0:00:02 > 0:00:06This programme contains some strong language
0:00:06 > 0:00:08Don't Tell The Bride celebrates weddings like no-one else.
0:00:08 > 0:00:12- From New York...to Glasgow. - Oh, my God.
0:00:12 > 0:00:14Las Vegas...
0:00:14 > 0:00:16Why would the man I love do this?
0:00:16 > 0:00:18..to Ibiza.
0:00:18 > 0:00:19I've got to plan a wedding.
0:00:19 > 0:00:22And one unforgettable rollercoaster ride.
0:00:22 > 0:00:25Why the hell are we at Thorpe Park on my wedding day?!
0:00:25 > 0:00:28And now we're back as 12 more unsuspecting brides
0:00:28 > 0:00:31prepare for the journey of a lifetime.
0:00:31 > 0:00:32What?!
0:00:32 > 0:00:37The grooms get three weeks and £12,000
0:00:37 > 0:00:41and the brides get no say in how it's spent.
0:00:41 > 0:00:43I'd never imagine Ben could get it this wrong.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45So get ready to rock...
0:00:45 > 0:00:47I don't even want you at the wedding!
0:00:47 > 0:00:53..as the party reaches new heights and sinks to new lows
0:00:53 > 0:00:55with more fairytale endings than ever before.
0:00:55 > 0:00:59This is supposed to be the biggest day of my life and I'm not happy!
0:00:59 > 0:01:00Switch it off!
0:01:02 > 0:01:04Tonight metal head Martyn...
0:01:06 > 0:01:07We are rock and roll.
0:01:07 > 0:01:10..wants to turn his bride's big day into a big gig.
0:01:10 > 0:01:13It needs to be a big metal show.
0:01:13 > 0:01:16If he has metal bands on, I'll end up going to the local pub.
0:01:16 > 0:01:20But with a best man vying for the limelight...
0:01:20 > 0:01:23- You're jealous as I've got other people here. - ..and a highly strung bride...
0:01:23 > 0:01:26Please just don't start today.
0:01:26 > 0:01:29..whose two dads need to be kept on side.
0:01:29 > 0:01:30I've got a question to ask you.
0:01:30 > 0:01:33What happens when there's more meltdowns than music?
0:01:33 > 0:01:35Don't even want you at my wedding!
0:01:35 > 0:01:36I feel sorry for Martyn.
0:01:36 > 0:01:38Can this groom keep it all together...
0:01:38 > 0:01:39I can't cope.
0:01:39 > 0:01:41..or will it be a metal mess?
0:01:41 > 0:01:44One more word!
0:01:44 > 0:01:46I don't know if I'm best man after what's just happened.
0:01:46 > 0:01:49I don't like it at all.
0:02:03 > 0:02:08Tattooist and rock musician Martyn lives in Castleford, West Yorkshire
0:02:08 > 0:02:12with alternative model Terri and their two dogs Bruce and Noah.
0:02:14 > 0:02:15I just love everything about Terri.
0:02:15 > 0:02:18I could say a few things that I love about her
0:02:18 > 0:02:20but there's not a few things, it's everything.
0:02:20 > 0:02:21- Aw!- So it'd be easier to say
0:02:21 > 0:02:23what I don't love about her - which is nothing.
0:02:23 > 0:02:26I wouldn't change him for the world
0:02:26 > 0:02:29and I love walking down the street with him.
0:02:29 > 0:02:30He's the best looking guy I've ever met
0:02:30 > 0:02:33and I'm sure a lot of other people think that as well,
0:02:33 > 0:02:35but I'm proud to have him on my arm and not theirs.
0:02:36 > 0:02:38It all started three years ago
0:02:38 > 0:02:43when Terri met Martyn while modelling in a local nightclub.
0:02:43 > 0:02:46Terri was doing an underwear catwalk show.
0:02:46 > 0:02:50The first thing I said was, "I'm going to marry that girl."
0:02:50 > 0:02:53I was smitten by the girl in her underwear!
0:02:54 > 0:02:57They might seem like a devoted couple but secretly,
0:02:57 > 0:02:59there's a love triangle afoot.
0:02:59 > 0:03:01METAL MUSIC PLAYS
0:03:01 > 0:03:02Metal is definitely my first love.
0:03:02 > 0:03:06It's the only genre that surges through my veins.
0:03:06 > 0:03:09INDISTINCT
0:03:10 > 0:03:16I was like, "What the hell is this?!" People just screaming.
0:03:16 > 0:03:18SINGER SCREAMS
0:03:18 > 0:03:19"Rargghh!"
0:03:19 > 0:03:21She's got it!
0:03:21 > 0:03:23Being six years older than his girl
0:03:23 > 0:03:28means Martyn's taken Terri under his wing.
0:03:28 > 0:03:29He helps with life experience
0:03:29 > 0:03:32and he advises me of what he thinks I should do,
0:03:32 > 0:03:34just when I'm struggling or stuck.
0:03:34 > 0:03:37She's a very independent person but sometimes...
0:03:37 > 0:03:41I do hit that brick wall and need a bit of guidance.
0:03:42 > 0:03:45And Terri doesn't just take Martyn's advice.
0:03:45 > 0:03:47She's also taken on his look.
0:03:47 > 0:03:50Since meeting Martyn my image has changed a hell of lot.
0:03:50 > 0:03:55I've experimented with styles, clothes and hair and everything.
0:03:55 > 0:03:59Terri's changed so much. I loved who she was when I first met her.
0:03:59 > 0:04:01She was different but I always saw potential.
0:04:01 > 0:04:04I would like to say I've broadened Terri's horizons
0:04:04 > 0:04:07All I did for her was give her that confidence
0:04:07 > 0:04:10to look like she does now.
0:04:10 > 0:04:13I gave her a start and she finished it off.
0:04:13 > 0:04:14It's well pretty!
0:04:14 > 0:04:19But underneath the tattoos, Terri's still a little girl at heart.
0:04:19 > 0:04:23I'm not, like, the stereotypical alt girl.
0:04:23 > 0:04:26I'm covered in tattoos but I am still the girly princess
0:04:26 > 0:04:29that loves sparkles, loves everything pink and girly.
0:04:29 > 0:04:33And this girly princess likes to get what she wants.
0:04:37 > 0:04:40- I want that dress so much. - Yeah, I bet you do.
0:04:40 > 0:04:43I want the dress. I want the dress!
0:04:43 > 0:04:46If I want something, I'll go and get it. I am the little princess.
0:04:46 > 0:04:51I'll stomp my feet and try and get what I want.
0:04:51 > 0:04:53I want the dress, I want the dress.
0:04:53 > 0:04:55Terri tends to drive me mad
0:04:55 > 0:04:59because she can't control her levels of anxiety.
0:04:59 > 0:05:02- If something's bothering her... - Everyone knows.
0:05:02 > 0:05:04And this loving couple have certainly faced
0:05:04 > 0:05:06some difficult times.
0:05:07 > 0:05:11Sadly, due to medical reasons, neither Terri or Martyn
0:05:11 > 0:05:13is able to have children.
0:05:13 > 0:05:15When it did come out, we just thought,
0:05:15 > 0:05:17we are made for each other.
0:05:17 > 0:05:21If one of us couldn't have children and the other one could,
0:05:21 > 0:05:23it would still be on your conscience
0:05:23 > 0:05:26but the fact that we both can't have children,
0:05:26 > 0:05:28it does make a big, big difference.
0:05:28 > 0:05:30It's pretty special...
0:05:30 > 0:05:32It's nobody's fault.
0:05:33 > 0:05:37In fact, it's made getting married even more important.
0:05:37 > 0:05:41It's something that can hinder anyone's relationship,
0:05:41 > 0:05:45but getting married is our way of tying that knot
0:05:45 > 0:05:49and making it more real for each other.
0:05:49 > 0:05:54And Princess Terri has been fantasising about her big day
0:05:54 > 0:05:56for a very long time.
0:05:56 > 0:05:58I'd say I've been planning the wedding of my dreams
0:05:58 > 0:06:00since I was a very little girl.
0:06:00 > 0:06:07My perfect wedding would be the whole little girl's princess dream castle
0:06:07 > 0:06:09with just sparkles everywhere.
0:06:09 > 0:06:14I wanted to be very magical so I would love unicorns...
0:06:14 > 0:06:18Hang on, did she say unicorns?
0:06:18 > 0:06:19I would love unicorns.
0:06:19 > 0:06:21Yes, she did.
0:06:22 > 0:06:25With a young bride, whose head is in the clouds,
0:06:25 > 0:06:28will Martyn be able to reach her lofty expectations?
0:06:28 > 0:06:30I've got a feeling Terri thinks I'm going to put on
0:06:30 > 0:06:35the amazing traditional wedding that she's always wanted.
0:06:35 > 0:06:37Whereas, I'm not going to go down that route.
0:06:37 > 0:06:40I kind of want to do the wedding that I think she wants.
0:06:40 > 0:06:44I would hate metal being at the wedding. No metal bands...
0:06:44 > 0:06:46METAL MUSIC PLAYS
0:06:47 > 0:06:49..but I don 't think he'd do that.
0:06:50 > 0:06:52I don't think... Would he?
0:06:52 > 0:06:54METAL MUSIC PLAYS
0:06:54 > 0:06:56No.
0:06:56 > 0:06:57It'll be fine.
0:06:57 > 0:06:59A man of Martyn's age
0:06:59 > 0:07:01and experience must've been to plenty of weddings.
0:07:01 > 0:07:05- This will be the first wedding that I've been to...- Oh.
0:07:05 > 0:07:10So I'm pretty nervous on where to begin. The vows.
0:07:10 > 0:07:12I don't even know what a vow is yet.
0:07:12 > 0:07:17What hope does metal-loving Martyn have to delivering a special day
0:07:17 > 0:07:20to a bride who is desperate for a fairytale wedding?
0:07:20 > 0:07:22'You can only get married once.'
0:07:22 > 0:07:26This is the one and only chance of doing it and getting it right.
0:07:26 > 0:07:29- Just make sure you turn up on the day.- I will if it's right.
0:07:34 > 0:07:38It's time for the loved-up couple to say goodbye.
0:07:39 > 0:07:41The next time they see each other
0:07:41 > 0:07:45will be on the most important day of both their lives.
0:07:45 > 0:07:47SHE SOBS
0:07:51 > 0:07:53All right, see you in three weeks.
0:07:58 > 0:08:01- I love you.- I love you.
0:08:01 > 0:08:04- I can't wait to see you again. - Me too.
0:08:04 > 0:08:06You're going to look amazing.
0:08:14 > 0:08:17I want to go home.
0:08:25 > 0:08:28I've never been apart like this before.
0:08:28 > 0:08:30It's going to be so hard.
0:08:30 > 0:08:35He's the person I speak to most out of everybody.
0:08:37 > 0:08:38Right.
0:08:38 > 0:08:40Composed.
0:08:49 > 0:08:51I'll just have to get through this.
0:08:51 > 0:08:54It's all going to be worth it.
0:08:54 > 0:08:57It's just going to be a hard road for three weeks.
0:08:57 > 0:08:59I think Bruce knows.
0:09:02 > 0:09:04DOG BARKS
0:09:06 > 0:09:07Ah, come on, babes...
0:09:07 > 0:09:11For the next three weeks, Terri will be moving back home.
0:09:12 > 0:09:14To ease her back into family life,
0:09:14 > 0:09:18her mum Karen's arranged a girly get-together.
0:09:18 > 0:09:21What would be your worst nightmare? What don't you want him to do?
0:09:21 > 0:09:23The big, alternative wedding.
0:09:23 > 0:09:25Because I look different,
0:09:25 > 0:09:30people just automatically assume that I'm alternative and I'm not.
0:09:30 > 0:09:31I'm a girly girl, aren't I, pet?
0:09:31 > 0:09:32Yeah, she is girly girly.
0:09:32 > 0:09:36Martyn may have lost his girly girl,
0:09:36 > 0:09:39but right next door is a glamorous hairdresser
0:09:39 > 0:09:42who'll be guiding him through the next three weeks.
0:09:43 > 0:09:46Meet Martyn's best man...
0:09:46 > 0:09:48Princess, we've got a wedding to plan.
0:09:48 > 0:09:49..Ben
0:09:49 > 0:09:52I've know Martyn for about four years.
0:09:52 > 0:09:54We were both setting up shop at the same time
0:09:54 > 0:09:56He is an amazing guy.
0:09:56 > 0:09:59He just puts this image across of himself
0:09:59 > 0:10:02that you wouldn't want to mess with him but he has a heart of gold
0:10:02 > 0:10:05and I'd do anything for him.
0:10:05 > 0:10:09I'm friends with both of them. Martyn is one of the lads,
0:10:09 > 0:10:11and with Terri, I do the girly side of things -
0:10:11 > 0:10:13have the girly chats and a cup of tea.
0:10:15 > 0:10:16Here's to Terri.
0:10:16 > 0:10:18I'm really excited about everything.
0:10:18 > 0:10:20I feel, like, with Martyn's wedding,
0:10:20 > 0:10:23I can just put everything I've got I've got into this for these guys.
0:10:23 > 0:10:28Time for Martyn to reveal his master metal plan.
0:10:28 > 0:10:29A big stage is what I want.
0:10:29 > 0:10:33I'm thinking big, epic meatballs of a wedding.
0:10:33 > 0:10:37I want rock, metal, the lot.
0:10:39 > 0:10:41I need to put my stamp on this wedding.
0:10:41 > 0:10:42It's got to be big, it's got to be metal,
0:10:42 > 0:10:46It's got to be heavy. We're going to get bands on stage.
0:10:46 > 0:10:49I just need it to be the ultimate metal musical wedding.
0:10:49 > 0:10:53- How much is one of these stages?- They look expensive.
0:10:54 > 0:10:58I need the princess wedding and if he does not do that,
0:10:58 > 0:11:00I can't say what will happen.
0:11:00 > 0:11:02I'm not saying I won't walk down the aisle,
0:11:02 > 0:11:04but, like, the venue,
0:11:04 > 0:11:09the dress and making sure it's fit for everybody
0:11:09 > 0:11:13are the three main things and if he doesn't get that right...
0:11:13 > 0:11:16If he has metal bands on from start to finish,
0:11:16 > 0:11:17I would not be happy
0:11:17 > 0:11:20and I'll up taking my grandad and grandma to the local pub.
0:11:20 > 0:11:24But Terri's not the only one who's going to struggle.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27I need to get my nails done, I need to get the dogs in the kennels...
0:11:27 > 0:11:30- Colour dress?- I need to know what colour dress to buy.
0:11:30 > 0:11:33What about me?! It's not your bloody wedding! It's my wedding!
0:11:33 > 0:11:36I'd say that as the weeks go on,
0:11:36 > 0:11:39and I get stressed and Terri gets stressed,
0:11:39 > 0:11:41there'll probably be fireworks.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47Day one and Martyn heads off to Leeds city centre
0:11:47 > 0:11:48in search of a venue.
0:11:49 > 0:11:52He wants to set up up his own metal gig
0:11:52 > 0:11:55and get bands, including his own, to play throughout the day.
0:11:55 > 0:11:58So he needs to find somewhere with a stage.
0:11:59 > 0:12:02And best man Ben is taking his role very seriously.
0:12:02 > 0:12:05We're going to get a project book,
0:12:05 > 0:12:08a sticky note, highlighter pens and a clipboard.
0:12:08 > 0:12:10And I need a headset.
0:12:10 > 0:12:15Martyn's also pulled in friends Josh and Sam to help out.
0:12:15 > 0:12:18I like this space, look at that space.
0:12:18 > 0:12:20I could get some amazing bands to play here.
0:12:20 > 0:12:26It's just whether they'll let you rent out this outside area.
0:12:26 > 0:12:28This is a metal venue!
0:12:28 > 0:12:33Wedding photos out here. The net's ready for all the confetti.
0:12:33 > 0:12:34This is a big metal venue.
0:12:36 > 0:12:38The problem is it's Sunday and the venue's shut.
0:12:38 > 0:12:40Sundays suck.
0:12:40 > 0:12:44It's just saying it's closed, we'll have to phone up tomorrow.
0:12:44 > 0:12:46What about the O2 Academy?
0:12:46 > 0:12:48- Shall we have a look up there? - O2 Academy.
0:12:48 > 0:12:51While the boys focus on finding a venue,
0:12:51 > 0:12:56best man Ben isn't feeling... well, the best.
0:12:56 > 0:12:58I don't think we're getting as far as we could do.
0:12:58 > 0:13:01I think there's too many people.
0:13:01 > 0:13:04I just feel like me and Martyn are not doing the groom/best man thing.
0:13:04 > 0:13:09It was supposed to be us coming and doing this and that's why I'm saying I can't get a word in
0:13:09 > 0:13:12because every time I try and say something Josh is straight in there.
0:13:12 > 0:13:18Keeping his best man on side is costing Martyn precious time.
0:13:18 > 0:13:20It's meant to be me and you looking for a venue,
0:13:20 > 0:13:22that's what it's meant to be.
0:13:22 > 0:13:24It's meant to be me finding a venue and you helping,
0:13:24 > 0:13:26and the lads helping.
0:13:26 > 0:13:29You're just jealous because I've got other people here
0:13:29 > 0:13:32cos that's what it's starting to sound like now.
0:13:32 > 0:13:36A best man is meant to be by my side and just agreeing, and helping out.
0:13:36 > 0:13:37Well, you've got three.
0:13:37 > 0:13:39So, you're acting like an idiot now.
0:13:39 > 0:13:42- No, I'm not acting like an idiot. - "I've got three best men"?
0:13:42 > 0:13:45What difference is there between me and Sam and Josh right now?
0:13:45 > 0:13:49There's not apart from I'm the one you're having a go at.
0:13:49 > 0:13:50Forget it, Ben. Go home.
0:13:55 > 0:13:59If you don't want to do it, Ben, forget it, don't do it.
0:13:59 > 0:14:01If it's too much for you, then just go home.
0:14:01 > 0:14:04Ben, don't think I don't want this to be an amazing day as well.
0:14:04 > 0:14:06And don't think these two don't.
0:14:09 > 0:14:14# I didn't mean to hurt you
0:14:17 > 0:14:20# I'm sorry that I made you cry. #
0:14:20 > 0:14:22- All right, mate?- Yeah.- Good.
0:14:24 > 0:14:27Can we not just be the group of friends with the crazy ideas?
0:14:27 > 0:14:30That's who we are!
0:14:33 > 0:14:34I think he's all right now.
0:14:34 > 0:14:37He just needs to know that he is my best man.
0:14:37 > 0:14:42The other lads know Ben can diva out of control a bit
0:14:42 > 0:14:44but that's why I love him.
0:14:47 > 0:14:51Well, at least they're all friends again...for now.
0:14:55 > 0:14:59It's day two, and Terri's with her mum, Karen.
0:14:59 > 0:15:02Aw, look at that one!
0:15:02 > 0:15:05Terri's parents split up when she was six-years-old,
0:15:05 > 0:15:09leaving her desperate for her own fairytale marriage
0:15:09 > 0:15:11It's like princess and the prince,
0:15:11 > 0:15:13It is happily ever after, isn't it?
0:15:13 > 0:15:16I feel that you only get married once, and that is it.
0:15:16 > 0:15:20Like, I don't see any means of a divorce.
0:15:20 > 0:15:24I just think I'd always work something out.
0:15:24 > 0:15:29And Terri's also dreaming of a fairytale wedding day.
0:15:29 > 0:15:32I don't think you would want to get married in a church, would you?
0:15:32 > 0:15:34- I don't know.- I want a castle.
0:15:34 > 0:15:37- You want a castle? - SHE LAUGHS
0:15:37 > 0:15:42- Sorry, princess. - It's Princess Terri, actually,
0:15:42 > 0:15:44All hail Terri.
0:15:44 > 0:15:49So Princess Terri wants a fairytale castle.
0:15:49 > 0:15:54But metaller Martyn has other ideas.
0:15:54 > 0:15:57He's on the hunt for a wedding venue with a stage
0:15:57 > 0:16:00fit for some very noisy metal bands
0:16:00 > 0:16:05and it needs to be big enough to accommodate 250 fans.
0:16:05 > 0:16:07All right, guests.
0:16:07 > 0:16:10Thinking laterally, he's come to the heart of Leeds to see...
0:16:10 > 0:16:12a shopping centre.
0:16:12 > 0:16:17- Where would the stage go? - There, in-between the plants.
0:16:17 > 0:16:21You could have dancers on the stage! Dancers on the stage!
0:16:21 > 0:16:25What we want is the ceremony down here
0:16:25 > 0:16:30and then we wanted a stage up there for bands.
0:16:30 > 0:16:33Now, if you want access to the top of the Corn Exchange for anything
0:16:33 > 0:16:36then it will be from five o'clock when the shops close.
0:16:36 > 0:16:39That could be a big hindrance.
0:16:39 > 0:16:43With a limited time to construct the stage, Martyn needs to find out
0:16:43 > 0:16:46if it's worth it.
0:16:46 > 0:16:49We don't have a hire fee on the Corn Exchange, we have a minimum spend.
0:16:49 > 0:16:52So the minimum spend is 6,500.
0:16:52 > 0:16:57That means you have to spend that day with us that amount.
0:16:57 > 0:17:01While Martyn's got a lot to consider,
0:17:01 > 0:17:04Ben loves its sophisticated style.
0:17:04 > 0:17:09It's amazing, I don't see what else you could want in a venue.
0:17:09 > 0:17:13I know Terri wouldn't ever expect anything like this from Martyn.
0:17:13 > 0:17:16I think it would just be perfect for her...
0:17:21 > 0:17:24So if Ben gets his way, Terri will be spending her big day
0:17:24 > 0:17:29in the very un-magical surroundings of a city shopping centre...
0:17:29 > 0:17:30instead of here.
0:17:30 > 0:17:34The girly venue of her childhood dreams.
0:17:34 > 0:17:36EXCITED SCREAMS
0:17:36 > 0:17:38Look at that!
0:17:38 > 0:17:42It is gorgeous. This is fit for a princess.
0:17:42 > 0:17:43This is the fairytale, isn't it?
0:17:43 > 0:17:48She's brought bridesmaid Tasha
0:17:48 > 0:17:51to the magnificent 700-year-old Ripley Castle -
0:17:51 > 0:17:53perfect for a fairytale princess.
0:17:53 > 0:17:54OMG.
0:17:54 > 0:17:58Look how crap the weather is and it's still beautiful.
0:17:58 > 0:18:02It's just what you dream of, what you see in children's books,
0:18:02 > 0:18:04and you think you'll never go there.
0:18:04 > 0:18:08It's just more of a dream and it actually exists.
0:18:10 > 0:18:14And bridesmaid Tasha is rooting for her friend
0:18:14 > 0:18:16to get the happy ending she craves.
0:18:16 > 0:18:19You've not had it awesome, have you, babe?
0:18:19 > 0:18:21But you've always deserved something like this.
0:18:21 > 0:18:26Sparkles, big, all eyes on you, it's just what you're made for.
0:18:26 > 0:18:30- That's what I deserve to do - be a princess.- Exactly.
0:18:30 > 0:18:32I'd love to see you here, babe, I'd love to.
0:18:32 > 0:18:35Martyn won't pick this, though.
0:18:36 > 0:18:38Well...no.
0:18:42 > 0:18:45Four days in and the pressure is starting to take its toll.
0:18:47 > 0:18:51Just a bit all over the place at the minute.
0:18:51 > 0:18:55The boys have come to the town of Ilkley, an hour north of Leeds.
0:18:57 > 0:18:59Is this stage licensed to get married on?
0:18:59 > 0:19:02Absolutely, yes, you can get married on stage, that's not a problem.
0:19:05 > 0:19:09What we have done in the past is build extensions onto the stage
0:19:09 > 0:19:13and created a catwalk down the centre so you can actually go out into your audience.
0:19:13 > 0:19:16- I like that.- Can you imagine the singers on wireless mics
0:19:16 > 0:19:20running down the aisle and just getting everyone involved?!
0:19:20 > 0:19:22It may be an easier option than the shopping centre
0:19:22 > 0:19:24but how much will it cost?
0:19:24 > 0:19:26£6,000 straight up.
0:19:26 > 0:19:31That covers your guests, their food during the day,
0:19:31 > 0:19:35and it covers your drinks that we've agreed on,
0:19:35 > 0:19:40and that's inclusive of the use of the venue for the day.
0:19:40 > 0:19:45At six grand, it's practically the same price as the shopping centre,
0:19:45 > 0:19:47but for Martyn, it's the obvious frontrunner.
0:19:49 > 0:19:52- I'm shocked with the £6,000, if I'm honest.- Are you really?- Yes.
0:19:52 > 0:19:54I wouldn't have put it at that much.
0:19:54 > 0:19:59Well, I'll throw five and half at him, but I'll do that tomorrow.
0:19:59 > 0:20:01It hasn't got the same feel as the Corn Exchange.
0:20:01 > 0:20:04Think about when you walk in and the feeling that you get.
0:20:04 > 0:20:06That is what you're paying for with something like that.
0:20:06 > 0:20:09- Do you not get a good feeling here? - I do, but not the same.
0:20:09 > 0:20:11You've not got all the little stalls downstairs,
0:20:11 > 0:20:13you've not got the eatery, you've not got all of that.
0:20:13 > 0:20:16I've got a big massive stage - that's what this wedding is about.
0:20:16 > 0:20:20- That's what I'm saying, but compare that...- I'm not bothered about food!
0:20:20 > 0:20:24Get your head in the fact that it needs to be a big, metal show.
0:20:24 > 0:20:27It needs to be a concert. I'm sorry, but this place is perfect.
0:20:27 > 0:20:30What would Terri think when she pulled up in front of here?
0:20:30 > 0:20:32- She'd have a bit of a disappointment. - Yeah.
0:20:32 > 0:20:35What would she think if she pulled up in front of the Corn Exchange?
0:20:35 > 0:20:38She'd probably think, "Oh, why am I here?"
0:20:38 > 0:20:40So that's worth £500. That feeling.
0:20:40 > 0:20:43Ben, when you first said you should get it down to £5,500, I said,
0:20:43 > 0:20:47- "All right, I'll phone him tonight or e-mail him."- No, you didn't.
0:20:47 > 0:20:48I'm sorry, guys.
0:20:48 > 0:20:51I actually said I'll e-mail him tonight
0:20:51 > 0:20:53and see if I can get it down to £5,500.
0:20:53 > 0:20:56So whatever your little mind were doing at that moment, I do not know.
0:20:56 > 0:20:58My little mind is trying to pull a wedding out of the bag for you!
0:20:58 > 0:21:00What do you think I'm trying to do?
0:21:00 > 0:21:03All you're thinking about is your ego, Martyn.
0:21:03 > 0:21:05I'm going to punch you in a minute if you carry on.
0:21:05 > 0:21:07Right, I'm going to have to walk away,
0:21:07 > 0:21:09because I'm really going to take your head off.
0:21:09 > 0:21:11Really?
0:21:11 > 0:21:13I'm sure Terri would be so chuffed
0:21:13 > 0:21:15with the effort you're making right now(!)
0:21:15 > 0:21:17Right...
0:21:18 > 0:21:20HE YELLS
0:21:22 > 0:21:25HE SHOUTS One more word! One more!
0:21:27 > 0:21:29One more word, mate!
0:21:29 > 0:21:31Mention Terri again...
0:21:31 > 0:21:33Terri's my mate, Martyn, as well.
0:21:33 > 0:21:35Look at what you're doing! Look at what you're doing!
0:21:35 > 0:21:38Come on, dude. We're all stressed at the moment. It's fine.
0:21:52 > 0:21:56I feel like Ben just wasn't letting up about the Corn Exchange.
0:21:56 > 0:21:59He's kind of got his heart set on that.
0:21:59 > 0:22:03What he's got to realise is sometimes, things can't happen.
0:22:03 > 0:22:05At the end of the day,
0:22:05 > 0:22:08it's my wedding, it's Terri's wedding,
0:22:08 > 0:22:12and I've got to think of what I want and what Terri wants.
0:22:12 > 0:22:15And much as Ben thinks he knows what Terri wants,
0:22:15 > 0:22:17I'd like to think I know a bit better
0:22:17 > 0:22:19what she would like and what she wouldn't like.
0:22:23 > 0:22:25I don't think I deserved to be spoken to like that.
0:22:25 > 0:22:29All I'm trying to do is help him and I think it were...
0:22:29 > 0:22:32I don't know...pretty bad.
0:22:34 > 0:22:36I'm only thinking of those two.
0:22:36 > 0:22:39I'm not saying they should get married at the Corn Exchange.
0:22:39 > 0:22:42I'm just wanting them two to have an amazing wedding.
0:22:42 > 0:22:44I don't know if I'm...
0:22:44 > 0:22:47best man any more, after what's just happened.
0:22:52 > 0:22:54Bad things I said.
0:22:54 > 0:22:57And I do regret what I did.
0:22:57 > 0:22:59But you wound me up.
0:22:59 > 0:23:02I'm apologising for lashing out.
0:23:02 > 0:23:03Shouldn't have done that.
0:23:03 > 0:23:04You don't have to apologise.
0:23:04 > 0:23:07- I know we've got loads of shit going on.- I want to apologise.
0:23:07 > 0:23:09I hate that I did that,
0:23:09 > 0:23:13because that's not something I'd do to a friend like you.
0:23:13 > 0:23:14I'm sorry, Ben.
0:23:14 > 0:23:16I shouldn't have lashed out.
0:23:16 > 0:23:19It's just everything is getting a bit frustrating.
0:23:19 > 0:23:22And I really want to get excited about something,
0:23:22 > 0:23:25and it kind of dampened me a little bit.
0:23:25 > 0:23:27That's the last thing I want to do.
0:23:27 > 0:23:30- We could've both dealt with that a lot better.- Yeah.
0:23:30 > 0:23:34No, I think we dealt with it quite well.
0:23:36 > 0:23:38- We good, mate?- Yeah. We're good.
0:23:41 > 0:23:42Meltdown over,
0:23:42 > 0:23:47Martyn's finally found the venue for his metal wedding.
0:23:47 > 0:23:51There's no better place. I don't even want to look at any other venues.
0:23:51 > 0:23:52- This is perfect.- Mmm-hmm.
0:23:52 > 0:23:56We've really achieved something now. We've found the venue.
0:23:56 > 0:23:59- It's all because you're a miserable bitch!- I know!
0:24:02 > 0:24:05Aw, that's it, guys.
0:24:05 > 0:24:07Hug it out! All better now.
0:24:09 > 0:24:11It's the end of the first week,
0:24:11 > 0:24:15and the boys aren't the only ones who've been having a tough time.
0:24:15 > 0:24:17Having not lived at home for six years,
0:24:17 > 0:24:20Terri is finding it difficult to readjust.
0:24:22 > 0:24:24Me and me mum are just annoying each other so much.
0:24:24 > 0:24:28Me mum's stressing about what she's going to wear for the wedding.
0:24:28 > 0:24:30I'm stressing about everything.
0:24:30 > 0:24:32I just don't like it, because I feel as though
0:24:32 > 0:24:35I'm, like, tiptoeing on eggshells.
0:24:35 > 0:24:39Whatever I say, Terri's taking it wrong.
0:24:39 > 0:24:42I know she's missing Martyn, that's the main thing.
0:24:42 > 0:24:44But I can't do anything about that.
0:24:44 > 0:24:46Just being away from Martyn.
0:24:46 > 0:24:50I'd do anything just for a hug off him now.
0:24:50 > 0:24:52SHE SNIFFS
0:24:52 > 0:24:54Cos whenever I'm upset, that's who I turn to.
0:24:54 > 0:24:56And not having that...
0:24:56 > 0:24:58I'm just really struggling to deal with.
0:24:58 > 0:25:01I'm the wrong person to calm her down.
0:25:01 > 0:25:03It doesn't work that way with me and Terri.
0:25:05 > 0:25:08I'm there for her to shout at, and I don't like it!
0:25:08 > 0:25:10SHE LAUGHS
0:25:18 > 0:25:20I'm struggling.
0:25:20 > 0:25:22I know you're struggling, love,
0:25:22 > 0:25:24but it's tough taking it out on me!
0:25:27 > 0:25:30Is it?
0:25:30 > 0:25:33I'm supposed to be the one that's trying to hold you together,
0:25:33 > 0:25:35but then when you start shouting at me, I can't, can I?
0:25:35 > 0:25:39- I hate seeing you like this. - HER VOICE CRACKS
0:25:39 > 0:25:41Don't you start now!
0:25:41 > 0:25:44At the end of the day,
0:25:44 > 0:25:46- I still need my dress! - SHE LAUGHS
0:25:46 > 0:25:51It's the start of week two, and Martyn's off to buy
0:25:51 > 0:25:53what every bride wants on her wedding day.
0:25:53 > 0:25:57Big, loud, speakers with a lot of wattage.
0:25:57 > 0:26:00To blow people up. Internally.
0:26:00 > 0:26:04- What are you putting through it? - Metal.
0:26:04 > 0:26:06- Do want to have a listen?- Yeah.
0:26:06 > 0:26:09METAL MUSIC PLAYS
0:26:12 > 0:26:14This system is going to be perfect.
0:26:14 > 0:26:18Martyn forks out another £1,300 of his budget
0:26:18 > 0:26:21on a set of oversized speakers.
0:26:21 > 0:26:23Hmmm...very princess (!)
0:26:25 > 0:26:31Across town, and blissfully unaware of Martyn's metal plan,
0:26:31 > 0:26:34Faye is helping her sister prepare for the big day.
0:26:34 > 0:26:37How are you feeling about everything so far?
0:26:37 > 0:26:39Really mixed.
0:26:39 > 0:26:43Like, I'm OK today, but yesterday I broke down a little bit.
0:26:43 > 0:26:48Just the stress of everything and not knowing, and just worrying.
0:26:48 > 0:26:51- You know what I'm like.- Because you can't get any reassurance
0:26:51 > 0:26:54- or a cuddle off him? - Yeah, no reassurance, no nothing.
0:26:54 > 0:26:55It's just really, really hard.
0:26:55 > 0:26:59I don't think I could cope, to be honest, if it were me.
0:27:01 > 0:27:05If only Terri knew what her hubby-to-be was up to now.
0:27:05 > 0:27:08Instead of planning her fairytale wedding,
0:27:08 > 0:27:11he and his mate, Mark, are booking metal bands.
0:27:11 > 0:27:15- It would be nice to get Your Demise to headline it.- Yeah.
0:27:15 > 0:27:19- What about Ursa Major? - Oh, yeah. Cool.
0:27:19 > 0:27:21Let's get some e-mails sent off.
0:27:24 > 0:27:27Being a musician does help getting in bands, obviously.
0:27:27 > 0:27:28They've got respect for you.
0:27:28 > 0:27:31They don't think you're just some fan trying to get them to play a show.
0:27:35 > 0:27:38You get confirmation from bands, but obviously,
0:27:38 > 0:27:40some bands can let you down on the day.
0:27:40 > 0:27:42But I'm not too worried at the minute.
0:27:42 > 0:27:44I'm more worried about the wedding itself.
0:27:44 > 0:27:46The show is coming together. It's just the actual wedding.
0:27:46 > 0:27:49I still haven't got a wedding dress and stuff.
0:27:49 > 0:27:50Wedding cake...
0:27:50 > 0:27:52It'll come together.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54I mean, that's kind of how it always has done for me.
0:27:54 > 0:27:57Things just end up coming together the end.
0:27:57 > 0:27:59Whether it will not this time...
0:27:59 > 0:28:01I've never done anything on this scale.
0:28:03 > 0:28:05Luckily for Martyn,
0:28:05 > 0:28:06he's got his best man on hand.
0:28:06 > 0:28:10And Princess Ben has a fabulous idea.
0:28:10 > 0:28:14How about after the wedding, just to break it up a little bit,
0:28:14 > 0:28:16we learn a dance routine?
0:28:17 > 0:28:19Surprise!
0:28:19 > 0:28:22He wants to dance...at the wedding.
0:28:22 > 0:28:25With the groom. Well...
0:28:25 > 0:28:27what best man doesn't? (!)
0:28:27 > 0:28:30Ben wants to do it, so I'm willing to give it a go.
0:28:31 > 0:28:33THEY LAUGH
0:28:33 > 0:28:37Dancer Penny's agreed to help them out.
0:28:37 > 0:28:38We're going to learn a routine.
0:28:38 > 0:28:41It's a bit disco-y, a bit funky.
0:28:41 > 0:28:43It's going to jazz it up and put everybody in a good mood
0:28:43 > 0:28:44and give everybody a good laugh.
0:28:44 > 0:28:46The singing starts, and it goes,
0:28:46 > 0:28:48# Shake your groove thing
0:28:48 > 0:28:50# Shake your groove thing, baby. #
0:28:50 > 0:28:52Yeah?
0:28:52 > 0:28:54And then you're going to go like this.
0:28:54 > 0:28:55Why do we have to do it so gay?
0:28:55 > 0:28:57- SHE LAUGHS - Cos it's disco!
0:28:59 > 0:29:00Oh, look, bling's off!
0:29:00 > 0:29:02- Watch is off!- Watch is off!
0:29:02 > 0:29:04SHE LAUGHS
0:29:04 > 0:29:06# Shake it, shake it... #
0:29:06 > 0:29:08One, two, three, four.
0:29:08 > 0:29:10One, two, three, four.
0:29:10 > 0:29:11Step, cross, up, go.
0:29:11 > 0:29:14I think he's been so stressed out, and, like, getting here now,
0:29:14 > 0:29:17he was half asleep in the car on the way here,
0:29:17 > 0:29:19and now he's wide awake, and he's enjoying himself.
0:29:19 > 0:29:22And that's what I wanted to do.
0:29:22 > 0:29:25Last week, yeah, we were fighting, and then this week,
0:29:25 > 0:29:27we're doing a dance routine together.
0:29:27 > 0:29:29- It's just how it is, really.- Yeah.
0:29:29 > 0:29:31I just think, with everything being metal,
0:29:31 > 0:29:34you've got to cater for everyone. And I think this does.
0:29:34 > 0:29:36It's putting fun back in and it's something me and you
0:29:36 > 0:29:38have taken time out to do together.
0:29:38 > 0:29:40# Groove thing, baby
0:29:40 > 0:29:43# Show 'em how you do it now... #
0:29:43 > 0:29:45You might have a lot of work to do. But it's good, guys.
0:29:45 > 0:29:48- But we've got the basics. - SHE LAUGHS
0:29:48 > 0:29:49Which is what's important.
0:29:49 > 0:29:51We've got a lot of work to do!
0:29:51 > 0:29:52So Ben's wedding...
0:29:52 > 0:29:54er, Martyn's wedding now features
0:29:54 > 0:29:57a load of metal bands and a cabaret act
0:29:57 > 0:29:58starring the groom and best man.
0:29:58 > 0:30:00Standard(!)
0:30:04 > 0:30:08Oblivious to the fact she may be upstaged on her big day...
0:30:08 > 0:30:09'Wow!'
0:30:09 > 0:30:13..Terri's brought her mum, her sister Faye,
0:30:13 > 0:30:17and friend Helen along to fantasise about her dream dress.
0:30:18 > 0:30:22But for Princess Terri, one just isn't enough.
0:30:22 > 0:30:25I'm wanting two wedding dresses, one that's really fitted
0:30:25 > 0:30:28but mermaid-y at the bottom,
0:30:28 > 0:30:32and the second one, princess dress, with sparkles if possible.
0:30:32 > 0:30:35What will you do if you only get one dress?
0:30:35 > 0:30:36ALL TALK OVER EACH OTHER
0:30:36 > 0:30:40Take a pair of scissors and make it into a second dress!
0:30:40 > 0:30:43- You can't do that! - It's my dress, course I can.
0:30:49 > 0:30:51Ten days in and metal-loving Martyn
0:30:51 > 0:30:55has finally remembered he's got a wedding to plan.
0:30:55 > 0:30:59He's about to make the most important purchase of his life
0:30:59 > 0:31:00but he's not alone.
0:31:00 > 0:31:04- I'm excited.- Yeah, course you are, you're going dress shopping.
0:31:07 > 0:31:10- I'm the groom.- Best man.- Fantastic.
0:31:11 > 0:31:14That bit there, that sort of shape.
0:31:15 > 0:31:19Something like that.
0:31:19 > 0:31:21While Ben's totally at home with lace and taffeta,
0:31:21 > 0:31:23Martyn's struggling.
0:31:26 > 0:31:28Kill me now.
0:31:28 > 0:31:31If it's too much for you, you can sit down. I'm quite happy.
0:31:31 > 0:31:34You're not going to get your eyes clawed out if you get it wrong.
0:31:34 > 0:31:35I can't cope.
0:31:39 > 0:31:43Princess Terri's found her first dream ceremony dress.
0:31:43 > 0:31:45Terri, you look beautiful.
0:31:45 > 0:31:47Oh, Terri.
0:31:47 > 0:31:50It's sparkly and dramatic, just like the bride really.
0:31:54 > 0:31:57Is she crying?
0:31:57 > 0:32:00You've got the fitted, corset-y top.
0:32:00 > 0:32:03It goes all the way down to the fish-tail.
0:32:03 > 0:32:05It's got added sparkles on the top.
0:32:05 > 0:32:08Diamontes in the middle.
0:32:08 > 0:32:12It's really girly and quirky as well.
0:32:15 > 0:32:18And with her head still firmly in the clouds,
0:32:18 > 0:32:20Terri's in dress number two.
0:32:20 > 0:32:24So this is perfect for the second dress.
0:32:24 > 0:32:27She's in second dress heaven.
0:32:28 > 0:32:31But Mum has other ideas.
0:32:32 > 0:32:34This is more a church dress.
0:32:35 > 0:32:41- Mum, it's not your wedding!- I'm just talking. I'm going home.- Mum!
0:32:43 > 0:32:46What's she saying?
0:32:46 > 0:32:51- Nothing.- I don't even want you at my wedding.
0:32:55 > 0:32:57TERRI SOBS
0:32:57 > 0:32:59- It's my day!- She doesn't mean it!
0:32:59 > 0:33:03All I were doing were saying that other one is my preference.
0:33:03 > 0:33:05That's all I said in there.
0:33:05 > 0:33:09If I go back in and start giving any opinion, it'll be wrong.
0:33:09 > 0:33:12So you're going to stay out here? Mum, now you're being pathetic.
0:33:12 > 0:33:15I feel sorry for Martyn, I do.
0:33:19 > 0:33:23I know you're stressed out, I know I'm stressed out,
0:33:23 > 0:33:27but, like, I appreciate your opinion, but...
0:33:27 > 0:33:30- Just leave it.- No! I don't want you to be upset there!- I'm fine!
0:33:30 > 0:33:34- You're not, you're still upset. - You're still in a strop as well!
0:33:34 > 0:33:38- Are you going to give each other a cuddle?- Don't give us this!
0:33:38 > 0:33:40Aaaw!
0:33:42 > 0:33:47- Helen, come on! Are you not coming in? Yay!- Yay!
0:33:48 > 0:33:52No, we don't mean it, but at the time we're saying it, we do.
0:33:52 > 0:33:57But then, like, seconds later, it's, like, "Oh, no!"
0:33:57 > 0:33:59I'm going to start crying again.
0:33:59 > 0:34:03It would be boring if everything was like, perfect, happy, like.
0:34:05 > 0:34:07It'd be well boring!
0:34:07 > 0:34:10I wouldn't change my little family for the world.
0:34:11 > 0:34:13Let's do this.
0:34:13 > 0:34:17So Terri wants two dresses. That's two dresses, lads.
0:34:17 > 0:34:22- You want another?- At this rate she'll be lucky to get one.
0:34:24 > 0:34:27Helped by another glass, and his best man,
0:34:27 > 0:34:30Martyn's finally getting in touch with his own feminine side.
0:34:30 > 0:34:33- I'm not sure about all the frilly bits.- Yeah.
0:34:37 > 0:34:38It's not something I'd see Terri in.
0:34:45 > 0:34:47I love that one, Ben.
0:34:47 > 0:34:49So Martyn's chosen the dress.
0:34:50 > 0:34:55- How expensive is it? - It is £1,099.- Right.
0:34:55 > 0:34:58I love the dress, I can see Terri in it,
0:34:58 > 0:35:01it's got a really nice flow to it.
0:35:02 > 0:35:07But after all that Martyn is actually going for two frocks!
0:35:09 > 0:35:12Trouble is, only one of them is for Terri.
0:35:12 > 0:35:14My God!
0:35:14 > 0:35:20Ben wants to wear a wedding dress for his disco dance routine.
0:35:20 > 0:35:22And neither of the boys seem concerned
0:35:22 > 0:35:24about Ben upstaging the bride.
0:35:25 > 0:35:28I might be marrying the wrong person.
0:35:28 > 0:35:31I ain't been bothering about what dress you're picking for Terri,
0:35:31 > 0:35:33all I've been looking at is which one I'm going to wear!
0:35:33 > 0:35:37- Would you like to wear this dress? - I'd love to.
0:35:37 > 0:35:41Well, if we go ahead and sort out Terri's dress,
0:35:41 > 0:35:43you can wear this dress for your cabaret.
0:35:43 > 0:35:47- Would that be quite exciting?- Yeah!
0:35:47 > 0:35:51- Congratulations, you have a dress. - I'll sleep now.
0:35:51 > 0:35:56So Martyn forks out just over £1,000 for Terri's gown
0:35:56 > 0:35:59so that best man Ben can borrow his for free.
0:35:59 > 0:36:02A novel way of choosing your bride's dress!
0:36:07 > 0:36:10With the venue and dress sorted, Martyn turns his attentions
0:36:10 > 0:36:13to a family matter that's been troubling him.
0:36:13 > 0:36:16He thinks Terri would want both her dad and step-dad
0:36:16 > 0:36:21to walk her down the aisle, but he's not sure if it's possible.
0:36:21 > 0:36:23I know for a fact that would make Terri's day
0:36:23 > 0:36:26but I don't know how they're going to be together,
0:36:26 > 0:36:29it's a long time since they've seen each other.
0:36:29 > 0:36:30It's a delicate matter
0:36:30 > 0:36:34so Martyn seeks advice from Terri's mum, Karen.
0:36:34 > 0:36:37What are your concerns - how they'll react?
0:36:37 > 0:36:40Yeah, just getting both the guys together.
0:36:40 > 0:36:43There won't be a problem. There really won't.
0:36:43 > 0:36:44Both of them love her to bits.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47I know Vince will be sound with it.
0:36:47 > 0:36:50And I'm almost certain Barry will accept it,
0:36:50 > 0:36:53he'll be OK with it, it's his daughter at the end of the day,
0:36:53 > 0:36:56and he'll want it to be the best day ever.
0:36:56 > 0:36:58They'll just want everything to go smoothly
0:36:58 > 0:37:01and accept what's wanted on the day.
0:37:01 > 0:37:04So it's just a matter of meeting up with him
0:37:04 > 0:37:06- and having that chat?- Yeah.
0:37:06 > 0:37:09As long as I know I've got your blessing to ask them.
0:37:09 > 0:37:10Yeah, definitely.
0:37:10 > 0:37:13Martyn now needs to persuade Terri's real dad, Barry,
0:37:13 > 0:37:18to walk alongside her step-dad, Vince.
0:37:18 > 0:37:22- 'Ey up, mate.- Hey, Baz. How you doing?- Not bad, cocker.
0:37:22 > 0:37:24- I'm good.- Come in.
0:37:27 > 0:37:30I want you to walk Terri down the aisle.
0:37:30 > 0:37:35But I know Terri would also want to do it with Vince.
0:37:35 > 0:37:37Both of you walking down the aisle.
0:37:40 > 0:37:44Whatever Terri wants, she can have, far as I'm concerned.
0:37:45 > 0:37:49- Can you do it for us?- Mm-hmm.
0:37:49 > 0:37:53Thanks, Barry. Feel miles better now.
0:37:56 > 0:38:00All that's left is to sound out Terri's step-dad Vince.
0:38:00 > 0:38:03I wanted to ask you what your thoughts are
0:38:03 > 0:38:06on walking Terri down the aisle.
0:38:06 > 0:38:08- With Baz.- Yeah.
0:38:09 > 0:38:12I'd be a bit upset if you hadn't asked me.
0:38:12 > 0:38:15- Are you up for it?- Definitely. - Great stuff.
0:38:15 > 0:38:18- Everyone's grown up now, aren't we? - We try.
0:38:19 > 0:38:23- Nice one, mate.- Get it over and done with and get her out of here!
0:38:26 > 0:38:29They've never seen eye to eye. They've never got on.
0:38:29 > 0:38:32They have kept their distance for a lot of years from each other.
0:38:32 > 0:38:35So this will be the first time
0:38:35 > 0:38:37they've been in the same room together,
0:38:37 > 0:38:39let alone walking Terri down the aisle.
0:38:41 > 0:38:43All right. Come on, boys.
0:38:43 > 0:38:48With both dads onside, Martyn ends the second week on a high,
0:38:48 > 0:38:52and what better way to celebrate than the stag do?
0:38:57 > 0:39:01Across town, Martyn's arranged another musical surprise
0:39:01 > 0:39:03for his bride to be.
0:39:05 > 0:39:08I don't feel in the mood to sing karaoke.
0:39:08 > 0:39:13Martyn may have taken a night off from wedding planning
0:39:13 > 0:39:16but the metal pub is the perfect place
0:39:16 > 0:39:21to find some more local bands for his gig. Wedding. Whatever.
0:39:21 > 0:39:25I've got my mates, Road To Horizon, have come to my stag do,
0:39:25 > 0:39:29so, basically, you're all good to play at my wedding.
0:39:29 > 0:39:30We'll put on an epic show.
0:39:33 > 0:39:36Will your band play at my venue next Sunday?
0:39:36 > 0:39:39- No problem.- Say no more, my friend.
0:39:42 > 0:39:46That's another band we've got included into the show.
0:39:46 > 0:39:48Wedding, Martyn! It's a wedding!
0:39:49 > 0:39:52These bands are just falling in place.
0:39:53 > 0:39:56Terri's left the karaoke bar,
0:39:56 > 0:39:58and found somewhere more suited to her tastes.
0:39:58 > 0:40:01Finally relaxed, she starts to have a good time -
0:40:01 > 0:40:03but not too good a time.
0:40:03 > 0:40:07I do get drunk, but not to the point where you can't stand up
0:40:07 > 0:40:08and people are falling over.
0:40:08 > 0:40:11I'm always the one that looks after the group, mother hen.
0:40:11 > 0:40:13Making sure they're all all right,
0:40:13 > 0:40:16holding the hair back when they're spewing, getting them into bed.
0:40:20 > 0:40:22They could probably use her at the stag do!
0:40:34 > 0:40:36It's the following day,
0:40:36 > 0:40:39and back home Martyn's had some unexpected news.
0:40:39 > 0:40:44I've just received a phone call off Terri's dad, Barry.
0:40:46 > 0:40:49Turns out he's had a change of heart
0:40:49 > 0:40:56and he's not really wanting to walk down the aisle with Vince.
0:40:58 > 0:41:02And it's gutting. It really is gutting.
0:41:02 > 0:41:05He said he won't come to the wedding if Vince walks her down the aisle,
0:41:05 > 0:41:08but I have now asked Vince to walk her down the aisle
0:41:08 > 0:41:10and Vince is overjoyed by it.
0:41:11 > 0:41:15Martyn knows this could ruin Terri's big day.
0:41:15 > 0:41:19Having both my dad and my stepdad walk me down the aisle
0:41:19 > 0:41:21means the world to me.
0:41:21 > 0:41:24My dad is always my dad, I love him to bits,
0:41:24 > 0:41:28but my mum has been with my stepdad for, like, 14 years.
0:41:28 > 0:41:32He's played a massive part in my life
0:41:32 > 0:41:36and helping my mum fetch me and my sister up.
0:41:36 > 0:41:40And I just hope that they both respect me, and each other,
0:41:40 > 0:41:41to be able to do it.
0:41:43 > 0:41:44With less than a week to go
0:41:44 > 0:41:49Martyn is still not sure who will walk Terri down the aisle,
0:41:49 > 0:41:50but the show must go on.
0:41:53 > 0:41:57He spends £660 on suits for the boys.
0:41:59 > 0:42:02£230 on bridesmaids' dresses,
0:42:02 > 0:42:06before finally spending £655
0:42:06 > 0:42:10on some metal Terri might actually like.
0:42:15 > 0:42:17It's the day before the wedding
0:42:17 > 0:42:20and the bride who's dreaming of two sparkly dresses
0:42:20 > 0:42:22is about to see the one dress Martyn has picked.
0:42:24 > 0:42:27- Are we all excited? Little bit nervous?- Nervous, yes.
0:42:27 > 0:42:29I really don't want to see it.
0:42:29 > 0:42:31You'll be OK. Just take deep breaths.
0:42:49 > 0:42:50I don't like it.
0:42:56 > 0:42:58It's awful.
0:43:08 > 0:43:11Come here, sweetheart.
0:43:19 > 0:43:24I just wouldn't have even picked it out to try it on myself.
0:43:24 > 0:43:26She don't like it.
0:43:27 > 0:43:29I daren't go to her.
0:43:31 > 0:43:32Is it the material?
0:43:32 > 0:43:34You don't like satin?
0:43:34 > 0:43:36I wish I hadn't come now.
0:43:36 > 0:43:38Is this the only dress as well?
0:43:38 > 0:43:41The only one there that Martyn's picked out for you.
0:43:41 > 0:43:43With only one dress in front of her,
0:43:43 > 0:43:45Terri's dream of a happily ever after
0:43:45 > 0:43:47could be over before it's begun.
0:43:47 > 0:43:48I don't know what to do.
0:43:48 > 0:43:51I think you need to get it on and see what it looks like on,
0:43:51 > 0:43:55because how many times have we gone shopping and gone, "Uh, that's awful," then put it on...
0:43:55 > 0:43:57I know, but it's just that material.
0:44:00 > 0:44:01Keep your head up,
0:44:01 > 0:44:04because you'll make it longer keeping your head down.
0:44:06 > 0:44:09- What do you think?- I like it.
0:44:09 > 0:44:12- It's very pretty.- It fits you.
0:44:12 > 0:44:14Your boobs, your figure.
0:44:14 > 0:44:17- Honestly, babe, it looks gorgeous. - You do look stunning, Terri.
0:44:17 > 0:44:19- You do look stunning.- Classy.
0:44:24 > 0:44:26I don't know.
0:44:28 > 0:44:30Yeah, that's perfect!
0:44:30 > 0:44:32If it fits like that...
0:44:36 > 0:44:37These are also Swarovski crystals,
0:44:37 > 0:44:40they match the crystals on your dress.
0:44:40 > 0:44:43- That is sparkly.- Oh, my God!
0:44:43 > 0:44:44That is stunning.
0:44:44 > 0:44:48And with a few finishing touches carefully chosen by Martyn,
0:44:48 > 0:44:51Terri starts to feel like a real princess.
0:44:51 > 0:44:54Look how sparkly it is.
0:44:54 > 0:44:57It's like a really good fishtail-y, mermaid-y bottom,
0:44:57 > 0:45:00that's what I wanted, for it to come really fitted all the way down.
0:45:00 > 0:45:03And then, like, just out of the bottom nicely.
0:45:08 > 0:45:11I really wanted the princess dress.
0:45:11 > 0:45:14But...that's the selfish me coming out,
0:45:14 > 0:45:17where I want two dresses.
0:45:17 > 0:45:20And, like, he's obviously put some thought into it
0:45:20 > 0:45:23and spent some money on it, so, it's like,
0:45:23 > 0:45:27I wouldn't dare ask for another dress, it'd just be wrong.
0:45:29 > 0:45:33Terri may be happy with the dress,
0:45:33 > 0:45:35but how will she feel when she finds out
0:45:35 > 0:45:38she'll be wearing it at a metal gig tomorrow?
0:45:42 > 0:45:45It's the morning of the wedding.
0:45:45 > 0:45:48- Hi!- Make-up!
0:45:48 > 0:45:52In a few hours, Terri will finally marry the man of her dreams.
0:45:52 > 0:45:55# Sunrise, sunrise
0:45:55 > 0:45:58# Looks like morning in your eyes... #
0:45:58 > 0:46:02ALARM RINGS
0:46:04 > 0:46:06Well, that's if he can get out of bed first.
0:46:06 > 0:46:09I've had two hours and 15 minutes' sleep.
0:46:11 > 0:46:13Terri gets her first surprise of the day.
0:46:13 > 0:46:15Ahh!
0:46:15 > 0:46:19You guys looking stunning!
0:46:19 > 0:46:20I want YOUR dresses!
0:46:22 > 0:46:24Meanwhile, at the hall,
0:46:24 > 0:46:28and the transformation from traditional theatre
0:46:28 > 0:46:31to mega metal mosh pit is well under way.
0:46:32 > 0:46:34Martyn's spent the last three weeks
0:46:34 > 0:46:37putting his heart and soul into the big day.
0:46:37 > 0:46:40He's hired thousands of pounds of sound equipment,
0:46:40 > 0:46:45arranged eight metal bands, found one massive stage...
0:46:45 > 0:46:49Oh, and somehow, he's squeezed a wedding in, too.
0:46:49 > 0:46:52Ah, mate, who knows how these shirts work!
0:46:57 > 0:47:01In Castleford, Terri's dad has had a change of heart
0:47:01 > 0:47:06and come to support his daughter on the most important day of her life.
0:47:10 > 0:47:13I am over the moon that my two dads are here.
0:47:13 > 0:47:17Nothing's been said, I've seen them stood talking together
0:47:17 > 0:47:19and the atmosphere's great.
0:47:19 > 0:47:22There's no awkwardness, I think if they have differences,
0:47:22 > 0:47:25you can see that they've put them to the side, which is really good.
0:47:26 > 0:47:30Back in Ilkley, Terri's friends and family are starting to arrive,
0:47:30 > 0:47:34and for Martyn, the reality of a metal wedding is setting in.
0:47:34 > 0:47:38It's that group over there that worries me.
0:47:38 > 0:47:40They know you, and they've accepted you for 30 years.
0:47:40 > 0:47:44No, I've never met that side of the family!
0:47:47 > 0:47:51Metal, you either love it or hate it, and they hate it.
0:47:51 > 0:47:55- I don't think the metal theme will be to everybody's taste. - Everyone, come inside,
0:47:55 > 0:47:58get a drink, let's get this started.
0:48:00 > 0:48:02# You're my inspiration... #
0:48:04 > 0:48:06As metal music blasts out on the wedding party,
0:48:06 > 0:48:12it's not so much Led Zeppelin as, well...lead balloon.
0:48:12 > 0:48:15Too loud for me, screaming, shouting...
0:48:15 > 0:48:18SINGER GROWLS
0:48:18 > 0:48:20Too old for head-banging!
0:48:26 > 0:48:28- We've got a coach!- Yay!
0:48:29 > 0:48:31Terri's all smiles so far,
0:48:31 > 0:48:35but will a tour bus be magical enough for this fairy-tale bride?
0:48:35 > 0:48:37Morning, Mr Bus driver!
0:48:37 > 0:48:39I'm David.
0:48:39 > 0:48:41Pleased to meet you.
0:48:41 > 0:48:42Hop up.
0:48:44 > 0:48:46Hop up...
0:48:46 > 0:48:47This is fancy!
0:48:51 > 0:48:53It's not my unicorn,
0:48:53 > 0:48:56but still might be there, just round the corner from the venue.
0:48:59 > 0:49:02Terri's always dreamed of a fairy-tale wedding,
0:49:02 > 0:49:05but soon she'll be arriving to this...
0:49:05 > 0:49:09METAL MUSIC BLASTS
0:49:12 > 0:49:15No! What is it? It's a hall...
0:49:16 > 0:49:17It's a hall!
0:49:17 > 0:49:23I can see a coach pulling up outside. Terri's here! Whoo!
0:49:24 > 0:49:26Martyn's gone all out to impress Terri,
0:49:26 > 0:49:33with a carefully-selected track to lead her down the aisle.
0:49:33 > 0:49:35It's metal music, it's metal music!
0:49:37 > 0:49:41MUSIC: "These Woods Aren't Safe For Us" by Bury Tomorrow
0:49:47 > 0:49:51# Where would I be
0:49:51 > 0:49:53# Without you?
0:49:59 > 0:50:02# I can feel you running
0:50:02 > 0:50:05# And I can taste the sickness in the air... #
0:50:18 > 0:50:21SHE SOBS
0:50:24 > 0:50:26You OK? You look amazing.
0:50:29 > 0:50:33Martyn may have planned an untraditional wedding,
0:50:33 > 0:50:34but on the biggest day of his life,
0:50:34 > 0:50:38he wants at least one part to be very traditional.
0:50:38 > 0:50:41Martyn and Terri are before me
0:50:41 > 0:50:44wishing to affirm their relationship with marriage,
0:50:44 > 0:50:48which according to the law of this country,
0:50:48 > 0:50:50is the union of one man with one woman,
0:50:50 > 0:50:53voluntarily entered into for life,
0:50:53 > 0:50:55to the exclusion of all others.
0:51:01 > 0:51:04- I give you this ring... - I give you this ring...
0:51:04 > 0:51:08..as a symbol of my love and commitment.
0:51:08 > 0:51:10..as a symbol of my love and commitment.
0:51:10 > 0:51:13- It is my promise... - It is my promise...
0:51:13 > 0:51:16- ..that I will share with you... - ..that I will share with you...
0:51:16 > 0:51:18- ..all that I have... - ..all that I have...
0:51:18 > 0:51:22- ..and all that I am. - ..and all that I am.
0:51:22 > 0:51:24- I will honour you... - I will honour you...
0:51:24 > 0:51:26- ..and care for you... - ..and care for you...
0:51:26 > 0:51:27..and we will be as one.
0:51:27 > 0:51:28..and we will be as one.
0:51:33 > 0:51:35I call upon...
0:51:35 > 0:51:36I call upon...
0:51:36 > 0:51:39- ..these persons here present... - ..these persons here present...
0:51:39 > 0:51:45- ..to witness that I, Terri... - ..to witness that I, Terri...
0:51:45 > 0:51:48- ..do take thee, Martyn... - ..do take thee, Martyn...
0:51:48 > 0:51:52- ..to be my lawful wedded husband. - ..to be my lawful wedded husband.
0:51:52 > 0:51:55- I will honour you... - I will honour you...
0:51:55 > 0:51:57- ..and care for you. - ..and care for you.
0:51:57 > 0:51:59It's OK, Terri.
0:51:59 > 0:52:03- ..and we will be as one. - ..and we will be as one.
0:52:04 > 0:52:06- Our love...- Our love...
0:52:06 > 0:52:09- ..and our friendship... - ..and our friendship...
0:52:09 > 0:52:11- ..will last for ever. - ..will last for ever.
0:52:11 > 0:52:13Well done, Terri.
0:52:17 > 0:52:22For Martyn and Terri, it is my very great pleasure to pronounce you husband and wife together.
0:52:22 > 0:52:24CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:52:27 > 0:52:30# ..as in love with you as I am
0:52:31 > 0:52:35# They would be as in love with you as I am
0:52:37 > 0:52:41# They would be as in love love, love
0:52:43 > 0:52:47# Being as in love with you as I am
0:52:47 > 0:52:51# Being as in love with you as I am... #
0:52:51 > 0:52:55For a girl who dreamt of a castle filled with unicorns,
0:52:55 > 0:52:58what does Terri make of Martyn's efforts?
0:52:58 > 0:53:04It's really grand and it's amazing, the catwalk... It's ace.
0:53:04 > 0:53:08When I walked in with Terri, it were just, like, all flashes,
0:53:08 > 0:53:10it were just unbelievable.
0:53:10 > 0:53:13When they opened them doors and I saw what were in front, I thought,
0:53:13 > 0:53:15- "Wow. That's fantastic, that." - See, I didn't get that.
0:53:15 > 0:53:17Well, I did!
0:53:18 > 0:53:22But it wouldn't be a metal musician's wedding
0:53:22 > 0:53:25without the musician getting up on stage and playing some metal.
0:53:27 > 0:53:29Let's rock!
0:53:33 > 0:53:37METAL MUSIC PLAYS
0:53:47 > 0:53:48It's not my princess wedding,
0:53:48 > 0:53:52but he's thought about me and what I am actually like.
0:53:52 > 0:53:56# There's blood on the walls! #
0:53:56 > 0:54:00- We just need to tone the music down now.- Earplugs!
0:54:00 > 0:54:02The music...
0:54:02 > 0:54:05Not much up to the music, but it's a different era, that.
0:54:07 > 0:54:09The music may not have been to everyone's tastes,
0:54:09 > 0:54:13but Martyn and the boys have done it.
0:54:13 > 0:54:17I just want to thank all my boys that have helped me plan this wedding.
0:54:17 > 0:54:20Ben, you've been amazing. CHEERING
0:54:20 > 0:54:23What we actually managed to pull off was something that
0:54:23 > 0:54:26she would never have thought of herself.
0:54:26 > 0:54:27That's what made it so special.
0:54:27 > 0:54:29I've always dreamt of this princess wedding,
0:54:29 > 0:54:31but I got the princess wedding.
0:54:31 > 0:54:33I feel like a princess, I've got my prince,
0:54:33 > 0:54:35and everything else is just a bonus.
0:54:41 > 0:54:43I wouldn't have had it any other way.
0:54:43 > 0:54:45The highs, the lows, the good and the bad,
0:54:45 > 0:54:48all led to this day we've had today.
0:54:48 > 0:54:52I'm happy, I'm really happy...
0:54:52 > 0:54:56I am glad it's over. I'm glad I've got my girl back.
0:54:56 > 0:55:01I've got my girl back and I never want to be away from her, ever again.
0:55:03 > 0:55:06And a wedding between Martyn and Terri wouldn't be complete
0:55:06 > 0:55:08without best man Ben's moment in the spotlight.
0:55:08 > 0:55:12# Shake your groove thing Shake your groove thing, yeah... #
0:55:12 > 0:55:14And even HE got to wear his dress.
0:55:14 > 0:55:16Well...not for long.
0:55:16 > 0:55:20# Let's show the world we can dance
0:55:20 > 0:55:24# Bad enough to strut our stuff
0:55:24 > 0:55:27# The music gives us a chance
0:55:27 > 0:55:30# We do more out on the floor... #
0:55:30 > 0:55:33I didn't get my two dresses, but Ben had one and I'm fine with sharing.
0:55:33 > 0:55:35C'mon, guys, let's see some movement!
0:55:35 > 0:55:37Huh, huh, huh!
0:55:40 > 0:55:43This is more than my dream, what Martyn has done today.
0:55:43 > 0:55:46I've obviously dreamt of a castle,
0:55:46 > 0:55:48but I think that's a girl's imagination running wild,
0:55:48 > 0:55:51enchanted forest and stuff like that.
0:55:51 > 0:55:54But Martyn knows me a lot better than I know myself,
0:55:54 > 0:55:55by the looks of it.
0:55:55 > 0:55:59# Shake it, shake it
0:55:59 > 0:56:03# Groovin' loose or heart to heart... #
0:56:03 > 0:56:05- I love you.- I love you, too.
0:56:05 > 0:56:08Next time...
0:56:08 > 0:56:09I am awesome.
0:56:09 > 0:56:15Big kid Chris has huge plans for the ultimate outdoor fairy-tale wedding.
0:56:15 > 0:56:18I don't just want to plan a wedding, I want to plan an event.
0:56:18 > 0:56:23But without his eight-month pregnant bride-to-be Corinne to rein him in...
0:56:23 > 0:56:27There's a little bit crazy, then there's Chris-crazy.
0:56:27 > 0:56:29- ..will mad-hatter Chris... - I can't even think.
0:56:29 > 0:56:34..pull off his delirious daydream, or will it be a Neverland nightmare?
0:56:34 > 0:56:37You seem very calm. I'd be screaming blue murder, wanting to kill him.
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