0:00:32 > 0:00:37Aye, aye. What have you got there? Budge up. Show us.
0:00:37 > 0:00:39That's your mum.
0:00:39 > 0:00:43Yeah, that's her all right. Look at her there.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45Nana Pat gave me this from Clacton.
0:00:45 > 0:00:48- You hang it in your car. - Oh, yeah? That's nice.
0:00:48 > 0:00:55- Lovely.- You can have it if you like. Remember her by.
0:00:55 > 0:00:57Thank you. That's very kind of you.
0:00:57 > 0:01:02You're a little cracker, do you know that?
0:01:02 > 0:01:05You're not too bad either, Grandad.
0:01:05 > 0:01:07Tiff, what are you doing? You're not ready. Where's your cardigan?
0:01:07 > 0:01:11- She's got it all here. Everything OK?- Yeah, the kids are just doing me head in.
0:01:11 > 0:01:15- You've got to look smart, Tiff, it's a funeral.- Where's your mum?
0:01:15 > 0:01:17- I ain't seen her all morning. - I don't know.
0:01:17 > 0:01:21I've got a houseful of kids to get ready. I can't chase her as well. Come on, kids!
0:01:21 > 0:01:26- Straighten Liam's tie, will ya? - Yeah. You look nice.
0:01:31 > 0:01:32Right, it's here.
0:01:34 > 0:01:41- Right, come on. Come on, get your coats.- See you out there.
0:01:41 > 0:01:46- Grab my coat, Liam. - Come on.- Carol?
0:01:51 > 0:01:54- You OK?- Yeah, I'm OK.
0:01:54 > 0:01:57Well, we'd better go.
0:01:57 > 0:02:01Thought any more about what I said?
0:02:01 > 0:02:03Let's talk about it after the funeral, eh?
0:02:03 > 0:02:08My bags are packed. They're in the car. All you've got to do is say yes.
0:02:26 > 0:02:28Come on, shall we go?
0:02:31 > 0:02:35I mean, who has a horse-drawn carriage these days, eh?
0:02:35 > 0:02:39Well, I think it's nice. Shows how much they loved her.
0:02:41 > 0:02:44- Where's your sister? - Upstairs. She's in a right state.
0:02:44 > 0:02:47Lauren! Lauren, come on, we're going to be late.
0:02:52 > 0:02:57Why don't you think about giving it a miss?
0:02:57 > 0:03:00Why would I want to do that?
0:03:00 > 0:03:02Well, there was no love lost, was there?
0:03:02 > 0:03:09No. That David Wicks is a problem that's got to be sorted out.
0:03:09 > 0:03:12When they arrive, just stay out of Bianca's way.
0:03:12 > 0:03:15- I don't want a scene. - What do you think I am?
0:03:15 > 0:03:18Please, just for Lucy?
0:03:20 > 0:03:23CHURCH ORGAN PLAYS
0:03:41 > 0:03:45Lucy!
0:04:02 > 0:04:06- No, I'm going to wait out here.- What? - I can't go in there. I can't.
0:04:06 > 0:04:10- It's all right, I'll stay with you. - No, it would be rude. You go, I'll stay here.
0:04:10 > 0:04:14- I'm all right.- Sure? All right.
0:04:30 > 0:04:32All right?
0:05:10 > 0:05:13Please be seated.
0:05:16 > 0:05:21Good afternoon, everyone. We have come here today
0:05:21 > 0:05:27to remember before God our sister Patricia Louise Evans,
0:05:27 > 0:05:32to give thanks for her life, to commit her body to be buried,
0:05:32 > 0:05:36and to comfort one another in grief.
0:05:36 > 0:05:42Patricia was a well respected and much loved member of the community.
0:05:42 > 0:05:49She had many friends, but it was to her family that she dedicated her life,
0:05:49 > 0:05:54and it is to them that we turn now.
0:06:07 > 0:06:10Pat asked me to play some music for today.
0:06:10 > 0:06:16It was one of her favourites, and my dad liked it as well.
0:06:20 > 0:06:23I've known Pat all my life,
0:06:23 > 0:06:27you know, since my mum died.
0:06:27 > 0:06:33My dad and her, they got together when we were just kids.
0:06:33 > 0:06:38You know, all of us.
0:06:38 > 0:06:40Pat...
0:06:40 > 0:06:44She was like a mother to us...
0:06:57 > 0:06:59- (It's OK, it's OK).- (Sorry.)
0:06:59 > 0:07:05I think what Ricky was trying to say is that Pat wasn't our mum,
0:07:05 > 0:07:10but she came into our lives and she did the best job
0:07:10 > 0:07:13that she could do to be the mother that we didn't have any more.
0:07:17 > 0:07:19We didn't always make it easy for her.
0:07:19 > 0:07:23Well, I...I didn't always make it easy for her.
0:07:25 > 0:07:29Me and her, oh, we had our ups and our downs,
0:07:29 > 0:07:32but in those last moments,
0:07:32 > 0:07:37those final few seconds, we just forgot all of that...
0:07:39 > 0:07:41and we forgave each other.
0:07:41 > 0:07:46She loved us so much, and we loved her.
0:07:46 > 0:07:49I know that we're all really going to miss her.
0:08:10 > 0:08:13I just can't help thinking how small he is.
0:08:15 > 0:08:18A tiny little baby.
0:08:18 > 0:08:24It's best...to not think about it.
0:08:24 > 0:08:28Is that why you're here too, then, is it?
0:08:28 > 0:08:32It's over, it's done with.
0:08:32 > 0:08:36It's best that we just - all -
0:08:36 > 0:08:39just put it behind us, yeah?
0:08:48 > 0:08:50# Where it began
0:08:50 > 0:08:55# I can't begin to know when
0:08:55 > 0:09:01# But then I know it's growing strong
0:09:01 > 0:09:06# Was in the spring
0:09:06 > 0:09:09# And spring became the summer
0:09:09 > 0:09:17# Who'd have believed you'd come along?... #
0:09:17 > 0:09:22I seen Pat, 30 years old, dancing to this, going like the clappers.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25No bloke in the room could take their eyes off her.
0:09:25 > 0:09:28# ..Reachin' out
0:09:28 > 0:09:30# Touchin' me
0:09:30 > 0:09:33# Touchin' you
0:09:36 > 0:09:39# Sweet Caroline
0:09:41 > 0:09:45# Good times never seemed so good
0:09:47 > 0:09:50# I've been inclined
0:09:50 > 0:09:56# To believe they never would
0:09:56 > 0:10:02# But now I Look at the night
0:10:02 > 0:10:07# And it don't seem so lonely... #
0:10:07 > 0:10:11CHURCH BELL TOLLS
0:10:25 > 0:10:29We have but a short time to live.
0:10:29 > 0:10:32Like a flower, we blossom and then wither.
0:10:32 > 0:10:37Like a shadow, we flee and never stay.
0:10:37 > 0:10:41In the midst of life, we are in death.
0:10:44 > 0:10:48We have entrusted our sister Patricia to God's mercy,
0:10:48 > 0:10:51and we now commit her body to the ground.
0:10:51 > 0:10:58Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust.
0:11:01 > 0:11:06In sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life
0:11:06 > 0:11:11through our Lord Jesus Christ, who will transform our frail bodies,
0:11:11 > 0:11:15that they may be conformed to his glorious body.
0:11:15 > 0:11:21- To him be glory for ever. - I love you.- Amen.
0:11:25 > 0:11:27Bye, Mum.
0:12:23 > 0:12:28I can't believe they're engaged. She's such a scrubber.
0:12:28 > 0:12:32Gold-digger, more like. Did you hear that song?
0:12:32 > 0:12:34No, Nan loved it.
0:12:34 > 0:12:38She played it to me once, when I was really little.
0:12:38 > 0:12:42Lucy, I'm going to be sick, move.
0:12:44 > 0:12:46- Lauren?- Lauren, what are you doing?!
0:12:46 > 0:12:49I told you, didn't I? She's drunk.
0:12:50 > 0:12:52Come on.
0:13:04 > 0:13:06Sure you don't want to throw yourself in?
0:13:06 > 0:13:09- Let's do this another time, shall we? - Let's not.
0:13:09 > 0:13:11- I've just buried my mother.- I know,
0:13:11 > 0:13:13and as fond as I was of the lovely lady,
0:13:13 > 0:13:14that was your cue for a quick exit.
0:13:14 > 0:13:17I don't want any trouble.
0:13:17 > 0:13:21Well, that's what you've got. You have an hour before it gets dark.
0:13:21 > 0:13:25- If you're not gone by then, you'll join her underground. - What are you doing?- Just chatting
0:13:25 > 0:13:29- with your ex. He's been telling me of his travel plans.- Come on, David.
0:13:29 > 0:13:34- No, he's going. And you're not seeing him until he's gone. - It's a bit late for that, Derek.
0:13:38 > 0:13:41- What's this all about? - We're together.
0:13:43 > 0:13:48Oh. How lovely for you. And what am I supposed to do, eh? Am I supposed to stomach that, am I?
0:13:48 > 0:13:51Am I supposed to stomach such a revolting sight?
0:13:51 > 0:13:54I don't care what you do, Derek.
0:13:54 > 0:13:57He tried to get me set up yesterday.
0:13:57 > 0:14:01- He tried to get me sent back to prison.- I don't care, all right? - Oh, you don't care!- I love him.
0:14:01 > 0:14:03I know that hurts you, but I do, OK?
0:14:03 > 0:14:06I've loved him since I was a kid, since I was 13.
0:14:06 > 0:14:10I know it's not good or sensible or mature, but that's just how I feel.
0:14:10 > 0:14:12He's just buried his mum, OK? And he's trying to change.
0:14:12 > 0:14:16Can't you just let go of the past? Be my brother
0:14:16 > 0:14:19- without trying to ruin everything? - No, I can't.
0:14:19 > 0:14:21I can't let that happen, not under my nose!
0:14:21 > 0:14:24All right, you want him to go? He will go.
0:14:24 > 0:14:27But I'm going to go with him, today.
0:14:27 > 0:14:30- You're not going anywhere.- Get off of me!- Oi, bruv!- Get off!
0:14:30 > 0:14:32What do you think you're doing, eh?
0:14:32 > 0:14:37Yeah, Jack, yeah. Yeah, Jack. You're right. You're right.
0:14:37 > 0:14:39See, I have great respect for the dead.
0:14:39 > 0:14:42I do. I do. You're going to see, David.
0:14:42 > 0:14:45You'll see how much I respect a corpse.
0:14:45 > 0:14:47All right, come on. Derek! Get away.
0:14:47 > 0:14:48Away, now.
0:14:48 > 0:14:50Did you mean what you said?
0:14:53 > 0:14:56You will come away with me, tonight?
0:14:56 > 0:15:00I'll do whatever you want. I just want to be with you.
0:15:07 > 0:15:09Come on, let's get you inside.
0:15:09 > 0:15:12- No, Mum. Mum, I'm just going to go to the wake.- What?
0:15:12 > 0:15:16- You're not going to the wake in that state.- I just want one more drink.
0:15:16 > 0:15:17What was that about earlier?
0:15:17 > 0:15:20What?
0:15:20 > 0:15:23That look, when she threw the petals in the grave?
0:15:23 > 0:15:27Nothing. I didn't even notice.
0:15:27 > 0:15:30You going to tell her, or shall I?
0:15:32 > 0:15:35Maybe you should have a word. I'll go and pack.
0:15:37 > 0:15:40What? You having second thoughts?
0:15:40 > 0:15:45- No, no, no, no, course not. No, no. - We're going to be OK, you know? We're going to work out.
0:15:45 > 0:15:48- Of course we are.- I'm going to grow old with you, you know.
0:15:48 > 0:15:52I'm going to be this weird, crabby old lady, and I'm going to love you
0:15:52 > 0:15:54for the rest of my life.
0:16:00 > 0:16:01Don't be long.
0:16:04 > 0:16:10I'm not having that bloke anywhere near our sister. Not anywhere. Not even in Timbuktu.
0:16:10 > 0:16:13Are you mad? You've just thrown up over a gravestone.
0:16:13 > 0:16:16Why don't you sweet-talk her? You might get a different result.
0:16:16 > 0:16:23- That your technique, Max? With the ladies? Bit of the old silver tongue?- Don't always hurt, Derek.
0:16:30 > 0:16:32Lauren, have you no respect?
0:16:32 > 0:16:36Pat's just been buried. There are some very upset people here.
0:16:36 > 0:16:38- I'll cheer 'em up.- I don't think so.
0:16:38 > 0:16:42- Dad, I just want one more drink. - You're not having one. - What, am I under arrest now or what?
0:16:42 > 0:16:44- Something like that.- Oi, Luce.
0:16:44 > 0:16:46Half an hour. My house. Bring a bottle, yeah?
0:16:49 > 0:16:52Keep your claws off my bloke.
0:16:52 > 0:16:55What's up with her?
0:16:55 > 0:17:00- You know what Bianca's like. She'll pick a ruck with anyone. - Darling, you got a sec? Bianca?
0:17:03 > 0:17:06- David.- Ian.- No Simon?
0:17:06 > 0:17:08No, no, he couldn't make it.
0:17:08 > 0:17:12Bit strange, isn't it? Missing your own mum's funeral?
0:17:12 > 0:17:15I think he had a problem getting a flight or something.
0:17:15 > 0:17:18- Oh. Are you sure that was the problem?- David?
0:17:18 > 0:17:21- Or was it you?- Excuse me.
0:17:24 > 0:17:26Quite a spread.
0:17:26 > 0:17:29Well, I said I'd cough up, and I have. Listen, I was going
0:17:29 > 0:17:31to say a few words, but maybe you should do it.
0:17:31 > 0:17:33No, no, no, not me.
0:17:33 > 0:17:35You're her son, it's the least you can do.
0:17:35 > 0:17:40I'll make sure everyone's tanked up. They'll probably be too drunk to notice how insincere you are.
0:17:46 > 0:17:50Ladies and gentlemen, David would like to say a few words.
0:17:57 > 0:18:00- So that's all sorted, like it never happened?- Yeah, exactly.
0:18:00 > 0:18:04I've put it behind me. If you and Ricky can't do the same thing,
0:18:04 > 0:18:08- that's your problem. - You know what your problem is? You're engaged to a cheap whore.
0:18:08 > 0:18:12That's rich coming from you. It must run in your blood.
0:18:12 > 0:18:17What is the matter with you? I'm nothing like her. I've got kids, a husband, and responsibilities.
0:18:17 > 0:18:20- What, and she hasn't? - What is she, what? Pushing 40?
0:18:20 > 0:18:23She's never been married, never had a proper job.
0:18:23 > 0:18:28- She's like some oversexed teenage scrubber that's never grown up. - What about the baby?
0:18:28 > 0:18:31- What baby?- The one she had with Ricky. The one that died.
0:18:34 > 0:18:40Little Tiffany, she gave me this earlier. To remember my mum by.
0:18:40 > 0:18:45It's one of those things you get from the seaside, you know, you hang it in your car.
0:18:45 > 0:18:51And it does...it reminds me of one of my earliest memories of my mum.
0:18:51 > 0:18:55I was about five or six.
0:18:55 > 0:18:57She was tucking me up in bed one night,
0:18:57 > 0:18:59which is something that didn't happen very often.
0:18:59 > 0:19:02And I wanted a story. I always wanted a story.
0:19:02 > 0:19:06But she never knew any, because she was always in a hurry to....
0:19:07 > 0:19:10..go downstairs and get out.
0:19:10 > 0:19:14But this particular day, she'd taken my brother and I to the funfair,
0:19:14 > 0:19:19and we'd been on a Ferris wheel. Finsbury Park, I think it was.
0:19:20 > 0:19:22A day out, you know.
0:19:22 > 0:19:26Anyway, she sat on the bed,
0:19:26 > 0:19:29and she told me about this time she was on holiday
0:19:29 > 0:19:32in Clacton, at Butlins. And she met a boy
0:19:32 > 0:19:37called Frank, and she fell in love with him.
0:19:37 > 0:19:39They had a little kiss under the stars, you know.
0:19:39 > 0:19:44Anyway, he had a girlfriend who turned out to be Ricky and Janine's mum, as it goes.
0:19:44 > 0:19:51Anyway, she said on the way home she sat on the sand,
0:19:51 > 0:19:55and it was all dark, pitch black, you know.
0:19:55 > 0:20:00And in the distance she could see these lights,
0:20:00 > 0:20:05these twinkling lights.
0:20:05 > 0:20:08And she said whenever she saw these lights,
0:20:08 > 0:20:11it made her feel trembly and excited, you know.
0:20:11 > 0:20:15Just the memory - just the memory of looking out to sea, you know,
0:20:15 > 0:20:20the lights and her whole life ahead of her.
0:20:20 > 0:20:26That was my mum. She was a romantic.
0:20:26 > 0:20:28She had so many dreams,
0:20:28 > 0:20:33and they were all just within her grasp.
0:20:33 > 0:20:40They drifted away, but she never gave up.
0:20:40 > 0:20:44She never gave up. Not on anything, not even on me.
0:20:46 > 0:20:51In fact, the last time I saw her, she said to me,
0:20:51 > 0:20:53"Stop running away.
0:20:56 > 0:20:59"Grab what you love while you can, before it's too late."
0:21:11 > 0:21:13Can I have a word?
0:21:13 > 0:21:16No need to stand on ceremony.
0:21:29 > 0:21:32Going to be missed. Ain't she?
0:21:32 > 0:21:36Old Pat. I bet them little ones miss her already.
0:21:36 > 0:21:41Imagine, hmm? Imagine how they're going to feel about you going.
0:21:41 > 0:21:45Hmm? How are they going to feel about that?
0:21:45 > 0:21:51I can't believe it. How could you lie to me? How could you!
0:21:51 > 0:21:54I only found out myself yesterday. That was years ago!
0:21:54 > 0:21:59We are over, Ricky. I mean it. And do not try and talk me out of it. I thought I could forgive,
0:21:59 > 0:22:02for our kids, for our family.
0:22:02 > 0:22:05I thought we could put it all behind us. I really did.
0:22:05 > 0:22:08I thought we could, but we can't.
0:22:08 > 0:22:10The whole thing. It's dead. It's gone.
0:22:10 > 0:22:12Bianca, I love you.
0:22:12 > 0:22:18- I only didn't tell you... - What, because it was easy?- No, because I didn't want to hurt you.
0:22:18 > 0:22:24- I've got nothing to say to you. - What's the matter, darling?
0:22:24 > 0:22:27You were 14!
0:22:27 > 0:22:31Yeah, and I was in love, Derek. I know I was foolish.
0:22:31 > 0:22:35I admit that, but it was my choice. Why can't you just let it go?
0:22:35 > 0:22:37Because it wasn't just you he messed with.
0:22:37 > 0:22:39It was my life as well.
0:22:39 > 0:22:43- What are you talking about? - You remember Jackie, don't you, eh?
0:22:43 > 0:22:46- Who?- Jackie. You remember her.
0:22:46 > 0:22:49I went with her for ages, when I was 17, 18.
0:22:49 > 0:22:53Beautiful, she was. Lovely face,
0:22:53 > 0:22:56gorgeous figure, like an angel.
0:22:56 > 0:22:59She was the only woman I ever loved, yeah?
0:22:59 > 0:23:02- Now you know.- What has that got to do with David?
0:23:02 > 0:23:04Because he, he, David Wicks,
0:23:04 > 0:23:08he got inside my head. Got me believing things that I shouldn't.
0:23:08 > 0:23:13Got me believing things that weren't even true.
0:23:13 > 0:23:16Got me all riled up. Got me jealous.
0:23:16 > 0:23:22Give me the green-eyed monster, got Jackie a slap. Or two.
0:23:24 > 0:23:27She was devastated. She was appalled.
0:23:27 > 0:23:31Her brothers weren't too pleased either. Stabbed me in the back.
0:23:31 > 0:23:35Literally. Look, that - that's what I got from him.
0:23:35 > 0:23:39That. He nearly killed me. I was in the hospital for weeks.
0:23:39 > 0:23:43I nearly died. You came to see me with the old lady, you remember, eh?
0:23:43 > 0:23:47Bag of grapes, worried look on your face.
0:23:47 > 0:23:5014 years old.
0:23:50 > 0:23:54Pretty as a picture. I can see it like it was yesterday.
0:23:57 > 0:24:01He poisoned the only thing that was good in my life. So I don't forgive,
0:24:01 > 0:24:04and I don't forget. It's not in my nature.
0:24:04 > 0:24:07- That's why you hate David so much? - He messed with you...
0:24:07 > 0:24:10A girl who probably wouldn't even remember you now?
0:24:10 > 0:24:13- A teenage crush? - A crush? A crush?
0:24:13 > 0:24:16I loved her!
0:24:16 > 0:24:20Now, he goes, and you stay put.
0:24:20 > 0:24:22That's not going to happen.
0:24:22 > 0:24:27We are going now, and we're going today. Together.
0:24:32 > 0:24:37What are you going to do? You going to hit me?
0:24:38 > 0:24:40What are you doing? Get off!
0:24:43 > 0:24:45Now, you can pack it again.
0:24:45 > 0:24:50But if you do, I'll kill him.
0:24:58 > 0:25:01He lied and cheated. He lied about something really awful.
0:25:01 > 0:25:05Darling, listen. Bianca, listen to me. Look at me.
0:25:05 > 0:25:07Ricky and me have never got on that well, I know.
0:25:07 > 0:25:10But I'm telling you this. That boy loves you.
0:25:10 > 0:25:11He adores you.
0:25:11 > 0:25:17Whatever the toerag's done, just give him a second chance.
0:25:17 > 0:25:19I don't think I can.
0:25:19 > 0:25:23- Course you can.- It's just...
0:25:23 > 0:25:27It's just ruined...that feeling that I had, it's just gone.
0:25:27 > 0:25:29Shh. Come on, come on.
0:25:29 > 0:25:36Look at me, standing out here, feeling all sorry for myself.
0:25:36 > 0:25:39This is Pat's day.
0:25:39 > 0:25:42We shouldn't be talking about me.
0:25:42 > 0:25:48- We should be thinking about her.- Yeah.
0:25:50 > 0:25:52What's the matter?
0:25:55 > 0:26:00Nothing, nothing. Come on, let's get you cleaned up, get you back inside.
0:26:00 > 0:26:02I know that look. Tell me.
0:26:09 > 0:26:14It's - it's me, me and your mum.
0:26:14 > 0:26:18- We're, um, you know...- Really? - You angry?
0:26:18 > 0:26:22Well, no, course not. I mean, why would I be angry?
0:26:22 > 0:26:25You're my mum and dad. I'd love you to get back together.
0:26:25 > 0:26:30But as long as you, you know, just - just take it slow,
0:26:30 > 0:26:36- see how it goes, yeah?- Well, that's the thing, darling. We can't.
0:26:36 > 0:26:39We've got to go. Away.
0:26:39 > 0:26:42And we've got to go today.
0:26:42 > 0:26:45What are you talking about?
0:26:46 > 0:26:49It's a long story, darling, but I can't stick around.
0:26:49 > 0:26:51Why not?
0:26:51 > 0:26:53I just can't, OK?
0:26:53 > 0:26:56What, so you're just going to go?
0:26:56 > 0:26:59I don't have an option.
0:26:59 > 0:27:02And you're just going to take my mum? Now?
0:27:02 > 0:27:04Darling, it's up to her. I gave her the choice.
0:27:04 > 0:27:08Choice? She gets back with her first love,
0:27:08 > 0:27:11and then the next day he tells her he's got to go?
0:27:11 > 0:27:12Well, she could have said no.
0:27:12 > 0:27:18How could she do that? Don't you know what her life's been like, what she's been through?
0:27:18 > 0:27:22- Yes, of course I do.- No, I don't think you do. I don't think you do.
0:27:24 > 0:27:26She lost her son.
0:27:26 > 0:27:29You know, we found Billie -
0:27:29 > 0:27:34we found him face down, dead on the sofa.
0:27:34 > 0:27:36Shh, stop.
0:27:36 > 0:27:39And then she just went off the rails.
0:27:39 > 0:27:46You know, she just got with his mate, and then this older bloke.
0:27:46 > 0:27:53That all went wrong. Listen, she seems like she's strong,
0:27:53 > 0:27:55but she's not. She's fragile.
0:27:55 > 0:27:58I know.
0:27:58 > 0:28:01- You know, she nearly topped herself. - I know.
0:28:03 > 0:28:08Hey, come on. I know she's had a hard time.
0:28:11 > 0:28:14I know she has, and I just want to make her happy.
0:28:17 > 0:28:20- How are you going to do that? - By giving her what she needs.
0:28:20 > 0:28:23You've only been back here for two minutes.
0:28:23 > 0:28:26You know, your mum's died.
0:28:29 > 0:28:35Your relationship's broke up. I mean, what are you telling me,
0:28:35 > 0:28:37that you're in a good way an' all?
0:28:37 > 0:28:39- I'm OK.- No, you're not.- I'm OK. - No, you're not!
0:28:46 > 0:28:50What do you want me to say, darling? What do you want me to do?
0:28:50 > 0:28:52Stick around here and play Grandad?
0:28:52 > 0:28:54But I thought you loved my kids.
0:28:54 > 0:28:59I do. I do. They're like...
0:28:59 > 0:29:04they're like lovely little surprises that I never expected,
0:29:04 > 0:29:06but I can't stick around here.
0:29:09 > 0:29:13You're 100% sure this ain't just some infatuation?
0:29:13 > 0:29:18You sure you're not trying to make up for something that happened?
0:29:18 > 0:29:23You're absolutely sure that you can make her happy, day after day,
0:29:23 > 0:29:25year after year?
0:29:25 > 0:29:29This is real, is it? This is permanent?
0:29:29 > 0:29:33Yeah. Yeah, I think so.
0:29:33 > 0:29:38You think so?! You can't change your mind, Dad.
0:29:38 > 0:29:42Can't give it a week and then realise that she's -
0:29:42 > 0:29:46she's a 50-year-old woman now. She's got no career,
0:29:46 > 0:29:48no money, loads of hang-ups.
0:29:48 > 0:29:52She's - you'll see her in the corner crying one night, you'll run a mile!
0:29:55 > 0:30:00She's giving up all this. Her family.
0:30:00 > 0:30:05Her kids, her grandkids.
0:30:05 > 0:30:07Yeah.
0:30:07 > 0:30:10All the things she loves the best.
0:30:12 > 0:30:15You're 100% that you're never going to let her down?
0:30:15 > 0:30:18Never ever?
0:30:18 > 0:30:20MOBILE RINGS
0:30:20 > 0:30:22Are you sure you can do that?
0:30:22 > 0:30:26It's your mum.
0:30:26 > 0:30:30David. It's me. Yeah, we've got to go now.
0:30:30 > 0:30:34No, no, no, don't come here.
0:30:34 > 0:30:37Park up Bridge Street, OK? I'll see you in five.
0:30:40 > 0:30:44Listen, maybe you should go home, talk to your mum.
0:30:44 > 0:30:45Are you really just going to go?
0:30:45 > 0:30:49I'm sorry.
0:30:55 > 0:30:59I'm really going to miss you.
0:31:04 > 0:31:07- She wouldn't even listen to me. - Were you nice?
0:31:07 > 0:31:11I was as sweet as pie. She wasn't having it. Got her bags packed, and ready for the off.
0:31:11 > 0:31:13So what now?
0:31:16 > 0:31:19- Meet me round the Arches in ten minutes.- The Arches?
0:31:19 > 0:31:24You don't want to do him in here, do ya? Arches, ten minutes. Bring Max.
0:31:27 > 0:31:29Go on, get in there.
0:31:29 > 0:31:31You're going to stay in there till you sober up.
0:31:31 > 0:31:34No! No way. You ain't got no right. I'm an adult.
0:31:34 > 0:31:36Oh, yeah, you look like it.
0:31:36 > 0:31:40Well, I'll just climb out of the window, then.
0:31:40 > 0:31:45- Yes, we're 20 foot up, Lauren. - Well, then, I'll fly, then.
0:31:45 > 0:31:50- Lauren, are what you doing? Come here. Lauren!- Lauren! Lauren!
0:31:50 > 0:31:52MOBILE RINGS
0:31:52 > 0:31:56- What are you going to do, chain me to the bed?- What has got into you?
0:31:56 > 0:32:00- What? All right, I'll be right there. - I told you. She's out of control.
0:32:00 > 0:32:01- I've got to go.- What?!
0:32:01 > 0:32:05It's Jack. I'll explain in a bit, all right. Just hold the fort.
0:32:05 > 0:32:07- Max, you can't just... - I'll be back, all right?
0:32:07 > 0:32:11Why don't you go downstairs and leave this to me?
0:32:11 > 0:32:14I've dealt with one or two drunks in my time.
0:32:14 > 0:32:19It's fine, thanks, Mum. I can manage. Right you, come on. Come on, get in bed.
0:32:19 > 0:32:23- Aw, are you putting me to bed? - Yes, I'm putting you to bed.
0:32:23 > 0:32:24You going to give me a cuddle?
0:32:24 > 0:32:28Like you used to when I was little, is that what you're going to do?
0:32:28 > 0:32:31Yes, if I have to.
0:32:34 > 0:32:36He's told you.
0:32:41 > 0:32:45MOBILE RINGS
0:32:45 > 0:32:50- Yes.- 'It's me, Michael. I've got to talk to you.'
0:32:50 > 0:32:55- Forget it.- 'No, listen, it's Derek. He's got Carol. He made me help...'
0:32:55 > 0:32:58- Where are you? - 'The Arches. Get over here, now!'
0:33:05 > 0:33:07Oh, Ricky, don't be sad.
0:33:07 > 0:33:09Come here. Come on.
0:33:11 > 0:33:16- Pat wouldn't want you crying. She'd want you to be having fun.- Yeah.
0:33:16 > 0:33:20- We can do that for her, can't we? - Yeah.- Dad, where's Mum? My bow came out.
0:33:32 > 0:33:36(Michael?)
0:33:36 > 0:33:38Michael?
0:33:42 > 0:33:45Well, well, well, well, well. Here we are again.
0:33:45 > 0:33:48Just like old times, eh, David?
0:33:48 > 0:33:51Eh? Me and the lads.
0:33:51 > 0:33:54You being too thick to get the message.
0:33:54 > 0:33:57You know, I bet you can remember
0:33:57 > 0:34:01exactly how much it hurt, that last beating I gave you.
0:34:01 > 0:34:02He warned you, didn't he?
0:34:02 > 0:34:08- You mess with our sister, you're messing with us.- Get in your motor and go. No-one needs to get hurt.
0:34:08 > 0:34:11No, I think it's too late for that.
0:34:11 > 0:34:16I think what he needs is a little lesson. What he needs
0:34:16 > 0:34:18is something to remember me by.
0:34:18 > 0:34:20Whoa, Derek...
0:34:20 > 0:34:21Hold him.
0:34:21 > 0:34:24Hold him still. Hold him. Come on, David,
0:34:24 > 0:34:29- it won't hurt a bit. I'll make it nice and quick.- What, you want to go back inside, do ya?
0:34:29 > 0:34:32I know how to dump a body. Believe you me, Max. And your brother.
0:34:32 > 0:34:35Ain't that right, Jack, eh?
0:34:35 > 0:34:38Never hurts having Old Bill on the firm.
0:34:38 > 0:34:41- What, we're just going to let him do this?- Stay there.
0:34:41 > 0:34:45He ruined our sister's life. He did it before, and he'll do it again.
0:34:45 > 0:34:48That's up to her, ain't it? You can't make her stay here.
0:34:48 > 0:34:53She's got to stay here. Stay here where she belongs, with the family.
0:34:53 > 0:34:55You're jealous, you're jealous!
0:34:55 > 0:34:59You can't bear the thought of Carol caring about anyone else but you. Can you?
0:34:59 > 0:35:00That's it, last words!
0:35:00 > 0:35:04- Derek! Get him out of here. - He can't! He can't go!
0:35:04 > 0:35:06He can't get away with it.
0:35:06 > 0:35:09- He can't get away with it! - He's gone, Derek.
0:35:09 > 0:35:12I love him. I love him with all my heart.
0:35:12 > 0:35:16You know, it's like I've been given a second chance.
0:35:16 > 0:35:18I'm determined not to blow it.
0:35:20 > 0:35:26- Well, then I'm... I am really pleased for you. - Really? You don't seem that happy.
0:35:26 > 0:35:31No, I'm just... I've been all right up until today. It's just...
0:35:33 > 0:35:35it's just the funeral and...
0:35:36 > 0:35:38I really miss her.
0:35:38 > 0:35:42Yeah, we all do.
0:35:42 > 0:35:45I love you, Mum.
0:35:46 > 0:35:48I love you too, darling.
0:35:48 > 0:35:52Now, listen, you tell them kids goodbye, all right?
0:35:52 > 0:35:54And kiss them for me till they're red raw.
0:35:54 > 0:35:56Why don't you come over and tell them yourself?
0:35:56 > 0:35:59I don't think I can bear it. I don't think I can do that.
0:35:59 > 0:36:05- Come on, I'll come with you. - No, honestly, I don't - I don't want you to, please.- All right.
0:36:13 > 0:36:17- Do yourself a favour, get out of here.- Not without Carol.- Why?
0:36:17 > 0:36:19Who are you doing this for? You or her?
0:36:22 > 0:36:24I've been you. I know what happens.
0:36:54 > 0:36:56CAR ENGINE STARTS
0:37:07 > 0:37:09Tiff, watch the road!
0:37:09 > 0:37:11Will you do my hair?
0:37:11 > 0:37:14Oh yeah, all right, darling.
0:37:56 > 0:37:58David?
0:37:58 > 0:38:00David? David!
0:38:03 > 0:38:04David!
0:38:20 > 0:38:22Oh, Mum!
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