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0:00:34 > 0:00:37- I'm Alaw, I'm 20 - and going to have a baby.
0:00:37 > 0:00:41- I'm Steffan, I'm 17 - and still in college.
0:00:43 > 0:00:47- I don't remember - meeting you for the first time.
0:00:47 > 0:00:50- I don't think we talked that time.
0:00:50 > 0:00:52- I think I just spotted him.
0:00:53 > 0:00:55- Then, I thought, "Who is he?"
0:00:59 > 0:01:03- We messaged a lot on Snapchat. - That's how we started.
0:01:04 > 0:01:08- I sent a Snapchat, a picture - with a caption, saying I was bored.
0:01:09 > 0:01:11- And you answered.
0:01:12 > 0:01:15- That was a very exciting - moment for me.
0:01:16 > 0:01:21- We met again because - you're friends with my sister.
0:01:22 > 0:01:24- We had a date in McDonald's.
0:01:25 > 0:01:27- After that, away!
0:01:27 > 0:01:30- We've been together for over a year.
0:01:30 > 0:01:32- Over a year.
0:01:32 > 0:01:34- And we have a baby on the way.
0:01:40 > 0:01:41- Since I'm pregnant...
0:01:41 > 0:01:46- ..I've noticed that loads of people - are in the same situation as me...
0:01:47 > 0:01:49- ..the same age, having children.
0:01:49 > 0:01:52- One of my best friends - has just had a baby.
0:01:52 > 0:01:54- She's doing fantastically.
0:01:55 > 0:01:58- Long ago, people had babies - when they were young.
0:01:59 > 0:02:02- It's as if that tradition - is coming back.
0:02:02 > 0:02:07- People are getting married younger. - That's how it's going.
0:02:12 > 0:02:14- We weren't trying for a baby.
0:02:14 > 0:02:16- But it was a shock...
0:02:17 > 0:02:19- ..when we found out.
0:02:19 > 0:02:23- I'm sure it was - the beginning of January.
0:02:23 > 0:02:24- I had suspected it...
0:02:25 > 0:02:27- ..because my body felt so different.
0:02:27 > 0:02:29- I didn't feel my usual self.
0:02:32 > 0:02:34- A friend was with me.
0:02:35 > 0:02:37- We decided to buy a test.
0:02:37 > 0:02:39- We went to Asda.
0:02:40 > 0:02:42- Nothing showed up on that.
0:02:43 > 0:02:45- I thought, "Thank goodness!"
0:02:45 > 0:02:48- I went home and was on my own.
0:02:48 > 0:02:50- I still wasn't convinced.
0:02:51 > 0:02:53- I tried again.
0:02:54 > 0:02:56- I really regret doing it on my own.
0:02:56 > 0:02:58- I found out on my own.
0:02:59 > 0:03:01- I thought, "Oh, my god!
0:03:01 > 0:03:04- "What am I going to tell Steff?"
0:03:04 > 0:03:07- Just in case, I went - to bed without saying anything.
0:03:08 > 0:03:10- You were sound asleep, weren't you?
0:03:10 > 0:03:12- In the morning...
0:03:14 > 0:03:16- ..a friend, Non...
0:03:16 > 0:03:19- ..brought me another test, to check.
0:03:19 > 0:03:24- We did it together and - she picked up the test like this.
0:03:24 > 0:03:25- She started to cry.
0:03:25 > 0:03:27- I thought, "Oh, no!"
0:03:27 > 0:03:29- I woke Steff.
0:03:30 > 0:03:32- I couldn't get my words out.
0:03:32 > 0:03:34- I cried.
0:03:35 > 0:03:37- Steff just sat there.
0:03:39 > 0:03:41- I thought, "Hello? Come on!"
0:03:42 > 0:03:46- When I told you, - you just held my hand...
0:03:46 > 0:03:49- ..saying, "Everything will be fine."
0:03:50 > 0:03:52- You were there for me.
0:03:52 > 0:03:53- It was quite scary!
0:04:05 > 0:04:10- We're going for the 20 week - scan today. We're very excited.
0:04:10 > 0:04:13- We have no idea - what we're going to have.
0:04:13 > 0:04:15- I don't know what to expect.
0:04:15 > 0:04:16- Amazing!
0:04:17 > 0:04:18- A lot of people are coming with us.
0:04:18 > 0:04:19- A lot of people are coming with us.- - Yes.
0:04:19 > 0:04:23- Mam is coming here at 2.00pm - and Mari, my best friend.
0:04:23 > 0:04:25- My god, we're just so excited!
0:04:33 > 0:04:35- I don't mind what I have.
0:04:35 > 0:04:38- So long as the baby's healthy, - it's fine.
0:04:38 > 0:04:41- If it was a boy, - he'd play Xbox with you.
0:04:42 > 0:04:44- Nuisance!
0:04:44 > 0:04:46- A girl would be ideal!
0:04:46 > 0:04:51- I could dress her up in pretty - summer dresses and cute flip-flops.
0:04:51 > 0:04:53- What do you want?
0:04:53 > 0:04:55- I don't mind, really.
0:04:55 > 0:04:58- It's exciting. But I'm nervous too.
0:04:59 > 0:05:02- I'm afraid to hear bad news.
0:05:03 > 0:05:05- It would be scary.
0:05:14 > 0:05:14- Hello.
0:05:14 > 0:05:15- Hello.- - Hello.
0:05:16 > 0:05:17- Hiya.
0:05:18 > 0:05:19- Are you OK?
0:05:19 > 0:05:22- This is Mam and this is Mari Fon.
0:05:22 > 0:05:23- Hello!
0:05:23 > 0:05:25- Are you excited that you're coming?
0:05:25 > 0:05:26- Are you excited that you're coming?- - Yes.
0:05:27 > 0:05:28- Are you looking forward?
0:05:28 > 0:05:29- Are you looking forward?- - I'm nervous.
0:05:30 > 0:05:32- At first, I thought it was a boy.
0:05:33 > 0:05:35- I'm not convinced any more.
0:05:35 > 0:05:36- I have no idea!
0:05:36 > 0:05:39- Both of you dreamt - you were having a girl.
0:05:39 > 0:05:40- Yes.
0:05:41 > 0:05:42- It's the opposite.
0:05:43 > 0:05:44- We'll see today!
0:05:45 > 0:05:46- Yes.
0:05:47 > 0:05:49- It was a big shock.
0:05:49 > 0:05:52- Yes. I was home from Liverpool.
0:05:52 > 0:05:54- You had a nice letter, Mam.
0:05:55 > 0:05:56- I was ill in bed.
0:05:56 > 0:05:58- What happened?
0:05:58 > 0:06:00- Alaw gave me a letter.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03- Then she left the house!
0:06:03 > 0:06:05- You went somewhere in a car.
0:06:05 > 0:06:07- I went to fetch Steffan.
0:06:07 > 0:06:09- I opened the letter.
0:06:09 > 0:06:11- It was this long.
0:06:11 > 0:06:13- "Bloody hell," I thought!
0:06:15 > 0:06:17- That was that.
0:06:18 > 0:06:19- What the heck.
0:06:20 > 0:06:21- That was that.
0:06:22 > 0:06:24- At the end, - I wrote, "Congrats, Gran!"
0:06:25 > 0:06:26- Yes!
0:06:26 > 0:06:30- I think it was worse, - the thought of being a grandmother!
0:06:54 > 0:06:58- It's quite nice to know - your daughter can have children.
0:06:58 > 0:07:00- Many people can't.
0:07:00 > 0:07:04- I think it's changed Alaw. - She's grown up, hasn't she, Mari?
0:07:05 > 0:07:06- Yes, she's matured a lot.
0:07:07 > 0:07:12- Fair play to Steffan too, - he's grown up a lot. He's great.
0:07:13 > 0:07:15- A lot of people probably think...
0:07:15 > 0:07:19- ..they're so young, - it wouldn't work.
0:07:19 > 0:07:22- But fair play, - he'll be a good father.
0:07:23 > 0:07:28- They'll have help and support - from the parents on both sides.
0:07:29 > 0:07:31- I'm sure they'll both be fine.
0:07:31 > 0:07:34- If it's a boy or girl, - it doesn't matter.
0:07:34 > 0:07:36- It'll have plenty of love.
0:07:48 > 0:07:50- I've been crying!
0:07:50 > 0:07:51- No!
0:07:51 > 0:07:53- What are you having?
0:07:53 > 0:07:54- A little girl!
0:07:54 > 0:07:56- SOBS
0:07:56 > 0:07:57- Oh, my god!
0:07:59 > 0:08:01- Congratulations, Steff.
0:08:03 > 0:08:04- Are you crying?
0:08:07 > 0:08:08- Oh!
0:08:08 > 0:08:12- You're making me cry, - and I said I wouldn't!
0:08:12 > 0:08:13- It was amazing!
0:08:15 > 0:08:17- Where does it say?
0:08:17 > 0:08:18- Here?
0:08:18 > 0:08:20- A little girl!
0:08:20 > 0:08:22- She's upside-down!
0:08:22 > 0:08:24- Yes!
0:08:25 > 0:08:27- Oh, my god!
0:08:27 > 0:08:28- Fantastic.
0:08:31 > 0:08:32- Oh, my god.
0:08:32 > 0:08:34- I was crying and the man said...
0:08:35 > 0:08:38- "..You see those lights? - It's a female!"
0:08:38 > 0:08:39- I was like this.
0:08:39 > 0:08:41- I started to cry!
0:08:41 > 0:08:43- Did you cry, Steff?
0:08:43 > 0:08:46- No, he was trying to be a tough guy!
0:08:47 > 0:08:48- Oh, my god.
0:08:48 > 0:08:50- Congratulations.
0:08:50 > 0:08:51- Congratulations.- - Thanks.
0:08:51 > 0:08:55- It's lucky we didn't have a bet. - I'd be down a tenner.
0:08:55 > 0:08:56- You'd have lost!
0:09:52 > 0:09:54- They've arrived!
0:09:54 > 0:09:55- My god!
0:09:56 > 0:09:57- It's heavy.
0:09:57 > 0:09:59- Bloody hell, yes.
0:09:59 > 0:10:00- How did you carry them up?
0:10:00 > 0:10:02- How did you carry them up?- - I dragged them.
0:10:02 > 0:10:03- On your own!
0:10:04 > 0:10:05- Thanks.
0:10:05 > 0:10:06- Everything is here.
0:10:06 > 0:10:07- Everything is here.- - Yes.
0:10:07 > 0:10:09- We have a cot.
0:10:09 > 0:10:10- A wardrobe.
0:10:11 > 0:10:13- A changing unit.
0:10:13 > 0:10:14- And cupboards.
0:10:15 > 0:10:16- What's this?
0:10:17 > 0:10:18- I've no idea.
0:10:18 > 0:10:22- A drawer, I think. - It goes under the cot.
0:10:22 > 0:10:24- Can we build them tonight?
0:10:26 > 0:10:28- Ideal. Then the bedroom is done.
0:10:28 > 0:10:29- Ideal. Then the bedroom is done.- - Yes.
0:10:29 > 0:10:31- Curtains. A mattress.
0:10:31 > 0:10:33- Done. It's exciting.
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0:10:57 > 0:10:58- Hiya.
0:10:59 > 0:11:00- Alaw Williams.
0:11:00 > 0:11:01- Right.
0:11:01 > 0:11:05- Can you read the front, - fill the form and sign the back?
0:11:06 > 0:11:07- Right.
0:11:07 > 0:11:09- Lovely. Thanks. Take a seat.
0:11:17 > 0:11:20- Today, I hope to see a face. - It would be cute.
0:11:21 > 0:11:22- Yes.
0:11:22 > 0:11:25- It won't show what she looks like.
0:11:26 > 0:11:29- It'll be different to see the shape.
0:11:30 > 0:11:32- It'll be nice, I hope...
0:11:32 > 0:11:34- ..if we see it.
0:11:36 > 0:11:37- Come in.
0:11:37 > 0:11:42- Go round the far side, you can - lie down. Steffan, have a seat.
0:11:42 > 0:11:47- Do you know the sex of the baby - or are you having a surprise?
0:11:47 > 0:11:48- No, it's a baby girl.
0:11:48 > 0:11:50- OK. We'll check!
0:11:51 > 0:11:54- To see her face, - we need her looking at us.
0:11:54 > 0:11:58- If she's looking at your back, - we'll see the back of a head.
0:11:58 > 0:12:01- I'm sure it's lovely, - but not what we want.
0:12:01 > 0:12:04- We may have to have a word with her!
0:12:06 > 0:12:08- There's that little heart beating.
0:12:09 > 0:12:11- It's real.
0:12:15 > 0:12:18- You can see by the spikes - she's wriggling around.
0:12:21 > 0:12:23- It's amazing.
0:12:27 > 0:12:30- It's the most incredible feeling - in the world.
0:12:30 > 0:12:31- Nuts!
0:12:33 > 0:12:36- I can't believe it. - It all feels true now.
0:12:36 > 0:12:41- Ordinary scans - are nothing like this.
0:12:41 > 0:12:43- It's amazing!
0:12:43 > 0:12:47- I've seen my baby's face - for the first time.
0:12:47 > 0:12:50- I can't believe it.
0:12:51 > 0:12:53- In a month's time, maybe less...
0:12:54 > 0:12:56- ..we'll meet our little girl.
0:13:00 > 0:13:02- That's her nose.
0:13:03 > 0:13:05- We've seen her face...
0:13:05 > 0:13:07- ..her little feet...
0:13:08 > 0:13:10- ..and tongue.
0:13:11 > 0:13:13- A lot of her tongue!
0:13:14 > 0:13:18- She's flexible. - Her feet are up by her face.
0:13:25 > 0:13:28- Her backside is here somewhere.
0:13:29 > 0:13:34- Sometimes, her backside comes out - in a big lump at night.
0:13:35 > 0:13:38- I wondered if it was her head.
0:13:39 > 0:13:41- It's obviously her backside.
0:13:43 > 0:13:46- You thought it was her head.
0:13:46 > 0:13:50- Her head is down here, - ready to come out...
0:13:50 > 0:13:52- ..soon, hopefully.
0:13:57 > 0:14:00- I can feel her kicking.
0:14:01 > 0:14:03- It didn't make sense.
0:14:03 > 0:14:06- How could her feet and head be here?
0:14:08 > 0:14:11- But they are. It makes sense now.
0:14:13 > 0:14:17- Is there any chance that - she could move around again?
0:14:18 > 0:14:19- There's a chance.
0:14:20 > 0:14:23- But generally, they know - what they're supposed to do.
0:14:24 > 0:14:26- Usually, - they're in the right position.
0:14:26 > 0:14:31- She needs to turn to look - at your back. She's facing this way.
0:14:31 > 0:14:33- When they're born...
0:14:33 > 0:14:37- ..their shoulders come out - and the head goes like that.
0:14:37 > 0:14:40- If she's looking at your back, - it eases the exit.
0:14:40 > 0:14:42- They make your eyes water.
0:14:58 > 0:15:03- I've gone from eating - a little every day to a lot.
0:15:03 > 0:15:08- I can eat all the time, 24/7.
0:15:08 > 0:15:11- I'm eating for two!
0:15:11 > 0:15:14- I need the energy.
0:15:14 > 0:15:16- I love eating.
0:15:16 > 0:15:21- Steff, fair play, is cooking supper. - What are we having?
0:15:21 > 0:15:23- Spaghetti Bolognese.
0:15:24 > 0:15:25- Lovely. Thanks!
0:15:26 > 0:15:28- I can sit down, have a chill...
0:15:29 > 0:15:32- ..and let him do all the work - for once.
0:15:33 > 0:15:35- I usually cook.
0:15:43 > 0:15:47- We saw a video on the internet...
0:15:47 > 0:15:50- ..of two digestive biscuits...
0:15:51 > 0:15:54- ..with marshmallows in the middle.
0:15:55 > 0:15:59- It was covered in Nutella - and put in a deep fat fryer.
0:16:00 > 0:16:03- We're not good at deep fat frying.
0:16:03 > 0:16:06- The room filled with smoke.
0:16:07 > 0:16:10- The fire alarm went off. - We gave up on that.
0:16:10 > 0:16:13- But it still tasted really nice.
0:16:18 > 0:16:23- I feel sad when he looks downcast - if something burns.
0:16:23 > 0:16:26- I feel sorry for him. - At least he's trying.
0:16:27 > 0:16:29- He's only young!
0:16:42 > 0:16:47- This is the first proper meal - you've cooked for me.
0:16:49 > 0:16:50- Mmm!
0:16:52 > 0:16:54- Lovely. Thanks.
0:16:54 > 0:16:56- You can do this again.
0:16:56 > 0:16:58- You can cook more often.
0:16:59 > 0:17:01- I'll remember that you can do it.
0:17:18 > 0:17:20- We're in a room in hospital.
0:17:22 > 0:17:25- I'm ready to get the baby out.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30- You're lucky you're boys.
0:17:31 > 0:17:33- So, so lucky.
0:17:33 > 0:17:37- There's no way you appreciate - what women go through.
0:17:40 > 0:17:42- They're very intense.
0:17:43 > 0:17:47- When did the contractions start?
0:17:50 > 0:17:51- Poor thing.
0:17:52 > 0:17:54- It's been going 24 hours.
0:17:54 > 0:17:56- When I came in...
0:17:57 > 0:18:00- ..they put me on a monitor...
0:18:02 > 0:18:06- ..to make sure she's moving - and the heartbeat is OK.
0:18:09 > 0:18:12- I was examined to check - everything is OK...
0:18:12 > 0:18:15- ..because I'm in so much pain.
0:18:18 > 0:18:22- She said I might have - a urine infection.
0:18:23 > 0:18:27- That's why it's worse.
0:18:27 > 0:18:30- She's back to back with me.
0:18:30 > 0:18:35- I'm having lower back pains - instead of where they should be.
0:18:35 > 0:18:37- I hope she turns around.
0:18:38 > 0:18:41- That's why it's such - a slow process...
0:18:42 > 0:18:46- ..slower than usual.
0:18:47 > 0:18:48- Yes.
0:19:03 > 0:19:05- Come on. A longer push now.
0:19:07 > 0:19:08- Push, push!
0:19:08 > 0:19:10- Push, push!- - BABY CRIES
0:19:11 > 0:19:13- Here's Cet.
0:19:14 > 0:19:16- She's in the building.
0:19:22 > 0:19:25- I went into labour...
0:19:25 > 0:19:27- ..at two in the morning.
0:19:29 > 0:19:32- She arrived at 4.58am.
0:19:33 > 0:19:35- It took three hours.
0:19:36 > 0:19:39- I've impressed myself!
0:19:40 > 0:19:44- I'm happy I managed to do it. - I no way thought I could.
0:19:46 > 0:19:49- It's worth all the pain.
0:19:51 > 0:19:53- She's so pretty.
0:19:53 > 0:19:57- It hasn't hit me yet I'm a mother.
0:19:58 > 0:20:01- She'll grow up and call me Mam.
0:20:01 > 0:20:04- It's nuts, isn't it?
0:20:06 > 0:20:09- I cried through the whole thing.
0:20:10 > 0:20:14- Didn't I? I was huffing and puffing. - I didn't swear.
0:20:15 > 0:20:16- For a change.
0:20:18 > 0:20:21- We don't know how much she weighs.
0:20:21 > 0:20:24- We'll find out when the midwife - comes back.
0:20:26 > 0:20:29- She's tiny.
0:20:30 > 0:20:33- She's bigger than I thought.
0:20:33 > 0:20:35- I thought she'd be smaller.
0:20:36 > 0:20:38- I had a small belly.
0:20:44 > 0:20:46- It feels like a dream.
0:20:47 > 0:20:51- It doesn't feel real at all.
0:20:51 > 0:20:53- No.
0:21:16 > 0:21:18- Are you OK?
0:21:19 > 0:21:22- Are you OK?
0:21:24 > 0:21:27- Daughter of Alaw Williams...
0:21:27 > 0:21:28- ..me!
0:21:29 > 0:21:31- Date of birth, sixth of October.
0:21:32 > 0:21:35- Time, 4.58am.
0:21:37 > 0:21:40- Normal birth.
0:21:42 > 0:21:46- I never thought - it would happen to me this early.
0:21:47 > 0:21:49- I'm so young.
0:21:50 > 0:21:53- I don't feel too young - to have a baby.
0:21:53 > 0:21:56- I'm a young grandmother!
0:21:57 > 0:22:00- Nain is just a name.
0:22:00 > 0:22:02- It's just a name.
0:22:03 > 0:22:05- I came to the hospital with Dad.
0:22:05 > 0:22:08- It didn't hit me - that she had a baby.
0:22:09 > 0:22:11- I wasn't that bothered.
0:22:11 > 0:22:15- I came here the next day, held her, - and started to cry!
0:22:20 > 0:22:23- First size tights.
0:22:24 > 0:22:27- Can I put them on her?
0:22:27 > 0:22:30- When are you going to have a baby, - Cadi?
0:22:31 > 0:22:32- Oh!
0:22:33 > 0:22:36- God, no. Not any time soon!
0:22:38 > 0:22:40- No!
0:22:40 > 0:22:42- No chance.
0:22:45 > 0:22:47- Steff, you can take her out.
0:22:48 > 0:22:50- I need to put my shoes on.
0:22:55 > 0:23:00- Young mothers are having fantastic - careers and fantastic lives.
0:23:01 > 0:23:03- Why can't I, too?
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