I'll see you later.
0:05:26 > 0:05:29Oh, my head is throbbing.
0:05:29 > 0:05:32Almost 39.4.
0:05:34 > 0:05:37Well, it WILL be, with that under your arm. Oh, yeah.
0:05:39 > 0:05:40Can I have one of those, please?
0:05:40 > 0:05:42Grab yourself a cup.
0:05:47 > 0:05:50You'll have to ring Howard - I'm too ill.
0:05:50 > 0:05:53So am I. I'm shivering.
0:05:53 > 0:05:56I didn't sleep at all last night.
0:05:56 > 0:06:01Go on. He'll take it better if it comes from you.
0:06:01 > 0:06:04All right, I'll make a deal with you. I'll ring Howard,
0:06:04 > 0:06:06you get the duvets. OK.
0:06:08 > 0:06:10TYPES NUMBER INTO PHONE
0:06:20 > 0:06:22How is she?
0:06:24 > 0:06:26How does she look?
0:06:26 > 0:06:31It's remarkable how she's coping. She SEEMS happy.
0:06:31 > 0:06:34She does, doesn't she?
0:06:35 > 0:06:38How are you managing? Hmm.
0:06:38 > 0:06:41Were you here yesterday?
0:06:41 > 0:06:43I'm here every day,
0:06:43 > 0:06:47and I will be, unless I get a note from my mam that lets me off.
0:06:47 > 0:06:52Rob, it's going to take... Time. I know.
0:06:52 > 0:06:54I get it now.
0:06:56 > 0:07:00You should go home, have a break. She's going to need me, Heston.
0:07:01 > 0:07:05She doesn't know it yet, but she will run into trouble - I know her.
0:07:09 > 0:07:13You have to convince her to carry on seeing me.
0:07:13 > 0:07:15I'll try.
0:07:20 > 0:07:25May I? Please, Doctor Carter, come in.
0:07:25 > 0:07:28We were just testing our mathematical skills
0:07:28 > 0:07:32on a sudoku puzzle. Ah, yes. Sudokumania!
0:07:32 > 0:07:34An excellent way to sharpen the mind.
0:07:34 > 0:07:37No, this is too hard - I prefer hangman.
0:07:37 > 0:07:41We have been keeping ourselves busy, walking around the grounds
0:07:41 > 0:07:45and Mrs Hollins has remembered ALL of our recent conversations.
0:07:45 > 0:07:47Excellent. I thought we were mates.
0:07:47 > 0:07:51We are. I'm not Mrs Hollins, I'm Miss Teale. You can call me Karen.
0:07:51 > 0:07:53Well, I..
0:07:53 > 0:07:56Forgive us, Karen, Mrs Tembe and myself are rather old-fashioned.
0:07:56 > 0:07:59I don't think we've been properly introduced.
0:07:59 > 0:08:03Oh, yes, excuse me, Mrs...
0:08:03 > 0:08:06Karen, this is Doctor Carter,
0:08:06 > 0:08:09a senior partner and doctor at the Mill Health Centre.
0:08:09 > 0:08:12Another doctor I'm supposed to know. Pleased to meet you.
0:08:12 > 0:08:14Pleased to meet you too.
0:08:15 > 0:08:18So, what's the story with you two?
0:08:18 > 0:08:19Are you...?
0:08:19 > 0:08:21No, no, no.
0:08:21 > 0:08:24Oh. But you're going out?
0:08:24 > 0:08:25We most certainly are not.
0:08:25 > 0:08:27Sorry, I just thought, you...
0:08:27 > 0:08:29But you fancy each other?
0:08:29 > 0:08:34Karen... All right, keep your hair on! I just thought, you know...
0:08:40 > 0:08:42Why are there no candles on the tables?
0:08:43 > 0:08:46Raj, there are no candles on the tables.
0:08:46 > 0:08:49What? Oh, sorry, we don't put them out till later.
0:08:49 > 0:08:53That'll be too late. Put them out now, please.
0:08:53 > 0:08:55Who ordered these?
0:08:55 > 0:08:57Not me. They're terrible.
0:08:57 > 0:08:59Well, you said you'd take care of table dressing.
0:08:59 > 0:09:04No, I asked YOU to. Oh, fine, just change them.
0:09:04 > 0:09:06How about staff - who do we have?
0:09:10 > 0:09:12This isn't enough.
0:09:12 > 0:09:14It's what we always have for midweek lunches.
0:09:14 > 0:09:17But we've got 40 covers this afternoon. Yeah?
0:09:17 > 0:09:20Call Lisa, see if she's free.
0:09:20 > 0:09:22And there's a box of white cabbages in the kitchen.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25I told you, we're taking the braised cabbage off the menu -
0:09:25 > 0:09:28more money wasted. Well, that wasn't down to me.
0:09:28 > 0:09:32Raj, I'm not prepared to argue on every single... PHONE RINGS
0:09:32 > 0:09:34I've got to take this.
0:09:34 > 0:09:35Mum, what's the matter? Are you OK?
0:09:35 > 0:09:39I'm fine, dear. Did you get there all right?
0:09:39 > 0:09:40Yes.
0:09:40 > 0:09:42'Good.'
0:09:42 > 0:09:45Why have you rung, Mum? I can't find the surgery phone number.
0:09:45 > 0:09:47What do you need their number for?
0:09:47 > 0:09:49I'll cancel the appointment, Jill.
0:09:49 > 0:09:54My knee's fine - it's only a scratch - and you're busy.
0:09:54 > 0:09:56Mum, please, I'll be back soon, I'll take care of it.
0:09:56 > 0:09:58Are you sure?
0:09:58 > 0:10:01Yes, Mum, just stay there. I'll come back.
0:10:05 > 0:10:09# Pretty woman Don't walk on by... #
0:10:09 > 0:10:11And they live happily ever after.
0:10:12 > 0:10:15Hm, the old ones are the best.
0:10:20 > 0:10:21All right?
0:10:21 > 0:10:24Yeah. HE SNIFFS
0:10:24 > 0:10:25It's just my cold.
0:10:25 > 0:10:27Right.
0:10:27 > 0:10:29There was a day
0:10:29 > 0:10:31if anything romantic was on, you'd just fall asleep.
0:10:31 > 0:10:35Yeah...you used to say you'd never seen a film,
0:10:35 > 0:10:38and then in the last ten minutes you'd ruin the end for us!
0:10:38 > 0:10:41"Oh, this is the one where he dies at the end!"
0:10:41 > 0:10:43Oh, that used to drive your dad mad!
0:10:48 > 0:10:50I keep thinking about Rob.
0:10:51 > 0:10:53Yeah.
0:10:53 > 0:10:55It must be awful.
0:10:55 > 0:10:57He'll manage.
0:10:57 > 0:11:01Being in limbo like that. You know, just waiting.
0:11:03 > 0:11:06He's got his kids, and it's not as if Karen's not there -
0:11:06 > 0:11:08she can recover.
0:11:08 > 0:11:10Yes, she may not be the same, though.
0:11:10 > 0:11:11How do you mean?
0:11:11 > 0:11:13Amnesia.
0:11:13 > 0:11:18If people DO recover, then often there can be personality changes.
0:11:20 > 0:11:22Why do you always have to look on the bleak side?
0:11:22 > 0:11:26I'm not. I'm just saying, you know, things happen.
0:11:27 > 0:11:30You always expect the worst.
0:11:30 > 0:11:32What?
0:11:32 > 0:11:34It doesn't matter.
0:11:35 > 0:11:36Chris...
0:11:42 > 0:11:43Chris!
0:11:43 > 0:11:46That's why you've been feeling a bit groggy.
0:11:46 > 0:11:48And that was the sedatives?
0:11:48 > 0:11:51They can have a hypnotic effect, a slowing down.
0:11:51 > 0:11:53What, like you're spaced out?
0:11:53 > 0:11:55But you're doing remarkably well.
0:11:55 > 0:11:58I can hardly believe the improvement since I saw you last.
0:11:58 > 0:12:01Well, it's not down to the food, that's for sure. But I feel OK.
0:12:01 > 0:12:02Good.
0:12:04 > 0:12:07Do you have many visitors? A couple.
0:12:07 > 0:12:09He was cute. Oh...
0:12:09 > 0:12:11What? It's the medication, he said.
0:12:11 > 0:12:15And Dr Haskey came to visit, do you remember?
0:12:15 > 0:12:18Dr Al. He's mad, he wants to know everything.
0:12:18 > 0:12:22I've never met so many doctors, and half of them seem to be my mates.
0:12:22 > 0:12:25It's great that you're retaining so much, it's very encouraging.
0:12:25 > 0:12:29She's making very good progress, don't you think, Dr Carter?
0:12:29 > 0:12:34You seem much happier. Visitors can be very therapeutic.
0:12:37 > 0:12:38Yes, Rosabelle's.
0:12:40 > 0:12:42Can we have them any earlier?
0:12:42 > 0:12:47Sorry, are you sure it's 14, Moorway Road?
0:12:47 > 0:12:49It says 16 on your notes.
0:12:49 > 0:12:52Yes, sorry, it's 16.
0:12:52 > 0:12:54That's better, thank you.
0:12:56 > 0:12:59Sorry about that - one of those days.
0:12:59 > 0:13:02We all have those. Well, more like one of those nights, actually.
0:13:02 > 0:13:06I've been up most of it, with my mother. Didn't get much sleep.
0:13:06 > 0:13:08She's taken to wandering. Oh, that's hard.
0:13:08 > 0:13:10Yes, especially when you're trying to run a business.
0:13:10 > 0:13:13Oh? Yes, I run a restaurant. Rosabelle's.
0:13:13 > 0:13:16Cheal Street, I know it. It's lovely.
0:13:16 > 0:13:19Didn't it win an award or something?
0:13:19 > 0:13:21Yes, well, just a local business award.
0:13:21 > 0:13:26Oh, lovely. Shame... So, doesn't your mother sleep?
0:13:26 > 0:13:30Not much. Elderly relatives can be such a worry.
0:13:30 > 0:13:32Yes. Does she get disorientated?
0:13:34 > 0:13:38She's lucky to have you. Some of the elderly people we see...
0:13:38 > 0:13:41There's this one lady, she lives by the school.
0:13:41 > 0:13:45Valerie, excuse me. Can I have a word? Yes, Doctor.
0:13:45 > 0:13:47Don't get too involved, please.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50I was just... You're interfering. Don't.
0:13:54 > 0:13:56What?
0:13:56 > 0:13:58Oh, no.
0:14:05 > 0:14:08When can I leave?
0:14:08 > 0:14:13When things are more stable. But you can always go home for a visit.
0:14:13 > 0:14:16To my dad's? I was thinking your own home.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19No, no, thank you. Maybe it's too soon.
0:14:19 > 0:14:21You need a transitional period.
0:14:21 > 0:14:23Rob would give you that.
0:14:23 > 0:14:26SHE SIGHS Rob's actually at the hospital here today.
0:14:26 > 0:14:29We could wait with you, if you like.
0:14:30 > 0:14:33What do you think? Why is he hanging around?
0:14:33 > 0:14:36It's important to bring your past back into focus.
0:14:36 > 0:14:39And Rob and the family are part of that past.
0:14:39 > 0:14:42I don't want to see him. I was thinking...
0:14:42 > 0:14:44He's creepy, and I don't know who he is.
0:14:53 > 0:14:55Have you seen my daughter?
0:14:55 > 0:14:57She could be in the ladies'.
0:14:57 > 0:14:59No, I've looked. She can't have gone far.
0:14:59 > 0:15:02She was here when I was in with the nurse.
0:15:02 > 0:15:04Well, I'll give her a call.
0:15:04 > 0:15:07You sit down, Mrs Evans. I'll sort it out.
0:15:07 > 0:15:10I need to find her. Sorry, what seems to be the problem?
0:15:10 > 0:15:13Mrs Evans's daughter seems to have disappeared.
0:15:13 > 0:15:16She was here a moment ago. I'm just trying to ring her now.
0:15:16 > 0:15:18She seems very agitated.
0:15:18 > 0:15:20Bit of a dependency issue.
0:15:24 > 0:15:26No answer.
0:15:26 > 0:15:29Have you got her? Not yet, Mrs Evans, maybe she's...
0:15:29 > 0:15:32Where has she gone? I need to find her, we need to go home.
0:15:32 > 0:15:34We'll call you a taxi.
0:15:34 > 0:15:37Look, it's nearly my lunchtime, maybe I should go with her.
0:15:37 > 0:15:39Is that really necessary?
0:15:39 > 0:15:41She's in a bit of a state.
0:15:41 > 0:15:44I won't interfere, and I'll come straight back.
0:16:22 > 0:16:25She isn't here.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27Where are you going, Mrs Evans?
0:16:27 > 0:16:29I have to find her.
0:16:29 > 0:16:32It's none of my business, but I don't think that's a very good idea.
0:16:32 > 0:16:34She might be home soon. You don't want to miss her, do you?
0:16:34 > 0:16:39Look, I've left a message at the restaurant. We could wait together.
0:16:39 > 0:16:41I'll make us a cup of tea.
0:16:41 > 0:16:43Is the kitchen through here?
0:16:46 > 0:16:51Oh! This is, er...amazing.
0:16:51 > 0:16:52What a good idea.
0:16:52 > 0:16:56I don't need to ask where anything is in here, do I?
0:16:56 > 0:16:59Don't worry, I forget where I put things all the time.
0:16:59 > 0:17:01Oh, cups! May I?
0:17:01 > 0:17:07I am for ever mixing things up. This is a wonderful idea.
0:17:07 > 0:17:10What a clever daughter you've got!
0:17:12 > 0:17:14You must be very proud of her.
0:17:14 > 0:17:17She's got such a busy life, but she still finds time for you.
0:17:18 > 0:17:22And she's built that restaurant up from nothing, hasn't she?
0:17:22 > 0:17:25No, these are SO helpful.
0:17:27 > 0:17:30Do you have a bit of trouble with your memory?
0:17:31 > 0:17:34They're...they're not mine.
0:17:47 > 0:17:48Steven!
0:17:48 > 0:17:51What's going on?! It's chaos out there.
0:17:51 > 0:17:55I know, but... They should've gone out ages ago. No-one's taking them!
0:17:59 > 0:18:01For goodness' sake.
0:18:10 > 0:18:14She thinks I'm the one with the problem. I wish it was.
0:18:16 > 0:18:19I had to go out and look for her this morning.
0:18:19 > 0:18:23That's when I cut my leg. I tripped. Why haven't you told anyone?
0:18:23 > 0:18:25I couldn't! She wouldn't let me.
0:18:25 > 0:18:31We never see anyone, nobody comes to the house any more.
0:18:31 > 0:18:35I'm worried that they'll take her away,
0:18:35 > 0:18:38but I can't look after her.
0:18:38 > 0:18:43It's like... she's just not my Jill any more.
0:18:57 > 0:19:00What are you doing? The cabbage. You forgot.
0:19:00 > 0:19:03What did I forget?! Braised white cabbage, with bacon and thyme.
0:19:03 > 0:19:05It's on the menu. Chef's waiting.
0:19:05 > 0:19:08It's not on the menu, and the main's have already gone out.
0:19:08 > 0:19:11It IS on the menu because I put it on the menu this morning, remember?
0:19:11 > 0:19:13What are you talking about?!
0:19:13 > 0:19:15Get a move on! Why are you just standing there?!
0:19:15 > 0:19:18You told me earlier you took it off. Quick, help me get them out!
0:19:18 > 0:19:21You don't remember, do you?
0:19:21 > 0:19:22This is MY restaurant!
0:19:22 > 0:19:24Jill, calm down.
0:19:24 > 0:19:28You're always getting at me. This is MY restaurant! Get out!
0:19:28 > 0:19:32What?! Go on, get out! You're fired.
0:19:32 > 0:19:35Leave me alone, leave me alone!
0:19:41 > 0:19:43What did she say? She's still not ready.
0:19:43 > 0:19:46Come on, Heston. You're going to have to give her more time.
0:19:46 > 0:19:48That's what she said?
0:19:48 > 0:19:50How do I explain that to Jack and Immie?
0:19:50 > 0:19:51This is not just about Karen.
0:19:51 > 0:19:53I'm in limbo here, you know?
0:19:53 > 0:19:56I can't go home, I can't go to work. I know this is difficult for you.
0:19:56 > 0:19:58I feel about that far off going in there
0:19:58 > 0:20:00and dragging her out of this damn hospital.
0:20:00 > 0:20:04We're still within the three-week window. What is the three-week window?
0:20:04 > 0:20:07At the moment, things are fairly fluid, but after three weeks,
0:20:07 > 0:20:09patterns in the brain become more fixed.
0:20:09 > 0:20:12And, what does that mean?
0:20:12 > 0:20:14She still has time to recover.
0:20:18 > 0:20:21I can't lose her, Heston. I can't.
0:20:27 > 0:20:30Right. What shall we watch next?
0:20:30 > 0:20:33What about...Batman?
0:20:33 > 0:20:36You like those, and to be perfectly honest,
0:20:36 > 0:20:39Christian Bale would perk me right up.
0:20:39 > 0:20:44Yeah, OK. You know, I've been thinking.
0:20:44 > 0:20:48I think this house is too big for us.
0:20:48 > 0:20:50What do you mean?
0:20:50 > 0:20:52We're just rattling around in it, aren't we?
0:20:52 > 0:20:54What's this about? You want me to move out?
0:20:54 > 0:20:55What's this about? You want me to move out?
0:20:55 > 0:20:57No, of course not.
0:20:57 > 0:21:04Money? No. It's just, there's a lot of memories here.
0:21:04 > 0:21:07Of course.
0:21:07 > 0:21:10Just thought maybe we could do with a change.
0:21:10 > 0:21:12I'm cramping your style, am I?
0:21:12 > 0:21:13Chris...
0:21:13 > 0:21:15You want your single life back.
0:21:17 > 0:21:18How do you do that?
0:21:19 > 0:21:23How do you always manage to turn something around,
0:21:23 > 0:21:24and make it my fault?
0:21:24 > 0:21:26It didn't stop you when Dad was here.
0:21:28 > 0:21:30How dare you?!
0:21:31 > 0:21:34You know what, I've had it with your attitude.
0:21:34 > 0:21:38Well, I'm sick of you thinking that everyone can move on as easy as you.
0:21:38 > 0:21:41Because it's been so easy, hasn't it, Chris,
0:21:41 > 0:21:43dealing the fallout from...
0:21:44 > 0:21:47From what?
0:21:47 > 0:21:49I'm sick of this!
0:21:50 > 0:21:55You and your childish behaviour, and blaming me for everything.
0:21:55 > 0:21:56If the shoe fits.
0:21:58 > 0:22:03Oh, grow up. You're 24 years old.
0:22:03 > 0:22:06Take some responsibility for your life,
0:22:06 > 0:22:08and stop blaming me for everything!
0:22:10 > 0:22:12I'm going to go back to bed.
0:22:23 > 0:22:24Jill?
0:22:24 > 0:22:26Mum, are you OK?
0:22:26 > 0:22:28Yes. I was worried about YOU, love.
0:22:28 > 0:22:31I'm just busy, I've got a lot to do.
0:22:31 > 0:22:34Jill, you left your mother at the surgery. I brought her home.
0:22:34 > 0:22:38Who are you? I'm Valerie, the receptionist.
0:22:38 > 0:22:43Oh, right, yes. Why are you all here?
0:22:43 > 0:22:45Because I called them.
0:22:45 > 0:22:48Raj was worried. I don't know what you're all doing here.
0:22:48 > 0:22:50I'm trying to run a business.
0:22:50 > 0:22:53You're not, though, are you? Things haven't been right here for months.
0:22:53 > 0:22:55We know, Jill. We know how things have been.
0:22:55 > 0:22:57You've been confused, haven't you?
0:22:57 > 0:23:00I'm under a lot of stress. This is an important day!
0:23:00 > 0:23:02But it's not just today, is it?
0:23:02 > 0:23:04Jill, you can't go on like this.
0:23:05 > 0:23:10I don't know... I don't know what you're saying.
0:23:10 > 0:23:12KNOCK AT DOOR
0:23:17 > 0:23:19Your favourite.
0:23:22 > 0:23:24Well, it used to be.
0:23:36 > 0:23:39I can manage. I just need a break, that's all.
0:23:39 > 0:23:43The earlier you get help, Jill, the better things can be put in place.
0:23:43 > 0:23:45You can get support.
0:23:45 > 0:23:48The restaurant? You know, I'm sure Raj could help.
0:23:49 > 0:23:53I'm sorry I haven't been much help recently, but if you need it...?
0:23:53 > 0:23:55Yeah. Thank you.
0:23:57 > 0:23:59I'd better get back in there.
0:24:03 > 0:24:05It's like I'm drowning.
0:24:05 > 0:24:10It started with headaches, then I just couldn't think straight.
0:24:10 > 0:24:13I'd get in the car and forget where I was going.
0:24:13 > 0:24:15What should I do now?
0:24:15 > 0:24:17You can stop worrying and start to look after yourself.
0:24:17 > 0:24:20The doctors at the Mill can help.
0:24:20 > 0:24:21I'm sorry, Mum.
0:24:21 > 0:24:25Oh, I only wanted to look after you, Jill.
0:24:25 > 0:24:27I'm supposed to be looking after you.
0:24:27 > 0:24:29This isn't meant to happen.
0:24:29 > 0:24:33Oh, there, there. I'm here now, darling, I'm here now.
0:24:33 > 0:24:35JILL SOBS There, there.
0:24:37 > 0:24:39KNOCK AT DOOR
0:24:41 > 0:24:43That's good soup.
0:24:47 > 0:24:49Mum, I know what you're trying to do.
0:24:49 > 0:24:52I see your point - it's just hard.
0:24:52 > 0:24:53I know.
0:24:55 > 0:24:56Too soon.
0:25:01 > 0:25:06I'm sorry for saying those nasty things. I didn't mean it.
0:25:06 > 0:25:08I understand.
0:25:08 > 0:25:10I'm sorry, too.
0:25:12 > 0:25:14Do I really take it out on you?
0:25:18 > 0:25:21Yeah. Sometimes.
0:25:24 > 0:25:26Have you got any more?
0:25:28 > 0:25:30Come here.
0:25:36 > 0:25:40How was Jill? You were right, I've referred her on.
0:25:40 > 0:25:43It's good to catch these things early. Yep.
0:25:43 > 0:25:47You know, only 46% of people with dementia ever get diagnosed.
0:25:47 > 0:25:48Really?
0:25:48 > 0:25:53Yeah. It's often misdiagnosed as depression or menopause.
0:25:53 > 0:25:54Well, well done, you.
0:25:54 > 0:25:57That's what you wanted, isn't it - pat on the back?
0:25:57 > 0:25:58I know it's not my place...
0:25:58 > 0:26:02No, you're right, Miss Marple, it's NOT your place.
0:26:02 > 0:26:06On this occasion, it was OK, but next time, rein it in.
0:26:07 > 0:26:09(You're welcome.)
0:26:09 > 0:26:13I'm just not coping well with the fact that she might stay like this.
0:26:13 > 0:26:15We don't know. There are techniques we can use.
0:26:15 > 0:26:18Show her photos, show her videos.
0:26:18 > 0:26:22She doesn't want us. She's happy, she doesn't want to remember.
0:26:22 > 0:26:27When she IS ready, we can take her home and jog her memory.
0:26:27 > 0:26:29How do we do that?
0:26:30 > 0:26:33How do we get her to sit in a house she can't remember
0:26:33 > 0:26:35with a man she doesn't know and hates?
0:26:35 > 0:26:37How do we do that?
0:26:39 > 0:26:40Exactly.
0:26:50 > 0:26:51I am still her husband!
0:26:51 > 0:26:54I wish you'd all remember that, even if she can't. Or doesn't want to.
0:26:54 > 0:26:58Ald Brook, as in the brewers of fine ales?
0:26:58 > 0:26:59Just cos you've had a bang on your noddle,
0:26:59 > 0:27:02doesn't mean you can knock your gob out of gear.
0:27:02 > 0:27:04You're the same age as me, and let me tell you,
0:27:04 > 0:27:06you don't look in the first flush of youth either!
0:27:06 > 0:27:08HE SINGS A FANFARE
0:27:08 > 0:27:10There she is!
0:27:10 > 0:27:13Do you fancy something intimate, romantic?