0:00:00 > 0:00:01I'll see you later. Yeah.
0:00:21 > 0:00:23We're all he's got now. Why is my dad not in the hospital?
0:00:23 > 0:00:26How can you think that me and Liz don't know what's best for him?
0:00:26 > 0:00:29We have to let him go. You're not in charge!
0:00:29 > 0:00:32Dad's getting worse! It's not going to be long, girls.
0:00:32 > 0:00:35I think we should all be with him. Are you OK with this?
0:00:35 > 0:00:39Yeah, I just want to say goodbye. Our dad died earlier today.
0:00:39 > 0:00:42If I thought there was a chance for you and me...
0:00:42 > 0:00:43There must be something I can do.
0:00:43 > 0:00:46There is, you can respect the choice I made.
0:00:53 > 0:00:54SHE SHRIEKS
0:01:02 > 0:01:04Hey. Are you all right, pet?
0:01:04 > 0:01:08'The speeds people drive at these days! Look at me!
0:01:08 > 0:01:10'Yeah, I think you should have a sit down.'
0:01:10 > 0:01:13What? You've had a bit of a shock. No, I'm quite all right, thank you.
0:01:13 > 0:01:16That car nearly hit you there. I'm all right.
0:01:16 > 0:01:18Why don't you come over to the cafe?
0:01:18 > 0:01:23Get a wee drying and a cup of tea. No. I don't think so, no.
0:01:23 > 0:01:26'It's my daughter's place. She'll look after you.'
0:01:29 > 0:01:33Anyway, it's been a pleasure meeting you.
0:01:33 > 0:01:34You take care now, eh?
0:01:38 > 0:01:41'And, of course, tonight, we're...
0:01:41 > 0:01:44'we're welcoming a new member to the family.'
0:01:44 > 0:01:46A toast...to Liz.
0:01:46 > 0:01:49WOMAN: 'To Liz. Liz.'
0:01:49 > 0:01:51Liz?
0:01:51 > 0:01:52Liz? Oh.
0:01:52 > 0:01:55You all right? Yes, I'm fine.
0:01:55 > 0:01:58I was just...
0:01:58 > 0:02:01I was just on my way round to see you.
0:02:01 > 0:02:05Oh, aye? There are some medals of Malcolm's
0:02:05 > 0:02:08and I want to wear them at the funeral today,
0:02:08 > 0:02:12but I can't find them amongst the things at Molly's.
0:02:12 > 0:02:14So you want to have a look round our bit?
0:02:14 > 0:02:17I...I can't think of anywhere else they might be.
0:02:17 > 0:02:21I...I could actually pop round now, if that suits?
0:02:23 > 0:02:25I tell you what, Liz,
0:02:25 > 0:02:27why don't I look for them?
0:02:28 > 0:02:33Oh, my goodness! Eilidh looks so big now.
0:02:33 > 0:02:36She must keep you busy. Well, she keeps Mum busy mostly.
0:02:36 > 0:02:40She watches Eilidh while I'm at work. Oh. I'd be lost without her.
0:02:40 > 0:02:42Oh, don't be daft. What are grannies for, eh?
0:02:44 > 0:02:48You two really do live in each other's pockets, don't you? Yeah.
0:02:48 > 0:02:51I'm glad you've had such a nice life since you left Glasgow.
0:02:54 > 0:02:58Look, I can't imagine how difficult it's been for you both.
0:02:58 > 0:03:02It is what it is. You just have to get on with it, don't you?
0:03:02 > 0:03:06One of my patients has got dementia. Her son calls it "the long goodbye".
0:03:06 > 0:03:08Right, I need to go and get Stuart dressed.
0:03:13 > 0:03:17Did I say something, or...? No, she was born like that.
0:03:17 > 0:03:20Eileen has been through a lot.
0:03:23 > 0:03:25A lot of first-timers get impatient and they rush things,
0:03:25 > 0:03:29but crafting quality beer takes time, my friend.
0:03:29 > 0:03:33It's a marathon, not a sprint. What does that do? Don't...touch that!
0:03:34 > 0:03:38That's the airlock, it protects the batch from contaminants.
0:03:39 > 0:03:41Is it supposed to bubble like that?
0:03:41 > 0:03:44Aye, it's fine, it's just the carbon dioxide escaping.
0:03:44 > 0:03:46It stops the pressure building up.
0:03:46 > 0:03:47You seem to know your stuff.
0:03:47 > 0:03:49What I don't know about home brew isnae worth knowing.
0:03:49 > 0:03:52So your craft beer's answer to Walter White?
0:03:52 > 0:03:57Oh, I like to think of myself as more of a kind of Jesse Pinkman.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00A kind of maverick, raw talent.
0:04:00 > 0:04:03A wee bit dangerous, but a good guy at the end of the day. Do you know what I mean?
0:04:03 > 0:04:06So...why am I here?
0:04:09 > 0:04:13A pie and a pint. It's like cheese and wine for the working man.
0:04:13 > 0:04:16There's a gap in the market. Are you wanting an investor?
0:04:16 > 0:04:20I'm wanting...a partner.
0:04:20 > 0:04:23Found those medals yet, Angus, no? Uh-uh.
0:04:23 > 0:04:25BOB SIGHS Look, I'll leave you guys to it.
0:04:25 > 0:04:27Let's talk when you've got something I can sample.
0:04:27 > 0:04:30Got you, partner. Cheers.
0:04:32 > 0:04:35This is it, Bob. This time next year we're going to be minted.
0:04:35 > 0:04:38Not if Liz comes to look for the medals and finds that in her living room.
0:04:42 > 0:04:47Well, they're not going to be in there. Look, my mate's gran had dementia when we were in school.
0:04:47 > 0:04:49He said she used to put toast in her sideboard
0:04:49 > 0:04:52and her glasses in the freezer. So you never know.
0:04:52 > 0:04:54BOB SIGHS
0:04:56 > 0:04:57Anything? BOB SIGHS
0:04:57 > 0:05:00An old tissue.
0:05:01 > 0:05:03The ace of spades.
0:05:03 > 0:05:06And a two pence piece. Nae medals.
0:05:06 > 0:05:08Hang on.
0:05:09 > 0:05:12BOB SIGHS What's this?
0:05:12 > 0:05:15"Instructions for my funeral."
0:05:16 > 0:05:18It's from Malcolm.
0:05:18 > 0:05:19Are you serious?
0:05:21 > 0:05:23But his funeral's today.
0:05:23 > 0:05:25It's all organised.
0:05:25 > 0:05:29"These are the things I want you to do for my funeral."
0:05:29 > 0:05:31It's from Dad?! Hmm.
0:05:31 > 0:05:34I'll...leave yous to it, all right? Yeah, thanks, Bob.
0:05:34 > 0:05:38So, what does it say? "I don't want everyone being miserable.
0:05:38 > 0:05:43"No black clothes, no lilies, no stuffy church service."
0:05:43 > 0:05:46No church?! But it's booked.
0:05:46 > 0:05:49The...the flowers will already be there.
0:05:49 > 0:05:51"I just want a wee do at The Ship."
0:05:51 > 0:05:54Oh, he's not serious.
0:05:54 > 0:05:57"One last drink with my pals in the local.
0:05:57 > 0:06:00"You're not having this shindig without me."
0:06:04 > 0:06:07He wants his neighbours to carry his coffin.
0:06:07 > 0:06:10"The fellas I've shared a dram or two with."
0:06:10 > 0:06:12And he's written a eulogy...
0:06:15 > 0:06:17..that he wants Gabriel Brodie to read.
0:06:17 > 0:06:19Gabriel?
0:06:19 > 0:06:23Is he even coming? Well, he said he was.
0:06:33 > 0:06:35You just going to stand there all day, aye?
0:06:35 > 0:06:37HE LAUGHS Come here you.
0:06:38 > 0:06:41Gina, can you phone round everybody we know's coming?
0:06:41 > 0:06:45Maybe I should make up some posters to put up in local shops. And what do you want me to do?
0:06:45 > 0:06:48You could put something out on Facebook? Yeah. Remember, no black.
0:06:48 > 0:06:50Eileen, this is nonsense!
0:06:50 > 0:06:54It's far too late to change the plans!
0:06:54 > 0:06:57And we can't have the service in a pub!
0:06:57 > 0:06:59"To Liz and Eileen."
0:07:00 > 0:07:03Do you think he forgot about me? No. Mum, no.
0:07:03 > 0:07:06Don't be daft, we're just the people he saw every day.
0:07:06 > 0:07:10Look, he wants you to make your special macaroni for the wake.
0:07:10 > 0:07:13So that's what I'm good for?
0:07:13 > 0:07:16Eileen, will you listen to me, please. Gina, this isn't about you?
0:07:16 > 0:07:20It's as if I didn't exist. Well, you weren't there, were you?
0:07:20 > 0:07:25Now, can we all just focus on how we can pull this off in a few hours?
0:07:25 > 0:07:27No, we can't change everything!
0:07:27 > 0:07:29What will people think?
0:07:29 > 0:07:32Gina, surely you can see sense?
0:07:32 > 0:07:34I think we should do what my dad wanted.
0:07:34 > 0:07:38Oh, is this you trying to play your part now?
0:07:38 > 0:07:43If anyone has the right to decide the details of his funeral,
0:07:43 > 0:07:45it's those people who cared for him.
0:07:45 > 0:07:49I'm his daughter. And I'm his wife.
0:07:49 > 0:07:51Yeah, for all of five minutes. Gina!
0:07:51 > 0:07:55Liz has only known my dad for a few years, we've known him a lifetime.
0:07:55 > 0:07:58Look, what you had planned for today
0:07:58 > 0:08:00is the opposite of what my dad wanted.
0:08:00 > 0:08:03He wants music, colour, laughter.
0:08:03 > 0:08:07I'm not going to celebrate the fact that he's gone!
0:08:07 > 0:08:11It's more of a celebration of him, of...of his life.
0:08:11 > 0:08:14I may not have been around for a while, but I'm here now,
0:08:14 > 0:08:17and I'm going to make sure my dad's wishes are honoured.
0:08:17 > 0:08:20And I don't need your permission, Liz!
0:08:22 > 0:08:24Fine.
0:08:24 > 0:08:27You do what you like...
0:08:27 > 0:08:30but I won't be a part of it.
0:08:32 > 0:08:33Liz!
0:08:40 > 0:08:43You happy now? She didn't mean that.
0:08:43 > 0:08:46And anyway, she'd no right to sideline me.
0:08:46 > 0:08:50You made your choices, don't take your guilt out on Liz.
0:08:50 > 0:08:53Right, can we just get on with what needs to be done?
0:08:53 > 0:08:55Yeah.
0:08:55 > 0:08:57I've got a few calls to make.
0:09:02 > 0:09:07So, you've not got a clue where Stevie is? Nae idea, no.
0:09:07 > 0:09:09Police don't believe me, right enough.
0:09:09 > 0:09:11They're round at the house every day asking questions.
0:09:11 > 0:09:14But your daddy's going to be in touch soon, ain't he?
0:09:14 > 0:09:18Once he's figured everything out, we'll all be together again.
0:09:18 > 0:09:22Listen, I'm going to need to get her for some fresh air. Do you fancy a walk? Aye, sure.
0:09:24 > 0:09:27What are you doing anyway? You hanging about for a couple of days?
0:09:27 > 0:09:30No, heading back up tonight. My life's in Aberdeen now.
0:09:30 > 0:09:33But you're going to see Kelly while you're here, are you not?
0:09:33 > 0:09:37Well, probably not. It took me long enough to stop thinking about her the last time I left.
0:09:38 > 0:09:41What? You don't know, do you?
0:09:41 > 0:09:43Know what?
0:09:44 > 0:09:48Hey, did you find out what time the funeral cars are coming?
0:09:53 > 0:09:56Mum? Mum, did you see this bit?
0:09:58 > 0:10:02Oh, have you seen my diary? It's got the number for the funeral home.
0:10:02 > 0:10:05I need to let them know we want the coffin brought round to the flat.
0:10:05 > 0:10:09Eileen, why didn't you read out the last bit of Dad's letter?
0:10:09 > 0:10:10What bit?
0:10:10 > 0:10:14The bit where he says he wants Brian at the funeral.
0:10:14 > 0:10:17What, you just failed to mention that, aye?
0:10:17 > 0:10:19It's too short notice, he won't be able to make it.
0:10:19 > 0:10:23You don't know that. I know he's my son, but I don't even know where he lives,
0:10:23 > 0:10:27and I've got no way of contacting him. I don't have time to track him down right now.
0:10:27 > 0:10:30Well, I've got his number here.
0:10:30 > 0:10:35You're in touch with him? Well...on and off.
0:10:36 > 0:10:38Listen, if you phone him now...
0:10:38 > 0:10:41he'll probably be able to make it.
0:10:48 > 0:10:51Here? Aye, here.
0:10:51 > 0:10:55They're bringing his coffin here? Well, it was his home for over 50 years.
0:10:55 > 0:10:58It's pure creepy, Bob. We need to get this place cleaned up.
0:10:58 > 0:11:01Eileen said the coffin'll be here in the next couple of hours.
0:11:01 > 0:11:04I'll get the Hoover. Hang on.
0:11:04 > 0:11:06There's something else we need to deal with first.
0:11:07 > 0:11:09Aw, mate!
0:11:09 > 0:11:12Come on, Malcolm loved a good bevvy. He wouldnae have minded.
0:11:12 > 0:11:14Aye, but Liz and Eileen will.
0:11:14 > 0:11:16Oh, my God!
0:11:16 > 0:11:19Put it back in! Put it back in!
0:11:19 > 0:11:21It willnae go back in!
0:11:22 > 0:11:24Argh!
0:11:24 > 0:11:26Ah!
0:11:27 > 0:11:29Poor Kelly-Marie.
0:11:29 > 0:11:33I had no idea. Look, I'm really sorry, Gabriel.
0:11:33 > 0:11:35I should've phoned you and told you,
0:11:35 > 0:11:37but...it was just a heavy few weeks,
0:11:37 > 0:11:40and things got really hectic after this one came along, didn't it?
0:11:40 > 0:11:41Oh, don't be daft.
0:11:41 > 0:11:43BABY WHINES
0:11:44 > 0:11:47If she had your number, she could have phoned you.
0:11:47 > 0:11:49Nobody blames you for keeping your distance.
0:11:51 > 0:11:53Look, I'm really sorry, it must be dead hard
0:11:53 > 0:11:56listening to all this stuff after everything that happened.
0:11:56 > 0:11:57Oh, that feels like a lifetime ago.
0:11:57 > 0:12:00You know, she asked me to respect her choices, Stella,
0:12:00 > 0:12:02that's what I did.
0:12:02 > 0:12:05Nae regrets? You know, I thought I could
0:12:05 > 0:12:08give Kelly and Cal a family once, but...she didnae want it.
0:12:08 > 0:12:11And, anyway, I've got my work.
0:12:11 > 0:12:13I've got Nicole, Gracie.
0:12:13 > 0:12:15Life's good. BABY GURGLES
0:12:15 > 0:12:17So you're happy? I'm happy.
0:12:17 > 0:12:18Hi, Liz, it's me.
0:12:19 > 0:12:22I just wanted to let you know that the undertakers
0:12:22 > 0:12:26are bringing my dad's coffin round to the flat about lunchtime.
0:12:26 > 0:12:29Can you give me a call back, please?
0:12:29 > 0:12:30Bye.
0:12:30 > 0:12:34Hey. Oh, Gabriel.
0:12:34 > 0:12:39How you doing? Eileen, I'm so sorry about your dad.
0:12:39 > 0:12:41He was a great man. Yeah. Yeah, he was.
0:12:41 > 0:12:44You know, it feels like a part of the street's missing.
0:12:46 > 0:12:49How do you feel about giving a eulogy?
0:12:50 > 0:12:52Sorry?
0:12:52 > 0:12:55My dad left instructions for his funeral
0:12:55 > 0:12:57and we've only just found them today.
0:12:57 > 0:12:59And...he's written a eulogy
0:12:59 > 0:13:02and he's asked you to read it.
0:13:02 > 0:13:05HE SIGHS I mean, you don't have to do it.
0:13:06 > 0:13:09No, I'd be honoured. OK, great. Thanks.
0:13:09 > 0:13:12Hey, not a problem. You've got enough to deal with today.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15No, no, I'm fine. I mean, these things happen, don't they?
0:13:15 > 0:13:18I'll see you later. Yeah.
0:13:24 > 0:13:28"These things happen"? Some people grieve in their own way, I suppose.
0:13:40 > 0:13:42SIGHING
0:13:42 > 0:13:45What the hell did you do that for?!
0:13:45 > 0:13:48It was an accident. The place smells like farts and stale beer.
0:13:48 > 0:13:52We're going to need to get it cleaned up. Where are you going?
0:13:52 > 0:13:55To get a mop.
0:13:55 > 0:13:57No, Molly, look, I think we should just leave her in peace.
0:13:57 > 0:14:00She'll come out when she's ready.
0:14:00 > 0:14:02Aye, and work herself into a tizz.
0:14:06 > 0:14:07Liz?
0:14:10 > 0:14:11Liz?
0:14:13 > 0:14:16Oh, she's...she's no' here!
0:14:16 > 0:14:18Did you hear her going out? No.
0:14:31 > 0:14:34Liz! I wasn't expecting you today.
0:14:34 > 0:14:37Oh, I thought I'd come and lend a hand.
0:14:37 > 0:14:39But...what about the funeral? I'm not going.
0:14:39 > 0:14:41You're not... What do you mean?
0:14:41 > 0:14:45So, anything specific you'd like me to do?
0:14:45 > 0:14:46But I don't understand.
0:14:46 > 0:14:50Look, I just need to keep busy, Alasdair. Please.
0:14:50 > 0:14:52Well...front of house or...?
0:14:52 > 0:14:56Oh, no. I don't have the energy for pleasantries.
0:14:56 > 0:14:59Not today. Right, well...
0:14:59 > 0:15:02there are some donations through the back which need sorting.
0:15:02 > 0:15:05Right, then, I'll get on with that.
0:15:08 > 0:15:11OK, Frances, thank you. We'll see you at The Ship at two o'clock.
0:15:11 > 0:15:15Cheers. Thanks, Reverend, we appreciate your understanding.
0:15:15 > 0:15:18And apologies again for the inconvenience.
0:15:18 > 0:15:21Right, bye. How'd he take it?
0:15:21 > 0:15:25Well, apparently he's never heard of such a thing in all his years of serving the Lord.
0:15:25 > 0:15:29But I assured him we'd still be making a donation and they're going to keep the flowers.
0:15:29 > 0:15:33And did he say he was going to put up a notice about the change of plans? He said he would.
0:15:33 > 0:15:35And did you get hold of Brian? Yeah, but he can't make it. Oh.
0:15:35 > 0:15:38And did you tell him that Dad specifically asked for him?
0:15:38 > 0:15:40Uh-huh. He just can't get the time off work.
0:15:40 > 0:15:43Is that the notices for the shops? It sure is. All done.
0:15:43 > 0:15:46Do you want me to take them over? No, no, no. No, I'll do it.
0:15:46 > 0:15:48I want to speak to Scarlett anyway.
0:15:48 > 0:15:52Oh, if Liz comes back, be nice.
0:15:55 > 0:15:57I thought I might pop over to the Oyster for elevenses,
0:15:57 > 0:16:00would you care to join me? SHE SOBS
0:16:00 > 0:16:02Liz?
0:16:04 > 0:16:07There's no salt! Sorry?
0:16:09 > 0:16:13I've looked everywhere, but it's not here.
0:16:13 > 0:16:16What's not here? The salt!
0:16:18 > 0:16:22These things come in pairs,
0:16:22 > 0:16:24and I've only got the pepper.
0:16:30 > 0:16:31BEEPING
0:16:36 > 0:16:38Molly, Alasdair.
0:16:38 > 0:16:40I think you should come over to the shop.
0:16:43 > 0:16:46What you going to do about the folk that don't see the notices? I'm not sure.
0:16:46 > 0:16:49I was thinking I might try and hire a minibus. Don't worry about that,
0:16:49 > 0:16:52Jimmy'll do a few runs to the church, ferry folk back here.
0:16:52 > 0:16:55Oh, I can't ask him. You're not asking him, I'm telling him.
0:16:55 > 0:16:58It'd be a sin to leave those folk stranded at that church.
0:16:58 > 0:17:00Thank you.
0:17:00 > 0:17:03Malcolm should be surrounded by all the folk that loved him the day.
0:17:03 > 0:17:07Scarlett, have you got any air freshener? Air freshener's up the back.
0:17:07 > 0:17:12Oh! Is that you? You're bowfin by the way! Actually, I've just remembered I bought some last week.
0:17:12 > 0:17:16You might want to look at the shower gels an' all. He's at it.
0:17:19 > 0:17:21SHE SIGHS
0:17:25 > 0:17:26SHE SIGHS
0:17:28 > 0:17:32I was going to bring you something stronger, but Ellie wouldnae let me.
0:17:32 > 0:17:35Look at all this.
0:17:37 > 0:17:40This all happened before I even knew him.
0:17:40 > 0:17:44So much of his life here and I was no part of it.
0:17:44 > 0:17:48I'm just like a...a chapter at the end of his life.
0:17:48 > 0:17:52A...a footnote. You're a galoot, that's what you are.
0:17:52 > 0:17:53Malcolm loved you.
0:17:53 > 0:17:58And that's all that matters. How do you know he loved me?
0:17:58 > 0:18:03Cos he did. Listen, I've had my fair share of men in my life,
0:18:03 > 0:18:05aye, maybe more than my fair share,
0:18:05 > 0:18:09and you just know which one is at it when they say they love you.
0:18:09 > 0:18:11LIZ LAUGHS WEAKLY
0:18:11 > 0:18:14I only ever had two men in my life.
0:18:14 > 0:18:17My first husband, Richard, was...
0:18:19 > 0:18:22I'm not sure if he was capable of love.
0:18:22 > 0:18:25And, yes, Malcolm said he loved me,
0:18:25 > 0:18:28but I had nothing to compare it with.
0:18:29 > 0:18:32For Richard...never said it.
0:18:34 > 0:18:35Never?!
0:18:37 > 0:18:41So...you've waited 70-odd years
0:18:41 > 0:18:44to hear a man says he loves you?
0:18:44 > 0:18:47That explains a lot.
0:18:47 > 0:18:48Hmm.
0:18:48 > 0:18:53No, Malcolm's first wife, Rose,
0:18:53 > 0:18:55she was his true love.
0:18:55 > 0:19:00I mean, what...what if I was just a...a companion?
0:19:00 > 0:19:03He only had eyes for you.
0:19:03 > 0:19:09You may have wasted the best years of your life on Richard,
0:19:09 > 0:19:12but what you had with Malcolm was real.
0:19:12 > 0:19:16And if he was here, he'd tell you the same.
0:19:16 > 0:19:18Aye, but he's not.
0:19:20 > 0:19:23In all the time I've known him...
0:19:24 > 0:19:27..he's never felt further away.
0:19:37 > 0:19:41Hi, Drew. It's me. Listen, have we got time to add something to that video?
0:19:41 > 0:19:43There you go.
0:19:43 > 0:19:44Old school.
0:19:44 > 0:19:46Deek filmed the whole thing, pretty much.
0:19:46 > 0:19:50He pure thought he was Spielberg or something. The thing's older than me.
0:19:50 > 0:19:53Aye, but can you still use it, though? Should do, aye. And can you do it in time?
0:19:53 > 0:19:57I think so. I'll just let you know when it's done. Great. Thanks.
0:19:57 > 0:19:59I think Liz needs reminding of a few things.
0:19:59 > 0:20:02Here, grab yourself a wee yum yum as a thank you.
0:20:02 > 0:20:04Cheers. SHE LAUGHS
0:20:11 > 0:20:14All right, Brian? Long time no see.
0:20:14 > 0:20:18Hey, Bob. How's things? Aye, good.
0:20:18 > 0:20:20You're looking well. You too.
0:20:21 > 0:20:24Hey, I'm sorry to hear about your grandad.
0:20:24 > 0:20:27You here for the funeral, aye? Yeah.
0:20:27 > 0:20:31Right, well, I'll let you enjoy that in peace.
0:20:31 > 0:20:32Good seeing you, man.
0:20:34 > 0:20:37That was... Aye, Eileen's son, I know.
0:20:37 > 0:20:39I've seen him in Malcolm's old photos.
0:20:50 > 0:20:52I wasn't sure you'd show.
0:20:52 > 0:20:54Neither was I.
0:20:56 > 0:20:58Any word from Liz?
0:20:58 > 0:21:00Why did you lie about Brian?
0:21:01 > 0:21:07What? Ruth spoke to him. You never called him. Why did you lie?
0:21:09 > 0:21:13Today's hard enough Is it? What's that supposed to mean?
0:21:13 > 0:21:16Looks like you're taking it in your stride.
0:21:16 > 0:21:18Well, I'm not. He's your son.
0:21:18 > 0:21:21I'm aware of that. What is it with you?
0:21:21 > 0:21:24Why do you have to keep everybody at arm's length?
0:21:24 > 0:21:26Because relying on other people
0:21:26 > 0:21:30has never really worked out that well for me. That's because you don't give them the chance.
0:21:30 > 0:21:33Well, I'm always left to deal with things on my own anyway.
0:21:33 > 0:21:36Oh, here we go. Poor, abandoned Eileen.
0:21:36 > 0:21:41You know, I'm tired of being made to feel bad about living my own life.
0:21:41 > 0:21:44Nobody's making you feel bad, you're doing that all by yourself.
0:21:44 > 0:21:49And nobody forced you to stay here, so don't blame me for your choices.
0:21:49 > 0:21:54So, what, my dad gets sick and I just up sticks and leave?!
0:21:54 > 0:21:57I know you like to paint me as some kind of selfish bitch,
0:21:57 > 0:22:00but abandoning my father at his most vulnerable is more your style.
0:22:00 > 0:22:05Just because I wasn't here every day, it doesn't mean to say I didn't care about him.
0:22:05 > 0:22:09Or worry about all of you. Well, it didn't feel like that when me and Liz
0:22:09 > 0:22:12were trying to convince him there wasn't a dog in the flat in the middle of the night.
0:22:12 > 0:22:16Or we were trying to stop him burning the whole place down.
0:22:16 > 0:22:19And it didn't feel like that when we had to decide to put him in a home!
0:22:19 > 0:22:20Or when Raymond died!
0:22:20 > 0:22:24You told me not to come when Raymond died! You're my sister!
0:22:24 > 0:22:26You should have come anyway! Yeah, well, I'm not a mind-reader.
0:22:26 > 0:22:28How am I supposed to know you're struggling
0:22:28 > 0:22:30if you tell me you're fine every time I call?
0:22:30 > 0:22:33What do you expect me to do? Weep and wail down the phone?
0:22:33 > 0:22:35Oh, no, I would never expect that from you,
0:22:35 > 0:22:38because that would be asking for real emotion.
0:22:38 > 0:22:40You've not shed a tear since Dad died.
0:22:40 > 0:22:44Well, I'm sorry if my grief doesn't look the way you'd like it to.
0:22:44 > 0:22:47You have no idea what my life's been like for these past few years,
0:22:47 > 0:22:49so don't you dare stand there and judge me!
0:22:49 > 0:22:53You ought to be careful, Eileen, because you're going to end up
0:22:53 > 0:22:55alone, bitter and angry at everybody and everything.
0:22:55 > 0:22:58Take a look around, Gina, I'm already there!
0:22:58 > 0:23:01Well, maybe Dad saw that.
0:23:01 > 0:23:02Maybe that's why he wanted Brian here.
0:23:02 > 0:23:05I'm fine on my own.
0:23:05 > 0:23:07I'm not like you, I don't need to be needed.
0:23:07 > 0:23:09I don't need anyone.
0:23:09 > 0:23:10You're the warm, cuddly granny
0:23:10 > 0:23:13that likes baking and watching bloody cartoons.
0:23:13 > 0:23:15Well, that's not me!
0:23:15 > 0:23:17I guess Brian had the right idea keeping his kids from you.
0:23:20 > 0:23:23Brian... Brian's got kids?!
0:23:25 > 0:23:28I didn't plan on going anywhere near The Ship whilst I'm here.
0:23:28 > 0:23:31There you go. Thank you. It'll not be for long.
0:23:31 > 0:23:37It's just a wee thing before the crematorium. Why don't we go over and talk to her now, break the ice?
0:23:37 > 0:23:41No, I'm here for Grandad. I've got nothing to say to my mum.
0:23:41 > 0:23:43But today's going to be really hard.
0:23:43 > 0:23:45She could use your support. I know the feeling.
0:23:45 > 0:23:48I've worked hard to get myself sorted out.
0:23:48 > 0:23:51I've built a life for me and my girls, I need to protect that.
0:23:51 > 0:23:53But she's your mum. It was my family
0:23:53 > 0:23:56that screwed me up in the first place. No offence.
0:23:56 > 0:23:57SHE SIGHS
0:23:57 > 0:24:01So, what, you're going to spend the rest of your life pretending she doesn't exist?
0:24:01 > 0:24:02It's easier that way.
0:24:02 > 0:24:04I know my mum, she'd have found me if she wanted.
0:24:04 > 0:24:08And you're the perfect parent, are you? Never made a mistake?
0:24:08 > 0:24:10Cos I know I have.
0:24:10 > 0:24:13Brian, we're all just learning it as we go along.
0:24:13 > 0:24:16And your mum's no different.
0:24:16 > 0:24:18She deserves a chance to put things right.
0:24:20 > 0:24:24Oh, it's so good to see you, dear.
0:24:24 > 0:24:26Have you just arrived? Aye, more or less.
0:24:26 > 0:24:29Just had a wee catch up with Stella. Uh-huh.
0:24:29 > 0:24:32I'm so sorry, Liz.
0:24:32 > 0:24:34So, how have you been keeping?
0:24:34 > 0:24:36Oh...
0:24:36 > 0:24:40I don't know, to be perfectly honest.
0:24:40 > 0:24:42I don't know anything any more.
0:24:42 > 0:24:45Even my own husband, it would seem.
0:24:45 > 0:24:47Oh, come on, that's not true.
0:24:47 > 0:24:52Well, the things I had planned for today would suggest otherwise.
0:24:52 > 0:24:55Look, none of us could have predicted he would have wanted any of this.
0:24:56 > 0:24:58I mean, funerals, they're miserable.
0:24:58 > 0:25:01I mean, the way I see it, all this stuff he wanted,
0:25:01 > 0:25:05the service at The Ship, all the colourful clothes,
0:25:05 > 0:25:07it's just his way of making things easier.
0:25:07 > 0:25:10You know, he's protecting his family.
0:25:10 > 0:25:12Hmm. He's not been able to do that for a while now.
0:25:12 > 0:25:15Don't take it away from him now.
0:25:18 > 0:25:21Come on, tell me all about yourself.
0:25:21 > 0:25:25How's life in the Granite City?
0:25:25 > 0:25:27Are you working? Aye, not bad.
0:25:27 > 0:25:29I've got a couple of jobs. Just keeping busy.
0:25:29 > 0:25:31SHE CHUCKLES
0:25:31 > 0:25:33Any...lady friends?
0:25:33 > 0:25:36No. I'm...I'm, done with all that.
0:25:36 > 0:25:39It's not for me. Oh, dear.
0:25:39 > 0:25:41Love's not for you?
0:25:41 > 0:25:43I'm happy as I am.
0:25:46 > 0:25:49I didn't fall in love until I was an old lady.
0:25:49 > 0:25:52Quite a long wait.
0:25:53 > 0:25:55A lonely life.
0:25:56 > 0:25:57An easier life.
0:25:57 > 0:25:59SHE CHUCKLES
0:26:00 > 0:26:02I was reading somewhere,
0:26:02 > 0:26:06they say that losing someone...
0:26:06 > 0:26:11is like when a dancer breaks an ankle.
0:26:11 > 0:26:14It never fully heals,
0:26:14 > 0:26:17and it hurts when they dance,
0:26:17 > 0:26:22but they keep doing it because that's what they were put here for.
0:26:22 > 0:26:26Yes, I was over 70 before I found Malcolm.
0:26:27 > 0:26:32Then, of course, we had...so little time together.
0:26:34 > 0:26:36And, trust me,
0:26:36 > 0:26:38that hurts...
0:26:40 > 0:26:44..more than any dodgy ankle ever could.
0:26:48 > 0:26:53I've got grandchildren and you didn't think to tell me?! So much for not needing anybody, eh?
0:26:53 > 0:26:54I had a right to know!
0:26:54 > 0:26:56Ruth told me Brian didn't want you to know.
0:26:56 > 0:27:00He doesn't want anything to do with you. Then why have a go at me for not phoning him?
0:27:00 > 0:27:03Because it was one of my dad's dying wishes.
0:27:03 > 0:27:04Well, my dad's gone now,
0:27:04 > 0:27:07and having Brian here today would just complicate things.
0:27:09 > 0:27:10Brian!
0:27:10 > 0:27:12Brian, please!
0:27:15 > 0:27:17HE SIGHS
0:27:20 > 0:27:22HE SIGHS
0:27:44 > 0:27:46HE SIGHS
0:27:48 > 0:27:49Gabriel?
0:27:53 > 0:27:55This bench was my dad's idea, you know?
0:27:57 > 0:27:59When George died.
0:28:02 > 0:28:04I meant to add your dad's name to it, but...
0:28:06 > 0:28:09I can't believe we've lost three men from the one family.
0:28:09 > 0:28:11Three generations.
0:28:15 > 0:28:17You're the man of the family now.
0:28:17 > 0:28:19It's just you and Stuart.
0:28:23 > 0:28:25Gina says you've got kids?
0:28:25 > 0:28:28Boys? Or girls?
0:28:28 > 0:28:30Two girls.
0:28:30 > 0:28:32Twins. SHE LAUGHS
0:28:32 > 0:28:35So...what are their names?
0:28:35 > 0:28:37What do you want, Mum?
0:28:37 > 0:28:40I just... I just want to know how you are.
0:28:40 > 0:28:43I thought I was a complication you could do without.
0:28:43 > 0:28:45I didn't mean that.
0:28:45 > 0:28:48Not the way it came out. It explains why you never kept in touch.
0:28:48 > 0:28:51I tried to find you...
0:28:51 > 0:28:52I...I did.
0:28:52 > 0:28:54But you checked out the halfway house
0:28:54 > 0:28:57and they didn't have a forwarding address for you.
0:28:58 > 0:29:01It was like you didn't want to be found. I didn't.
0:29:01 > 0:29:04It was the only way I could get well.
0:29:04 > 0:29:07Pretending you didn't exist made me feel better in the end.
0:29:08 > 0:29:09I got myself sorted.
0:29:09 > 0:29:11Got a career, a family.
0:29:11 > 0:29:13Things are good.
0:29:14 > 0:29:17I can't have you in my life, Mum. I just can't risk it.
0:29:18 > 0:29:20Right, well, I've...
0:29:21 > 0:29:24I need to bury my father.
0:29:25 > 0:29:29So can we talk about this another time, when my head's a bit clearer?
0:29:29 > 0:29:30What's that like?
0:29:30 > 0:29:33Burying your father?
0:29:33 > 0:29:35Or did you just forget to tell me? No!
0:29:37 > 0:29:39It was a difficult time.
0:29:39 > 0:29:40I wasn't thinking straight.
0:29:40 > 0:29:45The circumstances around Raymond's death, they were complicated.
0:29:45 > 0:29:48And I didn't know how you were, I didn't want to set you back.
0:29:48 > 0:29:50I had a right to know my father was dead.
0:29:50 > 0:29:52I'm sorry.
0:29:53 > 0:29:55It was the wrong choice. You're good at that.
0:29:55 > 0:29:57Just...
0:29:57 > 0:30:01Your girls, do they know about me?
0:30:01 > 0:30:02No...
0:30:03 > 0:30:05..and it's going to stay that way.
0:30:15 > 0:30:17SHE SOBS
0:30:20 > 0:30:22I did wonder if you'd be coming back down.
0:30:24 > 0:30:27I wasn't sure if you were working or...
0:30:27 > 0:30:29I don't know.
0:30:29 > 0:30:31I wouldn't miss Malcolm's funeral.
0:30:33 > 0:30:35And I'd have came for your boy's, too,
0:30:35 > 0:30:37if I'd known.
0:30:37 > 0:30:40Stella told me today.
0:30:40 > 0:30:44I'm so sorry. So, how are things in Aberdeen? Have you got work?
0:30:44 > 0:30:45Bits and bobs. You know me.
0:30:49 > 0:30:51Listen, Kel... The club's been really busy.
0:30:51 > 0:30:53I mean, not that I've been there much lately, but...
0:30:53 > 0:30:56You're well missed, obviously.
0:30:56 > 0:30:59Kelly-Marie... I don't want to talk about it, Gabriel.
0:30:59 > 0:31:01OK. And you don't have to.
0:31:03 > 0:31:05I just want to know that you're OK.
0:31:07 > 0:31:08That I'm OK?
0:31:11 > 0:31:12Yeah.
0:31:12 > 0:31:14I'm just great. Erm...
0:31:15 > 0:31:17I'm 37, still living at my ma's house...
0:31:18 > 0:31:22..divorcing a guy that I shouldn't have married in the first place.
0:31:22 > 0:31:24I've got one son who keeps asking why we're not living
0:31:24 > 0:31:27with his new daddy and I've just put another son in the ground.
0:31:27 > 0:31:28So, aye, I am OK.
0:31:28 > 0:31:30Look, if there's anything I can do...
0:31:30 > 0:31:34Do you know how many times I've heard that in the last six weeks?
0:31:34 > 0:31:36So, what? You're going to go back to Aberdeen tonight, aye?
0:31:36 > 0:31:38And then what, eh?
0:31:40 > 0:31:42See, this really isn't helping me.
0:31:42 > 0:31:44I would have stayed. Oh.
0:31:44 > 0:31:47Yep. I know. I made my bed.
0:31:47 > 0:31:48I know that.
0:31:50 > 0:31:51Look, I need to get going.
0:31:53 > 0:31:54Sure.
0:31:55 > 0:31:56I'll see you.
0:32:11 > 0:32:13Hey.
0:32:13 > 0:32:15I hear congratulations are in order, Lenny.
0:32:15 > 0:32:18Got yourself a brand-new bouncing baby boy. Gabriel Brodie.
0:32:18 > 0:32:20Never seen that one coming.
0:32:20 > 0:32:23Still, turns out the apple doesn't fall that far from the tree.
0:32:24 > 0:32:27Shame it's rotten to the core.
0:32:27 > 0:32:30It's nice of you to come back for Malcolm's funeral.
0:32:30 > 0:32:32The train fare must have taken some whack out of your Giro.
0:32:32 > 0:32:35If you're short for food, I can get my staff at the Oyster
0:32:35 > 0:32:37to chuck you some scraps at the end of the day.
0:32:37 > 0:32:40You just in town for the service or are you hanging about,
0:32:40 > 0:32:43see if you can sweep Kelly-Marie off her feet?
0:32:43 > 0:32:45You should be ashamed of yourself for what you did to that lassie.
0:32:45 > 0:32:47Oh, aye, here he is, the white knight.
0:32:47 > 0:32:49I should have let you have her all along.
0:32:49 > 0:32:51I bet your kid wishes you had.
0:32:51 > 0:32:53Oh, no need for that.
0:32:53 > 0:32:55You're not fit enough to be a father.
0:32:57 > 0:32:59I loved that boy!
0:32:59 > 0:33:01Aye, and you killed him
0:33:01 > 0:33:05because you didn't have the cojones to stand up to your own mother.
0:33:05 > 0:33:07Why don't I help you with that?
0:33:09 > 0:33:11Now you see why she picked me.
0:33:11 > 0:33:13Wasn't just about the money.
0:33:13 > 0:33:17I hope you never forget what it felt like to lose that baby
0:33:17 > 0:33:19because Kelly-Marie won't.
0:33:19 > 0:33:21All right, all right, all right. Enough. Enough.
0:33:21 > 0:33:23Walk away, Gabriel.
0:33:23 > 0:33:26Look at you, standing behind your daddy now.
0:33:26 > 0:33:27You're pathetic.
0:33:29 > 0:33:32Look at yourself. Nothing but a waste of a life.
0:33:32 > 0:33:33Walk away. Now.
0:33:35 > 0:33:36This isn't over, Brodie.
0:33:39 > 0:33:41He'll keep, OK?
0:33:41 > 0:33:45We've got work to do before Amber gets home. I want your head in the game.
0:33:45 > 0:33:48HE SNIFFS THE CARPET
0:33:51 > 0:33:52That should do it, eh?
0:33:56 > 0:33:57Listen, er...
0:33:59 > 0:34:00..while I've got you here.
0:34:03 > 0:34:04I, er...
0:34:06 > 0:34:10I'm sorry about all the times me and Deek played chap door run away.
0:34:10 > 0:34:12And I should probably tell you...
0:34:15 > 0:34:18See that time that you thought Deek was shooting a cap gun
0:34:18 > 0:34:22through your letterbox and you threatened to phone the polis on us?
0:34:22 > 0:34:23It was me.
0:34:25 > 0:34:26I let Deek take the blame.
0:34:28 > 0:34:29I'm really sorry.
0:34:31 > 0:34:35You were always really sound with me and Deek.
0:34:35 > 0:34:38You even gave me my first nip of the good stuff
0:34:38 > 0:34:40that New Year after we moved upstairs.
0:34:44 > 0:34:47I hope I can be half the man that you were, big guy.
0:34:49 > 0:34:51You already are, pal. Jeezo.
0:34:51 > 0:34:54Easy, mate. It's only me.
0:34:54 > 0:34:57You think I was a ghost or something? No.
0:34:57 > 0:34:59You've got to take it easy with that stuff.
0:34:59 > 0:35:01The place'll smell like a changing room.
0:35:01 > 0:35:03KNOCK ON DOOR
0:35:03 > 0:35:04Your face. Shut it.
0:35:05 > 0:35:07Sorry about him.
0:35:08 > 0:35:11Is that aftershave I can smell?
0:35:11 > 0:35:13It's deodorant. Sorry.
0:35:13 > 0:35:15Bob's overdone it a wee bit.
0:35:15 > 0:35:17We'll, er, get out of your way, Gina.
0:35:30 > 0:35:32Oh, Dad.
0:35:56 > 0:36:00Sorry, I just wanted to let you know that's the pub closed.
0:36:00 > 0:36:02Everybody's gone.
0:36:02 > 0:36:03OK, thanks.
0:36:16 > 0:36:19'Now, you'll be all right.
0:36:19 > 0:36:20'Hm?
0:36:21 > 0:36:23'And I'll come and see you every day.'
0:36:26 > 0:36:27I love you.
0:36:32 > 0:36:34'Then why are you leaving me here?'
0:36:37 > 0:36:40You've decided to go, then?
0:36:40 > 0:36:41I haven't decided anything.
0:36:42 > 0:36:44You've got a visitor.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47If it's Eileen or Gina, I don't want to see them.
0:36:47 > 0:36:50It's not anybody you'll be expecting.
0:36:50 > 0:36:51Be nice, OK?
0:36:54 > 0:36:56These are for you.
0:36:56 > 0:36:58Well, for Malcolm, I suppose.
0:37:00 > 0:37:01Thank you.
0:37:03 > 0:37:04They're from Amber.
0:37:04 > 0:37:07Ah, lovely.
0:37:07 > 0:37:08Talking to you now, is she?
0:37:08 > 0:37:10You and Malcolm,
0:37:10 > 0:37:12you were always very kind to her.
0:37:12 > 0:37:15I'm sure she'd want to pay her respects, if she could.
0:37:15 > 0:37:17She's a lovely girl.
0:37:17 > 0:37:20Is she well? She is.
0:37:20 > 0:37:22Coming home soon, hopefully.
0:37:23 > 0:37:26Yes, Malcolm was very fond of her.
0:37:28 > 0:37:32Right. Well, I'll let you go and get ready for the funeral.
0:37:32 > 0:37:33If you can call it that.
0:37:33 > 0:37:35Yeah, I heard about that.
0:37:35 > 0:37:38Old Malcolm liked to keep people on their toes, eh?
0:37:41 > 0:37:44I was denied a proper funeral for my son.
0:37:46 > 0:37:47And now this.
0:37:53 > 0:37:56You know this is just for show?
0:37:56 > 0:37:58I mean, who cares if a priest says a few words over a coffin?
0:37:58 > 0:38:01What does that matter?
0:38:01 > 0:38:03It's how you remember them,
0:38:03 > 0:38:05how they live in your memory.
0:38:06 > 0:38:08That's what will go on.
0:38:11 > 0:38:13I'm sorry for your loss.
0:38:22 > 0:38:24Is this it?
0:38:24 > 0:38:27Jimmy's gone back to the church to collect more people.
0:38:27 > 0:38:29It's not quite the send-off I imagined for my father.
0:38:29 > 0:38:31What happened to wearing bright colours.
0:38:31 > 0:38:33At least they're here.
0:38:36 > 0:38:37Back in a minute.
0:38:37 > 0:38:39Where you going? Charity shop.
0:38:43 > 0:38:44I'm so, so sorry.
0:38:48 > 0:38:49I should have been here.
0:38:51 > 0:38:53I should have come home.
0:38:56 > 0:38:58I meant to come more often. I did...
0:39:00 > 0:39:02..but...
0:39:05 > 0:39:07..the thought that you wouldn't know me...
0:39:11 > 0:39:14I didn't want that to be the last time you saw me.
0:39:20 > 0:39:22Dad, I'm sorry I left you.
0:39:25 > 0:39:26Some things never change.
0:39:29 > 0:39:30One, two. One, two.
0:39:35 > 0:39:37Ah, well. He didn't want a normal funeral anyway.
0:39:37 > 0:39:39That's perfect, mate.
0:39:39 > 0:39:41Well done. Cheers.
0:39:41 > 0:39:44You know, my dad always said it was Malcolm allowing him to deliver
0:39:44 > 0:39:47Gina that got the rest of the community to accept him.
0:39:47 > 0:39:49Prior to that they weren't too happy with the brown doctor
0:39:49 > 0:39:51living in the big house.
0:39:51 > 0:39:53He changed my dad's life. Ah.
0:39:53 > 0:39:55Ellie, that's another load.
0:39:55 > 0:39:57We're running out of time.
0:39:59 > 0:40:02Are there many people left at the church? Aye, but I can only take four at a time.
0:40:02 > 0:40:05I told them to phone cabs, but I don't know if they're going to make it.
0:40:05 > 0:40:07Is there a subway near there? Aye. Let's go. Come on.
0:40:12 > 0:40:13Who is that?
0:40:15 > 0:40:17We always wanted what the other one had.
0:40:19 > 0:40:21Toys,
0:40:21 > 0:40:22clothes...
0:40:23 > 0:40:25..boys.
0:40:25 > 0:40:28It was never meant to be me looking after him.
0:40:30 > 0:40:33You were the warm, caring daughter.
0:40:33 > 0:40:37I should have been off somewhere, getting on with my life.
0:40:40 > 0:40:42I really resented you for that.
0:40:46 > 0:40:47I'm supposed to say...
0:40:48 > 0:40:50..I wouldn't change it for the world.
0:40:53 > 0:40:55Getting to spend all that time with him,
0:40:55 > 0:40:58those last precious years.
0:41:01 > 0:41:03But I would.
0:41:05 > 0:41:07I'd change it in a heartbeat.
0:41:10 > 0:41:13Because then I wouldn't have to remember him how he was...
0:41:15 > 0:41:16..what he'd become.
0:41:21 > 0:41:24And then I wouldn't have felt
0:41:24 > 0:41:26relieved when he died.
0:41:30 > 0:41:32Because, I was relieved.
0:41:36 > 0:41:37My own father!
0:41:40 > 0:41:44Because every time I looked at him all I could see was
0:41:44 > 0:41:45the dementia.
0:41:47 > 0:41:49My dad wasn't there any more.
0:41:51 > 0:41:53When he...
0:41:53 > 0:41:55When he died
0:41:55 > 0:41:56it was like...
0:41:57 > 0:42:00It was like a burden just lifted.
0:42:06 > 0:42:08Then when I looked at him, lying there...
0:42:10 > 0:42:12..he just looked like my dad again.
0:42:12 > 0:42:14SHE CRIES
0:42:17 > 0:42:18I'm just so tired.
0:42:19 > 0:42:21I know. I know.
0:42:24 > 0:42:26I've got granddaughters, Gina.
0:42:27 > 0:42:30I don't mean to
0:42:30 > 0:42:32just push everybody away.
0:42:34 > 0:42:37I should have come home more often.
0:42:37 > 0:42:38I should have asked you to.
0:42:48 > 0:42:50Hi. Hiya.
0:42:50 > 0:42:52If you just want to make your way over to the rest of the group,
0:42:52 > 0:42:55the service will be starting shortly, OK?
0:42:56 > 0:43:00There's hardly anybody here. Malcolm deserves a better turnout than this.
0:43:00 > 0:43:01Have I got time for another run?
0:43:01 > 0:43:03We need to get started soon.
0:43:03 > 0:43:06We've got less than two hours before we need to be at the crematorium.
0:43:06 > 0:43:07Another run's pointless.
0:43:07 > 0:43:08This way, folks.
0:43:10 > 0:43:13Right, let's give Malcolm the send off he deserves.
0:43:21 > 0:43:24Ho! I wondered when you pair would show your faces.
0:43:24 > 0:43:28And you need to learn to keep your opinions to yourself, madam,
0:43:28 > 0:43:29today of all days.
0:43:29 > 0:43:31Emotions are running a bit high.
0:43:31 > 0:43:33That is no excuse.
0:43:33 > 0:43:35And here's me thinking you were the nippy one.
0:43:38 > 0:43:40Is Liz here? She's in her room.
0:43:46 > 0:43:47Liz?
0:43:49 > 0:43:51Liz, it's Eileen.
0:43:56 > 0:43:57And Gina.
0:43:58 > 0:44:01Liz, I'm sorry about what I said earlier.
0:44:01 > 0:44:03I didn't mean it.
0:44:03 > 0:44:05You're family. You should be there.
0:44:15 > 0:44:18And I fully intend to be.
0:44:20 > 0:44:22I may only have had a few years with your father,
0:44:22 > 0:44:26but they were the happiest years of my life.
0:44:27 > 0:44:30And I promised to love him and to honour him,
0:44:30 > 0:44:32and so that's what I'm going to do.
0:44:34 > 0:44:38If he wants a celebration, then that's what we'll have.
0:44:54 > 0:44:56Do you mind if I step in?
0:44:56 > 0:44:59Course not, son. You take my place. I'll move back.
0:44:59 > 0:45:01All right? Thanks.
0:45:06 > 0:45:09BAGPIPES PLAY
0:45:10 > 0:45:13Honour guard, attention.
0:45:15 > 0:45:17Salute.
0:45:35 > 0:45:38"I want no great wet weepings,
0:45:38 > 0:45:40"no tearing of hair,
0:45:40 > 0:45:41"no wringing of hands,
0:45:43 > 0:45:46"No sighs, no lack-a-days,
0:45:46 > 0:45:48"no woe-is-me's
0:45:48 > 0:45:50"and none of your sad adieus.
0:45:51 > 0:45:55"Go, go, go and get the priest...
0:45:56 > 0:46:00"..and then go and get the booze, boys."
0:46:03 > 0:46:07"Death, where is thy victory?
0:46:07 > 0:46:11"Grave, where is thy sting?
0:46:11 > 0:46:14"When I snuff it bury me quickly
0:46:14 > 0:46:15"then let carousals begin.
0:46:17 > 0:46:19"But not a do with a few ham sandwiches,
0:46:19 > 0:46:22"a sausage roll or two
0:46:22 > 0:46:24"and 'a small port wine please'."
0:46:26 > 0:46:29"Roll the carpet right back,
0:46:29 > 0:46:33"get cracking with your old Gay Gordons
0:46:33 > 0:46:36"And your knees up,
0:46:36 > 0:46:37"shake it up,
0:46:37 > 0:46:39"live it up,
0:46:39 > 0:46:40"sup it up...
0:46:41 > 0:46:44"..hell of a kind of a time.
0:46:44 > 0:46:47"And if the coppers come around,
0:46:47 > 0:46:48"well, then,
0:46:48 > 0:46:50"tell them the party's mine, boys."
0:47:35 > 0:47:36You OK?
0:47:39 > 0:47:41Look, you don't have be out here with me.
0:47:41 > 0:47:42I know.
0:47:48 > 0:47:50Today must be hard for you, eh?
0:47:50 > 0:47:51It's no harder than every other day.
0:47:53 > 0:47:55You better get back inside. You're here for Malcolm.
0:47:55 > 0:47:57I'm here for you, too.
0:47:57 > 0:47:58Today's about Malcolm.
0:48:00 > 0:48:02Nobody's forgotten about your boy.
0:48:07 > 0:48:09Look, see, when my ma and da died,
0:48:09 > 0:48:11one of our neighbours lost a kid.
0:48:11 > 0:48:12He was about, what?
0:48:12 > 0:48:1412?
0:48:15 > 0:48:18This was, what, two, three weeks after I buried my ma and da?
0:48:20 > 0:48:22You know, I was so, so angry at that boy
0:48:22 > 0:48:24for getting knocked down when he did.
0:48:24 > 0:48:27You know, people stopped talking about my parents.
0:48:27 > 0:48:29Like they didn't matter any more.
0:48:31 > 0:48:33But they did and they always will.
0:48:37 > 0:48:40What kind of person resents an old man for dying
0:48:40 > 0:48:43and his family for grieving?
0:48:43 > 0:48:46Someone who's also grieving.
0:48:46 > 0:48:47Listen to me.
0:48:47 > 0:48:50It'll get easier, I promise.
0:48:56 > 0:49:00Have you not got a eulogy to do? Aye.
0:49:00 > 0:49:02Cannae think why he chose me.
0:49:03 > 0:49:05I've got a fair idea.
0:49:05 > 0:49:06You coming back inside?
0:49:09 > 0:49:11I'm just going to stay here.
0:49:20 > 0:49:21"Dearly beloved...
0:49:24 > 0:49:27"..we are gathered here today because, well,
0:49:27 > 0:49:28"I've kicked the bucket.
0:49:28 > 0:49:30QUIET LAUGHTER
0:49:30 > 0:49:32"As I'm sure most of you will know,
0:49:32 > 0:49:34"my memory's not what it used to be.
0:49:34 > 0:49:36"Today's a good day,
0:49:36 > 0:49:39"which is why I'm sitting down to write this now,
0:49:39 > 0:49:40"while I still can.
0:49:41 > 0:49:45"And I want to make sure I get the last word."
0:49:45 > 0:49:47Some things never change, eh?
0:49:47 > 0:49:49"When my funeral comes,
0:49:49 > 0:49:51"I don't want everyone greeting and feeling sorry for me.
0:49:53 > 0:49:56"I've had a good, long life
0:49:56 > 0:49:58"and a great big happy family that's kept me on my toes.
0:50:00 > 0:50:02"My two beautiful daughters...
0:50:04 > 0:50:06"..I'm so proud of you both,
0:50:06 > 0:50:09"and all the grandkids and great-grandkids that you've gave me.
0:50:11 > 0:50:15"Gina, you got knocked down so many times,
0:50:15 > 0:50:17"but you always get back up.
0:50:17 > 0:50:20"After all the hard times that you've had,
0:50:20 > 0:50:23"I'm glad you're building a happy life for yourself
0:50:23 > 0:50:24"with Ruth and wee Eilidh.
0:50:26 > 0:50:27"It's where you should be.
0:50:29 > 0:50:31"Eileen,
0:50:31 > 0:50:34"you were always such a feisty wee thing,
0:50:34 > 0:50:37"battling anything that stood in your way.
0:50:37 > 0:50:40"Now, I can never thank you enough for everything you've done for me,
0:50:40 > 0:50:42"particularly in the last year or so.
0:50:42 > 0:50:45"I know that sometimes I'm not all there,
0:50:46 > 0:50:49"..but I see how much you do for me and Liz
0:50:49 > 0:50:51"and I know the sacrifices that you've made.
0:50:52 > 0:50:55"You're a good girl, Eileen,
0:50:55 > 0:50:57"but do me a favour, eh?
0:50:57 > 0:50:59"Start living your life again
0:50:59 > 0:51:02"and don't give up on the things that matter.
0:51:02 > 0:51:04"I want you to be happy.
0:51:06 > 0:51:09"Now, I've been lucky enough to love two women in my life.
0:51:09 > 0:51:11"When I lost Rose, well,
0:51:11 > 0:51:13"I thought I was done for.
0:51:14 > 0:51:15"But then I met Liz.
0:51:17 > 0:51:20"When I saw you that day at the bus stop,
0:51:20 > 0:51:21"I never thought a posh woman like you
0:51:21 > 0:51:24"would take up with a rascal like me.
0:51:24 > 0:51:25LAUGHTER
0:51:25 > 0:51:27"You made an old man very, very happy.
0:51:29 > 0:51:33"I'm just so sorry that I wasted so much time before finding you.
0:51:34 > 0:51:36"If I had my time again,
0:51:36 > 0:51:38"I'd come looking for you sooner...
0:51:45 > 0:51:46"..and I'd never let go.
0:51:48 > 0:51:50"I love you, Elizabeth.
0:51:52 > 0:51:54"So when my time comes,
0:51:54 > 0:51:55"I'll be fine.
0:51:56 > 0:51:58"I've had a good life,
0:51:58 > 0:52:01"and I know that my family will look out for each other,
0:52:01 > 0:52:03"so that I can rest easy.
0:52:05 > 0:52:08"So next time you have a wee dram,
0:52:08 > 0:52:09"have another one on me."
0:52:16 > 0:52:18Here's to you, old boy.
0:52:26 > 0:52:27You should keep this.
0:52:27 > 0:52:28Thank you.
0:52:32 > 0:52:33Hiya. Hi.
0:52:34 > 0:52:37So, are you going to come here after the crem or
0:52:37 > 0:52:38just going to head straight for the train?
0:52:38 > 0:52:41No, I've decided to stay a couple of days.
0:52:41 > 0:52:43I've got some stuff I need to sort out.
0:52:43 > 0:52:45You sure?
0:52:45 > 0:52:47I don't want to wait until I'm 70.
0:52:58 > 0:53:00Can I talk to you for a minute?
0:53:00 > 0:53:01Hi, everyone.
0:53:01 > 0:53:03Sorry.
0:53:03 > 0:53:07My nephew, Drew and I have prepared a little something.
0:53:12 > 0:53:15That's it. Oh, my.
0:53:17 > 0:53:18Oh, my.
0:53:21 > 0:53:24MUSIC: Unforgettable by Nat King Cole
0:53:31 > 0:53:33AUDIO FROM TV
0:53:42 > 0:53:44And my heart's as strong as ever.
0:53:46 > 0:53:48And I'll love you with my whole heart.
0:53:52 > 0:53:55I know I let you down
0:53:55 > 0:53:58and you don't trust me to be part of your life, but...
0:54:01 > 0:54:03..you have to let me
0:54:03 > 0:54:05make things right.
0:54:05 > 0:54:06You can't make things right.
0:54:07 > 0:54:09What's done is done.
0:54:10 > 0:54:11Please, Brian.
0:54:14 > 0:54:16I've just lost my dad. I can't lose you, too.
0:54:17 > 0:54:20I know it's what Grandad would've wanted, but
0:54:20 > 0:54:22I just don't know if I can do it.
0:54:24 > 0:54:25Not now anyway.
0:54:29 > 0:54:30Maybe one day.
0:54:53 > 0:54:55This is Rosie.
0:54:55 > 0:54:56After my gran.
0:54:59 > 0:55:01And the other one?
0:55:01 > 0:55:03She's named her after...
0:55:03 > 0:55:04After my sister.
0:55:08 > 0:55:10Kirsty.
0:55:10 > 0:55:11Rosie and Kirsty.
0:55:13 > 0:55:15They're beautiful.
0:55:15 > 0:55:17No. Keep it.
0:55:19 > 0:55:21Thank you.
0:55:21 > 0:55:23Will you come back here after the crematorium?
0:55:23 > 0:55:25No, I need to go home.
0:55:27 > 0:55:29Hey.
0:55:29 > 0:55:30What are you doing? Nothing.
0:55:32 > 0:55:34Stuart, this is Brian. He's...
0:55:35 > 0:55:37I'm your big brother.
0:55:37 > 0:55:40Sorry, Eileen. This wee monkey got away from me, didn't you?
0:55:40 > 0:55:41No, it's OK.
0:55:41 > 0:55:44Brian, this is Stella. She's staying with me for a while.
0:55:44 > 0:55:48Stella, this is Brian. He's, erm,
0:55:48 > 0:55:49he's my eldest son.
0:55:49 > 0:55:52Nice to meet you. You, too.
0:55:52 > 0:55:54Do you want to come and play?
0:55:54 > 0:55:58I can't just now, wee guy, but maybe another time.
0:55:58 > 0:56:00OK. Right, come on, you. Let's go.
0:56:05 > 0:56:09# I've been wi' a couple o' cronies
0:56:09 > 0:56:12# One or two pals o' my ain
0:56:12 > 0:56:15# We went in a hotel, and we did very well
0:56:15 > 0:56:18# And then we came out once again
0:56:18 > 0:56:20# And then we went into another
0:56:20 > 0:56:23# And that is the reason I'm fu'
0:56:23 > 0:56:25# We had six deoch-an-doruses
0:56:25 > 0:56:27# Then sang a chorus
0:56:27 > 0:56:30# Just listen, I'll sing it to you
0:56:30 > 0:56:34# I belong to Glasgow
0:56:34 > 0:56:36# Dear old Glasgow town
0:56:36 > 0:56:39# There's something the matter wi' Glasgow
0:56:39 > 0:56:43# For it's goin' roun' and roun'
0:56:43 > 0:56:46# I'm only a common old working chap
0:56:46 > 0:56:48# As anyone here can see... #
0:56:48 > 0:56:50Just look.
0:56:50 > 0:56:51Everybody's smiling.
0:56:54 > 0:56:57Oh, it's wonderful, isn't it? He would have loved it.
0:57:01 > 0:57:02He wanted us to be happy.
0:57:05 > 0:57:07We will be.
0:57:09 > 0:57:10Shall we? Oh.
0:57:13 > 0:57:17# But when I get a couple o' drinks on a Saturday
0:57:17 > 0:57:21# Glasgow belongs to me!
0:57:21 > 0:57:24# I belong to Glasgow
0:57:24 > 0:57:27# Dear old Glasgow town
0:57:27 > 0:57:29# There's something the matter with Glasgow
0:57:29 > 0:57:33# For it's goin' roun' and roun'
0:57:33 > 0:57:36# I'm only a common old working chap
0:57:36 > 0:57:39# As anyone here can see
0:57:39 > 0:57:43# But when I get a couple o' drinks on a Saturday
0:57:43 > 0:57:46# Glasgow belongs to me! #
0:57:48 > 0:57:50We're looking for Kelly-Marie Adams.
0:57:50 > 0:57:51They want to do a mental health assessment.
0:57:51 > 0:57:54How did I end up here, Gabriel? We will get through this.
0:57:54 > 0:57:56You still love her, don't you? You should tell her.
0:57:56 > 0:57:57Don't push me, Kel.
0:57:57 > 0:58:00Why? Are you going to hit me?
0:58:00 > 0:58:02Pick up Amber from the jail, eh? Aye, sure.
0:58:02 > 0:58:05You do know Alex is just using you for sex? I don't want any trouble.
0:58:05 > 0:58:06You stay out my club then,
0:58:06 > 0:58:08cos we don't allow working girls in there.
0:58:08 > 0:58:09Fight!
0:58:09 > 0:58:11There's a fight outside!
0:58:11 > 0:58:14Look, it's crunch time Kelly-Marie. Me or Alex.