0:00:02 > 0:00:07Around the world, many parents raise their kids on a diet of strict discipline...
0:00:07 > 0:00:11It's our responsibility as parents to be in control of the music they listen to,
0:00:11 > 0:00:13the movies they watch and the friends they have.
0:00:15 > 0:00:16..Rigid boundaries...
0:00:16 > 0:00:19Am I friends with my children? No.
0:00:19 > 0:00:21I'm not your friend, I'm your parent.
0:00:21 > 0:00:23..And immediate consequences.
0:00:23 > 0:00:28My dad is really strict. If you break the rules, he can be very scary.
0:00:30 > 0:00:35But can traditional parenting change the lives of rebellious British teenagers?
0:00:35 > 0:00:39I was brought here on this earth to party.
0:00:39 > 0:00:42She can be an absolute nightmare. It's awful.
0:00:44 > 0:00:48My lifestyle is playing Xbox, getting hammered.
0:00:49 > 0:00:51You! I'm getting you!
0:00:51 > 0:00:53'I went to anger management.'
0:00:53 > 0:00:55Got kicked out of anger management for being angry.
0:00:57 > 0:00:58No one can tell me what to do.
0:00:58 > 0:01:01Not even the Queen of England can tell me what to do.
0:01:02 > 0:01:06He's slapped me, he's poked me, he's pushed me. He's done it all.
0:01:07 > 0:01:09I am what I am. If you don't like it, jog on.
0:01:09 > 0:01:15To find out, two teens who've never met before will leave their fraught families behind.
0:01:15 > 0:01:18Maybe she'll come back and be nice.
0:01:18 > 0:01:21- Doubt it.- And head off to the far corners of the world,
0:01:21 > 0:01:26where they will live according to strict rules imposed by new parents.
0:01:26 > 0:01:30You are not in the UK, you are in Barbados!
0:01:30 > 0:01:33They're the most awful people I've ever met in my whole life.
0:01:33 > 0:01:36She wants to throw a hissy fit, she can have her hissy fit.
0:01:38 > 0:01:40I'm going home, bruv.
0:01:40 > 0:01:42What are you gonna do? That's what I thought.
0:01:42 > 0:01:46This is our rule. If you're gonna cop an attitude about it, forget it.
0:01:46 > 0:01:47What's the point, yeah?
0:01:47 > 0:01:49The point is a matter of trust.
0:01:49 > 0:01:52If this is how they are, I'm sorry for Britain.
0:02:02 > 0:02:06- Julia, can you go and get my bag, please!- Where is it?- Downstairs.
0:02:06 > 0:02:09- I'm not Cinderella!- Yes, I know.
0:02:09 > 0:02:11Jesus Christ.
0:02:11 > 0:02:16- 16-year-old Nadia Traboulski is a spoilt diva.- I'd say I'm probably a bit of a bitch.
0:02:16 > 0:02:19If I don't like you, I don't like you.
0:02:19 > 0:02:22Gosh, yeah, she's got a mouth on her.
0:02:22 > 0:02:23..On you.
0:02:23 > 0:02:27Nadia's attendance at college was so bad, she was asked not to return.
0:02:27 > 0:02:29I hate my teachers, and they hate me too.
0:02:29 > 0:02:33So I'm not allowed to go back next year. Bunch of bitches.
0:02:34 > 0:02:37She isn't silly, this is the annoying thing.
0:02:37 > 0:02:39She's passed all her college exams.
0:02:39 > 0:02:41This is what is so annoying.
0:02:41 > 0:02:45She doesn't have a job, but Nadia still has very expensive tastes.
0:02:45 > 0:02:49I'm working my way to getting a Louis Vuitton suitcase from my dad.
0:02:49 > 0:02:51But I don't know if that'll work out.
0:02:51 > 0:02:55She doesn't do cheap. It's got to be expensive, it's got to have a label.
0:02:57 > 0:03:02Nadia wants all the finer things in life, the fancy cars and the big houses, but she doesn't realise
0:03:02 > 0:03:07that she's never going to get it if she doesn't get out there and work for it.
0:03:07 > 0:03:10I just want to be rich. Money's, like, my friend.
0:03:10 > 0:03:17Single mum Gillian split up from her husband and returned to England from the Lebanon when Nadia was eight.
0:03:17 > 0:03:20Since then, Nadia has played on her father's guilt.
0:03:20 > 0:03:25If I don't get it for her, she'll just ring up her dad, and he'll give her money and then she'll get it.
0:03:25 > 0:03:30- So she's spoilt, basically.- I was like "Dad, I want a Range Rover".
0:03:34 > 0:03:37I worry about Nadia's future. I worry immensely.
0:03:37 > 0:03:39Emily! Woo!
0:03:39 > 0:03:44Because, the way she's carrying on at the moment, I just don't know where she'll end up.
0:03:44 > 0:03:46Don't really give a shit.
0:03:47 > 0:03:5260 miles away, another teenager is causing problems for his family.
0:03:53 > 0:03:58Dope-smoking 16-year-old Aron Shave is a loose cannon.
0:03:58 > 0:04:00You only live life once.
0:04:00 > 0:04:02Enjoy it as much as you can, really.
0:04:02 > 0:04:06If it means getting into trouble, it means getting into trouble.
0:04:06 > 0:04:09But single mother Anna bears the brunt of his behaviour.
0:04:09 > 0:04:12- We know that you've got a bad attitude.- No, I don't.
0:04:12 > 0:04:14- Sometimes you have.- If you say so.
0:04:14 > 0:04:16He's moody, he's lazy.
0:04:16 > 0:04:19My mum thinks my attitude stinks.
0:04:19 > 0:04:24Aron's problems with authority began while he was in school.
0:04:24 > 0:04:26Teachers, I didn't get on with at my school.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28That was because I was a little shit.
0:04:30 > 0:04:32- I've called quite a few teachers- BLEEP.
0:04:32 > 0:04:35In his secondary school, I don't think he's done
0:04:35 > 0:04:40even two pieces of homework for the whole of his secondary education.
0:04:42 > 0:04:46They said he could be an A/B student, but he could not be bothered.
0:04:46 > 0:04:51And it was frustrating for the teachers, almost to the fact they'd give up on him.
0:04:51 > 0:04:54He thinks it's more fun just to be, like, a loser.
0:04:55 > 0:04:58Aaron recently began a mechanics course at college.
0:04:58 > 0:05:03But his mum is fearful that history will repeat itself and he'll soon be thrown out.
0:05:03 > 0:05:08He might like the teacher he's got now, but if they get a new one who doesn't gel with Aron,
0:05:08 > 0:05:11Aron will be rude to that person, and then he'll walk out.
0:05:15 > 0:05:19Aaron's parents separated when he was two.
0:05:19 > 0:05:22I spend one week at my mum's house, one week at my dad's house.
0:05:22 > 0:05:26And things took a turn for the worse when he was 14.
0:05:26 > 0:05:31His entire family was affected by the premature death of his grandmother.
0:05:31 > 0:05:33He does really miss his nan.
0:05:33 > 0:05:38My mum educated Aron. She looked after him so that I could go to work.
0:05:38 > 0:05:41She's been a big part of Aron's life.
0:05:41 > 0:05:44It always happens to nice people, kind of thing.
0:05:48 > 0:05:51To try and get them to start thinking about their futures,
0:05:51 > 0:05:56both families are sending their wayward teens to live with new parents in India.
0:05:56 > 0:05:57Have a really nice time.
0:06:00 > 0:06:02- See you later.- Yeah?
0:06:02 > 0:06:04No, really.
0:06:04 > 0:06:07Just...enjoy yourselves, yeah?
0:06:07 > 0:06:11- Take care. - I love you. See you later.
0:06:11 > 0:06:14Bye, darling. Bye.
0:06:15 > 0:06:20I would like Aron to come back and be a bit calmer, a bit less aggressive.
0:06:20 > 0:06:25Maybe stop smoking, maybe have more family respect.
0:06:25 > 0:06:27Do you want help getting it out?
0:06:27 > 0:06:29- Do you want help?- I said yes!- Oh.
0:06:29 > 0:06:33- There you go.- Let me shut the door.
0:06:34 > 0:06:38Have a lovely time. Behave yourself.
0:06:38 > 0:06:43- Do try to take on board what they tell you and listen.- Right. Bye.
0:06:43 > 0:06:45Be careful. Look after yourself.
0:06:45 > 0:06:47Bye.
0:06:48 > 0:06:50I feel quite nervous, really.
0:06:50 > 0:06:52I feel nervous for her. She's going away.
0:06:52 > 0:06:55Just hope she behaves herself...
0:06:55 > 0:06:58although I'd be surprised if she does.
0:07:01 > 0:07:04Oh, my God. I'm so scared.
0:07:04 > 0:07:06- Hi.- You all right?- Hello.
0:07:06 > 0:07:09- What's your name?- Aron. What's yours?
0:07:09 > 0:07:13Nadia. "I'm a bellend".
0:07:13 > 0:07:16- That's nice! - It was my nickname for a while.
0:07:16 > 0:07:19- "I'm a bellend". Did you get it made? - Yeah, I got it made up Camden.
0:07:20 > 0:07:21Cool.
0:07:25 > 0:07:31The British teens are flying 5,000 miles away to the Indian city of Bangalore.
0:07:31 > 0:07:34Home to over 13,000 millionaires,
0:07:34 > 0:07:37this bustling city is a technological powerhouse
0:07:37 > 0:07:41helping to push India towards being an economic superpower.
0:07:41 > 0:07:45One family who embody its ingrained work ethic are the Nanjundayyas.
0:07:45 > 0:07:51Single mother Nalini owns her own business, which teaches cultural awareness and industry.
0:07:51 > 0:07:54She's also a dedicated charity worker.
0:07:54 > 0:08:00Her daughter, 18-year-old Niska, is one of three children and studying at university.
0:08:00 > 0:08:03Grandmother Lalita is the head of the household.
0:08:03 > 0:08:07- Sorry.- It's OK, stay there.
0:08:07 > 0:08:09'My mother was very strict.'
0:08:09 > 0:08:14For example, education was considered uppermost.
0:08:14 > 0:08:16We had to perform well.
0:08:16 > 0:08:20Today, Nalini insists that daughter Niska studies twice as hard.
0:08:20 > 0:08:26She will do whatever it takes to get me educated, so I'm expected to get good grades at every level.
0:08:26 > 0:08:29If I get average levels, she yells at me.
0:08:29 > 0:08:31Why have you written it like this?
0:08:31 > 0:08:34No, this is not good. Go back and check the other one.
0:08:34 > 0:08:3715 years ago, Nalini's husband passed away,
0:08:37 > 0:08:41so it was down to her to ensure that all three of her children achieved their full potential.
0:08:41 > 0:08:43Nihar is my eldest son.
0:08:43 > 0:08:46He has done his engineering here.
0:08:46 > 0:08:48He's now working in London with Bank of America.
0:08:48 > 0:08:53My second son did an MBA in finance, and now he is also in London.
0:08:53 > 0:08:57I am Nalini. I am from the Rotary Club of Bangalore.
0:08:57 > 0:09:01Coming from a wealthy family, Nalini likes to give back to her community.
0:09:03 > 0:09:06And her commitment to charity is well respected.
0:09:06 > 0:09:08Put your tables straight, please. Put them straight.
0:09:08 > 0:09:11No, put this into that.
0:09:11 > 0:09:12No mess allowed, OK?
0:09:12 > 0:09:17If you are doing nothing, you must start clearing up the mess. OK?
0:09:17 > 0:09:19What I say goes. It has to be respected,
0:09:19 > 0:09:22because I have a reason for everything I say.
0:09:22 > 0:09:25This is so that all of us can live together in harmony.
0:09:29 > 0:09:33After a 12-hour flight, the British teens have arrived in Bangalore.
0:09:33 > 0:09:36It's India's third biggest city.
0:09:36 > 0:09:38- They all drive crazily. - Chill the beans!
0:09:38 > 0:09:41They're always tooting their horns, ain't they?
0:09:45 > 0:09:48This is a weird country.
0:09:48 > 0:09:49It really is.
0:09:49 > 0:09:52- I wouldn't be able to live here.- No.
0:09:52 > 0:09:56It's too different from what my life is actually like.
0:09:56 > 0:09:59Like just walking down the shop without being able to go in Topshop.
0:09:59 > 0:10:03- Obviously, they won't have that here.- Yeah.
0:10:06 > 0:10:08There's just, like, a cow walking in the street.
0:10:08 > 0:10:11It's, like, so dirty. Like, look there, all the rubbish.
0:10:13 > 0:10:16We don't have to live on this street, do we?
0:10:17 > 0:10:21- Watch when we do now.- I bet we do. - Watch when we do.- Oh, my God.
0:10:23 > 0:10:26The Nanjundayyas live in the middle class area of Jayanagar.
0:10:36 > 0:10:38This is going to be a fun week(!)
0:10:40 > 0:10:44Oh, God. It looks all right, though.
0:10:51 > 0:10:53- Hello.- Hi.
0:10:53 > 0:10:55- Hi, I'm Nalini.- Hi, I'm Nadia.
0:10:55 > 0:10:58Welcome to the Nanjundayya household.
0:10:58 > 0:11:01- I'm Aron.- Hi, Aron. I'm Nalini.
0:11:01 > 0:11:03- This is my mother Lalita. - I'm Aron.
0:11:03 > 0:11:06My daughter, Niska. Welcome.
0:11:06 > 0:11:08Can I help you with something?
0:11:08 > 0:11:14For the next seven days, Aron and Nadia must abide by this family's rules and values.
0:11:14 > 0:11:19Let me show you round the house. This, Nadia, is going to be the room you will share with Niska.
0:11:19 > 0:11:23- OK.- So, I hope it's all right sharing a room with her.
0:11:23 > 0:11:25Yeah, that's fine.
0:11:25 > 0:11:28- This is Aron's room.- All right.- OK.
0:11:28 > 0:11:31If there's anything you need,
0:11:31 > 0:11:33water for you, everything is there.
0:11:33 > 0:11:35OK. Thank you.
0:11:38 > 0:11:41- Is it that one I'm going to put it in?- Yeah, that's your cupboard.
0:11:41 > 0:11:43LOUD CREAKING
0:11:44 > 0:11:48- You go to, like, university or college?- Yes, I'm in university.
0:11:48 > 0:11:52- What you studying there?- I'm doing a Bachelors in business management.
0:11:52 > 0:11:55- Oh, OK.- It's nice. It's a lot of fun.
0:11:55 > 0:11:58Uni life and college life is good fun.
0:11:58 > 0:12:01I know it sounds horrible, but I didn't think she'd be smart,
0:12:01 > 0:12:04and that she'd be at university and doing what she's doing,
0:12:04 > 0:12:07because when we was driving round, the way it looked,
0:12:07 > 0:12:10and people were walking round the street barefoot,
0:12:10 > 0:12:12I wouldn't expect her to be at university
0:12:12 > 0:12:14and she's really smart and doing really well.
0:12:14 > 0:12:16They're not what I expected.
0:12:16 > 0:12:19They are completely - it's completely the opposite.
0:12:19 > 0:12:23I thought they'll be, you know, very, like completely wild and crazy
0:12:23 > 0:12:27in their appearance and stuff, but they are very calm and docile.
0:12:27 > 0:12:29Or it could be an act.
0:12:29 > 0:12:31Absolutely. This could be an act.
0:12:31 > 0:12:35They're probably... This could be the calm before the storm.
0:12:35 > 0:12:36Could be.
0:12:37 > 0:12:40Joined by two members of her extended family,
0:12:40 > 0:12:45Nalini is eager to let the British teens know how her household runs.
0:12:45 > 0:12:47Rules of the house...
0:12:47 > 0:12:52In this house, we concentrate on ambition and education,
0:12:52 > 0:12:56and then discipline. Everyone must have ambition.
0:12:56 > 0:12:59Without ambition, we're not going to achieve anything.
0:12:59 > 0:13:03You will be attending school for three days.
0:13:03 > 0:13:05You will have to attend.
0:13:05 > 0:13:12Homework will have to be done, and I expect a very good report from school. Respect to elders.
0:13:12 > 0:13:15We have lots of elders sitting here.
0:13:15 > 0:13:18My mother here is 83-year-old.
0:13:18 > 0:13:22While she has been keeping quiet, she is actually the head of this house.
0:13:22 > 0:13:26No smoking, no alcohol, no drugs.
0:13:26 > 0:13:30Now, I hope none of you are smokers.
0:13:31 > 0:13:34- You are?- Aron is.- Aron is.
0:13:34 > 0:13:36What else do you do, Aron?
0:13:36 > 0:13:38Erm, I smoke weed and I drink.
0:13:38 > 0:13:42You smoke weed and you drink. OK, we will not be allowing you
0:13:42 > 0:13:45to do in that in this house and it's not part of the culture here,
0:13:45 > 0:13:46so you might want to give it up.
0:13:46 > 0:13:51I hope you're not carrying anything with you. Are you?
0:13:51 > 0:13:53I don't have any weed or alcohol. I've got fags,
0:13:53 > 0:13:57but my fags are staying with me. I'm sorry, I'm sticking with that.
0:13:57 > 0:13:59No, I'm sticking with my fags on me.
0:13:59 > 0:14:02- OK. But I expect that you do not smoke it.- OK.
0:14:02 > 0:14:04Sure?
0:14:04 > 0:14:05Dressing Nadia.
0:14:05 > 0:14:09What you're wearing right now is inappropriate in homes
0:14:09 > 0:14:13and in the market places, and things like that.
0:14:13 > 0:14:17It's inappropriate because people around us are going to get a little shocked.
0:14:17 > 0:14:20- So I can't wear, like, vest tops or shorts?- No.
0:14:20 > 0:14:23If you are dressed like this, Nadia, you will have eyes ogling at you.
0:14:23 > 0:14:25That makes one feel very uncomfortable.
0:14:25 > 0:14:28Aron is fine. Absolutely fine.
0:14:28 > 0:14:32Except I do not understand what that means. What is a bellend?
0:14:32 > 0:14:37- Er...- It says "I'm a bellend." Do you know what it means?
0:14:37 > 0:14:41- Not really. No, we don't.- Back in like London people find it funny.
0:14:41 > 0:14:45- But, yeah.- OK.
0:14:45 > 0:14:53I expect your best behaviour out of the house, because outside behaviour has got to be impeccable, right?
0:14:53 > 0:14:58- Now, do you have any questions? - No.- You may leave the table now.
0:15:00 > 0:15:05I admire Aron's honesty that he smokes and he does weed,
0:15:05 > 0:15:09and I hope he appreciates that we, you know, he cannot do that in our house.
0:15:09 > 0:15:13I think Aron might act up a bit, but I think he's quite sweet actually.
0:15:13 > 0:15:15But I don't know. I think maybe. Him.
0:15:15 > 0:15:20I think both of them may have some thoughts about the rules,
0:15:20 > 0:15:23and they may not appreciate many of them.
0:15:23 > 0:15:27- Can I go home now? - What's the problem?
0:15:27 > 0:15:30They think I'm actually going to not smoke.
0:15:30 > 0:15:33It's not happening.
0:15:33 > 0:15:35I'm fashion conscious, so I don't really appreciate it
0:15:35 > 0:15:39when she's telling me that I should wear different clothes. It's, like, me.
0:15:39 > 0:15:42I dress myself. I shouldn't have to, like, change for them.
0:15:45 > 0:15:48Whilst the teens change out of their flight clothes,
0:15:48 > 0:15:52it's a chance for Nadia and Niska to get to know each other a little better.
0:15:52 > 0:15:55I'm not really, like, the good child, I'd say.
0:15:55 > 0:15:59I could go out until, like, six in the morning, come home when I want.
0:15:59 > 0:16:01Do you tell your parents where you are?
0:16:01 > 0:16:05No, my mum knows where I go. If I ask her, she'll be, like, "Where you going?"
0:16:05 > 0:16:08And then she's, like, "Are you coming home tonight?"
0:16:08 > 0:16:10I'll be, like, "Yeah, well, I'll let you know." It depends.
0:16:10 > 0:16:14That's really good. I would not try that with my mum.
0:16:14 > 0:16:16She'd be, like, "Yeah, right, you come home
0:16:16 > 0:16:18"and you're not going out ever."
0:16:18 > 0:16:20Like I would be grounded, like house bound.
0:16:20 > 0:16:25Unfortunately, it's not long before temptation becomes too much for Aron.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27I'm proper craving.
0:16:29 > 0:16:30OK.
0:16:30 > 0:16:34- Sshh!- You can't do shush here! Seriously you can't.
0:16:34 > 0:16:36- Shush!- You can't smoke here.
0:16:36 > 0:16:38That's like weed?
0:16:38 > 0:16:42- What are you smoking? A rule is a rule.- This is me.
0:16:42 > 0:16:45It's like changing what I do.
0:16:45 > 0:16:48But you do know my mum trusted you. That she's trusted you.
0:16:48 > 0:16:50- I know, I know, I know. - And you broke her trust.
0:16:50 > 0:16:52You go and tell my mum herself that you did this.
0:16:52 > 0:16:55- It needed to be done. - So just tell her.
0:16:58 > 0:17:04Inside, Niska has made it clear that he needs to 'fess up or she'll spill the beans.
0:17:04 > 0:17:07- What's happening?- I caved in.
0:17:07 > 0:17:09Why? Where did you cave in?
0:17:09 > 0:17:11I had...I had a fag.
0:17:12 > 0:17:14I'm a little upset that you've let me down.
0:17:14 > 0:17:18Especially when you so seriously said that, "I won't do this".
0:17:18 > 0:17:21I would really request you to give me the cigarettes if you can.
0:17:21 > 0:17:24That way it'll help you not to smoke.
0:17:24 > 0:17:27You're going to hang on to it.
0:17:27 > 0:17:33Rather than getting into a row, Nalini's strategy is to patiently sit it out.
0:17:36 > 0:17:42- A rule is a rule Aron, so I'd really appreciate it further if you gave me the cigarettes.- No.
0:17:46 > 0:17:48Come on, Aron, be a sport.
0:17:49 > 0:17:54Right, you're actually doing my head in now. Put the stupid pouch on the bloody table. It's tobacco, yeah?
0:17:54 > 0:17:58Don't start smirking at me, you're actually pathetic. Do you know how stupid you are?
0:17:58 > 0:18:02We've been sat here for half an hour, and because of some stupid tobacco
0:18:02 > 0:18:04you won't put it on the table and hand it over.
0:18:04 > 0:18:06Do you know how pathetic you are?
0:18:08 > 0:18:10- You're so pathetic.- So?
0:18:10 > 0:18:15And you know you are because you wouldn't be sat there going... and laughing and everything.
0:18:15 > 0:18:18- Cool.- You're an idiot.- Sweet.
0:18:22 > 0:18:24Come on, Aron.
0:18:24 > 0:18:27How about if I just like lock it in my suitcase and I, like,
0:18:27 > 0:18:32leave a little bit hanging out the zip after it's locked, so you could still see it's in there?
0:18:32 > 0:18:36- And you won't touch it ever?- No. - As long as you're here, that is.
0:18:36 > 0:18:40- No.- Right? Sure? Nadia, would you like to go with Niska.
0:18:42 > 0:18:47Aron's new sisters are sent to police him.
0:18:50 > 0:18:54I didn't think it was going to be like this. I didn't think one could be so stubborn.
0:18:57 > 0:19:00We cannot do without rules in this house.
0:19:00 > 0:19:07There'd be utter chaos, and these are just some rules, there are so many more rules, you know.
0:19:07 > 0:19:10Just feel like I want to go home.
0:19:10 > 0:19:15OK, Mum gave me the rule that I need to, like, cover up more, so I was, like, OK, fair enough, and I did
0:19:15 > 0:19:17and then he has to sit there like an idiot
0:19:17 > 0:19:21and it's, like, really annoyed me, and I really don't like him either.
0:19:21 > 0:19:25I just feel the rest of this week's just going to be shit, to be fair.
0:19:25 > 0:19:28CAR HORN
0:19:39 > 0:19:44It's day two of the British teens' stay in India and the first day of Indian school.
0:19:44 > 0:19:47Good morning, Nadia.
0:19:47 > 0:19:48What?
0:19:48 > 0:19:51Get up, get up, get up, we've got to get moving.
0:19:53 > 0:19:56I'm going to bring your school uniform, Nadia, we're going to school this morning.
0:19:56 > 0:20:00You'll love your uniform, it's a nice smart skirt and a top.
0:20:02 > 0:20:03I have to wear a uniform?
0:20:03 > 0:20:06Aron.
0:20:07 > 0:20:10Good morning. Wake up, you're going to school this morning.
0:20:12 > 0:20:16Both Aron and Nadia have underachieved at their schools back home.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19Nalini is determined to get their education back on track.
0:20:19 > 0:20:22Remember that basically everything depends on your education,
0:20:22 > 0:20:24your future depends on how much you study, what education
0:20:24 > 0:20:32you get, what kind of degrees you get in the future, so please take your education very seriously.
0:20:38 > 0:20:41What time does it finish?
0:20:41 > 0:20:45Nalini and the teens are heading here.
0:20:45 > 0:20:47Bangalore's national public school.
0:20:47 > 0:20:51Voted the fifth best school in India, it's fee paying and has
0:20:51 > 0:20:55a reputation for discipline and excellent exam results.
0:20:57 > 0:20:59We are very, very strict, OK.
0:20:59 > 0:21:05Getting very good grade is very, very important, because it's like a passport.
0:21:05 > 0:21:10If you need to move forward in your life, in terms of your education,
0:21:10 > 0:21:14as well as your career, you need to have good grades.
0:21:14 > 0:21:18Back in the UK, Nadia and Aron both have a history
0:21:18 > 0:21:23of confronting their teachers, low attendance and poor attitude.
0:21:23 > 0:21:26THEY SING
0:21:29 > 0:21:36Before lessons start, Principal Chandran wants to inform the British teens of the school's expectations.
0:21:36 > 0:21:38This is Aron and this is Nadia.
0:21:38 > 0:21:42We expect you to...concentrate,
0:21:42 > 0:21:47because the foundation for your future
0:21:47 > 0:21:51lies in the studies that happens now.
0:21:51 > 0:21:54The first lesson of the day is English.
0:21:54 > 0:21:55Good morning, class.
0:21:55 > 0:21:58ALL: Good morning.
0:21:58 > 0:22:04But before they get underway, the teens are invited to talk about their lifestyles back at home.
0:22:04 > 0:22:07I have a lot more freedom than what most people in this country do.
0:22:07 > 0:22:11I drink, I smoke, I do drugs.
0:22:11 > 0:22:14You said that you do drugs. Have you stopped or are you continuing?
0:22:14 > 0:22:15Not whilst I'm here I'm not.
0:22:15 > 0:22:19But when I get home, I'm going to have a really nice big joint.
0:22:19 > 0:22:21How well did you do in school?
0:22:21 > 0:22:23Er, I didn't do too great at school.
0:22:23 > 0:22:29I got two A*s in science, three Cs in business, and then I failed everything else.
0:22:33 > 0:22:37My mum sent me here because I'm quite rude. I don't go to college.
0:22:37 > 0:22:41Sometimes I come home at, like, six in the morning, and me and my mum
0:22:41 > 0:22:44don't, like, get on really well, so that's why she sent me here.
0:22:44 > 0:22:46What's the worst thing you've done to upset your parents?
0:22:46 > 0:22:48Probably just being rude to them.
0:22:48 > 0:22:51I don't have that much respect for them. I argue with them a lot.
0:22:51 > 0:22:54So what is your ambition in life?
0:22:54 > 0:22:58I don't really have one at the moment, I just want to be, like, rich, because I love money.
0:22:58 > 0:22:59LAUGHTER
0:22:59 > 0:23:03Now, I've got a little bit of homework
0:23:03 > 0:23:07for Wednesday, and I expect everyone to do it.
0:23:07 > 0:23:14Now the homework is "My ambition in life, and how do I go about getting that?"
0:23:14 > 0:23:16That's it for the class for now. Thank you, class.
0:23:17 > 0:23:20This is a pain in the arse, isn't it?
0:23:23 > 0:23:25- I really want to - BLEEP- off out of here.
0:23:25 > 0:23:31Out in the playground, Aron relishes the chance to continue boasting to his new classmates.
0:23:31 > 0:23:34I sometimes don't, I just don't usually go home.
0:23:34 > 0:23:38Like, my mum asks me if I'm coming home and I'm just like, "Maybe, I'll let you know later,"
0:23:38 > 0:23:42and then I sometimes, like, forget to ring her, to tell her that I'm staying out.
0:23:42 > 0:23:46- Yeah, you have a curfew.- What's your curfew then?- Oh, mine is seven.
0:23:46 > 0:23:48- Seven. Before it gets dark. - How old are you then?
0:23:48 > 0:23:50- Huh?- I'm 18.- 17.
0:23:50 > 0:23:52Wow!
0:23:52 > 0:23:56I only have a curfew because my mum's a bit of a bitch.
0:23:56 > 0:23:59Ah. OK.
0:24:00 > 0:24:04The next lesson is maths. One of Aron's least favourite subjects.
0:24:04 > 0:24:06This is a new function I'm giving you.
0:24:06 > 0:24:08I want you all to write down
0:24:08 > 0:24:11what is f(1).
0:24:11 > 0:24:14For minus 3.
0:24:14 > 0:24:16Yes.
0:24:16 > 0:24:18Come here, Aron.
0:24:18 > 0:24:20- No.- No?
0:24:21 > 0:24:24Then I expect you to meet at 3.00 today before you go.
0:24:24 > 0:24:26Please come and meet.
0:24:26 > 0:24:29- All right?- Or not.- No.
0:24:29 > 0:24:30- Or not.- Yes.
0:24:30 > 0:24:33- Not happening.- You will.
0:24:33 > 0:24:37Back in the UK, Aron's resistance to authority meant that he was constantly thrown out of school.
0:24:37 > 0:24:41But in India, he decides to jump before he's pushed.
0:24:50 > 0:24:54Aron's behaviour was a little bit of a shock to me. No doubt about it.
0:24:54 > 0:25:00I just left him, because I can tackle it a little later after the class hours.
0:25:00 > 0:25:02I'll go talk to Mrs Chandran.
0:25:02 > 0:25:05But it's quite a shock, it's the first time that's happened in our school.
0:25:05 > 0:25:12At break time, Aron's still trying to shock the students with tales about his drug taking.
0:25:12 > 0:25:15- You do weed or what? Coke? - Yeah, I do weed.
0:25:18 > 0:25:23Awesome(!) Well, you know, you should, like, learn the fact that, you know, later on...
0:25:23 > 0:25:27I don't know, I think I sound really lame and like a parent, but I'm saying you might think.
0:25:27 > 0:25:31"Oh, my God, I'm so high right now, and this is my life,"
0:25:31 > 0:25:34but later on you are... your body is going to totally die.
0:25:34 > 0:25:37Like, it's going to be all down the drain.
0:25:37 > 0:25:40I stopped weed for ten months once, I did stop for ten months.
0:25:40 > 0:25:42- Ooh(!)- But I started again.
0:25:42 > 0:25:44Despicable.
0:25:44 > 0:25:50Neither Nadia nor the Indian students are impressed with Aron's bravado.
0:25:50 > 0:25:55We find it so weird that they're into drugs and they're smoking, so we are asking them like, "Why?
0:25:55 > 0:25:59"Why do you do it? What is the point?" and they are just like "Everyone does it."
0:25:59 > 0:26:02I think that's really stupid, because he doesn't realise.
0:26:02 > 0:26:04I mean, OK, a fag, do your thing, but don't get...
0:26:04 > 0:26:07don't become, like... don't make it your life.
0:26:07 > 0:26:12Aron's constant bragging has escalated into an argument with Nadia.
0:26:12 > 0:26:14Aron's just being rude. I don't want to talk to him.
0:26:14 > 0:26:19And there's all these girls standing around, and he's trying to show off and be an idiot as usual,
0:26:19 > 0:26:22and I said something, and he said, "Oh, you moody bitch," or whatever,
0:26:22 > 0:26:25but I asked him nicely to leave me alone.
0:26:25 > 0:26:29He thinks he could talk to anyone like a piece of shit.
0:26:29 > 0:26:33Aron's disrespectful attitude has got Nadia angry.
0:26:33 > 0:26:36Who do you think you are? Take your headphones out and listen to me.
0:26:36 > 0:26:39Who do you think you are, talking to me like that? What's the point of calling me a bitch?
0:26:39 > 0:26:42I asked you to leave me alone and you called me a bitch.
0:26:42 > 0:26:45- BLEEP.- You're the one that made me...- I told you to leave me alone.
0:26:45 > 0:26:48- Don't put your hands in my face. - I'm not.
0:26:48 > 0:26:50- You're putting your hand in my face. - You're chatting...
0:26:50 > 0:26:54You're so pathetic, you actually need to grow up. You're so immature.
0:26:54 > 0:26:56- Listen to me!- BLEEP- walk off. You're so immature.
0:26:56 > 0:26:59How are you going to get a job, when you can't even...
0:26:59 > 0:27:01You might be at college, you have no respect for anyone.
0:27:01 > 0:27:03How are you going to get a job?
0:27:03 > 0:27:05Oh, hello, Mrs Nanjundayya.
0:27:05 > 0:27:09Principal Chandran never stands for bad behaviour.
0:27:09 > 0:27:17The boy has been a little insolent in class, and now he just walked out. He's near the gates.
0:27:17 > 0:27:20OK. But he refuses to come inside.
0:27:20 > 0:27:24Nalini has been forced to drop everything to come and collect the teens.
0:27:24 > 0:27:27What's going on, Aron? What happened?
0:27:27 > 0:27:28She's, oh...
0:27:31 > 0:27:34OK, what happened exactly? I want to know what happened.
0:27:34 > 0:27:35I'm having a fag.
0:27:36 > 0:27:39Oh, but that's not fair.
0:27:39 > 0:27:41That's not correct.
0:27:41 > 0:27:46Can't have a fag here at all, and you're in the school premises. What's wrong with you?
0:27:46 > 0:27:52When faced with abusive language, Nalini's culture demands reason rather than raising your voice.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54No. I haven't had, like, a fag, since...
0:27:54 > 0:27:56OK, don't think about it, talk like an adult.
0:27:56 > 0:27:58Come on, you're in college, then behave like a college kid.
0:27:58 > 0:28:00Not like a child. Come on.
0:28:00 > 0:28:02Come on, tell me what it is. No, don't do this. Take it off.
0:28:02 > 0:28:04- Why are you're going to snatch it off?- BLEEP.
0:28:04 > 0:28:07Yeah, yeah, yeah. Don't try that language on me, it's not going to work.
0:28:07 > 0:28:10Come on, what happened?
0:28:10 > 0:28:15We're going to have a big scene in the road and it's not a nice thing to walk around the city like this.
0:28:15 > 0:28:18You understand? Aron?
0:28:18 > 0:28:19Aron.
0:28:19 > 0:28:22You can't make a scene on the road.
0:28:22 > 0:28:27In India, it's completely unacceptable to cause such a scene in public.
0:28:27 > 0:28:30- He called me a bitch. You called me a bitch. You told me to- BLEEP.
0:28:30 > 0:28:32Did you? I think that's really bad.
0:28:32 > 0:28:35I'm not sure who said it first, probably was me.
0:28:35 > 0:28:37OK. Now listen, listen, listen. All right, stop it, both of you.
0:28:37 > 0:28:39Stop it. Stop it now.
0:28:39 > 0:28:41I think this is ridiculous. Everything escalates.
0:28:41 > 0:28:44I mean, there's such a big issue taking place over nothing.
0:28:44 > 0:28:47I mean, we're made a laughing stock like we're some kind of fools.
0:28:47 > 0:28:49These things don't happen in this country.
0:28:49 > 0:28:51Correct?
0:28:51 > 0:28:53So have we benefited by this?
0:28:53 > 0:28:56No. So I suggest we now go home and take it from there.
0:29:00 > 0:29:05At home, the teens have to face the wrath of Uncle Pradeep.
0:29:05 > 0:29:09This is a terrible situation where the students, they go back and they'll talk.
0:29:09 > 0:29:12How much ridicule will take place on this now?
0:29:12 > 0:29:15Over a non-issue.
0:29:15 > 0:29:19You use such foul language, and I think that is not acceptable.
0:29:19 > 0:29:21We don't speak like that out here.
0:29:21 > 0:29:26Have you noticed anyone screaming in this building, shouting loudly, calling people names?
0:29:26 > 0:29:28We never do that.
0:29:28 > 0:29:33You have to understand public behaviour is very very important.
0:29:33 > 0:29:36Whatever happens, your self control has to be exercised.
0:29:36 > 0:29:39Most important. You've got to be friends here, you've got to be...
0:29:39 > 0:29:46I'm going to say, why should you be bitter towards each other for some small thing like this?
0:29:46 > 0:29:47Whatever.
0:29:49 > 0:29:51He walks away. Come here, Aron.
0:29:51 > 0:29:52Come back.
0:29:55 > 0:29:57I don't know what's going through Aron's head right now.
0:29:57 > 0:30:00I think he just needs to get over the situation and grow up.
0:30:00 > 0:30:03Like, we don't have to get along, but when we're out, just like be civil to each other.
0:30:03 > 0:30:11He's a child actually, and he is emotional and something is bothering him.
0:30:11 > 0:30:12I can't put my finger on it yet.
0:30:17 > 0:30:22At dinner time, the family want to get to the bottom of Aron's problem with anger.
0:30:22 > 0:30:25My mum knows I've like, I've always had a short temper,
0:30:27 > 0:30:30especially, like, to do with school and stuff like that.
0:30:30 > 0:30:32So what have you done when you're angry?
0:30:32 > 0:30:35Punched walls and that kind of thing.
0:30:35 > 0:30:39Oh, terrible thing to do, Aron, I don't know.
0:30:39 > 0:30:42I used to get wound up about the tiniest things, which...
0:30:42 > 0:30:44You just said it. You just said it.
0:30:44 > 0:30:46It's silly things.
0:30:46 > 0:30:49That's your solution right there.
0:30:49 > 0:30:52Nalini's family are not letting Nadia off the hook either.
0:30:52 > 0:30:55Why did your mum think you should come here?
0:30:55 > 0:30:58Because I'm spoiled.
0:30:58 > 0:31:04I'm, like, given everything I want. I don't really help out round the house and I stay out till quite late.
0:31:04 > 0:31:08So I might come home at, like, six in the morning. Sometimes five.
0:31:08 > 0:31:13Are you happy with that lifestyle? I mean, how much can you go out all the time? You know, you're young.
0:31:13 > 0:31:18- Or party or....- Youth is on your side, but how much can you do that?
0:31:26 > 0:31:29I don't know. I don't know what I want to do.
0:31:29 > 0:31:31I don't know where I will be in ten years' time.
0:31:31 > 0:31:37In the case of Nadia, it's all just landing on her lap, which should not happen.
0:31:37 > 0:31:41So she never has found the need to do things for herself.
0:31:41 > 0:31:46I'm, like, lazy. I need something or someone to, like, push me in the right direction.
0:31:46 > 0:31:53I think goals have to be given to them, and they need to achieve those goals.
0:31:55 > 0:31:59One of the Nanjundayyas family mottos is "service before self".
0:32:00 > 0:32:03They firmly believe in giving back to society.
0:32:03 > 0:32:10Realising the British teens are utterly selfish back home, Nalini wants to teach them a lesson.
0:32:10 > 0:32:17All of the last week I've heard only about self, me, my problems, I think, I, I, all the time.
0:32:17 > 0:32:20So this time I want you to experience what other people
0:32:20 > 0:32:28less fortunate than you are going through, and to understand how fortunate you both are, you know.
0:32:28 > 0:32:34If I have any bad behaviour, any fighting, any argument, OK,
0:32:34 > 0:32:40I'm going to be really displeased, because remember, you're going to people who are less fortunate,
0:32:40 > 0:32:43and they're going to be horrified if you behave like that, OK?
0:32:47 > 0:32:50Today, Nalini is taking the teens to volunteer at one of her charities.
0:32:50 > 0:32:53The local blind school.
0:32:53 > 0:32:57There are 15 million visually impaired people in India.
0:32:57 > 0:33:04The Sri Ramana School educates 250 young people aged between four and 20.
0:33:04 > 0:33:07This is going to be very strange for you but it doesn't matter,
0:33:07 > 0:33:10it's a learning experience, it's a cultural experience.
0:33:10 > 0:33:15So things you may not be used to, you may be expected to do.
0:33:15 > 0:33:19Please go along and do it with the spirit of learning.
0:33:19 > 0:33:22Experiencing what things are in a new culture. All right?
0:33:22 > 0:33:23Yeah.
0:33:23 > 0:33:28The teens' first job is to help prepare lunch for the blind students.
0:33:28 > 0:33:32Back home, Nadia wouldn't even dream of helping her mum in the kitchen.
0:33:32 > 0:33:34Please make it nicely.
0:33:34 > 0:33:39Taking orders from the Indian dinner ladies is proving difficult.
0:33:41 > 0:33:47Not sure that Nadia can take the heat of the kitchen...
0:33:47 > 0:33:49Another dinner lady steps in to help her out.
0:33:59 > 0:34:00No, you can do it.
0:34:00 > 0:34:03No, I'm not good enough, it's all right.
0:34:03 > 0:34:06I'm not good enough for your cucumber cutting.
0:34:06 > 0:34:09The next job is to clean the school's dairy cows.
0:34:09 > 0:34:11That is bloody disgusting!
0:34:11 > 0:34:15The school relies on volunteers to keep it going.
0:34:15 > 0:34:20She is determined that the teens complete all the tasks ahead of them.
0:34:20 > 0:34:24She wants us to clean the cow. I'm not cleaning it, I'm not cleaning it.
0:34:24 > 0:34:28She just touched its bum!
0:34:28 > 0:34:31Can you rub it, I don't want to rub it.
0:34:33 > 0:34:36It's done another shit!
0:34:36 > 0:34:39How much do these things go to the toilet, man?
0:34:39 > 0:34:43After the udders have been cleaned, the cows are ready for milking.
0:34:43 > 0:34:46Oh, my God! That looks like...
0:34:46 > 0:34:49I'm scared to touch it.
0:34:49 > 0:34:51Simply touch.
0:34:51 > 0:34:53Pull it.
0:34:54 > 0:34:56SHE SCREAMS
0:34:58 > 0:35:05It's lunchtime, but before they can eat themselves, Nadia and Aaron must serve the children.
0:35:05 > 0:35:08CHILDREN SING
0:35:36 > 0:35:38I just feel really sorry for them.
0:35:46 > 0:35:49THEY SING
0:35:50 > 0:35:53I just feel really sorry for them.
0:35:53 > 0:35:56When I was walking round I started to get a bit upset.
0:35:56 > 0:35:59I don't even know why, I just feel really sorry for them.
0:35:59 > 0:36:04After lunch, Nadia and Aron are introduced to two of the students.
0:36:04 > 0:36:09Where will you go when you finish here, will you go back to live with your family?
0:36:09 > 0:36:12I'd like to be a computer teacher,
0:36:12 > 0:36:13and music also.
0:36:13 > 0:36:16I want to work in computers.
0:36:16 > 0:36:20Do you do a lot for your parents, would you say they are proud of you?
0:36:20 > 0:36:23My father and mother are very happy.
0:36:23 > 0:36:26We do help for them.
0:36:26 > 0:36:32Bringing water and cleaning...the house.
0:36:34 > 0:36:39I found it quite shocking when he said that he wanted to work for a computer company when he's older.
0:36:39 > 0:36:44It's not exactly going to be an easy job for someone who is blind, it's going to be difficult for him.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47He'll probably struggle doing it
0:36:47 > 0:36:52but it's good that he has high ambitions, even though he is blind.
0:36:52 > 0:36:55It makes me feel really selfish.
0:36:55 > 0:36:58I'd say that they go on helping their mum and they can't even see,
0:36:58 > 0:37:02and then there's me who just goes out, thinks of myself.
0:37:02 > 0:37:05They are really thoughtful, I think.
0:37:05 > 0:37:10It makes me look like a shit human being, to be honest.
0:37:10 > 0:37:11That's how I feel.
0:37:13 > 0:37:18The blind school seems to have had an impact on Nadia.
0:37:18 > 0:37:21And she's settling well into family life.
0:37:25 > 0:37:31Nalini has decided to take Nadia shopping, so she can bond with the selfish 16-year-old.
0:37:31 > 0:37:33Do you buy a lot of all this?
0:37:33 > 0:37:35My dad buys it for me.
0:37:35 > 0:37:37Isn't that nice?!
0:37:37 > 0:37:39This stuff is nice. I like this one.
0:37:39 > 0:37:45She wants to share some of her own life experiences.
0:37:45 > 0:37:47It's a really nice place.
0:37:47 > 0:37:51I don't know if I'd told you this or Niska told you this...
0:37:51 > 0:37:56- Niska said.- That her father died about 17 years ago.
0:37:56 > 0:37:58Niska was one-year-old.
0:37:58 > 0:38:00My husband was always the main breadwinner
0:38:00 > 0:38:04so I had to sit down and think, what are my options, what can I do?
0:38:04 > 0:38:09I can't work out of the house, so my only option was to set up a business.
0:38:09 > 0:38:11I realised one thing in all of this.
0:38:11 > 0:38:16That it is so important for us to be independent from the very beginning.
0:38:16 > 0:38:20We cannot wait for a tragedy to strike us and then pick up our socks.
0:38:20 > 0:38:23Women should be independent.
0:38:23 > 0:38:25To make sure that you have your own money.
0:38:25 > 0:38:28I've never asked anyone for money, I never have.
0:38:28 > 0:38:35You shouldn't have to depend on working on your dad to get you things or your mother or whatever.
0:38:35 > 0:38:38Supposing your dad said, "Sorry, I've had enough."
0:38:38 > 0:38:40You don't want to face such a day, right?
0:38:40 > 0:38:46You want to do your own thing, you like buying clothes, you should be able to afford it yourself.
0:38:46 > 0:38:51I do need to be independent, I can't rely on everyone, especially my dad
0:38:51 > 0:38:56because he's not always going to be there to give me money for everything that I need and want.
0:38:56 > 0:39:00And it's inspiring as well because if she can do it and I don't have
0:39:00 > 0:39:03responsibilities like children, then I should be able to do it too.
0:39:04 > 0:39:06Nalini is a really special woman.
0:39:06 > 0:39:09I sort of see her like my second mum now.
0:39:11 > 0:39:14Nadia's mother is a single mother.
0:39:14 > 0:39:21I understand that there is not too much of their relationship between the two of them at the moment.
0:39:21 > 0:39:26I don't think she really gets to see her mother too much or do much for her mother.
0:39:26 > 0:39:28'I don't really get on with my mum.'
0:39:28 > 0:39:31I don't really like her are getting in the way because I'm sort of a Daddy's girl.
0:39:31 > 0:39:34I just get on better with Dad so I'm going to like him more.
0:39:34 > 0:39:37Your dad spoils you so much.
0:39:37 > 0:39:40He doesn't realise that he makes it so difficult for me.
0:39:40 > 0:39:44It makes you resent me even more.
0:39:44 > 0:39:48Do you think I enjoy the way we carry on at each other?
0:39:48 > 0:39:51I don't, I hate it.
0:39:57 > 0:40:02Later that day, Nalini decides it's time for Nadia to hear from home.
0:40:02 > 0:40:04Here's a letter from your mother.
0:40:04 > 0:40:07- Ah, she sent me a letter!- Mm-hm.
0:40:07 > 0:40:12"Dear Nadia, I'm hoping this week will help you realise some points about yourself.
0:40:12 > 0:40:14"You cannot rely on your father for money.
0:40:14 > 0:40:18"This has to stop. You have to be responsible for your own sake.
0:40:18 > 0:40:21"I think you are aware of how your behaviour hurts me.
0:40:21 > 0:40:24"The fact remains your attitude towards me is foul.
0:40:26 > 0:40:29"There is a side that is extremely..."
0:40:31 > 0:40:35Can I stop for a minute?
0:40:41 > 0:40:47"There is a side that is extremely loving and protecting, especially of Julia.
0:40:47 > 0:40:51"I just wish this side of you showed more often.
0:40:51 > 0:40:55"I expect you to take on board everything from this week that makes you realise there is more
0:40:55 > 0:40:58"to life than shopping, spending and staying out until all hours.
0:40:58 > 0:41:02"Julia, Emily and Rosie send their love, as do I.
0:41:02 > 0:41:04"I do miss you and will see you soon.
0:41:04 > 0:41:06"Lots of love and hugs, Mum."
0:41:08 > 0:41:12I don't mean to make my mum's life a misery.
0:41:12 > 0:41:15I think it's I just don't think about her and I'm thinking of myself.
0:41:15 > 0:41:18So I just turn around and say stuff and don't think
0:41:18 > 0:41:24how it hurts her or that she's trying really hard to be a good parent.
0:41:26 > 0:41:30The teens have been in India for nearly a week.
0:41:30 > 0:41:33Tomorrow they return to school to present their homework.
0:41:34 > 0:41:36Has it been really long since you've done homework?
0:41:36 > 0:41:39Yeah. Like a year.
0:41:39 > 0:41:43The assignment is to deliver a speech about their ambitions in life.
0:41:43 > 0:41:47Aron has begun to reflect on his behaviour back home.
0:41:47 > 0:41:51I've always known that I need more focus and stuff like that.
0:41:51 > 0:41:55I've always known that, but I've never pushed myself at college and
0:41:55 > 0:41:58worked for what I really want and stuff like that.
0:41:58 > 0:42:03My mum is really worried that I'm going to end up not liking my course and dropping out,
0:42:03 > 0:42:07just flunking college like I nearly did school.
0:42:08 > 0:42:11Nalini has always taken a direct interest in her kids' homework.
0:42:11 > 0:42:17You should read it and understand it and make your own judgment and assessment of it.
0:42:17 > 0:42:22She believes it's a parent's duty to inspire learning.
0:42:23 > 0:42:27I think your homework was on ambition and...
0:42:27 > 0:42:28- What, that English one?- Yeah.
0:42:28 > 0:42:33- I didn't end up finishing that English one, did I?- Let's do it now, shall we?- OK.
0:42:33 > 0:42:37Now she wants to help Aron map out his dream of running a garage.
0:42:37 > 0:42:41- We obviously fix cars like what any normal garage does.- You fix cars.
0:42:41 > 0:42:44We will customise their car to what they want.
0:42:44 > 0:42:49Say it was a pick-up style truck and it would have some
0:42:49 > 0:42:54really big sub woofer speaker in the back of it, a bass speaker.
0:42:54 > 0:42:57- Sound systems.- Sound systems. Wow!
0:42:57 > 0:43:00See, actually quite easy, isn't it? Yeah?
0:43:00 > 0:43:05It doesn't seem easy cos you've got to get through each stage but yeah...
0:43:05 > 0:43:08- No, but planning it was easy, wasn't it?- Yeah.
0:43:08 > 0:43:11Come on, now we only have to follow out the plan.
0:43:11 > 0:43:15The way that Nalini was going on about some huge garage doing all
0:43:15 > 0:43:19this crazy stuff, it was all a bit much for me to understand at first
0:43:19 > 0:43:24because I thought it would be best to start something small, but she wasn't having it.
0:43:24 > 0:43:29The problem with him is while he realises he's got potential, today
0:43:29 > 0:43:35when we did the business plan I had to prod him a bit, but he actually came up with some brilliant ideas.
0:43:35 > 0:43:39You are going to do that next year, right?
0:43:39 > 0:43:44I do worry quite a lot about failing because I've not exactly passed much in my life at the moment.
0:43:49 > 0:43:55The teens are preparing for their final visit to Indian school.
0:43:56 > 0:43:59The entire class is expected to publicly present
0:43:59 > 0:44:01their private ambitions
0:44:01 > 0:44:02in front of their friends.
0:44:05 > 0:44:11My ambition was always to be like Steve Irwin, the animal naturalist who devoted his life in transferring
0:44:11 > 0:44:18these endangered reptiles and wild animals to localities in the most human and non-tranquillising way.
0:44:19 > 0:44:22Nadia takes centre-stage.
0:44:22 > 0:44:26My ambition is to own my own fashion boutique on the London High Street.
0:44:26 > 0:44:30I'd also like to go and do a degree in business, so I could
0:44:30 > 0:44:35find out the background - finance, all the different things I need to learn for it.
0:44:35 > 0:44:38Thinking about it now, seeing how hard all of you
0:44:38 > 0:44:42work and study, I do need a proper education to be able to get a job.
0:44:45 > 0:44:48Now Aron must step up to the mark.
0:44:51 > 0:44:55My ambition in life is to have a good relationship, nice house, nice car.
0:44:55 > 0:44:59I currently achieve this with my dream and my dream is to have my own fleet of
0:44:59 > 0:45:04car garages worldwide that specialises in customising cars.
0:45:04 > 0:45:08Here is what I need - knowledge, money and experience.
0:45:08 > 0:45:10The knowledge I'll get from college,
0:45:10 > 0:45:12which is first thing on the list.
0:45:12 > 0:45:17Then I'll go to university, and then I will graduate from there and
0:45:17 > 0:45:20then I will obviously have to learn to drive.
0:45:20 > 0:45:25I think you have given us a good idea of how to go about it - very systematically you have drawn that.
0:45:30 > 0:45:32The presentations have gone well.
0:45:32 > 0:45:38Her brief spell back in education has encouraged Nadia to reflect on her future.
0:45:38 > 0:45:40When I first came here I was, "I don't want to go to college, I don't
0:45:40 > 0:45:43"want to do anything, I'm just going to find something
0:45:43 > 0:45:44"and go off by myself."
0:45:44 > 0:45:47But obviously I can't do that. No one is going to get along, no one is
0:45:47 > 0:45:53going to be able to take their career or anything further if they don't have grades or a degree in something.
0:45:53 > 0:45:58Even Aron has realised he needs to make the most of his potential.
0:45:58 > 0:46:00I'm smart, but I'm just lazy.
0:46:00 > 0:46:05I need to stop being so lazy and work, work hard.
0:46:05 > 0:46:09Before the students break up for the holidays, the
0:46:09 > 0:46:13teens are enjoying hanging out with their new friends for the last time.
0:46:13 > 0:46:16Clap, clap.
0:46:16 > 0:46:17That one. And do that.
0:46:20 > 0:46:22So shake it.
0:46:22 > 0:46:29- So you do clap, clap. That's it. - Yeah! I done it.
0:46:35 > 0:46:39- Hello. I missed you. - I missed you too.
0:46:39 > 0:46:41- How was school? - Fun, I thought it was good.- Really?
0:46:41 > 0:46:43- You like Indian school?- Yeah.
0:46:43 > 0:46:49After Aron's performance at school, Pradeep wants to give him a treat that might encourage him further.
0:46:49 > 0:46:55He's taking him to see a private collection of vintage cars owned by a millionaire friend.
0:46:55 > 0:46:57Oh, my God!
0:46:59 > 0:47:03Yeah, we have various cars.
0:47:03 > 0:47:05- Good?- Really good.
0:47:05 > 0:47:08Proper old Mercedes.
0:47:08 > 0:47:12- Do you want to go inside and have a look inside? Go inside.- Yeah, yeah!
0:47:12 > 0:47:14Go inside. Get the feel of it.
0:47:14 > 0:47:17Oh, mate. Wow!
0:47:17 > 0:47:19How could you...?
0:47:19 > 0:47:21It's so big!
0:47:21 > 0:47:23- Which is your favourite car? - That car right there.
0:47:23 > 0:47:25- Mustang.- Mustang.
0:47:28 > 0:47:30This is the left-hand drive.
0:47:30 > 0:47:33Aaaah!
0:47:33 > 0:47:36ENGINE REVS
0:47:37 > 0:47:41I'd do anything to own one of these cars.
0:47:41 > 0:47:43You do not understand.
0:47:43 > 0:47:46That becomes your ambition.
0:47:46 > 0:47:49- Yeah.- To own one of these cars.
0:47:49 > 0:47:54- And then when you fulfil your ambition you will call me and I will ride with you in that, OK?- OK.
0:47:54 > 0:47:56One day, you and me.
0:47:56 > 0:48:01This car here, my nan used to have a red one.
0:48:01 > 0:48:07My nan died years ago now, so it reminds me of my nan when I see one.
0:48:07 > 0:48:12- When did your nanny die? - It was about four years ago now.
0:48:12 > 0:48:15OK. It was of old age?
0:48:15 > 0:48:18- She died of cancer.- OK.
0:48:18 > 0:48:20I'm sure she is there watching you now.
0:48:20 > 0:48:24She's watching you and saying that this guy is going
0:48:24 > 0:48:26to make me proud.
0:48:31 > 0:48:37Relax. She's looking at you down below from there, looking at you.
0:48:38 > 0:48:41Take care.
0:48:41 > 0:48:44I can see you still feel much for her.
0:48:44 > 0:48:46At that time, how did you cope?
0:48:46 > 0:48:50HE SOBS
0:48:54 > 0:48:56You know what we'll do?
0:48:56 > 0:48:59We will get you a Beetle also.
0:48:59 > 0:49:03Then you can tell nanny on top, see, I got a Beetle for you.
0:49:04 > 0:49:07So you've got a Mustang on the line and you've got a Beetle.
0:49:07 > 0:49:10You've got a lot of work to do, chum.
0:49:16 > 0:49:21I've now seen two cars that I really like and would love to have.
0:49:21 > 0:49:27If I had a choice between the two, I'm sorry, Mustang, but I have to choose that for my nan.
0:49:27 > 0:49:32When he saw the Beetle, suddenly he's gone back down memory lane.
0:49:32 > 0:49:35The two parents fall apart, then the nanny comes into the picture and takes
0:49:35 > 0:49:40care of the child and gives him all the love and affection from her.
0:49:40 > 0:49:42He's feeling so much so...
0:49:42 > 0:49:45He's a very emotional guy and straightaway connects the Beetle and
0:49:45 > 0:49:49nanny and love and affection - all of those things came back to him.
0:49:49 > 0:49:55Four years ago I lost my mum to cancer.
0:49:55 > 0:50:00We didn't put my mum in the hospice, we looked after her. She was only 63.
0:50:00 > 0:50:03My nan used to take me on her bike to school,
0:50:03 > 0:50:05pick me up after-school sometimes.
0:50:05 > 0:50:07It was her first grandchild, she saw him being born.
0:50:09 > 0:50:12The night it happened I didn't really show much emotion.
0:50:12 > 0:50:14I don't think he really cried.
0:50:15 > 0:50:19Or he didn't show me that he cried because he knew how upset I was.
0:50:19 > 0:50:23I had to stay quite strong for my mum. But after it happened...
0:50:23 > 0:50:26He doesn't talk to me about it, but I think he
0:50:26 > 0:50:28does really miss his nan.
0:50:34 > 0:50:37I've got a picture of her in my suitcase. Shall I show you now?
0:50:37 > 0:50:39Yes, please.
0:50:39 > 0:50:42That's a picture of my nan in the locket.
0:50:42 > 0:50:46Oh, she looks so lovely.
0:50:46 > 0:50:53After my nan passed away I think everything got worse, my behaviour changed at school...
0:50:53 > 0:50:57I don't know, everything changed, the way I am.
0:50:57 > 0:51:01I should have really tried helping out my mum and trying to
0:51:01 > 0:51:05make her life easier but instead I just made it more difficult for her.
0:51:05 > 0:51:07Without even meaning to.
0:51:07 > 0:51:11I don't think I will ever get over my nan's death.
0:51:11 > 0:51:14It's one of those things you don't get over.
0:51:14 > 0:51:19You know, Aron, death is something that we all have to deal with.
0:51:19 > 0:51:24When my husband died, exactly like you I couldn't grieve.
0:51:24 > 0:51:28You can't sit and grieve when you've got three children to look after.
0:51:28 > 0:51:35I had to start life afresh, I had to come back to India, I had to start looking for a job to pay the bills.
0:51:35 > 0:51:38Life goes on.
0:51:38 > 0:51:41There's no point in clinging on to things.
0:51:41 > 0:51:45You've really got to look at the beautiful memories you have.
0:51:50 > 0:51:52THEY LAUGH
0:51:55 > 0:51:57'I think the family are really nice.'
0:51:57 > 0:52:00They are all there for each other.
0:52:00 > 0:52:03It's something that I wish that I did more often with my family.
0:52:03 > 0:52:07- Aw!- Aw!
0:52:12 > 0:52:15The Brit teens are enjoying their last night with the Nanjundayyas.
0:52:15 > 0:52:19A slap-up meal in Bangalore's finest hotel.
0:52:24 > 0:52:27What do you think is really something you are going to take home
0:52:27 > 0:52:30with you, something you are going to remember of Bangalore?
0:52:30 > 0:52:34I need to realise that I'm really lucky for what I have
0:52:34 > 0:52:39and stop spending my dad's money, because I already have enough in life and I don't need any more.
0:52:39 > 0:52:41Fantastic! You give me a shake on that.
0:52:44 > 0:52:47Aron and I have got closer.
0:52:47 > 0:52:50We have this maybe a sibling relationship.
0:52:50 > 0:52:52It's quite fun.
0:52:52 > 0:52:55Since I've been living here
0:52:55 > 0:53:00I've liked the way that you all stick together as a family.
0:53:00 > 0:53:04The way that you all work together and do stuff together.
0:53:04 > 0:53:07- All the best.- Cheers.- Cheers.
0:53:07 > 0:53:10It's been great having you guys here.
0:53:12 > 0:53:16It's time for the British teens to leave the Nanjundayyas and return
0:53:16 > 0:53:18to their old families back home.
0:53:18 > 0:53:20OK, Nadia.
0:53:22 > 0:53:25- Nadia.- I'm going to miss you.
0:53:25 > 0:53:27It was lovely having you and you are a lovely guy.
0:53:27 > 0:53:31You are so sweet, so considerate - just keep that up with your mum.
0:53:31 > 0:53:34Back in a minute.
0:53:35 > 0:53:37- All the best, chum.- Yeah, thanks.
0:53:40 > 0:53:46I really am going to miss the Indian family because it's like I've only just got to proper know them,
0:53:46 > 0:53:49there's still more to know about them and we are leaving already.
0:53:49 > 0:53:51They weren't as bad as what I thought they were going to be.
0:53:51 > 0:53:55I thought they were going to be really strict, but they were really nice.
0:53:55 > 0:54:00Since I've been here and seen how Niska and Nalini are together, it's made me really miss my mum.
0:54:00 > 0:54:03I want to give her a big hug and tell her how much I love her.
0:54:08 > 0:54:13I hope she comes back having lost the attitude that she's got, this superior attitude.
0:54:13 > 0:54:15Hello, Mummykins.
0:54:15 > 0:54:16Hello, Nadia. How are you?
0:54:16 > 0:54:18- I'm fine, how are you?- I'm fine.
0:54:18 > 0:54:21- Did you have a nice time? - It was actually really good.
0:54:21 > 0:54:22Was it? You enjoyed it?
0:54:22 > 0:54:26I'd say out of everything they taught me and the way
0:54:26 > 0:54:28they are to each other, I need to respect you more.
0:54:28 > 0:54:35And if we have a problem then I should sit down and talk to you about it instead of getting angry.
0:54:35 > 0:54:37I also learnt that I need to stop sponging off dad.
0:54:37 > 0:54:39I need to work for stuff.
0:54:39 > 0:54:44Plus I want to go back to college anyway because I'm bored of being at home and being nowhere.
0:54:44 > 0:54:47I really don't want to end up in Tesco's stacking shelves, as
0:54:47 > 0:54:50you lot always keep telling me that I'm going to end up doing!
0:54:50 > 0:54:51Come here, Mother!
0:54:51 > 0:54:56- I missed you lots and I love you lots.- I love you too.
0:54:56 > 0:55:02I am really pleased that she says that she's going to go back to college and that she's realised the
0:55:02 > 0:55:05importance of it and that she can do it for herself.
0:55:10 > 0:55:14- Hello!- Hello.- Hiya! - Are you all right?
0:55:14 > 0:55:17- How are you?- I'm all right.
0:55:17 > 0:55:22- I've realised now that I need to treat you with more respect than what I used to.- Yeah?
0:55:22 > 0:55:29I think nan would be quite proud that I actually went to India and I did do it.
0:55:29 > 0:55:31I did it all.
0:55:31 > 0:55:34I'm going to talk to Aron about his nan again and
0:55:34 > 0:55:38explain to him about grieving and show him a bit of closure really.
0:55:42 > 0:55:45Next time on The World's Strictest Parents,
0:55:45 > 0:55:49materialistic party girl Dina Darweish...
0:55:49 > 0:55:51I'm not the best of Muslims.
0:55:51 > 0:55:53..and constant trouble maker Alex Miles...
0:55:53 > 0:55:55- Can you bring them down please?- No.
0:55:55 > 0:55:59..get new parents in Chicago.
0:55:59 > 0:56:02I'm not happy with you telling me how to dress. I don't see why it should concern you.
0:56:02 > 0:56:05It concerns me because I don't want to see your butt around my house.
0:56:05 > 0:56:08If you don't change, for the rest of the day you don't eat.
0:56:08 > 0:56:12- No, I'm still going to eat. - How are you going to eat? Have you brought some food with you?
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