Sue & Tom

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0:00:02 > 0:00:03- From the depths of the Earth... - Oh, God.

0:00:03 > 0:00:06- ..to the crests of the mountains... - My legs have gone weird.

0:00:06 > 0:00:11..these crusading grooms must rise to the challenge...

0:00:11 > 0:00:13I love that girl. I love her.

0:00:13 > 0:00:16..to plan a wedding worthy of their betrothed.

0:00:16 > 0:00:18- Oh, my God.- What's he done?

0:00:18 > 0:00:19He just chucked my dress.

0:00:19 > 0:00:23These fair maidens are bound by contract to be legally wedded...

0:00:23 > 0:00:24God, no.

0:00:24 > 0:00:26..but have no say in their big day.

0:00:26 > 0:00:29Is it just going to all be last minute and just rubbish?

0:00:29 > 0:00:32Oh, I hate it. I need to get out of it.

0:00:32 > 0:00:35Can these hapless heroes marshal their armies..

0:00:35 > 0:00:38I love her but she's a bitch when she's like this.

0:00:38 > 0:00:40..vanquish dragons...

0:00:40 > 0:00:41Oh, God!

0:00:41 > 0:00:43Do as your future mother-in-law tells you.

0:00:43 > 0:00:46..and conquer all before them...

0:00:46 > 0:00:48Get out of my pub!

0:00:48 > 0:00:53..or will they be defeated?

0:00:53 > 0:00:55I'm not doing it.

0:00:55 > 0:00:58Tonight, survivalist groom Tom...

0:00:58 > 0:01:00If you get hungry, you can eat them

0:01:00 > 0:01:02but you must never eat other berries.

0:01:02 > 0:01:05..puts his skills to the test

0:01:05 > 0:01:08to plan an ambitious survival-themed wedding...

0:01:08 > 0:01:09I need camouflage netting,

0:01:09 > 0:01:12stuff like that to make it look like the apocalypse.

0:01:12 > 0:01:14..on a beautiful remote Scottish island.

0:01:14 > 0:01:15Look at that.

0:01:17 > 0:01:20While his more traditional bride-to-be Sue...

0:01:20 > 0:01:24I'm panicking now because I'm thinking, "What am I going to get?"

0:01:24 > 0:01:25Wow.

0:01:25 > 0:01:27..dreams of a big day in a stately home.

0:01:27 > 0:01:29I could just cry because I want this so bad.

0:01:29 > 0:01:32- He's planning to get back to nature...- Bloody lovely!

0:01:32 > 0:01:34..with a rugged woodland ceremony.

0:01:34 > 0:01:36It's awesome. It is awesome.

0:01:36 > 0:01:39- Can this outdoorsy groom...- Wargh!

0:01:39 > 0:01:41..pull off the wedding of a lifetime...

0:01:41 > 0:01:44Oh, my God! What are they?

0:01:44 > 0:01:45..or will his wild dreams...

0:01:45 > 0:01:46I'm freezing!

0:01:46 > 0:01:48..end in a nightmare?

0:01:48 > 0:01:50She's probably thinking, "Oh, my God, what's he done?"

0:01:50 > 0:01:53He takes us to a forest in a big puffy dress

0:01:53 > 0:01:56in the freezing cold in the middle of October.

0:02:09 > 0:02:11That's Dad's head.

0:02:11 > 0:02:13Whee!

0:02:13 > 0:02:14Is Dad silly?

0:02:14 > 0:02:19Stockton-on-Tees couple Tom and Sue slipped into each other's lives

0:02:19 > 0:02:22at an engagement party 11 years ago.

0:02:22 > 0:02:24Like that! Yeah!

0:02:24 > 0:02:27Saw this lovely-looking girl and I thought to myself, "Phwoar!"

0:02:27 > 0:02:29- And I went over and I started chatting to you, didn't I?- Yeah.

0:02:29 > 0:02:32And I showed off a little bit about my car.

0:02:32 > 0:02:36You made it out to be you had this really posh, exciting, brand-new car

0:02:36 > 0:02:38that had been ordered all the way from Italy.

0:02:38 > 0:02:42It was a Fiat Cinquecento. It was half a car. A little car.

0:02:42 > 0:02:46But Tom's little car set them on the road to a big future.

0:02:46 > 0:02:49The minute I set eyes on her, I just knew she was for me

0:02:49 > 0:02:53and every day I love you more and I didn't even think it was possible.

0:02:53 > 0:02:56He's very caring and he would do anything for anybody.

0:02:56 > 0:02:59- You are good.- Thanks.- I do love you.

0:02:59 > 0:03:03Now, love birds Sue and Tom even work together, running their own business.

0:03:03 > 0:03:06- That's 9.95, please.- Thank you very much.- Thank you very much.

0:03:06 > 0:03:09It was Sue's hobby and we turned it into an arts and crafts business.

0:03:09 > 0:03:12Enjoy. If you get stuck, give us a shout.

0:03:12 > 0:03:13Cheers.

0:03:13 > 0:03:17But if Tom's job was influenced by his fiancee's hobby,

0:03:17 > 0:03:19his own hobby is much manlier.

0:03:19 > 0:03:22Tom is a survivalist.

0:03:22 > 0:03:23It's a little survival tin.

0:03:23 > 0:03:26You get a candle and a saw, and there's a compass,

0:03:26 > 0:03:30some wire so you can catch rabbits with snares and stuff.

0:03:30 > 0:03:32- Tom!- It'll be fine. It'll be fine. - No, don't!

0:03:32 > 0:03:34Right, no! Tom!

0:03:34 > 0:03:37Tom's got this huge idea

0:03:37 > 0:03:39that there's going to be some kind of problem

0:03:39 > 0:03:42and he's going to need to survive so he has survival stuff everywhere.

0:03:42 > 0:03:43How cool is that?

0:03:43 > 0:03:46So Tom's prepared for whatever life might throw at him,

0:03:46 > 0:03:48especially since the birth of daughter Holly.

0:03:48 > 0:03:51Holly's birth was really, really difficult.

0:03:51 > 0:03:53She was stuck inside Sue for 50 hours.

0:03:53 > 0:03:56When they resuscitated her, I heard her cry,

0:03:56 > 0:03:59all my emotions came out in one go and I burst out into tears.

0:04:00 > 0:04:02It changed me on a core level.

0:04:02 > 0:04:06I think that's a lot of the reasons I'm into all this survival

0:04:06 > 0:04:09because I know that, if anything ever went wrong,

0:04:09 > 0:04:11I know that I could look after her.

0:04:11 > 0:04:12Oh, careful.

0:04:12 > 0:04:15And she could get food to eat and she'd be warm and safe.

0:04:15 > 0:04:16Yes.

0:04:16 > 0:04:17Tom knows he can provide safety

0:04:17 > 0:04:22but there is one thing he hasn't been able to provide until now.

0:04:22 > 0:04:25Every time we try to get married, something crops up.

0:04:25 > 0:04:27Holly come along,

0:04:27 > 0:04:30so it's sort of like one thing after another.

0:04:30 > 0:04:32Marriage is absolutely everything to me now

0:04:32 > 0:04:35because I've grown up with my mam and dad always being together

0:04:35 > 0:04:37until my mam died.

0:04:37 > 0:04:40It was really stable and that's what I want for Holly.

0:04:40 > 0:04:41THEY SING

0:04:41 > 0:04:45We've got a home, we've got a baby, we've got a great family.

0:04:45 > 0:04:47That is the only piece that is missing.

0:04:47 > 0:04:48Last piece of the jigsaw, isn't it?

0:04:48 > 0:04:51Having waited so long for her wedding,

0:04:51 > 0:04:54traditional girl Sue knows exactly what she wants.

0:04:54 > 0:04:56So this is my mam and dad when they got married.

0:04:56 > 0:04:59I think there, I think that's Nana's mam and dad.

0:04:59 > 0:05:01Lived in the same road all my life.

0:05:01 > 0:05:05Got to be near my family, got to be traditional.

0:05:05 > 0:05:08Just something elegant, lovely. All of our close friends

0:05:08 > 0:05:11and family there, everybody that's been there for us, to be there.

0:05:11 > 0:05:15But for ten years, Tom's dreamed of a wedding that is less storybook

0:05:15 > 0:05:17and more SAS handbook.

0:05:17 > 0:05:19It's going to be an adventure.

0:05:19 > 0:05:21We'll sort of put me skills to the test

0:05:21 > 0:05:25as well as allowing me to organise an amazing wedding.

0:05:25 > 0:05:28We just want them to have a lovely wedding but knowing Thomas,

0:05:28 > 0:05:30I haven't got a clue what he's going to do.

0:05:30 > 0:05:32He could do anything. He's a loose cannon.

0:05:32 > 0:05:33That goes over your head.

0:05:33 > 0:05:35The wedding, to me, is metaphorical,

0:05:35 > 0:05:37and that's that we've survived a lot.

0:05:37 > 0:05:39And then that goes on there like that.

0:05:39 > 0:05:41And I think she will get that.

0:05:41 > 0:05:44At least, I hope she will.

0:05:45 > 0:05:47Give me a kiss.

0:05:47 > 0:05:49Sometimes I wonder why but I don't.

0:05:49 > 0:05:51You'd think, by now, he knows what I like,

0:05:51 > 0:05:55- what I don't like, what I hate. - The pressure is unbelievable.

0:05:55 > 0:05:56So the pressure is on Tom now to...

0:05:56 > 0:05:59Honestly, if I get this wrong, I am...

0:05:59 > 0:06:01She won't admit it but I am dead in the water.

0:06:01 > 0:06:05- No, I'd make you regret it. - I've no doubt in my mind!

0:06:07 > 0:06:09It's time for the couple to say goodbye.

0:06:09 > 0:06:12- Give me kisses. - Yeah, give Dad kisses.

0:06:12 > 0:06:14On hand are their nearest and dearest.

0:06:14 > 0:06:18Baby Holly, two of Sue's bridesmaids and Tom's mum Frida.

0:06:18 > 0:06:19- Bye!- Bye-bye.

0:06:19 > 0:06:23He is just an absolute darling and I feel like she is a daughter

0:06:23 > 0:06:27to us, I don't look upon her as a daughter-in-law.

0:06:27 > 0:06:31- Be strong, because you will set me off.- I love you so much.

0:06:31 > 0:06:35- Just look after yourself. - I'll be fine. I'll be fine.

0:06:35 > 0:06:39- We will survive this, man. - Don't forget to brush your teeth.

0:06:39 > 0:06:40- Give Daddy a kiss.- Love you.

0:06:40 > 0:06:44Bye-bye, Holly, bye-bye, love you. Bye-bye!

0:06:44 > 0:06:47Tom and Sue plan to have no contact

0:06:47 > 0:06:50until their wedding day in three weeks' time.

0:06:52 > 0:06:54The first time you have been apart.

0:06:57 > 0:07:00I'll be all right, they will be all right as well. I'm hard.

0:07:00 > 0:07:01MUSIC: Walk On The Wild Side by Lou Reed

0:07:01 > 0:07:03# Hey babe Take a walk on the wild side. #

0:07:03 > 0:07:06Armed with all the wedding planning essentials,

0:07:06 > 0:07:08Tom will be staying with best man, Derek.

0:07:09 > 0:07:11Now then. All right, mate?

0:07:11 > 0:07:13Tom and Derek are old friends and workmates

0:07:13 > 0:07:18and while Tom is an action man type, Derek is a little more cautious.

0:07:18 > 0:07:20My head is going in a million different places

0:07:20 > 0:07:23- and Derek will be the voice of reason.- What is it all about?

0:07:23 > 0:07:26- It's going to be survival-themed. - Right.

0:07:26 > 0:07:29- It's going to bloody kill us but I'm going to have them camping...- Right.

0:07:29 > 0:07:32- ..in tepees.- OK, hey, yeah.

0:07:32 > 0:07:37We are going to have the wedding, hopefully, all going well,

0:07:37 > 0:07:42on an island off an island on the west coast of Scotland.

0:07:42 > 0:07:46My dad lived on Erraid which is the island I really want to go for.

0:07:46 > 0:07:50Pretty close to Scotland but it is a long way into Scotland.

0:07:50 > 0:07:52It is about ten hours altogether.

0:07:52 > 0:07:54I can see a few problems.

0:07:54 > 0:07:57I think the big one is actually just getting guests up to the wedding.

0:07:57 > 0:08:02Camping in October on a remote Scottish island won't be easy.

0:08:02 > 0:08:04I think that sounds really, really, erm...

0:08:04 > 0:08:07THEY LAUGH

0:08:07 > 0:08:10- It is really, really... - Really...

0:08:10 > 0:08:11THEY LAUGH

0:08:13 > 0:08:17Demonstrating his commitment to his survivalist theme, Tom is shunning

0:08:17 > 0:08:20creature comforts and camping out in the wilds

0:08:20 > 0:08:22of Derek's back garden.

0:08:22 > 0:08:25I used to do it when I was eight, camp in the back garden,

0:08:25 > 0:08:27but not since then. I definitely prefer it in the warm.

0:08:27 > 0:08:31And it is not just the great outdoors that is worrying Derek.

0:08:31 > 0:08:33It is just the distance.

0:08:33 > 0:08:36Could be tricky but hopefully, hopefully people will want to come.

0:08:40 > 0:08:41The next day...

0:08:43 > 0:08:44Morning.

0:08:44 > 0:08:47And thankfully, Tom has survived his first night under canvas

0:08:47 > 0:08:52but the realities of being away from his family are already hitting home.

0:08:52 > 0:08:55Missed Sue and missed Holly a lot.

0:08:55 > 0:08:58I didn't get to sleep for a while because I kept turning

0:08:58 > 0:09:00the torch on and looking at the photograph.

0:09:02 > 0:09:05Still, this is no time for sentiment.

0:09:05 > 0:09:07Road trip. Road trip!

0:09:09 > 0:09:13It's time to head off and plan a whole wedding outdoors.

0:09:13 > 0:09:16Ten hours away in Scotland on a remote Scottish island

0:09:16 > 0:09:18off another Scottish island.

0:09:20 > 0:09:23Erraid is just off the island of Mull,

0:09:23 > 0:09:27and Tom and Derek will need to catch a ferry there tomorrow morning.

0:09:27 > 0:09:30The boys have spent the night out in the Scottish wild

0:09:30 > 0:09:33but they seem to be missing a few survival essentials.

0:09:33 > 0:09:36Forgot the tin opener so I'm going to have to use a knife.

0:09:36 > 0:09:38Get your proper tin opener out.

0:09:38 > 0:09:40I thought you were going to use your teeth!

0:09:40 > 0:09:43Tom might be a little unprepared but he's a survivor

0:09:43 > 0:09:45and he is prepared to be unprepared.

0:09:45 > 0:09:48We checked and there wasn't enough tent pegs and so we had

0:09:48 > 0:09:51to improvise and the tent pegs are made out of a tree that I found

0:09:51 > 0:09:54over there and I got me little knife and I whittled it down

0:09:54 > 0:09:56- and I am proud of that. - HE LAUGHS

0:09:56 > 0:10:00She'll not have any, any idea that we are here now.

0:10:00 > 0:10:01HE CHUCKLES

0:10:06 > 0:10:10Back in civilisation, Sue is out with two of her bridesmaids

0:10:10 > 0:10:12and all thoughts are on a more elegant day.

0:10:12 > 0:10:15George Clooney has just been married.

0:10:15 > 0:10:17You know, more like a big celeb wedding.

0:10:17 > 0:10:21It says the dress she is just wearing there was £1,125

0:10:21 > 0:10:24and that is not even her wedding dress.

0:10:24 > 0:10:26I bet you'll get like a £10 dress.

0:10:26 > 0:10:29I'll probably get a dress from Primark.

0:10:29 > 0:10:31I don't know what you're laughing at,

0:10:31 > 0:10:34your dresses will be from the market or something. Half price.

0:10:34 > 0:10:35That's if you are wearing dresses.

0:10:35 > 0:10:38Do you think I will have a big bash like he does?

0:10:38 > 0:10:41The other day, my cousin came up and he was like, "You do know that

0:10:41 > 0:10:43"Tom's going to have something like a stupid Star Wars

0:10:43 > 0:10:45"or a Star Trek-themed wedding."

0:10:45 > 0:10:47I was like, "No, everyone stop saying this to me!"

0:10:49 > 0:10:52- I dread to think what he is going to have.- I know.

0:10:52 > 0:10:54I've just tried not to think.

0:10:54 > 0:10:55No, I wouldn't want to.

0:10:55 > 0:10:58If I don't think, then I can't panic.

0:10:58 > 0:10:59I wouldn't worry, Sue,

0:10:59 > 0:11:02he's not planning a futurist wedding on a different planet...

0:11:02 > 0:11:05More back in time to a different world.

0:11:07 > 0:11:10Our wedding planners have reached the ferry to the Scottish island

0:11:10 > 0:11:14of Mull, but it's soon clear that distance isn't the only tricky thing

0:11:14 > 0:11:16about Tom's survivalist wedding.

0:11:16 > 0:11:20I know my dad used to always say, "Oh, Mull, it's horrendous weather.

0:11:20 > 0:11:22"Sometimes it is beautiful, sometimes it is horrible."

0:11:22 > 0:11:26I just hope, hope, hope we get it on a beautiful day.

0:11:26 > 0:11:30I am really starting to worry now. What have I got myself into, mate?

0:11:30 > 0:11:33Right over there, started over there but hopefully, it is...

0:11:33 > 0:11:35- It's just that changeability, isn't it?- Yeah.

0:11:35 > 0:11:37MUSIC: Did You Hear The Rain by George Ezra

0:11:37 > 0:11:39# Oh, did you hear the rain?

0:11:39 > 0:11:42# Oh, the rain. #

0:11:42 > 0:11:45As the boys drive across Mull, it becomes clear that the biggest

0:11:45 > 0:11:49risk to his remote wedding plans could be the weather.

0:11:49 > 0:11:52I think it has been absolutely pouring it down, mate.

0:11:52 > 0:11:55Trust me to pick bloody Mull in late autumn.

0:11:56 > 0:12:00After a long journey, they are finally within a stone's throw

0:12:00 > 0:12:04of the tiny, remote and currently very wet island of Erraid.

0:12:04 > 0:12:07They've got sheep out there, is that sheep I can see on the side?

0:12:07 > 0:12:10They've got a few sheep, yeah, and on the right-hand side, there's the

0:12:10 > 0:12:14boat shed, that's where I want to have the party, in that boat shed.

0:12:14 > 0:12:17It brings back memories, mate, it's flooding back.

0:12:17 > 0:12:20It would be awesome if they say you can do it there, wouldn't it?

0:12:20 > 0:12:23But the weather may not be the only issue with getting married on Erraid.

0:12:23 > 0:12:27It's privately-owned so Tom needs special permission.

0:12:27 > 0:12:29Hello, it's Tom, is it possible to speak to Julia, please?

0:12:29 > 0:12:33His decade-long dream relies entirely on this phone call.

0:12:33 > 0:12:38Hi, Julia, what are the chances that we can get married on your island?

0:12:41 > 0:12:42So, too short a notice?

0:12:44 > 0:12:46Right, a year, eh?

0:12:46 > 0:12:49I have had my heart set on it for ten years, you see.

0:12:49 > 0:12:51I could just never afford it.

0:12:53 > 0:12:55I could land on the back of your island

0:12:55 > 0:12:57and you'd never have to see me.

0:12:57 > 0:13:00We'd go to your high point, we'd have a little ceremony

0:13:00 > 0:13:03with ten people and then shoot off somewhere else and have a party.

0:13:03 > 0:13:05And you could all come.

0:13:08 > 0:13:10It is just absolutely devastating.

0:13:13 > 0:13:15I'm going to pass you on to my best man

0:13:15 > 0:13:18cos I'm getting a little bit emotional. Here he is.

0:13:21 > 0:13:23He's, er, he can't cope.

0:13:26 > 0:13:28Three weeks isn't enough notice.

0:13:28 > 0:13:32And just like that, Tom's island wedding dream sinks without a trace.

0:13:33 > 0:13:35TOM SIGHS AND CRIES

0:13:38 > 0:13:40He's been focusing on it for ten years.

0:13:40 > 0:13:44He's going to want to find something different, quickly now, I think.

0:13:44 > 0:13:45Just hope he can move on.

0:13:47 > 0:13:50I'm tired and I'm emotional and I'm stressed.

0:13:51 > 0:13:55I just want it to be perfect for her, do you know what I mean?

0:13:55 > 0:13:57Got my heart set on that so much as well, mate.

0:13:59 > 0:14:01Imagine if we were going to have it on a day like this

0:14:01 > 0:14:03- but a bit more sun, do you know what I mean?- Yeah.

0:14:03 > 0:14:05Not as much wind, just beautiful.

0:14:09 > 0:14:12The next morning, after another night under canvas,

0:14:12 > 0:14:14Tom has a whole new outlook.

0:14:14 > 0:14:18I think I just built it up in my head for a number of years.

0:14:18 > 0:14:21"Oh, yeah, I'm getting married on Erraid." But when I think about it,

0:14:21 > 0:14:25it's not really that important, the island.

0:14:25 > 0:14:27In fact, I don't think it is important at all.

0:14:27 > 0:14:30What I think is important is getting married in a beautiful place

0:14:30 > 0:14:35with the person that I love and Mull is one of the most beautiful

0:14:35 > 0:14:38places on earth. It is just amazing.

0:14:43 > 0:14:46Tom has decided to hold the big day on the Isle of Mull,

0:14:46 > 0:14:49but before our wedding planners head off to find somewhere suitable...

0:14:49 > 0:14:51I'll have a wash in the tree, I think.

0:14:51 > 0:14:54..Tom needs to survive his early-morning shower.

0:14:54 > 0:14:58I get naked and I rub myself in the leaves and shake all the trees

0:14:58 > 0:14:59so all the water falls on us.

0:14:59 > 0:15:03I mean it's pouring down anyway so should be good fun.

0:15:03 > 0:15:05TOM LAUGHS

0:15:05 > 0:15:07MUSIC: Oxford Comma by Vampire Weekend

0:15:09 > 0:15:10What's it like in there, Tom?

0:15:10 > 0:15:13- Bloody lovely. - HE CHUCKLES

0:15:13 > 0:15:14Cold!

0:15:24 > 0:15:27So, the Scottish island wedding is back on,

0:15:27 > 0:15:30but down in Stockton, sticking close to home,

0:15:30 > 0:15:34Sue is with Tom's mum Frida and family friend Joan, showing them

0:15:34 > 0:15:36where she would get married if she was in charge.

0:15:36 > 0:15:40- Wow, Holly, look at this.- Look at this, Holly, isn't it beautiful?

0:15:40 > 0:15:43A local stately home.

0:15:43 > 0:15:47This is just perfect and there are so many memories here as well.

0:15:47 > 0:15:49There's memories of me being younger

0:15:49 > 0:15:51and with, like, all my nieces and nephews

0:15:51 > 0:15:54and then when I met Tom and we were always at Preston Park.

0:15:54 > 0:15:56It is a beautiful place, it really is.

0:15:58 > 0:15:59Oh, God.

0:15:59 > 0:16:02But Tom's wedding plans are a world today. Well, 300 miles away

0:16:02 > 0:16:05and a lot less sheltered.

0:16:05 > 0:16:07Set on having his survivalist wedding on Mull,

0:16:07 > 0:16:10he is on the hunt for a suitable location.

0:16:10 > 0:16:12I mean, look. Look at that.

0:16:12 > 0:16:15And he's just found a rugged stretch of beach.

0:16:15 > 0:16:17First impressions of this place, mate?

0:16:17 > 0:16:19It is a breathtaking scenery, without a doubt.

0:16:19 > 0:16:21I think it is absolutely unbelievable.

0:16:24 > 0:16:28- If we can have the party in that building over there...- Yeah.

0:16:28 > 0:16:31..it'd be brilliant to have the ceremony in the middle of there,

0:16:31 > 0:16:34but it would depend on the weather. I mean, sure, we could do something.

0:16:34 > 0:16:37I'm just really concerned about how exposed it is.

0:16:37 > 0:16:41That is the one worry that I've got, is how exposed it is.

0:16:41 > 0:16:44At the stately home, Sue is getting cosy

0:16:44 > 0:16:46and thinking of a weatherproof wedding.

0:16:46 > 0:16:49This is really comfortable. It doesn't matter what it would be

0:16:49 > 0:16:52doing outside, if it'd be snowing, raining.

0:16:52 > 0:16:55As long as you were in here, you wouldn't have a care.

0:16:55 > 0:16:57It is really cosy, isn't it?

0:16:57 > 0:17:00And it is warm, I don't know, I think if it was raining, it would

0:17:00 > 0:17:03make it more cosy, anyway, wouldn't it? Yeah.

0:17:03 > 0:17:05Raining outside but you are nice

0:17:05 > 0:17:07and warm inside and enjoying yourself.

0:17:08 > 0:17:10I love it.

0:17:10 > 0:17:12Up on the rugged coast of Scotland,

0:17:12 > 0:17:15Tom's survivalist wedding is coming to life.

0:17:15 > 0:17:19If we had it in there, mate, we could really make it look survival.

0:17:19 > 0:17:22We could put like, erm, camouflage netting on it

0:17:22 > 0:17:25and stuff or maybe up the sides, hang it on the front

0:17:25 > 0:17:28and have the insides all camo-ed inside.

0:17:28 > 0:17:32And all oil drums as barbecues.

0:17:32 > 0:17:35- It is a bit slopey all around it, that is the thing, isn't it?- Yeah.

0:17:35 > 0:17:38- But as long as you've got somewhere to sleep...- Yeah.

0:17:38 > 0:17:43..something to drink, food in your belly, good company, music

0:17:43 > 0:17:46and you're warm and you're with your friends in a beautiful place

0:17:46 > 0:17:48like this, does it really matter,

0:17:48 > 0:17:50the niggledy-piggledies here and there?

0:17:50 > 0:17:51It does a bit.

0:17:51 > 0:17:56For bride-to-be Sue, a wedding is all about the niggledy-piggledy bits.

0:17:56 > 0:17:58I would love, like, a prawn cocktail starter,

0:17:58 > 0:18:00then beef and vegetables dinner

0:18:00 > 0:18:04and then, like, profiteroles for your dessert.

0:18:04 > 0:18:07I'd love it to have all the traditional round tables

0:18:07 > 0:18:09with the white cloths over.

0:18:09 > 0:18:13There's just so much detail in everything, isn't there?

0:18:13 > 0:18:14Wow.

0:18:14 > 0:18:18The boys have found the beach-side campsite for the guest accommodation.

0:18:18 > 0:18:21But are still on the hunt for the perfect wedding venue.

0:18:21 > 0:18:23- Hello, I'm getting married.- Yes?

0:18:23 > 0:18:26So they have come to a nearby farm set in acres of picturesque woodland.

0:18:26 > 0:18:28MUSIC: Wild Wood by Paul Weller

0:18:28 > 0:18:30# ...Of the wild wild wood. #

0:18:30 > 0:18:34I love the idea of putting up the family in giant tepees...

0:18:34 > 0:18:37- Right.- ..in the campsite so they will stay the first night,

0:18:37 > 0:18:42we will feed them and then the next day, me and Sue will get married.

0:18:42 > 0:18:45What I'm after, it sounds a bit mad, doesn't it?

0:18:45 > 0:18:47- It does, very, very mad.- OK.

0:18:47 > 0:18:51- I'm after a survival-themed wedding cos I am into survival.- Right, OK.

0:18:51 > 0:18:53- It's got to look the part... - All right.

0:18:53 > 0:18:56..so if it's anywhere that I get, I want to try and dress it up

0:18:56 > 0:18:58- with camouflage netting... - That's no problem.

0:18:58 > 0:19:02- ..and tables made out of big wire spools.- Fantastic.

0:19:02 > 0:19:03If I show you round here...

0:19:03 > 0:19:05Out the back of the farm,

0:19:05 > 0:19:08Tom is falling in love with the outdoors all over again.

0:19:08 > 0:19:09This is amazing. I love it,

0:19:09 > 0:19:11it's took my breath away, actually, it really has.

0:19:11 > 0:19:14I mean, if you get a beautiful day and you are lucky

0:19:14 > 0:19:18and the weather is fantastic, then it's all going to be open air.

0:19:18 > 0:19:20If the skies open,

0:19:20 > 0:19:24then the exhibition building behind you is literally a backup.

0:19:24 > 0:19:28It's a sensible option and one that appeals to practical best man Derek.

0:19:28 > 0:19:31But it is not exactly Tom's outdoor dream.

0:19:31 > 0:19:33I know it's not the sort of place you are looking for,

0:19:33 > 0:19:36- but an indoor option is... - It's beautiful but it doesn't say

0:19:36 > 0:19:38survival, but maybe the outdoor bit in the woods might.

0:19:38 > 0:19:41You need somewhere to think of as an inside option,

0:19:41 > 0:19:43just in case it is absolutely tanking it down.

0:19:43 > 0:19:46And you don't want Sue there, bedraggled, soaked through,

0:19:46 > 0:19:49with flowers dropping out of her hair, do you?

0:19:49 > 0:19:53If it's raining outside, you're going to be in here, nice and warm.

0:19:53 > 0:19:57- This is just everything I want. - Do you know what it is? It's so you.

0:19:57 > 0:20:01I love it. I absolutely love it. I'm really worried now.

0:20:01 > 0:20:03I could just cry because I want this so bad.

0:20:03 > 0:20:05Does he really know what I want?

0:20:05 > 0:20:08Sue's stately home dream has even made Tom's mother,

0:20:08 > 0:20:11- Frida, anxious.- I've known for years, Sue has always said

0:20:11 > 0:20:15she wanted to get married here, hasn't she? I'm really anxious.

0:20:15 > 0:20:19Part of us is thinking, it's my son, I know he'll pull it off,

0:20:19 > 0:20:21but the other part of us is saying,

0:20:21 > 0:20:23it's my son and I know what he's like.

0:20:23 > 0:20:25Oh, look at the little fairy stairs.

0:20:25 > 0:20:28Can you imagine bringing Holly up here, though?

0:20:28 > 0:20:33Take her up and... This is brilliant. This reminds us...

0:20:33 > 0:20:35It sounds really stupid, but it reminds us of

0:20:35 > 0:20:37Lord Of The Rings or something, doesn't it?

0:20:37 > 0:20:41It's like, it's awesome. It is awesome.

0:20:41 > 0:20:44And what could be more awesome than a Hobbit-style bridal suite

0:20:44 > 0:20:49made from wreckage and driftwood perched at the end of civilisation?

0:20:49 > 0:20:54This is unbelievable. Look at the boat!

0:20:54 > 0:20:56I'm gobsmacked.

0:20:56 > 0:20:59I'm speechless. I really am. I'm speechless.

0:20:59 > 0:21:02- Smell of a wood stove as well. - That's right.- You're not kidding.

0:21:02 > 0:21:04I could live in a place like this.

0:21:04 > 0:21:08This is Sue, this is Sue, this really is Sue. I like it.

0:21:08 > 0:21:10I don't want to go to the other places. I like it.

0:21:12 > 0:21:13Decision made.

0:21:13 > 0:21:16Traditional bride, Sue, faces a Scottish woodland wedding,

0:21:16 > 0:21:21then a nippy night in a secluded beach hut. Luxury.

0:21:21 > 0:21:23Well, at least compared to the guests,

0:21:23 > 0:21:26who'll be sleeping in tepees on the beach in October.

0:21:27 > 0:21:32You couldn't get more isolated than this place if you tried.

0:21:32 > 0:21:37We're literally as far away from civilisation as you can get.

0:21:37 > 0:21:40This is the perfect castaway place, isn't it? Really.

0:21:40 > 0:21:44Tom forks out on the first major purchase of his £14,000 budget.

0:21:44 > 0:21:47£2,380 for the entire venue.

0:21:47 > 0:21:49Thanks, very, very, very, very much.

0:21:49 > 0:21:53Which includes the woodland glade for the wedding ceremony,

0:21:53 > 0:21:55an indoor function room in case of bad weather

0:21:55 > 0:21:59and the Hobbit-y hut as a cosy bridal suite for the wedding night.

0:21:59 > 0:22:02So, survival style wedding it is.

0:22:05 > 0:22:07Next day, by ship and by road,

0:22:07 > 0:22:12the boys take the long road back to Stockton and Tom's garden retreat.

0:22:12 > 0:22:16It looks like someone else could have used a few of Tom's survival tips.

0:22:16 > 0:22:22Ah! Poor little thing. I'm sure he'll get eaten by something.

0:22:22 > 0:22:26But Tom barely has time to settle in when Sue desperately needs to

0:22:26 > 0:22:28- get in touch with him. - That's for Tom.

0:22:28 > 0:22:31Tell him to keep calm and stop stressing.

0:22:31 > 0:22:34- Tell him everything is going to be fine.- I will.

0:22:34 > 0:22:38She's got some huge life-changing news, but the bride and groom

0:22:38 > 0:22:42aren't allowed any contact, so Tom's mum, Frida, will act as go-between.

0:22:42 > 0:22:44I think he's going to be shocked.

0:22:44 > 0:22:47I think all the emotions he's going through at the moment,

0:22:47 > 0:22:48I suppose it's hard to say.

0:22:50 > 0:22:52But I think he's going to probably cry.

0:22:54 > 0:22:57- Can I have a word with you?- What? What's up?

0:22:57 > 0:23:00Right, don't panic. Read that.

0:23:02 > 0:23:05To my amazing fiance, Tom.

0:23:05 > 0:23:09I hope you're well, although I know you will be stressed

0:23:09 > 0:23:10and stropping, yes.

0:23:23 > 0:23:25She's pregnant again.

0:23:25 > 0:23:29Congratulations, son. Don't cry.

0:23:29 > 0:23:31- I'm not going to cry. - Congratulations.

0:23:31 > 0:23:34You're going to have a baby sister or brother.

0:23:34 > 0:23:35I hope it's an easy birth.

0:23:35 > 0:23:38Jesus! I hope she's going to be all right.

0:23:38 > 0:23:42It's great news, but also scary after the complicated birth

0:23:42 > 0:23:44of the couple's first daughter, Holly.

0:23:44 > 0:23:47Will he be crying? Will he be happy? Will he be sad?

0:23:51 > 0:23:52Oh, no!

0:23:57 > 0:24:01I don't think anybody expected me to have a second child. No way.

0:24:02 > 0:24:06I'm absolutely speechless, to be totally honest with you. I'm, erm...

0:24:08 > 0:24:11I need a pint, I think. I need a pint.

0:24:11 > 0:24:13I think I'm going to go and have a pint.

0:24:13 > 0:24:16So much for, like, mad ideas for her hen night.

0:24:18 > 0:24:21We'll have to do something sensible, I think. Damn!

0:24:21 > 0:24:24I was going to get her with that one.

0:24:24 > 0:24:26In need of a good night's sleep, survivalist, Tom,

0:24:26 > 0:24:30has caved in and dismantled his garden tent.

0:24:30 > 0:24:32With the responsibility of a growing family,

0:24:32 > 0:24:36as well as planning a wedding, Tom needs to be on top form.

0:24:36 > 0:24:39I didn't really want to, but I spent the night in a bed last night

0:24:39 > 0:24:43and it was the most comfortable bed I've ever had in the world

0:24:43 > 0:24:45and I feel much better today.

0:24:45 > 0:24:49I still feel a bit under the weather, but I'm hard.

0:24:49 > 0:24:52He is hard and he's got a wedding to plan for a pregnant bride.

0:24:54 > 0:24:56So, he's off to the survival shop.

0:24:58 > 0:25:01I'm after buying some bits for my wedding

0:25:01 > 0:25:05and I need mess tins, plates, that type of thing.

0:25:05 > 0:25:08- They are like £7 for two. - To cater for 50.

0:25:08 > 0:25:10I don't want to have exactly the same,

0:25:10 > 0:25:13I want to like mix them with some plates...

0:25:13 > 0:25:17Yeah, I mean, we've got these old-fashioned military issue ones.

0:25:17 > 0:25:19They're brilliant. I need camo netting, as well.

0:25:19 > 0:25:22That comes to £390.

0:25:22 > 0:25:25Brilliant! Thank you very, very much.

0:25:25 > 0:25:28Determined to make the most of his budget,

0:25:28 > 0:25:32Tom's making savings turning pallets into outdoor seating.

0:25:35 > 0:25:38Now I've bought the wrong sized nails here,

0:25:38 > 0:25:40so what I'll do is I'll angle grind them off.

0:25:40 > 0:25:42It's a manly tool. In fact, I'll do it now.

0:25:42 > 0:25:44Isn't it just?

0:25:45 > 0:25:48But when it comes down to it, even a hardened survivalist like Tom

0:25:48 > 0:25:51is a big softie on the inside.

0:25:51 > 0:25:54- That's a lovely little locket, that. - If you got it engraved...

0:25:54 > 0:25:58The reason I'm doing it is Sue's mam passed away - me bride.

0:25:58 > 0:26:00So I'm going to put a picture of her mam in one side

0:26:00 > 0:26:03- and her mam and dad in the other. - That's nice.

0:26:03 > 0:26:05So at least her mam will be watching over her.

0:26:05 > 0:26:08- Will you do us a deal on it? - We will do you a deal.

0:26:08 > 0:26:11- Instead of 42 you can have it for 35.- Deal, thank you.

0:26:11 > 0:26:14I appreciate that. Cheers. You're gonna make a girl very happy.

0:26:14 > 0:26:18Tom's survivalist wedding is starting to take shape.

0:26:18 > 0:26:21So midway through week two of wedding planning,

0:26:21 > 0:26:24it's time to get his survivalist hairstyle into shape too.

0:26:24 > 0:26:27I normally have a bald head anyway.

0:26:27 > 0:26:30It's just I've been so busy, over the last few weeks,

0:26:30 > 0:26:33I just haven't had a chance

0:26:33 > 0:26:36and I'm too tight to go and pay like 15 quid for a hair cut.

0:26:36 > 0:26:39Tom's gone for a budget-boosting Army buzz cut

0:26:39 > 0:26:41because things are about to get serious

0:26:41 > 0:26:43with his toughest challenge yet.

0:26:43 > 0:26:45Buying Sue's wedding dress.

0:26:45 > 0:26:49How far will his survival instincts take him now?

0:26:49 > 0:26:51You know what you're getting then?

0:26:51 > 0:26:53I haven't got a clue. I know nowt about dresses!

0:26:53 > 0:26:56- It's got to be white, though, I know that.- It's got to be white.

0:26:56 > 0:26:58- I might change my mind when I get in, like.- Yeah.

0:26:58 > 0:26:59- Hiya.- Nice to meet you.

0:26:59 > 0:27:02I'm after a wedding dress for my bride-to-be

0:27:02 > 0:27:05and I haven't got a clue, basically!

0:27:05 > 0:27:08- Right, is she curvaceous? - She's pregnant again.

0:27:08 > 0:27:11Whether she likes bling, or doesn't, or whether she likes lace...

0:27:11 > 0:27:14- I mean, I don't want it to look like a pair of net curtains.- Yeah.

0:27:14 > 0:27:17- Although it would save me budget. - THEY LAUGH

0:27:17 > 0:27:20Out of the three I like that one.

0:27:20 > 0:27:22Sue has no say in her wedding dress

0:27:22 > 0:27:25but she's with Tom's mum Frida and family friend, Joan,

0:27:25 > 0:27:30fantasising about what she would choose if she were in charge.

0:27:30 > 0:27:32So I want something that's going to, like, maybe be fitted

0:27:32 > 0:27:35and hide my waist but then puff out a little bit

0:27:35 > 0:27:37but not like a big meringue.

0:27:37 > 0:27:39So not like a big meringue!

0:27:42 > 0:27:44I like the detail on that.

0:27:44 > 0:27:45- That's nice.- Yeah.

0:27:45 > 0:27:48I like the way it goes out at the side.

0:27:50 > 0:27:53Can you do a Bruce Forsyth, give us a twirl?

0:27:53 > 0:27:56Unaware of how Sue's body shape may be changing now she's pregnant,

0:27:56 > 0:27:59Tom's looking at dresses which offer little support.

0:27:59 > 0:28:01It looks really nice, actually.

0:28:01 > 0:28:04- We're worried about your breasts. - Yeah, they're growing at the minute.

0:28:04 > 0:28:06So it's just all ridiculous.

0:28:06 > 0:28:09I think I'd feel comfortable in something like that.

0:28:09 > 0:28:12- What we'll do is we'll try a strapless one, as well.- Yeah.

0:28:12 > 0:28:13And then try this and see how you feel,

0:28:13 > 0:28:15- see which you feel more comfortable in.- Yeah.

0:28:17 > 0:28:20- Oh, God.- Oh, my... I keeping putting my hand...

0:28:20 > 0:28:22I love this one and I love the bling

0:28:22 > 0:28:24but it's...quite tight around my stomach

0:28:24 > 0:28:25and you can see a bump.

0:28:25 > 0:28:30Finding a wedding when pregnant has its challenges.

0:28:30 > 0:28:33- You can see it.- It has got a bit of a bump on that one.

0:28:33 > 0:28:36It's my boobs, isn't it? They're growing.

0:28:36 > 0:28:40- Can you imagine if he picked one that...- I'd be devastated.- Yeah.

0:28:40 > 0:28:42She's got big boobs

0:28:42 > 0:28:44so will it not make her look like she's hanging out?

0:28:44 > 0:28:47It depends if she wants to cover them,

0:28:47 > 0:28:49or you could always put a piece across.

0:28:49 > 0:28:51I don't think she'll want to cover them

0:28:51 > 0:28:53but she'll not want to look like...

0:28:53 > 0:28:54You are the best to judge.

0:28:54 > 0:28:57Oh, God. No pressure!

0:28:57 > 0:28:59- Screwed then, Tom.- Oh, God!

0:29:01 > 0:29:03- Oh, my God!- Oh!

0:29:04 > 0:29:09My God, Sue, that's beautiful.

0:29:09 > 0:29:12She's finally found a dress she loves.

0:29:12 > 0:29:14I love it. I feel so happy.

0:29:14 > 0:29:16I feel so confident in this dress

0:29:16 > 0:29:18and now I'm getting really, really excited.

0:29:18 > 0:29:20Look at this...

0:29:20 > 0:29:22Meanwhile the boys are seeing double.

0:29:22 > 0:29:25- Two at once is too much. - THEY CHUCKLE

0:29:25 > 0:29:27I really like that, actually, because it's really elegant

0:29:27 > 0:29:31- and really nice.- Elegance is good for a wedding dress I would say.

0:29:31 > 0:29:34That's a good emotion to have when looking at one.

0:29:34 > 0:29:36Jeez, what am I gonna do?

0:29:36 > 0:29:39So the decision is between one strapless dress

0:29:39 > 0:29:41and another strapless dress.

0:29:41 > 0:29:43How will he survive?

0:29:43 > 0:29:45TOM SIGHS

0:29:45 > 0:29:48What if Tom gets it wrong?

0:29:48 > 0:29:51What are you gonna do? What would you do?

0:29:51 > 0:29:52Would you still wear it?

0:29:52 > 0:29:54I'd have to wear it because he's chose it

0:29:54 > 0:29:56and it's what he thought.

0:29:56 > 0:29:59Now I'm panicking, thinking, what am I gonna get?

0:29:59 > 0:30:01I really like that one.

0:30:01 > 0:30:03I love that princess dress.

0:30:03 > 0:30:06That is so stylish, that one. It's so beautiful.

0:30:06 > 0:30:08I've decided. I like that one, definitely.

0:30:08 > 0:30:10That is amazing.

0:30:10 > 0:30:12Tom's picked a dress.

0:30:12 > 0:30:15Full in the skirt, fitted at the waist with little to no support

0:30:15 > 0:30:18for his pregnant bride-to-be.

0:30:18 > 0:30:20- Oh, come on, darling.- Sorry.

0:30:20 > 0:30:24No, don't apologise.

0:30:24 > 0:30:25I've been telling her anyway.

0:30:29 > 0:30:31It's just been an emotional rollercoaster.

0:30:31 > 0:30:34I think that's made her feel better today, seeing the dresses.

0:30:34 > 0:30:38Obviously, she wants her mum, which, you know, that's normal.

0:30:39 > 0:30:42Wedding dress challenge complete, and Sue's dress,

0:30:42 > 0:30:47shoes and accessories are in the bag for just over £800.

0:30:47 > 0:30:50I'm absolutely buzzing with that dress.

0:30:50 > 0:30:51I think I've got a good price.

0:30:51 > 0:30:53Although, it doesn't leave much of my budget

0:30:53 > 0:30:55for five bridesmaids' dresses.

0:30:57 > 0:31:00Buying a dress for one woman was tough enough,

0:31:00 > 0:31:02but for five it's even harder.

0:31:02 > 0:31:04With time and budget running out,

0:31:04 > 0:31:08Tom and Derek go on the hunt for the bridesmaids' outfits.

0:31:08 > 0:31:10- Oh, mate, what am I going to do? - What do you reckon, Tom?

0:31:10 > 0:31:12Something like that, it's bright.

0:31:12 > 0:31:15- They're going to look like prawns! - DEREK CHUCKLES

0:31:15 > 0:31:18What about nice, floral things?

0:31:20 > 0:31:22Eh, now this is the one, mate, I've got it.

0:31:22 > 0:31:25Any bridesmaid would feel really special to wear that

0:31:25 > 0:31:27to a main event.

0:31:27 > 0:31:31For man's man Tom, women's fashion isn't his area of expertise.

0:31:31 > 0:31:35Luckily, best man Derek is on hand with some practical advice.

0:31:35 > 0:31:38My experience of going to weddings is, the bridesmaids are always

0:31:38 > 0:31:41dressed in pa-ching over the top colours, anyway.

0:31:41 > 0:31:44It seems to be the way it is. Then the bride looks nicer.

0:31:44 > 0:31:46It's all about making the bride look great.

0:31:48 > 0:31:52The options might be limited but the boys need to make a decision quickly.

0:31:52 > 0:31:55They might be nice on but we've no way of telling that

0:31:55 > 0:31:58- unless we buy them. - Look at the price of that, man!

0:31:58 > 0:32:00And a bargain's a bargain.

0:32:02 > 0:32:06Back at Sue and Tom's shop, the bridesmaids, including Sue's nieces

0:32:06 > 0:32:10Kelsey and Becky have assembled to try on their £11 dresses.

0:32:11 > 0:32:13If they start... Just...

0:32:13 > 0:32:15They can come in their jeans and their T-shirts, I'm not bothered.

0:32:15 > 0:32:17As long as Sue looks like a princess,

0:32:17 > 0:32:20- that's all that matters to me. - TOM SNIFFLES

0:32:20 > 0:32:24What will the girls make of their discount pink numbers?

0:32:24 > 0:32:26Oh, my God!

0:32:26 > 0:32:28- Tom, what are they? - That's disgusting.

0:32:28 > 0:32:30- No, that's horrible. - Just try them on.

0:32:30 > 0:32:33I don't know what sizes are but there's a few for youse.

0:32:33 > 0:32:35I got different sizes.

0:32:35 > 0:32:37They look beautiful on.

0:32:37 > 0:32:40I'm not being horrible, I wouldn't even wear that to a job interview.

0:32:40 > 0:32:43Becky, man, it's not as bad as you think, man!

0:32:43 > 0:32:45I don't think you've tried hard enough.

0:32:45 > 0:32:49I have been everywhere, I have worked my balls off.

0:32:49 > 0:32:52- Yeah, but you know what a bridesmaid dress looks like.- It's not...

0:32:52 > 0:32:54It's a bloody different wedding.

0:32:54 > 0:32:56You've probably gone to boring weddings.

0:32:56 > 0:33:00- We're talking about me, you nah.- No, Tom, it's not a bridesmaid dress.

0:33:00 > 0:33:02- Go on. Just... - It's not a bridesmaid dress.

0:33:02 > 0:33:04Bridesmaids' dresses are whatever the hell I want them to be!

0:33:04 > 0:33:07Now go and try 'em on and I'll come back!

0:33:07 > 0:33:10- Bloody hell!- Oh, my God.

0:33:10 > 0:33:11Oh, my God.

0:33:15 > 0:33:19I've tried. I'm a bloke. How was it going to turn out?

0:33:19 > 0:33:21It was going to turn out crap.

0:33:21 > 0:33:24You know, I've got enough on me plate to be totally honest with you.

0:33:24 > 0:33:28It's a nervous wait for the girls' final verdict.

0:33:28 > 0:33:31DOOR CREAKS OPEN

0:33:31 > 0:33:32Don't say they look good, Tom.

0:33:32 > 0:33:34- They look all right.- Really?

0:33:34 > 0:33:37- They look lovely. If you saw them! - We can see them, Tom.

0:33:37 > 0:33:39I can see them on other people!

0:33:39 > 0:33:42- Are you going to wear it for Sue, or not?- It feels like a towel.

0:33:42 > 0:33:44Are you going to wear it or not?

0:33:44 > 0:33:46- You're making it like... - Are you gonna wear it?

0:33:46 > 0:33:49- If it's for Sue.- It is for Sue, who else is it for, it's not for me!

0:33:51 > 0:33:55Tom has no idea if the girls will wear the dresses, or not.

0:33:55 > 0:33:56I'm trying me best.

0:33:56 > 0:33:59If it's not good enough then buy their own dresses.

0:33:59 > 0:34:02I've only got a certain amount of money.

0:34:05 > 0:34:07So time for an urgent budget check.

0:34:07 > 0:34:09We'll be able to save some money there.

0:34:09 > 0:34:11We're going to get them to jump on the bus.

0:34:11 > 0:34:15Having shelled out on camping gear, supplies and three tepees

0:34:15 > 0:34:18for the guests, there's just over £3,000 left

0:34:18 > 0:34:20to pay for all the transport to the island.

0:34:20 > 0:34:22Still..at least Derek's got the cake covered.

0:34:22 > 0:34:24I've got no experience of making a wedding cake

0:34:24 > 0:34:26but it's exactly the same as a Christmas cake

0:34:26 > 0:34:28and I make a Christmas cake every year.

0:34:28 > 0:34:30Well, that's that sorted.

0:34:30 > 0:34:33Derek might be in charge of baking but Tom's determined to

0:34:33 > 0:34:36have his cake and eat it when it comes to the bridesmaids.

0:34:36 > 0:34:39Please, please, pick on the bridesmaids.

0:34:39 > 0:34:41And he's got a spooky hen do in mind.

0:34:41 > 0:34:44That'll be so funny, scare them as much as you want.

0:34:44 > 0:34:46In fact, the more you scare them, the better.

0:34:46 > 0:34:50Tom's booking separate coaches to take the bridal party and guests

0:34:50 > 0:34:54to Scotland but he wants to keep the destination under wraps

0:34:54 > 0:34:56and he has a cunning plan.

0:34:56 > 0:34:58- Can you shut the curtains on this bus?- I can, yes.

0:34:58 > 0:35:00Is there a way where we can shut the curtains

0:35:00 > 0:35:02so they don't know where they're going?

0:35:02 > 0:35:05- Not on the windscreen. - I never thought of that!

0:35:05 > 0:35:08That's a bit of a stupid idea, isn't it, really?

0:35:08 > 0:35:11That was a blonde moment - no offence.

0:35:11 > 0:35:15Tom books a coach for his guests, a minibus for the wedding party

0:35:15 > 0:35:21and a ferry to get everyone to Mull for the princely sum of £2,300

0:35:21 > 0:35:26taking a huge chunk out of his already dwindling budget.

0:35:29 > 0:35:32With the wedding just three days away, Tom needs to be heading

0:35:32 > 0:35:36back to Scotland to prepare for his outdoor wedding.

0:35:36 > 0:35:38But all plans are on hold.

0:35:38 > 0:35:40I hope to God everything's all right.

0:35:40 > 0:35:43All rules are set aside

0:35:43 > 0:35:47so the bride and groom can both attend an early scan.

0:35:47 > 0:35:49- SUE CRIES - Are you all right?

0:35:49 > 0:35:52Because of the complications at her first birth,

0:35:52 > 0:35:55Sue's pregnancy is considered high risk.

0:35:57 > 0:35:59Don't cry, cos you'll set me off.

0:35:59 > 0:36:02I'm really nervous about this.

0:36:02 > 0:36:04You're all right, I'm with you. Right.

0:36:04 > 0:36:06We've got to see a consultant

0:36:06 > 0:36:09and I'm classed as high risk cos of Holly's birth.

0:36:13 > 0:36:16It's a nervous moment for the couple.

0:36:16 > 0:36:18So does the baby in your opinion look healthy?

0:36:21 > 0:36:23For this stage, it looks perfect.

0:36:23 > 0:36:26Thank God for that!

0:36:26 > 0:36:28I'm just so relieved, Sue.

0:36:29 > 0:36:31- Are you all right?- Yeah.

0:36:31 > 0:36:34You don't realise how relieved I feel.

0:36:34 > 0:36:36You're not the only one!

0:36:38 > 0:36:42I'm all right. I'm tough.

0:36:42 > 0:36:44There's been no mention of the wedding

0:36:44 > 0:36:47and Tom's happy that Sue and their baby are safe.

0:36:47 > 0:36:51I feel like I have got a house lifted off my shoulders.

0:36:51 > 0:36:53Now I can try and organise a wedding!

0:36:54 > 0:36:56Everything's all right.

0:36:57 > 0:37:00There's a photo for Uncle Jamie to have a look at.

0:37:02 > 0:37:05He now takes the long journey to Scotland to put the final touches

0:37:05 > 0:37:10to his remote, wild, woodland wedding on the Isle of Mull.

0:37:11 > 0:37:15After the good news of the scan, Sue can enjoy a night out with her mates.

0:37:15 > 0:37:18- Right, Kels, have you got your bag?- Yeah.

0:37:18 > 0:37:23Tom's organised a hen do in York, starting in its famous dungeon.

0:37:25 > 0:37:26We're going to the dungeons!

0:37:29 > 0:37:31It's going to be good.

0:37:31 > 0:37:34Welcome to the York Dungeon!

0:37:36 > 0:37:38ALL SCREAM

0:37:42 > 0:37:44Now you, what be your name?

0:37:45 > 0:37:47Becky!

0:37:47 > 0:37:50You look like you like to mix stuff, Becky.

0:37:50 > 0:37:51THEY LAUGH

0:37:51 > 0:37:54THEY SCREAM

0:37:56 > 0:37:58Becky was in the way of everybody and getting picked on.

0:37:58 > 0:38:02It was good, though. I think we all enjoyed it. It's been really good.

0:38:04 > 0:38:08The hens have survived the ghosts and now they're moving on to the spirits.

0:38:08 > 0:38:11Except Sue, of course, who's sticking to the soft drinks.

0:38:11 > 0:38:12I did not expect to be in York,

0:38:12 > 0:38:15I expected to be in Stockton somewhere in a really cheap pub.

0:38:15 > 0:38:18I'm really proud of him, he's done really well.

0:38:18 > 0:38:21And now I'm just excited to see what the wedding's got to bring now.

0:38:21 > 0:38:24Sue loves Tom's choice of venue for the hen do

0:38:24 > 0:38:28but how will she feel about a remote island in Scotland for the wedding?

0:38:31 > 0:38:33Next morning on the Isle of Mull

0:38:33 > 0:38:36and Tom's vision of a survivalist wedding is coming together.

0:38:36 > 0:38:39# I see the pale moon rising... #

0:38:39 > 0:38:42How are you doing, fella? Come here.

0:38:42 > 0:38:45Yes! Whoo! We're here!

0:38:45 > 0:38:47How cool are they?

0:38:47 > 0:38:48They are amazing!

0:38:48 > 0:38:51With just 48 hours to go until the wedding...

0:38:51 > 0:38:53Do you want to come over and see what we're staying in?

0:38:53 > 0:38:57..the sun is out, spirits are high and the tepees are up.

0:38:57 > 0:38:59Back in Stockton...

0:38:59 > 0:39:01- Are you nervous?- Are you nervous?

0:39:01 > 0:39:04Sue has no idea she'll be getting married outdoors on an island.

0:39:04 > 0:39:08But she is about to see the dress she'll be wearing on it.

0:39:09 > 0:39:12She hoped to feel like a princess.

0:39:12 > 0:39:16So what will she make of Tom's choice of dress for her big day?

0:39:21 > 0:39:23THEY GASP

0:39:23 > 0:39:25Oh, Sue!

0:39:30 > 0:39:32300 miles away on the remote island of Mull,

0:39:32 > 0:39:35the lack of phone signal is proving tricky.

0:39:35 > 0:39:37Tom, Tom. Have you heard anything from Sue?

0:39:37 > 0:39:40She was putting the dress on this morning, wasn't she?

0:39:40 > 0:39:43Oh, no, I haven't heard anything. I've got no reception, have I?

0:39:43 > 0:39:45We need to find a place with a signal so that we can check

0:39:45 > 0:39:47this dress out and make sure that it fits.

0:39:52 > 0:39:54Oh, my God.

0:39:54 > 0:39:56I don't know if I like it.

0:39:56 > 0:39:58Sue, it's gorgeous.

0:39:58 > 0:40:00It's stunning.

0:40:00 > 0:40:03I feel too exposed at the top. I don't...

0:40:03 > 0:40:06I am worried sick about this dress. I'm worried sick.

0:40:06 > 0:40:09Tom, we did the best we could with our high-class...

0:40:11 > 0:40:13..stylistic style guru approach.

0:40:13 > 0:40:15I'm just...

0:40:15 > 0:40:18I got them to try loads of dresses on so I just...

0:40:18 > 0:40:21I hope I've got the right one. I'm absolutely...

0:40:21 > 0:40:23If she doesn't like it, it proves what we knew all along,

0:40:23 > 0:40:25that neither of us have any dress sense.

0:40:25 > 0:40:26You know, but that's no good,

0:40:26 > 0:40:28it's her wedding day, man. It's got to be right.

0:40:28 > 0:40:31I love the dress but I didn't realise how much it meringued...

0:40:31 > 0:40:34Sue, I'm not joking, it's better than the three you tried on.

0:40:34 > 0:40:37It's stunning.

0:40:37 > 0:40:38Oh, God, it's...

0:40:38 > 0:40:41If you feel as if you're exposed,

0:40:41 > 0:40:43can they not loosen it up at the back a bit?

0:40:43 > 0:40:46It's not that, it's my boobs, isn't it, they're growing.

0:40:46 > 0:40:49That's going to happen, Sue.

0:40:49 > 0:40:51- You're pregnant. - That's just normal, isn't it?

0:40:54 > 0:40:56Will she ring?

0:40:56 > 0:40:59- Oh, it's run out of charge.- Derek!

0:40:59 > 0:41:01Maybe now's not the time, Derek.

0:41:01 > 0:41:02Don't lose your sense of humour.

0:41:02 > 0:41:04When that goes you've lost everything.

0:41:04 > 0:41:06I've none until I find out about this dress.

0:41:06 > 0:41:08You'll have to grow one again.

0:41:08 > 0:41:11- To be honest...- I'm going to have to see if I can get a bra to like...

0:41:11 > 0:41:14- I don't know.- Sue, you're not going to flatten them,

0:41:14 > 0:41:15pet, you're pregnant.

0:41:15 > 0:41:18If I bend over, I'm gonna hit somebody in the face.

0:41:21 > 0:41:24When you mentioned you feel a little bit exposed here.

0:41:24 > 0:41:28Now, you can... We have our seamstress here.

0:41:28 > 0:41:32So you can, it's up to you, she can put organza straps here or

0:41:32 > 0:41:34there's loads of other options.

0:41:34 > 0:41:38Some of Sue's worries about the dress could be solved with some

0:41:38 > 0:41:39simple modifications.

0:41:39 > 0:41:41But at a cost.

0:41:42 > 0:41:44- Hello.- 'Hello, is that Derek?'

0:41:44 > 0:41:47- It is, yes. - Sue's been trying that dress on.

0:41:47 > 0:41:50- Does she like it, does she like the dress?- Yeah.

0:41:50 > 0:41:52- Yeah, she likes the dress.- Yes!

0:41:52 > 0:41:54Sorry. How much?

0:41:54 > 0:41:56She just needs some extra support on it,

0:41:56 > 0:41:58which is an extra 40 quid to get that fitted.

0:41:58 > 0:42:02- Get it.- Nice one, bye-bye. - Get in! Get in!

0:42:06 > 0:42:10Tom's dad has arrived on site and is now dispensing outdoorsy wisdom.

0:42:10 > 0:42:13It seems our groom might be a chip off the old block.

0:42:13 > 0:42:17It's very light but split it in there and then again.

0:42:17 > 0:42:19I'd love to take all the credit for it and say,

0:42:19 > 0:42:21"Yes, I taught him everything!"

0:42:21 > 0:42:23But, no, he's learnt most of it himself.

0:42:23 > 0:42:27Meanwhile, self-taught Tom has an unexpected issue to solve -

0:42:27 > 0:42:29getting drizzle out of a generator.

0:42:29 > 0:42:31It hasn't been serviced for while, it'll be all right.

0:42:31 > 0:42:34If it rains, the thing to remember is, skin is waterproof.

0:42:34 > 0:42:37You won't get drowned by sitting out in a little bit of rain.

0:42:37 > 0:42:41It's looking pretty amazing. We have floodlights.

0:42:41 > 0:42:44Inside the tepees is pretty amazing.

0:42:44 > 0:42:47We've got the hay bales, we've got fires.

0:42:47 > 0:42:50Tom's stag is about to begin with a bang.

0:42:50 > 0:42:53Whoo, look at that. Run!

0:42:53 > 0:42:55Well, almost...

0:42:55 > 0:42:58- Is that it?- Yeah!- You should have put it on the fire, Tom.

0:42:58 > 0:43:00That's rubbish! 10 quid that cost!

0:43:04 > 0:43:07It's early morning, the day before the wedding.

0:43:07 > 0:43:10The coach is collecting the wedding guests

0:43:10 > 0:43:13but they still have no idea where they're going.

0:43:13 > 0:43:15Are you all right, sweetheart?

0:43:15 > 0:43:20Meanwhile, a minibus picks up the bridesmaids, Sue and her dad, Colin,

0:43:20 > 0:43:23who have no idea how far they're going either.

0:43:23 > 0:43:25Right, can everybody put their hands up and say cheers!

0:43:25 > 0:43:28ALL CHEER

0:43:28 > 0:43:30- Holly, say cheers.- Cheers.

0:43:30 > 0:43:31That was a nice one.

0:43:34 > 0:43:38The bridal party may be in good spirits but, over in Mull, the stress

0:43:38 > 0:43:43of pulling off a wedding on a remote island is taking its toll on Tom.

0:43:43 > 0:43:46At the moment Thomas is in his car, he is currently wound up.

0:43:46 > 0:43:47He's built it up.

0:43:47 > 0:43:50I think, obviously, he's realised there's people travelling here,

0:43:50 > 0:43:52everything's happening now.

0:43:52 > 0:43:54At least he's calming down, that's the main thing,

0:43:54 > 0:43:55rather than blowing up.

0:43:55 > 0:43:57But Tom's survivalist theme has some of the stags

0:43:57 > 0:43:59worried about facilities...

0:43:59 > 0:44:00Or lack of them.

0:44:00 > 0:44:03That over there has just got a sink in it with cold water,

0:44:03 > 0:44:06a urinal and a toilet pot.

0:44:06 > 0:44:09He's expecting 40-odd guests.

0:44:12 > 0:44:14The guests have been travelling all morning

0:44:14 > 0:44:17and still have no idea where they're heading.

0:44:17 > 0:44:19- Are you enjoying it?- Yeah.

0:44:19 > 0:44:21- It's going to be fun. - It's going to be fun.

0:44:21 > 0:44:24Knowing Thomas I'm sure it'll be a really good weekend.

0:44:24 > 0:44:26It better be!

0:44:26 > 0:44:28# Two, four, six, eight

0:44:28 > 0:44:29# You're never too late! #

0:44:29 > 0:44:32But on the bridal bus, Sue's concerns are growing.

0:44:32 > 0:44:35I'm a little bit worried at the moment.

0:44:35 > 0:44:36Wondering where it might be.

0:44:38 > 0:44:40So I'll have to wait and see.

0:44:40 > 0:44:41See how far I travel now

0:44:41 > 0:44:44and then I might get an inkling of where I'm going.

0:44:46 > 0:44:50Look, it's official, we're going to Scotland, ladies and gentlemen!

0:44:52 > 0:44:54The guests have made it over the border

0:44:54 > 0:44:58but there's still a long way to go, which is just as well

0:44:58 > 0:45:01because Tom still has one vital survival element

0:45:01 > 0:45:02he needs for the campsite -

0:45:02 > 0:45:04bedding for the tepees.

0:45:04 > 0:45:06What a treasure trove!

0:45:06 > 0:45:09They've got sleeping bags, blankets, everything...

0:45:09 > 0:45:11The budget might be almost gone

0:45:11 > 0:45:14but luckily Tom gets the bedding for free,

0:45:14 > 0:45:17thanks to good old Scottish hospitality in the form of...

0:45:17 > 0:45:19- What was your name, sorry?- Hazel.

0:45:19 > 0:45:21Hazel has helped me out no end.

0:45:23 > 0:45:25That is such a weight off my mind. I am so...

0:45:27 > 0:45:29Thank you.

0:45:29 > 0:45:31Give me a cuddle. Thank you very much.

0:45:31 > 0:45:33I appreciate it. Cheers.

0:45:34 > 0:45:37The guests have now been on the coach for nine hours.

0:45:39 > 0:45:41The journey's tedious, boring, tiring

0:45:41 > 0:45:43and we want off the bus now, please.

0:45:43 > 0:45:45Even Tom's mum's had enough.

0:45:45 > 0:45:49It'll be worth it, I suppose, when we get off the bus, won't it, boys?

0:45:49 > 0:45:52- Yeah.- Are youse tired?- Yes.

0:45:52 > 0:45:56But at last they're off the coach, just in time to start the next

0:45:56 > 0:45:59leg of their journey - the ferry ride to the island.

0:45:59 > 0:46:01I'm getting excited now.

0:46:01 > 0:46:04- We're all right now because we're on the boat.- Yeah, yeah.

0:46:04 > 0:46:05Hopefully we're not going to be long now.

0:46:05 > 0:46:07We're looking forward to a luxury hotel, Thomas.

0:46:07 > 0:46:09- Aren't we?- Yes, Thomas.

0:46:11 > 0:46:13- I've got loads of bedding. - Well done.

0:46:13 > 0:46:16With just an hour to go, back at camp...

0:46:16 > 0:46:17Lads...

0:46:17 > 0:46:19It's a dash to get the bedding in place.

0:46:19 > 0:46:22I've got to pick the up family first, get them here.

0:46:22 > 0:46:24- Do you want to take the van?- Yeah.

0:46:24 > 0:46:27Before Tom races off to meet the coach party and guide them

0:46:27 > 0:46:29on the final leg of their journey.

0:46:31 > 0:46:33Oh, hang on. I can see something.

0:46:35 > 0:46:36Oh, my God.

0:46:37 > 0:46:40Tom's in time to meet the guests' coach to guide them down

0:46:40 > 0:46:44the final, dark, windy roads to the remote campsite.

0:46:44 > 0:46:47Right, it's a bit of a tricky road on the way there.

0:46:47 > 0:46:51There is loads of alcohol, lovely accommodation

0:46:51 > 0:46:53and, so, it's going to be an absolute laugh.

0:46:59 > 0:47:02But just as the exhausted guests finally arrive at camp,

0:47:02 > 0:47:04so does the rain.

0:47:04 > 0:47:07It's a bit of rain. Doesn't hurt anyone, does it?

0:47:07 > 0:47:10I don't think that's going to make people happy, but...

0:47:10 > 0:47:11hey, I don't care.

0:47:13 > 0:47:16The kids are tired. It's raining.

0:47:16 > 0:47:18Better get stuff sorted, so the kids can go to bed.

0:47:18 > 0:47:21It's, like, the campsite, it's a bit different, but never mind.

0:47:21 > 0:47:23Patrick?

0:47:23 > 0:47:26But the relentless downpour is starting to cause problems.

0:47:26 > 0:47:28He's got the kids and they're getting wet.

0:47:28 > 0:47:29- I've got no space. - Do you have the key?

0:47:29 > 0:47:31I've no space. The car's full of stuff.

0:47:31 > 0:47:35While the island storm is pushing Tom's dream of a survivalist wedding

0:47:35 > 0:47:37to its limits, over on the mainland,

0:47:37 > 0:47:41the bridal party are having a much cosier time of it.

0:47:41 > 0:47:43Here we are. So we're coming through here.

0:47:43 > 0:47:47- Wow, Holly. This way, Holly.- This way, darling.- This way, this way.

0:47:47 > 0:47:48Oh, my God.

0:47:48 > 0:47:50- ALL:- Oh, my God! - Oh, wow!

0:47:50 > 0:47:52ALL TALK

0:47:52 > 0:47:53Look at that!

0:47:54 > 0:47:56- Yeah!- Whoa, look at this! - Woo!

0:47:56 > 0:47:58- Yay! - THEY SHOUT

0:47:58 > 0:48:02- Oh, my God! - THEY SHOUT EXCITEDLY

0:48:04 > 0:48:08Whoa, Holly, how amazing. Has Dad done a good job or what?

0:48:08 > 0:48:10- LAUGHTER - Yay!

0:48:10 > 0:48:11Enjoy it, Sue.

0:48:11 > 0:48:14Tomorrow night, you'll be in a hobbit's hut.

0:48:20 > 0:48:23The following morning, the storm has passed

0:48:23 > 0:48:27and the sun is out for the start of the big survival-themed wedding.

0:48:27 > 0:48:31Saw the rain and I freaked out and, luckily, we'd organised digs,

0:48:31 > 0:48:35but it was in a village about ten mile up the road.

0:48:35 > 0:48:37It was still raining at one o'clock this morning

0:48:37 > 0:48:38when I was still awake, so...

0:48:38 > 0:48:41I woke up floating in water.

0:48:41 > 0:48:42So, yeah, I got soaked.

0:48:46 > 0:48:48The bridal party have arrived from the mainland

0:48:48 > 0:48:51and Tom's arranged a hotel where they can get ready.

0:48:51 > 0:48:53With just hours to go, it's time for Sue

0:48:53 > 0:48:57to see those £11 bridesmaid dresses.

0:48:57 > 0:48:59God, I daren't even look!

0:48:59 > 0:49:00Will this be a whole other storm?

0:49:04 > 0:49:05Oh, my God, I love them.

0:49:05 > 0:49:07Oh.

0:49:07 > 0:49:09I think yous look absolutely gorgeous.

0:49:09 > 0:49:11And, Becky, yours matches your lipstick and everything.

0:49:11 > 0:49:15- LAUGHTER - Honestly. I was not expecting that.

0:49:15 > 0:49:18I was, like, expecting some big, bouffant thing.

0:49:18 > 0:49:21Honestly, I love it. I think yous all look absolutely gorgeous.

0:49:21 > 0:49:23- Thank you.- Thank you. - I really do. You're welcome.

0:49:25 > 0:49:29It's finally the moment the bridal party have been waiting for.

0:49:29 > 0:49:32Seeing Sue in all her splendour.

0:49:36 > 0:49:38It's absolutely massive.

0:49:38 > 0:49:41- OMG!- It's huge. - I actually love it.

0:49:41 > 0:49:43Dad, do you like it?

0:49:43 > 0:49:44Yeah.

0:49:46 > 0:49:48- You look beautiful! - CHILD TALKS

0:49:48 > 0:49:50- Are we going to go and get married? - CHILD TALKS

0:49:50 > 0:49:54- Well, I'm ready. Go on, then. - Ready?- Let's go, go, go.- Go, go.

0:49:57 > 0:50:02Tom's laid on an open-top classic car to take his bride to the ceremony.

0:50:03 > 0:50:07- Everybody into the venue, please. - Going this way, now.

0:50:07 > 0:50:12At the woodland location, the guests and Tom are assembled and waiting.

0:50:12 > 0:50:15But it looks like a storm is brewing.

0:50:15 > 0:50:17She'll come. She'll come.

0:50:20 > 0:50:22Outside, our bride is finally here,

0:50:22 > 0:50:27but Tom's idea of an idyllic country drive hasn't quite gone to plan.

0:50:27 > 0:50:29Oh, my God.

0:50:29 > 0:50:30I'm freezing!

0:50:32 > 0:50:35Bit too bloody late for the umbrella now.

0:50:35 > 0:50:36Hnnh!

0:50:39 > 0:50:42Oh, thank you. Oh, bless.

0:50:42 > 0:50:45Right, I think I'm ready to go and punch him in the face, now!

0:50:45 > 0:50:46Good luck.

0:50:46 > 0:50:50I don't need any luck, he's going to get his head knocked off.

0:50:50 > 0:50:55- Are you excited, Sue?- No.- Why? - Because I'm freezing...

0:50:55 > 0:50:57My boobs are falling out,

0:50:57 > 0:50:59I've been hailstoned on my head...

0:50:59 > 0:51:00in a car that I couldn't even fit into.

0:51:00 > 0:51:02Look at the state of it already!

0:51:02 > 0:51:05Look. It's minging, absolutely minging already.

0:51:05 > 0:51:06A white dress in a field.

0:51:06 > 0:51:08Why get something so big and puffy

0:51:08 > 0:51:09in a bloody field?

0:51:09 > 0:51:11I'm bloody freezing.

0:51:11 > 0:51:14As Sue prepares to make her entrance...

0:51:14 > 0:51:15Do I just go straight in?

0:51:15 > 0:51:18..the floodgates look ready to open. And that's just Tom.

0:51:20 > 0:51:23But the weather's not looking great, either.

0:51:23 > 0:51:28Those storm clouds are threatening to put a dampener on all his hard work.

0:51:37 > 0:51:40After three long weeks in the making,

0:51:40 > 0:51:43the big moment is finally here.

0:51:43 > 0:51:45It's freezing cold.

0:51:45 > 0:51:47It wasn't meant to be like this.

0:51:47 > 0:51:49My dress is dirty.

0:51:49 > 0:51:51We'll talk about it later.

0:51:54 > 0:51:56Tom, will you love,

0:51:56 > 0:51:59honour and cherish Susan as your wife the rest of your life?

0:51:59 > 0:52:02- I do. - Susan, will you love,

0:52:02 > 0:52:05honour and cherish Tom as your husband for the rest of your life?

0:52:05 > 0:52:06I will.

0:52:06 > 0:52:08Thankfully, the weather holds long enough for Tom

0:52:08 > 0:52:10and Sue to tie the knot.

0:52:10 > 0:52:14It gives me much pleasure to make you husband and wife.

0:52:14 > 0:52:16CHEERING

0:52:16 > 0:52:19# Yeah, you and me we can ride on a star

0:52:19 > 0:52:23# If you stay with me, girl

0:52:23 > 0:52:27# We can rule the world

0:52:27 > 0:52:32# Yeah, you and me We can light up the sky... #

0:52:32 > 0:52:34But then... THUNDER RUMBLES

0:52:34 > 0:52:35..as if on cue...

0:52:35 > 0:52:39the heavens open and the guests run for cover.

0:52:41 > 0:52:43We can't do anything about the weather.

0:52:43 > 0:52:45It's the British weather for you!

0:52:49 > 0:52:53Safely out of the rain, Sue gets to see the fruit of Tom's labours.

0:52:53 > 0:52:56Oh, my God.

0:52:56 > 0:52:57Has he done all this, as well?

0:52:57 > 0:53:00But has she taken to his survival theme?

0:53:00 > 0:53:03He had to get survival into it somehow, didn't he?

0:53:03 > 0:53:06She's probably thinking, "Oh, my God, that's what's he'd done?"

0:53:06 > 0:53:09Her dream venue was probably, like, a stately home or something

0:53:09 > 0:53:13in some grounds of a park and this is... It's a bit out there!

0:53:13 > 0:53:15I think I ballsed up, though.

0:53:15 > 0:53:18So what does the traditional girl make of her not quite

0:53:18 > 0:53:21- traditional wedding? - Do you like it, or not?

0:53:21 > 0:53:23- It's not what I'd have chose! - Do you like it, or not?

0:53:23 > 0:53:26Well, I'm with you, so I don't really care where I go.

0:53:26 > 0:53:28- Thanks.- I love you so much.

0:53:28 > 0:53:30I think he's done really, really well.

0:53:30 > 0:53:32He's thought of me all the way along,

0:53:32 > 0:53:35so he's had to get his little bit in there, so I'll let him off.

0:53:35 > 0:53:38It's still a bit strange, but...hey, it was his choice!

0:53:42 > 0:53:44Leaving the wet chill outside, the guests get

0:53:44 > 0:53:48a taste of the outdoors indoors as they take their places for the meal.

0:53:48 > 0:53:51We're going to have to find some more chairs, Tom.

0:53:51 > 0:53:54A quick break in the weather gives Tom the chance to reveal

0:53:54 > 0:53:57the final survivor of his wilderness wedding.

0:53:57 > 0:54:01I love that, it's absolutely amazing! It's very you, isn't it?

0:54:01 > 0:54:04- It is.- I'm just thinking of poor Holly squashed in there with us.

0:54:04 > 0:54:07- Getting down in a pram.- It's boiling in here, it's roasting in here.

0:54:07 > 0:54:11- It's lovely, it's absolutely gorgeous, you've done well.- Really?

0:54:11 > 0:54:12- Yeah. It's really nice.- Phew!

0:54:17 > 0:54:21At the reception, the guests are quite literally surviving,

0:54:21 > 0:54:26thanks to fresh food sourced from the local area and a lovely cake...

0:54:26 > 0:54:28sourced from Derek!

0:54:28 > 0:54:31It is so Tom to make tables!

0:54:31 > 0:54:34It's so Tom to have leaves on the ceiling.

0:54:34 > 0:54:36I think he should be really proud of what he's done.

0:54:36 > 0:54:40I think it's very thoughtful and I think that he has tried really hard.

0:54:40 > 0:54:43I don't know if people got the survivalist wedding, I think

0:54:43 > 0:54:46they definitely got the fact that they needed to survive!

0:54:46 > 0:54:49It's not the norm, which we wasn't expecting from Tom.

0:54:49 > 0:54:52If it's Thomas, you don't get the norm.

0:54:52 > 0:54:54You make the best of what you've got.

0:54:54 > 0:54:56It's good that they've had a good time.

0:54:56 > 0:54:58You've got no control over the weather -

0:54:58 > 0:55:01the rain, thunder and lightning earlier on,

0:55:01 > 0:55:04but that hasn't had any bearing on it whatsoever.

0:55:04 > 0:55:06We've thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

0:55:06 > 0:55:09Tom planned a survivalist wedding to prove to his bride that he

0:55:09 > 0:55:11would always be there to protect her.

0:55:11 > 0:55:13Probably failed miserably cos of the bloody weather.

0:55:13 > 0:55:16The heavens opened, thunder and lightning started.

0:55:16 > 0:55:17You know, at the end of the day,

0:55:17 > 0:55:20it's about me and Tom getting married and that's all that counts.

0:55:20 > 0:55:22- Thank you.- You're welcome. - It means a lot.

0:55:22 > 0:55:24We can't help the weather, we're in Scotland.

0:55:24 > 0:55:27And even bad weather can't put a dampener on the news

0:55:27 > 0:55:30our couple are about to reveal to their guests.

0:55:30 > 0:55:33I'm so glad to have yous here.

0:55:33 > 0:55:36I know things haven't went perfectly to plan,

0:55:36 > 0:55:38but I've got one last thing to tell you.

0:55:38 > 0:55:40We're expecting another baby.

0:55:40 > 0:55:44CHEERING

0:56:04 > 0:56:06Next time...

0:56:06 > 0:56:08Traditional bride-to-be Sophie

0:56:08 > 0:56:10dreams of a fairytale wedding.

0:56:10 > 0:56:14I want it to be a nice, colourful, positive, happy day.

0:56:14 > 0:56:16# What's that coming over the hill

0:56:16 > 0:56:17# Is it a monster... #

0:56:17 > 0:56:20- But wannabe hero Alex... - I want that, and them, and the guns.

0:56:20 > 0:56:23..wants to show his love by scaring the living daylights out of her.

0:56:25 > 0:56:27Will he be able to save the day?

0:56:27 > 0:56:30I'll be like, this hero of the day to save my wife!

0:56:30 > 0:56:32Or will he get it dead wrong?

0:56:32 > 0:56:33Disaster.