0:00:30 > 0:00:32Gwen, I can manage.
0:00:32 > 0:00:35No, you can't. Not unless I take you.
0:00:35 > 0:00:36What are you doing?
0:00:36 > 0:00:39I can't get off work this afternoon. I'll call the surgery.
0:00:39 > 0:00:40Gwen, listen to me...
0:00:40 > 0:00:43Is that the Mill? My father has an appointment today,
0:00:43 > 0:00:45but he won't remember, and I can't get him there,
0:00:45 > 0:00:47so we need a home visit.
0:00:50 > 0:00:54There are many benefits to having an experienced midwife,
0:00:54 > 0:00:56such as Sister Hanif, here.
0:00:56 > 0:00:58The centre she used to work at had to let her go
0:00:58 > 0:01:00due to a lack of funds.
0:01:01 > 0:01:05That is why I believe it would be an opportunity for us
0:01:05 > 0:01:07to adopt a new health initiative.
0:01:09 > 0:01:13I think we should pursue this with St Philomena's.
0:01:13 > 0:01:15I know I should have discussed it with you first,
0:01:15 > 0:01:19but please, just look at the research.
0:01:21 > 0:01:22Summarise it.
0:01:22 > 0:01:27Local midwives have the benefit of extra support,
0:01:27 > 0:01:30and surely it is better for a mother to have one midwife
0:01:30 > 0:01:33that she can form a relationship with.
0:01:34 > 0:01:37Hospitals cannot make this happen.
0:01:39 > 0:01:40We can.
0:01:40 > 0:01:43She's already clashed with Heston.
0:01:43 > 0:01:45Why don't we just get another midwife?
0:01:45 > 0:01:48She has already put a lot of hard work into this.
0:01:48 > 0:01:52It would be unfair to exclude her just because of Dr Carter.
0:01:52 > 0:01:55Are the differences personality or are the differences professional?
0:01:55 > 0:01:59I do not know. You will have to discuss that with him.
0:01:59 > 0:02:00Dr Granger?
0:02:03 > 0:02:05Actually...I'm for it.
0:02:06 > 0:02:08That's not what you were saying the other day.
0:02:08 > 0:02:12Yeah, I know, but...Zara persuaded me.
0:02:12 > 0:02:15All the work that she's doing on breast-feeding...
0:02:15 > 0:02:18I think we could be doing more things like this in the community.
0:02:18 > 0:02:20So she'd be happy.
0:02:20 > 0:02:23Is Dr Carmichael voting for it?
0:02:23 > 0:02:25She doesn't want to be a back-seat driver.
0:02:25 > 0:02:29So she's abstaining until she's back. But it gets my vote.
0:02:29 > 0:02:31But not mine. Sorry.
0:02:31 > 0:02:33I think it needs to be unanimous.
0:02:33 > 0:02:35Why not?
0:02:35 > 0:02:36I'm just not sure we need it.
0:02:38 > 0:02:42Mr Bellamy was 100% behind this.
0:02:43 > 0:02:45What a wonderful legacy to leave!
0:02:47 > 0:02:49Yeah. That's emotional manipulation
0:02:49 > 0:02:51and I think it's totally the wrong reason to do it.
0:02:51 > 0:02:52If we're going to invoke Howard,
0:02:52 > 0:02:54then Howard would know when to let it go.
0:02:54 > 0:02:57Maybe in the long term we could revisit it.
0:02:57 > 0:03:01I have arranged for Sister Hanif to come in today,
0:03:01 > 0:03:04to give you both a short presentation.
0:03:04 > 0:03:07You've already sprung things on us once - you're not doing it again.
0:03:07 > 0:03:09I've got a patient to see. Cancel her!
0:03:13 > 0:03:14Would you like to take a seat?
0:03:14 > 0:03:15Thank you.
0:03:17 > 0:03:20Hello, it is Mrs Tembe. I am afraid it is still a no.
0:03:20 > 0:03:23When you get this message, can you please phone me back?
0:03:23 > 0:03:24And once again, I am so sorry.
0:03:24 > 0:03:26Right. I'm off.
0:03:26 > 0:03:28Have you cancelled the midwife? Yes.
0:03:28 > 0:03:31Midwife? Don't worry, nothing's changed. It's not happening.
0:03:31 > 0:03:34Sister Hanif was just coming to make a presentation.
0:03:34 > 0:03:37No wonder I was suddenly switched to house calls.
0:03:37 > 0:03:39So she's not even here and Mrs Tembe's keeping her away from you?
0:03:39 > 0:03:42Jimmi, do not let that woman anywhere near this practice.
0:03:42 > 0:03:43It's dead in the water.
0:03:43 > 0:03:45Mr Reynolds?
0:04:19 > 0:04:20What are YOU doing here?!
0:04:22 > 0:04:24I work here.
0:04:24 > 0:04:26Yeah, but you're supposed to be off!
0:04:28 > 0:04:30I am so sorry.
0:04:30 > 0:04:33I did not think you were going to be in today.
0:04:33 > 0:04:37I did not want you to see me behind Mr Bellamy's desk like that.
0:04:37 > 0:04:40No, it's fine.
0:04:40 > 0:04:42Of course you would step up.
0:04:42 > 0:04:46The patients go on, the Mill goes on.
0:04:48 > 0:04:49Everything goes on.
0:04:53 > 0:04:57Six months since your diagnosis? Yep.
0:04:57 > 0:05:00How have you been? Good, all things considered.
0:05:00 > 0:05:02Well, you're neither tachycardic or bradycardic.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04Right in the Goldilocks zone.
0:05:04 > 0:05:08And...70, so your pulse rate is fine.
0:05:08 > 0:05:11He's running out of his cholesterol medication.
0:05:11 > 0:05:12I'll write you another prescription.
0:05:12 > 0:05:15Can we hurry this up, please? I need to get back.
0:05:15 > 0:05:17You don't need to wait, I'll show myself out.
0:05:17 > 0:05:18I need a word first.
0:05:25 > 0:05:26His memory's getting worse.
0:05:26 > 0:05:29You heard him - he didn't grasp what you were talking about.
0:05:29 > 0:05:31That was just a bit of medical jargon.
0:05:31 > 0:05:34I don't think he can look after himself any more.
0:05:34 > 0:05:37He forgets things, gets confused.
0:05:37 > 0:05:39We need to put him in a home.
0:05:39 > 0:05:42We?! You're the doctor. You know how to make it happen.
0:05:42 > 0:05:43Have you spoken to him about it?
0:05:43 > 0:05:46Not directly. Who kicks it off, you or me?
0:05:46 > 0:05:50You. You contact social services and then you look into homes.
0:05:50 > 0:05:52But you have to talk to him first.
0:05:52 > 0:05:53Who'll pay?
0:05:53 > 0:05:56Sorry? For the care home.
0:05:56 > 0:05:58Well, you need to talk to social services.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03Mrs Tembe, hello.
0:06:03 > 0:06:06Oh, I...left you a message.
0:06:06 > 0:06:08Oh. I'm sorry, I've not checked.
0:06:08 > 0:06:09Well, I'm here now.
0:06:11 > 0:06:13I'm here to see Mrs Tembe.
0:06:13 > 0:06:15Oh. Right.
0:06:15 > 0:06:17You know each other?
0:06:17 > 0:06:18Through St Phil's.
0:06:18 > 0:06:23Oh...I am so sorry. But the partners do not want to proceed.
0:06:24 > 0:06:26Is this about Howard's proposal?
0:06:26 > 0:06:27Yes.
0:06:27 > 0:06:30Well, who said no?
0:06:30 > 0:06:32Not here, come through.
0:06:38 > 0:06:41There's no point trying to protect them, Mrs Tembe.
0:06:41 > 0:06:42I'm just going to ask.
0:06:46 > 0:06:47It was Dr Clay.
0:06:47 > 0:06:49Why?
0:06:49 > 0:06:51He feels that there is emotional pressure.
0:06:51 > 0:06:54Because it was Mr Bellamy's idea.
0:06:54 > 0:06:57But I truly believe having Sister Hanif here
0:06:57 > 0:06:58would be good for the practice.
0:06:58 > 0:07:02I agree. And not just because it was Howard's idea.
0:07:02 > 0:07:04Perhaps you could have a word with Dr Clay?
0:07:04 > 0:07:07No, I... I don't think I'm the right person.
0:07:07 > 0:07:08Emma's right.
0:07:08 > 0:07:11If he felt he was being emotionally pressured...
0:07:11 > 0:07:14having Emma get involved would only make things worse.
0:07:15 > 0:07:21Mrs Tembe, I'm sorry to ask, but my next appointment's round the corner.
0:07:21 > 0:07:23While I'm here with time on my hands,
0:07:23 > 0:07:26is it possible to find a bit of room to do some work?
0:07:26 > 0:07:29Yes, yes, of course. Come with me. Thank you.
0:07:32 > 0:07:34BEEP
0:07:34 > 0:07:36What's that?
0:07:36 > 0:07:40It's this game I play. Brain...brain training.
0:07:40 > 0:07:42It helps, doesn't it?
0:07:42 > 0:07:44Well, it won't do any harm.
0:07:46 > 0:07:49You coping at home all right?
0:07:49 > 0:07:51Yeah!
0:07:51 > 0:07:56I mean, I'm on my own, mostly, and I had to give up my job.
0:07:56 > 0:07:59Not too lonely?
0:07:59 > 0:08:01Me? No.
0:08:01 > 0:08:04The one upside about dementia is that Gwen's round a lot more.
0:08:04 > 0:08:05Used to be once in a blue moon.
0:08:05 > 0:08:08Did you sort out that paperwork, like I asked?
0:08:08 > 0:08:10Yes...we did it yesterday, remember?
0:08:12 > 0:08:15Oh... Course.
0:08:15 > 0:08:16I'll get that for you.
0:08:24 > 0:08:27Social services will ask me for an assessment.
0:08:27 > 0:08:30Now, I'm not sure he's ready to go into care yet.
0:08:30 > 0:08:34We may be better with other options, like home support.
0:08:34 > 0:08:37I've seen a lot more of him than you have.
0:08:37 > 0:08:39That's as may be. But he seems in fine shape.
0:08:39 > 0:08:42Don't you believe me? Well, it's not a question of belief.
0:08:42 > 0:08:47But surely he's better off at home, with support, looking after himself.
0:08:47 > 0:08:48I'm running after him all the time.
0:08:48 > 0:08:50He doesn't always remember to eat.
0:08:50 > 0:08:54I know it's very difficult sometimes looking after the people we love.
0:08:54 > 0:08:58I...can't keep giving up the time. Even with home support.
0:08:58 > 0:08:59I'll look at the options.
0:09:05 > 0:09:09Oh, Jimmi, there you go. I'll get your printer cartridge replaced.
0:09:09 > 0:09:10Ah, great, thank you.
0:09:10 > 0:09:12So, weekend courses?
0:09:12 > 0:09:16Yeah, I'd been thinking about taking up something new for a while.
0:09:16 > 0:09:18Recent events...
0:09:18 > 0:09:20There's no point putting anything off.
0:09:20 > 0:09:21Never too old to start a new adventure.
0:09:21 > 0:09:23But I'm too young to hear that!
0:09:23 > 0:09:25No, but I know what you mean.
0:09:25 > 0:09:29I've got a brand-new kitchen and nobody to cook for but Rob.
0:09:29 > 0:09:31Maybe you should get some of your workmates over?
0:09:31 > 0:09:33Road-test that kitchen of yours.
0:09:33 > 0:09:34I was thinking I would do that.
0:09:36 > 0:09:39My Cooks Heaven party tomorrow night got cancelled.
0:09:39 > 0:09:42People will want to snap it up, but it's still available.
0:09:42 > 0:09:45You get a great discount on food and drink.
0:09:45 > 0:09:46And if you take it up short notice,
0:09:46 > 0:09:49we get loads of extra goodies for free.
0:09:49 > 0:09:50We?
0:09:50 > 0:09:54You get the freebies, and I get my commission. Oh!
0:09:55 > 0:09:57Emma?
0:10:00 > 0:10:01If you want to talk...
0:10:01 > 0:10:04No. No, I don't. And certainly not at work.
0:10:11 > 0:10:12Smile.
0:10:13 > 0:10:16What are you doing?
0:10:16 > 0:10:18Have you got nothing better to do than irritate
0:10:18 > 0:10:20one of your co-workers on their break?
0:10:20 > 0:10:22Stop papping me, please, James!
0:10:22 > 0:10:25Oh, come on, give me a break. Didn't you ever want to be a model?
0:10:25 > 0:10:28Just the swimsuit kind.
0:10:28 > 0:10:31I'm thinking of taking up a new hobby.
0:10:31 > 0:10:34Photography. It's either that or basket weaving, aromatherapy.
0:10:40 > 0:10:42Thanks, Karen.
0:10:42 > 0:10:45What is that woman doing here?
0:10:45 > 0:10:48Ruhma? Mrs Tembe said that she could use Zara's room.
0:10:53 > 0:10:57Oh...well?
0:10:57 > 0:10:59I like it.
0:11:00 > 0:11:03One could set one's watch by it.
0:11:03 > 0:11:04By what?
0:11:04 > 0:11:05That middle-aged thing.
0:11:05 > 0:11:08You know, you lose someone close to you, so you think,
0:11:08 > 0:11:10"I know! I must improve my life!"
0:11:10 > 0:11:12Just like New Year's resolutions.
0:11:12 > 0:11:14Then you'll feel even more miserable once you fail.
0:11:14 > 0:11:16Why are you my friend?
0:11:16 > 0:11:19It's my honesty. Can you go and be David Bailey elsewhere, please?
0:11:19 > 0:11:21I'm not middle-aged either!
0:11:21 > 0:11:22Took you long enough.
0:11:22 > 0:11:24Smile.
0:11:24 > 0:11:25Let me be cool. Go on.
0:11:25 > 0:11:27I can't do that.
0:11:27 > 0:11:28Let me be cool.
0:11:28 > 0:11:30I need a filter for that.
0:11:30 > 0:11:32Oh, I want it all - now!
0:11:32 > 0:11:34Have you got a stapler?
0:11:35 > 0:11:40So, Cooks Heaven party...your place, tomorrow night?
0:11:40 > 0:11:41What about Sergeant Hollins?
0:11:41 > 0:11:43He loves cooking and entertaining!
0:11:43 > 0:11:44Sounds fun.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47I have nothing else planned.
0:11:47 > 0:11:52Good, so you're coming. Must remember to invite Ayesha and Niamh.
0:11:52 > 0:11:53Coming to what?
0:11:57 > 0:11:59You don't all have to walk on eggshells around me.
0:11:59 > 0:12:02We're not, no, it's just that Karen's having some of the team
0:12:02 > 0:12:04over tomorrow for one of my Cooks Heaven events.
0:12:04 > 0:12:08And if you're feeling up to it, she'd love you to come, too,
0:12:08 > 0:12:12but completely understand if it's not right for you.
0:12:13 > 0:12:16I think I'll pass, if that's all right.
0:12:16 > 0:12:17Of course.
0:12:17 > 0:12:18I need some fresh air.
0:12:19 > 0:12:22You handled that really well.
0:12:22 > 0:12:24Oh, you must come too, right, Karen?
0:12:24 > 0:12:27Yeah. Brilliant!
0:12:37 > 0:12:40Mrs Tembe? I need a word now.
0:12:40 > 0:12:43Well, you'll just have to make the time.
0:12:43 > 0:12:45Yes, two minutes will be fine.
0:12:45 > 0:12:47KNOCK ON DOOR Yes?
0:12:47 > 0:12:48We need you in reception.
0:12:48 > 0:12:50HE SIGHS
0:12:52 > 0:12:55No, you definitely had a house call earlier.
0:12:55 > 0:12:56That's ridiculous!
0:12:56 > 0:12:58I'd remember if I had a house call earlier. Can I help?
0:12:58 > 0:13:00I have an appointment, Dr...
0:13:00 > 0:13:01Carter.
0:13:01 > 0:13:03We saw each other an hour ago.
0:13:03 > 0:13:07Yes...now you're here...I remember.
0:13:07 > 0:13:09I'm very sorry.
0:13:09 > 0:13:11Can I get you something?
0:13:11 > 0:13:13Some water.
0:13:13 > 0:13:17Why don't we sit down over here and have a chat?
0:13:17 > 0:13:19I must have forgotten.
0:13:19 > 0:13:21What is happening to me?!
0:13:21 > 0:13:26Well, with dementia, at this stage, you'll have good days and bad days.
0:13:26 > 0:13:28It's perfectly normal.
0:13:28 > 0:13:31I think we should call Gwen. She has power of attorney.
0:13:31 > 0:13:32She needs to know what happened.
0:13:32 > 0:13:35Is that what the paperwork was?
0:13:35 > 0:13:38I signed the house over to her.
0:13:38 > 0:13:40The house?
0:13:40 > 0:13:43To protect it if I have to go into care.
0:13:43 > 0:13:45For her.
0:13:45 > 0:13:47What's Gwen's situation?
0:13:47 > 0:13:50Good job, her own flat. She's doing very well.
0:13:50 > 0:13:54Actually, this has been mortifying. I'm sorry for wasting your time.
0:13:56 > 0:13:59Are you thinking what I'm thinking?
0:13:59 > 0:14:02His house in Westbourne Park is worth a lot of money.
0:14:02 > 0:14:05Get it signed over to her, and then stick him in a home?
0:14:05 > 0:14:07Oh, Mrs Tembe.
0:14:08 > 0:14:10HE SIGHS
0:14:16 > 0:14:17Hey.
0:14:17 > 0:14:19I said I didn't want to talk about it.
0:14:19 > 0:14:21You said not in there.
0:14:21 > 0:14:24All right, you win that one on a technicality.
0:14:24 > 0:14:28One question and then if you want me to leave, fine.
0:14:28 > 0:14:29One.
0:14:29 > 0:14:33Do you want me to treat you like a doctor or a patient?
0:14:33 > 0:14:36I just want people to stop treating me like I'm going to break.
0:14:36 > 0:14:37A patient, then.
0:14:37 > 0:14:39Whatever.
0:14:39 > 0:14:42Then, how have you been?
0:14:42 > 0:14:46Fine, mostly. A little bleeding.
0:14:46 > 0:14:49Do you want me to check...? No.
0:14:49 > 0:14:50A little bleeding's...
0:14:50 > 0:14:53Is normal after a miscarriage. Yes, I do know.
0:14:56 > 0:14:58How's it feel being back here?
0:14:58 > 0:15:00I thought it was one question. I lied.
0:15:03 > 0:15:06It's weird.
0:15:06 > 0:15:09Harder than I thought it would be. But I just have to focus,
0:15:09 > 0:15:13get to the end of the day and then it's done.
0:15:15 > 0:15:18Losing a baby is hard. Losing your partner is hard.
0:15:18 > 0:15:20Losing both...
0:15:20 > 0:15:23I don't know what you're going through.
0:15:23 > 0:15:26I can only try to help, so please let me.
0:15:30 > 0:15:32Does anyone in the Mill know what happened?
0:15:32 > 0:15:34Some.
0:15:34 > 0:15:37I think that's why Jimmi said no to the midwife proposal.
0:15:37 > 0:15:42He's worried that having you here will be a constant reminder to me.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44At least he hasn't got an irrational dislike to midwives.
0:15:44 > 0:15:46Unlike that cranky...
0:15:47 > 0:15:49Who?
0:15:49 > 0:15:51Bow ties.
0:15:51 > 0:15:53Oh. Heston?
0:15:53 > 0:15:57"Cantankerous, arrogant fool" trips off the tongue a bit easier.
0:15:57 > 0:15:59Perhaps we should put that on his door.
0:16:04 > 0:16:06This is about what works for you.
0:16:06 > 0:16:09Getting from one day to the next, that's fine.
0:16:09 > 0:16:11But you don't have to do it on your own.
0:16:16 > 0:16:19If you find any problems just give us a ring.
0:16:19 > 0:16:21Is Mrs Tembe free yet? She's got meetings...
0:16:21 > 0:16:24PHONE RINGS ..but she might get a few minutes in between.
0:16:24 > 0:16:26Hello, Mill Health Centre.
0:16:28 > 0:16:31DOOR CLOSES Oh, Mrs Tembe?
0:16:31 > 0:16:33Heston! It's Gwen Taylor.
0:16:33 > 0:16:36Her dad, he's not come home and he's not got his phone.
0:16:36 > 0:16:38Miss Taylor?
0:16:43 > 0:16:44George?
0:16:50 > 0:16:51George?
0:16:53 > 0:16:54Gwen's worried about you.
0:16:56 > 0:16:57Can I get in?
0:17:08 > 0:17:10What happened?
0:17:10 > 0:17:12I don't know how to get home.
0:17:12 > 0:17:15I got in, started the car and...
0:17:15 > 0:17:19and...knew I didn't know where to go.
0:17:19 > 0:17:21What is happening to me?
0:17:24 > 0:17:28This is as good as it gets...now?
0:17:28 > 0:17:32And... And it's going to get worse?
0:17:32 > 0:17:36It's...never going to get better.
0:17:38 > 0:17:42George...do you think you CAN look after yourself?
0:17:42 > 0:17:44I don't want a care home.
0:17:45 > 0:17:48But...but...
0:17:48 > 0:17:51I've been enough of a bother. I'll be fine.
0:17:51 > 0:17:53Please, just leave me. It'll come back to me.
0:17:53 > 0:17:55I WILL remember.
0:17:57 > 0:18:00You shouldn't be driving.
0:18:00 > 0:18:01HE SIGHS
0:18:05 > 0:18:08Karen, I'm taking Mr Taylor home.
0:18:08 > 0:18:10So you think maybe the daughter's right?
0:18:10 > 0:18:12I don't know. He's had one bad day.
0:18:12 > 0:18:15Maybe she just doesn't want anything bad to happen to him. Hmm.
0:18:15 > 0:18:20Dr Carter, my next meeting has been delayed. I have a few minutes.
0:18:20 > 0:18:23I'm helping a patient right now. Can we catch up later?
0:18:23 > 0:18:26I am very busy for the rest of the day.
0:18:26 > 0:18:28Right.
0:18:47 > 0:18:49I was thinking of taking up photography.
0:18:49 > 0:18:52Good for you. What's got you into that?
0:18:52 > 0:18:55Oh, you know, after what happened,
0:18:55 > 0:18:57just thought I'd turn over a new leaf.
0:18:58 > 0:19:02Right. So it could be anything?
0:19:02 > 0:19:06It's not actually that you like taking pictures?
0:19:06 > 0:19:08It's just I've got an uncle who's a bit of a camera bore...
0:19:08 > 0:19:10I mean, an amateur photographer.
0:19:10 > 0:19:12I wanted to get into it for a little while, but I guess
0:19:12 > 0:19:14he could tell I wasn't really that into it.
0:19:14 > 0:19:17He said, "Don't waste all your money on lenses and whatnot
0:19:17 > 0:19:19"until you know you've tried it and you like it."
0:19:19 > 0:19:22You know, I always thought the blokes with the big lenses were compensating
0:19:22 > 0:19:27for something. Like middle-aged men with sports cars and trophy wives.
0:19:27 > 0:19:29So if I need any advice, I know where to find you.
0:19:31 > 0:19:34He gave me one of his old camera bodies actually. I've still got it.
0:19:34 > 0:19:35Never used it.
0:19:35 > 0:19:37It's yours if you want to try it out.
0:19:37 > 0:19:39It's a bit like that one actually.
0:19:39 > 0:19:40Really?
0:19:41 > 0:19:45That one? Mm. That's the one I was looking at.
0:19:45 > 0:19:48Good choice. That's one of the ones my Uncle Merv recommended.
0:19:48 > 0:19:50If you like, I could show you
0:19:50 > 0:19:52a couple of good starter lenses he told me to get.
0:19:52 > 0:19:54Yeah, that'd be useful.
0:19:54 > 0:19:59Well, apparently, the best place to start is a good 50mm lens.
0:19:59 > 0:20:03This one. It's a good all-rounder, so he says.
0:20:05 > 0:20:10Long-term memory is OK and I can remember how to do things I used to.
0:20:10 > 0:20:13I don't have any problem with the actual driving.
0:20:13 > 0:20:15It's just where you're going?
0:20:15 > 0:20:20That's never happened before. I... I forget things, small things.
0:20:20 > 0:20:22Is it getting worse?
0:20:22 > 0:20:24I don't know.
0:20:24 > 0:20:25I don't remember.
0:20:27 > 0:20:29Your father's fine.
0:20:29 > 0:20:31I don't like the way you talk to me.
0:20:31 > 0:20:34Well, I'm concerned for his wellbeing.
0:20:34 > 0:20:36He needs a care home.
0:20:36 > 0:20:38Well, there are areas of concern, I agree, but...
0:20:38 > 0:20:41He couldn't remember his way home! He couldn't contact me!
0:20:41 > 0:20:44Which, for now, seems like an isolated incident.
0:20:44 > 0:20:47We need to keep an eye on him, see if there's further deterioration.
0:20:47 > 0:20:49What? When it happens again?
0:20:49 > 0:20:51Well, I'm not sure he should be driving, for a start.
0:20:51 > 0:20:54Which would make him even more dependent on me!
0:20:54 > 0:20:56This isn't your decision.
0:20:56 > 0:20:59We have to do what's in his best interests.
0:20:59 > 0:21:03Are you saying I wouldn't? Why else would I do it?
0:21:03 > 0:21:06Some people might be concerned about losing their inheritance.
0:21:06 > 0:21:07How dare you?
0:21:07 > 0:21:09And of course, for the next six years,
0:21:09 > 0:21:12the social services will treat this house as his asset.
0:21:12 > 0:21:15You need to back off. And I want a second opinion.
0:21:25 > 0:21:29Um, I've looked at Mr Taylor's notes and I've talked to him.
0:21:29 > 0:21:31I've not been able to do anything
0:21:31 > 0:21:34which leads me to a definitive conclusion.
0:21:34 > 0:21:36However, with everything I've seen,
0:21:36 > 0:21:38I would be inclined to agree with Heston.
0:21:38 > 0:21:40And that's not just doctors sticking together.
0:21:40 > 0:21:43His dementia is advancing. What if he forgets to take his meds?
0:21:43 > 0:21:45That could be dangerous, right?
0:21:45 > 0:21:47Yes.
0:21:47 > 0:21:49He lives alone. He isn't getting any stimulation.
0:21:49 > 0:21:53So the chances are, he's going to start dwelling in the past.
0:21:53 > 0:21:54His memory's going to get worse.
0:21:54 > 0:21:56Sometimes family has to step up
0:21:56 > 0:21:58and look after the welfare of their loved ones.
0:21:58 > 0:22:01There's only me and I can't give up my life.
0:22:01 > 0:22:03You have power of attorney? Yes. No.
0:22:03 > 0:22:06Your father told me you have.
0:22:06 > 0:22:08We talked about it once, but I don't want it.
0:22:08 > 0:22:10You have the house in your name.
0:22:10 > 0:22:12HE put it my name. I don't want it.
0:22:12 > 0:22:15It's nothing but bad memories before Mum walked out.
0:22:15 > 0:22:19She took me with her, but I barely knew him till a couple of years ago.
0:22:19 > 0:22:22He reached out, then this dementia happened.
0:22:22 > 0:22:26I know what happened between my parents wasn't all his fault.
0:22:26 > 0:22:28But there were times when... when I really needed him
0:22:28 > 0:22:31and he was never there.
0:22:31 > 0:22:34Just because we share some genes... I won't sacrifice my life.
0:22:34 > 0:22:38I never wanted the house, but he gave me no choice.
0:22:38 > 0:22:41So sell it, give it to the care home! I hate the place.
0:22:43 > 0:22:45Heston!
0:22:46 > 0:22:48George...you told me
0:22:48 > 0:22:51that you signed power of attorney over to your daughter.
0:22:51 > 0:22:53Is that true?
0:22:53 > 0:22:55Yes. I talked about it with her.
0:22:55 > 0:22:58Yes, but did you do it? Did you speak to a lawyer?
0:22:58 > 0:23:00We never got round to it. Course we did.
0:23:00 > 0:23:03No. You put the house in my name. That's it.
0:23:03 > 0:23:05I thought...
0:23:07 > 0:23:10But if you're sure... I guess I can't have.
0:23:12 > 0:23:13Heston.
0:23:16 > 0:23:18I think I've been unfair on her.
0:23:18 > 0:23:20You got off on the wrong foot? Like you did with the midwife?
0:23:20 > 0:23:23You're bringing Ruhma to the Mill.
0:23:23 > 0:23:25I told you. I've already dealt with it.
0:23:25 > 0:23:26I've got to get back.
0:23:29 > 0:23:30George...
0:23:33 > 0:23:35Gwen is worried...
0:23:35 > 0:23:39that you won't be able to look after yourself.
0:23:39 > 0:23:42And she can't commit the time to caring for you.
0:23:43 > 0:23:46So we need to investigate
0:23:46 > 0:23:51whether extra support or a home is the best option for you.
0:23:51 > 0:23:53I want to stay in my home.
0:23:53 > 0:23:59I understand that, but we need to know what we're going to do
0:23:59 > 0:24:01if things deteriorate.
0:24:07 > 0:24:10I told you it wasn't about the money.
0:24:10 > 0:24:13I know. I'm sorry.
0:24:20 > 0:24:23Jimmi, I've been looking for you.
0:24:23 > 0:24:29Um, I understand that Mrs Tembe put Howard's midwife proposal to you.
0:24:29 > 0:24:30Yes.
0:24:30 > 0:24:34And you vetoed it? Why? It's a good idea.
0:24:34 > 0:24:35It wasn't right for us.
0:24:38 > 0:24:41I understand that you're being sensitive to me
0:24:41 > 0:24:44and how I might feel, seeing Ruhma in the building all the time.
0:24:44 > 0:24:48That was something I had to take into consideration.
0:24:48 > 0:24:51I know more than anyone right now how important it is to have
0:24:51 > 0:24:54a good midwife around when things go wrong.
0:24:54 > 0:24:57And I think our patients deserve that.
0:24:57 > 0:24:58Yeah, but we can't go back over decisions
0:24:58 > 0:25:00just because the staff don't like it.
0:25:00 > 0:25:05Yeah, but right here, right now, I'm not just staff, am I?
0:25:05 > 0:25:09Emma, this is the kind of emotional manipulation that really worries me.
0:25:09 > 0:25:12You don't have to worry about me being reminded.
0:25:12 > 0:25:14It's not like I'm going to forget.
0:25:14 > 0:25:16You will get past this.
0:25:16 > 0:25:18I don't want to get past it, Jimmi.
0:25:19 > 0:25:22And, well, you know, you don't get past this stuff, do you?
0:25:22 > 0:25:25You just carry it with you.
0:25:25 > 0:25:27I dread the day that I wake up
0:25:27 > 0:25:29and Howard isn't the first thing that I think of.
0:25:29 > 0:25:32And as awful as this is, that will be worse.
0:25:34 > 0:25:36Thank you for letting me use the room, Mrs Tembe.
0:25:36 > 0:25:39I really wish I could have done more.
0:25:39 > 0:25:42I feel like I promised you so much and delivered nothing.
0:25:42 > 0:25:43It's not your fault.
0:25:44 > 0:25:46Oh. Speak of the devil.
0:25:46 > 0:25:48Leaving so soon?
0:25:48 > 0:25:51It was good to see you again.
0:25:51 > 0:25:54"Life is but a walking shadow, a poor player
0:25:54 > 0:25:59"that struts his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more."
0:25:59 > 0:26:01"It is a tale...
0:26:01 > 0:26:06"told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing."
0:26:06 > 0:26:09Macbeth Act 5, Scene 5.
0:26:09 > 0:26:12Yes, she is still here...
0:26:14 > 0:26:18So, Dr Clay and I went through Howard's proposal again.
0:26:18 > 0:26:20And we've decided to take it to the trust.
0:26:22 > 0:26:26Why the change of mind? Does it matter?
0:26:26 > 0:26:28Are you happy?
0:26:30 > 0:26:33OK, just one elephant in the room to sort out, then.
0:26:33 > 0:26:35Heston. Hm. I could have a word.
0:26:35 > 0:26:38No. Where's the fun in that?
0:26:45 > 0:26:47I thought tonight was about supporting Valerie
0:26:47 > 0:26:50and taking everyone's mind off Howard.
0:26:50 > 0:26:51Not showcasing our new kitchen.
0:26:51 > 0:26:53Spread your wings, ladies.
0:26:53 > 0:26:57They want to buy, you want to make that happen.
0:26:57 > 0:26:59Welcome to your Cooks Heaven.
0:26:59 > 0:27:02You will find something here that's perfect for any kitchen.
0:27:02 > 0:27:04Spoon!
0:27:04 > 0:27:06Everybody just stop!