0:00:02 > 0:00:06This programme contains strong language
0:00:06 > 0:00:08The freedom of your first holiday with your mates
0:00:08 > 0:00:10- where everyone's up for it... - I'm not missing home!
0:00:10 > 0:00:12..and anything goes.
0:00:14 > 0:00:15Cheap booze...
0:00:15 > 0:00:19I am really drunk.
0:00:19 > 0:00:20Leave me alone.
0:00:20 > 0:00:21..dirty dancing...
0:00:24 > 0:00:26..and that all important independence...
0:00:26 > 0:00:29Arghhhh!
0:00:29 > 0:00:30..away from Mum and Dad.
0:00:30 > 0:00:32I hope my mum does never watch this.
0:00:32 > 0:00:34Sorry, Dad!
0:00:34 > 0:00:39But, what the teenagers don't know, is that the parents are coming too.
0:00:39 > 0:00:40That's disgusting!
0:00:42 > 0:00:43Secretly watching.
0:00:43 > 0:00:45Can we have just five minutes.
0:00:45 > 0:00:47He's an absolute bloody disgrace, he is.
0:00:47 > 0:00:50Sneakily spying...
0:00:50 > 0:00:51There's Dan.
0:00:51 > 0:00:54..and outrageously hiding.
0:00:54 > 0:00:56Tricky, tricky.
0:00:56 > 0:00:59All to see if their kids can stand on their own two feet.
0:00:59 > 0:01:01It's the one thing that we said we didn't want to see.
0:01:01 > 0:01:04I'm starting to wonder if I even know Ashley.
0:01:04 > 0:01:05I'm shocked.
0:01:05 > 0:01:07He's dead.
0:01:08 > 0:01:11Will the parents like what they see?
0:01:11 > 0:01:13You've turned from a girl to a woman.
0:01:13 > 0:01:17As the teenagers get the shock of their lives.
0:01:17 > 0:01:18What?!
0:01:18 > 0:01:20- Oh!- Oh, my God!
0:01:21 > 0:01:23Why are you on my holiday?
0:01:25 > 0:01:29Coming up, a big drinking boy and a sensible girl...
0:01:29 > 0:01:31We're going to get Zante pants.
0:01:31 > 0:01:34..head to the Greek island of Zante.
0:01:37 > 0:01:40Self-confident, 18-year-old, Kieran...
0:01:40 > 0:01:43I hope my mum does never watch this on the sofa with me at all.
0:01:43 > 0:01:45..has only one thing on his mind...
0:01:45 > 0:01:48For the week, the shag tally!
0:01:48 > 0:01:51..as he heads off on his first ever lads' holiday.
0:01:55 > 0:01:58Most disgusting thing I've ever seen.
0:01:58 > 0:02:00And good girl, 19-year-old Natasha...
0:02:00 > 0:02:03Are you being serious? Are you wanting to go out?
0:02:03 > 0:02:06Typical going away with a couple of girls.
0:02:06 > 0:02:09..is looking to discover her party spirit.
0:02:09 > 0:02:10Just get out, go!
0:02:10 > 0:02:13Away from her DJ party animal mum, Heidi.
0:02:13 > 0:02:17We went out clubbing absolutely every single night.
0:02:17 > 0:02:19But, when the parents go undercover...
0:02:19 > 0:02:21Just tell him to sling his hook.
0:02:21 > 0:02:24Will it all be too much?
0:02:24 > 0:02:26Oh, my God! Oh, my God, no, I don't want to do it.
0:02:26 > 0:02:28I can feel that she's not comfortable with it.
0:02:28 > 0:02:30He's really, really upset me.
0:02:38 > 0:02:41In Norwich, 18-year-old attention-seeking Kieran
0:02:41 > 0:02:44is heading off on his first ever lads' holiday.
0:02:46 > 0:02:49I just like it when everything revolves around me, to be honest.
0:02:49 > 0:02:53If I don't get the attention, I'll find a way to get it.
0:02:53 > 0:02:57When I'm out with the boys, I'm just the first one at the bar,
0:02:57 > 0:03:00first one to down the drinks and usually the drunkest one, as well.
0:03:02 > 0:03:05Kieran lives at home with his sister and mum, Kate,
0:03:05 > 0:03:08and this is one mummy's boy that doesn't lift a finger.
0:03:08 > 0:03:10My mum definitely does spoil me.
0:03:10 > 0:03:12I wouldn't have it any other way, to be honest.
0:03:12 > 0:03:13No, I know I mother you.
0:03:13 > 0:03:15Well, yeah, but that's not a bad thing.
0:03:15 > 0:03:17But you let me do it.
0:03:17 > 0:03:19Yeah, course I let you do it, because it means I can be lazy
0:03:19 > 0:03:24and you enjoy it, so I wouldn't want to stop you from enjoying yourself.
0:03:24 > 0:03:25Here we go, darling.
0:03:25 > 0:03:26Thank you, cheers.
0:03:26 > 0:03:29Sometimes I just want to have a rest.
0:03:29 > 0:03:31- Mum!- Him to stand on his own two feet.
0:03:31 > 0:03:34You didn't put any relish in it.
0:03:34 > 0:03:36Why do something myself when my mum can just do it for me?
0:03:36 > 0:03:38It's easier.
0:03:38 > 0:03:41That's everything off your list. Condoms...
0:03:41 > 0:03:42My mum does my washing...
0:03:42 > 0:03:43..hairspray.
0:03:43 > 0:03:46- ..cooks for me... - ..trainer socks, plain white.
0:03:46 > 0:03:48- ..cleans for me... - ..and pumps.
0:03:48 > 0:03:50..literally everything for me.
0:03:50 > 0:03:52If you need anything else, give me a shout.
0:03:52 > 0:03:57Kieran's holiday is a chance to show mum that he can cope without her.
0:03:57 > 0:03:59What are you wanting to get out of the holiday?
0:03:59 > 0:04:00What are you going to do?
0:04:00 > 0:04:04I think it would probably be nice to prove that I can do things myself.
0:04:04 > 0:04:06Yeah, I hope so.
0:04:08 > 0:04:12But one thing she doesn't control, is Kieran's excessive drinking.
0:04:12 > 0:04:16Kieran will drink until he can't stand up.
0:04:16 > 0:04:22On a normal night out, I'd probably drink ten pints, shots,
0:04:22 > 0:04:26anything, just mixers, pitchers, as much as I can get in.
0:04:26 > 0:04:29Take a tactical chunder and get back on it again.
0:04:29 > 0:04:33The drunkest I've ever got was at a house party,
0:04:33 > 0:04:36when I drank half a pint of Ben's piss
0:04:36 > 0:04:38and laid in my sick for three hours.
0:04:41 > 0:04:43Mum Kate might put up with her son's drinking,
0:04:43 > 0:04:47but there's one thing she won't put up with.
0:04:47 > 0:04:49Darling, there's just one rule.
0:04:49 > 0:04:51I know, yeah, OK.
0:04:51 > 0:04:53Not to disrespect women, Kieran.
0:04:53 > 0:04:54I won't do it.
0:04:54 > 0:04:57Don't play with people's feelings cos I will be disappointed.
0:04:57 > 0:05:01I've heard Kieran and his friends chat about games that they play
0:05:01 > 0:05:05called like Pull The Pig and things, where...
0:05:05 > 0:05:10where they all go out to see who can sort of pull the ugliest girl
0:05:10 > 0:05:12in the club and things.
0:05:12 > 0:05:15I just think it's disrespectful,
0:05:15 > 0:05:18with no thought to how the girl might feel.
0:05:18 > 0:05:22I'm expecting, from this holiday, to get really messy
0:05:22 > 0:05:25and end up with as many girls as I can in one week.
0:05:27 > 0:05:31Helping Kieran on his booze-fuelled pulling holiday are...
0:05:31 > 0:05:34Yeah, I'm probably going to pull some three out of tens on holiday.
0:05:34 > 0:05:36..not so picky, Ben...
0:05:36 > 0:05:38I'm the nice guy of the group, I like to think.
0:05:38 > 0:05:40..the mother of the pack, Sam...
0:05:40 > 0:05:41I'm not a nice guy,
0:05:41 > 0:05:44cos I'm going to pull some horrific practical jokes on everyone.
0:05:44 > 0:05:46..and the joker, Patrick.
0:05:46 > 0:05:49We are all going to get smashed and I'm going to be taking the twos
0:05:49 > 0:05:52and you, like, are my wingmen and you can take all the ugly friends.
0:05:52 > 0:05:55I'll just be, you know, down an alleyway with some.
0:05:55 > 0:05:57- Yeah, but, yeah, but I like that. - Some pig.
0:06:02 > 0:06:04Over in Southend-on-Sea,
0:06:04 > 0:06:07part-time student and theatre-loving Natasha...
0:06:07 > 0:06:10Thank you, thank you, ladies and gentlemen, thank you.
0:06:10 > 0:06:13..is heading off on her first ever holiday without Mum.
0:06:13 > 0:06:14I haven't been away before.
0:06:14 > 0:06:16I don't know what else to say.
0:06:16 > 0:06:19This definitely does feel like a rite of passage.
0:06:19 > 0:06:22Natasha lives with single mum and former DJ, Heidi.
0:06:23 > 0:06:27If I was honest about who's the bigger party animal,
0:06:27 > 0:06:30I don't know, I think it could be myself, to be fair.
0:06:31 > 0:06:33She calls me her mum quite frequently.
0:06:33 > 0:06:36I'm sat there like, "OK, what time are you coming home?"
0:06:36 > 0:06:37And she's like, "Whenever I want to."
0:06:37 > 0:06:41Natasha leads a life somewhat different to most teenagers...
0:06:41 > 0:06:43My friends do see me as the sensible one.
0:06:43 > 0:06:45They see me as the one that's kind of,
0:06:45 > 0:06:47"OK, it's five o'clock in the morning,
0:06:47 > 0:06:49"I think we should get some sleep now."
0:06:49 > 0:06:53..whilst her mum still likes to think she is a teenager.
0:06:53 > 0:06:57I think if we were to go to Ibiza, I think I'd probably be the one
0:06:57 > 0:07:00that you'd probably want to film more than her, really,
0:07:00 > 0:07:02because I'd still be the one coming out the club
0:07:02 > 0:07:03at eight o'clock in the morning.
0:07:03 > 0:07:07If it's anything like when I went on holiday, oh, my gosh!
0:07:07 > 0:07:11Blimey, we went out clubbing absolutely every single night.
0:07:11 > 0:07:14Interest wise, we clash and so when it comes to talking
0:07:14 > 0:07:18about things sometimes, we're on two completely different levels.
0:07:18 > 0:07:21Yeah, music and football, that's my loves.
0:07:23 > 0:07:26Now 19 and desperate for some independence,
0:07:26 > 0:07:28Natasha, can't wait to get on that plane.
0:07:28 > 0:07:32I'm really geared up for it because I'm like, yeah, I can go out there
0:07:32 > 0:07:34and I'm my own boss and I can come back and I can kind
0:07:34 > 0:07:38of lay down the law now that I've had my own experiences.
0:07:38 > 0:07:41Despite her wild past, Mum, Heidi, is still anxious about her
0:07:41 > 0:07:45daughter's first holiday away, and that's not all she's worried about.
0:07:45 > 0:07:47Sure you'll have a good time.
0:07:47 > 0:07:48Don't put that money in that bag.
0:07:48 > 0:07:51No, I'm not, I'm going to find my purse to put it in.
0:07:51 > 0:07:55My biggest fear is when Tash actually wants to leave the nest.
0:07:55 > 0:07:57As much as she doesn't want to let me go, she kind of wants me to
0:07:57 > 0:08:02get this independence, but I think, when I come back and I've got it,
0:08:02 > 0:08:04she'll be like, "I wish you hadn't gone."
0:08:04 > 0:08:08I'd be lying if I didn't say that, um, the day she comes to me
0:08:08 > 0:08:10and says "Right, Mum, I'm moving out,"
0:08:10 > 0:08:12I would be absolutely devastated.
0:08:14 > 0:08:16Heidi's going along to spy on Natasha,
0:08:16 > 0:08:19in the hope it will prepare her for the inevitable.
0:08:20 > 0:08:24This holiday is going to be, I think, sort of like the start
0:08:24 > 0:08:27of a whole new chapter in mine and Natasha's life.
0:08:27 > 0:08:32It is like the stepping stone to actually accepting that she's
0:08:32 > 0:08:35not my little girl any more and she's actually
0:08:35 > 0:08:36a woman in her own right.
0:08:36 > 0:08:39Are you worried about tomorrow?
0:08:39 > 0:08:42- No.- Do you think I am?- Yeah.
0:08:43 > 0:08:46I'm really apprehensive, but excited.
0:08:46 > 0:08:48I don't know how I'm going to react.
0:08:48 > 0:08:51It is very much like, I've never done this before, so.
0:08:51 > 0:08:54I can't prepare myself for it, which I think will be good.
0:08:55 > 0:08:59Cor, I'm really nervous now!
0:09:00 > 0:09:03Joining Natasha on the holiday are...
0:09:03 > 0:09:05party-loving Hayley.
0:09:05 > 0:09:08I'm a typical Essex girl and everyone says I'm really ditsy,
0:09:08 > 0:09:09but I'm really, really not.
0:09:09 > 0:09:12I think they just say it, cos I've got blonde hair.
0:09:12 > 0:09:14..and surrogate big brother, Darius.
0:09:14 > 0:09:16Obviously going to look out for you guys,
0:09:16 > 0:09:19so I'll probably see you there, but if I see one of you pulling
0:09:19 > 0:09:22I'm not going to go, "Oh, no, I better get involved." That's not me.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25But, obviously, if I think it's dangerous, then yeah, I'll say.
0:09:25 > 0:09:27- Ah!- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
0:09:27 > 0:09:30We're going to be waking you up at six o'clock every morning
0:09:30 > 0:09:32- to go and do activities with us. - Whoa, whoa!- Don't go to bed.
0:09:32 > 0:09:35- Six o'clock?- That's when we go to bed.- Don't think so, somehow.
0:09:35 > 0:09:37- I won't be going to bed at six o'clock.- Why?
0:09:37 > 0:09:40I'm going to be getting in at.. I'll be going home at one o'clock,
0:09:40 > 0:09:41to go and get some sleep.
0:09:41 > 0:09:44- Won't be going out till 12. - Yeah.- What?!
0:09:45 > 0:09:49Setting off at 2am, it's time for Natasha to get her first taste
0:09:49 > 0:09:51of independence.
0:09:51 > 0:09:54Be good, all right? Take care of yourself.
0:09:54 > 0:09:55- Bye.- See you later.
0:09:57 > 0:10:01Oh, my God, that's my little baby gone off on her first holiday.
0:10:01 > 0:10:03Oh! Little does she know!
0:10:04 > 0:10:07Whoa!
0:10:12 > 0:10:16In Norwich, the time has come for Kieran to say his goodbyes...
0:10:16 > 0:10:17I love you, all right?
0:10:17 > 0:10:20- Love you too. See you later. - Mwah!- Thanks. See ya later.
0:10:20 > 0:10:22..and head off on the holiday of a lifetime.
0:10:22 > 0:10:25Bye. Have a nice time.
0:10:26 > 0:10:31We'll be watching you, sooner than you think.
0:10:31 > 0:10:34You'll be doing some two out of ten, whilst playing Pokemon
0:10:34 > 0:10:36on your Gameboy.
0:10:36 > 0:10:38He's got a belt clip, so he can walk around on a night out,
0:10:38 > 0:10:40clipped on, he'll be like,
0:10:40 > 0:10:44"Hang on, ladies, just check out what level my Pokemon on".
0:10:47 > 0:10:52The Greek island of Zante is filled with magnificent culture,
0:10:52 > 0:10:55glorious landscapes and amazing seas.
0:10:59 > 0:11:02But every year, thousands descend onto the Laganas strip...
0:11:04 > 0:11:07..looking for cheap booze, cheap thrills
0:11:07 > 0:11:09and with only one thing on their mind.
0:11:20 > 0:11:25Arriving to join in on the fun are the over-excited Norwich boys.
0:11:25 > 0:11:26Come on, lads!
0:11:29 > 0:11:34Two, four, six, eight, who do we annoy and hate? You!
0:11:34 > 0:11:37Rule for the week, receiving does not count.
0:11:37 > 0:11:40If you are getting bummed, that's not on the shag tally!
0:11:44 > 0:11:46Kieran is sharing with the other ladies' man, Ben,
0:11:46 > 0:11:49so the race is on to get the biggest bed.
0:11:49 > 0:11:53I'm calling this. Double, I've got double, I've got double.
0:11:53 > 0:11:55On the double, on the double.
0:11:55 > 0:11:57Ooh, hello!
0:11:57 > 0:11:59We'll be needing this!
0:11:59 > 0:12:00Oi, this is chunder bowl.
0:12:00 > 0:12:01It's big enough for us both.
0:12:01 > 0:12:03Chunder bowl is sitting there.
0:12:03 > 0:12:05A real chunder bowl.
0:12:05 > 0:12:08This is pride of place ornament, the chunder bowl between.
0:12:08 > 0:12:09You all need a chunder bowl.
0:12:10 > 0:12:13- Patrick. - It's a great shower.
0:12:13 > 0:12:16I'm going to be showering like this, checking out the girls,
0:12:16 > 0:12:20whilst I'm going, "How you doing?" Ooh, hello.
0:12:20 > 0:12:21Hello.
0:12:21 > 0:12:23Fuck!
0:12:27 > 0:12:30- Sorry, mate.- You bastard!
0:12:30 > 0:12:31You dicks.
0:12:31 > 0:12:36Boys being boys, Kieran is quick to set the holiday targets.
0:12:36 > 0:12:37Oh, no! The shag tally.
0:12:37 > 0:12:40For the week, the shag tally.
0:12:40 > 0:12:43Right, this week, Sam, mate, you've already got one,
0:12:43 > 0:12:46cos I bummed you earlier, so you're in there.
0:12:46 > 0:12:50Well done, mate. Sam is in the lead.
0:12:50 > 0:12:52I think Ben, Ben and Kieran are going to end up sharing,
0:12:52 > 0:12:54sharing some really ugly chick.
0:12:54 > 0:12:56Well, not shared at the same time.
0:12:56 > 0:12:57Not at the same time, no.
0:13:03 > 0:13:07At Natasha's hotel, she will be sharing with party-loving, Hayley.
0:13:07 > 0:13:09That shower is actually really nice.
0:13:09 > 0:13:11Yeah, this isn't your room though, Darius.
0:13:11 > 0:13:13He's got his eye on the girls' shower,
0:13:13 > 0:13:15but Darius will have his own room next door.
0:13:15 > 0:13:17- Oh, I'm so excited! - I want to go outside.
0:13:17 > 0:13:19- I want to just get ready and go.- The bar looks really good.
0:13:19 > 0:13:21I really want to get ready and just go.
0:13:21 > 0:13:24Last card for...
0:13:24 > 0:13:26Chug, chug, chug, chug, chug, chug!
0:13:26 > 0:13:29At the boys' hotel, they only arrived an hour ago
0:13:29 > 0:13:31and things are already getting rowdy.
0:13:31 > 0:13:34Chug it! Chug it! Last bit, last bit, go!
0:13:39 > 0:13:43Lettuce! Lettuce! Lettuce! Lettuce! Lettuce!
0:13:46 > 0:13:48It's in his fucking nose!
0:13:48 > 0:13:51Look at him, he's a fucking mess.
0:13:51 > 0:13:54There it is! Chunder, first chunder on the chunder chart.
0:13:54 > 0:13:57Oi, boys! Get it back down ya, boys.
0:13:57 > 0:13:59- Shall I do it?- No, no!
0:13:59 > 0:14:01I'm going to do it.
0:14:01 > 0:14:03He's fucking drinking it.
0:14:03 > 0:14:05What! No! Agh!
0:14:08 > 0:14:13He drank his actual sick. He's own sick with kebab and alcohol.
0:14:13 > 0:14:15Get it back down ya, that's what I say.
0:14:15 > 0:14:17No. Mate, don't, please.
0:14:20 > 0:14:24That is the most disgusting thing I've ever seen, by miles.
0:14:24 > 0:14:25I'm out.
0:14:25 > 0:14:29Basically, that one wasn't a tactical chunder.
0:14:29 > 0:14:32I thought if I drank it back again and drank me own sick,
0:14:32 > 0:14:34I kind of took a number off,
0:14:34 > 0:14:37cos then, technically, nothing's come out of me.
0:14:37 > 0:14:40But, apparently, that's not true and apparently that's disgusting
0:14:40 > 0:14:42and I feel a little bit sick now.
0:14:47 > 0:14:51Whilst the boys get their holiday off to a messy start,
0:14:51 > 0:14:54on the strip, sensible Natasha has taken a different approach
0:14:54 > 0:14:57to her first night. She's going shopping.
0:14:57 > 0:14:59We're going to get Zante pants.
0:14:59 > 0:15:02- And we're going to get Darius to wear some as well. - And we're going to... Yeah.
0:15:02 > 0:15:05- Put them on over your jeans. - No. No. What they doing?
0:15:05 > 0:15:08Much to the dismay of a disappointed Darius.
0:15:08 > 0:15:10I'm still going out for partying,
0:15:10 > 0:15:13but looks like we're going to have to wait till tomorrow night.
0:15:13 > 0:15:16Typical, going away with a couple of girls.
0:15:16 > 0:15:18Are you being serious? Are you wanting to go out?
0:15:18 > 0:15:20Me and you are going to fall out.
0:15:20 > 0:15:23Poor Darius didn't want to go shopping tonight.
0:15:24 > 0:15:28But, tomorrow night he said that we'd have to go out clubbing
0:15:28 > 0:15:31- for the whole night. - Minimum five o'clock.
0:15:31 > 0:15:34- Five o'clock in the morning we'll come home.- Minimum. So that's the earliest.
0:15:36 > 0:15:40It's not even 10:30pm and Natasha is already calling it a night.
0:15:47 > 0:15:50Let loose from their parents and with cheap booze on tap...
0:15:50 > 0:15:52Zante!
0:15:52 > 0:15:54..the boys are hitting it hard.
0:16:01 > 0:16:02Kieran has made a recovery
0:16:02 > 0:16:05and is hoping to get a notch on his shag tally.
0:16:05 > 0:16:07They're fucking twins!
0:16:13 > 0:16:16But all that booze opens the floodgates.
0:16:16 > 0:16:20After I've had this piss, I'm going to go back up there,
0:16:20 > 0:16:24find them two girls that I was with
0:16:24 > 0:16:26and take them back to our apartment.
0:16:35 > 0:16:39Once again, the booze takes its toll.
0:16:41 > 0:16:43Kez.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45Need to go home.
0:16:45 > 0:16:48- You need to get home? - Is that your sick?- Yeah.
0:16:48 > 0:16:51- You're not going to pull tonight. - No.- No.
0:16:51 > 0:16:52Oi, Sam!
0:16:52 > 0:16:56Leaving the boys to take Kieran home.
0:17:04 > 0:17:10It's midday and Kieran is feeling the effects of last night.
0:17:11 > 0:17:14Anything went last night.
0:17:14 > 0:17:17It was hot and I'm paying for it now.
0:17:18 > 0:17:22I'm not drinking till tonight. I need to pace myself.
0:17:22 > 0:17:23I'm going to stay on it tonight.
0:17:23 > 0:17:27I have no idea why I down my drinks so quickly.
0:17:27 > 0:17:30I suppose it's just to make myself look cool in front of the lads,
0:17:30 > 0:17:33thinking I'm big at the time and, in the morning,
0:17:33 > 0:17:36I feel so little. So little.
0:17:39 > 0:17:43She might have passed on the booze-fuelled thrills last night,
0:17:43 > 0:17:46but sensible Natasha is definitely looking
0:17:46 > 0:17:48for her kind of high this holiday.
0:17:49 > 0:17:51By trying water sports.
0:17:51 > 0:17:55What about if we do the rings, the flying fish and the banana boat?
0:17:55 > 0:17:58I don't see the point in doing something that will make you feel like, "Yeah, that was cool."
0:17:58 > 0:18:02I want to do something that I'm like, "Wow! Crap!
0:18:02 > 0:18:05"I was fearing for my life back there."
0:18:05 > 0:18:08# Express yourself
0:18:10 > 0:18:13# Express yourself... #
0:18:15 > 0:18:18That was amazing!
0:18:18 > 0:18:20Amazing!
0:18:20 > 0:18:22That was so incredible.
0:18:22 > 0:18:26I'm so chafed right now. Oh, my God!
0:18:29 > 0:18:31Blissfully unaware, Natasha doesn't realise
0:18:31 > 0:18:35that another thrill seeker has arrived on the island.
0:18:35 > 0:18:37Her mum.
0:18:39 > 0:18:41And joining her is lifelong friend Claire.
0:18:44 > 0:18:48Kieran's mum, Kate, is joined by her mum, Kieran's nanna, Roz.
0:18:48 > 0:18:51- OK?- Hi.
0:18:51 > 0:18:53- Hello.- Hi. I'm Kate.
0:18:53 > 0:18:56- Claire.- Hi, Claire. - Nice to meet you.- And you.
0:18:56 > 0:18:59- I'm Roz.- Heidi.- Hello. Nice to meet you. And you.
0:18:59 > 0:19:01- What's your name?- I'm Claire. - Hi, I'm Roz.
0:19:01 > 0:19:04- This is my mum.- Hello, Mum.
0:19:05 > 0:19:07So, you said you've got your son, who's 19,
0:19:07 > 0:19:09- what's his name by the way?- Kieran.
0:19:09 > 0:19:12Right, OK. Is there anything you're really worried about,
0:19:12 > 0:19:13with him on this holiday?
0:19:13 > 0:19:16- Yes, he says he's going to get his knob out.- Oh, my gosh!
0:19:16 > 0:19:18Which I think he will. What about Tasha?
0:19:18 > 0:19:22Well, she hasn't got one of those, so I haven't gotta worry about that.
0:19:22 > 0:19:24I'm not really that worried about how she's going to behave
0:19:24 > 0:19:27because I've got quite an open relationship with her,
0:19:27 > 0:19:31so it should be OK. No, I'm not really worried.
0:19:31 > 0:19:34She's a bit of a shot girl, so she likes her shots, so, um...
0:19:34 > 0:19:35- Yeah, Kieran does his.- Yeah.
0:19:35 > 0:19:39Anything and everything and they do this technical chunder.
0:19:39 > 0:19:43- Oh, my God, that sounds gross. - Which is a huge waste of alcohol.
0:19:43 > 0:19:46Can't see Tash wanting to have any part of that, to be fair.
0:19:46 > 0:19:48Good!
0:19:52 > 0:19:55On arrival at their hotel, the parents are about to get
0:19:55 > 0:19:59their first glimpse of what their children have been up to.
0:19:59 > 0:20:01About to see Kieran, a bit apprehensive, but not too bad.
0:20:01 > 0:20:03I think it will be OK.
0:20:03 > 0:20:06I don't think I'm going to be too shocked yet.
0:20:06 > 0:20:08All right, here we go then.
0:20:08 > 0:20:12I think if she's herself and doesn't go OTT, she'll be fine.
0:20:12 > 0:20:16What will anxious mum Heidi make of her sensible daughter
0:20:16 > 0:20:18going to bed early on her first night on holiday?
0:20:18 > 0:20:22Tomorrow night he said that we have to go out clubbing
0:20:22 > 0:20:24- for the whole night. - The whole night.- Definitely.
0:20:24 > 0:20:29- And all morning and all afternoon. - And he said we're, we're not allowed home till what time?
0:20:29 > 0:20:32- Minimum five o'clock.- Five o'clock in the morning we'll come home.
0:20:32 > 0:20:35- Minimum. - Minimum, so that's the earliest.
0:20:38 > 0:20:40As much as I've given her my blessing to go
0:20:40 > 0:20:44and have a good time, she knows that I'm obviously going to have concerns
0:20:44 > 0:20:46if she goes too reckless and everything.
0:20:46 > 0:20:49So, yeah, that's really sweet.
0:20:49 > 0:20:52I think she's done really well. She's been thinking about you.
0:20:52 > 0:20:54I don't think it's going to be the same for me.
0:20:54 > 0:20:57Oh, bless! I'm sure it'll be fine.
0:20:57 > 0:20:59OK, let's see.
0:21:00 > 0:21:02Oh, no!
0:21:02 > 0:21:05For the week, the shag tally.
0:21:07 > 0:21:10This week, Sam, mate, you've already got one
0:21:10 > 0:21:13because I bummed you earlier, so you're in there. Well done, mate!
0:21:13 > 0:21:15I might have to take a tacky chunder in the toilet
0:21:15 > 0:21:17and then kind of get back to this game.
0:21:17 > 0:21:19In fact, that's exactly what I'm going to do.
0:21:19 > 0:21:22Get ready to put me a notch down, boys.
0:21:22 > 0:21:24Oh, Kieran.
0:21:24 > 0:21:27Well, you knew he was going to do that, didn't you?
0:21:27 > 0:21:30That's the one.
0:21:31 > 0:21:34Oh, I just shake my head.
0:21:37 > 0:21:39- They're just typical boys, aren't they?- Yeah.
0:21:39 > 0:21:43It's not something I think is great.
0:21:43 > 0:21:46Obviously, it's not good for your body
0:21:46 > 0:21:51because, you know, the harm that it can cause and he does know,
0:21:51 > 0:21:53because we have talked about it,
0:21:53 > 0:21:56but I'd rather he wouldn't have a shag chart.
0:21:56 > 0:21:59Kieran's no different to what the boys were when I was young,
0:21:59 > 0:22:01which was a little while ago.
0:22:01 > 0:22:04I feel like I would pick up a two out of ten
0:22:04 > 0:22:07and be very happy with it right now.
0:22:11 > 0:22:14I'm going to go back up there and take them back to our apartment.
0:22:16 > 0:22:20I just want to go home and throw up.
0:22:20 > 0:22:22Oh, bless him!
0:22:22 > 0:22:24Oh, don't throw up again.
0:22:24 > 0:22:26Technical chunder two.
0:22:31 > 0:22:34Not happy with that he would have a two out of ten.
0:22:34 > 0:22:35We have spoke about that.
0:22:35 > 0:22:38We will speak of that again.
0:22:38 > 0:22:41I agree, I mean if he was sort of like to see my daughter
0:22:41 > 0:22:44and then give her a rating I wouldn't like that.
0:22:44 > 0:22:48- No.- Do you know what I mean? So, as a mother of a girl, then I can...
0:22:48 > 0:22:50- Yeah.- I can sympathise with you there.
0:22:50 > 0:22:53Being a woman and having two daughters...
0:22:53 > 0:22:55Yeah.
0:22:55 > 0:23:00I know what it would do to them and I'm not happy.
0:23:01 > 0:23:04He knows how I feel about him rating girls.
0:23:04 > 0:23:08He's got a sister and he's got a mum and he would not like it
0:23:08 > 0:23:10if it was done to either of us.
0:23:10 > 0:23:12Let's go!
0:23:14 > 0:23:19It's night two and the boys are hitting the strip.
0:23:19 > 0:23:22But Kieran says he's going to take it easy.
0:23:22 > 0:23:24Tomorrow morning I will not be hanging out of my arse.
0:23:24 > 0:23:26I will be up bright and early.
0:23:26 > 0:23:29I'll be showered before anyone else wakes up.
0:23:30 > 0:23:33But, on only his second night on holiday...
0:23:36 > 0:23:39For Kieran, actions speak louder than words.
0:23:44 > 0:23:45Right, let's go.
0:23:45 > 0:23:48After an exceptionally early night last night,
0:23:48 > 0:23:53will Natasha be able to last until 5am, like she promised Darius?
0:23:53 > 0:23:54Cheers!
0:23:54 > 0:23:58But she's not alone. Mum Heidi is heading to the same bar.
0:23:58 > 0:24:00She wants to see what her daughter gets up to
0:24:00 > 0:24:02on her first night on the strip.
0:24:02 > 0:24:06She's getting an opportunity to prove to me that she is a grown up
0:24:06 > 0:24:11and she is able to control situations and deal with situations.
0:24:14 > 0:24:17Whoa! Zante!
0:24:18 > 0:24:23We've been getting free shots all night, free shots. Free shots!
0:24:27 > 0:24:30Look, he's old enough to be your dad. Back off!
0:24:30 > 0:24:33Right, you got to drink it like that.
0:24:33 > 0:24:37Just tell him to sling his hook. Go on! She's just so nice, isn't she?
0:24:37 > 0:24:42- She's like that.- She can't tell anyone to like do one, can she?
0:24:42 > 0:24:44Yeah, bye. See you.
0:24:46 > 0:24:49- Thank you so much.- Oh, she's blagged free drinks as well.
0:24:49 > 0:24:51That's my girl.
0:24:54 > 0:24:57- Uh oh!- No, don't have all three.
0:25:07 > 0:25:10Mum thinks she's seen enough, so she heads home...
0:25:11 > 0:25:14..leaving Natasha to continue partying.
0:25:14 > 0:25:16There was an older guy there.
0:25:16 > 0:25:18I didn't really feel comfortable with that.
0:25:18 > 0:25:22But that's nothing to do with her, that's me being a protective parent,
0:25:22 > 0:25:24being the mum and dad role all rolled into one,
0:25:24 > 0:25:27so, you know. That will never change, you know.
0:25:27 > 0:25:31I've just got to accept that she's able to handle that situation
0:25:31 > 0:25:35- and handle it probably a bit better than I could.- Yeah.
0:25:35 > 0:25:39The plan tonight is blag night. We want as many free drinks as possible,
0:25:39 > 0:25:41get into as many places as possible.
0:25:41 > 0:25:43Blag, blag, blag, blag, blag, blag, blag.
0:25:43 > 0:25:46Whoo! And it's going to be a cheeky night in Zante.
0:25:49 > 0:25:51Kieran turns 19 at midnight.
0:25:53 > 0:25:56And good intentions have gone out the window.
0:25:56 > 0:26:00It's only 10pm and already the boys are struggling.
0:26:03 > 0:26:05But not Kieran.
0:26:14 > 0:26:18Stay out with me! You two, pussios!
0:26:18 > 0:26:23Oi! But it's my birthday night and two of them have gone home.
0:26:23 > 0:26:26They're not here, but I'm getting fucked anyway, so I'm not bothered.
0:26:26 > 0:26:30On his birthday, Kieran is determined to not go home alone.
0:26:35 > 0:26:38And with that he gets 19 kisses.
0:26:38 > 0:26:41# All day, all night
0:26:41 > 0:26:45# All day, all night... #
0:26:47 > 0:26:50Girls are coming up, 19 kisses in like a minute.
0:26:50 > 0:26:53Like that's well played, well played!
0:26:53 > 0:26:57I've now got to go find one of them 19 to take home,
0:26:57 > 0:26:59if I remembered who the fuck they was.
0:27:03 > 0:27:07And it's not long before confident Kieran hits the target.
0:27:07 > 0:27:10Muck up here. See you later, boys.
0:27:10 > 0:27:14I am getting some laid! Shag tally, tick.
0:27:16 > 0:27:21It's nearly 4am and Natasha is still partying hard.
0:27:21 > 0:27:25And it looks like she's finally finding her mum's party spirit.
0:27:25 > 0:27:28Whoa!
0:27:34 > 0:27:37The next day and the parents are about to discover
0:27:37 > 0:27:39what their children have been up to.
0:27:39 > 0:27:42First, Kate, who has concerns about Kieran's drinking.
0:27:42 > 0:27:45I'm hoping that he just has fun and...
0:27:45 > 0:27:48But fun what he can remember tomorrow.
0:27:48 > 0:27:52I have no idea why I down my drinks so quickly,
0:27:52 > 0:27:56thinking I'm big at the time and in the morning I feel so little.
0:27:56 > 0:27:57So little.
0:27:57 > 0:28:01Everyone just eggs you on to drink more and more and more till you drop.
0:28:01 > 0:28:03And I'm easily led.
0:28:04 > 0:28:08I think it is hard because when you're with the lads it is that...
0:28:08 > 0:28:09That pecking order, isn't it?
0:28:09 > 0:28:11Showboating, peer pressure, that's the one, isn't it?
0:28:11 > 0:28:15And if you show that softer side, you're not marked up
0:28:15 > 0:28:17- as one of the top lads, are you?- Mm.
0:28:17 > 0:28:22So, it is. I do understand why he does it. Here we go.
0:28:22 > 0:28:24CHANTING
0:28:26 > 0:28:27CHEERING
0:28:27 > 0:28:30Make some noise!
0:28:30 > 0:28:32Yeah. Where's your hotel?
0:28:32 > 0:28:34It's ages away.
0:28:34 > 0:28:35Ages!
0:28:35 > 0:28:40I am getting some laid! Shag tally, tick.
0:28:42 > 0:28:44I think he thinks it gives him more respect and things.
0:28:44 > 0:28:47- Mm, man points.- But I don't think it does, at the end of the day.
0:28:47 > 0:28:50I think when the lads all get together, it is that
0:28:50 > 0:28:53and Kieran will live up to what everybody wants him to do.
0:28:53 > 0:28:58And hopefully he will treat her with the respect that she deserves
0:28:58 > 0:29:01- and things, so yeah, hopefully. - Next up, it's Heidi.
0:29:01 > 0:29:03Since we've been on this holiday, Darius and Hayley have been
0:29:03 > 0:29:07very much like, yeah, cut loose, cut loose, and I do really want to cut loose,
0:29:07 > 0:29:10but then I think, cos I have been brought up by mum on her own,
0:29:10 > 0:29:12um, and I've had to grow up a lot quicker.
0:29:12 > 0:29:15I've had to be supportive of her and things like that,
0:29:15 > 0:29:19so it's hard for someone to break that mentality of kind of growing up
0:29:19 > 0:29:22really quickly, to then going on a teenage holiday and trying
0:29:22 > 0:29:25to act like a teenager, cos I've never really...
0:29:25 > 0:29:27- I've never really had that. - Ah, bless her!
0:29:29 > 0:29:31That's sort of like made me feel a bit weird
0:29:31 > 0:29:34because I thought she had been a teenager really.
0:29:35 > 0:29:38It's hard. She's got the others saying to her
0:29:38 > 0:29:40that they want her to be more like them, hasn't it?
0:29:40 > 0:29:43- Yeah.- So, that's probably why.
0:29:43 > 0:29:47- Yeah.- She's now thinking, "Oh, maybe this and maybe that."
0:29:47 > 0:29:49I wouldn't want to be the person
0:29:49 > 0:29:52that she thinks is sort of like holding her back.
0:29:52 > 0:29:54- It is difficult to let go.- Yeah.
0:29:54 > 0:29:56- To know when to let go.- Yeah.
0:29:56 > 0:29:58That's something that, you know,
0:29:58 > 0:30:00I'll need to discuss with her. I don't want her to feel
0:30:00 > 0:30:03that she can't go and do what she wants to do.
0:30:03 > 0:30:06This is going to be a learning curve for both of you, and it's not
0:30:06 > 0:30:10going to be easy, so you've got to sort of, um, try and work through
0:30:10 > 0:30:14these sort of little problems that are coming up now.
0:30:18 > 0:30:20It's Kieran's 19th birthday
0:30:20 > 0:30:24and the only present he's waking up to is a split condom.
0:30:24 > 0:30:26Not the gift he was expecting.
0:30:26 > 0:30:29That is like literally STD right there
0:30:29 > 0:30:32and you went bareback for a bit.
0:30:32 > 0:30:35He said to her "Did you use a condom?" And she went...
0:30:36 > 0:30:38Mate, that is filth!
0:30:38 > 0:30:41The one thing I do regret is not realising the condom split
0:30:41 > 0:30:44and that's... That worries me a little bit.
0:30:44 > 0:30:47But nothing I can do about it now.
0:30:49 > 0:30:51And it's not only Kieran that's a mess.
0:30:51 > 0:30:53I feel sick.
0:30:53 > 0:30:55Three days into her holiday
0:30:55 > 0:30:58and Natasha is feeling the effects of a hangover.
0:30:59 > 0:31:02- Do you know what? I don't remember a lot of last night.- Neither do I.
0:31:02 > 0:31:05- I don't, no way.- I definitely didn't remember coming back.
0:31:05 > 0:31:07The week away from her mum is teaching Natasha
0:31:07 > 0:31:10how to properly enjoy her young life.
0:31:10 > 0:31:14'As much as I think it's giving me independence, it's also reinforced'
0:31:14 > 0:31:17how much of a teenager and how much of a kid that I still am really.
0:31:17 > 0:31:20I think I just need something to eat, like.
0:31:20 > 0:31:22- Yeah.- And then I'll be all right.
0:31:22 > 0:31:25Just need a massive fry-up, otherwise I'll be sick.
0:31:29 > 0:31:31Make sure you get the door.
0:31:31 > 0:31:34Whilst the boys head to the bar...
0:31:36 > 0:31:38With Nanna, Mum is sneaking into Kieran's room,
0:31:38 > 0:31:42to see how he is coping on his own.
0:31:42 > 0:31:46Oh, my God! What have they done with the sheets?
0:31:47 > 0:31:49Disgraceful.
0:31:49 > 0:31:55Oh! Condom's in the bowl. Nice! Classy. Very classy.
0:31:55 > 0:31:57"Shag tally."
0:31:58 > 0:32:03Kez, how he can rate them like that...
0:32:03 > 0:32:05Chunder chart.
0:32:06 > 0:32:12Kieran chundered five times within one hour. Silly boy!
0:32:12 > 0:32:16I can't see any girl wanting to come back when it stinks like this.
0:32:16 > 0:32:20Really not happy with him because that is just... That is disgusting.
0:32:20 > 0:32:24Oh, yeah, it's, er... Look!
0:32:24 > 0:32:29He's not been brought up to do that and it is... It is vile.
0:32:29 > 0:32:32I have brought up four children and...
0:32:32 > 0:32:36But I would have been mortified if one of mine had done this.
0:32:36 > 0:32:40Oh, I am, I really am. He's really, really upset me.
0:32:47 > 0:32:50It's a change for Natasha, as she's taking control
0:32:50 > 0:32:54and starting the night with drinking games.
0:32:54 > 0:32:57Plan for the evening is get absolutely totalled at our house
0:32:57 > 0:33:00and then go straight to Zero, so we can go for a foam party.
0:33:05 > 0:33:08Go hard or go home!
0:33:08 > 0:33:105, 4, 3...
0:33:14 > 0:33:16And when she gets there...
0:33:20 > 0:33:23..she parties just like her mum would.
0:33:27 > 0:33:29..with my fucking fringe...
0:33:29 > 0:33:31For birthday boy Kieran, heading to the same club,
0:33:31 > 0:33:33it's a more considered start to the night.
0:33:33 > 0:33:36You're going to a foam party and you're doing your fringe.
0:33:36 > 0:33:38- What? What?- Ooh, yes, got to straighten this bit, yes,
0:33:38 > 0:33:40got to look right for tonight.
0:33:40 > 0:33:42Exactly, so my hair is fucking sick.
0:33:42 > 0:33:46Your hair is spam, mate, proper spam.
0:33:46 > 0:33:49Preening done, the boys head for the foam.
0:33:52 > 0:33:56I hope my mum does never watch this on the sofa with me at all.
0:33:56 > 0:33:58I will be avoiding the situation.
0:33:58 > 0:34:03MUSIC BLASTS, DJ SPEAKS TO CROWD
0:34:03 > 0:34:07# If you feel it, say yeah, yeah
0:34:07 > 0:34:08# Hell yeah
0:34:08 > 0:34:10- THEY SING ALONG:- # Say hell yeah
0:34:10 > 0:34:12# Hell yeah
0:34:12 > 0:34:14# Say hell yeah
0:34:14 > 0:34:15# Hell yeah
0:34:15 > 0:34:18# This is love, this is love... #
0:34:18 > 0:34:21As ever, Kieran has only one thing on his mind.
0:34:21 > 0:34:24There's girls in there, like, with wet T-shirts.
0:34:24 > 0:34:27I have seen plenty of nipples already.
0:34:28 > 0:34:33But cosying up to men is the last thing on Natasha's mind.
0:34:38 > 0:34:42And they're all over her.
0:34:42 > 0:34:45I don't like that whole people coming up to you and grabbing you
0:34:45 > 0:34:49kind of thing, I don't like that, that makes me feel really uncomfortable, so I was a bit like,
0:34:49 > 0:34:51everywhere I went, there was someone just going...
0:34:51 > 0:34:54And I was just like, "Get off me, just go, just get out, go!"
0:34:54 > 0:34:57But, as his birthday comes to an end...
0:34:57 > 0:34:59Boys! Here for a bit.
0:34:59 > 0:35:03Kieran hopes to get a last bit of birthday luck.
0:35:03 > 0:35:04INAUDIBLE
0:35:04 > 0:35:05Get in here.
0:35:06 > 0:35:08Shots of piss?
0:35:08 > 0:35:11Will you still sleep with me if I have a shot of piss?
0:35:11 > 0:35:14- I dare you, a shot of piss! - He's already drunk.
0:35:14 > 0:35:18I want to see you piss in a shot, so I know it's authentic piss.
0:35:23 > 0:35:25Chin, chin.
0:35:28 > 0:35:30That is good piss.
0:35:30 > 0:35:33Do you want to finish the rest of it?
0:35:33 > 0:35:36It's all gone. There's nothing left in here.
0:35:36 > 0:35:40She won't kiss me now because I just drank piss.
0:35:40 > 0:35:42Shit on it really.
0:35:42 > 0:35:46With the taste of urine in his mouth, Kieran heads home. Alone.
0:35:54 > 0:35:55The next morning...
0:35:55 > 0:35:57And, at the parents' hotel,
0:35:57 > 0:36:00they're about to catch up on what the teenagers got up to.
0:36:00 > 0:36:07No! Nah, like she was not the kind of girl that you'd take home.
0:36:07 > 0:36:10I was using a condom for a bit and then it split and I didn't
0:36:10 > 0:36:15even realise, so just carried on without realising, till the end.
0:36:20 > 0:36:23I don't really know what to say about that.
0:36:23 > 0:36:25Um, the repercussions from it,
0:36:25 > 0:36:28he's not going to be able to have any control over it.
0:36:28 > 0:36:32You know, if the girl gets pregnant that's her choice then,
0:36:32 > 0:36:35and he has no control over that.
0:36:35 > 0:36:38If he's caught anything, he's got no control over that.
0:36:38 > 0:36:41- That's right.- That's is the only problem with drinking
0:36:41 > 0:36:44because all those sort of safety values just go out the window.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47I've been that single mum at 17.
0:36:47 > 0:36:52- Yeah.- You know, because I had unprotected sex and my life changed
0:36:52 > 0:36:55and I don't... I don't want his life to have to change now at 19.
0:36:55 > 0:36:57- Yeah.- Just because of that.
0:36:57 > 0:37:00Right.
0:37:02 > 0:37:05I think my mum would probably feel a little bit ashamed
0:37:05 > 0:37:08of some of the stuff I've done out here.
0:37:08 > 0:37:11If I went down to the STI clinic and got myself sorted,
0:37:11 > 0:37:14I think, in a way, my mum would maybe be proud
0:37:14 > 0:37:18that I've kind of plucked up the courage to do it and sort myself out,
0:37:18 > 0:37:22and make sure that, when I have been irresponsible,
0:37:22 > 0:37:25that I'm responsible enough to sort it out as well.
0:37:25 > 0:37:27Ah!
0:37:27 > 0:37:29But he does realise, doesn't he,
0:37:29 > 0:37:34that in the beginning he was doing things that wouldn't make you proud.
0:37:34 > 0:37:39- Yeah.- And so it's told him now, "No, I'm not going to do this any more."
0:37:39 > 0:37:42- I know, but I'm never ashamed of him. Never.- Well, no, not...
0:37:42 > 0:37:44And he's considering your feelings. Like you are,
0:37:44 > 0:37:48what you think of him is the most important thing, you know, whereas
0:37:48 > 0:37:51at the beginning of the week it was what his mates thought of him,
0:37:51 > 0:37:53when it was like, yeah, drink it, do you know what I mean?
0:37:53 > 0:37:58It's good hearing him say that he is going to go down to the STI clinic.
0:37:58 > 0:38:01And next up is Natasha.
0:38:01 > 0:38:03I think Zante puts it all into perspective for me,
0:38:03 > 0:38:06- like, as much as I think it's given me independence...- Ah!
0:38:06 > 0:38:10..it's also reinforced how much of a teenager
0:38:10 > 0:38:12and how much of a kid that I still am, really.
0:38:12 > 0:38:16I mean, her thing when she came out here was "go hard or go home"
0:38:16 > 0:38:18and, like, she obviously hasn't.
0:38:18 > 0:38:21It's cos you were a bit upset yesterday, weren't you?
0:38:21 > 0:38:23- Yeah.- By the things that she was saying yesterday.- Yeah.
0:38:23 > 0:38:27And I think today she's realising a little bit more that she does
0:38:27 > 0:38:31perhaps need it a little bit still, she's not completely ready to go.
0:38:31 > 0:38:33Yeah.
0:38:35 > 0:38:38I think me and my mum are two completely different characters.
0:38:38 > 0:38:41She was an old-school '90s raver and, at the time,
0:38:41 > 0:38:44because I was only young when it was happening,
0:38:44 > 0:38:47she was going out and doing all of these different raves and stuff,
0:38:47 > 0:38:49and I never got to see her, so I always resented her for it,
0:38:49 > 0:38:52if that makes sense. Because I grew up with that resentment,
0:38:52 > 0:38:56I flipped the complete opposite, so she was this really cool
0:38:56 > 0:38:59party animal and then I went the other way
0:38:59 > 0:39:02and was this completely like old-school, back-to-basics
0:39:02 > 0:39:05sort of prim and proper person, because I didn't want to be anything
0:39:05 > 0:39:08like, I mean, obviously this sounds horrible
0:39:08 > 0:39:12saying it now, but I didn't want to be anything like what she was like.
0:39:12 > 0:39:15She didn't understand, um, that that was a job to me.
0:39:15 > 0:39:19She just, um, I think she just thought I was out partying,
0:39:19 > 0:39:22you know. I didn't appreciate...
0:39:22 > 0:39:25I don't think I appreciated how much she resented it.
0:39:25 > 0:39:29I know when my mum and dad split up and mum was going out working
0:39:29 > 0:39:31and I was having to look after my little brother, I'd think,
0:39:31 > 0:39:34- "Agh, all my friends are out doing this and doing that."- Yeah.
0:39:34 > 0:39:38"And I'm sat at home doing this," and at the time I didn't think
0:39:38 > 0:39:41"Oh, she's going out, she's working and earning money so we can..."
0:39:41 > 0:39:45- Yeah.- "..have things." You know, have clothes and food and stuff.
0:39:45 > 0:39:48It just doesn't... It doesn't occur to you. It's just simple.
0:39:48 > 0:39:51I was trying to earn a living, but she was a child at the time,
0:39:51 > 0:39:54so, perhaps, she didn't see that and, like...
0:39:54 > 0:39:57It's only as you get older that, you know, your mindset changes
0:39:57 > 0:39:59and everything like that.
0:39:59 > 0:40:02But, I mean, now that's she's, you know, she's mentioned that,
0:40:02 > 0:40:04then I'm more than happy to sit down and discuss that with her,
0:40:04 > 0:40:07you know, that's the way we move things on.
0:40:10 > 0:40:13On their final full day together, Natasha and her friends
0:40:13 > 0:40:15are heading to the booze cruise.
0:40:15 > 0:40:18- That looks so cool. - It does look good.- Yeah.
0:40:18 > 0:40:21I'm not going to lie, I'm quite excited about this.
0:40:23 > 0:40:26Conscious that Natasha is new to the party scene,
0:40:26 > 0:40:29Heidi has come down to the booze cruise,
0:40:29 > 0:40:32to see what her daughter will do at what is often a risque event.
0:40:34 > 0:40:37Seriously, I just want her to have fun and have a good time,
0:40:37 > 0:40:38that's what it's all about.
0:40:38 > 0:40:40So, they're going to do some sex games today,
0:40:40 > 0:40:42including, er, blow job competitions.
0:40:42 > 0:40:46- Oh, my God!- What?- Most sexual positions in, er, five minutes.
0:40:46 > 0:40:48She ain't going to be happy with any of that.
0:40:48 > 0:40:51The sex games and all that, she weren't impressed with that.
0:40:51 > 0:40:54A worried Heidi decides to take a closer look.
0:40:55 > 0:40:58- Oh, yeah, I can see her now. - Oh, yeah.
0:40:58 > 0:41:00She's up on the deck.
0:41:00 > 0:41:03- You get spanked.- Right.- Right. - Don't lose your cock, girls.
0:41:03 > 0:41:05And I have a special spanking stick for that.
0:41:05 > 0:41:07- Right, OK.- But, er, the alcohol you'll be drinking,
0:41:07 > 0:41:09it's just general cocktails, we change them up.
0:41:09 > 0:41:13Um, we do it all in big bins, so you can get served as quickly as possible.
0:41:13 > 0:41:16- Oh, wicked!- There's no waiting about at the bar or anything like that, OK?
0:41:16 > 0:41:20- Mm.- It sounds pretty involved on the boat.
0:41:20 > 0:41:22There was, er, there was one girl who, um,
0:41:22 > 0:41:26had, er, relations with, I don't know, about seven or eight boys.
0:41:26 > 0:41:29- What!- Oh, my gosh!
0:41:29 > 0:41:31A couple of weeks ago, but, um...
0:41:31 > 0:41:33Look at her, absolutely horrified.
0:41:33 > 0:41:36Shall we say she was a good girl, yeah.
0:41:36 > 0:41:39I'm scared for my life.
0:41:39 > 0:41:42It sounds like a crazy night, it really does.
0:41:42 > 0:41:44And I've... I'm still in shock
0:41:44 > 0:41:47about some of the stuff that I've heard, genuinely.
0:41:48 > 0:41:52Mum Heidi is finding it all too much.
0:41:52 > 0:41:55I can honestly say I'm really feeling how she's feeling
0:41:55 > 0:41:57right now and I...
0:42:00 > 0:42:04She'll be all right and she'll make the most of it now.
0:42:07 > 0:42:09Oh!
0:42:09 > 0:42:11Cos I can feel that she's not comfortable with it.
0:42:12 > 0:42:15That's the truth.
0:42:15 > 0:42:18But an unsure Natasha decides to give it a go.
0:42:18 > 0:42:20I'll make the most of the drinking.
0:42:20 > 0:42:23Think I'll maybe give a skip on a few things.
0:42:23 > 0:42:26Leaving behind a worried mum.
0:42:26 > 0:42:30I can't say anything more, said it all.
0:42:30 > 0:42:33Let her deal with what she's got
0:42:33 > 0:42:36to deal with. So, yeah, that's it.
0:42:36 > 0:42:39Oh, my God, oh, my God. No, I don't want to do it.
0:42:39 > 0:42:43And it's not long before Natasha's taking risks.
0:42:44 > 0:42:47- Go! Go! - CHEERING
0:42:52 > 0:42:55Having a fear of water when you're pissed really isn't good.
0:42:57 > 0:43:03And in the midst of the extreme booze cruise partying...
0:43:05 > 0:43:09..sensible Natasha watches from the side.
0:43:14 > 0:43:18I haven't been this drunk in a long time.
0:43:18 > 0:43:21- Whoo!- As the booze cruise hits full flow...
0:43:28 > 0:43:31The boys are hitting it hard back on the strip.
0:43:36 > 0:43:38They've been rating girls all week,
0:43:38 > 0:43:41but now their own system is causing trouble in the group.
0:43:41 > 0:43:44You can't call me a four out of ten and expect me to be OK about that.
0:43:44 > 0:43:46Sam. Sam. Sam. Sam, you need to calm down.
0:43:46 > 0:43:50- It's a joke! You're on your fucking period.- Out of ten, what would you give me?- Are you on your period?
0:43:50 > 0:43:55Oi, seriously, what would you give me out of ten? Everyone here is at least a seven.
0:43:55 > 0:43:57You're a four, mate.
0:43:57 > 0:44:01- I'm joking.- He thinks that I can't get with fit girls
0:44:01 > 0:44:04because I'm that low. That makes me feel shit.
0:44:04 > 0:44:07Mate, I've got a low confidence levels as it is,
0:44:07 > 0:44:09you just fucking made it worse.
0:44:09 > 0:44:11- Sam, I was joking. - You really have. How many?
0:44:11 > 0:44:14Listen, I'm a cocky dickhead because I'm not confident.
0:44:14 > 0:44:18I literally overcompensate for everything because I don't...
0:44:18 > 0:44:21I'm unconfident, so I overcompensate for everything.
0:44:21 > 0:44:24- Don't mug me off any more, mate.- All right.- Cos I've had enough fucking...
0:44:24 > 0:44:27- Sorry.- I've literally had enough confidence issues in my life,
0:44:27 > 0:44:30- to fucking deal with.- Sorry.
0:44:30 > 0:44:32As Kieran and Sam hug it out, the booze cruise docks
0:44:32 > 0:44:35and the revellers head to the strip.
0:44:35 > 0:44:38But Natasha is finishing her night as she started.
0:44:39 > 0:44:42Let's get dinner. I'm hungry.
0:44:42 > 0:44:44Sensibly.
0:44:50 > 0:44:53It's the day the parents get to meet up with their children,
0:44:53 > 0:44:56but first they have one last opportunity
0:44:56 > 0:44:58to see what they've been up to.
0:44:58 > 0:45:02And Heidi's thoughts are still with the booze cruise.
0:45:02 > 0:45:05I'm hoping that she's just had a really good time
0:45:05 > 0:45:08and I didn't have to be as worried or as anxious as I was
0:45:08 > 0:45:10and nor did she, so...
0:45:13 > 0:45:16I can't swim sober, let alone drunk!
0:45:17 > 0:45:20Oh, my God, oh, my God. No, I don't want to do it.
0:45:20 > 0:45:22Oh, Hayley, what are you doing?
0:45:24 > 0:45:26Go! Go!
0:45:26 > 0:45:30CHEERING
0:45:40 > 0:45:44Yeah, I'm a little bit gutted that she's succumbed to peer pressure
0:45:44 > 0:45:47in a situation where she has put herself a little bit at risk,
0:45:47 > 0:45:49you know, with water and stuff like that.
0:45:49 > 0:45:54I think I would have probably her be more...coerced in the situation
0:45:54 > 0:45:56- that Kieran was at the beginning of the week.- Yeah.
0:45:56 > 0:46:00You know, drink, drink, drink. I'd rather that because the end result
0:46:00 > 0:46:03of that is being sick and having a bad hangover, whereas...
0:46:04 > 0:46:07- ..on this situation she was in the sea.- Yeah.
0:46:07 > 0:46:10That is something I want to speak to her about because it's the only time
0:46:10 > 0:46:14- really this week that she's done it. - And it was the most dangerous thing as well.
0:46:14 > 0:46:17Exactly, it was, where she's put herself most at risk.
0:46:20 > 0:46:24You can't call me a four out of ten and expect me to be OK about that.
0:46:24 > 0:46:26- It's a joke!- Sam. Sam... Calm down.
0:46:26 > 0:46:28It's a joke, you're on your fucking period.
0:46:28 > 0:46:30- What would you give me? - Are you on your period?
0:46:30 > 0:46:32Seriously, what would you give me out of ten?
0:46:32 > 0:46:34Everyone here is at least a seven.
0:46:34 > 0:46:35You're a four, mate.
0:46:37 > 0:46:38I'm joking!
0:46:38 > 0:46:41Mate, I've got low confidence levels as it is,
0:46:41 > 0:46:45- you just fucking made it worse. - Sam, I was joking.- You really have.
0:46:45 > 0:46:48Listen, I'm a cocky dickhead because I'm not confident.
0:46:48 > 0:46:52I literally overcompensate for everything because I don't...
0:46:52 > 0:46:55I'm unconfident, so I overcompensate for everything.
0:46:55 > 0:46:57- Don't mug me off any more, mate. - All right.
0:46:57 > 0:47:00- Cos I've had enough fucking... - Sorry.- I've literally had enough
0:47:00 > 0:47:03confidence issues in my life to fucking deal with.
0:47:03 > 0:47:05Sorry. Sorry.
0:47:05 > 0:47:08I told him the reason why I'm so cocky and confident
0:47:08 > 0:47:11all the time, because I'm not that confident in myself
0:47:11 > 0:47:16so I overcompensate. And to tell him that was a big thing for me,
0:47:16 > 0:47:19just for me, because I've never told anyone that before.
0:47:19 > 0:47:21WOMEN: Awww!
0:47:21 > 0:47:22That's my baby. >
0:47:22 > 0:47:23< Yeah.
0:47:23 > 0:47:25That was really hard.
0:47:26 > 0:47:28Cos I think...
0:47:28 > 0:47:31I think boys sometimes forget that they've got feelings as well.
0:47:31 > 0:47:34- Yeah.- That was his problem that he'd caused and he put it right.
0:47:34 > 0:47:37- He took responsibility.- I think he... - He said sorry and meant it.
0:47:37 > 0:47:38He meant it, every word of it.
0:47:38 > 0:47:41- I don't think it was just, "Oh, sorry, mate."- Yeah.
0:47:41 > 0:47:43I wish that he felt he could talk to me about things like that,
0:47:43 > 0:47:47that he was... He was not overly confident with himself
0:47:47 > 0:47:49and he feels that he has to keep that in.
0:47:49 > 0:47:55I had no idea that Kieran had, you know, that sort of an issue.
0:47:55 > 0:47:59Because he always came over as being the big, you know, "I am,"
0:47:59 > 0:48:04you know, "full of confidence," and that's not Kieran, you know,
0:48:04 > 0:48:08he does need his mum to...
0:48:08 > 0:48:12To be able to talk to and get all that out of his system.
0:48:12 > 0:48:15- Yeah.- I had low self-confidence when I was younger
0:48:15 > 0:48:17and I probably acted quite similar to Kieran.
0:48:17 > 0:48:21I think perhaps if I open up a little bit more about myself to him,
0:48:21 > 0:48:24he might feel that he can open up to me as well
0:48:24 > 0:48:27and we can sort of try and work through it.
0:48:33 > 0:48:35How do you do that?! That is cra...
0:48:35 > 0:48:38- Ready?- Ready!- Ready!
0:48:38 > 0:48:40Hooray!
0:48:40 > 0:48:41In a bar on the strip,
0:48:41 > 0:48:45Natasha is enjoying the final moments of her holiday.
0:48:45 > 0:48:47OK, see who it lands on, see who it lands on.
0:48:49 > 0:48:52- Hayley!- Ah, it's Hayley! - Hayley's got to do a shot!
0:48:54 > 0:48:59It's been a week of spying, but now Heidi and Claire can meet up
0:48:59 > 0:49:01and talk to Natasha.
0:49:01 > 0:49:04My heart's racing, but I just can't wait to see her, really.
0:49:04 > 0:49:07Hopefully she'll react the way I'm expecting her to,
0:49:07 > 0:49:11and she won't be, "Oh, my God, what's my mum doing here? Cringe!"
0:49:13 > 0:49:17- Guess who's been watching you?! - THEY LAUGH
0:49:18 > 0:49:21- Hello.- I'm going to need an extra cocktail.
0:49:21 > 0:49:26You want to get another tequila on the go, mate, I'm going to need that in a sec.
0:49:26 > 0:49:29Anything you want to tell me?
0:49:29 > 0:49:30Not really.
0:49:32 > 0:49:34The pirate ship yesterday.
0:49:34 > 0:49:37- Oh, my God, you were on the boat! - < Were you on the boat?
0:49:37 > 0:49:40The only thing I would say that I wasn't happy about
0:49:40 > 0:49:43was jumping in the sea when you'd had a gut full of alcohol
0:49:43 > 0:49:45- and I blame you two for that! - Don't blame them two!
0:49:45 > 0:49:47I'm only joking, I'm only joking.
0:49:47 > 0:49:49I saved you at least, I saved you at least.
0:49:49 > 0:49:53Oh, it's been such a laugh, hasn't it? I can't believe it.
0:49:53 > 0:49:56This is really strange. Really weird.
0:49:56 > 0:50:00"What the hell" is probably the three words that's going through her mind at the moment
0:50:00 > 0:50:03and I think it's probably panic, "Have I don't anything?
0:50:03 > 0:50:07"Have I said anything? Is there anything that my mum might be worried about?"
0:50:07 > 0:50:09It's scary to think she's been watching me all this time.
0:50:09 > 0:50:13It's weird to think that someone's been following you for a week, if that makes sense.
0:50:13 > 0:50:15And it's strange to think that it's that easy for someone
0:50:15 > 0:50:17to follow you without you knowing.
0:50:21 > 0:50:25Heidi sits down with Natasha to discuss her concerns.
0:50:25 > 0:50:29You mentioned you resented me for clubbing times
0:50:29 > 0:50:30and stuff like that.
0:50:30 > 0:50:35- It was when I was younger, I was 10, 11 years old when that happened, so I didn't have a clue.- Yeah.
0:50:35 > 0:50:37I didn't understand what all of that lot was about.
0:50:37 > 0:50:40Now that I am 19 years old I get it, you know,
0:50:40 > 0:50:41I get what it's all about.
0:50:41 > 0:50:44As a parent it wasn't easy to, sort of like, have to leave you.
0:50:44 > 0:50:47No, that's fair enough. Like, I completely respect that.
0:50:47 > 0:50:48That's cool.
0:50:48 > 0:50:51I've had to accept that you've grown up from my little girl
0:50:51 > 0:50:54that I always want to protect to a fine young woman.
0:50:54 > 0:50:57That's one thing I'd take from the holiday is that obviously
0:50:57 > 0:51:00I've had you to kind of intervene and cover my back
0:51:00 > 0:51:02and obviously fight my corners and stuff like that,
0:51:02 > 0:51:04and I don't need you to do that any more.
0:51:04 > 0:51:07Now, especially on this holiday, situations we've had to deal with,
0:51:07 > 0:51:10I've had to deal with it on my own and I've learnt how to do that
0:51:10 > 0:51:13and I think that's something I'll find difficult.
0:51:13 > 0:51:15When we go back obviously you'll be used to stepping in
0:51:15 > 0:51:18and doing that for me, whereas I'll be wanting to deal with that
0:51:18 > 0:51:20myself, do you know what I mean?
0:51:20 > 0:51:23That's something that we both need to work on together, isn't it?
0:51:23 > 0:51:25I don't want you to think that, um...
0:51:25 > 0:51:28I don't think you're capable of, like, looking out for yourself
0:51:28 > 0:51:30and dealing with things, cos I...
0:51:30 > 0:51:33I have been really, really proud of how you've handled
0:51:33 > 0:51:37certain situations that perhaps took you out of your comfort zone
0:51:37 > 0:51:40or where you perhaps might not have wanted to be.
0:51:40 > 0:51:42But it has made me think, obviously, about,
0:51:42 > 0:51:45like, being out here in this country, just about travelling
0:51:45 > 0:51:48and seeing different places and different things.
0:51:48 > 0:51:51It's been a learning curve not just for you, but for myself as well.
0:51:51 > 0:51:54No, that's fair enough, I understand that.
0:51:54 > 0:51:57I think it's taken having that break for us to realise
0:51:57 > 0:51:59that, you know, obviously I am growing up
0:51:59 > 0:52:02and stuff has got to change for us to adapt to that
0:52:02 > 0:52:05and it's going to be something that we're going to have to sort out.
0:52:05 > 0:52:08She's made me feel really, really proud and I think
0:52:08 > 0:52:12it's not, sort of like, tears of sadness, it's, sort of like...
0:52:12 > 0:52:16I don't know, tears of every kind of emotion really,
0:52:16 > 0:52:18cos I've been through them all this week, so...
0:52:18 > 0:52:21That's it, isn't it? It's, um, letting go.
0:52:30 > 0:52:34Fuck off! You said cat rhymes with dog, so you can shut up.
0:52:34 > 0:52:37After five days of living it up in Zante...
0:52:37 > 0:52:40You might as well just get one fucking straight.
0:52:42 > 0:52:45..Kieran is totally unaware that mum Kate and nanna Roz
0:52:45 > 0:52:46have been spying on him.
0:52:48 > 0:52:51It's been a long while since I've seen Kieran and there's things
0:52:51 > 0:52:54I want to say to him and I want to give him a big hug,
0:52:54 > 0:52:59cos I missed his birthday, so I want to give him that birthday hug.
0:52:59 > 0:53:01THEY LAUGH
0:53:01 > 0:53:04Oh, for fuck's sake!
0:53:04 > 0:53:07It's now time for Mum and Nanna to let him know
0:53:07 > 0:53:08that they've been watching.
0:53:08 > 0:53:10You're the king!
0:53:10 > 0:53:12THEY CHEER AND LAUGH
0:53:14 > 0:53:16- I think we need words.- Oh...
0:53:16 > 0:53:17Don't you?
0:53:17 > 0:53:20BOYS LAUGH
0:53:20 > 0:53:21No!
0:53:22 > 0:53:26Anything you want to tell me? Cos I've already seen it.
0:53:29 > 0:53:30Fuck!
0:53:30 > 0:53:33Perhaps he'd rather talk to me about it.
0:53:33 > 0:53:35GIGGLING
0:53:35 > 0:53:37Oh, my gosh!
0:53:39 > 0:53:42Do you want that? Treat yourself, there you go.
0:53:42 > 0:53:44When I came in your room
0:53:44 > 0:53:46and the stench from your room...
0:53:46 > 0:53:48So, where are you going to when we get home?
0:53:48 > 0:53:50Clinic!
0:53:50 > 0:53:52< Did say he had a tingly penis.
0:53:53 > 0:53:55Where are you going when we get home?
0:53:55 > 0:53:57The clinic.
0:53:57 > 0:54:00- And who's going to make the appointment?- Me.
0:54:00 > 0:54:03- You, yeah.- Oh, wow!
0:54:03 > 0:54:05I think once he's away from his mates then I think
0:54:05 > 0:54:08he'll chat sort of properly. I think at the minute
0:54:08 > 0:54:11it was just the pure embarrassment of his mum and nan joining him
0:54:11 > 0:54:13on holiday, I think.
0:54:13 > 0:54:19For my mum and my nan to just to come and interrupt and make...
0:54:19 > 0:54:23And tell me things that they've seen, it was a very awkward situation.
0:54:32 > 0:54:33The following morning
0:54:33 > 0:54:36and, having got over the shock of seeing his mum and nanna,
0:54:36 > 0:54:39Kieran has some explaining to do.
0:54:39 > 0:54:42It made me sad to think that you aren't confident enough
0:54:42 > 0:54:44to be yourself with your mates.
0:54:44 > 0:54:49I'm just saying when I'm in a big group of people I don't feel confident enough just to be that,
0:54:49 > 0:54:50so I act like really cocky.
0:54:50 > 0:54:52I know, but I don't... I don't know why.
0:54:52 > 0:54:56The person you are is a good enough person without all of that
0:54:56 > 0:54:59cockiness and stuff that you do.
0:54:59 > 0:55:02You know how I feel about the disrespecting women.
0:55:02 > 0:55:05I've been in that position where boys have done that sort of thing
0:55:05 > 0:55:08to me and I know how it makes you feel, Kieran,
0:55:08 > 0:55:11and it really, honestly, it doesn't feel good.
0:55:11 > 0:55:12I know and I realise that.
0:55:12 > 0:55:16Once I saw what... What happened when it kind of went to Sam
0:55:16 > 0:55:21and saw it through his eyes, I realised it was wrong.
0:55:21 > 0:55:24So do you think you will not do it now any more?
0:55:24 > 0:55:25No, I won't.
0:55:26 > 0:55:32- Good.- Hopefully you'll notice a change when we get back.
0:55:32 > 0:55:33I love you to pieces.
0:55:35 > 0:55:38Love you too. High five. Not going to hug you though,
0:55:38 > 0:55:41cos that ain't cool. Not cool in here.
0:55:42 > 0:55:46I have learnt an awful lot because I saw a side of Kieran
0:55:46 > 0:55:47that I don't usually get to see.
0:55:47 > 0:55:49Now I know that, it makes it a little bit easier,
0:55:49 > 0:55:51I think, for us to talk about stuff
0:55:51 > 0:55:54and put things right which haven't been quite right.
0:55:54 > 0:55:57I'm learning. I'm 19, I'm only young.
0:55:57 > 0:55:59I'm going to make... Keep carry on making mistakes,
0:55:59 > 0:56:02but little mistakes like that are going to make me more mature
0:56:02 > 0:56:05and make me a better man eventually.
0:56:05 > 0:56:08Having a chat, I think, we've sorted a lot out, haven't we?
0:56:08 > 0:56:11Yeah. Yeah, you're actually proud of me.
0:56:11 > 0:56:17- I was a little bit worried that some of the stuff I'd done might have got a bit of a worse response.- No.
0:56:17 > 0:56:19- But...- I love you to pieces. - It's all good.
0:56:19 > 0:56:22- I'm proud of you whatever you do. - It's all good.
0:56:22 > 0:56:27- GIRL SCREAMS - Next time, serious snogging,
0:56:27 > 0:56:28skinny dipping...
0:56:30 > 0:56:32..and scamming drinks...
0:56:32 > 0:56:34Free drink? They're buying us a drink.
0:56:34 > 0:56:36..on the Greek island of Kos.
0:56:38 > 0:56:40They said they would give us free drinks,
0:56:40 > 0:56:42so I would like to go down there.
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