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0:00:19 > 0:00:24- I've invited Gwern over - to play with his sister.
0:00:26 > 0:00:30- A boy of Gwern's age - doesn't want to play with babies.
0:00:31 > 0:00:33- To get to know his sister. - You know what I meant.
0:00:35 > 0:00:36- No.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40- What do you mean, no?
0:00:40 > 0:00:42- You should have asked me first.
0:00:43 > 0:00:48- Carol needs to see other people - apart from you.
0:00:48 > 0:00:50- In time.
0:00:50 > 0:00:51- No, now.
0:00:53 > 0:00:55- Gwern is her brother.
0:00:56 > 0:00:59- You can't shut him out. - You're doing the same with me.
0:01:00 > 0:01:01- What?
0:01:01 > 0:01:04- You don't want me - to be with Carol on my own.
0:01:04 > 0:01:05- That's not true.
0:01:05 > 0:01:07- That's not true.- - It is!
0:01:10 > 0:01:12- And it's weird, if I'm honest.
0:01:15 > 0:01:18- I'm her father. - It's important for us to bond.
0:01:18 > 0:01:20- No!
0:01:25 > 0:01:27- What I mean is...
0:01:28 > 0:01:30- ..please don't invite Gwern over.
0:01:32 > 0:01:33- Carol's got a cough.
0:01:33 > 0:01:36- Carol's got a cough.- - Don't be so soft. She's over that.
0:01:36 > 0:01:39- She's not.
0:01:41 > 0:01:43- Don't look at me like that.
0:01:45 > 0:01:48- We don't want Gwern to be ill too, - do we?
0:01:48 > 0:01:50- No.
0:02:00 > 0:02:02- Come in. Sit down.
0:02:02 > 0:02:03- Thanks.
0:02:14 > 0:02:17- I hope that smile means - it's good news.
0:02:17 > 0:02:20- I'm pleased to say - we can give Arwen the all clear.
0:02:23 > 0:02:26- Are you absolutely sure? - The tumour's gone.
0:02:26 > 0:02:28- Yes.
0:02:28 > 0:02:30- The scan showed it had gone.
0:02:30 > 0:02:32- The scan showed it had gone.- - Yes.
0:02:32 > 0:02:35- Right, are there - any other steps to take?
0:02:35 > 0:02:40- Arwen will need monthly check-ups, - just to keep an eye on it.
0:02:40 > 0:02:42- Every month?
0:02:42 > 0:02:45- Yes, in case another - tumour develops.
0:02:46 > 0:02:48- But that won't happen, will it?
0:02:48 > 0:02:50- Please.
0:02:51 > 0:02:54- Fair play, Ffi, no-one can - say that for sure, can they?
0:02:55 > 0:02:58- Gethin's right, but it's unlikely.
0:02:59 > 0:03:03- I'd say today's good news - is still a reason to celebrate.
0:03:07 > 0:03:09- I had hoped...
0:03:09 > 0:03:12- ..after looking after Carol - at the start of the week...
0:03:12 > 0:03:15- ..that I could build on that, - you know.
0:03:15 > 0:03:18- That it was going to get better.
0:03:18 > 0:03:19- But she's the same, is she?
0:03:20 > 0:03:21- Worse if anything.
0:03:22 > 0:03:24- It's not right, Gar.
0:03:24 > 0:03:26- I've tried everything.
0:03:27 > 0:03:30- I've been patient with her, - I've been straight with her.
0:03:31 > 0:03:34- Do you want me - to have a word with her?
0:03:34 > 0:03:38- No, I don't think talking - will work. She's so touchy.
0:03:41 > 0:03:42- Maybe...
0:03:42 > 0:03:45- ..give her a bit of help with Carol.
0:03:46 > 0:03:49- Take away some of the stress. - She might talk to you then.
0:03:50 > 0:03:54- Well, I've got a new set - of Babygros to give her.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56- Thank you, Britt.
0:03:56 > 0:03:57- Thank you, Britt.- - I am her aunt.
0:03:58 > 0:03:59- Yes, I know.
0:04:02 > 0:04:05- I'll go over this afternoon.
0:04:06 > 0:04:08- It means a lot to me.
0:04:11 > 0:04:12- Gethin!
0:04:16 > 0:04:19- What did the hospital say - about Arwen?
0:04:19 > 0:04:22- She's been given the all clear.
0:04:23 > 0:04:27- Thank goodness. You can draw - a line under this nightmare now.
0:04:27 > 0:04:29- Hopefully.
0:04:29 > 0:04:31- Hopefully?
0:04:31 > 0:04:33- We can't predict the future, - can we?
0:04:34 > 0:04:37- No, but you couldn't have hoped - for better news.
0:04:37 > 0:04:39- No, no, no.
0:04:39 > 0:04:42- Listen, I've got some good news too.
0:04:42 > 0:04:46- Sheryl and I have set a date - for the wedding. It's in June.
0:04:47 > 0:04:48- Right.
0:04:48 > 0:04:50- It'll come round in no time.
0:04:51 > 0:04:53- Sheryl wanted to sort it out - and she's right.
0:04:54 > 0:04:56- The sooner the better now.
0:04:56 > 0:04:58- Congratulations to both of you.
0:04:58 > 0:05:00- See you.
0:05:17 > 0:05:19- That suits me fine.
0:05:20 > 0:05:24- A cuppa and your favourite magazine - will be waiting for you.
0:05:24 > 0:05:26- OK. So long. Ta-ra.
0:05:27 > 0:05:28- Hey.
0:05:28 > 0:05:30- How did it go?
0:05:30 > 0:05:31- What?
0:05:32 > 0:05:33- With Arwen.
0:05:33 > 0:05:35- With Arwen.- - Yes, of course.
0:05:35 > 0:05:38- She's had the all clear.
0:05:38 > 0:05:39- The best news.
0:05:39 > 0:05:41- The best news.- - I'm so glad.
0:05:42 > 0:05:44- I've just seen Hywel.
0:05:44 > 0:05:47- You've set a date for the wedding, - have you?
0:05:47 > 0:05:49- Yes.
0:05:49 > 0:05:53- Why don't I come to the garage - later? We can't talk here.
0:05:54 > 0:05:56- You're right. OK. See you later.
0:05:57 > 0:05:58- OK.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03- Right, Caroline. A trim, is it?
0:06:06 > 0:06:09- Look, Carol. - Look what Dadi made.
0:06:09 > 0:06:11- Isn't he a clever daddy?
0:06:15 > 0:06:17- Right.
0:06:18 > 0:06:21- You stay there, - put your feet up and relax.
0:06:21 > 0:06:24- I'll start by washing these.
0:06:24 > 0:06:25- Start?
0:06:25 > 0:06:27- Yes.
0:06:27 > 0:06:31- Or anything else you want me to do. - I remember how to prepare a bottle.
0:06:32 > 0:06:34- Garry's behind this, isn't he?
0:06:34 > 0:06:35- What?
0:06:36 > 0:06:38- Leave the washing up, Britt. - I can manage.
0:06:39 > 0:06:43- OK. Are there any dirty clothes - you want me to wash?
0:06:43 > 0:06:45- No, I'm fine.
0:06:45 > 0:06:49- Oh, nonsense. Everyone wants help - with a little baby.
0:06:52 > 0:06:57- Carol agrees. She wants to show - silly old Mami that she's wrong.
0:06:57 > 0:06:59- Right, get out now.
0:07:00 > 0:07:04- No-one calls me a silly mother - in my own home.
0:07:05 > 0:07:10- But I'm family, Dani, - and I'm your sister-in-law.
0:07:10 > 0:07:12- You can't throw me out.
0:07:14 > 0:07:16- Sorry, Britt.
0:07:16 > 0:07:20- You've called at a bad time. Carol - wants a nap so if you don't mind.
0:07:21 > 0:07:23- Oh, right, well, um...
0:07:24 > 0:07:26- ..I'll see you soon.
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0:07:43 > 0:07:45- No, she's ill.
0:07:45 > 0:07:48- She more or less threw me out.
0:07:48 > 0:07:50- Don't exaggerate.
0:07:50 > 0:07:52- I'm not.
0:07:52 > 0:07:56- It's obvious that Dani is finding - being a mother too difficult.
0:07:56 > 0:07:58- She's wound up like a top.
0:07:59 > 0:08:00- Yes.
0:08:00 > 0:08:03- Listen carefully to me now, Gar, - alright?
0:08:05 > 0:08:07- I think she has - post-natal depression.
0:08:09 > 0:08:11- I've been reading about that.
0:08:11 > 0:08:15- Well, it's not a real - cause for concern. It's very common.
0:08:15 > 0:08:18- What am I supposed to do about it?
0:08:18 > 0:08:22- The first step is to get her - to admit that she has a problem.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25- To get her to accept that?
0:08:27 > 0:08:30- She'll need professional care.
0:08:30 > 0:08:32- I'll pay for a therapist.
0:08:33 > 0:08:37- I could take her on holiday. - I'll do anything.
0:08:37 > 0:08:39- I know, love.
0:08:40 > 0:08:43- But for now, I think this party...
0:08:43 > 0:08:44- But for now, I think this party...- - Forget the party!
0:08:45 > 0:08:48- She can't be like this - in front of people.
0:08:49 > 0:08:50- It'll do her good.
0:08:51 > 0:08:53- She's kept herself to herself - too much...
0:08:54 > 0:08:56- ..hiding upstairs, - not seeing anyone but Carol.
0:08:57 > 0:08:58- But a party...
0:08:58 > 0:08:59- But a party...- - No, Britt!
0:09:01 > 0:09:05- I'm not stopping the party. - That's the end of it.
0:09:05 > 0:09:06- Where are you going now?
0:09:07 > 0:09:09- Out! To clear my head.
0:09:09 > 0:09:11- Just watch the bar for me.
0:09:15 > 0:09:16- Alright?
0:09:26 > 0:09:27- Hey.
0:09:27 > 0:09:29- Hiya.
0:09:29 > 0:09:30- Come in.
0:09:36 > 0:09:39- Geth, we can't do this.
0:09:42 > 0:09:46- You're right. - It's not right, but...
0:09:46 > 0:09:50- We almost got caught the other day, - and this business with Arwen...
0:09:50 > 0:09:52- I know.
0:09:52 > 0:09:55- I think we should finish it now, - before anyone gets hurt.
0:09:56 > 0:09:59- Sher, I know that what - you're saying is right.
0:09:59 > 0:10:02- And I know that's what's best, - but...
0:10:03 > 0:10:07- ..I can't ignore the buzz - I get from being with you.
0:10:07 > 0:10:09- Come on.
0:10:09 > 0:10:12- We can't do this. It's stupid.
0:10:12 > 0:10:15- Worse things happen, don't they?
0:10:16 > 0:10:17- Yes.
0:10:17 > 0:10:19- The consequences.
0:10:22 > 0:10:24- The mess we'll create - if someone finds out.
0:10:25 > 0:10:29- The people we love will get hurt. - You understand that, don't you?
0:10:30 > 0:10:32- Do you really think it's worth it?
0:10:35 > 0:10:38- There will always be - something between us...
0:10:38 > 0:10:40- ..but it's not meant to be.
0:10:42 > 0:10:44- We'd better forget about it, OK?
0:10:46 > 0:10:49- We have to get back to reality...
0:10:51 > 0:10:53- ..before it goes too far.
0:11:24 > 0:11:25- Hey.
0:11:28 > 0:11:30- Foul weather.
0:11:30 > 0:11:31- Yes.
0:11:34 > 0:11:36- How are you?
0:11:37 > 0:11:39- Not bad.
0:11:40 > 0:11:44- I know I have a long journey - ahead of me.
0:11:45 > 0:11:48- The surgery has been - very supportive, fair play.
0:11:49 > 0:11:51- How much time will you get off?
0:11:51 > 0:11:53- How much time will you get off?- - As much as I want.
0:11:54 > 0:11:55- Good.
0:11:59 > 0:12:01- What about...
0:12:01 > 0:12:05- ..the Combat Stress centre?
0:12:07 > 0:12:09- Have you phoned them?
0:12:10 > 0:12:13- There's something nice - about a park in winter.
0:12:13 > 0:12:16- The bare trees and the cold biting.
0:12:23 > 0:12:24- Listen...
0:12:25 > 0:12:29- ..if you don't want to discuss it, - I understand, but...
0:12:30 > 0:12:33- ..Britt and I think that...
0:12:34 > 0:12:36- ..Dani has post-natal depression.
0:12:37 > 0:12:39- Oh?
0:12:39 > 0:12:41- Depression is common.
0:12:41 > 0:12:44- I know it's common, but...
0:12:44 > 0:12:46- ..it's also complicated, isn't it?
0:12:46 > 0:12:51- Yes, and it can be very difficult - for the husband or partner.
0:12:52 > 0:12:55- You want to help. That's natural.
0:12:55 > 0:12:57- I'm afraid of saying - the wrong thing.
0:12:59 > 0:13:01- Be there to support her - as much as you can.
0:13:04 > 0:13:08- If it carries on, - she should speak to a doctor.
0:13:08 > 0:13:12- There's very good support - available these days.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15- Yes, you're right. - That's what I'll do.
0:13:16 > 0:13:17- Thank you.
0:13:17 > 0:13:19- You can open them now!
0:13:20 > 0:13:22- Here you go. - And your name's on the back.
0:13:25 > 0:13:27- Do you want it?
0:13:27 > 0:13:29- Do you want it?- - How much did that cost?
0:13:29 > 0:13:31- Don't ask things like that.
0:13:31 > 0:13:33- Don't ask things like that.- - Sorry. They're great.
0:13:33 > 0:13:35- Look at this.
0:13:36 > 0:13:40- So why do you look - as if you're at the dentist?
0:13:40 > 0:13:44- I spent a small fortune on these. - The least you could do is smile.
0:13:44 > 0:13:46- I appreciate the effort, honest.
0:13:47 > 0:13:48- And?
0:13:48 > 0:13:52- You haven't thought this through. - When are we going to wear them?
0:13:52 > 0:13:56- Even if we could afford tickets, - we couldn't get any.
0:13:56 > 0:13:58- And Nicky's way too small to go.
0:13:59 > 0:14:02- It doesn't cost anything - to watch Match of the Day.
0:14:03 > 0:14:05- But you've bought them now, - haven't you?
0:14:11 > 0:14:14- The last thing I want to do - is force you to...
0:14:14 > 0:14:18- Oh, right, you want to know - if I've phoned that centre.
0:14:18 > 0:14:23- I couldn't help noticing the way - you dodged my question earlier.
0:14:23 > 0:14:25- Yes, it was obvious.
0:14:27 > 0:14:28- Well?
0:14:28 > 0:14:30- Have you phoned?
0:14:30 > 0:14:32- No, not yet.
0:14:32 > 0:14:35- But I've got the number. - That's a start, isn't it?
0:14:36 > 0:14:37- What's stopping you?
0:14:38 > 0:14:39- Stop forcing me.
0:14:40 > 0:14:43- Doing it now is easier - than thinking it over for days.
0:14:54 > 0:14:56- I'll leave you to it.
0:14:56 > 0:14:58- Thank you.
0:15:06 > 0:15:07- Hello.
0:15:08 > 0:15:10- Hi. Um, yeah.
0:15:11 > 0:15:13- I'm an ex-Army medic.
0:15:14 > 0:15:17- I think I need help.
0:15:19 > 0:15:21- Hi. I've been trying to phone you.
0:15:21 > 0:15:25- Sorry. It's been flat out - at the garage this week.
0:15:25 > 0:15:29- I haven't had time to make a cuppa. - Is there one in the teapot?
0:15:29 > 0:15:30- Yes.
0:15:30 > 0:15:35- I've been wondering what Arwen and I - are going to do this weekend.
0:15:35 > 0:15:38- We might go to Cardiff.
0:15:38 > 0:15:42- She enjoyed that interactive thing - at the museum last time.
0:15:43 > 0:15:45- Hey, that sounds lovely.
0:15:46 > 0:15:48- Can I come with you?
0:15:48 > 0:15:50- You said you're busy at the garage.
0:15:50 > 0:15:51- Yes, but...
0:15:51 > 0:15:54- Don't rub Garry up the wrong way.
0:15:54 > 0:15:58- Why don't we make a proper - weekend of it, then?
0:15:58 > 0:16:01- Go away to London to see a show - or something.
0:16:01 > 0:16:02- Don't be silly.
0:16:03 > 0:16:05- I'm only trying to help.
0:16:06 > 0:16:10- Thank you, but I don't think - going to London is the answer.
0:16:11 > 0:16:13- Cardiff will be exciting enough.
0:16:18 > 0:16:24- # Gee up little horse, - carrying us both
0:16:25 > 0:16:30- # Over the mountain - to gather nuts
0:16:31 > 0:16:36- # Water in the river - and the stones are slippery
0:16:37 > 0:16:39- # We both fell in
0:16:41 > 0:16:43- # Well, what a trick! #
0:16:46 > 0:16:48- You're good with her.
0:16:50 > 0:16:53- Mam used to sing it to me - when I was little.
0:16:54 > 0:16:56- I don't remember.
0:17:00 > 0:17:03- I used to sing to Carol - before she was born.
0:17:04 > 0:17:06- Do you remember?
0:17:06 > 0:17:08- I don't want to go back - to that time.
0:17:08 > 0:17:11- Thinking of you and Sioned.
0:17:12 > 0:17:13- What?
0:17:15 > 0:17:17- Why do you have to be so sharp...
0:17:18 > 0:17:20- ..with everyone?
0:17:22 > 0:17:24- I was trying to create...
0:17:24 > 0:17:27- ..a nice moment for us.
0:17:28 > 0:17:31- I can't help it, Gar.
0:17:33 > 0:17:35- I think I know why.
0:17:39 > 0:17:40- What?
0:17:43 > 0:17:46- I don't know - how to say this to you.
0:17:55 > 0:17:57- Listen...
0:17:58 > 0:18:00- ..I think you're...
0:18:00 > 0:18:02- ..suffering...
0:18:04 > 0:18:06- ..from post-natal depression.
0:18:08 > 0:18:10- It's obvious, isn't it?
0:18:14 > 0:18:17- It's nothing to feel ashamed about.
0:18:17 > 0:18:19- No.
0:18:20 > 0:18:21- A lot of women have it.
0:18:21 > 0:18:23- A lot of women have it.- - I know.
0:18:24 > 0:18:26- It makes sense, doesn't it?
0:18:27 > 0:18:29- You haven't been yourself.
0:18:32 > 0:18:33- No.
0:18:36 > 0:18:38- I'm here for you.
0:18:40 > 0:18:43- We'll get through this together.
0:18:48 > 0:18:51- The only thing I want in life, - Dan...
0:18:53 > 0:18:56- ..is for the three of us - to be happy.
0:18:58 > 0:18:59- Me too.
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