0:00:02 > 0:00:03- From the depths of the earth... - Oh, God.
0:00:03 > 0:00:05..to the crests of the mountains...
0:00:05 > 0:00:07Things have gone weird.
0:00:07 > 0:00:10..these crusading grooms must rise to the challenge.
0:00:12 > 0:00:13£12,000...
0:00:13 > 0:00:15and just three weeks...
0:00:15 > 0:00:18I love that girl, I love her.
0:00:18 > 0:00:20..to plan a wedding worthy of their betrothed.
0:00:20 > 0:00:23Oh, my God. What's he done?
0:00:23 > 0:00:24He just took my dress!
0:00:24 > 0:00:28These fair maidens are bound by contract to be legally wedded...
0:00:28 > 0:00:29God, no.
0:00:29 > 0:00:32..but have no say in their big day.
0:00:32 > 0:00:34Is it just going to all be last-minute and just rubbish?
0:00:34 > 0:00:36I hate it. I need to get rid of it.
0:00:38 > 0:00:40Can these hapless heroes marshal their armies?
0:00:40 > 0:00:43I love her but she's a bitch when she's like this.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45Vanquish dragons?
0:00:45 > 0:00:46Oh, God!
0:00:46 > 0:00:49Do as your future mother-in-law tells you!
0:00:49 > 0:00:51And conquer all before them?
0:00:51 > 0:00:52ALL CHEER
0:00:52 > 0:00:54Get out of my pub!
0:00:54 > 0:00:56Or will they be...
0:00:57 > 0:00:58..defeated?
0:00:58 > 0:01:00I'm not doing it.
0:01:00 > 0:01:01Tonight...
0:01:01 > 0:01:03I miss you.
0:01:03 > 0:01:05..super cool groom Raphael...
0:01:05 > 0:01:07Woo-hoo!
0:01:07 > 0:01:10..wants a huge, traditional Nigerian wedding.
0:01:10 > 0:01:13I love it, there's so much to work with, it's a blank canvas.
0:01:13 > 0:01:17When all his bride, Ola, wants is a small, intimate affair.
0:01:17 > 0:01:21- People that I really know...- Not your mum's cousins, aunties...- No.
0:01:21 > 0:01:24But with this laid-back groom leaving everything
0:01:24 > 0:01:25until the last minute...
0:01:25 > 0:01:27It not getting done is not an option.
0:01:27 > 0:01:31Right now, I'll be honest, the task ahead is looking daunting.
0:01:31 > 0:01:32These are not wedding shoes.
0:01:32 > 0:01:34I have a dress and it's white.
0:01:35 > 0:01:37..will his big, Nigerian dream...
0:01:38 > 0:01:39..turn into a nightmare?
0:01:41 > 0:01:44It looks like my big, fat Nigerian wedding.
0:01:56 > 0:01:5723-year-old nurse, Ola,
0:01:57 > 0:02:00and 23-year-old medical student, Raphael,
0:02:00 > 0:02:03first set each other's pulses racing
0:02:03 > 0:02:05on their very last day of university.
0:02:05 > 0:02:08It was a bit of a shock to have not ever seen Ola.
0:02:08 > 0:02:11Yeah, because Raph was really popular,
0:02:11 > 0:02:14so he was kind of like a lady's man,
0:02:14 > 0:02:16knew everybody at the university.
0:02:16 > 0:02:19We never met until the graduation ball.
0:02:19 > 0:02:21They graduated and moved back home to London
0:02:21 > 0:02:25where Raph wasted no time, or expense,
0:02:25 > 0:02:28wooing Ola with a romantic first date.
0:02:28 > 0:02:32I wanted to play it safe and not go too expensive.
0:02:32 > 0:02:34So we went to Sam's Chicken.
0:02:36 > 0:02:38This is it. Yeah?
0:02:38 > 0:02:39Let's go.
0:02:39 > 0:02:43There's a deal that everybody from here knows the deal,
0:02:43 > 0:02:46it's two burgers and two fries for £2.
0:02:46 > 0:02:50Well, sometimes love blossoms in the most unexpected places.
0:02:50 > 0:02:53# This is gonna be the best day of my life
0:02:53 > 0:02:54# Oo, oo, oo... #
0:02:54 > 0:02:57The things I love about Ola are endless.
0:02:57 > 0:02:59Raph is really outgoing.
0:02:59 > 0:03:02She's ambitious, she's confident.
0:03:02 > 0:03:06He is the life and soul of the party.
0:03:06 > 0:03:08She's just amazing, really.
0:03:08 > 0:03:12Both Raphael and Ola are from big Nigerian families
0:03:12 > 0:03:14and are committed Christians.
0:03:14 > 0:03:16So there's one very good reason why their wedding day
0:03:16 > 0:03:18can't come soon enough.
0:03:18 > 0:03:21Because of what I believe in, as a Christian,
0:03:21 > 0:03:23I decided with Ola to, um,
0:03:23 > 0:03:26keep the physical side of our friendship
0:03:26 > 0:03:28to after marriage, really.
0:03:28 > 0:03:32We're going to base our advice on the word of God.
0:03:32 > 0:03:34So if you want to be great people
0:03:34 > 0:03:36and you want to have a great marriage,
0:03:36 > 0:03:40I strongly advise you to avoid fornication.
0:03:40 > 0:03:44It is difficult not having the sort of physical dimension
0:03:44 > 0:03:45to our relationship.
0:03:45 > 0:03:47It is hard sometimes,
0:03:47 > 0:03:51but we set boundaries, you know, what we can do or cannot do.
0:03:51 > 0:03:57The couple have decided not to even kiss until they are man and wife.
0:03:57 > 0:04:00It will be amazing to kiss Ola for the first time on our wedding day.
0:04:00 > 0:04:04This wedding day is really symbolic and really important to us
0:04:04 > 0:04:08because it marks that we're going to be physically intimate,
0:04:08 > 0:04:11so it's a really important day for us.
0:04:15 > 0:04:18With marriage meaning so much to these two lovebirds,
0:04:18 > 0:04:22Raph wanted to give his proposal a certain je ne sais quoi.
0:04:22 > 0:04:26I've always wanted to propose to my wife-to-be in Paris.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28I've always wanted to do that.
0:04:31 > 0:04:34We got the tickets booked, went to a restaurant.
0:04:34 > 0:04:38I took her on a boat, it wasn't a good view of Paris,
0:04:38 > 0:04:40so I was a bit like, "Where am I going to do it?"
0:04:40 > 0:04:43Time was ticking but eventually I got to a nice, perfect spot
0:04:43 > 0:04:47and I just looked and I saw the moon and I saw the Eiffel Tower
0:04:47 > 0:04:48and it just looked beautiful.
0:04:48 > 0:04:51I said, "It has to be here."
0:04:51 > 0:04:54I dropped on one knee and I proposed to Ola in French, as well.
0:04:54 > 0:04:55I said it in French.
0:04:55 > 0:04:59Mm, but that's not quite how Ola remembers it.
0:04:59 > 0:05:03We missed our flight because Raph was late to pick me up.
0:05:03 > 0:05:06We ended up sleeping in the airport because the next flight
0:05:06 > 0:05:07wasn't until the next morning.
0:05:07 > 0:05:09We didn't have anywhere to have dinner.
0:05:09 > 0:05:11We were walking around for ages.
0:05:11 > 0:05:14I think Raph proposed at 11:45.
0:05:14 > 0:05:16It was really, really late.
0:05:16 > 0:05:19So when he proposed, it was a massive shock.
0:05:19 > 0:05:23I thought it went well. I thought it was a fine start, to be honest.
0:05:23 > 0:05:27Despite's Raph's disorganised proposal, Ola said, "Oui."
0:05:27 > 0:05:30But back home, it's his perfectionist bride-to-be
0:05:30 > 0:05:34who keeps everything in this relationship on track.
0:05:34 > 0:05:36Raph and I are really different.
0:05:36 > 0:05:40I can be a bit OCD about things being out of place and order
0:05:40 > 0:05:45and colour and I like things done logically,
0:05:45 > 0:05:50while Raph is more easy-going and he works in a different way
0:05:50 > 0:05:52that I don't understand.
0:05:52 > 0:05:55I do feel that I am quite laid back.
0:05:55 > 0:05:57I'm quite chilled.
0:05:57 > 0:06:00Nothing really stresses me out, nothing really panics me.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03I just try to keep smiling and, yeah,
0:06:03 > 0:06:06I'm just Raph, really.
0:06:06 > 0:06:10Organised Ola has been dreaming of her wedding since childhood
0:06:10 > 0:06:14and she knows exactly what she wants on the big day.
0:06:15 > 0:06:20My dream wedding will be a very low-key affair.
0:06:20 > 0:06:23I would like just a few friends and family,
0:06:23 > 0:06:26just a plain, simple, nice, intimate affair
0:06:26 > 0:06:30because Nigerian weddings are usually big,
0:06:30 > 0:06:34my big, fat Nigerian wedding affair with hundreds of people
0:06:34 > 0:06:37and I just don't want people I don't know
0:06:37 > 0:06:40coming to celebrate such a special moment.
0:06:40 > 0:06:42That would be my worst nightmare.
0:06:42 > 0:06:45So Ola's dreaming of a small, intimate affair.
0:06:45 > 0:06:47As for Raph...
0:06:47 > 0:06:50I want to organise a big, amazing Nigerian wedding
0:06:50 > 0:06:52for all my friends and family.
0:06:52 > 0:06:54I want there to be a lot of dancing.
0:06:54 > 0:06:57I'd like there to be the traditional Nigerian food at the wedding.
0:06:57 > 0:07:00So I'd love all of those things to be at the wedding.
0:07:00 > 0:07:05Oh, dear! So the man who travelled to Paris at a snail's pace,
0:07:05 > 0:07:08is hoping to arrange a huge Nigerian wedding
0:07:08 > 0:07:09in just three weeks.
0:07:09 > 0:07:11No pressure, then.
0:07:11 > 0:07:14This is going to be a good opportunity to show Ola.
0:07:14 > 0:07:17She can take a back seat and things will still be spectacular
0:07:17 > 0:07:18and still be enjoyable.
0:07:18 > 0:07:21I want to see what Raph can do.
0:07:21 > 0:07:25OK is never good enough for me, it has to be perfect.
0:07:25 > 0:07:28So Raph really does have to get it right.
0:07:32 > 0:07:36The time has come for Ola and Raph to say, "goodbye".
0:07:36 > 0:07:38- You forgot the shoes I got you. - Thank you.
0:07:38 > 0:07:42For the next three weeks, they'll have no contact whatsoever.
0:07:42 > 0:07:46The next time they'll see each other will be when they say, "I do".
0:07:46 > 0:07:49Oh, and have their first ever kiss, of course.
0:07:49 > 0:07:50I'll miss you.
0:07:51 > 0:07:53I'll miss you more, trust me.
0:07:53 > 0:07:55# Don't go
0:07:57 > 0:08:00# Mmm, mmm, mmm
0:08:00 > 0:08:03# Don't go... #
0:08:03 > 0:08:05- I love you.- I love you too, man.
0:08:05 > 0:08:07- Let's hope the three weeks goes quick.- Yeah.
0:08:07 > 0:08:09I'll see you on our wedding day.
0:08:09 > 0:08:10I can't wait.
0:08:10 > 0:08:12I can't wait.
0:08:12 > 0:08:14Bye.
0:08:14 > 0:08:15# Don't go
0:08:17 > 0:08:19# Mm, mm, mm... #
0:08:19 > 0:08:21That was really, really hard.
0:08:22 > 0:08:25He was much more upset than I thought he would be.
0:08:25 > 0:08:30From tomorrow I'll be back looking forward to stuff
0:08:30 > 0:08:32but just saying goodbye just hurts a bit.
0:08:32 > 0:08:35He has loads of stuff to do in three weeks.
0:08:35 > 0:08:38I'll pray that he makes the right decisions.
0:08:39 > 0:08:43Ola lives with her mum 20 minutes up the road from Raph.
0:08:43 > 0:08:44Hey.
0:08:46 > 0:08:47Are you all right?
0:08:47 > 0:08:49THEY CHUCKLE
0:08:49 > 0:08:51It's the first time control freak Ola
0:08:51 > 0:08:54has ever put all her faith in her laid-back groom.
0:08:54 > 0:08:56Hello.
0:08:56 > 0:09:01So her concerned bridesmaids have come round to offer support.
0:09:01 > 0:09:02How are you feeling?
0:09:02 > 0:09:07Obviously a bit, like, nervous and, well, mainly sad at the moment.
0:09:07 > 0:09:12Do you feel you can do without controlling the wedding, or...?
0:09:12 > 0:09:15I don't know how you can let a guy pick your dress!
0:09:15 > 0:09:19No, I'm most worried about just...the budget
0:09:19 > 0:09:21and what he prioritises.
0:09:21 > 0:09:24You know, guys never have the same level of involvement
0:09:24 > 0:09:26in, like, what goes on in a wedding.
0:09:26 > 0:09:28Or interest, to be honest.
0:09:28 > 0:09:33So who has laid-back Raph got to help him pull off the wedding?
0:09:33 > 0:09:35Meet best man PJ,
0:09:35 > 0:09:38a man so laid-back, he might as well be in his PJs.
0:09:38 > 0:09:42I am extremely relaxed and Raph is extremely relaxed as well.
0:09:42 > 0:09:44I think he's not going to be organised,
0:09:44 > 0:09:46he's not the type to get stressed.
0:09:46 > 0:09:49That's all I've ever seen from him, he's just a relaxed person.
0:09:49 > 0:09:52He might not be so chilled out when he hears what Raph has in store.
0:09:52 > 0:09:54- It's getting intense. - It's serious now.
0:09:54 > 0:09:56THEY LAUGH
0:09:57 > 0:10:00- I'll see what she says.- How are you doing?- It's good, it's good.
0:10:02 > 0:10:05What is the plan, Raphael, that's the question. What is the plan?
0:10:05 > 0:10:06I've got a plan.
0:10:06 > 0:10:10I want to start it off in the church, Ola walks down the aisle...
0:10:11 > 0:10:13THEY LAUGH
0:10:15 > 0:10:18Church... She walks down the aisle. You get married.
0:10:18 > 0:10:20- You get married.- Happy ever after. - Sounds like a good plan.
0:10:20 > 0:10:23Oh, my God, Raph.
0:10:23 > 0:10:25Well, at least they seem to have grasped the basics.
0:10:25 > 0:10:28Meanwhile, the girls are grilling Ola
0:10:28 > 0:10:30about the wedding she's hoping for.
0:10:30 > 0:10:32Is it important for you to have a traditional wedding?
0:10:32 > 0:10:35I don't want a traditional, Nigerian wedding,
0:10:35 > 0:10:40in the sense that I want something low-key, I want something simple.
0:10:40 > 0:10:43Doing a traditional wedding puts a lot more strain
0:10:43 > 0:10:45and a lot more stress and emphasis.
0:10:45 > 0:10:47There is a lot to do.
0:10:47 > 0:10:49I want to do the traditional Nigerian ceremony.
0:10:49 > 0:10:52That means there's two venues, two outfits.
0:10:52 > 0:10:53What?
0:10:53 > 0:10:55- Transportation from the venue. - Oh, my God.
0:10:55 > 0:10:57From the church to the venue.
0:10:57 > 0:11:00I want a venue to accommodate 300. It's a big plan.
0:11:00 > 0:11:02It's a big, big plan.
0:11:02 > 0:11:06So Raph's big, big plan is to have a Christian church wedding first
0:11:06 > 0:11:10and then a traditional Nigerian ceremony with hundreds of guests.
0:11:10 > 0:11:12Better get planning, boys.
0:11:12 > 0:11:14I don't even know what to type in.
0:11:14 > 0:11:18What do you do? Like, venues for weddings?
0:11:18 > 0:11:20I guess so, I guess so.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27Day one and Raph has woken up to the reality
0:11:27 > 0:11:30of putting on two wedding ceremonies on the same day.
0:11:30 > 0:11:33That means two venues, two wedding dresses
0:11:33 > 0:11:36and two sets of bridesmaids' outfits.
0:11:36 > 0:11:39The question is, has he taken on too much?
0:11:39 > 0:11:43Right now, I'll be honest, the task ahead is looking daunting.
0:11:43 > 0:11:44It looks like it might test me.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47I need to get the venue sorted, I need to get the venue sorted.
0:11:49 > 0:11:51So first the boys are on the hunt
0:11:51 > 0:11:54for a venue for the Nigerian ceremony.
0:11:54 > 0:11:57They've come to Hackney in East London to find somewhere
0:11:57 > 0:12:00big enough to pack in hundreds of guests.
0:12:00 > 0:12:02But this place already seems occupied.
0:12:03 > 0:12:06- It looks like someone is actually living there.- Mmm.
0:12:06 > 0:12:10Anyway, it's not like the main view.
0:12:10 > 0:12:12- It happens.- You can invite them to the wedding.
0:12:12 > 0:12:14Yeah, they can come, they're welcome.
0:12:14 > 0:12:17Why not, eh? The more, the merrier!
0:12:19 > 0:12:23Once inside, they realise there's plenty of room for everyone.
0:12:23 > 0:12:25The thing about this venue,
0:12:25 > 0:12:27you can pretty much move everything out of here.
0:12:27 > 0:12:30It's kind of...the size of the space is quite rare for Hackney.
0:12:30 > 0:12:34We've got a capacity of 1,400 in here and up in the balconies.
0:12:34 > 0:12:38- So here is the balcony.- OK. How many does it seat?
0:12:38 > 0:12:42- 200 on this side and 200 on the other side.- OK.
0:12:42 > 0:12:44You could get lost in this place.
0:12:44 > 0:12:46We can make it what we want to make it.
0:12:46 > 0:12:49There's so much to work with, it's a blank canvas. I love it.
0:12:49 > 0:12:53While Raph's falling in love with the huge empty hall...
0:12:53 > 0:12:55Ola has a more refined venue in mind.
0:12:55 > 0:12:57Oh, look!
0:12:57 > 0:13:00Can we have a picture in there, as well, please?
0:13:00 > 0:13:03She's at the Botanical Gardens in Birmingham
0:13:03 > 0:13:06to show bridesmaids Tiffany, Maherit and Ladi her ideal wedding venue.
0:13:06 > 0:13:10So I would have, like, my ceremony here.
0:13:10 > 0:13:14Just nice, small, intimate,
0:13:14 > 0:13:17simple - just Raph and I, whoever's married us.
0:13:17 > 0:13:19Have the guests round down below.
0:13:19 > 0:13:23You'll have to sit me in a corner because I will cry the whole time.
0:13:23 > 0:13:25You do know that?
0:13:25 > 0:13:28Stepping inside, love is in the air.
0:13:28 > 0:13:32Ola's fallen head over heels for the elegant reception room.
0:13:32 > 0:13:34This is actually just perfect.
0:13:34 > 0:13:36No decorations and nothing...
0:13:36 > 0:13:38- You'd like a...- Simple.
0:13:38 > 0:13:42Do you think it will be enough for your guests? You have a big family.
0:13:42 > 0:13:44I would say 100 people, max.
0:13:44 > 0:13:47- People that you really know well. - People that I really know.
0:13:47 > 0:13:51Not your mum's cousin's auntie's sister's friend?
0:13:53 > 0:13:56So while Ola wants 100 guests max,
0:13:56 > 0:14:01Raph is getting excited by the 1,400 he could cram into this venue.
0:14:01 > 0:14:04I could see the guests there, the stage there.
0:14:04 > 0:14:07Ola and myself would then sit on the throne
0:14:07 > 0:14:09which would most likely be there.
0:14:09 > 0:14:13- Are you excited? - No, it's all getting real now.
0:14:13 > 0:14:16- I think it's a great venue. - I can see it, it could work.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19So Raph splashes £800 on a cavernous venue that will
0:14:19 > 0:14:22need a complete Nigerian makeover.
0:14:22 > 0:14:25- I think it's good, big... - If Ola was here,
0:14:25 > 0:14:28I think she'd say, "Get it." That's what she'll say, yeah.
0:14:28 > 0:14:32If you know that, then that's good. Let's hope she likes it!
0:14:32 > 0:14:36The lads may be brimming with confidence,
0:14:36 > 0:14:40but the girls are getting more and more concerned about Ola's big day.
0:14:40 > 0:14:43Is it hitting home that you ain't got a choice?
0:14:43 > 0:14:44NERVOUS CHUCKLE
0:14:44 > 0:14:46- It's not going to be... - Yeah.- ..how you want it.
0:14:46 > 0:14:50It's his wedding more than mine in that sense.
0:14:50 > 0:14:52Bless you.
0:14:52 > 0:14:55Aw, is it getting to you at all, or...?
0:14:55 > 0:14:58Um, obviously, I'm never going to have this chance again.
0:14:58 > 0:15:00Don't say that.
0:15:00 > 0:15:03It's really upsetting.
0:15:03 > 0:15:06Because we are really close and I just wish I could actually be there,
0:15:06 > 0:15:08like, for her.
0:15:08 > 0:15:12I could feel myself getting emotional, I was going to cry.
0:15:12 > 0:15:13Have I ever seen Ola cry?
0:15:13 > 0:15:16Probably once or twice in the time I've known her
0:15:16 > 0:15:18and that's probably when it's just us.
0:15:18 > 0:15:21She can hold it in more than what I can.
0:15:21 > 0:15:24Coming here today has sort of really hit home
0:15:24 > 0:15:27that I don't actually have a say in my wedding.
0:15:27 > 0:15:32It makes me feel sad in a sense that I will never get to plan my wedding.
0:15:38 > 0:15:40With two weddings to organise
0:15:40 > 0:15:42and two different wedding dresses to get for Ola,
0:15:42 > 0:15:45Raph wants to make sure her traditional Nigerian dress
0:15:45 > 0:15:47is truly authentic.
0:15:47 > 0:15:51I need to give Nigeria a call because it's not looking likely
0:15:51 > 0:15:56I can get all of the outfits purchased and sewn in London.
0:15:56 > 0:16:00Yeah, he's ordering it from 3,000 miles away in Lagos.
0:16:00 > 0:16:02PHONE RINGS
0:16:02 > 0:16:04- 'Yes, hello.'- Hello.
0:16:04 > 0:16:09Good morning. I need my outfit and my wife's outfit sewn.
0:16:09 > 0:16:15I also want the bridesmaids' outfits and the groomsmen outfits as well.
0:16:15 > 0:16:19I know it's late. I know it's late, but it's all last-minute.
0:16:19 > 0:16:23But Ola has previous experience of dresses ordered
0:16:23 > 0:16:26direct from Nigeria and she's been less than impressed.
0:16:26 > 0:16:30- Like this one, it came from Nigeria and I couldn't wear it.- Yeah.
0:16:30 > 0:16:31It's still in the packet.
0:16:31 > 0:16:33THEY LAUGH
0:16:33 > 0:16:36Like, the skirt didn't fit, the top didn't fit
0:16:36 > 0:16:39and even though they had my measurements, it just didn't fit.
0:16:39 > 0:16:42Is he even factoring in the traditional side
0:16:42 > 0:16:44of things into the wedding?
0:16:44 > 0:16:48Like, I would rather not, cos my taste, I like things simple.
0:16:48 > 0:16:51I don't want a big, fat Nigerian wedding.
0:16:51 > 0:16:55I don't want chaos. I don't want people I don't know.
0:16:55 > 0:16:57- Mmm.- I want something for me.
0:16:57 > 0:17:01So no traditional outfits and definitely no gold, then.
0:17:01 > 0:17:03- 'In what colour?'- Gold.
0:17:03 > 0:17:04Oh, dear!
0:17:04 > 0:17:08Champagne gold and that could be done within about two weeks?
0:17:08 > 0:17:10'I can try, I can try.'
0:17:10 > 0:17:14That's £1,000 on traditional outfits all the way from Nigeria
0:17:14 > 0:17:17that still need to be made with less than three weeks to go
0:17:17 > 0:17:20until the wedding. What could possibly go wrong?
0:17:20 > 0:17:23That's a big relief, a big relief.
0:17:23 > 0:17:24Oh!
0:17:30 > 0:17:33In Central London, Ola has come to show her mum and bridesmaids
0:17:33 > 0:17:37the kind of dress she wants to get married in.
0:17:37 > 0:17:39I like the one with the bling.
0:17:41 > 0:17:44The trouble is, Mum and the bridesmaids seem to have
0:17:44 > 0:17:47a better grasp of what they like than Ola.
0:17:47 > 0:17:48Much better, in fact.
0:17:48 > 0:17:50This is nice.
0:17:50 > 0:17:52That's nice, I just don't like...
0:17:52 > 0:17:54I don't like it so I'm not going to wear it.
0:17:54 > 0:17:56- What about this one? - No, I don't like it.
0:17:56 > 0:17:58- Is it the material? - I just don't like it.
0:17:58 > 0:18:00This could be your perfect dress.
0:18:00 > 0:18:02Like, what if this is the one Raph chose?
0:18:02 > 0:18:05Are you guys trying to make a joke, or something?
0:18:05 > 0:18:06It's not even funny.
0:18:06 > 0:18:09- Hey, it's not even funny. - It looks really cute.
0:18:09 > 0:18:11Yeah, you wear it to your wedding, then.
0:18:11 > 0:18:14I just feel like people are choosing what they would want,
0:18:14 > 0:18:18not actually thinking about what I would like, which is a bit annoying.
0:18:19 > 0:18:22It may be a bit late to realise you don't like other people
0:18:22 > 0:18:23picking your wedding dress.
0:18:23 > 0:18:26Across town, Raph and PJ have come to see a designer in
0:18:26 > 0:18:30South London to commission a second dress for the Christian ceremony.
0:18:30 > 0:18:31Hello, hello.
0:18:31 > 0:18:35Seamstress Milly will have just two weeks to make the dress.
0:18:35 > 0:18:39If she can work out what Raph actually wants.
0:18:39 > 0:18:41This is actually what I was thinking about, something...
0:18:41 > 0:18:44A mermaid thing. I think it will look good on her.
0:18:44 > 0:18:47Can you have a veil and a cape? I don't know if that's too much.
0:18:47 > 0:18:50You can have a cape, that's the beauty of the dress.
0:18:50 > 0:18:52- Is it possible to have detachable sleeves?- Yeah.
0:18:52 > 0:18:54Something similar to that with detachable sleeves.
0:18:54 > 0:18:58- Why do you want detachable sleeves? Do you want detachable everything! - THEY LAUGH
0:18:58 > 0:19:02- Why detachable?- I don't know, it's out of the norm, really,
0:19:02 > 0:19:04Everything is... I don't know.
0:19:04 > 0:19:07- You don't want to be too different with her dress.- Exactly.
0:19:07 > 0:19:10If you don't want her to kill you.
0:19:10 > 0:19:11Yeah...
0:19:11 > 0:19:14- So...be safe, play it safe. - Play it safe, play it safe.
0:19:16 > 0:19:18THEY GASP
0:19:18 > 0:19:21Meanwhile, Ola has finally found something simple
0:19:21 > 0:19:25enough for her taste and there's nothing detachable on this dress.
0:19:25 > 0:19:29- I actually really like it.- I really like it.- I really, really like it.
0:19:29 > 0:19:31This one's perfect because it'll make me
0:19:31 > 0:19:34- feel how I want to feel on my wedding day.- This is unique.
0:19:34 > 0:19:35Oh, I love it!
0:19:35 > 0:19:39Everything about it is awesome.
0:19:39 > 0:19:41I feel sexy, I feel attractive.
0:19:41 > 0:19:45Most importantly, I can move in this dress.
0:19:45 > 0:19:46Wow!
0:19:52 > 0:19:54This has the "wow" factor.
0:19:54 > 0:19:56She looked like a princess...
0:19:56 > 0:19:57to me.
0:19:57 > 0:20:01Seeing Ola today, in the beautiful wedding dress,
0:20:01 > 0:20:03it makes me proud.
0:20:03 > 0:20:06But when it comes to Raph, I pray he will do the best
0:20:06 > 0:20:08because he wants the best for Ola.
0:20:08 > 0:20:10Do you think Raph would choose this?
0:20:10 > 0:20:13- Who know what Raph will choose? - LAUGHTER
0:20:15 > 0:20:19Back in South London, no-one seems to know what Raph is choosing.
0:20:19 > 0:20:22Explain exactly what you want your lady to wear.
0:20:22 > 0:20:26OK, so the mermaid sort of dress,
0:20:26 > 0:20:29quite fitted from the top to about the knees.
0:20:29 > 0:20:32The top half, what do you want?
0:20:32 > 0:20:35I'm thinking halterneck, but what are the other options?
0:20:35 > 0:20:38With that kind of dress, if you do a boob tube
0:20:38 > 0:20:39you can really hide her in.
0:20:39 > 0:20:42And that would give her a curvy figure out.
0:20:42 > 0:20:47- I just think that boob tube is always the way. Safe.- Yeah, yeah.
0:20:47 > 0:20:50Let's choose the boob tube to be on the safe side.
0:20:51 > 0:20:53Not a boob tube in sight,
0:20:53 > 0:20:56Ola has set her heart on a jewelled, flowing gown.
0:20:58 > 0:21:01I feel elegant, I feel how I would want to feel on my wedding day.
0:21:01 > 0:21:04This is good, this looks like a wedding gown.
0:21:06 > 0:21:09But Raph's finally settled on an interesting number -
0:21:09 > 0:21:14a fitted boob tube, mermaid skirt, and, erm, detachable sleeves.
0:21:14 > 0:21:18All he needs now is to find out if he can get it in budget.
0:21:18 > 0:21:21I was hoping to spend a maximum of £500.
0:21:21 > 0:21:26I was thinking I might be able to bring it down to 300, possibly 200.
0:21:26 > 0:21:28Milly, you know I'm doing a Nigerian traditional wedding.
0:21:28 > 0:21:32- It's unheard of to do that for £12,000.- I know.
0:21:32 > 0:21:34So this is where I need you to help me out.
0:21:34 > 0:21:36Milly, how much would it cost for you to work your magic?
0:21:36 > 0:21:39Buying everything and making it would be 1,000...
0:21:39 > 0:21:42OOH!
0:21:42 > 0:21:43HE LAUGHS
0:21:43 > 0:21:45MUSIC: Ooh La La by The Wiseguys
0:21:50 > 0:21:53- How much is your budget? - Budget for the wedding dress is £67.
0:21:53 > 0:21:57In the charity shop you won't get a dress for £67.
0:21:58 > 0:22:03I want to make this dress, so I can make it...for £800.
0:22:04 > 0:22:06So blowing the clothing budget,
0:22:06 > 0:22:10Raph gives Milly the go-ahead to make Ola's wedding dress.
0:22:10 > 0:22:13With just two weeks to go until his two wedding ceremonies,
0:22:13 > 0:22:15Raph has spent almost half his budget,
0:22:15 > 0:22:17and still only has one venue.
0:22:17 > 0:22:19Still, nothing to worry about, apparently.
0:22:19 > 0:22:23- Two weeks now. - This guy's laid-back, yeah.
0:22:23 > 0:22:24RAPH LAUGHS
0:22:24 > 0:22:28- From now on, smooth sailing. - Smooth sailing. Smooooth sailing.
0:22:28 > 0:22:29With a smile on his face.
0:22:30 > 0:22:32Inside your heart's going...
0:22:38 > 0:22:41Sailing smoothly from his white wedding
0:22:41 > 0:22:45to the traditional wedding, Raph is off to kit out his big Nigerian do.
0:22:45 > 0:22:48My sister gave me a number of a couple who live just over
0:22:48 > 0:22:52there who hopefully can help me out with what I need.
0:22:52 > 0:22:54- Hello.- How are you?
0:22:54 > 0:22:58I've decided to plan a big Nigerian wedding for all my family
0:22:58 > 0:23:01and friends and people important to me
0:23:01 > 0:23:02to witness my beautiful wife,
0:23:02 > 0:23:06I want to show her off to all my friends, really.
0:23:06 > 0:23:09I need your help to decorate my venue.
0:23:09 > 0:23:14- Right, how many guests altogether? - I'm saying about 300.
0:23:14 > 0:23:16For 300 guests, it's quite a lot.
0:23:16 > 0:23:19It's actually going to be a traditional wedding,
0:23:19 > 0:23:21so I will need a throne as well.
0:23:21 > 0:23:24- Right.- Where me and my fiance will sit on as well.
0:23:24 > 0:23:29- Perfect.- Do you want to have your seat? Practise by sitting on it.
0:23:29 > 0:23:31Get used to it!
0:23:31 > 0:23:36This traditional wedding is the most important part of the wedding
0:23:36 > 0:23:41in Nigeria. It's not about you and the bride, it's about the family.
0:23:41 > 0:23:46So that is why you'll be begging and begging for your bride,
0:23:46 > 0:23:48then they know you are really serious.
0:23:48 > 0:23:51- I wish you luck.- Thank you. Thank you, Uncle.
0:23:53 > 0:23:57I think Raphael has a lot of work to do.
0:23:57 > 0:24:01And the list is endless, so to impress the bride's parents,
0:24:01 > 0:24:03he will have to get it right.
0:24:06 > 0:24:08Less than two weeks to the wedding,
0:24:08 > 0:24:11and the pressure is starting to tell on Ola and her mum.
0:24:11 > 0:24:13The whole family are asking questions,
0:24:13 > 0:24:16including Ola's older brother Aki.
0:24:16 > 0:24:19- Hey, you all right? - How're you doing, you all right?
0:24:19 > 0:24:22You good? Hey, Mum. How're you feeling about it?
0:24:22 > 0:24:25In all honesty, how are you feeling?
0:24:25 > 0:24:28Are you excited or apprehensive?
0:24:28 > 0:24:32- I'm just hoping that it's not a disaster.- I am afraid right now.
0:24:33 > 0:24:38- You're afraid?- Yes.- Why are you afraid?- Because we don't know.
0:24:38 > 0:24:41I think you're in a really tough position at the moment,
0:24:41 > 0:24:44I wouldn't want to be in it at all.
0:24:44 > 0:24:46Especially with all the people not knowing where it is going to be.
0:24:46 > 0:24:51I'm just scared of too many people, I don't want an overcrowded wedding.
0:24:51 > 0:24:56Imagine a house full of Nigerians, all don't know what they're doing.
0:24:56 > 0:24:59I can only handle one auntie asking questions
0:24:59 > 0:25:02and I'm gone after ten minutes, so imagine having 20.
0:25:03 > 0:25:05THEY LAUGH
0:25:05 > 0:25:06Explaining it 20 times!
0:25:06 > 0:25:10There is one detail about the wedding day Ola
0:25:10 > 0:25:13can reveal to her brother - whether he wants to hear it or not.
0:25:13 > 0:25:16We've never talked about this and I don't think you know.
0:25:16 > 0:25:19This day is also important for Raph and I
0:25:19 > 0:25:22because we are not intimate on that level...
0:25:22 > 0:25:25- Wow, OK.- So, yeah...
0:25:25 > 0:25:27It's quite an important day.
0:25:27 > 0:25:32- So if I have a bad day, and then, like, you know...- Jesus.
0:25:32 > 0:25:35So he's got a lot to live up to, then, hasn't he?
0:25:35 > 0:25:37I feel for you, Sis.
0:25:39 > 0:25:43It's the end of the second week and time for the stag and hen dos.
0:25:43 > 0:25:46Raph hasn't organised anything for the girls yet,
0:25:46 > 0:25:49but this laid-back groom wastes no time
0:25:49 > 0:25:51bagging a big day out for the lads.
0:25:51 > 0:25:56# If you go down in the woods today you're sure of a big surprise
0:25:56 > 0:26:00# If you go down in the woods today you'd better go in disguise... #
0:26:00 > 0:26:03Bring your shoulder round, shotgun pulled nice and tight into there.
0:26:03 > 0:26:05This hand goes there, this hands goes there,
0:26:05 > 0:26:07rest your cheekbone onto there, shut your left eye.
0:26:07 > 0:26:10- Ready?- Yeah.- Here we go.
0:26:10 > 0:26:12GUN FIRES TWICE
0:26:12 > 0:26:15Right, you hit that, but that was more luck than judgment.
0:26:15 > 0:26:16Nah, I think it was judgment.
0:26:16 > 0:26:18LAUGHTER 100% judgment.
0:26:23 > 0:26:27The shooting party retires to the pub to toast the groom-to-be.
0:26:27 > 0:26:31This is your last day/night of freedom, how are you feeling,
0:26:31 > 0:26:34how are you feeling so far, bro?
0:26:34 > 0:26:35- I feel good, I feel good.- Yeah?
0:26:35 > 0:26:41You are in for some tough times, but some very good times.
0:26:41 > 0:26:45Thinking I can't wait, I can't wait for married life.
0:26:45 > 0:26:48- To Raph.- To Raph.
0:26:48 > 0:26:52In London, Ola and her bridesmaids have been told to expect a hen do,
0:26:52 > 0:26:56but it's getting late and there's still no news of what's happening.
0:26:56 > 0:26:59It's going to be something outdoors, it can't be here.
0:26:59 > 0:27:03- Maybe it's a restaurant. - Nah. It's too late.
0:27:03 > 0:27:05Well, then, where, at this time?
0:27:07 > 0:27:10So, Raph, what are you doing for Ola's hen do?
0:27:10 > 0:27:16I was thinking big girls' night in tonight, so pizza, movies, DVDs.
0:27:16 > 0:27:21I'm going to get onesies for all of them as well. Pink onesies!
0:27:21 > 0:27:24- So...- Don't want them to have too much fun, so...
0:27:24 > 0:27:28No, I think she'll like that, she doesn't want to be going out.
0:27:28 > 0:27:31Yeah, cos every girl wants to stay in on her hen do(!)
0:27:31 > 0:27:35- Time's that, five? It's about two hours to London.- We need to go, then.
0:27:37 > 0:27:40But even Raph's big night in for Ola might not happen
0:27:40 > 0:27:42if the boys don't get a move on.
0:27:42 > 0:27:44We're going to get the onesies now.
0:27:44 > 0:27:48On a Saturday, can't believe you left it this late.
0:27:48 > 0:27:50Last-minute man Raph makes the shops just in time.
0:27:50 > 0:27:55- Nice one. Sorted it. £69... - Easy.- Nice.
0:27:55 > 0:28:01With a few snacks and some DVDs, that's a grand total of £100.
0:28:01 > 0:28:04What a bargain.
0:28:04 > 0:28:06I think he will spend more on me than his stag do.
0:28:06 > 0:28:08I think he'll definitely think...
0:28:08 > 0:28:12I don't think he thinks this stag do is that important.
0:28:12 > 0:28:16Yeah, only important enough to spend 400 quid more on his stag do
0:28:16 > 0:28:18than on this pile of low-cost loungewear.
0:28:18 > 0:28:20- Let me know how it goes.- Cool.
0:28:22 > 0:28:25Eh, we've been waiting for three hours now,
0:28:25 > 0:28:29so this better be a very good surprise.
0:28:29 > 0:28:33Finally, PJ rocks up with the PJs, at 10.30.
0:28:34 > 0:28:38- Come in.- Let's hope Raph's left the engine running.
0:28:40 > 0:28:44- Hi.- Hello. - Where's the lovely fiancee?
0:28:44 > 0:28:48- And so what's going on? - It's a onesie party, yeah.- Frozen.
0:28:48 > 0:28:52- Oh, my God, we're watching Frozen. - There's no TV.
0:28:52 > 0:28:56- We have no TV. PJ:- Ladies, have a good evening.- ALL:- Bye.
0:28:57 > 0:29:02PJ turned up with an armful of onesies, no explanation,
0:29:02 > 0:29:05chucked some stuff at us, and walks out.
0:29:05 > 0:29:09- Good? How'd it go, man? - Not so good, man.- Is it? How come?
0:29:09 > 0:29:14- They were all dressed up. - Really?- Ready to go.
0:29:14 > 0:29:16They looked very disappointed when I gave them...
0:29:16 > 0:29:18HE LAUGHS
0:29:18 > 0:29:22It's all got too much for Ola. She's locked herself in the bathroom...
0:29:23 > 0:29:27- What can we do? It's done. - Yeah, what can we do? Get in, get in.
0:29:29 > 0:29:31I think after waiting so many hours,
0:29:31 > 0:29:36and then just get delivered onesies, and...not even any hot food,
0:29:36 > 0:29:38just a bag of random snacks,
0:29:38 > 0:29:41and it's not stuff that Ola would choose herself.
0:29:41 > 0:29:43So there's no thought there.
0:29:43 > 0:29:46You only do it once, you're not going to have another hen do.
0:29:46 > 0:29:50Spent my whole day... I could have done something else with you guys.
0:29:50 > 0:29:53Yeah, we waited all day for this.
0:29:53 > 0:29:55The hen do disappointment has made
0:29:55 > 0:29:59Ola and the girls worry about the big day ahead.
0:29:59 > 0:30:03If the wedding day comes and we feel like this, then that would be
0:30:03 > 0:30:07a tragedy, really, and he would have completely got it wrong.
0:30:07 > 0:30:08In regards to the wedding,
0:30:08 > 0:30:13now I'm more aware to the fact that I might not actually like it.
0:30:21 > 0:30:25With just one week to go and three-quarters of the budget gone,
0:30:25 > 0:30:29Raph and PJ still haven't found a church for the Christian ceremony.
0:30:29 > 0:30:32There will be no wedding at all without somewhere to hold it,
0:30:32 > 0:30:34and it's not looking good.
0:30:34 > 0:30:37I'm the best man for my friend, Raphael Kotun,
0:30:37 > 0:30:42we're trying to find a venue. We're very strapped for time.
0:30:42 > 0:30:45Raph is so desperate he's calling hospital chapels -
0:30:45 > 0:30:48even the one where Ola works.
0:30:48 > 0:30:51Me myself, I'm training to be a doctor, she's a nurse there,
0:30:51 > 0:30:55and I just thought it would be quite...quite, erm,
0:30:55 > 0:30:59special to get married in the chapel there.
0:30:59 > 0:31:00Not much luck, to be honest,
0:31:00 > 0:31:06most of them are saying we need to be patients at the hospital for them
0:31:06 > 0:31:10to actually consider it, and even then it's tricky.
0:31:10 > 0:31:13So Raph would have to be a hospital patient.
0:31:13 > 0:31:17Well, maybe the bridesmaids will oblige when they see their outfits.
0:31:18 > 0:31:22Raph's taking groomsman Rex along for backup as he faces
0:31:22 > 0:31:26the girls with seven 20 quid dresses...
0:31:26 > 0:31:29- from the market. - Are you excited to see the dresses?
0:31:29 > 0:31:31We're so excited, we can't wait.
0:31:31 > 0:31:33That's a very small bag, Raph.
0:31:33 > 0:31:35They all fit in that bag?
0:31:38 > 0:31:41The girls don't seem convinced by their flimsy frocks.
0:31:43 > 0:31:45Take your time, I'm sure you'll all look gorgeous.
0:31:45 > 0:31:46HE EXHALES
0:31:46 > 0:31:49- Seven girls, to please all of them...- Yes, if I got it perfect...
0:31:49 > 0:31:52Even if you please four of them, I'm happy.
0:31:52 > 0:31:57- Four out of seven? Aiming high. - I am happy with this, looks good.
0:31:57 > 0:32:01I think maybe the material might be a little bit not so great.
0:32:01 > 0:32:05- I just really hope that Ola would like it.- Mm.- Thanks, girls.
0:32:05 > 0:32:07- ALL:- See you, bye.
0:32:08 > 0:32:12- REX:- Take care, nice to meet you.
0:32:12 > 0:32:14- Oh, my God.- Spandex, here we come!
0:32:14 > 0:32:16THEY LAUGH
0:32:21 > 0:32:23The wedding is just days away, and Ola is still troubled
0:32:23 > 0:32:27by the disappointment of Raph's rushed hen night.
0:32:27 > 0:32:32At the hen do I felt really sad.
0:32:32 > 0:32:36I felt like there wasn't that much thought put into it,
0:32:36 > 0:32:39I just wasn't impressed by anything.
0:32:39 > 0:32:42My bridesmaids believe that there is going to be more thought
0:32:42 > 0:32:47into the wedding if the hen do was so bad, so that might be the case.
0:32:48 > 0:32:51But now the bridesmaids have seen their outfits,
0:32:51 > 0:32:54they're feeling about as optimistic as Ola is.
0:32:54 > 0:32:58So the guys literally turned up with a plastic bag about this big.
0:32:58 > 0:33:01The bag material was thicker than our dress.
0:33:01 > 0:33:03Oh, for goodness' sake.
0:33:03 > 0:33:07What I'm more concerned about is, whoever he went there with,
0:33:07 > 0:33:12I don't want somebody to say, "Oh, yeah, that's what the bride's like."
0:33:12 > 0:33:15And it's like some massive ball gown.
0:33:15 > 0:33:17Want to see my dress and my shoes, really.
0:33:17 > 0:33:19- Yep.- ASAP.
0:33:19 > 0:33:21Ola will have to wait a little longer,
0:33:21 > 0:33:24as both her dresses are still being made.
0:33:24 > 0:33:25But while Ola's worrying,
0:33:25 > 0:33:28her laid-back groom has finally been getting into gear.
0:33:28 > 0:33:32There may be no dress and no venue, but at least he's bagged some rings.
0:33:32 > 0:33:34Do it for 1,150.
0:33:34 > 0:33:37- All right, thanks a lot, Jack. - All right.
0:33:37 > 0:33:40And not forgetting designer suits for the lads.
0:33:40 > 0:33:45- What's the final offer? - I can go down to 220 for you.
0:33:45 > 0:33:47- Deal? Deal it is.- OK.
0:33:47 > 0:33:49The boys have saved a few quid on suits,
0:33:49 > 0:33:53but PJ can't believe what Raph has splashed on the rings.
0:33:53 > 0:33:57- 1,150.- I'm shocked. I can't... I can't...
0:33:57 > 0:34:01- I can't actually believe that. - Why wouldn't you...?
0:34:01 > 0:34:04That's the one thing I didn't come to and you just let loose.
0:34:04 > 0:34:08£12,000 to do two weddings, it was never, ever going to be smooth.
0:34:08 > 0:34:11- Exactly, so why...?- But this is needed, it's not an option.
0:34:11 > 0:34:14Ola's wedding band needs a diamond in it.
0:34:14 > 0:34:17We haven't even got the venue for the actual ceremony.
0:34:17 > 0:34:18Yeah.
0:34:18 > 0:34:20And we're getting quotes for prices now,
0:34:20 > 0:34:22when we thought it might be free.
0:34:22 > 0:34:25So we'll just have to make it work, that's it.
0:34:28 > 0:34:30Two days to go, there's still no church.
0:34:30 > 0:34:33Ola has no idea where or when she's getting married,
0:34:33 > 0:34:37but then again, Raph doesn't know where she's getting married either.
0:34:37 > 0:34:40It's really frustrating not knowing where the wedding is.
0:34:40 > 0:34:42I'm thinking, "What day's it going to be,
0:34:42 > 0:34:44"are we going to get a call on the day?"
0:34:44 > 0:34:47- Yeah.- Saying, "Come in, you're getting married in an hour."
0:34:47 > 0:34:50We don't even know the time or the location,
0:34:50 > 0:34:52where do we need to be on the day?
0:34:52 > 0:34:55You're meant to be making me feel better!
0:34:55 > 0:34:58- Don't worry, let's go for some breakfast.- OK.
0:34:58 > 0:35:02Ola is about to find out WHEN she's getting married at least,
0:35:02 > 0:35:04with a little surprise from Raph.
0:35:04 > 0:35:05I need to invite Ola to the wedding.
0:35:05 > 0:35:08That's the bus stop she gets every morning to go to work,
0:35:08 > 0:35:11so I've got an idea.
0:35:11 > 0:35:16A rainy bus stop on a busy road? Oh, stop it, you're spoiling her.
0:35:16 > 0:35:19Love it. Looks good.
0:35:19 > 0:35:21Right on cue, here comes the lucky lady.
0:35:23 > 0:35:27Is that her, is that her, is that her? That looks like her.
0:35:27 > 0:35:29HE SQUEALS
0:35:31 > 0:35:33Oh, my God!
0:35:33 > 0:35:36THEY LAUGH
0:35:39 > 0:35:42- I just love it, I love it. - Why's that?
0:35:42 > 0:35:47This is SO Raph, and it's like, it's Raph talking to me, I love it.
0:35:47 > 0:35:51# I'm getting married, I'm getting married! #
0:35:51 > 0:35:55I can't wait. Just can't wait to see her again, can't wait.
0:35:55 > 0:35:57There's the future wife.
0:35:57 > 0:36:00And it means everything's sorted, it means he's found a venue,
0:36:00 > 0:36:03he's sorted out everything and everything's in place,
0:36:03 > 0:36:06- that's what this means.- Yeah. - So, I'm happy.
0:36:06 > 0:36:09Yeah - actually it doesn't mean that at all.
0:36:09 > 0:36:12Raph is still on a desperate hunt for a church.
0:36:12 > 0:36:16Just, no more than two hours. I can't see it being more than two hours.
0:36:16 > 0:36:19The situation has reached crisis point,
0:36:19 > 0:36:23and with the budget blown, Raph calls on Rex for help.
0:36:23 > 0:36:27So wait, we've got two days left and the church... So wait...
0:36:27 > 0:36:30HE SIGHS
0:36:30 > 0:36:32The church bit hasn't been confirmed yet?
0:36:32 > 0:36:34RAPH CHUCKLES QUIETLY
0:36:34 > 0:36:37- It's great how you can find this... - RAPH LAUGHS LOUDLY
0:36:37 > 0:36:41..how you can find this so funny.
0:36:41 > 0:36:43I... You need to find a church.
0:36:43 > 0:36:45You need to find a church and get married in it,
0:36:45 > 0:36:47that's the main thing. Quitting and it not getting done
0:36:47 > 0:36:50is not an option, so let's just have our two minutes of going mad,
0:36:50 > 0:36:53and let's get down to work and make it happen.
0:36:53 > 0:36:55Hello, good afternoon, is that Reverend Doctor?
0:36:55 > 0:36:58I was told it seats 200, is that true?
0:36:58 > 0:37:01..Which is actually this Saturday. I know it's very, very short,
0:37:01 > 0:37:03we're literally running around last minute.
0:37:03 > 0:37:06They don't rent it out cos it's a post office now.
0:37:06 > 0:37:09The guy said £200 per hour, minimum.
0:37:09 > 0:37:12Can you do...150?
0:37:12 > 0:37:15I think I'm just grabbing on to thin air.
0:37:15 > 0:37:17Thank you, thanks a lot for this, Reverend.
0:37:17 > 0:37:20- 'My pleasure.'- Bye-bye.
0:37:20 > 0:37:22Finally, with just one shaky lead,
0:37:22 > 0:37:26the lads head out in search of a local church.
0:37:26 > 0:37:29- It's open.- "It's open"(!) Oh, it is, it's open.
0:37:29 > 0:37:32Quick, quick, quick, let's take a look.
0:37:36 > 0:37:39- Do we knock?- 'Course we knock, bruv, we've just gotta be...
0:37:39 > 0:37:41DOOR CREAKS
0:37:41 > 0:37:45- Knock first, bruv, before you burgle.- (There's no-one in.)
0:37:45 > 0:37:49So Raph calls the reverend to see if he can perform a small miracle.
0:37:49 > 0:37:51So what happened, are you getting the venue?
0:37:51 > 0:37:54- OK, so I spoke to the reverend... - Did he say yes, did he say no?
0:37:54 > 0:37:57- He didn't say yes, he didn't say no. - You STILL don't know?
0:37:57 > 0:37:59- When you going to know?- Tomorrow.
0:37:59 > 0:38:02- That's the day before!- The day before, yeah.- So what if he says no?!
0:38:02 > 0:38:04THEY LAUGH
0:38:04 > 0:38:07We're doing it here!
0:38:07 > 0:38:10The reverend needs a day to decide, so Raph will only know
0:38:10 > 0:38:13if he has a church to get married in tomorrow.
0:38:13 > 0:38:16Talk about last-minute.
0:38:16 > 0:38:18One day before the wedding, one day.
0:38:18 > 0:38:20And it's going to be good anyway.
0:38:25 > 0:38:27It's the day before the wedding,
0:38:27 > 0:38:30and Ola's finally about to see dress number one.
0:38:30 > 0:38:33Along with bridesmaids Melissa and Ladi,
0:38:33 > 0:38:36she's being driven to a mystery location.
0:38:36 > 0:38:40Where are we? I have no clue where we are.
0:38:40 > 0:38:43It does not look like a dress shop.
0:38:43 > 0:38:46Let's just hope the wedding dress looks like a wedding dress.
0:38:46 > 0:38:49- Hello!- Thank you.
0:38:49 > 0:38:53Raphael came to see me, he put his own design on paper,
0:38:53 > 0:38:56that is what he want his wife to wear.
0:38:56 > 0:39:00- So he designed my wedding dress? - Yes, he did.
0:39:00 > 0:39:03Every single detail on that dress is from him.
0:39:03 > 0:39:06I can see you're really surprised!
0:39:06 > 0:39:07MILLY LAUGHS
0:39:07 > 0:39:11- I don't even know what to say. Like...- That's impressive.
0:39:11 > 0:39:16- Is it impressive?- It is, yeah. You know, at least he's made that effort.
0:39:16 > 0:39:20But at the end of the day, he's not a bridal fashion designer.
0:39:20 > 0:39:25I just want to see it now and what... What Raph has done.
0:39:25 > 0:39:28For the biggest day of her life, Ola dreamt of
0:39:28 > 0:39:32a simple, elegant wedding gown to suit her sophisticated taste.
0:39:32 > 0:39:35MUSIC: Teardrop by Massive Attack
0:39:35 > 0:39:38Oh... Is it like a boob tube?
0:39:38 > 0:39:40- Mm-hm.- Eh...
0:39:41 > 0:39:46It's just a shock, because it's not what I would want or buy.
0:39:46 > 0:39:48- It's not what I would buy.- OK.
0:39:48 > 0:39:51I don't really like flowy stuff.
0:39:51 > 0:39:55There's a lot going on there, to be honest. My goodness, so many layers.
0:39:55 > 0:40:00- The bottom, it's really big.- Yeah, that doesn't sound too good.- No.
0:40:00 > 0:40:02And also, I'm concerned about the top,
0:40:02 > 0:40:04I would have preferred a halterneck.
0:40:04 > 0:40:11- Gloves are really not me, it's too much of a princess-y...- OK.
0:40:11 > 0:40:13- ..thing.- Let's try it on and see how it looks like.
0:40:13 > 0:40:17Will Ola feel any different with the dress on?
0:40:17 > 0:40:19Oh-ho-ho!
0:40:21 > 0:40:26- No gloves.- Yeah! No... - Do you like it?
0:40:26 > 0:40:31At first I didn't like the boob tube, cos obviously...
0:40:31 > 0:40:36- Do you think I look quite masculine? - Definitely not.
0:40:36 > 0:40:38I really think once this is taken in
0:40:38 > 0:40:43- and all of that comes out, I think it's beautiful.- It is.
0:40:43 > 0:40:46- I think you look elegant, sexy. - Take out the gloves.
0:40:46 > 0:40:52Gloves, definitely a no-no, I'm not a princess. I'm not ten.
0:40:52 > 0:40:57Well, the good thing about gloves is that you can always take them off.
0:40:57 > 0:41:02- And once the gloves ARE off, things begin to look up.- Looks better now.
0:41:04 > 0:41:07- Yeah, those are better. - Yeah, definitely.
0:41:07 > 0:41:10- I really like the back as well. - The back is beautiful.
0:41:10 > 0:41:13I look more elegant, like...
0:41:13 > 0:41:17It's not overpowering, it's simple, I think it's classy-looking.
0:41:17 > 0:41:20You look beautiful. You look great.
0:41:22 > 0:41:25But Ola's noticed something missing.
0:41:25 > 0:41:27Where are my shoes though?
0:41:27 > 0:41:30- Milly, are there any shoes? - Uh, no yet.
0:41:30 > 0:41:33I'm really, really surprised that there's no shoes to try on,
0:41:33 > 0:41:36because I know how Raph's like with shoes, and I would have thought
0:41:36 > 0:41:42that would be his first buy, like, just buy me some massive heels.
0:41:42 > 0:41:45Let's get this going, man. You got that? Careful, careful, careful.
0:41:45 > 0:41:48Shoes are the last thing on Raph's mind.
0:41:48 > 0:41:51Late night in Hackney, the boys are busy preparing
0:41:51 > 0:41:54the huge venue for the traditional Nigerian part of the day.
0:41:54 > 0:41:57- What do you think of it?- I think it's good.- It's a beautiful space.
0:41:57 > 0:41:59First time I seen it, you done well. What about up there?
0:41:59 > 0:42:01Yeah, four seats, in case we get overspill.
0:42:01 > 0:42:05- We are going to get overspill, of course.- Aunties bring their aunties and aunties bring their uncles.
0:42:05 > 0:42:07Of course, that goes without saying.
0:42:07 > 0:42:10- This time tomorrow... That's it. - I'll be sitting on a throne!
0:42:10 > 0:42:11I think I've got to be on this side,
0:42:11 > 0:42:15cos I'm going to be like this, "Ahhh..."
0:42:15 > 0:42:18Looking at 300 guests, thinking, "Wow."
0:42:18 > 0:42:19HE LAUGHS
0:42:19 > 0:42:21But with just a few hours till the wedding day,
0:42:21 > 0:42:24where WILL Ola be getting married in the morning?
0:42:33 > 0:42:37# I want to get married... #
0:42:37 > 0:42:41After three long weeks, it's finally the day of the wedding.
0:42:41 > 0:42:45I think the adrenaline's kicked in, I'm just excited,
0:42:45 > 0:42:48I'm just ready to get started with my actual wedding.
0:42:48 > 0:42:51I just really, really want to see what Raph's done,
0:42:51 > 0:42:54and I just hope I like it.
0:42:54 > 0:42:55The first hint of what's to come
0:42:55 > 0:42:59is when the bridesmaids reveal Raph's dresses.
0:42:59 > 0:43:00He-llo.
0:43:03 > 0:43:07Oh, you look really nice.
0:43:07 > 0:43:10But you need to show off your dress, turn around.
0:43:10 > 0:43:11Now break it down now, y'all.
0:43:11 > 0:43:15- THEY LAUGH - He-ey!
0:43:15 > 0:43:17She might like what the girls are wearing,
0:43:17 > 0:43:21but there's still an important part of HER outfit she hasn't seen.
0:43:21 > 0:43:23ALL: Oooh!
0:43:27 > 0:43:28LAUGHTER
0:43:28 > 0:43:31Ola, are these what you expected?
0:43:31 > 0:43:35These are not wedding shoes - I have a dress and it's white.
0:43:35 > 0:43:37- But maybe he's wearing a red suit as well.- Ooh.
0:43:37 > 0:43:40What would you do if he's wearing a red suit?
0:43:40 > 0:43:42If I saw him in a red suit, I wouldn't walk down that aisle.
0:43:42 > 0:43:45LAUGHTER
0:43:45 > 0:43:49I'd walk back up, back out of that aisle, that's what I would do.
0:43:49 > 0:43:53But is there even an aisle for her to walk down?
0:43:53 > 0:43:57Is it a church building, or is it going to be done by a...?
0:43:57 > 0:43:58I just feel like cos it's Raph...
0:43:58 > 0:44:01Oh, you think cos it's him he's going to...
0:44:01 > 0:44:02He's going to take us to a church.
0:44:02 > 0:44:04- LAUGHING:- Take you to the church.
0:44:04 > 0:44:07But then, it's a bit late for a church ceremony.
0:44:07 > 0:44:10And Ola's not the only one wondering where she's going -
0:44:10 > 0:44:11so are the guests.
0:44:11 > 0:44:13But finally, Raph can tell everyone
0:44:13 > 0:44:16where the Christian ceremony will take place.
0:44:16 > 0:44:19It's behind the Prince of Wales pub.
0:44:19 > 0:44:23Yep - round the back of a local boozer.
0:44:23 > 0:44:26It was down to the wire, but Raph's reverend came through,
0:44:26 > 0:44:29and he confirmed this small chapel for his church wedding ceremony.
0:44:29 > 0:44:31Phew!
0:44:31 > 0:44:34SALOON-STYLE PIANO MUSIC
0:44:36 > 0:44:39Groomsman Rex is just relieved they've found somewhere at all.
0:44:39 > 0:44:43The venue's very good and personal, that's what I like about it,
0:44:43 > 0:44:45it's not showy. He could have thought of it a bit sooner,
0:44:45 > 0:44:48but at the end of the day, bit more stressed
0:44:48 > 0:44:51but at the end of the day, it's booked. We got it in time.
0:44:51 > 0:44:54Ola's brother Aki isn't quite so sure.
0:44:54 > 0:44:57I wasn't expecting this if I'm honest. It's quite small.
0:44:57 > 0:45:00Well, let's call it cosy.
0:45:00 > 0:45:03- LAUGHING:- Hopefully she'll like it.
0:45:03 > 0:45:06Raph's mates HAVE got him to the church -
0:45:06 > 0:45:08just not necessarily on time.
0:45:08 > 0:45:09We look good!
0:45:09 > 0:45:11RAPH GIGGLES
0:45:11 > 0:45:15Yeah, it's all good, it's all going OK. Just waiting for the bride
0:45:15 > 0:45:19to get here, bridesmaids - but, yeah, it's all OK.
0:45:21 > 0:45:24- Let's see you. BRIDESMAIDS:- Aww!
0:45:28 > 0:45:33- You look amazing.- How do you feel? - I like it, I like it.
0:45:33 > 0:45:36- The necklace goes... - You look stunning.
0:45:36 > 0:45:39Yeah, I think it looks good.
0:45:39 > 0:45:44OK, thank you. ..Guys, we have a car waiting for us outside.
0:45:44 > 0:45:47ALL: Whoo!
0:45:47 > 0:45:50En route to her first ceremony, Ola's bridesmaids make sure
0:45:50 > 0:45:54she's minty fresh for that very first kiss.
0:45:54 > 0:45:57You definitely need that chewing gum, cos you about to kiss yo man, girl!
0:45:57 > 0:45:59Oh, yeah.
0:45:59 > 0:46:03The first kiss is going to be quick. A quick peck.
0:46:03 > 0:46:07It's the kisses afterwards... When you're allowed!
0:46:07 > 0:46:10Across town, the cosy chapel is groaning with guests.
0:46:12 > 0:46:15Raph hasn't just invited friends and family,
0:46:15 > 0:46:20he's invited his whole church group, most of whom Ola won't even know.
0:46:20 > 0:46:22As Ola arrives,
0:46:22 > 0:46:26it appears this may not be the intimate wedding she'd hoped for.
0:46:26 > 0:46:27How come all these people are outside?
0:46:27 > 0:46:31I don't know who these people are or what they're doing here.
0:46:31 > 0:46:36The church is so full, there isn't even room for the bride.
0:46:36 > 0:46:40Isn't there space to wait inside, so I can take off my coat by the door?
0:46:43 > 0:46:45Push, push, push, push. Push.
0:46:45 > 0:46:47SHE GROANS
0:46:52 > 0:46:53Good Lord, it's freezing.
0:47:01 > 0:47:05After three weeks apart, and organising two separate weddings,
0:47:05 > 0:47:10Raph is about to see his bride again for the first time.
0:47:10 > 0:47:11MUSIC: For Your Love by Josh Record
0:47:11 > 0:47:17# I put diamonds on my promises
0:47:17 > 0:47:23# So you know that they will stay
0:47:23 > 0:47:30# And on your finger is where my vow will live
0:47:30 > 0:47:34# So you can see it every day
0:47:34 > 0:47:36# It's all for love
0:47:38 > 0:47:42# It's all for love
0:47:42 > 0:47:48# I will do anything for my love. #
0:47:53 > 0:47:55I, Raphael Kotun...
0:47:55 > 0:47:59- I, Raphael Kotun... - I, Olatunde Fakoya.
0:47:59 > 0:48:02- And I join myself to you. - To be a wife to you.
0:48:02 > 0:48:05- From this moment forward. - I shall love you.
0:48:05 > 0:48:08- And we shall be one. - And we shall be one.
0:48:08 > 0:48:10With this ring, I thee wed.
0:48:10 > 0:48:13I believe with all of my heart that this marriage is forever.
0:48:13 > 0:48:15This is forever.
0:48:15 > 0:48:18After being together for two-and-a-half years
0:48:18 > 0:48:21without a single kiss, the moment they've been waiting
0:48:21 > 0:48:24so long for is finally here.
0:48:24 > 0:48:27GUESTS: Wooo!
0:48:28 > 0:48:31- REVEREND:- I can tell this is one young man in a hurry!
0:48:33 > 0:48:37Now, I give you permission to kiss the bride.
0:48:37 > 0:48:38GUESTS: Wooo!
0:48:44 > 0:48:47That's it, that's it. Everybody, that's it.
0:48:47 > 0:48:50MUSIC: Beneath Your Beautiful by Labrinth ft. Emeli Sande
0:48:53 > 0:48:56She looked beautiful, it was beautiful.
0:48:56 > 0:48:58I don't expect Ola to show, like, a big happy,
0:48:58 > 0:49:01overly, massively in love kind of face, she wouldn't do that.
0:49:01 > 0:49:05I know she would have been happy with the whole getting married,
0:49:05 > 0:49:07and God, she looked amazing.
0:49:07 > 0:49:11As the chapel clears, the couple finally get a moment alone.
0:49:13 > 0:49:16- I missed you.- I missed you too.
0:49:16 > 0:49:19- It feels good.- Yeah, yeah. It'll hit us in the morning.
0:49:19 > 0:49:22Yeah, I think it'll hit us in the morning. Felt so nervous.
0:49:22 > 0:49:24I'm not going to lie, I was confident walking in,
0:49:24 > 0:49:26but when you get up there it's a bit different.
0:49:26 > 0:49:28- Yeah.- It's a bit different!
0:49:28 > 0:49:30Cos obviously just walking in, having not spoken to you
0:49:30 > 0:49:35in weeks, and walking into a ceremony, it's so much.
0:49:35 > 0:49:37Yeah, definitely, definitely.
0:49:37 > 0:49:40People shouting, "Smile, smile, smile."
0:49:40 > 0:49:42Do you have any more surprises in store?
0:49:42 > 0:49:45Oh, do I have surprises for you? I've got loads!
0:49:45 > 0:49:49Do you think the day's ending? This is the beginning, just starting.
0:49:49 > 0:49:53And the biggest surprise of all is that Ola is heading
0:49:53 > 0:49:56to a huge traditional Nigerian ceremony, worlds away from
0:49:56 > 0:49:59the small, intimate reception she always dreamed of.
0:50:01 > 0:50:05En route, Raph has a plan to help thaw his frosty bride.
0:50:05 > 0:50:06And it comes in a box.
0:50:06 > 0:50:08Three wings and chips, please.
0:50:14 > 0:50:17Happy? I'm over the moon.
0:50:17 > 0:50:20- MOUTH FULL:- So much going on... I'm too on edge, I don't know...
0:50:20 > 0:50:24what to expect. I don't know what I'm doing.
0:50:24 > 0:50:27As they arrive in Hackney, Raph has arranged some novel transport
0:50:27 > 0:50:32to get his unsuspecting bride to her second wedding of the day.
0:50:32 > 0:50:37To be honest, you know, I deserve this. Where exactly are we going?
0:50:37 > 0:50:39That lit-up venue there.
0:50:49 > 0:50:52- What are we doing?- Straightforward, the best part is yet to come.
0:50:52 > 0:50:54RECEPTION GUESTS: Wooo!
0:50:58 > 0:51:02What Ola doesn't know is that behind closed doors, preparations are
0:51:02 > 0:51:06under way for a full-on traditional Nigerian wedding ceremony.
0:51:06 > 0:51:10- What? Where are you going? - Don't worry about that, go up.
0:51:10 > 0:51:14Before she gets wind of the plan, Ola is diverted upstairs,
0:51:14 > 0:51:17where yet another surprise awaits her.
0:51:17 > 0:51:20- ALL: Hey!- What are we waiting for?
0:51:20 > 0:51:24- Right, ladies. More surprises for you girls.- Oh, wow.
0:51:24 > 0:51:27- What is that?- Take a look.
0:51:27 > 0:51:30BRIDESMAIDS: Oh, my God!
0:51:30 > 0:51:33- That looks nice. - Oh, you've got traditional clothes.
0:51:33 > 0:51:36Oh, my gosh, this is beautiful.
0:51:36 > 0:51:40But w-what are we using it for? That's the question.
0:51:40 > 0:51:43I-I, I'm so... I'm actually speechless, I'm so shocked.
0:51:43 > 0:51:45I don't know what I'm walking into.
0:51:45 > 0:51:48I don't know if I'm walking into a white wedding reception,
0:51:48 > 0:51:50I don't know If I'm walking into a traditional wedding.
0:51:50 > 0:51:53- You thought the surprises were over, huh?- I know, this guy...
0:51:53 > 0:51:57I don't even know what to expect downstairs. What am I walking into?
0:51:57 > 0:51:59GUESTS CHATTER
0:51:59 > 0:52:03- Oh, my goodness - wow!- This is it, cousin.- We did it, we did it.
0:52:03 > 0:52:08Oh, my goodness, I feel like crying. Decor - tick. Guests - tick.
0:52:08 > 0:52:11Everything - tick, tick, tick, tick.
0:52:11 > 0:52:14- Raphael, what do you think, everything right?- Yeah, spot on!
0:52:14 > 0:52:17- And you was right, the gold looks better.- Yes, better than the red.
0:52:17 > 0:52:19- And I'm so proud of you.- Thank you.
0:52:19 > 0:52:23- A man planning his wedding all by himself.- Thank you.
0:52:23 > 0:52:26I did it, it's beautiful, it's perfect, the guests are here,
0:52:26 > 0:52:28tables are set out, food is ready -
0:52:28 > 0:52:31now I can celebrate with my friends and my family.
0:52:31 > 0:52:32I can't wait, I love it.
0:52:32 > 0:52:34WHOOPING
0:52:37 > 0:52:40As Ola makes her way downstairs...
0:52:40 > 0:52:42in traditional Nigerian dress...
0:52:42 > 0:52:46the penny may have finally dropped.
0:52:46 > 0:52:50Looks like I just stepped on the set of My Big Fat Nigerian Wedding.
0:52:50 > 0:52:54Before Raph can find out what Ola thinks of his lavish affair,
0:52:54 > 0:52:57he has to beg her parents for her hand in marriage.
0:52:57 > 0:53:00All the way down.
0:53:00 > 0:53:04Are you begging for her, or you are not begging for...?
0:53:04 > 0:53:06I'm begging for her.
0:53:06 > 0:53:09Raph's efforts have impressed Ola's family,
0:53:09 > 0:53:13and finally, it looks like even his bride has been won over.
0:53:13 > 0:53:17I never thought I would want a Nigerian wedding,
0:53:17 > 0:53:23but just looking forward to getting in there now, doing this section,
0:53:23 > 0:53:27that's what I'm looking forward to now.
0:53:27 > 0:53:31As Ola leads her ladies in, Raph's big Nigerian gamble has paid off.
0:53:31 > 0:53:33MUSIC: Rather Be by Clean Bandit
0:53:33 > 0:53:37# If you gave me a chance I would take it
0:53:37 > 0:53:40# It's a shot in the dark but I'll make it... #
0:53:42 > 0:53:45And at last, the happy couple are together again.
0:53:48 > 0:53:52I never thought I would want, like, a big fat Nigerian wedding,
0:53:52 > 0:53:55but seeing all my friends and family together, I had a good time
0:53:55 > 0:53:58because of all the touches you put in.
0:53:58 > 0:54:03I wasn't expecting the outfit, the outfit is beautiful, I love it.
0:54:03 > 0:54:06I'm really happy, babe, you really did well. You pulled it off.
0:54:10 > 0:54:15I think Raph has done a great job in general - from A to Z
0:54:15 > 0:54:17he's really surprised us.
0:54:17 > 0:54:19The fact that he pulled that off in three weeks,
0:54:19 > 0:54:22- I have to say, my hat off to you, Raph.- One great job.
0:54:26 > 0:54:31This is what you call a success. This is a big fat Nigerian success.
0:54:31 > 0:54:33Right here. Right in front of you.
0:54:35 > 0:54:40You see her smiling, laughing now, I think she really enjoyed it.
0:54:40 > 0:54:41It came together in the end.
0:54:41 > 0:54:44As long as she goes home with a smile on her face. That sounded...
0:54:44 > 0:54:46- Huh?- That sounded quite rude.
0:54:53 > 0:54:56I'm so happy. And I'm married now.
0:54:56 > 0:55:00Being away three weeks taught me loads, and it showed me
0:55:00 > 0:55:03how much I love you, how much I care for you, how much I miss you.
0:55:03 > 0:55:06I think what I've learnt most being away from Raph,
0:55:06 > 0:55:09he makes me a better person.
0:55:09 > 0:55:12You make me nicer, you make me happier...
0:55:12 > 0:55:15I don't want to not have a day without you. Ever.
0:55:15 > 0:55:17Ahhh...
0:55:17 > 0:55:21# ..Next to me, ooh-hoo
0:55:21 > 0:55:25# You will find him, you'll find him next to me... #
0:55:29 > 0:55:3448 hours later, the couple have a third and final legal ceremony.
0:55:34 > 0:55:38- And another chance to practise that kiss.- You may kiss the bride.
0:55:41 > 0:55:45Next time - unromantic groom Dan...
0:55:45 > 0:55:49- Mi scusi.- ..plans a Shakespeare-inspired wedding abroad.
0:55:49 > 0:55:51Fai matrimoni? ..They put the phone down on me!
0:55:51 > 0:55:54Can this Romeo pull off a real Italian job?
0:55:54 > 0:55:56Kate is devastated.
0:55:56 > 0:56:00Will his grand ideas of love get lost in translation?
0:56:00 > 0:56:03It's just really itchy and I'm sweating like a pig.
0:56:03 > 0:56:06Or has this groom set the stage for a Shakespearian tragedy?
0:56:06 > 0:56:09- TEARFUL:- I don't... I don't want to wear this dress.
0:56:09 > 0:56:11I just want it to be exactly as the way I wanted it.