0:00:29 > 0:00:32BABY CRIES
0:00:50 > 0:00:51There's a good girl!
0:00:52 > 0:00:56Sweet, I can't! I'm needed here.
0:00:56 > 0:01:00Poor little thing was left to cry this morning - she was starving!
0:01:00 > 0:01:03Oh, I'd better... Yes, I miss you too.
0:01:03 > 0:01:05I'll be home as soon as I can. Bye.
0:01:06 > 0:01:12Right! Well, she's just had all her baby rice!
0:01:12 > 0:01:13Clever girl!
0:01:13 > 0:01:17And we're just going to finish 200 mils of formula.
0:01:17 > 0:01:20She was hungry, weren't you, poor thing?
0:01:20 > 0:01:21Brilliant. Thanks, Mum.
0:01:21 > 0:01:23Tea? Yes, please.
0:01:23 > 0:01:25Oh! Good morning, beautiful.
0:01:26 > 0:01:29I wasn't going to take her out till she'd finished her bottle,
0:01:29 > 0:01:31you know, what with her weight?
0:01:31 > 0:01:34We don't want to drop another centile, do we?
0:01:35 > 0:01:37Ooh! Sorry.
0:01:37 > 0:01:39Grandma's being a fusspot.
0:01:39 > 0:01:41It's fine. I'll finish it with her in a minute.
0:01:41 > 0:01:43Hello, my darling.
0:01:43 > 0:01:45Have you had all your breakfast?
0:01:45 > 0:01:46Yes, you did!
0:01:46 > 0:01:49I've been thinking.
0:01:49 > 0:01:52I might redecorate Ella's room this weekend, if you like?
0:01:52 > 0:01:53What do you think? Oh.
0:01:53 > 0:01:56I thought we could go somewhere, you know, just the three of us.
0:01:56 > 0:01:58I've hardly seen you lately.
0:01:58 > 0:02:02Sure, it's just you said the colour was depressing you, that's all,
0:02:02 > 0:02:04so I picked up some colour charts.
0:02:04 > 0:02:06We've got some really beautiful ones.
0:02:06 > 0:02:08We?
0:02:08 > 0:02:12Yes. Monday, was it? I met you after work.
0:02:12 > 0:02:14You didn't say. Didn't I?
0:02:14 > 0:02:15You didn't think to include me?
0:02:15 > 0:02:17I thought you'd appreciate it.
0:02:17 > 0:02:18So what's the plan?
0:02:18 > 0:02:21I just look after Ella on my own all weekend?
0:02:21 > 0:02:23No-o. Mum'll help if you need a rest.
0:02:23 > 0:02:26Look, this was our favourite.
0:02:26 > 0:02:29Isn't that lovely?
0:02:29 > 0:02:32Yeah. Paint the room. I really don't care.
0:02:37 > 0:02:38Morning.
0:02:38 > 0:02:40Hi. Morning.
0:02:41 > 0:02:43Morning, Shakib.
0:02:43 > 0:02:45Er, yeah.
0:02:45 > 0:02:47Did you sleep well?
0:02:47 > 0:02:48It's the modern way.
0:02:48 > 0:02:50Yeah, well, I'm not having any of it.
0:02:50 > 0:02:53Oi! No devices at the table.
0:02:53 > 0:02:54Where you going?
0:02:54 > 0:02:57You said not at the table so I'm going somewhere else.
0:02:57 > 0:02:58Shakib!
0:02:59 > 0:03:01What's wrong with him?
0:03:04 > 0:03:06Are you two up to something?
0:03:06 > 0:03:07No.
0:03:07 > 0:03:10There. You're lying. Your nose twitched.
0:03:10 > 0:03:13Is it the girls from school? Are they posting stuff again?
0:03:13 > 0:03:18No! Just...we were looking for a birthday present for you,
0:03:18 > 0:03:20if you must know.
0:03:25 > 0:03:26Ow! Stupid buckle.
0:03:27 > 0:03:29Off out?
0:03:29 > 0:03:30Mm, playgroup.
0:03:30 > 0:03:32Oh! Lovely!
0:03:33 > 0:03:38Does Ella want one of Grandy's special kisses before she goes?
0:03:38 > 0:03:40She does?
0:03:40 > 0:03:42Come on, then.
0:03:42 > 0:03:46Ooh, this buckle is way too tight.
0:03:47 > 0:03:49There, that's better.
0:03:49 > 0:03:51Grandy loves you very much.
0:03:53 > 0:03:55I'll just get you a hat.
0:03:55 > 0:03:58Oh, no, no, no. She's fine. She really doesn't need one.
0:03:58 > 0:04:00Oh, but the wind can really get up in September.
0:04:00 > 0:04:05You see these mothers - not you of course...
0:04:05 > 0:04:07the baby's freezing,
0:04:07 > 0:04:10but the mums don't realise because they're kept warm walking.
0:04:10 > 0:04:13A baby's immunity takes time to develop.
0:04:13 > 0:04:15And that's when they've been breast-fed.
0:04:15 > 0:04:16There.
0:04:18 > 0:04:20All snug.
0:04:21 > 0:04:23Bye-bye, darling!
0:04:23 > 0:04:24Bye!
0:04:27 > 0:04:30Ugh. You do it.
0:04:30 > 0:04:31Everything all right?
0:04:31 > 0:04:35Well... I'm just tired, that's all.
0:04:35 > 0:04:37Right. Playgroup?
0:04:37 > 0:04:39Hm-mm.
0:04:39 > 0:04:40I thought you hated it? I do.
0:04:40 > 0:04:43So why are you...
0:04:43 > 0:04:45I had a thought.
0:04:45 > 0:04:49I think they're doing a drop-in at the surgery today.
0:04:49 > 0:04:52Seeing as you're passing, what do you think about popping in,
0:04:52 > 0:04:55see if there's anything they can do to help?
0:04:55 > 0:04:58You know, just have a chat about things. What things?
0:04:58 > 0:05:02Anita. Come on. You.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04This. Mum's been there, she recognises...
0:05:04 > 0:05:06I'm not depressed.
0:05:06 > 0:05:07I didn't say you were!
0:05:07 > 0:05:08Come on, Ella.
0:05:11 > 0:05:13Anita, we're trying to help!
0:05:15 > 0:05:19You're going to have to take things into your own hands.
0:05:21 > 0:05:24We should tell Mum. She'll find out.
0:05:24 > 0:05:27She's, like, psychic or something.
0:05:27 > 0:05:29Look.
0:05:29 > 0:05:30Why are you showing me that?
0:05:30 > 0:05:34It's a factory, idiot. It's the family's business.
0:05:34 > 0:05:35Why hasn't Mum told us any of this?
0:05:35 > 0:05:37Keep your voice down.
0:05:39 > 0:05:40Which part of Pakistan is it?
0:05:40 > 0:05:42Scroll down.
0:05:45 > 0:05:49I can't move you to the front of the queue because you're meeting your mate for a coffee.
0:05:49 > 0:05:50I'm ever so sorry.
0:05:52 > 0:05:54Silly mare.
0:05:54 > 0:05:56No! Sorry! Not you!
0:05:58 > 0:06:00What? Next week?!
0:06:00 > 0:06:05Ah, no, I've got to get my medical...
0:06:05 > 0:06:08I realise it's not an emergency,
0:06:08 > 0:06:12but it is urgent - I've got to get...
0:06:12 > 0:06:13Thank you...
0:06:13 > 0:06:15for nothing.
0:06:16 > 0:06:20Mr Beesley, if you're here for the drop-in, just take a seat.
0:06:20 > 0:06:20Thanks.
0:06:20 > 0:06:22Karen, can you do me a favour?
0:06:22 > 0:06:24Whatever it is, it'll have to wait!
0:06:24 > 0:06:27Is everything OK? No, it's not OK.
0:06:27 > 0:06:30I've missed the deadline for my fostering medical.
0:06:30 > 0:06:32I've written the date down wrong!
0:06:32 > 0:06:35It's probably because I spend half my time clearing up the mess
0:06:35 > 0:06:39that the temps leave, and they get paid more than me!
0:06:39 > 0:06:44And my receptionist at my surgery won't fit me in for...
0:06:44 > 0:06:46Yeah, but surely...
0:06:46 > 0:06:47No, no, no.
0:06:47 > 0:06:50If I don't get it done today, I'm going to mess up the whole process.
0:06:50 > 0:06:51And Rob's not answering the phone.
0:06:51 > 0:06:54Karen, you need a medical. We work in a surgery.
0:06:56 > 0:06:59Yeah, but no... I've tried here before and they don't like it.
0:06:59 > 0:07:01Give it here.
0:07:02 > 0:07:04Oh, Jimmi.
0:07:04 > 0:07:06Is it unethical for you to do a medical for Karen?
0:07:06 > 0:07:09Er, it should be your own GP, really, but I'm sure it'll be fine.
0:07:09 > 0:07:10Oh, Jimmi!
0:07:10 > 0:07:11Mr Walsh, please?
0:07:11 > 0:07:14There, that wasn't that difficult, was it? Oh!
0:07:16 > 0:07:18How can I help?
0:07:18 > 0:07:21Look, I'm sorry. I can't discuss another patient with you.
0:07:21 > 0:07:23It's not another patient - it's my wife.
0:07:23 > 0:07:26Doesn't matter.
0:07:26 > 0:07:28How long have you known us?
0:07:28 > 0:07:32Mr Walsh. You should know the law better than anyone.
0:07:32 > 0:07:35Now, if there's something I can help you with, fire away.
0:07:35 > 0:07:37But other than that, I'll have to wait until she comes to see me,
0:07:37 > 0:07:39or until I get a written letter of consent.
0:07:39 > 0:07:41She doesn't accept there's a problem.
0:07:41 > 0:07:44Well, then maybe it's up to you to make her see that there is.
0:07:44 > 0:07:50OK. Let's look at this from another angle.
0:07:50 > 0:07:54I'm not talking to you as a lawyer, I'm talking to you as a father.
0:07:54 > 0:07:58And I'm telling you, I'm concerned for my child.
0:07:58 > 0:07:59I don't recognise Anita.
0:08:01 > 0:08:03People do strange things when...
0:08:05 > 0:08:09If this post natal depression thing isn't sorted out,
0:08:09 > 0:08:11Ella's safety might be at risk.
0:08:11 > 0:08:14OK. I hear you.
0:08:14 > 0:08:18Right, what I can do is, I'm on house calls this afternoon
0:08:18 > 0:08:22so I can pop around, check how Ella's progressing.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25If I get a window.
0:08:25 > 0:08:28Make a window. She needs medication.
0:08:28 > 0:08:30Why don't you leave the medication to me?
0:08:41 > 0:08:44Mr Beesley! Oh. Jimmi! What time?
0:08:44 > 0:08:45Ooh, sorry.
0:08:47 > 0:08:49Mum! How'd it go?
0:08:49 > 0:08:52He's going to talk to her. What are you doing here?
0:08:52 > 0:08:57You know how much this business is upsetting me, seeing you like this.
0:08:57 > 0:09:00I had an idea. Tell me if I'm interfering.
0:09:00 > 0:09:01Go on.
0:09:01 > 0:09:03Well...
0:09:03 > 0:09:07I couldn't help hearing Anita saying she wanted some time alone with you.
0:09:07 > 0:09:11So, I was wondering, and I think Ella's old enough now,
0:09:11 > 0:09:14how about you have a weekend away and I look after Ella?
0:09:14 > 0:09:16Really?
0:09:16 > 0:09:18It'd be my pleasure.
0:09:18 > 0:09:21One condition, though, and you can't say no.
0:09:21 > 0:09:24OK. You let me pay.
0:09:24 > 0:09:26No, you can't.
0:09:26 > 0:09:28Well, it's too late.
0:09:32 > 0:09:35Isn't this the hotel where you and Gareth had your honeymoon?
0:09:35 > 0:09:38Madrid is so beautiful this time of year.
0:09:38 > 0:09:40I wanted you to see it.
0:09:40 > 0:09:43But you've done so much for us already. What about Gareth?
0:09:43 > 0:09:48Oh, he's on one business trip after another. Don't you worry.
0:09:49 > 0:09:53So all this time and our dad is in Coventry?
0:09:53 > 0:09:56That's what I thought at first. But no.
0:09:56 > 0:10:01Our dad's in Lahore. The family business is in Coventry.
0:10:01 > 0:10:04It's being run by his brother, Zaroon.
0:10:04 > 0:10:06His contact details are on the website.
0:10:06 > 0:10:09You can't call him! What if Mum finds out?
0:10:09 > 0:10:12I don't care about Mum! She's not telling us the full story.
0:10:12 > 0:10:14Yeah - maybe for a reason.
0:10:14 > 0:10:16How else are we going to find out about Dad?
0:10:16 > 0:10:19It's got to be worth a try, hasn't it?
0:10:19 > 0:10:21BELL RINGS
0:10:26 > 0:10:29Ooh, Jimmi, got you! So - what time?
0:10:29 > 0:10:30It's just that I need to let Rob know.
0:10:30 > 0:10:32What time? The medical.
0:10:32 > 0:10:35Medical? Oh, you want me to do it?
0:10:35 > 0:10:38Oh, please! It needs urgently doing today.
0:10:38 > 0:10:40I've got a lot of patients this morning,
0:10:40 > 0:10:42then I'm off on house calls this afternoon. Sorry!
0:10:42 > 0:10:46Right. Just popping outside to scream.
0:10:46 > 0:10:47What about Daniel?
0:10:48 > 0:10:50Oh, come on. He'll be fine. Sorry.
0:10:54 > 0:10:56I mean, this is supposed to be for your own GP.
0:10:56 > 0:10:58I know.
0:10:58 > 0:11:01Well, I can't sign it without a full body check-up.
0:11:01 > 0:11:02I know.
0:11:02 > 0:11:05So what's in it for me?
0:11:05 > 0:11:07Is that a joke?
0:11:07 > 0:11:08Course it is. Lighten up.
0:11:08 > 0:11:11This is all perfectly straightforward.
0:11:11 > 0:11:12Oh. You'll do it?
0:11:12 > 0:11:14Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Just pop your clothes on the side.
0:11:14 > 0:11:16Eh? Well, we'll start with your weight.
0:11:16 > 0:11:18Hang on. Don't tell me you're shy?
0:11:18 > 0:11:20We've got to wait for Rob.
0:11:20 > 0:11:22What time's he arriving? This afternoon.
0:11:22 > 0:11:24That's no good. I've got a Social Services meeting.
0:11:24 > 0:11:25Oh, for goodness' sake!
0:11:25 > 0:11:29But, as luck would have it, I do know somebody who is free.
0:11:29 > 0:11:30Who?
0:11:32 > 0:11:34It's Zara, isn't it?
0:11:36 > 0:11:39Come in. Sorry it's a bit of a mess.
0:11:39 > 0:11:41Things are a bit all over the place.
0:11:41 > 0:11:42BABY CRIES
0:11:42 > 0:11:44Ella, shush!
0:11:46 > 0:11:48You OK?
0:11:48 > 0:11:52Oh... It's just... I don't know why she's crying. It might be her teeth.
0:11:52 > 0:11:56I've tried everything. I've tried food, nappy, sleep.
0:11:56 > 0:11:59Sometimes it's just best to leave them, isn't it?
0:11:59 > 0:12:01Do you do that often?
0:12:01 > 0:12:03Well, do you want to have a go? On two hours' sleep?
0:12:03 > 0:12:05No, I wasn't...
0:12:05 > 0:12:08Sorry. I'm just really tired.
0:12:10 > 0:12:11How long have you been this tired?
0:12:11 > 0:12:14Um, since I went into labour?
0:12:14 > 0:12:19Mm. What about generally - your mood, appetite, that sort of thing?
0:12:19 > 0:12:23I just feel...out of sorts.
0:12:23 > 0:12:26Well, listen, there's no shame in asking for help.
0:12:26 > 0:12:29It's quite common for a new mother to feel overwhelmed or even depressed.
0:12:29 > 0:12:31What makes you think I'm depressed?
0:12:31 > 0:12:33I didn't say you were.
0:12:33 > 0:12:34Well, why did you mention it, then?
0:12:34 > 0:12:36Er...
0:12:36 > 0:12:39Hello. Dr Clay.
0:12:42 > 0:12:43What's wrong?
0:12:43 > 0:12:46Did you have anything to do with this?
0:12:46 > 0:12:49And shouldn't you be at work?
0:12:49 > 0:12:51I'm looking after Ella all day by myself, and you take
0:12:51 > 0:12:54the afternoon off and spend it with your mother and not me?
0:12:54 > 0:12:56It wasn't like that.
0:12:56 > 0:12:57Have you told her?
0:12:57 > 0:12:58What?
0:12:58 > 0:13:00Mum's booked us a weekend away.
0:13:00 > 0:13:05Madrid. I'll look after Ella. You two have a rest.
0:13:05 > 0:13:07Really?
0:13:07 > 0:13:08Thank you.
0:13:08 > 0:13:10I should probably get going...
0:13:10 > 0:13:12Hey, wait.
0:13:12 > 0:13:14Isn't this is where you had your wedding night?
0:13:14 > 0:13:20Honeymoon. You should see the bathroom. It's positively palatial!
0:13:20 > 0:13:21And you've booked us the same room?
0:13:21 > 0:13:23It's their best one.
0:13:23 > 0:13:24Chris.
0:13:24 > 0:13:26What?
0:13:26 > 0:13:28Well, don't you think it's a bit...
0:13:28 > 0:13:30The same bed.
0:13:30 > 0:13:33Anita! What's wrong with you? Mum's trying to spoil us.
0:13:33 > 0:13:37The view is absolutely breathtaking. You open the shutters and...
0:13:37 > 0:13:42This ticket's got your name on it. Look, interconnecting rooms?
0:13:42 > 0:13:44Well, of course I'm coming with you!
0:13:44 > 0:13:49You can't expect to leave a six-month-old in another country.
0:13:49 > 0:13:52Don't worry, we won't get in your way.
0:13:52 > 0:13:53You'll hardly know we're there.
0:13:53 > 0:13:55Is this for real?
0:13:55 > 0:13:59Do you think this is normal, Dr?
0:13:59 > 0:14:02Obviously, I didn't exactly know Mum was...
0:14:02 > 0:14:04Yeah, I can see the logic in what she's saying.
0:14:04 > 0:14:08Can you? You can't see how messed-up this all is?
0:14:08 > 0:14:12Look, am I going mad, or is it normal to spend
0:14:12 > 0:14:15a romantic weekend with your mother-in-law listening in?
0:14:15 > 0:14:16Anita!
0:14:16 > 0:14:19I don't really know the context.
0:14:19 > 0:14:22The only thing that's messed up about it is your lack of gratitude.
0:14:27 > 0:14:28BABY CRIES
0:14:28 > 0:14:29Sorry about that,
0:14:29 > 0:14:33but I suppose at least now you know what we're up against.
0:14:33 > 0:14:35Why don't I put the kettle on,
0:14:35 > 0:14:39let Anita calm down, and then you can talk to her?
0:14:39 > 0:14:41Yeah. You put the kettle on.
0:14:41 > 0:14:45But I think it's you who needs to talk to her.
0:14:45 > 0:14:46Me?
0:14:46 > 0:14:50All I ever do is bend over backwards to accommodate her - it doesn't help.
0:14:50 > 0:14:52Chris! Don't be rude.
0:14:52 > 0:14:57Maybe the nice doctor is right. Go on - you're her husband.
0:15:00 > 0:15:02He never should have married her.
0:15:02 > 0:15:04Right.
0:15:04 > 0:15:06So, um, what's your take on all this?
0:15:06 > 0:15:12Well, if you ask me, it's all down to her upbringing.
0:15:12 > 0:15:15This would never happen if she was my child.
0:15:15 > 0:15:19You're busy, we're busy. I mean, basically, we're healthy.
0:15:19 > 0:15:21It's box-ticking, really, isn't it?
0:15:21 > 0:15:22No.
0:15:22 > 0:15:25Karen, obviously it's a good thing that you want to foster,
0:15:25 > 0:15:27but this is not box-ticking.
0:15:27 > 0:15:30The social workers need to know that you're in good health.
0:15:30 > 0:15:33These poor children have been through quite enough
0:15:33 > 0:15:35without you keeling over with a heart attack.
0:15:35 > 0:15:38Your blood pressure is a little bit up.
0:15:38 > 0:15:39I wonder why.
0:15:43 > 0:15:48So, how many hours of exercise a week do you do?
0:15:48 > 0:15:50Hours?
0:15:50 > 0:15:52He's on his feet all day. We're not slobs.
0:15:52 > 0:15:54I'm not suggesting that you are.
0:15:54 > 0:15:57One or two. Probably only one.
0:15:57 > 0:16:00Right. Good.
0:16:00 > 0:16:02That is you done.
0:16:02 > 0:16:04Karen.
0:16:11 > 0:16:13Under "significant health problems"
0:16:13 > 0:16:17you've made no mention of your episode of memory loss?
0:16:20 > 0:16:22Everything I try and do to help, you just ruin.
0:16:22 > 0:16:24A romantic weekend away with your mother?!
0:16:24 > 0:16:27It's not like that. She's trying to help!
0:16:27 > 0:16:30All right, she can be a bit eccentric, but she's had a...
0:16:30 > 0:16:34Hard life, I know. But it means she can just behave how she wants.
0:16:35 > 0:16:40Look, Chris, does nothing about this strike you as...weird?
0:16:40 > 0:16:42What she's doing isn't normal.
0:16:42 > 0:16:47All I know is this is supposed to be the best time of our lives,
0:16:47 > 0:16:48and it's not.
0:16:49 > 0:16:52Which is why I went to see Dr Clay this morning,
0:16:52 > 0:16:54to see what he could do for you.
0:16:54 > 0:16:56KNOCKING
0:16:56 > 0:17:00Hi. Sorry, could I have a word?
0:17:00 > 0:17:02I am not the problem here!
0:17:03 > 0:17:07So when did you last visit your neurologist?
0:17:07 > 0:17:10It's not an ongoing condition, so it's not really an issue.
0:17:10 > 0:17:12The social worker knows all about it, so it's fine.
0:17:12 > 0:17:15A social worker isn't best placed to assess a medical risk.
0:17:15 > 0:17:18This form will be reviewed by a medical professional.
0:17:18 > 0:17:22If you knowingly omit a significant health episode it could be seen as...
0:17:22 > 0:17:26Zara, we're not trying to con anyone.
0:17:26 > 0:17:31Still, I think it's best that you make an appointment with your consultant.
0:17:31 > 0:17:33I think Dr Clay would like to talk to you
0:17:33 > 0:17:38about some treatment options available for PND, is that right?
0:17:38 > 0:17:40No, actually, that's not right.
0:17:40 > 0:17:45I've just had a really interesting conversation with your mum, actually.
0:17:45 > 0:17:47She's been showing me your baby photos.
0:17:47 > 0:17:49Oh. She adores Ella.
0:17:49 > 0:17:52No, I mean your baby photos. Photos of you.
0:17:52 > 0:17:54Sorry. She does that.
0:17:54 > 0:18:00And how long would you say that you've had this...issue?
0:18:00 > 0:18:02Ages. Since Ella was about two months old?
0:18:02 > 0:18:07OK, and how long has your mum been staying here, helping?
0:18:07 > 0:18:09What are you saying?
0:18:09 > 0:18:11I don't think this is a medical issue.
0:18:11 > 0:18:12He can't see it.
0:18:12 > 0:18:14Can you?!
0:18:16 > 0:18:19You spend more time alone with your mother than you do with me.
0:18:19 > 0:18:20That's because we owe her.
0:18:20 > 0:18:24She put her life on hold and left Gareth at home so she can help us.
0:18:24 > 0:18:26It was you wanted some help.
0:18:26 > 0:18:28Not for ages.
0:18:28 > 0:18:31Do you think it might be possible your mum is living her life through you a little bit?
0:18:31 > 0:18:34Oh, thank God! At last somebody can see it!
0:18:34 > 0:18:36What?
0:18:36 > 0:18:40Chris, she manipulates you and you can't see it.
0:18:40 > 0:18:44It was only when she met Gareth last year that you stopped being
0:18:44 > 0:18:47her plus one at every event she went to!
0:18:47 > 0:18:52She brought Chris up on her own, them against the world,
0:18:52 > 0:18:57and she can't accept now that you have a family of your own.
0:18:57 > 0:18:58That's not true.
0:18:58 > 0:19:01Then why is she showing your baby photos?
0:19:01 > 0:19:03She can't let you go.
0:19:03 > 0:19:06I don't think we're dealing with PND here.
0:19:06 > 0:19:09It's making me miserable.
0:19:09 > 0:19:13I feel suffocated in my own home,
0:19:13 > 0:19:16and it's like there's another woman in our marriage
0:19:16 > 0:19:18and I can't talk to you about it.
0:19:18 > 0:19:20You can.
0:19:20 > 0:19:23Every time I broach the subject, you defend her.
0:19:23 > 0:19:28You don't want to hurt her feelings because she's had such a hard life.
0:19:28 > 0:19:29Then you go into a tortured sulk.
0:19:29 > 0:19:32It is - it's impossible to talk to you about it.
0:19:32 > 0:19:35I don't mean to. I just...
0:19:35 > 0:19:39I feel like all I ever do is try to keep you and Mum happy.
0:19:39 > 0:19:42She might mean well, Chris, but she's killing our marriage.
0:19:48 > 0:19:50OK, I think we have a solution.
0:19:50 > 0:19:51We declare the memory issue,
0:19:51 > 0:19:54but we make a referral to your neurologist.
0:19:54 > 0:19:55I don't want that.
0:19:55 > 0:19:57Karen, you asked for my help.
0:19:57 > 0:19:59You said it was an emergency, and I'm treating it as such.
0:19:59 > 0:20:01From a medical perspective, my opinion is that
0:20:01 > 0:20:04an appointment on the record, where hopefully you'll be signed off,
0:20:04 > 0:20:06will show due diligence and hopefully put the issue to bed.
0:20:06 > 0:20:08What if I'm not signed off?
0:20:08 > 0:20:11I know Caroline Mockler. I'll put in a call. No. I...
0:20:11 > 0:20:13I really think this is a good idea. I don't.
0:20:13 > 0:20:16Well, that's a shame, because I've already done it.
0:20:22 > 0:20:23I've put Ella down.
0:20:25 > 0:20:28Anita never gave her a nap. That's why she was cranky.
0:20:28 > 0:20:30Actually, Anita thinks it might be teething.
0:20:30 > 0:20:32Nonsense.
0:20:33 > 0:20:37Mum, did you show the doctor my baby photos?
0:20:37 > 0:20:41He was asking about us. Don't worry, I didn't embarrass you.
0:20:41 > 0:20:44He was interested.
0:20:44 > 0:20:47He wanted to see how cute you were as a baby.
0:20:47 > 0:20:49How are they doing upstairs?
0:20:49 > 0:20:53He thinks Anita's going to be OK now, so, you know,
0:20:53 > 0:20:55if Gareth wants you home...
0:20:55 > 0:20:57Oh, that's wonderful.
0:20:57 > 0:21:00Well, when she's feeling strong enough.
0:21:00 > 0:21:03No, but if you want to go, we'll be fine.
0:21:03 > 0:21:08I am not leaving my granddaughter with a depressed, neglectful mother.
0:21:08 > 0:21:10When Anita is feeling strong enough.
0:21:10 > 0:21:13I'm not going to overstay my welcome.
0:21:13 > 0:21:19Actually, Mum, I think it might be good for us to see if we can manage on our own.
0:21:19 > 0:21:22I'll take some time off and...
0:21:22 > 0:21:25We're really grateful for everything you've done, but...
0:21:25 > 0:21:30the doctor thinks maybe you might be living your life
0:21:30 > 0:21:35a little bit through us and it would help us all to have a bit of space?
0:21:35 > 0:21:38I'm living my life...
0:21:39 > 0:21:41How dare he!
0:21:42 > 0:21:44And is that what you think?
0:21:44 > 0:21:46I...
0:21:47 > 0:21:51Why don't you and Gareth take the hotel? You love Madrid.
0:21:53 > 0:21:55There is no Gareth.
0:21:55 > 0:21:57It's over.
0:21:57 > 0:21:59What?!
0:21:59 > 0:22:00When?
0:22:00 > 0:22:02But you're always talking to him on the phone.
0:22:02 > 0:22:04I was pretending.
0:22:05 > 0:22:07I'm so ashamed.
0:22:09 > 0:22:11I'll get my bags.
0:22:11 > 0:22:15No! Don't. You don't have to. Stay a bit longer.
0:22:15 > 0:22:17Till you're feeling better.
0:22:22 > 0:22:25Do you think Zaroon will even remember us?
0:22:25 > 0:22:28He's not going to forget us, is he? Especially you. I was a baby!
0:22:28 > 0:22:32We've probably got loads of uncles and cousins we don't know about.
0:22:32 > 0:22:35Could be our age! Be nice to have lots of cousins.
0:22:35 > 0:22:39Yeah, one of them could even be a Zoella fan.
0:22:41 > 0:22:45So, you up for it, then? We going to call?
0:22:49 > 0:22:50Hey.
0:22:50 > 0:22:52Hey.
0:22:52 > 0:22:54Did you talk to her?
0:22:54 > 0:22:56Hm.
0:22:56 > 0:22:57Well done.
0:22:57 > 0:23:01Ivy, I just want you to know that we're really grateful
0:23:01 > 0:23:03for everything you've done for us.
0:23:03 > 0:23:05Mum's finished with Gareth.
0:23:05 > 0:23:07What? When?
0:23:08 > 0:23:10Why didn't you say?
0:23:10 > 0:23:12I didn't want to burden you.
0:23:12 > 0:23:18Oh, Ivy, I'm sorry. That's... When did it happen?
0:23:18 > 0:23:22I don't feel strong enough to talk about it right now.
0:23:23 > 0:23:25I've asked Mum to stay a bit longer.
0:23:25 > 0:23:28Just till she's feeling stronger.
0:23:28 > 0:23:29Right.
0:23:29 > 0:23:31Is that...
0:23:31 > 0:23:33No, of course.
0:23:36 > 0:23:39It's time for Ella's bottle. Won't make itself.
0:23:39 > 0:23:41Mind out.
0:23:49 > 0:23:52Actually, Mum, you didn't answer Anita's question.
0:23:52 > 0:23:53Hm?
0:23:53 > 0:23:54When did you finish with Gareth?
0:23:54 > 0:23:56I don't know exactly.
0:23:56 > 0:23:58Roughly.
0:23:58 > 0:24:01Chris, time blurs when you cry yourself to sleep every night.
0:24:01 > 0:24:05Sure. I just want to know if it was before you moved in here or after?
0:24:05 > 0:24:08I don't know! Please try and remember!
0:24:10 > 0:24:12Maybe before?
0:24:12 > 0:24:13Mum, that was ages ago!
0:24:13 > 0:24:15You don't get over these things overnight!
0:24:15 > 0:24:18But you didn't mention it until I asked you to leave!
0:24:19 > 0:24:23Actually, Mum, I think it might be a good idea for us to have some time apart.
0:24:23 > 0:24:24What?
0:24:24 > 0:24:28We're really grateful for everything you've done and you can come and visit any time,
0:24:28 > 0:24:34but right now, I need... We need some space.
0:24:36 > 0:24:37I think it'd do us all good.
0:24:37 > 0:24:40You're throwing me out?
0:24:40 > 0:24:43Is this how you repay me after all I've done?
0:24:43 > 0:24:49And at a time when my only joy is to see Ella's face?
0:24:49 > 0:24:52Mum, we're not stopping you from seeing Ella.
0:24:52 > 0:24:54We just need some time alone, the three of us,
0:24:54 > 0:24:55and you can't rely on us.
0:24:55 > 0:24:56We?
0:24:56 > 0:25:00Me. It's what I want.
0:25:07 > 0:25:10I know when I'm not wanted.
0:25:10 > 0:25:13Look, we'll come and visit.
0:25:13 > 0:25:17Give us a ring and we'll sort out a time to bring Ella over.
0:25:21 > 0:25:23Chris never used to be like this.
0:25:38 > 0:25:39RINGING
0:25:42 > 0:25:44Hello. Hello?
0:25:44 > 0:25:46Is that Zaroon? Who is this?
0:25:46 > 0:25:51Um, I don't know if you remember me, but it's Shakib, your nephew?
0:25:51 > 0:25:57Shakib! I can't believe it. Is it actually you?
0:25:57 > 0:25:59So tell me everything.
0:25:59 > 0:26:02Where are you? What are you doing with yourselves?
0:26:02 > 0:26:05And what about your baby sister, Alia?
0:26:05 > 0:26:07She's not a baby any more. She's 15.
0:26:07 > 0:26:09She's with me now.
0:26:09 > 0:26:1215! You're making me feel old!
0:26:12 > 0:26:14So, what, are you at school?
0:26:14 > 0:26:15Yeah, yeah.
0:26:15 > 0:26:17And where do you live?
0:26:17 > 0:26:19Just in Letherbridge.
0:26:19 > 0:26:23Letherbridge!? That's... We're neighbours!
0:26:24 > 0:26:28Wait till I tell your dad. I can't believe this.
0:26:28 > 0:26:31Let's meet up. I can drive over today!
0:26:31 > 0:26:33That's probably not a good idea.
0:26:33 > 0:26:35What about after school one day?
0:26:35 > 0:26:37There's this cafe near the reservoir.
0:26:39 > 0:26:44Yeah. OK. Me, too.
0:26:44 > 0:26:46Thank you... Uncle.
0:26:49 > 0:26:51What have you done?!
0:26:51 > 0:26:54What I wish I'd done years ago, Alia.
0:26:54 > 0:26:56We're meeting him - Monday.
0:27:02 > 0:27:03What about the casino?
0:27:03 > 0:27:07The casino? No way! Come on, I've never been to a casino!
0:27:07 > 0:27:08Then tonight's the night!
0:27:11 > 0:27:13What are you doing? Nothing. What's that?
0:27:13 > 0:27:15How could you?
0:27:15 > 0:27:17It's not mine! Liar.
0:27:17 > 0:27:18This is a waste of time.
0:27:18 > 0:27:21Wait!
0:27:21 > 0:27:23I'll tell you everything I know.
0:27:28 > 0:27:29Subtitles by Ericsson
0:27:55 > 0:27:58THEME PLAYS: The Apprentice