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0:00:15 > 0:00:17- Can you pick up Arwen - from Y Felin?
0:00:18 > 0:00:19- Yes.
0:00:19 > 0:00:20- Don't forget to thank Sion.
0:00:20 > 0:00:22- Don't forget to thank Sion.- - Of course.
0:00:24 > 0:00:27- Look, I know it's not something - you want to think about...
0:00:28 > 0:00:32- ..but I honestly believe we should - talk to Arwen about the operation.
0:00:33 > 0:00:36- A letter from the hospital - could land at any time.
0:00:36 > 0:00:38- I know.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40- I find the whole thing so hard.
0:00:40 > 0:00:44- We have to do it, so that she has - time to get used to the idea.
0:00:51 > 0:00:53- Elgan!
0:00:53 > 0:00:57- Hi. I'm looking forward - to this surprise you've got for me.
0:00:57 > 0:00:58- Can you eat it?
0:01:01 > 0:01:02- How was the walking?
0:01:03 > 0:01:04- It was beneficial.
0:01:05 > 0:01:07- Once I get my strength back - I'll come with you.
0:01:07 > 0:01:12- Great. Right, see you at Llwyncelyn - in around half an hour?
0:01:12 > 0:01:13- OK. Great.
0:01:35 > 0:01:39- Have you seen my notepad? The one - with the baby shower stuff in it.
0:01:39 > 0:01:40- What colour is it?
0:01:40 > 0:01:43- Brown leather. - It was here somewhere.
0:01:43 > 0:01:45- This one?
0:01:45 > 0:01:46- Thanks.
0:01:47 > 0:01:49- Cool down. - There's no need to panic.
0:01:49 > 0:01:52- Says you, who hasn't lifted - a finger to help all week.
0:01:52 > 0:01:57- Who looked after Greta - so you could make arrangements?
0:01:57 > 0:01:58- You did, I suppose.
0:01:58 > 0:01:59- You did, I suppose.- - And I worked as well.
0:01:59 > 0:02:02- Doesn't paternity leave - count as work?
0:02:02 > 0:02:04- Are you looking for an argument?
0:02:04 > 0:02:06- Are you looking for an argument?- - I'm stressed, that's all.
0:02:06 > 0:02:09- I think this baby shower business - has taken over my brain.
0:02:10 > 0:02:11- No, has it?
0:02:11 > 0:02:15- Oh, sash. - I've forgotten to buy Dani a sash.
0:02:15 > 0:02:17- Do you think she'll miss it?
0:02:17 > 0:02:19- Do you think she'll miss it?- - I want everything to be perfect.
0:02:20 > 0:02:21- It will be.
0:02:21 > 0:02:23- It will be.- - If you say so.
0:02:24 > 0:02:27- Forget about the sash. - It's too late.
0:02:34 > 0:02:36- I think - it would be worth using this.
0:02:36 > 0:02:39- It has some great pictures.
0:02:41 > 0:02:45- Listen, Ffi, - I know how hard this is for you.
0:02:46 > 0:02:48- Do you want me to talk to her?
0:02:48 > 0:02:50- Do you want me to talk to her?- - It's my place to talk to her.
0:02:50 > 0:02:52- I was only offering.
0:02:52 > 0:02:53- TEXT ALERT
0:02:56 > 0:02:59- "Looking forward to seeing you - at the baby shower!"
0:02:59 > 0:03:02- This bloomin' baby shower! - I'd forgotten all about it.
0:03:02 > 0:03:04- Off you go. It will do you good.
0:03:04 > 0:03:06- In what way exactly?
0:03:06 > 0:03:08- Do you know what?
0:03:08 > 0:03:10- It's up to you.
0:03:18 > 0:03:19- Baby shower!
0:03:19 > 0:03:22- Let's hope it meets your standards.
0:03:22 > 0:03:24- I'm sure it'll be better.
0:03:24 > 0:03:28- Did you make the lemon drizzle, - Eileen? It looks lovely.
0:03:28 > 0:03:30- Thanks. Who made the main cake?
0:03:31 > 0:03:32- The shop.
0:03:33 > 0:03:34- Oh.
0:03:34 > 0:03:38- You should have asked Eileen. After - all, she made your wedding cake.
0:03:39 > 0:03:40- I should have.
0:03:40 > 0:03:42- I should have.- - Don't worry, love.
0:03:42 > 0:03:44- It's nice not to have to worry...
0:03:44 > 0:03:47- ..about what people say - about your cake.
0:03:47 > 0:03:49- But you made the lemon drizzle.
0:03:49 > 0:03:51- But you made the lemon drizzle.- - I can make those in my sleep!
0:03:52 > 0:03:53- Next time.
0:03:53 > 0:03:55- Next time.- - Next time? Garry will be busy!
0:03:56 > 0:03:57- Britt!
0:03:57 > 0:03:59- You can all take part - in the first game.
0:03:59 > 0:04:01- What is it?
0:04:01 > 0:04:03- Guess the baby's name.
0:04:03 > 0:04:05- What's Monk in Welsh?
0:04:05 > 0:04:07- What's Monk in Welsh?- - "Mynach".
0:04:07 > 0:04:10- I see what you're doing there, - Eileen.
0:04:10 > 0:04:11- Very clever.
0:04:14 > 0:04:17- I think we chose the wrong - afternoon to come for a pint.
0:04:18 > 0:04:20- Shall we find somewhere to hide?
0:04:20 > 0:04:22- Shall we find somewhere to hide?- - Yes, come on.
0:04:25 > 0:04:28- Right, which one do you - want to play?
0:04:29 > 0:04:31- What? Is this the surprise?
0:04:31 > 0:04:33- Yes. Why?
0:04:33 > 0:04:36- Nothing. - I just wasn't expecting this.
0:04:37 > 0:04:40- It's a good idea - to do something different...
0:04:40 > 0:04:43- ..instead of watching TV - all the time.
0:04:44 > 0:04:46- Right, what shall we have? - Snakes and ladders?
0:04:47 > 0:04:49- Great. I want to be red.
0:04:49 > 0:04:50- Oh, right.
0:04:52 > 0:04:54- I'll be blue, then.
0:04:54 > 0:04:56- There we are.
0:04:56 > 0:04:59- This reminds me of playing games - with Nain and Taid...
0:04:59 > 0:05:01- ..in the caravan in Llandudno - years ago.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04- Izzy and Lois enjoyed this game too.
0:05:04 > 0:05:07- Mind you, Lois always cheated.
0:05:07 > 0:05:09- I hope you don't do the same.
0:05:09 > 0:05:11- Me? Cheat? I wouldn't dare!
0:05:13 > 0:05:14- Are you having another one?
0:05:14 > 0:05:16- Are you having another one?- - Yes.
0:05:17 > 0:05:19- It's a bit early, isn't it?
0:05:19 > 0:05:21- We're on holiday.
0:05:21 > 0:05:23- We're on holiday.- - True.
0:05:23 > 0:05:25- Will you have one with me?
0:05:25 > 0:05:27- Will you have one with me?- - No, I'm fine.
0:05:27 > 0:05:29- The doctor insists.
0:05:29 > 0:05:31- The doctor insists.- - Alright, but a very small one.
0:05:34 > 0:05:37- Right, you have to throw a six - to start.
0:05:40 > 0:05:42- Oh, close!
0:05:46 > 0:05:51- Let's go. I don't think - they're going to get any quieter.
0:05:53 > 0:05:55- Let's go, then.
0:05:58 > 0:05:59- Right.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03- I can announce that the winner - of the first game...
0:06:04 > 0:06:07- ..is the person who thinks - the baby's name will be...
0:06:09 > 0:06:10- ..Garrieta Mynach!
0:06:12 > 0:06:14- I don't think Garry would be happy - with that!
0:06:15 > 0:06:18- Hands up. - Who came up with that name?
0:06:18 > 0:06:20- Here's your prize, Eileen.
0:06:23 > 0:06:26- We've got a couple of presents - for Mami as well.
0:06:27 > 0:06:28- Hold on. And this.
0:06:28 > 0:06:30- Hold on. And this.- - What is it?
0:06:32 > 0:06:33- Thanks, Iolo!
0:06:34 > 0:06:35- A lovely sash.
0:06:35 > 0:06:37- A lovely sash.- - Oh, lovely.
0:06:40 > 0:06:42- It's a bit over the top, isn't it?
0:06:42 > 0:06:44- Just a bit.
0:06:45 > 0:06:47- Are you alright? You seem quiet.
0:06:47 > 0:06:48- Ffion?
0:06:57 > 0:07:00- You're not having another one, - are you?
0:07:00 > 0:07:02- Yes.
0:07:02 > 0:07:04- Do you think you should?
0:07:05 > 0:07:07- It helps.
0:07:07 > 0:07:09- Look, you said - I should be open and honest.
0:07:10 > 0:07:12- Yes, I know, but...
0:07:13 > 0:07:16- ..I've read about people doing this - and it's not the answer.
0:07:17 > 0:07:19- What? You're a doctor again now, - are you?
0:07:20 > 0:07:21- No, but I've read...
0:07:22 > 0:07:24- Read too much - and understand nothing.
0:07:24 > 0:07:28- Stop telling me what to do - and stop analysing me!
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0:07:43 > 0:07:44- Oh, Ffion.
0:07:46 > 0:07:47- I'm sorry.
0:07:49 > 0:07:51- You must be going through hell.
0:07:52 > 0:07:55- What if she doesn't come through it?
0:07:56 > 0:08:00- Terrible things can happen. - You know that better than anyone.
0:08:01 > 0:08:03- Listen, you have to try - to stay positive, OK?
0:08:04 > 0:08:06- Arwen's situation - is entirely different...
0:08:06 > 0:08:09- ..to what happened to Meilyr.
0:08:10 > 0:08:14- But it's a major operation - and anything could go wrong.
0:08:14 > 0:08:18- Hey, the doctors will do - everything they can, believe me.
0:08:18 > 0:08:21- It's incredible - what they can do these days.
0:08:23 > 0:08:26- How is Arwen coping with it all?
0:08:28 > 0:08:30- I haven't talked to her - about it yet.
0:08:32 > 0:08:34- OK.
0:08:34 > 0:08:37- I know I should have done it - by now, but...
0:08:38 > 0:08:40- ..I don't know what to say.
0:08:40 > 0:08:42- I'm so selfish.
0:08:42 > 0:08:46- Not at all. - Ffion, it's an impossible situation.
0:08:46 > 0:08:48- Maybe, but she needs to know.
0:08:50 > 0:08:53- Gethin was trying to encourage me - to tell her earlier.
0:08:53 > 0:08:56- He even offered - to talk to her himself.
0:08:57 > 0:09:00- But I just snapped at him.
0:09:00 > 0:09:03- He was only trying to help.
0:09:06 > 0:09:07- Oh, nice.
0:09:08 > 0:09:10- Have you got everything ready, - Dani?
0:09:10 > 0:09:13- Um... Well, not everything, - but I'm fairly organized.
0:09:13 > 0:09:16- Here's a tip for you. - Baby sleeping bags.
0:09:17 > 0:09:19- They're very handy.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21- Really? Thanks, Sara.
0:09:21 > 0:09:23- What will you do about feeding?
0:09:23 > 0:09:26- What will you do about feeding?- - Bottle.
0:09:26 > 0:09:28- Breastfeeding is best for the baby, - you know.
0:09:28 > 0:09:31- There's nothing more nutritious.
0:09:31 > 0:09:34- You could always try - breastfeeding...
0:09:34 > 0:09:36- ..and use a bottle - if it doesn't work.
0:09:37 > 0:09:41- My children had a bottle and it - didn't make any difference to them.
0:09:41 > 0:09:43- Chester was a guzzler!
0:09:43 > 0:09:46- I wouldn't have had - enough milk anyway!
0:09:46 > 0:09:49- Maybe you gave up too easily, Britt.
0:09:50 > 0:09:53- Once you give a baby a bottle - you produce less milk.
0:09:54 > 0:09:56- Excuse me, I did - what was best for my children.
0:09:57 > 0:09:59- I'm not denying that.
0:09:59 > 0:10:02- It sounded like you were - judging me.
0:10:02 > 0:10:03- No, not at all.
0:10:04 > 0:10:06- You have to do what works for you.
0:10:06 > 0:10:08- Yes, you're right.
0:10:09 > 0:10:11- Right, excuse me.
0:10:13 > 0:10:16- Those chocolates look nice. - What have we got?
0:10:17 > 0:10:20- We'd better go back. - People will wonder where we are.
0:10:20 > 0:10:22- You've got a bit of mascara there.
0:10:23 > 0:10:24- Here you are.
0:10:24 > 0:10:25- Here you are.- - Thanks.
0:10:26 > 0:10:28- I know the feeling.
0:10:28 > 0:10:30- The burden of a mother.
0:10:30 > 0:10:34- But you have to let Gethin - be a part of this too.
0:10:35 > 0:10:37- It's not easy for him either, is it?
0:10:38 > 0:10:39- No, it isn't.
0:10:39 > 0:10:41- No, it isn't.- - Just let him be there for you.
0:10:41 > 0:10:43- He obviously wants to be.
0:10:43 > 0:10:47- You'll need him for support - over the next few weeks.
0:10:47 > 0:10:49- Arwen will need him as well.
0:10:50 > 0:10:51- Hey.
0:10:52 > 0:10:55- I was just saying to Ffion - how nice today's been.
0:10:55 > 0:10:57- Yes, it's been lovely.
0:10:58 > 0:11:00- Are you alright?
0:11:00 > 0:11:03- Um... Yes. - It's all a bit too much for me.
0:11:04 > 0:11:08- Everyone's been so kind, - spoiling me and the baby rotten...
0:11:08 > 0:11:10- ..and she hasn't even arrived yet.
0:11:14 > 0:11:17- Why don't you go home?
0:11:19 > 0:11:21- Dan, I can't stay any longer, - sorry.
0:11:22 > 0:11:25- Geth texted me earlier. - Arwen's been asking where I am.
0:11:25 > 0:11:27- I'll see you soon, OK.
0:11:27 > 0:11:29- I'll see you soon, OK.- - Thanks for coming.
0:11:29 > 0:11:30- Thanks, Sher.
0:11:33 > 0:11:35- This is how it will be now.
0:11:35 > 0:11:39- Everyone will make even more - of a fuss when the baby arrives.
0:11:41 > 0:11:42- Are you OK?
0:11:43 > 0:11:44- Yes, I'm fine.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47- Alright. See you in a minute, then.
0:12:03 > 0:12:04- Three.
0:12:06 > 0:12:08- Yay!
0:12:09 > 0:12:12- So what does the winner get - as a prize?
0:12:13 > 0:12:15- The glory?
0:12:15 > 0:12:17- The glory?- - What could be better?
0:12:21 > 0:12:22- Listen...
0:12:23 > 0:12:25- ..I'm sorry about earlier.
0:12:25 > 0:12:27- It's fine. Leave it.
0:12:27 > 0:12:31- No. It wasn't right - to lose my temper like that.
0:12:31 > 0:12:33- I want what's best for you.
0:12:33 > 0:12:38- And I think talking to someone - would be much better than drinking.
0:12:38 > 0:12:40- It's not that easy, is it?
0:12:41 > 0:12:43- It might affect my career.
0:12:44 > 0:12:45- Why?
0:12:46 > 0:12:49- Would you want to be treated - by a doctor who has my problems?
0:12:50 > 0:12:54- You're an excellent doctor. - You are, Elgan.
0:12:54 > 0:12:58- I'm sure there are other doctors - who suffer similar symptoms.
0:12:58 > 0:13:01- If you talked to an expert - it would be confidential.
0:13:02 > 0:13:06- Yes, but I thought we agreed - that I'd do this my way.
0:13:06 > 0:13:08- We agreed to be honest...
0:13:08 > 0:13:11- ..and I don't see how drinking - will solve anything.
0:13:14 > 0:13:16- It silences the voices.
0:13:17 > 0:13:21- It allows me to pretend - that life is as it used to be.
0:13:24 > 0:13:25- But, no.
0:13:26 > 0:13:28- You're right, of course.
0:13:28 > 0:13:31- It doesn't do any good.
0:13:32 > 0:13:34- Look, you can take it away - if you want.
0:13:35 > 0:13:36- Honestly.
0:13:41 > 0:13:43- Do you want some cheese?
0:14:01 > 0:14:02- Aw!
0:14:02 > 0:14:04- What's wrong?
0:14:04 > 0:14:08- I've cut myself. It was my fault. - I wasn't concentrating.
0:14:08 > 0:14:10- Let me see.
0:14:12 > 0:14:14- Have you got a plaster?
0:14:14 > 0:14:15- Yes.
0:14:16 > 0:14:17- You'll be fine.
0:14:17 > 0:14:20- What would I do - without you to look after me?
0:14:51 > 0:14:53- Wow! Where's all that food gone?
0:14:54 > 0:14:56- In that belly!
0:14:56 > 0:14:59- You like your vegetables - like Mam does, don't you?
0:14:59 > 0:15:02- Come on. You can watch Cyw - for a while if you want.
0:15:03 > 0:15:04- There's a good girl.
0:15:09 > 0:15:10- Alright?
0:15:13 > 0:15:15- How did it go?
0:15:15 > 0:15:18- Alright. A lot of fuss. - Games and so on.
0:15:18 > 0:15:20- Dani was in her element.
0:15:22 > 0:15:24- I'm sorry...
0:15:24 > 0:15:26- ..for the way - I talked to you earlier.
0:15:27 > 0:15:31- There's no need to apologize. - I know it's stressful for you.
0:15:31 > 0:15:33- That's no excuse.
0:15:34 > 0:15:36- And you're right.
0:15:36 > 0:15:40- We need to face up to this - and sort things out.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44- So I'm going to talk to her later...
0:15:45 > 0:15:46- ..with you.
0:15:46 > 0:15:49- If you're alright with that.
0:15:49 > 0:15:51- Yes, of course.
0:15:51 > 0:15:53- If that's what you want.
0:15:53 > 0:15:57- I understand if you'd rather do it, - just you and her.
0:15:58 > 0:16:01- No. It's important that you're - with us. We're a family, aren't we?
0:16:03 > 0:16:04- Yes. Come here.
0:16:10 > 0:16:14- You're the best brother - in the whole wide world.
0:16:15 > 0:16:16- As if!
0:16:17 > 0:16:18- Today's been fab.
0:16:18 > 0:16:20- Today's been fab.- - I'm glad you enjoyed it.
0:16:20 > 0:16:23- And I'm glad Greta - slept through it all.
0:16:23 > 0:16:25- Let's hope this one will be as good.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27- Dani!
0:16:27 > 0:16:28- Excuse me.
0:16:28 > 0:16:32- Hey, that was a great success, - I'd say.
0:16:32 > 0:16:35- Yes, I think so. - An early night for me tonight.
0:16:35 > 0:16:37- I feel like I've been knocked over - by a bulldozer!
0:16:38 > 0:16:41- And thank you for getting the sash. - It was really nice of you.
0:16:42 > 0:16:44- It was the least I could do.
0:16:44 > 0:16:45- Right, come on.
0:16:50 > 0:16:53- Hey, you. Thanks for today. - It's been lovely.
0:16:53 > 0:16:55- I didn't do anything...
0:16:56 > 0:17:00- ..other than get too much advice - from Britt and Eileen...
0:17:00 > 0:17:02- ..on how to bring up my child.
0:17:02 > 0:17:03- Is this how it's going to be?
0:17:03 > 0:17:05- Is this how it's going to be?- - Just buy a pair of earplugs.
0:17:05 > 0:17:09- If I'd listened to people about - Esther, I wouldn't still have her.
0:17:09 > 0:17:11- Thanks, Sher.
0:17:11 > 0:17:12- Ta-ra.
0:17:13 > 0:17:14- So-long.
0:17:20 > 0:17:22- Hey, look at Lowri here.
0:17:22 > 0:17:26- The doctor has helped her to get - better and she's fast asleep.
0:17:27 > 0:17:30- And after the doctor has looked - at your head...
0:17:30 > 0:17:33- ..you'll be fast asleep - for hours as well, like Lowri.
0:17:35 > 0:17:37- And then, when you wake up...
0:17:37 > 0:17:40- ..Geth and I will be there.
0:17:43 > 0:17:46- And look what Lowri's got here.
0:17:46 > 0:17:47- A bottle of pop.
0:17:48 > 0:17:51- Maybe we could take in some lemonade - for you as well.
0:17:51 > 0:17:53- What do you think? Yes?
0:17:53 > 0:17:55- That's a good idea.
0:17:55 > 0:17:58- We'll have to take in - your sticker book as well.
0:18:11 > 0:18:12- OK?
0:18:14 > 0:18:16- I find it so difficult, that's all.
0:18:17 > 0:18:20- The thought of what - she's going to have to go through.
0:18:20 > 0:18:23- Look, we need to be open - with people now as well...
0:18:23 > 0:18:26- ..so that we get the support - that we need.
0:18:28 > 0:18:30- Yes, you're right.
0:18:30 > 0:18:34- Why don't we send an email - to our closest friends tonight?
0:18:35 > 0:18:39- Yes. We don't have to do it - tonight, do we?
0:18:39 > 0:18:42- We may as well. - It will be done then.
0:18:43 > 0:18:46- And are you happy to put - both our names on it?
0:18:46 > 0:18:48- Of course.
0:18:50 > 0:18:52- We're a good team, aren't we?
0:18:52 > 0:18:54- If we can do what - we've just done...
0:18:55 > 0:18:57- ..we can do anything.
0:18:58 > 0:19:00- You're right.
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