Why Pray?

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0:00:02 > 0:00:05- It helps focus and clear your mind before the day. - Parents' health. Well-being.

0:00:05 > 0:00:08- It does help you in the moment. - Sometimes in sad times.

0:00:08 > 0:00:10Like when somebody's died.

0:00:10 > 0:00:13It's just a belief and a routine that I have.

0:00:13 > 0:00:16If you're wondering what on earth they're talking about,

0:00:16 > 0:00:20it's prayer. But why DO we pray?

0:00:20 > 0:00:22That's a very good question.

0:00:24 > 0:00:28This week, praying in times of tragedy,

0:00:28 > 0:00:30almost a century of prayer,

0:00:30 > 0:00:33and praying together for the nation,

0:00:33 > 0:00:36with prayerful songs of praise

0:00:36 > 0:00:37and music from The Priests.

0:00:47 > 0:00:51In a week when two police officers have been murdered

0:00:51 > 0:00:54in Greater Manchester, our thoughts have been with those

0:00:54 > 0:00:58who have lost loved ones, and many of us have turned to prayer.

0:01:03 > 0:01:06Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen.

0:01:06 > 0:01:07My name is Sir Peter Fahy...

0:01:07 > 0:01:09In this week's Songs Of Praise,

0:01:09 > 0:01:11we'll be hearing from the Chief Constable

0:01:11 > 0:01:14of Greater Manchester Police, who lost two of his officers.

0:01:14 > 0:01:17Greater Manchester Police is a family,

0:01:17 > 0:01:20and to have lost two colleagues this week

0:01:20 > 0:01:23in awful, violent circumstances

0:01:23 > 0:01:26has just been devastating for the whole force.

0:01:26 > 0:01:28Very, very dark day.

0:01:28 > 0:01:32As well as reflecting on the events of the last few days,

0:01:32 > 0:01:34we'll also be meeting a man

0:01:34 > 0:01:37behind the 24-7 Prayer movements

0:01:37 > 0:01:40and hearing about the positive power of prayer

0:01:40 > 0:01:42on communities around the country.

0:01:42 > 0:01:45Our first hymn is from Salisbury Cathedral,

0:01:45 > 0:01:48and it puts this week's theme of prayer into perspective.

0:05:19 > 0:05:22Clearly, we are devastated today

0:05:22 > 0:05:25by the loss of two of our officers...

0:05:25 > 0:05:27The Chief Constable said the deaths marked

0:05:27 > 0:05:29one of the darkest days

0:05:29 > 0:05:31in the history of Greater Manchester Police,

0:05:31 > 0:05:33if not the police service overall.

0:05:33 > 0:05:36Sir Peter has been telling us what he meant by that

0:05:36 > 0:05:41and how his Christian faith comes into focus in times like these.

0:05:41 > 0:05:42I think a lot of us feel passionately

0:05:42 > 0:05:45that policing is a vocation.

0:05:45 > 0:05:46It is a calling.

0:05:46 > 0:05:48I feel that, in terms of my faith,

0:05:48 > 0:05:49but I know a lot of officers

0:05:49 > 0:05:50who don't have a faith

0:05:50 > 0:05:51feel exactly the same.

0:05:51 > 0:05:53That it is a vocation.

0:05:53 > 0:05:54It's not just a job.

0:05:54 > 0:05:56And I think that's what you

0:05:56 > 0:05:57go back to in difficult times,

0:05:57 > 0:05:59in difficult circumstances.

0:05:59 > 0:06:02That how unfair something may feel,

0:06:02 > 0:06:04that how inadequate you may feel,

0:06:04 > 0:06:06you do actually rely on, at the end of the day,

0:06:06 > 0:06:10you're doing your best and this is your vocation.

0:06:10 > 0:06:12The Chief Constable told us

0:06:12 > 0:06:16how he personally deals with tragic events that are so close to home.

0:06:16 > 0:06:18The chance for me personally

0:06:18 > 0:06:20to be able to every day

0:06:20 > 0:06:23have a bit of quiet time, pray,

0:06:23 > 0:06:25think about your own values,

0:06:25 > 0:06:27your own sense of vocation,

0:06:27 > 0:06:28to examine your own conscience,

0:06:28 > 0:06:30I think, is really, really important.

0:06:30 > 0:06:33A prayer vigil will take place on Tuesday,

0:06:33 > 0:06:36a week after the police officers were killed.

0:06:38 > 0:06:40We know a lot of people would like to express

0:06:40 > 0:06:43their feelings at this time.

0:06:43 > 0:06:45It's mainly, really,

0:06:45 > 0:06:46for their colleagues.

0:06:46 > 0:06:48For members of the force,

0:06:48 > 0:06:50but no doubt there will be members

0:06:50 > 0:06:52of the community, local people,

0:06:52 > 0:06:53who will want to use a vigil

0:06:53 > 0:06:55whether they have a faith or not,

0:06:55 > 0:06:58really - just to be there.

0:06:58 > 0:06:59It is that sort of,

0:06:59 > 0:07:04like, human need to express emotion, to be together.

0:07:04 > 0:07:05For me, you know, personally,

0:07:05 > 0:07:09and I think for a lot of people of faith, prayer is important.

0:07:09 > 0:07:11You do often feel so helpless,

0:07:11 > 0:07:14so praying for the dead officers,

0:07:14 > 0:07:16praying for their families,

0:07:16 > 0:07:18becomes your own reaction,

0:07:18 > 0:07:21your own expression of hope, really,

0:07:21 > 0:07:23for them, at a time of great need.

0:07:25 > 0:07:27In the Greater Manchester Police headquarters,

0:07:27 > 0:07:29Sir Peter wanted a reminder

0:07:29 > 0:07:32of the founding principles of the police service,

0:07:32 > 0:07:35which includes Sir Robert Peel's belief

0:07:35 > 0:07:37that, "The police are the public,

0:07:37 > 0:07:40"and the public are the police."

0:07:40 > 0:07:44We believe very much in what Robert Peel laid down for us

0:07:44 > 0:07:45back in 1829, that we are

0:07:45 > 0:07:47a routinely unarmed police force.

0:07:47 > 0:07:49That we use the minimum of force,

0:07:49 > 0:07:50and that we have

0:07:50 > 0:07:52this very close connection

0:07:52 > 0:07:54with the community that we serve.

0:07:54 > 0:07:56And that is really, really important

0:07:56 > 0:07:57to us.

0:10:42 > 0:10:46Praying for communities is at the heart of a Christian charity,

0:10:46 > 0:10:50that believes that the church needs to engage with local people

0:10:50 > 0:10:55to bring about positive change in their neighbourhoods.

0:10:55 > 0:10:58We work with people of goodwill, of faith and no faith,

0:10:58 > 0:11:01and that's something that I'm really personally very passionate about.

0:11:01 > 0:11:05The charity's vision began almost 20 years ago,

0:11:05 > 0:11:09and led to seven years of prayer in the city of Manchester.

0:11:09 > 0:11:11We looked at the city

0:11:11 > 0:11:13and started to respond by gathering

0:11:13 > 0:11:17all the different churches together and saying,

0:11:17 > 0:11:22"Let's pray about the things which affect peoples' everyday lives,"

0:11:22 > 0:11:25like education, healthcare, the arts.

0:11:25 > 0:11:28We were praying in a very targeted way

0:11:28 > 0:11:32about issues that really affected peoples' lives

0:11:32 > 0:11:36and we wanted to see that our prayers would change things.

0:11:36 > 0:11:38Come on, guys!

0:11:38 > 0:11:41There are a growing number of community cafes around the country

0:11:41 > 0:11:45run by the charity, that bring people together in a new way.

0:11:46 > 0:11:48This one is in Bolton.

0:11:50 > 0:11:53We're trying to reduce anti-social behaviour and stuff in the area,

0:11:53 > 0:11:58so we're giving the children something to do.

0:11:58 > 0:12:00In this economic climate of cuts,

0:12:00 > 0:12:03we've found ROC has been really popular,

0:12:03 > 0:12:06because we include the partner agencies.

0:12:06 > 0:12:10We get the church to think outside of its four walls,

0:12:10 > 0:12:15and we get to look at positive solutions to social problems.

0:12:15 > 0:12:20God loves communities, and we get God's heart in that.

0:12:22 > 0:12:25The church hasn't got a monopoly on goodness or on kindness,

0:12:25 > 0:12:28because God made all people in his image.

0:14:43 > 0:14:47The hustle and bustle and, perhaps, hassle, of everyday life.

0:14:47 > 0:14:50Pete Greig is one of the founding champions

0:14:50 > 0:14:52of the 24-7 Prayer movement.

0:14:54 > 0:14:5624-7 Prayer started with a group of us.

0:14:56 > 0:14:59We were students on the South Coast, in Chichester,

0:14:59 > 0:15:03and we really got serious about our faith.

0:15:03 > 0:15:06We realised, if this is true, we really need to give it everything

0:15:06 > 0:15:09and we realised that the key was prayer.

0:15:09 > 0:15:12The key to pretty much everything in the Christian life is prayer.

0:15:12 > 0:15:15Prayer is a two-way conversation with the living God,

0:15:15 > 0:15:19who loves and listens to the things we say.

0:15:19 > 0:15:23We decided we'll just start trying to pray in one-hour shifts

0:15:23 > 0:15:25in a special room, round the clock

0:15:25 > 0:15:29and just amazing things began to happen as we prayed.

0:15:29 > 0:15:30Prayers were answered,

0:15:30 > 0:15:33people were experiencing God's presence

0:15:33 > 0:15:34in ways they never had before.

0:15:34 > 0:15:38People who weren't Christians were coming in and using the prayer room.

0:15:38 > 0:15:41But not all their prayers were answered.

0:15:41 > 0:15:44When Pete's wife, Sammy, was diagnosed with a brain tumour,

0:15:44 > 0:15:48he had to question whether his prayers were working.

0:15:48 > 0:15:53I would sit by her bed and I would pray for her,

0:15:53 > 0:15:56and it just didn't seem to work,

0:15:56 > 0:15:58and after a while, I just stopped praying,

0:15:58 > 0:16:01because it was hard enough having to deal with the kids

0:16:01 > 0:16:04and waking up in hospital with her the next morning,

0:16:04 > 0:16:06without having a crisis of faith as well.

0:16:06 > 0:16:09Pete now believes prayer really helped them

0:16:09 > 0:16:11get through a difficult time.

0:16:13 > 0:16:16Finding myself in the middle of that crisis...

0:16:17 > 0:16:20..I didn't find I could pray long, impressive prayers.

0:16:20 > 0:16:22I prayed really simple, childish prayers.

0:16:22 > 0:16:26My prayers were kind of like a man falling downstairs saying, "Help!"

0:16:26 > 0:16:30It was, "Don't let her die," "Please make her better,"

0:16:30 > 0:16:33"Please help us," "Show me what to do."

0:16:33 > 0:16:38And in many ways, I CAN see how God helped us.

0:16:38 > 0:16:41My wife's still alive.

0:16:41 > 0:16:44She's doing way better than the doctors ever thought she could,

0:16:44 > 0:16:46but I think I learnt that prayer

0:16:46 > 0:16:48isn't just a force that changes the world,

0:16:48 > 0:16:50but that prayer changes us,

0:16:50 > 0:16:54and that, in prayer, we experience peace.

0:16:54 > 0:16:56We experience God's presence with us.

0:16:56 > 0:16:59So I think we learnt something about how God

0:16:59 > 0:17:03doesn't always airlift us out of our problems.

0:17:03 > 0:17:05Sometimes he parachutes in

0:17:05 > 0:17:08and he joins us in the middle of the mess.

0:19:52 > 0:19:55Some people dedicate their whole lives to prayer.

0:19:55 > 0:19:58I'm off to meet two nuns who have done just that.

0:19:58 > 0:20:01'St Michael's Convent in Ham Common in Surrey

0:20:01 > 0:20:04'is home to the community of the sisters of the church.

0:20:04 > 0:20:09'Sister Dorothea is 97 years old, and Sister Veronica is 30.'

0:20:10 > 0:20:13It's fair to say that you've devoted a long time to prayer in your life?

0:20:13 > 0:20:17Yes, I have.

0:20:17 > 0:20:20Has the way you pray changed over the years?

0:20:20 > 0:20:22Oh, yes...

0:20:22 > 0:20:25entirely.

0:20:25 > 0:20:28I mean, it's very much, I think,

0:20:28 > 0:20:31a sense of being present to God,

0:20:31 > 0:20:34of feeling God's presence.

0:20:34 > 0:20:38Have you learnt a lot from Sister Dorothea?

0:20:38 > 0:20:41I have, yes, a lot,

0:20:41 > 0:20:44and also Dorothea has been Mother Superior,

0:20:44 > 0:20:49and just her examples are very important.

0:20:49 > 0:20:52- Do you pray all day?- Yes.

0:20:52 > 0:20:53It's all day, yes,

0:20:53 > 0:20:57even though you're not in the church or in the chapel setting,

0:20:57 > 0:21:00but whatever you do, you know,

0:21:00 > 0:21:04if you know that, whatever you do, you do it for God,

0:21:04 > 0:21:06then it's all about prayer.

0:21:06 > 0:21:10For somebody that's never prayed before, why should they start now?

0:21:10 > 0:21:11Why should they try it?

0:21:11 > 0:21:16I think you can be aware

0:21:16 > 0:21:20of whatever you're doing.

0:21:20 > 0:21:22I mean, for instance, there's an idea

0:21:22 > 0:21:26on which the Buddhists are very much keen, called mindfulness.

0:21:26 > 0:21:30- Yes.- And all the time, you're aware

0:21:30 > 0:21:33everything is part of you,

0:21:33 > 0:21:37part of life, part of your life with God.

0:21:37 > 0:21:38It's all holy.

0:21:38 > 0:21:42I mean, we have our prayer times when we pray together,

0:21:42 > 0:21:44and we all have our separate...

0:21:44 > 0:21:48but most of our life, we're living ordinary lives.

0:21:48 > 0:21:51I mean, I've been headmistress of a school,

0:21:51 > 0:21:53where you can't be praying half the time,

0:21:53 > 0:21:58a children's home - you're looking after children.

0:21:58 > 0:22:00It's prayer. You can be prayerful.

0:22:00 > 0:22:05You can be aware that what you're doing is God-directed.

0:22:05 > 0:22:08Do you think all prayers are answered eventually?

0:22:08 > 0:22:12Well, you're aware of the needs.

0:22:12 > 0:22:16You share them with God's presence, and really,

0:22:16 > 0:22:19you leave with him the outcome.

0:22:19 > 0:22:22Well, not every prayers are answered,

0:22:22 > 0:22:26but that doesn't mean that God doesn't answer our prayer.

0:22:26 > 0:22:28They are answered,

0:22:28 > 0:22:32but in one way or the other that we cannot understand.

0:22:32 > 0:22:34In what way does it enrich your life?

0:22:34 > 0:22:36It's quite difficult to begin with,

0:22:36 > 0:22:39if anybody is joining a religious order

0:22:39 > 0:22:41and to live in this life of prayer.

0:22:41 > 0:22:42It's really hard work.

0:22:42 > 0:22:44It's really hard work, to be honest.

0:22:44 > 0:22:46Prayer is not easy.

0:22:46 > 0:22:50How do you think your life would be different without prayer?

0:22:50 > 0:22:53Well, it's a sense of being held,

0:22:53 > 0:22:59of belonging to something beyond yourself,

0:22:59 > 0:23:01that your life has meaning,

0:23:01 > 0:23:04whatever you're doing.

0:23:05 > 0:23:08# Our father

0:23:08 > 0:23:14# Who art in heaven

0:23:14 > 0:23:17# Hallowed be thy name

0:23:17 > 0:23:21# Thy kingdom come

0:23:23 > 0:23:33# Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven

0:23:33 > 0:23:39# Give us this day our daily bread

0:23:39 > 0:23:46# And forgive us our trespasses

0:23:46 > 0:23:57# As we forgive those who trespass against us

0:23:57 > 0:24:04# And lead us not into temptation

0:24:06 > 0:24:14# But deliver us from evil

0:24:14 > 0:24:24# For thine is the kingdom, the power, and the glory

0:24:24 > 0:24:31# Forever and ever

0:24:33 > 0:24:40# Amen. #

0:24:47 > 0:24:50This Saturday, thousands of people are going to be gathered here

0:24:50 > 0:24:53at Wembley for the National Day of Prayer.

0:24:54 > 0:24:57'The West Ham and Millwall stadiums

0:24:57 > 0:24:59'have already hosted mass prayer events.

0:24:59 > 0:25:01'Now, it's Wembley's turn.'

0:25:03 > 0:25:06As a child, you're encouraged to kneel by your bed and pray.

0:25:06 > 0:25:08It's a very solitary thing.

0:25:08 > 0:25:11On Saturday, 70,000 people will be here all praying for one thing.

0:25:11 > 0:25:13Does that make that prayer more powerful?

0:25:13 > 0:25:15It's a different atmosphere.

0:25:15 > 0:25:18I mean, people just get into the flow of it.

0:25:18 > 0:25:19Get into the flow of the worship.

0:25:19 > 0:25:21They have worship bands and worship leaders

0:25:21 > 0:25:23that they're familiar with as well.

0:25:23 > 0:25:25That also helps. Then you have the choir.

0:25:25 > 0:25:27- Jesus! CROWD:- Jesus!

0:25:27 > 0:25:29- We ask you! CROWD:- We ask you!

0:25:29 > 0:25:31Help!

0:25:31 > 0:25:33We tell people to pray in groups,

0:25:33 > 0:25:35we tell them to pray individually,

0:25:35 > 0:25:37we tell them to pray at a local church.

0:25:37 > 0:25:39And so, Aled, it's...

0:25:39 > 0:25:42you should come. You'd really enjoy it!

0:25:42 > 0:25:44I'm getting anxious a little bit.

0:25:44 > 0:25:49I'm imagining 70,000 people here praying powerfully up to God.

0:25:49 > 0:25:51What about if he's not home that day?

0:25:51 > 0:25:55I've lived long enough to see prayers, heartfelt prayers, answered.

0:25:55 > 0:25:58And I've lived long enough to see heartfelt prayers not answered.

0:25:58 > 0:26:01It's a mystery. And sometimes we can't answer all the questions.

0:26:01 > 0:26:04But what we do know is that the Bible orders us to pray,

0:26:04 > 0:26:08and when we do pray, we do see things happen.

0:26:08 > 0:26:11Somebody said, "When you pray, coincidences happen.

0:26:11 > 0:26:14"When you stop praying, they stop." HE LAUGHS

0:26:14 > 0:26:17So just keep praying and let those coincidences keep happening.

0:26:19 > 0:26:23Dennise Christensen was one of the thousands that attended

0:26:23 > 0:26:25the previous National Prayer Gatherings.

0:26:28 > 0:26:29I think the biggest thing to pray for

0:26:29 > 0:26:31is unity -

0:26:31 > 0:26:34unity amongst people,

0:26:34 > 0:26:37unity amongst the generations, the different cultures.

0:26:37 > 0:26:41Christianity is a very inclusive religion,

0:26:41 > 0:26:45and Jesus is obviously our role model,

0:26:45 > 0:26:48and when I hear about his last prayers...

0:26:48 > 0:26:52his last words were in the form of a prayer to his father,

0:26:52 > 0:26:57and saying, "When I leave, may there be unity."

0:26:57 > 0:27:02And then he said, "Let the world know that these are my disciples

0:27:02 > 0:27:06"because of the love they have, one for another.

0:27:06 > 0:27:09"Let the world see that, at the root of it,

0:27:09 > 0:27:13"it's loving each other that brings power and brings strength."

0:27:13 > 0:27:20'Dennise has kept a journal to record answered prayers from her life.'

0:27:20 > 0:27:22Well, this is my little treasure book of prayer.

0:27:22 > 0:27:25It's actually my book of answered prayer,

0:27:25 > 0:27:29and we live in very troubled times,

0:27:29 > 0:27:35and with my children growing up in the heart of the city,

0:27:35 > 0:27:41as it were, we've gone through some very difficult times,

0:27:41 > 0:27:45and if God doesn't come through for me on those difficult times,

0:27:45 > 0:27:47then what is the point of my faith?

0:27:50 > 0:27:51Dennise is really looking forward

0:27:51 > 0:27:53to praying with others at Wembley Stadium.

0:27:56 > 0:27:59To fill it with prayer, worshippers' prayer...you know,

0:27:59 > 0:28:00when we sing to God, it's prayer,

0:28:00 > 0:28:03when we meditate, it's prayer.

0:28:03 > 0:28:09Prayer is wherever there is unity amongst Christians

0:28:09 > 0:28:13and where we are invoking the same God.

0:28:14 > 0:28:18We're hoping that people will leave this place

0:28:18 > 0:28:20with a sense that prayer is powerful

0:28:20 > 0:28:23and prayer will affect a change.

0:29:53 > 0:29:55Throughout the centuries, saints have left us

0:29:55 > 0:29:58with their thought-provoking prayers,

0:29:58 > 0:30:02like this one from St Richard, once Bishop of Chichester.

0:30:06 > 0:30:08"Thanks be to my Lord, Jesus Christ,

0:30:08 > 0:30:11"for all the benefits thou hast given me...

0:30:14 > 0:30:18"..for all the pain and insults thou hast borne for me.

0:30:20 > 0:30:24"O, most merciful redeemer, friend, and brother...

0:30:27 > 0:30:30"..may I know thee more clearly,

0:30:30 > 0:30:32"love thee more dearly...

0:30:33 > 0:30:35"..and follow thee more nearly.

0:30:37 > 0:30:38"Amen."

0:30:43 > 0:30:46And before we go, a medley of two great gospel songs

0:30:46 > 0:30:48from the congregation of St John at Hackney.

0:33:20 > 0:33:23Next week, I'll be beside the sea in Brighton,

0:33:23 > 0:33:26to meet a talented artist who's divinely inspired,

0:33:26 > 0:33:30and a high-flying mum who's changing lives around the world,

0:33:30 > 0:33:33and the singing comes from Church of Christ the King,

0:33:33 > 0:33:34led by Stuart Townend.

0:33:52 > 0:33:56Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd