0:00:02 > 0:00:04Don't Tell The Bride celebrates weddings like no-one else.
0:00:04 > 0:00:06Congratulations on your future.
0:00:06 > 0:00:07From New York...
0:00:07 > 0:00:08SCREAMING
0:00:08 > 0:00:11- ..to Glasgow...- Oh, my God.
0:00:11 > 0:00:15- ..Las Vegas... - Why would the man I love do this?
0:00:15 > 0:00:19- To Ibiza...- I can't even plan a wedding for her.
0:00:19 > 0:00:21..in one unforgettable roller-coaster ride.
0:00:21 > 0:00:24Why the hell are we at Thorpe Park on my wedding day?!
0:00:24 > 0:00:28And now we are back as 12 more unsuspecting brides
0:00:28 > 0:00:31prepare for the journey of a lifetime.
0:00:31 > 0:00:33No freaking way!
0:00:33 > 0:00:36The grooms get three weeks and £12,000...
0:00:36 > 0:00:38CHEERING
0:00:38 > 0:00:42..and the brides get no say in how it is spent.
0:00:42 > 0:00:46- Trying so hard to stay positive and I can't.- So, get ready to rock...
0:00:46 > 0:00:48I don't even want you in my wedding.
0:00:48 > 0:00:50..as the party reaches new heights
0:00:50 > 0:00:52and sinks to new lows...
0:00:52 > 0:00:54HE RETCHES
0:00:54 > 0:00:57..with more fairytale endings than ever before.
0:00:57 > 0:00:59Is this it? Is this all I get?
0:00:59 > 0:01:02Tonight, space cadet Anthony...
0:01:02 > 0:01:05One small step for a man, one giant leap for wedding planning.
0:01:05 > 0:01:07A self-certified geek...
0:01:07 > 0:01:11I have accounted so far for £7,372.98.
0:01:11 > 0:01:16- ..wants to give his fashion-conscious fiancee... - I had these before Kate Middleton.
0:01:16 > 0:01:18..a wedding day that's out of this world.
0:01:18 > 0:01:21- Smells like a wedding. - But can a groom who has no clue...
0:01:21 > 0:01:23White dress, white dress, white dress with sparkles.
0:01:23 > 0:01:26..give a bride who dreams of Italian elegance...
0:01:26 > 0:01:28It's got to be perfect.
0:01:28 > 0:01:29..the wedding day she deserves?
0:01:29 > 0:01:31You're expecting me to marry this guy?
0:01:31 > 0:01:33It's going to be stupid, actually.
0:01:33 > 0:01:36I don't think she's going to enjoy the day.
0:01:36 > 0:01:38I can't see anywhere that looks like a salon.
0:01:38 > 0:01:41- Or will this geek's plans... - Everybody loves lasers.
0:01:41 > 0:01:43- My grandma always said that. - ..for their big day...
0:01:43 > 0:01:47- Ah! I can't even talk about it, I'm so excited. - ..go up in smoke?
0:01:47 > 0:01:50You might have to lift up his visor to say I do.
0:01:50 > 0:01:52There's something wrong with him, isn't there?
0:02:06 > 0:02:10Starry-eyed lovers Anthony and Holly's worlds collided
0:02:10 > 0:02:1318 months ago when they met in a bar in Leeds.
0:02:13 > 0:02:17When I first saw Anthony I thought he was good looking,
0:02:17 > 0:02:20but I liked the fact he was shy and I could tell I was
0:02:20 > 0:02:23making him a bit nervous, which I always think is really sweet.
0:02:23 > 0:02:26For me, meeting anyone for the first time is always nerve-wracking
0:02:26 > 0:02:28because it's just a countdown until they know
0:02:28 > 0:02:31how strange I am. So for me, it was just countdown begins.
0:02:31 > 0:02:33Countdown to launch.
0:02:33 > 0:02:37Science nut Anthony soon felt the chemistry for 25-year-old Holly.
0:02:37 > 0:02:40I remember after a matter of weeks saying to my friends,
0:02:40 > 0:02:41that's it, this is it.
0:02:41 > 0:02:46Never known anyone like this young lady, never want to know another one!
0:02:48 > 0:02:52For this magnetic couple, it's a case of opposites attract.
0:02:52 > 0:02:56I'm quite creative and I love fashion.
0:02:56 > 0:03:01I like reading fashion magazines, watching runways online.
0:03:01 > 0:03:06I like Italian style, like, I would say that looks quite Italian.
0:03:06 > 0:03:08But for super-organised project manager Anthony,
0:03:08 > 0:03:11the world of fashion just doesn't add up.
0:03:11 > 0:03:13I'm a geek. Very, very nerdy.
0:03:13 > 0:03:19I'm very OCD-ish about things. I like to joke that I don't have OCD,
0:03:19 > 0:03:23I have CDO. It's like OCD but it's in alphabetical order like it should be.
0:03:23 > 0:03:27Obsessive compulsive Anthony isn't just compulsively obsessed with Holly.
0:03:27 > 0:03:32We can use those numbers there to work out exactly how heavy Jupiter is.
0:03:32 > 0:03:34Science has always been very important to me.
0:03:34 > 0:03:38Something that I am absolutely fascinated with.
0:03:38 > 0:03:44# Spaceman, I always wanted you to go into space, man...#
0:03:44 > 0:03:45Astronomy, in particular.
0:03:45 > 0:03:49Getting to know the universe that we are in. The fact that everything
0:03:49 > 0:03:53that makes you and I up once came from a supernova explosion.
0:03:53 > 0:03:55All the things that make most people want to go to sleep
0:03:55 > 0:03:57make me want to wake up.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00Despite their differences, three months after meeting
0:04:00 > 0:04:02they got engaged,
0:04:02 > 0:04:05and bride-to-be Holly immediately set about planning her dream wedding
0:04:05 > 0:04:07on the Amalfi Coast.
0:04:07 > 0:04:11I love Italy and it was just going to be amazing.
0:04:11 > 0:04:14On the bay of Naples overlooking the water,
0:04:14 > 0:04:17like a really picturesque setting.
0:04:17 > 0:04:23and I was going to have lots of nice food and wine,
0:04:23 > 0:04:25typical Italian culture really,
0:04:25 > 0:04:28just eating and drinking and everyone having a good time.
0:04:28 > 0:04:30It was my dream wedding, basically.
0:04:32 > 0:04:35But Holly's dream day had to be put on hold.
0:04:35 > 0:04:39Holly and I were both Jehovah's Witnesses.
0:04:39 > 0:04:41Jehovah's Witnesses take the bible very literally.
0:04:41 > 0:04:44They believe that's all historically accurate.
0:04:44 > 0:04:48But Anthony's scientific mind was giving him huge doubts.
0:04:48 > 0:04:52I came across an article that talked about human remains
0:04:52 > 0:04:54of 30,000 years old and older.
0:04:54 > 0:05:00Because I had been taught the human race was no older than 6,000 years old,
0:05:00 > 0:05:02that raises questions.
0:05:02 > 0:05:06With Holly having doubts of her own, they left the Jehovah Witness
0:05:06 > 0:05:08religion which had an impact on their relationships
0:05:08 > 0:05:09with friends and family.
0:05:09 > 0:05:12The weekend it came out that I didn't believe it,
0:05:12 > 0:05:15I lost 100 friends on Facebook, like, in a day.
0:05:15 > 0:05:18It's weird because your action is hurting people,
0:05:18 > 0:05:21but there's no malice to it.
0:05:21 > 0:05:25Since I've left, the only family I have spoken to are my mum, my dad
0:05:25 > 0:05:29and my little brother and it upsets me,
0:05:29 > 0:05:31that you can sense a tension when we're talking.
0:05:31 > 0:05:34Worried that their loved ones wouldn't come,
0:05:34 > 0:05:36they cancelled Holly's dream Italian wedding.
0:05:36 > 0:05:40When we decided to leave the religion,
0:05:40 > 0:05:44we obviously understood that a lot of people would feel
0:05:44 > 0:05:49uncomfortable coming to the wedding and probably wouldn't,
0:05:49 > 0:05:55so although it was our dream wedding, it wasn't any more,
0:05:55 > 0:05:59because what we intended it to be, it would never have been that now.
0:05:59 > 0:06:01But Anthony is determined to give Holly her happy ending
0:06:01 > 0:06:03with a brand new wedding.
0:06:03 > 0:06:07It's been a very difficult year for Holly and I.
0:06:07 > 0:06:10I almost feel in a sense that I owe it to her to take that first steps
0:06:10 > 0:06:13to rebuilding a new life, and I just want everything,
0:06:13 > 0:06:15I want her to be really happy again.
0:06:15 > 0:06:19This time round, Anthony's agreed to plan every detail of their big day.
0:06:19 > 0:06:23Our last wedding, I organised it, didn't I?
0:06:23 > 0:06:27- Yep.- Anthony took a back seat.
0:06:27 > 0:06:29I took a bed!
0:06:29 > 0:06:31I wasn't even conscious.
0:06:31 > 0:06:35- You get to get involved this time, yay!- Smashing!
0:06:35 > 0:06:40This science geek now has to plan a wedding for his fashion-conscious fiancee.
0:06:40 > 0:06:42While she no longer wants her wedding in Italy,
0:06:42 > 0:06:45she still wants it to be a stylish day.
0:06:45 > 0:06:48I wouldn't want for our wedding anything tacky.
0:06:48 > 0:06:50No themes, please,
0:06:50 > 0:06:55just refined and elegant.
0:06:55 > 0:06:58Holly also knows that Anthony and wedding planning
0:06:58 > 0:07:00are light-years apart.
0:07:00 > 0:07:04I can't explain how alien the whole thing will be to him.
0:07:04 > 0:07:07He will just have no idea, absolutely no idea
0:07:07 > 0:07:10on anything I don't think.
0:07:10 > 0:07:14- I would probably buy you that big.. - Oh, my God, that's horrendous!
0:07:14 > 0:07:17I just don't think in terms of flowers and cushions
0:07:17 > 0:07:21and candles and lamps. They just don't compute to me.
0:07:21 > 0:07:25But Anthony does have some ideas of his own that do compute.
0:07:25 > 0:07:28Unfortunately for Holly, they're alien ones.
0:07:28 > 0:07:32The most exciting part of any space mission is the launch.
0:07:32 > 0:07:36It's when everything comes together, it's the countdown and there's the big explosion.
0:07:36 > 0:07:40So it would be amazing to have a wedding at the foot of a launch pad.
0:07:40 > 0:07:44With one wedding already cancelled, the stakes couldn't be higher.
0:07:44 > 0:07:51This wedding - it's very important Anthony gets it right,
0:07:51 > 0:07:54because it's the start of our, kind of, new lives together.
0:07:56 > 0:08:02It's so important that we do end all this stress on a good note,
0:08:02 > 0:08:06so it's really important for both of us that he gets it right,
0:08:06 > 0:08:08and we both have a really good day.
0:08:08 > 0:08:11And all the friends that have helped us through have a really good time.
0:08:11 > 0:08:14There's a lot riding on it.
0:08:14 > 0:08:16It's time for the couple to say goodbye.
0:08:16 > 0:08:19They've only lived together a few months,
0:08:19 > 0:08:22now they're facing three weeks apart, with no contact.
0:08:22 > 0:08:26- I will miss you very much. - I'll miss you.
0:08:27 > 0:08:30Do you have any final words of advice for me?
0:08:30 > 0:08:33Just put yourself into work mode,
0:08:33 > 0:08:36- and don't mess it up.- OK.
0:08:41 > 0:08:44- I will miss you very much. - I'm going to miss you, too.
0:08:44 > 0:08:47- Bye.- I'll see you in three weeks.
0:08:47 > 0:08:49I'll see you in three weeks.
0:08:49 > 0:08:52- I love you.- I love you, too.
0:08:52 > 0:08:55Just go before I pick the taxi up, or something.
0:08:57 > 0:08:59The next time they see each other
0:08:59 > 0:09:02will be on the most important day of their lives.
0:09:03 > 0:09:06I don't think it's sunk in for me
0:09:06 > 0:09:09that my wedding day is being planned by Anthony.
0:09:11 > 0:09:14For the next three weeks, Holly will be staying with her bridesmaid
0:09:14 > 0:09:16and former workmate, Sadie.
0:09:16 > 0:09:19- Hello!- Hi, you all right?
0:09:19 > 0:09:22Good, thanks. I'm so excited!
0:09:22 > 0:09:25I think I'm going to start feeling nervous soon.
0:09:25 > 0:09:28Do you think he's got any idea about what he's going to do?
0:09:28 > 0:09:30He said next time you see me I'll be in my wedding outfit,
0:09:30 > 0:09:34and I was like, excuse me, wedding outfit?!
0:09:34 > 0:09:37- Do you think he's got good taste? - No, absolutely not.
0:09:37 > 0:09:40You should have seen what he was wearing when I just left now.
0:09:42 > 0:09:45With just three weeks to plan his wedding,
0:09:45 > 0:09:49Anthony calls in old schoolmate and best man Oliver for back-up.
0:09:49 > 0:09:50How's it going?
0:09:52 > 0:09:56Starsky and Hutch. Starsky and Hitch, getting hitched!
0:09:56 > 0:09:59It's time for this science nerd to leap into action in search
0:09:59 > 0:10:03of the perfect wedding venue for a chic, fashion-loving bride.
0:10:03 > 0:10:05And where on earth could be more appropriate...
0:10:05 > 0:10:08than the National Space Centre?
0:10:10 > 0:10:12So basically what this is going to come down to is,
0:10:12 > 0:10:16does this place blow us away now? And foremost, will Holly be happy?
0:10:16 > 0:10:19How are we going to make her like it? Decor and all that stuff?
0:10:19 > 0:10:21We can't say until we've seen it.
0:10:21 > 0:10:23No, no, no, but we're at the Space Centre.
0:10:27 > 0:10:29It feels so wrong!
0:10:30 > 0:10:32So this is our rocket tower.
0:10:32 > 0:10:36You've got two real rockets suspended above you,
0:10:36 > 0:10:39and this is the perfect spot for a drinks reception.
0:10:39 > 0:10:42Obviously it says, do not push.
0:10:43 > 0:10:45LOUDSPEAKER: 'First stage actuators locked in.
0:10:45 > 0:10:48'T minus 10, 9, 8...'
0:10:48 > 0:10:50ANTHONY LAUGHS
0:10:51 > 0:10:53'Engine running.'
0:10:53 > 0:10:54Smells like a wedding.
0:10:54 > 0:10:56THEY LAUGH
0:10:56 > 0:10:59- We don't need to see the rest of it. - THEY LAUGH
0:10:59 > 0:11:01- We can stop here.- He'll be so upset.
0:11:01 > 0:11:05- Here is a blank cheque. - Shut up and take my money!
0:11:05 > 0:11:08There is actually the bottom of a spaceship there.
0:11:08 > 0:11:09I'm not going to top that, am I?
0:11:09 > 0:11:12While Anthony's plans are rocketing,
0:11:12 > 0:11:16Bride Holly has been transported into her own fantasy day.
0:11:16 > 0:11:20With bridesmaid Steph, she's come to Sorrento in the South of Italy,
0:11:20 > 0:11:23where she originally planned to have the stylish wedding of her dreams.
0:11:23 > 0:11:25These are lovely, aren't they?
0:11:25 > 0:11:29- I like this kind of burnt orange colour.- Yeah, I like all these.
0:11:29 > 0:11:31They're just so stylish, aren't they?
0:11:31 > 0:11:34My eyes are popping out my head at all the clothes in the shops
0:11:34 > 0:11:36and what everyone's wearing.
0:11:36 > 0:11:40I just wish I had so much money to just buy everything.
0:11:41 > 0:11:45Although Holly no longer wants to get married in Italy,
0:11:45 > 0:11:48she hopes the wedding will still be an elegant and refined affair.
0:11:48 > 0:11:52I think a wedding's about a union of two people,
0:11:52 > 0:11:55so I think it shouldn't all be about him
0:11:55 > 0:11:58and equally it shouldn't all be about me.
0:11:58 > 0:12:00So you need a good balance.
0:12:00 > 0:12:03Say about 90% me and 10% Anthony.
0:12:03 > 0:12:05How will you feel if he has put
0:12:05 > 0:12:09some of his spacey, geeky personality into the wedding?
0:12:09 > 0:12:11I wouldn't mind if it was some. SOME.
0:12:11 > 0:12:15But...I wouldn't want it all to be about his...
0:12:15 > 0:12:18spacey...ness.
0:12:18 > 0:12:19Definitely not.
0:12:19 > 0:12:22# I'm the urban spaceman, baby... #
0:12:22 > 0:12:23Oliver!
0:12:26 > 0:12:27That's what they went for.
0:12:27 > 0:12:30That's pretty cool. There's a piece of the moon at my wedding.
0:12:30 > 0:12:32A piece of the moon at my wedding. How good is that?!
0:12:32 > 0:12:35HE HUMS
0:12:35 > 0:12:37'Start the simulation.'
0:12:37 > 0:12:39I am go for launch!
0:12:41 > 0:12:45# I'm a supersonic guy... #
0:12:45 > 0:12:47'Three, two, one...'
0:12:47 > 0:12:50ROCKET BLASTS
0:12:56 > 0:12:59Flippin' heck! That is actually pretty cool!
0:13:00 > 0:13:04It may be cool, but Anthony's choice of wedding venue
0:13:04 > 0:13:08is light years away from the Italian renaissance villa
0:13:08 > 0:13:10Holly originally fell in love with.
0:13:10 > 0:13:12Oh, wow! It's gorgeous.
0:13:12 > 0:13:16- Look at the view over there. - Oh, yeah.
0:13:16 > 0:13:19- It looks really exotic, doesn't it?!- Yeah.
0:13:20 > 0:13:23Over there is where, like, you say your vows,
0:13:23 > 0:13:25and then your guests are seated on here.
0:13:27 > 0:13:30It's just gorgeous, isn't it? Looking straight out to sea.
0:13:30 > 0:13:35As you're getting married, you're looking at your future. Perfect.
0:13:35 > 0:13:37But unbeknown to Holly, Anthony's already decided
0:13:37 > 0:13:40where they will be looking into their future.
0:13:40 > 0:13:42He's sold on the Space Centre -
0:13:42 > 0:13:44if he can afford it.
0:13:44 > 0:13:48So, the cost, which is exclusive hire of the National Space Centre,
0:13:48 > 0:13:49three-course sit-down meal,
0:13:49 > 0:13:51your total there with that drinks package...
0:13:51 > 0:13:53- £4,500.- Yeah.
0:13:53 > 0:13:56That sounds really workable, and as you can see,
0:13:56 > 0:13:59I'd move in and start working here tomorrow if I could. So...
0:13:59 > 0:14:02- That's brilliant. Well, it was lovely to meet you...- Wowsers!
0:14:02 > 0:14:06It's like my brain farted into a giant warehouse!
0:14:06 > 0:14:07It's amazing.
0:14:07 > 0:14:11But best man Oliver is having concerns.
0:14:11 > 0:14:13It's quite surprising that we've ended up here,
0:14:13 > 0:14:15mainly because I've always thought
0:14:15 > 0:14:19he's going to take into account what she really wants
0:14:19 > 0:14:23and I know he's going on, saying...number one priority is her,
0:14:23 > 0:14:27and her thing and... Really, he's just a massive kid, and...
0:14:27 > 0:14:31It's a massive show in a museum with a huge rocket.
0:14:31 > 0:14:34I don't think she's going to enjoy the second half of the day.
0:14:34 > 0:14:38But it's his wedding day, it is half about him
0:14:38 > 0:14:41and it's going to be really exciting.
0:14:41 > 0:14:43It's going to be stupid, actually.
0:14:45 > 0:14:48# A shooting star is not a star
0:14:48 > 0:14:50# Is not a star at all
0:14:50 > 0:14:53# A shooting star's a meteor
0:14:53 > 0:14:55# That's heading for a fall. #
0:14:56 > 0:14:59In Italy, Holly's struggling to come to terms
0:14:59 > 0:15:02with the wedding she had to cancel.
0:15:02 > 0:15:06She's got a huge long trail as well, like my dress.
0:15:15 > 0:15:17How do you feel?
0:15:26 > 0:15:29SHE SOBS
0:15:34 > 0:15:36It's just... Yeah, it's really upsetting.
0:15:38 > 0:15:40Cos it's so gorgeous, and...
0:15:42 > 0:15:43Yeah.
0:15:45 > 0:15:48It would have been amazing, but...
0:15:49 > 0:15:53As much as it is sad coming here,
0:15:53 > 0:15:55I am really happy with what we are doing now.
0:15:55 > 0:15:59I think it's made me feel more emotional about it.
0:15:59 > 0:16:00Just the wedding as a whole.
0:16:00 > 0:16:04I just think it's got to be perfect.
0:16:04 > 0:16:05Yeah.
0:16:05 > 0:16:08So far, Anthony has a reception venue...
0:16:08 > 0:16:10in a Space Centre.
0:16:10 > 0:16:12But he still needs somewhere to get married,
0:16:12 > 0:16:15and he's finally thinking about Holly.
0:16:15 > 0:16:17Because we've got the big space party in the evening
0:16:17 > 0:16:19that's kind of got a lot of my personality in it,
0:16:19 > 0:16:22I think it's really important here to create an environment
0:16:22 > 0:16:25that's all about Holly, all about the two of us.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27He's come to Stapleford Park,
0:16:27 > 0:16:31a country house hotel set in 500 acres of grounds
0:16:31 > 0:16:35with an orangery licensed for weddings.
0:16:35 > 0:16:37- Hello.- Hi.- I'm Anthony.
0:16:37 > 0:16:40Nice to meet you, I'm Sarah. Welcome to Stapleford.
0:16:40 > 0:16:43- This is Oliver, the best man. - Hi, nice to meet you.- Hiya.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45This is the orangery.
0:16:45 > 0:16:49It's a lovely open space here and even if you have got a dull day,
0:16:49 > 0:16:51this room is still amazingly light.
0:16:51 > 0:16:55You'd be set theatre-style, everybody facing the gardens here.
0:16:55 > 0:16:59Does that allow us to mill around in the grounds there and just behind...?
0:16:59 > 0:17:01Absolutely. It includes the grounds,
0:17:01 > 0:17:03the garden games, pictures in the grounds.
0:17:03 > 0:17:06If it is inclement, the use of the house for your guests.
0:17:06 > 0:17:09The obvious question. We've got a tight budget...
0:17:09 > 0:17:11The hire of the orangery would be £750.
0:17:11 > 0:17:15Right. £750. I think it's just worth going in this one.
0:17:15 > 0:17:18This is literally what I was picturing. You've got it!
0:17:18 > 0:17:21- So we're going for it? - Yeah, I think so. I'm sold.
0:17:21 > 0:17:24- You're going to go for it? - Yes, take my money!
0:17:24 > 0:17:26Brilliant! Great!
0:17:26 > 0:17:29- I'm shaking hands even though it's not my budget.- Brilliant, yes!
0:17:31 > 0:17:32Yes!
0:17:32 > 0:17:35Knowing that I'm going to be stood in this exact spot
0:17:35 > 0:17:38when I get married to Holly, it's...
0:17:38 > 0:17:40It makes it real...
0:17:40 > 0:17:43But real good.
0:17:43 > 0:17:44Three days in,
0:17:44 > 0:17:47and the boys are feeling proud of their progress.
0:17:49 > 0:17:51I'm just happy for you that the major bits are done.
0:17:51 > 0:17:54Yeah. Just the dress.
0:17:54 > 0:17:55The dress is the only thing.
0:17:55 > 0:17:58Dress, cake, cars, photographer, flowers...
0:17:58 > 0:18:01Er... Shoes...
0:18:01 > 0:18:03my ring...
0:18:03 > 0:18:04suits...
0:18:08 > 0:18:10Not much ahead of us.
0:18:10 > 0:18:11Might sound easy to Anthony,
0:18:11 > 0:18:14but having blown almost six grand on two venues,
0:18:14 > 0:18:16is he keeping an eye on his budget?
0:18:16 > 0:18:18Well, of course he is!
0:18:18 > 0:18:21Super-geek Anthony has spreadsheets, and he knows how to use them.
0:18:21 > 0:18:23So the way that it works is,
0:18:23 > 0:18:26- I actually have three separate budgets running in parallel.- Mm-hmm.
0:18:26 > 0:18:28I have one budget that was day one, so...
0:18:28 > 0:18:31as soon as we started this process,
0:18:31 > 0:18:33what did I think I would spend on everything?
0:18:33 > 0:18:35- So I sat down and budgeted.- OK.
0:18:35 > 0:18:37The second budget I have is the actual budget.
0:18:37 > 0:18:40- How much have we actually spent on everything?- Right...
0:18:40 > 0:18:42The third budget is an amalgamation of the two,
0:18:42 > 0:18:45and it says, "OK. What have you actually spent,
0:18:45 > 0:18:48"and for all the gaps, what have you accounted for at the beginning?"
0:18:48 > 0:18:53And that middle budget gives you an idea of where you currently are.
0:18:53 > 0:18:56It's about watching the margin, or the excess, on that budget
0:18:56 > 0:19:01and negotiating each individual item to within that margin.
0:19:01 > 0:19:02Yeah, you've lost me.
0:19:02 > 0:19:05You know, having this budget so strict
0:19:05 > 0:19:09and sticking to it and being thorough in the way I apply and calculate it
0:19:09 > 0:19:12is what gives me the confidence to go out and make decisions.
0:19:12 > 0:19:14And that re-calculation...
0:19:14 > 0:19:18At the moment, if I go according to my current plan,
0:19:18 > 0:19:23I'll have spent about £11,156.99 by the end of it.
0:19:23 > 0:19:25With his spreadsheets balanced,
0:19:25 > 0:19:28Anthony celebrates with his mates, geek-style!
0:19:28 > 0:19:30- I can comprehend... I can dig it. - No, you can't.
0:19:30 > 0:19:33I can dig the fact that the age of the universe...
0:19:33 > 0:19:36- Put it in your mobile phone... - I don't care what no phone says,
0:19:36 > 0:19:40the age of the universe is 13.7 plus or minus 0.12 billion years old.
0:19:44 > 0:19:47What we have found is a venue for the wedding...
0:19:47 > 0:19:50and it is the National Space Centre.
0:19:50 > 0:19:51Oh, my God!
0:19:54 > 0:19:56Like, seriously?
0:19:56 > 0:19:59And they've literally got an actual rocket on a launch pad
0:19:59 > 0:20:01with boosters and smoke that comes out
0:20:01 > 0:20:04and you press a button saying do not press, which starts a countdown...
0:20:04 > 0:20:06I can't even talk about it, I'm so excited!
0:20:06 > 0:20:11Overwhelmed with the excitement, the boys head down to party HQ...
0:20:11 > 0:20:12the basement.
0:20:12 > 0:20:15MUSIC PLAYS
0:20:31 > 0:20:33It's the beginning of week two.
0:20:33 > 0:20:38Although Holly knows she won't be able to wear the dress
0:20:38 > 0:20:41she picked for her Italian wedding, she still wants to show it to Sadie.
0:20:41 > 0:20:45I just want to say that I had these before Kate Middleton.
0:20:45 > 0:20:48- She copied me.- That's amazing!
0:20:48 > 0:20:49It looks dead Italian.
0:20:49 > 0:20:51Yeah, that's why I wanted it.
0:20:52 > 0:20:54Da-da!
0:20:54 > 0:20:55It's gorgeous, isn't it?
0:20:55 > 0:20:58And it comes out in kind of a big fan.
0:20:58 > 0:21:02I have mixed emotions with it, cos I love it
0:21:02 > 0:21:05but then it reminds me of the wedding I was going to have
0:21:05 > 0:21:07and had to cancel, so...
0:21:07 > 0:21:09I feel a bit sad now.
0:21:11 > 0:21:15I think the reason I liked this one is...
0:21:17 > 0:21:20I just associate, like, lace... Would look quite Italian, as well.
0:21:20 > 0:21:22Yeah. I like the sleeves.
0:21:22 > 0:21:25I just think it would have been perfect, yeah.
0:21:26 > 0:21:28When it comes to dresses,
0:21:28 > 0:21:30Anthony needs to pull off something special
0:21:30 > 0:21:33to impress fashion-conscious Holly.
0:21:33 > 0:21:35He's decided to give her a custom-made dress.
0:21:35 > 0:21:39But before choosing a design, Anthony needs to do some research
0:21:39 > 0:21:42into what a wedding dress actually looks like.
0:21:42 > 0:21:43HE WHISTLES
0:21:43 > 0:21:48The purpose of this is to learn what these are
0:21:48 > 0:21:50and to kind of get down with the lingo.
0:21:50 > 0:21:54Then we can compile what we like,
0:21:54 > 0:21:56- and... You know...- OK.
0:21:56 > 0:21:58..tell someone to design that.
0:21:58 > 0:22:00She loves fashion design, she loves designing dresses,
0:22:00 > 0:22:03so to say she's had a dress designed by me for her
0:22:03 > 0:22:07on her wedding day... You know, if I can get it right,
0:22:07 > 0:22:09will be a really cool gesture.
0:22:09 > 0:22:12White dress, white dress, white dress, white dress,
0:22:12 > 0:22:14white dress with sparkles, white dress, white dress,
0:22:14 > 0:22:16white dress, white dress...
0:22:16 > 0:22:17That's all I can see!
0:22:17 > 0:22:20The vision of what that will look like just has to come out of my mind
0:22:20 > 0:22:23and my mind is not the sort of place wedding dresses spend a lot of time.
0:22:23 > 0:22:25No, no,
0:22:25 > 0:22:27no, no,
0:22:27 > 0:22:29hell no...
0:22:29 > 0:22:32For me, this is probably the most difficult
0:22:32 > 0:22:36because it's the furthest I am out of my comfort zone.
0:22:36 > 0:22:39OK, venues... I know when I see a nice country manor
0:22:39 > 0:22:43and I know when I am excited at a party...reception venue.
0:22:43 > 0:22:45I know nice food...
0:22:45 > 0:22:49All that kind of stuff, I have a level of comfort with.
0:22:49 > 0:22:51This, I don't.
0:22:51 > 0:22:57This is... This is like sending Holly to NASA headquarters.
0:23:00 > 0:23:03It looks absolutely stunning.
0:23:03 > 0:23:04I love it.
0:23:04 > 0:23:07I always forget how nice it is,
0:23:07 > 0:23:10and then I try it on and just think "Ah, I love it."
0:23:10 > 0:23:12It's amazing.
0:23:12 > 0:23:18- He's going to have a difficult job to match this, isn't he?- I know.
0:23:18 > 0:23:21It's just really elegant, but different.
0:23:21 > 0:23:25I love that the train starts from, like, there.
0:23:25 > 0:23:30It's so nice. I like the back and then I like the sleeves,
0:23:30 > 0:23:32even though they're a bit much!
0:23:32 > 0:23:34Let's get the full effect.
0:23:38 > 0:23:42It's so nice. See, I love that cos I can see it in the mirror.
0:23:42 > 0:23:43It's just gorgeous!
0:23:43 > 0:23:46I can't wait to see what he gets you.
0:23:46 > 0:23:48I just can't wait.
0:23:48 > 0:23:52It's quite difficult cos she looks so beautiful in that dress
0:23:52 > 0:23:57that he's got a lot of work to do to match it and make it look as good!
0:23:57 > 0:23:59To the wedding!
0:23:59 > 0:24:03Back at the shop, Anthony's research trip is getting results.
0:24:03 > 0:24:06Mazel tov! It's a wedding dress.
0:24:08 > 0:24:11It's really nice. I think it's exactly...what you want, really.
0:24:11 > 0:24:13Yeah, it is.
0:24:13 > 0:24:16Can I ask a question? How much would this wedding dress be?
0:24:16 > 0:24:18Anthony!
0:24:18 > 0:24:20Five grand!
0:24:20 > 0:24:21It's £600.
0:24:21 > 0:24:24- Ooh!- Cheap taste!
0:24:27 > 0:24:31Research done, it's time for the boys to meet the designer.
0:24:31 > 0:24:36But finding a ready-made dress for just £600 has confused Anthony.
0:24:36 > 0:24:37Let's just go in and be open
0:24:37 > 0:24:39and say we've found one we really, really like,
0:24:39 > 0:24:41but there are a few tweaks we'd make.
0:24:41 > 0:24:47If then we go down the line of "It'll cost £1,500,"
0:24:47 > 0:24:50then we have to start saying, "Well, to be honest, there's a lot of cons here,
0:24:50 > 0:24:54"what is stopping us from going and just buying this £600 dress?"
0:24:54 > 0:24:57At the end of the wedding, the bride keeps the dress,
0:24:57 > 0:25:00and if it has been designed specifically for her,
0:25:00 > 0:25:03that's her dress, that's not off the shelf.
0:25:03 > 0:25:05I would never dispute that it's really lovely to have that
0:25:05 > 0:25:08romantic gesture, but from a project planning perspective,
0:25:08 > 0:25:11you've got to look at it as those pros are all nice-to-haves.
0:25:11 > 0:25:14Stop calling them pros and cons and start calling them business requirements.
0:25:14 > 0:25:18You've just got to prioritise in that way, you've got to do it, otherwise you'll fail.
0:25:18 > 0:25:22- It's just standard business practice. - Let's go try that!
0:25:23 > 0:25:24Let's do it.
0:25:24 > 0:25:28So the boys head in to meet designer Jane Elmer,
0:25:28 > 0:25:30hoping to get a dress that looks good on Holly,
0:25:30 > 0:25:32and on Anthony's spreadsheet.
0:25:32 > 0:25:34Hello there! I'm Anthony.
0:25:34 > 0:25:37- Hi, Anthony. How are you? - Very well, thank you.- I'm Jane.
0:25:37 > 0:25:41This is unusual for me - normally I'm meeting the bride
0:25:41 > 0:25:43and we are talking about dresses.
0:25:43 > 0:25:46It's unusual for me, too!
0:25:46 > 0:25:49We've kind of got a vision of what we like.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51The kind of things we were thinking about,
0:25:51 > 0:25:52because she's quite petite,
0:25:52 > 0:25:56was something quite plain, something quite understated,
0:25:56 > 0:25:59- nothing big and billowy because... - It would just overwhelm her.
0:25:59 > 0:26:02Exactly. The other thing we wanted to avoid was sleeves.
0:26:02 > 0:26:06- You're avoiding sleeves! - Yeah, we'd like to avoid sleeves if at all possible.- OK.
0:26:06 > 0:26:10This is Duchess Satin Silk, this ruches very well.
0:26:10 > 0:26:12Space geek Anthony can't resist.
0:26:12 > 0:26:15It's a bit like spaceship design!
0:26:15 > 0:26:18That's essentially how the lunar module...
0:26:18 > 0:26:23It had a very soft part to the bottom that was no thicker than tinfoil.
0:26:23 > 0:26:24But that's irrelevant here!
0:26:26 > 0:26:31- You could say we designed the dress based on the lunar module! - Can you imagine?
0:26:31 > 0:26:33Golden folds all the way up it.
0:26:33 > 0:26:34I think you will be saying that.
0:26:34 > 0:26:38I guess then the big question is how much would this kind of idea cost?
0:26:38 > 0:26:41You tell me what you're budgeting to.
0:26:41 > 0:26:46I mean, for us, obviously, to invest in having one made specially,
0:26:46 > 0:26:48obviously it is a nice touch.
0:26:48 > 0:26:50Well, I'll be very kind to you
0:26:50 > 0:26:54and I'll make you the dress for £800.
0:26:54 > 0:26:56- OK!- Which is quite a lot less than I'd normally charge.
0:26:56 > 0:26:58I can imagine.
0:26:58 > 0:27:00But seeing as you are on such a strict budget!
0:27:00 > 0:27:03Well, in that case, I think we will take you up on it.
0:27:03 > 0:27:05Deal done!
0:27:05 > 0:27:06Deal done.
0:27:06 > 0:27:09Yes! I'm so happy!
0:27:09 > 0:27:12You've set the bar for grooms everywhere now.
0:27:12 > 0:27:14I'm just impressed by the fact that we are ahead of schedule
0:27:14 > 0:27:19and under budget, still. That's mad project managing skillz, with a Z!
0:27:21 > 0:27:23I am the whitest person in the world. Playa!
0:27:28 > 0:27:31Less than two weeks to go, Holly and bridesmaid Steph
0:27:31 > 0:27:33are feeling nervous about
0:27:33 > 0:27:35handing over all the planning to Anthony.
0:27:35 > 0:27:37Because I am planning my wedding at the moment,
0:27:37 > 0:27:40you don't realise how much there is to do, like down to
0:27:40 > 0:27:43what colour napkins you have and your favours and your centrepieces.
0:27:43 > 0:27:45What do you think he'll do for them things?
0:27:45 > 0:27:47I bet he won't even remember them.
0:27:47 > 0:27:48Do you think he'll remember
0:27:48 > 0:27:53hair and your make-up and your nails and jewellery and stuff like that?
0:27:53 > 0:27:57I hope so! Do you know, I am more bothered about hair than a dress.
0:27:57 > 0:28:00- Really?- If you've got crap hair,
0:28:00 > 0:28:03everything will look crap, won't it? It's like on your head!
0:28:03 > 0:28:05Do you think he'll do a themed one?
0:28:05 > 0:28:08I don't... I hope not!
0:28:08 > 0:28:10- You wouldn't get away with that in Italy, would you?- No.
0:28:10 > 0:28:13They'd be like, "No, you've got to be stylish."
0:28:13 > 0:28:16There's a lot of things I think he could mess up on.
0:28:16 > 0:28:20It's not long now, is it, till the wedding... Well, we hope.
0:28:20 > 0:28:24Yeah! If it ever happens, yeah.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28With the venues and dress sorted,
0:28:28 > 0:28:32Anthony's biggest concern is the complicated guest list.
0:28:32 > 0:28:37Holly's dad, who is not a Jehovah's Witness, will give her away.
0:28:37 > 0:28:40Her mum and step-dad have also agreed to attend.
0:28:40 > 0:28:44But Anthony's not so sure about his own mum and dad.
0:28:44 > 0:28:46The night I told my parents
0:28:46 > 0:28:50that we were going to leave the religion,
0:28:50 > 0:28:52it's probably one of the only times
0:28:52 > 0:28:55I've ever been able to count in my entire life
0:28:55 > 0:28:58that I've seen my dad properly lose his temper,
0:28:58 > 0:29:03and since that moment there's been a shift in the relationship.
0:29:05 > 0:29:10The wedding is quickly turning into a kind of symbol
0:29:10 > 0:29:14of what can be and what will be, you know,
0:29:14 > 0:29:17happiness and a new beginning,
0:29:17 > 0:29:20and I want my parents to be a part of my life
0:29:20 > 0:29:23cos I have no problems with them or anything like that.
0:29:23 > 0:29:26It would mean a lot if they were part of that symbol
0:29:26 > 0:29:30and they were there. But...you can't always get what you want.
0:29:32 > 0:29:34But Anthony's not giving up just yet.
0:29:34 > 0:29:37I'm kind of in the position where I just want to lay my heart out
0:29:37 > 0:29:40and say, "Look, do you know what? Your son's getting married -
0:29:40 > 0:29:44"let's just have a good time together and see how it goes."
0:29:54 > 0:29:56I really hope Anthony's mum and dad
0:29:56 > 0:29:59will feel comfortable enough to come...
0:30:01 > 0:30:04..but I think it's doubtful. I think they are just too upset.
0:30:04 > 0:30:07But it could go either way, you don't know.
0:30:10 > 0:30:13At the flat, Anthony hasn't got the news he wished for.
0:30:13 > 0:30:15Due to the public nature of the wedding,
0:30:15 > 0:30:17his parents will not be coming.
0:30:17 > 0:30:22I think reality's just setting in now that they won't be there.
0:30:22 > 0:30:25They're not going to be there.
0:30:25 > 0:30:27It's gutting.
0:30:27 > 0:30:31But it's their decision and I have to respect it.
0:30:31 > 0:30:34You've got to play the hand you're dealt with.
0:30:39 > 0:30:43It's the end of week two, and time for the stag and hen weekend.
0:30:43 > 0:30:48For the last 24 years, Anthony has never had a birthday party,
0:30:48 > 0:30:51as Jehovah's Witnesses don't celebrate them.
0:30:51 > 0:30:54So for the next 24 hours, Oliver has decided to give him
0:30:54 > 0:30:5624 birthdays in one day.
0:31:00 > 0:31:03ALL: # Happy birthday to you
0:31:03 > 0:31:05# Happy birthday to you
0:31:05 > 0:31:08# Happy birthday, dear Anthony
0:31:08 > 0:31:12# Happy birthday to you! #
0:31:14 > 0:31:18So is this technically, literally my first birthday?
0:31:18 > 0:31:21Blow your candles out. Make a wish.
0:31:21 > 0:31:24Er...I wish for a solution to Fermat's Theorem!
0:31:24 > 0:31:26Cos I'm not a selfish guy!
0:31:29 > 0:31:32This is your first shot of the day.
0:31:32 > 0:31:36Red fruit and apple compote for a baby.
0:31:37 > 0:31:38With Jaeger.
0:31:39 > 0:31:41One, two, three - to science!
0:31:47 > 0:31:48That's horrendous.
0:31:48 > 0:31:51MUSIC: "Happy Birthday" by Altered Images
0:31:51 > 0:31:53I'm so excited - look at all these things!
0:31:53 > 0:31:56Have you ever opened a present - proper wrapping paper and everything?
0:31:56 > 0:31:59No, not like this. I think I've seen wrapped presents before,
0:31:59 > 0:32:01but I've never actually... No.
0:32:01 > 0:32:06Toy soldiers. Oh, I don't like them, they scare me!
0:32:06 > 0:32:09You've not learnt the etiquette of opening presents!
0:32:09 > 0:32:13- What happens?- You don't say "I don't like them", you go "Yes!"
0:32:13 > 0:32:15No, they're scary!
0:32:15 > 0:32:17Yay, happy first birthday.
0:32:19 > 0:32:22You guys. I can honestly say that this the best birthday
0:32:22 > 0:32:26I've ever had! By far!
0:32:26 > 0:32:29Across town, the girls' hen night can't escape
0:32:29 > 0:32:31mad scientist Anthony's geeky influence.
0:32:31 > 0:32:34He's recorded a message for Holly and her hens.
0:32:34 > 0:32:37That is like turn-off of the century!
0:32:37 > 0:32:38Oh, hello!
0:32:38 > 0:32:42You're probably wondering what's about to happen for your hen do.
0:32:42 > 0:32:46'Well, if you open the box in front of you, you'll find
0:32:46 > 0:32:48'the equipment that you will need
0:32:48 > 0:32:51'for the events that are about to transpire.'
0:32:51 > 0:32:54- No! Is it one of his science lessons?!- 'Put your lab coats on,
0:32:54 > 0:32:58'put your goggles on and prepare for an alcoholic chemistry experience.'
0:32:58 > 0:33:01Oh, alcohol! I will like it after all!
0:33:01 > 0:33:03HE LAUGHS MANIACALLY
0:33:03 > 0:33:05That is very Anthony, let's face it.
0:33:05 > 0:33:07That's turn-off of the century!
0:33:07 > 0:33:11Does that make you want to marry him more or less?
0:33:11 > 0:33:14Categorically, I'm saying less!
0:33:14 > 0:33:20Hi. We've got a little molecular mixology happening for you tonight.
0:33:20 > 0:33:23So this is a chill stick. I have some dry ice in there
0:33:23 > 0:33:26which is basically carbon and it's going to react
0:33:26 > 0:33:30with the oxygen in the water and it's going to get very cold.
0:33:30 > 0:33:31Science is cool!
0:33:31 > 0:33:34Science IS cool! Especially if it gets you drunk.
0:33:34 > 0:33:36To science being cool.
0:33:36 > 0:33:39- Anthony makes it cool, doesn't he? - Aww.
0:33:45 > 0:33:47# Happy birthday to you! #
0:33:47 > 0:33:48It's ten o'clock,
0:33:48 > 0:33:51and 24-year-old Anthony has reached his 18th birthday!
0:33:51 > 0:33:53- 18th! 18th! - Your first legal pint.
0:33:53 > 0:33:57This is my first legal pint. What the hell is this?
0:33:57 > 0:33:58Smell it.
0:33:58 > 0:34:00< Don't smell it!
0:34:00 > 0:34:03- Down it, just go for it. - And then be sick in that.
0:34:08 > 0:34:10Knowing Anthony, he's got drunk since lunchtime
0:34:10 > 0:34:11- and he's on the floor.- Yeah.
0:34:11 > 0:34:15# Me and my friends rollin' like rock stars
0:34:15 > 0:34:18# So we by the bar
0:34:18 > 0:34:20# All eyes on us
0:34:20 > 0:34:22# Girls watching from far
0:34:22 > 0:34:25# We shining through the dark. #
0:34:25 > 0:34:27- And I bet any money he's been sick. - Yeah!
0:34:27 > 0:34:29- THEY LAUGH And then carried on.- Yeah.
0:34:29 > 0:34:33HE RETCHES
0:34:33 > 0:34:35You all right?
0:34:37 > 0:34:42He'll have been sick and then been like, "Oh, look what I did! Ah-h!"
0:34:42 > 0:34:46Greatest achievement yet - a big pile of vom.
0:34:46 > 0:34:49There's like a full leaf of salad in this thing. THEY LAUGH
0:34:49 > 0:34:53I don't know how! I ate a burger. There's like a full leaf of salad.
0:34:56 > 0:34:59# I'm gonna party # I'm gonna dance
0:34:59 > 0:35:00# Put your hands up on my body
0:35:00 > 0:35:03# On my body, on my body Put your hands up on my body
0:35:03 > 0:35:05# I'm gonna party I'm gonna dance
0:35:05 > 0:35:08# Put your hands up on my body
0:35:08 > 0:35:11# On my body, on my body Put your hands up on my body... #
0:35:11 > 0:35:15Lots of dancing, a lot of drinking.
0:35:15 > 0:35:18It's been really fun. And we hope the boys are having a really fun time too.
0:35:18 > 0:35:21- It's the last fun time he'll have! - THEY GIGGLE
0:35:21 > 0:35:25- That was a joke, that was a joke! - Psycho wife, psycho wife.
0:35:25 > 0:35:29MUSIC: "Smells Like Teen Spirit" by Nirvana
0:35:29 > 0:35:32# With the lights out It's less dangerous... #
0:35:32 > 0:35:38It's been... It's been the best stag do I could've wished for. The best lads I could've wished for.
0:35:38 > 0:35:39Come 'ere!
0:35:41 > 0:35:44The only thing is I'm just completely not thinking about the wedding at all.
0:35:44 > 0:35:47I know. There's probably still about half a dozen key things
0:35:47 > 0:35:50that we have to do. But once we've done that...
0:35:50 > 0:35:53- That's tomorrow's job, not today's job.- Yeah. Tomorrow's job.
0:35:53 > 0:35:56Today's job is to party. Party hard.
0:36:01 > 0:36:03MUSIC: "Satellite Of Love" by Lou Reed
0:36:03 > 0:36:06# Satellite of love
0:36:06 > 0:36:09# Satellite of love
0:36:09 > 0:36:13# Satellite of love
0:36:13 > 0:36:17# Satellite of... #
0:36:25 > 0:36:28It's the morning after the night before.
0:36:28 > 0:36:30ANTHONY GROANS
0:36:30 > 0:36:33No! OLIVER GIGGLES
0:36:33 > 0:36:38I'm starving, and I feel like I've got things growing in my mouth cos I didn't bring a toothbrush.
0:36:38 > 0:36:41- I need some juice. - Do you have a plan today?
0:36:41 > 0:36:45The first plan is to figure out how much money we wasted yesterday.
0:36:46 > 0:36:49We need to go and do some sums.
0:36:49 > 0:36:51Even a raging hangover can't get in the way
0:36:51 > 0:36:55of a good spreadsheet session for budget-obsessed Anthony.
0:36:55 > 0:36:57We're at 4.5% margin,
0:36:57 > 0:37:01which is 0.5% below where I wanted to be, but it's fine. That's good.
0:37:01 > 0:37:06- Including projected stag and hen costs?- Yep. Including all projected costs.
0:37:06 > 0:37:12I have accounted so far for £7,372.98, spent and confirmed,
0:37:12 > 0:37:18with a total remaining budget of £4,627.02 with a week to go.
0:37:18 > 0:37:22With exactly £4,627.02 left in his wallet,
0:37:22 > 0:37:24it's time for a shopping spree.
0:37:24 > 0:37:27We've got 9ct, 18ct. Do you know your metals at all?
0:37:27 > 0:37:29For your 18ct gold, 9ct?
0:37:29 > 0:37:34I know scientifically how the, you know, atoms inside work.
0:37:34 > 0:37:37- Next, the boys' attire... - Aw, yeah!
0:37:37 > 0:37:40Can I see myself launching a rocket in this suit?
0:37:40 > 0:37:42Aw, yeah! THEY LAUGH
0:37:42 > 0:37:45..and the finishing touches to his spacey theme.
0:37:45 > 0:37:48There we go. I feel like it's going to slice me. Yaaah!
0:37:48 > 0:37:53I mean, everybody loves lasers. My grandma always used to say that.
0:37:55 > 0:37:57Five days left before the wedding.
0:37:57 > 0:37:59Anthony has arranged a night out for Holly and Sadie
0:37:59 > 0:38:01with an extra special treat.
0:38:01 > 0:38:04THEY SHRIEK
0:38:04 > 0:38:08Is that an invite? Open it, open it, open it!
0:38:09 > 0:38:12I get really freaked out.
0:38:12 > 0:38:16- Oh, no, I'm scared already. - I'm excited!
0:38:16 > 0:38:19- What is it?- Oh, "I miss you loads."
0:38:19 > 0:38:23- SHE GIGGLES - Oh, my God!
0:38:23 > 0:38:25What is it?
0:38:28 > 0:38:32- Do you think that's a clue? - There is something wrong with him, in't there?
0:38:32 > 0:38:35Do you think it's a sign of things to come?
0:38:35 > 0:38:37I hope not.
0:38:37 > 0:38:41How does space translate into a wedding?
0:38:41 > 0:38:45You might have to lift up his visor to say "I do"!
0:38:47 > 0:38:50I hope he doesn't wear, like...
0:38:50 > 0:38:53anything sciencey on the day.
0:38:53 > 0:38:55Do you think he will?
0:38:55 > 0:38:58Do you think a theme would detract from it being serious?
0:38:58 > 0:39:01I think so, yeah.
0:39:08 > 0:39:12With the wedding day looming, Anthony's up early.
0:39:12 > 0:39:15But it's not the stress of wedding planning keeping him awake.
0:39:17 > 0:39:22It's currently 5.25 in the morning. So it's the butt-crack of dawn.
0:39:23 > 0:39:28And I'm up because it's a bit of a historic day.
0:39:28 > 0:39:32There is a Mars rover landing today.
0:39:32 > 0:39:34And the whole world will be holding its breath
0:39:34 > 0:39:37for the 20 minutes it will take
0:39:37 > 0:39:40the rover to confirm that it landed safely.
0:39:40 > 0:39:44It's a little bit like planning a wedding if you think about it. You've got all these, usually,
0:39:44 > 0:39:47months and years of planning, all for one big day.
0:39:47 > 0:39:49Oh, dear, I know how these guys feel!
0:39:49 > 0:39:53I feel like I want to reach through the internet and high-five them all.
0:39:53 > 0:39:57I think they'd be like, "What are you talking about?"
0:39:57 > 0:39:58'Ten seconds.'
0:40:02 > 0:40:04Look how tense they are!
0:40:06 > 0:40:08How quiet is that room?!
0:40:10 > 0:40:13The rover has hit the atmosphere,
0:40:13 > 0:40:17so I guess you could say the bride's arrived at the venue.
0:40:17 > 0:40:20'Stop at 50m per second.'
0:40:20 > 0:40:22Now, as I say this,
0:40:22 > 0:40:25there is a vehicle on Mars hurtling through the atmosphere.
0:40:27 > 0:40:28Oh, my word!
0:40:30 > 0:40:34- 'We're safe on Mars.' - CHEERING
0:40:34 > 0:40:35It's landed!
0:40:37 > 0:40:40Come on! Look at it, look at it! I told you.
0:40:41 > 0:40:46Get in! I can't wait till this is me on Saturday. When I'm just like...
0:40:46 > 0:40:48I think it deserves a victory cigar.
0:40:48 > 0:40:52Hopefully, I'll be enjoying one at the wedding as well.
0:40:52 > 0:40:55It's less than 24 hours to the wedding,
0:40:55 > 0:40:59and Holly is finally getting to try on the dress Anthony has designed.
0:40:59 > 0:41:02It's really important that Ant gets the dress right.
0:41:02 > 0:41:05It's got to look good and I need to feel comfortable in it.
0:41:05 > 0:41:07Otherwise, I'll just hate it. Yeah.
0:41:07 > 0:41:10Yeah, I think Holly's a difficult person to please.
0:41:10 > 0:41:14She loves her fashion magazines. She's always keeping an eye on what's going on.
0:41:14 > 0:41:18I don't think I could pick a dress out that she'd 100% love.
0:41:18 > 0:41:20What if it's absolutely horrendous?
0:41:22 > 0:41:26As soon as we see the shop, it'll be an indicator of how bad the damage is.
0:41:29 > 0:41:31Here?!
0:41:32 > 0:41:36- OK.- I don't understand. Why are we going into a house?
0:41:36 > 0:41:39- Oh!- Hello, you must be Holly.
0:41:39 > 0:41:43- HOLLY GASPS Just come and take a seat. - Oh, my God!
0:41:43 > 0:41:46I was expecting a wedding dress shop.
0:41:46 > 0:41:49I got a phone call from Anthony.
0:41:49 > 0:41:52- He wanted to design his own wedding dress.- Oh, my God! How exciting!
0:41:52 > 0:41:54Oh, I'm going to cry. That's so nice!
0:41:54 > 0:41:59And he had lots of ideas and he was definite on what he wanted.
0:41:59 > 0:42:03So, together, we've made you a dress.
0:42:03 > 0:42:08Brilliant. Oh, you're such a softie!
0:42:08 > 0:42:10That is so nice.
0:42:10 > 0:42:13Oh, you're going to look so good. Let's see it, let's see it!
0:42:13 > 0:42:17Holly's dream dress was an elegant Italian lace number with sleeves.
0:42:17 > 0:42:22Her science-mad man has gone for the complete opposite -
0:42:22 > 0:42:24strapless, sleeveless and silk.
0:42:27 > 0:42:30I love it. I can't wait!
0:42:30 > 0:42:31Oh, wow!
0:42:33 > 0:42:35Oh, you look amazing.
0:42:35 > 0:42:38You look beautiful.
0:42:38 > 0:42:40Oh, wow!
0:42:40 > 0:42:41You look just...
0:42:43 > 0:42:45You look just wonderful.
0:42:45 > 0:42:49- I love it and it feels so comfy. - Yeah? Good.- Yeah, I love it.
0:42:51 > 0:42:52Oh, wow!
0:42:52 > 0:42:55Just wearing this dress that he's made is just...
0:42:55 > 0:42:58- Feels really special. - ..out of this world. Yeah.
0:42:58 > 0:43:03- Oh, wow, it's so nice! - It's pretty, isn't it?
0:43:03 > 0:43:05Yeah. I just can't wait to wear it on the day.
0:43:05 > 0:43:09- But where will I be wearing it? - Who knows!
0:43:12 > 0:43:15MUSIC: "Also Sprach Zarathustra" by Richard Strauss
0:43:24 > 0:43:28It's the morning of the wedding, and the final countdown until Holly
0:43:28 > 0:43:32experiences Anthony's out-of-this-world day.
0:43:32 > 0:43:35At Holly's hotel, the girls are still in the dark.
0:43:35 > 0:43:38It's a bit weird, like, not knowing what to do.
0:43:38 > 0:43:42- Like, what you're going to do with your hair, and what time to get dressed.- Yeah, it is a bit weird.
0:43:42 > 0:43:45Anthony has arranged a hair appointment for his bride,
0:43:45 > 0:43:48but he's forgotten to let the girls know.
0:43:48 > 0:43:50A prompt from the salon puts him back on track.
0:43:50 > 0:43:52Oh, are they not there?
0:43:52 > 0:43:55Ooh, I better phone them and find out where they are then.
0:43:55 > 0:43:57- Hi, how are you?- 'Hiya. Not too bad.
0:43:57 > 0:44:01'The...hair appointment.' Just get there as quick as you can.
0:44:01 > 0:44:06Get where, though? Is the hairdresser not coming here?
0:44:06 > 0:44:07I couldn't get them to.
0:44:07 > 0:44:12- 'They're around the corner from you. They're literally across the street.' - Right.- 'I wouldn't worry too much.'
0:44:12 > 0:44:15Just get her there as quick as possible. Speak to you in a bit. Bye.
0:44:15 > 0:44:18Right, get dressed!
0:44:19 > 0:44:23- He told us at like, 10.20!- Yeah, "Oh, why didn't you get my text?"
0:44:23 > 0:44:26Cos you didn't text us. That'll be why!
0:44:26 > 0:44:32So, four hours before her ceremony, Holly heads off to a hair appointment she didn't know she had
0:44:32 > 0:44:34at a salon she can't find...
0:44:34 > 0:44:36It is in here somewhere, I think.
0:44:36 > 0:44:38..through a smelly fish market.
0:44:38 > 0:44:42Let's get out of here. It flippin' stinks, doesn't it?
0:44:42 > 0:44:44Not the best start to her big day!
0:44:44 > 0:44:46Is this it? This isn't it, is it?
0:44:46 > 0:44:48- Look, it's there!- Ta-da!
0:44:53 > 0:44:54- Hello.- Hi!
0:44:54 > 0:44:58It's been a little bit hectic trying to find the salon.
0:44:58 > 0:45:00Just need to get my hair done now, sort out my face,
0:45:00 > 0:45:03and then find out what we're doing next.
0:45:03 > 0:45:05Holly may be getting her hair sorted,
0:45:05 > 0:45:09but Anthony has forgotten about bridesmaids Sadie and Steph.
0:45:09 > 0:45:11Must've left them off his spreadsheet!
0:45:11 > 0:45:15- I would've expected to get our hair done with her.- Yeah. It would be nice.
0:45:15 > 0:45:19- But I'm sure he's put the budget to good use.- Yeah, definitely.
0:45:19 > 0:45:25That depends if you think spending £500 on space-themed centrepieces is a good use of the budget.
0:45:25 > 0:45:27Wow!
0:45:27 > 0:45:31That feeling. I love it when a plan comes together!
0:45:31 > 0:45:34Back at the hotel, Holly's about to see the bridesmaids' dresses.
0:45:37 > 0:45:39Oh, wow!
0:45:39 > 0:45:42Oh, I can't believe how gorgeous you both look.
0:45:42 > 0:45:44Not that you're not gorgeous. I love 'em.
0:45:44 > 0:45:46- The colour's lovely, isn't it? - Oh, yeah.
0:45:46 > 0:45:50I think we've been sponsored by the hotel, as we are matching.
0:45:50 > 0:45:52THEY LAUGH
0:45:52 > 0:45:55Oh, you both look absolutely amazing.
0:45:55 > 0:45:58Let's have a big group hug. You look so sexy!
0:45:58 > 0:45:59Thanks!
0:45:59 > 0:46:0215 miles away, Anthony's still confident
0:46:02 > 0:46:04his mission will be a success.
0:46:04 > 0:46:06- You look beautiful, Magson. - Thank you.
0:46:06 > 0:46:08I think we've got everything pretty much sorted.
0:46:08 > 0:46:10I don't think we've got anything to worry about,
0:46:10 > 0:46:12except how these operate.
0:46:12 > 0:46:15Oliver has a surprise gift for him from Holly.
0:46:15 > 0:46:19Oh, that's awesome! I was wanting to get a Zippo as well.
0:46:19 > 0:46:22HE GASPS Oh, top lass!
0:46:22 > 0:46:23- What's it say?- Per Ardua Ad Astra.
0:46:23 > 0:46:27It's Latin for "through adversity to the stars". Such a good present.
0:46:28 > 0:46:31Right, so you've got the rings, I've got the cigars -
0:46:31 > 0:46:32we're ready for a wedding.
0:46:32 > 0:46:36All of the mission planning comes together and this is it.
0:46:36 > 0:46:40We either fly or we don't. Burn up on the pad.
0:46:40 > 0:46:43- Right, come on, let's do this. We've got this.- You're looking a little nervous now.
0:46:43 > 0:46:45Come on, guys. We've done this, we've done this.
0:46:45 > 0:46:48We've nailed this. Go team! THEY LAUGH
0:46:48 > 0:46:51It's time for bridesmaid Steph to see the bespoke dress
0:46:51 > 0:46:55that Anthony designed especially for Holly.
0:46:56 > 0:46:58Oh, wow!
0:46:58 > 0:47:01I really love it!
0:47:01 > 0:47:04I can't believe he's designed it himself!
0:47:04 > 0:47:06Yeah, it's gorgeous.
0:47:06 > 0:47:10I can tell why you are marrying him.
0:47:10 > 0:47:13- Let's go get married!- Yeah! - THEY LAUGH
0:47:18 > 0:47:21At the venue, Anthony's adding his finishing touches
0:47:21 > 0:47:26to a space-themed wedding for a chic, fashion-loving bride.
0:47:31 > 0:47:37With half an hour to go before the ceremony in a venue 40 minutes away,
0:47:37 > 0:47:40there's still no sign of any transport for the bridal party.
0:47:40 > 0:47:42It's half past two.
0:47:44 > 0:47:46I can't hear the horse yet.
0:47:46 > 0:47:48Or a helicopter.
0:47:48 > 0:47:51They'd need a rocket to get them there on time now.
0:47:53 > 0:47:5645 minutes late. That's not just tradish'.
0:47:59 > 0:48:03Let's hope the car went to the right place and comes to the right place.
0:48:10 > 0:48:12Oh, my word.
0:48:12 > 0:48:14Look at that!
0:48:14 > 0:48:16Let's get married!
0:48:17 > 0:48:2190 minutes behind schedule, Holly's finally on her way,
0:48:21 > 0:48:24and despite the setbacks of the morning
0:48:24 > 0:48:26she's only got one thing on her mind.
0:48:26 > 0:48:29I know it sounds cheesy, but I just can't wait to see him.
0:48:29 > 0:48:33- That's all I am bothered about. - It doesn't sound cheesy at all - you're about to get married.
0:48:33 > 0:48:36- Here's to a great day! - Yeah!- Cheers!- Chin chin.
0:48:43 > 0:48:46- Oh, wow!- Is that a rocket?!
0:48:46 > 0:48:49- No way!- Oh, my God! - Do you still want to marry him?
0:48:49 > 0:48:52- We're still in the car! - Yeah, can you turn round?
0:48:52 > 0:48:57I'm still good - oh, there's my dad!
0:48:57 > 0:48:59I'm going to start crying already.
0:48:59 > 0:49:01MUSIC: "The Scientist" by Coldplay
0:49:01 > 0:49:03You look lovely.
0:49:06 > 0:49:07He's done so well, hasn't he?
0:49:07 > 0:49:09He has, yeah.
0:49:09 > 0:49:11Oh, look - there's our names.
0:49:11 > 0:49:15After three long weeks, it's finally time for Holly to be reunited
0:49:15 > 0:49:18with the man who means the world to her.
0:49:20 > 0:49:24# Questions of science
0:49:24 > 0:49:27# Science and progress
0:49:27 > 0:49:33# Do not speak as loud as my heart... #
0:49:40 > 0:49:42All please be seated.
0:49:45 > 0:49:47(I love you so much.)
0:49:49 > 0:49:54We are here today to celebrate the marriage of Anthony and Holly.
0:49:54 > 0:49:58I call upon these persons here present to witness
0:49:58 > 0:50:00that I, Anthony Dominic Richardson...
0:50:00 > 0:50:04That I, Holly Binnington, do take thee, Anthony Dominic Richardson...
0:50:04 > 0:50:07..to be my lawful wedded wife...
0:50:07 > 0:50:10..to be my lawful wedded husband, to love and to cherish...
0:50:10 > 0:50:12..for the rest of my life.
0:50:12 > 0:50:14..for the rest of my life.
0:50:17 > 0:50:18You may kiss your beautiful bride.
0:50:18 > 0:50:21APPLAUSE
0:50:28 > 0:50:31- It's done!- I know. I loved every minute of it.
0:50:31 > 0:50:34It's been so good. I missed you too much, though.
0:50:34 > 0:50:36It's not the same without you.
0:50:36 > 0:50:38Before heading to the reception,
0:50:38 > 0:50:41Anthony has a surprise for Holly and the guests.
0:50:41 > 0:50:45- We have a little treat for you in the field.- What is it?
0:50:45 > 0:50:48Oh, wow - is it a real rocket, Anthony?
0:50:48 > 0:50:49It's a real, real rocket
0:50:49 > 0:50:51that you and I are going to take off together
0:50:51 > 0:50:55- to symbolise us taking off into a new life.- Ooh-er!
0:50:55 > 0:51:01OK, launching in five...four...three...two...one...
0:51:01 > 0:51:03MUSIC: "Space Oddity" by David Bowie
0:51:05 > 0:51:09# This is ground control to Major Tom
0:51:09 > 0:51:13# You've really made the grade... #
0:51:17 > 0:51:20How loud is that, right?
0:51:20 > 0:51:22I don't get the point!
0:51:22 > 0:51:25- There's no point whatsoever. - I'm thinking it was a firework.
0:51:25 > 0:51:28- So you were expecting an explosion when it got to the top?- Yeah!
0:51:28 > 0:51:31No, the whole point of it is a successful one comes back.
0:51:31 > 0:51:34- Oh, right!- That's why astronauts are still alive.
0:51:34 > 0:51:37Do you think you've had your fill of space and rockets now?
0:51:37 > 0:51:39- No, it was good fun. I liked it. - Oh, that's good.
0:51:39 > 0:51:42So the girl who planned a stylish and elegant Italian wedding
0:51:42 > 0:51:46is on a collision course with the National Space Centre.
0:51:46 > 0:51:47No, no, no - no looking.
0:51:47 > 0:51:51# I'm gon' send him to outer space
0:51:51 > 0:51:53# To find another race... #
0:51:53 > 0:51:56You're allowed to look out of the front now. Ready?
0:51:56 > 0:52:00- Oh, wow! - We're at the National Space Centre - if you thought that rocket was big,
0:52:00 > 0:52:03wait till you see what we've got in store for you.
0:52:03 > 0:52:06Come through, come through. Have a look at this.
0:52:07 > 0:52:10- Oh, wow!- If you thought that other rocket was big...
0:52:10 > 0:52:13What is... What is that? Is it a real one?
0:52:13 > 0:52:16Yep. We are at the foot of a real, live rocket.
0:52:16 > 0:52:18ENGINE ROARS
0:52:18 > 0:52:19Ow!
0:52:22 > 0:52:25- We've got the ice buckets with wine for everyone. - Oh, that is so cool.
0:52:25 > 0:52:27They're spinnable, like a Lazy Susan.
0:52:27 > 0:52:29Wait till you see what's through there -
0:52:29 > 0:52:32you haven't even got to the good bit yet!
0:52:32 > 0:52:34Did you do this?
0:52:34 > 0:52:36Not personally, but, yeah, it's part of the decorations we chose.
0:52:36 > 0:52:38- Oh, really?- Yeah, I chose all this.
0:52:38 > 0:52:40Oh, wow - oh, we could have pictures against this.
0:52:40 > 0:52:42- Yeah, that's what it's all for! - Oh, it's so exciting.
0:52:42 > 0:52:44Look at the cake.
0:52:44 > 0:52:46Oh, that's really cute.
0:52:46 > 0:52:50Just one small step for love, one giant leap for wedding-kind.
0:52:53 > 0:52:56It's so typical of Anthony, but I love it.
0:52:56 > 0:52:58He's really put his personality into the day
0:52:58 > 0:53:03and, yeah, I think it's just so him.
0:53:03 > 0:53:06It's unusual, but it's very Anthony.
0:53:09 > 0:53:12We've joked about him being in a space suit,
0:53:12 > 0:53:14but I didn't think he'd actually do it.
0:53:14 > 0:53:17APPLAUSE
0:53:20 > 0:53:23A wedding needs on average a thousand decisions to be made
0:53:23 > 0:53:27and when you draw that down to the three weeks that we've had to do this,
0:53:27 > 0:53:31that's 47 a day, six decisions an hour. It's been a long slog,
0:53:31 > 0:53:35but really it's him that's pulled it out of the bag and you should be really proud.
0:53:35 > 0:53:38So finally, please, a toast to Holly and Anthony
0:53:38 > 0:53:41- your bride and that fool. - ALL:- Holly and Anthony!
0:53:41 > 0:53:44CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
0:53:45 > 0:53:49Holly, you mean more to me than anything on the face of the planet
0:53:49 > 0:53:52and the surrounding area.
0:53:52 > 0:53:54LAUGHTER
0:53:55 > 0:53:57I couldn't ask for a better person to be by my side
0:53:57 > 0:53:59and going through everything we have been through this year
0:53:59 > 0:54:01has brought us closer together
0:54:01 > 0:54:03and I know it's going to get better from here.
0:54:03 > 0:54:05Then, obviously, I want to thank Oliver
0:54:05 > 0:54:08because Oliver has been by my side for this whole process,
0:54:08 > 0:54:11and I was always the outsider in school because of history
0:54:11 > 0:54:13and cos of everything that had happened
0:54:13 > 0:54:15and I always wanted to be good friends with Oliver.
0:54:15 > 0:54:17We've always been close but could never fully do it
0:54:17 > 0:54:20and I think doing this and going through this three weeks with him
0:54:20 > 0:54:22has really shown me what the human race is capable of
0:54:22 > 0:54:27and how selfless everyone can be, so... I'm nearly crying! Already.
0:54:27 > 0:54:30'My favourite part of the day actually was his speech.'
0:54:30 > 0:54:33It was nice - there was nice little bit of bro love in there,
0:54:33 > 0:54:36which was nice. He welled up at that bit.
0:54:36 > 0:54:40And Holly's Dad has a few special words for Anthony.
0:54:40 > 0:54:43And now, like it or not, you're part of my family
0:54:43 > 0:54:46- and I'm part of your family. - I DO like it.
0:54:46 > 0:54:48And now we're one big family, and it's great.
0:54:48 > 0:54:50APPLAUSE
0:54:53 > 0:54:55And when it comes to family,
0:54:55 > 0:54:58things are looking positive for the newlyweds.
0:54:58 > 0:55:01- My dad's picking us up tomorrow and taking us back home...- That's good.
0:55:01 > 0:55:04..in his chauffeur car and we're going to have a meal with them
0:55:04 > 0:55:06and they've said they want to be a part of our lives.
0:55:06 > 0:55:08Yeah, that's exciting!
0:55:09 > 0:55:11It's such a massive feeling of release and happiness.
0:55:11 > 0:55:14I can't believe you loved it, you loved it all.
0:55:14 > 0:55:16I loved every bit of it. Yeah, it was perfect.
0:55:16 > 0:55:18I can't believe it, it's so good.
0:55:23 > 0:55:26This is it now, this is the start of things to come.
0:55:26 > 0:55:29This is, you know... We're approaching day one of our lives.
0:55:29 > 0:55:31- No more bad times.- No.
0:55:31 > 0:55:34We are family - we can have a happy life.
0:55:34 > 0:55:37It's been a really special day for the two them.
0:55:40 > 0:55:43We've pulled it off - I feel really good now.
0:55:43 > 0:55:47I'm proud of Anthony and I'm really happy for Holly.
0:55:52 > 0:55:56The tradition is always a cigar after a successful mission.
0:55:56 > 0:56:00I could not have asked for a better person to help me. You first.
0:56:01 > 0:56:04I can't believe it, man, I really can't believe it - we did it!
0:56:04 > 0:56:06Now that's what I call a close encounter!
0:56:06 > 0:56:09THEY LAUGH
0:56:10 > 0:56:13- Next time...- Scuba gear in dress in the pool?- Yes.
0:56:13 > 0:56:16..our wettest, wackiest wedding ever...
0:56:16 > 0:56:19- Underwater?- Yes.- Uh-oh!
0:56:19 > 0:56:22- ..when a bride who wants to be a Gypsy Princess...- I want this dress.
0:56:22 > 0:56:25..has to decide whether she'll take the plunge...
0:56:25 > 0:56:27This whole thing is making me cry.
0:56:27 > 0:56:31..and marry a man who wants to throw her in at the deep end.
0:56:31 > 0:56:34- What do I do?- I can't pretend I'm happy because I not.
0:56:34 > 0:56:39- At the moment I'm thinking... - Has this hapless groom gone too far?
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