Coe Family

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0:44:50 > 0:44:57.

0:45:05 > 0:45:08Convincing your family to move to the other side of the world

0:45:08 > 0:45:11requires a big leap of faith.

0:45:11 > 0:45:13But when you've come within days of moving

0:45:13 > 0:45:15only to back out of your dream,

0:45:15 > 0:45:19the fall-out can be dramatic. And for one family,

0:45:19 > 0:45:22that means facing a huge question.

0:45:22 > 0:45:24Can it ever work second time around?

0:45:24 > 0:45:28The Coes' first attempt to move to New Zealand

0:45:28 > 0:45:30almost ended in disaster.

0:45:30 > 0:45:32It nearly broke our marriage.

0:45:32 > 0:45:35We didn't speak for about six months.

0:45:35 > 0:45:38And could another one re-open old wounds?

0:45:38 > 0:45:41You're not thinking straight.

0:45:41 > 0:45:43- I am.- No, you're not.

0:45:43 > 0:45:45With so much at stake,

0:45:45 > 0:45:48will they be able to go through with it this time?

0:45:48 > 0:45:50I probably won't see her again.

0:45:50 > 0:45:53It'll be like grieving for a lost daughter.

0:45:53 > 0:45:56I'm sorry.

0:46:18 > 0:46:23New Zealand is almost the same size as the British Isles,

0:46:23 > 0:46:28but has a population that's 15 times smaller - just 4.3 million.

0:46:28 > 0:46:31The resulting open spaces and calmer pace of life

0:46:31 > 0:46:33make New Zealand very attractive

0:46:33 > 0:46:36for Brits seeking a new start.

0:46:36 > 0:46:38But if the dream doesn't work out,

0:46:38 > 0:46:41you can find yourself alone and a long way from home.

0:46:42 > 0:46:45The Coe family have one week to experience

0:46:45 > 0:46:49life in New Zealand before they face a big final choice.

0:46:49 > 0:46:53Whether to stay in the UK or make the move a permanent one.

0:46:54 > 0:46:58It's a decision that affects the whole family.

0:46:59 > 0:47:03After 12,000 miles and a gruelling 24 hours in the air,

0:47:03 > 0:47:07the Coes touch down in Wellington, tired but excited.

0:47:07 > 0:47:10I hope this week we might be able to, you know,

0:47:10 > 0:47:14sort of really be pro-active and really give it a go.

0:47:17 > 0:47:20I'm looking optimistic for a job, and hopefully I'll find something

0:47:20 > 0:47:22and hopefully I'll stay.

0:47:23 > 0:47:25'I feel really ready to go.'

0:47:28 > 0:47:32In the UK, the Coe family hail from Clacton-on-Sea in Essex.

0:47:32 > 0:47:36Sharon and Justin, both aged 46,

0:47:36 > 0:47:38are parents to 21-year-old Samantha,

0:47:38 > 0:47:4018-year-old Ashley

0:47:40 > 0:47:42and Jeremy, who's 14.

0:47:42 > 0:47:45Justin has his own carpentry business

0:47:45 > 0:47:49and Sharon has recently qualified as an accounting technician.

0:47:49 > 0:47:52For years, Justin dreamt of moving his family

0:47:52 > 0:47:54for a better life in New Zealand.

0:47:54 > 0:47:56After some initial reluctance,

0:47:56 > 0:48:00Sharon was soon caught up with the romance of the idea.

0:48:00 > 0:48:02My initial thoughts about moving to New Zealand

0:48:02 > 0:48:04were I was a bit upset about leaving my mum,

0:48:04 > 0:48:07but then it'd become a bit of an adventure

0:48:07 > 0:48:09and I've got into this adventure

0:48:09 > 0:48:12and I just want to be in New Zealand.

0:48:12 > 0:48:16So in 2009, with their bags packed and visas stamped,

0:48:16 > 0:48:19the Coes were all set for a new life in New Zealand

0:48:19 > 0:48:22until Justin dropped a bombshell.

0:48:22 > 0:48:24One morning, I woke up in bed

0:48:24 > 0:48:26and Justin came and sat on the edge of the bed

0:48:26 > 0:48:28and said "I don't want to move to New Zealand."

0:48:28 > 0:48:31That's literally his first words, how he broke it to me

0:48:31 > 0:48:33that he didn't want to go to New Zealand.

0:48:33 > 0:48:36He just sat on the edge of the bed and said, "I don't want to go."

0:48:36 > 0:48:41I was told that there were no employment prospects for me

0:48:41 > 0:48:44because they were only going to employ locals and so on.

0:48:44 > 0:48:47I sort of got cold feet right at the last minute.

0:48:47 > 0:48:49Well, the week before we flew.

0:48:49 > 0:48:53So I cancelled the tickets and decided to stay in the UK.

0:48:54 > 0:48:55It nearly broke our marriage.

0:48:55 > 0:48:58We didn't speak for about six months.

0:48:58 > 0:48:59Since the recession,

0:48:59 > 0:49:03the situation in the UK has been made even worse.

0:49:03 > 0:49:04'Work's been hit and miss.'

0:49:04 > 0:49:07The phone hardly ever rings.

0:49:07 > 0:49:10You know, I can probably count on one hand

0:49:10 > 0:49:13how many times I stay at home as opposed to go to work.

0:49:13 > 0:49:16It's been really, really hard.

0:49:16 > 0:49:20I lost my job last year and we've just literally had no income.

0:49:20 > 0:49:23Coming from a very vibrant family with enough money to cover you,

0:49:23 > 0:49:26We've gone down to having virtually nothing.

0:49:26 > 0:49:28We're living hand to mouth.

0:49:28 > 0:49:32Money comes in and by the end of the month the bank account's empty.

0:49:32 > 0:49:35Now with only a year left on their visa,

0:49:35 > 0:49:38Justin has agreed to give New Zealand one last try.

0:49:38 > 0:49:41This is Sharon's final hope of convincing him

0:49:41 > 0:49:43their future together lies down under.

0:49:43 > 0:49:45I still feel a bit let down.

0:49:45 > 0:49:49I'm still wondering whether or not he's actually going to come out

0:49:49 > 0:49:50and stay with me.

0:49:50 > 0:49:54But it's not only Justin who's in two minds about emigrating.

0:49:54 > 0:49:56Daughter Samantha is at university

0:49:56 > 0:50:00and is not sure if moving is right for her.

0:50:00 > 0:50:02I'm 21, I've got a lot of things here,

0:50:02 > 0:50:06and also education is really important at the moment for me.

0:50:06 > 0:50:08I might not like the universities out there

0:50:08 > 0:50:12It's just quite difficult.

0:50:12 > 0:50:15Sharon and Justin hope New Zealand will give their sons

0:50:15 > 0:50:17a better quality of life,

0:50:17 > 0:50:20especially Ashley, who suffers from autism.

0:50:20 > 0:50:23I'd like the boys to do more sports.

0:50:23 > 0:50:26They don't do many sports here, just sit at home on their computers.

0:50:26 > 0:50:30Whereas in New Zealand, they seem to like the snowboarding.

0:50:30 > 0:50:33I'm hoping to get them into other sports as well,

0:50:33 > 0:50:37which will get them off their backsides and doing something.

0:50:37 > 0:50:40It's a massive decision they face

0:50:40 > 0:50:44that could also decide the future of their marriage.

0:50:44 > 0:50:47In my mind, yes, I'm going and I'm staying.

0:50:47 > 0:50:49My two boys will stay with me.

0:50:49 > 0:50:50For me, it's now or never.

0:50:50 > 0:50:53It's just that choice in life, you know.

0:50:53 > 0:50:57So, it is the last chance.

0:51:01 > 0:51:05Both Sharon and Justin want the best future for their family,

0:51:05 > 0:51:09but the decision of where to spend it has them in turmoil.

0:51:09 > 0:51:12And with their age ruling out the likelihood of another visa,

0:51:12 > 0:51:16this week could well be their last chance to make a choice

0:51:16 > 0:51:17one way or the other.

0:51:18 > 0:51:21The Coes have chosen to visit Wellington.

0:51:21 > 0:51:23As the capital city,

0:51:23 > 0:51:28it's one of the top destinations for Brits moving to New Zealand.

0:51:28 > 0:51:30But that popularity comes at a price.

0:51:30 > 0:51:35Wellington is one of the country's most expensive cities.

0:51:35 > 0:51:37Could the Coes be in for a shock?

0:51:37 > 0:51:40First stop is their home for the week.

0:51:40 > 0:51:43The Coes will be staying in a modern apartment

0:51:43 > 0:51:45in the heart of Wellington.

0:51:45 > 0:51:47Can you get your mother out the boot?

0:51:47 > 0:51:49This looks a bit different.

0:51:49 > 0:51:52Different to what we've got back at home, isn't it?

0:51:52 > 0:51:56Hopefully Justin means different in a good way.

0:51:56 > 0:52:00Oh, this is nice. I like that.

0:52:00 > 0:52:03Well, that's a relief!

0:52:03 > 0:52:04There's an upstairs as well.

0:52:04 > 0:52:06It's a good start.

0:52:06 > 0:52:10Hopefully the bedrooms will help maintain Justin's upbeat approach.

0:52:10 > 0:52:12If this is the best room, it's mine.

0:52:12 > 0:52:13Yeah?

0:52:13 > 0:52:15SHE LAUGHS

0:52:15 > 0:52:17And if not, we're having the upstairs!

0:52:17 > 0:52:20Justin's keeping everyone positive,

0:52:20 > 0:52:23but he does have one slight problem.

0:52:23 > 0:52:26- It's very cold. I don't know where the heating is.- It's downstairs.

0:52:26 > 0:52:29- Really?- Yeah.- It's very cold. - It's not on.

0:52:29 > 0:52:31LAUGHTER

0:52:31 > 0:52:35That could become a bigger problem if Justin is expecting hot weather.

0:52:35 > 0:52:40They've arrived in the middle of New Zealand's winter.

0:52:40 > 0:52:42Still, he seems to have settled in quickly.

0:52:42 > 0:52:44Sharon, make some tea. I'll be watching TV.

0:52:44 > 0:52:47- No, you make the tea!- Can we work out how to put the heating on?

0:52:47 > 0:52:49Thought I'd come to a semi-tropical island.

0:52:49 > 0:52:52It's really cold here, isn't it?

0:52:52 > 0:52:57And it's not just the apartment that's left Justin cold.

0:52:58 > 0:53:00I would say, from what I've seen,

0:53:00 > 0:53:04it's not quite what it is on the postcards or the internet.

0:53:04 > 0:53:07It does look a little bit run-down to me.

0:53:07 > 0:53:10For a capital city, I'm very surprised at that.

0:53:10 > 0:53:14And Justin's worries has got Sharon concerned.

0:53:14 > 0:53:18It's playing on my mind quite a lot that he might not want to stay here.

0:53:18 > 0:53:20I really want to stay here.

0:53:25 > 0:53:29In the UK, the Coe family have a four-bedroom detached house

0:53:29 > 0:53:32in the seaside town of Clacton-on-Sea.

0:53:32 > 0:53:37It's on the market for £185,000.

0:53:37 > 0:53:41They've got strong ideas of what they want from their ideal home.

0:53:41 > 0:53:45I guess my dream house would be a property that looks over a lake

0:53:45 > 0:53:49or over the sea, because I've always lived near the water

0:53:49 > 0:53:52and I think a changing view is fantastic.

0:53:52 > 0:53:54The ideal house I'd like is I wouldn't want one

0:53:54 > 0:53:56that's right in the town centre.

0:53:56 > 0:53:59I'd like something slightly out in the suburbs.

0:53:59 > 0:54:01It's got to have enough bedrooms,

0:54:01 > 0:54:03because my boys like their own rooms.

0:54:03 > 0:54:05Just one with a bit more space.

0:54:05 > 0:54:07We've arranged to give The Coes

0:54:07 > 0:54:10a taste of Wellington's housing market.

0:54:10 > 0:54:12We'll show them three typical options

0:54:12 > 0:54:15based upon what they want from their ideal home,

0:54:15 > 0:54:17what they can afford

0:54:17 > 0:54:20and the real cost of property down under

0:54:20 > 0:54:22After seeing what's on offer,

0:54:22 > 0:54:25we'll reveal to them just how much each house costs.

0:54:26 > 0:54:29First stop is the Paraparaumu area.

0:54:29 > 0:54:31A 45 minute drive from central Wellington,

0:54:31 > 0:54:34it's close to the beach and popular with families

0:54:34 > 0:54:38who want to be away from the bustle of the city.

0:54:38 > 0:54:43With four bedrooms, this house should offer them plenty of space.

0:54:43 > 0:54:47If they can get inside it.

0:54:47 > 0:54:50This must be the way in. Can't be, can it?

0:54:50 > 0:54:53Yep, that's the way in.

0:54:53 > 0:54:56Well if it is, it's a climb round, isn't it?

0:54:57 > 0:55:00Justin is quick to spot

0:55:00 > 0:55:03why the house has such an odd layout.

0:55:03 > 0:55:06They've cut this off. They've created a new driveway to the back.

0:55:06 > 0:55:09- That's why there's not much of an entrance.- Yeah.

0:55:09 > 0:55:11Not the best start.

0:55:11 > 0:55:14Let's have a look through here.

0:55:14 > 0:55:16Sharon, come and look in here.

0:55:16 > 0:55:20Sharon hasn't exactly fallen for the decor.

0:55:20 > 0:55:23It needs a different paint up there. I don't like the pink.

0:55:23 > 0:55:28I think it needs a pull-down actually, then a paint.

0:55:28 > 0:55:31Justin is struggling to see the potential in this house.

0:55:31 > 0:55:34At first I thought this was a do-up,

0:55:34 > 0:55:36but with people actually living in it.

0:55:36 > 0:55:41It's quite surprising, because I wouldn't live like this. Would you?

0:55:41 > 0:55:43No.

0:55:43 > 0:55:47As a family of five, the Coes really need a home with plenty of room,

0:55:47 > 0:55:49one thing this house can offer.

0:55:49 > 0:55:50The nice thing about here

0:55:50 > 0:55:53- is the space you've got. - I like the view.

0:55:53 > 0:55:56There rooms, you can actually stride in.

0:55:56 > 0:55:59You are such a funny man!

0:55:59 > 0:56:02Is Justin starting to like this house?

0:56:02 > 0:56:04- Have a look upstairs, shall we? - Yep.

0:56:04 > 0:56:08One floor up, there's a big plus for Sharon.

0:56:08 > 0:56:10- Fantastic views. - Yeah.

0:56:10 > 0:56:14It reminds me so much of Clacton.

0:56:14 > 0:56:18- No, it doesn't. - No, that's true. It doesn't.

0:56:18 > 0:56:21And there's a dream feature for Justin too. Well, sort of.

0:56:21 > 0:56:23I've always wanted to put that into a house.

0:56:23 > 0:56:26- A laundry chute?- Yeah.

0:56:26 > 0:56:28- That saves a lot of time. - Doesn't it?

0:56:28 > 0:56:30- That's brilliant. - Straight into the washing machine.

0:56:30 > 0:56:34The house is sold. Just with that, it's fantastic.

0:56:34 > 0:56:37Despite all the space, the views and the extras,

0:56:37 > 0:56:40this house is missing one important thing for the Coes.

0:56:40 > 0:56:43There's no garden. It's just, you know...

0:56:43 > 0:56:46- Just that little bit at the very back.- Yeah, nothing at all.

0:56:46 > 0:56:49If you look, a lot of work to the exterior of the property.

0:56:49 > 0:56:50Mm.

0:56:50 > 0:56:53That's why you have carpenters.

0:56:53 > 0:56:55Oh, thanks - more work(!)

0:56:58 > 0:57:00The children have also had a look round.

0:57:00 > 0:57:02- Could you see yourself living here? - No.

0:57:02 > 0:57:04Well, that's that sorted.

0:57:04 > 0:57:07The house hasn't won them over,

0:57:07 > 0:57:10but what about its cost? With New Zealand property prices

0:57:10 > 0:57:13having risen so much in recent years,

0:57:13 > 0:57:15can they even afford it?

0:57:20 > 0:57:22£194,000

0:57:22 > 0:57:24or 380,000

0:57:24 > 0:57:28- is sort of almost at the top of the budget.- Yeah.

0:57:28 > 0:57:30I would definitely want a garden

0:57:30 > 0:57:33if I was paying that kind of money.

0:57:33 > 0:57:37It makes me think that although this is a much larger house,

0:57:37 > 0:57:39my little house is nicer

0:57:39 > 0:57:43because it's all done up and how we want it.

0:57:43 > 0:57:46- And you can get through the front door.- Yeah.

0:57:46 > 0:57:48It's a set back for Sharon.

0:57:48 > 0:57:50Convincing Justin to leave Essex

0:57:50 > 0:57:53will be even tougher if this is all they can afford.

0:57:53 > 0:57:58Perhaps this second house will fair better. It's in the Paremata area,

0:57:58 > 0:58:0115 miles from central Wellington,

0:58:01 > 0:58:04which means easy access to work for Sharon and Justin.

0:58:04 > 0:58:08And with four bedrooms, there should be plenty of space

0:58:08 > 0:58:11and hopefully a better build quality for Justin...

0:58:11 > 0:58:14Looks like it's made of plywood.

0:58:14 > 0:58:16..or not.

0:58:16 > 0:58:21Inside though, it's a very different story.

0:58:23 > 0:58:27- This is much cosier.- Wow, lovely.

0:58:29 > 0:58:32This is beautiful. Not in our price range though, is it?

0:58:32 > 0:58:34Better go and find some more money then.

0:58:34 > 0:58:36Yeah. Got to work harder, haven't I?

0:58:36 > 0:58:38It's got a more cosy feeling to it.

0:58:38 > 0:58:42That's the log fire, mate.

0:58:45 > 0:58:47This really is a dream home.

0:58:49 > 0:58:52This house is an instant hit

0:58:52 > 0:58:54and it's certainly bigger than they're used to.

0:58:54 > 0:58:58- Wow.- Look at the size of this room. Unbelievable, isn't it?

0:58:58 > 0:59:02- That's as big as Jeremy's bedroom! - Exactly.

0:59:05 > 0:59:07Even the views are bigger.

0:59:07 > 0:59:10- Oh, look at this. - Wow.

0:59:10 > 0:59:14You'd have to take up yodelling for a living.

0:59:14 > 0:59:16Look at that. It's snowing like in the Swiss Alps.

0:59:16 > 0:59:21I don't' want it to stay though, I want warm weather.

0:59:21 > 0:59:24Despite the chill, this house has left Justin and Sharon

0:59:24 > 0:59:26with a warm glow.

0:59:26 > 0:59:30And the children seem to have had a change of heart too.

0:59:30 > 0:59:33I think it's quite nice. I just love how it looks

0:59:33 > 0:59:35and the feeling you get from it.

0:59:35 > 0:59:38- We love it. - It's amazing!

0:59:40 > 0:59:43The house looks like a genuine dream for the Coes.

0:59:45 > 0:59:48But is it within their budget, or will it remain just that?

0:59:51 > 0:59:54- How much is it?- A million quid. - No, it's not!

0:59:54 > 0:59:56No. £330,000.

0:59:56 > 0:59:59That's still out of your price range.

0:59:59 > 1:00:03I just think it is within our grasp if we both work hard.

1:00:03 > 1:00:06We do work hard and I think we can still achieve this.

1:00:06 > 1:00:09You're not thinking straight, you know.

1:00:09 > 1:00:11- I am.- No, you're not.

1:00:11 > 1:00:14I'm sorry, you're just looking at it with, you know...

1:00:14 > 1:00:16Because this is what you want.

1:00:16 > 1:00:18Yeah.

1:00:18 > 1:00:20Yeah, but it's not going to happen.

1:00:20 > 1:00:24Ouch! It's not just the weather that's turned frosty.

1:00:24 > 1:00:27We'd better move on to the next property pretty sharpish.

1:00:27 > 1:00:32The third house is in the coastal village of Raumati South.

1:00:32 > 1:00:35It's an ideal area to enjoy New Zealand's sea and countryside,

1:00:35 > 1:00:40but will the Coes be won over by the house, if not the weather?

1:00:40 > 1:00:42It's good to come inside.

1:00:42 > 1:00:45- It's freezing.- What weather!

1:00:46 > 1:00:51The big, open plan living area would give them plenty of space.

1:00:51 > 1:00:55It's got views that Sharon loves, but it does need some TLC.

1:01:00 > 1:01:03This has got a nice view, from this room.

1:01:03 > 1:01:07It's not a bad sized room. This property is a little bit closer to the city,

1:01:07 > 1:01:10- which is a good thing.- Yeah. - Again, it needs work.

1:01:10 > 1:01:12That's the thing.

1:01:12 > 1:01:15The layout could be another problem.

1:01:15 > 1:01:18- It's not a very practical house, is it?- No.

1:01:18 > 1:01:20Think how far you've got to carry everything.

1:01:20 > 1:01:25Then, if you had this as a living room, you'd walk for miles to get your dinner.

1:01:25 > 1:01:29It's not a bad property. I think the gardens are nice.

1:01:29 > 1:01:34It's got a lot of ground. Whereas, the others haven't had quite as much ground.

1:01:34 > 1:01:37Again, the glass is half full for Sharon

1:01:37 > 1:01:41but will the price of this house come as a sobering surprise?

1:01:44 > 1:01:46£235,000...

1:01:46 > 1:01:50- You would have to spend a good £50,000...- To bring it up, yeah.

1:01:50 > 1:01:53To bring it up to standard.

1:01:53 > 1:01:59That means, all in, this house could end up £100,000 over their budget.

1:02:00 > 1:02:03It's been a tough day.

1:02:04 > 1:02:08The first house fell well short of their expectations.

1:02:08 > 1:02:13They all loved the second, but the cost left them divided.

1:02:13 > 1:02:17And the third property needed far too much work for the money.

1:02:17 > 1:02:20So, how will they vote?

1:02:20 > 1:02:23Based on the properties that we've looked at today, our vote goes to...

1:02:26 > 1:02:28- England.- New Zealand!

1:02:31 > 1:02:33- What you do that for? - There was one nice house

1:02:33 > 1:02:36but you've got to look at all the others that we looked at.

1:02:36 > 1:02:39I think the New Zealand properties are better.

1:02:39 > 1:02:41So, you all went... Well, Jeremy might be on my side.

1:02:41 > 1:02:44He's sick and tired of living in a cupboard!

1:02:44 > 1:02:48If Justin really can't see himself in a New Zealand house,

1:02:48 > 1:02:52could it spell the end of Sharon's dream?

1:02:55 > 1:03:00Seeing property in Wellington has left Justin and Sharon poles apart

1:03:00 > 1:03:03about moving their family to New Zealand.

1:03:03 > 1:03:08One thing is certain, if neither of them can find good work prospects,

1:03:08 > 1:03:11affording a house they like will be a big struggle.

1:03:11 > 1:03:15Back home Justin runs his own carpentry business

1:03:15 > 1:03:18but in New Zealand he'd have to be employed for two years

1:03:18 > 1:03:21before he can set up on his own.

1:03:21 > 1:03:24He wants to be certain of a job if he's to move down under.

1:03:24 > 1:03:27Originally when we looked to emigrating to New Zealand

1:03:27 > 1:03:30there were good business opportunities for me, out there

1:03:30 > 1:03:33and a good lifestyle for the family.

1:03:33 > 1:03:38Since the recession, that's hit the construction industry very hard

1:03:38 > 1:03:42so it means those opportunities no longer exist for me, or I don't believe that they do.

1:03:44 > 1:03:48Sharon lost her job as an accounting technician during the recession,

1:03:48 > 1:03:52leaving the Coes struggling to make ends meet.

1:03:52 > 1:03:54She's hoping New Zealand will offer better.

1:03:54 > 1:03:59By the looks of it, prospects are a lot better for me out there, than they are here.

1:03:59 > 1:04:01On this trip I am looking for a job.

1:04:01 > 1:04:03If I find one, then I'll stay.

1:04:06 > 1:04:10We've arranged for Justin to spend the day with a local building company.

1:04:10 > 1:04:15Paul Winstanley emigrated from the UK and now runs a thriving renovation business.

1:04:15 > 1:04:18He's quick to address Justin's big worry.

1:04:18 > 1:04:22Would you say there's a plentiful supply of skilled tradesmen to call on here?

1:04:22 > 1:04:25No, I think there's a huge shortage of skills in New Zealand

1:04:25 > 1:04:28and we've got a massive housing shortage looming.

1:04:28 > 1:04:34Going forward, there's going to be massive demand for qualified people.

1:04:36 > 1:04:42That's ideal news, but only if Justin can handle being an employee rather than the boss.

1:04:42 > 1:04:46To find out, Paul puts him to work with head carpenter, Dave.

1:04:46 > 1:04:51- We'll get you into some routering. - OK, then, so that's your router there?- Yes, it's here.

1:04:51 > 1:04:55Dave's keeping a close eye on him,

1:04:55 > 1:04:57but Justin seems to be coping very well.

1:04:57 > 1:05:02Across town, Sharon is heading to check on her job prospects.

1:05:02 > 1:05:06Having put family ahead of a career, for her getting work down under

1:05:06 > 1:05:08means more than earning a decent salary.

1:05:08 > 1:05:12I've brought up the kids and done all that sort of thing for now.

1:05:12 > 1:05:16Now I want a career of my own. It isn't just about the money, no,

1:05:16 > 1:05:19it's more to do with I want something that I can find,

1:05:19 > 1:05:22that I enjoy and can get my teeth into and progress to a higher level.

1:05:22 > 1:05:25She's meeting recruitment agent, Sharlene Yule,

1:05:25 > 1:05:27but will she have good news?

1:05:27 > 1:05:29Actually, the market's very buoyant.

1:05:29 > 1:05:31There's a lot of work on.

1:05:31 > 1:05:35I see you've got your accounting technician qualification.

1:05:35 > 1:05:39That's recognised here in New Zealand. What you've got, in terms of your skills and experience,

1:05:39 > 1:05:42you can hit the ground running, in terms of work.

1:05:42 > 1:05:46That's promising, but what about the pay?

1:05:46 > 1:05:51The range here in Wellington can be anything between 55,000 and 65,000.

1:05:51 > 1:05:57Which is about 27 to £32,000, which is a lot more than I expected.

1:05:57 > 1:05:59Well, you've got good skills and good experience,

1:05:59 > 1:06:02- you want to be recognised for those. - Thank you.

1:06:02 > 1:06:06Good accounts people are really difficult to find.

1:06:06 > 1:06:09This is all music to Sharon's ears.

1:06:09 > 1:06:14There's plenty of work and she could earn more than her and Justin's combined UK salary.

1:06:14 > 1:06:17That was brilliant because I think I could get myself a job in New Zealand.

1:06:19 > 1:06:20I think I'm staying.

1:06:20 > 1:06:23I'm not sure Sharon will take "no" for an answer now.

1:06:23 > 1:06:30After a day getting back to basics, the pressure is on Justin to enjoy working in New Zealand.

1:06:30 > 1:06:34- He has some important questions. - What sort of money would a tradesman get out here?

1:06:34 > 1:06:39Depending on age and experience, we would offer between 18 and 25.

1:06:39 > 1:06:44- That's an hour. - That's between ten and £12.50 an hour.

1:06:44 > 1:06:46Yes, it's about that.

1:06:47 > 1:06:51- Are you advertising for anyone at the moment?- Yes, we are.

1:06:51 > 1:06:57We've got a huge volume of work to do. We're booked up till March at the moment.

1:06:57 > 1:07:00- Work books right into next year? - Yeah, it is.

1:07:02 > 1:07:05There's no shortage of work coming in at the moment.

1:07:05 > 1:07:10That's more good news, but will the promise of work and a bigger salary

1:07:10 > 1:07:15compensate Justin for leaving behind everything he's built up at home?

1:07:15 > 1:07:19Do I carry on in my own business or do I come out here and start working for somebody?

1:07:19 > 1:07:23That's something I'd find difficult to adjust to.

1:07:24 > 1:07:27So which way will he vote?

1:07:27 > 1:07:29UK.

1:07:29 > 1:07:34And I think I can guess which way Sharon is going to vote.

1:07:36 > 1:07:37New Zealand!

1:07:37 > 1:07:39No surprises there, then.

1:07:39 > 1:07:43It looks like they've got a lot to talk about back at the apartment.

1:07:45 > 1:07:48- Well, how did you get on? - Really good.- Yeah?- Yeah.

1:07:48 > 1:07:50We're staying here.

1:07:51 > 1:07:55- Oh, that's not so good, then, is it? - Yes, it's brilliant!

1:07:55 > 1:07:59- I reckon I'll get a job, easy. - That's quite promising, isn't it?

1:07:59 > 1:08:05- Knowing I can get work, we've got to move here. - We'll have to discuss that...

1:08:07 > 1:08:11It's going to be hard for me to wrench myself away from the UK.

1:08:13 > 1:08:17But it's not all about me, is it? It's about the family as well.

1:08:17 > 1:08:19- No, that's it.- Yeah.

1:08:21 > 1:08:22We'll see how we go, then.

1:08:22 > 1:08:25But if the weather's like this, I'm not moving out here!

1:08:25 > 1:08:28Even though there's work for both of them in New Zealand,

1:08:28 > 1:08:33Sharon and Justin don't seem any closer to a decision on their future.

1:08:33 > 1:08:38Sharon seems more certain than ever about making the move.

1:08:38 > 1:08:43The job situation looks pretty good, whereas the UK, it's very bad at the moment.

1:08:43 > 1:08:45I think we could have a nice life here.

1:08:45 > 1:08:50I think, probably, everything she's done has been for the children.

1:08:51 > 1:08:57A lot of the boxes she's ticking, you know, seem to be right.

1:08:57 > 1:08:59Maybe I am wrong.

1:09:02 > 1:09:07Sometimes you're being forced into a corner, that you don't want to be in

1:09:07 > 1:09:09and, erm...

1:09:10 > 1:09:16In some ways it's a little bit my fault because it was my original idea.

1:09:18 > 1:09:23If Sharon decided to move out here and, obviously, she'll take all the family and so on.

1:09:23 > 1:09:28Well, could I leave all my family and be the only one in the UK?

1:09:28 > 1:09:30I'd have to make a sacrifice.

1:09:30 > 1:09:33The pressure is really mounting on Justin,

1:09:33 > 1:09:36but he's not the only member of the Coe family

1:09:36 > 1:09:38who is uncertain about their future.

1:09:38 > 1:09:45For Samantha, moving to New Zealand would mean leaving behind her boyfriend and her university course.

1:09:49 > 1:09:56Samantha's visiting Victoria University to see what it has to offer.

1:09:56 > 1:10:01She's studying photography, so students Matt and Sally give her a tour of the college.

1:10:01 > 1:10:04- So, do you have a gallery like this on your campus?- No.

1:10:04 > 1:10:05We have a very small one.

1:10:05 > 1:10:10The surroundings may be impressive but with such a sacrifice to make

1:10:10 > 1:10:15she needs to be certain that life in New Zealand will be right for her.

1:10:15 > 1:10:18What's it like being a student in Wellington?

1:10:18 > 1:10:20The city, itself, Wellington.

1:10:20 > 1:10:24It's a great city, there's a lot going on, especially in terms of culture and the arts.

1:10:24 > 1:10:28I really enjoy the university, there are great resources.

1:10:28 > 1:10:32The lecturers in our history department are fantastic.

1:10:32 > 1:10:36What do you think about moving from a large country like the UK to a small one like New Zealand,

1:10:36 > 1:10:38is that an advantage or a disadvantage?

1:10:38 > 1:10:42I like smaller places, I always get lost in London.

1:10:42 > 1:10:46I must admit, the idea that we're the same size, geographically, as the UK

1:10:46 > 1:10:50- but you have, what, 11 million? - I think it's 60 million.

1:10:50 > 1:10:53That idea to me is mad. We have, what, four?

1:10:53 > 1:10:56Because it's a small city, there's a real community feel.

1:10:56 > 1:11:02There's a lot of cross-over people... You're interested in photography

1:11:02 > 1:11:06and so your skills could be utilised and you could meet other photographers very easily.

1:11:06 > 1:11:09University life in Wellington sounds promising,

1:11:09 > 1:11:13but with Samantha's boyfriend and close family back in the UK,

1:11:13 > 1:11:16it's going to be a tough choice to leave.

1:11:16 > 1:11:19It's made my decision a lot more difficult.

1:11:19 > 1:11:26If it was... If I didn't like it, it would be easy to go, "I'd rather stay in the UK."

1:11:26 > 1:11:27Now I'm a bit torn.

1:11:31 > 1:11:36Keeping everyone happy with a move is looking increasingly difficult.

1:11:36 > 1:11:42So could the New Zealand lifestyle be the key to finding something the Coes can all agree on?

1:11:42 > 1:11:48In the UK Sharon and Justin worry that their boys spend too much time indoors.

1:11:48 > 1:11:53They're hoping the New Zealand lifestyle will inspire them to get out and get active.

1:11:53 > 1:11:59However, they've arrived in Wellington in the worst winter in over 30 years,

1:11:59 > 1:12:02not ideal for topping up up their tans.

1:12:02 > 1:12:06So they've decided to take the outdoors indoors at a local climbing centre.

1:12:06 > 1:12:12The boys don't seem too keen, but Justin wants them to break out of their old habits.

1:12:12 > 1:12:19The children's normal routine, apart from Samantha, is to play on computer games indoors.

1:12:21 > 1:12:23This gets them out and about.

1:12:26 > 1:12:28It's Jeremy who's up first.

1:12:32 > 1:12:33Yep, left foot up.

1:12:33 > 1:12:34That's your right foot!

1:12:37 > 1:12:38Get those feet up.

1:12:41 > 1:12:45He's scaled the heights, now he's just got to get back down.

1:12:45 > 1:12:46Let go and lean back.

1:12:46 > 1:12:48No!

1:12:48 > 1:12:50Let go and lean back.

1:12:50 > 1:12:51- You're kidding me?- No.

1:12:53 > 1:12:55I don't want to do that.

1:12:55 > 1:12:58I haven't seen Ashley do anything like this since High School.

1:12:58 > 1:13:01Jeremy, I haven't seen him do anything like this, ever.

1:13:01 > 1:13:04He's not really an outside, active person.

1:13:04 > 1:13:06It's great.

1:13:06 > 1:13:09- Go on, Ashley, she's closing in. - Go on, Ash.

1:13:09 > 1:13:11Go up, Ashley. Come on, next step.

1:13:13 > 1:13:15Ashley! Get up there!

1:13:15 > 1:13:19I think the kids have been having a lot of fun.

1:13:19 > 1:13:22The first time in a long time, I've seen them get out and do something.

1:13:22 > 1:13:26I think they're really enjoying it.

1:13:26 > 1:13:28It's not all about the kids, Justin!

1:13:28 > 1:13:30Oh, no!

1:13:30 > 1:13:32Come on, fatty!

1:13:32 > 1:13:34You stop insulting me.

1:13:34 > 1:13:36No, go right.

1:13:36 > 1:13:38LAUGHTER

1:13:38 > 1:13:41Oh, oh, oh...

1:13:41 > 1:13:43Stop fooling around, stop fooling around.

1:13:43 > 1:13:45I'm not, you're not doing it properly.

1:13:45 > 1:13:48Oh! I'm upside down!

1:13:48 > 1:13:51I'm not entirely sure if Sharon holding the ropes for Justin is the best idea

1:13:51 > 1:13:55but is it the kind of activity they're looking for?

1:13:55 > 1:13:59If we moved to New Zealand, we'd still have to drag them, from their computers

1:13:59 > 1:14:03but I think they'd more readily go out and do a bit more.

1:14:03 > 1:14:07It's amazing to see the two boys really getting into things.

1:14:07 > 1:14:12They were a bit, "We don't want to come," and now they don't want to go away.

1:14:13 > 1:14:17The bad weather stopped the Coes from sampling New Zealand's great outdoors,

1:14:17 > 1:14:22but did it put a dampener on their spirits? How will they vote on the lifestyle down under?

1:14:22 > 1:14:26Based on the lifestyle between New Zealand and the UK,

1:14:26 > 1:14:27our vote goes to...

1:14:33 > 1:14:35ALL: UK.

1:14:35 > 1:14:38It's an almost unanimous vote against New Zealand.

1:14:38 > 1:14:42At least the Coes can agree on something!

1:14:42 > 1:14:45Well, that's a surprise, isn't it? Why the UK for the lifestyle?

1:14:45 > 1:14:49Because it's freezing here and we haven't managed to do much on the lifestyle.

1:14:49 > 1:14:51I'm with you. OK.

1:14:51 > 1:14:55We haven't been able to get out and we've done exactly what we'd do in the UK,

1:14:55 > 1:14:58stayed indoors because it's been pouring down with rain and snow.

1:14:58 > 1:15:00For once I'm not the odd one out.

1:15:00 > 1:15:04I've nearly won. We're nearly there.

1:15:08 > 1:15:13The New Zealand lifestyle had the Coes singing from the same hymn sheet.

1:15:13 > 1:15:17After arriving during the worst winter in decades,

1:15:17 > 1:15:19it was a very cold and soggy one.

1:15:19 > 1:15:22So with the lifestyle dampening their hopes,

1:15:22 > 1:15:26could seeing the real cost of moving drown them for good?

1:15:27 > 1:15:33Back in the UK, the Coes have their house on the market for £185,000.

1:15:33 > 1:15:37We've sent round a couple of estate agents to get their opinion.

1:15:37 > 1:15:41If they can't get the right price, renting could be an option, until values rise.

1:15:46 > 1:15:49A good sized study area, right by the front entrance hall.

1:15:49 > 1:15:51I wish we'd tidied it up a bit!

1:15:51 > 1:15:52LAUGHTER

1:15:57 > 1:15:58That's a nice sized lounge.

1:16:04 > 1:16:07A very good sized master bedroom.

1:16:08 > 1:16:12Another reasonably sized single bedroom. Very good.

1:16:13 > 1:16:16I left your sun bed out, sorry about that.

1:16:17 > 1:16:19For the current market conditions,

1:16:19 > 1:16:23I would estimate the property will be worth around £175,000.

1:16:23 > 1:16:29For a quick sale, I would estimate the owners would have to take between 165 to 170,000.

1:16:31 > 1:16:37For the current rental market, I'd estimate the property would achieve, £750 to £775 per calendar month.

1:16:37 > 1:16:40For a quick sale, it'd need to be in the low 170s.

1:16:40 > 1:16:43There's a number of similar properties in the local area

1:16:43 > 1:16:46ranging from 150, 160,000 upwards.

1:16:48 > 1:16:53That could be £15,000 lower than the Coes have got it on for.

1:16:53 > 1:16:57I don't think selling it in the present market is an option for us.

1:16:57 > 1:17:03No, we'll just rent it out until the market recovers.

1:17:03 > 1:17:07I think that'll probably be the best option.

1:17:07 > 1:17:11Then, of course, we've still got a home to go back to.

1:17:11 > 1:17:15That sounds like a distinct lack of commitment!

1:17:15 > 1:17:19Maybe the cost of living will make Justin think otherwise.

1:17:20 > 1:17:25We've prepared some figures to show them how far their money would go in New Zealand compared to the UK.

1:17:25 > 1:17:30Main income before tax, would be my income

1:17:30 > 1:17:36and you're talking between 55 and 60,000,

1:17:36 > 1:17:39which is £27,933.

1:17:40 > 1:17:48In New Zealand, it looks like we'd be earning £17,000 more than we earn in the UK,

1:17:48 > 1:17:51- which is quite a difference, isn't it?- It is.- Yeah.

1:17:51 > 1:17:55So we've got £3,275 of income. Yeah?

1:17:58 > 1:18:02But your outgoings are 3,679.

1:18:04 > 1:18:06According to these figures... OK?

1:18:06 > 1:18:11- You're not earning enough in the UK for everything. - No. you're right.

1:18:11 > 1:18:14We can't afford to live in the UK,

1:18:14 > 1:18:18and if you got a better salary, let's say your top rate,

1:18:18 > 1:18:21- then you'd actually have spare money to spend.- Yeah.

1:18:21 > 1:18:25Now it's all down on paper, we can see where our money's going.

1:18:25 > 1:18:28I've been cutting the shopping and that's why there isn't much food.

1:18:28 > 1:18:32- There isn't the money to buy it. - That why we've been eating beans.

1:18:32 > 1:18:36Clearly, the Coes could be better off in New Zealand.

1:18:36 > 1:18:38Will that finally convince Justin?

1:18:38 > 1:18:43Based on the cost of living in New Zealand to the UK, our vote goes to...

1:18:46 > 1:18:47BOTH: New Zealand.

1:18:50 > 1:18:53I'm pleased you did that one.

1:18:53 > 1:18:56Well, it's a lot cheaper to live out here than in the UK.

1:18:56 > 1:19:01- It is.- So you'd have a much better lifestyle and you'd have money to spend on leisure activities.

1:19:01 > 1:19:07At the moment our joint income in the UK can't sustain our living costs.

1:19:07 > 1:19:11We don't have an extravagant lifestyle, it's a basic lifestyle.

1:19:13 > 1:19:15In New Zealand, we could afford to live.

1:19:21 > 1:19:25Well, that's great news for Sharon, and with things looking tougher at home,

1:19:25 > 1:19:30perhaps New Zealand isn't as much of a risk as Justin thought.

1:19:30 > 1:19:35Will seeing messages from home swing their votes yet another way?

1:19:35 > 1:19:38Come on, Ash.

1:19:38 > 1:19:41- Shall we watch this, then?- Yes.

1:19:41 > 1:19:43Sharon is kind, caring...

1:19:45 > 1:19:46Very generous.

1:19:46 > 1:19:48To be honest, she's always there for you.

1:19:48 > 1:19:51Justin, I'd say...

1:19:51 > 1:19:54He's quite a joker, isn't he?

1:19:54 > 1:19:57They're a good laugh.

1:19:57 > 1:20:03Our Aunty Sharon would drop everything to come and help us.

1:20:03 > 1:20:07She's quite an unselfish, caring sort of girl,

1:20:09 > 1:20:13spoils everybody around her and always treats everybody.

1:20:13 > 1:20:16It's a possibility that Sam would want to live in New Zealand,

1:20:16 > 1:20:20but obviously I'm going to miss her.

1:20:20 > 1:20:23I said she should go and do what's right for her.

1:20:23 > 1:20:25- Sharon's always been very close to her mother.- Yeah.

1:20:25 > 1:20:37I'm very surprised that she has decided to do this.

1:20:32 > 1:20:37I think she will miss her mother perhaps more than she realises.

1:20:37 > 1:20:40If I had my way, she wouldn't go.

1:20:40 > 1:20:43Like I say, it's her dream.

1:20:43 > 1:20:45And...

1:20:49 > 1:20:51Don't get upset.

1:20:52 > 1:20:56It's her dream, but I will miss her something chronic.

1:20:56 > 1:20:59I probably won't see her again, once she goes.

1:21:06 > 1:21:09It'll be like grieving for a lost daughter.

1:21:11 > 1:21:15Well, the boys, as well. Justin...

1:21:17 > 1:21:20No, to me it'll be a big loss.

1:21:22 > 1:21:26You know that we're missing you already and, although it's only been a short while,

1:21:26 > 1:21:31it feels like you could be out there forever,

1:21:31 > 1:21:34and, you know, we'll miss you.

1:21:36 > 1:21:41Don't get too bowled over by the good life and look at all the aspects.

1:21:43 > 1:21:48If you decide to stay out there, I shall miss you really terribly.

1:21:48 > 1:21:51Whatever you do, look after my boys...

1:21:53 > 1:21:55I can't...

1:21:59 > 1:22:04I think the problem is, it's almost like we're going to die. It's like a bereavement for them.

1:22:04 > 1:22:08If you don't give it a go, the regrets will be there for the rest of your life.

1:22:08 > 1:22:14All those messages are, Sharon wants, Sharon wants. It's everything that you want in life.

1:22:14 > 1:22:17- And, maybe not what all of us want in life.- Yeah.

1:22:20 > 1:22:23I've lived your life, you've had your career.

1:22:23 > 1:22:26You've done everything you've wanted to do.

1:22:26 > 1:22:30And now you've got to give a little way and let me have some.

1:22:30 > 1:22:35We've come so far down the line, that we've got to give it a go

1:22:35 > 1:22:38and see if this is what we want.

1:22:38 > 1:22:41Saying goodbye to loved ones is never easy,

1:22:41 > 1:22:47but after their week in New Zealand, the Coes' crucial vote hangs in the balance.

1:22:47 > 1:22:51What's clear is making their final decision means facing their past

1:22:51 > 1:22:54as well as their future.

1:22:54 > 1:22:57It's been a long week for the Coes.

1:22:57 > 1:22:59New Zealand houses and weather left Justin cold,

1:22:59 > 1:23:03Sharon's work outlook was definitely far warmer

1:23:03 > 1:23:07and they had some much needed family time together.

1:23:07 > 1:23:12Now, as they face the final vote, the outcome is far from certain.

1:23:16 > 1:23:21It was my idea in the beginning and I wish I didn't have these ideas sometimes.

1:23:21 > 1:23:25I said, at the beginning of the week, it's going to be a make or break situation.

1:23:25 > 1:23:30Maybe I'm the one who's breaking it and that's not fair on Sharon.

1:23:32 > 1:23:33I have been here before.

1:23:33 > 1:23:36Justin does keep chopping and changing his mind,

1:23:36 > 1:23:38but I think this time I can win.

1:23:39 > 1:23:43If Sharon and myself are still split after the vote, where do we go?

1:23:43 > 1:23:48I think...I'd like to sit down with her

1:23:48 > 1:23:51and have a good conversation

1:23:51 > 1:23:55and weigh up the pros and cons and see how we go forwards,

1:23:55 > 1:23:58not only with this decision, but our relationship.

1:23:58 > 1:24:03I really don't know what's going to happen in the end.

1:24:03 > 1:24:06Mum's very stubborn, but I think Dad normally relents,

1:24:06 > 1:24:09but I don't think he'll relent on this. I really don't know.

1:24:10 > 1:24:15With so much on the line, it really is a life changing decision.

1:24:15 > 1:24:17How will they vote?

1:24:19 > 1:24:21Our final votes goes to...

1:24:28 > 1:24:30- New Zealand.- Undecided.- UK.

1:24:32 > 1:24:34You're still in the minority.

1:24:34 > 1:24:39- You've got an undecided, two undecides. - And two for New Zealand.

1:24:39 > 1:24:41- You two are coming over here. - It looks like two of us are.

1:24:43 > 1:24:47It's been difficult. I nearly went for New Zealand just to keep the peace,

1:24:47 > 1:24:51but I had to vote honestly and say where I'd like to live

1:24:51 > 1:24:53and spend the rest of my days.

1:24:53 > 1:24:55I think it'll be the good old UK.

1:24:57 > 1:25:02As it stands, it looks like me and my eldest son are coming to New Zealand.

1:25:07 > 1:25:10It was a tough week for the Coes.

1:25:10 > 1:25:15Their experiences of New Zealand left them divided and uncertain where their future lies.

1:25:17 > 1:25:20A month later and they're back in Clacton

1:25:20 > 1:25:24and I've come to find out if Justin and Sharon are any closer

1:25:24 > 1:25:27to agreeing what's best for their family.

1:25:27 > 1:25:34Last time we saw her, Sharon was dead set on moving to New Zealand, with or without Justin.

1:25:34 > 1:25:36You haven't changed your mind at all?

1:25:36 > 1:25:39No, I haven't. I still want to live in New Zealand.

1:25:39 > 1:25:42What about the rest of the family? You've got to be honest now.

1:25:42 > 1:25:47My eldest son will come with me, because he loves it as well.

1:25:47 > 1:25:50My youngest one is swaying more to stay in New Zealand,

1:25:50 > 1:25:52because he's seen the lifestyle he can have there.

1:25:52 > 1:25:54What about Samantha?

1:25:54 > 1:25:58She's still half and half. It's the university more than anything else.

1:25:58 > 1:26:03There's a very important member of the family you haven't mentioned.

1:26:03 > 1:26:07Justin... You obviously love him to bits.

1:26:07 > 1:26:12In an ideal world, you don't want to be making that journey without him by your side.

1:26:12 > 1:26:15If I went out to New Zealand and got a good job,

1:26:15 > 1:26:17I think that would convince him.

1:26:17 > 1:26:21Does it scare you to think you're going to be moving that distance?

1:26:21 > 1:26:25I am absolutely terrified to move that distance away,

1:26:25 > 1:26:30but I've really got to try it. If I don't, it'll always be, "What if?"

1:26:30 > 1:26:34It does sound like you're slowly getting there

1:26:34 > 1:26:39although I know you're so keen to return to New Zealand as quick as possible.

1:26:39 > 1:26:43- I'm going to have a word with Justin and hear his thoughts on this possible move.- Yeah.

1:26:47 > 1:26:51Since voting for the UK, Justin has had a lot to think about.

1:26:52 > 1:26:57It sounds like you're the head in this relationship, she's the heart.

1:26:57 > 1:27:00You're the practical one that thinks about the nuts and bolts.

1:27:00 > 1:27:05For Sharon, she seems to have fallen in love with the whole idea

1:27:05 > 1:27:08of moving to the other side of the world.

1:27:08 > 1:27:10That's fair comment.

1:27:10 > 1:27:14I think she will make it work, whatever happens.

1:27:14 > 1:27:18She wants a different life and to explore the world.

1:27:19 > 1:27:23What's your final decision, or is there one?

1:27:23 > 1:27:30I think it's still up in the air and watch this space and see where we are in a few months' time.

1:27:30 > 1:27:35I think, ultimately, if Sharon moves out there and took the family with her,

1:27:35 > 1:27:37do you really think I'd stay here?

1:27:37 > 1:27:40No, I don't. I really, really don't.

1:27:40 > 1:27:45I think you would follow her out and, I think, that's what she wants in her heart as well.

1:27:50 > 1:27:55Making the decision to move down under is always going to be tough.

1:27:55 > 1:28:00It looks like Justin and Sharon need a little bit more time

1:28:00 > 1:28:03before they make the choice that's right for them.

1:28:03 > 1:28:05We wish them all the very best.

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