0:00:02 > 0:00:06This programme contains some strong language
0:00:06 > 0:00:08Don't Tell The Bride celebrates weddings like no-one else.
0:00:08 > 0:00:11- From New York... ..to Glasgow... - Oh, my God.
0:00:11 > 0:00:13..Las Vegas...
0:00:13 > 0:00:16- Why would the man I love do this? - ..to Ibiza.
0:00:16 > 0:00:21- I can't even plan a wedding!- And one unforgettable rollercoaster ride.
0:00:21 > 0:00:24Why the hell are we at Thorpe Park on my wedding day?!
0:00:24 > 0:00:28And now, we're back, as 12 more unsuspecting brides
0:00:28 > 0:00:31- prepare for the journey of a lifetime.- What?!
0:00:31 > 0:00:36- The grooms get three weeks and £12,000.- Wedding!- Wedding!
0:00:36 > 0:00:42- And the brides get no say in how it's spent.- I'd never imagine Ben could get it this wrong.
0:00:42 > 0:00:44So, get ready to rock...
0:00:44 > 0:00:46I don't even want you in me wedding!
0:00:46 > 0:00:48As the party reaches new heights...
0:00:48 > 0:00:50and sinks to new lows...
0:00:52 > 0:00:55..with more fairytale endings than ever before.
0:00:55 > 0:00:58This is supposed to be the biggest day of my life, and I'm not happy.
0:00:58 > 0:01:00Switch it off.
0:01:00 > 0:01:05Tonight, reckless spender Adam is being given the chance to earn
0:01:05 > 0:01:07his bride Lydia's trust...
0:01:07 > 0:01:11I just hope that he's doing the right thing.
0:01:11 > 0:01:13..and organise the wedding of her dreams.
0:01:13 > 0:01:16It's going to be flash, completely over the top, Jay-Z-like.
0:01:16 > 0:01:18While she wants a simple and traditional ceremony...
0:01:18 > 0:01:20Weddings, to me, are in churches.
0:01:20 > 0:01:22..he's out to create the biggest,
0:01:22 > 0:01:24most bling wedding party of all time.
0:01:24 > 0:01:28I'm trying to hire an animal for a wedding - tigers and lions.
0:01:28 > 0:01:30But as he splashes the cash on a flashy reception...
0:01:30 > 0:01:33It's not, actually, is it?
0:01:33 > 0:01:35..and two days before the wedding,
0:01:35 > 0:01:38turns his venue into a party house...
0:01:38 > 0:01:41the budget starts to dwindle.
0:01:41 > 0:01:42We've got no money left.
0:01:42 > 0:01:46- And he's forced to rope in Mum and Nan...- Be a waitress?
0:01:46 > 0:01:49- Are you for real? - Can this big-spending groom...
0:01:49 > 0:01:51This is the life. This is how we roll.
0:01:51 > 0:01:54- ..make his bride feel a million dollars?- What are we doing?
0:01:54 > 0:01:58- I got animal poo on my dress. - Or will he be for ever in her debt?
0:01:58 > 0:02:01Is this it? This is all I get?
0:02:01 > 0:02:02We massively screwed up.
0:02:02 > 0:02:05- It's a joke.- I know.
0:02:17 > 0:02:20Young lovebirds Adam and Lydia first set eyes on each other
0:02:20 > 0:02:24on a night out in Exeter two years ago.
0:02:24 > 0:02:28When I first met Lydia, she was like a goddess. Olive skin...
0:02:28 > 0:02:31I just thought, "Wow!" And then...
0:02:31 > 0:02:35she was actually interested, so I was like, "Get in there!"
0:02:35 > 0:02:38I'm punching way above my weight. From there, I've not let her go. Not let her escape.
0:02:38 > 0:02:42# Where have you been all my life? #
0:02:42 > 0:02:47Punching above his weight is what 25-year-old Adam does best.
0:02:47 > 0:02:50And keen to keep his 21-year-old princess happy,
0:02:50 > 0:02:53he spoilt her with a lavish champagne lifestyle.
0:02:53 > 0:02:58He would always buy me gifts. He'd take me out for meals a lot.
0:02:58 > 0:03:01After three months, the inseparable pair moved in together.
0:03:01 > 0:03:04I was only 19, we kind of had our own space,
0:03:04 > 0:03:08which was brilliant for me, because I'd never had that.
0:03:08 > 0:03:13So out of all my friends, I was the plush one with the nice house.
0:03:14 > 0:03:18A year ago, Adam lost his job as an electrician.
0:03:18 > 0:03:20But that didn't stop his reckless spending,
0:03:20 > 0:03:22trying to please the love of his life.
0:03:22 > 0:03:25I was living way beyond my means, I was gambling,
0:03:25 > 0:03:27spending money left, right and centre and in the end,
0:03:27 > 0:03:31betting silly bets with mine and Lydia's rent money,
0:03:31 > 0:03:35which - inevitably - I lost. I did mess up in a really bad way.
0:03:35 > 0:03:40When I found out Adam had gambled all the rent money, um...
0:03:40 > 0:03:41It broke my heart.
0:03:41 > 0:03:45If I found that out with anyone else, I'd have walked away,
0:03:45 > 0:03:47straight away. I wouldn't have looked back,
0:03:47 > 0:03:49but I realised that I loved him
0:03:49 > 0:03:53and when you love someone, you love every bit of them.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56Looks good. Thank you, Mother.
0:03:56 > 0:04:02The couple had no choice but to move in with Adam's mum and dad.
0:04:02 > 0:04:05And his little sister...
0:04:05 > 0:04:06and his nan.
0:04:06 > 0:04:08'It's hard.'
0:04:08 > 0:04:10You don't want to come back from having all your privacy
0:04:10 > 0:04:13to then having absolutely nothing, just a room.
0:04:13 > 0:04:17It was time for marketing assistant Lydia to take charge.
0:04:17 > 0:04:20I took his bank cards, I went and put my name on his bank account,
0:04:20 > 0:04:22so I could go in and get bank statements.
0:04:22 > 0:04:26So I had complete control over any spending he had.
0:04:26 > 0:04:30Despite their troubles, Lydia stuck by her man,
0:04:30 > 0:04:32who knew then that she was the one.
0:04:32 > 0:04:35But with no money for a lavish proposal,
0:04:35 > 0:04:38big spender Adam was forced to improvise.
0:04:38 > 0:04:42On the day I proposed to Lydia, we went for a nice walk along the coast.
0:04:42 > 0:04:45Got to the top of the hill - a really nice, beautiful spot, overlooking the sea.
0:04:45 > 0:04:49She was eating a bag of sweets, and in the sweets was a jelly ring.
0:04:49 > 0:04:52I got down on one knee, and thank God she said yes!
0:04:54 > 0:04:57I'd have liked a real ring, but, you know, you can't always get what you want!
0:04:57 > 0:05:00And proving he can be more responsible,
0:05:00 > 0:05:05Adam's found a new job and a more suitable career.
0:05:05 > 0:05:09I work with companies that have gone bankrupt and liquidation.
0:05:09 > 0:05:12- So it's quite, like... - What's that word? Contradicting?
0:05:12 > 0:05:14- Ironic.- Ironic!
0:05:14 > 0:05:16# Isn't it ironic? Don't you think? #
0:05:16 > 0:05:19Now the once-spendthrift Adam
0:05:19 > 0:05:22will have to go it alone and prove that he really has put
0:05:22 > 0:05:26the past behind him, by giving Lydia a wedding to remember.
0:05:26 > 0:05:30This is a massive chance for Adam to prove
0:05:30 > 0:05:34he can be given this money and trusted to plan my wedding.
0:05:34 > 0:05:36I've never trusted him with anything,
0:05:36 > 0:05:38so this would be a massive, massive deal.
0:05:38 > 0:05:41Is going to be a big redemption for me.
0:05:41 > 0:05:44I want to prove to them that I can live within my means,
0:05:44 > 0:05:47live within a budget, and that I'm more responsible now
0:05:47 > 0:05:49than I was in the past.
0:05:49 > 0:05:53Proving he's changed is crucial for Lydia,
0:05:53 > 0:05:56who wants nothing more than security in her life.
0:05:56 > 0:06:02My parents divorced and remarried and it was awful,
0:06:02 > 0:06:04going through that when I was a child.
0:06:04 > 0:06:08And I never want that for anyone
0:06:08 > 0:06:10and I know that when I marry Adam,
0:06:10 > 0:06:12it will be for life.
0:06:14 > 0:06:17Lydia is after a girlie, but traditional wedding.
0:06:18 > 0:06:22My perfect ideal wedding would be my mum's, when she remarried.
0:06:22 > 0:06:27It was perfect. Her dress was gorgeous. She had the sit-down meal.
0:06:27 > 0:06:30I would want my day to be a replica of that, really.
0:06:30 > 0:06:32I don't want a big do.
0:06:32 > 0:06:36I'm going to go all-out, big, massive, extravagant.
0:06:36 > 0:06:39She deserves this massive day and I'm going to provide her with it.
0:06:39 > 0:06:43Having let her down once already, Adam knows this time,
0:06:43 > 0:06:45failure is not an option.
0:06:45 > 0:06:47This is the biggest day of my life
0:06:47 > 0:06:50and if Adam doesn't get this right, then...
0:06:50 > 0:06:53I don't know what the future will hold.
0:06:55 > 0:06:57It's time for the couple to say goodbye.
0:07:01 > 0:07:03Put it in the back.
0:07:03 > 0:07:05The next time they see each other
0:07:05 > 0:07:07will be on the biggest day of their lives.
0:07:14 > 0:07:15Don't set me off!
0:07:18 > 0:07:22- Don't do anything stupid!- (I won't.)
0:07:27 > 0:07:29See you at the altar!
0:07:31 > 0:07:35- I love you.- I love you.- Drive safe.
0:07:41 > 0:07:44For the next three weeks, Lydia will be staying with her mum,
0:07:44 > 0:07:46six miles down the road.
0:07:46 > 0:07:49I do worry that he's going to go off track.
0:07:49 > 0:07:51He's going to have freedom again
0:07:51 > 0:07:55and not have someone to keep him on the straight and narrow.
0:07:55 > 0:07:58Let's hope best man Aaron can keep him in check.
0:07:58 > 0:08:02Hello, mate! What are you doing here?!
0:08:02 > 0:08:04'My best man, Aaron - I've known him for 20 years.
0:08:04 > 0:08:06'He knows he's going to have to rein me in a bit,
0:08:06 > 0:08:07'cos I'm going to be going,'
0:08:07 > 0:08:09"I want this, I want that".
0:08:09 > 0:08:11He's going to have to tell me "no" sometimes.
0:08:11 > 0:08:14I thought, seeing as we've got a lot of planning to do...
0:08:14 > 0:08:17Lydia dreams of a simple, plain, small wedding.
0:08:17 > 0:08:20- But for Adam...- I reckon it's going to be flash,
0:08:20 > 0:08:22completely over the top...
0:08:22 > 0:08:25Jay-Z-like, big party...
0:08:25 > 0:08:30- As extravagant as I can be.- Without blowing the budget on Cristal.- Yeah!
0:08:30 > 0:08:33- Big-time.- Big-time?- Big-time.
0:08:33 > 0:08:36And so the groom who struggles to keep an eye on his finances
0:08:36 > 0:08:39is planning an A-List-style party,
0:08:39 > 0:08:43on a budget that would barely cover Jay-Z's drinks bill.
0:08:43 > 0:08:46This is your cue to say no, Aaron.
0:08:46 > 0:08:49We'll have these, then knock it on the head for the night.
0:08:49 > 0:08:50- Getting late, isn't it? - Maybe not, then.
0:08:50 > 0:08:52- Here's to a good three weeks.- Yeah.
0:08:55 > 0:08:58The following morning and at her mum's house,
0:08:58 > 0:09:00Lydia's finding it hard to relax.
0:09:00 > 0:09:03The thought of Adam on the loose with the wedding money
0:09:03 > 0:09:04is a worry for everyone.
0:09:04 > 0:09:06He's never had that sort of money in his life.
0:09:06 > 0:09:09And I budget everything, anyway, in the relationship.
0:09:09 > 0:09:13I just hope he's good with that money.
0:09:13 > 0:09:16And thinks, you know, takes time to think.
0:09:16 > 0:09:18Yeah.
0:09:18 > 0:09:21I just don't want him to sort of, break your heart or hurt you,
0:09:21 > 0:09:25- you know...- Again.- Again, yeah.
0:09:28 > 0:09:33I just hope that he's... He's doing the right thing.
0:09:35 > 0:09:38And not being stupid with it, or...
0:09:40 > 0:09:43Stupid? Maybe, but at least they're eager.
0:09:44 > 0:09:47Not wasting any time, the boys have travelled 80 miles
0:09:47 > 0:09:53down the Cornish coast to check out a possible venue for Adam's lavish wedding reception.
0:09:53 > 0:09:58Sylvanus is a £5 million mansion with a prime hilltop location
0:09:58 > 0:10:01overlooking a pretty harbour.
0:10:01 > 0:10:03So it really IS fit for the stars.
0:10:03 > 0:10:05Wow, look at that.
0:10:05 > 0:10:07That is absolutely massive. Over the top. Huge house.
0:10:07 > 0:10:11- Let me pick my jaw up off the floor a minute. Jesus!- Stands out.
0:10:11 > 0:10:13Looks out over that.
0:10:13 > 0:10:16It might not be the obvious choice for a simple, traditional wedding,
0:10:16 > 0:10:19and you can't actually get married here,
0:10:19 > 0:10:23but when it comes to house parties, well, there's no contest.
0:10:23 > 0:10:25This is Silvanus.
0:10:25 > 0:10:27This is the hallway...
0:10:27 > 0:10:31Inside, there's no grand staircase or ballroom.
0:10:31 > 0:10:35But there is a snooker room, a games room, and a built-in disco.
0:10:35 > 0:10:38And the killer features don't stop there.
0:10:38 > 0:10:41There are seven plush bedrooms.
0:10:41 > 0:10:43This is actually bigger than the whole downstairs of my house.
0:10:43 > 0:10:47And even a honeymoon suite for the newlyweds.
0:10:48 > 0:10:50That would completely blow her mind.
0:10:50 > 0:10:54- But it's another area that blows the boys' minds.- Oh, my God.
0:10:54 > 0:10:58- That's unbelievable.- This is what we were looking for, mate, really,
0:10:58 > 0:10:59when you think about the wow factor.
0:10:59 > 0:11:03Yep, these boys are hoping to wow their guests with...a flashy loo.
0:11:03 > 0:11:06We said we wanted A-list, this is A-list.
0:11:06 > 0:11:11And with a 40-foot pool, Adam's imagination is running wild.
0:11:11 > 0:11:14Just see it now - all sat around the pool,
0:11:14 > 0:11:18drinking cocktails with a big Cuban cigar. This is what it's all about. This is what I wanted.
0:11:18 > 0:11:21- Just imagine yourself getting married here.- Yeah.
0:11:21 > 0:11:24The house comes at a staggering price of six grand,
0:11:24 > 0:11:29not including food or drink, and that's for a Tuesday to Friday booking.
0:11:29 > 0:11:32The boys have opted for a Thursday wedding,
0:11:32 > 0:11:34so for a few days beforehand,
0:11:34 > 0:11:36they'll have the place to themselves.
0:11:36 > 0:11:39We could spend the four days living it up on the high life,
0:11:39 > 0:11:41living like kings.
0:11:41 > 0:11:44We can actually be celebrities for four days, can't we?
0:11:44 > 0:11:47- People would be talking about it for months, wouldn't they?- Yeah.
0:11:47 > 0:11:51Definitely the talk of the town, and that's what we want. Big-time was our theme. There it is.
0:11:51 > 0:11:55So Adam forks out half his budget on a flashy house.
0:11:55 > 0:11:57But he thinks he can save in other areas.
0:11:57 > 0:12:02It is a lot of money, but with this place, it's that wow factor,
0:12:02 > 0:12:05so the place that we legally have to get married,
0:12:05 > 0:12:08I don't think has to have the whole, you know, wow factor
0:12:08 > 0:12:11of walking down the aisle and stuff.
0:12:11 > 0:12:14That may be the case for party-obsessed Adam,
0:12:14 > 0:12:17but for Lydia, it's all about the ceremony.
0:12:19 > 0:12:23A couple of miles from home, she's visiting a very special place
0:12:23 > 0:12:25with her mum, Bev, and older sister, Jade.
0:12:27 > 0:12:30It's the church where her mum remarried, eight years ago.
0:12:30 > 0:12:35I really want to get married here. I'll be gutted if I can't.
0:12:35 > 0:12:38Lydia and Jade were both bridesmaids
0:12:38 > 0:12:42- and that wedding is the template for Lydia's dream day. - It's grand, isn't it?
0:12:42 > 0:12:46Yes. And really traditional, which is what I want.
0:12:46 > 0:12:49A wedding to me, is in churches. A wedding, you have in churches.
0:12:49 > 0:12:52I've always wanted, like, a traditional church wedding.
0:12:52 > 0:12:56That's what I always want, so if I can't have that,
0:12:56 > 0:12:58I'll be devastated.
0:12:58 > 0:13:01- Yeah.- And the fact that it means something to us
0:13:01 > 0:13:05and our family, it'd mean a lot to get married here.
0:13:05 > 0:13:09I couldn't think of anything worse than getting married in a place, which meant nothing to me.
0:13:09 > 0:13:11Just like a hall, or a place,
0:13:11 > 0:13:14or something, which didn't have any meaning.
0:13:14 > 0:13:18I'm glad that we've been here again now today with Lydia,
0:13:18 > 0:13:20because she's just clarified that it's what she wants
0:13:20 > 0:13:23and that we've been able to see it at least, even if she doesn't get it,
0:13:23 > 0:13:26but that's what I'm hoping doesn't happen.
0:13:26 > 0:13:29Hopefully she does get it and we'll have a really perfect day here.
0:13:30 > 0:13:33I will be heartbroken, though, if I can't have it.
0:13:33 > 0:13:36I really want to get married here.
0:13:36 > 0:13:38I hope that I can and I'm worried now that I don't think I will
0:13:38 > 0:13:40and I'm going to be really upset.
0:13:42 > 0:13:45In Cornwall, Adam's main criteria for his ceremony venue
0:13:45 > 0:13:48is that it's near to his party mansion.
0:13:48 > 0:13:51The only thing I'm struggling with slightly is the size of this room.
0:13:51 > 0:13:52Not much of an aisle to walk down.
0:13:52 > 0:13:54No. About five steps, isn't it?
0:13:54 > 0:13:57Yes, by the time you turn around, she'll be over your shoulder.
0:13:57 > 0:14:02- Exactly. It's like a living room, isn't it?- No kidding.
0:14:02 > 0:14:04He's in the lounge of a hotel.
0:14:04 > 0:14:09Not only that, but the room can only seat half of Adam's 100 guests.
0:14:09 > 0:14:12If she comes in from that door there and sees a bar...? Know what I mean?
0:14:12 > 0:14:17- I know.- How important is the legal part of getting married for you?
0:14:17 > 0:14:19To me, it's not massively important,
0:14:19 > 0:14:22but to Lydia, I think it definitely is.
0:14:22 > 0:14:25If we was organising it, she'd book a church.
0:14:25 > 0:14:27Definitely. One million percent.
0:14:27 > 0:14:31This venue may not be right for Adam's ceremony, but at the height
0:14:31 > 0:14:36of summer, most places are busy, so he has no choice but to book it.
0:14:36 > 0:14:39So with the registrar and venue, that's 884.
0:14:39 > 0:14:43In with Silvanus, that's 6,884.
0:14:43 > 0:14:45Only three days in,
0:14:45 > 0:14:50and Adam's frittered away over half his budget on two venues. With a free holiday thrown in(!)
0:14:50 > 0:14:52Ceremony, reception...
0:14:52 > 0:14:57- Roll on the...party!- And...we're going on holiday for four days.- Yep!
0:14:57 > 0:14:59- Nice break.- Shall we go get a beer to celebrate?
0:14:59 > 0:15:01- Let's get a beer to celebrate. - Come on.
0:15:01 > 0:15:04And so, on the big day, the girl who's desperate for a church wedding
0:15:04 > 0:15:08will travel two hours down the coast to be married in a hotel lounge
0:15:08 > 0:15:11followed by a massive house party down the road.
0:15:15 > 0:15:18Even though Lydia's parents are divorced she has asked them
0:15:18 > 0:15:21both to meet her in the hope they can ease her worries about how
0:15:21 > 0:15:23Adam is spending his cash.
0:15:23 > 0:15:26- You must have seen something in him that you can trust him?- Yes.
0:15:26 > 0:15:29I would not go through it if I did not trust him
0:15:29 > 0:15:31but he is very easily led astray.
0:15:31 > 0:15:34On the day he might be fantastic and you will look at him
0:15:34 > 0:15:36and go, "How did he manage that?"
0:15:36 > 0:15:40- And he has grown up and that is it. - I can't see it happening.
0:15:40 > 0:15:46Don't you worry that he is going to mess up because I do all the time?
0:15:46 > 0:15:47I think you will see the side of him,
0:15:47 > 0:15:50and what I have seen of Adam, I have seen him in different situations
0:15:50 > 0:15:53and I think he will cope and I don't think he will mess up.
0:15:53 > 0:15:56Just see what happens and just go with it.
0:15:56 > 0:16:00Just... He will probably give you that fairytale wedding that you've
0:16:00 > 0:16:03always wanted and you can draw a line under everything that's happened in the past
0:16:03 > 0:16:07and you can think, "OK, he's done what he said he was going to do and it has worked out well."
0:16:07 > 0:16:11- I probably won't see you until the wedding day.- No, you won't.
0:16:11 > 0:16:13You won't. That's really scary.
0:16:14 > 0:16:18I wish they were together still and I wish they never got divorced
0:16:18 > 0:16:21'but obviously things happen.'
0:16:21 > 0:16:24- I try not to worry.- Cheerio. - See you soon.- See you on the day.
0:16:24 > 0:16:29'It's nice that we can all sit around and we can all still have
0:16:29 > 0:16:31'that bond, that family bond,'
0:16:31 > 0:16:34which is reassuring and nice,
0:16:34 > 0:16:38but at the same time it just makes me now so much more aware
0:16:38 > 0:16:41that I want the person I get married to, to be the person for life.
0:16:41 > 0:16:46And how much my wedding day is massively important.
0:16:49 > 0:16:53Hiya, my name is Aaron. I have just been on your website.
0:16:53 > 0:16:57I am enquiring about trying to hire an animal for a wedding.
0:16:57 > 0:17:01I've been looking at tigers and lions. No, not at all? Is there any particular reason?
0:17:02 > 0:17:04It's against the law, is it?
0:17:04 > 0:17:07With lions out of the question the boys need to find another way
0:17:07 > 0:17:09to add to the A-list glitz.
0:17:09 > 0:17:11We definitely said we want a red carpet.
0:17:11 > 0:17:13Red carpet is pretty much a must.
0:17:13 > 0:17:16If we are going red carpet, A list,
0:17:16 > 0:17:18what about getting celebrity lookalikes?
0:17:18 > 0:17:21Maybe if you could get them wandering around,
0:17:21 > 0:17:24getting photographs of people, handing out drinks?
0:17:24 > 0:17:27With the grand plan to have celebrity lookalikes at the wedding
0:17:27 > 0:17:29the boys are off to the lights of London
0:17:29 > 0:17:31with stars in their eyes.
0:17:32 > 0:17:37And the stars don't come much bigger than Simon Cowell, Mr T,
0:17:37 > 0:17:44Gordon Ramsay, Will Smith, Austin Powers, and Mr Posh Spice.
0:17:44 > 0:17:48Adam needs to decide which A-lister will join his glitzy party.
0:17:48 > 0:17:51- Hi.- How are you doing?
0:17:51 > 0:17:54- Good to see you.- Hello, I'm Aaron. Hello.
0:17:54 > 0:17:58- How are you doing?- Hi, I'm Aaron.
0:17:58 > 0:18:01- Hello, baby!- How are you?- Groovy.
0:18:01 > 0:18:03- My idol, Becks.- Nice to meet you.
0:18:03 > 0:18:04Mr Beckham, nice to meet you.
0:18:04 > 0:18:11- I'm also a DJ.- Two ticks.- Tick that box. Also I can do the red carpet, theme out the venue.
0:18:13 > 0:18:16You want the number one? Done. You know what I mean?
0:18:16 > 0:18:19When it comes to the disco you need somebody to step on the
0:18:19 > 0:18:22good foot and do the bad thing, baby, get those people bopping.
0:18:22 > 0:18:27I can pull out the Neuralyzer. When you get married, flash it on, forget it.
0:18:27 > 0:18:32So starstruck Adam splashes out a whopping 950 quid for
0:18:32 > 0:18:36a Will Smith lookalike and a Simon Cowell DJ.
0:18:36 > 0:18:40- But he's not stopping there. - Hey guys what's up?
0:18:40 > 0:18:46- I'm Britney.- Hi, I'm Adam.- Adam. - I'm Aaron.- Aaron.
0:18:46 > 0:18:48Do you have any particular Britney outfit in mind?
0:18:48 > 0:18:52The catsuit! Or the schoolgirl. OK.
0:18:52 > 0:18:55- Can you give us an example of your performance?- OK.
0:18:55 > 0:18:57# Baby, can't you see I'm calling
0:18:57 > 0:19:02# A girl like you should wear a warning
0:19:02 > 0:19:05# It's dangerous, I'm falling. #
0:19:05 > 0:19:08- Thanks very much.- Thank you.
0:19:08 > 0:19:13Oops! He quite literally did it again with another £350 to book Britney.
0:19:13 > 0:19:16It's not even the end of week one and Adam's already spent
0:19:16 > 0:19:19eight grand on a blinging house and some fake celebs.
0:19:19 > 0:19:22Still, at least he'll have Simon Cowell on the decks.
0:19:22 > 0:19:27Everything I've seen I wanted to book. Obviously I want that feel, that celebrity feel,
0:19:27 > 0:19:29and everything we've seen ticks all those boxes.
0:19:29 > 0:19:33What about the best man hired to hold Adam back?
0:19:33 > 0:19:37Maybe if we had only seen one lookalike we'd have been happy with that.
0:19:37 > 0:19:38But the more you see the more you want.
0:19:38 > 0:19:42That's where the 12 grand poses a problem because it doesn't go on forever.
0:19:46 > 0:19:49200 miles from the bright lights of London, Lydia is with
0:19:49 > 0:19:53her family, reminiscing about her mum's wedding day eight years ago.
0:19:55 > 0:19:57It's pretty, isn't it?
0:19:57 > 0:20:01- Look at it. - I like it like it's really like,
0:20:01 > 0:20:06it doesn't go out loads. I don't want it over the top, and loads going on. It's very subtle.
0:20:06 > 0:20:13But pretty. Looking at all your bits and bobs has hit home now.
0:20:13 > 0:20:17I don't think I'm going to have any of that
0:20:17 > 0:20:23or Adam would have done any of that because it's a very girlie, womanly thing,
0:20:23 > 0:20:26to get necklaces, the little bags to go with the flower girls,
0:20:26 > 0:20:30the nice little thing to go in your hair. I can't see him doing that.
0:20:30 > 0:20:34It does make me worry because with my wedding
0:20:34 > 0:20:38when I planned my wedding I knew exactly what I wanted.
0:20:38 > 0:20:44- Just absolutely everything. To make everyone feel good.- Feel good.
0:20:44 > 0:20:50- And look good. And you don't have that. I would hate it.- I know.
0:20:50 > 0:20:53I don't know...
0:20:58 > 0:21:00Come here. Come here.
0:21:03 > 0:21:05Just...
0:21:07 > 0:21:09It breaks my heart to see Lydia getting upset
0:21:09 > 0:21:14because I know how important it is to her now.
0:21:14 > 0:21:16Everything is at stake for Adam.
0:21:24 > 0:21:26It's the beginning of week two,
0:21:26 > 0:21:30time for Adam to face his biggest challenge yet -
0:21:30 > 0:21:36Finding an A-list wedding dress fit for his A-list party.
0:21:36 > 0:21:37It's my wife-to-be's wedding dress.
0:21:37 > 0:21:42If I pull it off I will be an absolute hero. If I don't then I could be walking down the aisle
0:21:42 > 0:21:44and getting a slap at the end of it.
0:21:44 > 0:21:47I'm a little bit scared.
0:21:47 > 0:21:54Where do we start? Strapless, maybe like goes in?
0:21:54 > 0:22:00- I don't know what they call them. - But there is one feature that every A-list dress should have.
0:22:00 > 0:22:05- Do you want something with a bit of bling on it?- Yes.
0:22:05 > 0:22:10Just a few streets away is the shop Lydia's mum bought her wedding dress from.
0:22:10 > 0:22:15Eight years on, will it have something that Lydia likes?
0:22:15 > 0:22:18Wow, so many. So nice.
0:22:19 > 0:22:22It turns out that for this traditional bride...
0:22:22 > 0:22:24They like their bling...
0:22:24 > 0:22:28..finding a dress like Mum's isn't so easy.
0:22:28 > 0:22:33Too much going on there. Too much detail on it. All the tiny bits.
0:22:33 > 0:22:37I don't like it. I do really want a plain...
0:22:37 > 0:22:40- I'll show you a plain one. - Complete plain.
0:22:40 > 0:22:43Not my ideal cos I wouldn't have buttons necessarily,
0:22:43 > 0:22:45but I'll try it on because it's plain.
0:22:45 > 0:22:47It's completely plain.
0:22:47 > 0:22:52Unfortunately, Adam doesn't do completely plain.
0:22:52 > 0:22:53- Lovely, isn't it?- It is.
0:22:53 > 0:22:57First, he's picked a shiny satin number.
0:22:57 > 0:23:01- With just enough diamante for a red carpet bash.- Very nice.
0:23:01 > 0:23:04Dress two brings the bling up a notch.
0:23:04 > 0:23:08A figure hugging dress that's top-heavy with glitz.
0:23:08 > 0:23:13Jesus of Nazareth. Look at that on the back as well. It is stunning.
0:23:13 > 0:23:16For dress number three you need your sunglasses.
0:23:16 > 0:23:19A lace number that sparkles from head to toe.
0:23:21 > 0:23:27- I didn't think I'd like lace.- How do you choose?
0:23:27 > 0:23:30It's never going to...
0:23:30 > 0:23:36I can't...choose between the three. It literally might come down to pulling it out of a hat.
0:23:38 > 0:23:42In her shop Lydia is trying on her very demure,
0:23:42 > 0:23:45utterly bling-free dream dress.
0:23:45 > 0:23:49- I like that. I really like that. - Let's put that there for you.
0:23:49 > 0:23:52I really like this dress.
0:23:52 > 0:23:55It reminds me of Mum's, quite plain and fitted.
0:23:55 > 0:24:03- It's really beautiful.- Yes. - This is traditional, plain, perfect.
0:24:03 > 0:24:07I wouldn't want any other dress.
0:24:09 > 0:24:11Don't get upset.
0:24:11 > 0:24:15Please don't because I'm not very good at the moment.
0:24:15 > 0:24:19- You look so nice. - She looks pretty, doesn't she?
0:24:19 > 0:24:22I want people to be like, "She looks really nice
0:24:22 > 0:24:25"and her dress is really pretty", afterwards.
0:24:25 > 0:24:29I don't want the dress to take over me, so I'm glad it's not too
0:24:29 > 0:24:35in-your-face with loads of sparkling jewels everywhere and it's quite plain.
0:24:35 > 0:24:38- I love it. Oh, dear. - Adam's definitely up for the dazzle.
0:24:38 > 0:24:44- Which dazzler will it be?- Do I go with my gut? That along with the back...
0:24:44 > 0:24:48- The detail down the corset. The side.- The fitting.
0:24:49 > 0:24:53For her body shape, for everything, I think that is the winner for me,
0:24:53 > 0:24:57but I don't think it's something she'd pick for herself.
0:24:57 > 0:25:00- It's such a big decision, isn't it? - It's an amazing dress.
0:25:00 > 0:25:03I would love to see the model in that one more time.
0:25:03 > 0:25:09If Adam's gone tacky and not traditional and plain and elegant...
0:25:13 > 0:25:16..I won't wear it.
0:25:16 > 0:25:19# Diamonds are forever... #
0:25:19 > 0:25:22Seeing it again, that's it.
0:25:22 > 0:25:25- Completely.- Decision made.
0:25:25 > 0:25:29Lydia's going to walk down the aisle with a sparkling bosom
0:25:29 > 0:25:31and a big fancy train.
0:25:31 > 0:25:36If the dress isn't dazzling enough, Adam adds a tiara stuffed with diamantes.
0:25:40 > 0:25:42We've got a winner.
0:25:42 > 0:25:46With £975 spent on a blinging dress and tiara...
0:25:46 > 0:25:51- That's the main one done.- Sorted. - ..Adam's down to his last three grand.
0:25:53 > 0:25:55It's the middle of week two
0:25:55 > 0:26:00and only five days to go before Adam gets the keys to the mansion.
0:26:00 > 0:26:04Wanting to get everything done before his hard-earned holiday
0:26:04 > 0:26:06he hits the shops.
0:26:06 > 0:26:10- First the rings.- 400 quid.- 400 quid.- Thank you.- Thank you.
0:26:10 > 0:26:15- Then it's £250 on the bridesmaids' dresses.- I like that.- Yeah, it's pretty.
0:26:15 > 0:26:22- Nearly 600 on suits. £150 on flowers.- Thank you.- OK.
0:26:22 > 0:26:24Another 150 on Lydia's hair.
0:26:24 > 0:26:27- See you later.- Bye.
0:26:27 > 0:26:31And finally £400 on a boot full of booze.
0:26:31 > 0:26:34If you're throwing a wedding fit for sophisticated celebs you need
0:26:34 > 0:26:35the right drink.
0:26:35 > 0:26:37What would scream class?
0:26:37 > 0:26:41- Shots on arrival.- No.- Wine. - Try again.
0:26:41 > 0:26:46- Six crates of champagne. - No.- The big dog itself...
0:26:46 > 0:26:48- The Jagermeister. - That's the one.
0:26:48 > 0:26:53Tuesday when I can get in the house can't come quick enough for me.
0:26:53 > 0:26:56I want to get down there, I will know by then that everything's sorted,
0:26:56 > 0:27:00I can relax, have some time with my best man and ushers.
0:27:00 > 0:27:03The party starts that Tuesday really.
0:27:03 > 0:27:08Before stag do number two at the mansion the groom who
0:27:08 > 0:27:13likes a flutter starts stag do number one at Chester racecourse.
0:27:13 > 0:27:15And the boys have all chipped in for a special stag kitty.
0:27:15 > 0:27:18Gee-gees - bit of gambling, you know. Cannot go wrong.
0:27:18 > 0:27:21Fortunately, Adam's left the wedding budget at home.
0:27:21 > 0:27:24£50 each way out of the kitty.
0:27:24 > 0:27:25Come on.
0:27:25 > 0:27:30Unfortunately, Adam picks horses as well as he picks dresses.
0:27:30 > 0:27:32- Fourth.- Terrible.
0:27:32 > 0:27:34100 quid down the pan.
0:27:34 > 0:27:39I like horseracing if I win. If I don't win I don't like it.
0:27:39 > 0:27:41Despite things going badly he wants one last bet
0:27:41 > 0:27:46and thinks he's seen something too good to pass up.
0:27:46 > 0:27:49- Look what I found here. - It's a bit spooky.
0:27:49 > 0:27:53Adam spotted a 12-1 outsider, which unbelievably has
0:27:53 > 0:27:57the same name as his swanky reception venue, Silvanus.
0:27:57 > 0:27:58Who's that?
0:28:00 > 0:28:05- It's Silvanus.- Fuck, it's Silvanus! - You say "Silvay-nus", we say "Silvah-nus".
0:28:05 > 0:28:09Either way Adam got lucky with Silvanus the horse,
0:28:09 > 0:28:12but will he be as lucky with Silvanus the house?
0:28:12 > 0:28:16Back in Exeter the girls have gathered for Lydia's hen do.
0:28:16 > 0:28:18Here's to a good night.
0:28:18 > 0:28:20CHEERING
0:28:20 > 0:28:23I'm really nervous about what's about to happen.
0:28:23 > 0:28:27Adam's decided to send the girls to Bristol for a night out.
0:28:27 > 0:28:30He has arranged a bling party bus to get them there.
0:28:30 > 0:28:32My God, that's amazing.
0:28:32 > 0:28:38I did not think he would do anything like this at all. Right now I'm happy. I'm happy right now.
0:28:38 > 0:28:41CHEERING
0:28:42 > 0:28:46It's an hour and a half to Bristol but with a state-of-the-art
0:28:46 > 0:28:49sound system, karaoke, pole dancing and shed loads of
0:28:49 > 0:28:53champagne on board, it's the perfect start to the girls' night out.
0:28:53 > 0:28:55CHEERING
0:28:55 > 0:29:00In Liverpool, Adam's mates know how much he'd love a superstar
0:29:00 > 0:29:04lifestyle, so as a special treat for one night only they've transformed him
0:29:04 > 0:29:06into a huge global icon.
0:29:06 > 0:29:08Minnie Mouse.
0:29:13 > 0:29:17He's absolutely ruined, and I've just bought another 56 shots.
0:29:17 > 0:29:20It's hard to say whether the girls are having as good a time as us,
0:29:20 > 0:29:24but I'm sure they're going to enjoy themselves.
0:29:24 > 0:29:27Well, if being stranded at a service station just outside Exeter
0:29:27 > 0:29:29is what you call a good time...!
0:29:29 > 0:29:32ALL: # Come on, come on, come on... #
0:29:32 > 0:29:36The bus broke down. We have no idea where we're going.
0:29:36 > 0:29:39- It's late now, it's late. - It's like, 11 o'clock.
0:29:39 > 0:29:41We'd be in a club by now.
0:29:41 > 0:29:43Something needs tightening...
0:29:43 > 0:29:45We need to get out, on a night out.
0:29:45 > 0:29:47There's not going to be any point going anywhere in a minute.
0:29:47 > 0:29:49That's what I said, let's go back, but we can't.
0:29:50 > 0:29:52At last - the bus is fixed.
0:29:52 > 0:29:56# What's love got to do got to do with it...?
0:29:56 > 0:30:00And three hours after setting off, the girls finally arrive in Bristol.
0:30:00 > 0:30:04Only to discover that's where Adam's planning ends.
0:30:04 > 0:30:07He hasn't thought further than the party bus.
0:30:07 > 0:30:10So now it's up to the girls to make their own fun.
0:30:10 > 0:30:12And pay their own way.
0:30:14 > 0:30:17Is this it? Is this is all I get?
0:30:17 > 0:30:21If this is it, I'll be really upset.
0:30:21 > 0:30:25- I just feel like I've let everyone down.- You haven't let anyone down.
0:30:25 > 0:30:28All your friends love you, that's why they're here. Yeah?
0:30:28 > 0:30:34- People don't know where they're going...- Yes!- Yes, I know.
0:30:34 > 0:30:37But that's because a man's organised it, that's all.
0:30:37 > 0:30:38I don't think he's thought about Lydia.
0:30:38 > 0:30:42I would have made sure that we had a bit of a plan of where we were
0:30:42 > 0:30:45going to go, and research the places within the city we were going.
0:30:45 > 0:30:48So now we're just a little bit lost in a city we don't know.
0:30:50 > 0:30:54If this is what he's done for the hen do, then
0:30:54 > 0:30:57'I'm worried about the wedding. Because you can tell she's not happy
0:30:57 > 0:30:59'and we're having to pick up the pieces.
0:30:59 > 0:31:01'It's a bit of a mess, really.'
0:31:01 > 0:31:02This is Adam's fault,
0:31:02 > 0:31:05cos he should have fucking organised a plan. Cos I would have.
0:31:05 > 0:31:09The girls set off to salvage their evening. It's 1:30am,
0:31:09 > 0:31:13but they eventually end up in a club, with everyone chipping in.
0:31:17 > 0:31:19It's the final week,
0:31:19 > 0:31:23and nursing a hangover, the boys are back to work with a bang
0:31:23 > 0:31:27when they finally take a long overdue look at the dwindling budget.
0:31:27 > 0:31:31So, before food I've got 700 quid...
0:31:31 > 0:31:33Having splashed the cash for two weeks,
0:31:33 > 0:31:38Adam is left with just £7 a head to feed 100 guests.
0:31:38 > 0:31:40- You have to feed people.- Exactly.
0:31:40 > 0:31:43Feeding people's more important than seeing a fake fucking Simon Cowell.
0:31:43 > 0:31:48£6,000, you could have got a venue that fed 100 people.
0:31:48 > 0:31:51And all we've got is a house.
0:31:52 > 0:31:55With no service - we've got to do it all ourselves.
0:31:55 > 0:31:59People eating stuff, who's going to clear it all away?
0:31:59 > 0:32:00We've got no money left.
0:32:02 > 0:32:03We massively screwed up.
0:32:05 > 0:32:08Or I did. My priorities.
0:32:09 > 0:32:11Spending 1,200 quid on entertainment
0:32:11 > 0:32:15before we've even fed anyone is the most ridiculous thing ever.
0:32:16 > 0:32:19Should have got the venue, fed people.
0:32:19 > 0:32:22Now we've left the most important thing to last.
0:32:22 > 0:32:25I don't necessarily think we forgot about it,
0:32:25 > 0:32:28I think we just maybe did it in the wrong order.
0:32:28 > 0:32:34Maybe should have done that as one of the first things rather than doing the entertainment first, but
0:32:34 > 0:32:37hindsight's a wonderful thing, isn't it?
0:32:39 > 0:32:43Across town, Lydia's nursing a hangover of a different kind.
0:32:45 > 0:32:48All my friends and everyone who came out on the hen has said to me,
0:32:48 > 0:32:50"I spent so much money, Lydia."
0:32:50 > 0:32:53And I've had to thank them for that.
0:32:53 > 0:32:55"Thanks for spending loads of money on my hen."
0:32:55 > 0:32:57I know.
0:33:00 > 0:33:02- Just a joke.- I know.
0:33:05 > 0:33:08These party buses... They're not that expensive.
0:33:08 > 0:33:09And we had nothing to do.
0:33:09 > 0:33:12- I can go to Bristol any time. - Any time.
0:33:13 > 0:33:14And Jade's got even more bad news.
0:33:16 > 0:33:18- I found out where the boys went. - Where did they go?
0:33:18 > 0:33:22They went to Liverpool, and then they went to Chester racecourse.
0:33:22 > 0:33:24They went to the races?
0:33:24 > 0:33:28Now, knowing that... I hope he's not...
0:33:28 > 0:33:31The wedding isn't just going to be about him.
0:33:31 > 0:33:33I hope it'll be about me as well.
0:33:33 > 0:33:37- But maybe he'll put his energy on the wedding day.- Let's hope so.
0:33:39 > 0:33:41Let's hope so.
0:33:47 > 0:33:49Now he has to watch his pennies,
0:33:49 > 0:33:52big spending Adam is finally thinking small.
0:33:52 > 0:33:54With a trip to the local butcher.
0:33:54 > 0:33:59- We're hoping you can help us out with some...- Feeding people.
0:33:59 > 0:34:00I can organise that for you.
0:34:00 > 0:34:05I was thinking of the hog roast or just the joints of meat.
0:34:05 > 0:34:07Which one's the cheaper option?
0:34:07 > 0:34:08Roast to go is the cheaper option.
0:34:08 > 0:34:11It's £250 charge. That's my fee.
0:34:11 > 0:34:14All your bread rolls, all your sauces and stuff like that.
0:34:14 > 0:34:19And then it's about 30 quid roughly for a whole joint.
0:34:19 > 0:34:22- You've got yourself a deal, I think. - OK?
0:34:22 > 0:34:27Adam's just spent £370 - so his guests can have...a pork bap.
0:34:29 > 0:34:31The butcher's literally saved his bacon.
0:34:32 > 0:34:35He might have got his main sorted,
0:34:35 > 0:34:39but hotshot Adam still has some begging to do.
0:34:39 > 0:34:40From his mum and family.
0:34:40 > 0:34:41So what do you want?
0:34:41 > 0:34:42There's enough food,
0:34:42 > 0:34:45but just some little bits we might need some help with.
0:34:45 > 0:34:47- Like what?- Just like...
0:34:47 > 0:34:51serving some stuff up and making a potato salad or something.
0:34:51 > 0:34:52MUM CHUCKLES
0:34:52 > 0:34:55- Are you for real? - I'm being generally serious, yeah.
0:34:55 > 0:35:00- And on the day, just...- Be a waitress.- For a little bit, maybe.
0:35:02 > 0:35:07Not a waitress. Just someone that can pour some champagne, maybe.
0:35:07 > 0:35:10It does make me think, "What's he spent all that money on
0:35:10 > 0:35:14"if he hasn't even got any food to feed people?" Where's the rest of the money gone?
0:35:14 > 0:35:20Ideally I'd want 10, 20 waiters and waitresses walking around and helping out -
0:35:20 > 0:35:25but I'm not Jay-Z, I can't afford waitresses and waiters, so...
0:35:34 > 0:35:38It's Tuesday, and the moment Adam's been waiting for.
0:35:38 > 0:35:41At last he's got the keys to the multimillion pound mansion
0:35:41 > 0:35:45where his wedding reception will take place in two days' time.
0:35:45 > 0:35:47Shall we sit down at the table and sort everything out?
0:35:47 > 0:35:49- Do the table plans...- BOTH: Not!
0:35:51 > 0:35:54It's time for these wedding planners to live it up.
0:35:55 > 0:35:57This is the life. This is how we roll.
0:36:00 > 0:36:03Obviously I spent half the budget on this place,
0:36:03 > 0:36:06but it's definitely the right decision.
0:36:08 > 0:36:12Most people in their life won't say they've ever partied in a £5 million mansion.
0:36:12 > 0:36:14You're only young once - so why not?
0:36:16 > 0:36:17Yes!
0:36:17 > 0:36:20Adam might have the bling house he dreamed of,
0:36:20 > 0:36:24but after more than two weeks apart, his thoughts turn to Lydia.
0:36:24 > 0:36:28These couple of days in this house is about me and my boys,
0:36:28 > 0:36:31but at the end of the day I still...
0:36:31 > 0:36:34Everything I have done I've thought about her.
0:36:34 > 0:36:36We've been there and done that, had our hard times...
0:36:36 > 0:36:39- You've been a right bellend... - I've been a right bellend.
0:36:39 > 0:36:42I've changed the way I was, to be with her.
0:36:42 > 0:36:45And I never, ever thought I would stand there
0:36:45 > 0:36:48and say that I've changed to be with a girl.
0:36:48 > 0:36:52But I have. Because she means that much to me.
0:36:52 > 0:36:54MUSIC: "Born Slippy" by Underworld
0:37:16 > 0:37:18Three...two...one - dive!
0:37:26 > 0:37:29It's the day before the wedding.
0:37:29 > 0:37:32Having drunk the house dry till 6:00am,
0:37:32 > 0:37:35Adam's venue is in need of a major clear-up.
0:37:36 > 0:37:38Look, he's dead!
0:37:39 > 0:37:42- Have you had a shower? - I'll get in the shower.
0:37:42 > 0:37:45But Adam has even bigger worries.
0:37:45 > 0:37:48Lydia's going to see the dress that I chose for her this morning
0:37:48 > 0:37:50along with Aaron's help.
0:37:50 > 0:37:55So big day, really, for her. But we're just kicking back. So...
0:37:55 > 0:37:57No doubt I'll have a phone call at some point saying
0:37:57 > 0:37:59"I don't fuckin' like the dress".
0:37:59 > 0:38:01But, it's done now.
0:38:01 > 0:38:06Back home in Exeter, it's the moment Lydia's been dreading.
0:38:07 > 0:38:11I'm nervous because I hope I like it. I have to wear it, not him.
0:38:11 > 0:38:15So...he just better have done a good job.
0:38:15 > 0:38:17It's difficult, isn't it? Mum and sister...
0:38:17 > 0:38:21We wouldn't be in this position the day before the wedding.
0:38:21 > 0:38:23We'd probably have had a pamper day today
0:38:23 > 0:38:25and just chilled out.
0:38:25 > 0:38:29Just gone and had lunch somewhere, or chill. Instead, we're on edge.
0:38:31 > 0:38:35Lydia's dream dress is simple and bling free.
0:38:35 > 0:38:39So what will she make of the glitzy blingerama Adam's bought her?
0:38:41 > 0:38:44- I don't want to look until it's out.- That's fine.
0:38:51 > 0:38:53OK...
0:38:56 > 0:38:57It's big.
0:39:01 > 0:39:03It's very big...
0:39:05 > 0:39:09- There's a lot of bling on it, isn't there?- Yup.
0:39:10 > 0:39:13(It's very big.) It's very pouffey.
0:39:13 > 0:39:15Big pouffe.
0:39:15 > 0:39:17I just... I don't know.
0:39:17 > 0:39:21I wouldn't have chosen big, and a lot of sparkle.
0:39:21 > 0:39:23I wouldn't have chosen this dress at all.
0:39:23 > 0:39:27And I don't know how long this is on my body, and where it's going to come out.
0:39:31 > 0:39:36Lydia's not convinced. Time for the verdict from Mum and Jade.
0:39:43 > 0:39:46Guys... What? I don't know what your faces are saying.
0:39:46 > 0:39:48Are they saying it's good or are they saying it's bad?
0:39:48 > 0:39:51- It's good.- Promise? - Promise. It's lovely.- Promise.
0:39:51 > 0:39:53It's beautiful on you.
0:39:54 > 0:39:57Is it nicer than my other one?
0:40:00 > 0:40:03- Completely different.- I can see why Adam would have chosen it.
0:40:03 > 0:40:05- The bling?- Yes, a bit.
0:40:07 > 0:40:10I know what you mean, because you wanted plain.
0:40:10 > 0:40:14If she thinks the dress is bling, which till she sees the accessories.
0:40:14 > 0:40:15Headdress...?
0:40:15 > 0:40:19- Very blingy.- Bling? Very much so.
0:40:19 > 0:40:21- The veil... - I love that veil. It's amazing.
0:40:21 > 0:40:24That's got little blings on it as well.
0:40:24 > 0:40:27And the shoes have blings on them too!
0:40:28 > 0:40:32- Bling-bling!- Oh, dear, you didn't want too much, bling, did you?- No.
0:40:32 > 0:40:34I just don't know about this bling thing here...
0:40:34 > 0:40:38- I don't know how I feel on the headband.- I don't either.
0:40:39 > 0:40:42This is like, completely the other end
0:40:42 > 0:40:44of what I would have chosen for myself.
0:40:44 > 0:40:48This is more like red carpet than church aisle.
0:40:48 > 0:40:51I'm going to wear what he's picked because I respect what he's done
0:40:51 > 0:40:54and he's obviously spent a lot of time here,
0:40:54 > 0:40:56but at the moment I am feeling a bit like...
0:40:56 > 0:40:59a little bit unhappy, because when you put on your wedding dress
0:40:59 > 0:41:02you should feel a million dollars, and I don't.
0:41:02 > 0:41:05# But all I want to know is where to party at... #
0:41:06 > 0:41:11At the mansion, Adam's wedding caterers have arrived. His mum, sister and nan.
0:41:15 > 0:41:16Careful with these...
0:41:16 > 0:41:19I'm quite impressed - it's tidier than I thought it would be here.
0:41:21 > 0:41:23It's an amazing place. It's an amazing place.
0:41:23 > 0:41:26If someone can come here and tell me they don't like it, they'd be lying.
0:41:26 > 0:41:29Whether it's the right place to have a wedding reception I might be wrong...
0:41:29 > 0:41:32Just looking out at the view...
0:41:32 > 0:41:37- It's worth the money I spent on it just for that.- You'll have some fantastic pictures.
0:41:37 > 0:41:40First impressions from Mum and my sister are really good.
0:41:40 > 0:41:43'They are impressed, so that's a good start.'
0:41:43 > 0:41:45But we've still got a lot of guests to try and please.
0:41:45 > 0:41:48'I didn't want to let anyone know about the venue,
0:41:48 > 0:41:51'but I needed a bit of help so Mum and my sister are here to'
0:41:51 > 0:41:54help knock up a few salads and do a couple of desserts.
0:41:56 > 0:41:57I think we're all set now,
0:41:57 > 0:42:01- everyone's in place that needs to be in place.- Yeah.
0:42:03 > 0:42:06Just got to wait for tomorrow now. Literally.
0:42:06 > 0:42:08Seventeen and a half hours she'll be walking down that aisle.
0:42:08 > 0:42:12Getting the butterflies now. First time I've seen her. Three weeks.
0:42:26 > 0:42:28It's the morning of the wedding.
0:42:28 > 0:42:31And despite his A-list surroundings, Adam's feeling the pressure.
0:42:32 > 0:42:35Tired. Excited. Nervous.
0:42:35 > 0:42:38I'm glad he's getting married, it's about time.
0:42:38 > 0:42:42When you're punching way above, you know it's time to stop.
0:42:42 > 0:42:45- She's not marrying you for your money, love, is she?- No...
0:42:45 > 0:42:4980 miles away in Exeter, Lydia too is a bundle of nerves.
0:42:49 > 0:42:55I just feel weird. I don't know what's wrong with me. Probably the lack of sleep.
0:42:55 > 0:42:58And she's still coming to terms with what she has to wear.
0:42:58 > 0:43:02You haven't seen my dress, have you, but it's crystals all along here,
0:43:02 > 0:43:04crystals in my veil,
0:43:04 > 0:43:06crystal on my headpiece...
0:43:06 > 0:43:08Crystal everywhere!
0:43:08 > 0:43:11There's even crystals in my flower piece. Looks like a disco ball.
0:43:11 > 0:43:13You'll be able to see me a mile away.
0:43:13 > 0:43:17Let's hope Adam's choice for the bridesmaids fares better.
0:43:20 > 0:43:23Oh, my God!
0:43:23 > 0:43:27They're orange! I wouldn't have worn that colour at all.
0:43:27 > 0:43:29Coral, yes!
0:43:29 > 0:43:32At least Adam's got one thing right.
0:43:32 > 0:43:33I really like them.
0:43:33 > 0:43:37I wouldn't have expected coral. No way. It's such a pretty colour.
0:43:37 > 0:43:41Her hair, on the other hand, is a different story.
0:43:41 > 0:43:43I just would have had very traditional and this is very out.
0:43:43 > 0:43:47I feel like I'm going to like, an award ceremony or something.
0:43:47 > 0:43:50I feel like I'm about to step out on a red carpet somewhere.
0:43:54 > 0:43:58- There it is, look.- Yeah. Very red. It's going to blow away.
0:43:58 > 0:44:01This is what we were looking for, the celeb sort of A-list feel.
0:44:01 > 0:44:04So the red carpet polishes it all off.
0:44:04 > 0:44:08- And a couple of celebs to go with it.- Couple of celebs to go with it.
0:44:08 > 0:44:12- OK...?- Yeah. That looks perfect.
0:44:13 > 0:44:16So Adam's reception is looking fit for a superstar.
0:44:17 > 0:44:19But how's the real star of the show?
0:44:19 > 0:44:23It just needs to be... Is there no way you can do it at the bottom?
0:44:24 > 0:44:26This is so stressful.
0:44:26 > 0:44:30I didn't think getting on a dress would be so bloody stressful.
0:44:31 > 0:44:33Go the other side.
0:44:33 > 0:44:36- It's just not a look I would have gone for. But...- Look at me.
0:44:39 > 0:44:41Not sure how I'm feeling...
0:44:43 > 0:44:45Wowsers!
0:44:46 > 0:44:48That's beautiful. So gorgeous.
0:44:48 > 0:44:50Aww...
0:44:50 > 0:44:52APPRECIATIVE CLAPPING
0:44:53 > 0:44:56He's done really well. Beautiful.
0:44:56 > 0:44:57I'm just ready to get married now.
0:44:59 > 0:45:01Bring it on!
0:45:05 > 0:45:07Lydia's all smiles now -
0:45:07 > 0:45:10but little does she know she's got a two-hour drive ahead.
0:45:12 > 0:45:16At the mansion, it's Adam's turn to scrub up for his A-list event.
0:45:18 > 0:45:21Can't change anything now, so if anything is wrong then it's wrong.
0:45:21 > 0:45:24But I'm happy with what me and Aaron have achieved. Let's do it!
0:45:24 > 0:45:27Let's do it, son.
0:45:27 > 0:45:31As Adam heads to the hotel he's lined up for the ceremony,
0:45:31 > 0:45:35Lydia, with dad in tow, is just realising she won't be getting her dream church.
0:45:35 > 0:45:38I know now we're going on to the motorway.
0:45:38 > 0:45:42That we're going nowhere near the church.
0:45:42 > 0:45:43Which is sad.
0:45:44 > 0:45:49- I'm nervous!- What about the excitement of getting married, though, is that not...
0:45:49 > 0:45:51- It's not kicking in yet. - It's not kicking in yet?- No.
0:45:51 > 0:45:5440 minutes, and we're not even there.
0:45:54 > 0:45:57So, I just... It worries me.
0:45:57 > 0:46:01What Lydia doesn't realise is that she's still got another hour and a half to go.
0:46:01 > 0:46:03Where are we going?!
0:46:03 > 0:46:07And the bridesmaids' unexpected stop will only slow them down.
0:46:07 > 0:46:12I don't need to pee, but I feel like I may as well as all the bridesmaids are doing it.
0:46:12 > 0:46:14I've got animal poo on my dress.
0:46:14 > 0:46:17What are we doing?!
0:46:17 > 0:46:19My classy bridesmaids, look at them.
0:46:22 > 0:46:23Don't, cos I'm going to wet myself.
0:46:23 > 0:46:28It actually looks like I have wet myself, but this is alcohol.
0:46:28 > 0:46:32I hoped we were going for like, ten minutes, but we're going for nearly two hours.
0:46:32 > 0:46:34Most brides go for ten minutes - and then you're there.
0:46:34 > 0:46:40You don't have to worry about wee stops. But now we're weeing, Rachel's got crap on her dress.
0:46:42 > 0:46:44No more we stops, cos we need to get there.
0:46:48 > 0:46:49In the meantime,
0:46:49 > 0:46:53Adam's trying to squeeze 100 guests into the hotel lounge that can only seat 50.
0:46:56 > 0:46:58How many bridesmaids are going to be sat there?
0:46:58 > 0:47:00There's only going to be five...
0:47:00 > 0:47:03- So J's going to be there. - One at the end?
0:47:03 > 0:47:04You lot need to go in there.
0:47:04 > 0:47:08So if you go up there, look, next to the bridesmaids...
0:47:08 > 0:47:12- Can we pull the seats forward a bit? - We can't fit any more people in here.- There's us as well.
0:47:17 > 0:47:20It'll be all right. It'll all come together.
0:47:20 > 0:47:23Lydia's been on the road for two hours,
0:47:23 > 0:47:26with no idea where she is heading. With 20 miles still to go,
0:47:26 > 0:47:30another pit stop is the last thing this bride needs.
0:47:30 > 0:47:35I don't know where we're going. I need a wee! Owww...
0:47:35 > 0:47:36There's a B&B there.
0:47:36 > 0:47:38Oh, my God, this is so unclassy.
0:47:38 > 0:47:40This is so unclassy but I love every minute of it.
0:47:42 > 0:47:44My hair's messed...
0:47:45 > 0:47:48My hair is like...
0:47:48 > 0:47:52- It's really nice. - Is it? Has it not gone out of...- No.
0:47:52 > 0:47:54- It feels like my hair's gone.- No.
0:47:54 > 0:47:58- And just when things couldn't get any worse... - It's raining, it's raining!
0:47:59 > 0:48:00Go. Get in.
0:48:04 > 0:48:07It's nearly 25 minutes. She should be here.
0:48:07 > 0:48:09- Yeah, she's late.- Oh, right.
0:48:10 > 0:48:14After two loo breaks and two and a half hours in the car...
0:48:14 > 0:48:16Where the hell are we going?!
0:48:16 > 0:48:20..a hot and flustered Lydia finally arrives at the hotel.
0:48:22 > 0:48:26I'm just lost for words. Such a long way away. From home.
0:48:27 > 0:48:29What was Adam thinking?
0:48:31 > 0:48:34This is not what I expected Adam to do at all.
0:48:36 > 0:48:40It's not in a church. This isn't a church, so I don't know how Lydia will feel.
0:48:44 > 0:48:47It's not a church. It's far from a church.
0:48:47 > 0:48:51Now I know why everything's bling. Everything's bling.
0:48:54 > 0:48:57I'm nervous. I'm really nervous.
0:49:05 > 0:49:09Lydia's dream of a church wedding may be over but,
0:49:09 > 0:49:10after three weeks apart,
0:49:10 > 0:49:14she is about to be reunited with the love of her life.
0:49:19 > 0:49:22(Yes. I'm fine.)
0:49:25 > 0:49:28I, Alan James Jason Ryan,
0:49:28 > 0:49:30take you, Lydia Dawn Edwards,
0:49:30 > 0:49:32to be my wedded wife.
0:49:32 > 0:49:34I promise that I will love you
0:49:34 > 0:49:36throughout all the days of my life.
0:49:36 > 0:49:38I, Lydia Dawn Edwards,
0:49:38 > 0:49:40take you, Alan James Jason Ryan,
0:49:40 > 0:49:42to be my wedded husband.
0:49:43 > 0:49:45Thank you.
0:49:49 > 0:49:54Adam and Lydia, it is now my very great pleasure to announce
0:49:54 > 0:49:56that you are husband and wife.
0:49:56 > 0:49:58Congratulations.
0:49:58 > 0:50:01CHEERING
0:50:07 > 0:50:09'It's not the church wedding I would have hoped for'
0:50:09 > 0:50:12but the ceremony was very, like, intimate.
0:50:12 > 0:50:15I didn't... I don't know, when I picture myself getting married
0:50:15 > 0:50:18in church with all the aisles, obviously that's a big...
0:50:18 > 0:50:22It's a lot bigger and a lot taller and stuff.
0:50:22 > 0:50:25What made you choose here? What made you choose here, though?
0:50:25 > 0:50:27You have to wait.
0:50:27 > 0:50:28OK.
0:50:30 > 0:50:33It's finally time for Lydia to see
0:50:33 > 0:50:36where all of Adam's efforts have been concentrated.
0:50:39 > 0:50:42Wow. There's a red carpet down.
0:50:42 > 0:50:45And that's not all.
0:50:46 > 0:50:49It's not actually, is it?
0:50:49 > 0:50:51It's not, is it actually?
0:50:51 > 0:50:52No, it's not actually, is it?
0:50:52 > 0:50:55Yes, it is, it's Simon Cowell.
0:50:57 > 0:50:58No, it's not.
0:51:01 > 0:51:03Oh, thank you.
0:51:03 > 0:51:05You look so pretty.
0:51:05 > 0:51:07- Welcome to the house.- Thank you.
0:51:07 > 0:51:08Congratulations.
0:51:08 > 0:51:12- Look at that view, it's so pretty. - We have some champagne for you.
0:51:12 > 0:51:14There you go. Thank you.
0:51:14 > 0:51:17Oh, my God. And it's a red carpet.
0:51:17 > 0:51:20Would you like to have a bit of a walk up it? There you go.
0:51:20 > 0:51:21I just want to walk up it
0:51:21 > 0:51:24cos I feel like I'm doing a film premiere called I Am A Princess.
0:51:24 > 0:51:26After you.
0:51:28 > 0:51:30My God.
0:51:30 > 0:51:35This is the disco room. This is where it's all going to kick off, later on, in the party.
0:51:35 > 0:51:36Look.
0:51:36 > 0:51:38That is so beautiful.
0:51:40 > 0:51:43I was amazed by it but I thought more of, like,
0:51:43 > 0:51:45"Wow, Lydia's going to absolutely...
0:51:45 > 0:51:46"She'd die for that."
0:51:46 > 0:51:50- At least you thought of me then, in this whole process.- I did.
0:51:52 > 0:51:55I just...
0:51:55 > 0:51:58Adam has even added a personal touch.
0:51:58 > 0:52:00Oh, my God. Look at that Haribo rings!
0:52:00 > 0:52:02To remind Lydia of his proposal.
0:52:02 > 0:52:05- Sweet rings.- Have one, then.
0:52:05 > 0:52:07I'll have two.
0:52:07 > 0:52:10- Nice?- Yeah.- Good.
0:52:10 > 0:52:13Oh, tennis courts. What are you, some pimp daddy?
0:52:13 > 0:52:15Yeah, you could say that.
0:52:15 > 0:52:1980 miles away from home and not a hint of traditional church anywhere,
0:52:19 > 0:52:23Adam has still managed to sweep Lydia off her feet.
0:52:23 > 0:52:26This is literally the last thing I'd imagine Adam to do, ever.
0:52:26 > 0:52:29And it's not just the bride who's blown away.
0:52:31 > 0:52:36Wow, this is incredible and, like, this...
0:52:36 > 0:52:38Incredible.
0:52:38 > 0:52:40The ceremony venue, when I first walked in, was quite small
0:52:40 > 0:52:43so I thought that's where we were staying for the evening.
0:52:43 > 0:52:46Even better, it was here. It's so much bigger.
0:52:46 > 0:52:49It's a huge house that's really, really nice.
0:52:49 > 0:52:50What I've seen so far, brilliant.
0:52:50 > 0:52:54Britney and Simon Cowell, nicely turned up so, yeah.
0:52:54 > 0:52:56It will be a great day.
0:52:56 > 0:53:02I think we have delivered the A-list celebrity feel to this party.
0:53:02 > 0:53:07Now it's time for Adam's ace card - the plush honeymoon suite.
0:53:07 > 0:53:08This is...
0:53:08 > 0:53:11- Oh, my God.- ..where we are going to be staying tonight.
0:53:11 > 0:53:14- Oh, my God.- Lay in that view...
0:53:14 > 0:53:17Lay in that bed and wake up and you can see that when you open the curtains.
0:53:17 > 0:53:20It's... I just... I'm overwhelmed, I think.
0:53:21 > 0:53:25I just didn't think you'd be able to do such a good job.
0:53:25 > 0:53:26Don't cry.
0:53:30 > 0:53:32Don't need to cry. Don't cry.
0:53:32 > 0:53:34I'm not cos my mascara will run.
0:53:35 > 0:53:38Come on. It's fine. What are you crying for?
0:53:38 > 0:53:41It's just really pretty and I just didn't think you to do it.
0:53:41 > 0:53:43I have done it, so now you know me,
0:53:43 > 0:53:47from now on, you might have a little bit more faith.
0:53:47 > 0:53:49Yeah. I've married a new man.
0:53:50 > 0:53:53Lydia may be wowed by his A-list venue...
0:53:56 > 0:54:01..but what about his B-list buffet and pork baps?
0:54:01 > 0:54:06- This is me and you. We love stuff like this.- On a Saturday night.- Yeah.
0:54:06 > 0:54:08Couscous, salad, I can recommend it.
0:54:08 > 0:54:12Looks like Adam's going straight through to the next round.
0:54:12 > 0:54:15I think, a lot of people here, when they heard that we were doing this,
0:54:15 > 0:54:17probably didn't think I'd be able to do it.
0:54:17 > 0:54:20I hope I've proved a lot of people wrong today.
0:54:20 > 0:54:24But without Aaron by my side, there's no way I would've been able to do it.
0:54:24 > 0:54:25So, thanks a lot, mate.
0:54:25 > 0:54:28CHEERING
0:54:28 > 0:54:33Can I have a massive round of applause for Adam and Lydia?
0:54:33 > 0:54:36CHEERING
0:54:36 > 0:54:39It's been brilliant.
0:54:39 > 0:54:41Happy as Larry.
0:54:41 > 0:54:42# Uh, yeah. #
0:54:42 > 0:54:45CHEERING
0:54:45 > 0:54:49# Lay the beat down from them MIBs. #
0:54:49 > 0:54:52He's pulled it off and I think he's actually, yeah, so I should
0:54:52 > 0:54:55go to him later on and have a word and say, "Yeah, well done."
0:54:55 > 0:54:59I was doubtful about how it was all going to go but it's been fantastic.
0:54:59 > 0:55:03He's made her so happy and that's all that matters.
0:55:05 > 0:55:08Adam's shocked everyone here today because, not only has
0:55:08 > 0:55:12he spent the money wisely, but he's also had so much to prove.
0:55:14 > 0:55:16Lydia has seen how much she loves him
0:55:16 > 0:55:18because he has proven this to her.
0:55:18 > 0:55:20So I think they can start their marriage from here
0:55:20 > 0:55:22and it'll be really nice.
0:55:22 > 0:55:24When I was younger, I took a lot of gambles
0:55:24 > 0:55:26and a lot of risks that I shouldn't have took
0:55:26 > 0:55:28and I'm the first to admit that
0:55:28 > 0:55:32and I was very, very stupid but this is the next stage of my life.
0:55:32 > 0:55:34She is the person I want to be with for ever.
0:55:34 > 0:55:38If I didn't have her then I don't know where I'd be now.
0:55:38 > 0:55:40It wouldn't be what I would have planned.
0:55:40 > 0:55:42I'm so glad you have planned it
0:55:42 > 0:55:44because I wouldn't have had this is my wedding,
0:55:44 > 0:55:46I probably would have had it quite boring.
0:55:46 > 0:55:49I have to understand that it's what you want as well
0:55:49 > 0:55:52and I embrace that and I thought, "Do you know what? This is fun.
0:55:52 > 0:55:54"And why shouldn't I just let go of it
0:55:54 > 0:55:56"and not be so precise with everything?"
0:55:59 > 0:56:01At the end of the day, you've got to go through your life
0:56:01 > 0:56:03making decisions together.
0:56:03 > 0:56:07- Yeah.- So now we can because you can trust me a little bit more.- Yeah.
0:56:07 > 0:56:12- You still rule the roost, no doubt, but...- Yeah, I will.
0:56:12 > 0:56:14# I came here tonight to hear the crowd go
0:56:14 > 0:56:16# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:16 > 0:56:19# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:19 > 0:56:21# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:21 > 0:56:23# Tick, tick, tick, tick, boom!
0:56:23 > 0:56:26# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:26 > 0:56:28# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:28 > 0:56:30# Boom, shake, shake, shake the room
0:56:30 > 0:56:32# Tick, tick, tick, tick, boom! #
0:56:36 > 0:56:37THEY SHOUT
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