0:00:03 > 0:00:06Could you convince your partner to put aside their doubts
0:00:06 > 0:00:09and risk everything to move abroad, especially
0:00:09 > 0:00:12if it meant giving up the life you love
0:00:12 > 0:00:14for a country you've never been to?
0:00:14 > 0:00:19In 2012 Harry Haroon took his wife and children to Australia to see
0:00:19 > 0:00:23if his dream of a new life down under could become a reality.
0:00:23 > 0:00:26One year on, where are the Haroon family now?
0:00:28 > 0:00:31Harry had always dreamt of a new life for his family
0:00:31 > 0:00:33but no-one shared his passion.
0:00:33 > 0:00:36It is you that wants to go, remember. It's not me.
0:00:36 > 0:00:39The reality of life down under came as a shock.
0:00:39 > 0:00:43I expected, maybe, too much from Australia.
0:00:43 > 0:00:46While the thought of leaving behind loved ones was almost
0:00:46 > 0:00:48too much to bear.
0:00:48 > 0:00:51I think family, kind of, belong to each other.
0:00:51 > 0:00:54One year on, has Harry's dream become a reality?
0:00:54 > 0:00:59I love work, family and I'm in a better place.
0:01:20 > 0:01:23Australia's been a magnet for Brits seeking sun
0:01:23 > 0:01:26and a better work-life balance for over 25 years.
0:01:26 > 0:01:29With latest migration figures showing that just over
0:01:29 > 0:01:33a quarter of all UK residents living abroad can be found there.
0:01:33 > 0:01:37But of the estimated 40,000 that make the move every year,
0:01:37 > 0:01:41around 11,000 return home with their dream shattered.
0:01:41 > 0:01:45In 2012, the Haroon family travelled to other side of the world to
0:01:45 > 0:01:48sample the Aussie lifestyle.
0:01:48 > 0:01:51Harry had just one week to convince his wife Nabeela that
0:01:51 > 0:01:55leaving behind her close-knit family in the UK was a sacrifice
0:01:55 > 0:01:58worth making, for a better quality of life.
0:01:58 > 0:02:01Today, we'll discover what happened next.
0:02:03 > 0:02:07The journey to Australia was a massive 25-hour flight that
0:02:07 > 0:02:10took the Haroons right to the other side of the world.
0:02:12 > 0:02:14The family had never visited Oz before
0:02:14 > 0:02:17but fortunately there was something familiar about Melbourne.
0:02:19 > 0:02:21I feels like home because of the rain
0:02:21 > 0:02:23and Manchester's always raining.
0:02:23 > 0:02:25I just feel like home.
0:02:25 > 0:02:28But rain or shine, Harry had just one week to
0:02:28 > 0:02:31convince his family their future lay in Australia.
0:02:32 > 0:02:36Back in the UK, the Haroons lived in Rochdale, near Manchester.
0:02:36 > 0:02:40Along with Harry and Nabeela were five-year-old Imani and Eliza,
0:02:40 > 0:02:42who was then nearly two.
0:02:44 > 0:02:47Harry worked as a police officer and loved his job.
0:02:47 > 0:02:51However, achieving success in his career had come at a high cost.
0:02:51 > 0:02:54I've been married eight years, erm,
0:02:54 > 0:02:59and most of them eight years I've spent working, constantly working.
0:02:59 > 0:03:02Missing out of seeing my daughter growing up.
0:03:02 > 0:03:05I've also missed out spending time with Nabeela
0:03:05 > 0:03:07and building a bond together.
0:03:07 > 0:03:10Desperate for change, Harry was convinced the life
0:03:10 > 0:03:12he wanted could only be found in Australia.
0:03:13 > 0:03:18I want my two daughters...to see and
0:03:18 > 0:03:21experience things that I never have.
0:03:21 > 0:03:25However, Nabeela didn't share Harry's aspirations.
0:03:25 > 0:03:29It was about five years ago when he did mention going to Australia
0:03:29 > 0:03:34and I thought it was just an absurd idea.
0:03:35 > 0:03:40But I don't agree with him. We've got everything here.
0:03:40 > 0:03:43Both Harry and Nabeela had large and close-knit families
0:03:43 > 0:03:47and moving to Australia would mean leaving them behind.
0:03:47 > 0:03:51It's massively important for me to have my mum around, erm,
0:03:51 > 0:03:54it's good for the kids but it's good for my mum as well.
0:03:54 > 0:03:57And, you know, we're very, very close.
0:03:57 > 0:04:01My childhood, I didn't have a father figure. My mum brought me up.
0:04:01 > 0:04:04Me and my mum are very close.
0:04:04 > 0:04:09My mum has made so many sacrifices for me and my sister...
0:04:12 > 0:04:17And I just hope she understands the sacrifices I'm making.
0:04:17 > 0:04:21Harry knew he still had a long way to go
0:04:21 > 0:04:23if he was to convince Nabeela to make the move.
0:04:23 > 0:04:28I want to go but I need your support.
0:04:28 > 0:04:32I don't want this all to be about, oh, it's me, you know,
0:04:32 > 0:04:35Harry's doing everything, he's the one who's ordering...I want...
0:04:35 > 0:04:40But it is you, it is you that wants to go, remember. It's not me.
0:04:40 > 0:04:44I'm happy to stay here in the UK. I think we've got everything...
0:04:44 > 0:04:46that we need here.
0:04:47 > 0:04:51So, yeah, it is you that wants to...that wants to go.
0:04:53 > 0:04:56Harry had just seven days to show Nabeela that Australia was
0:04:56 > 0:04:59worth giving up the life she knew and loved.
0:05:03 > 0:05:05The Haroons wanted to see
0:05:05 > 0:05:08if Melbourne could provide everything they needed.
0:05:08 > 0:05:10As a vibrant and multicultural city,
0:05:10 > 0:05:14it was well suited for a young family looking to start a new life.
0:05:15 > 0:05:18They spend their week in the Airport West suburb.
0:05:18 > 0:05:22Close to the centre of Melbourne, it should have been the ideal base.
0:05:22 > 0:05:26So, what did they make of their first taste of Australian living.
0:05:26 > 0:05:31- Isn't it strange not having a bedroom?- As soon as you walk in.
0:05:31 > 0:05:35- Yeah, I'm not...- Yeah. - I'm not used to that.
0:05:35 > 0:05:39I like this, I just don't understand now, is this the kitchen
0:05:39 > 0:05:41and the living room?
0:05:41 > 0:05:44Or is it the kitchen and the dining area
0:05:44 > 0:05:46and they've converted it into a living room?
0:05:46 > 0:05:48This is the living room, ain't it?
0:05:48 > 0:05:51- So, it's open plan. - Yeah, it's all open.
0:05:51 > 0:05:53So, I can basically be sat here watching the footy
0:05:53 > 0:05:55and then you can be making the food.
0:05:55 > 0:05:58Yeah...we'll see.
0:05:58 > 0:06:00Harry may have been teasing Nabeela
0:06:00 > 0:06:03but he knew how serious the next seven days would be.
0:06:03 > 0:06:06I think the realisation is hitting home that I'm here.
0:06:06 > 0:06:12I think Nabeela, if everything is not there, Nabeela will say,
0:06:12 > 0:06:15more than likely, she's not ready for the move.
0:06:16 > 0:06:20It's got to be something special, that we don't already have
0:06:20 > 0:06:25back home in the UK and, for me, that is the bottom line.
0:06:25 > 0:06:29It's got to be, it's got to work for the family.
0:06:33 > 0:06:37In the UK, the Haroons owned a four- bedroom detached house in Rochdale.
0:06:37 > 0:06:40They'd poured their hearts and souls into making it a home.
0:06:40 > 0:06:43So, an Australian property would have to be able to deliver
0:06:43 > 0:06:45just as much, if not more.
0:06:45 > 0:06:48We're looking for a very modern house,
0:06:48 > 0:06:50quite similar to this...spacious.
0:06:50 > 0:06:54We need to be able to accommodate the family when they come over.
0:06:54 > 0:06:57A big drive for me is the achievement that I've made,
0:06:57 > 0:06:59in the property that I own
0:06:59 > 0:07:03and maybe that's what I want as well in Australia.
0:07:03 > 0:07:06That something that I can say that I've achieved.
0:07:06 > 0:07:09We gave the Haroons a taste of Melbourne's property
0:07:09 > 0:07:12market by showing them three typical options,
0:07:12 > 0:07:15based upon what they wanted from an ideal Aussie home,
0:07:15 > 0:07:19what they could actually afford and something in between.
0:07:19 > 0:07:21Only when they had seen what each had to offer
0:07:21 > 0:07:23did they find out its cost.
0:07:23 > 0:07:25So, while a child minder took care of Eliza,
0:07:25 > 0:07:29the Haroons went off to explore Melbourne properties.
0:07:30 > 0:07:33The first stop was in Meadow Heights.
0:07:33 > 0:07:36Well situated for an easy commute to the city centre,
0:07:36 > 0:07:39it should have appealed to the Haroons.
0:07:39 > 0:07:42It's like a living room, dining area like ours.
0:07:42 > 0:07:44I'll just go into the kitchen.
0:07:44 > 0:07:47Is this supposed to be the kitchen?
0:07:47 > 0:07:48I don't know.
0:07:48 > 0:07:50This just can't just be it,
0:07:50 > 0:07:52it just doesn't feel big enough for a kitchen.
0:07:55 > 0:07:59- Suddenly the house didn't look quite so attractive.- OK, small.
0:07:59 > 0:08:02Again, kitchen small, bathroom small...
0:08:02 > 0:08:04- I'm not going to get upset.- OK.
0:08:06 > 0:08:09Is this the master?
0:08:09 > 0:08:11It wasn't going well for Aussie housing
0:08:11 > 0:08:14and the garden only made matters worse.
0:08:14 > 0:08:17- What's in front of you, the main road?- Yeah, the main road.
0:08:17 > 0:08:19- Now, for me, it's about I want the quiet life.- Yeah.
0:08:19 > 0:08:23It's not what I expected from a house in Australia.
0:08:23 > 0:08:26I don't know...I'm just getting a bit...
0:08:26 > 0:08:28HE SIGHS
0:08:28 > 0:08:30I don't know, it's just...
0:08:31 > 0:08:34I don't know, I don't know.
0:08:35 > 0:08:39The disappointment of the house really affected Harry.
0:08:42 > 0:08:43I don't know, I just...
0:08:43 > 0:08:47I expected, maybe, too much from Australia already.
0:09:02 > 0:09:06His reaction showed the sheer emotional investment Harry
0:09:06 > 0:09:09had put into the move and how much it meant to him.
0:09:09 > 0:09:13But if the house was within their £300,000, would it help him
0:09:13 > 0:09:15get over his disappointment?
0:09:18 > 0:09:20£205,000.
0:09:20 > 0:09:25That was £95,000 below budget but it wasn't enough.
0:09:25 > 0:09:31- I can get a really nice house in the UK for that price.- Yeah, I agree.
0:09:31 > 0:09:33I'll stick with where I am
0:09:33 > 0:09:35and that's what's quite disheartening now.
0:09:35 > 0:09:38It had been the worst possible start for Harry.
0:09:38 > 0:09:42After years of trying to persuade Nabeela on Australia,
0:09:42 > 0:09:44suddenly he was losing faith in his own dream.
0:09:46 > 0:09:48I feel let down.
0:09:48 > 0:09:52And I feel I've sold Nabeela a dream
0:09:52 > 0:09:55which is not a dream, erm,
0:09:55 > 0:09:57and therefore that's making me upset
0:09:57 > 0:10:01because I'm the one that's trying to drive this dream forward.
0:10:01 > 0:10:04Harry and Nabeela had dropped Imani off with Eliza
0:10:04 > 0:10:08and the childminder before moving on to the second property.
0:10:08 > 0:10:12It was in Roxburgh Park, a newer area developed for family living.
0:10:12 > 0:10:15A larger four-bedroom house with a contemporary style
0:10:15 > 0:10:16but did it make up for the
0:10:16 > 0:10:19disappointment of the first property?
0:10:20 > 0:10:24- Oh! Nice.- I think this looks all right.- Yeah.
0:10:25 > 0:10:28- Master bedroom, is it?- Small room, it's like ours.- Yeah.
0:10:28 > 0:10:31So, yeah, I like this. It's OK.
0:10:31 > 0:10:33Well, things were certainly looking up.
0:10:33 > 0:10:37Nabeela was warming to this house and Harry was back on form.
0:10:37 > 0:10:39That's nice, isn't it?
0:10:39 > 0:10:41- You're not having one.- Yeah, it's nice.- Not having one.
0:10:43 > 0:10:47Oh, nice! Nice, nice...
0:10:47 > 0:10:51- It's better.- Yeah. - It's better.- Yeah.
0:10:51 > 0:10:52This kitchen is big enough, isn't it?
0:10:52 > 0:10:55Yeah, it's big enough for people to even, you know,
0:10:55 > 0:10:57gather around and have a chitchat and you know...
0:10:57 > 0:10:58It's better.
0:10:58 > 0:11:00This has got the wow factor, hasn't it?
0:11:00 > 0:11:02I can easily picture myself in this property.
0:11:02 > 0:11:05- And the kitchen...it's not that far.- Yeah.
0:11:05 > 0:11:08But you can have a chat with someone while they're cooking.
0:11:08 > 0:11:11So, if I was in the kitchen and we had guests round, or something,
0:11:11 > 0:11:12we could have a chat.
0:11:12 > 0:11:16The Haroons seemed happier but was the house affordable?
0:11:16 > 0:11:18Everything was hanging on the price.
0:11:23 > 0:11:26Last time I made you do it. This time I'm a bit more confident.
0:11:26 > 0:11:28OK, go for it.
0:11:29 > 0:11:33The house might have been well within their £300,000 budget
0:11:33 > 0:11:36but Harry still wasn't satisfied.
0:11:36 > 0:11:40Everything I've seen, I'd be content and happy living here
0:11:40 > 0:11:43but I want something even better.
0:11:45 > 0:11:48After years of wanting to move to Australia, it was understandable
0:11:48 > 0:11:52Harry didn't want to settle for a house they only just liked.
0:11:52 > 0:11:56But now everything stood or fell on the last property.
0:11:57 > 0:12:00It was also in the Roxburgh Park area.
0:12:00 > 0:12:03This modern-style house was bigger than the last one
0:12:03 > 0:12:06and set in a more scenic location.
0:12:12 > 0:12:17- It's massive!- Yeah.- Absolutely massive.- It is so big, isn't it?
0:12:17 > 0:12:22It's got the wow factor, I think. It's what we wanted.
0:12:22 > 0:12:26- I've definitely come around to the concept of open plan.- Yeah.
0:12:26 > 0:12:31At last, the Haroons had found a house that exited both of them.
0:12:31 > 0:12:35- Oh, wow!- It's massive. Forget master, it's massive!
0:12:35 > 0:12:38Massive master bedroom.!
0:12:38 > 0:12:41It's so spacious, isn't it?
0:12:41 > 0:12:42Come in here.
0:12:42 > 0:12:44SHE GASPS
0:12:44 > 0:12:47Wow! Wow, wow, wow!
0:12:48 > 0:12:51And the garden was the final piece in Harry's
0:12:51 > 0:12:53vision of life down under.
0:12:53 > 0:12:56This is what I expected from a house in Australia,
0:12:56 > 0:12:59that you have a big, massive house,
0:12:59 > 0:13:02a porch area where you serve...
0:13:02 > 0:13:05Even if it starts raining, I think it'll be OK, won't I?
0:13:05 > 0:13:07I doesn't rain in Melbourne.
0:13:07 > 0:13:10It does, it rained on the first day we got here, Harry.
0:13:11 > 0:13:13It was a house they loved
0:13:13 > 0:13:17but there was one aspect Harry just couldn't bear to face.
0:13:18 > 0:13:20- I'm not going to even look at it.- OK.
0:13:23 > 0:13:25I'm not looking at it.
0:13:25 > 0:13:27- I want you to look at it. - I don't want to look at it.
0:13:27 > 0:13:29I just want you to be happy.
0:13:29 > 0:13:32- Are you going to look at it now?- No.
0:13:32 > 0:13:35- No! - SHE LAUGHS
0:13:38 > 0:13:39- No!- Yeah.
0:13:43 > 0:13:45Can you believe that?
0:13:47 > 0:13:48Oh, my gosh!
0:13:48 > 0:13:50I think I need to sit down.
0:13:53 > 0:13:56With this house bang on their £300,000 budget,
0:13:56 > 0:14:00it looked like the Haroons might have found the perfect home.
0:14:00 > 0:14:03The first house left Harry in a terrible state
0:14:03 > 0:14:05and questioning his dream.
0:14:05 > 0:14:06The second gave them
0:14:06 > 0:14:09hope that a home they liked could be within reach.
0:14:09 > 0:14:13And the third property had the space and style to wow them both.
0:14:13 > 0:14:16But after a day of raw emotions,
0:14:16 > 0:14:19had anyone been convinced by Australian houses?
0:14:20 > 0:14:23Based on our experiences of Australian properties,
0:14:23 > 0:14:25we're voting for...
0:14:29 > 0:14:32TOGETHER: Australia!
0:14:32 > 0:14:34Let's have a look.
0:14:34 > 0:14:35Yes!
0:14:35 > 0:14:37Australia!
0:14:37 > 0:14:41- I've got to be honest, before this house I was undecided.- Yeah.
0:14:41 > 0:14:46And now, finding the house for me, Australia! You?
0:14:46 > 0:14:48It's that final house that did it.
0:14:48 > 0:14:51If we hadn't been shown that final house, yeah...
0:14:58 > 0:15:01In the UK, Harry was a policeman.
0:15:01 > 0:15:05It's a career he loved and wanted to continue down under.
0:15:05 > 0:15:08In Australia, there are two types of police force,
0:15:08 > 0:15:10state police for each region
0:15:10 > 0:15:13and Federal Police, covering the whole of the country.
0:15:13 > 0:15:16Harry desperately wanted to join the Federal Police,
0:15:16 > 0:15:20but, as a new citizen, he'd have to spend a year working for the
0:15:20 > 0:15:24state police, before he'd be able to apply for jobs as a federal officer.
0:15:26 > 0:15:28We arranged for him to spend the morning
0:15:28 > 0:15:30with Federal Agent Aaron Thompson,
0:15:30 > 0:15:34who started off by showing Harry around the Melbourne headquarters.
0:15:34 > 0:15:36So, this is just an outdoor area
0:15:36 > 0:15:39- we can use for fitness training. - Wow!
0:15:39 > 0:15:41It sort of shows you again what a great position
0:15:41 > 0:15:42we are in Melbourne.
0:15:42 > 0:15:44- In the heart. - In the heart of the city.
0:15:46 > 0:15:50Across town, Nabeela was on her own fact-finding mission.
0:15:50 > 0:15:53She was worried that leaving her life in the UK would mean
0:15:53 > 0:15:55losing contact with her Muslim roots.
0:15:55 > 0:15:58So she spent the day exploring Melbourne with
0:15:58 > 0:16:02Tanya Kubitza, who had moved there from Germany six years ago.
0:16:02 > 0:16:06You find very mixed ethnicities here. It's great.
0:16:06 > 0:16:07I love it. It's a nice place.
0:16:07 > 0:16:11You've got a good selection of...
0:16:11 > 0:16:14Yes, lots of places to stop by with the kids.
0:16:14 > 0:16:17You don't have to worry about finding halal food.
0:16:17 > 0:16:19Party wear and Asian weddings.
0:16:19 > 0:16:22Yeah, as well, the CBD has got lots as well.
0:16:22 > 0:16:23The city road is great.
0:16:23 > 0:16:27Back at the station, Harry was keen to learn if
0:16:27 > 0:16:31Australian police life would give him everything he was looking for.
0:16:31 > 0:16:33For me, the most important thing is
0:16:33 > 0:16:36trying to find that work-life balance.
0:16:36 > 0:16:39Generally speaking, the AFP operates for the core business hours
0:16:39 > 0:16:42of eight till four every day and I've certainly have
0:16:42 > 0:16:44no complaints from my family about being away too much.
0:16:44 > 0:16:47I think they understand that it's an important job that we do,
0:16:47 > 0:16:51but at the same token, 90% of the time, I'm home on time.
0:16:51 > 0:16:55Harry looked happy with those hours, but what about the pay?
0:16:55 > 0:16:59As a probationary constable, straight out of the police academy,
0:16:59 > 0:17:03you'd be looking in the vicinity of about 65,000 Australian a year.
0:17:03 > 0:17:07And that obviously progresses. Each year, you get a raise.
0:17:07 > 0:17:13And promotions would increase that even higher later on in your career.
0:17:13 > 0:17:16That starting salary was nearly
0:17:16 > 0:17:19£10,000 more than Harry earned in the UK.
0:17:19 > 0:17:23But Nabeela was still addressing her biggest concerns.
0:17:23 > 0:17:29I believe that... I feel that we've got everything back home in England.
0:17:29 > 0:17:31We've got our family, our friends.
0:17:31 > 0:17:33I understand where you're coming from,
0:17:33 > 0:17:35because I had to go through the same.
0:17:35 > 0:17:38I was very fortunate to meet really lovely people here
0:17:38 > 0:17:40right from the beginning.
0:17:40 > 0:17:43- So that helped me a lot.- Right.
0:17:43 > 0:17:47What's it like for you living in Melbourne as a Muslim woman?
0:17:47 > 0:17:50Actually, I find it much easier. The community is very diverse.
0:17:50 > 0:17:53- And you think the kids would fit in, as well?- Oh, yes.
0:17:53 > 0:17:57They are so gorgeous. I think they'll make friends really quickly.
0:17:57 > 0:18:00With her reassuring words in mind,
0:18:00 > 0:18:02Nabeela headed across town to see
0:18:02 > 0:18:06how Harry had got on and, after a day filled with good news,
0:18:06 > 0:18:09was there ever any doubt which way Harry would vote?
0:18:09 > 0:18:12Based on my job experience in Australia today, I'm voting for...
0:18:17 > 0:18:18UK!
0:18:20 > 0:18:23No, it's Australia! I wanted to see your reaction.
0:18:23 > 0:18:26It's Australia. Were you surprised?
0:18:26 > 0:18:28- No.- See?- No.
0:18:28 > 0:18:31Am I predictable?
0:18:31 > 0:18:32Yes.
0:18:32 > 0:18:34It's Australia.
0:18:38 > 0:18:41To see if they could afford a life in Australia,
0:18:41 > 0:18:45the Haroons needed to take a closer look at their finances.
0:18:45 > 0:18:47To help them, we drew up comparisons
0:18:47 > 0:18:50of their living costs in the UK and in Australia.
0:18:51 > 0:18:55- It's £10 more, just for cucumbers.- Yeah.
0:18:55 > 0:18:58Australia is renowned for its high food prices,
0:18:58 > 0:19:01but what about the rest of the family outgoings?
0:19:01 > 0:19:02Oh, my God.
0:19:02 > 0:19:05It's actually less than the UK.
0:19:05 > 0:19:10Why would the cost of living be cheaper here than in the UK?
0:19:10 > 0:19:12Here, in Australia,
0:19:12 > 0:19:15I don't have to put into the pension fund,
0:19:15 > 0:19:18because the police pay into the pension for me.
0:19:18 > 0:19:22However, without family to help with childcare in Australia,
0:19:22 > 0:19:25Nabeela would give up her job in administration
0:19:25 > 0:19:28and stay at home until the children settled into their new life.
0:19:28 > 0:19:32In the UK, we'd have £8,400 left over.
0:19:32 > 0:19:35In Australia, we've got less.
0:19:35 > 0:19:39We're £3,500 worse off a year.
0:19:40 > 0:19:42- In Australia?- In Australia.
0:19:42 > 0:19:46Lower living costs, but also a lower income.
0:19:46 > 0:19:50So did their calculations sell them on life down under?
0:19:50 > 0:19:54Based on the reality check, we are voting for...
0:19:59 > 0:20:01- Australia!- Undecided.
0:20:03 > 0:20:07- Why?- Because, we're still better off in the UK.
0:20:07 > 0:20:10No, the figures don't say that.
0:20:11 > 0:20:14- They don't. - What do the figures say, then?
0:20:14 > 0:20:17The difference, you haven't worked that whole year.
0:20:17 > 0:20:21So, for one year and £3,500 difference,
0:20:21 > 0:20:24I think the figures show we're better off in Australia.
0:20:24 > 0:20:27Well, that's why I'm undecided.
0:20:27 > 0:20:29I still don't get it.
0:20:29 > 0:20:33- Don't argue with me. That's my choice.- OK, that's your choice.
0:20:33 > 0:20:35- I'm Australia.- I'm undecided.
0:20:39 > 0:20:42Back in the UK, shift patterns and long working hours
0:20:42 > 0:20:45meant Harry missed out on time with his family.
0:20:45 > 0:20:50He hoped emigrating down under would offer the lifestyle he craved.
0:20:50 > 0:20:55I think, going to Australia is all about family
0:20:55 > 0:20:58and spending time with my daughters.
0:20:58 > 0:21:04It's about actually, when we are together, doing something together.
0:21:04 > 0:21:06When he's there, he's really good with them.
0:21:06 > 0:21:10He does spend quality time with them when he gets that opportunity.
0:21:12 > 0:21:17But, yeah, to be able to do this more often, it would be nice.
0:21:17 > 0:21:21So, in their trial week, the Haroons joined an activity group
0:21:21 > 0:21:26for young families to sample outdoor living Melbourne style.
0:21:26 > 0:21:30- ALL:- One, two, three!
0:21:32 > 0:21:36I'm not sure who was enjoying it more, Harry or the children.
0:21:36 > 0:21:39And, once the fun slowed down,
0:21:39 > 0:21:43there was a chance to speak to other expats who'd also made the move.
0:21:43 > 0:21:45What's it like raising children in Melbourne?
0:21:45 > 0:21:49I think it's really good, actually, because there's lots of sport.
0:21:49 > 0:21:53I think sport's a really big thing here for children, in particular.
0:21:53 > 0:21:56I found that, if I met some mums, you chat a bit,
0:21:56 > 0:21:59and if you went back the next week, they knew you by name.
0:21:59 > 0:22:02They knew a lot about you, they remember things about you.
0:22:02 > 0:22:04And then you just sort of make friends like that.
0:22:04 > 0:22:07Australians are very friendly people.
0:22:07 > 0:22:11It certainly seems like Harry had heard just what he wanted to hear.
0:22:11 > 0:22:15Then, the Haroons were off for a whole new experience.
0:22:16 > 0:22:20- I think this is the first time she's seen sand.- Yeah.
0:22:20 > 0:22:22It's the first time we've ever had a picnic on a beach, isn't it?
0:22:22 > 0:22:27Yeah, but this... You don't throw the sand on the food!
0:22:27 > 0:22:30This is what I wanted, honestly.
0:22:30 > 0:22:32This is what I always thought Australia was all about.
0:22:32 > 0:22:37The sun, the sand and the peace and quiet.
0:22:37 > 0:22:38It's nice.
0:22:38 > 0:22:41It was exactly the kind of lifestyle that had motivated
0:22:41 > 0:22:43Harry's desire to emigrate.
0:22:43 > 0:22:47However, it didn't seem to have had the same effect on Nabeela.
0:22:47 > 0:22:50What is stopping us doing this back home?
0:22:50 > 0:22:55Why do you have to come to the other side of the world
0:22:55 > 0:22:59to appreciate a beach, a picnic on the beach?
0:22:59 > 0:23:02No, we don't have to move to the other side of the world.
0:23:02 > 0:23:04But that's what you're asking us to do, aren't you?
0:23:04 > 0:23:06I'm not. I'm just saying...
0:23:06 > 0:23:09The experience that we're getting here
0:23:09 > 0:23:12is a brilliant experience
0:23:12 > 0:23:17and maybe, yes, we could have this closer to home,
0:23:17 > 0:23:22but overall, I think this is a picture-perfect situation.
0:23:22 > 0:23:28What you don't get here is to get grandparents to come along,
0:23:28 > 0:23:30Imani's cousins, Imani's grandma
0:23:30 > 0:23:33to come along and have a picnic with us.
0:23:35 > 0:23:37Can you see it from that point of view?
0:23:40 > 0:23:42It didn't look like Harry and Nabeela
0:23:42 > 0:23:44were seeing eye to eye on this.
0:23:44 > 0:23:48So, when it came to the vote, what was the impact on Harry's dream?
0:23:52 > 0:23:54- Australia!- Undecided.
0:23:56 > 0:23:58Mine's Australia. Why are you undecided?
0:23:58 > 0:24:01We can do this back in England
0:24:01 > 0:24:04- if the weather permits. - You can't do this,
0:24:04 > 0:24:08- what we've got here, in the UK. - You can.
0:24:08 > 0:24:11And there's no way I can change our mind?
0:24:11 > 0:24:12For now, it's undecided.
0:24:16 > 0:24:18Before making their final decision
0:24:18 > 0:24:21and with the girls looked after by a childminder, Harry and Nabeela
0:24:21 > 0:24:27sat down to watch a DVD of messages from friends and family back home.
0:24:27 > 0:24:29- OK, are you ready for this?- No.
0:24:29 > 0:24:32Would this be the deciding factor?
0:24:33 > 0:24:37It's hard to describe Harry.
0:24:37 > 0:24:40He's quite a force.
0:24:41 > 0:24:43He's got a massive heart. It's this big.
0:24:43 > 0:24:44HARRY LAUGHS
0:24:46 > 0:24:49Harry's a very close-knit family person.
0:24:49 > 0:24:50He's obviously grown up with
0:24:50 > 0:24:54just a sister and his mum.
0:24:54 > 0:24:56He's the only brother I've got.
0:24:56 > 0:24:58And he's my brother,
0:24:58 > 0:24:59my sister, everything.
0:25:02 > 0:25:06He's loving, he's caring and my sister-in-law is just the same
0:25:06 > 0:25:11and the two princesses, the two girls are just everything to me.
0:25:15 > 0:25:18It's quite difficult to imagine that they are going to
0:25:18 > 0:25:20be going just so far away.
0:25:23 > 0:25:27I think family kind of belong to each other.
0:25:27 > 0:25:29That's what family is.
0:25:29 > 0:25:32You know, I can't imagine him
0:25:32 > 0:25:35not being here for Christmas or for Eid
0:25:35 > 0:25:38or for one of the birthdays.
0:25:38 > 0:25:39And watching the kids grow up.
0:25:39 > 0:25:42It's not all about Harry. It's not all about Nabeela.
0:25:42 > 0:25:45It's really about being part of their family life.
0:25:47 > 0:25:50We're expecting our second child,
0:25:50 > 0:25:53so I think Harry not being here
0:25:53 > 0:25:56is going to be a bit upsetting,
0:25:56 > 0:26:00because then he won't be able to see the baby grow up and...
0:26:05 > 0:26:07I'll be honest with you, Harry.
0:26:07 > 0:26:11A routine will happen inevitably where, you know,
0:26:11 > 0:26:14we just get used to not speaking to you,
0:26:14 > 0:26:17and I don't want to accept that, but that's what will happen.
0:26:19 > 0:26:21No, I don't want him to go.
0:26:23 > 0:26:25I think he knows that we're going to miss them.
0:26:25 > 0:26:28It goes almost without saying. But...
0:26:31 > 0:26:34..he might be surprised just how much it affects us
0:26:34 > 0:26:36if we think about it.
0:26:39 > 0:26:42We need you as much as you probably need us
0:26:42 > 0:26:45and without you guys here,
0:26:45 > 0:26:49there's a part of us that going to be really lost.
0:26:49 > 0:26:51You know that I love you so much, you're my little sister
0:26:51 > 0:26:54and everything and Eliza and Imani,
0:26:54 > 0:26:56you know how much I adore them.
0:26:57 > 0:27:00I know you want the best for the girls,
0:27:00 > 0:27:02but, at the same time,
0:27:02 > 0:27:04I hope you can think about us too,
0:27:04 > 0:27:06that we will miss you a lot.
0:27:08 > 0:27:10I will really, really miss you,
0:27:10 > 0:27:12because you're a very special brother.
0:27:15 > 0:27:17I don't know.
0:27:17 > 0:27:21These are the family that our kids will lose touch with.
0:27:21 > 0:27:26I know moving here is the right thing to do for me...
0:27:26 > 0:27:28You don't know that, Harry.
0:27:28 > 0:27:31There's no way you could know that.
0:27:31 > 0:27:34You think, you hope,
0:27:34 > 0:27:36it would be the right thing to do.
0:27:38 > 0:27:41I'm just looking at Imani
0:27:41 > 0:27:45and just thinking, "What am I taking...?"
0:27:46 > 0:27:50Away from her is grandparents,
0:27:50 > 0:27:52aunties, uncles, cousins.
0:27:54 > 0:27:57Hearing messages from loved ones is never easy,
0:27:57 > 0:28:00but Harry took it especially hard.
0:28:00 > 0:28:03So, after an emotional week,
0:28:03 > 0:28:05did Harry and Nabeela choose to
0:28:05 > 0:28:08spend their future in Australia or back home?
0:28:08 > 0:28:12'I've built Australia up to be this dream that I've got.'
0:28:13 > 0:28:16Once I get my heart set on something,
0:28:16 > 0:28:18I try to achieve that goal.
0:28:18 > 0:28:20And maybe sometimes I need to...
0:28:22 > 0:28:27..not have tunnel vision, but look at the bigger picture.
0:28:27 > 0:28:29And that, if I'm being honest,
0:28:29 > 0:28:32I've not done on previous occasions.
0:28:32 > 0:28:37I think, if they had said, "Go,"
0:28:37 > 0:28:39it would have been easier.
0:28:39 > 0:28:43But it's the fact that they weren't saying that.
0:28:45 > 0:28:49The fear that I have is my dream to live in Australia,
0:28:49 > 0:28:52my dream for a better life for my children,
0:28:52 > 0:28:57could drag me apart from my family that I love back at home.
0:28:57 > 0:28:59There's a possibility that we could vote the same or
0:28:59 > 0:29:01we could vote differently.
0:29:03 > 0:29:07I'm not really sure where we'd go from there.
0:29:15 > 0:29:17We've had an amazing time here in Australia this week.
0:29:17 > 0:29:20Based on our experiences, the country that
0:29:20 > 0:29:21we're going to live in is...
0:29:29 > 0:29:30- Australia!- UK!
0:29:32 > 0:29:34- What did you vote?- UK.
0:29:34 > 0:29:39It's made me realise how much we have back home
0:29:39 > 0:29:42that we don't appreciate.
0:29:42 > 0:29:44I've always said I want this
0:29:44 > 0:29:48because of what's best for the family.
0:29:48 > 0:29:50And the last thing I want
0:29:50 > 0:29:54is me forcing something on you that you are not happy with.
0:29:54 > 0:29:56I just want you to open your heart,
0:29:56 > 0:29:59open your mind to the possibility
0:29:59 > 0:30:02of what this wonderful place
0:30:02 > 0:30:05could be to you, me and our two daughters.
0:30:13 > 0:30:17'A few weeks after they returned to the UK in 2012,
0:30:17 > 0:30:18'I went to see how the family
0:30:18 > 0:30:20'were getting on.'
0:30:22 > 0:30:25Well, last time we saw you, it was a 50-50 split vote, wasn't it?
0:30:25 > 0:30:28Harry, surprise surprise, loved Australia and Australia
0:30:28 > 0:30:30- was where you wanted to go. - Unbelievable.
0:30:30 > 0:30:33- Nabeela, you voted for the UK, didn't you?- Yes, I did.
0:30:33 > 0:30:38I started imagining us living there, whilst we were out there.
0:30:38 > 0:30:43And then it made me realise how much family meant to me
0:30:43 > 0:30:44when they weren't there.
0:30:44 > 0:30:49So I just felt it wasn't the right time for us to go.
0:30:49 > 0:30:52I have realised that.
0:30:52 > 0:30:54If I take anything back,
0:30:54 > 0:30:57it's family and friends and what they mean.
0:30:57 > 0:31:00OK. So, if you've got to make a decision -
0:31:00 > 0:31:03Australia, new life,
0:31:03 > 0:31:05or being with all your loved ones?
0:31:05 > 0:31:08Loved ones. Whatever happens.
0:31:08 > 0:31:11At this present time, UK,
0:31:11 > 0:31:14but for the future, it's sort of undecided.
0:31:14 > 0:31:17So, it's not UK forever.
0:31:17 > 0:31:19So that flag's slightly moving!
0:31:19 > 0:31:21And that's more than enough.
0:31:21 > 0:31:23Well, we wish you all the very best of luck,
0:31:23 > 0:31:26wherever it is, be the UK or Australia.
0:31:30 > 0:31:34Last time we caught up with the Haroons, Harry had agreed
0:31:34 > 0:31:36family should always come first.
0:31:36 > 0:31:39But his dream was still there.
0:31:39 > 0:31:43And even Nabeela admitted a move down under could still be possible.
0:31:43 > 0:31:45So, where are they now?
0:31:47 > 0:31:50One year on, the Haroons are currently living in...
0:31:54 > 0:31:55the UK.
0:31:55 > 0:31:59But, despite not finding themselves on Australian soil,
0:31:59 > 0:32:01it's been a momentous year for the family
0:32:01 > 0:32:04and it was Australia that started it all.
0:32:04 > 0:32:09The whole experience was life-changing.
0:32:09 > 0:32:13For Harry, Australia had been everything he'd dreamed of and more.
0:32:13 > 0:32:16I've never been before, so I didn't know what to expect.
0:32:16 > 0:32:20Maybe I expected a lot, but if I did, it achieved everything.
0:32:20 > 0:32:23My experience in Australia,
0:32:23 > 0:32:26I think it was above and beyond what my expectations were.
0:32:26 > 0:32:27Absolutely loved it.
0:32:27 > 0:32:30And Nabeela was surprised by how much
0:32:30 > 0:32:32she enjoyed the country.
0:32:32 > 0:32:35I mean, that week, it was brilliant.
0:32:35 > 0:32:40Every day brought something different and, as the week progressed,
0:32:40 > 0:32:43I started enjoying it more and more.
0:32:43 > 0:32:46And I could picture myself living there.
0:32:46 > 0:32:49But, despite the golden sands and beautiful weather Australia
0:32:49 > 0:32:51could offer them, there was something
0:32:51 > 0:32:53Nabeela just couldn't ignore.
0:32:53 > 0:32:57I just thought, "I can't do this. Not at this present time.
0:32:57 > 0:33:02"I can't make this decision, because I'm leaving too much behind."
0:33:03 > 0:33:07So I just thought at the time it wasn't the right decision.
0:33:07 > 0:33:11I think I was expecting her to vote the UK.
0:33:11 > 0:33:15I always knew that her heart wasn't in it.
0:33:15 > 0:33:18I think she was... I think it was my dream.
0:33:18 > 0:33:23I think she was happy with life here, surrounded by family.
0:33:23 > 0:33:27I remember being on the beach with Harry and he said,
0:33:27 > 0:33:30"Oh, look, look at the view!"
0:33:30 > 0:33:34- Peace and quiet.- "This is tranquil. Look at the view.
0:33:34 > 0:33:37"And we're on the beach, on the other side of the world."
0:33:37 > 0:33:38And I think I struck a chord with him
0:33:38 > 0:33:40when I said something along the lines of,
0:33:40 > 0:33:43"Well, we don't have to move to the other side of the world
0:33:43 > 0:33:45"to appreciate a beach."
0:33:45 > 0:33:47Them words were quite strong
0:33:47 > 0:33:51and they had an impact on my way of thinking
0:33:51 > 0:33:56and I think that was a key moment where I had to say,
0:33:56 > 0:33:58"Actually, yeah, you've got a point, Nabeela.
0:33:58 > 0:34:01"I don't need to send all of us to the
0:34:01 > 0:34:03"other side of the world to spend quality time together."
0:34:03 > 0:34:07Nabeela's perspective had a huge impact on Harry
0:34:07 > 0:34:10but giving up his dream wouldn't be easy.
0:34:10 > 0:34:15When I came back, for the first week, I was upset.
0:34:15 > 0:34:19I was in tears, very emotional.
0:34:19 > 0:34:23I was emotional when I was listening to messages, watching houses,
0:34:23 > 0:34:26but all of them made me a stronger person.
0:34:26 > 0:34:34Coming back, I think maybe it was a realisation of that dream fading
0:34:34 > 0:34:36and that's what hit home.
0:34:36 > 0:34:39Harry sort of saw it from my point of view,
0:34:39 > 0:34:40it explained it to him,
0:34:40 > 0:34:42and he completely understood
0:34:42 > 0:34:46and we went under the agreement that we don't have to go to the
0:34:46 > 0:34:50other side of the world to spend quality time with the family
0:34:50 > 0:34:55and so we came to that decision together, it was a joint decision.
0:34:55 > 0:34:57And coming to this conclusion brought Harry
0:34:57 > 0:34:59and Nabeela closer together.
0:34:59 > 0:35:02I always wanted to go to Australia, she didn't,
0:35:02 > 0:35:05and I think that drove us apart.
0:35:05 > 0:35:08Now, that we've experienced it together
0:35:08 > 0:35:13and we've made a decision together, we're doing things together.
0:35:13 > 0:35:16Whereas it was just me, me, me,
0:35:16 > 0:35:20now, everything that we've done after Australia has been decisions
0:35:20 > 0:35:24to go out and spend time, it's all as a family and being together,
0:35:24 > 0:35:27therefore me and Nabeela are now closer together as well.
0:35:27 > 0:35:31Before we went to Australia, we used to have a lot of arguments where
0:35:31 > 0:35:36Harry was pushing to go and I was really sort of, you know,
0:35:36 > 0:35:38I'd become really defensive and say,
0:35:38 > 0:35:43"Look, I don't want us to go" but now, I think it's made us
0:35:43 > 0:35:45stronger after going there
0:35:45 > 0:35:50and coming to the agreement that we should just wait and see.
0:35:50 > 0:35:51Despite this, for Harry,
0:35:51 > 0:35:54it was still hard to forget about his Australian dream.
0:35:54 > 0:35:58That is until he got caught up in a fever that was sweeping the nation.
0:35:58 > 0:36:00This is my Olympic torch.
0:36:03 > 0:36:07I carried this, I still remember the date, 24th of June, 2012,
0:36:07 > 0:36:09in Skipton Town Centre.
0:36:13 > 0:36:17So, I had the best 2012, I think.
0:36:18 > 0:36:23The whole of that year changed my life for the better.
0:36:23 > 0:36:29Being able to finally go and visit my dream country, Australia,
0:36:29 > 0:36:33and then be part of history in carrying the Olympic torch
0:36:33 > 0:36:35and being part of history.
0:36:35 > 0:36:37It was an amazing year
0:36:37 > 0:36:41and something that I will cherish for the rest of my life.
0:36:41 > 0:36:45To see Harry carrying the Olympic torch was a very proud moment, both
0:36:45 > 0:36:49for myself and for my two daughters. They were both very, very proud.
0:36:49 > 0:36:53Proud of their dad, yeah, and so was I.
0:36:53 > 0:36:55It was a really proud moment for us all.
0:36:55 > 0:36:59Harry's Olympic experience has made him realise just how much
0:36:59 > 0:37:03he's valued by his community and, more importantly, his family.
0:37:03 > 0:37:08It actually made me realise that on a momentous day that I carried it,
0:37:08 > 0:37:14my immediate family were there and they were proud.
0:37:14 > 0:37:18And when my daughter said, "Daddy, I'm proud of you",
0:37:18 > 0:37:23it actually made me realise that I don't need to go to Australia
0:37:23 > 0:37:27to better myself for the family to be proud of me.
0:37:29 > 0:37:32And his friends are seeing the difference too.
0:37:32 > 0:37:34Harry, since he came back from Australia,
0:37:34 > 0:37:36he has become more family-orientated and,
0:37:36 > 0:37:39most importantly, he's going around taking ownership
0:37:39 > 0:37:40and getting his friends together more often.
0:37:40 > 0:37:42Saying, "We've got to meet up."
0:37:42 > 0:37:44We have our busy lives, professional lives,
0:37:44 > 0:37:47but he still makes sure that we all get together and look,
0:37:47 > 0:37:50today as well, another opportunity - we're all together.
0:37:50 > 0:37:56My whole experience of Australia has made me realise what family meant.
0:37:56 > 0:37:59I never knew that I had...
0:37:59 > 0:38:02Well, that I was regarded in high esteem with them.
0:38:02 > 0:38:06'It was like I never knew I meant that much to them
0:38:06 > 0:38:10'and that really, really hit home.
0:38:10 > 0:38:14'For me, I was worrying about what people thought of me
0:38:14 > 0:38:22'and to then watch people say how much I mean to them, it was just...
0:38:22 > 0:38:24'That was surreal cos I never thought that way,'
0:38:24 > 0:38:29I never knew I had that impact on people's lives.
0:38:29 > 0:38:32Harry's home life had suffered due to long working hours,
0:38:32 > 0:38:35an issue he'd been keen to address in Oz.
0:38:35 > 0:38:37However, the last year has shown him
0:38:37 > 0:38:41he doesn't need to move thousands of miles away to achieve his goal.
0:38:41 > 0:38:43In the last year, work has changed completely.
0:38:43 > 0:38:47I've moved so whereas before I'd be working shifts, night shifts,
0:38:47 > 0:38:52responding to 999 calls or emergency calls,
0:38:52 > 0:38:55I'm now working as a neighbourhood beat officer.
0:39:00 > 0:39:07Since then, he's been less stressed about work and he tends to,
0:39:07 > 0:39:12more often than not, come home on time and he just seems happier
0:39:12 > 0:39:15and I think, maybe on one or two occasions,
0:39:15 > 0:39:20he has turned overtime down which I was quite proud of him, actually.
0:39:20 > 0:39:21So, yeah, it's all good.
0:39:21 > 0:39:26And Harry's work is giving him a whole new perspective.
0:39:26 > 0:39:28Working as a, like the good old days,
0:39:28 > 0:39:31bobby-on-the-beat or what we call now a neighbourhood beat officer,
0:39:31 > 0:39:34I deal with a lot of families and that's made me realise
0:39:34 > 0:39:38that family is really important so I think I've got now
0:39:38 > 0:39:41the understanding of what a work-life balance is,
0:39:41 > 0:39:45making sure, yes, I'm at work helping people but at the same
0:39:45 > 0:39:49time, making sure that I'm at home helping my own family.
0:39:53 > 0:39:58More regular hours means more quality time with Imani and Eliza.
0:39:58 > 0:40:01Oh, great catch, Imani. Caught up in the air.
0:40:02 > 0:40:05Oh, great catch.
0:40:05 > 0:40:11Bottom line is they want their dad around and that's what
0:40:11 > 0:40:13I need to give them - daddy time.
0:40:16 > 0:40:19It might not have seemed like it at the time but Nabeela's final
0:40:19 > 0:40:23turn of the card in Australia has had an upside for everyone.
0:40:23 > 0:40:27Nabeela, since she's returned to the UK, I think has improved
0:40:27 > 0:40:31and made our family life a lot better.
0:40:31 > 0:40:35I think Harry has definitely taken on board that you do not have to
0:40:35 > 0:40:40go to the other side of the world to spend quality time as a family.
0:40:40 > 0:40:45I think that has been the big change for us.
0:40:45 > 0:40:47We're spending more time as a family now
0:40:47 > 0:40:52and it's the little things that make a big difference.
0:40:52 > 0:40:56And that's meant a difference in how Harry sees the UK.
0:40:56 > 0:40:59Because of that realisation that work can be brilliant
0:40:59 > 0:41:05and the realisation of family and how important they are,
0:41:05 > 0:41:08the two things that were taking me
0:41:08 > 0:41:12away have made realise, actually, you've got it good here.
0:41:12 > 0:41:15This is not such a bad place.
0:41:15 > 0:41:16This time a year ago,
0:41:16 > 0:41:20Harry was desperately trying to convince Nabeela that
0:41:20 > 0:41:22a move down under would change their lives for the better
0:41:22 > 0:41:25but events of the last 12 months have cast
0:41:25 > 0:41:28Australia in a different light for him.
0:41:28 > 0:41:31There's a saying that the grass isn't always greener
0:41:31 > 0:41:33and I believe that.
0:41:33 > 0:41:39I'm really happy in Rochdale. I was born here, bred here.
0:41:39 > 0:41:40I love Rochdale.
0:41:40 > 0:41:47I love work, family and I'm in a better place but maybe one day.
0:41:47 > 0:41:50Maybe one day.
0:41:50 > 0:41:52So, does Nabeela feel the same way?
0:41:53 > 0:41:57I'm not saying never, I've never said to him we're never going to go,
0:41:57 > 0:42:01I've just said to him that I don't think right now
0:42:01 > 0:42:04or in the very near future would be the right time.
0:42:04 > 0:42:08Harry's making all the right noises and seems happy at home
0:42:08 > 0:42:11but has he really given up on his dream?
0:42:11 > 0:42:15I think Harry secretly still harbours dreams to go to Australia.
0:42:15 > 0:42:17He might not admit it to me
0:42:17 > 0:42:22but I know he does secretly still want to go and I think tomorrow
0:42:22 > 0:42:27if I said, "Yeah, let's move", we would literally just do it.
0:42:27 > 0:42:31I seriously still have aspirations that Nabeela will one day just say,
0:42:31 > 0:42:34"Come on, let's go to Australia." Nothing will change that.
0:42:34 > 0:42:39The experience of Australia was amazing.
0:42:39 > 0:42:42I know now the most important thing is my family
0:42:42 > 0:42:47but I secretly hope that, out of nowhere, Nabeela says,
0:42:47 > 0:42:51"Come on, let's go to Australia", and that's my aspiration.
0:42:51 > 0:42:54Well, Harry, never say never.
0:42:54 > 0:42:57Harry and Nabeela came through an incredible year.
0:42:57 > 0:42:59Their experience down under left them
0:42:59 > 0:43:03divided over where their future lay but Harry's outlook on life
0:43:03 > 0:43:08has changed dramatically and as a family, they're closer than ever.
0:43:08 > 0:43:12The UK has given them a great life so far and looks set to do
0:43:12 > 0:43:14so for many years to come.