The Only Thai Monk in the Village

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0:00:02 > 0:00:04Rhymney, a council estate in Caerphilly,

0:00:04 > 0:00:08is home to the only Thai Buddhist monk in Wales.

0:00:08 > 0:00:12The head monk sent me to here. I'm very worried.

0:00:12 > 0:00:15I think, "I cannot do anything here."

0:00:15 > 0:00:19When we had a call to say that there were Buddhist monks moving to Rhymney,

0:00:19 > 0:00:21the general consensus was it's somebody who's off on leave

0:00:21 > 0:00:23having a joke. Nobody believed us.

0:00:23 > 0:00:26He has one Welsh follower who left Christianity,

0:00:26 > 0:00:30converted to Buddhism and became a monk for two weeks.

0:00:30 > 0:00:33It was a life that I could quite happily go back to,

0:00:33 > 0:00:37if it wasn't for the fact of my family responsibilities,

0:00:37 > 0:00:38my professional responsibilities.

0:00:38 > 0:00:43And there is a problem having a Buddhist temple beside the estate.

0:00:43 > 0:00:44It's not meant to be a prison,

0:00:44 > 0:00:49either to keep people out or to keep people in.

0:00:49 > 0:00:54That can happen in my house where I live. I was scared, to be honest.

0:01:00 > 0:01:03The monk lives in the temple,

0:01:03 > 0:01:05which is beside a housing estate in Rhymney

0:01:05 > 0:01:09and across the road from protected cottages that cannot be demolished.

0:01:09 > 0:01:13After only one visit to the area in 2009,

0:01:13 > 0:01:16the head monk thought it would be the ideal location

0:01:16 > 0:01:20for Wales' first and only Thai Buddhist temple.

0:01:20 > 0:01:25The first time he came here and saw the property, he liked it.

0:01:26 > 0:01:29We didn't know about Wales

0:01:29 > 0:01:34and we didn't know about people or the area, to be honest...

0:01:36 > 0:01:41Sawat, 46, originally came from a farming family in Thailand,

0:01:41 > 0:01:44where he was first ordained as a monk.

0:01:44 > 0:01:48Having worked in London for five years, he was sent to Wales,

0:01:48 > 0:01:51where Buddhism is the sixth most popular religion.

0:01:54 > 0:01:59His mission - to support Wales's 500-strong Thai community

0:01:59 > 0:02:01and spread Buddhist teachings.

0:02:01 > 0:02:03HE CHANTS

0:02:05 > 0:02:08We all see him walking up and down the street, like.

0:02:08 > 0:02:11- That's it.- That's it. That's all.

0:02:11 > 0:02:15- They wear, like, dress things. - OTHER BOY GIGGLES

0:02:15 > 0:02:17- They do.- They do, don't they?

0:02:18 > 0:02:21Young people, they still laugh

0:02:21 > 0:02:25and still look at us like something...

0:02:26 > 0:02:31I don't want to say we are a joke, what we are looking for us...

0:02:31 > 0:02:35But we understand, because what we wear is different from them.

0:02:39 > 0:02:42MOTORBIKE ENGINE ROARS

0:02:43 > 0:02:47Meditation needs a lot of quiet and peace.

0:02:49 > 0:02:54And when we have some problems, it makes us feel worry.

0:02:54 > 0:02:57Maybe it's a problem in the future.

0:02:58 > 0:03:01Well, it's been going on for the last two years.

0:03:01 > 0:03:05All the youngsters break in people's houses,

0:03:05 > 0:03:07off their face on drugs and meow meow.

0:03:09 > 0:03:11Gone rough around here, man, real rough.

0:03:13 > 0:03:17It ain't safe to go out now.

0:03:17 > 0:03:19And they burn cars up here, the lot.

0:03:19 > 0:03:23It's a wonder they ain't up here now on the motorbikes and that.

0:03:23 > 0:03:25MOTORBIKE ENGINE ROARS

0:03:26 > 0:03:28It's like the other week we had armed police

0:03:28 > 0:03:32and everything up the street, a boy had a knife to a woman's throat.

0:03:32 > 0:03:36His mother's throat, so... And that's just round your corner.

0:03:38 > 0:03:41Sawat encountered his own difficulties when he first arrived,

0:03:41 > 0:03:44after raising a Thai flag on his front gate.

0:03:44 > 0:03:46I...

0:03:46 > 0:03:51I get in the morning, I didn't see the flag there. So I have a look...

0:03:51 > 0:03:54So, it's broken down

0:03:54 > 0:03:59and it's burned. I don't know who has burned this.

0:04:05 > 0:04:09The building opposite the temple is very old.

0:04:11 > 0:04:14Almost every week someone come to burn...

0:04:15 > 0:04:21..the house and the children come to play around inside.

0:04:21 > 0:04:25The listed houses have become targets for vandalism.

0:04:25 > 0:04:30At night, about 9 or 10pm...

0:04:30 > 0:04:32I heard something outside

0:04:32 > 0:04:37and I see the lights from firemen.

0:04:42 > 0:04:47I have a look out my window. The fire's quite a big fire.

0:04:47 > 0:04:52Windy and through to the house... I'm quite nervous,

0:04:52 > 0:04:57because I just never seen like this before.

0:04:58 > 0:05:02If something happened in my house,

0:05:02 > 0:05:08it's quite difficult to call people who are close to me.

0:05:08 > 0:05:11I'm quite scared, to be honest.

0:05:11 > 0:05:15Sawat now no longer ventures out onto the estate alone,

0:05:15 > 0:05:17worrying about drawing attention to himself.

0:05:20 > 0:05:24Yes, I hear that, someone coming.

0:05:24 > 0:05:25Maybe Andy.

0:05:25 > 0:05:29Swat's solicitor and close friend Andy has lived

0:05:29 > 0:05:32and worked in Swansea for the past five years.

0:05:34 > 0:05:37Today, he has come to ask for advice on converting his garage

0:05:37 > 0:05:41into a Buddhist prayer room.

0:05:41 > 0:05:45We weren't sure whether to have a Buddha image in the garden...

0:05:45 > 0:05:49He first travelled to Thailand in 1998,

0:05:49 > 0:05:51where he met his wife and became a Buddhist.

0:05:51 > 0:05:54When they moved back to Wales,

0:05:54 > 0:05:58his mother supported Andy's new way of life.

0:05:58 > 0:06:00She accepted Sawat and she accepted...

0:06:00 > 0:06:04Not so much accepted the Buddhism part of it - I think that would be wrong to say -

0:06:04 > 0:06:08but she accepted the peace and tranquillity that came with it.

0:06:08 > 0:06:10After being diagnosed with cancer,

0:06:10 > 0:06:13she understood his need to turn to Sawat for support.

0:06:13 > 0:06:16His mum get the cancer...

0:06:16 > 0:06:22So he asked me what is the best thing for him to be...

0:06:23 > 0:06:26..to do something for his mother.

0:06:27 > 0:06:32I told him, if possible, to become a monk for a while.

0:06:32 > 0:06:35But he has to ask his mother first.

0:06:35 > 0:06:38After spending six months learning Buddhist teachings,

0:06:38 > 0:06:41Andy's time as a monk was short-lived.

0:06:41 > 0:06:43For those two weeks,

0:06:43 > 0:06:47it was a life that I could quite happily go back to,

0:06:47 > 0:06:51if it wasn't for the fact of my family responsibilities,

0:06:51 > 0:06:54my professional responsibilities.

0:06:54 > 0:06:58The peace, the tranquillity, the respect...

0:06:59 > 0:07:01..has remained with me.

0:07:01 > 0:07:06I can't use the same respect and tranquillity as a solicitor, because I wouldn't be a good solicitor.

0:07:06 > 0:07:09With only one temple for Welsh Buddhists,

0:07:09 > 0:07:13Andy wants to build another place of worship in Wales.

0:07:13 > 0:07:17Well, what I'd like to do, and we do need your guidance, is...

0:07:17 > 0:07:22this would be the area for the Buddha images.

0:07:22 > 0:07:27- Mm-hm.- And what we were thinking about is...

0:07:27 > 0:07:32obviously not being able to do anything as grand as that.

0:07:32 > 0:07:36- The room is for meditation. - For meditation.

0:07:36 > 0:07:39I know the shrine room is a mess at the moment,

0:07:39 > 0:07:43but come the first week in April, it's going to be beautiful.

0:07:43 > 0:07:49- Thank you very much indeed.- Thank you. Hope that you finish soon!

0:07:49 > 0:07:52It's going to be finished in the next two weeks.

0:07:52 > 0:07:55- Where's wood, where's wood? Quick! - HE LAUGHS

0:07:55 > 0:08:00Five miles from Andy's house is Swansea town centre,

0:08:00 > 0:08:05and today a member of the Thai community has asked Sawat to conduct a blessing.

0:08:07 > 0:08:10This used to be one of the many shopping streets of Swansea.

0:08:10 > 0:08:15This is the first time he has done a public blessing in Wales.

0:08:15 > 0:08:19It's very, very strange for me today.

0:08:19 > 0:08:24It's the first time for me in the shop or in the centre like this,

0:08:24 > 0:08:27nobody in the forest!

0:08:27 > 0:08:31- Is it strange having lots of people around you?- Yes, yes.

0:08:31 > 0:08:35Like, people looking at me

0:08:35 > 0:08:40and what we are wearing is different from people.

0:08:40 > 0:08:41And how does that make you feel?

0:08:41 > 0:08:44- Shy. - HE LAUGHS

0:08:50 > 0:08:54The tradition is for blessings to be performed by an odd number of monks,

0:08:54 > 0:08:58and two others have travelled down from Birmingham.

0:09:01 > 0:09:06Kachana, the owner of the stall, recently moved into the market.

0:09:06 > 0:09:12I feel very excited and all of my friends come to support me.

0:09:12 > 0:09:16SAWAT CHANTS

0:09:26 > 0:09:31SAWAT CONTINUES CHANTING

0:09:31 > 0:09:33LISTENERS REPEAT CHANT

0:09:33 > 0:09:36SAWAT CONTINUES CHANT

0:09:36 > 0:09:38LISTENERS REPEAT CHANT

0:09:38 > 0:09:43We try to not show off about who we are.

0:09:45 > 0:09:47About what we are doing.

0:09:47 > 0:09:51MONKS CHANT IN UNISON

0:09:59 > 0:10:03Much to his surprise, someone else takes advantage of Sawat's visit.

0:10:08 > 0:10:11It was nice, something different. They said they could do it,

0:10:11 > 0:10:15so I thought after all these years in the market, we could do something,

0:10:15 > 0:10:18- have it blessed. - And it has uplifted the market,

0:10:18 > 0:10:21- it's such a nice atmosphere. - The atmosphere's been brilliant. It really has.

0:10:21 > 0:10:24- And the food was excellent.- Yes. - Really nice.

0:10:27 > 0:10:29Back on the estate in Rhymney,

0:10:29 > 0:10:34there have been 178 reported crimes in the past three months.

0:10:34 > 0:10:40Trouble has now spread from the cottages next door to the temple grounds.

0:10:40 > 0:10:44This is the second time his shed has been broken into.

0:10:44 > 0:10:49And there has been an attempted break-in at his prayer room.

0:10:49 > 0:10:51I think they come in this way.

0:10:51 > 0:10:57They just come up from the gate and they come to break that.

0:10:57 > 0:11:01They just break on top here, then pull out here

0:11:01 > 0:11:05and firstly they tried this one.

0:11:07 > 0:11:13If they try to get in the house, quite serious, if they can get in.

0:11:18 > 0:11:20- Hello.- Hello.- Hiya.

0:11:20 > 0:11:22Do you want to show us up in the shed?

0:11:22 > 0:11:24Yes, yes, sure. Come through.

0:11:28 > 0:11:30Did it happen overnight?

0:11:30 > 0:11:33Yes. Sometime in the night.

0:11:33 > 0:11:37- They come to break the window. - Yeah.- This one up here.

0:11:39 > 0:11:44But I think it just happened, because here there's nothing...

0:11:44 > 0:11:46- Nothing...nobody's come in?- Yeah.

0:11:46 > 0:11:50Don't feel you're targeted in any way, because it's not against you.

0:11:50 > 0:11:53They obviously thought that this was being used a shed.

0:11:53 > 0:11:58We've got a crime prevention officer involved, so we've got the window alarms

0:11:58 > 0:12:02and the extra security there, but we can also put cameras in.

0:12:02 > 0:12:04That's something that you can do,

0:12:04 > 0:12:06because we will help you so much as well,

0:12:06 > 0:12:13but it's important that you take these security precautions as well.

0:12:13 > 0:12:15Call us first rather than relying on somebody else to do it for you.

0:12:15 > 0:12:17- Thank you.- All right?

0:12:22 > 0:12:25I don't think it was a surprise as much,

0:12:25 > 0:12:29purely because of the area that we're in.

0:12:29 > 0:12:35What surprised me was at times the amount of problems they had

0:12:35 > 0:12:37and it's from the younger generation,

0:12:37 > 0:12:40rather than the older generation.

0:12:40 > 0:12:43And therefore, having something as strange as this -

0:12:43 > 0:12:46people in orange robes walking around, chanting -

0:12:46 > 0:12:48something unusual always attracts attention.

0:12:53 > 0:12:55ALARM WAILS

0:12:55 > 0:13:01So, it's maybe to protect us about...

0:13:01 > 0:13:03what happened in the night-time.

0:13:05 > 0:13:09This is a place of peace, this is a place of tranquillity.

0:13:09 > 0:13:11It's not meant to be a prison,

0:13:11 > 0:13:16either to keep people out to keep people in.

0:13:16 > 0:13:19It goes against the whole philosophy of Buddhist teaching.

0:13:24 > 0:13:28In this case, I feel not comfortable

0:13:28 > 0:13:33for people who would like to come to stay to practise meditation.

0:13:36 > 0:13:42They will be scared when they know what happened nearby the temple.

0:13:49 > 0:13:52I think it's the time now to move on.

0:14:00 > 0:14:04The previous week, after a long struggle with cancer,

0:14:04 > 0:14:06Andy's mother passed away.

0:14:07 > 0:14:10But he still wants to drive Sawat to view a possible relocation

0:14:10 > 0:14:13of the temple to a house in Bridgend.

0:14:15 > 0:14:19..property and see whether a) it's going to be suitable

0:14:19 > 0:14:22- for our needs, and b) whether we can have it.- Yes.

0:14:22 > 0:14:24- OK.- We can see.

0:14:43 > 0:14:49The property is on the market for half a million pounds,

0:14:49 > 0:14:52which may be more than Sawat and the Buddhist community can afford.

0:14:55 > 0:15:00- Oh. Hello. Good morning. - Good morning, pleased to meet you.

0:15:00 > 0:15:01Yes, nice to meet you.

0:15:01 > 0:15:06I've never had a Thai Buddhist monk come anywhere near myself

0:15:06 > 0:15:07or my property, to be quite honest.

0:15:07 > 0:15:11- Morning.- Nice to meet you.- Nice to meet you.- I'm David.- I'm Sawat.

0:15:11 > 0:15:15- Hello, Sawat.- Hello.- You've come to have a look at this bungalow?- Yes.

0:15:15 > 0:15:18- OK, no problem, I'd be very pleased to show you around.- Yes.

0:15:18 > 0:15:22- It's done very nicely. - Yeah, it is.- Fitted very well.

0:15:22 > 0:15:27- Yeah.- All good quality tiling and fixtures.- Very good quality.

0:15:27 > 0:15:29Wine rack there, I don't know if you'd use that.

0:15:29 > 0:15:31THEY LAUGH

0:15:31 > 0:15:33- Put whatever drinks you want in. - No, we're not allowed.

0:15:33 > 0:15:36No, I heard you say that. All the glass is toughened,

0:15:36 > 0:15:40so as far as safety is concerned, they're all individually locked.

0:15:40 > 0:15:43It's regarded locally to be a reasonably good area here.

0:15:43 > 0:15:47We're thinking about renting money from the bank

0:15:47 > 0:15:52and from the people who like to support us.

0:15:52 > 0:15:57Hopefully we can get some money from donation.

0:16:00 > 0:16:07After the year that we've had with Sawat up in Rhymney and...

0:16:07 > 0:16:09HE SNIFFS

0:16:09 > 0:16:11..the week I've had with the loss of my mother,

0:16:11 > 0:16:13I think it's about time something happened.

0:16:13 > 0:16:17I really do think something happened. Sorry.

0:16:27 > 0:16:29Rather than contacting his headquarters in London,

0:16:29 > 0:16:34Sawat will first try to raise all the money he needs locally.

0:16:36 > 0:16:41And today, the long-established Tenby Thai community of around 20 families

0:16:41 > 0:16:44have come together to support him.

0:16:50 > 0:16:53CHATTERING

0:16:55 > 0:16:58She's got to go to work today, though...

0:16:58 > 0:17:00Like Andy, Robert also married a Thai bride.

0:17:03 > 0:17:05In Thailand, they get treated with so much respect

0:17:05 > 0:17:08and then to come here and they're laughed at

0:17:08 > 0:17:12and people talk about them and, well, invade their privacy.

0:17:13 > 0:17:17I think if they understood the monks and how they feel and their attitude

0:17:17 > 0:17:21towards life and people - they are so friendly and peaceful.

0:17:21 > 0:17:24As you know, Buddhist monks wouldn't harm a fly, they literally will not

0:17:24 > 0:17:27kill anything at all, no matter what the circumstances.

0:17:27 > 0:17:30They're the kind of people who'd rather get ate by the tiger than shoot the tiger.

0:17:30 > 0:17:33SAWAT LAUGHS

0:17:33 > 0:17:35On paper, they probably picked the right place,

0:17:35 > 0:17:39because it's in the middle of Wales, which seems probably a good idea.

0:17:39 > 0:17:42But as it happens, it's a bit difficult to get to,

0:17:42 > 0:17:45people can't find it, they get lost coming up here.

0:17:45 > 0:17:48And they have had some problems with the locals.

0:17:50 > 0:17:53CHATTERING

0:17:53 > 0:17:57THEY CHANT

0:18:01 > 0:18:05HE SPEAKS IN THAI

0:18:15 > 0:18:19The visitors have brought a donation towards the new temple.

0:18:23 > 0:18:26The raised just over £1,000,

0:18:26 > 0:18:30a small contribution towards fundraising for a new home.

0:18:35 > 0:18:37It's the day of Andy's mother's funeral

0:18:37 > 0:18:40in his converted garage in Swansea.

0:18:45 > 0:18:49If I was in Thailand, I would be able to be ordained as a monk

0:18:49 > 0:18:54just for the day or two, so I think it's nice to have a haircut

0:18:54 > 0:18:58to show respect for the monks and also for my mother.

0:19:00 > 0:19:02- OK?- OK.

0:19:06 > 0:19:10Things around the prayer room had to be brought forward

0:19:10 > 0:19:14because of Mum's passing. When Sawat comes today now,

0:19:14 > 0:19:17it'll be the first time he's seen it in its complete, finished form.

0:19:22 > 0:19:26When the hearse comes, Mum will come in like royalty,

0:19:26 > 0:19:31like she deserves and, um... Like she deserved and deserves.

0:19:42 > 0:19:45Welcome home, Mum.

0:19:47 > 0:19:48Welcome home.

0:20:24 > 0:20:27Andy's son Yoan has brought his own personal tribute.

0:20:29 > 0:20:34It will go with the face... Up here.

0:20:36 > 0:20:40Why did you decide on the Welsh flag for Gran?

0:20:40 > 0:20:45Gran was very proud of her heritage and was very passionate about Wales

0:20:45 > 0:20:48and it seemed appropriate to have the Welsh flag on her.

0:20:48 > 0:20:52This is the first time a funeral like this has happened in Wales.

0:20:56 > 0:20:58Here?

0:20:58 > 0:21:03So I will now follow what Sawat says and does.

0:21:04 > 0:21:05Um...

0:21:18 > 0:21:22You will see the Buddha statue, the Thai culture,

0:21:22 > 0:21:26the Thai flags and the monk flags.

0:21:26 > 0:21:31So, the monks...

0:21:33 > 0:21:35- Just the same. - HE CHUCKLES

0:21:37 > 0:21:42Three more monks and a Buddhist nun have come down from Birmingham

0:21:42 > 0:21:44to support Sawat.

0:21:52 > 0:21:57This is not the opening of the prayer room that anyone had in mind.

0:21:57 > 0:22:01The Thai community have been so supportive

0:22:01 > 0:22:04and yet my own family have been so disruptive.

0:22:09 > 0:22:12Have you seen my notice anywhere in the post?

0:22:12 > 0:22:16Some members of his family expected a more traditional funeral.

0:22:16 > 0:22:20No, no, no. You're more than welcome, more than welcome.

0:22:20 > 0:22:23Andy's brother turns up, but doesn't want to stay.

0:22:23 > 0:22:26- Sorry, guys.- Right, see you around.

0:22:38 > 0:22:40MONKS CHANT

0:23:21 > 0:23:24Today marks the start of the Thai New Year,

0:23:24 > 0:23:28which takes place between the 13th and the 15th of April.

0:23:30 > 0:23:34Still way off raising the money for the new temple,

0:23:34 > 0:23:39Sawat e-mails the head monk in London to try and get extra support.

0:23:39 > 0:23:43The Thai New Year celebrations will be in Cardiff,

0:23:43 > 0:23:47where he will have further opportunities to fundraise.

0:23:51 > 0:23:54CHATTERING

0:23:57 > 0:24:00This Buddha or this big one?

0:24:00 > 0:24:03- The big one.- The big one? Oh...

0:24:04 > 0:24:10Today we can see people to support the temple.

0:24:10 > 0:24:15They do many things for the temple just by donation.

0:24:15 > 0:24:17They can give a hand.

0:24:20 > 0:24:24I feel happy. I can be a good friend for them.

0:24:36 > 0:24:40In the evening yesterday, the head monk from London called me,

0:24:40 > 0:24:43asked about the new place.

0:24:43 > 0:24:46After this festival's finished,

0:24:46 > 0:24:51maybe a few days I will have a meeting for trustees

0:24:51 > 0:24:56to talk about the new place, then we move on, step by step.

0:24:56 > 0:24:58HE LAUGHS

0:24:59 > 0:25:04Andy's journey following the death of his mother has been difficult.

0:25:05 > 0:25:07You know, the idea of New Year - it's the Thai New Year,

0:25:07 > 0:25:11it's the year of blessing, the year of cleansing...

0:25:13 > 0:25:16And the more I thought about that, the more I thought,

0:25:16 > 0:25:18"I can't face the crowds in there."

0:25:19 > 0:25:24It's when the older generation would sit down and under Thai tradition,

0:25:24 > 0:25:28the younger generation would go and pour water over their hands

0:25:28 > 0:25:32and their feet. And I just thought, "No..."

0:25:32 > 0:25:36You know. Although Mum didn't come to these, it's the thought.

0:25:36 > 0:25:41Sawat is also concerned about having to celebrate in Cardiff,

0:25:41 > 0:25:44rather than at his temple in Caerphilly.

0:25:44 > 0:25:47I feel...sorry,

0:25:47 > 0:25:52because in Rhymney it's quite difficult to do like this

0:25:52 > 0:25:54in the temple in Rhymney.

0:25:56 > 0:26:00I be happy, healthy and good luck.

0:26:00 > 0:26:03And I put some here...

0:26:05 > 0:26:10Sawat yesterday had a quiet word with me and...

0:26:10 > 0:26:15I need to go to the temple and just go through the meditation

0:26:15 > 0:26:18and the process of mindfulness,

0:26:18 > 0:26:21where you turn your negatives into positives.

0:26:21 > 0:26:24And the positives into success.

0:26:24 > 0:26:27HE SPEAKS IN THAI

0:26:43 > 0:26:46Two weeks have passed since the New Year celebrations.

0:26:52 > 0:26:55Sawat has just received bad news from the head monk,

0:26:55 > 0:26:59who can't provide the rest of the money required for a new temple

0:26:59 > 0:27:00in Bridgend.

0:27:02 > 0:27:04MOTORBIKE ENGINE ROARS

0:27:04 > 0:27:07He wants to continue his work in Wales

0:27:07 > 0:27:10and, for the meantime, has to stay in Rhymney.

0:27:12 > 0:27:14We tried to buy,

0:27:14 > 0:27:19but we got a problem about money,

0:27:19 > 0:27:25because we come to count our money, it's not enough for that place.

0:27:25 > 0:27:28My only hope is - and prayer is -

0:27:28 > 0:27:35that Sawat and the trustees of the Sanghapadipa temple

0:27:35 > 0:27:38are able to find a good place to be,

0:27:38 > 0:27:40cos the place they're at at the moment is bad.

0:27:40 > 0:27:44And they cannot do what they're here to do where they are.

0:27:44 > 0:27:49I think it's a good time in the summer

0:27:49 > 0:27:53to put this property on the market.

0:27:54 > 0:28:01So many properties we're looking for in Cardiff, Cowbridge, Bridgend...

0:28:09 > 0:28:13Desperately trying to find something nice for them. We will.

0:28:13 > 0:28:14I know we will.

0:28:19 > 0:28:24When we sell this house, we can move on,

0:28:24 > 0:28:27because at the moment we cannot do anything.

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