Tony and Jane Nicklinson, Assisted suicide campaigners

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:00:07. > :00:13.storms swept across the east coast of the US four days ago, causing

:00:13. > :00:16.some rivers to burst their banks. Here in the UK, the government it

:00:16. > :00:22.has indicated controversial plans to shake up the banking system

:00:22. > :00:28.could be delayed until after the election. The reforms are meant to

:00:28. > :00:37.protect taxpayers from the effects of any future financial crisis. --

:00:37. > :00:43.the government has indicated. Now it is time for HARDtalk. Should the

:00:43. > :00:47.law ever give one human being at the right to kill another? That is

:00:47. > :00:55.the question at the heart of this special edition of HARDtalk, which

:00:55. > :01:00.comes from the home of Tony and Jane Nicklinson. Tony is completely

:01:00. > :01:05.paralysed - he wants to die. Jane wants to help him. Currently,

:01:05. > :01:15.British law stands in their wake. If Tony were to be killed, would it

:01:15. > :01:28.

:01:29. > :01:37.be murder or mercy? -- stance in Tony and Jane Nicklinson were

:01:37. > :01:41.married 25 years ago. Six years ago of their world was changed forever.

:01:41. > :01:48.-- six years ago when their world. Tony suffered a massive stroke at

:01:48. > :01:52.the age of 52. He survived, just, but was completely paralysed. The

:01:52. > :01:59.only movement he can control is in his eyes and his blinking but his

:02:00. > :02:04.brain and ability to think are unimpaired. Tony communicates using

:02:04. > :02:11.his eyes and blinks to pick out letters on a board. It is low and,

:02:11. > :02:16.for him, deeply frustrating. Having lived like this for six years, he

:02:16. > :02:21.has had enough. He wants to die. As he cannot kill himself, he wants

:02:21. > :02:25.someone else to end his life for him. Right now, that would be

:02:25. > :02:31.called murder. Tony and Jane would British law changed to give him the

:02:31. > :02:39.right to die. Using a specially adapted computer, Tony explains to

:02:39. > :02:46.me his motivation. Tony Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I want to ask

:02:46. > :02:49.you the most basic question of all. Why do you want to die? At the

:02:49. > :02:59.moment I want to die because I can see the future being made worse for

:02:59. > :03:07.me than it is now. I feel the next 20 years also with trepidation. --

:03:07. > :03:17.I fear of. I think this is as good as it gets and it is downhill from

:03:17. > :03:20.

:03:20. > :03:25.here. What I know is that not having a plan causes me anguish

:03:25. > :03:29.than people who oppose me do not understand. I am fed like a baby

:03:30. > :03:36.with baby food, cannot do anything for myself and everything is a

:03:36. > :03:39.matter of routine. I live like this for the rest of my life so is it

:03:39. > :03:49.any wonder I am not enthusiastic about living? You want somebody

:03:49. > :03:52.else to be given the legal right to kill you. Would that not create an

:03:52. > :03:56.extraordinarily dangerous precedent, particularly for the most

:03:56. > :04:00.vulnerable disabled people? course it is dangerous if it is not

:04:00. > :04:03.done with care but I do not subscribe to the idea that just

:04:03. > :04:07.because it is difficult we should not do it. There is plenty of

:04:07. > :04:12.examples around the world where it has been done successfully and we

:04:12. > :04:19.can look to them for guidance. I have devised a scheme that shows

:04:19. > :04:27.promise so that if I go, anybody can. I ate do not say it is easy,

:04:27. > :04:37.just possible. -- I do not say. Do you really believe that the non-

:04:37. > :04:40.

:04:40. > :04:44.disabled, who can legally commit suicide... This is Tony before his

:04:44. > :04:48.stroke - an active sportsman, a bit of an adventurer and proud father

:04:48. > :04:53.of two daughters. Now Jane and a team of helpers have to do

:04:54. > :04:58.everything for him. 24 hours a day, seven days a week. He is not

:04:58. > :05:03.terminally ill but despite the love in this time he is terminally fed

:05:03. > :05:12.up with his life. That is something that Jane Nicklinson has to live

:05:12. > :05:19.with. Jane Nicklinson, welcome to HARDtalk. I just heard Tony

:05:19. > :05:26.expressed to me his despair, his sense of hopelessness. How hard is

:05:26. > :05:33.it for you to deal with your own husband saying that sort of thing?

:05:33. > :05:40.It is very hard. It is not unexpected. From the day he was

:05:40. > :05:44.taken ill, we knew what the prognosis was and the day would

:05:44. > :05:50.come but this is what he would want. That is the kind of person he is.

:05:50. > :05:54.You sort of get used to it in a way. We have been thinking about Tony's

:05:54. > :06:03.death for the last six years. It does not make it easier but you get

:06:03. > :06:09.used to it. Has his despair deepened over time? In the very

:06:09. > :06:12.early days, I do not think he was aware of the prognosis. It was one

:06:12. > :06:18.of the first things he said to me when he started using his

:06:18. > :06:23.communication board. I do not think it has been worse. It was bad from

:06:23. > :06:27.the word go. Tony says he wishes he had not been saved by the doctors

:06:27. > :06:35.those six years ago when he had that terrible stroke. Do you say

:06:35. > :06:41.the same thing? Do you wish the doctors had not saved him? Yes and

:06:41. > :06:47.no. At the time when it happened, my daughters were with me and we

:06:47. > :06:55.all said we do not want to live like this. It is a terrible thing

:06:55. > :07:01.to say but, yes. If we have a good day, maybe not but if it is what he

:07:01. > :07:07.wants it is what I want. We have little sense of how you and Tony

:07:07. > :07:13.Live your daily lives. -- a little. What are the biggest frustrations

:07:13. > :07:20.for Tony in his daily life? His biggest frustration is not being

:07:20. > :07:30.able to to communicate. He always said if he could speak it would not

:07:30. > :07:32.

:07:32. > :07:37.be so difficult. It is just everything is total frustration for

:07:37. > :07:45.him. For him and also for you. need different way for me. For him

:07:45. > :07:50.it is day-to-day life, getting up, eating. For me it is frustrating

:07:50. > :07:57.because seen him like this, what life has become for us... For what

:07:57. > :08:01.I am getting out... We will get to the legal issues in a minute. --

:08:01. > :08:06.what I am getting at. It is strange to talk about Tony when he is right

:08:06. > :08:11.here with us. Tony clearly believes his life has been ruined. The

:08:11. > :08:19.question for you is whether you believe your life has been ruined

:08:19. > :08:25.too? I suppose so, yes. I cannot say no because it has. We had so

:08:25. > :08:31.many dreams of the things we were going to do. Yeah. (CRIES). He is

:08:31. > :08:41.gets more and more difficult. Therefore, it would be better for

:08:41. > :08:42.

:08:42. > :08:51.you if Tony were to die, to use that right to die. I do not want

:08:51. > :08:56.him to die. There is no way that I want him to die. I see what his

:08:56. > :09:02.life is. Maybe I do want him to die, not at the moment but the time will

:09:02. > :09:11.come when he has had enough of life. OK, if it is what he wants then

:09:11. > :09:16.that is fine. Let's talk about the legal issues. Right now, of course,

:09:16. > :09:22.given his disabilities, Tony does not have the option of taking his

:09:22. > :09:27.own life. He cannot do that. If someone was to help him, that would

:09:27. > :09:32.be murder. Is it your and Tony's wish to fundamentally change the

:09:32. > :09:36.law? If Fife help Tony to die I would be charged with murder.

:09:36. > :09:41.would be no different if I killed someone in cold blood. We want the

:09:41. > :09:46.law changing. So-called mercy killings should be treated

:09:46. > :09:51.differently. A change in the law on murder - that is what we are after.

:09:51. > :09:55.That is a really profound change, isn't it? You are saying the law

:09:55. > :10:03.would in some way have to create an avenue for somebody to be allowed

:10:03. > :10:07.to take another person's life. Given our tradition of war, our

:10:07. > :10:12.notions about the sanctity of life, it would be extraordinarily

:10:12. > :10:17.difficult and a radical thing to do. How do you think it would be done?

:10:17. > :10:21.I am not sure where we are going for now. It is in the pipeline and

:10:21. > :10:26.we are discussing it with our solicitors. They feel we do have a

:10:26. > :10:31.case. Why should Tony be denied the right to take his own life? It is

:10:31. > :10:36.what he wants and what he is asking for. There should be some system in

:10:36. > :10:40.place. We are not saying it should be legalised Point Blank, going out

:10:40. > :10:48.and kill someone and say, they told me they wanted to die. There would

:10:48. > :10:54.have to be a procedure in place. note UN Tony have talked about this

:10:54. > :10:59.in detail. You would have to. -- you and Tony. Would you be the one

:10:59. > :11:05.to end his life? I think so, yes. I want to be the one to do it. He

:11:05. > :11:12.does not want me to. He wants to make it legal for other people to

:11:12. > :11:18.do what so I do not have to. He wants me to give him a sedative and

:11:18. > :11:25.then someone else come in and give him the euthanasia so I would not

:11:25. > :11:31.have to do it and he would not have to see me. You would have to have a

:11:31. > :11:37.doctor's agreement to be involved. Doctors have made it plain time and

:11:37. > :11:43.time again they will not countenance being involved in the

:11:43. > :11:48.explicit taking of life in this way. It would not necessarily have to be

:11:48. > :11:55.a doctor. I could do it. I think I could. I have been asked this so

:11:55. > :12:01.many times. I think I could do it. I am sure there are doctors out

:12:01. > :12:05.there that would come forward. argument against it is that it

:12:05. > :12:10.opens up an extraordinarily dangerous precedent, that if it

:12:10. > :12:16.becomes, in certain situations, legal to kill the disabled, the

:12:16. > :12:20.most vulnerable in our society, that very soon summed vulnerable

:12:20. > :12:27.people may feel that almost they are obliged to take the option of

:12:27. > :12:31.choosing death. Not if there was some sort of scheme in place. It

:12:31. > :12:36.would obviously have to be very carefully thought out. There would

:12:36. > :12:39.have to be a process you would have to go through to be able to do it.

:12:39. > :12:47.Tony has devised a scheme of his own. Whether it is that was

:12:47. > :12:52.something similar, it would have to be carefully thought. If there can

:12:52. > :12:57.be a way for it to be done, why can anyone else take their life but

:12:57. > :13:02.Tony cannot? He knows what he wants to do but he physically cannot do

:13:02. > :13:11.it. You say he knows what he wants to do. Another argument from those

:13:11. > :13:15.in the religious community and others is that minds can be changed.

:13:15. > :13:20.Tony could change his mind. Have you discounted that? You could say

:13:20. > :13:25.that about straightforward suicide. Suicide is legal for able-bodied

:13:25. > :13:29.people. Their minds could be changed if things were different.

:13:29. > :13:33.Why is ordinary suicide legal? in relatives of suicide victims

:13:33. > :13:39.would say, if only I had that opportunity to talk them out of it,

:13:39. > :13:45.to make the case that it was the wrong option to take. If only, I

:13:45. > :13:49.might have saved them. Because Tony cannot do it for himself, society,

:13:49. > :13:53.starting with you, has that option to try and persuade him. He has

:13:53. > :14:01.been like this for six years and he has not changed his mind yet. Who

:14:01. > :14:06.knows, in the future? That is life, isn't it? I know Tony, for example,

:14:06. > :14:10.using his computer, is writing his memoirs. You have described how he

:14:10. > :14:15.is enjoying that process of remembering his past life, writing

:14:15. > :14:20.about it, some of the adventures you two had together. That suggests

:14:20. > :14:26.to me that there is still a way to get some enjoyment out of life and

:14:26. > :14:33.that seems important. It is not enough, though, is it? It is not

:14:33. > :14:43.enough for him. He wants to say something. Can I do it? Yes, of

:14:43. > :15:04.

:15:04. > :15:14.course. What a... -- what...if...I...feel...

:15:14. > :15:27.

:15:27. > :15:35.Is...not...the...same. As...ordinary? The reason why Tony

:15:35. > :15:39.wants to commit suicide cannot be solved. This is as good as life is

:15:39. > :15:42.ever going to be for him. argument made by those who oppose

:15:42. > :15:50.the kind of legal changes you want to see is that palliative care can

:15:50. > :15:59.make your life better. There are ways in which care can improve the

:15:59. > :16:03.quality of your life. Is it too late for that now? There is nothing

:16:03. > :16:13.really. Everyone is different. We all have different expectations

:16:13. > :16:17.from life. If you knew Tony before, he is an ex-rugby player, life of

:16:17. > :16:23.the party, adventurer, we travelled around the world, he was good at

:16:23. > :16:30.his job. All the things he loved about life he cannot do. I just

:16:30. > :16:40.wonder how far you are prepared to go, the two of you, when it comes

:16:40. > :16:44.to see him through this wish to die. After we see through the court case,

:16:44. > :16:54.the only option Tony has is to starve himself. He could go to

:16:54. > :17:04.You are referring to the fact it is legal to assist suicide in

:17:04. > :17:04.

:17:04. > :17:08.Switzerland. Could Dignitas create a system and where it could be an

:17:08. > :17:15.assisted suicide? I have been in touch with them at what they said

:17:15. > :17:18.they could set up a system and he could operate it with a switch.

:17:18. > :17:23.question is, if that is a possibility, of course it would

:17:23. > :17:27.take money, if that is a possibility, why spend so much time

:17:27. > :17:32.and effort going through the British courts. Everything I have

:17:32. > :17:37.seen in the court papers, from traditional verdicts in the past,

:17:37. > :17:43.to the words of judges, it suggests it is highly unlikely they will

:17:43. > :17:47.modify the law on murder. Tony does not see why he should go to switch

:17:47. > :17:52.alone to die. He wants to die at home with his family around him,

:17:52. > :17:58.not in some strange country. -- go to Switzerland. The journey itself

:17:58. > :18:03.would be incredibly traumatic for him. Why should he have to? I ask

:18:03. > :18:11.you some very sensitive questions about your feelings about Tory's

:18:11. > :18:17.death and whether, to be brutal about it, if Tony's end would be a

:18:17. > :18:22.release for you. That raises the issue of vested interests from

:18:22. > :18:28.those around somebody who is suffering, as Tony is. Can you see

:18:28. > :18:33.the danger is there, but it might come to a point where, if the laws

:18:33. > :18:40.you wanted a past, family members, others with an interest, they could

:18:40. > :18:45.be persuading vulnerable people to end their lives? I am sure that

:18:45. > :18:50.happens with ordinary suicide cases. Ordinary suicide is not legal. I am

:18:50. > :18:56.sure people are coerced into committing suicide. It could happen.

:18:56. > :19:04.What safeguards could you imagine to prevent it? If you allow people

:19:04. > :19:08.-- the systems must be added to do enough. I think it Tony has come up

:19:08. > :19:11.with the idea that the judge would have to be involved at every stage

:19:12. > :19:16.of the process and there would be months and months of a cooling-off

:19:16. > :19:21.period between an initial decision to allow the death and the actual

:19:21. > :19:27.implementation of that decision. Do you really believe that would be

:19:27. > :19:34.enough? I think so, yes. We all know what the pitfalls are and

:19:34. > :19:41.hopefully this system would be able to prevent those. Tony's life is

:19:41. > :19:46.hell, basically. He is being forced to live it. It is like a form of

:19:46. > :19:51.torture, you could say. There has to be a way that something could be

:19:51. > :19:58.sorted out. Each case has to be taken on its on merit. There are

:19:58. > :20:02.indications that the British public has a great deal of sympathy with

:20:02. > :20:09.many of the arguments you are making and, in the past, when there

:20:09. > :20:15.have been deaths which have been associated with this idea of mercy

:20:15. > :20:19.killing, jurors have tended to show sympathy for those behind those

:20:19. > :20:27.killings in their verdicts. Does that make you consider the

:20:27. > :20:33.possibility of ignoring the law, and SES taking the law into your

:20:33. > :20:39.own hands, and relying on the sympathy of a jury? -- in essence.

:20:39. > :20:45.That is a big risk to date. As much as I love him, I am not sure if I

:20:45. > :20:50.am prepared to spend time in prison. -- big risk to take. He would not

:20:50. > :20:58.let me do it. It would have to be legal. I have got my children to

:20:58. > :21:03.think about. No, I could not do that. Have you talked about it?

:21:03. > :21:07.has always made it very clear from the word go that they do is no way

:21:07. > :21:12.he did let me do it because he would not want to risk it. I admire

:21:12. > :21:16.people that can do it. I know there have been some quite high profile

:21:16. > :21:26.cases recently. It takes a lot of guts to be able to do something

:21:26. > :21:32.

:21:32. > :21:39.like that. I personally could not. I wonder how some people would

:21:39. > :21:48.respond to this. You on a full-time carer, it dominates your life, you

:21:48. > :21:53.talk about your daughters, they want to see their father but what

:21:53. > :21:58.do they say to you? They are 100 % behind everything that we're doing.

:21:58. > :22:02.When we have talked about just doing it and breaking the law, they

:22:02. > :22:08.were horrified to think that I would even think about doing it. It

:22:08. > :22:13.is hard for them. It is very hard for them. They fully understand

:22:13. > :22:18.what their dad was like. They know what he was like before he was

:22:18. > :22:26.taken ill. He was a total embarrassment! But, they are

:22:26. > :22:31.totally behind us. You have the look of for wife who has lived the

:22:31. > :22:35.life with someone, loved someone, been with them for your adult life,

:22:35. > :22:44.in the course of this interview, I get a strong sense of a bond

:22:44. > :22:52.between you and Tony. Yet, all four conversations on about how to end

:22:52. > :22:58.his life. -- All of our conversation is about. For you, you

:22:58. > :23:03.are in an impossible position. could be totally selfish and want

:23:03. > :23:11.him to carry on living but that would be selfish. I have got to do

:23:11. > :23:15.what he wants to do. I support him and I have to. If I did not support

:23:15. > :23:22.him when he needed me to support him, just the practicalities of

:23:22. > :23:26.that, I do support him and this is very hard but you're constantly

:23:26. > :23:32.talking about how your husband is going to die. We have been living

:23:32. > :23:38.with it for six years. It does become easier. The final thought,

:23:38. > :23:43.you are living in a very personal way with this but you're also

:23:43. > :23:49.dealing with the system, whether it is the legal system, politicians,

:23:49. > :23:55.the health service, doctors, it is this, frankly, the moment, nobody

:23:55. > :24:02.wants to offer you a fortune really want. -- doctors, people concerned

:24:02. > :24:06.with ethics. Nobody wants to offer you what you want. Everything that

:24:06. > :24:11.has happened with the legal case up until now has not been unexpected.

:24:11. > :24:16.It is what we have been expecting all the time. It is what happens

:24:16. > :24:22.from now do it is important. We knew that this would probably be

:24:22. > :24:26.the outcome. They don't feel that we have a case. We knew that was

:24:26. > :24:31.going to happen. It is the interesting but that comes from the

:24:31. > :24:38.one. What that will be, I do not know yet. You have got the strength

:24:38. > :24:44.to carry on with his caring. Yes, definitely. I think he quite enjoys

:24:44. > :24:54.it in a way, don't you? Jane Nicklinson and Tony, as well, thank

:24:54. > :25:10.

:25:10. > :25:14.you both for being on HARDtalk. As August turns into September,

:25:14. > :25:21.there are no significant changes in the weather. We will have to wait

:25:21. > :25:25.until Friday for those. For some others, the return of some sunshine.

:25:25. > :25:35.If you are underneath blue-sky, it will feel warmer than it has done

:25:35. > :25:36.

:25:36. > :25:39.recently. Here is a look at things for early risers. The most of the

:25:39. > :25:42.sunshine will be across southern England and into Wales. As we run

:25:42. > :25:46.along southern England this morning, don't necessarily expect clear blue

:25:46. > :25:50.skies. There could be a few early showers and some cloud. Most places

:25:50. > :25:53.will stay dry. A bit of mist and fog in some places. For north-west

:25:53. > :25:56.England, it is looking rather cloudy for breakfast time. A lot of

:25:56. > :26:00.cloud in Northern Ireland. Every now and again, a burst of sunshine

:26:00. > :26:07.will fight its way through. 12 degrees in Belfast at this stage.

:26:07. > :26:10.Despite some cloud in Scotland, much of the country stays dry. Some

:26:10. > :26:16.breaks in the cloud in the east of the country. Some very light

:26:16. > :26:20.breezes in the east of England. That is early on, for the rest of

:26:20. > :26:23.the day, the best of the sunshine still in southern England and Wales.

:26:23. > :26:30.Still cloudy skies but, for some, the sun will break through.

:26:30. > :26:33.Temperatures in the low 20s in the south. A freshening breeze and the

:26:33. > :26:43.far north-west should mean some outbreaks of rain for the Western

:26:43. > :26:45.

:26:45. > :26:55.Isles. For the US Open, a dry end to the week after the drama of

:26:55. > :26:57.

:26:57. > :27:00.Hurricane Irene to begin the week. We have got our own changes in the

:27:00. > :27:10.weather going into Friday with high pressure moving away and a frontal

:27:10. > :27:11.

:27:11. > :27:17.system coming in from the Atlantic. The fund will Beacon moving south

:27:17. > :27:21.on Friday. -- the front will weaken. Another system will come in and

:27:21. > :27:24.replace it. Cloud in patchy rain in Northern England and North Wales.

:27:24. > :27:30.More persistent rain in Northern Ireland and Scotland later in the

:27:30. > :27:34.day. It will be even warmer inEngland than it was today. For a