0:00:02 > 0:00:07Moving halfway around the world to start a new life may seem drastic,
0:00:07 > 0:00:10but if you genuinely believed it was the best option for your young
0:00:10 > 0:00:14family, you might be sorely tempted,
0:00:14 > 0:00:18even if convincing your partner to cut strong ties to home could prove
0:00:18 > 0:00:21the biggest challenge you'll ever face.
0:00:21 > 0:00:25Eight years ago, a near fatal road accident left Paul Nicholls fighting
0:00:25 > 0:00:27for survival.
0:00:27 > 0:00:28We didn't really know
0:00:28 > 0:00:31whether I was going to get better or not, did we?
0:00:31 > 0:00:35Given a second chance at life, he's determined to make the most of it.
0:00:35 > 0:00:37In New Zealand, we'll be able to start again, say,
0:00:37 > 0:00:39a new chapter in our life.
0:00:39 > 0:00:43While a trial week down under sees wife Tracey almost on board...
0:00:43 > 0:00:45Something like this would make me
0:00:45 > 0:00:48seriously consider being able to make the move.
0:00:48 > 0:00:51..granting her husband his dream could see her heartbroken.
0:01:13 > 0:01:16Voted one of the best places in the world to bring up a family,
0:01:16 > 0:01:20it's not hard to understand why almost 9,000 UK residents
0:01:20 > 0:01:23make the move to New Zealand every year.
0:01:23 > 0:01:27Add to that its outstanding natural beauty and temperate climate,
0:01:27 > 0:01:30and it's no wonder it's such a desirable destination for those
0:01:30 > 0:01:32seeking a better life.
0:01:33 > 0:01:36Despite never having been,
0:01:36 > 0:01:40Paul Nicholls is convinced New Zealand could offer his family
0:01:40 > 0:01:43the time together they desperately need.
0:01:43 > 0:01:46But while wife Tracey can see the appeal,
0:01:46 > 0:01:51the prospect of leaving loved ones in the UK is too difficult to
0:01:51 > 0:01:55comprehend. The coming week will give the family a chance to sample
0:01:55 > 0:02:00everything New Zealand has to offer, before making a decision that will
0:02:00 > 0:02:02change their lives forever.
0:02:03 > 0:02:07It's taken almost 23 hours in the air to get from Birmingham to
0:02:07 > 0:02:10New Zealand, but as they touch down in Auckland,
0:02:10 > 0:02:12the Nicholls are in relatively fine form.
0:02:12 > 0:02:14Yeah, it was pretty good, really.
0:02:14 > 0:02:19Long, but these three were golden, taking it in their stride, really.
0:02:19 > 0:02:22I didn't think it was boring at all.
0:02:23 > 0:02:25We haven't had that much sleep, but feel pretty well...
0:02:25 > 0:02:27- Still feel OK.- ..don't we?
0:02:27 > 0:02:30And still looks OK as well.
0:02:30 > 0:02:33Flattery won't necessarily get you what you want, Paul.
0:02:33 > 0:02:35It's a long flight for people to, like, kind of...
0:02:35 > 0:02:37They can't just pop over and visit,
0:02:37 > 0:02:39it is a long way to go.
0:02:39 > 0:02:41Overall, first impressions seem good.
0:02:42 > 0:02:45Everything seems nice and chilled, laid-back.
0:02:45 > 0:02:48And really friendly. Everybody just seems really friendly so far.
0:02:48 > 0:02:52Let's hope their enthusiasm continues, as the family set out on a journey
0:02:52 > 0:02:55which could change their lives forever.
0:02:57 > 0:03:02Meet the Nicholls - their mum Tracey, dad Paul,
0:03:02 > 0:03:07Roman, aged ten, Zeraphina, who's seven, and three-year-old Cassian.
0:03:07 > 0:03:10They live in Halesowen in the West Midlands.
0:03:10 > 0:03:13Life in the UK's a daily juggling act for Mum and Dad.
0:03:13 > 0:03:17We're like ships passing in the night constantly.
0:03:17 > 0:03:20Running three fitness businesses with a young family in tow
0:03:20 > 0:03:22is no easy task.
0:03:22 > 0:03:25If one of us is at home, the other one tends to be out at work.
0:03:25 > 0:03:27It's nonstop.
0:03:27 > 0:03:30And we've got to the point almost where we think it's normal,
0:03:30 > 0:03:32and people are constantly saying, "I don't know how you do it.
0:03:32 > 0:03:35"I don't know how to do it."
0:03:35 > 0:03:38We do sit down sometimes, don't we? And just kind of say,
0:03:38 > 0:03:40"What are we doing?"
0:03:40 > 0:03:42The relentless routine is wearing them down.
0:03:43 > 0:03:47Instead of living in the British rat race,
0:03:47 > 0:03:50I want to get out of that and spend more quality time with the family.
0:03:50 > 0:03:52Desperate for a new beginning,
0:03:52 > 0:03:56Paul's convinced a move to New Zealand would benefit the children.
0:03:56 > 0:04:02I feel the way this country is moving is that
0:04:02 > 0:04:03the kids are growing up too quick.
0:04:03 > 0:04:06I want to give them manners, respect,
0:04:06 > 0:04:09treat other people as you want to be treated yourself.
0:04:09 > 0:04:13My understanding is that the New Zealand way of life is very much like that.
0:04:13 > 0:04:17But getting Tracey to buy into the dream move is proving tricky.
0:04:17 > 0:04:20I would say I'm probably 50-50.
0:04:20 > 0:04:23The idea of it appeals,
0:04:23 > 0:04:26but then when I sit and think practically and logistically,
0:04:26 > 0:04:28that's when I kind of, you know,
0:04:28 > 0:04:32get emotional or a little bit scared of it all.
0:04:33 > 0:04:35I'm a lot more passionate about it than Tracey.
0:04:35 > 0:04:41Paul's a very optimistic person and always sees the best of every situation.
0:04:41 > 0:04:44It was the same positive spirit that saw Paul recover from
0:04:44 > 0:04:47a near fatal motorbike accident eight years ago.
0:04:47 > 0:04:49His brother rang me,
0:04:49 > 0:04:52and he just said to me, "He's had an accident
0:04:52 > 0:04:55"and you need to be there.
0:04:55 > 0:04:57"He's speaking, but he's in a bad way."
0:04:57 > 0:04:59Having suffered multiple injuries,
0:04:59 > 0:05:02Paul spent the following months in recovery.
0:05:02 > 0:05:06We didn't really know whether I was going to get better or not, did we?
0:05:08 > 0:05:10(Sorry.)
0:05:10 > 0:05:12Come on, chin up.
0:05:13 > 0:05:15It was a hard time.
0:05:15 > 0:05:18It's been years, and I still...
0:05:19 > 0:05:21It upsets me really.
0:05:21 > 0:05:24His personality was affected by his injuries.
0:05:26 > 0:05:29Like, Paul's always been a joker and suddenly all that was gone,
0:05:29 > 0:05:32there was no emotion, you couldn't have a laugh with him -
0:05:32 > 0:05:34you can't remember stuff with the children, can you?
0:05:34 > 0:05:39That first year of Zeraphina's life, I can't really recall any of it.
0:05:39 > 0:05:42I wasn't Dad for my children,
0:05:42 > 0:05:47I wasn't husband for my wife because it was a long time to overcome it.
0:05:48 > 0:05:52But I'm overcome now, and I'm here to tell the story.
0:05:52 > 0:05:54Time to do something about it.
0:05:54 > 0:05:56Having fought his way back to health,
0:05:56 > 0:06:00the experience is a huge part of his drive for a fresh start down under.
0:06:00 > 0:06:05In New Zealand we'll be able to start again, say, a new chapter in our life, to move on,
0:06:05 > 0:06:10maybe slow things down a little bit, step back and enjoy life.
0:06:10 > 0:06:12After everything they've been through,
0:06:12 > 0:06:15Tracey's willing to give New Zealand serious consideration,
0:06:15 > 0:06:18but the prospect of leaving her parents in the UK
0:06:18 > 0:06:21is a real stumbling block.
0:06:21 > 0:06:23They play a massive role
0:06:23 > 0:06:25in the children's lives.
0:06:25 > 0:06:27I just see how the kids are with them.
0:06:27 > 0:06:30Oh, sorry!
0:06:32 > 0:06:36And they are just always there, you know, for me.
0:06:36 > 0:06:41And I do, like, think that we'll break their hearts by going.
0:06:43 > 0:06:45The week ahead will be crucial
0:06:45 > 0:06:48in deciding where the family spend the rest of their lives.
0:06:48 > 0:06:51It needs to be...
0:06:51 > 0:06:57massively for the better of the family for me to make the move,
0:06:57 > 0:07:01in all honesty. The whole idea of it all just sounds amazing and it all
0:07:01 > 0:07:05sounds fantastic, but it is the other side of the world.
0:07:12 > 0:07:15The Nicholls are spending their trial week on the Hibiscus Coast,
0:07:15 > 0:07:16north of Auckland.
0:07:16 > 0:07:20Home for their stay is a three-bedroom beach-front property,
0:07:20 > 0:07:23but will their first taste of Kiwi living be to everyone's liking?
0:07:24 > 0:07:27Wowee! Look at that.
0:07:30 > 0:07:33- What a view.- That's made me really fill up, that has.
0:07:33 > 0:07:35Oh, my gosh.
0:07:35 > 0:07:38Paul couldn't have wished for a better start to the week.
0:07:38 > 0:07:42It's what we've come for. Look at that.
0:07:42 > 0:07:44The whole family's in awe.
0:07:46 > 0:07:47How beautiful's that?
0:07:47 > 0:07:51- Very.- Looks like Roman's got the right idea.
0:07:51 > 0:07:54As the family take a stroll by the sea...
0:07:54 > 0:07:57Oh, how lovely's this?
0:07:57 > 0:07:59..Paul's already feeling settled.
0:07:59 > 0:08:03Imagine coming home to that every day. Coming home from school,
0:08:03 > 0:08:05straight out onto the beach.
0:08:05 > 0:08:07Everything's been fantastic.
0:08:07 > 0:08:10It's living up to what I wanted it to be already, and more.
0:08:10 > 0:08:14The distance from home's beginning to sink in with Tracey, though.
0:08:14 > 0:08:18It's so beautiful, but then I've also got the thought that,
0:08:18 > 0:08:20you know, thousands of miles away are the family.
0:08:20 > 0:08:24But she can't fail to be impressed with what she's seen so far.
0:08:25 > 0:08:30When I think about the life of the children, I mean, that's priceless,
0:08:30 > 0:08:34really. We'll see what the rest of the week brings, really.
0:08:40 > 0:08:44Back in the UK, the Nicholls live in a three-bedroom semi
0:08:44 > 0:08:46in Halesowen in the West Midlands.
0:08:46 > 0:08:51It's a nice house, nice area, nice and quiet and tranquil.
0:08:51 > 0:08:54It just really needs to be a little bit bigger.
0:08:54 > 0:08:56There's just no storage.
0:08:56 > 0:08:59Obviously it's only three bedrooms, we've got three children -
0:08:59 > 0:09:02we need a four-bedroomed home, really, now, don't we?
0:09:02 > 0:09:03Ideally, yeah.
0:09:03 > 0:09:07They've a budget of £300,000 for a house down under,
0:09:07 > 0:09:09and know just what they want.
0:09:09 > 0:09:13Nice, large living space, open-plan. Nice big kitchen.
0:09:13 > 0:09:17- We revolve our family in the kitchen, don't we?- Yeah. That's really important.
0:09:17 > 0:09:22Few acres of land would be nice, so we can have a little motocross track.
0:09:22 > 0:09:23In your dreams, Paul.
0:09:23 > 0:09:27Tracey's very clear she wants a property ready to move into.
0:09:27 > 0:09:30It'd be a massive thing for me to go,
0:09:30 > 0:09:34and I'd like the process to be as easy as possible.
0:09:37 > 0:09:39Finding the perfect home is a must
0:09:39 > 0:09:42if Paul's ever to get Tracey on side for a move.
0:09:42 > 0:09:46Today, we'll show the family three properties -
0:09:46 > 0:09:50two close on budget, and one which could be their ideal family home.
0:09:50 > 0:09:52First stop is Millwater.
0:09:52 > 0:09:54This new development is close to the motorway,
0:09:54 > 0:09:59meaning easy access for the 11-mile commute to Auckland.
0:09:59 > 0:10:02But will the Nicholls approve of this modern three-bedroom
0:10:02 > 0:10:03family town house?
0:10:03 > 0:10:06- Looks all right, don't it? - Yeah. Looks gorgeous.
0:10:06 > 0:10:07Oh, wow!
0:10:07 > 0:10:11Oh, that's lovely, isn't it?
0:10:11 > 0:10:13- It's open-plan.- That kitchen's beautiful.
0:10:13 > 0:10:16Things are off to a positive start.
0:10:16 > 0:10:18- That's a nice living space, isn't it?- Yeah.
0:10:18 > 0:10:20Or are they?
0:10:20 > 0:10:22It's not quite as big as I'd like.
0:10:23 > 0:10:26And is that the only space, just a little courtyard?
0:10:26 > 0:10:29- Yeah, looks like it.- Because we'd need a garden, wouldn't we,
0:10:29 > 0:10:32- for you guys, really.- Ideally. - That's not enough.
0:10:32 > 0:10:35Upstairs falls short on space as well.
0:10:35 > 0:10:38It's a little nursery room, isn't it?
0:10:38 > 0:10:40Hm. Little small room.
0:10:40 > 0:10:42Yeah.
0:10:42 > 0:10:43Things pick up next door.
0:10:43 > 0:10:46Oh, this is more like it, isn't it?
0:10:46 > 0:10:48- That's a lot more spacious. - And look at these.
0:10:48 > 0:10:50Built-in wardrobes, so you've got plenty of storage.
0:10:50 > 0:10:54But with just three bedrooms, it could be a tight squeeze.
0:10:54 > 0:10:57The thing is, the two of you would still be sharing a room.
0:10:57 > 0:11:00- I don't really fancy that.- No.
0:11:00 > 0:11:02Mum and Dad seem happy enough with their room.
0:11:02 > 0:11:03This is nice and bright, isn't it?
0:11:03 > 0:11:06- That's very nice.- Oh, that's lovely, isn't it?
0:11:06 > 0:11:09- It's beautiful.- And the en-suite impresses.
0:11:09 > 0:11:11Oh, wow! This is lovely.
0:11:11 > 0:11:14- That's cool.- Gosh, that's a really good size as well, isn't it?
0:11:14 > 0:11:16Look at the size of that shower.
0:11:16 > 0:11:19Tracey seems to be warming to this house.
0:11:19 > 0:11:22We could move in here
0:11:22 > 0:11:24- and not have to do anything. - Oh, gosh, no. Definitely.
0:11:24 > 0:11:27The bedroom opens onto a small balcony.
0:11:27 > 0:11:30Oh, my gosh! Isn't that lovely?
0:11:30 > 0:11:33And the natural bush reserve opposite could make up for the lack
0:11:33 > 0:11:34of outdoor space.
0:11:34 > 0:11:37Within walking distance, we've got beyond there,
0:11:37 > 0:11:40- the fields...- Got the lake up there. - ..rugby pitches...- Rugby.
0:11:40 > 0:11:42- So there's plenty enough for them to do.- Gosh, yeah.
0:11:42 > 0:11:44Things are definitely looking up here -
0:11:44 > 0:11:46and downstairs, the large garage
0:11:46 > 0:11:49could offer a solution to the lack of a fourth bedroom.
0:11:49 > 0:11:51Oh, my gosh, look at the size of this.
0:11:51 > 0:11:54- That's a cool garage, ain't it? - Massive!
0:11:54 > 0:11:58- You could have, like, a little, almost, like, a studio. - Bedroom, play area.
0:11:58 > 0:12:01Not if Zeraphina has her way.
0:12:01 > 0:12:05I think it should be, like, for us, like, to play in,
0:12:05 > 0:12:08like, instead of a garden.
0:12:08 > 0:12:10Good plan, Zeraphina -
0:12:10 > 0:12:13but is this somewhere the family could afford to make their own
0:12:13 > 0:12:16on their £300,000 budget?
0:12:16 > 0:12:19So how much are we thinking for this house, then?
0:12:19 > 0:12:21I'm thinking about...
0:12:21 > 0:12:2430,030 million.
0:12:24 > 0:12:26Let's hope you're not right, Zeraphina.
0:12:26 > 0:12:32I'm thinking probably about £320,000.
0:12:32 > 0:12:35- I'll go with 340.- OK...
0:12:42 > 0:12:45- Ooh!- 330.- Bang on. - Right in between us.
0:12:45 > 0:12:49That's £30,000 over budget, but they're not put off.
0:12:49 > 0:12:51It's achievable.
0:12:51 > 0:12:54- This is somewhere that we could live.- Come straight to.
0:12:54 > 0:12:55With things off to a good start,
0:12:55 > 0:12:58it's time to move onto the next property.
0:12:58 > 0:13:03It's in Stillwater, a tranquil coastal suburb 25 miles north of Auckland.
0:13:03 > 0:13:06A haven for those who enjoy outdoor pursuits,
0:13:06 > 0:13:09it should be right up the Nicholls' street.
0:13:09 > 0:13:12But could this modern four-bedroom family house be home?
0:13:12 > 0:13:15Oh, wow.
0:13:15 > 0:13:17- That looks beautiful. - That's nice and modern.
0:13:17 > 0:13:19- Yeah.- This has got to be a dream house.
0:13:19 > 0:13:20Fingers crossed.
0:13:20 > 0:13:22We'll see when we get in.
0:13:22 > 0:13:25- Oh, wow.- Oh!
0:13:25 > 0:13:28Oh, my gosh.
0:13:28 > 0:13:30Looks like Zeraphina could be right.
0:13:30 > 0:13:32That is beautiful.
0:13:34 > 0:13:37You know, I think we should take shoes off in here, guys.
0:13:38 > 0:13:41- Oh, my word.- That's lovely. - TRACEY GASPS
0:13:43 > 0:13:47The open-plan kitchen/diner's a big hit.
0:13:47 > 0:13:50- This is, like, perfect. Beyond perfect, isn't it, this?- Beautiful.
0:13:50 > 0:13:55The property's designed to capture the best of the magnificent landscape.
0:13:55 > 0:13:57- That's what you call a view. - Air con.
0:13:57 > 0:14:01Look at that, guys. We've got a view of the sea from here as well, look.
0:14:01 > 0:14:03To the harbour.
0:14:03 > 0:14:04Oh, look at that. The estuary.
0:14:04 > 0:14:06That is fantastic.
0:14:06 > 0:14:10And Paul can already see himself living in it.
0:14:10 > 0:14:12Having your breakfast out here in the morning.
0:14:12 > 0:14:15You would just feel like you were on holiday every day, wouldn't you?
0:14:15 > 0:14:17Back indoors, the positivity continues.
0:14:17 > 0:14:21- Nice-sized bedroom.- Oh, wow, this is a lovely room.
0:14:21 > 0:14:24The walk-in wardrobe's got Tracey all aquiver.
0:14:24 > 0:14:28- Oh! Just what Mummy wants! - And there's an en-suite.
0:14:28 > 0:14:30Oh, look at that.
0:14:30 > 0:14:33And the en-suite's a delight as well.
0:14:33 > 0:14:37- Modern and contemporary again. - En-suite. That's lovely.
0:14:37 > 0:14:41The children's bedrooms go down a treat.
0:14:41 > 0:14:44- Another double room. - Another one.- This is my room.
0:14:44 > 0:14:48- Another view as well.- This is big. And look how bright it is again.
0:14:48 > 0:14:50Goodness me! What's in there, Zeraphina?
0:14:52 > 0:14:56- A place to hide, and something to put your...- Oh, great.
0:14:56 > 0:14:58- Ooh!- Oh, my goodness.- Oh, gosh.
0:14:58 > 0:15:02- Didn't expect this.- Oh! Goodness me!
0:15:02 > 0:15:05The bedroom leads out to a small terrace.
0:15:05 > 0:15:07Look at this space we've got out here.
0:15:07 > 0:15:11- Look at this.- Another room with a view. What more could you ask for?
0:15:11 > 0:15:13It's perfect, isn't it?
0:15:13 > 0:15:16As the children head down to explore the garden,
0:15:16 > 0:15:18Mum and Dad go back indoors for another look.
0:15:18 > 0:15:20Beautiful.
0:15:20 > 0:15:23This is just... It's perfect, isn't it?
0:15:23 > 0:15:27Something like this would make me think...seriously, seriously consider,
0:15:27 > 0:15:29- you know, being able to make the move.- That's good.
0:15:29 > 0:15:31That's what I want to hear.
0:15:31 > 0:15:33It's music to Paul's ears,
0:15:33 > 0:15:37but will it be within reach of their £300,000 budget?
0:15:37 > 0:15:40OK, then, guys. How much are we thinking this one is?
0:15:40 > 0:15:44Oh...way over.
0:15:44 > 0:15:48I think it's going to be about 500,000.
0:15:48 > 0:15:51- I think about 250.- OK.
0:15:51 > 0:15:54Erm...I think about 550,000.
0:15:54 > 0:15:57Right. I think it's going to be about 450.
0:15:57 > 0:15:58OK...
0:16:06 > 0:16:08- Are you ready?- Let's have a look.
0:16:10 > 0:16:12- 380!- No?!
0:16:12 > 0:16:14Oh, my gosh!
0:16:14 > 0:16:18It's £80,000 over budget, but it's a lot less than they expected.
0:16:18 > 0:16:21That is unbelievable.
0:16:21 > 0:16:22I thought, no chance.
0:16:25 > 0:16:27Paul's got just one question.
0:16:27 > 0:16:29- Could you live here?- No.
0:16:29 > 0:16:31- Yes.- Yes?- No and yes.
0:16:31 > 0:16:33OK.
0:16:33 > 0:16:35- Mum?- No-brainer for the house.
0:16:35 > 0:16:37The house is amazing.
0:16:37 > 0:16:38It's a dream home.
0:16:38 > 0:16:43The ideal home already, and still one property to go.
0:16:43 > 0:16:45The final stop of the day is Orewa.
0:16:45 > 0:16:47One of Auckland's largest suburbs,
0:16:47 > 0:16:51this area's a magnet for those looking to make the most of the outdoor lifestyle on offer.
0:16:52 > 0:16:58So, will this quirky '60s-style house be what the Nicholls are looking for?
0:16:59 > 0:17:01Oh, my gosh, it is huge!
0:17:01 > 0:17:03OK...
0:17:03 > 0:17:05Here we go.
0:17:06 > 0:17:09OK. It's big...
0:17:09 > 0:17:12- It's quite spacious.- Open.
0:17:12 > 0:17:15- Not as modern, obviously.- Yeah.
0:17:16 > 0:17:18Kitchen's a good size.
0:17:18 > 0:17:21Paul's still upbeat, but Tracey's not convinced.
0:17:21 > 0:17:24- Very woody.- Yeah.- Smell the wood.
0:17:24 > 0:17:27- You can smell the wood. - Smell it.- Hm.
0:17:27 > 0:17:31Outdoors though, the wooden patio doesn't seem to bother her at all.
0:17:31 > 0:17:33This is a nice big area, isn't it?
0:17:33 > 0:17:35Yeah. Catches the sun.
0:17:35 > 0:17:38There's plenty of room for the children to let off steam.
0:17:38 > 0:17:40There's a lot of land actually with this.
0:17:40 > 0:17:42- I mean, it's very private, isn't it? - Yeah, it's nice.
0:17:44 > 0:17:48Back indoors, Tracey's nostrils are twitching yet again.
0:17:49 > 0:17:51Is that damp I can smell?
0:17:51 > 0:17:55- That's damp. - It's just the old wood smell.
0:17:55 > 0:17:57- Do you think? - Yeah, it's all old wood.
0:17:57 > 0:17:59Nice try, Paul.
0:17:59 > 0:18:01- It's damp.- Old wood.
0:18:01 > 0:18:02No, it isn't, it's damp.
0:18:02 > 0:18:04- OK, it's damp.- It is.
0:18:04 > 0:18:07Did you get that? It's damp.
0:18:07 > 0:18:10Before Tracey completely turns her nose up at the property,
0:18:10 > 0:18:12the couple check out the bedrooms.
0:18:13 > 0:18:15- Hm.- OK. Decent size room.
0:18:18 > 0:18:20- Just got a bed in.- Bit dinky.
0:18:20 > 0:18:21OK.
0:18:21 > 0:18:23- Hm.- OK, another room.
0:18:23 > 0:18:25Oh.
0:18:26 > 0:18:28- That's a bit unusual.- Yeah.
0:18:28 > 0:18:31- OK.- Quite small and cramped in here, ain't it?- Yeah...
0:18:31 > 0:18:34Double bed, but there's no storage, is there? Again.
0:18:34 > 0:18:37While Paul's dazzled by the master...
0:18:37 > 0:18:39This is a bit nicer, ain't it?
0:18:39 > 0:18:40..Tracey's not impressed.
0:18:45 > 0:18:48For a big house though, there's not a lot of storage, is there?
0:18:48 > 0:18:52The family bathroom does little to lift their spirits.
0:18:52 > 0:18:54Oh. Bathroom...
0:18:54 > 0:18:56- OK.- No shower.
0:18:56 > 0:18:59Storage? No shower.
0:18:59 > 0:19:03It's far from the perfect property after all.
0:19:03 > 0:19:05A fair size house, but a lot to do.
0:19:05 > 0:19:07We'd have to modernise it.
0:19:07 > 0:19:11But if the price falls on the right side of their £300,000 budget,
0:19:11 > 0:19:13could it bring them round?
0:19:13 > 0:19:16I'm thinking about...260.
0:19:16 > 0:19:19I'll go with...
0:19:19 > 0:19:21290.
0:19:21 > 0:19:24OK. Shall we find out, then, how much it is?
0:19:28 > 0:19:30Turn it over, Zeraphina.
0:19:32 > 0:19:34Oh, my gosh.
0:19:34 > 0:19:37Oh, my gosh!
0:19:37 > 0:19:41It's almost 50% over budget.
0:19:41 > 0:19:47£440,000, and then the amount of money that we'd have to spend on it
0:19:47 > 0:19:50- would just be phenomenal. - Be about 500,000.
0:19:50 > 0:19:54Well, phew, then! That's a relief that we're all not really bothered
0:19:54 > 0:19:58about it, because we certainly couldn't afford it anyway.
0:19:58 > 0:20:02The Nicholls' house-hunting day has delivered mixed results.
0:20:02 > 0:20:04Despite being a bedroom short of ideal,
0:20:04 > 0:20:08the first property's modern interior appealed, and it was somewhere
0:20:08 > 0:20:10the family felt they could call home.
0:20:10 > 0:20:14The second house WAS the dream home, and although over budget,
0:20:14 > 0:20:16Tracey felt she could be tempted.
0:20:16 > 0:20:19The final property's outdoor space impressed,
0:20:19 > 0:20:21but indoors was a letdown,
0:20:21 > 0:20:23and left Tracey with a bad smell.
0:20:23 > 0:20:24So when it comes to homes down under,
0:20:24 > 0:20:28will the family vote for the UK or New Zealand?
0:20:28 > 0:20:33Based on the properties that we've seen today, our vote goes to...
0:20:43 > 0:20:45..New Zealand!
0:20:45 > 0:20:47New Zealand!
0:20:49 > 0:20:50Hold it up, hold it up.
0:20:50 > 0:20:53- New Zealand.- You all like the New Zealand houses.
0:20:53 > 0:20:55I think they're more posher.
0:20:55 > 0:20:58- You feel like you're on holiday all the time, which is awesome. - It's cool.
0:20:58 > 0:21:02Everything that we wanted, that we said we wanted in a property, we've seen.
0:21:02 > 0:21:05First two properties had it in.
0:21:05 > 0:21:07- Yep.- So, yeah.
0:21:07 > 0:21:08- New Zealand.- OK. New Zealand.
0:21:14 > 0:21:17A unanimous vote for New Zealand is a step in the right direction
0:21:17 > 0:21:20for Paul's dream of a better life.
0:21:20 > 0:21:22But if it's to become a reality,
0:21:22 > 0:21:25the couple will need to secure employment.
0:21:25 > 0:21:29Back in the UK, they both work in the fitness industry.
0:21:29 > 0:21:33Currently run off their feet with three businesses between them,
0:21:33 > 0:21:35the dream would be to pool their resources down under.
0:21:36 > 0:21:40Tracey's got really good skills that I haven't got, and
0:21:40 > 0:21:42I've got good skills that she hasn't got.
0:21:42 > 0:21:46If we had one business that we could run between ourselves,
0:21:46 > 0:21:49life would be so much... so much easier.
0:21:49 > 0:21:52Leaving behind what they've built up in the UK would be a wrench,
0:21:52 > 0:21:55but Paul's convinced it's a sacrifice worth making.
0:21:56 > 0:22:00If I want to go there, I'll do whatever it takes to get there.
0:22:00 > 0:22:04To find out how they would go about starting their own business down under,
0:22:04 > 0:22:07we've arranged for them to meet an expat couple who've done just that.
0:22:07 > 0:22:10Mike, also known as Gladiator Wolf,
0:22:10 > 0:22:13and wife Paula, moved to New Zealand 11 years ago.
0:22:13 > 0:22:17They've been in the fitness industry a long time.
0:22:17 > 0:22:21I was doing gyms before even Gladiators, you know, and
0:22:21 > 0:22:23it's what I've always known best.
0:22:23 > 0:22:26Tracey's keen to know how business has been for them down under.
0:22:26 > 0:22:30There's three or four big chains here, all across New Zealand.
0:22:30 > 0:22:33They're so cheap, and they're undercutting everybody.
0:22:33 > 0:22:38It is a hard, competitive market, but if you have got a good product,
0:22:38 > 0:22:39you will do well.
0:22:39 > 0:22:42Once you have somebody come through your door,
0:22:42 > 0:22:45it's great, but you have to get them through the door first.
0:22:45 > 0:22:49So, what advice would you have to us moving out here?
0:22:49 > 0:22:52The thing to do is to find the right place.
0:22:52 > 0:22:55That's quite important, to look at your demographics and make sure that
0:22:55 > 0:22:57you've got the right area.
0:22:57 > 0:22:58Sound advice -
0:22:58 > 0:23:02but the couple would need to earn an income while doing their research.
0:23:02 > 0:23:06Both being qualified personal trainers, you could come and go that
0:23:06 > 0:23:11route for now until you find your niche or find your place where you want to open.
0:23:11 > 0:23:14Do you find there's much of a body-building community at all?
0:23:15 > 0:23:19A lot of the rugby players have got fantastic physiques
0:23:19 > 0:23:22so they look good, and they train, and you get the spin-off from that.
0:23:22 > 0:23:26So what kind of money could they expect to make?
0:23:26 > 0:23:30Personal trainers earn anywhere between 60 to 100 bucks an hour.
0:23:30 > 0:23:32That's about £45 an hour.
0:23:32 > 0:23:34Based on a 30-hour week,
0:23:34 > 0:23:37the couple could almost double their monthly income working as personal
0:23:37 > 0:23:41trainers in New Zealand. But would their work-life balance improve?
0:23:41 > 0:23:45We've got three businesses back home, and it's just so busy.
0:23:45 > 0:23:48The quality of life that we have, we're like headless chickens,
0:23:48 > 0:23:50just kind of passing ships.
0:23:50 > 0:23:52How do you guys kind of get along,
0:23:52 > 0:23:54- do you have the same, or...? - Exactly the same.
0:23:54 > 0:23:57I think that's the nature of the business though, isn't it?
0:23:57 > 0:24:00If you've got a business and you've got three children, it's busy.
0:24:00 > 0:24:02On the upside though, Paula's quick to point out
0:24:02 > 0:24:05there's strong community support in New Zealand.
0:24:05 > 0:24:10When you meet a good crowd of people, they are amazing, the Kiwis.
0:24:10 > 0:24:14You know, they're helpful, and people will take your children
0:24:14 > 0:24:17so even though I don't have the family support, or we're busy,
0:24:17 > 0:24:20there's always somebody I can call on and say, "Hey, look,
0:24:20 > 0:24:22"I'm really stuck, could you...?" "Not a problem."
0:24:22 > 0:24:25Looks like they've no regrets about moving.
0:24:25 > 0:24:29The best thing, I would say, we have probably done.
0:24:29 > 0:24:32- Ever done? - Yeah. It's an amazing country.
0:24:32 > 0:24:35It's just so beautiful and laid-back here.
0:24:35 > 0:24:38It's been an encouraging visit.
0:24:38 > 0:24:40As the couple reflect on the day,
0:24:40 > 0:24:43it seems starting out as personal trainers could be a plan.
0:24:43 > 0:24:48Realistically, the business opportunities are there,
0:24:48 > 0:24:52however, I think, to start off with, we'd have to go with the job route,
0:24:52 > 0:24:53- personal training.- Yeah.
0:24:53 > 0:24:55The big question is now,
0:24:55 > 0:24:57with the experiences that we've had today,
0:24:57 > 0:24:59would it push you that little bit further
0:24:59 > 0:25:01to leave England and come here?
0:25:01 > 0:25:03I know it wouldn't be easy.
0:25:03 > 0:25:05Erm...
0:25:05 > 0:25:08But I think what's coming out is that everybody that's gone
0:25:08 > 0:25:10wouldn't go back, they wouldn't go back to the UK,
0:25:10 > 0:25:13the kids have got an amazing life, so I know that I really,
0:25:13 > 0:25:16really have to focus completely on what's best in them.
0:25:16 > 0:25:19So when it comes to the vote, has today done enough to convince
0:25:19 > 0:25:23Tracey to put Paul a step closer to the life he wants in New Zealand?
0:25:23 > 0:25:27OK. After our experiences today, we choose...
0:25:36 > 0:25:38- ..New Zealand.- Undecided.
0:25:39 > 0:25:42I knew you would vote New Zealand.
0:25:42 > 0:25:46I've just got a few little concerns that I'd need to just find out more
0:25:46 > 0:25:50information, before I could definitely say I could make a move based on the job.
0:25:50 > 0:25:53It may be hard, it won't be easy,
0:25:53 > 0:25:55but we could do it if we wanted to.
0:26:00 > 0:26:03With Tracey undecided about work,
0:26:03 > 0:26:06it looks like Paul's dream of a new life in New Zealand
0:26:06 > 0:26:09could be on sticky ground.
0:26:09 > 0:26:12But a move's all about improving the family's lifestyle,
0:26:12 > 0:26:14so will a day out in the Kiwi climate
0:26:14 > 0:26:17be enough to bring Tracey back round
0:26:17 > 0:26:19to Paul's point of view?
0:26:19 > 0:26:21The Nicholls are an active family,
0:26:21 > 0:26:24and yearn to spend more time together outdoors.
0:26:24 > 0:26:27Today's a rare chance to do just that, as they head off
0:26:27 > 0:26:30to explore one of New Zealand's famous cycleways.
0:26:30 > 0:26:33The route takes them along a five-mile track
0:26:33 > 0:26:35via the Orewa tidal estuary.
0:26:37 > 0:26:40- Come on, Mum, bunch up a bit. - Yeah, I'm right here.
0:26:42 > 0:26:46Go, Phina! Go, Phina!
0:26:47 > 0:26:49OK, That's a nice spot.
0:26:49 > 0:26:52The day's a reminder of what they're missing out on back home.
0:26:52 > 0:26:53They're loving it.
0:26:54 > 0:26:57I could see us doing this.
0:26:57 > 0:26:59Yeah, it has been a lovely day.
0:26:59 > 0:27:03Just doing this kind of every weekend,
0:27:03 > 0:27:08- I have to admit, it's pretty awesome, really.- Yeah.
0:27:08 > 0:27:10It's put Tracey in a reflective mood.
0:27:12 > 0:27:14With your accident and everything we've been through,
0:27:14 > 0:27:17and we always said, life is there to be lived.
0:27:18 > 0:27:24And I know back home, actually, it's just...
0:27:24 > 0:27:26- A rat race.- A rat race, yeah.
0:27:29 > 0:27:31We take so much for granted.
0:27:31 > 0:27:33We really do.
0:27:33 > 0:27:37Today, it's making me really appreciate everything.
0:27:37 > 0:27:39Live life to the full.
0:27:39 > 0:27:43Appreciate you being here, and they could have been without a dad.
0:27:43 > 0:27:48It's just great, the five of us together enjoying it.
0:27:48 > 0:27:53Roman's also busy working out how everyone feels about moving.
0:27:55 > 0:27:58I think Dad is definite.
0:27:58 > 0:28:00This is what we really want and what I really want,
0:28:00 > 0:28:02what I'd like for the family.
0:28:02 > 0:28:04Phina's definite.
0:28:04 > 0:28:08Yes. Because, like, it's nice and sunny here,
0:28:08 > 0:28:12and I think it's better than England.
0:28:12 > 0:28:15Cassian has no clue what's going on.
0:28:15 > 0:28:16Erm...
0:28:16 > 0:28:18I'm...
0:28:19 > 0:28:20..near definite.
0:28:20 > 0:28:24Er... Well, pretty much, yeah.
0:28:24 > 0:28:26And then, I think Mum's in the middle.
0:28:26 > 0:28:28It's an amazing place, it seems.
0:28:30 > 0:28:31But then it's also important
0:28:31 > 0:28:35that they've got their grandparents in their life as well.
0:28:35 > 0:28:39So I have to weigh up which is the most important.
0:28:39 > 0:28:42The family have plenty to think about,
0:28:42 > 0:28:45but when it comes to lifestyle, will it be home or away?
0:28:45 > 0:28:48Based on the New Zealand lifestyle, we vote...
0:28:57 > 0:28:59- ALL:- ..New Zealand!
0:29:00 > 0:29:01Whoa...!
0:29:01 > 0:29:04That's a bit of a full house there.
0:29:04 > 0:29:06What's made you choose New Zealand?
0:29:06 > 0:29:10First of all, it's been nice and sunny, and second of all,
0:29:10 > 0:29:15the parks are like, really good.
0:29:15 > 0:29:17- Going on the beach.- Wow.
0:29:17 > 0:29:20It's just been lovely to spend some lovely time all together.
0:29:20 > 0:29:22We had a fantastic day.
0:29:22 > 0:29:26I could see us doing this for the rest of our lives.
0:29:26 > 0:29:30It's hitting me that... yeah, it's got that to offer us
0:29:30 > 0:29:32so...yeah.
0:29:39 > 0:29:41With the Kiwi lifestyle winning Tracey over,
0:29:41 > 0:29:45Paul's dream could be within reach.
0:29:45 > 0:29:47But if his aspirations are to become a reality,
0:29:47 > 0:29:50the family finances will have to stack up.
0:29:50 > 0:29:54The couple believe their home in the UK is worth around £180,000.
0:29:54 > 0:29:56While Cassian takes a nap,
0:29:56 > 0:29:58the rest of the family sit down
0:29:58 > 0:30:01to find out if two local estate agents agree.
0:30:01 > 0:30:03- Ooh!- There's our house.
0:30:09 > 0:30:11Very nice spacious lounge.
0:30:11 > 0:30:15Nice decoration. Lovely flooring.
0:30:17 > 0:30:19Very nice breakfast kitchen.
0:30:19 > 0:30:22Nice to have the open-plan living.
0:30:22 > 0:30:23High-gloss units.
0:30:23 > 0:30:24Very nice.
0:30:24 > 0:30:27It looks quite big, actually, doesn't it?
0:30:27 > 0:30:28Good size conservatory.
0:30:28 > 0:30:32Would recommend changing some of the panes due to condensation.
0:30:32 > 0:30:33Yeah.
0:30:37 > 0:30:39Nice size master bedroom,
0:30:39 > 0:30:42I like the fitted wardrobes and great view to the rear.
0:30:42 > 0:30:45- We've got a lovely view back home, haven't we?- Yeah.
0:30:48 > 0:30:51Nicely refitted bathroom, with a corner shower cubicle.
0:30:51 > 0:30:52Very nicely tiled.
0:30:52 > 0:30:55- That's what I did.- I know.
0:30:56 > 0:31:00This is my bedroom. Well, and Roman's.
0:31:00 > 0:31:02Good size children's bedroom.
0:31:02 > 0:31:04Can clearly see the issue with the storage.
0:31:04 > 0:31:07In today's market, I would value the property at 210,000.
0:31:07 > 0:31:10For a quick sale, I'd recommend putting the property on the market
0:31:10 > 0:31:12for 200,000.
0:31:12 > 0:31:16In today's market, I would recommend an asking price of 199,950.
0:31:16 > 0:31:20And for a quick sale, offers in the region of 195,000.
0:31:20 > 0:31:21Oh, gosh.
0:31:21 > 0:31:24The valuations are a pleasant surprise.
0:31:24 > 0:31:27That's a bit of extra money that we'd not really thought about, had we?
0:31:27 > 0:31:31Next, the couple move on to examine the everyday cost of living.
0:31:31 > 0:31:33This is when it all becomes a little bit more real,
0:31:33 > 0:31:36see if we can afford it.
0:31:36 > 0:31:40We've provided a comparison of costs between the UK and New Zealand.
0:31:40 > 0:31:43First up, they tackle the weekly food bill.
0:31:43 > 0:31:48Interestingly, chicken is our staple, yeah. That's cheaper.
0:31:48 > 0:31:51- That's working out cheaper. - Same with the fish.
0:31:51 > 0:31:53Milk...
0:31:53 > 0:31:55- Milk's a bit more expensive.- Yeah, milk's more expensive, isn't it?
0:31:59 > 0:32:02It's a difference of £48.56
0:32:02 > 0:32:05- more expensive here.- Mm.
0:32:05 > 0:32:10Almost £50 more for food every week is a significant increase.
0:32:10 > 0:32:14I wouldn't have expected it to be that much different.
0:32:14 > 0:32:18The couple move on to tackle the bigger outgoings.
0:32:18 > 0:32:20Basing sums on the first property they saw,
0:32:20 > 0:32:23their mortgage would almost double down under.
0:32:23 > 0:32:27We're looking at 506...
0:32:27 > 0:32:30- Extra.- Yeah, that's massive, isn't it?- Mm.
0:32:30 > 0:32:34There is SOME good news.
0:32:34 > 0:32:36The council tax is cheaper.
0:32:36 > 0:32:39But when they add everything up...
0:32:39 > 0:32:47£506 more expensive per month in New Zealand.
0:32:47 > 0:32:49That is the mortgage exactly, actually.
0:32:49 > 0:32:51- Yeah, it is.- Everything else balances out.
0:32:51 > 0:32:54It's a huge increase in monthly outgoings,
0:32:54 > 0:32:56but factoring in the extra money
0:32:56 > 0:32:59from the valuation of their UK property,
0:32:59 > 0:33:02the couple could reduce their mortgage in New Zealand.
0:33:02 > 0:33:05If we went on the top price of the 210, what the estate agent come out,
0:33:05 > 0:33:07- that's £30,000 more.- Yeah.
0:33:07 > 0:33:10- Yeah. So that would reduce that down, wouldn't it?- Yeah.
0:33:10 > 0:33:13And that's not the only saving.
0:33:13 > 0:33:15Basing their income on being personal trainers down under,
0:33:15 > 0:33:19and taking away the overheads they incur in the UK,
0:33:19 > 0:33:22the couple discover they could actually be
0:33:22 > 0:33:26almost £2,000 better off every month in New Zealand.
0:33:26 > 0:33:27It's a no-brainer.
0:33:27 > 0:33:31I know. And that was based on the house we liked, the house we really,
0:33:31 > 0:33:33- really, really liked.- Yeah.
0:33:33 > 0:33:38That makes that look actually, well, that's probably slightly achievable.
0:33:38 > 0:33:40The extra money could also mean
0:33:40 > 0:33:42extra time at home with the children.
0:33:42 > 0:33:45My biggie is that I said if I made the move, I wanted to be able
0:33:45 > 0:33:47to be at home with the children.
0:33:47 > 0:33:50We could afford for me not even to do that many hours if need be.
0:33:50 > 0:33:54Suddenly, the idea of running a joint personal training business
0:33:54 > 0:33:57is looking much more attractive than setting up a gym.
0:33:57 > 0:34:02- Everything we earn would be coming back to us, wouldn't it?- Mm.
0:34:02 > 0:34:03- So I think that's... - A lot more simple.
0:34:03 > 0:34:06Yeah. Just simplifying everything.
0:34:06 > 0:34:10No prizes for weighing up how this vote goes.
0:34:10 > 0:34:12OK, looking at the numbers and figures
0:34:12 > 0:34:17based on the New Zealand earnings, we shall be voting for...
0:34:26 > 0:34:29- BOTH:- ..New Zealand!
0:34:29 > 0:34:31- Great.- I knew you would do it.
0:34:31 > 0:34:33Well... It's a no-brainer, isn't it, really?
0:34:33 > 0:34:37It means a slightly easier lifestyle without the businesses.
0:34:37 > 0:34:38More family time for the children.
0:34:38 > 0:34:42Yeah. And we can just help and support each other, can't we really?
0:34:42 > 0:34:43- Yeah.- Yeah. Good.
0:34:47 > 0:34:50With the finances solidly in the black,
0:34:50 > 0:34:54Paul's dream of a fresh start in New Zealand survives another day.
0:34:54 > 0:34:57But there's still one more obstacle to overcome.
0:34:57 > 0:34:58Struggling with the idea of taking
0:34:58 > 0:35:00the children away from their grandparents,
0:35:00 > 0:35:04will the emotional cost of leaving loved ones be too much
0:35:04 > 0:35:06for Tracey to bear?
0:35:06 > 0:35:08With Cassian still sleeping,
0:35:08 > 0:35:10Roman and Zeraphina have assured Mum and Dad
0:35:10 > 0:35:13they'd like to watch some messages from home.
0:35:14 > 0:35:17I am dreading this bit.
0:35:17 > 0:35:21- Hello, everyone.- Hi, Paul, hi, kids.
0:35:21 > 0:35:23Hi, Paul, Tracey and the kids.
0:35:23 > 0:35:25Hi, guys.
0:35:25 > 0:35:27Hope you're really enjoying yourself.
0:35:27 > 0:35:29Paul's very caring, very strong-minded as well.
0:35:29 > 0:35:31If you ever need anything, he's always there.
0:35:31 > 0:35:34He always wants you to help HIM out quite a lot, as well!
0:35:35 > 0:35:37Can't say anything bad about him
0:35:37 > 0:35:38because he's always been such a good lad.
0:35:38 > 0:35:41- Yeah, he's a really good lad.- He phones us up regular to make sure
0:35:41 > 0:35:44we're all right. Checking to see if we're still alive!
0:35:44 > 0:35:48- Tracey's a lovely daughter. - We love her to bits, both of us.
0:35:48 > 0:35:52If ever I need her, I just give her a call and she's there for me -
0:35:52 > 0:35:54well, for both of us, isn't she?
0:35:54 > 0:35:58We've supported each other through hard times, good times.
0:35:58 > 0:36:00Just proper friendship, really.
0:36:00 > 0:36:03Honestly, I love her to bits.
0:36:03 > 0:36:07The kids are fantastic and they're a testament to their parents as well.
0:36:07 > 0:36:10Well, we call the little one Bruiser, because he's always
0:36:10 > 0:36:14running around bruising, bumping into everything.
0:36:14 > 0:36:16Zeraphina's my little princess.
0:36:16 > 0:36:19And I call Roman me little man.
0:36:20 > 0:36:22I mean, we're all proud of them all, actually.
0:36:24 > 0:36:27I don't know where he even got the idea for moving to New Zealand.
0:36:27 > 0:36:31I didn't want to think about it, that they would go over there.
0:36:31 > 0:36:35He's done extremely well to get back to where he is now, and I think that
0:36:35 > 0:36:38was also a turning point in Paul as well,
0:36:38 > 0:36:42where you understand that life is so delicate that it can be taken away
0:36:42 > 0:36:45from you, that... to go to New Zealand,
0:36:45 > 0:36:49it's only pushed him on to want it even more.
0:36:49 > 0:36:51We will miss them, terrible.
0:36:51 > 0:36:54You know, you can't imagine not seeing them.
0:36:54 > 0:36:59They've only got Tracey and her children, really,
0:36:59 > 0:37:03and I think she'd really struggle leaving the parents behind.
0:37:03 > 0:37:08Massive, massive hole in our life if they left us, wouldn't it?
0:37:08 > 0:37:10- It would, really.- Yeah.
0:37:10 > 0:37:13I can feel my heart pounding now just thinking about it.
0:37:14 > 0:37:16If they want to go...
0:37:17 > 0:37:19I just hope when they get out there, they might change their mind.
0:37:20 > 0:37:23I'll miss the free gym membership
0:37:23 > 0:37:26that comes with being best friends with Paul.
0:37:26 > 0:37:27But yeah, I will miss them a lot.
0:37:27 > 0:37:29I'd be gutted to lose her.
0:37:30 > 0:37:33Oh, dear.
0:37:33 > 0:37:35I shall miss me lovely hugs.
0:37:35 > 0:37:40And that's what you miss most, that closeness.
0:37:40 > 0:37:44I think it'll be like times for birthdays, Christmases,
0:37:44 > 0:37:47when we usually open presents together and...
0:37:47 > 0:37:51there'd just be none of that any more.
0:37:57 > 0:37:59I'll really, really miss you.
0:37:59 > 0:38:01I'd never hold you back.
0:38:01 > 0:38:04I think it's amazing what you want to do for your family.
0:38:04 > 0:38:08Whatever you decide to do, we wish you all the best in the world.
0:38:08 > 0:38:10We'd miss you loads, you know that.
0:38:10 > 0:38:13And you know we love you very much.
0:38:14 > 0:38:16It's a big decision. Think very,
0:38:16 > 0:38:20very hard about it before you make the final decision.
0:38:20 > 0:38:23Weigh it all up. Weigh everything up.
0:38:23 > 0:38:25Love you. Bye.
0:38:29 > 0:38:30Whew!
0:38:32 > 0:38:34That was emotional, wasn't it?
0:38:34 > 0:38:37Yeah. I'd just miss them if we actually came.
0:38:37 > 0:38:39It's a big decision we've got to make.
0:38:39 > 0:38:42If I'm not there, who's going to help them?
0:38:44 > 0:38:45That's what's hard.
0:38:50 > 0:38:54Watching messages from loved ones was difficult for everyone,
0:38:54 > 0:38:56but for Tracey in particular,
0:38:56 > 0:38:59the impact of moving to the other side of the world
0:38:59 > 0:39:01has really hit home.
0:39:01 > 0:39:05As the family prepare to make the biggest decision of their lives,
0:39:05 > 0:39:11is Paul's vision for their future about to be knocked out of focus?
0:39:11 > 0:39:14Their time down under has been a confirmation
0:39:14 > 0:39:16of everything Paul hoped New Zealand would be.
0:39:16 > 0:39:20100%. Just so much better out here.
0:39:20 > 0:39:25The people that we met and the places that we've been, beautiful.
0:39:25 > 0:39:28Little bit of rain today, but it's still positive,
0:39:28 > 0:39:30it's still nice, still good.
0:39:30 > 0:39:33It's opened Tracey's eyes to the kind of life they could have
0:39:33 > 0:39:35on the other side of the world.
0:39:35 > 0:39:38I think probably I had in my head
0:39:38 > 0:39:40that maybe we would come out
0:39:40 > 0:39:43and not kind of be as blown away as we have been.
0:39:43 > 0:39:47But she's still torn about what they'd be leaving behind.
0:39:47 > 0:39:51It's just seeing the friends and family messages now that has just...
0:39:51 > 0:39:52as I knew, would just throw
0:39:52 > 0:39:55a massive, massive spanner in the works.
0:39:55 > 0:39:58We just spend so much time together as a family.
0:40:00 > 0:40:02And then we'll lose that,
0:40:02 > 0:40:04the children will lose that and they'll lose that.
0:40:04 > 0:40:07And that's something massive to consider.
0:40:07 > 0:40:11I love my parents equally as much as she does hers.
0:40:11 > 0:40:16However, you know, my life's now about my children.
0:40:16 > 0:40:18I really want to do what's best for them.
0:40:18 > 0:40:22He can switch off more than I can.
0:40:22 > 0:40:25He just looks at the final outcome and
0:40:25 > 0:40:27it's a new chapter and...
0:40:27 > 0:40:30you know, the kids have got the rest of their lives,
0:40:30 > 0:40:32he looks at that and the bigger picture.
0:40:32 > 0:40:35But having faced death once in his life,
0:40:35 > 0:40:38Paul's unwavering in his desire for a fresh start.
0:40:38 > 0:40:41Every now and again, I'll have a little blip and flick back and go,
0:40:41 > 0:40:43"Gosh, I'm lucky to be here."
0:40:43 > 0:40:46But I feel that we should get out and at least give it a try.
0:40:46 > 0:40:50If the decision was no, yes, it would be hard for me.
0:40:50 > 0:40:55Because having lived the dream for a week or so,
0:40:55 > 0:41:00and realising what it has to offer...
0:41:00 > 0:41:02yeah, that would be hard.
0:41:02 > 0:41:06As they face the biggest decision of their lives, the pressure is on.
0:41:06 > 0:41:08I've got rose-tinted glasses on.
0:41:08 > 0:41:13Do I need to look and spend more time here to make that decision?
0:41:13 > 0:41:18That there is definitely enough here to break up the family?
0:41:18 > 0:41:21There's been so many plus points,
0:41:21 > 0:41:26but the one negative one is like, a really big negative.
0:41:26 > 0:41:29So...it's going to be hard to say.
0:41:29 > 0:41:33The family's future hinges on one final turn of the cards.
0:41:34 > 0:41:39Based on all our experiences in New Zealand, we choose...
0:41:55 > 0:41:57- ..New Zealand!- New Zealand!
0:41:57 > 0:41:59Zealand!
0:41:59 > 0:42:01Yay!
0:42:01 > 0:42:04Well...I'm surprised by your vote.
0:42:04 > 0:42:07It was really hard to make the decision.
0:42:07 > 0:42:12Erm... I think I'm optimistic that grandparents will visit,
0:42:12 > 0:42:14I'm hanging on to that hope.
0:42:14 > 0:42:17But I think...
0:42:17 > 0:42:21I also have to accept that you're my priority and the children are my priority,
0:42:21 > 0:42:27and if the five of us can have a better quality of life here then...
0:42:27 > 0:42:29then that's, you know, really important.
0:42:29 > 0:42:33Well, for me, it's everything and more that we'd ever hoped for.
0:42:33 > 0:42:37Now I think we've just got a lot of work ahead of us, really.
0:42:37 > 0:42:41- Yeah.- So many decisions to be made and so much to look at.
0:42:41 > 0:42:44What do you think, then? Back to the UK?
0:42:44 > 0:42:48Start thinking about the future, what we can do?
0:42:48 > 0:42:51The Nicholls' first trip down under
0:42:51 > 0:42:54has been both emotional and eventful.
0:42:54 > 0:42:56But with Tracey convinced New Zealand
0:42:56 > 0:43:00can ultimately give her family everything they want,
0:43:00 > 0:43:04it looks like Paul's dream may soon be their reality.
0:43:04 > 0:43:06We wish them all the luck in the world,
0:43:06 > 0:43:09and hopefully it won't be too long
0:43:09 > 0:43:13before they're packing up for their new life down under.