0:00:08 > 0:00:10# I couldn't sleep last night
0:00:13 > 0:00:15# For the man next door
0:00:18 > 0:00:21# He cried all night long
0:00:23 > 0:00:25# And the night before
0:00:27 > 0:00:30# And the way he cried
0:00:32 > 0:00:34# Was a crying shame
0:00:37 > 0:00:39# The way he kept calling
0:00:42 > 0:00:44# Calling her name
0:00:44 > 0:00:46ENGINE STARTS
0:00:49 > 0:00:51# He cried, baby... #
0:00:53 > 0:00:54SHOUTING FROM OUTSIDE
0:00:57 > 0:00:58Agh!
0:00:59 > 0:01:01- Agh!- Connor? Connor?!
0:01:03 > 0:01:05Connor, you all right? You OK?
0:01:05 > 0:01:07Yeah, I am but that isn't, look at it!
0:01:07 > 0:01:10Didn't you look behind you?! You could've killed him!
0:01:10 > 0:01:12- Mate, she's talking to you! - I can't remember.
0:01:14 > 0:01:15I can't remember...
0:01:35 > 0:01:38So what did you have for your evening meal last night, Ronald?
0:01:38 > 0:01:40- Ronnie.- Sorry.
0:01:40 > 0:01:42Why do you need...?
0:01:42 > 0:01:46Come to check if I'm all right, not to try out for...
0:01:46 > 0:01:48- ..Master-whatsits... - OK. Not to worry.
0:01:50 > 0:01:52Roast. Roast dinner.
0:01:52 > 0:01:54All the...
0:01:54 > 0:01:56thingies with it as well.
0:01:56 > 0:01:57Always been a decent cook.
0:01:59 > 0:02:03Are there any particular tasks that you've been finding difficulty with?
0:02:03 > 0:02:05I mean...what about driving? Hm?
0:02:05 > 0:02:08I was an instructor 25 years.
0:02:09 > 0:02:11Taught half the...
0:02:11 > 0:02:13half the people round here to drive.
0:02:13 > 0:02:16So absolutely no worries on that score.
0:02:16 > 0:02:19Hm. And you live next door, you say...Helen?
0:02:19 > 0:02:21Anything in particular YOU'VE noticed?
0:02:21 > 0:02:23Well...we hardly know each other, really.
0:02:23 > 0:02:25Mr Young just er...
0:02:26 > 0:02:28..bumps into us sometimes.
0:02:28 > 0:02:30But my grandad had the same problems,
0:02:30 > 0:02:33with his memory and that, so... when he mentioned his concerns
0:02:33 > 0:02:35I said I'd be more than happy to come with him.
0:02:37 > 0:02:39Would it be OK to count backwards for me?
0:02:42 > 0:02:44Say from ten to one.
0:02:44 > 0:02:45Don't be so soft.
0:02:45 > 0:02:50I know it seems a bit odd, but it's a useful little test, that's all.
0:02:50 > 0:02:51I've not suddenly become an idiot.
0:02:51 > 0:02:54Well, go on, then. Show him.
0:02:54 > 0:02:55Go on.
0:02:59 > 0:03:00Ten, nine, eight...
0:03:02 > 0:03:04..eight, seven,
0:03:04 > 0:03:07five, four, three, two...one.
0:03:15 > 0:03:16What?
0:03:18 > 0:03:21I...I didn't get it wrong, did I?
0:03:31 > 0:03:34Well, you don't know what the scan's going to say, do you?
0:03:34 > 0:03:37Could be that you're just... well, just getting old.
0:03:37 > 0:03:38Is there teabags?
0:03:38 > 0:03:40- Oh...- In here? All right.
0:03:40 > 0:03:45And even if it is, you know - well, he mentioned medication, didn't he?
0:03:45 > 0:03:46Mm?
0:03:46 > 0:03:48Milk...
0:03:48 > 0:03:50You could be fine for years.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56Mr Young?
0:03:57 > 0:04:00"Avoid driving alone, and at night".
0:04:03 > 0:04:05That's what it says here.
0:04:05 > 0:04:07How am I meant to do that? I have to drive.
0:04:07 > 0:04:09How will I do the shop?
0:04:09 > 0:04:11How will I get to church?
0:04:11 > 0:04:12It'll take a bit of getting used to.
0:04:12 > 0:04:16Well, I'm not getting used to it. I won't.
0:04:16 > 0:04:17Have you got a mobile?
0:04:18 > 0:04:21- Somewhere.- Right.
0:04:21 > 0:04:23There's only one number in it though.
0:04:23 > 0:04:25My wife's, and she died four years ago.
0:04:28 > 0:04:30Off more than on most of the time.
0:04:30 > 0:04:33Well - you're going to have three numbers in it when you put these in.
0:04:33 > 0:04:36This is my home, and that's my mobile.
0:04:38 > 0:04:41Right, shall I come back later? Pop something in the oven for you?
0:04:41 > 0:04:45- Doesn't work.- I could get my fella round, Tony, he's a gas fitter.
0:04:46 > 0:04:48I need to drive, I have to.
0:04:48 > 0:04:50OK, so I made one mistake.
0:04:51 > 0:04:55But...your lad's fine. I never even touched him.
0:04:55 > 0:04:58And so what if I forget the odd... number.
0:04:58 > 0:05:01How did you make a full roast without an oven?
0:05:07 > 0:05:09Ronnie...
0:05:09 > 0:05:12You can't just make stuff up to a doctor,
0:05:12 > 0:05:14what's the point in going if you're going to do that?
0:05:21 > 0:05:23It's not only the driving, is it? It's...
0:05:23 > 0:05:25Well, it's loads of things.
0:05:25 > 0:05:29Eh? That's why you've got all these things up on your wall.
0:05:34 > 0:05:36I will be careful.
0:05:39 > 0:05:40Promise.
0:06:51 > 0:06:52ENGINE STARTS
0:07:21 > 0:07:22Ooh!
0:07:22 > 0:07:23Hang on.
0:07:28 > 0:07:31There you go. Keep the change. Bye.
0:07:35 > 0:07:36Oh!
0:07:41 > 0:07:42Whoa!
0:07:42 > 0:07:43SHE LAUGHS
0:07:45 > 0:07:47No, no, no. You don't have to do that, Mr Young. It's fine.
0:07:47 > 0:07:50Call me Ronnie, please. No-one else does these days.
0:07:50 > 0:07:51Oh...
0:07:53 > 0:07:55So you don't drive, then?
0:07:55 > 0:07:57- No.- Never learnt?
0:07:57 > 0:08:00Well, I did my theory last year. Costs a fortune, doesn't it?
0:08:00 > 0:08:02Well, it needn't do. I could teach you.
0:08:02 > 0:08:05- What?- Well, it's my observation that's to cock, isn't it?
0:08:05 > 0:08:07Not my, er...my know-how.
0:08:07 > 0:08:10- Nice idea, but I don't think... - I wouldn't charge you, obviously.
0:08:10 > 0:08:12Well, I couldn't do that, no.
0:08:12 > 0:08:14It's not an act of er...
0:08:14 > 0:08:16There's something in it for ME too.
0:08:18 > 0:08:21Last night, I set a place at the table for Annie.
0:08:23 > 0:08:26It's like this...fog comes down,
0:08:26 > 0:08:28and when it lifts, I've done something daft
0:08:28 > 0:08:30and I've no idea how.
0:08:30 > 0:08:32I try to say something and half the words are...
0:08:34 > 0:08:36But I wouldn't have to go out in the car alone
0:08:36 > 0:08:38if you were out in the car with me.
0:08:38 > 0:08:40And while I was teaching you...
0:08:41 > 0:08:45..you could...drive me about a bit. And take me to places I need to go.
0:08:45 > 0:08:47I don't think so.
0:08:48 > 0:08:50No. No, OK, fair enough.
0:08:52 > 0:08:54Oh...
0:08:56 > 0:09:00Um... They didn't all make it, I'm afraid.
0:09:01 > 0:09:02Thanks.
0:09:07 > 0:09:08Ronnie?
0:09:26 > 0:09:30First time my mother brought me here, I slipped her grip and ran.
0:09:32 > 0:09:34I'd never seen the sea, I couldn't wait to jump in.
0:09:34 > 0:09:36But I'd come over the dunes,
0:09:37 > 0:09:41and there was...barbed wire,
0:09:41 > 0:09:44all the way along. Was just after the war, like.
0:09:46 > 0:09:49Used to drive down here all the time when Anne was ill.
0:09:50 > 0:09:53Just...watch the sun
0:09:53 > 0:09:55going down.
0:09:58 > 0:10:01- Sorry, it's time we swapped seats. - Eh?
0:10:01 > 0:10:04Well, er...I actually don't think I'm ready to drive.
0:10:04 > 0:10:06- Of course you are! - No, I've never done it before so...
0:10:06 > 0:10:08Well...time you did, then.
0:10:28 > 0:10:29Belt on.
0:10:30 > 0:10:32Gently on the clutch...
0:10:32 > 0:10:34Lovely.
0:10:34 > 0:10:36Bit more gas.
0:10:36 > 0:10:38How's that? Oh! Oh!
0:10:38 > 0:10:42Right, just gently let the clutch out. Bit more gas.
0:10:42 > 0:10:44And you're off. Lovely!
0:10:44 > 0:10:46How's that...? How's that?
0:10:46 > 0:10:47Oh, look at that!
0:10:47 > 0:10:49Bit more gas...
0:10:50 > 0:10:53- Lovely! Now, that's really smooth. - Liar!
0:10:53 > 0:10:54THEY CHUCKLE
0:10:55 > 0:10:57Nobody in the way, you can't hit anything.
0:10:57 > 0:10:58Wouldn't count on that!
0:10:58 > 0:11:01What's that? What's it doing that for?
0:11:01 > 0:11:04- All the time in the world.- Yeah...
0:11:04 > 0:11:07- Till it gets dark. - SHE LAUGHS
0:11:07 > 0:11:09Oh, it's so hard!
0:11:09 > 0:11:11Let the clutch out, bit more gas.
0:11:11 > 0:11:12ENGINE ROARS
0:11:12 > 0:11:13And you're off. Lovely!
0:11:13 > 0:11:16Ohh!
0:11:16 > 0:11:19- Try going into third. - No, I'm happy as I am, thank you.
0:11:20 > 0:11:22THEY CHUCKLE
0:11:22 > 0:11:24That's the sand's fault, that's the beach's fault.
0:11:24 > 0:11:25That's rubbish!
0:11:27 > 0:11:30Good! Now... How does that feel?
0:11:30 > 0:11:31Awful. GEARS CRUNCH
0:11:31 > 0:11:34Ooh! Ooh! How do I stop? How do I stop this?
0:11:34 > 0:11:37- Back... Back into second. - No, I'm happy like this, Ronnie,
0:11:37 > 0:11:39I don't want to do any...
0:11:39 > 0:11:40Where's the ice cream van gone?
0:11:42 > 0:11:45See, it's not as hard as you thought, is it?
0:11:45 > 0:11:48- Just roll along, but don't forget to check your mirrors.- Why?
0:11:48 > 0:11:51Do your checks, as you would if you were on the road.
0:11:51 > 0:11:52Oh, jellyfish!
0:11:53 > 0:11:54Oh!
0:11:55 > 0:11:59Look at that, I'm doing it. Yeah. I'm doing it!
0:11:59 > 0:12:01Look at that!
0:12:01 > 0:12:04- Well...you know what you are now, don't you, Helen?- What's that?
0:12:04 > 0:12:06- A driver! - SHE LAUGHS
0:12:06 > 0:12:08Thanks, Ronnie.
0:12:09 > 0:12:12Very good for a first lesson, that.
0:12:12 > 0:12:15- Seriously?- You can hardly be Stirling Moss from day dot!
0:12:18 > 0:12:20Nasty.
0:12:20 > 0:12:22Oh, that's nothing.
0:12:22 > 0:12:24- How did you do that? - Well - does it matter?
0:12:43 > 0:12:45- Sorry, I didn't mean to... - Well, just don't.
0:12:48 > 0:12:50Is everything OK?
0:12:50 > 0:12:52Do you know? Just forget it!
0:12:52 > 0:12:54- Eh?- Your lessons!
0:12:54 > 0:12:56Helen...?
0:12:58 > 0:13:00You can't just walk away! Helen?
0:13:03 > 0:13:04Helen?!
0:13:10 > 0:13:12How am I going to get home?
0:13:45 > 0:13:48DOORBELL RINGS
0:13:53 > 0:13:55You had no right to do that.
0:13:55 > 0:13:57- All I said was...- Well, you shouldn't have said anything.
0:13:57 > 0:13:59You know I'm not meant to be in that car...
0:13:59 > 0:14:01Well, you're here now, aren't you? So...
0:14:01 > 0:14:05Have you any idea what it's like when you try to...
0:14:05 > 0:14:08and you find you can just... You just can't?
0:14:09 > 0:14:11OK, look, I'm sorry.
0:14:12 > 0:14:15I am, I'm sorry. I didn't realise you'd find it so difficult.
0:14:16 > 0:14:18Do you want to learn to drive or not?
0:14:18 > 0:14:21Cos if you're happy just to sit in the passenger seat
0:14:21 > 0:14:23for the rest of your life, tell me, and I'll try and find...
0:14:23 > 0:14:25No, I want to, I do. I just...
0:14:25 > 0:14:27As long as we can keep the conversation purely
0:14:27 > 0:14:31to mirror-signal-manouevre, then that would be great. OK?
0:14:31 > 0:14:33All right, mate?
0:14:33 > 0:14:35Reckon you're going to have your work cut out with this one.
0:14:35 > 0:14:37- Some people never learn.- Hey!
0:14:44 > 0:14:47SHOUTING AND SCREAMING THROUGH WALLS
0:14:51 > 0:14:54SOBBING
0:15:03 > 0:15:04You might not have to pay.
0:15:04 > 0:15:06- For what?- Help.
0:15:06 > 0:15:08Good, cos I don't want any.
0:15:08 > 0:15:12Well, what about someone at mealtimes?
0:15:12 > 0:15:14If you want to send Delia round you're more than welcome.
0:15:14 > 0:15:17But if you're thinking about some teenager who can't boil a...
0:15:17 > 0:15:20dib-dab, then I'll make do, thanks.
0:15:20 > 0:15:22People often find it's company.
0:15:22 > 0:15:24I'm not paying for company!
0:15:24 > 0:15:26Like I said, you might not HAVE to.
0:15:26 > 0:15:28I don't want anybody else paying, either!
0:15:28 > 0:15:30And I don't want loads of people coming in the house.
0:15:30 > 0:15:33And I don't want some social worker who seems to think I'm deaf
0:15:33 > 0:15:34just cos I might have...
0:15:36 > 0:15:38Look, Ronald...
0:15:38 > 0:15:39It's Ronnie!
0:15:44 > 0:15:46If you change your mind...
0:15:50 > 0:15:53Other people have bigger problems than me. Might not seem so.
0:15:53 > 0:15:56Likes of you might not notice, but I do.
0:15:57 > 0:16:00You don't know what goes on behind closed doors.
0:16:00 > 0:16:02Not unless you get to know the person really well.
0:16:02 > 0:16:04Not unless you see the signs.
0:16:07 > 0:16:09Is there something...?
0:16:14 > 0:16:16Well...I've got your number, haven't I?
0:16:40 > 0:16:41How'd I do?
0:16:42 > 0:16:44- Perfect.- Oh!
0:16:44 > 0:16:46SHE LAUGHS
0:16:46 > 0:16:49Um... I heard it, you know, the other night.
0:16:49 > 0:16:51That, er...that argument.
0:16:51 > 0:16:53Right, same time tomorrow, then?
0:17:02 > 0:17:04I can't just ignore it.
0:17:04 > 0:17:07I want the lessons to carry on, Ronnie, I really do.
0:17:07 > 0:17:09But you need them too.
0:17:11 > 0:17:12- Yes.- Yeah.
0:17:13 > 0:17:17Same time tomorrow. Bay parking, I think.
0:17:17 > 0:17:19Great. Bay parking.
0:17:23 > 0:17:27TALKING ON RADIO
0:17:39 > 0:17:41KNOCKING
0:17:45 > 0:17:47About the oven.
0:17:49 > 0:17:51This is how I met her, you know.
0:17:51 > 0:17:54- Who?- Helen.- Oh.
0:17:56 > 0:17:59I drink in the pub, The Lion, where she works.
0:17:59 > 0:18:02She needed a few jobs doing, few months back.
0:18:02 > 0:18:04There you go. Should be it now.
0:18:04 > 0:18:06CLICKING
0:18:06 > 0:18:08Will it?
0:18:08 > 0:18:10- Came along just at the right time for me.- Oh.
0:18:10 > 0:18:13Been finding things a bit tough.
0:18:13 > 0:18:16Was in the forces. Duke of Lancs.
0:18:16 > 0:18:18Did Iraq, Afghanistan.
0:18:18 > 0:18:21Right. Was it bad over there?
0:18:21 > 0:18:24Nah. Being over there weren't the problem. It was being back here.
0:18:24 > 0:18:27You're pumped, when you're in that world, buzzing all the time,
0:18:27 > 0:18:29all day and all night, and then
0:18:29 > 0:18:32you come back here and it's just...watching X Factor.
0:18:34 > 0:18:36Yeah.
0:18:36 > 0:18:37- How much do I owe you?- Forget it.
0:18:37 > 0:18:39Nay, no! Got to give you something.
0:18:39 > 0:18:43I think it's nice that Helen's close to her neighbours.
0:18:43 > 0:18:47People don't tend to have a clue what's going on these days.
0:18:47 > 0:18:49I mean, next door, do they?
0:18:49 > 0:18:51But it's good that you do...
0:18:51 > 0:18:54and that we...can help each other out.
0:18:56 > 0:18:59Need anything else, just let me know.
0:19:19 > 0:19:21You missed a spot!
0:19:36 > 0:19:38DOORBELL RINGS
0:19:44 > 0:19:46What do you think?
0:19:46 > 0:19:48- Are you winding me up?- Eh?
0:19:48 > 0:19:51So you just destroy my bike, and then bring yours over to, what, show off?
0:19:51 > 0:19:53- It isn't mine.- Whose is it, then?
0:19:53 > 0:19:55It's for you!
0:19:55 > 0:19:59I might not be safe behind the wheel. I'd be lethal on this!
0:19:59 > 0:20:00Are you messing?
0:20:00 > 0:20:02Is it OK?
0:20:02 > 0:20:04Yeah. Yeah, it's well smart.
0:20:05 > 0:20:08How about I come in and er...talk you through it a bit?
0:20:11 > 0:20:12Yeah, all right.
0:20:20 > 0:20:22Serious suspension thingy, that.
0:20:22 > 0:20:24And 18 gears as well. That's mint!
0:20:26 > 0:20:28Do you think your mum'll like it?
0:20:30 > 0:20:32And, er, Tony? What about him?
0:20:32 > 0:20:33Who cares?
0:20:34 > 0:20:36Do you two not get on?
0:20:37 > 0:20:39He's all right, though, isn't he?
0:20:39 > 0:20:41Treats you all right, both of you?
0:20:44 > 0:20:50Sorry, none of my business, but if you and your mum...
0:20:51 > 0:20:54If there's any problems, I'm here.
0:20:54 > 0:20:57And...there are things that can be done...
0:20:59 > 0:21:00..people who can step in.
0:21:06 > 0:21:07I hate him.
0:21:15 > 0:21:16What?
0:21:19 > 0:21:20I hate him.
0:21:20 > 0:21:21Does he...
0:21:25 > 0:21:28Does he hurt her, Connor?
0:21:28 > 0:21:29Has he?
0:21:32 > 0:21:36ENGINE FIRES UP
0:21:48 > 0:21:50I reckon you should put in for your test.
0:21:50 > 0:21:51Nah.
0:21:51 > 0:21:54Take a bit to...come through.
0:21:54 > 0:21:55You'll be ready by then.
0:21:55 > 0:21:57You think?
0:21:57 > 0:21:59What will YOU do - if I pass?
0:22:01 > 0:22:03When's Connor turn 17?
0:22:03 > 0:22:05Not for a few years yet.
0:22:05 > 0:22:08As luck would have it, he's just got himself a nice new bike.
0:22:08 > 0:22:10Go on, I'll wait here for you.
0:22:10 > 0:22:12No, no. Come in.
0:22:12 > 0:22:14No, it's really not my thing.
0:22:14 > 0:22:15- Come on!- No.
0:22:16 > 0:22:18Come on!
0:22:18 > 0:22:19All right.
0:22:51 > 0:22:52COIN DROPS IN BOX
0:22:55 > 0:22:57What does that mean?
0:22:57 > 0:22:59It's for Anne.
0:22:59 > 0:23:00Oh, right.
0:23:02 > 0:23:04Can I do one?
0:23:08 > 0:23:10COIN DROPS IN BOX Thank you.
0:23:22 > 0:23:23Hm.
0:23:24 > 0:23:26Why do you stay with him, Helen?
0:23:28 > 0:23:30Why stay with anyone who treats you like that?
0:23:32 > 0:23:35You deserve better. You both do.
0:23:35 > 0:23:38- This isn't the place for this! - Oh, I think it is.
0:23:38 > 0:23:40You don't know what you're talking about!
0:23:41 > 0:23:46You can hide it from most people but you can't hide it from everyone.
0:23:46 > 0:23:47God sees everything.
0:23:47 > 0:23:50Oh, that's nice. Sees everything, does bugger all.
0:23:50 > 0:23:51Thanks very much!
0:23:51 > 0:23:53I want to do something.
0:23:53 > 0:23:55Has it ever occurred to you that you might just be wrong?
0:23:55 > 0:23:58You put cutlery out for the dead!
0:23:58 > 0:24:00Maybe there's NOTHING going on in my house.
0:24:00 > 0:24:02Maybe it's all just going on in your head!
0:24:23 > 0:24:26SOBBING AND SCREAMING THROUGH WALLS
0:24:33 > 0:24:34Stop it!
0:24:36 > 0:24:37THUMP
0:24:59 > 0:25:00I'm really pleased you called.
0:25:00 > 0:25:02Like I said, I'm sure we can help you.
0:25:02 > 0:25:04- I don't want you to.- What?
0:25:04 > 0:25:06I've not asked you to come round for me.
0:25:06 > 0:25:08Well, who have you asked me to come round for?
0:25:08 > 0:25:10- Helen.- Sorry, who's...
0:25:10 > 0:25:13My next-door neighbour. I want you to help her.
0:25:40 > 0:25:42- What have you been saying?- Eh? - I've had Social Services round!
0:25:42 > 0:25:46- I think you should calm down. - What did THEY want?- Asking me all questions about you, about your boy.
0:25:46 > 0:25:49Well, it had nothing to do with me, I swear.
0:25:49 > 0:25:52Was it you? It was you, wasn't it, calling Social Services, making stuff up.
0:25:52 > 0:25:56- I haven't made anything up. - What's your problem? - Keep away from the boy!
0:25:56 > 0:25:58Mate, look - just keep out of it, all right?
0:25:58 > 0:26:01Keep away from the boy. It wasn't Connor. It wasn't Helen.
0:26:01 > 0:26:02It was me.
0:26:04 > 0:26:05You called Social Services about me?
0:26:05 > 0:26:08- How could you do that? - I only wish I hadn't waited so long.
0:26:08 > 0:26:12You're gone in the head, you, mate. You shouldn't be in the house on your own.
0:26:12 > 0:26:13I know what I've seen and heard.
0:26:13 > 0:26:15- I don't believe this! - You don't know nothing!
0:26:15 > 0:26:19- Come in mine. Both of you. Come on. - I'm never coming in your house again and not into your car, either.
0:26:19 > 0:26:22I don't want any more lessons from you about anything!
0:26:22 > 0:26:26I can live with being a passenger, even if you can't.
0:26:26 > 0:26:28You stay away from us, OK?
0:26:28 > 0:26:29And you stay away from that house.
0:26:40 > 0:26:43You see the way that this is mostly red?
0:26:43 > 0:26:44Well, that's good.
0:26:44 > 0:26:47That means the blood is still pumping away,
0:26:47 > 0:26:50keeping those cells going.
0:26:50 > 0:26:52- Smashing.- Yeah.
0:26:52 > 0:26:54But you see the blue areas?
0:26:54 > 0:26:56It means the blood's not getting there any more,
0:26:56 > 0:26:58so these areas are not working as they should.
0:26:58 > 0:27:01And this might be a little bit difficult for you to take in because
0:27:01 > 0:27:04this is the area responsible for taking things in,
0:27:04 > 0:27:06if that makes any sense.
0:27:06 > 0:27:07I haven't got the Alzheimer's?
0:27:07 > 0:27:09No, no. This is vascular.
0:27:12 > 0:27:16And it's not just the forgetting, then?
0:27:16 > 0:27:19It's the reasoning, the processing.
0:27:22 > 0:27:24Do you think I could...
0:27:26 > 0:27:30..mix things up, then, think things are going on that...
0:27:30 > 0:27:32aren't?
0:27:34 > 0:27:38There is medication you can take, Ronald.
0:27:38 > 0:27:42I mean, it won't stop it, won't get rid of it, but it can slow it down.
0:27:46 > 0:27:47What do you think?
0:27:48 > 0:27:49It's Ronnie.
0:27:52 > 0:27:53Ronnie.
0:27:58 > 0:28:02SHOUTING AND SCREAMING THROUGH WALLS
0:28:02 > 0:28:03VOLUME UP
0:28:18 > 0:28:21# ..I thought we belonged together
0:28:23 > 0:28:25# And our hearts fit like a glove
0:28:27 > 0:28:31# But I was wrong for I've been watching
0:28:31 > 0:28:32# Watching you
0:28:32 > 0:28:35# From the window up above. #
0:28:45 > 0:28:46Right...
0:28:47 > 0:28:49KNOCKING
0:28:49 > 0:28:53Open the door! Either open it or I'll...
0:28:53 > 0:28:54SCREAMING: Go away!
0:28:54 > 0:28:55- No!- Go away!
0:28:55 > 0:28:57I'm not going anywhere!
0:28:57 > 0:28:59- SCREAMING: Go away, please!- Helen?
0:29:01 > 0:29:05Right, come on! Come out! Come on, have a go at me!
0:29:05 > 0:29:06- Come on!- Hey!- Have a go at me!
0:29:06 > 0:29:09Hey! What's going on?
0:29:09 > 0:29:10HELEN SOBS
0:29:10 > 0:29:11I thought...
0:29:15 > 0:29:17Helen... Helen!
0:29:26 > 0:29:30I need you to tell me again what you told me last week, in as much
0:29:30 > 0:29:34detail as you can, and my colleague Andrew's going to write it all down.
0:29:34 > 0:29:35OK?
0:29:35 > 0:29:39If you could just tell me again what you told me
0:29:39 > 0:29:41about your next-door neighbour.
0:29:41 > 0:29:42- My next-door neighbour?- Yes.
0:29:42 > 0:29:44- Great girl, Helen. - Yes, I know. If you...
0:29:44 > 0:29:47And her boyfriend, Tony. He's a good lad.
0:29:47 > 0:29:50He fixed my, er, cooker.
0:29:50 > 0:29:51- Wouldn't take a penny.- You like him?
0:29:51 > 0:29:53Very much so. Wouldn't hurt a fly.
0:29:56 > 0:29:58Why? What did I say last week?
0:29:58 > 0:30:00It doesn't matter.
0:30:00 > 0:30:03I get confused, you know. Hope I didn't say the wrong thing.
0:30:03 > 0:30:07Mind plays tricks. Very lucky with my neighbours. Blessed, actually.
0:30:36 > 0:30:37Come on. Come on, come on...!
0:30:41 > 0:30:42Nothing.
0:30:45 > 0:30:46Nothing.
0:30:48 > 0:30:49Nothing.
0:31:11 > 0:31:13PHONE RINGS
0:31:27 > 0:31:29PHONE CONTINUES RINGING
0:31:32 > 0:31:33Hello?
0:31:37 > 0:31:38'Hello?'
0:31:41 > 0:31:42'I don't know where I am.'
0:31:49 > 0:31:52'I don't know how to get home.'
0:31:56 > 0:31:57'Help me, Connor.'
0:31:59 > 0:32:01Please.
0:32:42 > 0:32:44Look, maybe we should call the police.
0:32:44 > 0:32:46If we do that, he'll lose his licence.
0:32:46 > 0:32:49- Wouldn't that be a good thing? - It would kill him.
0:32:49 > 0:32:50What if he kills someone?
0:32:59 > 0:33:02Why aren't you answering your phone?
0:33:02 > 0:33:04You don't have to keep doing that, you know,
0:33:04 > 0:33:06- just calling to be nice. - Is that what do you think?
0:33:06 > 0:33:09I've suddenly gone off you cos your life's a bit more complicated?
0:33:09 > 0:33:10Whose isn't?
0:33:15 > 0:33:17I'm not here now to be nice. I'm here...
0:33:19 > 0:33:20- I'm here because...- Stop!
0:33:20 > 0:33:23- What?- Stop!
0:33:23 > 0:33:25There!
0:33:25 > 0:33:26Right, hold on.
0:33:38 > 0:33:41Been going up and down best part of an hour, looking for you.
0:33:41 > 0:33:44I was just trying to get to the beach to see the...
0:33:44 > 0:33:45and the er...
0:33:45 > 0:33:48I thought I could get there with my eyes closed, but...
0:33:48 > 0:33:50I'll drive him back.
0:33:51 > 0:33:52I'll come with you.
0:33:54 > 0:33:55Are you sure?
0:33:57 > 0:33:58Yeah.
0:34:02 > 0:34:03Thank you.
0:34:15 > 0:34:18Never occurred to me that it was you, not for a second.
0:34:20 > 0:34:22You need to get help, lad. Can't carry on.
0:34:25 > 0:34:28I shouldn't have said anything. I should have just left you here.
0:34:28 > 0:34:30- Connor!- But you didn't. You didn't.
0:34:30 > 0:34:33- Ronnie, can I just get in the car, please?- Not now.
0:34:33 > 0:34:37You don't know what goes on. You haven't got a clue.
0:34:37 > 0:34:38I know anger.
0:34:38 > 0:34:42What? You think I don't? I'm the one stuck here!
0:34:42 > 0:34:44I'm the one with dementia.
0:34:47 > 0:34:50Your mum's lucky that your dad died when he did.
0:34:50 > 0:34:51- Excuse me?- She's still young.
0:34:53 > 0:34:55She's had him, she had you,
0:34:55 > 0:34:58and now she can actually have someone else, too.
0:34:58 > 0:35:02- Do you really want to try and stop that? Can you really...- I didn't stop answering his calls, she did!
0:35:02 > 0:35:04Only because of you. What else could she do?
0:35:04 > 0:35:05That's not true!
0:35:05 > 0:35:07Helen...
0:35:07 > 0:35:09Mum, tell him.
0:35:13 > 0:35:15Of course it is.
0:35:20 > 0:35:23Anyone can see you are the most important thing in my life, Connor,
0:35:23 > 0:35:25but you can't be the only thing.
0:35:25 > 0:35:27And Tony's a decent man.
0:35:27 > 0:35:29I don't want to keep ignoring him any more
0:35:29 > 0:35:32and I want you to accept him. I need you to.
0:35:39 > 0:35:41Everyone's angry sometimes.
0:35:41 > 0:35:43There's a fella lives opposite you,
0:35:43 > 0:35:45- he lost his son when he was 19. - Shut up!
0:35:45 > 0:35:49The chap lives next door but one to him's beggared off and left his wife and kid.
0:35:49 > 0:35:52And there's a bloke on the corner who has to go to sleep attached
0:35:52 > 0:35:54to some sort of machine.
0:35:54 > 0:35:57And that doesn't mean it's easy to control it.
0:35:57 > 0:35:59But it does mean you've got to try.
0:35:59 > 0:36:03Don't let yourself become... the things you've done.
0:36:09 > 0:36:11Lock the doors.
0:36:11 > 0:36:14Mum! Open the door!
0:36:15 > 0:36:17Mum! Open it!
0:36:17 > 0:36:19- Let me in, now!- Don't look at him.
0:36:19 > 0:36:20Open the door, Mum!
0:36:20 > 0:36:22HE SCREAMS
0:36:27 > 0:36:29HE PANTS
0:36:46 > 0:36:48I'm sorry.
0:36:48 > 0:36:50What for? You were right.
0:37:07 > 0:37:09I want to do the test. I want to drive.
0:37:12 > 0:37:16# You said you'd wait forever... #
0:37:16 > 0:37:18'Everyone's angry sometimes. Everyone.'
0:37:20 > 0:37:24'Fella who lives opposite you lost his son when he was 19.'
0:37:25 > 0:37:26Helen Wilson?
0:37:27 > 0:37:28Yeah, that's me.
0:37:28 > 0:37:31# You wade through the water
0:37:32 > 0:37:34# Slowly your hands... #
0:37:34 > 0:37:37'Chap next door but one to him's beggared off
0:37:37 > 0:37:39'and left his wife and kid.'
0:37:39 > 0:37:44# I wish you'd felt me falling... #
0:37:44 > 0:37:47'Bloke on the corner has to sleep attached to some sort of machine.'
0:37:47 > 0:37:51# I wish you'd watched over me... #
0:37:53 > 0:37:57'And that doesn't mean it's easy to control it
0:37:57 > 0:38:00'but it does mean you have to try.'
0:38:00 > 0:38:01# But I blinked
0:38:05 > 0:38:08# And the world was gone... #
0:38:09 > 0:38:10I passed!
0:38:20 > 0:38:24# And the world... #
0:38:24 > 0:38:25Oh, Connor!
0:38:27 > 0:38:30# And the world. #
0:38:53 > 0:38:55Hey, Ronnie!
0:38:55 > 0:38:59- Sorry, I didn't realise.- No, it's fine. She's about to go, so...
0:38:59 > 0:39:00- How is it?- Er...
0:39:01 > 0:39:03It's happening.
0:39:04 > 0:39:06I just wanted to...
0:39:10 > 0:39:11..give you this.
0:39:14 > 0:39:15What?
0:39:16 > 0:39:18- No!- Yeah.- No!
0:39:18 > 0:39:20My driving days are over, Helen.
0:39:24 > 0:39:25Ronnie...?
0:39:25 > 0:39:27- I'll give you a call.- Yeah.
0:39:27 > 0:39:28OK, thanks.
0:39:34 > 0:39:36She called me Ronnie!
0:39:39 > 0:39:42The other night can't be the last time you were behind the wheel of a car, no way!
0:39:42 > 0:39:45You're going to have to go out with more style than that!
0:39:45 > 0:39:47I'm not sure that I can, not any more.
0:39:49 > 0:39:50It's all right.
0:39:50 > 0:39:51I'll teach you.
0:40:10 > 0:40:11There used to be barbed wire here...
0:40:13 > 0:40:15..between the dunes and the sea...
0:40:21 > 0:40:22..but it's gone.
0:40:24 > 0:40:25It's gone.
0:40:46 > 0:40:48You're going to hate me for saying this, Ronnie,
0:40:48 > 0:40:50but you know your name?
0:40:50 > 0:40:52I think Ronald suits you much better!
0:40:53 > 0:40:59# Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name
0:41:01 > 0:41:04# And they're always glad you came
0:41:05 > 0:41:08# You want to be where you can see
0:41:08 > 0:41:10# Our troubles are all the same
0:41:10 > 0:41:15# You want to be where everybody knows your name
0:41:18 > 0:41:21# Roll out of bed, Mr Coffee's dead
0:41:21 > 0:41:23# The morning's looking bright
0:41:23 > 0:41:24# The morning's looking bright
0:41:24 > 0:41:26# And your shrink ran off to Europe
0:41:26 > 0:41:28# And didn't even write
0:41:29 > 0:41:32# And your husband wants to be a girl
0:41:35 > 0:41:37# Be glad there's one place in the world... #