0:00:33 > 0:00:35Ta-da!
0:00:35 > 0:00:40Scrambled eggs and toast...and only a little bit burnt this time.
0:00:40 > 0:00:41Oh, hold on, hold on.
0:00:47 > 0:00:48There you go. Go for it!
0:00:52 > 0:00:54Is that good?
0:00:54 > 0:00:55No, thank you, darling.
0:01:06 > 0:01:07Oh, hang on!
0:01:09 > 0:01:11"Slinky Minx seeks Silver Fox."
0:01:11 > 0:01:13Hmm?
0:01:13 > 0:01:16That's how they got together - and now they're getting married! Look.
0:01:16 > 0:01:19Slinky Minx - that's my friend Sally. She was single for ever.
0:01:19 > 0:01:21Until she tried online dating.
0:01:21 > 0:01:24And found her Silver Fox. So this is her dating...
0:01:24 > 0:01:28That's her dating profile. Right there, on the invitation!
0:01:28 > 0:01:30She's very blase.
0:01:30 > 0:01:31Can't say that I blame her.
0:01:31 > 0:01:34Loads of my friends have done online dating. They love it.
0:01:34 > 0:01:37I suppose it is a practical solution.
0:01:37 > 0:01:39- For the more mature person. - Yeah, and fun, too.
0:01:39 > 0:01:41As long as you go about it in the right way.
0:01:43 > 0:01:45I could use some fun.
0:01:45 > 0:01:48I have to tell you, I have been thinking recently about
0:01:48 > 0:01:51diving back into the plunge pool of love.
0:01:52 > 0:01:54Maybe this is a sign?
0:01:54 > 0:01:55Maybe it is.
0:01:55 > 0:01:59Just remember - not everyone online is as nice as you, though, Valerie.
0:01:59 > 0:02:01Oh, I will.
0:02:01 > 0:02:03I think I can handle myself.
0:02:42 > 0:02:45No nursery today.
0:02:45 > 0:02:46Swings later?
0:02:49 > 0:02:51No.
0:02:51 > 0:02:53Oh, that's nice.
0:02:53 > 0:02:55What are you up to?
0:02:55 > 0:02:58Do you think I look too "come hither" in this one?
0:02:58 > 0:03:00Um... Morning!
0:03:00 > 0:03:02Morning. Let me just have a look in my diary now, then.
0:03:02 > 0:03:03I just...
0:03:03 > 0:03:05Oh, for...
0:03:05 > 0:03:06Oh, dear.
0:03:06 > 0:03:09Well, it is a good excuse to treat yourself, Sister Carter.
0:03:09 > 0:03:11Yeah. Yeah, because I could be one of those people.
0:03:11 > 0:03:14You know, who spends a month's wages on a glorified sack.
0:03:14 > 0:03:16- Look, I did not...- It's fine.
0:03:24 > 0:03:27I have spent ages scrolling through all my photos,
0:03:27 > 0:03:29but none of them were quite right.
0:03:29 > 0:03:31So I took these. For the dating site.
0:03:33 > 0:03:35Why's it so dark?
0:03:35 > 0:03:37- Where did you take it? - Cleaner's cupboard.
0:03:37 > 0:03:41I was aiming for the moody ambiance.
0:03:41 > 0:03:44It's almost pitch black. Is that a mop in the background?
0:03:44 > 0:03:47Oh. I thought I draped a scarf over that.
0:03:47 > 0:03:48I did take these as well.
0:03:48 > 0:03:50I've got a great one of you.
0:03:50 > 0:03:53You know when we went to the pub by the river. Remember?
0:03:53 > 0:03:55Oh.
0:03:55 > 0:03:57It's a bit windswept. My hair is all ruffled up.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00No, it's friendly. You look nice. I'll send it to you.
0:04:00 > 0:04:03OK. Ooh, I've done some work on my profile, as well.
0:04:03 > 0:04:05- Oh, good. - It's so hard to stand out.
0:04:05 > 0:04:08So, I decided to write it all in rhyme.
0:04:09 > 0:04:11How did that go?
0:04:11 > 0:04:14Hardly anything rhymes with Valerie!
0:04:14 > 0:04:15Apart from calorie.
0:04:15 > 0:04:17And salary.
0:04:17 > 0:04:19So I decided to change that plan.
0:04:19 > 0:04:21But here is a rough outline.
0:04:28 > 0:04:31I'm not sure you need so much stuff in there about cats.
0:04:33 > 0:04:35And so many favourite cakes?
0:04:35 > 0:04:38Oh... It's so hard to cut myself down to size.
0:04:38 > 0:04:40I have tried, honestly.
0:04:41 > 0:04:43I am just so multi-faceted.
0:04:43 > 0:04:45Do you want me to have a go?
0:04:45 > 0:04:47I've got a gap between patients coming up.
0:04:50 > 0:04:53I spy with my little eye,
0:04:53 > 0:04:55something beginning...
0:04:55 > 0:04:57Jamie.
0:04:57 > 0:04:59Ian. Anita.
0:05:00 > 0:05:02How's things?
0:05:02 > 0:05:04They'd be better if you two stopped stalking us.
0:05:04 > 0:05:06Come on, son...
0:05:06 > 0:05:09Just happened to be passing, did you? You live miles away.
0:05:09 > 0:05:13No. We drove over specially. Because you won't answer the phone.
0:05:13 > 0:05:14Are you OK?
0:05:14 > 0:05:17I saw you outside earlier. Lurking.
0:05:17 > 0:05:19We were hoping to catch you and Cara.
0:05:21 > 0:05:24We're only asking to spend some time with her.
0:05:24 > 0:05:26Aren't we, darling? We miss you.
0:05:26 > 0:05:28I've got an appointment. Come on, Cara. Let's go.
0:05:28 > 0:05:30Why don't we look after her? Help you out a bit.
0:05:30 > 0:05:32It's half term, isn't it?
0:05:32 > 0:05:34We're good. Thank you.
0:05:34 > 0:05:37Jamie. Please don't shut us out.
0:05:37 > 0:05:39Do you need a lift?
0:05:41 > 0:05:43"I am vibrant, bubbly,
0:05:43 > 0:05:46"creative and caring with a wild heart. I love to laugh
0:05:46 > 0:05:49"and am always up for an adventure - suggestions welcome!"
0:05:49 > 0:05:52- Ooh, I say! - What do you think?
0:05:52 > 0:05:55Well, if I wasn't already married to Rob, I would date you.
0:05:55 > 0:05:59I do sound kind of unique. But also real, too.
0:05:59 > 0:06:03Valerie - you are unique. The sooner you realise that, the better.
0:06:03 > 0:06:06- I'm going to upload myself as soon as I get a break.- Good.
0:06:08 > 0:06:10Hello, Jamie.
0:06:10 > 0:06:11Hi.
0:06:11 > 0:06:13Hello, Cara!
0:06:13 > 0:06:15Dr Reid is ready for you, if you would like to go through.
0:06:15 > 0:06:17- OK.- We'll keep an eye on Cara.
0:06:18 > 0:06:21Hi, nice to see you again. How do you do?
0:06:22 > 0:06:24The HIV clinic are very concerned.
0:06:26 > 0:06:28Your viral load is sky-high.
0:06:30 > 0:06:31Jamie?
0:06:34 > 0:06:38I thought...just a blip.
0:06:38 > 0:06:39Right.
0:06:39 > 0:06:40What about Cara?
0:06:42 > 0:06:44Cara gets the best of everything!
0:06:44 > 0:06:46Jamie, you're a good dad.
0:06:46 > 0:06:48But you need to be a healthy one, too.
0:06:48 > 0:06:51It's not even a year since you lost Kitty.
0:06:53 > 0:06:56You're not on your own.
0:06:56 > 0:06:58If something is wrong, then I can...
0:06:58 > 0:06:59I can't afford it, OK!
0:07:01 > 0:07:02Can't afford what?
0:07:02 > 0:07:04Any of it!
0:07:04 > 0:07:07The rent, the bills, the bus fares.
0:07:08 > 0:07:11After I've bought Cara's food, there is nothing left.
0:07:11 > 0:07:13What about your food?
0:07:13 > 0:07:14Like I said...
0:07:16 > 0:07:18Jamie, you are all that Cara has got.
0:07:20 > 0:07:21So we have to sort this out.
0:07:23 > 0:07:25In the meantime, maybe Kitty's parents
0:07:25 > 0:07:26- could lend you some... - No way...
0:07:26 > 0:07:28They know I messed up,
0:07:28 > 0:07:31they'll be straight on to their lawyers with a custody case.
0:07:31 > 0:07:34They're Cara's grandparents. They're bound to...
0:07:34 > 0:07:37They blame me for giving Kitty HIV!
0:07:37 > 0:07:41And now, they think that I am going to "infect" Cara -
0:07:41 > 0:07:42so they're set on taking her.
0:07:42 > 0:07:45Jamie, sit down, please.
0:07:55 > 0:07:57You've had a hard time.
0:07:59 > 0:08:01But you're not sounding like yourself.
0:08:01 > 0:08:04- And those are serious accusations. - It's the truth!
0:08:06 > 0:08:10Well, do they understand how HIV is transmitted?
0:08:10 > 0:08:11A lot of people don't.
0:08:13 > 0:08:14They don't listen.
0:08:14 > 0:08:16Not to me.
0:08:16 > 0:08:19Well, I'd be happy to talk to them, if you think it would help.
0:08:19 > 0:08:21You know, give them a medical perspective.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25Please. For Cara.
0:08:28 > 0:08:30Here you go. Keep your strength up.
0:08:30 > 0:08:32How's it going?
0:08:32 > 0:08:34Well, no-one has liked me yet.
0:08:34 > 0:08:37Well, give it time. Sometimes men are just slow starters.
0:08:37 > 0:08:41Excuse me. I'm trying to enjoy a quiet lunch break here.
0:08:41 > 0:08:45It's not easy with the budgie brigade chirping on.
0:08:45 > 0:08:46I'm online dating.
0:08:46 > 0:08:49Wow. Look out, internet.
0:08:49 > 0:08:51It's logical. Practical.
0:08:51 > 0:08:54You think that's what we are all looking for in passion,
0:08:54 > 0:08:56isn't it Valerie? Practicality.
0:08:56 > 0:08:58Well, it's fun as well.
0:08:58 > 0:09:01I thought you would favour the scientific approach.
0:09:01 > 0:09:03In life, maybe.
0:09:03 > 0:09:06But love, by its very nature, is irrational and random.
0:09:06 > 0:09:08It's flawed.
0:09:08 > 0:09:09It's...it's human.
0:09:11 > 0:09:13That is so romantic!
0:09:13 > 0:09:14No, no, no, no.
0:09:14 > 0:09:17"Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world,
0:09:17 > 0:09:19"she walks into mine."
0:09:19 > 0:09:22That's romance. That's what love is.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25Some horribly messy accident of the fates.
0:09:25 > 0:09:29Not, you know, a cross-matching of profiles. Swipe left, swipe right.
0:09:29 > 0:09:31Ignore him, Valerie. He's just winding you up.
0:09:40 > 0:09:43You stalking us again?
0:09:43 > 0:09:44We know Cara loves this park.
0:09:44 > 0:09:46We just hoped to see her.
0:09:48 > 0:09:51I don't understand how it's come to this, Jamie.
0:09:51 > 0:09:53I do. Only too well.
0:09:54 > 0:09:57What can we do to make you trust us?
0:10:00 > 0:10:04My doctor. At The Mill Health Centre.
0:10:04 > 0:10:06She's offered to put you straight about HIV.
0:10:06 > 0:10:10How there's no way I can infect Cara.
0:10:10 > 0:10:13But we don't... You don't think that?
0:10:13 > 0:10:15Will you see her? Dr Reid?
0:10:15 > 0:10:17Of course.
0:10:17 > 0:10:18Ian!
0:10:18 > 0:10:21Jamie wants us to go and have a chat with his doctor.
0:10:21 > 0:10:22No problem.
0:10:25 > 0:10:28Why don't you push Cara on the swing first? She loves that.
0:10:33 > 0:10:35How are you managing for cash, son?
0:10:36 > 0:10:38Not cheap, life with a youngster.
0:10:41 > 0:10:46- Little extra never went amiss. - I'm fine, thanks.
0:10:46 > 0:10:48Go on. Treat my gorgeous granddaughter.
0:10:48 > 0:10:50Cara doesn't need your money!
0:10:57 > 0:10:59Mrs Tembe.
0:10:59 > 0:11:01Bald men - yes or no?
0:11:01 > 0:11:04Well, I have not really given it much thought, Miss Pitman.
0:11:04 > 0:11:08OK, then. Gut reaction? His name is Pete. He likes Dire Straits.
0:11:08 > 0:11:10And he's bald.
0:11:10 > 0:11:12Bald men have more testosterone, don't they?
0:11:12 > 0:11:15- I'm sure I read that somewhere. - He looks very nice.
0:11:15 > 0:11:17Yep. They are all going to look nice.
0:11:17 > 0:11:18They are all going to sound nice.
0:11:18 > 0:11:21Because they're presenting a sanitised version of themselves.
0:11:21 > 0:11:23But in reality, they're going to be like a...
0:11:23 > 0:11:27..like a spider waiting to pounce on an unsuspecting fly.
0:11:27 > 0:11:29Don't be an unsuspecting fly, Valerie.
0:11:29 > 0:11:30The internet is a strange place.
0:11:30 > 0:11:31Just be careful.
0:11:35 > 0:11:38There you are. Here... Look...
0:11:38 > 0:11:40If you would rather be on your own...?
0:11:40 > 0:11:43No, no, no, thank you.
0:11:43 > 0:11:44I was out of line, Mrs Tembe.
0:11:44 > 0:11:48I'm sorry, I just, um...
0:11:48 > 0:11:49I....
0:11:53 > 0:11:57Look, is there... is there something troubling you?
0:11:57 > 0:11:59Yeah.
0:11:59 > 0:12:01£1,900 on one bag!
0:12:01 > 0:12:04And I just can't get it out of my head.
0:12:04 > 0:12:07I am sorry, I am not following.
0:12:07 > 0:12:08Sorry. Heston and I, we met up
0:12:08 > 0:12:11with some of his surgeon friends at the weekend.
0:12:11 > 0:12:14And their very high-powered other halves.
0:12:14 > 0:12:16- I see.- Yeah.
0:12:16 > 0:12:19And they were just dripping in bling!
0:12:19 > 0:12:22I mean, nothing they were wearing costs less than I earn in a week.
0:12:22 > 0:12:25Yes, I have encountered such people.
0:12:25 > 0:12:27So have I! Normally it's fine.
0:12:27 > 0:12:28But...
0:12:30 > 0:12:32I just don't fit in that world.
0:12:32 > 0:12:33Heston's world.
0:12:34 > 0:12:38It is what is inside that matters. Dr Carter knows that.
0:12:39 > 0:12:41Yeah.
0:12:41 > 0:12:42Yeah, maybe.
0:12:44 > 0:12:49HIV can only be transmitted through unprotected sex,
0:12:49 > 0:12:51the sharing of needles,
0:12:51 > 0:12:53blood transfusions
0:12:53 > 0:12:56or between mother and baby in the womb.
0:12:56 > 0:12:59So there is absolutely no risk to Cara.
0:13:01 > 0:13:02Thank you, Doctor.
0:13:04 > 0:13:06It all sounds so reasonable.
0:13:08 > 0:13:09But Kitty did die.
0:13:11 > 0:13:14Her heart just failed. And she was gone.
0:13:14 > 0:13:16I'm sorry.
0:13:16 > 0:13:20They said it was probably unrelated...to the HIV.
0:13:21 > 0:13:24Anyway, that's not why we're here, is it?
0:13:25 > 0:13:28Can you help us get through to Jamie?
0:13:28 > 0:13:31We try so hard, but nothing works.
0:13:31 > 0:13:34It's like he wants Cara to forget us!
0:13:34 > 0:13:37Well, if you're offering your help and support,
0:13:37 > 0:13:39it seems like you're doing all you can.
0:13:39 > 0:13:42Well, not when Jamie turns us down flat!
0:13:42 > 0:13:44Why is he punishing us?
0:13:45 > 0:13:47I've known Jamie a long time.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50And he doesn't strike me as the punishing kind.
0:13:50 > 0:13:53Maybe he feels under pressure.
0:13:53 > 0:13:56We've tried staying away. But he never answers our calls.
0:13:56 > 0:14:00And when we do manage to see Cara, he accuses us of all sorts!
0:14:00 > 0:14:04Apart from this morning, we haven't seen them for weeks.
0:14:04 > 0:14:07And to be honest, Doctor, we were shocked.
0:14:07 > 0:14:09The state of poor Jamie!
0:14:09 > 0:14:12He's lost so much weight! Is his health going downhill?
0:14:12 > 0:14:15The way he's behaving, it must be something serious.
0:14:15 > 0:14:17And all those drugs he's on...
0:14:17 > 0:14:19I can't discuss that.
0:14:19 > 0:14:22But his mental state. You must have noticed it, too. I mean...
0:14:23 > 0:14:25..he's so hostile and agitated.
0:14:25 > 0:14:27Verging on paranoid.
0:14:27 > 0:14:31He's been saying some terrible things. And little Cara...
0:14:31 > 0:14:35I think it's safe to say that Jamie will always put Cara first -
0:14:35 > 0:14:36no matter what.
0:14:36 > 0:14:38I think we can all agree on that.
0:14:41 > 0:14:44Thank you for seeing us today.
0:14:44 > 0:14:46We appreciate you taking the time.
0:14:46 > 0:14:50You're welcome. I'll let Jamie know that we've talked.
0:14:51 > 0:14:56Tell him, if there's anything at all he needs us to do, we'll do it.
0:14:56 > 0:14:58Of course.
0:15:06 > 0:15:10Did Dr Carter actually use the words "smarten up"?
0:15:10 > 0:15:13Well, he gave me £3,000 to buy a brand-new wardrobe!
0:15:13 > 0:15:16Knowing Dr Carter, it was just a generous gift.
0:15:16 > 0:15:19So, you think I'm being over-sensitive?
0:15:21 > 0:15:24I've just always had to, you know, watch every penny with me and the kids.
0:15:24 > 0:15:26Shak and Alia are a credit to you.
0:15:26 > 0:15:28Thank you.
0:15:28 > 0:15:30I always put a little bit aside every month, you know,
0:15:30 > 0:15:32for their future.
0:15:32 > 0:15:35Shak's birthday is coming up. I am going to surprise him
0:15:35 > 0:15:38with enough cash to buy himself a new computer.
0:15:38 > 0:15:40Well, you see?
0:15:40 > 0:15:44How wonderful to offer a generous gift to someone you love.
0:15:44 > 0:15:47Do you know, I think I have done a good job on this.
0:15:47 > 0:15:49Thanks for the tea, Mrs Tembe.
0:15:52 > 0:15:53Right.
0:15:53 > 0:15:58Jamie, if you get too ill, social services will step in and then what?
0:15:58 > 0:16:00Hmm?
0:16:00 > 0:16:03Look, you don't have to be best friends with Ian and Anita.
0:16:03 > 0:16:06But they're Cara's grandparents. They're a link to her mum.
0:16:06 > 0:16:09OK. But I'm not seeing them unless you're there.
0:16:09 > 0:16:11- That would be a disaster. - Well, that's fine.
0:16:11 > 0:16:14Give me a couple of weeks. Get myself sorted.
0:16:14 > 0:16:16Come on, let's get it over with, shall we?
0:16:16 > 0:16:19What about this afternoon, 4.30?
0:16:19 > 0:16:21I'll bring everyone to The Mill?
0:16:21 > 0:16:24There's Cara. It would be easier when she's back at nursery.
0:16:24 > 0:16:26Well, that's all right. She can help out in reception.
0:16:26 > 0:16:27Is that OK?
0:16:29 > 0:16:32- OK.- Great. All right, I'll see you later.
0:16:37 > 0:16:38Bye.
0:16:40 > 0:16:42Have you ever dated a bald man?
0:16:42 > 0:16:43No.
0:16:43 > 0:16:46- I've got a date!- Oh.
0:16:46 > 0:16:49Well, if being bald isn't a deal-breaker
0:16:49 > 0:16:51and he's not a serial killer, then say yes?
0:16:51 > 0:16:55- Already have.- OK. Make sure you check him out first.
0:16:55 > 0:16:57- I want you to be safe. - Ms Pitman!
0:16:57 > 0:16:58Course I will.
0:17:00 > 0:17:01Why don't you just say it?
0:17:02 > 0:17:04You blame me for Kitty's death!
0:17:04 > 0:17:07Oh, please, not this again, Jamie.
0:17:07 > 0:17:09I didn't give her HIV!
0:17:11 > 0:17:12I loved her.
0:17:14 > 0:17:16I looked after her best I could.
0:17:16 > 0:17:18We looked after each other!
0:17:18 > 0:17:23You're trying to be mum and dad to Cara. That's so hard.
0:17:23 > 0:17:24But she's...
0:17:24 > 0:17:27She's worth it. Whatever happens,
0:17:27 > 0:17:28we won't let Cara down, Jamie.
0:17:31 > 0:17:35Look, it's clear that Cara is the most important thing to all of you.
0:17:37 > 0:17:39Surely that's something you can build on?
0:17:41 > 0:17:43Can you give us a chance?
0:17:48 > 0:17:49Maybe...
0:17:52 > 0:17:53Jamie?
0:17:53 > 0:17:55I feel a bit dizzy.
0:17:55 > 0:17:59OK. Just relax, take a couple of breaths.
0:18:00 > 0:18:01All right, easy does it.
0:18:03 > 0:18:05Some more requisition forms.
0:18:05 > 0:18:06Lovely, thanks.
0:18:10 > 0:18:15You know, your financial resourcefulness should be commended.
0:18:15 > 0:18:17Thank you.
0:18:17 > 0:18:19But...?
0:18:19 > 0:18:20But...
0:18:20 > 0:18:25spending money on yourself is not just necessary,
0:18:25 > 0:18:28it is good for you. Well, Dr Carmichael taught me that,
0:18:28 > 0:18:31when she persuaded me to buy my home.
0:18:31 > 0:18:32A home is not a bag.
0:18:32 > 0:18:35No, no, of course not.
0:18:35 > 0:18:39I am not saying that money can buy you happiness.
0:18:39 > 0:18:42But it can buy you things and experiences.
0:18:44 > 0:18:47And it can make life just that little bit easier
0:18:47 > 0:18:49and more pleasurable.
0:18:50 > 0:18:53Please, just think about it.
0:18:59 > 0:19:01Just look at me?
0:19:03 > 0:19:05OK, good.
0:19:13 > 0:19:14Hey!
0:19:17 > 0:19:21Daddy's going to ride in an ambulance. How cool is that?
0:19:21 > 0:19:24And we are going to take you in our car.
0:19:24 > 0:19:27Maybe we can race Daddy, see who gets there first.
0:19:28 > 0:19:30Ian? Can I have a quick word?
0:19:42 > 0:19:44- What's up? - I saw you.
0:19:45 > 0:19:46Saw me...?
0:19:46 > 0:19:48Filming Jamie.
0:19:48 > 0:19:49Well?
0:19:51 > 0:19:52You must be joking!
0:19:53 > 0:19:57You've just filmed a medical consultation without permission.
0:19:57 > 0:20:00That's an invasion of privacy. It's also illegal.
0:20:00 > 0:20:03So, if you prefer, I am more than happy to call the police.
0:20:08 > 0:20:09All right!
0:20:10 > 0:20:12It's all for Cara. We needed some evidence.
0:20:12 > 0:20:14He's not fit to look after her.
0:20:15 > 0:20:17How long has this been going on?
0:20:17 > 0:20:19We can give her a good home. She'll want for nothing.
0:20:19 > 0:20:23He's skinny, sick. He might even have AIDS!
0:20:23 > 0:20:24Can you hear yourself?!
0:20:26 > 0:20:29What other kind of "evidence" have you got?
0:20:29 > 0:20:30I'm not telling you!
0:20:30 > 0:20:33Jamie didn't exactly make it hard.
0:20:33 > 0:20:36Our solicitor reckons we've got a strong case.
0:20:36 > 0:20:40Is this the meeting that you and Anita had with me today?
0:20:40 > 0:20:41He won't talk to us!
0:20:41 > 0:20:43He didn't give us a choice!
0:20:44 > 0:20:46You're disgusting!
0:20:46 > 0:20:47Sorry, the paramedics are here.
0:20:53 > 0:20:56Bye, darling, I'll see you soon.
0:20:59 > 0:21:02Can we have a chat, please?
0:21:02 > 0:21:05It's all right, Valerie will look after Cara.
0:21:05 > 0:21:06If you'd like to follow me.
0:21:17 > 0:21:19I know it must look bad.
0:21:19 > 0:21:21Yes. It does.
0:21:22 > 0:21:23We just wanted...
0:21:27 > 0:21:29We should have had custody in the first place!
0:21:29 > 0:21:30That's what we thought would happen.
0:21:30 > 0:21:32Jamie is Cara's dad.
0:21:32 > 0:21:34Her place is with him.
0:21:35 > 0:21:37Jamie can't look after anybody!
0:21:37 > 0:21:40If Katharine hadn't met him, she'd still be here now!
0:21:40 > 0:21:43Whatever you say about HIV, we know she's in danger!
0:21:43 > 0:21:47OK, listen to me. Cara is not in danger.
0:21:47 > 0:21:50And she certainly doesn't need saving.
0:21:50 > 0:21:53Except maybe from you two, and your misguided beliefs.
0:21:53 > 0:21:57Really, you should be ashamed of yourselves.
0:21:57 > 0:21:59I understand that you love Cara.
0:21:59 > 0:22:02But by trying to undermine Jamie, you've just given him
0:22:02 > 0:22:04a cast-iron case against you.
0:22:04 > 0:22:08You have gone out of your way to persecute a vulnerable single father
0:22:08 > 0:22:11and pushed him over the edge.
0:22:11 > 0:22:12He has given up his job because of you
0:22:12 > 0:22:15and now he can't afford to feed himself.
0:22:15 > 0:22:16Well done.
0:22:16 > 0:22:19But we didn't... That's not what we wanted!
0:22:19 > 0:22:21He brought it on himself.
0:22:21 > 0:22:24You expect us to stand by and see another life wasted?
0:22:24 > 0:22:27Let me be very clear with both of you.
0:22:27 > 0:22:33So far today, you have broken every data protection law in the book -
0:22:33 > 0:22:36not to mention abuse of trust or breach of confidentiality.
0:22:38 > 0:22:41I don't think that would look very good on a custody application,
0:22:41 > 0:22:43- do you?- Is that a threat?
0:22:43 > 0:22:46Because of your actions, Cara could end up in foster care.
0:22:46 > 0:22:49And you may well be barred from seeing her at all.
0:22:49 > 0:22:50What?
0:22:51 > 0:22:53No - I couldn't bear it!
0:22:53 > 0:22:57Then you need to work with Jamie, not against him.
0:22:57 > 0:23:00I can't lose Cara! Not after Kitty.
0:23:00 > 0:23:03And you can't, either!
0:23:03 > 0:23:06Ian, please. Let it go, now.
0:23:18 > 0:23:20Are you happy now?
0:23:21 > 0:23:25Have you thought about bereavement counselling?
0:23:25 > 0:23:26I think it could help you.
0:23:28 > 0:23:29Nothing helps.
0:23:34 > 0:23:35We'd better get to the hospital.
0:23:38 > 0:23:39Are you going to tell Jamie?
0:23:43 > 0:23:46Mrs Tembe. I've been thinking about what you said.
0:23:46 > 0:23:49You see, you did it all yourself, didn't you?
0:23:49 > 0:23:52You got a better job. Better wages.
0:23:52 > 0:23:54And you bought yourself a better house.
0:23:54 > 0:23:57- I did.- Yeah, but none of that has changed for me.
0:23:57 > 0:23:59But your marital status...
0:23:59 > 0:24:01No, but my income, that is still modest.
0:24:01 > 0:24:05Changing my spending ways would mean changing who I am.
0:24:05 > 0:24:10- But surely...- You've made me realise today how...how important
0:24:10 > 0:24:12keeping my financial independence is to me.
0:24:12 > 0:24:14So, thank you for that.
0:24:14 > 0:24:16Right, goodnight.
0:24:21 > 0:24:22Hi.
0:24:24 > 0:24:25How are you feeling?
0:24:25 > 0:24:29Better, thanks. I've had a huge dinner.
0:24:30 > 0:24:34You're right. I've got to get myself sorted.
0:24:34 > 0:24:35Jamie...
0:24:35 > 0:24:39When Ian and Anita got here, we had a good chat.
0:24:39 > 0:24:42They've offered to take Cara for the rest of the week.
0:24:42 > 0:24:44They've been pretty great.
0:24:45 > 0:24:48I've been an idiot. Sorry.
0:24:49 > 0:24:51Jamie, the thing is,
0:24:51 > 0:24:53you were right.
0:24:53 > 0:24:54What do you mean?
0:24:55 > 0:24:59Ian and Anita, they were trying to get custody of Cara.
0:25:00 > 0:25:04They've been filming you, recording your conversations.
0:25:05 > 0:25:07I knew it!
0:25:07 > 0:25:10Well, look, they've admitted it. And it's over now.
0:25:11 > 0:25:13Is it ever over with them?
0:25:14 > 0:25:18To be honest, I think they were just blindsided by their grief.
0:25:19 > 0:25:21They know what they've done is wrong.
0:25:23 > 0:25:24They'd like a fresh start.
0:25:24 > 0:25:27Huh, if you believe them.
0:25:28 > 0:25:30And what now?
0:25:30 > 0:25:31Well, that's your call.
0:25:32 > 0:25:35But while you're getting better,
0:25:35 > 0:25:39it might be an idea, for Cara's sake, to make use of them?
0:25:39 > 0:25:40They do feel terrible.
0:25:41 > 0:25:43So they should!
0:25:44 > 0:25:46But...
0:25:46 > 0:25:49I don't suppose they'd dare try anything now.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51Not now you're on their case.
0:25:53 > 0:25:54Maybe I'll use them.
0:25:54 > 0:25:59Well, you take care of yourself. And I'll see you soon.
0:25:59 > 0:26:03Oh, and remember, you are the most important thing in Cara's life.
0:26:17 > 0:26:20I'm trying out that new bar, so don't wait up.
0:26:20 > 0:26:23- Have fun! - Have you heard from Baldie Pete?
0:26:23 > 0:26:25Oh, I'll just check.
0:26:26 > 0:26:29Ooh, I've got 67 messages!
0:26:29 > 0:26:31Ooh! Have fun yourself!
0:26:34 > 0:26:36- MEN'S VOICES:- You have great style...
0:26:36 > 0:26:38for a bag lady.
0:26:38 > 0:26:41You know when someone just looks annoying?
0:26:41 > 0:26:45Grey hair's a brave choice, but a stupid one.
0:26:45 > 0:26:48Act your age, you're fooling nobody..
0:26:48 > 0:26:50Sub-zero sex appeal...
0:26:50 > 0:26:52Makes my flesh crawl...
0:26:52 > 0:26:54Could've shown a little cleavage.
0:26:54 > 0:26:56- Little piggy eyes. - Sagging skin.
0:26:56 > 0:26:58- Disgusting... - Flabby...
0:26:58 > 0:27:00Grinning like an idiot.
0:27:10 > 0:27:11Middle-aged blokes sometimes use
0:27:11 > 0:27:13ten-year-old photos on their profiles.
0:27:13 > 0:27:17What, you mean he might be in his 60s?
0:27:17 > 0:27:18And the rest.
0:27:18 > 0:27:20Hi, Mum.
0:27:20 > 0:27:21Have you met Dr Clay?
0:27:22 > 0:27:24A Buddhist GP.
0:27:25 > 0:27:27- Something wrong?- Um...
0:27:27 > 0:27:31Just doing my facial exercises. Prevents wrinkles.