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0:00:20 > 0:00:23- Wow! You look great.
0:00:24 > 0:00:25- Thanks.
0:00:30 > 0:00:32- Will you be OK today?
0:00:32 > 0:00:34- The funeral could be hard on you.
0:00:34 > 0:00:37- Funerals are hard for everyone.
0:00:37 > 0:00:41- I'm sure people would understand - if you stayed away.
0:00:41 > 0:00:43- I don't want to.
0:00:43 > 0:00:46- I'm family. - I have a right to be there.
0:00:47 > 0:00:48- Sorry.
0:00:52 > 0:00:53- I have to go.
0:00:53 > 0:00:56- I can't be late, - as one of the bearers.
0:00:58 > 0:01:00- Don't worry. I'll be alright.
0:01:09 > 0:01:10- Come here.
0:01:14 > 0:01:17- Marian thought of everything.
0:01:18 > 0:01:22- She'd even frozen enough butter - for the bara brith and scones.
0:01:22 > 0:01:25- She wanted everything - to be perfect.
0:01:25 > 0:01:26- Typical.
0:01:26 > 0:01:29- She couldn't have known - she was about to die.
0:01:29 > 0:01:33- Maybe she had a premonition, - but she didn't say anything.
0:01:33 > 0:01:38- Animals know when their time's up, - if they die of natural causes.
0:01:39 > 0:01:42- Are you comparing Auntie Marian - to an old cat or dog?
0:01:43 > 0:01:44- Watch it. She could be listening!
0:01:44 > 0:01:46- Watch it. She could be listening!- - Don't say that.
0:01:46 > 0:01:48- I don't want her seeing me do this.
0:01:49 > 0:01:50- Oi!
0:01:55 > 0:01:57- I hope you've learnt your lesson.
0:01:57 > 0:01:59- Sorry, Marian.
0:01:59 > 0:02:02- I won't do it again, I promise.
0:02:02 > 0:02:04- I won't do it again, I promise.- - I'm so glad that you're here.
0:02:05 > 0:02:06- So am I.
0:02:11 > 0:02:13- You look very respectable...
0:02:14 > 0:02:16- ..and full of authority.
0:02:16 > 0:02:17- Thanks.
0:02:18 > 0:02:21- This isn't your first funeral.
0:02:21 > 0:02:22- You'll be fine.
0:02:22 > 0:02:24- You've been through worse.
0:02:24 > 0:02:26- KNOCK ON DOOR
0:02:26 > 0:02:28- Hello, Sion. Are you there?
0:02:30 > 0:02:31- Megan.
0:02:31 > 0:02:33- I came to see if you're ready.
0:02:34 > 0:02:36- Yes, I've been dressing myself - for years.
0:02:37 > 0:02:38- Excuse me.
0:02:39 > 0:02:44- Every appearance in the chapel - is important for your ordination.
0:02:44 > 0:02:48- Today is an important day - for Marian's family too.
0:02:48 > 0:02:50- MOBILE PHONE
0:02:54 > 0:02:56- I've found it.
0:02:56 > 0:02:57- I've found it.- - Well done.
0:02:57 > 0:02:59- I lost my mobile.
0:03:01 > 0:03:04- Gwyneth came over for some advice.
0:03:04 > 0:03:05- Gwyneth came over for some advice.- - Advice?
0:03:05 > 0:03:07- Yes, advice on Welsh books - for Gwern.
0:03:08 > 0:03:11- I spilt coffee all over myself.
0:03:11 > 0:03:13- It's lucky she didn't scald herself.
0:03:13 > 0:03:14- It's lucky she didn't scald herself.- - Indeed.
0:03:15 > 0:03:19- I hope today's service - will be a dignified one.
0:03:20 > 0:03:23- We don't want anything - to affect your ordination, do we?
0:03:29 > 0:03:32- I know Marian - wanted to do all the cooking...
0:03:32 > 0:03:36- ..but I've made Welsh cakes - because they don't freeze well.
0:03:36 > 0:03:37- Is that alright?
0:03:37 > 0:03:40- Of course. Thanks. - Marian would appreciate it.
0:03:41 > 0:03:44- I don't know. My Welsh cakes - were never good enough.
0:03:48 > 0:03:50- You all sound very happy.
0:03:50 > 0:03:51- You all sound very happy.- - I'm glad you're here.
0:03:52 > 0:03:54- Is there anything I can do?
0:03:54 > 0:03:56- Is there anything I can do?- - No, we're nearly done, thanks.
0:04:01 > 0:04:03- Didn't I tell you to stay away?
0:04:04 > 0:04:08- I thought the world of Marian. - I have a right to be here.
0:04:08 > 0:04:11- You look as if you're going - to a party.
0:04:15 > 0:04:17- Congratulations on your engagement.
0:04:17 > 0:04:18- Congratulations on your engagement.- - Thanks.
0:04:21 > 0:04:23- Did you know Marian well?
0:04:23 > 0:04:25- Not at all, - but it's something to do.
0:04:26 > 0:04:29- She lived on a farm, - so the funeral tea should be good.
0:04:32 > 0:04:34- Right, we'd better get going.
0:04:43 > 0:04:46- Are you alright?
0:04:48 > 0:04:52- You don't have to come, - if it'll be too painful.
0:04:52 > 0:04:54- It'll be painful for you too.
0:04:54 > 0:04:56- It's not long since Meic...
0:04:58 > 0:05:01- It's been even less - since Meilyr died.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04- Thanks for saying his name.
0:05:04 > 0:05:06- People tend not to.
0:05:07 > 0:05:09- They don't know what to say, Hywel.
0:05:11 > 0:05:13- Oh, go home.
0:05:16 > 0:05:18- I can't avoid funerals forever.
0:05:20 > 0:05:22- We can support each other.
0:06:06 > 0:06:11- # Sing by day - and sing by night #
0:06:25 > 0:06:26- Dear friends.
0:06:28 > 0:06:31- We are gathered to celebrate - and remember the life...
0:06:31 > 0:06:33- ..of our dear sister, Marian Rees.
0:06:34 > 0:06:36- Or Auntie Marian, - as we all knew her.
0:06:37 > 0:06:42- I'd like to invite Angela Rowlands - to start the eulogies.
0:06:50 > 0:06:51- Thank you, Sion.
0:06:54 > 0:06:58- I like to think the people - I've helped through Angel's Hands...
0:06:58 > 0:07:03- ..become angels themselves - when their time ends.
0:07:03 > 0:07:08- But Auntie Marian was an angel - during her lifetime too.
0:07:08 > 0:07:11- We're all going to miss her.
0:07:12 > 0:07:14- She was very kind to me.
0:07:14 > 0:07:19- When I learnt that I was related - to Eileen and Sioned...
0:07:19 > 0:07:22- ..she made me feel - completely at ease...
0:07:23 > 0:07:26- ..and accepted me - as part of the family.
0:07:26 > 0:07:29- She knew how important - that was to someone...
0:07:29 > 0:07:31- ..who'd been an outcast for so long.
0:07:33 > 0:07:37- In the midst of life, - we are in death.
0:07:38 > 0:07:41- I know that better than anyone.
0:07:42 > 0:07:44- Marian knew that too.
0:07:44 > 0:07:49- She taught me to appreciate - every minute we have...
0:07:49 > 0:07:52- ..because things can change - in a second.
0:07:55 > 0:07:57- Maybe I'll be the first - to see her again.
0:07:58 > 0:08:00- Angela, that's enough!
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0:08:24 > 0:08:26- I can fill the kettle myself.
0:08:26 > 0:08:28- Someone's been here.
0:08:34 > 0:08:35- The mart money's gone.
0:08:35 > 0:08:37- The mart money's gone.- - I put it upstairs. I'll check.
0:08:42 > 0:08:45- O Christ, - let your maiden's soul rest...
0:08:46 > 0:08:51- ..where there is no pain, illness, - sadness nor mourning...
0:08:52 > 0:08:54- ..but eternal life.
0:08:55 > 0:08:56- Amen.
0:09:06 > 0:09:08- So long, Auntie Marian.
0:09:18 > 0:09:19- Thanks for coming.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21- I'm glad to see you.
0:09:21 > 0:09:22- Good.
0:09:41 > 0:09:44- Whoever was here didn't go upstairs.
0:09:44 > 0:09:47- Thank goodness for that, - today of all days.
0:09:47 > 0:09:49- Can we not tell anyone?
0:09:49 > 0:09:53- Today's about Auntie Marian, - I don't want us to forget that.
0:09:53 > 0:09:55- You should have gone - to the cemetery.
0:09:55 > 0:09:57- You were the closest to Marian.
0:09:58 > 0:10:00- That's why I wanted to be here.
0:10:00 > 0:10:03- Auntie Marian - would want everything to be perfect.
0:10:03 > 0:10:05- There's no question about that.
0:10:06 > 0:10:09- I feel closer to her here - than in the cemetery.
0:10:09 > 0:10:12- It's as if - she looked after the mart money.
0:10:12 > 0:10:14- Here we go again.
0:10:14 > 0:10:18- I can't misbehave in case Marian's - watching everything we do!
0:10:18 > 0:10:20- You could do no wrong in her eyes.
0:10:20 > 0:10:21- You could do no wrong in her eyes.- - You're right there.
0:10:23 > 0:10:25- Come on, - or she will have something to say.
0:10:38 > 0:10:41- Sorry for your loss.
0:10:41 > 0:10:42- Sorry for your loss.- - Thanks.
0:10:45 > 0:10:49- What is she doing here? - She didn't know Auntie Marian.
0:10:49 > 0:10:51- Don't say anything.
0:10:51 > 0:10:54- Right, everyone - can help themselves.
0:10:55 > 0:10:57- Auntie Marian - prepared most of the food.
0:11:00 > 0:11:01- Are you alright?
0:11:01 > 0:11:02- Are you alright?- - I'm not sure.
0:11:02 > 0:11:05- OK, tell me when you're ready to go.
0:11:07 > 0:11:10- When do you think Sion - will read the will?
0:11:10 > 0:11:12- After everyone's gone, I suppose.
0:11:12 > 0:11:14- After everyone's gone, I suppose.- - Is that all you care about?
0:11:14 > 0:11:16- How much she left in her will?
0:11:16 > 0:11:19- Don't you care - that Auntie Marian's dead?
0:11:19 > 0:11:21- I don't care either.
0:11:21 > 0:11:23- An old woman's dead.
0:11:23 > 0:11:24- She had her time.
0:11:24 > 0:11:25- She got to live.
0:11:26 > 0:11:27- Meilyr didn't.
0:11:29 > 0:11:30- Come on, let's go.
0:11:37 > 0:11:39- Is there any more tea?
0:11:40 > 0:11:42- Yes, of course.
0:11:42 > 0:11:44- Does anyone else want more tea?
0:11:52 > 0:11:53- Poor Hywel.
0:11:53 > 0:11:57- But this isn't the place - to reveal his feelings.
0:11:57 > 0:12:00- It depends how strong they are.
0:12:00 > 0:12:03- I think we should all be able - to control our feelings.
0:12:04 > 0:12:06- Maybe you two should remember that.
0:12:07 > 0:12:08- What's that supposed to mean?
0:12:08 > 0:12:10- What's that supposed to mean?- - I'm not a fool, Gwyneth.
0:12:11 > 0:12:14- There was only one reason - why you were at Y Felin earlier.
0:12:15 > 0:12:16- It's improper.
0:12:16 > 0:12:20- Sion's about to be ordained, - and he doesn't have the time.
0:12:20 > 0:12:22- What? To enjoy himself?
0:12:22 > 0:12:26- You're so lonely and bitter, - and can't stand anyone being happy.
0:12:27 > 0:12:30- I take things seriously - and remember my duties.
0:12:30 > 0:12:33- Like the duty to behave - appropriately at a funeral?
0:12:34 > 0:12:37- You don't have to worry - about my behaviour.
0:12:42 > 0:12:43- Sorry.
0:12:43 > 0:12:46- Someone needs to put Megan - in her place.
0:12:51 > 0:12:52- I'm so ashamed of myself.
0:12:54 > 0:12:55- Everyone understands.
0:12:55 > 0:12:58- It doesn't make it right, does it?
0:12:58 > 0:13:02- Saying I don't care Marian's dead. - I didn't mean it like that.
0:13:02 > 0:13:05- No, and everyone knows you didn't.
0:13:06 > 0:13:11- And everyone knows how difficult - it is for you, losing Meilyr.
0:13:11 > 0:13:12- Do you think so?
0:13:12 > 0:13:14- Do you think so?- - Of course I do.
0:13:16 > 0:13:19- People do understand - that when a child dies...
0:13:19 > 0:13:21- ..it's not the natural order.
0:13:22 > 0:13:25- Don't be so hard on yourself - over how you've behaved.
0:13:27 > 0:13:29- You can't help it.
0:13:29 > 0:13:32- It might do you good - to let go and show your emotions.
0:13:33 > 0:13:35- I could have chosen - a better place and time.
0:13:38 > 0:13:42- There we go, nobody can say - that Marian had a boring funeral!
0:13:46 > 0:13:48- These are Marian's words.
0:13:50 > 0:13:53- "I hope you're not too upset.
0:13:53 > 0:13:58- "I've had a wonderful life, - with good friends and family.
0:13:58 > 0:14:02- "I've been luckier - than many other elderly people.
0:14:03 > 0:14:05- "But the time has come - to say goodbye.
0:14:05 > 0:14:07- "I'm with Bob now.
0:14:07 > 0:14:11- "But I'll still be keeping an eye - on you all, don't worry.
0:14:12 > 0:14:15- "Now then, the money.
0:14:15 > 0:14:17- "I leave 15,000 to Bethania...
0:14:17 > 0:14:21- "..a chapel that's given me - great comfort over the years.
0:14:21 > 0:14:26- "To Catherine, who has cared for me - kindly and patiently...
0:14:26 > 0:14:29- "..for a long time, - I leave 30,000...
0:14:31 > 0:14:35- "..to look after Bobi, - Arthur and Penrhewl.
0:14:35 > 0:14:39- "Catherine is to receive - all my belongings in Penrhewl...
0:14:39 > 0:14:43- "..apart from Mam-gu Glanaman's - tea set, which is to go to Sioned.
0:14:43 > 0:14:47- "The one Staffordshire dog left - is to go to Eileen Probert.
0:14:47 > 0:14:50- "Eileen is also to receive - the family recipe book.
0:14:51 > 0:14:53- "I'm sure it will be of use to her.
0:14:53 > 0:14:57- "My clothes and books - are to go to the Maenan Appeal."
0:14:58 > 0:15:01- You'll have to give that ring back - to Cadno now.
0:15:01 > 0:15:03- She owns the jewellery.
0:15:03 > 0:15:06- Keep it. - I hope it brings you some luck.
0:15:07 > 0:15:10- "The rest of the money - is to go to Sioned...
0:15:10 > 0:15:13- "..to give her - continued success in life."
0:15:13 > 0:15:18- The solicitor asked the bank - to send a statement...
0:15:18 > 0:15:22- ..and minus the money - for Bethania and Cadno...
0:15:22 > 0:15:24- ..the total left is...
0:15:25 > 0:15:27- ..733.
0:15:30 > 0:15:31- Um, what?
0:15:31 > 0:15:34- I know she had more money than that.
0:15:36 > 0:15:40- Well, 50,000 was withdrawn - about two weeks ago.
0:15:40 > 0:15:44- Somebody must have been stealing - from her account.
0:15:44 > 0:15:46- Nobody's stolen anything.
0:15:46 > 0:15:50- Two weeks ago, Marian asked me - to take her to the bank.
0:15:51 > 0:15:53- It must have been - to take the cash out.
0:15:54 > 0:15:55- Where did the money go?
0:15:55 > 0:15:56- Where did the money go?- - I don't know.
0:15:57 > 0:15:58- To Angela.
0:16:00 > 0:16:03- For the aneurysm treatment.
0:16:04 > 0:16:07- The money arrived anonymously.
0:16:07 > 0:16:09- I didn't know it was from Marian.
0:16:09 > 0:16:11- You didn't say anything to me.
0:16:12 > 0:16:13- Only Mam knew.
0:16:14 > 0:16:18- Do you think Marian - was of sound mind when she did it?
0:16:18 > 0:16:21- Sioned, that money's to help Angela.
0:16:22 > 0:16:25- There was nothing wrong - with Marian that day.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27- She was as sharp as ever.
0:16:27 > 0:16:33- I'm sure Sioned isn't suggesting - the money's gone to the wrong cause.
0:16:33 > 0:16:35- I hope not.
0:16:35 > 0:16:36- We're going.
0:16:40 > 0:16:43- To Marilyn. Rest in peace.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45- Marian!
0:16:46 > 0:16:48- Oh, Marian. Yes.
0:16:49 > 0:16:52- I didn't know her, but she - must have been a lovely person...
0:16:53 > 0:16:55- ..if her funeral tea - was anything to go by.
0:16:56 > 0:16:59- Cwmderi won't be the same - without her.
0:16:59 > 0:17:02- Anyway, good luck with the vicar.
0:17:04 > 0:17:05- Thanks!
0:17:12 > 0:17:15- I can't believe - that even you've sunk so low...
0:17:16 > 0:17:18- ..as to cheat an old woman - out of 50,000.
0:17:20 > 0:17:22- Somebody must have told her.
0:17:22 > 0:17:24- She decided to give it to me.
0:17:25 > 0:17:26- You don't deserve it.
0:17:26 > 0:17:28- You don't deserve it.- - I cared for her for years.
0:17:29 > 0:17:30- You were being paid!
0:17:31 > 0:17:34- And what would Sioned do - with this money, Mam?
0:17:35 > 0:17:37- Waste it, probably.
0:17:37 > 0:17:39- She's about to get married.
0:17:40 > 0:17:44- You're going to give that money - back to Marian's estate...
0:17:44 > 0:17:46- ..or I'll tell Sioned the truth.
0:17:48 > 0:17:51- That 50,000 - is my security for the future.
0:17:51 > 0:17:55- The security I lost - when you put me up for adoption.
0:17:56 > 0:17:57- It's my money.
0:17:58 > 0:18:00- I can't believe you're doing this.
0:18:01 > 0:18:02- Can't you?
0:18:02 > 0:18:06- You believed that I'd cheat Marian - out of 50,000.
0:18:07 > 0:18:08- Anyway, maybe you're right.
0:18:10 > 0:18:13- Even I don't know - how far I'm willing to go.
0:18:15 > 0:18:18- So, don't do anything stupid, OK?
0:18:18 > 0:18:20- Or you'll regret it.
0:18:22 > 0:18:23- Goodnight, Mam.
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