0:00:02 > 0:00:04On this episode of Don't Tell The Bride,
0:00:04 > 0:00:06Joe and Paola are entering into Holy matrimony.
0:00:06 > 0:00:10But this wedding will be like nothing you've ever seen,
0:00:10 > 0:00:14because it's being planned by the person you would least expect...
0:00:14 > 0:00:16..the groom.
0:00:16 > 0:00:21I definitely think that planning this wedding is going to be harder than my tour in Iraq.
0:00:21 > 0:00:24We've given Joe 25,000 to spend,
0:00:24 > 0:00:28but just three short weeks to plan the entire wedding.
0:00:28 > 0:00:29It's not that easy.
0:00:29 > 0:00:31Now I know why women stress out.
0:00:31 > 0:00:34With absolutely no input from his bride.
0:00:34 > 0:00:39My stomach's in knots. It's been in knots everyday this past week.
0:00:39 > 0:00:43And only one source of support, his best man.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45- Oh my! - HE LAUGHS
0:00:45 > 0:00:48Our military man misfires at every step.
0:00:48 > 0:00:51We wanted to talk to you about doing a little catering for a wedding.
0:00:51 > 0:00:53Between the tacky tuxes...
0:00:53 > 0:00:55You look like a huge pumpkin.
0:00:55 > 0:00:57..and the bridesmaids' dresses...
0:00:57 > 0:00:59- What the hell?- No!
0:00:59 > 0:01:01..Joe can barely hold it together.
0:01:01 > 0:01:04Have you been stressed? Because you look thinner.
0:01:04 > 0:01:07Can this man...
0:01:07 > 0:01:09I hope Paola doesn't hate me.
0:01:09 > 0:01:10..give this woman...
0:01:10 > 0:01:14I'd rather be home with my dog.
0:01:14 > 0:01:15..the wedding of her dreams?
0:01:15 > 0:01:18- Oh...- BLEEP!
0:01:18 > 0:01:20Do you want to go to the hospital?
0:01:37 > 0:01:40Meet Joe and Paola from Los Angeles, California.
0:01:40 > 0:01:41Giddy up.
0:01:41 > 0:01:43This couple likes to cuddle
0:01:43 > 0:01:47and has no problem displaying affection in public.
0:01:47 > 0:01:50We've been together for four years.
0:01:50 > 0:01:52I got a parking ticket, so I went to City Hall and I looked up
0:01:52 > 0:01:55and I saw Paola and I was like, "Wow, she's pretty cute."
0:01:55 > 0:01:59And I was walking out and I happened to see somebody I knew that was working there,
0:01:59 > 0:02:03so I said, "Hey, hook me up," and we've been together ever since.
0:02:03 > 0:02:05How big of a piece do you want?
0:02:05 > 0:02:08When Joe proposed a month ago, Paola wasn't buying it.
0:02:08 > 0:02:14I thought Joe's proposal was a joke, because he's constantly tricking me.
0:02:14 > 0:02:16So good.
0:02:16 > 0:02:19Like, he told me that a celebrity was his ex-girlfriend
0:02:19 > 0:02:22and he had me going for two years.
0:02:22 > 0:02:24Like, I really thought he dated this girl.
0:02:24 > 0:02:27Every time we'd hear her song I'd be like, "Turn that crap off".
0:02:27 > 0:02:32So, when it's Friday the 13th, he has this box.
0:02:32 > 0:02:35I'm just thinking, he's just pulling my leg,
0:02:35 > 0:02:39but I saw tears well up in his eyes and I knew.
0:02:39 > 0:02:41Hi, Cheeby.
0:02:41 > 0:02:46We haven't gotten married yet because we're on a really, really tight budget.
0:02:46 > 0:02:48Yeah, I had, you know, an accident.
0:02:48 > 0:02:51I hurt my back really bad
0:02:51 > 0:02:54and I couldn't walk for about six months.
0:02:54 > 0:02:57And I couldn't work for about a year and a half.
0:02:57 > 0:03:01Paola was here for me, she took care of me.
0:03:01 > 0:03:03What that really did was just prove to me how much,
0:03:03 > 0:03:08how special she really was, and is, and how much she really loves me.
0:03:08 > 0:03:10I love this picture.
0:03:10 > 0:03:15I'm usually the planner, so I'm a little nervous about him
0:03:15 > 0:03:18budgeting and putting things off.
0:03:18 > 0:03:20I joined the Marines pretty much out of high school.
0:03:20 > 0:03:24I've done two tours in Iraq and one tour in Afghanistan.
0:03:24 > 0:03:28I definitely think planning this wedding is going to be harder than my tour in Iraq.
0:03:28 > 0:03:30You have to deal with the venue. You have to deal with a dress.
0:03:30 > 0:03:33You have to deal with food. You have to deal with lights.
0:03:33 > 0:03:35You have to deal with people,
0:03:35 > 0:03:39so I definitely have to tackle this like it's a mission,
0:03:39 > 0:03:44because my main objective is making sure my wife-to-be is going to be happy.
0:03:44 > 0:03:49I have a lot of fears with Joe planning the wedding.
0:03:49 > 0:03:50Everything could go wrong.
0:03:50 > 0:03:51Ow.
0:03:51 > 0:03:53Definitely, my dream wedding would be big.
0:03:53 > 0:03:58I don't want it to be too bright and too crazy and all over the place.
0:03:58 > 0:04:01We'd have fireworks, belly dancers or stuff like that.
0:04:01 > 0:04:03Or, I don't know, like an elephant.
0:04:03 > 0:04:08I just hope he really thinks about things before making decisions.
0:04:08 > 0:04:12It is extremely important that I make this day great for Paola.
0:04:12 > 0:04:16I want her to be happy. That's really going to be my priority.
0:04:16 > 0:04:18You going to miss me?
0:04:18 > 0:04:20- Just a little bit.- Just a little bit.
0:04:20 > 0:04:23Over the next three weeks, Joe will have no contact
0:04:23 > 0:04:26with his bride as he plans their wedding.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28The next time they set eyes on each other will be at the altar.
0:04:28 > 0:04:31I'm really nervous about the next three weeks,
0:04:31 > 0:04:36because I'm used to kissing him goodbye every morning.
0:04:36 > 0:04:38So that's going to be hard.
0:04:38 > 0:04:40- I'll miss you.- I'll miss you, too.
0:04:40 > 0:04:42But it'll be worth it.
0:04:42 > 0:04:45We'll be married at the end of it.
0:04:47 > 0:04:48Don't cry.
0:04:48 > 0:04:49SHE LAUGHS
0:04:51 > 0:04:55The tearful goodbye behind him, Joe meets up with his best friend Jorge.
0:04:55 > 0:05:00They'll be in the trenches together while Joe plans the big day.
0:05:04 > 0:05:05My wingman is Jorge.
0:05:05 > 0:05:08He's like the male version of Paola, I guess.
0:05:08 > 0:05:09Just not as pretty.
0:05:09 > 0:05:13- How are you? - Good, how are you?- Good to see you. How's everything?- Good.
0:05:13 > 0:05:15When it comes to wedding planning,
0:05:15 > 0:05:18I am hoping that Jorge will be very proficient
0:05:18 > 0:05:21when it comes to decorations. He pays attention to detail.
0:05:21 > 0:05:23Looking good, dude.
0:05:23 > 0:05:26- Give me a little twirl. - Just for you.- Nice.- Let me see you.
0:05:26 > 0:05:28It's going to be very exciting planning stuff with Jorge.
0:05:28 > 0:05:30I know for a fact he's going to try to take over.
0:05:30 > 0:05:32He's all, "I wear the pants."
0:05:32 > 0:05:34I'm going to wear the pants, he's going to wear the skirt.
0:05:34 > 0:05:36A true Marine,
0:05:36 > 0:05:39Joe tackles wedding planning like he's going into battle.
0:05:39 > 0:05:42Well, first of all, we gotta do a plan of attack,
0:05:42 > 0:05:46so we gotta figure out what's priority, how we're going to go about this stuff.
0:05:46 > 0:05:47What we gotta order first.
0:05:47 > 0:05:51All right, first thing's first, bachelor party.
0:05:51 > 0:05:53HE LAUGHS
0:05:53 > 0:05:54You serious?
0:05:54 > 0:05:56What's more important?
0:05:57 > 0:06:00How about we do this? We try to figure out a budget.
0:06:00 > 0:06:02Yeah, sure, let's do that.
0:06:02 > 0:06:05I think that would be the smart way to attack it.
0:06:05 > 0:06:07Our budget here is 25,000.
0:06:07 > 0:06:12- Let's budget out a venue for 6,500. All right?- OK.
0:06:12 > 0:06:15We get a dress, how much do you think that is?
0:06:15 > 0:06:17Anywhere from 1,000 to 1,500.
0:06:17 > 0:06:20Let's say 1,500 for alcohol.
0:06:20 > 0:06:24I don't know what else you need. To me, that's a wedding already.
0:06:24 > 0:06:27- Oh, the cake.- Oh, yeah.
0:06:27 > 0:06:28THEY LAUGH
0:06:28 > 0:06:31Wow. Grand total...
0:06:33 > 0:06:3629,950.
0:06:37 > 0:06:39So we gotta cut back a lot.
0:06:39 > 0:06:42It's not that easy. Now I know why women stress out.
0:06:42 > 0:06:45I give them a lot of credit, because it's not easy.
0:06:45 > 0:06:48And I've been doing it for, what? An hour or so?
0:06:48 > 0:06:51- You know what we should do though? - Mmm?- Let's take a break.
0:06:51 > 0:06:53Let's go have lunch.
0:06:53 > 0:06:56Overwhelmed by the budget, the boys were ready for a break,
0:06:56 > 0:06:58but suddenly, inspiration strikes
0:06:58 > 0:07:02and Joe knows exactly what he should pay for first...
0:07:02 > 0:07:04..a tattoo?!
0:07:05 > 0:07:08- I'm going to get married.- Ah, man.
0:07:08 > 0:07:10And I want to get something that's going to represent...
0:07:10 > 0:07:12- You and your girl?- Yes.
0:07:12 > 0:07:15This place not only offers romantic decor,
0:07:15 > 0:07:19but you get free relationship advice with every tattoo.
0:07:19 > 0:07:23In marriage, life and every relationship, you can be one of two things.
0:07:23 > 0:07:26You can either be right or you can be happy, but you can't be both.
0:07:26 > 0:07:29Ah, wise words, my friend.
0:07:31 > 0:07:33All right, brother. We're finished.
0:07:33 > 0:07:35To be honest, Paola told me not to get any more tattoos.
0:07:35 > 0:07:38So it's a little scary,
0:07:38 > 0:07:41but it really symbolizes who we are as a couple.
0:07:41 > 0:07:43The moon is for our first date.
0:07:43 > 0:07:46The ocean is for, also on our first date when we went to Hawaii,
0:07:46 > 0:07:50and there's a turtle is what she saw in Hawaii and just the smile on her face,
0:07:50 > 0:07:54the expression, it was just amazing, so I'm really excited.
0:07:54 > 0:07:56- Two bills, bro?- Right. - Thank you, brother.
0:07:56 > 0:08:01It's a nice gesture, but with the budget being only 25,000,
0:08:01 > 0:08:03did we need to take it out of the budget now?
0:08:03 > 0:08:05I mean, it could have been done probably after.
0:08:05 > 0:08:08Especially since it's cutting out of the budget for everything else.
0:08:12 > 0:08:15It's cold, man.
0:08:15 > 0:08:17Should've brought a jacket.
0:08:18 > 0:08:20Joe and Jorge go to Santa Monica beach.
0:08:20 > 0:08:23Why? It's free.
0:08:23 > 0:08:25Is it common for people to have weddings,
0:08:25 > 0:08:29- because I have been here many times and I have never seen anyone. - I've never seen a wedding.
0:08:29 > 0:08:32The only problem with it is it is a public beach
0:08:32 > 0:08:34- and other people can be around your wedding.- Right.
0:08:34 > 0:08:38There are people roller-blading or people playing volleyball here.
0:08:38 > 0:08:40You got to think about that too.
0:08:40 > 0:08:42You know, it might be a little crowded on the beach on that day.
0:08:42 > 0:08:44Technically if I'm having a wedding,
0:08:44 > 0:08:47- somebody could just walk through and there's nothing I can say. - That's true.
0:08:47 > 0:08:50Like this beach goer, she'd be a great addition to the wedding.
0:08:50 > 0:08:54As if rogue wedding guests aren't enough, it gets worse.
0:08:54 > 0:08:58They don't like any flame, or cooking, or anything like that.
0:08:58 > 0:09:05So you're not going to be able to set up, like a cocktail hour,
0:09:05 > 0:09:10or anything like that, unless again, you wanted to use plastic cups.
0:09:10 > 0:09:12- Right.- That's kind of tacky, though, too.
0:09:12 > 0:09:14Yeah that is, just a little tacky.
0:09:14 > 0:09:16With no privacy or cocktail hour,
0:09:16 > 0:09:19the beach wedding idea looks to be for the birds.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21With the beach wedding out of the picture,
0:09:21 > 0:09:23the boys are forced to implement their budget
0:09:23 > 0:09:26and explore venues with a price tag.
0:09:26 > 0:09:28What's the max you would want to spend?
0:09:28 > 0:09:29No more than 8,000.
0:09:29 > 0:09:33On the way home, Joe is hit with another brilliant idea.
0:09:33 > 0:09:36An ingenious way to cater the wedding.
0:09:36 > 0:09:39I'm just nervous, I feel,
0:09:39 > 0:09:42you know, it will be geared towards comfort food again.
0:09:42 > 0:09:43I love all of that too,
0:09:43 > 0:09:45I'm just afraid it will get a little bit messy.
0:09:45 > 0:09:48- Hello. How are you? - Good, how are you guys doing?
0:09:48 > 0:09:52We wanted to talk to you about doing a little catering for a wedding.
0:09:52 > 0:09:55- Sure, yeah. We've done a bunch of weddings.- Have you, really?- Mm-hm.
0:09:55 > 0:09:59If you want to do classic hamburgers and cheeseburgers, some fries,
0:09:59 > 0:10:01- it's like, 12 a person.- OK.
0:10:01 > 0:10:04And 18 is really only when we do our deserts,
0:10:04 > 0:10:07- but you won't be doing that, because we don't do wedding cakes. - OK.
0:10:07 > 0:10:10I'd like to throw in a little ethnic food, maybe some Ecuadorian dish.
0:10:10 > 0:10:13His family's from Guatemala and Spain,
0:10:13 > 0:10:16so that would be my ideal food selection for the wedding.
0:10:16 > 0:10:19Everybody's going to eat standing up? So, no tables?
0:10:19 > 0:10:21At least somebody is thinking.
0:10:21 > 0:10:24I really don't care if the people have to get up
0:10:24 > 0:10:26and walk to get their food.
0:10:26 > 0:10:29Who cares? You have to do that anyway everywhere, you know?
0:10:29 > 0:10:33- Sure, I do that.- So no matter what, I think people are going to enjoy it.
0:10:33 > 0:10:35Because it's different and it tastes damn good.
0:10:35 > 0:10:37I'm pretty much sold.
0:10:42 > 0:10:44- Ready, Princess?- Sure, Buttercup.
0:10:44 > 0:10:47Iraq veteran Joe has less than three weeks to plan his wedding,
0:10:47 > 0:10:49without any input from his bride,
0:10:49 > 0:10:54but so far, all he's accomplished is getting a tattoo.
0:10:54 > 0:10:57My plan of attack is, er, get the venue,
0:10:57 > 0:11:00and I think it should be, get the dress?
0:11:00 > 0:11:04And then after that, I don't know.
0:11:04 > 0:11:05LAUGHS
0:11:05 > 0:11:08My worst wedding would be,
0:11:08 > 0:11:11oh God, maybe a hotel.
0:11:11 > 0:11:15With just three weeks, I'm afraid he's going to get a banquet hall
0:11:15 > 0:11:17and I would hate that.
0:11:17 > 0:11:19Where do Joe and Jorge go first?
0:11:19 > 0:11:21The London Hotel.
0:11:21 > 0:11:23Hi, gentlemen.
0:11:23 > 0:11:26- How are you?- Hi, I'm Alison. - I'm Joe.- Nice to meet you, how are you?
0:11:26 > 0:11:28- I'm Jorge.- Nice to meet you too.
0:11:28 > 0:11:32Tell me a bit more about what you're really envisioning for your big day.
0:11:32 > 0:11:35One of the things I've always envisioned was maybe having a beach wedding.
0:11:35 > 0:11:38- If not a beach wedding, having a rooftop wedding. - OK.
0:11:38 > 0:11:42There's a few areas in the hotel I'll show you that we have available for weddings.
0:11:42 > 0:11:45The first being the rooftop west, where we are now.
0:11:45 > 0:11:48It's really a blank canvas for you to work with for the wedding.
0:11:48 > 0:11:50Everything here is completely moveable,
0:11:50 > 0:11:54so you can set it up for a ceremony, we can do dinner and dancing here.
0:11:54 > 0:11:57A ceremony and cocktail here would be perfect.
0:11:57 > 0:12:00- I love the backdrop, which would be the city.- Yeah.
0:12:00 > 0:12:02Yeah, it's beautiful. I love it.
0:12:02 > 0:12:05It's really a romantic ambience for you.
0:12:05 > 0:12:07- Wow.- Especially at night, everything lit up.- Mm-hm.
0:12:07 > 0:12:10- It's going to be nice.- You can use this lounge furniture as well.
0:12:10 > 0:12:14We can create lounge vignettes, maybe around the dancefloor.
0:12:14 > 0:12:18What if I wanted to add, let's say extra lighting? Am I allowed to?
0:12:18 > 0:12:21Oh yeah, definitely. We do allow DJs on the rooftop,
0:12:21 > 0:12:25we don't allow live bands, so if you want a live band, you'd have to be indoors.
0:12:25 > 0:12:26This guy wanted a live band.
0:12:26 > 0:12:28- All right.- But if you want to do dinner up here,
0:12:28 > 0:12:32we can do a DJ and music can last until 11pm.
0:12:32 > 0:12:34- 11pm.- That's cool.
0:12:34 > 0:12:37I'm in love.
0:12:37 > 0:12:40- Awesome.- But you know, like, there's other options.
0:12:40 > 0:12:43It's only the first of the three areas I'm going to show you...
0:12:43 > 0:12:45- Wow.- Perfect. - ..so, we'll continue on.
0:12:45 > 0:12:48- Definitely.- Please. - Head back this way.- Thank you.
0:12:48 > 0:12:50So, this is our Hampton Court.
0:12:50 > 0:12:52You can see, even though we're on the third level,
0:12:52 > 0:12:55you still have great views of downtown Los Angeles.
0:12:55 > 0:12:57- OK.- And the Hollywood hills behind.
0:12:57 > 0:12:59We do a lot of wedding ceremonies here.
0:12:59 > 0:13:03We can set up the chairs, kind of in the centre and either side as well.
0:13:03 > 0:13:06I like it. I like it.
0:13:06 > 0:13:11So this is our Kensington Ballroom. It's just a very neutral space.
0:13:11 > 0:13:14Is it just me, or does the ballroom
0:13:14 > 0:13:16look a lot like the banquet hall Paola was afraid of?
0:13:16 > 0:13:18I'll just be honest, I'm not really...
0:13:18 > 0:13:22- Not crazy about the ballroom? - Yeah, not crazy about any ballroom.
0:13:22 > 0:13:24I've always envisioned myself being outside.
0:13:24 > 0:13:29- I definitely have to see my other options.- Yeah, understandable.- Yeah.
0:13:29 > 0:13:31So pretty.
0:13:31 > 0:13:34Unable to sit still at home, Paola takes her maid of honour Debbie
0:13:34 > 0:13:37to Malibu to see the wedding venue of her dreams,
0:13:37 > 0:13:40El Rancho Sol Del Pacifico.
0:13:40 > 0:13:43I think people will be in love with this place.
0:13:43 > 0:13:45So we all come down that pathway,
0:13:45 > 0:13:48walk around this tree, come down this way.
0:13:48 > 0:13:52I love overlooking the ocean, that's perfect. I love it.
0:13:52 > 0:13:56- Joe's going to start tearing up when I'm over there.- Over there. - SHE LAUGHS
0:13:56 > 0:13:59Paola would tear up herself right now
0:13:59 > 0:14:01if she knew Joe's second choice for a wedding venue
0:14:01 > 0:14:03had its own breathtaking view...
0:14:03 > 0:14:05The county jail.
0:14:11 > 0:14:14You've got the whole use of the indoor and outdoor space here.
0:14:14 > 0:14:16Oh, wow. This is nice.
0:14:16 > 0:14:20Yeah, and ceremonies usually take place outside here.
0:14:20 > 0:14:22- It's a perfect spot for that. - It's beautiful.
0:14:22 > 0:14:26- PAOLA: This place is so relaxing, isn't it?- It's beautiful.
0:14:26 > 0:14:31The sound of the water. I really hope Joe picks something like this.
0:14:33 > 0:14:37Is there a certain look you're looking at for the wedding? Is there a style?
0:14:37 > 0:14:41Style? Like coffee-shop hunting lodge?
0:14:41 > 0:14:45I want to keep it fairly simple. I mean, I love the way it looks.
0:14:45 > 0:14:46I love the brick wall.
0:14:46 > 0:14:50I wanted an outdoor reception and this is perfect.
0:14:50 > 0:14:54There's really nothing I can say like, "Oh, I would change..."
0:14:54 > 0:14:57That's why it's perfect. You don't have change anything.
0:14:57 > 0:15:00You have the ocean. You have the mountains.
0:15:00 > 0:15:03You have the pool. There's a vineyard. There's horses.
0:15:03 > 0:15:06It's not like a castle but I feel like a princess here.
0:15:06 > 0:15:08It's just such a pretty, pretty venue.
0:15:08 > 0:15:13I don't like hotel weddings or country clubs or golf courses.
0:15:13 > 0:15:14I'm not into that.
0:15:14 > 0:15:17What if this is something that he just totally doesn't lean towards?
0:15:17 > 0:15:20Then he's in trouble after.
0:15:21 > 0:15:23Joe's already in trouble
0:15:23 > 0:15:27and has allowed nearly a week to go by without a single decision.
0:15:27 > 0:15:30It looks like this soldier is at ease.
0:15:30 > 0:15:31He's a procrastinator.
0:15:31 > 0:15:34If he doesn't get the venue in the next couple of days
0:15:34 > 0:15:37he's going to be super stressed.
0:15:38 > 0:15:41Everything revolves around the venue.
0:15:41 > 0:15:44All right, decision time.
0:15:44 > 0:15:46So, what do you think?
0:15:47 > 0:15:50This is you, man. This is your wedding.
0:15:50 > 0:15:51I don't think you should even...
0:15:51 > 0:15:53I mean, I don't want to say don't consider Paola but...
0:15:53 > 0:15:57I mean, you've got to work with what you have right now.
0:15:58 > 0:16:01It's crazy though. I mean, if I do this...
0:16:01 > 0:16:02this is it.
0:16:04 > 0:16:07This is it. You're going to get married regardless.
0:16:07 > 0:16:08All right. I'm doing it.
0:16:08 > 0:16:11Which venue does he choose?
0:16:11 > 0:16:12We know what Paola wants.
0:16:12 > 0:16:16I love overlooking the ocean. That's perfect.
0:16:16 > 0:16:21- And we know what she doesn't want. - I don't like hotel weddings, I'm not into that.
0:16:21 > 0:16:23And he chooses...
0:16:23 > 0:16:26the hotel.
0:16:26 > 0:16:31- You got a place, baby. - We got a place. It's scary, man.
0:16:31 > 0:16:33Running out of time and under pressure,
0:16:33 > 0:16:36Joe makes a risky call at a venue Paola make not like.
0:16:36 > 0:16:38I think the London is going to do it
0:16:38 > 0:16:40and that's cos I don't want to waste any more time
0:16:40 > 0:16:42looking for a different venue.
0:16:42 > 0:16:44- Yeah, yeah. We can't... - We spent a whole week.
0:16:44 > 0:16:47It's going to be easier from now on.
0:16:47 > 0:16:50If I had to say that this was Paola's dream venue
0:16:50 > 0:16:51I would probably say no.
0:16:51 > 0:16:55But I can honestly say that she's going to love it.
0:16:55 > 0:16:57You know, I'm going to put my own special touches to it.
0:16:57 > 0:17:00If you'll just sign and date here for me.
0:17:02 > 0:17:06So far, Joe's spent money on a tattoo, a hotel wedding,
0:17:06 > 0:17:08and an indoor reception,
0:17:08 > 0:17:11all things Paola does not want.
0:17:11 > 0:17:14I actually got a little bit excited knowing that
0:17:14 > 0:17:16there may be a full moon on our wedding night.
0:17:16 > 0:17:22Especially if our venue ends up being in the outdoors,
0:17:22 > 0:17:25you know, even better, I get to look up at that full moon.
0:17:25 > 0:17:28Maybe have my first dance with him under the moon.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30So that really has me excited.
0:17:31 > 0:17:35Joe has spent his first week of wedding planning getting
0:17:35 > 0:17:38a tattoo his bride did not want and a venue she is likely to hate.
0:17:38 > 0:17:40He's learned there's no comparison between
0:17:40 > 0:17:43the chaos of war and wedding planning.
0:17:43 > 0:17:46In Iraq, you know, you get shot at, stuff like that.
0:17:46 > 0:17:49Explosions, all this sound.
0:17:49 > 0:17:53But it's stuff that you get used to, you know? This is harder.
0:17:53 > 0:17:56With only two weeks left, Joe and Jorge are ready to attack
0:17:56 > 0:18:00the biggest decision of all, the wedding dress.
0:18:00 > 0:18:01I'm a little scared.
0:18:01 > 0:18:02The dress is very important.
0:18:02 > 0:18:04That's the first thing people see
0:18:04 > 0:18:06when you come walking down the aisle.
0:18:06 > 0:18:10The worst thing that could happen is Joe picking the wrong dress
0:18:10 > 0:18:13cos I probably would cry.
0:18:13 > 0:18:18- So tell me what kind of gown you're looking for?- I know she likes lace.
0:18:18 > 0:18:21- All right, so let's get started. - I like this one right here.
0:18:21 > 0:18:24- You don't like this? No? - Oh, that would look nice on you.
0:18:24 > 0:18:26- Looks really good.- Looks good?
0:18:26 > 0:18:29So if you guys want to start pulling a couple of dresses.
0:18:29 > 0:18:30HE SIGHS
0:18:30 > 0:18:33- Can I be honest? I'm scared. - You're scared?- Yeah.
0:18:33 > 0:18:35- I'm here to help you. - I appreciate it.
0:18:35 > 0:18:37Don't worry, princess. HE LAUGHS
0:18:37 > 0:18:40While Jorge and his princess get it together,
0:18:40 > 0:18:43Paola takes her bridesmaid Debbie to see the dream dress
0:18:43 > 0:18:46she would want if it were up to her. But it's not.
0:18:46 > 0:18:48My fantasy dress... I just want to feel like a million bucks.
0:18:48 > 0:18:50- Oh!- Sexy.
0:18:50 > 0:18:51'You watch all these movies,'
0:18:51 > 0:18:55they try on the dress and they just cry. I want that moment.
0:18:55 > 0:18:57My heart's pounding right now.
0:18:57 > 0:18:59Why is it pounding?
0:18:59 > 0:19:00This is easy. This is...
0:19:00 > 0:19:03I thought it was going to be hard. I thought it was going to be...
0:19:03 > 0:19:05- It's not as hard as... - Yeah, it is. No, it's hard.
0:19:05 > 0:19:07The dress is the important thing.
0:19:07 > 0:19:09We're going to get it right. Don't worry.
0:19:09 > 0:19:11Oh, that's nice.
0:19:11 > 0:19:12- You picked this right?- Of course.
0:19:12 > 0:19:14This is definitely an option.
0:19:14 > 0:19:17- Is that a contender? - From one to ten what do you think?
0:19:17 > 0:19:19Seven.
0:19:19 > 0:19:22I like the dress but I don't know if Paola would like it
0:19:22 > 0:19:24cos I think she's more of a fan of lace.
0:19:24 > 0:19:26- 100% lace?- Yeah.
0:19:26 > 0:19:29- Oh, yeah, I don't like this one. - What?!
0:19:29 > 0:19:32This back is nice.
0:19:32 > 0:19:35Well, am I going to walk down the aisle backwards?
0:19:35 > 0:19:40- What are you going to do if he gets a dress just like that?- I would cry.
0:19:40 > 0:19:45- I hate this.- Take it off.- Yeah. He better not pick this dress.
0:19:46 > 0:19:47No more lace?
0:19:47 > 0:19:50Oh, my God cos he knows I love lace. That gets me nervous.
0:19:50 > 0:19:52I think that's the least of your worries.
0:19:52 > 0:19:56Bend down a little bit for me. No, the other way. Squat down.
0:19:56 > 0:19:59OK, there we go. There's your bride.
0:19:59 > 0:20:02I think this...
0:20:04 > 0:20:05Oh my!
0:20:05 > 0:20:08'He was so cute. I just wanted...'
0:20:08 > 0:20:09to grab his cheeks.
0:20:09 > 0:20:11Wow.
0:20:11 > 0:20:14That's hot. I like it, but not for Paola.
0:20:14 > 0:20:16Too much of this going on.
0:20:16 > 0:20:18Wow, Jorge. Not only has Joe been to Iraq,
0:20:18 > 0:20:20he can't keep his hands off your rack.
0:20:20 > 0:20:24I'm never coming dress shopping with you again.
0:20:24 > 0:20:25Oh!
0:20:25 > 0:20:27I really like this.
0:20:27 > 0:20:30It's pretty. It's very pretty.
0:20:30 > 0:20:33See, this one made me want to cry.
0:20:33 > 0:20:35Debbie, I am crying.
0:20:36 > 0:20:40'Oh, my God, that is my dress because I cried like a child.'
0:20:40 > 0:20:43I had no idea. I couldn't even talk.
0:20:46 > 0:20:49Do you want a tissue?
0:20:49 > 0:20:52Do you think he'll pick something like this?
0:20:52 > 0:20:54Channel it to him.
0:20:54 > 0:20:55Tell Joe.
0:20:58 > 0:21:00Oh, my gosh. I wish he could read minds.
0:21:00 > 0:21:02At this point, Paola,
0:21:02 > 0:21:05Joe wishes he could read minds too.
0:21:05 > 0:21:09He's looking at a lace dress just like the one you hated.
0:21:09 > 0:21:11All right, what do you think?
0:21:11 > 0:21:13I like it. I think it's beautiful.
0:21:13 > 0:21:15So, if you can picture that...
0:21:17 > 0:21:20It hadn't hit me until right now that I'm going to be married.
0:21:20 > 0:21:23- Oh, wow!- When I saw her in this full outfit...
0:21:23 > 0:21:25It's overwhelming.
0:21:25 > 0:21:26I like that.
0:21:26 > 0:21:28I think that's beautiful.
0:21:28 > 0:21:29I'm going to go with that.
0:21:29 > 0:21:32I honesty think Paola's going to love the dress.
0:21:32 > 0:21:35I know she likes lace, I think it's a beautiful dress
0:21:35 > 0:21:37and she's definitely going to love it.
0:21:40 > 0:21:44Having purchased the dress, the boys' next target is conquer the cake.
0:21:44 > 0:21:47There's some books right here you can look through.
0:21:47 > 0:21:52And you want the cake to have the colour of your theme or whatever.
0:21:52 > 0:21:55- Does it have to? - I think it would look nice.
0:21:55 > 0:21:56I think so.
0:21:56 > 0:21:59'I am a little bit worried about designing the cake without the colour scheme.'
0:21:59 > 0:22:02If he has all kinds of colour, it'll look tacky.
0:22:02 > 0:22:03I really don't want that.
0:22:03 > 0:22:07- I also have some samples... - Wow. This is a lot.
0:22:09 > 0:22:11You've got to taste that.
0:22:11 > 0:22:12- Do you like the red velvet?- Yeah.
0:22:12 > 0:22:15Once it hits your tongue, it's really nice.
0:22:15 > 0:22:18Now, I did see in one of your books that you had...
0:22:18 > 0:22:21- It looked like tree vines or something coming up.- Oh, yeah.
0:22:21 > 0:22:23- I like that. - Yeah, that's nice too.
0:22:23 > 0:22:25Cos I'm think of a theme, like earthy feel.
0:22:25 > 0:22:29Like a tree and it goes up and then it branches off to the top.
0:22:29 > 0:22:32- The tree of life. - The tree of life, exactly.
0:22:32 > 0:22:34See, she understands me.
0:22:34 > 0:22:36As far as the colour?
0:22:36 > 0:22:37You want to go white and then...
0:22:37 > 0:22:40Well, how about... can we do it blue
0:22:40 > 0:22:42cos it's like the sky behind the tree?
0:22:42 > 0:22:43What?! Blue?
0:22:43 > 0:22:48- If it's white...- I don't think that's going to go though. Those colours clash, don't you think?
0:22:50 > 0:22:53You all right? We're almost done.
0:22:53 > 0:22:54You don't look good.
0:22:54 > 0:22:57Can we talk about how much everything's going to come out to?
0:22:57 > 0:22:58Sure.
0:22:59 > 0:23:00Oh, man.
0:23:00 > 0:23:03Overwhelmed, Joe suddenly needs to leave.
0:23:05 > 0:23:07- Let me go check on him really quick...- Yeah.
0:23:07 > 0:23:08..and then we can finalise everything.
0:23:08 > 0:23:12Joe, you all right?
0:23:16 > 0:23:17BLEEP
0:23:22 > 0:23:24Want me to get you something?
0:23:26 > 0:23:27It's all this stress, dude.
0:23:29 > 0:23:34'I think Joe's stressing out. It's getting to him.
0:23:34 > 0:23:37'He's consistently thinking about what else we've got to get done.'
0:23:37 > 0:23:40This has to be done. He's worrying about that.
0:23:42 > 0:23:43- You ready?- Yeah, I'm good.
0:23:45 > 0:23:48Take a deep breath. Take a couple deep breaths.
0:23:48 > 0:23:50'I've never been stressed this much before.'
0:23:50 > 0:23:54I've seen and done a lot of things but this...
0:23:54 > 0:23:55it's been getting the best of me.
0:23:55 > 0:23:58I hate to admit it, but it has.
0:23:58 > 0:24:00- Can I tell you something, Boo Boo?- What?
0:24:00 > 0:24:03- Thank you for helping me, I appreciate it.- You're welcome.
0:24:03 > 0:24:05- Thank you.- Thank you. - Thank you so much.
0:24:05 > 0:24:09And I apologise about me having to get up and leave.
0:24:09 > 0:24:10That's OK, no problem.
0:24:10 > 0:24:13In spite of Joe's panic attack,
0:24:13 > 0:24:16the boys go to nail down flowers and tuxes,
0:24:16 > 0:24:18but find out they need something they don't have...
0:24:18 > 0:24:21We can make these up in any colour scheme you want.
0:24:21 > 0:24:22..common sense.
0:24:22 > 0:24:26You don't want awkward colours on your tables and the walls are blue.
0:24:26 > 0:24:29- Why not?- Because it doesn't go, it doesn't flow.
0:24:29 > 0:24:33It doesn't have to flow. I want stuff to pop out.
0:24:33 > 0:24:34You know what might pop out?
0:24:34 > 0:24:37Paola's eyes when she sees what you're doing.
0:24:37 > 0:24:39I don't want the colours to fight the venue.
0:24:39 > 0:24:41I don't love the bright oranges and yellows.
0:24:41 > 0:24:44I just don't want it to be all over the place.
0:24:44 > 0:24:47- Here I have like an orange with a yellow tip.- Oh, that's nice.
0:24:47 > 0:24:49I don't know what's going on in his mind.
0:24:49 > 0:24:50He's just winging it.
0:24:50 > 0:24:53Next stop on the wing it express,
0:24:53 > 0:24:56Joe meets his groomsmen to pick out tuxes.
0:24:56 > 0:24:58You want suits, you said?
0:24:58 > 0:25:03- Any particular colour you guys would like to look at?- Oh, Joe.
0:25:03 > 0:25:07What's hard is the fact that we don't have the bridesmaids' colours.
0:25:07 > 0:25:10Do you have a colour in mind for their dresses?
0:25:10 > 0:25:12I'm thinking anywhere from like...
0:25:14 > 0:25:16I, I really don't know.
0:25:16 > 0:25:19C'mon dude, you have to know.
0:25:19 > 0:25:22And we have a tan coloured suit and black.
0:25:22 > 0:25:24- Do you have pink?- What?!
0:25:28 > 0:25:30How do I look? How do we look?
0:25:30 > 0:25:32You look like a huge pumpkin.
0:25:34 > 0:25:37Final touch.
0:25:37 > 0:25:38I like it.
0:25:38 > 0:25:42Say it isn't so, Joe, say it isn't so.
0:25:42 > 0:25:45- Come on. - You've got 31 flavours here.
0:25:46 > 0:25:49You know what, I love it but Paola would kill me.
0:25:49 > 0:25:52I think I'm going to go with the black.
0:25:52 > 0:25:57'I'm envisioning, I think any colour but black for a tux or a suit.'
0:25:57 > 0:25:59I don't want black.
0:25:59 > 0:26:01Poor Joe, he just can't win.
0:26:04 > 0:26:07Ex-marine Joe lets days slip by before he musters the strength
0:26:07 > 0:26:11to storm his next beach, deciding on the bridesmaids' dresses.
0:26:12 > 0:26:16I definitely have to tackle this like it's a mission
0:26:16 > 0:26:18and I have to accomplish the mission.
0:26:18 > 0:26:22- Have you been stressed? Because you look thinner.- Really?- Yeah.
0:26:22 > 0:26:25- Yeah, it's crazy.- Really? - It's not easy.
0:26:25 > 0:26:28With the wedding a week away, Joe still hasn't settled
0:26:28 > 0:26:32on a colour scheme and now he's paying the price.
0:26:32 > 0:26:33A week away from the wedding
0:26:33 > 0:26:37and he didn't seem like he had an idea what colours.
0:26:37 > 0:26:42He was choosing reds, greens, yellows. So, it's just really scary.
0:26:46 > 0:26:49I think it looks great. You'll have a fun time at the prom.
0:26:51 > 0:26:53I'm going to go back and look for some more. That was pretty bad.
0:26:53 > 0:26:57- I need Jorge.- Awww.
0:26:57 > 0:26:59I feel like today's going to be a long day.
0:26:59 > 0:27:04Should I be scared because you're not coming out?
0:27:04 > 0:27:06I like this.
0:27:06 > 0:27:11- Like that? That short? What is it, a hoochie wedding?- OK, next.
0:27:13 > 0:27:16I feel like a highlighter.
0:27:16 > 0:27:19I like that one. I like the design.
0:27:19 > 0:27:21- Of the flowers? - The flowers and stuff.
0:27:21 > 0:27:24You know, Paola's all like, earthy and like.
0:27:24 > 0:27:26How can you be earthy in black?
0:27:27 > 0:27:28This can be shortened.
0:27:28 > 0:27:31Wait, you want to show legs with this dress?
0:27:33 > 0:27:36- Make it so I can see the waist. - Are you serious?
0:27:36 > 0:27:38Dresses aren't supposed to be like this.
0:27:38 > 0:27:40A little tail there.
0:27:41 > 0:27:45Since Paola does like that whole earthy feel and stuff like that,
0:27:45 > 0:27:47I'm not too bad with the green one.
0:27:47 > 0:27:50I think Joe's idea of earthy
0:27:50 > 0:27:54compared to Paola's idea of earthy is a little bit different.
0:27:54 > 0:27:56A dark green is not earthy.
0:27:56 > 0:27:59I'm scared of the colours he's going to pick for the wedding.
0:27:59 > 0:28:02I don't love the bright greens and yellows.
0:28:02 > 0:28:05That's definitely what I don't want to happen.
0:28:05 > 0:28:07I think the green would work, to be honest.
0:28:07 > 0:28:10My whole colour scheme is definitely now going to be
0:28:10 > 0:28:13decided on the damn dresses I just got.
0:28:13 > 0:28:15I hope Paola doesn't hate me.
0:28:23 > 0:28:24David, how are you?
0:28:24 > 0:28:27- Hey, buddy good to see you. - You too, how are you?
0:28:27 > 0:28:28- Hi, I'm Jorge. - This is Jorge.
0:28:28 > 0:28:30This is my brother, Edmond.
0:28:30 > 0:28:31Nice to meet you guys.
0:28:31 > 0:28:34David, you know I came here and I got my engagement ring.
0:28:34 > 0:28:36Yes, yes, I remember.
0:28:36 > 0:28:38So it's time to get the wedding band.
0:28:38 > 0:28:40- Have a seat, please. - Thank you, buddy.
0:28:40 > 0:28:44I kind of remember it was something like this.
0:28:44 > 0:28:46This one right here.
0:28:46 > 0:28:49Let me see. Yeah, that's beautiful.
0:28:50 > 0:28:52Put it on, let's see how it looks on you.
0:28:54 > 0:28:58- Does that look good on me, David? - Maybe on the pinky.
0:28:58 > 0:29:01- You know what, David?- Yeah. - This is it.
0:29:01 > 0:29:04- Definitely.- What do you think about the men's ring.
0:29:05 > 0:29:11Um, for the men's, from what I recall it had two different...
0:29:11 > 0:29:14I think it was like gold and tungsten.
0:29:14 > 0:29:16Um, the only one I have...
0:29:17 > 0:29:19And I know it was your design.
0:29:19 > 0:29:22This definitely, this should be the one.
0:29:24 > 0:29:26Oh yeah, that's perfect.
0:29:29 > 0:29:33Look at that, perfect fit. It's meant to be.
0:29:33 > 0:29:37- Do you like it, boys?- It's cute. - This is what it is, my friend.
0:29:37 > 0:29:41- Excellent, so let me tell you how much it will cost.- OK.
0:29:41 > 0:29:42Just a second, please.
0:29:42 > 0:29:44- Just on this.- Just on this?
0:29:44 > 0:29:47Hopefully, you get this right, you had everything else right.
0:29:47 > 0:29:49Have you thought about that?
0:29:49 > 0:29:51Of course you're putting doubt in my head. Jerk.
0:29:53 > 0:29:56Don't worry about it. They can blame both of us.
0:29:56 > 0:29:57- Blame Edmond.- Or blame Edmond.
0:29:57 > 0:29:58It's all decided.
0:29:58 > 0:30:02So this is the price, it's going to be 2,900...
0:30:02 > 0:30:052,392, that's including tax.
0:30:05 > 0:30:09That's perfect, that's under budget. That works out perfect, my friend.
0:30:09 > 0:30:13- I love it.- Let me put it, prepare everything.- Thank you.
0:30:13 > 0:30:18- That was good. Yeah, under budget. - Just buy me a gift.
0:30:18 > 0:30:19What am I going to buy you?
0:30:19 > 0:30:23Nipple ring or something?
0:30:24 > 0:30:29That's beautiful. That's gorgeous. She's going love it.
0:30:32 > 0:30:35David, once again, my friend, thank you so much.
0:30:35 > 0:30:38- Always a pleasure. - Take care, bye bye.
0:30:42 > 0:30:44You got something done today.
0:30:45 > 0:30:48It's just days before the wedding and finally,
0:30:48 > 0:30:50the night Jorge has been waiting for.
0:30:50 > 0:30:52Are you ready?
0:30:52 > 0:30:53The bachelor party.
0:30:53 > 0:30:55We'll keep it clean.
0:31:04 > 0:31:08What bachelor party? There's no bachelor party happening here.
0:31:09 > 0:31:12Forget the worries, the stress, forget the problems.
0:31:15 > 0:31:17- Are you not having a good time? - I'm having a good time.
0:31:17 > 0:31:18At this point in time.
0:31:21 > 0:31:24Just so it's known...
0:31:24 > 0:31:25Can we go downstairs?
0:31:25 > 0:31:29No, I was totally against this, but it's helping me loosen up.
0:31:31 > 0:31:34The next day is Paola's turn
0:31:34 > 0:31:37and she's excited to see what Joe's prepared for her.
0:31:37 > 0:31:39Bachelorette party.
0:31:39 > 0:31:43I'm very nervous about Joe having to plan my bachelorette party.
0:31:43 > 0:31:46We've always talked with the girls. We were going to go all out.
0:31:46 > 0:31:50We love dancing, so Vegas would be perfect for us.
0:31:53 > 0:31:54What do you want to drink?
0:31:54 > 0:31:59Whatever. That's my drink. Sweet tea, vodka and lemonade.
0:31:59 > 0:32:03- Did he buy lemonade? - He didn't buy lemonade?
0:32:03 > 0:32:07You see, that makes me nervous. They forget little things.
0:32:07 > 0:32:11- I don't know why they got this. Birthday girl.- Miss Birthday?
0:32:11 > 0:32:14They were probably drunk when they got it.
0:32:14 > 0:32:17These are the things that get me nervous. Not paying attention.
0:32:17 > 0:32:19"There's a sash, let's grab it."
0:32:19 > 0:32:22He needs to be paying attention to all the details.
0:32:22 > 0:32:25Do you even think they had a bachelor party?
0:32:25 > 0:32:26They probably blew their budget.
0:32:26 > 0:32:29They were like, we're planning her whole wedding,
0:32:29 > 0:32:31we'll blow the budget on the bachelor party.
0:32:31 > 0:32:33We've been so stressed, we've been losing sleep.
0:32:33 > 0:32:36This is the least we could do for ourselves.
0:32:42 > 0:32:45I don't know what they were thinking.
0:32:46 > 0:32:50The party overall sucked and it just seems like Paula hated it.
0:32:53 > 0:32:55Don't cry.
0:32:55 > 0:33:02Drink your drink. You don't want to drink? Do you want to leave?
0:33:02 > 0:33:04Do you want to go?
0:33:07 > 0:33:11It was so blah.
0:33:11 > 0:33:15I'd rather be home with my dog.
0:33:15 > 0:33:17'Paola means the world to me.'
0:33:17 > 0:33:22To be honest, if Paola ever left me, I think my world would crumble.
0:33:23 > 0:33:25I'm just feeling frustrated
0:33:25 > 0:33:30and I'm just ready for all of this to be over and done with.
0:33:36 > 0:33:38The wedding is only three days away
0:33:38 > 0:33:41and Joe has been making all the wrong choices.
0:33:41 > 0:33:43He chose a hotel for a venue
0:33:43 > 0:33:45and planned a disastrous bachelorette party.
0:33:45 > 0:33:49- Can he redeem himself with the dress?- My stomach is in knots.
0:33:49 > 0:33:52It's been in knots every day this past week,
0:33:52 > 0:33:54so I'm excited to finally get to see the dress
0:33:54 > 0:33:56I'm going to be wearing.
0:33:56 > 0:33:59- Are you guys ready?- Yes.
0:33:59 > 0:34:02All right.
0:34:02 > 0:34:04Wow.
0:34:04 > 0:34:10What do you guys think? I love the neckline.
0:34:10 > 0:34:12- I was nervous.- Turn around.
0:34:12 > 0:34:16- I love it.- That's gorgeous.
0:34:16 > 0:34:20- How do you feel in it?- I think it's romantic. I wanted lace.
0:34:20 > 0:34:22It's lace. A lot of it.
0:34:22 > 0:34:25Paola's fallen in love with lace again
0:34:25 > 0:34:29and it looks like finally Joe's luck is starting to change.
0:34:29 > 0:34:34I love the back. I love the deep neckline.
0:34:34 > 0:34:38Oh, my God, this is my wedding dress. I love it. You're crying.
0:34:38 > 0:34:43I know, it's perfect. It is so you.
0:34:43 > 0:34:47Here's the veil that he purchased.
0:34:47 > 0:34:49In three days...
0:34:51 > 0:34:52Oh, my God.
0:34:52 > 0:34:58- It's so pretty. It totally goes with the dress.- It does.
0:34:58 > 0:35:01Wow, I love it.
0:35:01 > 0:35:04I'm so happy, so relieved.
0:35:04 > 0:35:10- Just so you know, he customised the whole top.- He did? Wow.
0:35:10 > 0:35:11What did it look like before?
0:35:11 > 0:35:15The sleeves were down to here and it was closed in over here,
0:35:15 > 0:35:17so he customised the whole dress.
0:35:18 > 0:35:24Really? Joe? I am impressed with him.
0:35:24 > 0:35:26I love my wedding dress.
0:35:26 > 0:35:32It's perfect and Joe customised the neckline and the back
0:35:32 > 0:35:37and that just made me cry because he had a vision and he had me in mind.
0:35:37 > 0:35:40Thank you so much. I'm so relieved.
0:35:40 > 0:35:41I know what I'm wearing
0:35:41 > 0:35:44and I know he's going to be at the end of the aisle, so, I feel good.
0:35:46 > 0:35:48It's the day before the wedding
0:35:48 > 0:35:51and the boys are seeing the venue again for the first time.
0:35:54 > 0:35:57- I thought it was blue in here for some reason?- Really?
0:35:57 > 0:36:01- I thought it had some blue in it.- I think I remember it being blue too.
0:36:01 > 0:36:04But um, yeah.
0:36:04 > 0:36:07It's a whole lot bigger than what I remember it being.
0:36:10 > 0:36:13That's what happens when you leave things to the last minute, Joe,
0:36:13 > 0:36:15nasty surprises.
0:36:15 > 0:36:19A hotel is not what I envision. I want to be outdoors.
0:36:19 > 0:36:21You know, with the elements.
0:36:21 > 0:36:24What if I wanted to add some trees or lights,
0:36:24 > 0:36:26- am I able to do something. - Absolutely.
0:36:26 > 0:36:29I'm going to see if I can find a few things to make it...
0:36:29 > 0:36:32add a little extra touch, you know, try to bring the outside inside.
0:36:32 > 0:36:35I was totally against themes, but now I guess I'm all for it.
0:36:35 > 0:36:38- I'll make it look good. - Hope springs eternal.
0:36:40 > 0:36:45Desperate to make the hotel ballroom look like less of a hotel ballroom,
0:36:45 > 0:36:47the boys visit a shrubbery.
0:36:47 > 0:36:51Basically the whole feel of the wedding is an earthy type thing.
0:36:51 > 0:36:54I'm looking for some trees.
0:36:54 > 0:36:57- It's an outside wedding but we're going inside after.- Perfect.
0:36:57 > 0:36:59That ballroom is a little bit boring.
0:36:59 > 0:37:02I'm trying to envision what Paola would want
0:37:02 > 0:37:04and I think I kind of have an idea.
0:37:04 > 0:37:07You know, I'm thinking of like an outside garden.
0:37:07 > 0:37:09An outside garden? Those would be uh...
0:37:09 > 0:37:12- I like that. Those are cool, they're all right.- They're nice.
0:37:12 > 0:37:15If I could pick a few stuff, I can make it look good.
0:37:15 > 0:37:19- Bring the outside, inside. - What are your colours, by the way?
0:37:19 > 0:37:22- It's the million dollar question. - Green and yellow.
0:37:22 > 0:37:25- Green and yellow, did you pick those. - Just happened to fall in his lap.
0:37:25 > 0:37:30Finally, the day before the wedding and Joe's got a colour scheme.
0:37:32 > 0:37:34With one day left, Joe and George realise
0:37:34 > 0:37:36they don't have enough flowers to decorate the venue,
0:37:36 > 0:37:41so try to make more decorations that won't disappoint Paola.
0:37:41 > 0:37:45I'm a little tired, I'm a little stressed, I'm a little worried.
0:37:45 > 0:37:48There's a lot of things to go over that we haven't gone through yet.
0:37:48 > 0:37:50I have two write my vows.
0:37:50 > 0:37:53One day before your wedding and you still haven't written your vows?
0:37:53 > 0:37:56- No.- It's crunch time and the boys are working hard...
0:37:56 > 0:38:00I'm having a hard time and I can't get a hold of the cake.
0:38:00 > 0:38:02..sort of.
0:38:02 > 0:38:03What are you doing right now?
0:38:03 > 0:38:06I'm making phone calls and writing my vows.
0:38:14 > 0:38:16Finally, the wedding day arrives
0:38:16 > 0:38:20and hair and make-up are in full swing for Paola and her bridesmaids.
0:38:22 > 0:38:26Jenny, you made it! Oh, my God, how are you?
0:38:26 > 0:38:29We have our last bridesmaid.
0:38:31 > 0:38:34Meanwhile, Joe is trying to transfer the reception ballroom
0:38:34 > 0:38:37into what looks like... an underwater disco.
0:38:37 > 0:38:40Five hours till I get married.
0:38:40 > 0:38:42I wasn't nervous until I thought about that.
0:38:42 > 0:38:46It's definitely crunch time. A lot to do, so I hope it works out.
0:38:46 > 0:38:49I don't know how you guys feel about the colour.
0:38:49 > 0:38:54- It's a little St Patrick's Day, but we'll make it work.- It's short.
0:38:54 > 0:38:59- What the hell?- NO!- It is so short.
0:38:59 > 0:39:01- I might use yours.- Hold on.
0:39:04 > 0:39:07- Try them on.- OK.
0:39:07 > 0:39:09You know my ass is going to hang out of this dress, right?
0:39:09 > 0:39:12Just try them on and we'll figure it out.
0:39:14 > 0:39:15Where are the girls?
0:39:15 > 0:39:18Paola, what you don't know can't hurt you.
0:39:18 > 0:39:21You can't see my Spanx, can you?
0:39:21 > 0:39:25The back of my dress, if I sit, you're going to see everything.
0:39:25 > 0:39:27- I'm not even joking. - I can't walk in this thing.
0:39:27 > 0:39:29I'm going to go call Joe and see what's up.
0:39:29 > 0:39:33We just have to make sure we don't tell Paola.
0:39:35 > 0:39:43- Joe.- The dresses don't fit. You're kidding me? - They're like super-short.
0:39:43 > 0:39:47Jenny's looks like her butt is about to hang out.
0:39:47 > 0:39:50Is there anything we can do?
0:39:51 > 0:39:54I don't know. I really don't know.
0:39:55 > 0:39:57Let me call Rose and see what happens.
0:39:57 > 0:39:59All right, give me a call back then.
0:39:59 > 0:40:01OK, Joe, you call the seamstress
0:40:01 > 0:40:04and arrange for her to come pick up the dresses.
0:40:04 > 0:40:07Debbie, your mission, don't tell Paola.
0:40:07 > 0:40:10I don't want her to find out, I don't want her to panic,
0:40:10 > 0:40:13I don't want her to worry because I don't want to ruin her day.
0:40:13 > 0:40:14Back at the London,
0:40:14 > 0:40:18the boys are working frantically to add the final touches to the space.
0:40:22 > 0:40:24Hi.
0:40:24 > 0:40:26The seamstress, Irma, arrives at 1pm,
0:40:26 > 0:40:294 1/2 hours before the wedding begins.
0:40:29 > 0:40:34Irma just walked in. She took all my bridesmaids in my bedroom.
0:40:34 > 0:40:37It's been a secret huddle in there the whole day.
0:40:37 > 0:40:40OK, ladies, I'm going to get out of here, so I can get started.
0:40:40 > 0:40:43Irma will bring the dresses back at 3:30
0:40:43 > 0:40:44but that leaves no room for error
0:40:44 > 0:40:47because a car is picking everyone up at 4pm.
0:40:47 > 0:40:50Good, see you in a couple of hours.
0:40:50 > 0:40:53Now they wait and hope Irma gets back in time.
0:40:53 > 0:40:56Are you going to get dressed soon? I want to see you in your dress.
0:40:56 > 0:40:58I want to see your dress.
0:40:58 > 0:41:02I have no idea what colour you guys are wearing.
0:41:04 > 0:41:06I wonder what the boys are doing.
0:41:06 > 0:41:11They're apparently getting close to nature.
0:41:11 > 0:41:13We've got three hours left.
0:41:14 > 0:41:16I'm not scared. Are you scared?
0:41:16 > 0:41:18This number is not available.
0:41:18 > 0:41:20Please record a message.
0:41:20 > 0:41:23The wedding starts in 2 1/2 hours, We don't have bridesmaid dresses,
0:41:23 > 0:41:25so I'm a little anxious
0:41:25 > 0:41:28because we're really cutting time and I can't get a hold of her.
0:41:29 > 0:41:34Just 90 minutes before the wedding, Paola gets into her dress.
0:41:34 > 0:41:40I introduce to you guys, the future Mrs Garcia.
0:41:40 > 0:41:45Dum dum ta da.
0:41:45 > 0:41:47Oh, my God.
0:41:47 > 0:41:49Paola, so beautiful.
0:41:49 > 0:41:52- Isn't it fabulous?- I'm ready.
0:41:52 > 0:41:54I want you guys to get ready.
0:41:55 > 0:42:00It's 4:11, the transportation is outside.
0:42:00 > 0:42:02The wedding's not going to go on until the bride's there
0:42:02 > 0:42:04so chill, Paola.
0:42:04 > 0:42:07- We're waiting for the dresses. - Don't worry about it.- It's fine.
0:42:07 > 0:42:10I don't know if I should be worried right now again.
0:42:10 > 0:42:13I'm ready to go but the girls don't have dresses
0:42:13 > 0:42:14so they can't get ready.
0:42:14 > 0:42:18My nerves are working right now.
0:42:18 > 0:42:19Are those the dresses?
0:42:21 > 0:42:25Hi. Yay, thank you.
0:42:25 > 0:42:2845 minutes before the wedding is scheduled to start,
0:42:28 > 0:42:33the bridesmaids finally get their dresses, but will Paola like them?
0:42:35 > 0:42:37You're such a tease.
0:42:40 > 0:42:46Wow, you guys look beautiful.
0:42:46 > 0:42:48I love it.
0:42:54 > 0:42:58- Do you guys feel like it's real? - No.
0:42:58 > 0:43:00I'm getting married.
0:43:00 > 0:43:04It's crazy. It's finally here.
0:43:04 > 0:43:09I see my mum, my dad, Paola's family, this is amazing.
0:43:09 > 0:43:15We're in Hollywood. So, I'm assuming it's a hotel.
0:43:17 > 0:43:20I hope Paola's going to like it. How can you not love it?
0:43:20 > 0:43:23Look at that, it's beautiful, I love it. I'm really excited.
0:43:23 > 0:43:25She's going to love it.
0:43:25 > 0:43:30Where are we going? That's a hotel here, that's for sure.
0:43:34 > 0:43:36Your dad looks adorable.
0:43:36 > 0:43:38He looks beautiful.
0:43:44 > 0:43:48Congratulations, Paola, your dream day is about to begin.
0:44:01 > 0:44:04She knows I love her and she knows I'll do anything for her.
0:44:04 > 0:44:08But there's many times when I don't prove it or show it.
0:44:08 > 0:44:13I want this to be a very special day for me and especially for her.
0:44:13 > 0:44:14Here she comes.
0:44:37 > 0:44:40Love is the reason we're here this day.
0:44:40 > 0:44:46In marriage, Joel and Paola, you're not only saying, "I love you today,"
0:44:46 > 0:44:51but also, "I promise to love you for all of your tomorrows."
0:44:51 > 0:44:53Since I first laid eyes on you,
0:44:53 > 0:44:56I knew my life would forever be changed.
0:44:56 > 0:44:59You stand here beside me ready to become my wife.
0:44:59 > 0:45:02For that, I give you my body, my heart and my soul.
0:45:04 > 0:45:08I love you for loving me and I love you for letting me love you.
0:45:12 > 0:45:15In life, I learned that love is a series of choices.
0:45:16 > 0:45:19And today, I vow to always choose you.
0:45:20 > 0:45:25I also vow to try as hard as I can to make you feel as special
0:45:25 > 0:45:28as you make me feel, forever and ever.
0:45:28 > 0:45:31- I love you.- I love you too.
0:45:31 > 0:45:36Joe, do you take Paola to be your lawful and legally wedded wife?
0:45:36 > 0:45:37I do.
0:45:37 > 0:45:43Paola, do you take Joe to be your lawful and legally wedded husband?
0:45:43 > 0:45:45I do.
0:45:45 > 0:45:47With this ring...
0:45:47 > 0:45:48I thee wed.
0:45:50 > 0:45:54It is with great joy that I announce and declare you, husband and wife.
0:45:54 > 0:45:56Joe, kiss your bride.
0:45:59 > 0:46:02For the first time, as husband and wife,
0:46:02 > 0:46:04Mr and Mrs Joe and Paola Garcia.
0:46:16 > 0:46:18We got bubbles.
0:46:23 > 0:46:26I've missed you so much.
0:46:26 > 0:46:28It is my dream wedding.
0:46:28 > 0:46:32I was so happy to finally see Joe. I think it's amazing.
0:46:32 > 0:46:36But the biggest surprise is yet to come,
0:46:36 > 0:46:38when Joe shows Paola the reception hall.
0:46:42 > 0:46:48Joe and Jorge did an amazing job. This place is gorgeous.
0:46:48 > 0:46:51He brought the outside in. I couldn't ask for more.
0:46:51 > 0:46:52Look at our cake.
0:46:52 > 0:46:55Oh, my God, it's a tree.
0:47:02 > 0:47:06With the hotel, I thought it would be too stuffy and feel too formal
0:47:06 > 0:47:07but this is perfect.
0:47:07 > 0:47:11With this sunflowers and all the trees and the twinkling lights,
0:47:11 > 0:47:14I totally see myself in here.
0:47:14 > 0:47:18I have one more thing to show you. What? Did you get a tattoo?
0:47:22 > 0:47:24- You got the turtle. - What does it mean?
0:47:26 > 0:47:30It's just us in Hawaii and the full moon.
0:47:30 > 0:47:32- You did it all?- It's for you.
0:47:36 > 0:47:37Jorge is...
0:47:38 > 0:47:42- Good wing man?- Jorge is family. He's not a wing man.
0:47:42 > 0:47:44Jorge is family.
0:47:44 > 0:47:46I'm really glad this is over. I am done.
0:47:46 > 0:47:48No more wedding planning for me.
0:47:48 > 0:47:54I love the fact that you loved it and you mean the world to me.
0:47:54 > 0:47:55All the hard work,
0:47:55 > 0:48:00all the effort that I put into this, really meant something.
0:48:00 > 0:48:02Just seeing you walk down the aisle,
0:48:02 > 0:48:04it was the happiest moment of my life.
0:48:04 > 0:48:08It was a hard, hard three weeks, but it was worth it.
0:48:08 > 0:48:09I'm very grateful.
0:48:09 > 0:48:10I am too.
0:48:10 > 0:48:14I can't wait till tonight when I get you all to myself.
0:48:14 > 0:48:16Oh (BLEEP).
0:48:16 > 0:48:17That's all I got to say.