0:00:06 > 0:00:10Hold on to your hats. This is Don't Tell The Bride.
0:00:10 > 0:00:13- What do you think? - You look really nice.- Do I?
0:00:13 > 0:00:16- Only the bravest of brides... - I'm really scared.
0:00:16 > 0:00:21..would let their groom organise the biggest day of their life...
0:00:21 > 0:00:25- ..alone.- She's going to love it, I know she is. But she'll probably kill me.
0:00:25 > 0:00:27The grooms get £12,000.
0:00:27 > 0:00:28No strippers!
0:00:28 > 0:00:32And the brides get no say in how it's spent.
0:00:34 > 0:00:36With a million ways to splash the cash...
0:00:36 > 0:00:38I got married on a battleship.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40Black for Vegas, baby.
0:00:40 > 0:00:42..and a million things to organise...
0:00:42 > 0:00:46- I don't know what she wants. - He's well stressing me out.
0:00:46 > 0:00:48..can the guys pull it off in just three weeks?
0:00:48 > 0:00:50I can't do it.
0:00:50 > 0:00:52And will it be for better
0:00:52 > 0:00:53or for worse?
0:00:53 > 0:00:55After 10 minutes, I want to get it off.
0:00:55 > 0:00:58You've ripped the whole family apart.
0:00:58 > 0:01:00SHE GRUNTS
0:01:00 > 0:01:02This is hell on earth.
0:01:03 > 0:01:05- Tonight...- Rock and roll.
0:01:05 > 0:01:09Indie boy Hywel goes all-out to rock his bride-to-be Beca's world.
0:01:09 > 0:01:11Oh, my God!
0:01:11 > 0:01:13Will he cock up her hen night?
0:01:13 > 0:01:15I'm going to kill him!
0:01:15 > 0:01:19Will he remember it's a wedding, not a rock festival, he's planning?
0:01:19 > 0:01:22Tables named after bands, tickets for invites.
0:01:22 > 0:01:24Glastonbury, welcome to South Wales.
0:01:24 > 0:01:26Or will all his efforts be laid to waste...
0:01:26 > 0:01:28Really heavy downpours.
0:01:28 > 0:01:30..by the wet Welsh weather?
0:01:30 > 0:01:32Not good. Not good at all.
0:01:32 > 0:01:36Can this man give this woman the wedding of her dreams?
0:01:36 > 0:01:39I just don't feel comfortable in a wedding dress.
0:01:39 > 0:01:41It's only rock and roll, but I like it.
0:01:53 > 0:01:57Today, 28-year-old trainee social worker Hywel is moving out of the house he shares
0:01:57 > 0:02:02with his 29-year-old fiancee Beca, who's a civil servant.
0:02:02 > 0:02:04Can't forget my Batman pyjamas.
0:02:04 > 0:02:05No, mustn't forget those.
0:02:07 > 0:02:10Beca and Hywel live near Bridgend in South Wales.
0:02:10 > 0:02:15They went to the same school, but met again ten years later.
0:02:15 > 0:02:18'We met in a night club locally.'
0:02:18 > 0:02:23Beca gave me a false name and said I didn't earn enough money to keep her in the luxury she's accustomed to!
0:02:23 > 0:02:27I was only joking, though. Don't make me look shallow!
0:02:27 > 0:02:30Despite the rocky start, they quickly became an item.
0:02:30 > 0:02:34We went on a couple of dates, and it was like the big romance, really, wasn't it?
0:02:34 > 0:02:37- Yeah, it was quite whirlwind, wasn't it?- It was a whirlwind, yeah.
0:02:37 > 0:02:40MUSIC: "Girls & Boys" by Blur
0:02:40 > 0:02:44After just 11 months together, Hywel popped the question at a Blur gig.
0:02:47 > 0:02:51I looked at Beca, I just thought the moment was right and I got down on one knee.
0:02:51 > 0:02:54I said, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you, will you marry me?"
0:02:54 > 0:02:58And she just started laughing and said, "Get up, you idiot!"
0:03:02 > 0:03:08I just thought he was drunk, but when we spoke about it later we did decide we love each other,
0:03:08 > 0:03:11we want to be together forever, so why not get married?
0:03:13 > 0:03:16Deciding to get hitched to Hywel is a big decision for Beca.
0:03:16 > 0:03:18She was married before at just 19.
0:03:18 > 0:03:22'We didn't last very long, it didn't go very well.'
0:03:22 > 0:03:27I was young and silly and thought I knew it all, and everybody was telling me not to do it,
0:03:27 > 0:03:33so that made me want to do it even more.
0:03:33 > 0:03:39'I don't really regret it, cos I've got my son, and he's the best little boy ever.'
0:03:39 > 0:03:42Ready? That's a good one.
0:03:42 > 0:03:46Alex is now seven and the apple of his mother's eye.
0:03:46 > 0:03:51He's just the most amazing, special little man, and he loves Hywel and Hywel loves him,
0:03:51 > 0:03:54and they get on so well, which is lovely.
0:03:54 > 0:03:59The pressure is on for Hywel to make things perfect this time round.
0:03:59 > 0:04:03And the bride's got very clear ideas of what she expects.
0:04:03 > 0:04:06We're both jeans and T-shirt people,
0:04:06 > 0:04:11so I think our wedding should be really classy,
0:04:11 > 0:04:13really chic and elegant.
0:04:13 > 0:04:19But unfortunately for Beca, Hywel's style is more Britpop than classy.
0:04:19 > 0:04:22My personal style is formed, I suppose, by the musicians who I like,
0:04:22 > 0:04:24the sort of style they base themselves on as well.
0:04:27 > 0:04:29And his idol is the former Verve frontman.
0:04:29 > 0:04:31He worships Richard Ashcroft.
0:04:31 > 0:04:34MUSIC: "This Could Be My Moment" by The Verve
0:04:36 > 0:04:41He has been known to wear big beads around his neck and a big crucifix,
0:04:41 > 0:04:47and a black shirt undone to the chest, just like Richard Ashcroft, so he can look like him.
0:04:53 > 0:04:56I totally want it to be perfect for her second time around.
0:04:56 > 0:05:00I'm going to do everything in my power to make it the best wedding ever.
0:05:00 > 0:05:06'I've got a feeling there are some things he will slip up on, which I'm dreading,'
0:05:06 > 0:05:11but it is quite important because we're only going to do this once, so I really want him to get it spot on.
0:05:14 > 0:05:17It's time for the couple to say goodbye.
0:05:17 > 0:05:19Do a good job.
0:05:22 > 0:05:25- I'm going to miss you. - I'll miss you, too.
0:05:28 > 0:05:31I'll see you in three weeks, we'll be husband and wife.
0:05:31 > 0:05:35- OK, go now before I change my mind. - OK! Ta-ra.- Bye.
0:05:38 > 0:05:42The next time they meet will be at the altar.
0:05:46 > 0:05:48Hywel's moving back in with his mum.
0:05:48 > 0:05:51- You all right? - How are you? Here we go, then.
0:05:51 > 0:05:54Very rock-and-roll.
0:05:54 > 0:05:57Fortunately for this frontman,
0:05:57 > 0:06:03back-up is on the way in the shape of best men Tom and Spencer.
0:06:03 > 0:06:05Spence!
0:06:05 > 0:06:09Unfortunately, Spencer's speciality is waste, not wedding planning.
0:06:09 > 0:06:12Believe it or not, I had Binman of the Year 2009, 2010,
0:06:12 > 0:06:15so I'm a brilliant binman, but crap at organising weddings.
0:06:15 > 0:06:20Tom works for an online beauty store, and is convinced he's going to be more help.
0:06:20 > 0:06:23Whether it's beauty creams or dreams, I think I'm Hywel's man.
0:06:23 > 0:06:28With his band in position, it's time for Hywel to talk them through the gig.
0:06:28 > 0:06:34Big idea, really, for the wedding is it to be a rock festival wedding, right?
0:06:34 > 0:06:36'Live music, for me, is amazing,'
0:06:36 > 0:06:38particularly Glastonbury festival,
0:06:38 > 0:06:42which I make my pilgrimage to every year, and have done for the last three years.
0:06:42 > 0:06:44Tables named after bands, tickets for invites.
0:06:44 > 0:06:52I want to bring Glastonbury to South Wales and have music, laughter, life, fireworks.
0:06:52 > 0:06:56'That's the idea I'm looking to pull off, really.'
0:06:56 > 0:06:59I hope he doesn't really go for a themed wedding.
0:06:59 > 0:07:02I just want to keep things simple yet classy.
0:07:02 > 0:07:06So we want to be big, bold, spectacular, legendary, right?
0:07:06 > 0:07:09Tonight, ladies and gentlemen, we're going to have some fun.
0:07:09 > 0:07:11Yeah!
0:07:11 > 0:07:16And, on that, ahem, note, it's time to celebrate -
0:07:16 > 0:07:19in true rock and roll style, of course.
0:07:19 > 0:07:22MUSIC: "Cigarettes & Alcohol" by Oasis
0:07:25 > 0:07:27# Radio ga ga! #
0:07:29 > 0:07:35# In your head, in your head They are dying
0:07:35 > 0:07:36# In your head... #
0:07:42 > 0:07:44But what goes up must come down.
0:07:44 > 0:07:50I'm feeling fragile, to say the least. Bonkers.
0:07:50 > 0:07:52One Chardonnay too many.
0:07:52 > 0:07:57I fell asleep last night with my contact lens in, so my eye is really, like, poo.
0:08:00 > 0:08:04My hay fever's playing hell with me, as well, so, all in all, I ain't tip-top.
0:08:04 > 0:08:07It's the worst possible start for the boys.
0:08:07 > 0:08:10They're nursing hangovers when they should be finding a venue.
0:08:10 > 0:08:14I feel like death warmed up.
0:08:14 > 0:08:17Revived by a strong brew,
0:08:17 > 0:08:23the lads head off to Cardiff in search of a stadium to rock.
0:08:23 > 0:08:27And there's only one venue that this Cardiff City fan will consider.
0:08:34 > 0:08:37Can't you just picture the adoring crowds?
0:08:39 > 0:08:44- Awesome, isn't it? - You can have pictures in the dugouts, and in the stands.
0:08:44 > 0:08:48It's a nice photograph to have on the pitch with all your guests up there, cheering.
0:08:48 > 0:08:51How many wedding guests is he expecting? 26,000?
0:08:51 > 0:08:54Have you got a band in mind for your evening?
0:08:54 > 0:08:59Yeah, well, we'll see if we can get the Stereophonics, Manic Street Preachers!
0:08:59 > 0:09:02Hywel's clearly in la-la land.
0:09:02 > 0:09:05MUSIC: "Country House" by Blur
0:09:06 > 0:09:11The bride and her chief bridesmaid, Rayner, are doing some dreaming of their own.
0:09:11 > 0:09:13Hello, welcome to the Great Western.
0:09:13 > 0:09:16Pleased to meet you. Let me show you around.
0:09:16 > 0:09:19'My dream wedding would take place in a country mansion,
0:09:19 > 0:09:25'rolling green lawns outside for lovely photographs.'
0:09:25 > 0:09:28All the men in tux and the women in cocktail-y gowns.
0:09:28 > 0:09:34A vintage style, Breakfast At Tiffany's kind of look.
0:09:34 > 0:09:38Just simple, classy, elegant, stylish. That's what I want.
0:09:39 > 0:09:45The boys head off to check out a marginally more modest venue.
0:09:47 > 0:09:49Rock and roll!
0:09:52 > 0:09:57A marquee on a farm could be just the ticket for Hywel's rock festival concept.
0:09:58 > 0:10:01Have you got any idea of what sort of theme you want?
0:10:01 > 0:10:04- I want a festival theme, a music, rock and roll theme.- OK.
0:10:04 > 0:10:08So it's perfect with the grounds being on a farm similar to Glastonbury.
0:10:08 > 0:10:12MUSIC: "Glamorous Indie Rock & Roll" by The Killers
0:10:12 > 0:10:15It's a cool venue. I like the marquee, it falls in line with what we're looking for.
0:10:18 > 0:10:21Yeah, just like the Pyramid Stage(!)
0:10:21 > 0:10:23That's fitting in very well.
0:10:23 > 0:10:25- Right.- It's a cool venue, I'm liking it.
0:10:30 > 0:10:34It's really classy, it's just the kind of thing that I want.
0:10:34 > 0:10:37- It's lovely, isn't it, Rayner? - It's beautiful.
0:10:37 > 0:10:39This is our poolside lawn area,
0:10:39 > 0:10:46where we serve arrival drinks after the civil ceremony, so it's a chance for your guests to all chat together.
0:10:46 > 0:10:50Yeah, I'd like the staff to be carrying round trays of champagne.
0:10:50 > 0:10:53I think it'd be stunning.
0:10:57 > 0:11:01That's no swimming pool, it's a muddy trout lake.
0:11:01 > 0:11:03Get bales of hay around the place as well.
0:11:03 > 0:11:05Bales of hay outside is absolutely fine.
0:11:05 > 0:11:08And obviously the farmer, you could ship them over?
0:11:08 > 0:11:13- Sort that out? That'd be wicked. - What do you think, how does it look?
0:11:13 > 0:11:14Stunning. Simply stunning.
0:11:14 > 0:11:17- Marvellous.- Did he ask you, or me?
0:11:19 > 0:11:22How would it make you feel if Hywel chose a place like this?
0:11:22 > 0:11:24I'd be absolutely over the moon.
0:11:24 > 0:11:31It would just be everything that I want, I would be so happy if he chose a place like this.
0:11:31 > 0:11:33I just hope he has!
0:11:33 > 0:11:35I think this venue could be the ticket.
0:11:35 > 0:11:40It falls in line with the theme, and the surroundings are stunning. This could be it.
0:11:40 > 0:11:42Onwards and upwards.
0:11:42 > 0:11:45There's just one small problem.
0:11:45 > 0:11:50The marquee doesn't have a marriage licence, so Hywel still needs somewhere to get married.
0:11:50 > 0:11:52And he's only got an afternoon to find it.
0:11:57 > 0:11:59DOG BARKS
0:12:02 > 0:12:05Fortunately, Dyffryn Gardens is just down the road.
0:12:05 > 0:12:08It's an ornamental garden based on a Roman design.
0:12:08 > 0:12:10This is where the ceremony is held.
0:12:10 > 0:12:12That's lovely.
0:12:12 > 0:12:16So, you get exclusive use for 45 minutes for the ceremony,
0:12:16 > 0:12:20- so it's blocked off for about half an hour before that. - Right, yeah. Stunning.
0:12:20 > 0:12:24It is beautiful. You could decorate it and dress it how you like.
0:12:24 > 0:12:26OK, amazing.
0:12:26 > 0:12:28What happens if it rains?
0:12:28 > 0:12:32If it rains, I'm sorry, it's an open-air venue, that's one of the things,
0:12:32 > 0:12:35- you have to come prepared that it could potentially rain.- Right.
0:12:42 > 0:12:48Even festival lover Hywel won't gamble on the Welsh weather without taking a rain check.
0:12:51 > 0:12:54But, later that evening, he decides to take the plunge.
0:12:54 > 0:12:57All the best, cheers, mate.
0:12:57 > 0:13:00Congratulations, boy!
0:13:00 > 0:13:01The plunge! The plunge!
0:13:06 > 0:13:12Hywel splashes out over six grand on an outdoor ceremony and a marquee on a farm.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15Hywel, it's a great choice, I'm telling you, pal.
0:13:15 > 0:13:18It's going to be awesome. We're going to make it a day to remember.
0:13:18 > 0:13:22Glastonbury, welcome to South Wales!
0:13:25 > 0:13:29Let's hope Beca remembers her wellies.
0:13:37 > 0:13:41Today, the bride-to-be and bridesmaid Rayner
0:13:41 > 0:13:45are in Cardiff on the hunt for Beca's dream wedding dress.
0:13:45 > 0:13:50It's an emotional moment for Beca, whose mother passed away five years ago.
0:13:50 > 0:13:54My mum and dad were still together when my mum died.
0:13:54 > 0:13:59They had a very happy marriage, they were together since they were 17,
0:13:59 > 0:14:03and they loved each other very, very much.
0:14:03 > 0:14:09So I wouldn't want to settle for anything less than what my mum and dad had.
0:14:09 > 0:14:10- Hiya.- Hiya, nice to meet you.
0:14:10 > 0:14:14Let me show you some dresses, then.
0:14:14 > 0:14:20Beca wants an elegant Breakfast At Tiffany's wedding, with a Holly Golightly dress to match.
0:14:20 > 0:14:23- What do you think about that one, then?- No.- No?
0:14:23 > 0:14:28Too much skirt and too much detail, and too much bows.
0:14:30 > 0:14:32No, don't like that one.
0:14:32 > 0:14:35What I had in mind was sort of like
0:14:35 > 0:14:40just really classy and chic and sophisticated.
0:14:43 > 0:14:50The boys are in Swansea, and Hywel's on a mission to prove that he can pick the dress of Beca's dreams.
0:14:50 > 0:14:53Things are moving fast and furiously now into the third day of things.
0:14:53 > 0:14:56Looking sharp is my forte, let's put it that way. Woo-hoo!
0:14:59 > 0:15:02- So it's all down to you, Hywel? - It is, it's all on my shoulders.
0:15:02 > 0:15:04THEY LAUGH
0:15:09 > 0:15:12- Have you got a theme for the wedding?- I have got a theme for the wedding, yeah.
0:15:12 > 0:15:15I'm looking to do like a rock festival wedding.
0:15:15 > 0:15:19I could have just the dress, then.
0:15:19 > 0:15:21It's called Rock And Roll.
0:15:21 > 0:15:23- You're joking?- No!
0:15:23 > 0:15:26And those are the magic words.
0:15:26 > 0:15:30This is the rock and roll dress.
0:15:30 > 0:15:31That looks wicked.
0:15:34 > 0:15:36We've got some more Ian Stuart gowns here.
0:15:38 > 0:15:42- That's...quite a dress. - I don't get that.
0:15:42 > 0:15:45I don't want all the glitz and glamour and all of that.
0:15:45 > 0:15:50She'd be like the marshmallow man on the Ghostbusters film with that on!
0:15:54 > 0:15:59And the marshmallow look isn't one his 5'0" bride can get away with.
0:16:02 > 0:16:04How does it make you feel?
0:16:06 > 0:16:07Is it not you?
0:16:07 > 0:16:08I don't really know!
0:16:08 > 0:16:11- I don't think it is. - Turn and face me.
0:16:11 > 0:16:14It's everything I thought I wanted for the wedding
0:16:14 > 0:16:17but now I have got it on, it's just not me.
0:16:19 > 0:16:22SHE GASPS That looks beautiful on you.
0:16:24 > 0:16:26A bit weird, isn't it?
0:16:28 > 0:16:31I'm really worried about Hywel choosing my dress now,
0:16:31 > 0:16:34because I thought I knew what would look good on me
0:16:34 > 0:16:37and I've tried it on, and they don't look good at all.
0:16:37 > 0:16:41Beca is trying to channel her inner Audrey Hepburn.
0:16:41 > 0:16:45Do you feel comfortable in something so fitted, Bec? No?
0:16:45 > 0:16:48I just don't think I feel comfortable in a wedding dress.
0:16:50 > 0:16:53Now this, I love.
0:16:53 > 0:16:57This is the rock and roll one.
0:16:57 > 0:17:01Yeah, it's wicked, it's an absolutely beautiful dress.
0:17:04 > 0:17:06It's only rock and roll, but I like it!
0:17:08 > 0:17:10This is the third dress.
0:17:13 > 0:17:17As good as it is, it's not rock and roll, know what I mean?
0:17:17 > 0:17:24Blinded by his rock festival theme, Hywel is refusing to consider any alternatives.
0:17:24 > 0:17:27I think the gown for my girl is Rock And Roll.
0:17:27 > 0:17:30- Absolutely.- So let's rock and roll!
0:17:35 > 0:17:40And if you can give me a rock bottom price, including their hair flower, the dress and the shoes,
0:17:40 > 0:17:42yeah, we could be in business?
0:17:42 > 0:17:45I could probably do a 50% deal on that.
0:17:45 > 0:17:47- Is that a deal?- Deal.
0:17:47 > 0:17:48Let's shake hands.
0:17:54 > 0:17:57It is an impulsive move from the indie rocker.
0:17:57 > 0:18:00Hywel has spent £700 on the first dress he saw,
0:18:00 > 0:18:03on the basis of its name.
0:18:05 > 0:18:08It might be rock and roll, but will she like it?
0:18:19 > 0:18:20It's Beca's hen night.
0:18:20 > 0:18:22- Hi!- Hello!
0:18:22 > 0:18:25But as Hywel has spent seven grand in under seven days,
0:18:25 > 0:18:28he's got to economise somewhere.
0:18:28 > 0:18:35So he blags a favour from stepdad, Steve, who runs a business providing an unusual kind of pampering.
0:18:35 > 0:18:38There will be screams going on everywhere, it will be bonkers.
0:18:38 > 0:18:39Surprise, surprise!
0:18:39 > 0:18:41Let's Go, Batman!
0:18:43 > 0:18:48- Has Matthew not given you any clues? - Nothing at all, Becks, it's doing my head in.
0:18:48 > 0:18:54I've been trying to text him to find that what is going on, but nothing.
0:18:55 > 0:18:58My little heart is like... ba-boom, ba-boom, ba-boom!
0:19:03 > 0:19:09Her little heart would skip a beat if she knew what was going on in Porthcawl at her dad's B&B.
0:19:10 > 0:19:14There is something fishy going on round here.
0:19:14 > 0:19:17- Are they hungry? - They are looking really hungry.
0:19:17 > 0:19:20Starving, you can see.
0:19:20 > 0:19:24Well, a couple of hours, they will be getting fed.
0:19:28 > 0:19:30Awww! Do I have to?
0:19:30 > 0:19:31Yeah, you have to.
0:19:33 > 0:19:35Put that on.
0:19:35 > 0:19:38There is no fancy transport for this hen.
0:19:38 > 0:19:39It's a minibus!
0:19:39 > 0:19:41It's a minibus!
0:19:42 > 0:19:46You are so tight getting me a minibus!
0:19:53 > 0:19:56This is the way to my father's!
0:19:56 > 0:20:00Oh, my God, look at that! Oh, my God!
0:20:00 > 0:20:03GIRLS SCREAM
0:20:03 > 0:20:05But there will be topless waiters.
0:20:05 > 0:20:08Ooh, it's a bit nipply out!
0:20:11 > 0:20:13Thank you!
0:20:13 > 0:20:16OK, smile!
0:20:21 > 0:20:24Time for the pamper party to begin.
0:20:27 > 0:20:29With a Piscean pedicure!
0:20:29 > 0:20:32I'm not putting my feet in there.
0:20:34 > 0:20:35I'm not doing it!
0:20:35 > 0:20:36I don't like fish!
0:20:38 > 0:20:41GIRLS SCREAM
0:20:41 > 0:20:45- Oh, my God, oh, my God! - I'm not doing it.
0:20:46 > 0:20:48Oh, my God!
0:20:48 > 0:20:51No, no.
0:20:51 > 0:20:56It's like you've stepped on, like, poppadoms.
0:20:57 > 0:21:03It is all in a day's work for these specially-bred garra rufa, or doctor fish.
0:21:06 > 0:21:09It's really weird. It is fab, I love it.
0:21:09 > 0:21:11I'm going to kill him!
0:21:12 > 0:21:15'I wanted something really special.'
0:21:15 > 0:21:19I really thought he would go all out for me so I am really disappointed.
0:21:19 > 0:21:23'I am so worried now, what he has done for the wedding.'
0:21:23 > 0:21:25If he has done this for my hen do,
0:21:25 > 0:21:30I am so worried about what the hell he is doing.
0:21:39 > 0:21:44The start of week two, and Hywel is motoring through his wedding planning.
0:21:44 > 0:21:45Today he is tackling suits.
0:21:45 > 0:21:52With his best men back at work, Hywel has found himself two other advisers.
0:21:52 > 0:21:56Rhodri Bwye, known as Bye-bye, and soon-to-be stepson, Alex.
0:21:56 > 0:21:59I want him to look really smart and scrubbed up.
0:21:59 > 0:22:02I want him to wear a tux.
0:22:07 > 0:22:11What I'm thinking is, right, Bye-bye, I reckon a vintagey-brown looking suit.
0:22:11 > 0:22:15- That type of brown definitely matches your personality.- Yeah?!
0:22:15 > 0:22:18I take that as a compliment. D'you reckon brown is the way forward?
0:22:18 > 0:22:21- Yes.- Good.
0:22:22 > 0:22:24This is the chocolate brown.
0:22:24 > 0:22:28- If you would like to try that on? - That is what I'm after.
0:22:28 > 0:22:31Mud, Glastonbury, it is all about me.
0:22:31 > 0:22:35Hang on? So he's actually matching his suit to the Glastonbury mud?
0:22:35 > 0:22:37That's taking devotion a step too far.
0:22:37 > 0:22:41Heaven knows what he's matching his footwear to!
0:22:45 > 0:22:48You will certainly be noticed with those shoes!
0:22:48 > 0:22:50I'm liking the suit a lot, buddy.
0:22:50 > 0:22:53The waistcoat and tie looks really nice.
0:22:53 > 0:22:54I've got a Cantona collar on!
0:22:54 > 0:22:56- I'm liking that.- Are you?
0:22:56 > 0:23:01I'm loving the colour of the suit. I'm loving the tie option as well.
0:23:01 > 0:23:05Easier to do in the morning, that, because cravats are carnage.
0:23:05 > 0:23:07I don't know about those, buddy.
0:23:07 > 0:23:10It does take away from the classic look of the suit.
0:23:10 > 0:23:15I'm coming round to that. When I first saw them, I thought, what's going on there?
0:23:15 > 0:23:19But I reckon when the suit size is right, and it's all proper fitted,
0:23:19 > 0:23:22I think I'm just going to have to make a call on the morning of the wedding, really.
0:23:22 > 0:23:24It looks a bit like Doctor Who.
0:23:24 > 0:23:27You could be David Tennant and I can be Matt Smith.
0:23:27 > 0:23:32I like where you're coming from. We'll get the old sonic screwdrivers on the go, yeah?
0:23:32 > 0:23:33I'm feeling it.
0:23:33 > 0:23:37- The choice of what you have chosen is excellent, it's lovely. - I reckon it's the business.
0:23:37 > 0:23:41Will Beca see the humour in her Time Lord's colour scheme,
0:23:41 > 0:23:45or come the wedding, will she want to exterminate him?
0:23:46 > 0:23:50MUSIC: "Bat Out Of Hell" by Meat Loaf
0:23:51 > 0:23:56This groom has gone full throttle at the wedding planning for the past week and a half.
0:23:59 > 0:24:01He has booked two wacky venues,
0:24:02 > 0:24:04bought the first wedding dress he saw,
0:24:06 > 0:24:08plumped for a mud coloured suit
0:24:08 > 0:24:10and added random yellow trainers.
0:24:10 > 0:24:15He has also sorted a registrar and coaches for his guests.
0:24:15 > 0:24:17I need 50-seater buses.
0:24:17 > 0:24:21And ordered a replica of the Glastonbury Pyramid Stage, as you do!
0:24:21 > 0:24:22It's a bit crazy!
0:24:27 > 0:24:30As a result, he is in danger of busting the budget.
0:24:30 > 0:24:37I have spent £10,548, so the first half of organising the wedding
0:24:37 > 0:24:41I really went out like a bat out of hell really and spent a lot of money.
0:24:44 > 0:24:47Still a lot to do from the tight budget, isn't it?
0:24:50 > 0:24:54But there's no rest for the wacky.
0:24:54 > 0:24:58This festival junkie splashes 400 quid on flowers.
0:24:58 > 0:25:01- They are dandelions, are they? - No, they are gerberas.
0:25:03 > 0:25:05Blows 400 of his own money on a band.
0:25:05 > 0:25:08What is your availability, can you check your diary?
0:25:08 > 0:25:12Unfortunately, the Stereophonics aren't available.
0:25:12 > 0:25:17And with the help of his third best man, Joe, turns his mind to transport.
0:25:17 > 0:25:20I'm thinking something a bit wacky, a bit different.
0:25:22 > 0:25:23Here it is now.
0:25:23 > 0:25:25Ha-ha!
0:25:25 > 0:25:28- Now we are talking, aren't we? - Oh, bloody hell.
0:25:31 > 0:25:34I'm loving it.
0:25:40 > 0:25:43It's not a bad ride, is it?
0:25:43 > 0:25:48- It's a bit bouncy but it will add to the occasion, you know?- Yeah.
0:25:52 > 0:25:54I think we're just going to go for it.
0:25:54 > 0:25:55Yeah, I think so.
0:26:03 > 0:26:08Unaware of the work her groom is putting in to his rock festival idea,
0:26:08 > 0:26:11Beca is wondering if this wedding will happen at all.
0:26:11 > 0:26:18I'm hoping my invitation is going to come soon so that I at least know what date we are getting married.
0:26:18 > 0:26:23I'm hoping the invitation isn't going to be hand-made by Hywel.
0:26:23 > 0:26:30Anything tacky with stick-on bits and stick-on paper flowers
0:26:30 > 0:26:33and shiny little diamonds and things like that.
0:26:34 > 0:26:38No, with this groom, it's class all the way.
0:26:38 > 0:26:42I'm just sending the first batch of texts out as invitations,
0:26:42 > 0:26:45so away we go.
0:26:45 > 0:26:51I mean, inviting people via text to the wedding isn't formal, isn't traditional,
0:26:51 > 0:26:53but I'm not formal or traditional really.
0:26:53 > 0:26:57It is the quickest way. Text is best.
0:26:59 > 0:27:03He's obviously not allowed to contact his bride,
0:27:03 > 0:27:07so it looks like she's not going to be invited to her own wedding.
0:27:17 > 0:27:20For Beca's dream Breakfast At Tiffany's wedding,
0:27:20 > 0:27:24she wants formal, elegant table decorations.
0:27:24 > 0:27:28- This is lovely, isn't it? - This is really nice. Is that something you would like?
0:27:28 > 0:27:30Yeah, just what I had in mind.
0:27:41 > 0:27:42Seems pretty tight to me.
0:27:42 > 0:27:48I like that it is just the white flowers, contrasting against the black vase.
0:27:48 > 0:27:50It is great, just what I want.
0:27:58 > 0:28:00HE LAUGHS
0:28:12 > 0:28:16It's been two weeks since Beca last saw her man.
0:28:16 > 0:28:18I am really missing Hywel.
0:28:18 > 0:28:22He is the love of my life and we have so much fun together,
0:28:22 > 0:28:26so when he's not with me, it's just a bit too quiet.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28Oh, this is heavy, for me.
0:28:28 > 0:28:30'Time is really dragging.'
0:28:30 > 0:28:35I'm going to bed every night and I'm thinking, thank goodness it is one more day down.
0:28:35 > 0:28:38- We'll both do it this time. - Right. Ready, steady...
0:28:40 > 0:28:43Slow... Ah!
0:28:43 > 0:28:47'Being married to Hywel means everything to me.
0:28:47 > 0:28:50I just love him so much. I want be Mrs Ap Dafydd,
0:28:50 > 0:28:54And spend the rest of my life with him and grow old with him
0:28:54 > 0:28:59and just getting married is the ultimate commitment which I am willing to make.
0:29:06 > 0:29:08I've had another lightbulb go off in the old head.
0:29:08 > 0:29:12In the build-up to the wedding my entourage and I are going
0:29:12 > 0:29:16to be putting together a music video using Wonderwall.
0:29:16 > 0:29:20'Wonderwall is a special song for us.
0:29:20 > 0:29:23'It is a song which has defined a generation,'
0:29:23 > 0:29:28and that generation is mine and Beca's, but I think of Beca as my wonderwall.
0:29:28 > 0:29:32'I have always said it to her, so it is going to be good.'
0:29:34 > 0:29:38So, Hal, if you go in the middle, Drew, you come on this end...
0:29:38 > 0:29:43The next day, Hywel gets his friends and family together to create the video tribute to Beca.
0:29:43 > 0:29:47This is my directorial debut, see how it goes.
0:29:47 > 0:29:52Al, you need a guitar. Make it look like you are playing, yeah?
0:29:52 > 0:29:54That's good, Al.
0:29:54 > 0:29:56Are we all set?
0:29:58 > 0:29:59Right, here we go.
0:29:59 > 0:30:04# And all the roads we have to walk are winding
0:30:05 > 0:30:09# And all the lights that light us there are blinding... #
0:30:10 > 0:30:13Hywel may have Liam's haircut, but he does not have his voice.
0:30:13 > 0:30:18# Because maybe
0:30:18 > 0:30:19# You're gonna... #
0:30:19 > 0:30:21- Ah!- BLEEP!
0:30:21 > 0:30:23HE LAUGHS
0:30:23 > 0:30:27# And after all
0:30:29 > 0:30:32# You're my wonderwall... #
0:30:34 > 0:30:36Tidy.
0:30:36 > 0:30:39THEY LAUGH
0:30:39 > 0:30:40I'm stinking!
0:30:40 > 0:30:45After all his creative efforts, Hywel needs to let his hair down.
0:30:49 > 0:30:51Luckily, it's time for his stag.
0:30:53 > 0:30:55- ALL:- Cheers!
0:30:55 > 0:30:59It is a hard job trusting him and wondering what he's doing,
0:30:59 > 0:31:05when I can't see him or even just, you know, a quick text or anything like that.
0:31:05 > 0:31:07THEY CHEER
0:31:07 > 0:31:09'I have had moments of worry this last fortnight,'
0:31:09 > 0:31:12where I've been thinking, oh, my gosh, he could be doing anything.
0:31:17 > 0:31:20Looks like the stag might have peaked too soon.
0:31:21 > 0:31:24Hywel, Hywel, listen, it's six o'clock.
0:31:24 > 0:31:26We're in Cardiff.
0:31:26 > 0:31:29Tidy. You're sweet as a nut.
0:31:29 > 0:31:32Get away from me.
0:31:32 > 0:31:34Hywel, here's a pint of water for you.
0:31:34 > 0:31:36Oh! Joseph Jones!
0:31:40 > 0:31:41Holding up, lads!
0:31:48 > 0:31:55It's the end of the second week and Hywel's put aside £300 for bridesmaids' dresses.
0:31:55 > 0:31:58But he hopes he doesn't have to spend it all.
0:31:58 > 0:32:01To be honest, I'm not the biggest of fans of shopping in general.
0:32:01 > 0:32:04So not looking forward to getting dresses today for the girls.
0:32:04 > 0:32:06It's tough luck on his bridesmaids,
0:32:06 > 0:32:08Rayner, and Beca's little sister, Nicole.
0:32:08 > 0:32:13- I am a little bit scared because I really don't know what he's going to choose for us.- Same.
0:32:13 > 0:32:15Ladies. I've got my colour scheme sorted.
0:32:15 > 0:32:17It's going to be brown or gold, right?
0:32:17 > 0:32:19Right...!
0:32:19 > 0:32:24- And I'm thinking, as cheap and cheerful as possible, this will be.- Right!
0:32:24 > 0:32:26(God!)
0:32:27 > 0:32:31Just get a similar colour or even if you're in different colours, maybe.
0:32:31 > 0:32:34- I don't know. - Two different style dresses?
0:32:34 > 0:32:37- Yeah, as long as it's the same colour, isn't it?- Are you sure?
0:32:37 > 0:32:38Yeah, whatever. It'll be fine.
0:32:38 > 0:32:41Do you think it's nicer to have them in the same material,
0:32:41 > 0:32:46purely because if you go for satin and taffeta, you've got two completely different contrasts?
0:32:46 > 0:32:50Oh, right, now you're talking absolute gibberish to me, to be honest.
0:32:50 > 0:32:53I don't know what different material's gold satin...
0:32:53 > 0:32:56That's like a taffety-type, so, or, like, yeah, it is.
0:32:56 > 0:32:59Well, listen, yeah, just do what you like, do you know what I mean?
0:33:02 > 0:33:04It's massive on me, Hywel.
0:33:04 > 0:33:07Yeah, but that can be taken in and that, can't it?
0:33:13 > 0:33:17Well, at least brown dresses won't show the mud.
0:33:17 > 0:33:21I think that dress, yeah, looked really good on both of you,
0:33:21 > 0:33:24so if we can get a gold dress now that looks good on either of you...
0:33:24 > 0:33:26She hasn't got any.
0:33:26 > 0:33:32She got one like that in gold but it's a size 18 so it can't be altered to my size.
0:33:32 > 0:33:36So there's no other gold dress that would go with that for the two of you there?
0:33:36 > 0:33:38Not really.
0:33:38 > 0:33:40It's not really happening, is it?
0:33:42 > 0:33:47All Hywel can do is ask the shop owner to try and get him another matching dress.
0:33:47 > 0:33:48- Cheers.- OK, thank you.
0:33:48 > 0:33:50Will she be able to find him one in time?
0:33:59 > 0:34:04It's six days till the wedding and Hywel's choosing music for the reception.
0:34:04 > 0:34:06A bit of everything, really.
0:34:06 > 0:34:10You know, uplifting Britpop tunes, indie tunes, some random dance tunes
0:34:10 > 0:34:14from the 80s like Boom Shaka Laka and Chaka Demus and Pliers.
0:34:14 > 0:34:17Hywel shouldn't be worrying about dodgy dance tunes.
0:34:17 > 0:34:21He should be worried about his outdoor wedding.
0:34:26 > 0:34:29NEWSREADER: 'It's time to get a look at the weather. Sue Charles is here.'
0:34:29 > 0:34:34'For parts of South Wales, certainly along south-east Wales, we've had some really heavy downpours.
0:34:34 > 0:34:38'A band of rain has brought some pretty wet weather...'
0:34:38 > 0:34:41And this is August.
0:34:41 > 0:34:44The Welsh weather's definitely not playing ball.
0:34:44 > 0:34:46It's a very miserable Monday.
0:34:57 > 0:35:01I'm not regretting my decision to go for an outside wedding venue.
0:35:01 > 0:35:04I think I wanted something special, I wanted it to be bold.
0:35:04 > 0:35:08I wanted something that's spectacular and that's what we've got.
0:35:11 > 0:35:15Obviously, I mean, I'd be a fool not to be slightly worried about what Beca thinks.
0:35:15 > 0:35:19I mean, I'm sure the guests would prefer it if the sun was shining
0:35:19 > 0:35:24or they were undercover as opposed to being in the middle of a downpour.
0:35:24 > 0:35:29In terms of relying upon the Welsh weather, I have taken a massive gamble. There's no doubt about it.
0:35:36 > 0:35:41Hywel's on his way to collect the centrepiece to his theme, the mini-Pyramid Stage.
0:35:41 > 0:35:45With no budget left, he's charmed a friend into making it for free.
0:35:45 > 0:35:50Aah! I'm absolutely loving it!
0:35:50 > 0:35:52- Have we got a bit of Sellotape? - Oh, yes.- Yeah?
0:35:52 > 0:35:55Sorry, you're just going to have to wait.
0:35:55 > 0:35:58- Good luck, right.- Thank you.
0:35:58 > 0:35:59He's going to need it.
0:35:59 > 0:36:04If it rains, he's not even got enough money left for brollies.
0:36:12 > 0:36:18Just 48 hours to go and Hywel sends best man Tom to make a delivery to Beca.
0:36:18 > 0:36:20I'm going to give her an invite for the big day.
0:36:20 > 0:36:26I believe it's a bit late so I've managed to acquire a few goodies to try and appease the situation.
0:36:26 > 0:36:28Well, good morning, Rebecca. How are we?
0:36:28 > 0:36:31Cheesegate at your services! How are we?
0:36:31 > 0:36:34I'm all right. I'm nervous. What have you got for me?
0:36:34 > 0:36:36- I can imagine. You should be! - Oh, God!
0:36:36 > 0:36:37I've got a few things for you.
0:36:37 > 0:36:41This is an invite... This is an invite for the big day.
0:36:41 > 0:36:44- Thank you.- And then we've got some goodies here.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47- Oh!- Why look good when you can look fantastic?
0:36:48 > 0:36:53- Ooh!- Are you excited?- Yeah. Shall we open the invitation? - Yeah, go on, then.
0:36:53 > 0:36:55This party invitation.
0:37:01 > 0:37:04My lovely wedding invitation.
0:37:04 > 0:37:07Well, it's classier than a text. Just.
0:37:07 > 0:37:11What does it say at the bottom? "Hope you can come"!
0:37:14 > 0:37:15- Is that what you had in mind?- No!
0:37:17 > 0:37:19So are you going to go?
0:37:19 > 0:37:21- Yes, I suppose.- Why not?!
0:37:21 > 0:37:23Got nothing else on, have I?
0:37:26 > 0:37:29God alive!
0:37:29 > 0:37:32Prankster Tom slipped in a little extra.
0:37:32 > 0:37:34Libido booster!
0:37:34 > 0:37:38Heightened sensations of pleasure and desire!
0:37:41 > 0:37:46I'm worrying what he's expecting from me after he's given me this libido booster!
0:37:55 > 0:38:00It's the day before the wedding, and down on the farm, Hywel's sorting out his table plan.
0:38:04 > 0:38:05Lovely jubbly.
0:38:08 > 0:38:10Brian?
0:38:11 > 0:38:12Richard?
0:38:12 > 0:38:15Absolute nightmare, this job.
0:38:15 > 0:38:21Basically, got to sort all these names out for each of the tables and it's just like a jigsaw.
0:38:21 > 0:38:24I wish I'd delegated it to one of the boys, if I'm honest with you.
0:38:24 > 0:38:27Right pain in the proverbial.
0:38:30 > 0:38:31Who's Richard?
0:38:33 > 0:38:34I've seen Pam twice.
0:38:34 > 0:38:36BLEEP!
0:38:37 > 0:38:40Rachel... I've seen Rachel about three times.
0:38:40 > 0:38:43Maybe they're different Rachels?
0:38:45 > 0:38:50In just 24 hours, his bride will be heading to her outdoor wedding.
0:38:50 > 0:38:52RAIN POURS OUTSIDE Bloody hell! It's hammering down.
0:38:52 > 0:38:55MUSIC: "Umbrella" by Manic Street Preachers
0:38:59 > 0:39:01Just what I need.
0:39:01 > 0:39:04I've got this rubbish job to do and then the rain is pouring.
0:39:04 > 0:39:06Can't wait(!)
0:39:12 > 0:39:14Shelley, Ceri.
0:39:18 > 0:39:21In Swansea, it's the moment Beca's been dreading.
0:39:21 > 0:39:27The bride who wanted to look like Holly Golightly is about to see her rock-and-roll frock.
0:39:27 > 0:39:28Hiya.
0:39:28 > 0:39:31- How are you feeling?- Really nervous. I just want to see my dress.
0:39:31 > 0:39:34- Yeah, so do we! Come down. - Thank you.
0:39:37 > 0:39:42Rayner and Beca's aunties, Pauline and Linda, have come to hold her hand.
0:39:42 > 0:39:46How will the short dress go down with the 5'0" bride?
0:39:46 > 0:39:49Oh, it's in there.
0:39:49 > 0:39:51Are you OK?
0:39:51 > 0:39:54Oh, God, what if it's horrible?
0:39:54 > 0:39:57- It's not.- It won't be. - It'll be all right.
0:39:57 > 0:39:59This is Hywel, mind, we're talking about.
0:40:07 > 0:40:11- Oh, that's gorgeous! - Oh, my God!- That's so nice.
0:40:11 > 0:40:14- Stunning.- Stunning, Bec. It's beautiful.
0:40:14 > 0:40:20And it looks like it's going to fit you.
0:40:20 > 0:40:22That's beautiful.
0:40:23 > 0:40:26- Are you ready to try it on? - Yeah, yeah, let's get it on.
0:40:33 > 0:40:34Oh, my God.
0:40:34 > 0:40:36You look gorgeous.
0:40:36 > 0:40:38It's a little bit big.
0:40:40 > 0:40:44It'll just need to be adjusted.
0:40:44 > 0:40:46You look amazing.
0:40:48 > 0:40:51Doesn't she look lovely?
0:40:53 > 0:40:54Does it look nice?
0:40:54 > 0:40:57Gorgeous. How do you feel?
0:40:57 > 0:41:01Yeah. It needs to be taken in. But I don't know, I haven't seen myself.
0:41:01 > 0:41:05- I'm worried that the length is too long.- No, it's not.
0:41:12 > 0:41:15- Do you think it's too long?- No!
0:41:16 > 0:41:20Do you like it? Are you thinking it's too long for you?
0:41:20 > 0:41:23Maybe. I need a tan as well, don't I?
0:41:23 > 0:41:28- And it doesn't make my legs look stumpy or anything, does it?- No.
0:41:28 > 0:41:31The longer she has it on, the more the doubts creep in.
0:41:31 > 0:41:33Are you sure the length is OK?
0:41:33 > 0:41:37I'm just a little bit worried that it's too long for me because I'm so short.
0:41:37 > 0:41:40This bow shouldn't be higher on my hip, should it?
0:41:40 > 0:41:44- No, it's perfect.- What about my hair, does it not clash with my hair?
0:41:44 > 0:41:45No!
0:41:46 > 0:41:49Oh, my God, that's beautiful.
0:41:49 > 0:41:50Gorgeous.
0:41:50 > 0:41:52- Did he choose this?- Yes.
0:41:52 > 0:41:54Isn't it cute?
0:41:54 > 0:41:57Quick, get it off before she changes her mind!
0:41:57 > 0:41:59- Take it off?- Yeah.
0:42:08 > 0:42:10It's the evening before the big day,
0:42:10 > 0:42:15and there's one little person who has high hopes for the future.
0:42:15 > 0:42:19I really missed Hywel the last few weeks.
0:42:19 > 0:42:23I'm really looking forward for my mother to marry Hywel
0:42:23 > 0:42:26and I'm really excited too.
0:42:34 > 0:42:40It's the morning of the wedding and in this corner of south Wales it's not raining.
0:42:42 > 0:42:46The bride has no idea how lucky she is.
0:42:46 > 0:42:48- Cheers!- Happy wedding day.
0:42:54 > 0:43:01I was awake at about half past five and I couldn't get back to sleep then. A bit anxious.
0:43:03 > 0:43:06Excited about all the surprises and seeing what he's done.
0:43:06 > 0:43:11So, did the groom manage to get hold of matching bridesmaid's dresses in the end?
0:43:11 > 0:43:15I've got no idea what they're going to come in wearing.
0:43:20 > 0:43:24Oh, oh my gosh.
0:43:27 > 0:43:28I so wasn't expecting that!
0:43:28 > 0:43:31Really traditional.
0:43:31 > 0:43:34They're not an exact match.
0:43:34 > 0:43:36- And you've got a different colour. - Sash.
0:43:36 > 0:43:38That's lovely.
0:43:38 > 0:43:41Yeah, I can see why he went for the different coloured sash
0:43:41 > 0:43:45for Rayner because then that picks her out as the maid of honour.
0:43:45 > 0:43:48He's just thought of everything. He's done really well.
0:43:48 > 0:43:50Hmm... More by accident than design!
0:43:50 > 0:43:53Just let me have a look at the flower.
0:43:54 > 0:43:57Do you think it matches the brown or is it...?
0:43:59 > 0:44:01Not completely, no.
0:44:05 > 0:44:11There's more mud brown heading her way in the shape of dad Clive and son Alex's suits.
0:44:11 > 0:44:12HE KNOCKS ON DOOR
0:44:15 > 0:44:19Oh, you look lovely!
0:44:19 > 0:44:22Oh, you look so lovely, come here.
0:44:22 > 0:44:25You look like Oliver Twist!
0:44:25 > 0:44:29Aww! You look lovely.
0:44:29 > 0:44:30And you too, Dad!
0:44:30 > 0:44:32- Sorry.- You're not bad yourself!
0:44:32 > 0:44:35Oh, babe, you look so...
0:44:37 > 0:44:39Watch my make-up!
0:44:39 > 0:44:42Sit down there and don't move. Don't crease anything.
0:44:45 > 0:44:51Over at a local B&B, Hywel's decided against the yellow trainers after all. Phew!
0:44:53 > 0:44:57He's continued his brown colour scheme right through to his face.
0:44:58 > 0:45:00Tom Jones, eat your heart out, with a tan.
0:45:00 > 0:45:03HE LAUGHS
0:45:04 > 0:45:05Put shades on now as well.
0:45:07 > 0:45:10- We are rocking. - We are rocking. We will!
0:45:10 > 0:45:13Quality. Let's go.
0:45:14 > 0:45:19Yeah. I'll just get my shoes on now and I'll feel better, because I'm taller.
0:45:20 > 0:45:22Hold your dress up for me.
0:45:24 > 0:45:26Perfect.
0:45:26 > 0:45:28Fab.
0:45:31 > 0:45:35- Are you sure I look all right? - You look amazing.
0:45:35 > 0:45:37Got you just a little present.
0:45:37 > 0:45:39- Something for you to wear. - Aww, thank you!
0:45:39 > 0:45:41Oh, a garter!
0:45:41 > 0:45:44- It's your something blue. - Oh, it's lovely.
0:45:46 > 0:45:49Something for him to take off with his teeth!
0:45:49 > 0:45:51You ready now?
0:45:51 > 0:45:54Yes. Come on, let's do it.
0:45:59 > 0:46:01Oh! It's a camper van!
0:46:03 > 0:46:04How do we get in there?
0:46:04 > 0:46:08That's real cool, isn't it? Come on.
0:46:26 > 0:46:28Where are we going?
0:46:28 > 0:46:31The suspense is killing me.
0:46:37 > 0:46:39How are we, right, enjoy the hen do?
0:46:41 > 0:46:46At the ornamental gardens, the weather's still holding up.
0:46:46 > 0:46:49It's looking pretty good. I wouldn't have fancied it if it was raining, mind.
0:46:49 > 0:46:53Luckily enough, it's turned out nice for them.
0:46:53 > 0:46:56I think God's looking down on Hywel and his decision to go outside.
0:46:56 > 0:47:00It would have been terrible if it was raining, but no, it's lovely.
0:47:07 > 0:47:09I just don't know where we're going.
0:47:09 > 0:47:12We're just driving aimlessly around South Wales!
0:47:14 > 0:47:16Welcome to Dyffryn.
0:47:16 > 0:47:18Dyffryn Gardens...
0:47:21 > 0:47:24- This is nice, isn't it? - Lovely place.
0:47:24 > 0:47:25Oh, wow.
0:47:28 > 0:47:30Thank you. Thank you very much.
0:47:30 > 0:47:32Well done.
0:47:32 > 0:47:35I've never been here before but it's really lovely,
0:47:35 > 0:47:39and what I've seen so far, the grounds are stunning.
0:47:39 > 0:47:44It's really nice. So I'm just eager now to see what's through there!
0:47:50 > 0:47:52MUSIC OVER SPEAKERS: "Wonderwall" by Oasis
0:47:52 > 0:47:55CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:48:03 > 0:48:05It's a bit tight here, isn't it?
0:48:05 > 0:48:06Yeah.
0:48:12 > 0:48:14How are you so brown?
0:48:15 > 0:48:18- Have you been on the beds?- I've been working outside, haven't I?
0:48:19 > 0:48:24- REGISTRAR:- Those of you that have seats, please be seated.
0:48:24 > 0:48:26Shaking.
0:48:26 > 0:48:28If I could ask you just to step forward.
0:48:30 > 0:48:35Hywel, do you willingly commit yourself in marriage to Beca?
0:48:35 > 0:48:36- I do.- Thank you.
0:48:36 > 0:48:40Rebecca, do you willingly commit yourself in marriage to Hywel?
0:48:40 > 0:48:45- I do.- Thank you. - RIPPLE OF LAUGHTER
0:48:45 > 0:48:49- I, Hywel John Ap Dafydd... - I, Hywel John Ap Dafydd...
0:48:49 > 0:48:53- ..take thee, Rebecca Jane Dawkins... - ..take thee, Rebecca Jane Dawkins...
0:48:53 > 0:48:56- ..to be my wedded wife. - ..to be my wedded wife.
0:48:56 > 0:49:01I promise to cherish and care for you, to live with you in love and harmony.
0:49:01 > 0:49:04I give you this ring as a symbol of my endless love for you.
0:49:04 > 0:49:07- All that I am...- All that I am...
0:49:07 > 0:49:09- ..and all that I have... - ..and all that I have...
0:49:09 > 0:49:10- ..I bring to you.- ..I bring to you.
0:49:10 > 0:49:12(Thank you.)
0:49:12 > 0:49:14- May this ring...- May this ring...
0:49:14 > 0:49:17- ..remind us of this moment... - ..remind us of this moment...
0:49:17 > 0:49:20..and the commitment I have made to you.
0:49:20 > 0:49:23..and the commitment I have made to you.
0:49:23 > 0:49:27It gives me the greatest of pleasure to tell you that you're now husband and wife.
0:49:27 > 0:49:30If you wish, you can kiss your bride.
0:49:30 > 0:49:33CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:49:39 > 0:49:41CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:49:41 > 0:49:46MUSIC: "C'Mon People (We're Making It Now)" by Richard Ashcroft
0:49:57 > 0:50:00I think it's amazing. Amazing so far.
0:50:00 > 0:50:03You've just done everything spot-on. Thank you.
0:50:03 > 0:50:05- The best it can be.- Is it? Aww!
0:50:05 > 0:50:09So far, so good.
0:50:09 > 0:50:12But what's she going to make of the farm marquee?
0:50:19 > 0:50:21Just over there, I think.
0:50:21 > 0:50:23- You see the dirt-track? - Where are you taking us?
0:50:25 > 0:50:28- What is it?- What is it?
0:50:28 > 0:50:31- It's quite clearly a farm.- A farm.
0:50:34 > 0:50:36SHE GASPS
0:50:36 > 0:50:37No!
0:50:46 > 0:50:49Come and have a look, babe.
0:50:50 > 0:50:52Oh!
0:50:52 > 0:50:54Welcome to our wedding.
0:50:54 > 0:50:56It's brilliant! Look at the flowers!
0:50:56 > 0:51:00Hywel's ditched the wellies in favour of vases.
0:51:00 > 0:51:02Look at the table decorations.
0:51:02 > 0:51:04The album covers!
0:51:04 > 0:51:06I can't stop smiling.
0:51:06 > 0:51:09The cake as well. Come and have a closer look.
0:51:09 > 0:51:12I can see it's a camper van!
0:51:13 > 0:51:16Oh! That's brilliant!
0:51:16 > 0:51:18Oh, my God!
0:51:18 > 0:51:23Have a look. Some lovely photographs of you and me from Glastonbury.
0:51:23 > 0:51:25- Oh, my God! - HYWEL LAUGHS
0:51:30 > 0:51:32Look at that cracker!
0:51:32 > 0:51:34My boring shorts, and you in that lovely mac!
0:51:36 > 0:51:37Hywel!
0:51:37 > 0:51:41Oh, that's funny.
0:51:41 > 0:51:44I've brought Glastonbury to South Wales, babe, what do you think?
0:51:44 > 0:51:47It's brilliant. I love it so much...
0:51:47 > 0:51:50I'm speechless. Thank you, babe.
0:51:50 > 0:51:52- You're welcome.- And I love you.
0:51:52 > 0:51:54I love you, too.
0:51:54 > 0:51:57- I love you.- Don't cry!
0:51:57 > 0:51:59Let's go outside and enjoy the view.
0:51:59 > 0:52:02MUSIC: "Heartbeat" by Scouting For Girls
0:52:08 > 0:52:10Please make your way to the tables now.
0:52:10 > 0:52:13Make your way to the tables, thank you.
0:52:17 > 0:52:19CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:52:28 > 0:52:29I think some people are really surprised
0:52:29 > 0:52:35with Hywel's organisational skills and the fact he's actually pulled off this whole event within three weeks.
0:52:35 > 0:52:37It's quite an achievement really.
0:52:37 > 0:52:40He's obviously worked his butt off,
0:52:40 > 0:52:43and he's just thought of absolutely everything that he can think of
0:52:43 > 0:52:45and he has, he's pulled it off really well.
0:52:47 > 0:52:50BAND PLAYS PSYCHEDELIC ROCK
0:52:50 > 0:52:55Hywel has definitely brought Glastonbury to South Wales in miniature form.
0:52:55 > 0:52:57Everything is absolutely brilliant.
0:52:57 > 0:53:00I think the only things missing are the portable toilets!
0:53:02 > 0:53:06Hywel's got one last surprise for his festival bride.
0:53:06 > 0:53:09To my beautiful wife.
0:53:09 > 0:53:14Beca, my best friend and my partner, my soul mate,
0:53:14 > 0:53:17my love, my life and now you're my wife.
0:53:17 > 0:53:20But most of all, you're my wonderwall.
0:53:20 > 0:53:21- AUDIENCE:- Aww!
0:53:21 > 0:53:23So this is from me with love to you, Bec.
0:53:24 > 0:53:28MUSIC: "Wonderwall" by Oasis
0:53:34 > 0:53:36It's awesome, Alex!
0:53:40 > 0:53:44LAUGHTER # Today is going to be the day
0:53:44 > 0:53:48# That they're gonna throw it back to you
0:53:48 > 0:53:51# By now, you should have somehow realised that you gotta do
0:53:51 > 0:53:59# I don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you now
0:54:04 > 0:54:08# Backbeat, the word is on the street that the fire in your heart is out
0:54:10 > 0:54:14# I'm sure you've heard it all before but you never really had a doubt
0:54:14 > 0:54:21# I don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you now
0:54:25 > 0:54:29# And all the roads we have to walk are winding
0:54:31 > 0:54:34# And all the lights that lead the way are blinding
0:54:37 > 0:54:41# There are many things that I would like to say to you
0:54:41 > 0:54:43# But I don't know how
0:54:47 > 0:54:50- # I said maybe - I said maybe
0:54:50 > 0:54:51HYSTERICAL LAUGHTER
0:54:51 > 0:54:54# You're gonna be the one that saves me
0:54:54 > 0:54:56# Saves me
0:54:57 > 0:55:00# You're gonna be the one that saves me
0:55:00 > 0:55:02- BOTH:- # Saves me
0:55:02 > 0:55:06# You're gonna be the one that saves me
0:55:06 > 0:55:08# Saves me... #
0:55:13 > 0:55:14CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:55:33 > 0:55:36I think he's done a really good job,
0:55:36 > 0:55:39and he's gone to a lot of trouble to do it.
0:55:39 > 0:55:44I'm really, really glad that he's in my family now,
0:55:44 > 0:55:50and I'm sure he's going to do a really good job of being a stepfather.
0:55:56 > 0:56:00Today has just been amazing, in one word.
0:56:00 > 0:56:02The weather. The people.
0:56:02 > 0:56:04All Hywel's choices.
0:56:04 > 0:56:08The dress, the venue, everything has just been perfect.
0:56:08 > 0:56:11He's pulled it off. You have pulled it off.
0:56:13 > 0:56:16Thank you, Hywel. It's been amazing.
0:56:16 > 0:56:20It's been just perfect. I couldn't have asked for anything more.
0:56:20 > 0:56:23I couldn't have done it better myself. So thank you.
0:56:23 > 0:56:25- And I love you.- I love you, too.
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