0:00:02 > 0:00:09Contains strong language.
0:00:09 > 0:00:12Tear-away teens went wild on their first ever holiday with their mates.
0:00:12 > 0:00:15But their party-pooping parents went along too.
0:00:15 > 0:00:18They saw everything.
0:00:19 > 0:00:20The booze.
0:00:22 > 0:00:26The dirty dancing. All that their kids got up to...
0:00:29 > 0:00:31..when they thought they were free.
0:00:31 > 0:00:32Sorry, dad.
0:00:32 > 0:00:35If my mum saw me right now, she would be like, "what?!"
0:00:35 > 0:00:40For the parents it was a chance of a lifetime.
0:00:40 > 0:00:41Secretly watching.
0:00:41 > 0:00:43Sophie!
0:00:43 > 0:00:45Sneakily spying.
0:00:45 > 0:00:48- I can't stand it. - And outrageously hiding.
0:00:48 > 0:00:50Get down.
0:00:50 > 0:00:54All to see if their kids could stand on their own two feet.
0:00:57 > 0:01:00- That was pretty disgusting. - She's gone for a vajazzle.
0:01:00 > 0:01:04- This is not what a mum wants to see. - I'm sorry, stop filming.
0:01:04 > 0:01:06But did it bring them closer together?
0:01:06 > 0:01:09- I love that boy so much. - Or drive them further apart?
0:01:09 > 0:01:10You're nicked.
0:01:10 > 0:01:13Oh, my God!
0:01:14 > 0:01:16So, now the truth is out.
0:01:16 > 0:01:18The tans has faded,
0:01:18 > 0:01:22and their bodies have recovered from the binge drinking.
0:01:22 > 0:01:27It's time for a fresh look at what went down and what happened next.
0:01:27 > 0:01:29Oooh!
0:01:29 > 0:01:32It's actually really weird knowing they were like a metre away from me,
0:01:32 > 0:01:35and they were, sort of, judging everything I was doing.
0:01:38 > 0:01:41It was like, tongues and everything, and you're thinking, oh, God!
0:01:43 > 0:01:46She was absolutely smashed out of her brains.
0:01:46 > 0:01:51It was an awful thing to think that she felt so alienated from me.
0:01:51 > 0:01:55I realised that I was actually going on a bit of a journey myself.
0:01:57 > 0:02:00Contains strong language.
0:02:00 > 0:02:04Fashion conscious Charlie from Cambridge
0:02:04 > 0:02:07was off on his first ever lads holiday to Kavos.
0:02:07 > 0:02:10This holiday is going to be off the hook, it means everything to me,
0:02:10 > 0:02:13and I'm going to enjoy it, I'm going to have a blast.
0:02:13 > 0:02:18But it was a big step for controlling parents, Barry and Lisa,
0:02:18 > 0:02:21as when Charlie was four, his mum was involved in a car accident
0:02:21 > 0:02:24that left her with permanent back injuries.
0:02:24 > 0:02:27Ever since that day I was overprotective of my family,
0:02:27 > 0:02:29- not just the boys, you as well. - Yes.
0:02:29 > 0:02:30I'll have my jeans separate.
0:02:30 > 0:02:33Dad, Barry, wanted to make sure Charlie
0:02:33 > 0:02:35was prepared for his big holiday.
0:02:35 > 0:02:38- You may need these. - I love how they're ultra safe.
0:02:38 > 0:02:41Ultra small with a featherlight touch.
0:02:41 > 0:02:45Dad makes things embarrassing anyway, but he didn't need to do that.
0:02:45 > 0:02:46Love you lots.
0:02:46 > 0:02:50It was only sensible, as Charlie had big plans for his summer break.
0:02:50 > 0:02:53The whole popping my cherry thing,
0:02:53 > 0:02:55or losing my v-plates, it's not really an aim.
0:02:55 > 0:02:58I think it's going to happen, like, a lot more than once,
0:02:58 > 0:03:00well, it will, it has to.
0:03:00 > 0:03:02Well, I guess that means it is an aim then, doesn't it?
0:03:02 > 0:03:06Welsh rugger bugger, Asher, was also going on a lads holiday,
0:03:06 > 0:03:09but had a very different goal.
0:03:09 > 0:03:12He was leaving his girlfriend at home,
0:03:12 > 0:03:14and was determined to stay faithful.
0:03:14 > 0:03:17I love my girlfriend to bits, as much as I say that,
0:03:17 > 0:03:19there is always going to be a small part of me...
0:03:19 > 0:03:23there is an 18-year-old guy who's going on his first lads holiday.
0:03:23 > 0:03:27But I want to prove that I am, maybe, more mature than that.
0:03:27 > 0:03:31He wants the taste of independence before heading off to Uni.
0:03:31 > 0:03:33Be nice and loving. Give me a hug.
0:03:33 > 0:03:36But, first, he had to sidestep his clingy mum, Anita.
0:03:39 > 0:03:41They were off to the Greek island of Kavos,
0:03:41 > 0:03:45where the hedonistic holiday makers that descend in summer
0:03:45 > 0:03:47are barely known for their British reserve.
0:03:47 > 0:03:49First of many.
0:03:49 > 0:03:52So, the Welsh boyos felt perfectly at home.
0:03:52 > 0:03:54Back at the hotel...
0:03:56 > 0:04:01..Things got messy when Asher got hold of a fire extinguisher.
0:04:01 > 0:04:04Jesus Christ!
0:04:04 > 0:04:08When the dust finally settled it wasn't so funny.
0:04:08 > 0:04:11We thought at the most we're going to be paying 50 quid,
0:04:11 > 0:04:14we felt quite guilty, we were like, this has hit us.
0:04:14 > 0:04:16560 euros is just stupid.
0:04:16 > 0:04:20And then when that 560 bill came back,
0:04:20 > 0:04:24oh, my heart sunk.
0:04:24 > 0:04:28So, what else could independent Asher do, but give Mummy a call?
0:04:28 > 0:04:31Just a quick message, I would really appreciate it
0:04:31 > 0:04:35if you could wire me out some money to pay for something. Cheers.
0:04:35 > 0:04:38That's probably the worst thing you've ever done, ever.
0:04:38 > 0:04:39Oh, shut up, Turts!
0:04:39 > 0:04:43- Shut up, Turts. Shut up, Turts! - "Oh, damn it, what has he done?"
0:04:43 > 0:04:47Not the best start to his voyage of independence.
0:04:47 > 0:04:51And the worst possible start to Anita's spying trip.
0:04:51 > 0:04:56I'd just met the other parents, we were saying how lovely our sons were.
0:04:56 > 0:04:57And then...
0:04:57 > 0:05:01Oh, God! He's only been there, he's only just been there,
0:05:01 > 0:05:04and he's asked me to wire him out some money.
0:05:04 > 0:05:07- Hello?- Hi, Mum. - I'm in the toilet on the train.
0:05:07 > 0:05:10Having to pick up that phone call was just everything
0:05:10 > 0:05:12I didn't want to do, because it was just completely
0:05:12 > 0:05:16like submitting to the fact that I still need a bit of help.
0:05:16 > 0:05:21I cannot tell you the level of disappointment I feel.
0:05:21 > 0:05:22All right, I'm so sorry.
0:05:22 > 0:05:27Oh, I thought, please, Charlie, do something now.
0:05:27 > 0:05:32It wasn't long before Charlie set about answering Anita's prayers.
0:05:32 > 0:05:37And his folks had a ringside seat to Charlie's lads night out.
0:05:37 > 0:05:40Watching the lot from just around the corner.
0:05:40 > 0:05:43He must be, literally, just over our shoulders here.
0:05:44 > 0:05:47Oh, this is not what a mum wants to see.
0:05:47 > 0:05:51I knew he has a drink when he goes out,
0:05:51 > 0:05:53and he comes home and he's had a good time drinking.
0:05:53 > 0:05:57But not that extent, I mean, blimey!
0:05:57 > 0:06:00I want to go and get drunk, mate. Come on.
0:06:00 > 0:06:03See, this is the side of Charlie I've never seen, it's likely that Charlie.
0:06:03 > 0:06:05He wants to be like one of the lads.
0:06:08 > 0:06:11That really makes you want to go out and say, "look, do you mind?"
0:06:11 > 0:06:15It's horrible that you couldn't actually...even though he was,
0:06:15 > 0:06:16you know, just over there.
0:06:16 > 0:06:19Normally, I'd run over and give him a clip round the ear.
0:06:19 > 0:06:21I couldn't do it, I had to hold back.
0:06:21 > 0:06:24But the Welsh boys weren't holding back,
0:06:24 > 0:06:27and while they pulled every girl they could get their hands on,
0:06:27 > 0:06:29with a girlfriend back at home,
0:06:29 > 0:06:32Asher had to satisfy himself with boozy cocktails.
0:06:35 > 0:06:39Lots of boozy cocktails.
0:06:39 > 0:06:41They go down like, you know, juice.
0:06:41 > 0:06:43So you don't realise how much you ARE drinking
0:06:43 > 0:06:45and how many spirits are in it.
0:06:45 > 0:06:46I'm in disarray, like.
0:06:46 > 0:06:51D-I-S-S-A-R-A-Y.
0:06:51 > 0:06:54Asher should have kept his wits about him
0:06:54 > 0:06:57as he was surrounded by temptation.
0:06:57 > 0:07:00I think it was a ratio of two girls to one guy out there.
0:07:00 > 0:07:04And you do feel like a diabetic in a sweet shop, to be honest.
0:07:04 > 0:07:06And with all those sweeties on display,
0:07:06 > 0:07:09Asher helps himself to a juicy gobstopper.
0:07:09 > 0:07:13Don't know, you know, what was going through my head at the time.
0:07:13 > 0:07:15You know, a lot of girls have had it done to them,
0:07:15 > 0:07:18and a lot of guys have had it done to them.
0:07:18 > 0:07:20It's not a nice feeling on both parties.
0:07:20 > 0:07:23It was a prickish thing to do, to be honest.
0:07:23 > 0:07:26But at least the boyos were impressed.
0:07:26 > 0:07:31Asher, what a ledge. He's got no respect for his girlfriend.
0:07:31 > 0:07:33Nah, I'm only joking.
0:07:33 > 0:07:38However, the next day when Anita settled down to watch the footage,
0:07:38 > 0:07:40she was in for a nasty surprise.
0:07:40 > 0:07:44Not everybody messes around, there are some faithful people out there.
0:07:44 > 0:07:48I thought Asher might have been one of them.
0:07:48 > 0:07:49Disgusting.
0:07:49 > 0:07:53- Anita?- He didn't want this to be seen, you stupid fool.
0:07:53 > 0:07:57I didn't feel for Asher, I really felt for his girlfriend back home.
0:07:57 > 0:07:59It doesn't surprise me in the slightest,
0:07:59 > 0:08:02because he's such a little shit, isn't he?
0:08:02 > 0:08:05My mum was pissed off with me, but I wasn't bothered about that.
0:08:05 > 0:08:08It was something I had to sort out with my girlfriend.
0:08:08 > 0:08:12I've spoken to her about it, and I suppose trust is...
0:08:12 > 0:08:14..a bit hard.
0:08:14 > 0:08:17After Anita saw her son snogging,
0:08:17 > 0:08:21it was Barry and Lisa's turn to see what Charlie had been up to.
0:08:21 > 0:08:24I don't want to see my son do that, get off with a girl on holiday,
0:08:24 > 0:08:28just a random girl in a club. Hitch up with her, off they go.
0:08:28 > 0:08:32Well, she wasn't going to like this, then.
0:08:32 > 0:08:33- Charlie.- It's a girl.
0:08:33 > 0:08:38That's not how I wanted it to be, I wanted it to be special.
0:08:38 > 0:08:40But Kavos has taken it from me.
0:08:40 > 0:08:43- See, he told me that, that he wanted it to be special.- Yeah.
0:08:43 > 0:08:47Despite seeing some pretty incriminating evidence,
0:08:47 > 0:08:51Barry and Lisa somehow managed to give Charlie benefit of the doubt.
0:08:51 > 0:08:54See, I've come to my own conclusions on the clips that I've seen.
0:08:54 > 0:08:56Just because Charlie's in bed with a girl
0:08:56 > 0:08:59doesn't mean that they've done anything,
0:08:59 > 0:09:01so, that was down to Charlie and the girl, wasn't it?
0:09:01 > 0:09:04Yeah, and I think that such a thing should be kept private
0:09:04 > 0:09:06to Charlie and whoever the girl was.
0:09:06 > 0:09:10And Charlie is not giving much away either.
0:09:10 > 0:09:14A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. He keeps it to himself.
0:09:16 > 0:09:19But Charlie was caught on camera doing some stuff
0:09:19 > 0:09:21that even he couldn't deny.
0:09:21 > 0:09:23Dad gave me a list of rules,
0:09:23 > 0:09:27he said that I wasn't allowed to quad biking, I did that quite a lot.
0:09:27 > 0:09:30I wasn't allowed to do shisha pipes, I did that.
0:09:30 > 0:09:33I wasn't allowed to drink excessively, I did that.
0:09:33 > 0:09:35I broke a load of them.
0:09:35 > 0:09:37Sorry, Dad.
0:09:37 > 0:09:41Surprisingly, Barry wasn't disappointed at all.
0:09:41 > 0:09:44I realise that I was actually going on bit of the journey myself,
0:09:44 > 0:09:50and that I'd been overprotective with Charlie to the extreme.
0:09:50 > 0:09:54There's a time when you need to let go, and I realise now,
0:09:54 > 0:09:57that the time for Charlie is now.
0:09:57 > 0:10:02I thought, you know, what have I done, is it too late?
0:10:02 > 0:10:05Have I held him back for so long and ruined his childhood, you know?
0:10:05 > 0:10:09And I'm glad that he done all the things that he knew
0:10:09 > 0:10:12I didn't want him to do. He went and done it anyway.
0:10:12 > 0:10:15And I thought, brilliant on him, well done, boy.
0:10:17 > 0:10:21- HE SOBS - I love my children, I'd die for my children.
0:10:21 > 0:10:23Any other parent would do.
0:10:23 > 0:10:26He's never opened up like that in front of me before.
0:10:26 > 0:10:31When I watched that, it was really, I don't know, it got to me.
0:10:31 > 0:10:33And I know exactly where he was coming from,
0:10:33 > 0:10:36and I wish I could've been there when he had that conversation
0:10:36 > 0:10:38so I could have spoken to him face-to-face.
0:10:38 > 0:10:41Funnily enough, Charlie didn't have long to wait.
0:10:41 > 0:10:43Ready? On your head.
0:10:43 > 0:10:49As, when Charlie and his mates went to a bar for a few drinking games,
0:10:49 > 0:10:53his parents were ready to give him the surprise of his life.
0:10:53 > 0:10:56My nose is in here, all right, and that hurts.
0:10:56 > 0:10:59I was a bit anxious because I didn't know how he was going to react.
0:11:01 > 0:11:05- Oh, my God. - BOYS CHEER
0:11:05 > 0:11:08- You've stitched me up. - We've been here all week, mate.
0:11:08 > 0:11:12- We've seen everything. - Charlie, we are proud of you.
0:11:12 > 0:11:15You've handled yourself brilliant.
0:11:15 > 0:11:18- Our lives are never going to be the same again.- Never.
0:11:18 > 0:11:22And it's been such a positive experience.
0:11:22 > 0:11:25It's been a weight off my shoulders.
0:11:25 > 0:11:28He can go and do what he wants, I've not got to feel that
0:11:28 > 0:11:31I've got to be protective any more.
0:11:31 > 0:11:34It's good that he's realised I'm growing up now.
0:11:34 > 0:11:36I'm an 18-year-old.
0:11:36 > 0:11:40It's nice to have him there, but I've got to do it on me own.
0:11:40 > 0:11:42- Love you both.- Love you. - Love you too.
0:11:42 > 0:11:45It was good that they came but in a way,
0:11:45 > 0:11:47I still didn't get my lads' holiday on my own.
0:11:50 > 0:11:54Anita's week of covert operations had come to an end.
0:11:54 > 0:11:58And it was time to wave the chequered flag on all that spying.
0:12:03 > 0:12:05Oh, my fucking God!
0:12:05 > 0:12:08I will always remember that moment of his face...
0:12:10 > 0:12:14And I was just mortified. So embarrassed at the time.
0:12:14 > 0:12:18You're on camera, look as if you love me! I love you.
0:12:18 > 0:12:22When Anita finally pinned her naughty son down for a chat,
0:12:22 > 0:12:26there was something she wanted to get off her chest.
0:12:26 > 0:12:29- And stay clean, you know. Use condoms.- Yes, OK!
0:12:29 > 0:12:32- Check in the clinic.- OK!
0:12:32 > 0:12:34There's some things we don't have to speak about.
0:12:34 > 0:12:37- We do.- No. - I'm going to write you a letter.
0:12:37 > 0:12:42- Why? We live in the same house. - Because you're not letting me talk.
0:12:42 > 0:12:44I'm still waiting on that letter...
0:12:44 > 0:12:45Thank God.
0:12:45 > 0:12:47There's room to write one,
0:12:47 > 0:12:50there's still time to write him one.
0:12:50 > 0:12:54- I'll never trust you again. - I've never trusted you.
0:12:54 > 0:12:56I've never trusted you, not once.
0:12:56 > 0:13:00I think now I see Asher in a different light. It was brilliant
0:13:00 > 0:13:05that he had this experience before going to university.
0:13:05 > 0:13:10And I think that that also helped me prepare for him going to university.
0:13:10 > 0:13:13I've left home, I've moved into my uni halls.
0:13:13 > 0:13:16I'm loving everything about it. Everything.
0:13:16 > 0:13:20I do need to adjust and get my head around that he's gone.
0:13:20 > 0:13:24I still put out two cups to make the tea.
0:13:24 > 0:13:27My mum's a funny old lady.
0:13:27 > 0:13:31It was fun. It was great fun, yeah. I'd do it again.
0:13:31 > 0:13:33SHE LAUGHS
0:13:39 > 0:13:41DANCE MUSIC PLAYS
0:13:41 > 0:13:4518-year-old Sophie was off to Kos with her mates
0:13:45 > 0:13:48for the boozy trip of a lifetime.
0:13:48 > 0:13:53I can't wait to go out there, just break free and just get really drunk.
0:13:53 > 0:13:54Completely gazeboed.
0:13:54 > 0:13:57But she had one small problem...
0:13:57 > 0:13:58her parents.
0:13:58 > 0:14:04As Jehovah's Witnesses, we don't believe it's right to lie or steal.
0:14:04 > 0:14:08We don't believe it's right to drink too much
0:14:08 > 0:14:10or have sex before marriage.
0:14:10 > 0:14:12And we don't believe it's right to smoke.
0:14:12 > 0:14:18Unfortunately, Sophie had a different opinion.
0:14:18 > 0:14:22She had been hiding her secret party lifestyle for years.
0:14:22 > 0:14:25So, last summer, Mum and Dad were in for a shock.
0:14:25 > 0:14:29I put condoms in the bottom of my case and my mum's like,
0:14:29 > 0:14:32"Let me repack it." I was like, "No!"
0:14:32 > 0:14:35Do they really not believe in sex before marriage?
0:14:35 > 0:14:39- Literally.- So what happens if you do it, you go to hell?
0:14:39 > 0:14:41- Well, yeah, I guess so.- Oh.
0:14:41 > 0:14:44- That's a bit shit. - I don't even know.
0:14:44 > 0:14:47- Have you got everything? - Yeah. Love you.
0:14:47 > 0:14:50See you soon. Bye.
0:14:50 > 0:14:55Also off to Kos was 19-year-old mummy's boy, Ronnie, from Kent.
0:14:55 > 0:14:57Mum, come cut my toenails, please?
0:14:57 > 0:15:00Ronnie never does anything for himself,
0:15:00 > 0:15:04which has been a thorn in the side for his beleaguered dad, Ron.
0:15:04 > 0:15:09He won't grow up while he's living under this roof, that's for a fact.
0:15:09 > 0:15:12He won't, will he? Not with you around.
0:15:12 > 0:15:16The same name was all the two Rons had in common.
0:15:16 > 0:15:19I don't really talk to my dad. I just don't like him,
0:15:19 > 0:15:20he gets on my nerves.
0:15:20 > 0:15:24He tries to wind me up, I try to wind him up.
0:15:24 > 0:15:27Who wants to come out on top, basically.
0:15:27 > 0:15:28See you later.
0:15:28 > 0:15:31Ronnie gave up his life of luxury
0:15:31 > 0:15:33for a week of boozing with his mates.
0:15:33 > 0:15:36# We're all going on a summer holiday... #
0:15:38 > 0:15:42They went to Kos, the jewel of the Aegean Sea.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44I'm not staying in there.
0:15:44 > 0:15:47I thought the hotel was a bit of a shithole.
0:15:47 > 0:15:50But it actually turned out to be the best hotel
0:15:50 > 0:15:52- cos it was called Vergina.- Vergina?
0:15:52 > 0:15:58- Biggest vagina I've ever been in. - Kos may have lovely hotels
0:15:58 > 0:16:00but most binge drinking Brits
0:16:00 > 0:16:03make the trip for the cheap, Greek grog...
0:16:03 > 0:16:05and Sophie was no exception.
0:16:05 > 0:16:08I want to get fucked!
0:16:08 > 0:16:12DANCE MUSIC PLAYS
0:16:15 > 0:16:19If my mum saw me now, she'd be like, "What? You don't smoke!"
0:16:19 > 0:16:24- I'd be like, "Mum, I'm sorry!" - Only smokes when intoxicated.
0:16:25 > 0:16:30Well, unfortunately for Sophie, her mum did get to see.
0:16:30 > 0:16:33In fact, she got a good view only a few hours later.
0:16:33 > 0:16:35I thought if I smoke every now and then,
0:16:35 > 0:16:38I could explain when I got home, "Oh, Mum,
0:16:38 > 0:16:42"I might've had two cigarettes. Don't judge me, I don't smoke."
0:16:42 > 0:16:45It's the first time I've seen my daughter light up a cigarette.
0:16:45 > 0:16:50The fact that she was watching and saw me smoke was quite daunting.
0:16:50 > 0:16:53Also partying hard was mummy's boy, Ronnie.
0:16:55 > 0:16:58And he was oblivious that his folks were about to watch
0:16:58 > 0:17:02his every move, stowed away on a luxury yacht.
0:17:02 > 0:17:04Ah, here's Ronnie.
0:17:04 > 0:17:07It didn't take Ronnie long to let his hair down...
0:17:07 > 0:17:09He sounds drunk.
0:17:09 > 0:17:13..and his shorts and his pants.
0:17:16 > 0:17:17But, for Big Ron,
0:17:17 > 0:17:22it was a pleasure watching randy little Ronnie on the pull.
0:17:22 > 0:17:23Ronnie's pulled.
0:17:23 > 0:17:27Let's go back to mine. The hotel's called Vergina!
0:17:27 > 0:17:30I was joking, I wasn't going to go back early.
0:17:30 > 0:17:33- You would've.- I wouldn't.- I reckon you was gaggin' for it.
0:17:33 > 0:17:36- Are you joking? - You hadn't had sex in ages.
0:17:36 > 0:17:37Fuck off, I had sex the week before!
0:17:37 > 0:17:42MUSIC: "Where Dem Girls At" by David Guetta
0:17:42 > 0:17:46Ronnie might've been gagging for it, but so were the girls.
0:17:46 > 0:17:49I was surprised how he was with all the girls,
0:17:49 > 0:17:52cos I haven't seen THAT side of Ronnie.
0:17:52 > 0:17:54He seemed to be having a great time
0:17:54 > 0:17:58and the girls seemed quite up for it too, so why not?
0:17:58 > 0:18:03- They was all ugly, but it didn't matter.- You can't say that!
0:18:03 > 0:18:06Nah, he done well. He done well.
0:18:06 > 0:18:08I hold my hands up to him.
0:18:08 > 0:18:11But unfortunately for Ronnie,
0:18:11 > 0:18:15he came home with a nasty little souvenir of his time in Kos.
0:18:15 > 0:18:17Yeah, I come back with chlamydia.
0:18:19 > 0:18:21After days of heavy boozing...
0:18:21 > 0:18:23Oh, fucking 'ell!
0:18:23 > 0:18:27..Ronnie forgot that Mum wasn't around to clean up his mess.
0:18:27 > 0:18:29Ronnie's just had a shit in our bathroom.
0:18:29 > 0:18:31I sort of expect it from him, though.
0:18:31 > 0:18:34So I don't think I was too shocked by it.
0:18:34 > 0:18:37He loves doing things like that to people. Winding 'em up.
0:18:37 > 0:18:40- That's horrid! He's had a piss on the floor and everything!- Aww!
0:18:40 > 0:18:42- You thought it was funny?- Yeah.
0:18:42 > 0:18:45The worst thing was when you threw it in the bin.
0:18:45 > 0:18:47We didn't know it was there till three days later.
0:18:47 > 0:18:51Our room absolutely stank of shit.
0:18:54 > 0:18:57Sophie and her mates decided to go to a glow party.
0:18:57 > 0:18:59Arriba!
0:18:59 > 0:19:02And, funnily enough, Mum and Dad went along too.
0:19:02 > 0:19:06I'm hoping that it doesn't get too raunchy or anything like that.
0:19:06 > 0:19:08Or too explicit.
0:19:10 > 0:19:13Unfortunately, they were out of luck.
0:19:13 > 0:19:16Because Sophie was in a playful mood.
0:19:16 > 0:19:17Hi, Sophie!
0:19:17 > 0:19:21It was actually really weird knowing that they were a metre away
0:19:21 > 0:19:24and they were judging everything I was doing.
0:19:27 > 0:19:30Oh! I thought they were just friends!
0:19:30 > 0:19:33- Was I a good kisser?- Oh...I don't remember. It was really weird.
0:19:33 > 0:19:36- Yeah, that's true. - I could never do that again.
0:19:36 > 0:19:39- All right! Chill out!- No! - Best you're going to have, mate!
0:19:39 > 0:19:41Awkward...
0:19:41 > 0:19:43What is she doing?
0:19:43 > 0:19:46Oh, I think my mum must have been really hurt by the fact that
0:19:46 > 0:19:48I was trying to look at some boy's winkie.
0:19:51 > 0:19:54Oh, she just doesn't see that side to me.
0:19:54 > 0:19:58It had been an eye-opening experience for her parents.
0:19:58 > 0:20:02But at least now, Sophie can see the bright side.
0:20:02 > 0:20:04I am pleased they came and saw what I was really like
0:20:04 > 0:20:07because it saved me having to tell them.
0:20:07 > 0:20:09And it made our relationship stronger
0:20:09 > 0:20:10because now they know what I'm like
0:20:10 > 0:20:15and I'm not embarrassed or afraid to talk to them about it.
0:20:15 > 0:20:17After so many highs and lows,
0:20:17 > 0:20:21the parents thought they had seen everything.
0:20:22 > 0:20:26But, during the week, Ron heard something
0:20:26 > 0:20:28that took him by surprise.
0:20:28 > 0:20:31My dad does wind me up. It does kind of get to me.
0:20:31 > 0:20:34It's probably my own fault.
0:20:34 > 0:20:37We should make more of an effort with each other.
0:20:37 > 0:20:39We're just too similar. So we clash.
0:20:39 > 0:20:41'I think my dad was surprised'
0:20:41 > 0:20:44that I expressed my feelings on camera.
0:20:44 > 0:20:46You thought that it was nice that he...
0:20:46 > 0:20:48- Owned up to it, yeah.- Yeah.
0:20:48 > 0:20:52I mean, I won't, and he won't, so...
0:20:52 > 0:20:56I got a bit choked, as it goes. To be quite honest.
0:20:56 > 0:21:00Cos he, er... I know he's got his soft side, but not to me, he hasn't.
0:21:00 > 0:21:04That's probably the proudest moment to date.
0:21:07 > 0:21:09There wasn't long left
0:21:09 > 0:21:14and Ronnie and Sophie weren't showing any signs of slowing down.
0:21:14 > 0:21:16When they ended up at the same bar,
0:21:16 > 0:21:20it's safe to assume that their parents were there too.
0:21:20 > 0:21:24- They've met! That's Aaron. - There he is.- Oh, there's Ronnie!
0:21:24 > 0:21:27But Sophie and Ronnie weren't exactly a match made in heaven.
0:21:27 > 0:21:29Be gone! Why are you here? You're horrible!
0:21:29 > 0:21:32- How am I horrible? - You are horrible, though!
0:21:32 > 0:21:35It was a little argument between me and the other group.
0:21:35 > 0:21:39They're not exactly getting on, are they?
0:21:39 > 0:21:42- Ronnie is rude, and he thinks the world revolves around him.- Yeah.
0:21:42 > 0:21:46We all just wanted to make him feel a bit smaller than he was.
0:21:46 > 0:21:48Sort of get his ego down a bit.
0:21:48 > 0:21:52With neither Ronnie nor Sophie willing to turn the other cheek,
0:21:52 > 0:21:56it wasn't long before things spiralled out of control.
0:21:56 > 0:21:57Go away! Go away!
0:21:58 > 0:22:00- Oh, my God!- No need for that!
0:22:00 > 0:22:02When they threw it, I never knew much about it.
0:22:02 > 0:22:05I was so drunk, I can't actually remember it happening.
0:22:05 > 0:22:07You cannot throw glasses!
0:22:07 > 0:22:10I don't think throwing a fishbowl over him was a mistake.
0:22:10 > 0:22:13I think smashing the fishbowl was a mistake.
0:22:13 > 0:22:15If we just threw water over him,
0:22:15 > 0:22:18maybe he would have got the idea we didn't want him there.
0:22:18 > 0:22:22I feel like going down there now, because I am really fuming.
0:22:22 > 0:22:25We couldn't go down there and spoil the show,
0:22:25 > 0:22:27but also, I'm thinking about my son's safety.
0:22:27 > 0:22:30Stop the filming. Stop the filming!
0:22:30 > 0:22:33Yeah, it was a no-win situation, really.
0:22:33 > 0:22:35Then they got the kids home.
0:22:35 > 0:22:37So we knew that everyone was safe
0:22:37 > 0:22:40and they went home to sleep off the drink.
0:22:40 > 0:22:44Finally, it was time for the parents to come clean.
0:22:44 > 0:22:47And Ron and Sandra couldn't wait
0:22:47 > 0:22:51to serve up one hell of a surprise to their unsuspecting son.
0:22:51 > 0:22:52I was really nervous and shaking.
0:22:52 > 0:22:56And we just really couldn't wait to see him, to be honest,
0:22:56 > 0:22:57to know that he was OK.
0:22:57 > 0:23:01And even tough guy Ron was beginning to soften.
0:23:01 > 0:23:03Just wanted to give him a hug.
0:23:03 > 0:23:06You always look a state, so don't worry about that.
0:23:06 > 0:23:08- Oh, shit.- What the fuck, man?
0:23:08 > 0:23:12- Suddenly we appeared, and the face dropped completely!- In fact,
0:23:12 > 0:23:15I think the other three were more happy to see us than him.
0:23:15 > 0:23:17- Yeah!- Weren't they?!
0:23:17 > 0:23:19Hello, Mum.
0:23:20 > 0:23:22I'm proud of him.
0:23:22 > 0:23:25Obviously we see things on there we didn't really want to see,
0:23:25 > 0:23:30but he entertained us. They all did. So...yeah, I'm proud.
0:23:30 > 0:23:34It has made my day watching you enjoy yourself. So...
0:23:34 > 0:23:36You don't have to be so cringey, man.
0:23:36 > 0:23:39- Shut up! I'm trying to be nice here! - That's a first!
0:23:39 > 0:23:43- Since filming finished... - We got really depressed, didn't we?
0:23:43 > 0:23:45We went back home, but within three days,
0:23:45 > 0:23:47we booked our flight back out to Kos.
0:23:48 > 0:23:51He loved it that much, he went back.
0:23:51 > 0:23:53And it showed us that he's more than capable
0:23:53 > 0:23:56of actually looking after himself.
0:23:56 > 0:23:58He can iron, he can cook.
0:23:58 > 0:24:00He can do most things for himself.
0:24:00 > 0:24:02It's down to this programme.
0:24:02 > 0:24:05It's given him an opportunity to look at himself and think,
0:24:05 > 0:24:10"I don't need my parents half the time. I can go and do these things."
0:24:10 > 0:24:13And he's done it. So it's a big thank you for you lot.
0:24:15 > 0:24:18Yeah, I feel now I can be more independent.
0:24:18 > 0:24:19But I don't think I will,
0:24:19 > 0:24:22because I don't really need to at this point.
0:24:22 > 0:24:24My mum will do everything for me anyway.
0:24:24 > 0:24:26- You don't need to be independent. - No, I don't.
0:24:28 > 0:24:30After a turbulent week of discovery,
0:24:30 > 0:24:33Geri and Alan were about to confront their daughter
0:24:33 > 0:24:37and confess that they now knew all about her secret party lifestyle.
0:24:39 > 0:24:43With one last leap of faith, they stepped into the great unknown.
0:24:47 > 0:24:50Oh, my God! What are you doing here?!
0:24:50 > 0:24:54Mum, stop trying to fake smile!
0:24:54 > 0:24:56My mum was trying to be straight-faced,
0:24:56 > 0:24:58like, "What have you been doing?"
0:24:58 > 0:25:00but she wasn't that angry.
0:25:00 > 0:25:02- Sorry.- I love you so much. - Love you too.
0:25:02 > 0:25:05She's a lot more crafty and sneaky than I thought.
0:25:05 > 0:25:07But it's good for her to get to know me a bit better.
0:25:07 > 0:25:11And all the sneaking about paid off.
0:25:12 > 0:25:15I understand how difficult it must be for you
0:25:15 > 0:25:18to live in a house where your parents are Jehovah's Witnesses.
0:25:18 > 0:25:22When my mum realised that she hadn't really made an effort
0:25:22 > 0:25:26to get to know me as a teenager, it did kind of hit home for her.
0:25:26 > 0:25:28But having seen now what you do,
0:25:28 > 0:25:32I realise that it's better for me to know.
0:25:32 > 0:25:35Now she's seen what I was like, she's more understanding.
0:25:35 > 0:25:38And more curious, I guess, as to what I'm up to.
0:25:38 > 0:25:42And she texts me a bit more now, and just sees what I'm up to,
0:25:42 > 0:25:43to see if I'm OK.
0:25:50 > 0:25:53In Portsmouth, molly-coddled mummy's boy Ollie...
0:25:53 > 0:25:55No, I'm not taking my tux.
0:25:55 > 0:25:58- Why not?- ..was preparing for his first ever lad's holiday.
0:25:58 > 0:26:03I've never been abroad. The furthest I've been is like, County Durham.
0:26:03 > 0:26:07He was chomping at the bit to break away from Mummy Lyn's bosom...
0:26:07 > 0:26:10So what are you going to eat when you're over there?
0:26:10 > 0:26:13- ..and get a taste of independence. - My nickname for Oliver is Munchkin.
0:26:13 > 0:26:16When he was little, he was quite small, wasn't he?
0:26:16 > 0:26:19There's your sunscreen. Make sure you put it on.
0:26:19 > 0:26:20Especially on the back of your neck.
0:26:20 > 0:26:22Ollie was swapping his humdrum hometown...
0:26:22 > 0:26:25And don't forget your passport.
0:26:25 > 0:26:28..for one of the best party islands on the planet...
0:26:28 > 0:26:32- CHEERING - ..Ibiza.
0:26:32 > 0:26:36And after travelling over 800 miles,
0:26:36 > 0:26:39Ollie didn't exactly jump in the deep end.
0:26:39 > 0:26:43The first bar we went to in Ibiza was pretty much traditional English,
0:26:43 > 0:26:47but like I say, a bit hotter.
0:26:47 > 0:26:48THEY CHANT
0:26:48 > 0:26:51And it wasn't just Ollie who was adjusting to foreign climes
0:26:51 > 0:26:56for the first time, as his dad Harry had never been abroad either.
0:26:56 > 0:27:01I've been on a lad's holiday. Hastings! Haven Holiday Camp.
0:27:01 > 0:27:04Six lads in a caravan.
0:27:04 > 0:27:08But there wasn't too much difference between Ollie's Spanish break
0:27:08 > 0:27:10and a trip to the British seaside.
0:27:10 > 0:27:13We went to Ibiza to look for a bit of British culture and sunshine.
0:27:13 > 0:27:17Pretty much. You're not going to find much Spanish culture in Ibiza.
0:27:17 > 0:27:19Well, that depends how hard you look
0:27:19 > 0:27:22and the boys didn't look very hard at all.
0:27:22 > 0:27:25There's one, there's one. Full English.
0:27:25 > 0:27:28- Enjoy.- We had the same thing every day. Every day.
0:27:28 > 0:27:30- Same thing for breakfast. - We didn't want no change.
0:27:30 > 0:27:33Don't want to try any Spanish stuff. Not yet.
0:27:33 > 0:27:37He's not one to always try new things or particularly
0:27:37 > 0:27:39speak the language either.
0:27:39 > 0:27:44- Whereas you did, didn't you? - No, I was speaking Italian!- Yeah.
0:27:45 > 0:27:48Finally, on Ollie's 19th birthday,
0:27:48 > 0:27:52he actually did decide to try something new.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54In the red, with the tie on!
0:27:54 > 0:27:58Although, it wasn't typically Spanish!
0:27:58 > 0:28:00THEY LAUGH
0:28:00 > 0:28:03I've never really dressed as a woman before
0:28:03 > 0:28:06but I might have grown a taste for it.
0:28:06 > 0:28:11As the lads hit the strip, Mummy and Daddy weren't far away.
0:28:12 > 0:28:15And they couldn't wait to see their birthday...boy.
0:28:15 > 0:28:19When the monitor came up, as far as I'm concerned,
0:28:19 > 0:28:21there was some girl in the way.
0:28:21 > 0:28:24Until this girl turned around and it was Oliver.
0:28:24 > 0:28:26He did look good as a girl though.
0:28:26 > 0:28:29He should have shaved his legs!
0:28:29 > 0:28:32And that wasn't the only surprise that Ollie
0:28:32 > 0:28:33had in store for his folks.
0:28:33 > 0:28:36We've not really seen a lot of him drunk at home, have we?
0:28:36 > 0:28:39When he's been out with his brother and sister,
0:28:39 > 0:28:41they think he's quite a quiet drunk.
0:28:41 > 0:28:44He sort of drinks and then slides off into the corner.
0:28:44 > 0:28:47Well, now he was sliding up and down a pole
0:28:47 > 0:28:49in the middle of a Spanish club.
0:28:50 > 0:28:53I've never seen him like that.
0:28:53 > 0:28:57But as the night wore on, things were only going to get worse.
0:28:57 > 0:29:00The puker tonight has got to be Joe or me.
0:29:00 > 0:29:02It's a race.
0:29:02 > 0:29:05And really, there was only ever going to be one winner.
0:29:11 > 0:29:15- All over the table.- All over the table, the floor, all over him.
0:29:15 > 0:29:18Not nice. The lads did carry on eating though, didn't they?
0:29:18 > 0:29:20They all carried on eating.
0:29:20 > 0:29:23- And Ollie...- No! - ..carried on puking.
0:29:23 > 0:29:25HE RETCHES
0:29:25 > 0:29:29But he didn't let a bit of vomit spoil his birthday.
0:29:29 > 0:29:32They went back into this club and there was this girl...
0:29:32 > 0:29:33Still kissing him.
0:29:33 > 0:29:37Not only was she kissing him, it was like tongues and everything
0:29:37 > 0:29:41and you're thinking, oh, God! It looked horrible.
0:29:42 > 0:29:45No, puking didn't stop me pulling. Not much does.
0:29:46 > 0:29:48I want my mum!
0:29:48 > 0:29:51Well, it wasn't long before his wish was granted.
0:29:53 > 0:29:56And the next time mum got a chance to spy on him,
0:29:56 > 0:29:59the naughty little fella was back on the pull.
0:30:02 > 0:30:04But Mummy would beg to differ.
0:30:04 > 0:30:06She looks a bit other than him.
0:30:06 > 0:30:10The young lady Oliver was sort of with in the club,
0:30:10 > 0:30:14I just thought he tends not to go for...
0:30:14 > 0:30:15..that sort of girl.
0:30:15 > 0:30:18She's not his type, is she?
0:30:18 > 0:30:22My type and what my mum perceives to be my type is two different things.
0:30:22 > 0:30:25We can't pick our children's partners
0:30:25 > 0:30:30but if I had to pick someone for him, no, it wouldn't be her.
0:30:30 > 0:30:33See, I'm awkward here because if he ends up in a relationship,
0:30:33 > 0:30:35I'm going to look awful, aren't I?
0:30:35 > 0:30:39Probably, because it wasn't too long before Ollie and his friend
0:30:39 > 0:30:42finally decided to get an early night.
0:30:42 > 0:30:45And then the next day, mum got a chance to see exactly what her
0:30:45 > 0:30:48naughty little munchkin had been getting up to after beddy-byes.
0:30:48 > 0:30:51Ollie, Ollie!
0:30:54 > 0:30:57- Hello? - Yeah, I'm all right.
0:30:57 > 0:30:58I'm naked.
0:30:59 > 0:31:04For me, that was the worst part of it, was...
0:31:04 > 0:31:06seeing it on camera.
0:31:06 > 0:31:09I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed by the fact my mum saw me
0:31:09 > 0:31:12- wooing a lady but...- Wooing!
0:31:12 > 0:31:15Because she knows I'm obviously sexually active.
0:31:15 > 0:31:18- At least I hope she does.- Cringe.
0:31:18 > 0:31:20Well, she certainly does now, Ollie.
0:31:22 > 0:31:25After a week of ups and downs and ins and outs,
0:31:25 > 0:31:28Ollie and the boys were having a quiet beer...
0:31:28 > 0:31:31unaware that they were about to be busted by his parents.
0:31:31 > 0:31:33Oh, God!
0:31:33 > 0:31:35You're nicked!
0:31:35 > 0:31:38It was a controlled surprise.
0:31:38 > 0:31:41I must look cool in front of my friends, sort of thing.
0:31:41 > 0:31:43We've been watching you all week.
0:31:43 > 0:31:45You're a liar.
0:31:45 > 0:31:47I got my passport an hour before you left.
0:31:47 > 0:31:50When I went to Ibiza, I think my mum finally realised
0:31:50 > 0:31:53that she's not going to wrap me up in cotton wool my whole life.
0:31:53 > 0:31:56Over the week, I'm sure she learnt a little bit how to let go.
0:31:56 > 0:32:00At the end of the day, I did think you looked good in a skirt.
0:32:00 > 0:32:02Oh! It's done her the world of good really.
0:32:02 > 0:32:04She's a bit more lenient,
0:32:04 > 0:32:07giving me more independence since I've been back.
0:32:07 > 0:32:10I think the lesson we've learnt mainly is that Oliver is fine
0:32:10 > 0:32:13to sort of go out on his own and do his own thing.
0:32:13 > 0:32:18If he booked a holiday tomorrow, I wouldn't necessarily worry about it.
0:32:20 > 0:32:23It was mine and my dad's first time abroad. Them two are already
0:32:23 > 0:32:26looking at holidays in New York and places like that.
0:32:26 > 0:32:29- We're planning trips now. - So, yeah...
0:32:29 > 0:32:32The bug has bitten us, yeah. We want to go further afield.
0:32:32 > 0:32:35I'm definitely going away again but this time,
0:32:35 > 0:32:39hopefully they won't be within a few hundred miles of me!
0:32:44 > 0:32:45Oh, come on.
0:32:47 > 0:32:51Tom has been brought up in the sleepy backwaters of Leicestershire.
0:32:51 > 0:32:55For 18 years, he's lived under martial law,
0:32:55 > 0:32:58laid down by his overbearing mum, Jane.
0:32:58 > 0:33:01That's your passport. You guard it with your life.
0:33:01 > 0:33:03Last summer, he was looking
0:33:03 > 0:33:06to loosen the shackles before heading off to uni.
0:33:06 > 0:33:10I would definitely say that a lads' holiday is a rite of passage,
0:33:10 > 0:33:16as in when you're of age, you go on one and get absolutely drunk.
0:33:17 > 0:33:18But for Tom,
0:33:18 > 0:33:22there was another more important box to tick on his journey into manhood.
0:33:22 > 0:33:25ALL: Virgin! Virgin! Virgin! Virgin!
0:33:25 > 0:33:30Tom wasn't going to be caught short if opportunity came knocking.
0:33:30 > 0:33:32Those are my lucky pair of boxers.
0:33:32 > 0:33:35And his mates were there to give him a helping hand.
0:33:35 > 0:33:38Goal one, get Tom laid.
0:33:38 > 0:33:39THEY LAUGH
0:33:39 > 0:33:42We thought it would be a nice present for Tom, really.
0:33:42 > 0:33:45He's on holiday, he might as well have some fun.
0:33:45 > 0:33:47Woo!
0:33:47 > 0:33:50The boys were off to try their luck in Ayia Napa...
0:33:52 > 0:33:54..the clubbing capital of sizzling Cyprus.
0:33:57 > 0:34:01And it didn't take long for Tom to spot some targets.
0:34:01 > 0:34:03Hiya!
0:34:05 > 0:34:08There were some girls there instantly who just basically jumped on us.
0:34:08 > 0:34:10So Tom moved in with a crafty chat up line.
0:34:10 > 0:34:13Do you want half a Carlsberg?
0:34:15 > 0:34:19Little did he know that the boss had just arrived in town.
0:34:19 > 0:34:20Hi!
0:34:21 > 0:34:27Oblivious to the danger, big-shot Tom, bought some big shots.
0:34:27 > 0:34:29I bought absinthe for everyone
0:34:29 > 0:34:33and it turned out that my body can't deal with absinthe, basically.
0:34:37 > 0:34:41The girls took us to the club in Ayia Napa and I definitely thought
0:34:41 > 0:34:45that our chances were good with the girls, definitely.
0:34:45 > 0:34:48But after all that absinthe...
0:34:50 > 0:34:53..things didn't go according to plan.
0:34:53 > 0:34:56Did I success with the moves, Rhys?
0:34:56 > 0:34:58None. None of them hit the target.
0:34:58 > 0:35:00That's shameful.
0:35:01 > 0:35:05But shame was the name of the game and Jane was about to see
0:35:05 > 0:35:09exactly what her little boy does while Mummy is away.
0:35:09 > 0:35:11I'm not quite sure how I'm feeling.
0:35:11 > 0:35:16I'm hoping to see that Tom is everything what I think he is.
0:35:16 > 0:35:17Be good.
0:35:17 > 0:35:21Her friend Karen was also there to keep an eye on her son,
0:35:21 > 0:35:23Tom's best friend, Rhys.
0:35:23 > 0:35:25No, you drink this water, we go home.
0:35:25 > 0:35:28Drink that water. No, he's going to be sick.
0:35:29 > 0:35:32Rhys is taking him home, we're all right.
0:35:32 > 0:35:35I think the fact that I didn't basically know
0:35:35 > 0:35:38what I was doing kind of scared her.
0:35:38 > 0:35:41The fact you were face down on the pavement...was an indication.
0:35:41 > 0:35:44That might have been a suggestion.
0:35:45 > 0:35:50The holiday clock was ticking so Tom was still on a mission.
0:35:50 > 0:35:53Judging by this, I'll been meeting a lot of girls tonight.
0:35:53 > 0:35:56I've never been on a pub crawl before so it was a new experience.
0:35:56 > 0:36:00And for virgin Tom, it was full of new experiences.
0:36:02 > 0:36:04I had a chocolate blow job.
0:36:04 > 0:36:08A girl was sucking off a chocolate bar between my legs.
0:36:08 > 0:36:09And then he ate it.
0:36:09 > 0:36:12This only happens in Ayia Napa!
0:36:12 > 0:36:17Then, in the last bar of the crawl, something spectacular happened.
0:36:17 > 0:36:20I got off with a girl, basically.
0:36:20 > 0:36:23He liked her a lot, apparently, he said.
0:36:23 > 0:36:26She was nice, she was nice.
0:36:26 > 0:36:29It looked like Tom was finally about to pop his cherry
0:36:29 > 0:36:32but there was one small problem.
0:36:32 > 0:36:35I'm not going to rush into it on the first night with a girl,
0:36:35 > 0:36:37go, "Get in the bed."
0:36:39 > 0:36:42That's why you're not getting any really.
0:36:43 > 0:36:47So it all came down to the last big night
0:36:47 > 0:36:50and Tom didn't take any chances in his quest for sexual success.
0:36:50 > 0:36:53I think my lucky boxers might have been that day.
0:36:57 > 0:37:01Tom was dressed as a banana but he was determined to lose his cherry.
0:37:01 > 0:37:04There was just one problem.
0:37:04 > 0:37:06Call the girl.
0:37:06 > 0:37:10Eventually, Tom plucked up enough courage to get in contact.
0:37:10 > 0:37:13A few kisses. One, yeah, two, three.
0:37:14 > 0:37:16Send, send, send!
0:37:16 > 0:37:19Three is kind of like you mean something.
0:37:19 > 0:37:22You put that effort into pressing X three times. It's the magic number.
0:37:22 > 0:37:25I think we're heading to Aqua later.
0:37:25 > 0:37:27One kiss.
0:37:27 > 0:37:32- I texted three, she then texted one. - That's where you went wrong then.
0:37:32 > 0:37:37He may have only got one kiss, but Tom was hoping for a whole lot more.
0:37:37 > 0:37:39I want to get refreshed.
0:37:39 > 0:37:43And what could be more refreshing than getting to grips
0:37:43 > 0:37:45with a lovely young lady?
0:37:45 > 0:37:47If you can find her.
0:37:47 > 0:37:50It would have been nice to see if anything would've happened
0:37:50 > 0:37:53but not that fussed that it didn't, to be honest.
0:37:53 > 0:37:56But with Mum spying on everything he did,
0:37:56 > 0:37:59it was probably a good job that Tom had no luck getting lucky.
0:37:59 > 0:38:01She'd expect me to be in a relationship
0:38:01 > 0:38:04with a girl first, definitely.
0:38:04 > 0:38:08So how did his conservative mum handle seeing her little Tom
0:38:08 > 0:38:10trying to pop his cherry?
0:38:10 > 0:38:13There's pressure to lose your virginity by 18 basically.
0:38:13 > 0:38:17I've had, yeah... People always go, "What, you're still a virgin?"
0:38:17 > 0:38:18and things like that.
0:38:18 > 0:38:20I'm sorry, stop filming.
0:38:23 > 0:38:25I don't know whether my mum knew I was a virgin before this.
0:38:25 > 0:38:29I didn't discuss it with her, really, so I don't know.
0:38:29 > 0:38:33Once we got through to Tom and his words were talking about sex,
0:38:33 > 0:38:39it was panic that I was... It was going to go too far for me.
0:38:39 > 0:38:42It would have been awkward if my mum had even seen me take someone
0:38:42 > 0:38:45back so it's good that I didn't lose my virginity on holiday.
0:38:45 > 0:38:47In our house, we don't talk about sex.
0:38:47 > 0:38:50And on holiday, Tom doesn't have it.
0:38:50 > 0:38:55But seeing his best efforts had knocked Jane for six.
0:38:55 > 0:38:59Maybe I'm questioning this now whether I am actually a good parent.
0:38:59 > 0:39:03Seeing my mum say that, it doesn't make me feel good.
0:39:03 > 0:39:07I would hope that she had known that I think she's been an amazing mother.
0:39:08 > 0:39:12After a somewhat frustrating week, Tom and the boys started their
0:39:12 > 0:39:17last big night by downing a pint through each other's dirty socks.
0:39:17 > 0:39:21And Tom's mum, Jane, couldn't wait to collar him
0:39:21 > 0:39:24and bring some law and order back into his life.
0:39:25 > 0:39:28- Surprise!- Oh, God!
0:39:28 > 0:39:30As soon as I saw them, I thought oh, no,
0:39:30 > 0:39:34because then I knew instantly they've seen everything.
0:39:34 > 0:39:38We've been seeing what you've been up to and you!
0:39:39 > 0:39:42We developed a new closeness because of the programme, I think,
0:39:42 > 0:39:45and when the cameras stopped rolling,
0:39:45 > 0:39:47we did talk about the holiday as a whole.
0:39:47 > 0:39:49It's meant to be my holiday, not yours.
0:39:49 > 0:39:53I think my mum learnt that she can let go and she can trust me
0:39:53 > 0:39:57when I'm going out to be responsible, in most circumstances.
0:39:57 > 0:40:03I am definitely ready to go off to uni and to be mature in uni... ish.
0:40:12 > 0:40:15- Do you want a drink or anything? - No, I'm all right.
0:40:15 > 0:40:19In Newcastle, glamorous Geordie, Alex, couldn't wait for a week
0:40:19 > 0:40:23of peace and quiet after years of bickering with her stepdad, Mike.
0:40:23 > 0:40:26- I don't tell you what to do. - You try.
0:40:26 > 0:40:29Well, your mum doesn't tell you what to do, does she?
0:40:29 > 0:40:31- Because I'm 19 years old. - Oh, don't start.
0:40:31 > 0:40:34With Alex and Mike always at loggerheads,
0:40:34 > 0:40:36Julia needed to make a change.
0:40:36 > 0:40:40Actually, all I want is peace and tranquillity and a quiet life
0:40:40 > 0:40:43and I'm sick of being piggy in the middle between the two of them.
0:40:43 > 0:40:45- Here's to Zante!- To Zante!
0:40:45 > 0:40:48Alex was heading off with her two best mates,
0:40:48 > 0:40:50as her boyfriend was working abroad.
0:40:50 > 0:40:53I've never been away with my friends before
0:40:53 > 0:40:56and I can't wait, just party on.
0:40:56 > 0:40:57Down in Brighton,
0:40:57 > 0:41:01Sophie wanted to spend the summer bonding with her best buddies,
0:41:01 > 0:41:05before they all went their separate ways after leaving college.
0:41:05 > 0:41:08Definitely, definitely a mummy's girl, aren't you?
0:41:08 > 0:41:10She also thought she was about to give
0:41:10 > 0:41:11her traditional parents the slip.
0:41:11 > 0:41:13She does clash with Ray.
0:41:13 > 0:41:16They're very similar in personality, that's why, I think.
0:41:16 > 0:41:20My Christian faith to me is still the bedrock of my life.
0:41:20 > 0:41:23What we're really hoping is that Sophie has a moral compass,
0:41:23 > 0:41:25that she can use for herself.
0:41:25 > 0:41:28But Sophie's moral compass was a little bit wonky.
0:41:28 > 0:41:30There we go, baby.
0:41:30 > 0:41:33There will definitely be a lot of snogging on holiday,
0:41:33 > 0:41:35girly snogging as well!
0:41:36 > 0:41:39So Zante was the perfect place for the girls to let loose.
0:41:39 > 0:41:42With hundreds of bars all teeming with teens,
0:41:42 > 0:41:44they were in a hedonist's heaven.
0:41:45 > 0:41:50The unobtainable Geordie Alex didn't waste any time
0:41:50 > 0:41:53shaking things up along the strip.
0:41:53 > 0:41:56One of them had a cocktail thing around this guy's willy.
0:41:56 > 0:41:59And then they shaked the shaker in his pants,
0:41:59 > 0:42:04in what could have been taken as a really wrong way.
0:42:04 > 0:42:08What's the word? Proper word, not being rude. Masturbating.
0:42:08 > 0:42:13Which I thought was fairly disgusting. Still do.
0:42:13 > 0:42:16I think it's called a screaming orgasm.
0:42:16 > 0:42:19- Got to drink it from his crotch.- Had to drink it from his crotch as well.
0:42:19 > 0:42:24But after a few too many cocktails, Alex was a bit shaken up herself
0:42:24 > 0:42:27and started reflecting on life back home.
0:42:28 > 0:42:33I feel like I live in a house with two people I don't know.
0:42:33 > 0:42:38So the next day, Julia and Mike were in for a few home truths.
0:42:38 > 0:42:43I feel like I've lost both a friend, and I've lost a mother.
0:42:43 > 0:42:48- Like I try and tell her stuff, I do, I really try.- Oh, bless her.
0:42:48 > 0:42:52Oh, dear me.
0:42:52 > 0:42:54She didn't know that I was watching that.
0:42:54 > 0:42:58So, yeah, I think that she did mean what she said.
0:42:58 > 0:43:04It was an awful thing to think that she felt so alienated from me.
0:43:04 > 0:43:09Her seeing that outburst has made her kind of think about how
0:43:09 > 0:43:13I have been feeling for like quite a long time.
0:43:13 > 0:43:16We just didn't talk about things like that,
0:43:16 > 0:43:22but I was then able to say to Alex that I had seen her very upset
0:43:22 > 0:43:26and it had upset me to hear what she had to say.
0:43:26 > 0:43:33- And can we try and make things better?- At the expense of me.
0:43:33 > 0:43:38You know, she's finally realised that it's an issue
0:43:38 > 0:43:40and it needs to be dealt with.
0:43:40 > 0:43:44She wanted to get together with Alex.
0:43:44 > 0:43:47Mike? Bollocks with Mike.
0:43:50 > 0:43:52In much calmer waters,
0:43:52 > 0:43:56Sophie was larging it on the podium at a foam party.
0:43:56 > 0:44:00And didn't notice a couple of slightly more discerning ravers
0:44:00 > 0:44:03bopping away in the corner.
0:44:04 > 0:44:07That was great fun. That was great fun.
0:44:07 > 0:44:09It's mental in there!
0:44:09 > 0:44:10It was all going so well,
0:44:10 > 0:44:14but at every party there's always a pooper.
0:44:14 > 0:44:17I went to the bar and went, "Give me your strongest drink."
0:44:17 > 0:44:19Oh, Sophie...
0:44:20 > 0:44:22And I took the drink,
0:44:22 > 0:44:25and that's about the last thing I remember after that.
0:44:25 > 0:44:28What's she doing? What is she doing?
0:44:28 > 0:44:32But Mum and Dad do, because they were watching the lot.
0:44:32 > 0:44:34They're hammered, absolutely hammered.
0:44:34 > 0:44:37I don't think binge drinking is a good idea, wherever you do it.
0:44:37 > 0:44:40That... That was just a drunk on a new level.
0:44:40 > 0:44:43Sophie had gone on holiday to get drunk.
0:44:43 > 0:44:44Meg! Meg!
0:44:44 > 0:44:48And she had finally achieved her goal.
0:44:49 > 0:44:53The Geordie crew decided to swap the bright lights of Zante
0:44:53 > 0:44:56for more serene surroundings and a spot of horse riding.
0:44:56 > 0:44:58Come on, quick, quick!
0:44:58 > 0:45:01But they weren't the only ones horsing around.
0:45:01 > 0:45:03We were in disguise,
0:45:03 > 0:45:06and we were hiding behind some umbrellas
0:45:06 > 0:45:09- with silly hats on and binoculars and everything.- Daft!
0:45:09 > 0:45:11Have you got your binoculars?
0:45:11 > 0:45:13I had no idea.
0:45:13 > 0:45:17Literally absolutely oblivious, I wasn't even looking at the beach.
0:45:17 > 0:45:20- Oh, here they are. Right, I've got them.- Have you?- Yeah.
0:45:20 > 0:45:24She looks very relaxed. I wish I was with her!
0:45:24 > 0:45:28And as they snuck a peek from behind their oversized umbrellas,
0:45:28 > 0:45:31Julia began to take a trip down memory lane.
0:45:31 > 0:45:36She got her own pony when she was around about sort of...nine or ten.
0:45:36 > 0:45:39I used to help, you know, a lot with him,
0:45:39 > 0:45:42and they were nice, nice times that we shared together.
0:45:42 > 0:45:44Very nice times.
0:45:44 > 0:45:47We did used to have like a laugh and stuff,
0:45:47 > 0:45:51and then kind of like when Mike came on the scene
0:45:51 > 0:45:53and she didn't have time,
0:45:53 > 0:45:56it all kind of went downhill from there,
0:45:56 > 0:45:59and I think that's when we started like drifting apart quite a lot.
0:45:59 > 0:46:05The programme became a catalyst for looking at our relationship
0:46:05 > 0:46:09and making a decision, jointly, to try and make it better.
0:46:09 > 0:46:14The last time Donna and Ray had seen their darling daughter,
0:46:14 > 0:46:16she was off her trolley.
0:46:16 > 0:46:19It's dangerous. It IS dangerous as well.
0:46:19 > 0:46:21- She's agreeing it's dangerous.- Yeah.
0:46:21 > 0:46:25But as Sophie gave with one hand, so she took with the other.
0:46:25 > 0:46:28If I've had a fight, if I'm going out with someone,
0:46:28 > 0:46:31I'll be like, "Bye, love you," and I wait for him to say it back.
0:46:31 > 0:46:34- Yeah.- And I know it's forced for him to say it.
0:46:34 > 0:46:38Oh, it's not, Sophie. Oh, it's not!
0:46:38 > 0:46:42I felt really bad by, you know, saying what I did on camera
0:46:42 > 0:46:48and seeing just his like face, but in a way it was nice,
0:46:48 > 0:46:52because he did take it in, and it's helped us...move forward.
0:46:52 > 0:46:56Sophie was still in the party mood...
0:46:56 > 0:46:58- Let's get fucked!- To Sophie!- Yeah!
0:46:58 > 0:47:02..when her parents decided to call time on her holiday.
0:47:02 > 0:47:04And they couldn't have picked
0:47:04 > 0:47:07a more uncomfortable moment to reveal themselves.
0:47:09 > 0:47:11No, I can't!
0:47:11 > 0:47:13When I saw my dad, I lit... I wanted to run.
0:47:13 > 0:47:15If I wasn't on the bar, I would have run.
0:47:15 > 0:47:18- No way!- Hello, Sophie.
0:47:18 > 0:47:22We've been watching your every move.
0:47:22 > 0:47:24EVERY move.
0:47:24 > 0:47:27Surprisingly, they were actually really proud of me.
0:47:27 > 0:47:30Now my dad's more involved now with my life.
0:47:30 > 0:47:34He's stopped going to his sport clubs if I need help,
0:47:34 > 0:47:37which is nice to know that he'd give that up for me.
0:47:37 > 0:47:39You're a good girl, a really good girl.
0:47:39 > 0:47:42My dad does always say that he loves me,
0:47:42 > 0:47:44but it's nice now to know that he means it.
0:47:46 > 0:47:50Having seen a whole new side to her estranged daughter,
0:47:50 > 0:47:52the time had come for Julia to break cover.
0:47:52 > 0:47:54Don't worry, love.
0:47:54 > 0:47:59There was the possibility that she...would get really annoyed.
0:47:59 > 0:48:03So stepdad Mike stayed out of the firing line.
0:48:03 > 0:48:08It was a bit risky, spying on Alex, but it was a risk worth taking,
0:48:08 > 0:48:12because I was hoping that it would bring Alex and I closer together.
0:48:15 > 0:48:17Oh, no...
0:48:19 > 0:48:22Hello, Alex! How are you?
0:48:22 > 0:48:26I think I actually said, "Fuck off," I was that shocked,
0:48:26 > 0:48:30which is a lovely greeting, especially from your daughter!
0:48:30 > 0:48:35Well, what a waste of one euro 50 for a postcard.
0:48:35 > 0:48:39But Alex wasn't quite so pleased to see stepdad Mike.
0:48:39 > 0:48:41Fuck's sake! Really?
0:48:41 > 0:48:45Mike thought that I was a lying, cheating,
0:48:45 > 0:48:47drug-abusing little ho bag.
0:48:47 > 0:48:50- You did us proud, Alex. You looked good.- You did look good.
0:48:50 > 0:48:54- Your face is back to normal. - It might sound really horrible,
0:48:54 > 0:48:57but that's probably one of the best things that came out of it,
0:48:57 > 0:49:00getting to prove especially Mike wrong.
0:49:00 > 0:49:03Despite all the ups and downs,
0:49:03 > 0:49:05things are looking better for mum and daughter.
0:49:05 > 0:49:08Since we've came back,
0:49:08 > 0:49:10I can't say that we've really gotten much closer,
0:49:10 > 0:49:14but there's definitely been progress and there's been no arguments.
0:49:14 > 0:49:17I have moved out now,
0:49:17 > 0:49:20which has definitely taken a lot of stress away.
0:49:20 > 0:49:25I do have good hopes that we'll get back to being very close again,
0:49:25 > 0:49:28and that's what I want, and I hope that's what she wants as well.
0:49:28 > 0:49:31I feel that I'm quite happy to talk to her,
0:49:31 > 0:49:34whereas before I would just avoid any contact.
0:49:34 > 0:49:38Certainly things will get better, they've got better already,
0:49:38 > 0:49:40so hope for the best, it'll get better again.
0:49:44 > 0:49:4919-year-old party girl Adina was off to Malia with her mates
0:49:49 > 0:49:51for the holiday of a lifetime.
0:49:55 > 0:49:58We all just wanted to like... let go and stuff,
0:49:58 > 0:50:00go out every night, get drunk.
0:50:00 > 0:50:05Adina thought that her tormented mum Justine would be out of the picture.
0:50:05 > 0:50:08The main reasons I worry
0:50:08 > 0:50:11about the amount of alcohol Adina drinks when she goes out
0:50:11 > 0:50:15is she might have sex with no condom, I don't want to be a grandma.
0:50:15 > 0:50:18Adina's off, but little does she know I'm going to be there tomorrow.
0:50:18 > 0:50:22- I don't know how I feel about that. - But there was no going back.
0:50:22 > 0:50:25Ooh-aah, Malia, say ooh-aah, Malia!
0:50:25 > 0:50:30The girls were off to the notorious party town of Malia,
0:50:30 > 0:50:33which attracts thousands of Brits every summer,
0:50:33 > 0:50:37all hungry for sun, sex and plenty of booze.
0:50:39 > 0:50:44So man-eater Adina felt perfectly at home.
0:50:44 > 0:50:46Do you love me?
0:50:46 > 0:50:49When I go out, I do like to pull, like everybody does.
0:50:49 > 0:50:54But not everyone does it with such enthusiasm.
0:50:54 > 0:50:58They weren't particularly my type, but because I'd drank so much,
0:50:58 > 0:51:03I had my beer goggles on, and maybe I was on the prowl a bit.
0:51:03 > 0:51:06So protective mum Justine's first viewing
0:51:06 > 0:51:08was never going to be pretty.
0:51:08 > 0:51:13I was really nervous, I was worried about what I was going to see,
0:51:13 > 0:51:15how I was going to cope with it.
0:51:15 > 0:51:18Luckily, Auntie Jo was there for a bit of moral support.
0:51:18 > 0:51:22My mum's always been really weird with me about boys,
0:51:22 > 0:51:26so for her to see it is probably like a big shock for her.
0:51:26 > 0:51:30- And...it was.- Oh, fucking hell!
0:51:30 > 0:51:32I can't watch this shit, sorry!
0:51:35 > 0:51:36She's not doing anything!
0:51:36 > 0:51:39I've never actually seen her with a guy
0:51:39 > 0:51:41and kissing him and stuff, it broke my heart.
0:51:41 > 0:51:44I thought that was a bit of an over-reaction,
0:51:44 > 0:51:48because obviously that's what young girls do when they go out.
0:51:48 > 0:51:51- I don't like it, full stop. - What, watching her?
0:51:51 > 0:51:53I don't like it, full stop.
0:51:53 > 0:51:56I did pull quite a few diva strops whilst I was there,
0:51:56 > 0:51:59to be honest with you, which isn't good.
0:52:00 > 0:52:03But for Adina, it was all in a good cause.
0:52:03 > 0:52:07I would rather that she was more open-minded about it,
0:52:07 > 0:52:09so it might be a good thing for her to see it.
0:52:09 > 0:52:11Whoo!
0:52:11 > 0:52:14And so the ordeal continued
0:52:14 > 0:52:18when Justine and Jo hit the town to spy on Adina.
0:52:18 > 0:52:20I thought it was early evening,
0:52:20 > 0:52:24Adina won't have drunk too much, so everything would be cool.
0:52:24 > 0:52:27In walked Adina with this rose.
0:52:27 > 0:52:30Her hair looked absolutely beautiful, she looked beautiful,
0:52:30 > 0:52:33but there was something not quite right...about her.
0:52:33 > 0:52:37Adina, to put it politely...
0:52:37 > 0:52:40..was absolutely smashed out of her brains.
0:52:41 > 0:52:45- It's horrible, man! - You're turning me on...
0:52:45 > 0:52:48God, she's fucking pissed out of her brain!
0:52:48 > 0:52:51It was really strange, like, just to think,
0:52:51 > 0:52:55"Oh, I've been doing this when my mum's like so close to me,"
0:52:55 > 0:52:57because obviously if I knew she was there,
0:52:57 > 0:53:00I wouldn't have been acting the way that I was.
0:53:00 > 0:53:04I don't like watching it, you know, I can't stand it.
0:53:04 > 0:53:06- I know.- It's disgusting!
0:53:06 > 0:53:09I started getting a bit upset, I swore a little bit
0:53:09 > 0:53:13and was basically just...so worried about her.
0:53:13 > 0:53:17I just wanted to get up and walk into the club, and obviously I couldn't.
0:53:17 > 0:53:19- She's wiggling her bum. - She's wiggling her bum,
0:53:19 > 0:53:23- bent right over like...- Gyrating. - ..from behind.
0:53:23 > 0:53:27It was embarrassing to see myself like so drunk.
0:53:27 > 0:53:31I wouldn't want to come across like that normally,
0:53:31 > 0:53:34because I think I looked like a bit of an idiot.
0:53:34 > 0:53:37This is just...appalling behaviour.
0:53:37 > 0:53:42I'd rather not know what state sometimes she gets herself into,
0:53:42 > 0:53:45because then I perhaps won't worry as much,
0:53:45 > 0:53:48whereas now, every time she goes out, I'm worried sick.
0:53:48 > 0:53:51For me, I'd rather not have seen it.
0:53:51 > 0:53:55The end of the holiday couldn't come quick enough for Justine.
0:53:55 > 0:53:57But there was one last thing to do.
0:53:57 > 0:54:00I drank a bottle of schnapps at home.
0:54:00 > 0:54:04Tell Adina that she'd been spying all week long.
0:54:04 > 0:54:07All day that day, I was absolutely dreading it.
0:54:07 > 0:54:10The tension.
0:54:10 > 0:54:14I was thinking, "It could go terribly wrong, she could scream, shout."
0:54:16 > 0:54:17Adina.
0:54:17 > 0:54:19Adina, turn around!
0:54:19 > 0:54:23I'm sorry! I'm sorry!
0:54:25 > 0:54:29Are you all right? Don't cry!
0:54:29 > 0:54:32- I've not ruined it for you, have I? - No, don't cry!
0:54:32 > 0:54:36When I saw her, I didn't feel angry with her or anything,
0:54:36 > 0:54:40but I was just a bit thinking, "Oh, I wonder what she's actually seen."
0:54:40 > 0:54:43We saw a boy with his hands on your bum in the club.
0:54:43 > 0:54:48You probably don't remember. I've just found it so hard, Adina.
0:54:48 > 0:54:50After watching what's happened,
0:54:50 > 0:54:53she's going to have to realise that she needs to
0:54:53 > 0:54:57take a step back maybe and let me do my own thing.
0:54:57 > 0:54:59Don't cry, it's embarrassing!
0:54:59 > 0:55:02Even though it had been a difficult trip for Justine,
0:55:02 > 0:55:04in the end, it was worth it.
0:55:04 > 0:55:08I've always thought that it's Adina that's going to need me forever more,
0:55:08 > 0:55:10but now I've come to the decision
0:55:10 > 0:55:14that I think it's more that it's me that needs Adina.
0:55:15 > 0:55:17I'm going to let her get on with it,
0:55:17 > 0:55:20and if she needs me, she knows I'm there for her
0:55:20 > 0:55:23and I always will be, unconditionally.
0:55:26 > 0:55:32It was a revealing summer for all the parents.
0:55:32 > 0:55:34We've been seeing what you've been up to!
0:55:34 > 0:55:37She's far too old for him.
0:55:37 > 0:55:41With many surprises and revelations along the way.
0:55:41 > 0:55:45- It's your mum!- Oh, hello.
0:55:45 > 0:55:49You don't want this to be seen, you stupid fool.
0:55:51 > 0:55:54I'm sorry, stop filming.
0:55:54 > 0:55:58They got to know their kids a lot better than they had bargained for.
0:55:58 > 0:56:01Oh, I thought they were just friends.
0:56:01 > 0:56:05But it brought them all closer together.
0:56:05 > 0:56:09It has made my day, watching you enjoy yourself.
0:56:09 > 0:56:11- You don't have to be so cringey. - Shut up!
0:56:11 > 0:56:13Our lives will never be the same again.
0:56:13 > 0:56:16- Never.- And it's been such a positive experience.
0:56:16 > 0:56:21- But don't worry, we won't be coming on the next one.- No!
0:56:21 > 0:56:23No, too right they ain't!
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