0:00:02 > 0:00:06Many parents raise their kids using strict discipline...
0:00:06 > 0:00:09Do not come back until you have checked your answers.
0:00:09 > 0:00:10..rigid boundaries...
0:00:10 > 0:00:16Drinking, drugs and sex, they're selfish behaviours that destroy lives.
0:00:16 > 0:00:18..and immediate consequences.
0:00:18 > 0:00:20Come on.
0:00:20 > 0:00:26Some people might say that my parents are strict, but we would rather call it love.
0:00:29 > 0:00:33But can traditional parenting change the lives of rebellious British teenagers?
0:00:33 > 0:00:35I need some more booze.
0:00:35 > 0:00:37Where is my booze?
0:00:37 > 0:00:41As soon as someone says, "You will do this," the first thing I say is, "No, I won't."
0:00:41 > 0:00:44I get away with murder here, like.
0:00:44 > 0:00:45Like, I can just do anything I want.
0:00:45 > 0:00:47Big lack of respect for authority.
0:00:47 > 0:00:50I go to bed whenever I want. I wake up whenever I want.
0:00:51 > 0:00:55I don't care what anyone else thinks about me because it's up to me, isn't it?
0:00:55 > 0:01:00To find out, two teens who've never met before will leave their fraught families behind...
0:01:00 > 0:01:02Don't embarrass your family.
0:01:02 > 0:01:05..and head off to the far corners of the world where they will live
0:01:05 > 0:01:08according to strict rules imposed by new parents.
0:01:08 > 0:01:12In my house you are going to do as I tell you to do.
0:01:12 > 0:01:16Please let me make it very clear, my children won't defy me.
0:01:16 > 0:01:19This is wrecking my head. This is wrecking my head.
0:01:19 > 0:01:22When I punish, I punish really hard.
0:01:22 > 0:01:25I'm sick of being treated like a little kid when I'm not one.
0:01:25 > 0:01:27- Shut up and listen to me. - Go upstairs.- No.
0:01:27 > 0:01:30You are a child. You are mine. In the US you have to do what an adult says.
0:01:30 > 0:01:32They are actually insane.
0:01:32 > 0:01:38The British people's moral fabric is disintegrating.
0:01:38 > 0:01:45This programme contains some strong language.
0:01:47 > 0:01:50Drink! Drink! Drink! Drink! Drink! Drink! Drink! Drink!
0:01:50 > 0:01:5516-year-old Peter Wrigley likes nothing more than to party.
0:01:55 > 0:01:58That is all vodka, boy.
0:01:58 > 0:02:05As he's grown, he's become very pompous, very arrogant, thinks that he's God's gift.
0:02:05 > 0:02:10Ideal world, absolutely minted, loads of fit girls, loads of drink.
0:02:10 > 0:02:11Perfect, mate.
0:02:11 > 0:02:16Peter, get up now and pick up this stuff and hang up your suit.
0:02:16 > 0:02:23Peter was kicked out of his expensive private school for being disruptive and lazy.
0:02:23 > 0:02:29When he came out of boarding school last summer and came home to do his A-levels at a local school,
0:02:29 > 0:02:34it was quite apparent that he was the laziest child I've ever come across.
0:02:34 > 0:02:39This morning I've received a letter from Peter's school
0:02:39 > 0:02:44that's expressing their concern that he's not currently on course to achieve his target grades.
0:02:44 > 0:02:48At the beginning of Year 10 I was purely like ten A stars
0:02:48 > 0:02:51and, like, during the two years it went down to, like, straight Us pretty much
0:02:51 > 0:02:55because I just did no work. I was just, like, I can't be bothered.
0:02:55 > 0:02:57- Peter?- What?
0:03:01 > 0:03:03You haven't even given me your full report.
0:03:03 > 0:03:06Pick it up. Peter!
0:03:06 > 0:03:08Come and pick it up.
0:03:08 > 0:03:12Peter's been given every opportunity for an excellent start in life.
0:03:12 > 0:03:16Oh, my Lord! I can't imagine how much money
0:03:16 > 0:03:21has gone on that boy's education and his whole life.
0:03:21 > 0:03:24Peter's parents divorced when he was three
0:03:24 > 0:03:30and since his mother's second marriage recently broke down, Peter's behaviour has worsened.
0:03:30 > 0:03:32He's a sort of lad who would rather
0:03:32 > 0:03:35seek forgiveness than ask permission.
0:03:35 > 0:03:42So many times he just gets into bother and then expects us all to forgive him afterwards.
0:03:42 > 0:03:45Stop it! Stop it now!
0:03:47 > 0:03:50Over in Sussex, 17-year-old Jocelyn Harris
0:03:50 > 0:03:54spends all her days smoking marijuana.
0:03:54 > 0:03:56You do smoke cannabis.
0:03:56 > 0:03:59We all... We all know that. You look very grey, you know?
0:03:59 > 0:04:01- I mean, we're all...- Grey?
0:04:01 > 0:04:03We're not all stupid now, are we?
0:04:03 > 0:04:05Mum, I'm about to turn 18.
0:04:05 > 0:04:08- I'm not going to go all sober and go on a detox.- Experimental stuff.
0:04:08 > 0:04:11But I'm about to turn 18. I'm not going to stop taking...
0:04:11 > 0:04:14I'm not going to stop drinking and, like, never take drugs again when I turn 18.
0:04:14 > 0:04:16It's just bad news.
0:04:17 > 0:04:21At night, Jocelyn goes out in Brighton to drink with her mates.
0:04:21 > 0:04:26- So, you're not stoned? - I haven't been stoned since ten o'clock this morning, actually.
0:04:26 > 0:04:27- You made about nine hours.- Yeah!
0:04:27 > 0:04:30From Monday to Friday it's basically the same thing every day.
0:04:30 > 0:04:37About five, six-ish I'll get a train down to Hayward Heath and I'll meet three or four friends.
0:04:37 > 0:04:40She was asked to leave college because of her problem with authority.
0:04:40 > 0:04:43I hate people telling me what to do all the time.
0:04:43 > 0:04:50I could never handle the teachers at school because they just think that they can order you around.
0:04:50 > 0:04:57She always seemed to be in trouble and always seemed to be in detention or being internally excluded.
0:04:57 > 0:05:02Erm, she set fire to the science lab once.
0:05:02 > 0:05:06Jocelyn was once a keen rider and even played cricket for her county.
0:05:06 > 0:05:09She always achieved good grades,
0:05:09 > 0:05:16but since her dad began working abroad in Dubai for months at a time, it all went downhill.
0:05:16 > 0:05:20All the stuff at school, it was always me that had to go into school
0:05:20 > 0:05:22because her dad was always at work,
0:05:22 > 0:05:28so I think she probably realises that she's given me a fair amount of grief over the years.
0:05:28 > 0:05:31She's spent the last year doing nothing.
0:05:31 > 0:05:36You have no responsibilities, you can sit around, smoke your rollies, talk to your friends.
0:05:36 > 0:05:40Do you know what I mean? And you... You know, I don't think you really get that.
0:05:40 > 0:05:43What are you going to do if you don't get an education?
0:05:43 > 0:05:45How are you going to fund all that?
0:05:45 > 0:05:48- How are you...?- What do you mean?
0:05:48 > 0:05:49- Well, how are you...- Fund what?
0:05:49 > 0:05:53Well, your life in the future when you leave home.
0:05:55 > 0:06:00Both parents have agreed to send their children to India for eight days
0:06:00 > 0:06:03to live with a strict Indian family.
0:06:06 > 0:06:10- She's actually crying.- Be good.
0:06:10 > 0:06:14- Can I've some money, please?- Well, I was going to give you a bit of money, a bit of spending money.
0:06:14 > 0:06:16- That's for you, all right?- Cheers.
0:06:17 > 0:06:21I don't think he quite knows what's in store for him.
0:06:21 > 0:06:25Hopefully, he'll come back having had a good think about what he really wants to do,
0:06:25 > 0:06:26what he wants out of life.
0:06:27 > 0:06:30- It's the moment of truth.- Yeah.
0:06:30 > 0:06:33- Give it your best shot.- I will.- OK. - I see you in two weeks.- Bye, Jocelyn.
0:06:33 > 0:06:36- Bye.- Bye.
0:06:36 > 0:06:39She'd better be fit. If she's not fit, I'm not going to be happy.
0:06:40 > 0:06:46- Hello.- I'm Pete.- I'm Joce. Are you all right? Nice to meet you. - Yeah. And you.
0:06:46 > 0:06:47- How are you?- I'm all right.
0:06:47 > 0:06:51I'm scared. I'm excited, but scared.
0:06:51 > 0:06:53No, I'm buzzing. Absolutely buzzing. I can't wait.
0:06:57 > 0:07:04The teens are being sent to Pune, a city in the west of India, four hours' drive from Mumbai.
0:07:04 > 0:07:10They'll be staying with the Unnikrishnans, a modern Indian family in search of excellence.
0:07:10 > 0:07:17Dad Unni is the CEO of a multinational company employing 5,000 people.
0:07:25 > 0:07:33Mum Madu is the CEO of their home and has a strict set of rules for their 15-year-old son Siddarth.
0:07:45 > 0:07:50Final answer comes out as 2x - y - 2, sir.
0:07:50 > 0:07:51OK.
0:07:51 > 0:07:55Only child Siddarth has been sent to one of Pune's most sought-after private schools,
0:07:55 > 0:07:58where he is expected to achieve good grades.
0:08:27 > 0:08:33After a ten-hour flight, the teens touch down in the Indian city of Pune,
0:08:33 > 0:08:35with a population of over five million people.
0:08:35 > 0:08:41It's known as the Oxford of the East as it's home to more than 100 academic institutions.
0:08:41 > 0:08:46But the teens' eyes are fixed on the poverty.
0:08:46 > 0:08:49I can't get over it. I'm, like, speechless.
0:08:49 > 0:08:55Some of the buildings as well are absolutely, like, shocking. Living in that would be well bad.
0:08:55 > 0:08:57Yeah.
0:08:58 > 0:08:59To the teens' relief,
0:08:59 > 0:09:06the Unnikrishnans live in a modern three-bedroom apartment in an upmarket gated community.
0:09:06 > 0:09:08- Hi.- Hi. I'm Peter.
0:09:08 > 0:09:11Welcome. Feel welcome. Unni.
0:09:11 > 0:09:12Unni?
0:09:12 > 0:09:14I'm Siddarth.
0:09:14 > 0:09:17- I'm Madu, your mother.- Ah, hello.
0:09:17 > 0:09:19- Nice to meet you.- You're welcome.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21- Siddarth.- Hello, nice to meet you.
0:09:21 > 0:09:26Son Siddarth will have to share his bedroom for the first time.
0:09:26 > 0:09:28Is it OK for you, Peter, to share the room with Siddarth?
0:09:28 > 0:09:33Yeah, that's cool, yeah. I used to go to boarding school, so I'm used to sharing rooms and that.
0:09:33 > 0:09:34It's a bit weird.
0:09:34 > 0:09:38It's like proper weird, their accents and that and, like,
0:09:38 > 0:09:41they're a bit sort of mamma and all that, so...
0:09:41 > 0:09:46Jocelyn's bedroom will be the converted family study.
0:09:46 > 0:09:50Well, you can tell there's someone pretty successful, because there was all these...
0:09:50 > 0:09:55There's just all these trophies everywhere and, like, books and like...
0:09:55 > 0:09:58It looks like they're pretty, like, educationally based.
0:09:58 > 0:10:02So, they're not going to be very happy with they know I've spent a year sitting in bed
0:10:02 > 0:10:04and smoking too much weed.
0:10:16 > 0:10:17Come.
0:10:17 > 0:10:20Settling in? Feeling better?
0:10:20 > 0:10:22- Yes.- Good.- Sit down.
0:10:22 > 0:10:25Before the British teens can get unpacked,
0:10:25 > 0:10:30the new parents want to ensure that they live their next eight days like their son Siddarth,
0:10:30 > 0:10:32so lay down some house rules.
0:10:38 > 0:10:43I haven't been an education for a year, so I'm not looking forward to going back.
0:10:43 > 0:10:48I've just had bad experiences with school so I get a bit, like, I don't like teachers and work and...
0:10:48 > 0:10:54- You need to study, you need to hold down a good job, have a good home. - I just want to have fun.
0:11:10 > 0:11:12Can we not smoke at all? Like, can we not...
0:11:12 > 0:11:15- Huh?- Can we smoke outside the house?
0:11:15 > 0:11:16Unfortunately, no.
0:11:16 > 0:11:19Yeah, but what if we don't want to give it up?
0:11:19 > 0:11:22- Give it to me. - I haven't got any alcohol.
0:11:22 > 0:11:23But you've got cigarettes. Yeah.
0:11:23 > 0:11:26Give it to me.
0:11:26 > 0:11:27Thank you.
0:11:27 > 0:11:32Why can't you give it up for a week and work towards giving up smoking?
0:11:32 > 0:11:35Because I want to smoke for the summer. Because if I give up now,
0:11:35 > 0:11:39because I smoke cannabis, during the summer I'll find it really difficult not to smoke cannabis
0:11:39 > 0:11:43- and it would have tobacco in it, so...- You smoke cannabis?
0:11:43 > 0:11:45Yeah. That's why I don't drink so much any more.
0:11:45 > 0:11:49Jocelyn, there is a saying, tomorrow never comes
0:11:49 > 0:11:52and today never goes.
0:11:52 > 0:11:59Jocelyn and Peter are asked to sign a contract stating they'll comply with the rules of their new home.
0:11:59 > 0:12:05So, you keep reading and rereading until it becomes a part of your psyche.
0:12:05 > 0:12:10We appreciated their openness, within a few hours to be able to tell us that.
0:12:10 > 0:12:14And, secondly, we have the confidence as elder parents to get them around.
0:12:14 > 0:12:20They asked me to hand over my cigarettes, but I still have a packet of GV in my bag
0:12:20 > 0:12:22and I'm not giving them that.
0:12:23 > 0:12:29Down in the communal garden, the British teens waste no time in breaking the smoking rule.
0:12:29 > 0:12:33It feels like I'm about eight again and smoking underneath my bed.
0:12:34 > 0:12:37- Like...- You smoked when you were eight?- Yeah.- Jees!
0:12:37 > 0:12:39I was really good when I was little.
0:12:39 > 0:12:45It wasn't until I got to, like, 13 that I started getting bored of the whole,
0:12:45 > 0:12:48you know, "I'm a nice girl, I do well at school."
0:12:48 > 0:12:54They need to realise that people from England aren't so cooperative.
0:12:56 > 0:13:02Having formed a bond over a fag, Joce and Pete decided to test the resolve of their new parents.
0:13:02 > 0:13:04I had a cigarette.
0:13:04 > 0:13:06- You had a cigarette?- Yeah.
0:13:06 > 0:13:10- You had it with you or you bought it?- I had it with me.
0:13:10 > 0:13:11So, you told a big lie to me?
0:13:11 > 0:13:14Yeah.
0:13:14 > 0:13:16How do you feel?
0:13:16 > 0:13:18Much better.
0:13:18 > 0:13:22And I'm not going to stop, either. I'm going to smoke while I'm here.
0:13:22 > 0:13:26- Yeah, so am I.- You're going to smoke now?- Yes, I'm going to smoke.
0:13:26 > 0:13:28I have a commitment
0:13:28 > 0:13:34that you live like normal human beings, good children.
0:13:34 > 0:13:38I want to smoke and I'm going to smoke and I don't really take...
0:13:38 > 0:13:41I'm not really going to have anyone telling me not to smoke.
0:13:41 > 0:13:45You're arguing with me so much, so much, but still I have not lost my cool.
0:13:45 > 0:13:47I do not raise my voice even by one decibel.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50I say that you can't smoke.
0:14:03 > 0:14:07Madu and Unni are alarmed by the teens' disobedience,
0:14:07 > 0:14:10so the search their bags in case they're hiding any more cigarettes.
0:14:10 > 0:14:16It's a condom. It is not going to be a choice of whether we should allow them one or two cigarettes.
0:14:16 > 0:14:19It's a no no, as far as that is concerned.
0:14:19 > 0:14:25Siddarth has never seen such bad behaviour and is worried that he might lose his new siblings.
0:14:33 > 0:14:35To be honest, I'd prefer to stay.
0:14:39 > 0:14:41Yeah, but it's not that easy at all.
0:14:48 > 0:14:53With the bags checked, Unni calls the teens up for a dressing down.
0:14:53 > 0:14:57I checked your bag. You've got cigarettes with you. You can take it or leave it to me now.
0:14:57 > 0:14:59- You checked my bag?- Yeah.
0:14:59 > 0:15:01You went through my stuff?
0:15:01 > 0:15:04You can't go through my stuff without asking me.
0:15:04 > 0:15:07Because you let me down, as simple as that.
0:15:07 > 0:15:10And I don't... I don't trust you, I'll be very open with you.
0:15:10 > 0:15:17- That's not fair. I could have some really private stuff in my bag. - Be open and frank and...
0:15:17 > 0:15:22- Be honest.- We've been very straight and honest with you. Please let me make it very clear.
0:15:22 > 0:15:26I've been very honest with you and very nice with you, I'll continue to be nice to you, OK?
0:15:26 > 0:15:30There are some things I spoke about it, like a good father.
0:15:30 > 0:15:33There are two sides to my personality, too.
0:15:33 > 0:15:35You've seen the good side of mine.
0:15:35 > 0:15:39- I want you to live with me like good kids.- But still, that's my stuff.
0:15:39 > 0:15:45That's, like, my belongings that you've just gone and ruffled through like... Oh, Jees!
0:15:53 > 0:15:55Ah!
0:15:55 > 0:15:57What a nice thing to hear(!)
0:15:57 > 0:16:02- I'm angry.- You're angry? - Yes.- So are we.- You've gone through my stuff without asking.
0:16:02 > 0:16:06- So are we, angry.- Do you know that we...- But we're controlling it. We don't like to shout.
0:16:06 > 0:16:08We're not a shouting type of people.
0:16:10 > 0:16:12You're my son. You're my daughter.
0:16:12 > 0:16:14This is my house
0:16:14 > 0:16:18and here my decisions shall prevail.
0:16:22 > 0:16:27I really just don't want to be here any more because I can't...
0:16:27 > 0:16:32I don't like them. I'm pissed off at the man for going through my stuff. The dad makes me want to...
0:16:32 > 0:16:35Makes me want to jump out the window and run as fast as I can.
0:16:35 > 0:16:38He is the most annoying man I've ever met in my life.
0:16:38 > 0:16:43I cannot stand to be around him and I'm going to walk out of this house and not come back in
0:16:43 > 0:16:47if he says, like, another word that pisses me off, because they're just...
0:16:47 > 0:16:50They're just too much.
0:17:00 > 0:17:02Joce, good morning.
0:17:02 > 0:17:04Peter, good morning.
0:17:04 > 0:17:05Siddarth, good morning.
0:17:05 > 0:17:08Rise and shine.
0:17:11 > 0:17:13Unni has a big day planned for Peter and Jocelyn.
0:17:13 > 0:17:20He wants them to join his charity and help out in the poorest area of town.
0:17:20 > 0:17:23So, Peter, Siddarth and Joce,
0:17:23 > 0:17:29you've got to go to a place where there is a community of underprivileged people
0:17:29 > 0:17:34and these are people who do not have any opportunities in life, also.
0:17:34 > 0:17:40I want you to go with the charity group and work along with them
0:17:40 > 0:17:43in the community cleaning work they do over there.
0:17:43 > 0:17:46OK, be good boys and good girl. OK, see you.
0:17:46 > 0:17:48Bye.
0:17:48 > 0:17:50They're not used to doing this.
0:17:50 > 0:17:53They're going with a conjecture and a perception
0:17:53 > 0:17:56that it's going to be dirty work. Oh, icky feeling.
0:17:56 > 0:17:58I'm sure if they were to turn around during the day
0:17:58 > 0:18:01and start feeling that, look, I like to contribute
0:18:01 > 0:18:05and I like to work and I like to be selfless in my thinking,
0:18:05 > 0:18:08then the actions will come automatically.
0:18:11 > 0:18:14Almost half of Pune's population live in
0:18:14 > 0:18:17a poverty-stricken area surviving on less than a pound a day.
0:18:19 > 0:18:26Its inhabitants receive no social security, so the only help they get is from charities like Unni's.
0:18:27 > 0:18:31I'm not going to do any of this work. I don't do charity shit.
0:18:37 > 0:18:40I'm not getting paid and it's got no benefit to me whatsoever.
0:18:42 > 0:18:44Bollocks to that.
0:18:44 > 0:18:48Do you, like, really genuinely not give a shit about these people?
0:18:48 > 0:18:51No, it's the way it goes. It's what happens. There's no...
0:18:51 > 0:18:55- But, like, I don't know, I just feel...- I've come to, like, terms with the fact
0:18:55 > 0:19:01that there's poverty all around the world, there's nothing you can do to stop it and there never will be.
0:19:04 > 0:19:07The teens are brought to meet the charity workers
0:19:07 > 0:19:10and their leader Evangeline, who will be setting their tasks.
0:19:33 > 0:19:34My name is Joce.
0:19:34 > 0:19:39- My name is Peter and I don't know what the- BLEEP - I'm doing here, pretty much.
0:19:39 > 0:19:46Despite his reservations, Peter joins the boys' group and Joce the girls'.
0:19:46 > 0:19:48Hello. Nice to meet you.
0:19:48 > 0:19:49My name is Joce.
0:19:49 > 0:19:53- Rahny?- Yeah.- What do we do exactly with the hygiene...
0:20:03 > 0:20:05It's going to be hard, like, really hard for me.
0:20:05 > 0:20:08Like, in England I don't...
0:20:08 > 0:20:11Well, I don't go to school and I don't work or anything,
0:20:11 > 0:20:15so, it's going to be a bit of a shock to kind of have to do, like,
0:20:15 > 0:20:17manual labour.
0:20:20 > 0:20:23The girls head off into the community to start work.
0:20:29 > 0:20:31Oh, ponytails!
0:20:38 > 0:20:43After the kids have their hands cleaned they're rewarded with a mini manicure.
0:20:43 > 0:20:48Sorry, I'm shaking. I smoke and I haven't had a fag, so I shake.
0:20:48 > 0:20:51So it's not going to be the brilliant thing.
0:20:52 > 0:20:56Kind of insane, like, seeing it for real.
0:20:56 > 0:21:00Like, TV is one thing, but when you're actually here, I'm, like, speechless.
0:21:00 > 0:21:03I don't really know what to say or do.
0:21:03 > 0:21:05I just can't believe that people live like this.
0:21:10 > 0:21:14Peter's group is heading to another part of the neighbourhood
0:21:14 > 0:21:17where they're expected to remove the rubbish from the streets.
0:21:17 > 0:21:20It's a crucial job, as the risk of fire is constant.
0:21:23 > 0:21:28I'm not used to this sort of shit, so it's pretty, like, gash, really.
0:21:30 > 0:21:33I don't have to.
0:21:34 > 0:21:36No.
0:21:55 > 0:21:57This is a joke.
0:21:57 > 0:21:59It's an actual joke.
0:22:03 > 0:22:06- Oh, you are- BLEEP- joking.
0:22:06 > 0:22:07I'm sorry about that, mate.
0:22:07 > 0:22:10Don't worry about it.
0:22:10 > 0:22:14Despite Siddarth's encouragement, Peter's had enough of doing charity work.
0:22:14 > 0:22:16I will hold. You have to...
0:22:16 > 0:22:18Oh. I'll see you all later.
0:22:22 > 0:22:24Yeah?
0:22:28 > 0:22:31No, I'm going. I'm going, mate.
0:22:31 > 0:22:33No, I can't be bothered.
0:22:35 > 0:22:36One sec. One sec.
0:22:36 > 0:22:39No, I can't be bothered. I'm not doing it.
0:22:39 > 0:22:41One sec, one sec, one sec.
0:22:43 > 0:22:46No, really, I'm going. I'm done.
0:22:46 > 0:22:51- Why?- No, seriously I'm done.- Because you're irritated?- Get out of my way, seriously.- Wait.- Get out of my way.
0:23:10 > 0:23:12This is pointless.
0:23:12 > 0:23:15I'm not picking up shit in, like, some slum for nothing.
0:23:15 > 0:23:20- That's just... Oh, God. I'm dreading what we've got planned for the rest of the- BLEEP- week
0:23:20 > 0:23:23if we start off the first day doing this shit.
0:23:26 > 0:23:31Back at home, Unni's charity leader has informed them of Peter's conduct.
0:23:31 > 0:23:36Peter, I have not enjoyed the way you've behaved at the place where you went.
0:23:36 > 0:23:41It's an insult to me. Ideally speaking I should be taking you along to apologise to those people.
0:23:41 > 0:23:44But I wouldn't apologise. If you take me I won't apologise.
0:23:44 > 0:23:48- You would not apologise? - I wouldn't... I won't apologise. I wouldn't. I wouldn't.
0:23:48 > 0:23:52- That shows the character. - That's... That's the way I am. I just wouldn't do that.
0:23:52 > 0:23:55You have to be changing to live in this world.
0:23:55 > 0:23:58Humility is the first step to success, Peter.
0:23:58 > 0:24:00If you want money and you want to reach somewhere in life
0:24:00 > 0:24:05it is humility, and nothing can replace humility and hard work.
0:24:05 > 0:24:07My children won't defy me.
0:24:07 > 0:24:12I know you may have difficulty, but that's why I'm silent, I'm going...
0:24:12 > 0:24:14That's my way of reacting.
0:24:16 > 0:24:21Expecting them to be changing overnight is a myth.
0:24:21 > 0:24:24If you are able to make them realise and understand,
0:24:24 > 0:24:27and to make them understand, we will have to calibrate our behaviour.
0:24:27 > 0:24:31That from softness to harshness and then later, stringency.
0:24:31 > 0:24:33It's the way we will be behaving.
0:24:39 > 0:24:46Following Peter's disobedience yesterday, Unni wants to teach the teens to respect authority.
0:24:46 > 0:24:52He's arranged for them to go to his factory to work, where they'll be given the minimum wage.
0:24:52 > 0:24:58Since I'm the head of this company, my expectation is your behaviour should be impeccable.
0:24:58 > 0:25:00Don't let me down.
0:25:00 > 0:25:05You'll be paid 200 rupees each
0:25:05 > 0:25:06when you complete the work.
0:25:06 > 0:25:13This 200 is equal to £3. This is a normal daily salary
0:25:13 > 0:25:18given to apprentices over here in India.
0:25:18 > 0:25:22These children at this point in time
0:25:22 > 0:25:27are not fully aware of the fact that one day their parents will stop giving them money.
0:25:27 > 0:25:33You have to climb every step in life to reach the pinnacle.
0:25:33 > 0:25:37Nobody can lift you and put you from a helicopter
0:25:37 > 0:25:39to a high position.
0:25:39 > 0:25:42You've got to climb it step by step
0:25:42 > 0:25:45and you start at the bottom of the rung.
0:25:49 > 0:25:54Unni's company runs a large manufacturing plant on the outskirts of Pune,
0:25:54 > 0:26:00but today the boys will be working in the factory where heating machines are assembled.
0:26:00 > 0:26:03I'm sort of looking forward to it, sort of not. It's pretty hot,
0:26:03 > 0:26:06but it's, like, interesting, something new, so... Let's see what happens.
0:26:06 > 0:26:08See how it goes.
0:26:24 > 0:26:26I'm sweating like a pig.
0:26:27 > 0:26:32Over at the other end of the plant, Jocelyn's doing a stock check.
0:26:38 > 0:26:40I've lost count now.
0:26:40 > 0:26:46Although they have only earned £3 each, Peter appreciates that it's better than nothing.
0:26:46 > 0:26:49I'm surprised at how hard they work for, like, little money,
0:26:49 > 0:26:51but then again, like, it's really, like,
0:26:51 > 0:26:53good to have a job out here compared to, like,
0:26:53 > 0:26:58compared to people in the slums, like, this is, like, amazing, so...
0:26:58 > 0:27:02Flush with his day's wages, Pete dumps the film crew,
0:27:02 > 0:27:08commandeers one of Unni's drivers and orders him to take him back into town.
0:27:13 > 0:27:17The whole point of me coming out here was to come over and have a bit of fun, which I'm doing.
0:27:17 > 0:27:21There's nowhere in the contract that we signed saying no tattoos,
0:27:21 > 0:27:24so there's nothing wrong with it.
0:27:24 > 0:27:27In India, tattoo parlours are unlicensed
0:27:27 > 0:27:34so, worried for his safety, a senior member of the production team arrives to stop the tattoo.
0:27:34 > 0:27:36Can I insist that you stop, please?
0:27:36 > 0:27:38- No.- Excuse me, can I insist that you stop?
0:27:38 > 0:27:40- It's almost finished. - I insist that you stop.
0:27:40 > 0:27:43I insist that you carry on.
0:27:43 > 0:27:48No, Peter, I'm insisting that you stop. We are... We are responsible for you while you're here...
0:27:48 > 0:27:52- I don't care.- And I insist that you stop.- I don't care. It's almost finished.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54- What about this...- I insist...
0:27:54 > 0:27:56Let him finish it. It's like the tiniest amount left.
0:27:56 > 0:27:58No, I absolutely insist...
0:27:58 > 0:28:03Peter is finally persuaded to leave the parlour with an unfinished tattoo.
0:28:06 > 0:28:09- Hi, mate.- Hey, man.
0:28:09 > 0:28:12Back at the flat and Siddarth is horrified by Peter's antics.
0:28:15 > 0:28:16- Yeah, I don't care about that.- Huh?
0:28:16 > 0:28:21I don't care about that. I got wisdom written in Hindi.
0:28:21 > 0:28:23What did he say it's called?
0:28:23 > 0:28:27It's "guan" or something like that.
0:28:31 > 0:28:33It's all right. It's all good.
0:28:33 > 0:28:37At dinnertime, Peter has to face Unni.
0:28:37 > 0:28:39How do you feel about what you've done?
0:28:39 > 0:28:42- Um...- Be honest with me.- I'm...
0:28:42 > 0:28:44I'm, like, glad that I got it.
0:28:44 > 0:28:51I'm annoyed that it was stopped so it's not fully finished. I mean, it's my body.
0:28:51 > 0:28:56I mean, it's my choice whether or not I deface it.
0:28:56 > 0:29:02You are under my parenthood and this is something which will have an impact on you permanently
0:29:02 > 0:29:10and in India there are places where they may use needles repeatedly
0:29:10 > 0:29:13and, other than drugs,
0:29:13 > 0:29:20one place where you get infected with HIV
0:29:20 > 0:29:23is tattoos.
0:29:23 > 0:29:26So, you were staking your life
0:29:26 > 0:29:31unknowingly, without realising what you've done.
0:29:31 > 0:29:37But Peter realises it might not just be him who gets it in the neck.
0:29:37 > 0:29:41What's happening... Is, like, anything happening to your driver?
0:29:41 > 0:29:45Because, like, I've been told that, like, you might sort of sack him,
0:29:45 > 0:29:51but I'd be, like, really, really annoyed if that happened and, like, I asked him to stop and that,
0:29:51 > 0:29:56so I don't think, like, you should, get, be, like, reprimanded for it.
0:29:56 > 0:29:59Because he didn't really know what was going on.
0:29:59 > 0:30:02He trusted you.
0:30:02 > 0:30:05So, his was a blind faith
0:30:05 > 0:30:08in a young boy who came from London,
0:30:08 > 0:30:12so let me mull over that for the night what I will do with him.
0:30:12 > 0:30:16Before you decide, do you think you could, like, let me know what you're going to do?
0:30:16 > 0:30:20Look, if I can take so many decisions
0:30:20 > 0:30:24of hiring 5,000 people
0:30:24 > 0:30:28and maybe firing a couple of hundred out of that in a year,
0:30:28 > 0:30:31I'm sure I'll take a fair decision.
0:30:34 > 0:30:37I'm containing my feelings at this point in time.
0:30:37 > 0:30:41I want him to be undergoing the tension for the night
0:30:41 > 0:30:43that what will happen with the driver.
0:30:43 > 0:30:46That's a punishment for him.
0:30:46 > 0:30:47He's obviously not very happy.
0:30:47 > 0:30:51It's quite annoying as well not knowing what's going to happen,
0:30:51 > 0:30:56but I asked him, like, if he could let me know what happens before he, like, makes the decision.
0:30:56 > 0:31:00And he was just, like, "I'll make a fair decision, I'm in charge of all these people."
0:31:00 > 0:31:04I was like, "Oh." So, I don't think I'll find out what happens until it happens.
0:31:10 > 0:31:16After a restless night, Peter is anxious to know Unni's verdict.
0:31:17 > 0:31:22What... Have you decided about what you're going to do with your driver?
0:31:22 > 0:31:28Well, I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt
0:31:28 > 0:31:32because he's worked with me for a number of years
0:31:32 > 0:31:36and he's shown his integrity and honesty for years.
0:31:38 > 0:31:42Giving credence for that, I'm deciding to keep him.
0:31:42 > 0:31:43Right, good.
0:31:43 > 0:31:48But please recognise for a fact that this is the way in life,
0:31:48 > 0:31:50you can put others also into trouble.
0:31:50 > 0:31:53Imagine that
0:31:53 > 0:31:58if I do not think properly and in a fit of anger, if I were to sack him,
0:31:58 > 0:32:05he's got a father, mother, not working, a wife and a small child.
0:32:05 > 0:32:09And the entire family survives on the income generated by this particular person.
0:32:09 > 0:32:11I thought I would get away with it really easily.
0:32:11 > 0:32:15- OK.- But when I got caught and that and I got told that the driver
0:32:15 > 0:32:17could get sacked I felt, like, really bad and that.
0:32:17 > 0:32:20It was a big mistake.
0:32:23 > 0:32:27It's day four and the most important so far for the Unnikrishnans.
0:32:29 > 0:32:36Education is what they hold most dear and today Peter and Joce will be attending Siddarth's school.
0:32:51 > 0:32:55At Siddarth's school, the pupils are expected to wear uniform.
0:32:55 > 0:32:59Failure to comply will lead to expulsion.
0:32:59 > 0:33:01- It is so cute.- It's disgusting.
0:33:01 > 0:33:03I won't even touch it.
0:33:03 > 0:33:10I don't think that girls and boys should be forced to wear separate things.
0:33:10 > 0:33:13We should have a choice and I don't agree with it.
0:33:13 > 0:33:15Only for three days? Just for three days?
0:33:15 > 0:33:18No, I'm not going to wear a dress.
0:33:18 > 0:33:20Not at all.
0:33:20 > 0:33:22It's disgusting.
0:33:24 > 0:33:26No, I'm not going to wear it.
0:33:27 > 0:33:28Well, I won't enter, then.
0:33:28 > 0:33:30I don't want to go anyway.
0:33:34 > 0:33:39Education is the only option available for coming up in life in India,
0:33:39 > 0:33:44so parents and children accord a lot of importance of attending school
0:33:44 > 0:33:47and my request to is you make maximum use of it.
0:33:47 > 0:33:52- Children, you're going to have a wonderful experience. - Enjoy it.- Believe me.
0:33:56 > 0:34:01Siddarth attends The Bishop's School in Pune.
0:34:01 > 0:34:03It was established by the British in 1864
0:34:03 > 0:34:06to cater for the children of the Indian Army.
0:34:06 > 0:34:10It now educates Pune's fee-paying elite.
0:34:10 > 0:34:15At the helm is principal Mr Freese, who rules his school with a rod of iron.
0:34:16 > 0:34:19There's a lot of pressure for admissions here
0:34:19 > 0:34:24and that is why we have to be very, very careful with our discipline
0:34:24 > 0:34:28because here we've got about 3,400 students, so we have to be very careful in that.
0:34:28 > 0:34:31Before they can start their lessons,
0:34:31 > 0:34:36the teens are required to meet the school principal for a uniform inspection.
0:34:36 > 0:34:41The first thing you need to do is put that gum into this, please.
0:34:41 > 0:34:43Are you chewing gum?
0:34:46 > 0:34:50We're very, very strong on discipline, all right?
0:34:50 > 0:34:53And one of the things we don't do is dress the way you are dressed.
0:34:53 > 0:34:55- The belt buckle should be in the centre.- Oh, yeah.
0:34:55 > 0:34:58Come on, we've got to teach you English how to dress!
0:34:58 > 0:35:02Be proud of that tie, my friend, that's The Bishop's School tie
0:35:02 > 0:35:06and that comes from a tradition of 145 years.
0:35:06 > 0:35:10School, attention.
0:35:10 > 0:35:12We shall now sing the national anthem.
0:35:12 > 0:35:15THEY SING
0:35:28 > 0:35:31We have our school rules, we expect discipline
0:35:31 > 0:35:34and we definitely expect you to be in proper uniform.
0:35:34 > 0:35:39So, I'd like to see Jocelyn after assembly, please.
0:35:39 > 0:35:46Despite the principal's earlier instruction, Jocelyn refuses to change into the correct uniform.
0:35:46 > 0:35:50- Why aren't you wearing it? - I don't think that you should... I feel like I should have a choice.
0:35:50 > 0:35:53I don't feel I should be forced into a dress.
0:35:53 > 0:35:55What you think does not matter in my school.
0:35:55 > 0:35:57I'm sorry, here you're expected...
0:35:57 > 0:35:59- I'm not going to wear a dress. - I'll have to send you home.
0:35:59 > 0:36:03- That's fine, I'm not going to wear a dress. - You can go on, then. I'm sorry.
0:36:03 > 0:36:07- You will stand expelled from the school if you do not follow our rules.- I'm not going to.
0:36:07 > 0:36:09- I beg your pardon?- I'm not going to.
0:36:09 > 0:36:11I told you. OK, I'm going.
0:36:11 > 0:36:13Go home. Send her home, please.
0:36:13 > 0:36:15That's OK. Let her go home.
0:36:15 > 0:36:20Siddarth, go to the office, phone your father, ask him to come and take her home, please.
0:36:20 > 0:36:24- She's refusing to get into uniform. She can go home.- Yes, sir. - I will not tolerate this.
0:36:24 > 0:36:25- So, I'll call him.- Go to the office.
0:36:37 > 0:36:41School, school... I hate school.
0:36:41 > 0:36:44I will never like school. I will never do work if I was here
0:36:44 > 0:36:48and I'm not going to wear a dress, so I may as well just go home before I get in...
0:36:48 > 0:36:50- Before I come and make a- BLEEP- of myself.
0:36:50 > 0:36:54The girl, I'm afraid, has been a bit of a rebel.
0:36:54 > 0:36:59She's been very stubborn and we don't want our girls to turn round and behave like this in future
0:36:59 > 0:37:01because that would be catastrophic for them.
0:37:01 > 0:37:06And our parents will really, really then be very, very upset if that happens.
0:37:06 > 0:37:09Stop talking. Next one.
0:37:09 > 0:37:11The next one is question number six, now.
0:37:11 > 0:37:14Peter's first lesson is algebra.
0:37:14 > 0:37:193x - 4 - 5m squared...
0:37:19 > 0:37:24Peter's put in Siddarth's class, who are all a year younger than him.
0:37:24 > 0:37:29- 8q - 3b + 5c. - Excellent! Very good.
0:37:29 > 0:37:33But being the new boy doesn't stop his teacher from putting him to the test.
0:37:33 > 0:37:35- I can't remember. It's...- 16.
0:37:35 > 0:37:38- What's their upside? - I'm just working it out.
0:37:38 > 0:37:41OK, you're calculating. Better do it.
0:37:44 > 0:37:50- He will tell us.- The answer is 7x - 9y - 9z.
0:37:50 > 0:37:51Good.
0:37:51 > 0:37:54I was like... I was well embarrassed.
0:37:54 > 0:37:56I didn't know what was going on. I was like, do that?
0:37:56 > 0:37:58Pretty much most of them are pretty clever.
0:37:58 > 0:38:00And they all, like, try really hard and that.
0:38:02 > 0:38:08For the Unnikrishnans Joce missing out on her day at school is a huge embarrassment.
0:38:08 > 0:38:13But you just give it a small, little, little thought, just for our sake, just for your sake?
0:38:13 > 0:38:16I don't like school.
0:38:16 > 0:38:19Anyway, you have about almost 24 hours
0:38:19 > 0:38:23to make up your mind, OK?
0:38:23 > 0:38:25- Yeah.- So, just give it a thought.
0:38:25 > 0:38:28I will.
0:38:28 > 0:38:31Peter's next class is a moral lesson.
0:38:31 > 0:38:36The topic I've decided on is obedience and hard work.
0:38:36 > 0:38:39So, you will see obedience counts.
0:38:39 > 0:38:41Whether it is in school or at home, it will count
0:38:41 > 0:38:45because there are certain rules and regulations given to us.
0:38:45 > 0:38:49What are the different rules and regulations that we have to follow? Yes?
0:38:49 > 0:38:57- Not to argue with your parents. - Excellent. Now, let's me hear the new child - Peter. Come.
0:38:57 > 0:38:58You can share...
0:38:58 > 0:39:01The teacher invites Peter to talk to his classmates
0:39:01 > 0:39:04about the moral standards he's grown up with in Britain.
0:39:04 > 0:39:07Anyone got any questions, then?
0:39:07 > 0:39:09Yeah, you have a question?
0:39:14 > 0:39:21In school life? Here's, like, quite strict whereas in England, like, I got kicked out of my old school
0:39:21 > 0:39:27because I didn't follow the little rules that there were and eventually they kicked me out.
0:39:29 > 0:39:31The worst thing I've ever done to my parents.
0:39:31 > 0:39:34- There's quite a few, but... - LAUGHTER
0:39:34 > 0:39:40- Please do not laugh. - Probably the worst thing was I went out to a party one night and I got,
0:39:40 > 0:39:46like, really drunk and when I got home I got in one of my mum's cars so I drove it and I crashed it.
0:39:46 > 0:39:50So I got arrested and had to spend the night in a police cell because I was drunk and that.
0:39:55 > 0:39:57I don't care about what my parents think about me.
0:39:58 > 0:40:00You should, actually.
0:40:00 > 0:40:02My parents will always be there no matter what I do.
0:40:03 > 0:40:04Yeah.
0:40:04 > 0:40:06Oh, my God,
0:40:06 > 0:40:08you know how bad that is?
0:40:10 > 0:40:11I was getting rinsed in there, though.
0:40:11 > 0:40:13When they were asking questions about me,
0:40:13 > 0:40:18the girls were going mental. I was like, "Someone else ask me a question, please."
0:40:18 > 0:40:20I was just like, "Oh, my gosh!"
0:40:20 > 0:40:23Compared to our culture it's extremely shocking what he did.
0:40:23 > 0:40:25It's not acceptable over here.
0:40:25 > 0:40:28He chooses to not use his brains
0:40:28 > 0:40:33and if he probably just changed his attitude towards life,
0:40:33 > 0:40:37as in, "I don't care," and all that, then he would probably be a good student.
0:40:37 > 0:40:40He'd be one of the best students here.
0:40:40 > 0:40:45Back at the apartment, Jocelyn receives a letter from her mother.
0:40:45 > 0:40:49"We hope that you're having time to think while you are away and to reflect
0:40:49 > 0:40:53"on the choices you have made in your life over the last few years.
0:40:53 > 0:40:59"Since you started at secondary school, you seem to have adopted a persona that rejects authority.
0:40:59 > 0:41:01"Lately you seem to have withdrawn from family life
0:41:01 > 0:41:05"and even though you live here in the same house, I feel that I've lost you.
0:41:05 > 0:41:08"Your brother and sis..." Argh!
0:41:12 > 0:41:17"Your brother and sisters feel the same way and we're hopeful that you'll come back
0:41:17 > 0:41:21"and finish your sixth-form courses and I hope you'll go on to pursue a career
0:41:21 > 0:41:27"that makes use of your talents and makes you happy. We'll always be here for you
0:41:27 > 0:41:29"and love you very much. Mum."
0:41:29 > 0:41:31SHE SNIFFS
0:41:31 > 0:41:34Getting back into a uniform and it just...
0:41:34 > 0:41:36It just brought a lot back.
0:41:36 > 0:41:39That was difficult.
0:41:39 > 0:41:43Stuff happened, stuff changed
0:41:43 > 0:41:46and I just ran away.
0:41:46 > 0:41:51Jocelyn's problems with school started when she was 13.
0:41:51 > 0:41:53There was a lot of stuff going on.
0:41:53 > 0:41:55I mean, like,
0:41:55 > 0:41:57my mum...
0:41:57 > 0:42:01My mum got cancer while I was at school.
0:42:01 > 0:42:04So, during that period I was, like,
0:42:04 > 0:42:07"What do I do? My mum's got cancer."
0:42:07 > 0:42:12I think she possibly, you know, thought that I was going to die.
0:42:12 > 0:42:16You know, being young and not really understanding these kind of things.
0:42:16 > 0:42:21And although her mother is now in remission, Jocelyn's struggled to move on.
0:42:21 > 0:42:26I got into smoking cannabis quite a bit. Went around being a dick around school,
0:42:26 > 0:42:30smoking, swearing at teachers, getting myself suspended, bunking,
0:42:30 > 0:42:34- being an absolute- BLEEP, - which probably didn't help.
0:42:34 > 0:42:38That time in my life just wasn't very nice for me.
0:42:38 > 0:42:40It was just difficult to, like, put a...
0:42:40 > 0:42:43put a uniform on again and, like, all this crap.
0:42:43 > 0:42:46Anyway, once you go back home...
0:42:46 > 0:42:49- Yeah.- You're not going to wear a uniform again.
0:42:49 > 0:42:55- Yeah, I know, I know.- I want you to get back a sparkle in your eyes,
0:42:55 > 0:42:58which will come with lightness of the mind.
0:42:58 > 0:43:01So, I want you to be happy, Joce.
0:43:01 > 0:43:02Yeah, I just block things out.
0:43:02 > 0:43:07I smoke cannabis, drink myself, you know...
0:43:07 > 0:43:10Get high all the time, like...
0:43:10 > 0:43:11It just keeps my mind off everything.
0:43:11 > 0:43:16- You don't have to think about anything when you do that, and like...- It's escapist.
0:43:16 > 0:43:18Yeah, it's just my way of running away.
0:43:18 > 0:43:21I've always run away.
0:43:21 > 0:43:24So, when are you going to stop running away?
0:43:24 > 0:43:27- Well, now. That's what I'm saying. - You will now?- I'm going to try.
0:43:27 > 0:43:32OK, I think trying is the first step.
0:43:32 > 0:43:34Yeah.
0:43:41 > 0:43:44After school, Unni invites Peter to his company, Fermax,
0:43:44 > 0:43:46for a chat about his future.
0:43:46 > 0:43:50- Hi. How are you? - Fine, thanks. Yourself?
0:43:50 > 0:43:52Sit down.
0:43:52 > 0:43:55He's keen that Peter appreciates the value of a good education
0:43:55 > 0:43:59and suspects that the way to get to his heart is money.
0:43:59 > 0:44:01How do you feel in this office?
0:44:01 > 0:44:03I could get used to it!
0:44:03 > 0:44:06I could get very used to it.
0:44:06 > 0:44:11- OK. What is your ambition in life? - I don't really know, to be honest.
0:44:11 > 0:44:13Like, I want to make a lot of money,
0:44:13 > 0:44:17but I'm not entirely sure, like, which way I'm going to go yet.
0:44:17 > 0:44:20I had a similar kind of vision at your age.
0:44:20 > 0:44:26I studied hard and got 100% marks in mathematics.
0:44:26 > 0:44:29- 100 out of 100.- That's good.
0:44:29 > 0:44:35So, there were only three seats available in the college where I did my degree in engineering
0:44:35 > 0:44:38for the province which I come from. I got one of those seats
0:44:38 > 0:44:41and studied for four years. You can also do that.
0:44:41 > 0:44:46You've got to plan at this point in time as to which route I will be taking.
0:44:46 > 0:44:49I'll show you how a company, how it operates
0:44:49 > 0:44:53and from that you'll come to know how you can get a good career.
0:44:53 > 0:44:55In any company,
0:44:55 > 0:44:58there'll be CFO.
0:44:58 > 0:45:00That's the Chief Financial Officer.
0:45:00 > 0:45:06There will be a Chief of Human Resources.
0:45:06 > 0:45:09Unni wants Peter to realise that getting a good degree
0:45:09 > 0:45:12is the only way for him to secure an executive job.
0:45:12 > 0:45:17If you were really serious about becoming something like this,
0:45:17 > 0:45:21average salary for a European CEO
0:45:21 > 0:45:26is US500,000 per year.
0:45:28 > 0:45:30Plus bonus.
0:45:30 > 0:45:32- Yeah.- Bonus can be anything.
0:45:32 > 0:45:34If you do great, you'll get a 1 million bonus.
0:45:34 > 0:45:37Now, I can sort of see myself being a CEO of Fermax.
0:45:37 > 0:45:42You want to be somebody like me?
0:45:42 > 0:45:44Yeah. I mean, it would be good.
0:45:44 > 0:45:48You can make it. You have all the potential to make it happen.
0:45:48 > 0:45:50You'll only need to work hard for that.
0:45:50 > 0:45:54I never really knew how companies sort of worked,
0:45:54 > 0:45:58but now that I do and what you need for it and I think I might actually go for it.
0:45:58 > 0:46:01I'm actually thinking of, like, maybe after finishing A-levels and that,
0:46:01 > 0:46:03then give him a little shout-out
0:46:03 > 0:46:05and come and work as an apprentice for him or something.
0:46:15 > 0:46:20Back at the flat, Joce is continuing to confront her demons.
0:46:20 > 0:46:24I'm not looking forward to school, but I'm going to go.
0:46:24 > 0:46:29There's no point me sitting... There's no point me coming here and sitting at home, so...
0:46:29 > 0:46:35Later that evening, Peter opens up to Unni about his troubled school days.
0:46:35 > 0:46:39I've been moving schools my whole life, because, like, obviously with my stepdad in the Army,
0:46:39 > 0:46:42- he was moving every two years, so I moved schools quite a lot.- Yeah.
0:46:42 > 0:46:47But I was at, like, a school I really loved and then they moved me to another school
0:46:47 > 0:46:49and the new school was like a prison.
0:46:49 > 0:46:53You went through shifting schools from one place to the other.
0:46:53 > 0:46:56That's not your fault. You're very playful,
0:46:56 > 0:46:58you're very energetic.
0:46:58 > 0:47:02You have a lot of naughty habits.
0:47:02 > 0:47:06Every human being has got good and bad, and you look at your good and try to improve it.
0:47:06 > 0:47:10I'm going to, like, work a lot harder for my exams now
0:47:10 > 0:47:14because I know that I'm going to need it because it's something to do in life now,
0:47:14 > 0:47:17whereas before I didn't really know what I was going to do after school, so...
0:47:17 > 0:47:21Like being here, like, that has helped so much.
0:47:21 > 0:47:24All the best. We are there!
0:47:26 > 0:47:29Peter, do you think India has changed you in any way?
0:47:29 > 0:47:31Like, I could feel it.
0:47:31 > 0:47:34I could feel it inside. It was weird, like, having someone...
0:47:34 > 0:47:37Like, never sort of had things sort of said
0:47:37 > 0:47:40to me, like, in that sort of way. Like, that was...
0:47:40 > 0:47:44That was everything I sort of thought has, like, completely been,
0:47:44 > 0:47:46like, reversed now, sort of thing.
0:47:46 > 0:47:49It's like completely changed the way I've thought about everything.
0:47:51 > 0:47:56I don't know. I think you're right, there is a turning point in me from this trip.
0:47:59 > 0:48:04Much to Unni's delight, Joce is up and dressed for school.
0:48:04 > 0:48:07It's the breakthrough they've been waiting for.
0:48:07 > 0:48:13For Jocelyn, the rhythm to come back to go to school is more important than what she does in the school.
0:48:13 > 0:48:17So, one has to be wearing a uniform, go to school,
0:48:17 > 0:48:22sit in the classroom, listen to a teacher is more important than what she learns in the class.
0:48:22 > 0:48:24It will be good for her.
0:48:33 > 0:48:37Jocelyn hasn't been in a classroom for two years.
0:48:46 > 0:48:50Jocelyn's first lesson is a spelling test.
0:48:50 > 0:48:52- Good morning, children. - Good morning.
0:48:55 > 0:48:58The first word, the word parliament.
0:48:58 > 0:49:02P-A-R-L-I-A-M-E-N-T
0:49:02 > 0:49:06Excellent. Antique.
0:49:06 > 0:49:08- A-N-T-I-Q-U-E.- Excellent.
0:49:08 > 0:49:11This is spelling is for Jocelyn.
0:49:11 > 0:49:17- Pageant.- Pageant. P-A-D-G-E-N-T.
0:49:17 > 0:49:23- No?- No. It's P-A-G-E-A-N-T.
0:49:23 > 0:49:27All right, give each other a clap, please.
0:49:29 > 0:49:35They were all just so clever. Like, they all try so hard to, like, really do well and it's, like, wow.
0:49:35 > 0:49:39It was quite refreshing, actually, to be in a room full of, like, children that are so, like,
0:49:39 > 0:49:42wanting to, like, succeed and that. It's really weird.
0:49:42 > 0:49:45I am strongly for the motion.
0:49:45 > 0:49:50In the school hall, Peter's been asked to take part in a debating competition.
0:49:50 > 0:49:55He's arguing that life as an Indian teenager is better than that of a British one.
0:49:55 > 0:49:59Ladies and gentlemen of the board and my very generous audience,
0:49:59 > 0:50:03I'd like to begin with, first and foremost, education.
0:50:03 > 0:50:06In India, education is far more important
0:50:06 > 0:50:08than most other westernised countries,
0:50:08 > 0:50:10such as England, for example.
0:50:10 > 0:50:13Many people will drop out of education after the age of 16
0:50:13 > 0:50:15with very little qualifications.
0:50:15 > 0:50:19Second of all is morals. India are big on their morals.
0:50:19 > 0:50:22Lastly, I would like to talk about respect.
0:50:22 > 0:50:25In India, everyone is massive on respect.
0:50:25 > 0:50:29You must respect your family, respect your teachers,
0:50:29 > 0:50:33respect any sort of authoritative figures - elders, police, everything.
0:50:33 > 0:50:37In many westernised cultures, respect is completely diminished.
0:50:37 > 0:50:38Thank you very much.
0:50:38 > 0:50:40APPLAUSE
0:50:42 > 0:50:47Coming to the point in question, I firmly believe that I would prefer to be a teenager
0:50:47 > 0:50:51in a developed western country than in a country like India.
0:50:51 > 0:50:54And now for the eagerly awaited prize.
0:50:54 > 0:50:56Best speaker for...
0:50:56 > 0:50:57Peter Wrigley!
0:50:57 > 0:51:01APPLAUSE
0:51:06 > 0:51:08Thank you. Cheers.
0:51:08 > 0:51:10'The standards are pretty high out here.'
0:51:10 > 0:51:12I was surprised that I did so well, but, you know...
0:51:15 > 0:51:18It's the last period of the day
0:51:18 > 0:51:22and not only is Jocelyn still at school, she's even joined The Bishop's cricket team.
0:51:30 > 0:51:32I wasn't that upset about my over.
0:51:32 > 0:51:34I haven't played in two years.
0:51:34 > 0:51:36I do miss cricket. I do...
0:51:36 > 0:51:38I do want to play when I get back.
0:51:42 > 0:51:49For the first time in two years, Joce has made it to the end of her school day and it's been a success.
0:51:49 > 0:51:53School, like... School has just made me realise that instead of blocking it out,
0:51:53 > 0:51:58I need to kind of accept everything and try and move on properly rather than just closing the door,
0:51:58 > 0:52:03do you know what I mean? And I want to move on with my life properly and stop, like,
0:52:03 > 0:52:07letting the past get me down.
0:52:07 > 0:52:12The British teens are nearly ready to leave, so they're having a final family get-together.
0:52:12 > 0:52:14- It's been amazing.- Thank you.
0:52:14 > 0:52:16It's nice to hear that, you know?
0:52:16 > 0:52:22You are our kids. It makes us feel very, very happy and proud, really.
0:52:22 > 0:52:26And we are always there for both of you, OK?
0:52:26 > 0:52:32Seeing a smile on her face makes me absolutely believe there'll be a different...
0:52:32 > 0:52:36a very different Joce we will see when we're going to see you for the next time.
0:52:36 > 0:52:39And you'll have the memories of this going with you.
0:52:39 > 0:52:44Oh, for the rest of my life. Well, I've got a tattoo to remind me, don't I?
0:52:45 > 0:52:49OK. Do well. OK, do well.
0:52:49 > 0:52:50Do well, OK?
0:52:50 > 0:52:54Oh, I'm so happy I came. The family were amazing.
0:52:54 > 0:52:57They were like... They've got a bit of both.
0:52:57 > 0:53:01They've got the old love and caring, but with the strictness. I think it's brilliant.
0:53:01 > 0:53:04Bye. Thank you.
0:53:04 > 0:53:06'Oh, the family were really lovely.
0:53:06 > 0:53:09'They made me think beyond barriers that I'd brought up'
0:53:09 > 0:53:14and encouraged me to do things that I didn't want to do.
0:53:14 > 0:53:15All the best. Do well, OK?
0:53:15 > 0:53:18Do well. Do well, OK? Do well.
0:53:18 > 0:53:21We are confident their parents will notice the change in them
0:53:21 > 0:53:27because we are their parents for just one week and we have noticed a change.
0:53:49 > 0:53:51You look just the same!
0:53:51 > 0:53:53- All right?- Hi!
0:53:53 > 0:53:55Yeah, we're fine.
0:53:55 > 0:53:57I want to know everything, Jocelyn.
0:53:57 > 0:54:01Oh, I've got lots here.
0:54:01 > 0:54:05What are the main things that you've learnt?
0:54:05 > 0:54:07Learnt some self-control.
0:54:07 > 0:54:12Dealing with things instead of running away and helping you out more.
0:54:12 > 0:54:18- I didn't know what was going to surface, but it's good, you know, if things have surfaced, then...- Yeah.
0:54:18 > 0:54:21It gave me a chance to think a lot.
0:54:21 > 0:54:24I tend to, like, not think.
0:54:24 > 0:54:29I mean, I know we've had issues in our family and I suppose maybe you've felt,
0:54:29 > 0:54:31you know, that you don't want to add to them.
0:54:31 > 0:54:36But since you got cancer, I don't want to, like, don't want to do anything to bring that back.
0:54:36 > 0:54:38I don't want to worry you.
0:54:38 > 0:54:42It's quite nice to see her communicating.
0:54:42 > 0:54:49It's very interesting that she said that, you know, about me being ill, which is quite touching, really.
0:54:49 > 0:54:57I've been so intent on carrying on that I didn't realise she was worried about that.
0:54:57 > 0:55:00So, yeah...
0:55:07 > 0:55:09Hello. All right?
0:55:12 > 0:55:15- Come in.- How are you?- I'm good.
0:55:15 > 0:55:21So, are you a changed person now? Are you changed?
0:55:21 > 0:55:23- In some respects.- In what respects?
0:55:23 > 0:55:25- I know what I'm going to do after school.- What are you going to do?
0:55:25 > 0:55:29Going to uni, get a degree and I'm going into big business.
0:55:29 > 0:55:32After A-levels, I'm going back out to India for some work experience.
0:55:32 > 0:55:34- Lovely.- A couple of trophies and certificates.
0:55:34 > 0:55:37Wow!
0:55:38 > 0:55:41I mean, it's fantastic news to hear Peter say
0:55:41 > 0:55:46that he is going to work hard to get the qualifications that he needs.
0:55:46 > 0:55:50If only that comes out of it, then, you know, I'm deeply grateful.
0:55:50 > 0:55:53- Thank you, darling.- You're welcome.
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