0:00:26 > 0:00:30KNOCKING Hh-hm.
0:00:30 > 0:00:32HAMMERING
0:00:39 > 0:00:42Ah! Oh.
0:00:42 > 0:00:46Right, that's the, er, dodgy floorboard done and both sticky doors.
0:00:46 > 0:00:50Ah, thanks, love. But you don't want to spend your whole day off fixing up my place.
0:00:50 > 0:00:52I like looking after you.
0:00:52 > 0:00:54Oh! Sweaty.
0:00:54 > 0:00:56Ah, you like it really.
0:00:59 > 0:01:00Anyway, erm...
0:01:02 > 0:01:05I was wondering if, er, maybe I should ditch my place.
0:01:07 > 0:01:08What, move in?
0:01:08 > 0:01:12I mean, we've been together a while now. Seems right?
0:01:14 > 0:01:17Course I would need somewhere for office stuff.
0:01:17 > 0:01:19Right. You mean... the spare room?
0:01:19 > 0:01:20I know, I'm sorry.
0:01:20 > 0:01:23I don't mean to push. It's just I want us to have a future.
0:01:23 > 0:01:27Maybe even a baby of our own. Unless...you don't.
0:01:28 > 0:01:29No. No, I do.
0:01:31 > 0:01:33OK. Yeah.
0:01:34 > 0:01:35- Maybe it is time.- Yeah?
0:01:50 > 0:01:53So, Jimmi, have you heard anything from Mrs Tembe today?
0:01:53 > 0:01:54Er, not yet.
0:01:54 > 0:01:57She's on her way back from the Campus, apparently.
0:01:57 > 0:02:00- And swanning off to Botswana in days.- Which is why she's busy.
0:02:00 > 0:02:03Which is why we should have heard about her replacement before now.
0:02:03 > 0:02:05Daniel and I told her that she had our full confidence...
0:02:05 > 0:02:07I miss one meeting.
0:02:07 > 0:02:10- ..in finding someone suitable, so I'm sure she will.- When?
0:02:10 > 0:02:13Oh, look, I've got to take Joe to a dentist appointment.
0:02:13 > 0:02:15But I should have been consulted and had a veto.
0:02:15 > 0:02:20But now Mrs Tembe's gone radio silent which is highly suspicious, and you're just
0:02:20 > 0:02:22acting weirdly relaxed.
0:02:22 > 0:02:25- Yeah, what have you been up to? - I had Will over, for the weekend.
0:02:25 > 0:02:28- Oh, your nephew?- Yeah, did I tell you he was a nurse-apprentice?
0:02:28 > 0:02:30- No.- Yeah, he's a good laugh as well.
0:02:30 > 0:02:34So, it's been a bit of a blur of beer and fast food and late nights.
0:02:34 > 0:02:37Oh, dear, you are going to be swimming in toxins.
0:02:37 > 0:02:42Luckily though, I'm sourcing some organic seaweed at lunchtime, so I'll pick you up some extra.
0:02:42 > 0:02:45Oh, organic seaweed! That just made your day.
0:02:45 > 0:02:50I'm looking forward to my toxins - an afternoon spent wine-tasting.
0:02:50 > 0:02:52So, a weekend of debauchery?
0:02:52 > 0:02:55And then you stay up until dawn clearing up, right?
0:02:55 > 0:02:58No, no. I'm trying this new approach. So, erm, the beer bottles
0:02:58 > 0:03:00and the pizza boxes, they just lay where they fell.
0:03:00 > 0:03:03And now my place looks a lot more like your place.
0:03:03 > 0:03:04As it should be!
0:03:21 > 0:03:22Yeah, will do.
0:03:22 > 0:03:27Joanne Webber, would you like to go through to Dr Carter? He's ready.
0:03:27 > 0:03:29Have you seen the hole punch?
0:03:30 > 0:03:32Ooh, hang on.
0:03:34 > 0:03:36- Buttons! They haven't always been there, have they?- No.
0:03:36 > 0:03:37Yeah.
0:03:37 > 0:03:39BUZZING
0:03:42 > 0:03:45Press it again.
0:03:45 > 0:03:47Come on, let's do this.
0:03:47 > 0:03:49I'll see what other bad habits I can push on to you.
0:03:49 > 0:03:51You've got plenty to choose from, haven't you?
0:03:51 > 0:03:55- Will! What are you doing here? This is Will.- I just called into St Phil's about my transfer.
0:03:55 > 0:03:57- Yeah?- Which is looking...positive.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00So I thought I'd drop in, see how Uncle Jimmi rolls.
0:04:00 > 0:04:02Whoa, whoa, whoa, can I get a rewind?
0:04:02 > 0:04:04- Uncle Jimmi?!- Rein it in.
0:04:04 > 0:04:06Erm, could you grab a coffee till lunch?
0:04:06 > 0:04:10- And you're going to have to wait for another time to corrupt me. - Oh, no worries, Uncle Jimmi.
0:04:10 > 0:04:11Yeah, easy, walk away.
0:04:14 > 0:04:16Hm-hmm.
0:04:16 > 0:04:17Yeah.
0:04:17 > 0:04:19Think that's OK...
0:04:21 > 0:04:24Yes, as I said before, the IUD
0:04:24 > 0:04:27can stay in for about ten years providing you don't have any issues.
0:04:27 > 0:04:28Erm, actually...
0:04:28 > 0:04:31..I wanted to ask, would I have any problems if I did have it taken out?
0:04:31 > 0:04:33- Do you mean fertility problems?- Yes.
0:04:34 > 0:04:38Well, you've been signed off by the oncologist...
0:04:38 > 0:04:41- Yeah, all clear. - You weren't on any chemotherapy.
0:04:41 > 0:04:42No.
0:04:42 > 0:04:46I think if the IUD is removed, normal fertility will be resumed
0:04:46 > 0:04:50with the caveat that it gets a bit harder as one gets older.
0:04:50 > 0:04:53- Yes.- Then you have been pregnant before?
0:04:53 > 0:04:56- Yes.- How did that go?
0:04:56 > 0:04:58Erm...
0:04:58 > 0:04:59I lost her.
0:05:01 > 0:05:03- My daughter, Charlotte.- Um...
0:05:04 > 0:05:06- Was this during pregnancy? - No, erm...
0:05:07 > 0:05:08No, it was in her teens.
0:05:10 > 0:05:11- Was it a genetic problem?- No.
0:05:11 > 0:05:14Look, I'm sorry, it was a long time ago
0:05:14 > 0:05:16and I really don't want to talk about it.
0:05:16 > 0:05:18So, if we could just...
0:05:18 > 0:05:21Yes, well, if you need the IUD removed, please make an appointment.
0:05:21 > 0:05:24Yes. Will do. Thank you, doctor.
0:05:31 > 0:05:33Um, ah. That one's not wired up yet.
0:05:35 > 0:05:37Ah!
0:05:37 > 0:05:41- You're going to wear that out! - Bye then!
0:05:41 > 0:05:43Thank you.
0:05:44 > 0:05:49- Oh!- Ah, you have found my secret button.
0:05:50 > 0:05:51And my note.
0:05:51 > 0:05:55I was hoping that you would not touch anything
0:05:55 > 0:05:57until I had a chance to brief you.
0:05:57 > 0:06:02The green button is to lock and unlock the door.
0:06:02 > 0:06:06For safety and security reasons, when we have evening surgery
0:06:06 > 0:06:07and minimal staff.
0:06:07 > 0:06:11Er, you will be pleased to hear that I am addressing all
0:06:11 > 0:06:13the security issues, under the guidance of Sergeant Hollins.
0:06:13 > 0:06:16So, hopefully, there should be no further concerns.
0:06:16 > 0:06:20Because of your secret button?
0:06:20 > 0:06:21Well, yes.
0:06:21 > 0:06:26Yes, and I have organised a role-playing workshop
0:06:26 > 0:06:28with a trainer this lunchtime.
0:06:28 > 0:06:31Now? I've got plans.
0:06:31 > 0:06:33- And me.- Lunch will be provided.
0:06:33 > 0:06:34Role-play!
0:06:34 > 0:06:38You said it was an invaluable exercise with Dr Reid and Dr Clay.
0:06:38 > 0:06:39It was then, with them,
0:06:39 > 0:06:43but not as some box-ticking jolly for the receptionists.
0:06:43 > 0:06:45A jolly? In my lunch break?
0:06:45 > 0:06:48It is an NHS initiative.
0:06:48 > 0:06:51You yourself highlighted the dangers of receptionists
0:06:51 > 0:06:53having to deal with problematic patients, did you not?
0:06:53 > 0:06:59- Did I?- I had to organise it quickly before my trip to Botswana.
0:06:59 > 0:07:01Yes, speaking of which, what about your stand-in?
0:07:01 > 0:07:03It is all in hand.
0:07:03 > 0:07:05Once I have crossed the T's and dotted the I's.
0:07:05 > 0:07:07Yes, but who is it?
0:07:07 > 0:07:09It is no-one you know.
0:07:09 > 0:07:12Mind you, I suppose role-play could be quite fun.
0:07:12 > 0:07:13So what does this other button do?
0:07:13 > 0:07:15No, no. That is to alert the police.
0:07:18 > 0:07:20SIREN BLARES
0:07:35 > 0:07:38- Off to your wine tasting?- Er, yeah.
0:07:38 > 0:07:39Ah, right, I'm all yours!
0:07:39 > 0:07:42Oh, er, Heston, Ayesha, this is my nephew, Will.
0:07:42 > 0:07:43Oh, hi. Heston Carter.
0:07:43 > 0:07:46Oh, yeah. How's life on the fast track?
0:07:46 > 0:07:49- Fast track?- Your, er, nurse-apprenticeship, thingy.
0:07:49 > 0:07:52Bit like proper nursing, isn't it but without all the real stuff?
0:07:52 > 0:07:53No, it's just the new way of training.
0:07:53 > 0:07:56You know, without all that outdated stuff.
0:07:56 > 0:07:59Oh, OK, junior. Well, erm, how about I give you a tour of the surgery?
0:07:59 > 0:08:02Show you what a real, grown-up nurse does.
0:08:02 > 0:08:03You're on.
0:08:04 > 0:08:06Fine. He's house-trained.
0:08:06 > 0:08:09- Not what I've heard. - I'll get some sandwiches in.
0:08:12 > 0:08:14- Something wrong?- Erm...
0:08:14 > 0:08:18Well, I've just seen a patient who said she lost her daughter,
0:08:18 > 0:08:21but there's no record of the daughter beyond the age of 15.
0:08:21 > 0:08:24Maybe she just ran away. You know what teenage girls are like.
0:08:24 > 0:08:26Yeah, but she was very insistent on the loss,
0:08:26 > 0:08:30but there's no record of the death of a Charlotte Webber.
0:08:30 > 0:08:32Which is, erm, a little bit odd.
0:08:38 > 0:08:40Hey...
0:08:40 > 0:08:42Sorry, I didn't mean to scare you.
0:08:43 > 0:08:47I just... I wanted to talk.
0:08:48 > 0:08:52Just once.
0:08:52 > 0:08:53Please.
0:08:56 > 0:08:58I am so sorry.
0:08:58 > 0:09:02But at least we know that the button actually works.
0:09:02 > 0:09:06Role-play! It's... it's a waste of my time.
0:09:06 > 0:09:09It's a box-ticking exercise because of our old friend evening appointments.
0:09:09 > 0:09:12It's probably some dried up old stick with halitosis.
0:09:12 > 0:09:15All right.
0:09:15 > 0:09:17Er, this is Mr Scotty.
0:09:17 > 0:09:20He will be doing the role-play with you this afternoon.
0:09:20 > 0:09:22Ladies. A pleasure.
0:09:22 > 0:09:23Oh, no, the pleasure's all ours!
0:09:23 > 0:09:25Been looking forward to this, haven't we?
0:09:25 > 0:09:28Oh, yes, all morning.
0:09:30 > 0:09:32PHONE RINGS
0:10:09 > 0:10:12What's it regarding?
0:10:12 > 0:10:16Cos, we can't help you unless you can say what's wrong.
0:10:16 > 0:10:19HE SCREECHES
0:10:24 > 0:10:27- You got an appointment? - I've got a headache!
0:10:27 > 0:10:29Well then, stop banging!
0:10:31 > 0:10:35I am Mrs Wilberforce, I have an urgent appointment.
0:10:38 > 0:10:42OK, well, if you would like to take a seat.
0:10:42 > 0:10:44- Oi!- No!- She said take a seat!
0:10:49 > 0:10:52Er, Mrs Wilberforce, the doctor will see you now.
0:10:54 > 0:10:56OK, so you've got a headache?
0:10:59 > 0:11:02HE CACKLES
0:11:03 > 0:11:07Hello, sweetheart. Where's your mummy?
0:11:07 > 0:11:10I am Ms Wilberforce, Scotty's mummy.
0:11:10 > 0:11:13Right, well, will you try and control him, please?
0:11:13 > 0:11:16Unfortunately I cannot control him.
0:11:16 > 0:11:21As the doctor said, if it gets any worse just go straight to A&E, OK?
0:11:23 > 0:11:25- Give us a bite?- Get off!
0:11:25 > 0:11:27BUZZER DRONES
0:11:30 > 0:11:35Hi, Scotty! Why don't you and I fly off to the play area together?
0:11:35 > 0:11:39- Come on! - BOTH: Neeoow!
0:11:39 > 0:11:41Yes, very good.
0:11:42 > 0:11:44- No, no, no. Let him out. Safety issue.- Oh.
0:11:44 > 0:11:46BUZZER DRONES
0:11:48 > 0:11:52I think we should pretend to press the button
0:11:52 > 0:11:56to avoid any further emergency services involvement.
0:11:56 > 0:11:58Red button - buzz.
0:12:00 > 0:12:02Nee-nah, nee-nah, nee-nah.
0:12:03 > 0:12:05Very good.
0:12:05 > 0:12:06Very good indeed.
0:12:14 > 0:12:17- Oh, hiya. Er... - Yeah? Can I help you with something?
0:12:17 > 0:12:19I was just looking for...
0:12:19 > 0:12:22..Jo. Is she in?
0:12:22 > 0:12:24- What's it about?- Just a chat.
0:12:27 > 0:12:29- It's not a good time.- Then, when?
0:12:30 > 0:12:33- She just said it's not a good time. - No, no. It's all right.- No it isn't.
0:12:33 > 0:12:36- You can't just wander in, like you live here.- Please.
0:12:36 > 0:12:38You'd better go.
0:12:38 > 0:12:41She said get out.
0:12:41 > 0:12:43What's your problem?
0:12:43 > 0:12:45I'm her son!
0:12:46 > 0:12:47You what...?
0:12:47 > 0:12:49Please, just go!
0:13:00 > 0:13:02Your son?
0:13:07 > 0:13:10Oh, excuse me. I'm looking for a Jo Webber?
0:13:10 > 0:13:12Er, yeah. It's probably not a good time.
0:13:12 > 0:13:14Oh, I see. Sorry, you are...
0:13:16 > 0:13:18- Her son.- Ah.
0:13:18 > 0:13:19Dr Carter.
0:13:21 > 0:13:22Wasn't there a daughter,
0:13:22 > 0:13:27- Charlotte?- Yeah, years ago.
0:13:27 > 0:13:28But I'm...Chas now.
0:13:34 > 0:13:35- Grub up.- Mmm, nice.
0:13:35 > 0:13:39- Hungry work, this baby-sitting. - Eh, this baby needs feeding.
0:13:39 > 0:13:44- How's it going?- He seems to know one end of a thermometer from the another, so...
0:13:44 > 0:13:45Never doubted it.
0:13:46 > 0:13:49Yeah, I came out at 15, which was...
0:13:50 > 0:13:52..hard.
0:13:52 > 0:13:53Still felt trapped.
0:13:55 > 0:13:56Couldn't even change my name until I was 16.
0:13:56 > 0:13:59Ah...that explains the records.
0:13:59 > 0:14:02Yeah, Mum. She just went straight into denial.
0:14:03 > 0:14:05So, I went straight out the door.
0:14:05 > 0:14:08Yeah, I thought, by now, she might have come round.
0:14:08 > 0:14:10Every year, I...
0:14:10 > 0:14:13..I reach out, on my birthday.
0:14:13 > 0:14:14But there's nothing there.
0:14:14 > 0:14:17So, I decided, this time would be my last.
0:14:19 > 0:14:21So much for many happy returns.
0:14:21 > 0:14:23She's still your mother.
0:14:23 > 0:14:26How come you're here anyway?
0:14:26 > 0:14:28- Is she OK?- I'm really can't say.
0:14:29 > 0:14:31But why this lie about Charlotte?
0:14:31 > 0:14:33You could have just told me that she was...
0:14:33 > 0:14:35- ..that he was...- I know, I'm sorry.
0:14:35 > 0:14:37I thought she'd died!
0:14:40 > 0:14:42- DOORBELL RINGS - Don't!
0:14:42 > 0:14:43Mum, I just...
0:14:43 > 0:14:47Oh, she's already told you twice, so just leave.
0:14:48 > 0:14:49Oh! That looks painful.
0:14:49 > 0:14:50We need to get something cold on this.
0:14:50 > 0:14:51No, of course. Come in.
0:14:52 > 0:14:55- Straight through there. - Through here?- Yeah.
0:14:58 > 0:15:00You have just seen the doctor.
0:15:00 > 0:15:01I want to see a different one!
0:15:01 > 0:15:03I'm afraid there's nobody else on duty.
0:15:03 > 0:15:05What sort of GPs doesn't have doctors?!
0:15:05 > 0:15:08- I can make you another appointment. - Right, I'll see him again then!
0:15:08 > 0:15:11Oh, no, you don't! He's in there with someone else.
0:15:11 > 0:15:14- Well, get him out here now!- Oh. OK.
0:15:14 > 0:15:15Buzz.
0:15:15 > 0:15:18Nee-nah, nee-nah, nee nah.
0:15:18 > 0:15:21I am WPC Wilberforce.
0:15:21 > 0:15:23- That was fast! - What seems to be the problem here?
0:15:23 > 0:15:26This gentleman is causing a disturbance
0:15:26 > 0:15:28because we won't let him go and see the doctor again.
0:15:28 > 0:15:30Get out of my way! Ah! Argh!
0:15:30 > 0:15:32Please...I'm sorry
0:15:33 > 0:15:37Mr Scotty, I am arresting you for breach of the peace.
0:15:39 > 0:15:41It's just, he said it was terminal.
0:15:41 > 0:15:43What am I supposed to tell my kids?
0:15:46 > 0:15:48Frozen peas, anything from the freezer will do.
0:15:48 > 0:15:50- Have a seat.- I could take him down the hospital.
0:15:50 > 0:15:54- You're not getting rid of me that easily. - OK, I don't think it's broken.
0:15:54 > 0:15:56Argh... Are you ill?
0:15:56 > 0:15:59- No.- Then why's the doctor here?
0:15:59 > 0:16:01You don't have to do this. I can take...
0:16:01 > 0:16:03Keep it elevated.
0:16:03 > 0:16:04I can sort it.
0:16:05 > 0:16:07By it do you mean me?
0:16:10 > 0:16:12I can't do this.
0:16:12 > 0:16:14I've made it worse, haven't I?
0:16:15 > 0:16:18It's not your fault.
0:16:18 > 0:16:20It's mine. I lied.
0:16:20 > 0:16:23To you, to Andy.
0:16:23 > 0:16:27How am I going to explain that to her.
0:16:27 > 0:16:29Him. It's been years, now.
0:16:30 > 0:16:33I don't even know him.
0:16:33 > 0:16:36You two need to talk, in private
0:16:40 > 0:16:42That last one was really good.
0:16:42 > 0:16:44- Good.- Yeah, but I was thinking, maybe,
0:16:44 > 0:16:46maybe we should have given it more time to try
0:16:46 > 0:16:49and calm things down, before going for the button.
0:16:49 > 0:16:53Good! I am glad that you found the exercise useful.
0:16:53 > 0:16:56Well, that was the last of Mrs Tembe's prepped examples.
0:16:56 > 0:16:58But, er, I am still on the clock.
0:16:58 > 0:17:02So, if there's anything else you'd like to workshop, then...?
0:17:02 > 0:17:04Oh, yes, loads, isn't there? Erm...
0:17:04 > 0:17:07..dealing with tricky co-workers.
0:17:07 > 0:17:11Erm... being at the beck and call of dismissive doctors.
0:17:11 > 0:17:13- And managers.- And managers.
0:17:13 > 0:17:14Erm...
0:17:14 > 0:17:18Having extra work just dumped on you with no warning.
0:17:18 > 0:17:20Yes!
0:17:20 > 0:17:21- Hmm.- Huh.
0:17:31 > 0:17:32It's so weird.
0:17:35 > 0:17:38It's like looking at someone else's life.
0:17:39 > 0:17:42I can't believe you just...
0:17:42 > 0:17:43..kept it all.
0:17:45 > 0:17:47It's all I've got left now.
0:17:50 > 0:17:53My daughter's gone for good.
0:17:53 > 0:17:55It wasn't like I had a choice.
0:17:55 > 0:17:57You wore dresses, ribbons in your hair!
0:17:57 > 0:18:00You played with dolls.
0:18:00 > 0:18:02Because you wanted me to!
0:18:04 > 0:18:06And I didn't want to let you down.
0:18:10 > 0:18:12But it wasn't who I am.
0:18:16 > 0:18:18She doesn't want to deal with this...nonsense.
0:18:18 > 0:18:20And we're here, faffing about with tea.
0:18:20 > 0:18:23I think nonsense is a little bit inappropriate.
0:18:23 > 0:18:26Look, we're all born either male or female
0:18:26 > 0:18:28bar the odd mistake of nature.
0:18:28 > 0:18:32Well, much of what society thinks of as gender - pink, blue, dolls,
0:18:32 > 0:18:37rugby - is putting people into rather simplistic categories.
0:18:37 > 0:18:41And as someone whose interests are often described as unmanly -
0:18:41 > 0:18:44opera, fine wine, nice tea -
0:18:44 > 0:18:49I too have often felt something of an outsider.
0:18:50 > 0:18:51That I can believe.
0:18:52 > 0:18:54You were my baby girl.
0:18:56 > 0:18:57You were my whole world.
0:19:00 > 0:19:03I gave birth to you.
0:19:03 > 0:19:06I fed you.
0:19:06 > 0:19:07I kissed you better.
0:19:09 > 0:19:11- I dried your tears. - I know, I was there.
0:19:14 > 0:19:15I mean, what happened?
0:19:17 > 0:19:20I mean to the white wedding.
0:19:20 > 0:19:22You know, maybe having grandkids one day.
0:19:24 > 0:19:26Everything I hoped for.
0:19:27 > 0:19:30What happened to your mum always being there?
0:19:30 > 0:19:33Loving you no matter what.
0:19:33 > 0:19:35No, I never stopped loving you.
0:19:37 > 0:19:41I just, I needed time, to grieve.
0:19:44 > 0:19:46Everything changed in a flash.
0:19:46 > 0:19:48Suddenly you, you were gone...
0:19:50 > 0:19:53..to somewhere that I couldn't understand.
0:19:55 > 0:19:57It was like you'd never been.
0:19:59 > 0:20:00Have you had the lot done?
0:20:03 > 0:20:06Oh, my baby...
0:20:06 > 0:20:09How could you?
0:20:09 > 0:20:11It was part of you.
0:20:11 > 0:20:14I knew you wouldn't understand.
0:20:16 > 0:20:18Wouldn't I?
0:20:41 > 0:20:42Cancer?
0:20:45 > 0:20:49I'd only just found out when you told me that you were...
0:20:54 > 0:20:57I was a mum, a woman...
0:20:59 > 0:21:02..and then suddenly nothing.
0:21:04 > 0:21:06Mutilated.
0:21:06 > 0:21:08Everything that made me me.
0:21:10 > 0:21:11Not...complete.
0:21:13 > 0:21:16That was how I felt for years.
0:21:19 > 0:21:22You know the biggest loss was always you.
0:21:26 > 0:21:28That never healed, no matter what.
0:21:28 > 0:21:30I'm still here, Mum.
0:21:30 > 0:21:32I'm right here.
0:21:32 > 0:21:33I still need you.
0:21:35 > 0:21:38I haven't changed, not really.
0:21:38 > 0:21:39I still hate peas.
0:21:41 > 0:21:44You have done very well.
0:21:47 > 0:21:50Perhaps we should bring this exercise to a close now.
0:21:50 > 0:21:55- But I want you to do the same again...tomorrow...- No!
0:21:55 > 0:21:58- ..while standing on your heads and juggling upside-down.- No!
0:21:58 > 0:21:59The power of no!
0:22:01 > 0:22:03Well, practice makes perfect!
0:22:04 > 0:22:07The power of pointless box-ticking exercises.
0:22:07 > 0:22:10And you two... you ticked yourselves right off.
0:22:10 > 0:22:12- No!- You're ticking us off!
0:22:12 > 0:22:16The main thing is whether you both feel like you got something out of it.
0:22:16 > 0:22:19Oh, yeah, no, definitely. It was quite fun actually, wasn't it?
0:22:19 > 0:22:22Yeah. Almost worth missing lunch for.
0:22:22 > 0:22:25And I promise that we will put into practice
0:22:25 > 0:22:27- everything that we've learned.- Good.
0:22:29 > 0:22:31This was a bad idea.
0:22:31 > 0:22:33You saw how vulnerable she is.
0:22:33 > 0:22:35She needs me with her, to lean on.
0:22:35 > 0:22:38- Well, if she does, I'm sure she'll be happy...- Yeah, she's not strong.
0:22:39 > 0:22:43Andy, there are lots of different kinds of strength.
0:22:43 > 0:22:44- Oh, what does that even mean? - Well...
0:22:44 > 0:22:46You know what she's been through!
0:22:46 > 0:22:50There's the strength, for example, that women have -
0:22:50 > 0:22:51going through childbirth -
0:22:51 > 0:22:57and the strength to pursue a difficult path, like Chas.
0:22:57 > 0:22:59I dunno about any of that stuff, right?
0:22:59 > 0:23:01But I know Jo and she needs me.
0:23:03 > 0:23:05Ah. All right, love? Sorted?
0:23:06 > 0:23:08- Yeah.- Good.
0:23:08 > 0:23:11Erm...
0:23:11 > 0:23:14I was just wondering how you'd feel about
0:23:14 > 0:23:15putting the move off.
0:23:17 > 0:23:18What?
0:23:18 > 0:23:20It's just that, erm,
0:23:20 > 0:23:23I'm going to need Chas' room for when he comes to stay.
0:23:24 > 0:23:27But what about us? What about our plans?
0:23:27 > 0:23:30Yeah, I know, and I'm sorry.
0:23:30 > 0:23:32But it's not for ever.
0:23:32 > 0:23:34We've still got time, haven't we?
0:23:37 > 0:23:39He's my son.
0:23:39 > 0:23:42Look, I know that it's a lot for us all to take in.
0:23:42 > 0:23:45And maybe we should take some time,
0:23:45 > 0:23:47you know, to come to terms with it.
0:23:49 > 0:23:51Yeah.
0:23:54 > 0:23:56Right you two, drink up.
0:23:56 > 0:23:58I've got work to do.
0:23:58 > 0:23:59So, you out tonight?
0:24:00 > 0:24:02- No.- Oh, yes.
0:24:02 > 0:24:05And there was me all geared up for the hotspots of Letherbridge.
0:24:05 > 0:24:07Mmm. I'm not sure he knows any.
0:24:07 > 0:24:09There must be one decent bar.
0:24:09 > 0:24:14- It's a school night. - Well, if you're in late in, I'll write you a note.
0:24:14 > 0:24:16I know a pub. Does live music on a Monday.
0:24:16 > 0:24:20Ooh, someone's going to land Uncle Jimmi on the naughty step.
0:24:20 > 0:24:21I'll do me best.
0:24:25 > 0:24:26Hey. You...
0:24:29 > 0:24:32Look, if you want to chat about...
0:24:32 > 0:24:37..anything we could go grab a pint at some point.
0:24:37 > 0:24:39Yeah.
0:24:39 > 0:24:40Maybe.
0:24:52 > 0:24:53Sorry for earlier.
0:24:53 > 0:24:54Worrying you like that,
0:24:54 > 0:24:56but it wasn't really a lie.
0:24:57 > 0:24:58I did lose a daughter.
0:25:01 > 0:25:04You know, I had an aunt who died of breast cancer,
0:25:04 > 0:25:08she left my cousins without a mum. At least I'm here to try again.
0:25:10 > 0:25:12Do you think that if it does run in the family
0:25:12 > 0:25:15Chas will have less chance of getting it?
0:25:15 > 0:25:19- It's worth investigating. Good luck.- Thank you.
0:25:20 > 0:25:22Nice to...meet you.
0:25:25 > 0:25:28So...what now?
0:25:28 > 0:25:29I don't know.
0:25:29 > 0:25:31But it is your birthday
0:25:31 > 0:25:34and that's definitely worth celebrating.
0:25:34 > 0:25:36Come on.
0:25:44 > 0:25:46About your replacement, Mrs Tembe.
0:25:46 > 0:25:49I am afraid I have a mountain of things to organise.
0:25:49 > 0:25:52Of which this should be top of the list.
0:25:52 > 0:25:54Unless there is some reason you're avoiding telling me who it is.
0:25:54 > 0:25:56Of course not.
0:25:56 > 0:26:00Good, because however Daniel and Jimmi may have abdicated responsibility,
0:26:00 > 0:26:01I still expect to have a say.
0:26:01 > 0:26:05Look, my replacement will be coming in to meet the team on Thursday.
0:26:05 > 0:26:08By which time it'll be too late to find an alternative!
0:26:08 > 0:26:12There is a short list of other candidates, but he is my preferred.
0:26:13 > 0:26:18I just want people to have an open mind before they actually meet him.
0:26:18 > 0:26:22Open mind? About what?
0:26:22 > 0:26:24Well...nothing specific.
0:26:24 > 0:26:27It's just that some people can over-react.
0:26:27 > 0:26:29Over-react to what?!
0:26:30 > 0:26:34He has a slightly different approach.
0:26:36 > 0:26:39Look, I am confident that you and the partners will
0:26:39 > 0:26:42put your reservations aside and support him fully.
0:26:42 > 0:26:44- What does that mean, Mrs Tembe? - Excuse me.
0:26:44 > 0:26:46Mrs Tembe?!
0:26:47 > 0:26:48Oh!
0:26:55 > 0:26:59I came to examine Mr Harper, and I haven't touched your son.
0:26:59 > 0:27:00Get out.
0:27:01 > 0:27:04Oh. You look how I feel.
0:27:04 > 0:27:06Not when they're talking as much nonsense as you are.
0:27:06 > 0:27:09- What?- All right, That's enough.
0:27:09 > 0:27:12I would not want to tell you a name and then have to disappoint you.
0:27:12 > 0:27:14But there is a name?
0:27:14 > 0:27:16Oh, yes. There is a name.