Gwyneth Paltrow, Actor

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0:00:08 > 0:00:11Welcome to a special edition of HARDtalk

0:00:11 > 0:00:16from the Cannes Lions Festival.

0:00:16 > 0:00:18The annual gathering of advertising and media folk

0:00:18 > 0:00:19from around the world.

0:00:19 > 0:00:21My guest today is the Oscar-winning actor Gwyneth Paltrow,

0:00:21 > 0:00:24a Hollywood A-lister who in recent years has focused much of her

0:00:24 > 0:00:26attention on building her lifestyle and consumer business,

0:00:26 > 0:00:42Goop.

0:00:42 > 0:00:44Her likes and opinions are followed by millions,

0:00:44 > 0:00:46prompting aspiration in many, but mockery in some.

0:00:46 > 0:00:48Why does she rouse such strong emotions?

0:00:48 > 0:00:50Well, ladies and gentlemen, please give a very warm

0:00:50 > 0:00:51welcome to Gwyneth Paltrow.

0:00:51 > 0:00:54APPLAUSE.

0:00:54 > 0:01:10Gwyneth, first of all, welcome to HARDtalk.

0:01:10 > 0:01:11Thank you for being here.

0:01:11 > 0:01:14In terms of your professional life today, do you see

0:01:14 > 0:01:17yourself first as an actor, which you have been all of your

0:01:17 > 0:01:19adult life, or a businesswoman?

0:01:19 > 0:01:25I think I see myself daily now, my role really is operating,

0:01:25 > 0:01:28running, being the creative force behind the business.

0:01:28 > 0:01:31But I say that because I am able to regard myself that

0:01:31 > 0:01:34way because I started, I built myself as an actor,

0:01:34 > 0:01:35and I'm doing it from that platform.

0:01:35 > 0:01:45And I think it is always going to be in my DNA, as well.

0:01:45 > 0:01:49But if it is in your DNA, how difficult is it to seriously

0:01:49 > 0:01:52really curtail the amount of movies, the amount of acting you do?

0:01:52 > 0:01:54I was looking at the arc of your career.

0:01:54 > 0:02:06You have had a whole host of big movies.

0:02:06 > 0:02:09You won the Oscar back in 1989 for Shakespeare In Love,

0:02:09 > 0:02:13and yet these days, at most, it seems, you do one movie a year.

0:02:13 > 0:02:15At the most, yes.

0:02:15 > 0:02:17I mean, I think I had an incredible acting career.

0:02:17 > 0:02:20I was really, really fortunate to be in the right

0:02:20 > 0:02:23place at the right time, have some talent and meet

0:02:23 > 0:02:24wonderful people and get great opportunity.

0:02:24 > 0:02:25Can I interrupt?

0:02:25 > 0:02:27You said had, the past tense.

0:02:27 > 0:02:30Is that the way you feel about it?

0:02:30 > 0:02:33I mean, I think that at this point right now, I am so focused

0:02:33 > 0:02:36on the business and scaling the business and raising my

0:02:36 > 0:02:39children, and there is really only so much that one can do.

0:02:39 > 0:02:42And I think that I do believe that women, people and women especially,

0:02:42 > 0:02:44have different chapters in their lives, and different

0:02:44 > 0:02:47seasons, and it has been interesting to kind of change course

0:02:47 > 0:02:50and in a way have the bravery to do it, because I think I had

0:02:50 > 0:02:53a perfectly good job, and a wonderful career,

0:02:53 > 0:02:55and I really decided to hit it and try something else

0:02:55 > 0:03:06and follow our passion.

0:03:06 > 0:03:08If there are movie producers watching this,

0:03:08 > 0:03:10or indeed in the audience, and they are thinking

0:03:10 > 0:03:13that they are looking for you to play a role and be

0:03:13 > 0:03:17in a movie project, are you saying to me if phone call came in that

0:03:17 > 0:03:20you would simply say no?

0:03:20 > 0:03:23I couldn't do it right now.

0:03:23 > 0:03:24I couldn't possibly do it right now.

0:03:24 > 0:03:26But that's not saying that next year I couldn't.

0:03:27 > 0:03:32But not right now.

0:03:32 > 0:03:35Do you think there is something in the argument that it is

0:03:35 > 0:03:37much tougher for women in the movie business?

0:03:37 > 0:03:40You have mentioned the commitment you have two young children.

0:03:40 > 0:03:43I dare say that male actors as successful as you would sit

0:03:43 > 0:03:46in that chair and talk to me, and they wouldn't necessarily say

0:03:46 > 0:03:48that being a father is really in a sense curtailing

0:03:48 > 0:03:50or compromising or restricting their ability to continue

0:03:50 > 0:03:57in the movie business?

0:03:57 > 0:04:00Right.

0:04:00 > 0:04:03I think that is something that all working women,

0:04:03 > 0:04:04working mothers, struggle with.

0:04:04 > 0:04:07The idea that we want to raise our children, and we also

0:04:07 > 0:04:09want to fulfil our passions and our professional dreams.

0:04:09 > 0:04:12I was very lucky that one I had children I was

0:04:12 > 0:04:18able to take a break.

0:04:18 > 0:04:20Some women are not afforded that luxury.

0:04:20 > 0:04:23And I was able to stop for a few years and commit to

0:04:23 > 0:04:25just being at home.

0:04:25 > 0:04:29And it was that point that I really made the pivot in my career.

0:04:29 > 0:04:31And I want to talk a lot about the business.

0:04:31 > 0:04:34I just wonder if one element in your business life

0:04:34 > 0:04:36that you appreciate, given the experiences you have had

0:04:36 > 0:04:39in the movie industry, is that you are now in control.

0:04:39 > 0:04:41I have been looking, preparing for talking to you,

0:04:41 > 0:04:43looking at some of the words from leading actors,

0:04:43 > 0:04:46female actors in the business today.

0:04:46 > 0:04:48Salma Hayek not long ago said that Hollywood is basically

0:04:48 > 0:05:00dysfunctional.

0:05:00 > 0:05:03If you have the same capacities, you are doing the same job

0:05:03 > 0:05:05as a man and a woman, it is criminal not to

0:05:05 > 0:05:07pay the same salary.

0:05:07 > 0:05:10She clearly feels still there is deep sexism in the pay scales.

0:05:10 > 0:05:12Keira Knightley said recently, it is not just about the play.

0:05:12 > 0:05:15There is a lack of female centric stories in Hollywood.

0:05:15 > 0:05:16Where are the female stories?

0:05:16 > 0:05:18Where the female directors and the writers?

0:05:18 > 0:05:19It is fundamentally imbalanced.

0:05:19 > 0:05:20Did you feel that?

0:05:20 > 0:05:24Um...

0:05:24 > 0:05:27You know, when I was in the midst of doing movie after movie,

0:05:27 > 0:05:31I think it was a very special time when there were a lot of independent

0:05:31 > 0:05:32films being made, but with robust budgets,

0:05:32 > 0:05:35and a lot of female stories.

0:05:35 > 0:05:38I do find that there are less female stories being told,

0:05:38 > 0:05:40but then every once in awhile you will see something

0:05:40 > 0:05:42that is really resonant, really female centric.

0:05:42 > 0:05:46But I think as women in the culture now, we are always trying to push

0:05:46 > 0:05:48forward and move the needle and reach for equality

0:05:48 > 0:05:56and demand equality.

0:05:56 > 0:05:57It's like a supertanker.

0:05:57 > 0:05:59You can't turn it a really quick turn.

0:05:59 > 0:06:01It is a really slow turn.

0:06:01 > 0:06:08But I think we're getting there.

0:06:08 > 0:06:11But Charlize Theron on a recent movie said, she looked at the deal

0:06:11 > 0:06:13she was being offered, and she knew that her co-lead,

0:06:13 > 0:06:16I think it was Chris Hemsworth, was being paid substantially more

0:06:16 > 0:06:20than she was, and she said, I am not going to do the movie

0:06:20 > 0:06:25unless we get equal.

0:06:25 > 0:06:27Would you do that in future?

0:06:27 > 0:06:29You are not giving up movies entirely, but is that no

0:06:29 > 0:06:31important to you?

0:06:31 > 0:06:33You know, I think philosophically it is very important,

0:06:33 > 0:06:37but I think also part of it there is a chauvinistic aspect to it.

0:06:37 > 0:06:40But I also think that there are, in a case like Charlize,

0:06:40 > 0:06:42she deserves to be paid as much if not more.

0:06:42 > 0:06:45But there are certain cases where they are using different

0:06:45 > 0:06:47metrics and data to determine prices for people.

0:06:47 > 0:06:52It is not always gender-based.

0:06:52 > 0:07:06So I think there is a spectrum.

0:07:06 > 0:07:08Let's get to Goop, if we may.

0:07:08 > 0:07:10It is a pretty extraordinary story.

0:07:10 > 0:07:14Is it true that I think back in 2008 you just decided it would be fun

0:07:14 > 0:07:17to send out a sort of weekly e-mail of your thoughts, your likes,

0:07:17 > 0:07:19the things you discovered, a sort of Gwyneth speaking

0:07:19 > 0:07:20to the community.

0:07:20 > 0:07:21Is that how it started?

0:07:21 > 0:07:24Sort of.

0:07:24 > 0:07:27I had the great fortune of living all over the world,

0:07:27 > 0:07:30making films and travelling, and I am a real traveller and I love

0:07:30 > 0:07:34to eat and cook and discover things, and I am in very curious,

0:07:34 > 0:07:36and so I started aggregating all of the information that

0:07:36 > 0:07:38I was collecting, and it was before the Internet,

0:07:38 > 0:07:42so I had reams of notebooks, and my friends would always call me,

0:07:42 > 0:07:45and I was a person from my friends, they would call and say,

0:07:45 > 0:07:47I am going to Rome, we should ie?

0:07:47 > 0:07:49Or how do I roast a chicken?

0:07:49 > 0:07:51And that kind of thing.

0:07:51 > 0:07:54How do I roast a chicken?

0:07:54 > 0:07:57Literally, that is a call that I used to get a lot.

0:07:57 > 0:08:00That wasn't from Chris, was it, Chris Martin?

0:08:00 > 0:08:04Oh, who set the house on fire when he made me dinner?

0:08:04 > 0:08:08That was a different story.

0:08:08 > 0:08:11And it was that, and it was also that I had curiosity about

0:08:11 > 0:08:14the Internet and what was possible, and I kind of had dreamed somewhere

0:08:14 > 0:08:17of doing something in the lifestyle space, and one day I just kind

0:08:17 > 0:08:24of took this bizarre leap, and I started publishing content.

0:08:24 > 0:08:34And I guess what you were a pioneer of was understanding the power

0:08:34 > 0:08:37of the Internet, because you could put it out there online,

0:08:37 > 0:08:39and you immediately, because you were very well-known,

0:08:39 > 0:08:42you begin to build a very, very substantial group of followers.

0:08:42 > 0:08:53Yes, it's true.

0:08:53 > 0:08:55And kind of unwittingly, I didn't realise that that

0:08:56 > 0:08:57would happen organically.

0:08:57 > 0:08:59But did you consciously think, you know what?

0:08:59 > 0:09:02I am building a brand here, brand Gwyneth, and I can play

0:09:02 > 0:09:03upon people's aspirations.

0:09:03 > 0:09:05There are certain things about my life that many people

0:09:05 > 0:09:08would regard as attractive, and I can sort of build a brand

0:09:08 > 0:09:15around people wanting to be a bit like me?

0:09:15 > 0:09:18No, it wasn't conscious like that.

0:09:18 > 0:09:20It was genuinely me wanting to find the best dancers,

0:09:20 > 0:09:22answer my own question is, aggregate information

0:09:22 > 0:09:29for my friends, people who might be interested in the information.

0:09:29 > 0:09:32I think it was only through time, through the gestation period

0:09:32 > 0:09:34of the brand that I started to understand there is

0:09:34 > 0:09:39power in this brand.

0:09:39 > 0:09:42I don't know how to harness it, I don't know why, I don't know

0:09:42 > 0:09:45what I'm doing exactly, and it has been something that

0:09:45 > 0:09:47I have learned through the course of doing it.

0:09:47 > 0:09:54Here is the critique.

0:09:54 > 0:09:56I like this phrase one of your critics came up with.

0:09:56 > 0:09:59Goop essentially is airy online pronouncements from planet wealth.

0:09:59 > 0:10:00You being the ruler of planet wealth.

0:10:00 > 0:10:06I mean, there is something...

0:10:06 > 0:10:08Is there a spaceship I can take there?

0:10:08 > 0:10:11To planet wealth?

0:10:11 > 0:10:16You know what they are getting at.

0:10:16 > 0:10:19I just took a look at the Goop website, because I thought it

0:10:19 > 0:10:22would be fun, on the way in, and you are offering people

0:10:22 > 0:10:24an extraordinary range of stuff, from skincare products

0:10:24 > 0:10:26to clothing to jewellery, and you have sponsors

0:10:26 > 0:10:28and all of that sort of stuff.

0:10:28 > 0:10:29But the prices are pretty extraordinary.

0:10:29 > 0:10:31A one-piece...

0:10:31 > 0:10:34Well, they call it a onesie, a pyjama suit for a thousand bucks.

0:10:34 > 0:10:35I mean, that seems...

0:10:35 > 0:10:38Is there?

0:10:38 > 0:10:42There really is.

0:10:42 > 0:10:45You know, the truth of the matter is we have a complete range

0:10:45 > 0:10:48of price points on the site, so we have an $8 lip balm,

0:10:48 > 0:10:55a $12 nontoxic deodorant.

0:10:55 > 0:10:58What we are trying to do is really offer a place for delight,

0:10:58 > 0:11:00where we are hoping to help people make interesting choices,

0:11:00 > 0:11:03and we are not always saying, sometimes we are not always

0:11:03 > 0:11:06recommending you should buy this, but if you dig in the site,

0:11:06 > 0:11:08there are definitely things at every price point.

0:11:08 > 0:11:11I think it's an easy criticism to make, and also, to be honest,

0:11:11 > 0:11:14we have a bit of fun now, and we'll affiliate link

0:11:14 > 0:11:24to a $15,000 gold dildo just to troll people back.

0:11:24 > 0:11:26I did wonder about that, whether you are quite

0:11:26 > 0:11:29aware of this critique.

0:11:29 > 0:11:34Sure.

0:11:34 > 0:11:37And the fact that you can talk to a lot of people,

0:11:37 > 0:11:40and a lot of people know you for the acting, but now

0:11:40 > 0:11:43a lot of people also know you for, if I may say so,

0:11:43 > 0:11:44the $15,000 gold dildo.

0:11:44 > 0:11:44Are you in a way having a laugh...

0:11:46 > 0:11:50Are you in a way having a laugh...?

0:11:50 > 0:11:51The things we achieve in life!

0:11:51 > 0:11:54I didn't think I would be discussing that on BBC

0:11:54 > 0:11:55World News, but there you go!

0:11:55 > 0:11:59LAUGHTER.

0:11:59 > 0:12:01Are you having a bit of a laugh?

0:12:01 > 0:12:03Oh, for sure.

0:12:03 > 0:12:05I mean, we definitely do that now for effect.

0:12:05 > 0:12:06It is fun.

0:12:06 > 0:12:09We look for products that will create that kind of reaction.

0:12:09 > 0:12:11But you know some people are really going to resent it,

0:12:11 > 0:12:15and they will say, how dare she put out there a lifestyle which so many

0:12:15 > 0:12:17people simply cannot afford, you know.

0:12:17 > 0:12:20Do you worry about that?

0:12:20 > 0:12:24I did see it that way.

0:12:24 > 0:12:26The values of the brand are that we believe in family,

0:12:26 > 0:12:29we believe in good food, we believe in wellness,

0:12:29 > 0:12:31we believe in nontoxic beauty, and the brand is really

0:12:31 > 0:12:33built around the values.

0:12:33 > 0:12:35And yes, if you want to buy something that is nontoxic,

0:12:35 > 0:12:39it might slightly more expensive, which to me begs a bigger question

0:12:39 > 0:12:41of why there aren't organic or nontoxic products more widely

0:12:41 > 0:12:44available at a more mass price point, and hopefully we will be able

0:12:44 > 0:12:51to make some one day.

0:12:51 > 0:12:54But really, it's about executing on the values of the brand,

0:12:54 > 0:12:57and there are some things that are expensive, but it's not

0:12:57 > 0:13:05about some lofty, unattainable lifestyle whatsoever.

0:13:05 > 0:13:08Let's not get too hung up on the money, because I am also

0:13:08 > 0:13:10interested in the degree to which you in your pursuit

0:13:10 > 0:13:13of well-being and a healthy lifestyle are sending out a message

0:13:13 > 0:13:16which does suggest we all have to take an extraordinary amount

0:13:16 > 0:13:19of care about what we eat, what we put on our faces,

0:13:19 > 0:13:31how we live our lives.

0:13:31 > 0:13:34When we get to foodstuffs, is it true that I think

0:13:34 > 0:13:36it's in It's All Good, one of your cookbooks,

0:13:36 > 0:13:38you talk about a horrible experience you had with french fries.

0:13:38 > 0:13:41Somebody told me that you had some sort of thing...

0:13:41 > 0:13:46I have never had a horrible experience with french fries.

0:13:46 > 0:13:50I thought you were going to say you had never had a french fry!

0:13:50 > 0:13:52French fries are my life.

0:13:52 > 0:13:55For somebody who is known for the sort of coffee free,

0:13:55 > 0:13:57alcohol free, dairy free, chicken and eggs should not be

0:13:57 > 0:14:00in some people's diets and all of that, do you ever kick

0:14:00 > 0:14:06back and have a burger?

0:14:06 > 0:14:09So, this is where I think things get conflated that belong

0:14:09 > 0:14:10in separate buckets.

0:14:10 > 0:14:13When I wrote It's All Good, it was because there

0:14:13 > 0:14:15were so many people, especially children of friends,

0:14:15 > 0:14:17who were dealing with gluten allergies, egg allergies,

0:14:17 > 0:14:19we had this unbelievable epidemic really of allergens,

0:14:19 > 0:14:21and children especially responding very, very badly.

0:14:21 > 0:14:24So I had a friend who said, I don't know what to feed my kid.

0:14:24 > 0:14:26I don't want to give them brown rice.

0:14:26 > 0:14:29There must be good food that is healthier and cleaner,

0:14:29 > 0:14:31and that was really the impetus for that book.

0:14:31 > 0:14:34I don't eat that way, but people tend to think that I just

0:14:35 > 0:14:40eat seaweed and a bit of air.

0:14:40 > 0:14:44They do!

0:14:44 > 0:14:46They worry about you, and they also worry,

0:14:46 > 0:14:50where's the fun in Gwynedd Paltrow's life?

0:14:50 > 0:14:53Where is the moment she can kick back with friends and say,

0:14:53 > 0:14:54do you know what?

0:14:54 > 0:14:55I really, really fancy a burger.

0:14:55 > 0:14:57But I do that all the time.

0:14:57 > 0:15:01I am all about balance and living life in a way that is enjoyable.

0:15:01 > 0:15:03I love food, I love to eat, I love to cook.

0:15:03 > 0:15:07And I think that there is a tendency to generalise, especially

0:15:07 > 0:15:11if somebody is introducing a new concept, and we are asking

0:15:11 > 0:15:16the question, and people don't know what it is

0:15:16 > 0:15:18or they are uncomfortable, they push back, they generalise.

0:15:18 > 0:15:22And that is OK.

0:15:22 > 0:15:26I completely accept that this is my path, and this is what I'm

0:15:26 > 0:15:28here to do, and I'm here to ask these questions,

0:15:28 > 0:15:31and sometimes piss people off.

0:15:31 > 0:15:34Talking of that, there was this extraordinary moment in 2013

0:15:34 > 0:15:37when at the very same time you were voted one magazine's

0:15:37 > 0:15:40most hated celebrity, while at the very same time

0:15:40 > 0:15:44you are People magazine's most beautiful woman in the world.

0:15:44 > 0:15:47What was going on in your head when all that happened?

0:15:47 > 0:15:50Well, I mean, first of all I was like, I am

0:15:50 > 0:15:52the most hated celebrity?

0:15:52 > 0:15:53More than Chris Brown?

0:15:53 > 0:15:55What did I do?

0:15:55 > 0:16:02APPLAUSE

0:16:03 > 0:16:06I see where you are coming from, but maybe you just make

0:16:06 > 0:16:09people feel bad sometimes.

0:16:09 > 0:16:14Yes, and I think that is obviously never was my intention,

0:16:14 > 0:16:18and it was never my intention, but all I can do is be my authentic

0:16:18 > 0:16:21self, and if you know me, then you know who I am,

0:16:21 > 0:16:27and that I have fun and eat and am so appreciative for my life.

0:16:27 > 0:16:32But I think that there are things about me that make people draw

0:16:32 > 0:16:37conclusions that can sometimes, you know, for example

0:16:37 > 0:16:41there is a perception that I grew up very wealthy,

0:16:41 > 0:16:46and that I was raised with a silver spoon in my mouth.

0:16:46 > 0:16:50A sort of Hollywood princess idea?

0:16:50 > 0:16:53Right.

0:16:53 > 0:16:56And that inspires a lot of resentment, but the interesting

0:16:56 > 0:16:59thing is, my parents did well, and I was able to go

0:16:59 > 0:17:03to a fantastic school, and we grew up in New York City,

0:17:03 > 0:17:07but the minute I left my college to try to pursue acting,

0:17:07 > 0:17:14my father was really supportive, but he said, you know,

0:17:14 > 0:17:18you are completely on your own, so he never gave me anything.

0:17:18 > 0:17:20I never had any supplementation, he never helped me with my rent,

0:17:20 > 0:17:22I never had a trust fund.

0:17:22 > 0:17:25So the idea that I am spoiled or that I didn't work

0:17:25 > 0:17:28for what I have is just not accurate, but I can see how somebody

0:17:28 > 0:17:34might have that perception.

0:17:34 > 0:17:37And something that I know you have spent a lot of time

0:17:37 > 0:17:39on is social activism.

0:17:39 > 0:17:42You worked with food bank organisations in New York,

0:17:42 > 0:17:45the Robin Hood foundation as well.

0:17:45 > 0:17:49I just wonder, with that sort of focus you have an anti-poverty

0:17:49 > 0:17:52campaigning, whether again it just sort of feels weird with your

0:17:52 > 0:17:58day job running Goop.

0:17:58 > 0:18:03Like how you reconcile the two things?

0:18:03 > 0:18:06It is interesting, we are working on a piece about this right now,

0:18:06 > 0:18:09because I think that everybody has different aspects of their life,

0:18:09 > 0:18:12and you can want to help people, children who are disenfranchised

0:18:12 > 0:18:15and don't have a voice and can't stick up for themselves,

0:18:15 > 0:18:26and you can also want to eat a nice dinner and enjoy the people that

0:18:26 > 0:18:29And I think that despite the perception, we are not some...

0:18:29 > 0:18:33Our website is not only...

0:18:33 > 0:18:37You would be surprised.

0:18:37 > 0:18:43Our customers, it is aspirational, but it is not a luxury site.

0:18:43 > 0:18:49There are websites that sell far more expensive things and tout

0:18:49 > 0:18:54a much more unattainable lifestyle than we do.

0:18:54 > 0:18:58Before we end, just on that question of branding your lifestyle,

0:18:58 > 0:19:00it does raise issues about privacy in a way,

0:19:00 > 0:19:06and opening up your life to public scrutiny, and an Goop,

0:19:06 > 0:19:09I fact I believe on Goop you first announced that you wouldn't

0:19:09 > 0:19:12Chris Martin were parting.

0:19:12 > 0:19:14Right.

0:19:14 > 0:19:16And that was where the "conscious uncoupling" phrase became

0:19:16 > 0:19:20so well-known.

0:19:20 > 0:19:23Did you worry about the degree to which you were inviting scrutiny,

0:19:23 > 0:19:27or did you feel that was a way of controlling it, by putting it out

0:19:27 > 0:19:29on your own website?

0:19:29 > 0:19:33I felt it was a way of controlling it, and it was such a difficult time

0:19:33 > 0:19:41in our lives, and I think we really felt like if we were doing it

0:19:41 > 0:19:44ourselves on my platform, that it was a way to frame

0:19:44 > 0:19:46it exactly how we wanted to frame it.

0:19:46 > 0:19:49We didn't know that the conscious uncoupling phrase was going

0:19:49 > 0:19:52to inspire so much conversation.

0:19:52 > 0:19:58What do you think about the way it has been interpreted?

0:19:58 > 0:20:00Well, it is funny, because at the inception, everyone

0:20:00 > 0:20:02was like, what the hell is this?

0:20:02 > 0:20:06These people are crazy!

0:20:06 > 0:20:11That is true!

0:20:11 > 0:20:15But I think that over time, I think now what I hear is thank

0:20:15 > 0:20:18you so much for showing me another way, that you can remain a family

0:20:18 > 0:20:21even though you are not a couple, and make it a less traumatic

0:20:21 > 0:20:22experience for the children.

0:20:22 > 0:20:25I think ultimately it has had a very positive impact.

0:20:25 > 0:20:26I didn't come up with the phrase.

0:20:26 > 0:20:28It wasn't my idea.

0:20:28 > 0:20:30It was a philosophy that we were following.

0:20:30 > 0:20:34But, you know, I'm very proud of it.

0:20:34 > 0:20:37I'm very proud of us for the way that we,

0:20:37 > 0:20:44as anybody who has been divorced knows, you have to put aside quite

0:20:44 > 0:20:47a lot in order to maintain that commitment to stay a family

0:20:47 > 0:20:49for the sake of the children and the practicalities

0:20:49 > 0:20:51of what that means.

0:20:51 > 0:20:56Sometimes it is quite tough on a personal level.

0:20:56 > 0:20:59But it is a commitment that I made every day to my children that

0:20:59 > 0:21:02I adore their father, and that we are in a family,

0:21:02 > 0:21:05even though we are not in a romantic relationship,

0:21:05 > 0:21:07so ultimately I am very proud of that.

0:21:07 > 0:21:10APPLAUSE

0:21:11 > 0:21:14You know, we talked a lot about the merchandise

0:21:14 > 0:21:16and the commercial aspect of what you do.

0:21:16 > 0:21:19I used to live in the States, and there was a phrase that

0:21:19 > 0:21:21always made me laugh, but a teachable moment.

0:21:21 > 0:21:23Do you think there is something that others can draw

0:21:23 > 0:21:27from your experience?

0:21:27 > 0:21:31Absolutely, much the way I draw knowledge from other people's

0:21:31 > 0:21:36experience that have gone before me and traversed life in their own way,

0:21:36 > 0:21:39and I think if you are trying to ask questions and be thoughtful

0:21:39 > 0:21:41and apply what you are learning as you are going,

0:21:41 > 0:21:47and expanding yourself, I think it resonates with people,

0:21:47 > 0:21:55and I think on Goop, what we do most of what we do great

0:21:55 > 0:21:58is content, and the content it is what is actually creating

0:21:58 > 0:22:01a context for the product. But we are very interested

0:22:01 > 0:22:04in exactly this.

0:22:04 > 0:22:10How do I get through life in the best possible way?

0:22:10 > 0:22:12And a final thought, which brings me back

0:22:12 > 0:22:13to the privacy point.

0:22:13 > 0:22:16You have chosen to find a very interesting path where you live

0:22:16 > 0:22:19in public to a certain extent through your own website

0:22:19 > 0:22:23and your own Internet activity, and yet, as you have just indicated,

0:22:23 > 0:22:26you want to shield your kids, you want to shield your own private

0:22:26 > 0:22:28life from the media glare.

0:22:28 > 0:22:32How difficult is that?

0:22:32 > 0:22:34Do you think you have got the balance right,

0:22:34 > 0:22:37or do you think you have maybe sometimes been to public?

0:22:37 > 0:22:38I don't know.

0:22:38 > 0:22:41These times are so new, with all the new forms of media,

0:22:41 > 0:22:45all the new social platforms, all the ways in which people

0:22:45 > 0:22:51are interacting and sharing information, and there is that

0:22:51 > 0:22:54aspect of it where you are supposed to open your life, and there

0:22:54 > 0:22:59is an aspect that you want to keep private, I think.

0:22:59 > 0:23:01It is trial and error.

0:23:01 > 0:23:02Can you have both?

0:23:02 > 0:23:04I think you can.

0:23:04 > 0:23:08You really can, or is that in essence asking to have your cake

0:23:08 > 0:23:09and eat it, too?

0:23:09 > 0:23:11No, not at all.

0:23:11 > 0:23:14I think that if you look at people who have created careers

0:23:14 > 0:23:16out of social media, and they are leveraging everything

0:23:16 > 0:23:20personal in order to have a career, that might be the case,

0:23:20 > 0:23:25but I think I have lived in the public eye since long

0:23:25 > 0:23:28before the Internet, since long before social media,

0:23:28 > 0:23:31it is something I have been navigating since I was 22

0:23:31 > 0:23:35years old, over 20 years.

0:23:35 > 0:23:38And so it is, as I say, trial and error, and there

0:23:38 > 0:23:41are things that you want to share, things that you should put

0:23:41 > 0:23:48into the world if you want to, and things that you should hold back

0:23:48 > 0:23:51if you don't, but I try to strike the right balance.

0:23:51 > 0:23:57But, you know, there is an aspect of social media that really can

0:23:57 > 0:24:00propel forward what you are trying to do in your business life,

0:24:00 > 0:24:07whether it is this TV show or a film or a business.

0:24:07 > 0:24:09We have to end there.

0:24:09 > 0:24:11Gwyneth Paltrow, thank you so much for coming on.

0:24:11 > 0:24:12Thank you.

0:24:12 > 0:24:15APPLAUSE

0:24:42 > 0:24:42Hello again.

0:24:42 > 0:24:43Good morning.

0:24:43 > 0:24:44No sign of a heat wave.