10/12/2012

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:00:15. > :00:20.Welcome to Inside Out. Coming up: We expose the internet dress

:00:20. > :00:26.company that is stitching up its online customers. It looks very

:00:26. > :00:34.tacky, cheaply made. They do not care about their customers. They

:00:34. > :00:40.care about money. Our two fathers better than one? A couple share

:00:40. > :00:46.their quest to become a parents. These babies mean family. It is

:00:46. > :00:52.something we have wanted for some time. I am on the trail of one of

:00:52. > :01:02.the South's most elusive birds. have looked everywhere. Hankies are

:01:02. > :01:15.

:01:15. > :01:20.supposed to draw them in. This is It is the festive season at so

:01:20. > :01:25.maybe you will treat yourself to a new dress. Perhaps he will do that

:01:25. > :01:29.online to save yourself some money. That is exactly what the people did

:01:29. > :01:34.in our first film. When they saw they were dealing with a Portsmouth

:01:34. > :01:39.company, they thought, what could go wrong? Buying a dress for his

:01:39. > :01:44.special day. A wedding or something that has taken off, the school prom.

:01:44. > :01:50.It is a huge business with lots of potential for profit but also for

:01:50. > :01:55.the unscrupulous to rip you off. Mandy Halstead wanted a dress for

:01:55. > :01:59.her son's wedding. She went online and chose a website owned by

:01:59. > :02:05.Edresses Global. They could do large sizes and it looked promising.

:02:05. > :02:10.She chose this dress, costing �90. A I thought it was a trustworthy

:02:10. > :02:15.company because they have offices in England. The dress that turned

:02:15. > :02:22.up was a poor imitation of the one she had ordered. He did not fit.

:02:22. > :02:29.tried it on, it was too small. It was too small across the back. It

:02:29. > :02:35.was very long. I would have to have been about 13 ft tall to wear it.

:02:35. > :02:41.Anj Page was also taken in by an Edresses website. We ordered a

:02:41. > :02:46.dress in February for my daughter's prom. We waited 60 days for it to

:02:46. > :02:56.be delivered. It never turned up. We were constantly being told they

:02:56. > :02:57.

:02:57. > :03:04.were busy and they needed more time. It looks very tacky. Cheaply made.

:03:04. > :03:07.It was heartbreaking. It is all about special occasions. These are

:03:07. > :03:12.not just dresses you would just five. They are wedding dresses and

:03:12. > :03:22.ball gowns. They are for a special event people have spent a lot of

:03:22. > :03:24.

:03:24. > :03:30.time planning. I was devastated because I had to buy another dress.

:03:30. > :03:38.Sorry. This shop in Southampton has got some beautiful dresses. One man

:03:38. > :03:42.wanted to buy a -- Wonder Woman wanted to buy a -- a woman wanted

:03:42. > :03:48.to buy something similar but unfortunately she chose Edresses.

:03:48. > :03:56.What she got was this. It is prom time, not played down. It is more

:03:56. > :04:00.like a child's dress. E Ian Conduit owns a family run dress business in

:04:00. > :04:05.Southampton. He says he often has people buying dresses at the last

:04:05. > :04:09.minute because of online disasters. They tend to fall into three

:04:09. > :04:14.categories. You have got a dress like that, that has turned up that

:04:14. > :04:19.is totally unsuitable. You have got a dress that is OK but does not fit

:04:19. > :04:23.properly or is the wrong colour or the zip is broken. Then you have a

:04:23. > :04:26.large proportion of dresses they just do not turn up at all.

:04:26. > :04:31.Page was so cross she voiced her frustrations on Facebook. She set

:04:31. > :04:37.up a support group when it became apparent it was a big problem.

:04:37. > :04:44.Initially, I thought it would be a small group. We have been running

:04:44. > :04:50.for under six months and we are under the 500 mark. That is not

:04:50. > :04:57.including people who have privately message me. Who are Edresses and

:04:57. > :05:05.where are they based? They have several address -- they have

:05:05. > :05:08.several addresses and all appear in the UK. They look like they are UK-

:05:09. > :05:13.based. You assume they have somewhere in the UK you can contact.

:05:14. > :05:18.But it does not take long to realise they are based in China.

:05:18. > :05:23.Buying from China, like from any country, is fine if you choose

:05:23. > :05:30.reputable factories. Like the ones that produce the stresses. Ian

:05:30. > :05:37.often visits China and has seen the dodgy side. -- that produced the

:05:37. > :05:41.dresses. They will take a picture from a website of any reputable

:05:41. > :05:45.manufacturer and they will put it on their website, they will

:05:45. > :05:49.advertise it as a product they can produce. They have no patterns, no

:05:50. > :05:56.knowledge of the dress itself. One place that was visited, it was

:05:57. > :06:02.attached to a chicken farm. When we were there, there was a lady who

:06:02. > :06:07.had placed an order and it has printed a picture of and tried to

:06:07. > :06:13.copy it. Dresses made from a picture probably will not be a

:06:13. > :06:17.great fit. Then it Mandy tried to get her money back. When she

:06:17. > :06:21.contacted Edresses by e-mail, all she got was months of delaying

:06:21. > :06:28.tactics. They kept coming back with these dancers, please rest assured

:06:28. > :06:34.we are dealing with your complaint -- these answers. Then it went on

:06:34. > :06:40.longer. There were more e-mails. They then said it would be in my it

:06:40. > :06:45.bank within 72 hours. No, no money arrived. My Andy had paid using

:06:45. > :06:50.PayPal. After 45 days, option for getting her money back from them

:06:50. > :06:55.had expired. Apart from the Mail, there was no other way of

:06:55. > :07:01.contacting Edresses. -- e-mail. Every number of customers were

:07:01. > :07:05.given was a false trail. Both addresses are bogus on the website.

:07:05. > :07:09.When they came to check out the returns address, they were led to

:07:09. > :07:14.this industrial estate. It is a distribution centre which deals in

:07:14. > :07:18.electrical goods and had nothing to do with Edresses. The actual

:07:18. > :07:23.company based here, which does have Chinese connections, was not happy

:07:23. > :07:28.parcels were being sent to their dress and contacted Trading

:07:28. > :07:32.Standards in Portsmouth. We went to see them, we had a look at the

:07:32. > :07:35.goods that had been returned and it was quite clear they were being

:07:36. > :07:41.sent back from dissatisfied consumers who were unhappy about

:07:41. > :07:45.the quality of the garments they had bought. I have been a Trading

:07:45. > :07:49.Standards officers for many years and this is the first time we have

:07:49. > :07:56.had a situation like this with an address of being hijacked for use

:07:56. > :08:03.in this way. A look at the quality. They are dreadful. We looked at

:08:03. > :08:13.some of the items that had been sent back. Look at that. That is

:08:13. > :08:13.

:08:13. > :08:18.Elvis in the vaguest years! -- the vaguest -- the Las Vegas years.

:08:18. > :08:23.Generally, shoddy goods. No labelling. We are not clear what

:08:23. > :08:29.this product is made of. We are not sure how to watch it. I have no

:08:29. > :08:34.idea how many they have sold. You are talking about �90 a dress. If

:08:34. > :08:40.it is 1,000 customers, that is 90 Grand. It is big money. What action

:08:40. > :08:45.can Trading Standards take for a company behaving like this? It the

:08:45. > :08:51.company is based inside the UK, there are very strong laws that

:08:51. > :08:56.will apply to, distance selling. The regulations say the goods must

:08:56. > :09:01.be dispatched to we to assume a within 30 days of the order. The

:09:01. > :09:05.consumer then has seven days to change their mind. You can send the

:09:05. > :09:10.goods back for your money to be returned. Of course, that will only

:09:10. > :09:14.applied to a UK-based company. That is the danger way you have

:09:14. > :09:19.unscrupulous traders who wide using the addresses as we have had in

:09:19. > :09:24.this case. With the regulatory bodies unable to do a lot, it is

:09:24. > :09:29.down to people like Anj Page to do what she can. We filmed her while

:09:29. > :09:34.she spoke to someone called Becky from Edresses. Anj Page said she

:09:34. > :09:41.wanted to return a faulty dress. Becky failed to offer a UK address

:09:41. > :09:46.but suggested she send it to China. To be exact, Wanda Plaza A, Suzhiou,

:09:46. > :09:50.Jiangsu Province. We checked out the address. It is the office of an

:09:50. > :09:56.environmental company, nothing to do with dresses. Do you know

:09:56. > :10:06.anything about Edresses? I tried some of the many phone numbers in

:10:06. > :10:10.

:10:10. > :10:14.China. All were dead ends. Finally, a breakthrough. An Edresses contact

:10:14. > :10:19.who came to Anj Page via Facebook. But hiding behind an identity. This

:10:19. > :10:28.is Yolanda your way up on Facebook. She has only got one friend. That

:10:28. > :10:34.is when that's group. -- Anj Page's group. She discovered Yolanda was

:10:35. > :10:40.connected to Edresses. She said, we are not a fraud company. We are

:10:40. > :10:45.trying to satisfy requests. Since then, more than 20 people have had

:10:45. > :10:51.their money back. Some of them have been waiting since generate. Nearly

:10:51. > :10:56.�2,000 worth has been refunded. -- since January. Both women have got

:10:56. > :11:00.their money back eventually. But Anj Page says she will not close

:11:00. > :11:05.the group while Edresses continues to operate. A I would love to find

:11:05. > :11:09.out where they are in deal with them face to face. I want them to

:11:09. > :11:17.know how they treat people. I will keep going until they disappear

:11:17. > :11:25.from the earth. While people are owed money, I will fight for them.

:11:25. > :11:33.Do not forget, if you think you have a story, go to our website.

:11:33. > :11:37.What his family? The idea of mum, dad, and 2.4 children is changing.

:11:37. > :11:47.Is it 18-accepted by everyone? Down to meet a couple preparing for new

:11:47. > :11:49.

:11:49. > :11:57.arrivals. -- is it a change. There is stuff in there. Start a list of

:11:57. > :12:01.the things you need. We are expecting twin boys. Meet soon to

:12:01. > :12:07.be parents Eric and Grant Anderson. They are from California but moved

:12:07. > :12:11.to Winchester seven years ago to start a new life and a new family.

:12:11. > :12:15.This has been made through friends of ours, a surrogate and an egg

:12:15. > :12:22.donor. We are using my sperm. We are excited about the fact they

:12:22. > :12:28.will be born within five weeks. It has been a long journey. I have

:12:28. > :12:33.always seen myself as a father. Part of it might be because I it

:12:33. > :12:40.have a per stall care nature. I coached high school runners for 20

:12:40. > :12:49.years. I took great joy in being at a membership figure. I have been

:12:49. > :12:54.given a lot of my life and I am ready to give back and braise a kid

:12:54. > :12:58.-- and raise a child. I want to enjoy their discoveries. It's has

:12:58. > :13:05.been two years in the planning for a journey that is taking them back

:13:05. > :13:09.to America. Eric and Grant are making their baby boys with the

:13:09. > :13:19.help of a surrogate in California where the laws are more sympathetic

:13:19. > :13:25.

:13:25. > :13:32.Hello! We interviewed six circuit mothers before we chose this one.

:13:32. > :13:42.And she has now become a friend, which is fantastic. How big a you

:13:42. > :13:43.

:13:43. > :13:52.now? You want to see? It is a truly modern family that we have. We have

:13:52. > :13:59.an Egyptian egg donor and an Asian circuit. And all agreeing to be

:13:59. > :14:05.involved in the lives of the children, as they desire. We leave

:14:05. > :14:11.here in 16 hours, something like that. We have nothing to do out

:14:11. > :14:21.there but tend to you and the babies. I hope everything goes your

:14:21. > :14:25.

:14:25. > :14:35.way. We have waited a long time. Six years. I will see you soon.

:14:35. > :14:36.

:14:36. > :14:39.That was sweet. She is so big. It is crazy.

:14:39. > :14:49.Four weeks later over in California, the boys get the news they have

:14:49. > :14:50.

:14:50. > :15:00.been waiting for. Her water has broken. We are on our

:15:00. > :15:02.

:15:02. > :15:10.way to the hospital now. I am already crying. We got the call in

:15:10. > :15:14.the morning. I jumped out Shotesham, the water has broken. -- shouting.

:15:14. > :15:24.Our house mate who is British jumped up saying, I will make a cup

:15:24. > :15:32.of tea! Then we rushed off to the hospital to meet her.

:15:33. > :15:42.So we're having twins? That is exciting.

:15:43. > :15:44.

:15:44. > :15:52.The babies were born about 8 o'clock in the morning. The first

:15:52. > :15:58.Bath. Look at all those bobbles. That was a special moment.

:15:58. > :16:06.It was a mixture of pure joy but they are finally here and here, are

:16:06. > :16:13.they OK? Against that is something we will live with for the rest of

:16:13. > :16:23.our lives, other babies OK? Instantly, is he breeding, is his

:16:23. > :16:33.

:16:33. > :16:38.Eight weeks later and Eric and Grant are back in the UK with their

:16:38. > :16:45.twins, Ryan and Garrett. Friends are on hand to meet them. It's been

:16:45. > :16:52.a long nine hour journey, especially for the little ones.

:16:52. > :16:57.We cannot wait to get them back and put their feet out in the yard, the

:16:57. > :17:05.first time they have touched British soil. It has been a very

:17:05. > :17:15.long process. Back home in Winchester, it's all

:17:15. > :17:22.

:17:22. > :17:32.hands to the deck. Does that feel good? Welcome to the

:17:32. > :17:34.

:17:34. > :17:39.UK. How does it feel? This is full of breast milk. I'm trying to find

:17:40. > :17:44.the proper place to put it. many times we sat and thought what

:17:44. > :17:53.life would be like. All the planning that went into it and here

:17:53. > :17:56.we are. We want to make sure they have had

:17:56. > :18:04.their feet first. Two months later and Eric, Grant,

:18:04. > :18:10.Ryan and Garrett are settling into family life. For us these babies

:18:10. > :18:16.mean family, they are our family now. It is something we had from --

:18:16. > :18:23.had wanted for quite some time. We are one big happy family now. There

:18:23. > :18:28.is an added bonus, the hope and joy that you see it brings to younger

:18:29. > :18:34.gay couples. The idea that they can have a family, they can have it all.

:18:34. > :18:36.That brings a certain amount of pride. Eric and Grant feel it's

:18:36. > :18:43.important that their children grow up in a society where their family

:18:43. > :18:48.unit has the same legal recognition than any others.

:18:49. > :18:55.Children who grow up in families of same-sex relationship sometimes

:18:55. > :19:00.have more difficulties relating to stigma, lack of legal recognition.

:19:00. > :19:10.And bringing equal marriage in would help make those families more

:19:10. > :19:10.

:19:10. > :19:14.stable. No teacher would ask their children in class, do your parents

:19:14. > :19:19.have a civil partnership? Is all about marriage. And for that full

:19:19. > :19:29.social inclusion we need to be married and have that same equality

:19:29. > :19:33.

:19:33. > :19:39.both legally and socially as everybody else.

:19:39. > :19:46.Finally, we love a challenge and filming a bird that only comes out

:19:46. > :19:55.at night ticks that box. And a bird shrouded in myth and old wives

:19:55. > :20:02.tales. The mysterious world of the Nightjar.

:20:02. > :20:07.What am I doing out at dusk with a bunch of other people wondering

:20:07. > :20:16.along the New Forest heath land? Well we're after a nightjar, of

:20:16. > :20:21.course! I am excited, I have never seen one before. We have to wait

:20:21. > :20:29.until it gets really dark. They told me to bring a torch but also

:20:29. > :20:31.my secret weapon, my handkerchief. I will explain more later.

:20:31. > :20:34.The nightjar is mysterious bird that visits us in spring all the

:20:35. > :20:42.way from Africa. They're not easy to spot, especially as they hunt at

:20:42. > :20:49.night. It is an intriguing bird that I have never seen. When I was

:20:49. > :20:57.a child's I remember collecting cards and the Nightjar was the one

:20:57. > :21:02.I could not get. I got the card but I have not seen the bird! What do

:21:02. > :21:11.you know about them go as much I think they have quite a big wing

:21:11. > :21:16.span for a small bird. You are going to enable us to see a

:21:16. > :21:21.Nightjar tonight. Guaranteed, I was told! Nothing is guaranteed in

:21:21. > :21:28.bird-watching! I was also told to bring the handkerchief. What is all

:21:29. > :21:33.that about? The males have a white patch on their wings. The theory is

:21:33. > :21:36.if they see another white patch in the distance they will think it is

:21:36. > :21:42.the opposition and will come close to have a look and see what is

:21:42. > :21:50.going on. I have leapt about waving my handkerchief and it had never

:21:50. > :21:58.worked! It is just after half past nine and we have not heard anything

:21:58. > :22:08.let alone seeing anything. Everyone is trying to find a bit of silence

:22:08. > :22:14.

:22:14. > :22:24.so that they can listen. It is meant to sound like a grasshopper.

:22:24. > :22:34.

:22:34. > :22:44.Either he is bringing the mint or frighten them off. Nobody will ever

:22:44. > :22:45.

:22:45. > :22:55.know! That is getting louder and louder.

:22:55. > :22:55.

:22:55. > :23:00.I think there might be more than one.

:23:00. > :23:05.You would just think it is like a tropical insect. Like you're in the

:23:05. > :23:08.jungle. It has stopped. So I've heard one. But not seen one.

:23:08. > :23:15.Now I'm trying somewhere different. This is Ampfield woods, just north

:23:15. > :23:20.of the Forest. And I've got an expert to help me. This is

:23:20. > :23:25.completely different to where I was looking before. They are birds from

:23:25. > :23:31.lowland heath but that is in decline because it has been taken

:23:31. > :23:37.for building purposes. This is the other habitat that they like. At

:23:37. > :23:47.least 50% of the British population is now in Forestry Commission

:23:47. > :23:54.

:23:54. > :23:58.fouled land like this. -- felled land. We will set up some nets.

:23:58. > :24:00.Nigel is a licensed ringer, so he can tag the birds he catches. And

:24:00. > :24:08.hopefully find them again when they return next year. And learn more

:24:08. > :24:13.about their movements. I have done this now for 40 years. I was

:24:13. > :24:19.trained when I started at school. From the age of 15. I have been

:24:19. > :24:23.doing it ever since. One of the reasons we do this, it is not well

:24:23. > :24:28.understood exactly where it migrates. We know that they winter

:24:28. > :24:34.in Africa but we are not sure which countries the birds go into. Each

:24:34. > :24:37.male has a territory of between 20- 50 acres. And Nigel thinks there

:24:37. > :24:47.are six territories in the whole wood. What we're going to do is set

:24:47. > :24:50.

:24:50. > :24:56.a tape lure. We will put that just on the other side of the net. That

:24:56. > :24:59.is the sound that the male bird makes. The idea of the recording is

:24:59. > :25:09.to lure a bird into checking out what it thinks is another male on

:25:09. > :25:13.

:25:13. > :25:19.its patch. And then hopefully we'll catch it.

:25:19. > :25:29.I have just seen my first Nightjar. It is so distinctive, the

:25:29. > :25:39.silhouette. They remind me of a glider. You can just see those

:25:39. > :25:48.flashes of white on the wings. Brilliant. It is just going round

:25:48. > :25:57.there. The birds keep coming, but sadly

:25:57. > :26:03.none land in the net. They are clever old things. They have come

:26:03. > :26:13.to investigate. But every time become near the net they just skim

:26:13. > :26:17.

:26:17. > :26:22.over at the surface by a few inches. That is my first ever Nightjar.

:26:22. > :26:27.They did not want to go into the net. There were definitely

:26:27. > :26:31.interested, there were coming to have a look. I think we started

:26:31. > :26:37.slightly early and they did get to see the net. And they decided they

:26:37. > :26:42.just did not want to go in. Well let us leave the light to them and

:26:42. > :26:47.go down the pub! Nigel's netting programme will

:26:47. > :26:53.continue without me. But he's determined to get me close to a

:26:53. > :26:56.nightjar. So we're back on the Forest heath land, this time during

:26:56. > :27:03.the day when the nightjars, masters of camouflage, lie low. I'm about

:27:03. > :27:11.see what happens when a male bird successfully attracts a female. A

:27:12. > :27:17.Nightjar chick. Can you see it just sitting there?

:27:17. > :27:27.That is incredible. Just sitting so still on its own. It blends in

:27:27. > :27:33.perfectly with the heather. You would just imagine the that was an

:27:33. > :27:41.old log. They have to keep still to stop predators finding them. This

:27:41. > :27:48.is just about a week off fledging. The mother will be close by. They

:27:48. > :27:53.keep still and they shut their eyes. When they showed they do not get

:27:53. > :28:00.noticed. Just sitting there waiting for at the mother to come back.

:28:00. > :28:06.When it is dark she will come and they will come running for food.

:28:06. > :28:11.She will regurgitate moths and beetles. The more I find out, the

:28:11. > :28:21.more in chanted I am by them. are very mysterious birds. Their

:28:21. > :28:30.

:28:30. > :28:34.nocturnal and difficult to study. What an amazing bird with

:28:34. > :28:43.incredible camouflage. Time for me to disappear. I will see you next

:28:43. > :28:49.time. Next week on the programme. I am blue van of woman. As Ford plans