0:00:02 > 0:00:05Parents and teachers beware.
0:00:05 > 0:00:08For the first time in the history of The World's Strictest Parents,
0:00:08 > 0:00:11every teenager who has ever been on the show,
0:00:11 > 0:00:15has been invited to London to an exclusive cinema premiere.
0:00:15 > 0:00:18The thought of watching it again is cringeworthy.
0:00:18 > 0:00:20They've never met before as a group,
0:00:20 > 0:00:23but tonight Britain's most obnoxious teenagers
0:00:23 > 0:00:27are gathering for a class reunion to celebrate their top ten tantrums.
0:00:29 > 0:00:32Ross Torry went to Alabama three years ago.
0:00:32 > 0:00:35Get upstairs, get upstairs, Ross.
0:00:35 > 0:00:39I think my tantrums and dramatic events from Alabama are in that top ten,
0:00:39 > 0:00:42they're in the top five, let's just do it that way,
0:00:42 > 0:00:45and if they're not, I'm walking out.
0:00:45 > 0:00:48Bex Keene unleashed hell in Atlanta.
0:00:48 > 0:00:52- You will not use profanity in this building. - SHE LAUGHS
0:00:52 > 0:00:56She's being reunited with her partner in crime, Chezdan Mills.
0:00:56 > 0:01:00- Oh, my God, look at your hair. - I'm like Jedward.
0:01:00 > 0:01:02I can't believe I'm in a forest in the rain
0:01:02 > 0:01:05trying to have a fag with a bible on my head, it's ridiculous.
0:01:05 > 0:01:09I can't watch it, it's too awkward. That is all vodka, boy.
0:01:09 > 0:01:12I'm just like, "Oh, really, is that really me?"
0:01:12 > 0:01:15I'd like to think me and Lizzie have some bits in there,
0:01:15 > 0:01:18we had everything, we've got to have something in there.
0:01:18 > 0:01:22Nicki and Jerri gave it their all in Sri Lanka.
0:01:22 > 0:01:25We is in Sri Lankan ghetto with all the ghetto people.
0:01:25 > 0:01:28We invited 40 teens to this evening's event,
0:01:28 > 0:01:30but only half had the guts to turn up.
0:01:32 > 0:01:35Which of them will be crowned top of the tantrum pops
0:01:35 > 0:01:37and take the number one spot?
0:01:37 > 0:01:42This programme contains strong language
0:01:44 > 0:01:47Since 2008, nearly 30 families from the far corners of the globe
0:01:47 > 0:01:52have opened their doors to nearly 50 of our wayward British teens,
0:01:52 > 0:01:56every one of them with their own unique views on parenting.
0:01:56 > 0:01:57Am I friends with my children?
0:01:57 > 0:02:01No, I'm not, I'm not your friend. I'm your parent.
0:02:01 > 0:02:03Drinking, drugs and sex,
0:02:03 > 0:02:07they're selfish behaviours that destroy lives.
0:02:07 > 0:02:09Here, you'll do as I say.
0:02:09 > 0:02:12If you don't do that, you're welcome to bugger off.
0:02:12 > 0:02:18And every family had their own special way of doing things.
0:02:18 > 0:02:20Let me show you what the rules are.
0:02:20 > 0:02:24Annoying rules that question a teenager's perception of hygiene.
0:02:24 > 0:02:29- Beds will be made each morning. - Your room must be kept tidy.
0:02:29 > 0:02:32Bed and room inspections to follow.
0:02:32 > 0:02:35Rules that disturb a teenager's human right to have fun.
0:02:35 > 0:02:39We do not consume alcoholic beverages or addictive substances.
0:02:39 > 0:02:42No smoking, no drugs.
0:02:42 > 0:02:45No sexual activity except between married consenting adults.
0:02:45 > 0:02:49Rules that disturb every teen's sense of fashion.
0:02:49 > 0:02:54Clothing is not allowed in our home or outside that exposes breasts...
0:02:54 > 0:02:56..shoulders, stomachs, backs or thighs.
0:02:56 > 0:02:58And no make-up is permitted.
0:02:58 > 0:03:01We do not allow piercings or tattoos.
0:03:02 > 0:03:05Rules that are, quite frankly, baffling.
0:03:05 > 0:03:09And boys or men are never ever allowed to pee standing up.
0:03:12 > 0:03:16You may find that funny, all of my children sit.
0:03:16 > 0:03:21With rules like these it was never going to be a smooth ride.
0:03:21 > 0:03:24We all remember the constant rows about smoking.
0:03:24 > 0:03:26You're in my house and you're a child, a minor.
0:03:26 > 0:03:29In the US you have to do what an adult says.
0:03:29 > 0:03:31The explosions over exposed flesh.
0:03:31 > 0:03:36Oh, God, this is wrecking my head, this is wrecking my head!
0:03:36 > 0:03:39And the perpetual bickering over bad language.
0:03:39 > 0:03:42- Shut up and listen to me. - Get upstairs.- No, bollocks.
0:03:42 > 0:03:45Tonight we look back at their biggest strops.
0:03:45 > 0:03:46Fucking takes the piss!
0:03:46 > 0:03:47Outbursts.
0:03:47 > 0:03:50I'm sick of being treated like a kid when I'm not a kid.
0:03:50 > 0:03:52- And freak outs. - NADIA SCREAMS
0:03:55 > 0:03:58And decide who gets the honour of having thrown the biggest ever
0:03:58 > 0:04:01tantrum on The World's Strictest Parents.
0:04:01 > 0:04:04- Will you move?! - This has to stop and I mean it.
0:04:04 > 0:04:08They think Mariah Carey is a diva, Mariah Carey's got nothing on me.
0:04:08 > 0:04:11So grab your popcorn and cola,
0:04:11 > 0:04:14kick back and savour the Top Ten Tantrums.
0:04:21 > 0:04:23This is pointless.
0:04:23 > 0:04:26I'm not picking up shit in, like, some slum for nothing.
0:04:26 > 0:04:28Oh, no.
0:04:28 > 0:04:31So it's pretty like gash really.
0:04:31 > 0:04:35In the opening spot in our countdown is Peter Wrigley,
0:04:35 > 0:04:38who didn't take well to the slums of India.
0:04:38 > 0:04:42This is a joke. It's an actual joke.
0:04:48 > 0:04:51'The part about the slums I got a lot of stick for.'
0:04:51 > 0:04:54Everyone was like, "You're a complete twat."
0:04:54 > 0:04:59When Peter was sent to India, he believed he was top dog...
0:04:59 > 0:05:01That is all vodka, boy.
0:05:01 > 0:05:03..with a very clear plan for life.
0:05:03 > 0:05:07Ideal world, absolutely minted, loads of fit girls, loads of drink.
0:05:07 > 0:05:09Perfect, mate.
0:05:09 > 0:05:12When I was 16, I was quite arrogant at the time.
0:05:12 > 0:05:15I mean, yeah, very arrogant. I don't really know why.
0:05:15 > 0:05:18Looking back now I had braces, half a tooth,
0:05:18 > 0:05:21my hair was all over the place, I sort of think back and think,
0:05:21 > 0:05:24what made me think I was so good?
0:05:24 > 0:05:28Ah, deary me, so arrogant, so vain as well.
0:05:28 > 0:05:31For this middle-class boy India's extremes of poverty
0:05:31 > 0:05:33were meant to touch a nerve.
0:05:33 > 0:05:35But Peter had remarkably thick skin.
0:05:37 > 0:05:39Oh, you are fucking joking!
0:05:40 > 0:05:44- I'm sorry about that, man. - Don't worry about it.
0:05:44 > 0:05:46Oh, fuck it. I'll see you all later.
0:05:46 > 0:05:49'There's always going to be poverty so my logic at the time was'
0:05:49 > 0:05:54well, there is nothing I can do to change it so, fuck it,
0:05:54 > 0:05:56it's not my problem, if that makes sense.
0:05:56 > 0:06:00By me picking up a bit of litter I am not going to be able to help them.
0:06:02 > 0:06:05No, I'm going. I'm going, mate.
0:06:06 > 0:06:09No, I can't be bothered. 'I wasn't comfortable being there.'
0:06:09 > 0:06:14I genuinely felt like, it was almost actually kind of scary.
0:06:14 > 0:06:20There were thousands and thousands of people there and it absolutely stank.
0:06:20 > 0:06:22It smelt disgusting.
0:06:22 > 0:06:25Watching it back, that was ridiculous,
0:06:25 > 0:06:28I wish now I had just stayed and held the bag
0:06:28 > 0:06:32and not said such stupid things like, "Oh, this is gash."
0:06:32 > 0:06:34I just thought, "Oh, shut up!"
0:06:36 > 0:06:38No really, I'm going. I can't.
0:06:38 > 0:06:42I'm done. No, seriously, I'm done. No, get out my way, seriously.
0:06:42 > 0:06:44- Wait, wait.- Get out my way.
0:06:44 > 0:06:46When I was watching it, I was just like,
0:06:46 > 0:06:50I just wanted to just go in and punch me, stop acting like such an idiot.
0:06:50 > 0:06:52Stop acting like a bloody fool.
0:07:01 > 0:07:03It's just so childish, I look like I was about 12,
0:07:03 > 0:07:06throwing a little tantrum - "No, not doing it!"
0:07:06 > 0:07:10So did his Indian adventure give Peter a taste of humble pie
0:07:10 > 0:07:12or just a dose of Delhi belly?
0:07:12 > 0:07:16Compared to now, three years later, I have got a job, I have got
0:07:16 > 0:07:21a lot more motivation, I know what I want to do so it's a big, big change.
0:07:21 > 0:07:24I don't know. I'd quite like to go home now to be honest.
0:07:31 > 0:07:33Just 12 months ago,
0:07:33 > 0:07:3717-year-old Nicki Stygall had some serious anger issues.
0:07:37 > 0:07:42Oh, my God. Look who it is. That's the girl I went to fight in college.
0:07:42 > 0:07:45Yeah, you walk away, I'll get you in college. I'm getting you!
0:07:45 > 0:07:48'It is hard to explain how angry I was.'
0:07:48 > 0:07:50I would wake up and be angry,
0:07:50 > 0:07:53all day I would be angry, go to bed I'd be angry.
0:07:53 > 0:07:57'Yeah, I went to anger management, went to anger management'
0:07:57 > 0:08:00and got kicked out of anger management, for being angry.
0:08:00 > 0:08:04In a mission to tame her wild temper, Nicki was packed off to live
0:08:04 > 0:08:08with peace-loving Buddhists, the De Zylva's, in Sri Lanka.
0:08:08 > 0:08:10Welcome, hello, I'm Mandy.
0:08:10 > 0:08:13Initially my mission was to go to Sri Lanka,
0:08:13 > 0:08:17give them loads of grief, come back, not change and be the same.
0:08:20 > 0:08:24Nikki's defiant strategy has earned her the dubious honour
0:08:24 > 0:08:27of owning tantrum number nine in our countdown.
0:08:27 > 0:08:28No! Just take it away!
0:08:28 > 0:08:32And stop your mind games, trying to talk me around everything,
0:08:32 > 0:08:34it won't work.
0:08:34 > 0:08:38So no screaming at me, you understand?
0:08:38 > 0:08:39Don't scream at you?
0:08:39 > 0:08:43You're in my ear at like five o'clock in the morning.
0:08:43 > 0:08:45He brung me a glass of warm milk. I am not two years old,
0:08:45 > 0:08:47I do not need a glass of milk.
0:08:47 > 0:08:50Put some teabags and sugar, I would have been a bit happier.
0:08:50 > 0:08:54I don't care about what you say, I want you to tell me...
0:08:54 > 0:08:56I don't care what you say.
0:08:56 > 0:09:00You better care because you're in this house, that's how it goes here.
0:09:00 > 0:09:03Yeah, whatever, and I'm telling you go away now.
0:09:03 > 0:09:06'I didn't want to be woken up at five o'clock in the morning.'
0:09:06 > 0:09:09I need my sleep, I get grouchy without my sleep.
0:09:09 > 0:09:12I told you this attitude has to stop.
0:09:12 > 0:09:14You told me the swearing had to stop, not the attitude.
0:09:14 > 0:09:17Oh, my god, are you on smack or something?
0:09:17 > 0:09:19I can't figure out what you're saying most the time.
0:09:19 > 0:09:21I think you have a memory lapse.
0:09:21 > 0:09:23No, you have a memory lapse.
0:09:23 > 0:09:27If someone had come to live in my house and swore at my mum like that,
0:09:27 > 0:09:31I think I would have gone mental with them to be fair, cos it's not...
0:09:31 > 0:09:33It's disrespectful. It's not respectful, is it?
0:09:33 > 0:09:37- Nicki...- Will you move? No! Go away!
0:09:37 > 0:09:39- Nicki, I won't touch you. - No, go away.
0:09:42 > 0:09:44This has to stop and I mean it.
0:09:44 > 0:09:46If she cannot change her attitude,
0:09:46 > 0:09:50she doesn't come back into this house, you understand?
0:09:50 > 0:09:55Luckily for everyone, Nicki's attitude did change in Sri Lanka,
0:09:55 > 0:09:57after a rather spiritual encounter.
0:09:57 > 0:09:59Me and Jerri thought Buddhist people
0:09:59 > 0:10:02was where you tapped your head and rubbed your belly.
0:10:02 > 0:10:05May I be free
0:10:05 > 0:10:09from anger and fear,
0:10:09 > 0:10:14peaceful and happy.
0:10:15 > 0:10:19I'm glad that I found something that helps with my anger management
0:10:19 > 0:10:21because I am quite a lot calmer now.
0:10:21 > 0:10:23She's quite happy, I think.
0:10:23 > 0:10:27My behaviour affected my mum in such a bad way.
0:10:27 > 0:10:32She was always down, because I was always angry all the time.
0:10:32 > 0:10:36Without The World's Strictest Parents now I'd be on my own.
0:10:36 > 0:10:38I'd be lonely, I wouldn't have my mum.
0:10:38 > 0:10:42That's the main thing really, I wouldn't be talking to my mum.
0:10:42 > 0:10:46And now I smile quite a lot so everyone gets along with me better.
0:10:54 > 0:10:57We're not volunteering to be their fucking skivvies for the day.
0:10:57 > 0:11:00Ross Torry's hissy fit extraordinaire was a classic
0:11:00 > 0:11:04example of why his parents sent him away in the first place.
0:11:04 > 0:11:07As a 16-year-old, Ross used to have lots of tantrums.
0:11:07 > 0:11:09When I go to college,
0:11:09 > 0:11:12I expect you to pay me £31 a month for a bus pass.
0:11:12 > 0:11:15- It doesn't... It don't... - Shush, shut up, talking.
0:11:15 > 0:11:18He spoke to us like a piece of dog dirt on his shoe,
0:11:18 > 0:11:22that's how it felt, there was no respect whatsoever.
0:11:22 > 0:11:26Before I went to Alabama, it was a nightmare.
0:11:26 > 0:11:30I was just your typical diva kid, I wanted and I got.
0:11:30 > 0:11:33I didn't like the word no, if they said no to me,
0:11:33 > 0:11:34I would have gone mental.
0:11:34 > 0:11:38Back in 2008, Ross headed off to one of America's
0:11:38 > 0:11:39most conservative states
0:11:39 > 0:11:44to stay with the deeply religious Garnett family.
0:11:44 > 0:11:47I will never forget when I met the Garnett's for the first time,
0:11:47 > 0:11:50they were just standing waving like a bunch of nutters.
0:11:50 > 0:11:53I thought, "What is that, what is that?"
0:11:53 > 0:11:57From the outset, Ross and the Garnett's idea of decent behaviour
0:11:57 > 0:11:58were worlds apart.
0:11:58 > 0:12:03One thing that we don't tolerate in the least is any kind of profanity.
0:12:03 > 0:12:06So no F-bombs, you know, SH, a-hole.
0:12:06 > 0:12:11And I just thought, "Are you serious, is that what you call it?"
0:12:11 > 0:12:13That's not normal, just say fuck. Who cares?
0:12:13 > 0:12:19The big blow-out that's won Ross the eighth spot in our top ten,
0:12:19 > 0:12:21came as he was given a lesson in humility
0:12:21 > 0:12:23at the local homeless shelter.
0:12:23 > 0:12:26Morning, everybody. Well, they're here to volunteer.
0:12:26 > 0:12:28They want to help out, assist in serving,
0:12:28 > 0:12:32and I've told them that you all wouldn't mind.
0:12:32 > 0:12:34I'm not going to lie, I hated it, I hated it.
0:12:34 > 0:12:39It was sad seeing them all there, but...not for me, not for me.
0:12:39 > 0:12:42The heat in the kitchen quickly got too much
0:12:42 > 0:12:44and our drama queen boiled right over.
0:12:44 > 0:12:46I've got dirt on my shoes.
0:12:46 > 0:12:49Got shit on them.
0:12:50 > 0:12:53I need some tissue, and no-one's getting me it,
0:12:53 > 0:12:55I've got to go myself.
0:12:55 > 0:12:57'That infuriated me,'
0:12:57 > 0:13:00when my shoes got dirt on them that was it,
0:13:00 > 0:13:04I had enough, I wanted to leave, I wanted a new pair of shoes.
0:13:05 > 0:13:06Fucking takes the piss!
0:13:08 > 0:13:11Is that going to change it?
0:13:11 > 0:13:14To me, swearing that was my normal day-to-day. That was my dictionary.
0:13:14 > 0:13:16Fuck.
0:13:16 > 0:13:18Hey, quit using those words in here.
0:13:18 > 0:13:21It's a matter of respect.
0:13:21 > 0:13:24I shouldn't have caused a fuss. If I was really hurt by it,
0:13:24 > 0:13:27I should have got a tissue myself, not demanded
0:13:27 > 0:13:32the homeless people to get me a tissue, that's really bad.
0:13:32 > 0:13:35But underneath his outrageous exterior,
0:13:35 > 0:13:38Ross was hiding a confused and awkward teenager.
0:13:38 > 0:13:41When I saw Mark come into the homeless shelter,
0:13:41 > 0:13:44I thought, "Oh, no," I was really scared,
0:13:44 > 0:13:48I thought he was going to go mental at me, he's going to go mental.
0:13:48 > 0:13:51His temper tantrum was the first step on a road to change.
0:13:51 > 0:13:54- Did you drop the F bomb? - Yeah. Pretty hard.
0:13:54 > 0:13:57So you dropped the F bomb on these homeless men?
0:13:57 > 0:13:59I think so. I think they heard it.
0:13:59 > 0:14:02Do you have any earthly idea how offensive it is that
0:14:02 > 0:14:06you would be offended in doing work for the homeless
0:14:06 > 0:14:09and how offensive it is for you to drop the F bomb in their presence?
0:14:09 > 0:14:11I never say sorry, I never did,
0:14:11 > 0:14:15and having to stand there in front of them
0:14:15 > 0:14:20and actually apologise for saying the "F bomb", who cares?
0:14:20 > 0:14:23But now looking back, I do think I should not have acted like that.
0:14:23 > 0:14:26I would like to apologise for my foul language
0:14:26 > 0:14:28if some of you heard today.
0:14:28 > 0:14:31I'm sorry that I said it in front of you all and disrespected you.
0:14:31 > 0:14:34The Garnetts helped me calm down,
0:14:34 > 0:14:38not necessarily because of their rules, it was what they said.
0:14:38 > 0:14:40It was the advice they gave you.
0:14:40 > 0:14:44Back then I didn't know myself, I didn't know who I was, I was lost.
0:14:47 > 0:14:51- I caught a fish! - The Garnett's acceptance gave Ross the space he needed
0:14:51 > 0:14:55to look closely at his behaviour and how it was destroying his family.
0:14:55 > 0:15:00I think now Ross he has definitely matured a great deal, he has become
0:15:00 > 0:15:06happier with himself and therefore he is just happier in his own life.
0:15:08 > 0:15:12He says sorry now. If he has said something he shouldn't have said,
0:15:12 > 0:15:13he will apologise to both of us.
0:15:13 > 0:15:16Yeah, if he knows he is wrong, he will apologise.
0:15:16 > 0:15:20The Garnetts taught me really to just grow up and become a man,
0:15:20 > 0:15:25and step away from the persona I was and actually become who I am
0:15:25 > 0:15:28and accept who I was, and be proud of it.
0:15:36 > 0:15:38I haven't put hardly any make-up on at all,
0:15:38 > 0:15:42and there's no way I'm doing what you say. That's the end of it.
0:15:42 > 0:15:45Give me detention, give me detention every day, I don't care.
0:15:45 > 0:15:47I want to go home, cos this place is shit!
0:15:49 > 0:15:53To stroppy 17-year-old Essex girl Lucy Dodds,
0:15:53 > 0:15:55education wasn't exactly a priority.
0:15:57 > 0:16:01Back then, I really enjoyed getting really drunk,
0:16:01 > 0:16:03hanging around, coming in late, stuff like that.
0:16:04 > 0:16:07My mum did say, "Don't drink spirits,"
0:16:07 > 0:16:09cos she knows we get fuck-a-lucked!
0:16:09 > 0:16:13So we drank the spirits, and we're really out of it!
0:16:13 > 0:16:16Then when we got sent to South Africa, I just knew it was
0:16:16 > 0:16:19a totally different scenario.
0:16:19 > 0:16:21You couldn't get away with anything.
0:16:21 > 0:16:24Morning. After we've brought you to attention,
0:16:24 > 0:16:26we will have an inspection.
0:16:36 > 0:16:37Oh, no.
0:16:37 > 0:16:40Yeah, the headmaster.
0:16:40 > 0:16:41When I first saw him, like, I thought,
0:16:41 > 0:16:44"This guy is just a big teddy bear," sort of thing,
0:16:44 > 0:16:46"He ain't going to, you know, control me."
0:16:46 > 0:16:48Tell me what your problem is.
0:16:51 > 0:16:53I don't want to talk at the moment.
0:16:53 > 0:16:55You don't want to talk about it?
0:16:55 > 0:16:58I will have no other choice but to punish you.
0:16:59 > 0:17:03When school closes, you will sit detention for the afternoon.
0:17:06 > 0:17:08I was just so peed off because, you know,
0:17:08 > 0:17:11I thought, "What is the big deal with just putting make-up on?"
0:17:11 > 0:17:14I couldn't understand that that was a rule, do you know what I mean?
0:17:14 > 0:17:17Because I was so used to, in school in England,
0:17:17 > 0:17:19wearing as much as I wanted.
0:17:19 > 0:17:21I haven't put hardly any make-up on at all,
0:17:21 > 0:17:24and there's no way I'm doing what you say. That's the end of it.
0:17:24 > 0:17:28Give me detention, give me detention every day, I don't care.
0:17:28 > 0:17:30I want to go home, cos this place is shit!
0:17:31 > 0:17:35Back in Essex, everybody had this phase of being orange,
0:17:35 > 0:17:40and it was just like the done thing to get lots of orange foundation on,
0:17:40 > 0:17:42everyone thought, "Yeah, I look really good, and I'm orange."
0:17:42 > 0:17:45Fucking stupid place, I swear to God.
0:17:45 > 0:17:47When I watch it now, it is really funny,
0:17:47 > 0:17:49but at the same time, it is a bit embarrassing.
0:17:49 > 0:17:51They've given me a hard time, made me cry -
0:17:51 > 0:17:53I'll fucking give them a hard time now.
0:17:55 > 0:17:58And then they won't forget me. Idiots!
0:17:58 > 0:18:01It is embarrassing.
0:18:01 > 0:18:03But whilst in South Africa, Lucy had an opportunity
0:18:03 > 0:18:07to see there was more to life than make-up, if she was prepared to take the plunge.
0:18:07 > 0:18:11OK, Lucy, I'd like you to come with me, please.
0:18:11 > 0:18:15Mum Alma wanted her to help out at a local school for disabled kids.
0:18:15 > 0:18:19Don't want to see people that are in bad conditions and stuff,
0:18:19 > 0:18:21I don't want to see that or speak to them.
0:18:21 > 0:18:23I can't cope with it. I don't want to see it.
0:18:23 > 0:18:26And I'm not getting out of the car, so you're wasting your time.
0:18:26 > 0:18:28If you want to come with me, you come now.
0:18:28 > 0:18:32It's going to be easier, or you can join me in the classroom.
0:18:32 > 0:18:34I've never had to do something so hard before.
0:18:34 > 0:18:38I was scared that if I walked into that school
0:18:38 > 0:18:40and there would be really sad cases of these kids,
0:18:40 > 0:18:43that I would cry in front of them, and I really didn't want to do that.
0:18:43 > 0:18:47The decision she made that day is something Lucy will remember
0:18:47 > 0:18:48for the rest of her life.
0:18:48 > 0:18:53I'm so glad to see you! Oh, I'm so glad to see you.
0:18:53 > 0:18:57Say hello to Lucy.
0:18:58 > 0:19:01Lucy.
0:19:01 > 0:19:04- Tell her your name.- Andris.- Andris.
0:19:04 > 0:19:09Going into that disabled children's school literally changed
0:19:09 > 0:19:10my outlook completely.
0:19:10 > 0:19:14I just look at people totally differently, I don't judge anyone.
0:19:14 > 0:19:18I think of me as my life could be a lot more worse than what it is,
0:19:18 > 0:19:21so make the most of it. I wish I had gone in there straightaway,
0:19:21 > 0:19:23so I had longer in there,
0:19:23 > 0:19:27because that was one of the best things of that time in South Africa.
0:19:29 > 0:19:31I don't really wear that much make-up now,
0:19:31 > 0:19:32because I have grown up,
0:19:32 > 0:19:36and I have a lot more confidence, I have experienced so much more,
0:19:36 > 0:19:40and I don't feel like I need to hide away from anything any more.
0:19:40 > 0:19:43I'm just me, and if you don't like it, you don't like it.
0:19:43 > 0:19:46But that is not the only change Lucy has made.
0:19:46 > 0:19:50When I got back, it was all I could think about, and the one thing
0:19:50 > 0:19:54I want to do is just help people, so now when I've got time,
0:19:54 > 0:19:57I just try and raise as much money as I can
0:19:57 > 0:19:59and help the people that need it.
0:20:04 > 0:20:06Now, World's Strictest Parents would be nothing
0:20:06 > 0:20:09without, well, the parents.
0:20:09 > 0:20:12Across 14 different countries and eight American states,
0:20:12 > 0:20:16families from all around the world have opened their doors to our British teens.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19Wherever they're from, one thing unites them all -
0:20:19 > 0:20:22they have a plan for parenting.
0:20:22 > 0:20:24Satan wants to devour our kids.
0:20:24 > 0:20:28He wants to pull them away, he wants to bring them into darkness.
0:20:28 > 0:20:30So it's my job to not let him do that.
0:20:30 > 0:20:32# Oh, say can you see... #
0:20:32 > 0:20:35'Drinking, drugs and sex,'
0:20:35 > 0:20:39they're selfish behaviours that destroy lives.
0:20:39 > 0:20:43One has to be strict, one needs to be strict with them.
0:20:43 > 0:20:46Discipline is a key in everything that you do.
0:20:46 > 0:20:49If you don't have discipline, you're not a human being, you're an animal.
0:20:49 > 0:20:51Come on. SHE RINGS THE BELL
0:20:51 > 0:20:54When I punish, I punish really hard.
0:20:54 > 0:20:58- I'm not your friend, I'm your parent.- Go inside and get it.
0:20:58 > 0:21:01Now if my child talks to me and talks back and talks back,
0:21:01 > 0:21:03I don't take it lightly.
0:21:09 > 0:21:12And if proof were needed that strict parenting creates
0:21:12 > 0:21:14obedient, clever, disciplined children,
0:21:14 > 0:21:16look no further than their own offspring.
0:21:16 > 0:21:19I don't feel like rebelling.
0:21:19 > 0:21:22Discipline is one thing that should be there in every child.
0:21:24 > 0:21:26For children's lives, it is very good to have morals
0:21:26 > 0:21:29and standards and rules in the home.
0:21:29 > 0:21:33My parents just make sure everything is appropriate
0:21:33 > 0:21:36for a 12-year-old godly girl before I go and do anything.
0:21:36 > 0:21:39Some people might say that my parents are strict,
0:21:39 > 0:21:41but we'd rather call it love.
0:21:45 > 0:21:47But even in a world of strict parents,
0:21:47 > 0:21:49some are stricter than others.
0:21:49 > 0:21:54- Oh, my God, it's a police officer! - You are shitting me!- Oh, my God!
0:21:54 > 0:21:57- I'm not getting out of the car. - It's two men.
0:21:57 > 0:22:00Some play by different rules.
0:22:00 > 0:22:04It's two men. Is it a gay couple?
0:22:04 > 0:22:06What is going on here?
0:22:08 > 0:22:09Hello, how do you do?
0:22:09 > 0:22:12I guess you probably didn't expect this! Welcome.
0:22:12 > 0:22:15- I wasn't expecting that at all. - I wasn't expecting that.
0:22:15 > 0:22:18But there's one family that stand out
0:22:18 > 0:22:22when it comes to letting our little brats have it -
0:22:22 > 0:22:24the Harrises of Barbados.
0:22:24 > 0:22:26There is no smoking.
0:22:26 > 0:22:29So if you have any cigarettes, you have to hand them over now.
0:22:29 > 0:22:31I'm sorry, but that's not going to happen.
0:22:31 > 0:22:34Nathan, if you don't hand over those cigarettes right now,
0:22:34 > 0:22:36you can take your journey back though the door.
0:22:36 > 0:22:39Thank you.
0:22:39 > 0:22:40I'm not stopping smoking.
0:22:42 > 0:22:45There will be no more smoking.
0:22:45 > 0:22:48Well, I'm sorry, I am 16, I am legally classed as an adult,
0:22:48 > 0:22:49I am old enough...
0:22:49 > 0:22:52You are not in the UK - you are in Barbados!
0:22:53 > 0:22:57And you are an adult at 18 years old, my man - not at 16.
0:22:57 > 0:23:01So you don't tell me nothing, but you are legally no adult,
0:23:01 > 0:23:04you are not an adult here. I am finished, done, excuse me.
0:23:04 > 0:23:07With that, Nathan became the one and only teen
0:23:07 > 0:23:09not to stay in the family home on the first night,
0:23:09 > 0:23:15while the Harrises get my vote as the strictest parents in the entire universe.
0:23:15 > 0:23:19No-one has ever refused to back down against me.
0:23:19 > 0:23:21It's a very shocking change!
0:23:28 > 0:23:32I don't like you! I'm not coming back in your house. That's that, innit?
0:23:32 > 0:23:36Bitch. You think I'm going back in that house? You must be crazy.
0:23:36 > 0:23:38I'm not going back in there, I'm not.
0:23:38 > 0:23:41Back to the tantrums, and at number six,
0:23:41 > 0:23:46East London tough girl Sevda Huseyin and her Texan stand-off.
0:23:46 > 0:23:47Hello, how are you?
0:23:47 > 0:23:51Before Strictest Parents, Sevda's mum had all but given up.
0:23:53 > 0:23:56It got to the stage where it was easier to give in to Sev...
0:23:56 > 0:23:58If she wanted something or, you know,
0:23:58 > 0:24:00if she needed money for anything,
0:24:00 > 0:24:02it was easier just to give it to her.
0:24:02 > 0:24:05Sevda was welcomed into the Frazee household with open arms.
0:24:05 > 0:24:08She thought she'd died and gone to heaven.
0:24:08 > 0:24:11The house was so big, it looked like a hotel.
0:24:11 > 0:24:13Jacuzzi tubs and...
0:24:13 > 0:24:16Oh, my God, this is proper nice!
0:24:16 > 0:24:17It was a mansion! Wow!
0:24:17 > 0:24:19And this is our outside living area right here,
0:24:19 > 0:24:22I think you're going to enjoy this.
0:24:22 > 0:24:25Wow. 'I thought it was going to be like a holiday.'
0:24:25 > 0:24:27That was, like, proper nice, man.
0:24:27 > 0:24:29The battle lines for Sevda's meltdown were drawn
0:24:29 > 0:24:32before she'd even unpacked her suitcase.
0:24:32 > 0:24:37Trust is the ace for us.
0:24:37 > 0:24:40If you are trustworthy, you get more privileges.
0:24:40 > 0:24:41Rozanne told us to go
0:24:41 > 0:24:42and get our fags or something,
0:24:42 > 0:24:45and I wasn't giving in that easily. I wasn't, right?
0:24:46 > 0:24:48Oh, I can't do it.
0:24:50 > 0:24:52She looked everywhere except the wardrobe.
0:24:52 > 0:24:54See, I'm talented like that, you know?
0:24:54 > 0:24:57I know where to hide things when I want something.
0:25:01 > 0:25:04She looked in the most obvious places, like I'm stupid!
0:25:04 > 0:25:08"Oh, my God, this is so easy, I'm going to get away with so much!"
0:25:08 > 0:25:12See me, yeah? I'm just wonderful. Got my lighter right here,
0:25:12 > 0:25:14got my fags hidden somewhere!
0:25:15 > 0:25:17But there's only a point in hiding cigarettes
0:25:17 > 0:25:21if you're going to smoke them, and Sevda was pretty determined.
0:25:21 > 0:25:24Sevda.
0:25:24 > 0:25:26- There's a cigarette in there? - I just need to go toilet.
0:25:26 > 0:25:29We have a bathroom right over here. No, Sevda, Sevda.
0:25:29 > 0:25:31No, I need the toilet. Get off me, bruv. What are you doing?
0:25:31 > 0:25:33- What are you doing? - We have another bathroom.
0:25:33 > 0:25:35Why are you touching me for?
0:25:35 > 0:25:37She had to drag me out of the bathroom.
0:25:37 > 0:25:39"Who are you touching, like? Do I know you?
0:25:39 > 0:25:40"You're touching me like that."
0:25:40 > 0:25:43She was trying to drag me, and we had a bit of a shuffle there, innit?
0:25:43 > 0:25:46I'm not really proud of that, but, you know,
0:25:46 > 0:25:48she started it, not me, all right? She started it.
0:25:48 > 0:25:51I'm going home, bruv. I'm going home. Are you stupid?
0:25:53 > 0:25:56Open the fucking door, man. I'm going home. Are you dumb?
0:25:56 > 0:25:59How about putting your hands on me? Are you stupid?
0:25:59 > 0:26:01Are you fucking stupid?
0:26:01 > 0:26:02Dickhead.
0:26:05 > 0:26:07Don't film me, bruv, seriously.
0:26:07 > 0:26:09You can't act like that, you know what I mean?
0:26:09 > 0:26:12You can't knock over cups and act like a big kid.
0:26:12 > 0:26:14That is how I was acting, innit? Like a baby, really.
0:26:14 > 0:26:17But back then, Sevda thought throwing a tantrum was
0:26:17 > 0:26:19the only way to get what she wanted.
0:26:19 > 0:26:22No! Why are you coming here for? Go away.
0:26:22 > 0:26:25- When you are ready to talk like an adult...- Piss off. Piss off.
0:26:25 > 0:26:26- Go away.- Until then,
0:26:26 > 0:26:29I will be looking through your bathroom and your room again.
0:26:29 > 0:26:33I don't like you, I'm not coming back in your house. That's that.
0:26:33 > 0:26:34Bitch.
0:26:34 > 0:26:37The way I saw myself was really embarrassing.
0:26:37 > 0:26:40I just think, no that is not lady-like at all.
0:26:41 > 0:26:45- The way I was was disgraceful. - For the first time in her life,
0:26:45 > 0:26:48throwing a massive strop wasn't getting Sevda
0:26:48 > 0:26:50the reaction she wanted.
0:26:50 > 0:26:54We can outlast her. So I'm not going to go out and get her,
0:26:54 > 0:26:56and it could be a cold night. We'll watch her.
0:26:56 > 0:26:59You think I'm going back in that house? You must be crazy.
0:26:59 > 0:27:01I'm not going back in there, I'm not.
0:27:03 > 0:27:06I'd just like to order three large pizzas.
0:27:06 > 0:27:11Do you have a special involving those three? This is for delivery.
0:27:12 > 0:27:14Bitch, man. She makes me sick.
0:27:14 > 0:27:17The way they just left her outside, I think, was really good,
0:27:17 > 0:27:19just let her get on with it,
0:27:19 > 0:27:21and come in when you're finished sulking.
0:27:21 > 0:27:24'I was hungry, and they get pizza, yeah?
0:27:24 > 0:27:26'Like I was on the naughty step,'
0:27:26 > 0:27:28like I was the little kid on the naughty step.
0:27:28 > 0:27:31"We're getting pizza and you're on the naughty step, Sevda,
0:27:31 > 0:27:33"and you're not coming in for no food." I was thinking,
0:27:33 > 0:27:37"I'm really stubborn, so I will starve, boy. I don't care, innit?"
0:27:37 > 0:27:39Pepperoni with pineapple.
0:27:39 > 0:27:41But after being taunted by takeaway
0:27:41 > 0:27:43and sitting in the dark for five hours,
0:27:43 > 0:27:47the penny started to drop for Sevda.
0:27:47 > 0:27:50I really don't want to walk back in this house,
0:27:50 > 0:27:52but, you know, it's got to be done.
0:27:52 > 0:27:54They're just so controlling and stubborn.
0:27:54 > 0:27:58'What I learnt from the tantrum that I had was that'
0:27:58 > 0:28:00them tantrums don't really get you nowhere.
0:28:00 > 0:28:01Attitude don't get you nowhere.
0:28:01 > 0:28:03Hello.
0:28:04 > 0:28:06Sevda, hi!
0:28:06 > 0:28:08'They are the first people
0:28:08 > 0:28:11'that didn't, like, just didn't take my shit, yeah?'
0:28:11 > 0:28:15What they are, they're really forgiving people.
0:28:15 > 0:28:17Sorry.
0:28:18 > 0:28:21For what, Sevda? What do you think you did wrong?
0:28:23 > 0:28:25I lost my temper.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28That isn't the girl that I want to be, really.
0:28:28 > 0:28:31I didn't think I acted like that till I watched myself.
0:28:31 > 0:28:37'Now, I'm patient, I'm calm, I know how to keep my temper down.'
0:28:37 > 0:28:39Maturity, and I've matured a lot.
0:28:39 > 0:28:42I would like to thank the Frazees for everything they have done.
0:28:42 > 0:28:44Done her the world of good.
0:28:44 > 0:28:46My mum, me and Mum get on so much now.
0:28:46 > 0:28:49Even on the way here, we were just laughing.
0:28:49 > 0:28:51My mum is just the funniest person ever.
0:28:51 > 0:28:52As long as my mum is happy with me,
0:28:52 > 0:28:55I haven't got anything else to prove to anyone.
0:29:02 > 0:29:04Let me tell you something, Sam.
0:29:04 > 0:29:08Listen, if you continue like this, you'll be in bed for 7.00.
0:29:08 > 0:29:12- You are acting like a toddler. - Fine, then, I'm a toddler.
0:29:12 > 0:29:15I'm an immature little child who is 17 years old.
0:29:15 > 0:29:18Three years ago, Sam was an angry young man.
0:29:18 > 0:29:20I'm not the worst person in the world,
0:29:20 > 0:29:22but I don't want to be here.
0:29:22 > 0:29:26I've never, ever, ever wanted to be with this place.
0:29:27 > 0:29:29I'm fed up with this.
0:29:29 > 0:29:31He's pushed and pushed at the boundaries.
0:29:31 > 0:29:33He won't take no for an answer.
0:29:33 > 0:29:36I've spoken, that's the end of it. I'm not having it.
0:29:36 > 0:29:37I don't fucking care.
0:29:37 > 0:29:40I can admit I was a little shit back then.
0:29:40 > 0:29:42'I was basically in a permanent rage,'
0:29:42 > 0:29:45the littlest thing could just make me snap.
0:29:45 > 0:29:49Sam was sent to the heart of Jamaica
0:29:49 > 0:29:51to live with the deeply-religious Rose family,
0:29:51 > 0:29:53a family with an extensive set of rules.
0:29:53 > 0:30:01No alcohol, no smoking, neither indoor or outdoor. No swearing.
0:30:01 > 0:30:04At the time I thought Mum was being strict and not giving me much freedom,
0:30:04 > 0:30:07but the second I got there, I realised how chilled she was.
0:30:07 > 0:30:12- And, Sam, those earrings have to go. - I might have a problem with that.
0:30:14 > 0:30:18Sam's big tantrum in the sun came when the family demanded
0:30:18 > 0:30:22he join them on their weekly pilgrimage to church.
0:30:22 > 0:30:26Sharon telling me what to do didn't exactly go down very well
0:30:26 > 0:30:28at the time!
0:30:28 > 0:30:31I am not going to be going into your church to worship your God
0:30:31 > 0:30:32that I don't even believe in.
0:30:32 > 0:30:35This is Sunday morning in Jamaica. We go to church as...
0:30:35 > 0:30:38You should go and worship and you should go and enjoy yourself.
0:30:38 > 0:30:42No, no, no. You don't tell me what I should do. You don't tell me what I should do.
0:30:42 > 0:30:46I just didn't want to be made to look like an idiot by anyone,
0:30:46 > 0:30:49regardless of whether they were an authority figure or not.
0:30:49 > 0:30:51If someone made me feel stupid,
0:30:51 > 0:30:54I'd tell them where to shove it, pretty much.
0:30:54 > 0:30:59I'm not stepping inside your church, which is apparently already starting.
0:30:59 > 0:31:01Well, Sam, let me tell you this.
0:31:01 > 0:31:04Sam, don't walk away from me.
0:31:04 > 0:31:07Don't walk away from me. That is one disrespect.
0:31:07 > 0:31:11We don't walk away from people, we want to talk to people.
0:31:11 > 0:31:14'Looking at it now, I'd just say it was stupid.
0:31:14 > 0:31:16'I should have just gone in the church.'
0:31:16 > 0:31:19It was only like, what, two hours inside a church,
0:31:19 > 0:31:22and I put more effort into being pissed off and being outside.
0:31:22 > 0:31:26I did not come out here to visit the world of Sharon Rose.
0:31:28 > 0:31:33I am not here wanting to just bend over to all of Sharon's rules.
0:31:33 > 0:31:35I should have just shut up and put up,
0:31:35 > 0:31:37because it would have been much less effort,
0:31:37 > 0:31:40and I wouldn't have looked quite such an idiot.
0:31:40 > 0:31:42Let me tell you something, Sam.
0:31:42 > 0:31:45Listen, if you continue like this, you'll be in bed for 7.00.
0:31:45 > 0:31:49- Please!- You're acting like a toddler. - Fine, then, I'm a toddler.
0:31:49 > 0:31:53I'm an immature little child who is 17 years old
0:31:53 > 0:31:57- who seriously needs some nicotine... - ..you're going to respect church.
0:31:57 > 0:31:59This is the place that I worship,
0:31:59 > 0:32:02- and this behaviour will not continue here.- Right.
0:32:02 > 0:32:04So zip it up now, and that's it, that's my final word.
0:32:04 > 0:32:09Back then, I was a bit of a shit with a temper,
0:32:09 > 0:32:12and needed to calm down and get a clue, basically.
0:32:16 > 0:32:18'The thing that really gave me a boot up the arse was
0:32:18 > 0:32:21- 'going to see Malachi.' - He's only two years older than you.
0:32:21 > 0:32:24While Sam was busy making his mum's life hell,
0:32:24 > 0:32:29Malachi Johnson was shouldering the responsibility for his entire family.
0:32:32 > 0:32:33Oh, man!
0:32:47 > 0:32:49You always hear people saying,
0:32:49 > 0:32:51"People have got it much worse than you,"
0:32:51 > 0:32:53but when you've got it slap bang in front of you,
0:32:53 > 0:32:57it's a complete slap in the face, and that really woke me up.
0:32:57 > 0:32:59And that helped me grow up a lot.
0:32:59 > 0:33:03Oh, I ain't complaining no more. There ain't nothing to complain about.
0:33:03 > 0:33:09I'm going to basically just not be such a little whining twat.
0:33:09 > 0:33:10I really have been, I think.
0:33:10 > 0:33:16'It definitely improved things big time with my mum when I got back.'
0:33:16 > 0:33:20We got on brilliantly for at least a good few months,
0:33:20 > 0:33:24then we ended up having a bit of a row, which led to me moving out,
0:33:24 > 0:33:26which led to us getting on even better now,
0:33:26 > 0:33:28so it all worked out in the end.
0:33:33 > 0:33:37As we enter the final phases of our countdown,
0:33:37 > 0:33:40we should not forget that World's Strictest Parents isn't
0:33:40 > 0:33:42just about the screaming and shouting.
0:33:43 > 0:33:45Whilst away from home,
0:33:45 > 0:33:48it's an opportunity for our teens to face up to home truths.
0:33:48 > 0:33:51I have just not cared about anyone else out there,
0:33:51 > 0:33:53not anyone else's feelings.
0:33:55 > 0:33:57Home truths that cause the tears to flow...
0:33:57 > 0:34:02I just want to go home and see my mum.
0:34:02 > 0:34:03..flow...
0:34:09 > 0:34:11..and flow some more.
0:34:11 > 0:34:13So, just for the fun of it,
0:34:13 > 0:34:15let's have a look at some of the biggest blubs.
0:34:15 > 0:34:17Stephan Alvarez treated his mum like a skivvy.
0:34:17 > 0:34:21I'm going to cry and she hasn't even answered the phone.
0:34:21 > 0:34:24But when he went to Ghana, it was the first time he'd ever been
0:34:24 > 0:34:26away from comforts of home.
0:34:27 > 0:34:31I'm fine, how are you? I'm missing you.
0:34:31 > 0:34:35And the separation had made the heart grow fonder.
0:34:35 > 0:34:36Oh, I'm horrible!
0:34:36 > 0:34:39'I got a lot of stick from people over the crying, actually.'
0:34:39 > 0:34:41A lot of people were like, "Oh, you need to man up!"
0:34:43 > 0:34:46'As sad as it is, I had never actually really been away from Mum.'
0:34:46 > 0:34:48It made me realise just how easy I had it at home.
0:34:48 > 0:34:51And I think that was the main bit that got me emotional.
0:34:51 > 0:34:55It was great, being able to talk to my mum again, that was great.
0:34:55 > 0:34:59Made me realise just how much I missed her, as well.
0:34:59 > 0:35:02'Going away on World's Strictest Parents,'
0:35:02 > 0:35:05it kind of made me and Mum go from very, very good best friends
0:35:05 > 0:35:08to an actual mother-and-son relationship.
0:35:08 > 0:35:12And the award for top teenage blubber goes to
0:35:12 > 0:35:15reluctant father-to-be Wesley McGillian.
0:35:16 > 0:35:20When Wes went to live with the Loperleveille family in New Jersey,
0:35:20 > 0:35:22he was avoiding an important issue back home.
0:35:22 > 0:35:24'When I knew I was going to be a dad,
0:35:24 > 0:35:26'I just didn't want to think about it,'
0:35:26 > 0:35:28just pushing it as far back in my mind as possible,
0:35:28 > 0:35:30and just totally in denial.
0:35:30 > 0:35:31Yeah!
0:35:31 > 0:35:35But after looking after a neighbour's child for the day,
0:35:35 > 0:35:38his attitude to fatherhood changed dramatically.
0:35:38 > 0:35:42So you kind of just give him a spoonful, and he'll open up.
0:35:42 > 0:35:46'It took away most of the fear I had, because I was just worried about
0:35:46 > 0:35:49'so many things, and then seeing him,'
0:35:49 > 0:35:51I just had a mental picture in my head
0:35:51 > 0:35:53of what I'm going to be like with my daughter.
0:35:55 > 0:35:57Wow.
0:35:59 > 0:36:03It just hit me, just, like, I just want to do the best I can,
0:36:03 > 0:36:05be a good dad.
0:36:12 > 0:36:15'Being a dad is just amazing.'
0:36:15 > 0:36:17The scare factor doesn't go away, it gets worse,
0:36:17 > 0:36:19'but I'll always be there for her,
0:36:19 > 0:36:22'and I love her to bits, it's just unbelievable.
0:36:22 > 0:36:24'It's scary to think where I would be now
0:36:24 > 0:36:26'if it weren't for World's Strictest Parents.'
0:36:26 > 0:36:29You know, my daughter is my life.
0:36:36 > 0:36:39I won't let you cheapen yourself in front of me!
0:36:39 > 0:36:42I'm going home. Seriously, I'm going home. I don't care what you say.
0:36:42 > 0:36:44Now fucking get it out my face, seriously.
0:36:44 > 0:36:47In Ghana, it wasn't so much the teenagers
0:36:47 > 0:36:50but the parents that were throwing the tantrums.
0:36:50 > 0:36:55In my home and in my boundaries, I do not allow those things.
0:36:55 > 0:36:59Vida was, like, a hard woman. She had a really tough shell.
0:37:03 > 0:37:05Stephan Alvarez and Lizzy Pol went to live
0:37:05 > 0:37:08with the Adega family in Accra, Ghana.
0:37:09 > 0:37:13- Hi, Lizzy, how are you? - I'm fine. I'm a bit scared.
0:37:13 > 0:37:15You are? You don't have to be.
0:37:15 > 0:37:18From the very start, Vida had a problem with Lizzy.
0:37:18 > 0:37:22There are a couple of things that I don't encourage.
0:37:22 > 0:37:24No short dresses, skirts or revealing clothes.
0:37:26 > 0:37:29Everything shows, even before you're out.
0:37:29 > 0:37:30I do it all the time.
0:37:30 > 0:37:33- You do?- But just because they're so in your face...- Yeah.
0:37:33 > 0:37:35'Lizzy had gone out there going for a suntan,'
0:37:35 > 0:37:38whereas with their religion, it was, "Cover up as much as possible,
0:37:38 > 0:37:40"don't show yourself off to everyone,"
0:37:40 > 0:37:43which was the complete opposite of why Lizzy went out there.
0:37:43 > 0:37:46Things only got worse when the parents thought the teens were
0:37:46 > 0:37:49getting to know each other too well.
0:37:49 > 0:37:54'Over here in Africa, we don't accept two young people'
0:37:54 > 0:37:57fraternising to that extent, you know?
0:37:57 > 0:38:03I have come across so many people who,
0:38:03 > 0:38:10due to sexual immorality, have virtually lost everything.
0:38:10 > 0:38:13Let us keep ourselves pure.
0:38:13 > 0:38:16'I was purely just mates with him.'
0:38:16 > 0:38:18I thought maybe we could wind her up a bit,
0:38:18 > 0:38:21because I was just really irritated at the fact that she was saying,
0:38:21 > 0:38:23"You can't speak to him, you can't hug him."
0:38:23 > 0:38:26I was like, "But I want somebody to hug! I've got nobody to hug!"
0:38:26 > 0:38:29With the parents on their guard, Stephan and Lizzy came up with
0:38:29 > 0:38:31- a crafty plan.- 'We're not flirting,'
0:38:31 > 0:38:33we're just going to, like,
0:38:33 > 0:38:36over-exaggerate the fact that we are "overly friendly".
0:38:36 > 0:38:37God, sorry!
0:38:37 > 0:38:41'We decided to work together to see'
0:38:41 > 0:38:43just how far we could push everything,
0:38:43 > 0:38:46and we did, we made a great double team, though.
0:38:48 > 0:38:49LIZZY SCREAMS
0:38:52 > 0:38:55We threw water over each other, had a little water fight,
0:38:55 > 0:38:57and that wound her up a bit.
0:38:57 > 0:39:01- Lizzy. All right, Lizzy, what do you have under there?- A bikini.
0:39:01 > 0:39:07- What's in your belly button? - A belly bar!
0:39:07 > 0:39:11- Eee!- Really!
0:39:11 > 0:39:15- It's stylish.- Who's going to look down there, anyway?
0:39:18 > 0:39:19It's stylish for me to touch.
0:39:19 > 0:39:24A family visit to the beach brought all the issues to a boiling point.
0:39:24 > 0:39:27And then we got to the beach, and it was like, "Oops, OK!"
0:39:27 > 0:39:29I think we wound her up a bit too much.
0:39:30 > 0:39:34'I didn't do anything wrong, I actually didn't.
0:39:34 > 0:39:36'I went in the sea, my trousers got wet,'
0:39:36 > 0:39:39I took them off because they were falling off me.
0:39:39 > 0:39:43But Stefan remembers the event slightly differently.
0:39:43 > 0:39:46Wearing the trousers out into the sea and getting them soaking wet
0:39:46 > 0:39:47so she had to have the bikini on,
0:39:47 > 0:39:50that was all pre-planned before we even got there.
0:39:50 > 0:39:53The whole lot was pre-planned, and it was going to wind the family up
0:39:53 > 0:39:55as much as physically possible.
0:39:55 > 0:39:57And that's mainly what the beach trip was for.
0:40:01 > 0:40:05Lizzie, I think you've started being a little insolent to me and I don't like it.
0:40:05 > 0:40:09I know the two of you are alone but don't get funny ideas.
0:40:09 > 0:40:14- We're friends. Like, he's the only person that I can talk to on the trip.- Yes, well, you can talk to me.
0:40:14 > 0:40:19- Yeah, but as a person that I've met...- No, no, no, no.
0:40:19 > 0:40:21Cos I've already got a boyfriend at home.
0:40:21 > 0:40:23Yes, but that's you but I don't like that
0:40:23 > 0:40:25and it's wrong for you to do that.
0:40:25 > 0:40:28- Do you think your mum would let you do that?- What? Have a boyfriend? Yeah.
0:40:28 > 0:40:30She's allowing it because you're so saucy!
0:40:30 > 0:40:37- Cos you're doing it to me right now! I won't let you cheapen yourself in front of me!- I'm going home.
0:40:37 > 0:40:39Seriously, I'm going home. I don't care what you say.
0:40:39 > 0:40:42Now fucking get it out of my face, seriously.
0:40:42 > 0:40:45'I'm not embarrassed about sticking up for myself on the beach
0:40:45 > 0:40:48'because I was made out to be something that I'm not.
0:40:48 > 0:40:49'I'm not cheap,'
0:40:49 > 0:40:51I'm not saucy, I'm just me.
0:40:58 > 0:41:02Oi, dickhead, open the gate!
0:41:02 > 0:41:04Open the gate!
0:41:04 > 0:41:09Natural charmer Rosie Hynd would do anything to get a reaction.
0:41:09 > 0:41:13I'm going to trash your house until you open the gate.
0:41:13 > 0:41:15That's the reason why you argue,
0:41:15 > 0:41:17cos you want to spark a reaction.
0:41:17 > 0:41:21Rosie had just been kicked out of school in Puerto Rico
0:41:21 > 0:41:24when the Hill family doled out the punishments.
0:41:24 > 0:41:29The consequences are severe. You have no privileges, Rosie.
0:41:29 > 0:41:31You are not allowed to use the internet.
0:41:31 > 0:41:34I think my punishment was definitely so over the top.
0:41:34 > 0:41:38Like, I mean, the list just went on and on.
0:41:38 > 0:41:41You are not allowed to use the telephone,
0:41:41 > 0:41:45you are not allowed to watch television and you will help out.
0:41:48 > 0:41:49I'm going home.
0:41:49 > 0:41:53Unable to accept the punishment, Rosie wanted out of there.
0:41:53 > 0:41:58Her outrageous actions puts her straight in at number two on our countdown.
0:41:58 > 0:42:01I don't want to be with these people.
0:42:01 > 0:42:05I don't like them. They're nothing to me.
0:42:07 > 0:42:08The Hills lived in a rainforest
0:42:08 > 0:42:12and their nearest neighbour lived over a mile away.
0:42:12 > 0:42:15But that didn't stop Rosie.
0:42:17 > 0:42:21I'm fucking getting him to open the gate, I'm not staying here.
0:42:21 > 0:42:25- How can you actually do this, man? - I don't know.
0:42:27 > 0:42:29I'm not staying in this shit-hole.
0:42:29 > 0:42:33They are the most awful people I've ever met in my whole life. Ever.
0:42:33 > 0:42:37Oi, dickhead, open the gate.
0:42:37 > 0:42:39Open the gate!
0:42:41 > 0:42:46Answer me when I'm talking to you. Open the gate!
0:42:46 > 0:42:50'It was annoying me the fact that he wasn't retaliating,'
0:42:50 > 0:42:51do you know what I mean?
0:42:51 > 0:42:55Like, cos if you are angry and you are shouting
0:42:55 > 0:42:57and someone is just sitting there, just like, "Hmm,"
0:42:57 > 0:43:00do you know what I mean, it irritates you more.
0:43:00 > 0:43:02I will smash your car window.
0:43:03 > 0:43:07- Why don't you go and lie down for a while?- No, I don't want to lie down,
0:43:07 > 0:43:10I want to get out of this shit-hole.
0:43:10 > 0:43:12Why?
0:43:12 > 0:43:15Can you not ignore me?
0:43:18 > 0:43:21Why won't you open the gate?
0:43:21 > 0:43:24The more he didn't react to me the more angry I got.
0:43:24 > 0:43:29- The keys to get out of the gate. - All right, honey, go try those keys.
0:43:29 > 0:43:31What fucking key is this?
0:43:31 > 0:43:35I'll fucking drive one of your fucking cars.
0:43:35 > 0:43:39That's a car key, that car isn't here any more.
0:43:39 > 0:43:43Well, then you won't mind if I do this then, will you?
0:43:46 > 0:43:49Watching it back is just so embarrassing,
0:43:49 > 0:43:51cos everyone's like, "I can't believe you did that."
0:43:51 > 0:43:54I can't believe I did it. It was just so awful.
0:43:54 > 0:43:58Eight hours later and with Rosie still not getting the attention she desired...
0:43:58 > 0:44:03- We are going to smoke in their car. - ..she had a new plan.
0:44:03 > 0:44:05CAR HORN BLARES REPEATEDLY
0:44:17 > 0:44:22Ed's non-confrontational tactics were winning, over Rosie's anger.
0:44:22 > 0:44:26It was really clever when he came out and took the battery out.
0:44:26 > 0:44:28I probably wouldn't have thought about that.
0:44:28 > 0:44:30I would have just tried to get me out of the car.
0:44:30 > 0:44:33He just came and he did make me look like an idiot.
0:44:39 > 0:44:44- I don't understand why you won't kick me out. - I don't want to kick you out.
0:44:44 > 0:44:49Why? What do I have to do to be kicked out?
0:44:49 > 0:44:54Shall I go and...teach your little boy some really bad swear words?
0:44:54 > 0:44:57Will that work?
0:44:57 > 0:44:59No, let me tell you this.
0:44:59 > 0:45:05Today, you have shown me that, in fact, you are not 16,
0:45:05 > 0:45:06- you are six years old.- Well...
0:45:06 > 0:45:11Have your fit and when we're done, when you're done, then...
0:45:11 > 0:45:15- No, listen to me. I'm speaking. - I'm done, I'm done with you. I'm done.- No listen...- I'm done.
0:45:15 > 0:45:18'He did have a point with the six-year-old thing.'
0:45:18 > 0:45:22I don't know, I think I was acting maybe like eight years old.
0:45:22 > 0:45:26And the moral of the story is, Rosie?
0:45:26 > 0:45:28My shouting and screaming didn't get me anywhere
0:45:28 > 0:45:29so it was a bit pointless.
0:45:29 > 0:45:32Oh!
0:45:39 > 0:45:42I'm sick of being treated like a little kid, when I'm not.
0:45:42 > 0:45:46Do I look like I'm fucking ten years old? No! Idiot!
0:45:46 > 0:45:50James Gowing may not have liked being treated like a little kid
0:45:50 > 0:45:52but his behaviour at the time was far from grown-up.
0:45:52 > 0:45:54Before Utah,
0:45:54 > 0:45:57I was pretty much an angry rebel and carefree,
0:45:57 > 0:45:59a lot of drugs, a lot of drink.
0:45:59 > 0:46:04- What percentage is it?- £2.40. - 7.5.- It's 7.5.
0:46:04 > 0:46:05Nah!
0:46:05 > 0:46:10James' selfish behaviour was ruining his relationship with his family.
0:46:10 > 0:46:12My mum was pretty much ready to kick me out,
0:46:12 > 0:46:15she was, literally, at the end of her last straw.
0:46:15 > 0:46:18I think she was ready to disown me cos I was that bad.
0:46:18 > 0:46:21James needs to realise that he has got potential
0:46:21 > 0:46:25but I need him to make these change... Sorry.
0:46:27 > 0:46:29Upon arrival in Utah,
0:46:29 > 0:46:32James brought a large slice of rebellious attitude...
0:46:32 > 0:46:36- Vodka and coke.- ..right to the front door of the Peck family.
0:46:36 > 0:46:41Can I actually smell what you're drinking to make sure it's not alcohol or something?
0:46:43 > 0:46:46Oh, whoa! I can smell it from here.
0:46:46 > 0:46:49It was the last drink I was going to have for the whole week.
0:46:49 > 0:46:52We obviously couldn't drink in America because we wasn't 21.
0:46:52 > 0:46:56That's just a waste now. We should've drank it in the car.
0:46:56 > 0:46:57Are you ready to go in?
0:46:57 > 0:47:02Obviously turning up with vodka isn't going to give a good first impression of us, is it?
0:47:02 > 0:47:07She must have thought, "Gosh, I have got myself into something really bad this week."
0:47:07 > 0:47:10After a rocky start, James' top tantrum,
0:47:10 > 0:47:13that puts him at number two in our countdown,
0:47:13 > 0:47:16came when Nicholeen asked him to join in with home schooling.
0:47:16 > 0:47:20- Hey, James, come here, please. - No, man!
0:47:20 > 0:47:24My attitude to education then was screw it, I don't really care.
0:47:24 > 0:47:27Instead of obeying the family rules,
0:47:27 > 0:47:31James did what James did best and rebelled.
0:47:40 > 0:47:43My intention for sunbathing was just to catch some rays.
0:47:43 > 0:47:47It was a hot day, I was hot and it was boring me
0:47:47 > 0:47:49so I thought I am just going to chill and have some sun.
0:47:49 > 0:47:53James was not backward in letting the Pecks know how he felt.
0:47:53 > 0:47:57- I don't want to learn maths, English and science. - You're acting like you know
0:47:57 > 0:47:59what my plan was for the day, which you don't.
0:47:59 > 0:48:03Home schooling is about learning whatever you want. Did you know that?
0:48:03 > 0:48:07- Here we go, I'll do it with you both together. Are you planning on going too?- Yeah.
0:48:07 > 0:48:10- We're not little kids. - No, I know you're not.
0:48:10 > 0:48:13We're 17 years old and you're treating us like we're 10.
0:48:13 > 0:48:14- MAN:- You're acting like a three-year-old.
0:48:14 > 0:48:18How am I acting like a three-year-old? I'm 17 years old, I can look after myself.
0:48:18 > 0:48:23- OK, talk calmly.- No, because I'm sick of being treated like a little kid when I'm not a little kid.
0:48:23 > 0:48:28Do I look like I'm fucking ten years old? No! Idiot!
0:48:28 > 0:48:29OK.
0:48:29 > 0:48:34Are they running away, Mom? Mom, are they running away?
0:48:34 > 0:48:38I was 17 at the time and they are obviously learning about kids' stuff.
0:48:38 > 0:48:42That's why I felt like a kid because it made me feel dumb, them making me read out loud.
0:48:42 > 0:48:46I'm not being funny, but I'm more intelligent than that.
0:48:46 > 0:48:51After the initial clashes, things changed dramatically in Utah
0:48:51 > 0:48:55and James struck a close bond with father of the family, Spencer.
0:48:55 > 0:48:57You all ready?
0:49:01 > 0:49:04Me and Spencer did have a good bond
0:49:04 > 0:49:06because it was nice to have a male figure
0:49:06 > 0:49:09who was doing the things that my dad should have done for me.
0:49:09 > 0:49:14My dad would never have even thought of taking me to go and drive a car.
0:49:14 > 0:49:18He wouldn't talk to me about some of the things Spencer did.
0:49:18 > 0:49:22He made me feel really welcome. He is an amazing guy, Spencer, he's really cool.
0:49:22 > 0:49:24Nearly three years down the line
0:49:24 > 0:49:27and James' attitude to education has changed dramatically.
0:49:27 > 0:49:30My attitude towards education is completely different.
0:49:30 > 0:49:33I am going to university, as well, so my attitude is...
0:49:33 > 0:49:36I just want to carry on studying until I feel like I know enough
0:49:36 > 0:49:41to be able to break into the fashion industry to know where I want to go.
0:49:41 > 0:49:43I am just going to keep on learning until I get there
0:49:43 > 0:49:46cos everyday you learn something new and I really love education.
0:49:46 > 0:49:50Lessons learned from the Pecks has altered James' priorities in life.
0:49:50 > 0:49:53I think the thing I learned the most from the Pecks
0:49:53 > 0:49:56was family are an important thing in life.
0:49:56 > 0:49:57When I came back,
0:49:57 > 0:50:02I definitely changed my attitude towards my mum, changed completely.
0:50:02 > 0:50:06I really thank them for opening my eyes to family
0:50:06 > 0:50:08and how important everything is.
0:50:12 > 0:50:17So we have seen tantrums about make-up, dress code, charity work
0:50:17 > 0:50:18and of course cigarettes
0:50:18 > 0:50:23but World's Strictest Parents is far from all about the squabbles.
0:50:23 > 0:50:24Don't film me, bruv, seriously.
0:50:24 > 0:50:30The intention of World's Strictest Parents has always been to make argumentative teens
0:50:30 > 0:50:34- see that rules and discipline aren't just made out of spite. - I love you too.
0:50:34 > 0:50:38The teens are there to experience a life with boundaries
0:50:38 > 0:50:41in which families can operate in a peaceful and loving way.
0:50:41 > 0:50:44I would be proud to have you as my son.
0:50:44 > 0:50:47I owe so much to the Garnetts, I love them so much.
0:50:47 > 0:50:49You are both amazing.
0:50:49 > 0:50:51'Joe and Scott has always been an inspiration to me.'
0:50:51 > 0:50:53I owe everything to them.
0:50:53 > 0:50:55- Thank you so much. - Yes, my brother.
0:50:55 > 0:50:59World's Strictest Parents definitely gave me the kick up the arse that I needed.
0:50:59 > 0:51:05My mum and dad are really proud of me for going to South Africa and they know it was a hard experience
0:51:05 > 0:51:08but they know that it has changed me, so it was worthwhile.
0:51:08 > 0:51:11I thing I learnt most from the Pecks is that family...
0:51:11 > 0:51:14family are an important thing in life.
0:51:14 > 0:51:17It was a wake-up call for me, a real wake-up call.
0:51:17 > 0:51:19And it has changed my life a lot.
0:51:19 > 0:51:20Bye!
0:51:20 > 0:51:24This programme has really changed my life.
0:51:24 > 0:51:27I am happy, I'm so much happier, I like who I am now.
0:51:27 > 0:51:31You really are gorgeous people and I'm never, ever, ever going to forget you.
0:51:31 > 0:51:36There is not one regret. From the moment I got on the plane to the moment I got off, no regrets.
0:51:36 > 0:51:39So, have you worked it out yet?
0:51:46 > 0:51:49Before the show, I was a proper slut, really.
0:51:50 > 0:51:53I think you were worse than me.
0:51:53 > 0:51:56I was a brat. Drug abusing, drinking...
0:51:56 > 0:51:57I was horrible.
0:51:58 > 0:52:03Put it out. You are not getting off to a good start with the Kimboroughs.
0:52:03 > 0:52:06When Bex Keene and Chezdan Mills went to live in Atlanta,
0:52:06 > 0:52:10they met with a brick wall, in the shape of the Kimborough family.
0:52:10 > 0:52:12- You want to push me there? Take me there?- Yeah.
0:52:12 > 0:52:17- You messing with the wrong one.- What you going to do?- What would I do?
0:52:17 > 0:52:20- You are not my dad. - I don't care, I'm not trying to be your dad.
0:52:20 > 0:52:23- No.- You will!- No, I won't. - You will!- No, I won't.
0:52:23 > 0:52:27You will not use profanity in this building!
0:52:27 > 0:52:30I think the family were just...mental.
0:52:30 > 0:52:37- You know, they were nice in their own religious, weird way. - They were nice, they were just mad.
0:52:37 > 0:52:41What is wrong with you, honey?! AARRGGHH!
0:52:41 > 0:52:42Nice mad.
0:52:42 > 0:52:46Mad maybe, Chez, but that wasn't going to stop this God-loving family
0:52:46 > 0:52:50from encouraging our teens with a little religious education.
0:52:50 > 0:52:55I'll see you guys in about 20 minutes, OK?
0:52:55 > 0:52:58Sunday School was so, so, so boring.
0:52:58 > 0:53:02You awake? You awake? OK.
0:53:02 > 0:53:04Just reading the Bible - how boring can you get?
0:53:04 > 0:53:08- You guys have a question?- No, I'm just bored. Can we go, please?
0:53:08 > 0:53:10All I was doing in that room was ageing.
0:53:12 > 0:53:13Chez!
0:53:13 > 0:53:16As so often with these two, when the going got tough...
0:53:16 > 0:53:19- Run, run, run, run, run. - Up the hill, up the hill.
0:53:19 > 0:53:20In the trees.
0:53:20 > 0:53:24- We just kept running away cos, like...- It's childish.
0:53:24 > 0:53:28All this God shit... We're prisoners.
0:53:28 > 0:53:31Can't believe I'm stood in the fucking forest in the rain
0:53:31 > 0:53:35trying to have a fag with a bible on my head. It's ridiculous!
0:53:35 > 0:53:38They were there to teach us right from wrong,
0:53:38 > 0:53:41not teach us about religion, that wasn't going to do nothing.
0:53:41 > 0:53:45But when religious education became full-time academia,
0:53:45 > 0:53:48Bex had met her match.
0:53:48 > 0:53:53- We're fair, do you understand me? - Yes.- Yes, Ma'am.- Yes, Ma'am.
0:53:53 > 0:53:56And don't switch your neck at me. You messing with the wrong one.
0:53:56 > 0:54:00Sister Patrice was one of the biggest influences when I was there.
0:54:00 > 0:54:03- What you going to do? - What WOULD I do? What would you do?
0:54:03 > 0:54:05Well, I'd knock you out but obviously I can't.
0:54:05 > 0:54:09- Let's go.- Don't touch me! - You better get out of here.
0:54:09 > 0:54:13Sister Patrice's tough-love approach broke through Bex's hard exterior.
0:54:13 > 0:54:17So why are you determined to destroy yourself?
0:54:17 > 0:54:19I'm not determined to destroy myself.
0:54:19 > 0:54:21Yes, you are, sweetheart.
0:54:21 > 0:54:24You're 17 years old, you know how you are living?
0:54:24 > 0:54:28You're living like a person that has been OUT of life.
0:54:28 > 0:54:32Now, listen, we are trying to show you how to be a better person.
0:54:32 > 0:54:38Now I can see I am, like, a daughter from hell. I WAS like such a cow.
0:54:38 > 0:54:40If you are going to succeed,
0:54:40 > 0:54:43you're going to have to push through what's uncomfortable.
0:54:43 > 0:54:45She is one of those people that didn't have a go at you,
0:54:45 > 0:54:48she just made you believe in yourself,
0:54:48 > 0:54:51and that's what you need. You don't need to be shouted at
0:54:51 > 0:54:53and told this is right and this is wrong,
0:54:53 > 0:54:55you need somebody to believe in you.
0:55:00 > 0:55:02Two and a half years down the line
0:55:02 > 0:55:04and are Chez and Bex still running away?
0:55:04 > 0:55:08I really did grow up, because I just realised what I wanted to do,
0:55:08 > 0:55:12I focused on it, I'm trying my hardest in everything.
0:55:12 > 0:55:15I've got a boyfriend so I'm not a slag any more.
0:55:15 > 0:55:17Yeah, you do just generally grow up
0:55:17 > 0:55:21and you realise the life that you was living you'd end up nowhere.
0:55:21 > 0:55:26- We were little shits, though, weren't we?- You was. - You was, as well!
0:55:28 > 0:55:31So that wraps it up for the top ten tantrums.
0:55:31 > 0:55:35But there's a brand-new series of the World's Strictest Parents
0:55:35 > 0:55:36coming your way.
0:55:39 > 0:55:44A dozen more rebellious teens drive their families to despair...
0:55:46 > 0:55:49Come and get me, I'm drinking underage.
0:55:49 > 0:55:53I don't really care what people think about me. Rules are made for breaking.
0:55:53 > 0:55:58..and a new batch of traditional parents volunteer to straighten them out...
0:55:58 > 0:56:03If I'm the head of the house, I expect them to obey these rules, whether we are right or not.
0:56:03 > 0:56:06..with mixed results.
0:56:06 > 0:56:09- Do you want a punch? Do you want a punch?- No, gosh!
0:56:09 > 0:56:12Get off me! Get off!
0:56:12 > 0:56:15Do me a favour and for once, put some effort into your life.
0:56:15 > 0:56:19Move out, move out, just move out!
0:56:19 > 0:56:23That's what I'm trying to do, walk away and she's following me.
0:56:23 > 0:56:25They can't programme me.
0:56:25 > 0:56:30If all the British teenagers were like them... No good.
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