0:00:02 > 0:00:04Catherine and Richard are madly in love.
0:00:04 > 0:00:08They've been engaged for three years, but can't afford to marry.
0:00:08 > 0:00:11All the savings that we had went into the house.
0:00:11 > 0:00:15And Catherine's dream wedding doesn't come cheap.
0:00:15 > 0:00:18I've been thinking about my wedding since I was about five years old.
0:00:18 > 0:00:20I love that!
0:00:20 > 0:00:24So, we're giving them £12,000 towards their big day,
0:00:24 > 0:00:28and a chance for Richard to prove himself to the woman he loves.
0:00:28 > 0:00:30Oh, God!
0:00:30 > 0:00:33But there's a catch...
0:00:33 > 0:00:38They've agreed, in the presence of a lawyer, that Richard will organise the wedding alone.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40They'll have absolutely no contact,
0:00:40 > 0:00:44and the bride won't know a single thing about her wedding
0:00:44 > 0:00:46until the big day in three weeks' time.
0:00:46 > 0:00:48Only she knows what perfect is.
0:00:48 > 0:00:51Can Richard live up to Catherine's great expectations?
0:00:51 > 0:00:54I do want a traditional Scottish wedding with kilts.
0:00:54 > 0:00:58Or will best man Phil lead him astray?
0:00:58 > 0:01:03I'm gonna be drinking till 4 o'clock tomorrow morning, then we're gonna go and see this minister.
0:01:03 > 0:01:06Will his bride fall apart before she even makes it up the aisle?
0:01:06 > 0:01:09Why can't I just have one thing that I really want?
0:01:09 > 0:01:13Can this man give this woman a day she'll never forget?
0:01:13 > 0:01:16I only wanna do this once, and it's got to be big.
0:01:27 > 0:01:33Today, Catherine is moving out of the home she shares with Richard in Birmingham.
0:01:33 > 0:01:36Catherine's heritage is very different from her fiance's.
0:01:36 > 0:01:39She's from Scotland, while Richard is a Londoner
0:01:39 > 0:01:44whose father came over from Guyana, on the Caribbean coast of South America.
0:01:44 > 0:01:49I guess I must inherit that from my dad, my relaxed kind of attitude to life.
0:01:49 > 0:01:50That laid back lifestyle.
0:01:50 > 0:01:55But there's nothing laid back about the girl he first met as a student.
0:01:55 > 0:01:57- You asked me out.- OK.
0:01:57 > 0:01:59It was a long time ago!
0:01:59 > 0:02:01What do you mean, "OK"?
0:02:01 > 0:02:02Yeah, you did.
0:02:02 > 0:02:06While Richard has to be organised in his job as a project manager,
0:02:06 > 0:02:08at home it's Catherine who calls the shots.
0:02:08 > 0:02:11I'm the boss in the relationship.
0:02:11 > 0:02:14- I am, amn't I?- I was going to jump in and say "I am."
0:02:14 > 0:02:17No, I'm the one that makes all the decisions.
0:02:17 > 0:02:22I've control of the finances, anything that happens, I usually decide on.
0:02:22 > 0:02:23Mind your feet.
0:02:23 > 0:02:26It's not just the finances she likes to be in control of.
0:02:26 > 0:02:31I don't like things not in the right place. Everything needs to be where it needs to be.
0:02:31 > 0:02:33If it's not, I get a bit agitated.
0:02:33 > 0:02:37But now, perfectionist Catherine will be letting laid back Richard
0:02:37 > 0:02:39organise the biggest day of her life.
0:02:39 > 0:02:42My dream wedding, I'd get married in a castle.
0:02:42 > 0:02:44Definitely it would be in Scotland.
0:02:44 > 0:02:48There would definitely be kilts.
0:02:48 > 0:02:51The wedding day is massively important to me,
0:02:51 > 0:02:55it has to be perfect and I can't quite believe that I'm letting him organise it.
0:02:58 > 0:03:01If Richard get this wrong, his life will not be worth living.
0:03:02 > 0:03:06Before she leaves, Catherine has got some last-minute advice for her man.
0:03:06 > 0:03:10Don't think I'm not here, so you the one making all the decisions,
0:03:10 > 0:03:13so you just make decisions that you'd want, or you think.
0:03:13 > 0:03:16It's a wedding day, so you should think about what I'd like.
0:03:16 > 0:03:19You're supposed to be trying to please me, and make me happy,
0:03:19 > 0:03:22so you should be thinking about what do you think I'd want.
0:03:22 > 0:03:25Should we not try and make it a special day for both of us?
0:03:25 > 0:03:29You're doing this to please me, so you should make sure that I'm happy.
0:03:29 > 0:03:31And if I'm happy, you're happy. That's how it works.
0:03:33 > 0:03:36That's cleared that up, then.
0:03:36 > 0:03:38I've got a little bit more.
0:03:38 > 0:03:43Catherine is going to be staying with chief bridesmaid, Felicity.
0:03:43 > 0:03:46You're only going for three weeks, love, not three years!
0:03:48 > 0:03:51- I'm going to miss you. - I'll miss you too.
0:03:51 > 0:03:54It'll be OK though, short stuff.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56Don't call me short!
0:03:56 > 0:04:00- It's all right, don't worry. - I'm going to miss you.
0:04:00 > 0:04:02You'll be fine though.
0:04:02 > 0:04:04I know.
0:04:10 > 0:04:13The next time she sees Richard will be at the altar.
0:04:15 > 0:04:20He's on his own now, with Catherine's future happiness in his hands.
0:04:28 > 0:04:30Fortunately, help is at hand.
0:04:30 > 0:04:36Brother Matthew and best mate Phil arrive, to help him mastermind the big day.
0:04:36 > 0:04:38Hey! Good to see you.
0:04:38 > 0:04:43Although Phil has been Richard's best friend since childhood, not everyone is a fan.
0:04:43 > 0:04:44Hey, bruv, good to see you too.
0:04:44 > 0:04:49I don't think that Phil has a great deal of style or class about him.
0:04:49 > 0:04:51Where do we start?
0:04:51 > 0:04:53Beer.
0:04:53 > 0:04:58They'll forget what they're supposed to be doing and go out drinking and be hung over.
0:04:58 > 0:05:00I've got more inspiration when I'm pissed.
0:05:00 > 0:05:04I'm really not sure that I'm going to get the wedding I'm hoping for.
0:05:06 > 0:05:11At Felicity's house, Catherine is just starting to realise the implications
0:05:11 > 0:05:13of letting the boys organise her wedding.
0:05:13 > 0:05:18I know that I won't get all the little detailed things that I'd want.
0:05:18 > 0:05:20I kind of know that I won't get that.
0:05:20 > 0:05:27Even things like, I realised that Richard wouldn't know that you get a guest book at a wedding.
0:05:27 > 0:05:28So, I probably won't get one.
0:05:30 > 0:05:32San Miguel...
0:05:32 > 0:05:36There's more space than that in the fridge, definitely.
0:05:39 > 0:05:41Let's get out.
0:05:43 > 0:05:46Cheers, thank you. See you later.
0:05:49 > 0:05:52Do guys know that you get favours at weddings?
0:05:54 > 0:05:55Let's start a little conveyor belt.
0:05:55 > 0:05:57To you.
0:05:57 > 0:05:58To me.
0:06:00 > 0:06:02Looks quite good, if you ask me.
0:06:06 > 0:06:07Phase one, complete.
0:06:09 > 0:06:12Phase two is, finally, a little bit of wedding planning.
0:06:14 > 0:06:17Perhaps it's just the name, but little brother Matthew
0:06:17 > 0:06:20thinks he's already found the perfect wedding venue.
0:06:20 > 0:06:22What's that?
0:06:22 > 0:06:23Matthew's Manor.
0:06:23 > 0:06:27I'm not getting married in Matthew's Manor! Where is it?
0:06:27 > 0:06:32- It's in Birmingham, but it's actually really nice.- Turn it round?- Look.
0:06:32 > 0:06:34There's one picture.
0:06:34 > 0:06:37- That's actually in Birmingham? - Look. Go back.
0:06:38 > 0:06:41Matthew, that's Birmingham, Alabama.
0:06:43 > 0:06:47- That's in America. - It did say Birmingham there, though!
0:06:47 > 0:06:48Crack on, Matt!
0:06:48 > 0:06:51I am, I promise you.
0:06:51 > 0:06:55Fortunately, Richard thinks he's found somewhere closer to home.
0:06:55 > 0:06:58What do you think of this place, Wroxall Abbey?
0:06:58 > 0:07:01That's going to be way too expensive, isn't it?
0:07:01 > 0:07:03They've wedding packages.
0:07:03 > 0:07:05£92.50 per person.
0:07:05 > 0:07:07That's quite expensive, isn't it?
0:07:07 > 0:07:10It may be costly, but is it even available?
0:07:10 > 0:07:16Good afternoon, I've just found your website on the internet and I'm interested in booking a wedding.
0:07:16 > 0:07:19I was wondering what availability you had over the next few weeks?
0:07:22 > 0:07:26The weekend of the 23rd?
0:07:26 > 0:07:27'Of May?'
0:07:27 > 0:07:30Of May, yes.
0:07:30 > 0:07:34I see. Would there be someone today, if we could have a look around?
0:07:34 > 0:07:36- 'No problem.'- Cheers. Bye.
0:07:36 > 0:07:41Unbelievable, they've got nothing they're all that weekend, on that Saturday.
0:07:41 > 0:07:44- There's nothing there all day. None of it is booked.- Smashed it.
0:07:44 > 0:07:46Smashed it?
0:07:46 > 0:07:49They haven't even seen it yet.
0:07:51 > 0:07:57Catherine's got no say in the wedding, but she knows exactly where she wants her reception to be.
0:07:57 > 0:07:59And it's in Scotland.
0:07:59 > 0:08:02She's taking her mum for a look around.
0:08:03 > 0:08:06Hi there, Catherine. Welcome to Cameron House.
0:08:06 > 0:08:08Let me show you both round.
0:08:08 > 0:08:10With its tartan settees...
0:08:10 > 0:08:14Stag heads, and tartan carpets.
0:08:14 > 0:08:17This is where the wedding breakfast is served.
0:08:17 > 0:08:19You know what this needs?
0:08:19 > 0:08:25I'd certainly be wanting some sort of ribbon in the centrepiece in tartan.
0:08:27 > 0:08:32I love that the tables are named after the different lochs, I really like that.
0:08:32 > 0:08:38It's made me realise that I do want a traditional Scottish wedding, with kilts, and that is what I want.
0:08:47 > 0:08:51Unfortunately, there aren't many Scottish castles near Birmingham.
0:08:52 > 0:08:58The boys have an appointment at the quintessentially English Wroxall Abbey estate.
0:08:58 > 0:09:04This is our Broadwood bar, and this is where we normally do all the reception drinks.
0:09:04 > 0:09:06It's definitely nice, isn't it?
0:09:06 > 0:09:10- Spot on. - Everything just seems just so.
0:09:10 > 0:09:12Just so English.
0:09:14 > 0:09:19We turn this round, so that you can have a wedding breakfast, second to none, in here.
0:09:19 > 0:09:22You've got that beautiful view to look out on.
0:09:22 > 0:09:26That's not a loch, that's a water feature.
0:09:26 > 0:09:30As you can see, we've got a lovely view here over the loch.
0:09:30 > 0:09:34- Ah, that's more like it. - That's beautiful.- It is beautiful.
0:09:34 > 0:09:36Have you thought about entertainment at all?
0:09:36 > 0:09:39Um...I mean, I would really like a piper,
0:09:39 > 0:09:45some sort of real traditional bagpipe piper theme at the arrival.
0:09:45 > 0:09:51As for the actual reception, I really want a ceilidh band and I don't to budge on that.
0:09:51 > 0:09:55That would be what I'd have, a ceilidh band, definitely.
0:09:55 > 0:10:02This is Lemon Trees, this is the room we use mainly for dancing.
0:10:02 > 0:10:05I mean, you can really pump up the volume, have a really good party.
0:10:05 > 0:10:11And what we do is put a couple of tea lights, maybe one or two balloons, that's all you really need.
0:10:11 > 0:10:15I can't see them dancing the Gay Gordons in here.
0:10:17 > 0:10:19As well as a Scottish castle,
0:10:19 > 0:10:23Catherine's heart is set on getting married in her family church,
0:10:23 > 0:10:26St Ninians in Kirkintilloch.
0:10:26 > 0:10:30Richard doesn't have a strong religious background.
0:10:30 > 0:10:34He doesn't have any real belief or faith.
0:10:34 > 0:10:36I was brought up in a Catholic family,
0:10:36 > 0:10:38with a sense of going to church
0:10:38 > 0:10:42and a bit of religion and tradition behind us.
0:10:45 > 0:10:48This is so beautiful.
0:10:48 > 0:10:51Did you always see yourself getting married here?
0:10:51 > 0:10:53If I had...
0:10:53 > 0:10:57You didn't think you're going to marry an English man, did you?
0:10:57 > 0:11:01No, no. If I'd never moved away, to go to uni,
0:11:01 > 0:11:05then this was always where I imagined I'd get married.
0:11:05 > 0:11:09You could imagine just walking down here,
0:11:09 > 0:11:13nice little flowers on the end of every pew,
0:11:13 > 0:11:16white ribbons and flowers tied on.
0:11:16 > 0:11:20And my dad would obviously be in a kilt.
0:11:20 > 0:11:22And you dad would be in a kilt, yes.
0:11:25 > 0:11:29I always thought it would be here, or somewhere here.
0:11:35 > 0:11:38Well, it won't be here. Richard is 250 miles south,
0:11:38 > 0:11:42and has come across a chapel in the grounds of Wroxall Abbey.
0:11:42 > 0:11:44This is our chapel, guys.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47Don't you think it's beautiful?
0:11:47 > 0:11:49It's magnificent. Absolutely gorgeous.
0:11:58 > 0:12:01Walk in here and bring the house down.
0:12:01 > 0:12:03It's wonderful.
0:12:05 > 0:12:08It's not Catherine's family church, and it's not a done deal.
0:12:08 > 0:12:11To stand any chance of getting married here,
0:12:11 > 0:12:14Richard will have to get permission from the minister in charge.
0:12:14 > 0:12:16It feels like it ticks all the boxes.
0:12:16 > 0:12:18It is ticking all the boxes.
0:12:18 > 0:12:21It looks wonderful, it's a magnificent place.
0:12:21 > 0:12:24So nice and quiet and peaceful.
0:12:26 > 0:12:29Honest, nothing can go wrong.
0:12:29 > 0:12:31Unless, of course, the minister says "no"...
0:12:31 > 0:12:34A minor detail that doesn't stop Richard forking out five grand.
0:12:36 > 0:12:40- What's that the smell of? - There's nothing you can't do!
0:12:40 > 0:12:43- We're victorious. - The smell of victory.- Indeed.
0:12:43 > 0:12:48It may be the smell of victory, but there's not a whiff of Scotland.
0:12:52 > 0:12:58On the crest of a wave, Richard and Phil decide it's time to tackle their hardest challenge.
0:12:58 > 0:13:00- Hello.- Good morning.
0:13:00 > 0:13:01Good morning.
0:13:01 > 0:13:06She's quite slim and slender, about size eight I'd say, roughly.
0:13:10 > 0:13:14- That's really nice, too. - This is diamond white, whereas these two are ivory.
0:13:14 > 0:13:18- I don't have a clue. - You don't have a clue?- No.
0:13:22 > 0:13:24I genuinely don't know.
0:13:28 > 0:13:31Richard may not know his own mind, but his bride certainly does.
0:13:33 > 0:13:38She's in Glasgow, fantasy wedding dress shopping with Mum and sister Alison.
0:13:40 > 0:13:42That's meringue-y.
0:13:42 > 0:13:44Don't like that. Don't like straps.
0:13:44 > 0:13:50Don't like that. Don't like it. Ugh, ugh. Yuk, don't like that.
0:13:50 > 0:13:53Nope. It's the same there. Don't like it.
0:13:53 > 0:13:55I love that!
0:13:55 > 0:13:57- No.- No.
0:14:00 > 0:14:03In Birmingham, Richard's praying for inspiration.
0:14:03 > 0:14:07- What are you thinking?- I think I need to find somebody to try it on.
0:14:07 > 0:14:10- Phil?- I'll go and have a look in the pub.- Go and look in the pub.
0:14:17 > 0:14:19And 30 seconds later...
0:14:19 > 0:14:22Excuse me, I wonder if you could help me.
0:14:22 > 0:14:25- Bingo!- Hi.
0:14:25 > 0:14:26There we go.
0:14:26 > 0:14:28Do you want to come with me?
0:14:33 > 0:14:37It looks like choosy Catherine might have found her dream dress.
0:14:37 > 0:14:39What do you think?
0:14:39 > 0:14:42- Do you like that?- It's amazing!
0:14:44 > 0:14:45Look at the train at the back.
0:14:45 > 0:14:47It does have a train.
0:14:47 > 0:14:50- There you go.- I do want a train now that I've seen it.
0:14:50 > 0:14:53I absolutely love it. I think it's absolutely stunning.
0:14:53 > 0:14:54It is, it's nice.
0:14:54 > 0:14:57And it isn't what I would have chosen, but I do love it.
0:14:57 > 0:15:00I like it, I really like it.
0:15:00 > 0:15:02Don't get too attached!
0:15:02 > 0:15:04I know, but I really, really like it.
0:15:04 > 0:15:07The boys are also in luck.
0:15:07 > 0:15:10You stand here and we'll show Richard.
0:15:10 > 0:15:12That's really nice, really, really nice.
0:15:12 > 0:15:15- All laced up for you.- It is nice.
0:15:15 > 0:15:18- Do you know what? - We've got a serious problem.
0:15:18 > 0:15:19- I think we've found it. - Don't say that.
0:15:19 > 0:15:22No, I'm being serious, mate, cos we keep walking into places,
0:15:22 > 0:15:27and the first thing we see is the first thing that's gonna work well for this wedding,
0:15:27 > 0:15:28and I think we've found the dress.
0:15:28 > 0:15:31Haven't you noticed something, boys?
0:15:31 > 0:15:33It's staring you right in the face.
0:15:33 > 0:15:36I think we need to see a couple, though.
0:15:36 > 0:15:37Just to be on the safe side.
0:15:37 > 0:15:42Funnily enough, Catherine's also having trouble committing.
0:15:43 > 0:15:45What do you think?
0:15:45 > 0:15:48That's nice, I like that.
0:15:48 > 0:15:51I like that one, that's the one I liked.
0:15:51 > 0:15:55- I think I do prefer this. - Oh, God, Catherine!
0:15:56 > 0:15:59Two minutes ago, you says, "Oh, this is my dream dress!"
0:15:59 > 0:16:03No, but there's something...there is something really elegant about this.
0:16:03 > 0:16:07Richard hasn't got a hope in hell of getting this one right, I'm telling you.
0:16:07 > 0:16:10The same realisation has just dawned on Richard.
0:16:11 > 0:16:13I feel sick.
0:16:15 > 0:16:18I genuinely don't wanna do it.
0:16:18 > 0:16:20You ain't got a choice.
0:16:20 > 0:16:21Simple as that.
0:16:23 > 0:16:26OK, Richard, number two.
0:16:26 > 0:16:29Just lift it up a little bit for me. That's it, look.
0:16:29 > 0:16:32- Turn yourself round. - This is gonna be hard.
0:16:32 > 0:16:36This is gonna be really hard, that's really nice, too.
0:16:36 > 0:16:37Oh, wow.
0:16:39 > 0:16:42- There we go.- I really like it.
0:16:42 > 0:16:44We're in trouble.
0:16:44 > 0:16:46But not for the reason you think, mate.
0:16:46 > 0:16:51They still haven't realised they're looking at size 14 dresses for a size 6 bride.
0:16:51 > 0:16:55If the dress is too big, if it actually doesn't fit, then I won't be wearing it.
0:16:55 > 0:16:59It's that simple, I'm not wearing a dress that doesn't fit.
0:16:59 > 0:17:01Ready for the next one, Richard?
0:17:01 > 0:17:02Yeah. Definitely now, yeah.
0:17:02 > 0:17:05Don't look so stressed, it'll be fine. Here we go.
0:17:09 > 0:17:11That's lovely, really, really...
0:17:11 > 0:17:13That is really, really nice.
0:17:13 > 0:17:15- That is really, really, really nice. - Yeah.
0:17:17 > 0:17:19That's now my favourite.
0:17:19 > 0:17:23- That's just become my favourite really quickly.- I think that is it.
0:17:23 > 0:17:26But, lads, it's four sizes too big.
0:17:26 > 0:17:27How much is that dress?
0:17:27 > 0:17:31- 950.- 950. That's spot-on.
0:17:31 > 0:17:32Smashed it.
0:17:32 > 0:17:34Smashed it.
0:17:34 > 0:17:38- How much does it cost for the veil as well, sorry?- The veil's 95.
0:17:38 > 0:17:39What?! For...
0:17:42 > 0:17:45Mate, I'll make you one. I'll make you one!
0:17:45 > 0:17:48# She's in fashion... #
0:17:49 > 0:17:55So Richard has got a dress that doesn't fit and a venue he might not be able to get married in.
0:17:55 > 0:17:57It must be time to kick back and relax.
0:18:02 > 0:18:04Come on, boys.
0:18:04 > 0:18:07Come on, close him down!
0:18:14 > 0:18:16Oh, yes!
0:18:16 > 0:18:18Yes!
0:18:18 > 0:18:20Yeah!
0:18:23 > 0:18:27Tomorrow, Richard needs to convince the minister of the chapel to marry him.
0:18:27 > 0:18:30It's half-time, he's half-cut and totally unprepared.
0:18:30 > 0:18:34- How many hymns do you know?- I remember one from primary school.
0:18:34 > 0:18:37What are we going to say tomorrow when he says hymns? Kumbaya...
0:18:37 > 0:18:41Just turn around to him and say, "What's the most commonly used?"
0:18:41 > 0:18:42Do I explain to him...
0:18:42 > 0:18:45We're not religious and we don't know anything about it, no.
0:18:45 > 0:18:48- I don't want to say that, cos he might go, "Oh..."- "See you later."
0:18:48 > 0:18:53If he's a Christian priest, do we mention that Catherine's Catholic?
0:18:54 > 0:18:59- Well, that's another thing we need to look up before tomorrow, actually.- Yeah, I think we do.
0:18:59 > 0:19:03Just type in Google, "Difference between Catholic and Christians," done.
0:19:03 > 0:19:05- I'm telling you.- I think so.- Erm...
0:19:06 > 0:19:11It's not just a church wedding that's important to Catholic girl Catherine.
0:19:11 > 0:19:15What would you expect, in the grand scheme of things, he's got done this week?
0:19:15 > 0:19:17I would hope that there's a venue, a dress,
0:19:17 > 0:19:19invites have gone out,
0:19:19 > 0:19:22he's considered the shoes and probably suits,
0:19:22 > 0:19:27and then maybe even considered flowers or table decorations by now.
0:19:27 > 0:19:31- Hmm.- Does it really matter at the end of the day if things don't co-ordinate and don't match?
0:19:31 > 0:19:35Are you joking? Of course it matters!
0:19:35 > 0:19:38No, but what I mean is, it really doesn't matter whether the ribbon
0:19:38 > 0:19:40on the invite matches the ribbon on the place cards
0:19:40 > 0:19:43and that matches the colour of the bridesmaid dresses.
0:19:43 > 0:19:46The whole process is the fact that you two love each other
0:19:46 > 0:19:49and you're gonna spend the rest of your lives together.
0:19:51 > 0:19:55- Was that a joke? - What? I thought that was beautiful.
0:19:55 > 0:20:00Yeah, yeah, it does. Ultimately, the outcome's still gonna be the same,
0:20:00 > 0:20:04but Richard getting this right should be testament to how well he knows me
0:20:04 > 0:20:06and how much he wants to make it right,
0:20:06 > 0:20:10so really it does matter if the ribbons on the invite match the ribbon on the cake.
0:20:10 > 0:20:16If she knew what the boys were up to, matching ribbon would be the least of her worries.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19- Oh!- No!
0:20:19 > 0:20:26It's absolutely unbelievable! I said they would score. I said they would score tonight.
0:20:28 > 0:20:33What about Phil, then, Cat? What do you think Phil is going to be leading Richard into?
0:20:33 > 0:20:37I really think that they'll be being real laddie lads.
0:20:37 > 0:20:39They deserved that.
0:20:39 > 0:20:41- I'm gonna hit you in a minute. - They deserved it!
0:20:41 > 0:20:43And Phil will lead him astray.
0:20:43 > 0:20:45Pub.
0:20:45 > 0:20:46- You reckon?- Pub.
0:20:46 > 0:20:50- We've got to see a minister in the morning.- I don't care, pub.
0:20:50 > 0:20:55- I'm sure it's not a good idea. - You're worried that you've got to go and see this minister tomorrow.
0:20:55 > 0:20:59- He's a massive, massive influence on what we do.- Listen, that's a big thing. We've had nine beers.
0:20:59 > 0:21:03Are you telling me that two beers are going to make one bit of difference?
0:21:03 > 0:21:06Right, let's go for one. That's my compromise, let's go for one.
0:21:06 > 0:21:08You have met me halfway.
0:21:08 > 0:21:10You have met me halfway.
0:21:10 > 0:21:13It's never gonna be one, is it? It's never gonna be one.
0:21:13 > 0:21:16It IS gonna be one. Well, no, it's gonna be two.
0:21:16 > 0:21:19- Oh, for... - You know as well as I do, right,
0:21:19 > 0:21:22you say we go for one, I'm saying we go for two,
0:21:22 > 0:21:23- it will be two.- Let's go.
0:21:25 > 0:21:28# Der, der-der, der-der... #
0:21:28 > 0:21:34It's the morning after the night before, and the day of reckoning for relaxed Richard.
0:21:34 > 0:21:36Presumably he got an early night.
0:21:36 > 0:21:40The Malibu got finished, Archers got finished, we ran out of mixers.
0:21:40 > 0:21:42And we did only have one drink at the pub.
0:21:42 > 0:21:45Just didn't account for the ones at the house, that was all.
0:21:45 > 0:21:48Phil's had no sleep at all, and I've had three hours.
0:21:48 > 0:21:52You particularly wanted a Christian wedding?
0:21:52 > 0:21:55Erm, I think, for me, a church wedding's very important.
0:21:55 > 0:22:00- It's very symbolic of what you're doing, to be married in the eyes of the Church.- Yes.
0:22:00 > 0:22:02It's a very important tradition, I feel, to me.
0:22:02 > 0:22:06Good. So I make two assumptions, because you want a church wedding.
0:22:06 > 0:22:09- OK.- The first one is that you want God in your marriage,
0:22:09 > 0:22:11and you'll have to speak for Catherine as well on this one.
0:22:11 > 0:22:17On her side of the family, I think that's a definite, her family are very heavily religious.
0:22:17 > 0:22:19My side of the family are not so, not so much.
0:22:19 > 0:22:23But for that, I think it's very important for both of us
0:22:23 > 0:22:26to start on the right foot, really, and have God in it.
0:22:26 > 0:22:30Has he done enough to convince the minister to marry him?
0:22:30 > 0:22:34So the commitment that you're both making to each other,
0:22:34 > 0:22:36you're happy for that to be a commitment for life?
0:22:36 > 0:22:39- Happy, very happy, sir, yeah. - Good, OK.
0:22:39 > 0:22:41- Yes. - Well, on that basis, we'll go ahead.
0:22:41 > 0:22:44That's fantastic, that's a massive, massive relief.
0:22:44 > 0:22:45Put a smile on there.
0:22:45 > 0:22:47I feel like I can sit back a little bit maybe now.
0:22:47 > 0:22:50Thank you very much. I need to shake your hand, thank you very much.
0:22:50 > 0:22:52- That's massively important. - You're welcome.
0:22:52 > 0:22:55Thanks very much for your time this morning.
0:22:55 > 0:22:57The chapel wedding is on.
0:22:57 > 0:23:01In three days, we've got something that's supposed to take months,
0:23:01 > 0:23:05- so, going by that, this is gonna be a doddle.- Absolute doddle.
0:23:05 > 0:23:10With two weeks to go, Richard still has everything to do.
0:23:10 > 0:23:13He needs flowers, invitations, a cake, entertainment
0:23:13 > 0:23:17and bridesmaid dresses, as well as suits for him and the ushers.
0:23:17 > 0:23:20- This is quite tidy and clean cut, isn't it?- Yeah. Smashed it.
0:23:20 > 0:23:23- That looks really nice.- Cinderella, you shall go to the ball.- Thank you.
0:23:23 > 0:23:27So if you want to go through, the end fitting room's free.
0:23:28 > 0:23:34Very smart, boys, but Catherine only wants her men folk in one thing.
0:23:38 > 0:23:43If Richard even was to try on a kilt, just to see what it would be like, it would mean a lot to me.
0:23:43 > 0:23:46The bad news is I've only got one kilt left.
0:23:46 > 0:23:48There's no way I'm wearing that.
0:23:48 > 0:23:51It means a lot to me that my dad's in a kilt if no-one else is.
0:23:52 > 0:23:54I don't know if Richard knows that.
0:23:58 > 0:24:02The groom does know he needs to get something Scottish into this wedding.
0:24:02 > 0:24:05Maybe his bride will appreciate tartan invites.
0:24:05 > 0:24:08- Do you like that one?- It's tartan.
0:24:08 > 0:24:13- Yeah, some of them are quite horrible, though.- It's Scottish, it's not meant to be nice.
0:24:13 > 0:24:14I actually hate them all.
0:24:14 > 0:24:16Well, it's up to you.
0:24:16 > 0:24:22I'd only send the tartan to her side of the family, cos they'll appreciate that.
0:24:22 > 0:24:25We could do 11 invitations for Cat's family in tartan.
0:24:25 > 0:24:30If you get that blue one, well, it's green as well, which means it would go with flowers.
0:24:30 > 0:24:33- Let's get that.- All right.
0:24:33 > 0:24:36That's the best of a bad bunch.
0:24:36 > 0:24:41But second best isn't exactly what his perfectionist bride has in mind.
0:24:41 > 0:24:45After all that hard work, Phil's got brain ache.
0:24:45 > 0:24:52Fortunately, Richard's showing some grit and is determined to finalise the design of his invitations.
0:24:52 > 0:24:56He knows that first impressions will count.
0:24:57 > 0:25:02This will be the first thing that Catherine sees and that Catherine's family see...
0:25:02 > 0:25:05and my family see, in fact the first thing everyone sees.
0:25:05 > 0:25:10I'm worried that getting this wrong will set the wrong tone off about what's gonna happen on the day.
0:25:16 > 0:25:18- Phil?- Yeah.
0:25:18 > 0:25:20Do you think pink dots is an issue or not?
0:25:20 > 0:25:23Oh, it is if the tartan's green, isn't it?
0:25:23 > 0:25:25Something's wrong there.
0:25:25 > 0:25:27It's upside down.
0:25:28 > 0:25:31That's why it doesn't match up, it's upside down.
0:25:31 > 0:25:33That's the bottom and that's the top.
0:25:33 > 0:25:38Not a good start, Phil. I printed the second part upside down.
0:25:38 > 0:25:40Oh, well, teething problems.
0:25:40 > 0:25:44Yeah, that's all it is, man. Listen, as long as they're done by Monday.
0:25:53 > 0:25:57Catherine's got issues of her own.
0:25:57 > 0:26:01She's missing her man and is keeping a diary to show him after the wedding.
0:26:01 > 0:26:06"Just right now it's so, so, so hard not being able to talk to you,
0:26:06 > 0:26:10"and it feels ridiculous not knowing one single thing
0:26:10 > 0:26:13"about your plans for our best day ever.
0:26:13 > 0:26:15"How's that all going, by the way?
0:26:15 > 0:26:17"I hope you're busy but not stressing too much.
0:26:17 > 0:26:20"Make sure you're eating well and get enough sleep.
0:26:20 > 0:26:25"But please know that I miss you...and I can't wait to see you."
0:26:25 > 0:26:31I think the only thing that stops me packing up and going home was...
0:26:31 > 0:26:33the look on his face if I ever did,
0:26:33 > 0:26:36the disappointment and the hurt that that would cause him,
0:26:36 > 0:26:44cos I don't think he would ever forgive me if I didn't stick it out for the last couple of weeks.
0:26:44 > 0:26:46I just miss him.
0:26:46 > 0:26:50I can't explain how much I miss him.
0:26:50 > 0:26:55Not even a text message in the middle of the day or just seeing him at the end of the day to make dinner.
0:26:55 > 0:26:57All the little tiny things
0:26:57 > 0:27:00that make our lives ours is missing.
0:27:00 > 0:27:03And it is really hard.
0:27:03 > 0:27:09So I'm just clinging on to that image of meeting him on our wedding day
0:27:09 > 0:27:11and knowing that...
0:27:11 > 0:27:15after this we've got the rest of our lives to be happy.
0:27:15 > 0:27:17# One, two, three, uh
0:27:17 > 0:27:19# My baby don't mess around
0:27:19 > 0:27:23# Because she loves me so And this I know for sure... #
0:27:23 > 0:27:27Back at wedding HQ, the boys have no time for reflection.
0:27:27 > 0:27:30There are lots of things they haven't even thought about yet.
0:27:30 > 0:27:33Maybe a bridal magazine will have the answers.
0:27:33 > 0:27:36- Cake.- Mmm.- Invitations.
0:27:36 > 0:27:40- Rings.- Rings.- Er...
0:27:40 > 0:27:41Bridesmaid dresses.
0:27:41 > 0:27:44Flowers.
0:27:44 > 0:27:45- Vegetarians.- Yes.
0:27:45 > 0:27:46Hold on.
0:27:46 > 0:27:48Rose petals.
0:27:48 > 0:27:51That kind of colour for the bridal dresses and the flowers.
0:27:51 > 0:27:57They do look nice, cos it's not too bold either, it's kind of light.
0:27:57 > 0:28:00Lilac and pink, everything is lilac and pink. What do you reckon?
0:28:00 > 0:28:03Not bad, not bad.
0:28:03 > 0:28:05That's the colour scheme sorted, then.
0:28:07 > 0:28:12If you imagine the lilac there, it goes really nice with the colour.
0:28:14 > 0:28:17- Have you got a colour theme for your wedding?- At the moment it's lilac.
0:28:25 > 0:28:27I think these would be a nice little touch.
0:28:29 > 0:28:31For the lilac.
0:28:31 > 0:28:33Three, four... How many tiers is that?
0:28:33 > 0:28:36- That's the second tier. - That's the cake done.
0:28:36 > 0:28:38Yeah, look at him!
0:28:38 > 0:28:42Smashed it! Right, that's you two, that's you two.
0:28:42 > 0:28:44That's the babies there. Well spotted.
0:28:44 > 0:28:46They're definites, they need to go on.
0:28:46 > 0:28:51- Yeah.- Where's the mixed-race groom? Come on!- At least they got me right.
0:28:53 > 0:28:55Smashed it.
0:28:55 > 0:28:56Well, they will be smashed soon.
0:28:56 > 0:29:02It's the weekend before the wedding and time for Richard's stag night.
0:29:04 > 0:29:05DRUNKEN SINGING
0:29:05 > 0:29:09# There's only one Richard! #
0:29:09 > 0:29:14I think no-one predicted that we would get knuckled down and get straight into it as we did.
0:29:14 > 0:29:18- No-one predicted that, cos we hit the ground running, we really did. - And we smashed it.
0:29:18 > 0:29:21- We sm...- Smashed it!
0:29:21 > 0:29:25You'll be shaking our feet, it'll be that good. We're that confident, that confident.
0:29:25 > 0:29:27Honest to God, mate, you'll be proud.
0:29:27 > 0:29:28Hello!
0:29:28 > 0:29:33For Catherine's hen night, Richard has set his bride a series of challenges.
0:29:33 > 0:29:36Apparently we have to pop these through the night,
0:29:36 > 0:29:39and in those yellow capsules are dare things that he wants you to do.
0:29:39 > 0:29:42Oh, no way!
0:29:42 > 0:29:44Absolutely no way am I doing that.
0:29:44 > 0:29:45He's sent you a sash.
0:29:45 > 0:29:48Ah, that's sweet!
0:29:48 > 0:29:50It's not really, it's a bit tacky.
0:29:50 > 0:29:55Oh, man, that's exactly what I said I didn't want!
0:29:55 > 0:29:58That is so naff. Oh, my God.
0:29:58 > 0:30:02That is exactly what I said I didn't want.
0:30:13 > 0:30:17A few bottles of bubbly later and Catherine's getting in to the spirit.
0:30:17 > 0:30:19- Thanks, Mark!- You're welcome.
0:30:19 > 0:30:21It's amazing.
0:30:21 > 0:30:27I've got my favourite people in a really tacky limo and I loved it.
0:30:34 > 0:30:36THEY CHEER
0:30:38 > 0:30:41The bride is busy doing her dares...
0:30:49 > 0:30:51..And the groom's got his hands full, too.
0:30:51 > 0:30:54Naughty boy!
0:31:01 > 0:31:03The next morning, and there's no rest for the wicked.
0:31:03 > 0:31:08The wedding's only six days away, and Richard urgently needs bridesmaids' dresses.
0:31:09 > 0:31:12- Rich?- Oh, Fliss. Oh, Fliss!
0:31:14 > 0:31:15We've got a road trip!
0:31:21 > 0:31:26Chief bridesmaid Felicity has been issued with instructions.
0:31:26 > 0:31:28Not bright colours, definitely.
0:31:28 > 0:31:32No yellow, no pink, no bright green.
0:31:32 > 0:31:33Purple?
0:31:33 > 0:31:36Not deep purple, or dark purple.
0:31:36 > 0:31:38Pale colours would be much better.
0:31:38 > 0:31:41Felicity can't help, but luckily Richard's chosen lilac.
0:31:43 > 0:31:45They're being met by the other bridesmaids,
0:31:45 > 0:31:50Catherine's sister Alison and another Catherine, who's six months pregnant.
0:31:50 > 0:31:51Hello, nice to see you.
0:31:51 > 0:31:54- Hello, how are you? - Not too bad.- Good.
0:31:54 > 0:32:01- Dress shopping.- Yes.- Looking to find something lilacy, first choice.
0:32:01 > 0:32:03Raised eyebrows, already.
0:32:03 > 0:32:04First choice lilac.
0:32:04 > 0:32:08- Budget?- About £100, ideally no more than that.
0:32:08 > 0:32:09Lilac...
0:32:13 > 0:32:16- SHE LAUGHS - I don't think it...
0:32:23 > 0:32:29I don't actually like them, to be fair.
0:32:29 > 0:32:32That is kind of what we're after, isn't it?
0:32:32 > 0:32:34That's not at all what you said!
0:32:34 > 0:32:37- Is it not?- I think you're giving up already.
0:32:39 > 0:32:41D'you like it, Richard?
0:32:41 > 0:32:42D'you want us to try it?
0:32:42 > 0:32:46- Yeah, go on then.- It's not the colour.- I know, I know.
0:32:48 > 0:32:50We're just having a bump crisis.
0:32:50 > 0:32:52THEY LAUGH
0:32:52 > 0:32:56I'm just having a crisis, full stop!
0:33:01 > 0:33:02THEY LAUGH
0:33:02 > 0:33:04Look at his face!
0:33:04 > 0:33:07Possibility, definitely. It's definitely an option.
0:33:07 > 0:33:09Would it go with whatever you've got planned?
0:33:09 > 0:33:11Cos it's not lilac.
0:33:11 > 0:33:13It's a really nice dress.
0:33:13 > 0:33:15How much is that, out of curiosity?
0:33:18 > 0:33:23- 25.- Bargain, we can have good shoes!- No way, really?
0:33:23 > 0:33:24You like it even more now!
0:33:24 > 0:33:27I like it even more now!
0:33:27 > 0:33:29I do think it suits all three of you.
0:33:29 > 0:33:33- I think the ruffley bit... - The lines going down.
0:33:33 > 0:33:35I think we'll get the dresses.
0:33:35 > 0:33:37- OK. Are we good?- Yeah, let's go.
0:33:42 > 0:33:44THEY LAUGH
0:33:44 > 0:33:45Thank you.
0:33:45 > 0:33:48Do you have a lot of things to change if we go for purple?
0:33:48 > 0:33:51Everything that has colour.
0:33:51 > 0:33:55Everything that has some kind of colour to it, so...everything.
0:33:55 > 0:33:58I'm a bit worried, because...
0:33:58 > 0:34:03one of the only colours Cat said she really didn't want was dark purple.
0:34:06 > 0:34:08I'm ready for bed now, I think.
0:34:08 > 0:34:14Richard's got three bargain frocks, but now he's got to change the whole colour scheme of the wedding...
0:34:14 > 0:34:16with less than a week to go.
0:34:17 > 0:34:20It's Richard Harding, getting married on Saturday.
0:34:20 > 0:34:25It's a change, a purple, a definite, very bright purple.
0:34:25 > 0:34:27It is not a problem changing the colour, though, is it?
0:34:27 > 0:34:29Its a very definite purple, now.
0:34:29 > 0:34:32MUSIC: "Purple Rain" by Prince
0:34:34 > 0:34:39# Purple rain, purple rain... #
0:34:39 > 0:34:44Just confirming that the colour is going to be purple.
0:34:44 > 0:34:47# Purple rain, purple rain
0:34:51 > 0:34:54# Purple rain, purple rain
0:34:58 > 0:35:04# Only want to see you bathing in the purple rain. #
0:35:04 > 0:35:07They've got a aubergine, but not purple.
0:35:07 > 0:35:09What kind of colour is aubergine anyway?
0:35:15 > 0:35:17Catherine's invitation finally arrives.
0:35:19 > 0:35:22It's her first glimpse of Richard's vision for her big day.
0:35:22 > 0:35:24It doesn't feel very special.
0:35:40 > 0:35:43What a weird choice of tartans.
0:35:43 > 0:35:45FLISS LAUGHS
0:35:45 > 0:35:48It's just a horrible colour.
0:35:48 > 0:35:51It's very...dark.
0:35:51 > 0:35:53But why there's silver dots on it
0:35:53 > 0:35:57with a green and blue tartan ribbon, I can't understand.
0:36:00 > 0:36:02Looks like her man has fallen at the first hurdle.
0:36:05 > 0:36:09Will he do any better choosing the wedding menu?
0:36:09 > 0:36:11- It's a bit funny, isn't it? - I quite liked it.
0:36:11 > 0:36:15- This is the starter.- So...
0:36:15 > 0:36:19A fork and a spoon? It's outside in, isn't it?
0:36:19 > 0:36:22I'm not sure about you, but I know I need a spoon!
0:36:25 > 0:36:27That's really good.
0:36:27 > 0:36:30- That's bangin'.- That's bangin'. Really tasty.
0:36:30 > 0:36:34They might be enjoying the food, but Richard's got something on his mind.
0:36:34 > 0:36:36We need something else.
0:36:36 > 0:36:40- Like what?- We need more of an influence on the day.
0:36:40 > 0:36:41There needs to be more.
0:36:44 > 0:36:45What creates atmosphere?
0:36:45 > 0:36:47Food doesn't.
0:36:47 > 0:36:51We need something, it just needs something. I don't know what.
0:36:51 > 0:36:55- Look over there, then look out there.- But it's big and easy.
0:36:55 > 0:36:59You're trying to make it spectacular when you don't have to.
0:36:59 > 0:37:00But I want to.
0:37:02 > 0:37:06I only wanna do this once, and it's got to be big.
0:37:06 > 0:37:09The way things are going, it's a proper, proper traditional wedding.
0:37:09 > 0:37:13I don't want it to be completely traditional.
0:37:13 > 0:37:17Richard needs a big idea.
0:37:17 > 0:37:21Maybe it's time for him to get in touch with his own roots?
0:37:29 > 0:37:32CALYPSO MUSIC
0:37:37 > 0:37:39Worth the extra money.
0:37:48 > 0:37:52But he doesn't just want to watch, he wants to have a go.
0:37:52 > 0:37:53It always looks complicated, though.
0:37:56 > 0:37:59..Two, three, four, five, six, seven.
0:38:02 > 0:38:04OK, OK. So...
0:38:06 > 0:38:09One, two, three.
0:38:16 > 0:38:18It's not as easy as it looks.
0:38:18 > 0:38:20C, D...
0:38:20 > 0:38:23C, D, E, F, G, A, B, C.
0:38:23 > 0:38:28C, D, E, F, G, A, B...C
0:38:40 > 0:38:42Looks like he's getting the hang of it.
0:38:42 > 0:38:46But will he be able to impress his bride on the big day?
0:38:46 > 0:38:48It's not exactly a ceilidh.
0:39:07 > 0:39:1148 hours to go, and the laid-back groom still has plenty to do.
0:39:16 > 0:39:18I can't get it off now!
0:39:19 > 0:39:23Down there, it should be down here.
0:39:29 > 0:39:31Cat's shoes, right.
0:39:34 > 0:39:40Richard's on a roll, but he's forgotten something, and it's bugging the bride.
0:39:40 > 0:39:42She confides in her friend, Becky.
0:39:42 > 0:39:43What's bothering you?
0:39:43 > 0:39:47I don't want to be getting ready at Fliss' house the night before the wedding.
0:39:47 > 0:39:49Where d'you want to get ready?
0:39:49 > 0:39:51Well...
0:39:51 > 0:39:56I want to go home and get ready from my own house, the night before the wedding.
0:39:56 > 0:40:03I should be somewhere where my mum and my sister and my other two bridesmaids are.
0:40:03 > 0:40:06Do you want me to give Richard a ring and try to sort it out?
0:40:06 > 0:40:08Hi, is that Rich?
0:40:08 > 0:40:11- It is.- Got a bit of a problem,
0:40:11 > 0:40:14just wondering where Cat's staying tomorrow night
0:40:14 > 0:40:17so she can get ready and stuff for the wedding? Where will she be?
0:40:17 > 0:40:18She's really getting upset.
0:40:18 > 0:40:20She will be in the hotel.
0:40:20 > 0:40:22Quick thinking, Richard.
0:40:22 > 0:40:25'OK. When is she going to know which hotel
0:40:25 > 0:40:27'and what time she'll be getting picked up?'
0:40:27 > 0:40:30I'll organise that now and have the details over to you
0:40:30 > 0:40:31in the next hour or so.
0:40:31 > 0:40:34(Ask him if I can have the house?)
0:40:34 > 0:40:40She really, really would like to stay in the house, is there are any chance you can sort that out?
0:40:40 > 0:40:43'I haven't got time to clear the house of wedding-related stuff.'
0:40:43 > 0:40:45OK, OK.
0:40:45 > 0:40:50He's saying there's loads of wedding-related stuff in the house
0:40:50 > 0:40:53and he physically hasn't got time to sort all that out, move it
0:40:53 > 0:40:57and go somewhere else and he really needs you to stay in the hotel.
0:40:57 > 0:41:01He's gonna sort the arrangements out and let me know where it is.
0:41:04 > 0:41:06Nah.
0:41:07 > 0:41:09I want to stay in my house.
0:41:09 > 0:41:13I really don't think you're gonna budge him on having the house back.
0:41:13 > 0:41:19But that's what I want, I want my bed in my house. I've not had it for three weeks, that's what I want.
0:41:19 > 0:41:21It's the only thing that I want.
0:41:21 > 0:41:24What d'you want me to do?
0:41:24 > 0:41:26MOBILE PHONE RINGS That's Becky again.
0:41:26 > 0:41:28Hello?
0:41:28 > 0:41:31She's really, really desperate to be in that house, Rich.
0:41:31 > 0:41:35Is there any way at all that you can sort that out?
0:41:35 > 0:41:36Becky, if I could, I would.
0:41:36 > 0:41:39I genuinely have no time to get everything out the house
0:41:39 > 0:41:42and get everything done tomorrow that needs doing, it's just impossible.
0:41:42 > 0:41:46Absolutely, genuinely impossible?
0:41:46 > 0:41:47'Absolutely, genuinely impossible, there's way too much...'
0:41:47 > 0:41:50Nothing's impossible!
0:41:50 > 0:41:56I really am way too tired to concern over this.
0:41:56 > 0:41:58We'll sort it out, OK? Don't worry.
0:41:58 > 0:42:01Cat, he's at the end of his tether with stuff.
0:42:03 > 0:42:07But I'm not getting anything that I want, so why can't I just have one thing that I really want?
0:42:07 > 0:42:09I'm not getting anything else that I want.
0:42:09 > 0:42:11You've got to trust him,
0:42:11 > 0:42:14- you've got to trust him. - I'm not going in a hotel.
0:42:14 > 0:42:15Then come here and I'll go out.
0:42:15 > 0:42:17No, I'm going home.
0:42:17 > 0:42:23I'm packing my suitcase and walking home, and I'll stand outside the house until he pisses off out of it!
0:42:23 > 0:42:25- SHE LAUGHS - Oh, God!
0:42:25 > 0:42:29Phone him up and tell him that I want...the Hilton.
0:42:29 > 0:42:35I want the most expensive place, and if he's out of budget, stuff it.
0:42:37 > 0:42:41He's not out of budget, but he is almost out of time.
0:42:43 > 0:42:47An exhausted Richard goes out to search for a hotel for his bride.
0:42:48 > 0:42:51MUSIC: "Tired" by Toby Keith
0:43:03 > 0:43:07That's the worst 70 quid I've spent in the last three weeks.
0:43:19 > 0:43:23It's the day before the wedding and size six Catherine
0:43:23 > 0:43:26is about to come face-to-face with the size 14 dress
0:43:26 > 0:43:28that Richard has chosen for her.
0:43:28 > 0:43:31- How are you? All right? - Yes, thank you.
0:43:36 > 0:43:39Can I look? Can I look?
0:43:39 > 0:43:41SHE GASPS
0:43:50 > 0:43:53That's lovely.
0:43:55 > 0:43:56That IS lovely.
0:44:00 > 0:44:01But will it fit?
0:44:04 > 0:44:08Are you all right, Catherine?
0:44:14 > 0:44:16- It's gorgeous.- Really, really nice.
0:44:16 > 0:44:19The boy done good.
0:44:19 > 0:44:22He remembered to have it altered and it fits like a glove.
0:44:27 > 0:44:29SHE GASPS
0:44:32 > 0:44:33(Oh, my God!)
0:44:33 > 0:44:36SHE SOBS It's really lovely.
0:44:36 > 0:44:38It's absolutely out of this world.
0:44:38 > 0:44:42There's just nothing that I don't like about it.
0:44:44 > 0:44:46- Are you excited? - Yeah, I'm dead excited!
0:44:48 > 0:44:51Just to check, the veil and the headband - is that mine?
0:44:51 > 0:44:53- That's all yours.- Oh, yes!
0:44:57 > 0:45:0321 hours to go and Richard's got one last thing to do, get the flowers to the venue.
0:45:04 > 0:45:06I'm guessing this is them.
0:45:06 > 0:45:08- This is them.- They look really nice.
0:45:08 > 0:45:11- All right?- Really nice.- Right, how big is your car? Are you in a Mini?
0:45:11 > 0:45:14- I'm in a Fiesta.- Oh, dear!
0:45:19 > 0:45:21Nothing more can go in there, can it?
0:45:23 > 0:45:25I wish we'd got these delivered, I'm thinking now.
0:45:27 > 0:45:29There's so many.
0:45:34 > 0:45:35All OK.
0:45:45 > 0:45:48I don't think I could actually spend another day doing this now.
0:45:48 > 0:45:53I'm at the end of my tether almost with...exhaustion.
0:45:53 > 0:45:57But has he done enough to please his demanding bride?
0:46:03 > 0:46:05It's the morning of the wedding.
0:46:05 > 0:46:08How is the bride after her night at the hotel?
0:46:08 > 0:46:14A bit nervous. I want to see these dresses, I want to see what on earth yous guys are wearing.
0:46:14 > 0:46:16That's what I'm most worried about at the moment.
0:46:18 > 0:46:21What does that matter? You look beautiful, that's the main thing.
0:46:22 > 0:46:26At Wroxall Abbey, Richard has taken a leaf out of his bride's book
0:46:26 > 0:46:30and is making sure everything is perfect.
0:46:30 > 0:46:33That's better. I'm happy with that now.
0:46:33 > 0:46:35Anybody seen the bride?
0:46:36 > 0:46:38- Is that my dad's voice? - Your dad's here.
0:46:41 > 0:46:43SHE SCREAMS
0:46:45 > 0:46:50- Do you like it?- Very nice.
0:46:50 > 0:46:52- Do you want to see what's underneath it?- No!
0:46:52 > 0:46:54You look amazing.
0:46:54 > 0:46:55- Pretty good.- Yeah.
0:46:55 > 0:46:58I'm so happy my dad's in a kilt.
0:46:58 > 0:47:02Really happy. And it is a lovely kilt.
0:47:02 > 0:47:06But what will she make of those bridesmaids dresses?
0:47:06 > 0:47:11I was surprised at the brightness of your purple, I must say.
0:47:11 > 0:47:14But I hope they're not in that shade of purple.
0:47:18 > 0:47:19Hurry!
0:47:25 > 0:47:27Look at her face.
0:47:29 > 0:47:30What do you think?
0:47:30 > 0:47:36I just said to my dad I hope they're not all in that shade of purple that you're wearing.
0:47:37 > 0:47:38I like the colour...
0:47:38 > 0:47:43just n-n-not as a choice for bridesmaids.
0:47:43 > 0:47:48I've been having sleepless nights knowing that we were in purple.
0:47:48 > 0:47:54Yous look beautiful, yous look absolutely gorgeous.
0:47:54 > 0:47:58I think it's worked out better with your dad's tartan.
0:47:58 > 0:48:00- Stand here.- OK.
0:48:00 > 0:48:04- Stand in the middle of us.- See?
0:48:04 > 0:48:06It does look very Scottish.
0:48:06 > 0:48:08- Does it?- Yeah.
0:48:08 > 0:48:10Yeah.
0:48:14 > 0:48:17- Half an hour to go, mate.- Nervous?
0:48:17 > 0:48:19I need the toilet now you've said that.
0:48:19 > 0:48:21Let's go. Can we go, can we go? Where's Dad?
0:48:39 > 0:48:41God, where are we going?
0:49:00 > 0:49:04Dad, I know I've not got amazing eyesight but what's straight ahead of me?
0:49:04 > 0:49:08Looks like a...
0:49:08 > 0:49:11- It is, isn't it! It is! - SHE SQUEALS
0:49:41 > 0:49:42All right?
0:49:44 > 0:49:46Shall we stand?
0:50:25 > 0:50:30It is a wonderful day and it is a fairy story come true...
0:50:30 > 0:50:34Thoughtful Richard has chosen some personal vows for each of them.
0:50:34 > 0:50:38I want to share with you my time and my attention and to bring joy,
0:50:38 > 0:50:39strength and imagination to our relationship.
0:50:39 > 0:50:41I promise to keep myself open to you,
0:50:41 > 0:50:44to let you see through the window of my world into my innermost fears and feelings.
0:50:45 > 0:50:48Richard, I promise to respect you as your own person
0:50:48 > 0:50:53and to realise that your interests, desires and needs are no less important than my own.
0:50:53 > 0:50:58I promise to share with you my time and my attention and to bring joy,
0:50:58 > 0:51:00strength and imagination to our relationship.
0:51:00 > 0:51:05Do you give your blessings to this marriage of Richard and Catherine
0:51:05 > 0:51:07and promise always to support and encourage them?
0:51:07 > 0:51:08ALL: We do.
0:51:08 > 0:51:11That was marvellous, you may be seated.
0:51:13 > 0:51:17Richard and Catherine, have declared before God
0:51:17 > 0:51:21and before you that they will live together in Christian marriage.
0:51:21 > 0:51:25I pronounce them to be husband and wife in the name of God the Father, Son and Holy spirit.
0:51:25 > 0:51:29Whom God has joined together, let no one separate.
0:51:29 > 0:51:32CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:51:37 > 0:51:40MUSIC: "To You I Belong" by B*Witched
0:51:54 > 0:51:56I can't believe we've had a church wedding.
0:51:56 > 0:51:59It did mean so much to me.
0:51:59 > 0:52:02And I am just really happy, really happy.
0:52:02 > 0:52:05It's everything I could have hoped for and a hundred times more.
0:52:13 > 0:52:17So far, so good, but the devil's in the detail.
0:52:28 > 0:52:33And the flowers match. Oh, my God, it's amazing!
0:52:33 > 0:52:35How did you do this? You're a bloke!
0:52:35 > 0:52:38Look at this.
0:52:38 > 0:52:42Look at the cake.
0:52:42 > 0:52:43Oh, my God.
0:52:43 > 0:52:46The colours, I'll be honest, when I saw the purple,
0:52:46 > 0:52:50the bright purple this morning I thought, "My word, what's he done?"
0:52:50 > 0:52:54But it does tie in beautifully with the soft lilacs and purples.
0:52:54 > 0:52:57Even the cars had matching ribbons.
0:52:57 > 0:52:59Everything. Told you I could do it.
0:52:59 > 0:53:00I'm super impressed.
0:53:00 > 0:53:04I genuinely didn't think you could do it.
0:53:04 > 0:53:05I thought something would be missed.
0:53:05 > 0:53:08But so far nothing's missing, everything matches.
0:53:08 > 0:53:11MUSIC: "Time After Time" by Cyndi Lauper
0:53:16 > 0:53:19To love, life and laughter.
0:53:19 > 0:53:21To Mr and Mrs Harding.
0:53:21 > 0:53:23ALL: Mr and Mrs Harding.
0:53:23 > 0:53:24Richard, this is for you.
0:53:24 > 0:53:28"I thought it would be easy to give you the control,
0:53:28 > 0:53:31"for me to not have to worry if the colour schemes would go.
0:53:31 > 0:53:35"But it really wasn't easy the day that I moved out
0:53:35 > 0:53:39"and I shut you out of my life to live three weeks of doubt.
0:53:39 > 0:53:42"It really wasn't easy, not knowing one single thing,
0:53:42 > 0:53:45"about that magic moment when I would take your ring.
0:53:45 > 0:53:48"But I knew it would be easy for me to say I do,
0:53:48 > 0:53:52"and I knew that it would be easy to plan my life with you."
0:53:52 > 0:53:54APPLAUSE
0:54:04 > 0:54:08Now it's Richard's turn to showcase his creative efforts.
0:54:08 > 0:54:11CATHERINE LAUGHS
0:54:36 > 0:54:40I'd never have thought he'd pull this off. Definitely never thought he'd have pulled this off.
0:54:40 > 0:54:43I think I've got myself a good son-in-law!
0:54:52 > 0:54:54CHEERING
0:54:56 > 0:54:57Thanks.
0:54:57 > 0:55:02Richard, can I just say I'd love to see how you are going to handle the bagpipes now!
0:55:02 > 0:55:04LAUGHTER
0:55:06 > 0:55:12I can't believe that he's managed all of this in such short notice. It's amazing.
0:55:19 > 0:55:22One more try, you nearly had it!
0:55:25 > 0:55:26You nearly had it!
0:55:27 > 0:55:29CHEERING
0:55:33 > 0:55:38I'll admit I didn't have that much faith in how the boys could pull off a wedding.
0:55:38 > 0:55:43I've perhaps been a bit harsh on Phil in the past and I maybe do need to apologise and say I was wrong.
0:55:43 > 0:55:46He's maybe not the person I thought he was.
0:56:02 > 0:56:06The steel drums and the limbo, it was such a great party atmosphere.
0:56:18 > 0:56:20Richard has given me a better wedding
0:56:20 > 0:56:23than I could possibly have dreamed of.
0:56:23 > 0:56:26Maybe even better than I could have done myself. Maybe!
0:56:26 > 0:56:30# Yeah, I wanna dance with somebody
0:56:30 > 0:56:34# With somebody who loves me
0:56:34 > 0:56:38# Oh, I wanna dance with somebody
0:56:38 > 0:56:42# I wanna feel the heat
0:56:42 > 0:56:44# Yeah, I wanna dance with somebody
0:56:46 > 0:56:50# With somebody who loves me. #
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