Holroyd Family

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0:00:02 > 0:00:05If your marriage was at breaking point because of your partner's job,

0:00:05 > 0:00:08how far would you go to save it?

0:00:08 > 0:00:10One woman feels her only option

0:00:10 > 0:00:12is to uproot her family

0:00:12 > 0:00:16and start a new life nearly 9,000 miles away.

0:00:16 > 0:00:19But will life in Australia really be any different?

0:00:20 > 0:00:22With dad Simon hardly home,

0:00:22 > 0:00:25the Holroyds' relationship is in serious trouble.

0:00:25 > 0:00:29- TEARFUL:- To be honest, me and Simon have come to the end of the road.

0:00:29 > 0:00:32When a week in Australia shows moving there could be the answer...

0:00:32 > 0:00:35When I'm not away, it's bliss, cos there's never no arguments.

0:00:35 > 0:00:38It's just been amazing, it has been great to spend some time together.

0:00:38 > 0:00:42..will Helen be brave enough to sacrifice relationships in the UK...

0:00:42 > 0:00:45I feel torn, I feel like I have got to choose between

0:00:45 > 0:00:47you and the kids or my mum.

0:00:47 > 0:00:50..to secure the family life they are desperate for?

0:00:50 > 0:00:52It is just such a difficult...

0:00:52 > 0:00:55Why does Australia have to be on the other side of the world?

0:01:18 > 0:01:22More than 30 times bigger than the UK and the sixth largest country

0:01:22 > 0:01:25in the world, Australia is a nation built on immigration.

0:01:27 > 0:01:30With the warm climate, cosmopolitan cities

0:01:30 > 0:01:34and an estimated 50% of the population living less than

0:01:34 > 0:01:37five miles from the coast, it is easy to see why

0:01:37 > 0:01:40thousands of British families emigrate each year,

0:01:40 > 0:01:43in search of their happy ever after in the sunshine.

0:01:45 > 0:01:49Simon Holroyd is living away from his family five days a week,

0:01:49 > 0:01:53leaving wife Helen juggling work with childcare

0:01:53 > 0:01:56and the pair's relationship in ruins.

0:01:56 > 0:01:59All the couple want is some semblance of a family life,

0:01:59 > 0:02:02and Helen has come up with a drastic solution -

0:02:02 > 0:02:06moving halfway around the world to Australia.

0:02:06 > 0:02:08Ahead of the Holroyds lies a week to discover

0:02:08 > 0:02:13if the country is the answer to their problems and can save their marriage.

0:02:16 > 0:02:20Their journey begins with almost 22 hours in the air,

0:02:20 > 0:02:23flying from Manchester to Brisbane via Dubai.

0:02:23 > 0:02:25And dad Simon is relieved

0:02:25 > 0:02:28when they finally touch down in Australia for the first time.

0:02:28 > 0:02:32I'm absolutely worn out. This one was sleeping on my lap.

0:02:32 > 0:02:34Yeah, and she was snoring. You were snoring!

0:02:34 > 0:02:36- You were!- You were snoring!

0:02:37 > 0:02:39Harry has already spotted a difference from home.

0:02:39 > 0:02:42To be honest, it's a really hot country.

0:02:42 > 0:02:46And Helen admits she's feeling overwhelmed.

0:02:46 > 0:02:47I don't know how I feel.

0:02:47 > 0:02:50I'm excited to be here, but I am nervous, I am scared.

0:02:50 > 0:02:52It's decision time, isn't it?

0:02:54 > 0:02:57Helen is absolutely right.

0:02:57 > 0:03:01Ahead of the family lies a week that could change their lives for ever.

0:03:05 > 0:03:07Meet the Holroyds from West Yorkshire.

0:03:07 > 0:03:09They are dad Simon, mum Helen,

0:03:09 > 0:03:12eight-year-old Harry and five-year-old Alexa.

0:03:13 > 0:03:15- Yes!- Aah!

0:03:15 > 0:03:19Simon and Helen met in 2006, and after a whirlwind romance,

0:03:19 > 0:03:21were engaged five months later.

0:03:21 > 0:03:25Our relationship when we first got together was brilliant, wasn't it?

0:03:25 > 0:03:29Simon's job as a full-time welder often took him away from home,

0:03:29 > 0:03:33but becoming parents a year later made the time apart harder to handle.

0:03:33 > 0:03:35I knew you worked away and I was fine with that,

0:03:35 > 0:03:38but as soon as we had Harry, that's when it all changed.

0:03:41 > 0:03:44Simon swapped welding for a job closer to home

0:03:44 > 0:03:46in an attempt to be around more.

0:03:46 > 0:03:49And I loved that because you were at home every day.

0:03:49 > 0:03:50He was at home for his tea every night.

0:03:50 > 0:03:53But the money just didn't work for us, did it?

0:03:53 > 0:03:55After me first month it was basically...

0:03:55 > 0:03:56What you earn in a week.

0:03:56 > 0:03:59What I could earn near enough in a week from doing the job

0:03:59 > 0:04:00which I do now.

0:04:00 > 0:04:03With two children to feed, Simon returned to welding,

0:04:03 > 0:04:06and for the past five months he has worked

0:04:06 > 0:04:09in central London from Monday to Friday every week.

0:04:09 > 0:04:14My alarm goes off Monday morning at 2.15, I generally leave the house

0:04:14 > 0:04:19about 2.45, travel down to London, work until six o'clock at night.

0:04:19 > 0:04:21It is horrendous, to be honest.

0:04:21 > 0:04:24While Simon grafts down south, Helen relies on her mum's help

0:04:24 > 0:04:28as she juggles work with looking after Harry and Alexa.

0:04:28 > 0:04:32But despite the support, she is fed up being on her own.

0:04:32 > 0:04:33I get irritated having to do

0:04:33 > 0:04:35everything by myself all of the time.

0:04:35 > 0:04:37The bills, the shopping - everything.

0:04:37 > 0:04:39It is like being a single mum.

0:04:39 > 0:04:42I know a lot of people who are in the same boat,

0:04:42 > 0:04:44people that are single.

0:04:44 > 0:04:47But I am not single, and it is not how it should be.

0:04:50 > 0:04:54And Harry and Alexa are missing time with their dad.

0:04:54 > 0:04:58I miss Daddy, because he works away every day of the week.

0:05:00 > 0:05:03Simon is exhausted by the time the weekend comes,

0:05:03 > 0:05:07and the ongoing situation is putting his and Helen's relationship at risk.

0:05:09 > 0:05:13They have arguments sometimes because he doesn't come home

0:05:13 > 0:05:16and she wants to see him more.

0:05:16 > 0:05:20- I have just had enough of it. I just can't stand it.- I know.

0:05:22 > 0:05:25The situation has got so bad that Helen is even questioning

0:05:25 > 0:05:27whether her and Simon have a future together.

0:05:27 > 0:05:30I just sometimes think that rather than going through

0:05:30 > 0:05:33all of the heartache, it might be easier if we're not together.

0:05:33 > 0:05:36SHE SNIFFS

0:05:36 > 0:05:39Obviously I don't want to split up, I love him to death, but...

0:05:41 > 0:05:42..something's got to change.

0:05:42 > 0:05:44Before it's too late.

0:05:46 > 0:05:49Inspired by stories from friends who have made the move,

0:05:49 > 0:05:53Helen now thinks Australia could be the answer to the problem.

0:05:53 > 0:05:56Obviously, we want to go for the nice things, the weather and stuff,

0:05:56 > 0:05:59but the main thing for me is just having you

0:05:59 > 0:06:00- come home every day.- Yeah.

0:06:01 > 0:06:04That's why I want to go to Australia,

0:06:04 > 0:06:07because I want you to be able to come home all the time.

0:06:07 > 0:06:10Moving nearly 9,000 miles is an extreme solution,

0:06:10 > 0:06:15but Simon's willing to do whatever it takes to keep his family together.

0:06:15 > 0:06:17I do love my wife and kids, so much,

0:06:17 > 0:06:19and this is one of the only ways

0:06:19 > 0:06:22we're going to be able to spend that quality time together.

0:06:22 > 0:06:25But much as she is desperate for change, Helen is also

0:06:25 > 0:06:29torn at the prospect of being on the other side of the world from her mum.

0:06:29 > 0:06:32I just don't how I would cope not having her on the doorstep.

0:06:32 > 0:06:36She means the world to me, and I just don't know if I could.

0:06:36 > 0:06:39I feel torn, I feel like I've got to choose between

0:06:39 > 0:06:41you and the kids, or my mum.

0:06:41 > 0:06:44And it's awful.

0:06:44 > 0:06:48It's a heartbreaking choice, but after eight years of Simon

0:06:48 > 0:06:51coming and going, the couple are pinning all their hopes on Australia

0:06:51 > 0:06:54giving them the answers they need.

0:06:54 > 0:06:57We're not really expecting miracles,

0:06:57 > 0:07:01but anything has got to be better than the current situation.

0:07:01 > 0:07:04The way that it has been, we could end up splitting up, I don't know.

0:07:06 > 0:07:08I'm just praying that Australia...

0:07:08 > 0:07:09HE CLEARS HIS THROAT

0:07:09 > 0:07:11..works out how we want it to.

0:07:23 > 0:07:25For their trial week Down Under, the family are staying in

0:07:25 > 0:07:28a rented property in Coolum Beach,

0:07:28 > 0:07:31on the north end of Queensland's Sunshine Coast.

0:07:31 > 0:07:34It's a quiet area popular with young families,

0:07:34 > 0:07:36but will it be what the Holroyds had in mind?

0:07:36 > 0:07:38- In you go.- A swimming pool!

0:07:38 > 0:07:40Oh, wow.

0:07:40 > 0:07:43- It's a good start. - Imagine having this to live in.

0:07:43 > 0:07:46- I know.- That is so nice. Patio doors.

0:07:46 > 0:07:47- GASPING:- Harry!

0:07:48 > 0:07:51- Big barbecue!- Guess what we're having for tea?

0:07:51 > 0:07:55- AUSTRALIAN ACCENT:- Shrimps on the barbie!- "Shrimps on the barbie"!

0:07:56 > 0:07:58Alexa has already got the lingo.

0:07:58 > 0:08:01Inside, their home for the week looks perfect.

0:08:01 > 0:08:06- Wow.- Big open-plan.- That what you want?- Yeah. Look at the kitchen.

0:08:06 > 0:08:08Come and have a look at the kitchen.

0:08:08 > 0:08:10Helen is happy with her first glimpse of Australian living.

0:08:10 > 0:08:13And as they check out the rest of the house,

0:08:13 > 0:08:15Simon admits he is impressed, too.

0:08:15 > 0:08:18Unbelievable. Massive.

0:08:18 > 0:08:21Tour over, Simon and the children waste no time getting into the pool,

0:08:21 > 0:08:25and Helen's quickly reminded of why she is considering moving

0:08:25 > 0:08:27so far from home.

0:08:27 > 0:08:29Seeing Simon and the kids like this is amazing,

0:08:29 > 0:08:31it's what I have wanted for such a long time.

0:08:33 > 0:08:35It is probably the happiest I have seen him in a long time,

0:08:35 > 0:08:39because he is fed up with his lifestyle at home. Hates it.

0:08:39 > 0:08:41This is perfect, this is what we want,

0:08:41 > 0:08:44this is why we have come to Australia.

0:08:44 > 0:08:46They have only been here a few hours

0:08:46 > 0:08:48but Simon is already seeing the benefits.

0:08:48 > 0:08:50To me and Helen, it would just mean the world.

0:08:50 > 0:08:52That is what we are searching for really,

0:08:52 > 0:08:53some quality time together.

0:08:55 > 0:08:58But it is not long before Helen is reminded of reality.

0:08:58 > 0:09:03Living a lifestyle like this will mean leaving her mum behind.

0:09:03 > 0:09:08I would find it hard leaving my mum, but I have got to think of us.

0:09:08 > 0:09:11Difficult choices lie ahead, but, ultimately, Helen knows

0:09:11 > 0:09:16her and Simon's future happiness is riding on the next seven days.

0:09:17 > 0:09:21To be honest, me and Simon have come to the end of the road.

0:09:21 > 0:09:23If we don't...

0:09:23 > 0:09:26If we don't do this, I don't know what is going to happen.

0:09:37 > 0:09:39Back in the UK, Helen and Simon

0:09:39 > 0:09:43rent a three-bed townhouse in Cottingley, West Yorkshire.

0:09:43 > 0:09:44And they have clear ideas of what

0:09:44 > 0:09:46they would be looking for in Australia.

0:09:46 > 0:09:49Four bedrooms, open-plan, lots of space.

0:09:49 > 0:09:51A garage, that would be nice as well,

0:09:51 > 0:09:53- because we have always wanted a garage.- Yeah.

0:09:53 > 0:09:54Just to put your junk in.

0:09:54 > 0:09:57South-facing garden for the barbecues in the summer.

0:09:57 > 0:10:00Obviously, I would like the swimming pool, but that is not...

0:10:00 > 0:10:02- That's a bonus, isn't it? - It's not on my list.

0:10:02 > 0:10:06With a maximum budget of £12,000 for rent each month,

0:10:06 > 0:10:08a swimming pool might be out of the question,

0:10:08 > 0:10:10but Helen is prepared to compromise.

0:10:10 > 0:10:12Property is important, but...

0:10:14 > 0:10:17- ..it's more important that you come home every day.- Yeah.

0:10:17 > 0:10:20To find out what kind of house they could actually have in Australia,

0:10:20 > 0:10:23today we will show them three properties - two on budget

0:10:23 > 0:10:26and a third which could be their dream home.

0:10:26 > 0:10:30Only after they have seen each one will they find out its value.

0:10:30 > 0:10:33First stop is Sippy Downs on the Sunshine Coast,

0:10:33 > 0:10:36just an hour's drive from Queensland's capital city, Brisbane.

0:10:36 > 0:10:40This family-friendly suburb has shops and schools on the doorstep

0:10:40 > 0:10:43and is just ten minutes' drive from the beach,

0:10:43 > 0:10:46but will this three-bedroom house be to the family's taste?

0:10:49 > 0:10:51Ooh.

0:10:56 > 0:10:59- It's got carpet, as well. - Brilliant carpet.

0:10:59 > 0:11:03Helen is obviously a carpet fan, but what does she make of the kitchen?

0:11:03 > 0:11:06Oh, this is gorgeous! I could live in this.

0:11:06 > 0:11:09- Couldn't you?- Yeah.

0:11:09 > 0:11:12The open-plan living area ticks another box,

0:11:12 > 0:11:15but will outside have the space you want?

0:11:15 > 0:11:19- All the gardens are so big, aren't they?- The amount of land you get.

0:11:19 > 0:11:22Do you like it? Do you like this house?

0:11:24 > 0:11:27It's lovely. Compared to what we have got back home...

0:11:27 > 0:11:28SIMON SCOFFS AND THEY BOTH LAUGH

0:11:28 > 0:11:31- We could get a dog, as well. - As long as you walk it.

0:11:31 > 0:11:32HELEN LAUGHS

0:11:32 > 0:11:33If you are home every night,

0:11:33 > 0:11:37you will have plenty of time to take the dog out, Simon.

0:11:38 > 0:11:41Meantime, the spacious master gives Helen something else

0:11:41 > 0:11:42to get excited about.

0:11:42 > 0:11:44HELEN GASPS

0:11:44 > 0:11:45A big walk-in wardrobe!

0:11:45 > 0:11:46SIMON LAUGHS

0:11:46 > 0:11:48I have always wanted a walk-in wardrobe.

0:11:48 > 0:11:51And next door, something to make Alexa smile, too.

0:11:51 > 0:11:53Ah!

0:11:53 > 0:11:57Aww. Aww, that's nice, int' it?

0:11:57 > 0:12:00- Little girl's room. - So will this do for you, Harry?

0:12:00 > 0:12:03HELEN LAUGHS AND HARRY MUMBLES UNHAPPILY

0:12:03 > 0:12:06They might need to negotiate on the decor to get Harry signed up,

0:12:06 > 0:12:09but moving on, the bathroom is a talking point.

0:12:10 > 0:12:12Do you know what else I have noticed?

0:12:12 > 0:12:15The bathrooms are separate to the toilets, which is brilliant.

0:12:15 > 0:12:17It's not massive, but it is nice.

0:12:19 > 0:12:20Even with a tiny bath,

0:12:20 > 0:12:23this house hasn't pulled the plug on the family moving.

0:12:23 > 0:12:28But with £1,200 for rent every month, can they afford something like this?

0:12:28 > 0:12:32- How much do you think it is worth? - 1,100.

0:12:32 > 0:12:36- What about you, Alexa?- Eh...£1,000.

0:12:36 > 0:12:40£1,000 and £1,100. I'm going to say...

0:12:40 > 0:12:42I don't know!

0:12:42 > 0:12:44..about 950?

0:12:44 > 0:12:50- I would say about 900.- £900. - £900 a month, yes.- Right.

0:12:58 > 0:13:00HELEN GASPS

0:13:00 > 0:13:03- Wow.- 890!- That's cheaper than we thought.

0:13:03 > 0:13:08Gosh. You can have something like this for that. That's amazing.

0:13:08 > 0:13:13- That is unbelievable, that.- I think that is very doable.- Yeah.

0:13:13 > 0:13:16Shall we go and see what else there is?

0:13:16 > 0:13:19- Yeah.- What else we can afford. I'm excited about it.

0:13:19 > 0:13:21- Shall we go?- Come on, then.

0:13:22 > 0:13:25£300 under budget is a great start,

0:13:25 > 0:13:28and Helen is encouraged about the kind of house they could have.

0:13:30 > 0:13:33This is going to be really nice.

0:13:33 > 0:13:35Hopefully, the next place will prove a hit, too.

0:13:35 > 0:13:39Also situated in Sippy Downs, this traditional four-bedroom house

0:13:39 > 0:13:43promises plenty of what Helen and Simon desire.

0:13:43 > 0:13:45This looks nice.

0:13:45 > 0:13:46Nice big double garage there.

0:13:48 > 0:13:50- Ooh.- They did want a garage.

0:13:50 > 0:13:54Stepping inside, Helen feels at home straightaway.

0:13:54 > 0:13:57- This is gorgeous.- You have got your little carpeted room.- Yeah.

0:13:57 > 0:14:00I love carpet, I would have to have carpet.

0:14:00 > 0:14:04- It's a British thing. I bet this is more money.- Do you think?- Yeah.

0:14:04 > 0:14:07- We have only looked in one room. - It just looks expensive.

0:14:07 > 0:14:09Fair point, Simon. Now, what about that garage?

0:14:09 > 0:14:12And this is what we have always wanted, a big double garage!

0:14:12 > 0:14:15- This is as big as our living area at home.- It's bigger.

0:14:15 > 0:14:16And what do you think to this, Harry?

0:14:16 > 0:14:19- Yeah, would you like a boat? - Would you like a boat?

0:14:19 > 0:14:22- You'd be able to catch sharks.- Sharks?

0:14:22 > 0:14:23No, they're not big enough.

0:14:23 > 0:14:25SIMON SHUDDERS

0:14:25 > 0:14:29Hopefully, there are no hidden dangers in the rest of the house.

0:14:29 > 0:14:31Oh, this is gorgeous!

0:14:31 > 0:14:34I hate cooking, but I would probably quite like it here.

0:14:34 > 0:14:37- I would enjoy it more.- Is that a promise, is it?- Well, no, but...

0:14:37 > 0:14:39We'll see.

0:14:39 > 0:14:42With Simon hopefully home for tea every night,

0:14:42 > 0:14:44Helen could find herself busy in the kitchen.

0:14:44 > 0:14:47Meanwhile, there is still more to check out.

0:14:48 > 0:14:50- Ohh, what?- It's gorgeous.

0:14:52 > 0:14:53A dressing room again.

0:14:53 > 0:14:57This must be an Aussie thing, having dressing rooms. It's got to be.

0:14:57 > 0:15:00You wouldn't need that, because you don't have much clothes, do you?

0:15:00 > 0:15:04- No.- I could have it. - Pair of shorts, T-shirt.

0:15:04 > 0:15:06- I can't believe the size of this house.- I know.

0:15:08 > 0:15:11It's definitely not short on space, and when Helen spots

0:15:11 > 0:15:15a potential room for her mum, it's the icing on the cake.

0:15:15 > 0:15:17- This is Mum's style, this.- Yeah.

0:15:17 > 0:15:20I think if I got Mum to come out here and we were living here,

0:15:20 > 0:15:21she wouldn't go back home!

0:15:21 > 0:15:24And just when they thought things couldn't get any better -

0:15:24 > 0:15:26a garden with a pool.

0:15:26 > 0:15:28Oh, my God, I could cry.

0:15:29 > 0:15:32This is just the sort of thing we would want to come out here for.

0:15:32 > 0:15:33- It's amazing.- Definitely, yeah.

0:15:33 > 0:15:36- We won't be able to afford this, I don't think.- No.

0:15:36 > 0:15:39- This is going to cost a fortune.- No way.

0:15:39 > 0:15:41- I want it.- Do you?

0:15:41 > 0:15:44I loved the other house, but I love this even more.

0:15:44 > 0:15:47Helen has really fallen for this house, but before she gets

0:15:47 > 0:15:51too carried away, it is time to find out how much it costs.

0:15:51 > 0:15:55- If we could get something like this, I'm coming. Definitely.- Yeah?

0:15:55 > 0:15:57It's a no-brainer.

0:15:57 > 0:16:00The couple have £1,200 for rent every month.

0:16:00 > 0:16:08I have got in my head, about, English pounds, about 1,350.

0:16:08 > 0:16:09Maybe more.

0:16:11 > 0:16:15- Maybe about 1,200.- 1,200?- Yeah.

0:16:15 > 0:16:17How much do you think it is worth, Alexa?

0:16:17 > 0:16:19£199.

0:16:19 > 0:16:22Whoa, we are definitely moving in then.

0:16:22 > 0:16:25That is cheap! What about you, Harry?

0:16:25 > 0:16:30- Erm...- Do you think it is more than the other one or less?- 1,250.- Right.

0:16:30 > 0:16:32- OK, do you want to turn it round, Harry?- Yeah.

0:16:41 > 0:16:44- Oh, my God!- I was so close!

0:16:44 > 0:16:49- You're joking.- 1,165. Unbelievable.- Innit?

0:16:49 > 0:16:51Flippin' 'eck.

0:16:51 > 0:16:55- That is amazing. Wow.- Yeah? - I'm really shocked.

0:16:55 > 0:16:56I know, yeah.

0:16:56 > 0:17:00The Holroyds are having a great day so far, and it is not over yet.

0:17:00 > 0:17:02This has been a bit nice.

0:17:02 > 0:17:03SIMON LAUGHS

0:17:05 > 0:17:07Next stop is Buderim, a small town

0:17:07 > 0:17:11overlooking the southern Sunshine Coast.

0:17:11 > 0:17:14With excellent schools and close to retail and leisure facilities,

0:17:14 > 0:17:17the area is increasingly popular with families.

0:17:17 > 0:17:21But will this three-storey house hit the spot?

0:17:22 > 0:17:25Wow. Goodness me.

0:17:27 > 0:17:31Spacious and modern, this place is a real show home.

0:17:31 > 0:17:34- Wow.- This is unreal.- It's massive.

0:17:34 > 0:17:36SIMON LAUGHS INCREDULOUSLY

0:17:36 > 0:17:38This is like where someone famous would live.

0:17:38 > 0:17:41Helen is imagining a celebrity lifestyle,

0:17:41 > 0:17:43and spotting a hot tub certainly helps.

0:17:43 > 0:17:46Can you imagine getting in this on a night?

0:17:46 > 0:17:47- HARRY:- Every day. - Every day?

0:17:47 > 0:17:51Boasting extensive gardens, there's plenty of room for outside living.

0:17:51 > 0:17:56- Look at the garden.- You could have a golf course in there.

0:17:56 > 0:17:59That might be a bit ambitious, maybe a pitch-and-putt course

0:17:59 > 0:18:01for Harry and Alexa?

0:18:01 > 0:18:04They would have a whale of a time, in all the woods and stuff.

0:18:04 > 0:18:05This IS going to be expensive.

0:18:05 > 0:18:07- EXHALING:- Heh.

0:18:07 > 0:18:11But when they move back inside, Helen casts cost concerns aside

0:18:11 > 0:18:14and starts to worry about how big the house really is.

0:18:15 > 0:18:19This is a bit...too big. Maybe. I don't know.

0:18:19 > 0:18:22- A lot of cleaning. - SHE CHUCKLES

0:18:23 > 0:18:27It's a valid point, and there is more to look after upstairs.

0:18:27 > 0:18:29- ALEXA:- This bedroom.- Oh, wow.

0:18:29 > 0:18:32This will be the master bedroom up here.

0:18:32 > 0:18:33My God!

0:18:35 > 0:18:38Just the standard of everything is so much better than back home,

0:18:38 > 0:18:40- isn't it? - I think so.

0:18:40 > 0:18:43This house has definitely impressed Helen and Simon,

0:18:43 > 0:18:45but will its price tag put it out of reach?

0:18:47 > 0:18:49- I like this one the best.- Do you?

0:18:49 > 0:18:51Because it has got a really big garden.

0:18:51 > 0:18:53Yeah, I knew you would like the garden.

0:18:53 > 0:18:55- They can run wild out there, can't they?- It's got a hot tub.

0:18:55 > 0:18:57It is nice, and it has got amazing views, as well.

0:18:57 > 0:18:59Yeah, that is stunning.

0:18:59 > 0:19:02Personally, I think it is going to be way over our budget.

0:19:02 > 0:19:06Yeah. Alexa, how much do you think this one would be?

0:19:06 > 0:19:09£3,080.

0:19:09 > 0:19:14- £3,080?! - What about you, Harry?- £1,400.

0:19:14 > 0:19:19- I will go with 15. - I would say more. 17.

0:19:20 > 0:19:22ALL: One, two, three!

0:19:23 > 0:19:26- THEY GASP - 1,630.

0:19:26 > 0:19:29- Mmm. - ALEXA:- Have we got enough money?

0:19:29 > 0:19:30SIMON LAUGHS

0:19:30 > 0:19:33- I think that is a bit over.- More than £400 over budget

0:19:33 > 0:19:36makes this house something to aspire to,

0:19:36 > 0:19:38but Helen and Simon aren't too disappointed.

0:19:38 > 0:19:41- Personally...- No, I know.

0:19:41 > 0:19:45- ..I preferred the other house a lot more, and it's cheaper.- Yeah.

0:19:45 > 0:19:48Discovering the local property market has been a largely

0:19:48 > 0:19:51positive experience for the Holroyds.

0:19:51 > 0:19:54Property one didn't have the four bedrooms the family are after,

0:19:54 > 0:19:56but it was well within budget.

0:19:57 > 0:20:01Property two was a real hit, with the pool Helen wanted

0:20:01 > 0:20:03and at a price they could afford.

0:20:03 > 0:20:05And delivering the wow factor,

0:20:05 > 0:20:09the final property of the day was the ultimate dream home.

0:20:09 > 0:20:12Even discovering it was over budget wasn't enough to

0:20:12 > 0:20:14dampen Helen's spirits.

0:20:14 > 0:20:16So, how will the Holroyds vote

0:20:16 > 0:20:20when it comes to choosing between property in Australia and the UK?

0:20:20 > 0:20:24- Shall we vote for where we want to live, here or in the UK?- Yeah!

0:20:24 > 0:20:26- Let's go for it.- Let's go.

0:20:40 > 0:20:41ALL: Australia!

0:20:43 > 0:20:46HELEN AND KIDS: Yay!

0:20:46 > 0:20:48High-five!

0:20:48 > 0:20:51- That second house that we saw, with the swimming pool.- Yeah.

0:20:51 > 0:20:54That is ideal, and we could have Mum come and stay,

0:20:54 > 0:20:57she could come and stay for probably three, four, six months, whatever.

0:20:57 > 0:20:59- Three, four or six?- Well, six.

0:20:59 > 0:21:01She'd have her own little area.

0:21:01 > 0:21:03I would let her come for a few months a year,

0:21:03 > 0:21:06- but I don't know about... - You won't have any choice.

0:21:07 > 0:21:09I get my own way all the time.

0:21:20 > 0:21:22With a unanimous vote for Australia,

0:21:22 > 0:21:25the Holroyds' week has got off to a promising start.

0:21:25 > 0:21:28But Simon and Helen both know the Australia dream

0:21:28 > 0:21:32could quickly fade if Simon can't find a job that enables him

0:21:32 > 0:21:35to be home every night and fund the lifestyle they want.

0:21:37 > 0:21:41Back in the UK, Simon is away from home every Monday to Friday,

0:21:41 > 0:21:43working as an arc welder.

0:21:43 > 0:21:46I really enjoy me job, I do.

0:21:46 > 0:21:49When I started doing the job, I was single,

0:21:49 > 0:21:54obviously, working away from home, it was brilliant.

0:21:54 > 0:21:58But now with a family, the single most important thing is Simon

0:21:58 > 0:22:01being able to do the same job closer to home.

0:22:01 > 0:22:04I don't mind doing a lot of hours, as long as I could get to

0:22:04 > 0:22:06go home on a night to spend time with my family.

0:22:06 > 0:22:08That's the whole point of this.

0:22:08 > 0:22:12Helen has worked as everything from shop assistant to air hostess.

0:22:12 > 0:22:15Now a classroom assistant, she has finally found a job she loves,

0:22:15 > 0:22:18but she is prepared to put family above work.

0:22:18 > 0:22:22The most important thing for us is for Simon to get the correct job.

0:22:22 > 0:22:24I am willing to sacrifice my job for us

0:22:24 > 0:22:27to have the family life that we have wanted.

0:22:30 > 0:22:33With so much at stake, the couple are nervous about what a day

0:22:33 > 0:22:36exploring Brisbane's job market might bring.

0:22:37 > 0:22:41At the end of the day, it's a make or break, Simon's job.

0:22:41 > 0:22:44We need to find out what the wage is going to be like,

0:22:44 > 0:22:48if there is much work for me out here. Hopefully, there is.

0:22:48 > 0:22:50The majority of skilled workers on the Sunshine Coast

0:22:50 > 0:22:53commute to Brisbane.

0:22:53 > 0:22:56So, we have arranged for Simon to meet Joe and Martin Lewandowski

0:22:56 > 0:23:00at their industrial welding firm on the south side of the city.

0:23:02 > 0:23:04- Simon.- Hello.- Martin. Nice to meet you.

0:23:04 > 0:23:06Nice to meet you, Martin, I'm Simon.

0:23:06 > 0:23:08- This is Joe, the director. - All right?

0:23:08 > 0:23:12Before getting down to business, the guys show Simon around.

0:23:12 > 0:23:15Australian standards is higher standards, you know,

0:23:15 > 0:23:16than British standards.

0:23:16 > 0:23:19- Really?- The pressure's on for Simon to make an impression.

0:23:19 > 0:23:22Meanwhile, Helen is meeting

0:23:22 > 0:23:25teacher's aide Helen Greoff at Matt Flinders Anglical College in Buderim.

0:23:26 > 0:23:30- It is absolutely huge, this place. - It is a big place.

0:23:30 > 0:23:33- All the facilities here are pretty good.- Yeah. It's fantastic.

0:23:35 > 0:23:39So much different to where I come from, completely.

0:23:39 > 0:23:42That's a good start for Helen, but back at the welding company,

0:23:42 > 0:23:44Simon's isn't as promising.

0:23:45 > 0:23:50What I see, you have just only very basic welding.

0:23:51 > 0:23:56- From your experience, you are more structural tradesman.- Right.

0:23:56 > 0:24:00We do some structure, all right? But it is minimal, the structure.

0:24:03 > 0:24:07His skills may not be a perfect fit for this company,

0:24:07 > 0:24:10but Martin reassures him all is not lost.

0:24:10 > 0:24:12There is a place here for everybody.

0:24:12 > 0:24:17If we do take you on, we could get you to do TA work,

0:24:17 > 0:24:20or labour around the yard, or in the workshop.

0:24:20 > 0:24:23You know, we could ease you into the welding side of things.

0:24:23 > 0:24:25Slowly, yeah.

0:24:25 > 0:24:29Simon could work here as a trade's assistant while grading his skills.

0:24:29 > 0:24:33But how would that affect the family financially?

0:24:33 > 0:24:38So, if, erm, you were to give me an opportunity,

0:24:38 > 0:24:41what would the wage expectations be?

0:24:41 > 0:24:46A first start, you would be looking at probably 22 to 24,

0:24:46 > 0:24:49because we have to really invest it with you.

0:24:49 > 0:24:53The hourly rate would give him an annual salary of around £25,000,

0:24:53 > 0:24:56but that would increase once fully trained.

0:24:57 > 0:25:01Then you would probably look at

0:25:01 > 0:25:06- between 28 and 38.- Right.

0:25:06 > 0:25:09Even long-term, Simon's salary is only slightly more than what

0:25:09 > 0:25:12he already earns, but the big difference would be that he is

0:25:12 > 0:25:15able to go home when his day's work is done.

0:25:15 > 0:25:18I just want to be at home, I don't want to work away any more.

0:25:18 > 0:25:20If you do get work here with us,

0:25:20 > 0:25:23then you will be with your wife and kids.

0:25:23 > 0:25:26It is exactly the news Simon wanted to receive,

0:25:26 > 0:25:29and should make Helen very happy, too.

0:25:29 > 0:25:30Back at the college,

0:25:30 > 0:25:33she is getting a handle on her own prospects Down Under.

0:25:34 > 0:25:37So, what kinds of qualifications would you need?

0:25:37 > 0:25:41Most teacher assistants here have a TAFE qualification.

0:25:41 > 0:25:43And is that something that I could do over here?

0:25:43 > 0:25:46- You definitely could.- Yeah.

0:25:46 > 0:25:49And you might even find that you would get recognition for

0:25:49 > 0:25:51your experience and the other course that

0:25:51 > 0:25:53- you have already done.- Right.

0:25:53 > 0:25:56Qualifying could take up to two years, but Helen is not put off.

0:25:56 > 0:26:00What we would normally suggest to someone is that they come in

0:26:00 > 0:26:02and present us with their resume.

0:26:02 > 0:26:06And also, it is always really helpful to just start volunteering.

0:26:06 > 0:26:08That's great.

0:26:08 > 0:26:10So assuming she can find a paid job, all Helen

0:26:10 > 0:26:14needs to now know is how much she can earn.

0:26:14 > 0:26:18OK, so what is the salary over here for a full-time teacher's assistant?

0:26:18 > 0:26:22For a teacher assistant that works the full five-day week,

0:26:22 > 0:26:25- we are at about 35,000 per year.- Right.

0:26:25 > 0:26:27That is quite a lot more.

0:26:27 > 0:26:29- Is it?- Yeah.

0:26:29 > 0:26:32Around £17,500 is almost double

0:26:32 > 0:26:35what she gets doing the same job in the UK.

0:26:35 > 0:26:39All in all, Helen's school visit could be graded excellent.

0:26:39 > 0:26:42I would love my children to come to a school like this,

0:26:42 > 0:26:44and I would love to work in a school like this.

0:26:44 > 0:26:45It's just amazing.

0:26:45 > 0:26:48The Holroyds have had an informative day at work,

0:26:48 > 0:26:51but when Simon reunites with Helen, he is quick to flag the fact

0:26:51 > 0:26:55that he would initially be working as a trade's assistant, not a welder.

0:26:55 > 0:26:57What would it be like to start from the beginning again?

0:26:57 > 0:27:02To start from the beginning - probably about 24 an hour.

0:27:02 > 0:27:06But that's at the beginning. The welders were getting 38.

0:27:06 > 0:27:08- Is that good or...?- Well...

0:27:08 > 0:27:11I think it is a little bit more than what we were expecting.

0:27:11 > 0:27:15- What about working hours? This is the question.- Working hours were...

0:27:17 > 0:27:20- ..probably the same as what I do now.- Not working away?

0:27:20 > 0:27:22- Not working away. - That's fine.

0:27:22 > 0:27:24Compared to what you do now, that is great, isn't it?

0:27:24 > 0:27:26What about you, how have you done?

0:27:26 > 0:27:30Yeah, good, amazing school, you should see it. Oh, my goodness.

0:27:30 > 0:27:36- Amazing.- Really?- Massive. And about 35,000 a year.- Really?!

0:27:36 > 0:27:39Which is double what I'm on!

0:27:39 > 0:27:42- So, yeah, that's good.- That means I might go part-time, then.

0:27:42 > 0:27:44If you're not earning quite as much and I'm earning more,

0:27:44 > 0:27:47- then it would work out, wouldn't it? - Yeah, it would, yeah.

0:27:49 > 0:27:52For Simon, achieving a better work/life balance

0:27:52 > 0:27:55may come at a cost, but how will the couple choose

0:27:55 > 0:27:58when it comes to work in Australia or the UK?

0:27:58 > 0:28:00Our decision is going to be...

0:28:05 > 0:28:06BOTH: Australia!

0:28:08 > 0:28:10- Yeah?- Yeah!

0:28:15 > 0:28:19Taking a step backwards or having to re-qualify professionally

0:28:19 > 0:28:24hasn't been enough to dent Helen and Simon's desire to make the move.

0:28:24 > 0:28:28Simply having Simon home every night will be enough to

0:28:28 > 0:28:31transform family life. To give them a glimpse of how

0:28:31 > 0:28:33they could spend their new-found spare time,

0:28:33 > 0:28:37the Holroyds head off on a typically Aussie day out.

0:28:37 > 0:28:38And for Harry and Alexa, it is

0:28:38 > 0:28:43a rare opportunity to spend time having fun with both Mum and Dad.

0:28:47 > 0:28:49Making the most of their time together,

0:28:49 > 0:28:53the family following the footsteps of typical Sunshine Coasters,

0:28:53 > 0:28:55and take a ferry to Fraser Island,

0:28:55 > 0:28:57the largest sand island in the world.

0:28:57 > 0:28:58Massive.

0:29:02 > 0:29:07Almost 75 miles long and 14 miles wide, there is plenty to see.

0:29:09 > 0:29:11This is paradise.

0:29:11 > 0:29:14Could easily spend a day on here, just with t'kids running about.

0:29:14 > 0:29:16Ooh!

0:29:16 > 0:29:18This is the proper jungle.

0:29:20 > 0:29:22The island is the only place in the world where

0:29:22 > 0:29:26rainforests grow on sand dunes, and after a short trek through it,

0:29:26 > 0:29:28the family stop off for some lunch.

0:29:30 > 0:29:33- So, what do you think to Australia altogether, then?- Really good.

0:29:33 > 0:29:35- Do you like it? - I love it. Really do.

0:29:37 > 0:29:39The day is rounded off on the beach,

0:29:39 > 0:29:42giving the family the perfect opportunity to dip their toe

0:29:42 > 0:29:47in the water and find out if typical Aussie living is really for them.

0:29:47 > 0:29:49Definitely ten out of ten.

0:29:49 > 0:29:53Back home in the UK, we've got Blackpool or Scarborough,

0:29:53 > 0:29:56in the North Sea, and it is absolutely freezing.

0:29:56 > 0:29:58It's just been amazing, it's been great to spend some time

0:29:58 > 0:30:02together, cos that don't happen often back home.

0:30:02 > 0:30:04And if we can get this every weekend,

0:30:04 > 0:30:05it is a no-brainer, isn't it?

0:30:07 > 0:30:10The afternoon also gives the couple a chance to reflect on

0:30:10 > 0:30:13their relationship and how much the potential move could mean to them.

0:30:13 > 0:30:16You sort of lose touch with each other, and, obviously, with him

0:30:16 > 0:30:21working away, it is not the same, but being over here, it's...

0:30:21 > 0:30:23kind of falling in love again.

0:30:23 > 0:30:27When I'm not away, it is bliss, because there is never no arguments.

0:30:27 > 0:30:29And as for the kids,

0:30:29 > 0:30:33it's great to spend good quality time together as one big unit.

0:30:33 > 0:30:35Yay!

0:30:37 > 0:30:40Harry and Alexa would love this lifestyle every day.

0:30:40 > 0:30:43If we lived in Australia, then we would like to play

0:30:43 > 0:30:46on the beach a lot, and in the swimming pool a lot.

0:30:46 > 0:30:49Everyone has fallen under Australia's spell,

0:30:49 > 0:30:52and for Simon, the lifestyle they stand to gain far outweighs

0:30:52 > 0:30:54the potential decrease in his pay packet.

0:30:54 > 0:30:57If we were to come, we would have to have quite

0:30:57 > 0:31:00a few cutbacks, like I say.

0:31:01 > 0:31:04Just watch the pennies, or the dollars.

0:31:04 > 0:31:07But as Helen relaxes into her surroundings,

0:31:07 > 0:31:10it is not long before she is contemplating reality.

0:31:10 > 0:31:13Living this life would mean saying goodbye to her mum.

0:31:14 > 0:31:17I'm not going to start crying again, but...

0:31:22 > 0:31:23It would be difficult.

0:31:26 > 0:31:29The decision is huge, it is massive.

0:31:29 > 0:31:32It is leaving everything that we know behind.

0:31:32 > 0:31:35It is going to be difficult, very difficult.

0:31:36 > 0:31:40Helen faces a heart-wrenching choice come the end of the week,

0:31:40 > 0:31:42but for now, it is time for the family

0:31:42 > 0:31:46to choose between lifestyle in Australia and the UK.

0:31:52 > 0:31:53ALL: Australia!

0:31:56 > 0:31:59- Have we all got the same? - Yeah.- Yeah.

0:31:59 > 0:32:02Oh, that was going to be a definite, wasn't it? Fab.

0:32:11 > 0:32:13The whole family are enjoying

0:32:13 > 0:32:15what Australia could potentially offer,

0:32:15 > 0:32:19but Simon and Helen know their chances of getting the life they want

0:32:19 > 0:32:24could be washed out to sea if finances don't work in their favour.

0:32:24 > 0:32:27While the children play outside,

0:32:27 > 0:32:29Simon and Helen figure out how living costs

0:32:29 > 0:32:30in Australia compare with the UK.

0:32:30 > 0:32:35We have provided the financial facts, starting with their weekly food shop.

0:32:35 > 0:32:37All right, 3p difference on carrots,

0:32:37 > 0:32:39that's neither here nor there, is it?

0:32:39 > 0:32:41But look at your butter - £2 cheaper.

0:32:42 > 0:32:46- £2 CHEAPER?- Yeah. - That's a bonus, cos I love butter.

0:32:46 > 0:32:48SHE LAUGHS

0:32:48 > 0:32:52All right, do you want to work it out and see the difference, then?

0:32:52 > 0:32:55A quick run through the shopping list reveals how much more

0:32:55 > 0:32:57they would pay for food Down Under.

0:32:59 > 0:33:00It is only £2.24.

0:33:00 > 0:33:03I thought it was going to be a lot worse than that, actually.

0:33:03 > 0:33:04That's not so bad at all.

0:33:05 > 0:33:09- That is almost £70 every month.- It is doable, isn't it?

0:33:09 > 0:33:11That's nothing here or there, is it?

0:33:11 > 0:33:13You change the way you eat, don't you?

0:33:13 > 0:33:15- Well, yeah... - Or you stop drinking beer.

0:33:15 > 0:33:18Or you and your wine, more like.

0:33:18 > 0:33:20There's no time for domestics.

0:33:20 > 0:33:23- The couple move on to the bigger monthly bills.- The rent...

0:33:23 > 0:33:25going on that second house,

0:33:25 > 0:33:29the one with the swimming pool that we preferred, is quite a bit more.

0:33:29 > 0:33:31- It's about double, that.- Yeah.

0:33:31 > 0:33:37Council tax, they don't pay, which is a bonus.

0:33:37 > 0:33:40- Gas, no gas.- No.

0:33:40 > 0:33:46Overall, the couple's outgoings will be £2,708 every month in Australia -

0:33:46 > 0:33:49almost £800 more than they spend in the UK.

0:33:50 > 0:33:56- That is a lot, and that's because of the house.- Yeah.

0:33:56 > 0:33:59It's a huge amount of money.

0:33:59 > 0:34:02And with Simon's salary set to decrease, and Helen having to

0:34:02 > 0:34:05take time out to boost her qualifications,

0:34:05 > 0:34:07things go from bad to worse.

0:34:07 > 0:34:11In the UK, they have £1,300 left over after bills every month,

0:34:11 > 0:34:14but in Australia, they would be £20 in the red.

0:34:16 > 0:34:18That's... Yeah, that's fine.

0:34:18 > 0:34:21Well, it's not, but what about once we're qualified?

0:34:21 > 0:34:23Once we're qualified...

0:34:23 > 0:34:26To do the jobs that we both want to come out and do.

0:34:26 > 0:34:30Desperate to make the finances work, the couple recalculate

0:34:30 > 0:34:33based on Simon being a welder and Helen a classroom assistant.

0:34:33 > 0:34:38And when the sums are all done, it is a much more favourable outcome.

0:34:38 > 0:34:40That is £1,700 better off.

0:34:42 > 0:34:46£415.73 more than what we have got back home.

0:34:46 > 0:34:49- Yeah, more than what we already save.- Right.

0:34:51 > 0:34:53- That is good.- So £415...- Mm.

0:34:54 > 0:34:57In the long run, the couple could be financially better off,

0:34:57 > 0:35:00but have the figures done enough to

0:35:00 > 0:35:03make them choose Australia over the UK?

0:35:03 > 0:35:06OK, so, based on the information that we have found out today

0:35:06 > 0:35:09and our reality check, we are going to make a vote.

0:35:18 > 0:35:20Australia.

0:35:21 > 0:35:24- Undecided? - It's just the money, isn't it?

0:35:24 > 0:35:26I know what you are saying there,

0:35:26 > 0:35:29but I have sort of voted on the qualified side.

0:35:29 > 0:35:31Yeah, and if I was voting just on that, it would have been

0:35:31 > 0:35:32Australia, but...

0:35:35 > 0:35:38It's not going to be that to start with, and...

0:35:38 > 0:35:42You don't know, I could get qualified, I might not get a job.

0:35:42 > 0:35:46- Do you know I mean?- There is always that.- So, that is why I am...

0:35:54 > 0:35:57Helen and Simon have been united all week, but fearing for their

0:35:57 > 0:36:02short-term finances has left Helen undecided about the move.

0:36:02 > 0:36:04And there is another hurdle ahead,

0:36:04 > 0:36:09as Helen faces the reality of being 9,000 miles from her mum.

0:36:09 > 0:36:11The couple ask the children to join them

0:36:11 > 0:36:14to watch messages from their loved ones back home.

0:36:14 > 0:36:15Go on, then, get the remote, Harry.

0:36:19 > 0:36:22- Hi!- Helen and Simon.

0:36:22 > 0:36:24- Hi, Harry and Alexa.- ALL:- Hi, guys!

0:36:24 > 0:36:26We wish we could be there with you,

0:36:26 > 0:36:30hope you have had a great time in Brisbane this week.

0:36:30 > 0:36:32Alexa and Harry are always full of life,

0:36:32 > 0:36:35they are always laughing, having a great time, running around.

0:36:35 > 0:36:39As a family, I think they are pretty solid.

0:36:39 > 0:36:43Helen is very family-orientated, the kids are very important to her.

0:36:43 > 0:36:45Simon is one of me best friends.

0:36:46 > 0:36:48He's a good lad, a really good lad.

0:36:49 > 0:36:51Selfishly, I would hate it if they went,

0:36:51 > 0:36:53but I think it would be an amazing experience,

0:36:53 > 0:36:55and I think it would change their lives.

0:36:55 > 0:36:57I think it will bring their family closer

0:36:57 > 0:37:01and Harry and Alexa, they will have a very good childhood.

0:37:01 > 0:37:03- HELEN'S FRIENDS:- I think the main thing is going to be

0:37:03 > 0:37:05- leaving her mum.- Yeah.

0:37:05 > 0:37:07Ever since she talked about Australia,

0:37:07 > 0:37:12deep down I have known that she will do it, she will go.

0:37:12 > 0:37:13And it's the right thing for them.

0:37:13 > 0:37:16HELEN'S MUM SNIFFS

0:37:16 > 0:37:18It doesn't mean it is the right thing for me.

0:37:20 > 0:37:25I won't see them in real life...

0:37:25 > 0:37:27again.

0:37:27 > 0:37:30They said we can go out there for a holiday,

0:37:30 > 0:37:35but my various health problems - no chance.

0:37:38 > 0:37:39SHE SOBS

0:37:44 > 0:37:46I don't want her to go.

0:37:47 > 0:37:51But I know that's being selfish.

0:37:51 > 0:37:55And I know that her father would say to follow her dream.

0:38:00 > 0:38:03I know there is ways of seeing them every day,

0:38:03 > 0:38:08but it is not the same as holding your child in your arms.

0:38:08 > 0:38:11And holding your grandchildren.

0:38:11 > 0:38:13Follow your heart.

0:38:13 > 0:38:17If you think it is right, then do it. You've got to give it a go.

0:38:17 > 0:38:21Just take this opportunity and grab it with both hands.

0:38:21 > 0:38:24If your life is going to be better...

0:38:24 > 0:38:26go for it, love.

0:38:26 > 0:38:28We will support you every step of the way.

0:38:28 > 0:38:31We'll support your family, so we'll support your mum, as well.

0:38:31 > 0:38:34I know that is going to be one of the hardest things for you to do.

0:38:34 > 0:38:36That would mean a lot.

0:38:36 > 0:38:37- HELEN'S MUM:- I will always be here.

0:38:37 > 0:38:39I love you, all of you.

0:38:41 > 0:38:43Bye.

0:38:57 > 0:38:58SHE SOBS

0:38:58 > 0:39:01Yeah? You all right, Alexa?

0:39:01 > 0:39:05I would miss everybody so much. What about your mum and dad?

0:39:05 > 0:39:09I didn't expect that at all, I thought...

0:39:09 > 0:39:11I thought they would come over and see us,

0:39:11 > 0:39:16but she's saying they probably won't be able to because of her health.

0:39:18 > 0:39:21We're going to go back and see them, don't worry.

0:39:31 > 0:39:36Hearing how loved ones feel has proved heartbreaking for Helen,

0:39:36 > 0:39:40and with Simon facing the prospect of perhaps saying goodbye to his parents

0:39:40 > 0:39:45for good, the couple now need to make the biggest decision of their lives.

0:39:45 > 0:39:47As the family prepare to choose where

0:39:47 > 0:39:50they will spend their future, will the human cost of moving mean

0:39:50 > 0:39:54the dream life, and potentially Simon and Helen's marriage,

0:39:54 > 0:39:56is over for good?

0:40:00 > 0:40:02- Do you want to go and get an ice cream?- Yeah.

0:40:02 > 0:40:04Did you have a nice day on the beach?

0:40:04 > 0:40:07When the Holroyds arrived in Australia a week ago,

0:40:07 > 0:40:09it was with high hopes that the country would give them

0:40:09 > 0:40:12more quality time together as a family.

0:40:12 > 0:40:14And it has lived up to expectations.

0:40:15 > 0:40:19Bringing the kids to Australia, it definitely offers

0:40:19 > 0:40:23a lot more than what they are getting in the UK at the moment.

0:40:23 > 0:40:25Yesterday just proved the sort of fun we could have.

0:40:25 > 0:40:27The kids miss their dad.

0:40:27 > 0:40:29That is why we want to come out here,

0:40:29 > 0:40:32so we can spend more time as a family.

0:40:32 > 0:40:34But while the week showed what life could be like,

0:40:34 > 0:40:37it has also reinforced Helen's angst over choosing between

0:40:37 > 0:40:40what is best for her family and leaving her mum.

0:40:41 > 0:40:43I am so confused at the moment.

0:40:44 > 0:40:49I feel if we don't make this move, then our marriage might end,

0:40:49 > 0:40:51I really dread to think what might happen

0:40:51 > 0:40:55because of the problems that we have had up until now.

0:40:56 > 0:41:00But then again, if we come out here, am I going to be so devastated

0:41:00 > 0:41:04that I'm away from my family that we will just argue anyway?

0:41:04 > 0:41:07I just, I really don't know what the best thing to do is.

0:41:07 > 0:41:12Ultimately, life in the UK has pushed Simon and Helen to breaking point.

0:41:13 > 0:41:16To be honest, this is what we do really need.

0:41:18 > 0:41:24We do need a definite change from the UK life, that is 100%,

0:41:24 > 0:41:25we need something to change.

0:41:39 > 0:41:41It is going to be so hard, it is going to

0:41:41 > 0:41:43be such a hard decision to make.

0:41:47 > 0:41:49It is just such a difficult...

0:41:49 > 0:41:52Why does Australia have to be on the other side of the world?

0:41:54 > 0:41:57For better or worse, it is time for the family to choose

0:41:57 > 0:42:01once and for all if Australia really is the answer to their prayers.

0:42:10 > 0:42:12- ALL: Australia! - Yay!

0:42:14 > 0:42:18Oh, I wasn't sure whether you would vote Australia, Alexa.

0:42:18 > 0:42:21Thought you might say you wasn't sure.

0:42:22 > 0:42:25- Definitely Australia? - And you, Harry, yeah?

0:42:25 > 0:42:27Brilliant.

0:42:27 > 0:42:29I am glad we have all chosen Australia,

0:42:29 > 0:42:31I do think it was a hard decision.

0:42:31 > 0:42:34I'm going to start crying again in a minute.

0:42:34 > 0:42:38- Do you think this has got everything to offer?- And more, definitely.

0:42:38 > 0:42:42- I think if we don't give it a go, we would regret it.- Definitely, yes.

0:42:42 > 0:42:45Definitely. We need to give it a shot, don't we?

0:42:45 > 0:42:47Especially for these two, don't we?

0:42:47 > 0:42:50Yeah, definitely. Come on, let's go.

0:42:50 > 0:42:52Come on.

0:42:56 > 0:42:58Fearful of what the future could hold

0:42:58 > 0:43:03if they returned permanently to the UK, Helen and Simon have decided to

0:43:03 > 0:43:07put their relationship and Harry and Alexa's future happiness first.

0:43:07 > 0:43:10A real case of love conquering all,

0:43:10 > 0:43:13and we hope the family go on to make many happy memories together

0:43:13 > 0:43:16when they embark on their new life Down Under.