0:00:28 > 0:00:30SHE SIGHS
0:00:32 > 0:00:34You OK?
0:00:34 > 0:00:36Trying to pretend it's just another day.
0:00:36 > 0:00:40Emma, we've been through this. It's not your fault.
0:00:40 > 0:00:43If I had only done things differently.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45You didn't know. Nobody does.
0:00:45 > 0:00:47I did the same thing with Sierra,
0:00:47 > 0:00:49allowing her to live with our mum for so long.
0:00:49 > 0:00:51And how is Sierra now?
0:00:51 > 0:00:52That's not the point.
0:00:52 > 0:00:55You gave Rhiannon the benefit of the doubt.
0:00:55 > 0:00:57Lots of people would have done the same thing.
0:00:57 > 0:00:58Would you?
0:01:00 > 0:01:02Hey. Emma's cooking.
0:01:02 > 0:01:03Do you want some?
0:01:04 > 0:01:08Uh, no. I'll just... I'm not really hungry, actually.
0:01:08 > 0:01:10So why did you come into the kitchen?
0:01:10 > 0:01:14Um... I just... Actually, I need to, er...
0:01:14 > 0:01:16You know what? I'm not hungry either.
0:01:22 > 0:01:24Wasn't easy to arrange, you know.
0:01:24 > 0:01:27A friend of a friend who knows somebody who's being fostered...
0:01:27 > 0:01:31I mean, Jenny, she's gone to a lot of trouble to organise this.
0:01:31 > 0:01:32I don't even know her that well.
0:01:32 > 0:01:34So why has she then?
0:01:34 > 0:01:35Cos she's a nice person.
0:01:35 > 0:01:37She wants this to work out for us.
0:01:37 > 0:01:38Oh, right.
0:01:38 > 0:01:40Why don't you go and have a shower?
0:01:40 > 0:01:42Yeah. Is it not too late to cancel?
0:01:42 > 0:01:43Rob!
0:01:43 > 0:01:44I've had a rough day.
0:01:44 > 0:01:46YOU have?
0:01:46 > 0:01:48Have you got any idea what the atmosphere is like at
0:01:48 > 0:01:50our place after this whole Emma thing? Yeah, but...
0:01:50 > 0:01:52You've seen the state that Valerie's in!
0:01:52 > 0:01:54You're right. I'll get a shower.
0:01:56 > 0:01:58You do want to do this, don't you?
0:01:58 > 0:02:00I'll see you in a bit.
0:02:00 > 0:02:01There it is.
0:02:01 > 0:02:03The corner piece. Yes, you do it. Hi.
0:02:05 > 0:02:08Hello, sweetheart... He's concentrating.
0:02:10 > 0:02:13Daniel... Oh, he was wonderful at jigsaws.
0:02:13 > 0:02:15Well, we've all got to be good at something ...
0:02:15 > 0:02:18He doesn't seem to have grasped the concept.
0:02:18 > 0:02:19Well, how many pieces are there?
0:02:19 > 0:02:20PHONE RINGS
0:02:20 > 0:02:22Oh. I'd better get this.
0:02:25 > 0:02:27I wouldn't worry about finding this difficult, Joe,
0:02:27 > 0:02:29I've never seen so many pieces... Hello?
0:02:29 > 0:02:3112 and up?!
0:02:31 > 0:02:33No, I couldn't have come at a better time.
0:02:33 > 0:02:35They need all the help they can get.
0:02:37 > 0:02:39Oh, what choice did I have?
0:02:39 > 0:02:40I had to leave.
0:02:40 > 0:02:44Of course I didn't want to, I don't want to be a burden on Daniel,
0:02:44 > 0:02:46but, oh, what else could I do?
0:02:46 > 0:02:49Oh, and these wretched pills I have to take,
0:02:49 > 0:02:51they're just making me feel worse.
0:02:53 > 0:02:54Why are you giving Emma such a hard time?
0:02:54 > 0:02:56I'm not!
0:02:56 > 0:02:57Not hungry? You?
0:02:57 > 0:02:59I don't feel like eating.
0:02:59 > 0:03:00Or talking? No.
0:03:00 > 0:03:02It's... I just don't know what to say to her.
0:03:02 > 0:03:05Just say you understand. And if you can't say that,
0:03:05 > 0:03:06then just be there for her.
0:03:06 > 0:03:09I'm not sure that I can. I just don't know what to say to her, OK?
0:03:10 > 0:03:12Ugh!
0:03:16 > 0:03:18How are you getting on?
0:03:21 > 0:03:25I was wondering if you would like to put Joe to bed tonight?
0:03:27 > 0:03:28Before Daniel gets back?
0:03:28 > 0:03:30He's got a late appointment at the clinic.
0:03:30 > 0:03:32That way I can get supper ready for when he gets home.
0:03:32 > 0:03:36Oh. Leave that for now. Time for bed.
0:03:36 > 0:03:38Oh!
0:03:42 > 0:03:44Night-night, darling.
0:03:44 > 0:03:46Mwah!
0:03:49 > 0:03:52Hello! Hi. Come in. Thank you.
0:03:52 > 0:03:55Thank you so much for doing this... Kim? Yes.
0:03:55 > 0:03:58I'm Karen. Hi.
0:03:58 > 0:04:01And this is my husband Rob. Hi. Hi.
0:04:02 > 0:04:04Can I take your coat? Oh, yeah.
0:04:04 > 0:04:07Do you want to do that, and I'll...? Yeah, yeah. Yes.
0:04:07 > 0:04:09Come on through.
0:04:14 > 0:04:15Oh, what a lovely room!
0:04:15 > 0:04:17Oh, thank you!
0:04:17 > 0:04:20So, you know Jenny from school?
0:04:20 > 0:04:23Yeah, yeah, she's our most experienced teaching assistant.
0:04:23 > 0:04:25And you're the deputy head? Yeah.
0:04:25 > 0:04:27You must be ever so busy, I can't thank you enough for coming.
0:04:27 > 0:04:30Well, it's really important to let people know what
0:04:30 > 0:04:32the fostering experience is really like.
0:04:32 > 0:04:35Yeah, that's what we were thinking. And also, well, we...
0:04:35 > 0:04:38We were wondering if you thought if we were up to it.
0:04:38 > 0:04:41Oh, well, it's my pleasure, honestly.
0:04:41 > 0:04:44Good. Cos I know that people always talk about how hard it is
0:04:44 > 0:04:47to be a foster parent. But we were thinking...
0:04:47 > 0:04:48What it's like to be the child.
0:04:53 > 0:04:55Why don't you come down?
0:04:55 > 0:04:58Because Sid can't bear to be in the same room as me.
0:04:58 > 0:05:01Well, that's his problem. Anyway, he's in his bedroom.
0:05:02 > 0:05:06You know, any one of us could have made the same mistake.
0:05:06 > 0:05:08Really?
0:05:08 > 0:05:10Because when I asked you whether you would have done the same thing
0:05:10 > 0:05:12or not, you didn't answer.
0:05:12 > 0:05:14Because I didn't want to make you feel bad.
0:05:14 > 0:05:15Yes, well, maybe I want to feel bad.
0:05:16 > 0:05:18So.
0:05:18 > 0:05:21Would you have done the same thing?
0:05:21 > 0:05:23No. But like I say, that's because of Sierra.
0:05:23 > 0:05:27All anybody wants is for families to be kept together.
0:05:27 > 0:05:30My mum wasn't fit to be a parent and she was given chance after chance
0:05:30 > 0:05:32after chance when she shouldn't have been.
0:05:32 > 0:05:35And neither should Rhiannon. No, she shouldn't.
0:05:35 > 0:05:36Finally.
0:05:36 > 0:05:38Does this mean you can finally come downstairs?
0:05:38 > 0:05:42No. It means that we're going to go out and get drunk.
0:05:42 > 0:05:44Is that a good idea?
0:05:44 > 0:05:45What would you do?
0:05:48 > 0:05:49Fair enough.
0:05:50 > 0:05:52I never knew my dad.
0:05:52 > 0:05:55And I think it was just a bit too much for my mum,
0:05:55 > 0:05:58bringing up my brother and me.
0:05:58 > 0:06:00She tried. For years.
0:06:00 > 0:06:04But...then we started growing up, and the real problems started.
0:06:04 > 0:06:07What kind of problems?
0:06:07 > 0:06:09Financial, mainly.
0:06:09 > 0:06:10School uniforms, lunches.
0:06:13 > 0:06:16But also, I think she just could see her life slipping away.
0:06:17 > 0:06:20She would have been about my age, early thirties,
0:06:20 > 0:06:22but already so tied down, she...
0:06:22 > 0:06:25She didn't have a life of her own.
0:06:25 > 0:06:26Do you see her now?
0:06:26 > 0:06:27No.
0:06:28 > 0:06:31She worked hard. She was always out late.
0:06:31 > 0:06:34And then when I got old enough to look after Kel,
0:06:34 > 0:06:36she worked even harder, stayed out later.
0:06:36 > 0:06:37How old were you?
0:06:37 > 0:06:39Nine.
0:06:39 > 0:06:40My brother was six.
0:06:42 > 0:06:44Mum had always gone out a fair bit,
0:06:44 > 0:06:47but it started to get more regular.
0:06:47 > 0:06:48She'd come home drunk, or worse.
0:06:50 > 0:06:51And then, um...
0:06:53 > 0:06:55Then she started smoking dope in the house.
0:06:55 > 0:06:56And when I asked her not to...
0:07:00 > 0:07:01Well...
0:07:04 > 0:07:07I had a favourite teacher, and, um...
0:07:09 > 0:07:11Well, she saw the burn marks on my arms.
0:07:20 > 0:07:21HE KNOCKS ON DOOR
0:07:24 > 0:07:26Hello, you.
0:07:28 > 0:07:28Where's Mum?
0:07:28 > 0:07:30Oh, she's upstairs, putting Joe down.
0:07:30 > 0:07:32Oh, OK.
0:07:32 > 0:07:34You're wearing that dress she bought you?
0:07:34 > 0:07:36I am.
0:07:36 > 0:07:38You've changed your tune.
0:07:38 > 0:07:40I must have, mustn't I? Yeah.
0:07:41 > 0:07:43And an apron?
0:07:43 > 0:07:45Well, I wouldn't want to ruin it.
0:07:47 > 0:07:50I just think we should do everything we can
0:07:50 > 0:07:53to make Marion's time with us as happy as it can possibly be.
0:07:53 > 0:07:56OK. OK.
0:07:56 > 0:07:58That dress looks great on you.
0:07:58 > 0:07:59I knew you'd come round.
0:07:59 > 0:08:00Now, what's for supper?
0:08:02 > 0:08:03Moussaka.
0:08:03 > 0:08:05Oh, great!
0:08:05 > 0:08:06Sorry.
0:08:06 > 0:08:07No, don't say that.
0:08:09 > 0:08:11My mum had always said to say it was a skin problem.
0:08:13 > 0:08:16That if I said what it really was, that they'd take me and Kel away.
0:08:17 > 0:08:19What did you do?
0:08:20 > 0:08:21I said what it really was.
0:08:23 > 0:08:25I wanted to be taken away, I wanted a proper family.
0:08:25 > 0:08:28And did you find one, with foster carers?
0:08:28 > 0:08:30Not at first, but
0:08:30 > 0:08:33then we were eventually put in with a family that we stayed with
0:08:33 > 0:08:34and they were brilliant.
0:08:36 > 0:08:39They told us that it was their job to get our life back on track.
0:08:39 > 0:08:41Were you and your brother kept together?
0:08:41 > 0:08:42Yes.
0:08:44 > 0:08:48I haven't offered you a cup of tea. I am so sorry!
0:08:48 > 0:08:51I... Oh, would you like one?
0:08:51 > 0:08:52Yes, please.
0:08:52 > 0:08:56We just kind of got into it, really quickly, didn't we?
0:08:56 > 0:08:58I'm going to put the kettle on.
0:09:04 > 0:09:05So.
0:09:06 > 0:09:09Would you recommend it to us, then? Fostering?
0:09:09 > 0:09:11Totally.
0:09:11 > 0:09:14I... I think it's so important that children are put in
0:09:14 > 0:09:16with the right families.
0:09:16 > 0:09:17Especially now.
0:09:17 > 0:09:19Why especially now?
0:09:19 > 0:09:22Well, with this recent case in all the papers. Baby Nicholas.
0:09:22 > 0:09:26I mean, you can get all the help you want from the system,
0:09:26 > 0:09:28but if you're not with the right family,
0:09:28 > 0:09:30then no-one really cares if you live or die.
0:09:30 > 0:09:33First I didn't ask you if you wanted any tea,
0:09:33 > 0:09:35and now I haven't asked if you want any milk or sugar.
0:09:37 > 0:09:39The tea? Milk or sugar?
0:09:39 > 0:09:41Oh... Milk, no sugar please.
0:09:43 > 0:09:44Everything all right?
0:09:44 > 0:09:47Yes, everything's fine.
0:09:47 > 0:09:48You were saying?
0:09:48 > 0:09:51Well, like this doctor, the one they're calling "The Black Widow"...
0:09:51 > 0:09:53She's probably just getting on with her life.
0:09:53 > 0:09:54Doing what she has to do.
0:09:54 > 0:09:58I mean, that's what you have to do when you're a professional, but...
0:09:58 > 0:10:00But she messed up. You know,
0:10:00 > 0:10:04the system couldn't protect Baby Nicholas and now he's dead.
0:10:04 > 0:10:06Why wasn't he taken into care?
0:10:06 > 0:10:08It was complicated, you can't just take a child away.
0:10:08 > 0:10:10You can if it's harmed.
0:10:10 > 0:10:11What about before it's harmed?
0:10:11 > 0:10:14Well, better than being too late.
0:10:14 > 0:10:16And how are you supposed to tell?
0:10:16 > 0:10:17I could with my mum.
0:10:17 > 0:10:18You knew she was going to do it?
0:10:20 > 0:10:21I knew what she was capable of.
0:10:21 > 0:10:23Rob, come and get your tea...
0:10:31 > 0:10:33And you say that the system doesn't work.
0:10:35 > 0:10:38But it sounds to me like it saved you and your brother.
0:10:39 > 0:10:41Yeah, in the end.
0:10:41 > 0:10:43I'm not interested in the end.
0:10:43 > 0:10:45I want to know about the other families.
0:10:45 > 0:10:46Before the good ones.
0:10:46 > 0:10:49If we're going to do this, we need to do it properly.
0:10:49 > 0:10:51Let's hear the whole story.
0:10:52 > 0:10:54You've told us about the good families.
0:10:55 > 0:10:57So now tell us about the bad ones.
0:11:00 > 0:11:03That was wonderful, thank you.
0:11:03 > 0:11:04Don't you agree?
0:11:04 > 0:11:06Absolutely. I could be back in Crete.
0:11:07 > 0:11:10Oh, the baby aubergines!
0:11:10 > 0:11:12Did you relax yours?
0:11:12 > 0:11:16Absolutely. I gave each one of them a little back rub.
0:11:16 > 0:11:20With salt. It gets rid of the bitterness.
0:11:20 > 0:11:24Oh. I should have bought back some kefalotyri.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27What's that? Hard sheep's cheese.
0:11:27 > 0:11:31Well, it's just our hard sheep's cheese that you didn't.
0:11:31 > 0:11:33And of course there it would be veal.
0:11:33 > 0:11:34What did you use?
0:11:34 > 0:11:36Lamb.
0:11:36 > 0:11:38Well, I thought it was absolutely delicious.
0:11:38 > 0:11:41And I think the dress looks gorgeous on you. Mum?
0:11:42 > 0:11:46On second thoughts, maybe I should have stuck to plain.
0:11:46 > 0:11:50I'm not sure those colours actually do anything for you.
0:11:50 > 0:11:52TRADITIONAL GREEK MUSIC PLAYS
0:11:52 > 0:11:54OK. Let's...
0:12:01 > 0:12:04What's going on out there? It's like The Stepford Wives.
0:12:04 > 0:12:06I don't know what you mean.
0:12:06 > 0:12:07No-one talks to you like that.
0:12:07 > 0:12:09Dan, she's your mother.
0:12:09 > 0:12:10Especially my mum!
0:12:10 > 0:12:12I just think that we should make an effort.
0:12:12 > 0:12:15Now if you'll excuse me, I need to check on the baklava.
0:12:18 > 0:12:22The presentation is not until first thing tomorrow, yeah?
0:12:22 > 0:12:23So what's changed?
0:12:23 > 0:12:25Hold on.
0:12:27 > 0:12:28Hello, you.
0:12:28 > 0:12:31I feel like one of those footballers that drinks when
0:12:31 > 0:12:34they've just lost five-nil because they need to lose themselves.
0:12:34 > 0:12:36Emma, it's called drowning your sorrows.
0:12:40 > 0:12:43You've seen the adverts, right?
0:12:43 > 0:12:45About how much money you can make from fostering?
0:12:45 > 0:12:4850 grand, isn't it? Well, that's what they say.
0:12:48 > 0:12:50And the companies that run these things...
0:12:50 > 0:12:52We're actually going through the council.
0:12:52 > 0:12:55Yeah. I'm just saying it's a business.
0:12:55 > 0:12:56And there's a lot of money in it.
0:12:56 > 0:12:59You do know that that's not why we're doing this?
0:12:59 > 0:13:01No, I get that.
0:13:01 > 0:13:03But that's why a lot of people do.
0:13:04 > 0:13:07I mean, one family I was with, they always packed in as many kids
0:13:07 > 0:13:08as they could.
0:13:08 > 0:13:10Took the maximum. Always had three.
0:13:10 > 0:13:12But they didn't want a brother and sister.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15They didn't want your brother?
0:13:16 > 0:13:18No. He went somewhere else.
0:13:18 > 0:13:21So I asked if I could go.
0:13:21 > 0:13:23Then I moved, got bullied. Had to leave.
0:13:25 > 0:13:28Then there was the well-off family.
0:13:28 > 0:13:30That was without Kel, too.
0:13:30 > 0:13:31They seemed nice.
0:13:33 > 0:13:35Until one day, the wife said I had to go.
0:13:38 > 0:13:40Apparently, I'd been flirting with her husband.
0:13:42 > 0:13:45It was the other way round, but what can you do?
0:13:47 > 0:13:50I had a reputation as a liar with social services by that point,
0:13:50 > 0:13:51anyway, so...
0:13:51 > 0:13:53Why?
0:13:53 > 0:13:54Excuse me?
0:13:54 > 0:13:57Why did you have a reputation as a liar?
0:13:57 > 0:14:00Well, they probably couldn't work out why you had to keep moving.
0:14:02 > 0:14:04Why did you have a reputation as a liar, Kim?
0:14:04 > 0:14:07Rob, what you doing? Leave her alone.
0:14:07 > 0:14:08Did you lie about what happened?
0:14:08 > 0:14:09Stop it?
0:14:09 > 0:14:11No, it's...
0:14:11 > 0:14:12It's OK.
0:14:14 > 0:14:15He's right.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19You lied about your mum burning you with cigarettes?
0:14:19 > 0:14:22No. No.
0:14:24 > 0:14:25My brother.
0:14:27 > 0:14:29I said she'd hurt him as well.
0:14:29 > 0:14:30And she hadn't?
0:14:32 > 0:14:35No. But I couldn't leave him there, could I?
0:14:35 > 0:14:37Well, surely after what she'd done to you,
0:14:37 > 0:14:39they would have taken him anyway, wouldn't they?
0:14:39 > 0:14:40I couldn't risk that.
0:14:42 > 0:14:44Told him to lie.
0:14:46 > 0:14:49Told him to say that she'd hurt him too, but...
0:14:49 > 0:14:50he told the truth.
0:14:53 > 0:14:56She wouldn't have wanted him back, even if he'd wanted to go
0:14:56 > 0:14:57by that point anyway.
0:14:57 > 0:14:59And did he?
0:15:00 > 0:15:02Well,
0:15:02 > 0:15:03he didn't want to be with me.
0:15:06 > 0:15:09Not until he realised he wasn't going to see Mum again.
0:15:11 > 0:15:13That was all my fault.
0:15:13 > 0:15:17Oh, no. You were nine years old!
0:15:17 > 0:15:19I shouldn't have.
0:15:19 > 0:15:21How else would they have known what was going on?
0:15:21 > 0:15:23That's right, isn't it?
0:15:24 > 0:15:26PHONE RINGS
0:15:26 > 0:15:29Oh. Sorry.
0:15:29 > 0:15:31It's my dad. My foster dad.
0:15:31 > 0:15:32Is it OK if I take this?
0:15:32 > 0:15:34Course it is.
0:15:39 > 0:15:41Are you trying to ruin this?!
0:15:41 > 0:15:43No.
0:15:43 > 0:15:47No, but what is the point in us just hearing how great it's going to be,
0:15:47 > 0:15:49when that's not the way it works?
0:15:49 > 0:15:51You take a child away from its mother,
0:15:51 > 0:15:53there are always consequences.
0:15:53 > 0:15:55Where's this coming from?
0:15:55 > 0:15:56Rob?
0:15:56 > 0:15:58Baby Nicholas.
0:15:58 > 0:15:59What?
0:16:01 > 0:16:03I was first on the scene, and I found him dead.
0:16:05 > 0:16:06You worked that case?!
0:16:06 > 0:16:07Yes.
0:16:07 > 0:16:09Why didn't you tell me?
0:16:09 > 0:16:11I don't know. I don't know.
0:16:11 > 0:16:14You and Emma at the Mill.
0:16:14 > 0:16:16That's all the more reason to say something.
0:16:16 > 0:16:19It wasn't very nice, I didn't want to talk about it.
0:16:19 > 0:16:22Well, you're going to have to talk to me if we do this thing.
0:16:22 > 0:16:24Are we... Are we going to do it?
0:16:29 > 0:16:32Dexter Olussi. People call me Dex.
0:16:32 > 0:16:34Do they?
0:16:34 > 0:16:35Are you a journalist?
0:16:35 > 0:16:36No. Why?
0:16:37 > 0:16:39Are you a story?
0:16:39 > 0:16:41You're going to have to do better than that.
0:16:41 > 0:16:43I could always leave.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45Can't sit here with my hand out all evening.
0:16:45 > 0:16:47What is it that you want?
0:16:47 > 0:16:48To say hello.
0:16:50 > 0:16:51Hello.
0:16:51 > 0:16:52Hello to you.
0:16:52 > 0:16:53PHONE RINGS
0:16:53 > 0:16:55Busy man, hmm?
0:16:55 > 0:16:56Wish I wasn't.
0:16:56 > 0:16:58Sometimes I just want to lose myself, too.
0:16:58 > 0:17:00I heard you down the bar.
0:17:01 > 0:17:02Her name is Ayesha.
0:17:04 > 0:17:06Is she going to be all right on her own?
0:17:08 > 0:17:10Ayesha, this is Dexter.
0:17:10 > 0:17:11Please, Dex.
0:17:11 > 0:17:13Dexter, this is Ayesha.
0:17:13 > 0:17:15Nice to meet you.
0:17:15 > 0:17:16Likewise.
0:17:17 > 0:17:19I'll be at the bar. Right.
0:17:22 > 0:17:24We've only been here half an hour.
0:17:24 > 0:17:25You're unbelievable.
0:17:25 > 0:17:27Look and learn.
0:17:28 > 0:17:31OK, bye, Dad. Yeah, love you too.
0:17:33 > 0:17:34Sorry.
0:17:37 > 0:17:40He was the one that said it was his job to get my life back on track.
0:17:42 > 0:17:44Him and his wife, my mum... my foster mum.
0:17:47 > 0:17:48They trusted me.
0:17:51 > 0:17:53But, after everything that had happened, I just...
0:17:55 > 0:17:56I just found it hard to take.
0:17:58 > 0:17:59Didn't think I deserved it.
0:18:00 > 0:18:02So, I, um...
0:18:03 > 0:18:04I tried it on with him.
0:18:07 > 0:18:10He was, what... in his thirties?
0:18:10 > 0:18:12I could see that he liked me.
0:18:13 > 0:18:14But he wouldn't.
0:18:16 > 0:18:17Not like the other one.
0:18:19 > 0:18:20Said he didn't see me that way.
0:18:20 > 0:18:22That he saw me as a daughter.
0:18:25 > 0:18:26And what happened then?
0:18:26 > 0:18:27They forgave me.
0:18:29 > 0:18:31I could have ruined their relationship and they forgave me.
0:18:33 > 0:18:34It can't have been easy.
0:18:34 > 0:18:35No.
0:18:38 > 0:18:39I'm sure it wasn't.
0:18:41 > 0:18:44That's what you're letting yourself in for.
0:18:44 > 0:18:47That's how strong your relationship needs to be.
0:18:48 > 0:18:51So, um...
0:18:51 > 0:18:53Did you ever get back in touch with your birth mum?
0:18:55 > 0:18:56When Kel was 18.
0:18:56 > 0:19:00She said she'd see him but not me, So he wouldn't go without me.
0:19:01 > 0:19:03I wish he had.
0:19:04 > 0:19:07I think maybe then she'd forgive me.
0:19:08 > 0:19:09But she can't.
0:19:11 > 0:19:13She's not strong enough.
0:19:16 > 0:19:19Are you sure? It is a school night.
0:19:19 > 0:19:21I'll be fine on my own.
0:19:21 > 0:19:24Seriously, Emma, you've not even said two words to him.
0:19:24 > 0:19:27But they were the right words, though, weren't they?
0:19:27 > 0:19:29Right words, wrong reasons?
0:19:29 > 0:19:31Yes, probably.
0:19:31 > 0:19:32Call me, yeah?
0:19:32 > 0:19:34For goodness' sake, I'm a big girl.
0:19:34 > 0:19:35Emma!
0:19:38 > 0:19:41So, what does a girl have to do to get a drink around here?
0:19:43 > 0:19:45Go somewhere where they bring the drinks to us.
0:19:51 > 0:19:54Mmm, delicious.
0:19:54 > 0:19:55Isn't it?
0:19:56 > 0:19:57Mum?
0:19:57 > 0:19:59What kind of nuts are these?
0:19:59 > 0:20:01Pistachios.
0:20:01 > 0:20:03Naturally, but which variety?
0:20:03 > 0:20:04What?
0:20:04 > 0:20:06Don't show your ignorance, Daniel.
0:20:06 > 0:20:09There are as many different varieties of pistachio
0:20:09 > 0:20:11as there are walnuts.
0:20:11 > 0:20:16Vis-a-vis baklava, in central Greece, they use almonds,
0:20:16 > 0:20:17in Pelion, walnuts,
0:20:17 > 0:20:21and in northern Greece, they use pistachios.
0:20:21 > 0:20:22And what about in Crete?
0:20:22 > 0:20:25In Crete, we have the best of everything.
0:20:25 > 0:20:27Well, this can't be far off that.
0:20:27 > 0:20:30If you wanted to know how it was supposed to be done,
0:20:30 > 0:20:31you should have asked me.
0:20:31 > 0:20:33But you're our guest.
0:20:33 > 0:20:39The secret is galaktos butter made from a mix of sheep and goat's milk.
0:20:39 > 0:20:41I will get onto the internet tomorrow.
0:20:41 > 0:20:43Oh, there's really no need.
0:20:43 > 0:20:45Why you should think I want Greek food
0:20:45 > 0:20:47when I've just come back from there...
0:20:48 > 0:20:50We're just trying to make you feel at home.
0:20:51 > 0:20:54Hm. Then top me up.
0:20:54 > 0:20:56Good thing I brought the retsina.
0:21:01 > 0:21:04Thank you so much for...
0:21:04 > 0:21:08Well, for being so honest, so open.
0:21:08 > 0:21:12Well, I'm so sorry. It's not usually like that.
0:21:12 > 0:21:15Well, we're all a bit emotional. Yeah.
0:21:15 > 0:21:17Well, I hope I haven't put you off.
0:21:17 > 0:21:18No.
0:21:19 > 0:21:23No, I think we always knew that it wasn't going to be easy.
0:21:23 > 0:21:25Nice to meet you, Kim.
0:21:25 > 0:21:26And you.
0:21:28 > 0:21:31And, for what it's worth...
0:21:31 > 0:21:34Yeah, I do think you can do it.
0:21:38 > 0:21:40OK. OK.
0:21:40 > 0:21:42Well, bye-bye.
0:21:42 > 0:21:43Thank you, bye. Bye.
0:21:49 > 0:21:52If we still want to.
0:21:52 > 0:21:53Do we still want to?
0:21:55 > 0:21:57I didn't when we got home tonight.
0:21:58 > 0:21:59And now?
0:22:02 > 0:22:03Come here.
0:22:13 > 0:22:16There's something I'd like to talk to you about.
0:22:16 > 0:22:19You know I don't get over here as often as I'd like,
0:22:19 > 0:22:22and who knows how often I'll be able to in the future?
0:22:23 > 0:22:27It's just nice to be able to spend some quality time with all of you.
0:22:29 > 0:22:31And we're happy to have you here.
0:22:32 > 0:22:34Now, I know you've already said no.
0:22:34 > 0:22:38Grandma day. Just me and Joe.
0:22:38 > 0:22:41It really would mean the world to me.
0:22:41 > 0:22:42We've spoken about this, Mum.
0:22:42 > 0:22:44The fresh air would do him good.
0:22:44 > 0:22:46He gets fresh air at playgroup.
0:22:46 > 0:22:49It'd be a chance for the two of us to do something together,
0:22:49 > 0:22:50not jigsaws.
0:22:52 > 0:22:55Look, there is a reason... Definitely something more outdoorsy.
0:22:55 > 0:23:00Look, the thing is with Joe, is he's had some development issues,
0:23:00 > 0:23:01nothing to worry about...
0:23:01 > 0:23:02Nonsense.
0:23:02 > 0:23:04All we need is to find something he enjoys.
0:23:04 > 0:23:06So, if he and I...
0:23:06 > 0:23:08I'm afraid the answer is no.
0:23:08 > 0:23:12It's just not worth breaking his routine.
0:23:12 > 0:23:15Now, we've spoken about this and that's just the way we feel.
0:23:18 > 0:23:20Although, having said that...
0:23:21 > 0:23:23..it is just one day.
0:23:23 > 0:23:25And what's one day in a lifetime?
0:23:26 > 0:23:29I'll leave you to talk about it.
0:23:33 > 0:23:37Earlier, while you were at work...
0:23:37 > 0:23:39I overheard her on the phone.
0:23:41 > 0:23:42Overheard what?
0:23:45 > 0:23:47Final bets? And no more bets.
0:23:50 > 0:23:5222, black.
0:23:55 > 0:23:5635 pieces.
0:23:56 > 0:23:59I've won! Finally.
0:23:59 > 0:24:01Right, well, how much is that?
0:24:01 > 0:24:0335.
0:24:03 > 0:24:04Well, that's more than I've spent.
0:24:04 > 0:24:06So you're up.
0:24:06 > 0:24:07Fantastic!
0:24:07 > 0:24:10Right, what else can I try?
0:24:12 > 0:24:14There's nothing wrong!
0:24:14 > 0:24:16And if there was?
0:24:16 > 0:24:18There really isn't anything to tell.
0:24:18 > 0:24:20What makes you think there is?
0:24:23 > 0:24:25Actually,
0:24:25 > 0:24:27there is something you should probably know.
0:24:27 > 0:24:29OK.
0:24:29 > 0:24:32The other one may be on its way out, too.
0:24:34 > 0:24:36Sorry?
0:24:36 > 0:24:37My other hip.
0:24:37 > 0:24:42It's been playing me up and the meds aren't really working.
0:24:42 > 0:24:44Thank God it's nothing serious.
0:24:44 > 0:24:45Daniel!
0:24:45 > 0:24:47Of course it's serious.
0:24:47 > 0:24:48I know. Sorry.
0:25:16 > 0:25:18Nine. Hit me.
0:25:18 > 0:25:2112. And again.
0:25:23 > 0:25:25Ten. Hit me.
0:25:25 > 0:25:2814. And again.
0:25:28 > 0:25:3116. Hit me, baby, come on.
0:25:31 > 0:25:32Two in.
0:25:33 > 0:25:35Ten. Hit me.
0:25:35 > 0:25:3720. Stick.
0:25:37 > 0:25:3919. 19.
0:25:41 > 0:25:43You win again.
0:25:43 > 0:25:45And there you stand again...
0:25:45 > 0:25:47The loser.
0:25:47 > 0:25:48What say we get out of here?
0:25:51 > 0:25:53I'm not sure I know what do you mean.
0:25:53 > 0:25:55Let's say you buy me a nice bottle of champagne,
0:25:55 > 0:25:57and we go check out the facilities?
0:26:03 > 0:26:06There's nothing. Just paracetamol and diclofenac.
0:26:06 > 0:26:07It's her hip.
0:26:07 > 0:26:09What?
0:26:09 > 0:26:11Yeah. She might have to have the left one done as well.
0:26:11 > 0:26:14Her hip?! She made it sound like she was dying!
0:26:14 > 0:26:16You don't have to sound so disappointed.
0:26:16 > 0:26:18You didn't have to wear this ridiculous dress.
0:26:18 > 0:26:20Well, at least she's here this time.
0:26:20 > 0:26:21I don't have to go over there...
0:26:21 > 0:26:24You wouldn't have to, her boyfriend could look after her.
0:26:24 > 0:26:26Boyfriend? What are you talking about?
0:26:26 > 0:26:28The pack of 40 condoms I've just seen in her handbag!
0:26:28 > 0:26:29Excuse me?
0:26:29 > 0:26:31Condoms and lubricant!
0:26:31 > 0:26:32Joe was still awake.
0:26:32 > 0:26:35So I told him all about Grandma Day.
0:26:35 > 0:26:37He's so excited!
0:26:37 > 0:26:40Oh, The two of us are going to have so much fun!
0:26:40 > 0:26:42# So you win again
0:26:42 > 0:26:44# You win again
0:26:44 > 0:26:47# Here I stand again
0:26:47 > 0:26:50# The loser
0:26:50 > 0:26:51# And just for fun
0:26:51 > 0:26:53# You took my love and ran
0:26:53 > 0:26:56# But love had just begun
0:26:56 > 0:26:58# I can't refuse her
0:26:58 > 0:27:00# And now I know
0:27:00 > 0:27:02# That I'm the fool
0:27:02 > 0:27:05# Who won your love
0:27:05 > 0:27:06# To lose it all
0:27:06 > 0:27:08# When you come back
0:27:10 > 0:27:13# You win again. #
0:27:23 > 0:27:25Oh! I feel...
0:27:25 > 0:27:27Pressure... Tightening...
0:27:27 > 0:27:29Please help! Please!
0:27:29 > 0:27:31Experience is everything on reception,
0:27:31 > 0:27:32unless you've forgotten that.
0:27:32 > 0:27:34Now, that is not fair.
0:27:34 > 0:27:35Well, neither's sacking Valerie!
0:27:35 > 0:27:37Perhaps you should reconsider counselling,
0:27:37 > 0:27:40it will help you to process what you have experienced.
0:27:40 > 0:27:42What I've experienced?!
0:27:42 > 0:27:43A child died
0:27:43 > 0:27:45and it could have been avoided.
0:28:16 > 0:28:19I told you, I don't need any help. And I told you, you've got it.
0:28:19 > 0:28:21Leopard changed its spots, has it?
0:28:21 > 0:28:22Come on, then!
0:28:22 > 0:28:24Grant, what you doing?!
0:28:24 > 0:28:25Phil!
0:28:25 > 0:28:26Bring my boy back.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28Please.
0:28:28 > 0:28:31In the end, Mitchells always stick together.