0:00:37 > 0:00:40'A long time ago, a couple gave birth to a baby boy
0:00:40 > 0:00:42'in a village in the Punjab.
0:00:42 > 0:00:45'The boy's mother died during childbirth,
0:00:45 > 0:00:47'so he was wet-nursed by another woman,
0:00:47 > 0:00:49'who had recently given birth to a daughter.'
0:00:51 > 0:00:54BANGING
0:01:02 > 0:01:05'The woman treated the boy as if he were her own.
0:01:05 > 0:01:09'According to the traditions of the time, from that day forward,
0:01:09 > 0:01:11'the children were deemed to be cousins.
0:01:14 > 0:01:18'The babies grew up and went on to have children of their own -
0:01:18 > 0:01:21'their offspring were named Mirza and Sahiban.'
0:01:41 > 0:01:43It's a really nice kameez.
0:01:43 > 0:01:47- Thank you.- Nadiya made it. She's very talented, my beautiful wife.
0:01:47 > 0:01:48So how did you two meet?
0:01:48 > 0:01:51We've known each other since we were children.
0:01:51 > 0:01:53Wow, that is something.
0:01:53 > 0:01:56Not really, we're cousins.
0:01:56 > 0:02:00Right, this might be a little bit cold.
0:02:00 > 0:02:02- Ooh.- Sorry.
0:02:02 > 0:02:04It's not you, the baby just kicked me.
0:02:04 > 0:02:06He's going to be the next Messi, I'm sure of it.
0:02:06 > 0:02:08She is joining the Birmingham Royal Ballet.
0:02:08 > 0:02:10SHE SPEAKS THEIR LANGUAGE
0:02:10 > 0:02:13Just so long as the little one is fit and well.
0:02:13 > 0:02:16THEY SPEAK OWN LANGUAGE
0:02:18 > 0:02:20See the tiny hand, it's waving at us. Look!
0:02:25 > 0:02:28Is that its head?
0:02:28 > 0:02:29Oh, my God.
0:02:33 > 0:02:36I'm just going to be a moment.
0:02:36 > 0:02:37Is everything OK?
0:02:37 > 0:02:38I'll be back in a bit.
0:02:50 > 0:02:54- Are we doing this? - We are going home.
0:02:54 > 0:02:57- I don't want to go home. - No, we've got to go home.
0:03:14 > 0:03:16AIR HISSES
0:03:20 > 0:03:21It's the baby's heart.
0:03:21 > 0:03:22Problem on the scan?
0:03:22 > 0:03:25I'd really appreciate a second opinion.
0:03:28 > 0:03:30Doctor Hayhill, Consultant Obstetrician.
0:03:30 > 0:03:32Mind if I take a look?
0:03:40 > 0:03:42What is it? What do you see?
0:03:42 > 0:03:45I'll need to show these scans to some colleagues of mine.
0:03:45 > 0:03:47What colleagues?
0:03:47 > 0:03:48A consultant in foetal medicine,
0:03:48 > 0:03:51possibly then a paediatric cardiologist.
0:03:51 > 0:03:54We may need to do a more specialist scan.
0:03:54 > 0:03:55Is there something wrong with the heart?
0:03:55 > 0:03:57Let's take one step at a time.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00You must have some idea, or you wouldn't be worried.
0:04:00 > 0:04:02There may be an issue with how the heart is developing.
0:04:02 > 0:04:04What does that mean?
0:04:04 > 0:04:06Let's let Doctor Hayhill speak to the specialist,
0:04:06 > 0:04:08and we'll do a more detailed scan.
0:04:08 > 0:04:10- And then what?- We'll get you back in, talk through all the options.
0:04:10 > 0:04:12- Options?- How best to proceed.
0:04:12 > 0:04:14We're having this baby!
0:04:14 > 0:04:16Nadiya, I know this is very hard.
0:04:16 > 0:04:18- Is it going to die? - Try not to worry, OK.
0:04:18 > 0:04:19How could this happen?
0:04:19 > 0:04:21Unfortunately, it's not always clear.
0:04:21 > 0:04:24There must be some reason.
0:04:24 > 0:04:27Could it be hereditary, something in the family?
0:04:27 > 0:04:28I need some air.
0:04:38 > 0:04:39Hello.
0:04:41 > 0:04:43Can I help you?
0:04:43 > 0:04:46Hi, Sgt Hollins. We've had a complaint from one of
0:04:46 > 0:04:51your neighbours who says that he had his tyres of his car slashed,
0:04:51 > 0:04:52outside your shop.
0:04:52 > 0:04:56- Really?- Really. I know that you've complained about this car before,
0:04:56 > 0:04:58you said that it was disrupting your customers.
0:04:58 > 0:05:01Well, yes. Isn't it the police's duty to look after
0:05:01 > 0:05:03law-abiding families and their businesses?
0:05:03 > 0:05:06It's our job to support everyone, really.
0:05:06 > 0:05:08Even those who make as much noise as they like?
0:05:08 > 0:05:11The thing is, he says that this is not the first incident.
0:05:11 > 0:05:14He said that last week, he had his car keyed,
0:05:14 > 0:05:18and the week before that, something to do with his wing mirrors.
0:05:18 > 0:05:19Did he report it?
0:05:19 > 0:05:20No.
0:05:20 > 0:05:23Do you want to tell me what happened this morning?
0:05:23 > 0:05:26No, not particularly.
0:05:26 > 0:05:28You got any cameras outside the shop?
0:05:28 > 0:05:29Unfortunately not.
0:05:29 > 0:05:32I'll check with the CCTV on the street.
0:05:32 > 0:05:34Are you accusing me of something?
0:05:34 > 0:05:36No, I just want to find out what happened.
0:05:36 > 0:05:38Was anyone else in the shop at the time?
0:05:38 > 0:05:41My nephew and his wife were out.
0:05:41 > 0:05:43Just you, then?
0:05:43 > 0:05:46Are you going to take the word of this man over mine?
0:05:46 > 0:05:48I'll let you know how I get on with my enquiries.
0:05:48 > 0:05:49Thanks for your time.
0:05:56 > 0:05:58'When it was time for the children to go to school,
0:05:58 > 0:06:01'Mirza's parents sent him to live with his uncle.
0:06:01 > 0:06:04'He enrolled in the same school as Sahiban.
0:06:04 > 0:06:07'At first, Mirza did not notice her.
0:06:07 > 0:06:09'But as they grew into adolescence,
0:06:09 > 0:06:12'feelings of love began to blossom between them.'
0:06:29 > 0:06:31I didn't expect you to take so long.
0:06:31 > 0:06:34I need you to start on that order.
0:06:34 > 0:06:35What?
0:06:35 > 0:06:37It has to be ready by tomorrow, remember?
0:06:37 > 0:06:39- Just give her a moment, Auntie. - I'm fine.
0:06:39 > 0:06:43Of course she's fine. She just went for a scan.
0:06:43 > 0:06:44How did it go, by the way?
0:06:46 > 0:06:47What?
0:06:47 > 0:06:49What's the big secret?
0:06:49 > 0:06:51The silk, what colour?
0:06:51 > 0:06:52Red.
0:06:52 > 0:06:56It's here, right in front of you.
0:06:56 > 0:06:57What's wrong with the girl?
0:06:57 > 0:06:59Just leave it, will you?
0:07:01 > 0:07:03What happened at the hospital?
0:07:03 > 0:07:07The baby - there's something wrong with its heart.
0:07:07 > 0:07:09How bad is this thing? Can they fix it?
0:07:09 > 0:07:11We don't know yet.
0:07:12 > 0:07:14Is there a risk to Nadiya?
0:07:14 > 0:07:16I don't think so.
0:07:17 > 0:07:19She could get rid of the child.
0:07:21 > 0:07:23How could you even think that?
0:07:23 > 0:07:24That would be haram.
0:07:30 > 0:07:32'Sahiban became a beautiful young woman,
0:07:32 > 0:07:36'so beautiful that it was said that when she went shopping, the grocer
0:07:36 > 0:07:40'would be distracted and instead of oil, he would pour honey for her.
0:07:53 > 0:07:59'Mirza, too, was handsome, a skilled horseman and brilliant marksman.
0:07:59 > 0:08:01'As the couple's love began to blossom,
0:08:01 > 0:08:05'they were lost in their own world, lost in one another.
0:08:05 > 0:08:09'Love was now writ in their destiny.
0:08:09 > 0:08:12'Unbeknownst to them, so was great pain.'
0:08:12 > 0:08:14How could you let her say those things?
0:08:18 > 0:08:19Just ignore her.
0:08:21 > 0:08:22She's poison.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25It's a lot to take in right now for all of us.
0:08:25 > 0:08:28Is that why you asked the doctor if it was in the family?
0:08:28 > 0:08:29I was thinking of your dad.
0:08:29 > 0:08:31What's he got to do with this?
0:08:31 > 0:08:33He died of a heart attack.
0:08:33 > 0:08:35It wasn't just his heart.
0:08:35 > 0:08:38Besides, you don't know it's the same thing.
0:08:39 > 0:08:42You think this is my fault, that I'm the one with some defective gene?
0:08:42 > 0:08:45I think it's something we should have discussed.
0:08:45 > 0:08:47When?
0:08:47 > 0:08:48Before we made a baby?
0:08:48 > 0:08:50Maybe even before we got married.
0:08:51 > 0:08:52What?
0:08:55 > 0:09:00Maybe it would have been better if we'd looked outside the family.
0:09:03 > 0:09:05I didn't mean...
0:09:06 > 0:09:08Nadiya, where are you going?
0:09:09 > 0:09:11Nadiya, what are you doing?
0:09:11 > 0:09:13Please, just listen.
0:09:13 > 0:09:14Leave me alone!
0:09:14 > 0:09:17I was being foolish. I didn't mean what I said.
0:09:17 > 0:09:21- I thought you said you loved me. - I do. You have to believe me.
0:09:22 > 0:09:24Nadiya!
0:09:24 > 0:09:28'Mirza and Sahiban's love affair became the talk of the town.
0:09:28 > 0:09:32'When Sahiban's father heard about it, he was furious, forbade it.
0:09:32 > 0:09:35'Instead, he found a suitable young man from the same tribe
0:09:35 > 0:09:37'to marry her.'
0:09:42 > 0:09:43Are you not eating?
0:09:43 > 0:09:45No, I'm not hungry right now.
0:09:46 > 0:09:47Tough morning?
0:09:47 > 0:09:50Yeah, I had a couple in earlier.
0:09:50 > 0:09:52Their baby has got a congenital heart condition.
0:09:52 > 0:09:55Oh, dear. What's the prognosis?
0:09:55 > 0:09:58- Surgery's an option after birth.- Risky.
0:09:58 > 0:10:00Yeah.
0:10:00 > 0:10:01There was something else.
0:10:03 > 0:10:06They told me that they were cousins.
0:10:06 > 0:10:07Really?
0:10:07 > 0:10:09I think it could have a bearing on what's happened.
0:10:09 > 0:10:11Increased risk of abnormalities.
0:10:11 > 0:10:13Yes, but it's not a given, is it?
0:10:13 > 0:10:15I know lots of couples that have got no problems.
0:10:15 > 0:10:18No, but you do need to tell the consultant.
0:10:22 > 0:10:24'A date was set for the wedding.
0:10:24 > 0:10:28'Desperate to escape her fate, Sahiban sent word to her lover,
0:10:28 > 0:10:32'hoping he would come to rescue her, but she heard nothing.
0:10:32 > 0:10:34'It seemed a hopeless situation.'
0:10:37 > 0:10:39WOMAN PANTING
0:10:39 > 0:10:42Hello. What's your name?
0:10:42 > 0:10:44Nadiya. I'm pregnant.
0:10:44 > 0:10:47OK, Nadiya, I want you to stay very still
0:10:47 > 0:10:49for me while I call an ambulance.
0:10:49 > 0:10:5272-44 to Control.
0:10:52 > 0:10:54I've got an RTC on Bank Road, with one pregnant female,
0:10:54 > 0:10:56ambulance required.
0:10:58 > 0:10:59Stay very still for me.
0:11:01 > 0:11:04An ambulance will be on its way very shortly.
0:11:06 > 0:11:08Are you hurting anywhere else?
0:11:09 > 0:11:11First cousins?
0:11:11 > 0:11:14Yeah, it's not uncommon in families from Pakistan,
0:11:14 > 0:11:15lots of other cultures too.
0:11:15 > 0:11:18Do we know if there have been any previous cousin marriages in the family?
0:11:18 > 0:11:20No, I'd have to look into that.
0:11:20 > 0:11:23Because the risks get cumulatively greater.
0:11:23 > 0:11:24I can't believe it's still legal.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27- Hang on... - I know, cultural sensitivities.
0:11:27 > 0:11:29No, not sensitivities, stigma.
0:11:29 > 0:11:30That's what stops families reaching out
0:11:30 > 0:11:32and getting the information they need.
0:11:32 > 0:11:33So it's our fault now?
0:11:33 > 0:11:35No, but...
0:11:35 > 0:11:38Look, there's a genuine fear of coming out
0:11:38 > 0:11:41in the open, and acknowledging there may be bad blood.
0:11:41 > 0:11:42Now we're back in the Dark Ages.
0:11:42 > 0:11:45There are a lot of positives to consanguineous marriages,
0:11:45 > 0:11:46especially for the female.
0:11:46 > 0:11:47Convince me.
0:11:47 > 0:11:49OK, she's given higher status,
0:11:49 > 0:11:52protection within a family she's already part of.
0:11:52 > 0:11:54What they're protecting is the family's assets.
0:11:54 > 0:11:56That might be part of it but there are
0:11:56 > 0:11:58a lot of families that are very happy.
0:11:58 > 0:12:00PHONE RINGS
0:12:00 > 0:12:03And at the end of the day, you can't stop two people falling in love.
0:12:03 > 0:12:04Ruhma Hanif.
0:12:05 > 0:12:07Nadiya?
0:12:07 > 0:12:09She's coming in. OK.
0:12:13 > 0:12:16'Mirza could not allow his sweetheart to marry another man.
0:12:16 > 0:12:19'He took his bow and quiver and rode to the town,
0:12:19 > 0:12:21'the day before Sahiban's wedding.'
0:12:27 > 0:12:29- So she accelerated after the junction?- Yeah.
0:12:32 > 0:12:35Did you see anything in the road that she might have swerved around?
0:12:35 > 0:12:37- No, nothing.- No.
0:12:37 > 0:12:39All right, thanks for your help.
0:13:04 > 0:13:05You don't mind staying on?
0:13:05 > 0:13:07No. BP's normal.
0:13:13 > 0:13:15You're sure there's no tenderness?
0:13:15 > 0:13:16It was just my head.
0:13:18 > 0:13:21Well, you've had a lucky escape.
0:13:21 > 0:13:24But to be on the safe side, I'm going to check the baby.
0:13:37 > 0:13:39Is it OK?
0:13:40 > 0:13:41You hear that?
0:13:41 > 0:13:44That's fantastic, right?
0:13:44 > 0:13:47I'll come back and check on you again in a while.
0:13:51 > 0:13:53I can't get my head around it.
0:13:54 > 0:13:56What happened out there?
0:13:56 > 0:13:58I don't know.
0:13:58 > 0:14:00You must be able to remember something?
0:14:00 > 0:14:02I just lost control of the wheel.
0:14:02 > 0:14:03Why? Why did you lose control?
0:14:03 > 0:14:05I'm tired.
0:14:05 > 0:14:07Why don't we leave the questions till later?
0:14:27 > 0:14:29Praise Allah, she's OK.
0:14:29 > 0:14:30The baby also?
0:14:30 > 0:14:31Yeah.
0:14:34 > 0:14:36What?
0:14:36 > 0:14:37Nothing.
0:14:39 > 0:14:41Why can't you ever just be happy for us?
0:14:41 > 0:14:43All I've ever wanted is your happiness...
0:14:43 > 0:14:45But not with Nadiya?
0:14:48 > 0:14:50She's right...
0:14:50 > 0:14:51You're poison.
0:14:51 > 0:14:54This baby, what's wrong with it?
0:14:54 > 0:14:56Don't tell me you haven't thought it too.
0:14:59 > 0:15:01Fazal!
0:15:04 > 0:15:05Everything OK?
0:15:07 > 0:15:09He's upset, it's understandable.
0:15:11 > 0:15:12Yeah.
0:15:14 > 0:15:16'Sahiban's brothers and her bridegroom
0:15:16 > 0:15:19'discovered she was missing and set off on horses after them.
0:15:22 > 0:15:24'Confident that he had gained sufficient distance
0:15:24 > 0:15:29'from any pursuers, Mirza wanted to stop and rest for a while.
0:15:29 > 0:15:31'But as her lover dozed under an acacia tree,
0:15:31 > 0:15:34'Sahiban was filled with fear.
0:15:34 > 0:15:37'If her brothers came and Mirza woke up, they would be sure
0:15:37 > 0:15:39'to die from his arrows.'
0:15:41 > 0:15:44- Doctor Hayhill thought it would be OK to have a quick word.- Yeah.
0:15:52 > 0:15:55Nadiya, Sergeant Hollins is here.
0:15:55 > 0:15:57Can you talk with him for a few moments?
0:15:58 > 0:16:00You were very kind.
0:16:00 > 0:16:02It's just a preliminary chat,
0:16:02 > 0:16:05to see if I can piece together what happened.
0:16:05 > 0:16:08I'm sorry, but I can't really remember much.
0:16:10 > 0:16:13I have to ask you this - have you consumed any alcohol or taken
0:16:13 > 0:16:15any drugs before or after the crash?
0:16:15 > 0:16:17We don't drink.
0:16:17 > 0:16:19And I need you to do this, I'm afraid.
0:16:21 > 0:16:23I need you to blow into this tube...
0:16:24 > 0:16:27..for about five seconds, please.
0:16:32 > 0:16:33OK, you can stop.
0:16:35 > 0:16:36Yeah, that's clear.
0:16:37 > 0:16:39It wasn't why I lost control.
0:16:39 > 0:16:42So you do have some idea what happened?
0:16:42 > 0:16:43No.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45Were you trying to avoid something? Something in the road?
0:16:45 > 0:16:47Maybe.
0:16:47 > 0:16:49I've spoken to a couple of people who witnessed the crash.
0:16:49 > 0:16:52- Yes?- One of them said they saw you go through the junction,
0:16:52 > 0:16:53then accelerate.
0:16:53 > 0:16:56It was the brakes, they weren't working properly.
0:16:56 > 0:16:58Right. I'll flag that up when the car gets checked over,
0:16:58 > 0:17:00because there were tyre marks in the road.
0:17:00 > 0:17:03We've got trained investigators who can tell whether you were
0:17:03 > 0:17:06braking or accelerating, they're very clever.
0:17:06 > 0:17:08Nadiya?
0:17:08 > 0:17:10I was upset. I didn't know what I was doing.
0:17:10 > 0:17:12Rob, I'm sorry,
0:17:12 > 0:17:14but it's really important that she gets some rest.
0:17:14 > 0:17:16Yeah, of course. We'll speak later.
0:17:19 > 0:17:21Was this your idea of a way out?
0:17:21 > 0:17:23- What? - Were you trying to kill our baby?
0:17:23 > 0:17:25I would never!
0:17:25 > 0:17:28- I can't do this any more.- Fazal.
0:17:28 > 0:17:31No, it's over. Do you understand?
0:17:36 > 0:17:40'She took Mirza's quiver and broke each arrow in half.
0:17:40 > 0:17:44'Then she waited, praying that, when they arrived,
0:17:44 > 0:17:46'her brothers would take pity on him.
0:17:50 > 0:17:54'At the sound of drumming hooves, Sahiban woke Mirza from his sleep.
0:17:54 > 0:17:56'He instinctively reached for his arrows,
0:17:56 > 0:17:59'only to find the broken pieces.
0:18:05 > 0:18:09'In that split second, an arrow from Sahiban's brother's bow
0:18:09 > 0:18:12'pierced Mirza's throat and he fell to the ground.
0:18:12 > 0:18:14'Mirza looked at his lover accusingly,
0:18:14 > 0:18:16'wondering why she had betrayed him.
0:18:22 > 0:18:26'As a second arrow pierced his chest, Sahiban threw herself over
0:18:26 > 0:18:29'Mirza's body to protect him from further hits.
0:18:29 > 0:18:31'But as the arrows rained down,
0:18:31 > 0:18:34'she was killed also
0:18:34 > 0:18:37'and the two lovers became the stuff of legend.'
0:18:39 > 0:18:40I'm sorry.
0:18:41 > 0:18:43Are you OK?
0:18:44 > 0:18:48I was thinking of an old folk tale, Mirza and Sahiban.
0:18:48 > 0:18:49Do you know it?
0:18:49 > 0:18:50Yeah, I think.
0:18:50 > 0:18:52Star-crossed lovers,
0:18:52 > 0:18:55killed because their families disapproved of their union.
0:18:55 > 0:18:59Generations making the same mistakes, over and over.
0:19:01 > 0:19:02What have I done to you?
0:19:03 > 0:19:06Is there a reason why you've mentioned this story?
0:19:06 > 0:19:08To get at me.
0:19:10 > 0:19:11Is that true?
0:19:17 > 0:19:20My husband, Karim, he was my cousin.
0:19:20 > 0:19:23So you should understand.
0:19:23 > 0:19:24I had a little baby boy.
0:19:26 > 0:19:28A child?
0:19:28 > 0:19:30He died soon after he was born.
0:19:32 > 0:19:33I had no idea.
0:19:35 > 0:19:38It was such a beautiful day, I remember.
0:19:38 > 0:19:40Basant.
0:19:40 > 0:19:42The kite festival.
0:19:42 > 0:19:45A lot of doctors were away that day.
0:19:45 > 0:19:47The hospital was so quiet.
0:19:49 > 0:19:53Like we were in the wrong place, everyone else was celebrating.
0:19:55 > 0:19:56Do you know why he died?
0:19:58 > 0:19:59I never found out for sure...
0:20:01 > 0:20:02..but I know it was his heart.
0:20:03 > 0:20:05I'm sorry.
0:20:07 > 0:20:12Nadiya, this has no reflection on what's wrong with your baby, OK?
0:20:12 > 0:20:16I'm going to make sure that you have the best care possible.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19I never told my husband why the baby died.
0:20:20 > 0:20:22Sorry, I don't understand.
0:20:23 > 0:20:26Like Sahiban, I wanted to protect him,
0:20:26 > 0:20:30so that he would be free to marry again, not tainted.
0:20:30 > 0:20:32Because of the fear of bad blood.
0:20:34 > 0:20:35What about you?
0:20:36 > 0:20:39I sacrificed myself so that he could be happy.
0:21:08 > 0:21:09You don't think I love Fazal enough, is that it?
0:21:09 > 0:21:11I don't think that's what she meant.
0:21:11 > 0:21:12You don't know her,
0:21:12 > 0:21:16the way she's treated me since I married her precious nephew.
0:21:17 > 0:21:19Mrs Malik.
0:21:19 > 0:21:21You think I should let him go?
0:21:21 > 0:21:22Yes.
0:21:22 > 0:21:25- I am sorry for you.- For me?
0:21:25 > 0:21:26Because you are wrong now, as you were then.
0:21:26 > 0:21:29You have no right to judge me or my marriage,
0:21:29 > 0:21:30or whether I have this baby.
0:21:30 > 0:21:32It will only lead to more pain.
0:21:32 > 0:21:35Things aren't as I hoped, but I accept what's going to happen,
0:21:35 > 0:21:37and I'm going to try to be the best mother I can.
0:21:37 > 0:21:39Inshallah.
0:21:39 > 0:21:41Then you are stronger than me.
0:21:41 > 0:21:44- Oh!- Nadiya?
0:21:44 > 0:21:45What's wrong?
0:21:45 > 0:21:46I think I'm bleeding.
0:21:46 > 0:21:48I should get Fazal.
0:21:48 > 0:21:49He won't come.
0:21:49 > 0:21:51Let me talk to him.
0:22:00 > 0:22:03It was my fear and I've driven a wedge between you.
0:22:03 > 0:22:05The things I said to her.
0:22:05 > 0:22:08Will be forgotten. Right now she needs you.
0:22:08 > 0:22:09She could lose the baby?
0:22:09 > 0:22:11I don't know but you must go.
0:22:11 > 0:22:13Don't make the same mistake I did.
0:22:13 > 0:22:16SHE SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE
0:22:16 > 0:22:18Now go! Hurry!
0:22:33 > 0:22:34Everything OK?
0:22:36 > 0:22:37I pray that it will be.
0:22:37 > 0:22:39Are you here about the accident?
0:22:39 > 0:22:41No, about what happened outside your shop.
0:22:41 > 0:22:43I thought you might like to know that we're not going to
0:22:43 > 0:22:45- pursue the matter. - Oh, that's good.- Yeah.
0:22:45 > 0:22:47Although, however, I would like some reassurance
0:22:47 > 0:22:50that we won't get a repeat of this morning's events?
0:22:50 > 0:22:53- I imagine not.- Mmm.
0:22:53 > 0:22:56I think it's nice to show a bit of kindness to your neighbours.
0:22:56 > 0:22:57How about they do that to me?
0:22:57 > 0:23:00Yes, yes, of course, officer.
0:23:00 > 0:23:01Thank you.
0:23:03 > 0:23:05SHE SIGHS
0:23:08 > 0:23:11'His beloved was dressed in a red bridal dress,
0:23:11 > 0:23:15'her delicate hands darkly painted with mehndi.
0:23:15 > 0:23:18'She had been taken to an upstairs room but Mirza knew the house
0:23:18 > 0:23:23'from when he was a boy and managed to find Sahiban and steal her away.
0:23:23 > 0:23:25'The lovers galloped off into the night.'
0:23:37 > 0:23:39The bleeding has stopped.
0:23:39 > 0:23:40That's a good sign, right?
0:23:40 > 0:23:42Let's hope so.
0:23:42 > 0:23:43I would never hurt our baby.
0:23:43 > 0:23:45I know, I know.
0:23:45 > 0:23:47I've messed up so badly.
0:23:48 > 0:23:49Forgive me?
0:23:58 > 0:24:01The baby, is it...?
0:24:01 > 0:24:03Well, we're going to find out.
0:24:05 > 0:24:06Are you ready?
0:24:07 > 0:24:08Right.
0:24:14 > 0:24:16BREATHING
0:24:16 > 0:24:17Sounds strong.
0:24:17 > 0:24:19Our baby's a fighter!
0:24:19 > 0:24:20Seems so.
0:24:20 > 0:24:23We'll keep you in for monitoring, keep an eye on things.
0:24:23 > 0:24:24Thank you.
0:24:26 > 0:24:28So it's going to be OK?
0:24:28 > 0:24:31Whatever happens, this baby is precious and it's going to be loved.
0:24:46 > 0:24:49Excuse me, your car.
0:24:49 > 0:24:51There's a problem.
0:24:51 > 0:24:53I have a nephew who runs a garage.
0:24:55 > 0:24:56I will ring him for you,
0:24:56 > 0:24:59ask him to give you neighbour's rates.
0:24:59 > 0:25:01All right. Thank you.
0:25:36 > 0:25:39I referred them to the local genetic service for counselling.
0:25:39 > 0:25:43They'll explain any increased risks of future pregnancies, you know,
0:25:43 > 0:25:44look into family history.
0:25:44 > 0:25:47Sorry, you know all of that.
0:25:47 > 0:25:49Is Hayhill all right with this?
0:25:49 > 0:25:51I just don't like being backed into a corner.
0:25:51 > 0:25:55- Feeling like I've got to defend a practice, a culture, even.- Mmm.
0:25:57 > 0:25:59It's just weird.
0:25:59 > 0:26:03You know, being with people who spoke Gujarati,
0:26:03 > 0:26:08it reminded me of Aamir and his family and my family
0:26:08 > 0:26:10and everything that I've lost.
0:26:10 > 0:26:12And what about the kids?
0:26:12 > 0:26:15They're missing out on grandparents,
0:26:15 > 0:26:17extended family they've not even met.
0:26:17 > 0:26:19They've got you.
0:26:19 > 0:26:20But is it enough?
0:26:21 > 0:26:26All we can do is make choices and hope they're the right ones.
0:26:26 > 0:26:29And what if the choices I made come back to haunt me?
0:26:37 > 0:26:38It is everywhere.
0:26:39 > 0:26:42And as a health practice I think we should strive to set
0:26:42 > 0:26:44a better example for the community.
0:26:44 > 0:26:46She's not?
0:26:46 > 0:26:48All of us?
0:26:48 > 0:26:52Feet up with a bacon sandwich or sweaty leotards in the gym...
0:26:52 > 0:26:54You could do both.
0:26:54 > 0:26:56"My new directives are to take immediate effect
0:26:56 > 0:26:57"with no exceptions."